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Make an observation about her: 'You look like you're from Texas, people from here don't wear boots like that.' She's going to respond, whatever she says, make a statement related to her response, then ask a question. her : 'Haha no I'm from Montana!' you: "I love montana. I've noticed every dude from Montana has a beard. Why do you think that is?" Repeat Step 2... Her: "Haha! I have two brothers and hey both have beards. I don't know why! Maybe because it's so cold during the winter?" You: "It's…
/r/seduction19/05/13 03:18 AM
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I am not a master PUA but one night stands come easily for me (I get a one night stand opportunity most nights I go out) my formula is pretty simple... Polarize. Your goal should be to have girls you interact with either love you or hate you. Don't be a guy everyone likes. That is boring, and will not get you laid in one night. The easiest way to polarize girls is to be 'yourself' with the volume turned up and filters off. If some girls aren't completely turned off by you, you're not doing it ri…
/r/seduction19/05/13 02:51 AM
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I've been on a direct opener kick lately and it's served me well. The thing my opener has going for it is it's completely HONEST. Girls are fucking smart, and they know you're talking to them because they're cute. They also probably saw you talk to the last 3 girls who ordered drinks there, so I think if your opener doesn't incorporate that, you risk coming of as disingenuous or 'creepy'.
/r/seduction19/05/13 02:08 AM
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I run game almost exclusively in bars, and I prefer Sundays/weekdays over weekends. It's quieter Girls who go to bars on weeknights are 'fun'. Everyone is less drunk (yes, this is a pro, not a con. A girl who liked you when she was sober is less likely to flake)
/r/seduction08/05/13 08:01 AM
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Interesting! We've had very different experiences. I've been practicing game for about four months, and have had more one night stands than is good for me (STDs are a real thing!). I am short and fairly skinny with an average face. I do dress pretty well. I've NEVER been blown out due to physical escalation, I've been blown out tons of times but always because of something I said (or didn't say), or just generally being too low value. I've never creeped a girl out through touching (other than a …
/r/seduction08/05/13 04:56 AM
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If you go out to bars, open, and physically escalate as TofuTofu describes here, you'll start having one night stands with no further game needed. Physical escalation is insanely powerful and something almost all guys get it wrong (by not doing it). Great post!
/r/seduction07/05/13 10:55 PM
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Yeah, the most important thing is to actually approach. :)
/r/seduction07/05/13 10:52 PM
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The one problem with mileshigh's approach is you are coming from behind which can be startling (same reason you don't approach from behind in bars/clubs, if you startle a girl it's almost impossible to recover). A slight variation: Jog PAST the girl (from behind) and then make a half turn so that you're facing her, put a hand out and say 'excuse me...' and deliver your opener. Make sure you run far enough past her when you turn so that you aren't too close (remember she's moving forward as you t…
/r/seduction07/05/13 08:40 AM
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I agreed with your points! My post was in reply to you. :)
/r/seduction03/05/13 08:04 AM
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Keep it simple and honest. "I used to have a thing with Susie, but that's over now." No need to get fancy here.
/r/seduction02/05/13 11:59 PM
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Yes.
/r/seduction29/04/13 07:12 AM
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Direct openers don't give me enough time to demonstrate value at night (I'm funny and confident, but also short and average looking). I've found I get blown out when I open direct at bars. Try both, and stick with what works for you. If you've never cold approached, you might want to try indirect first since it's easier (emotionally).
/r/seduction28/04/13 10:58 PM
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If you're coming off as a know-it-all you're probably not expanding on the because part of the assumption. The daygame.com guys are great at this, here's an example from one of their instructors: STUDENT: You look like you're from Italy... HER: No, sorry, bye... What's missing is the "because" part of the assumption, leading into the story about WHY she looks Italian. Here's how it should sound: STUDENT: You look like you're from Italy....I like the suspiciously good tan, the sunglasses on even …
/r/seduction28/04/13 10:22 PM
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Thanks, everything you said is true.
/r/seduction28/04/13 10:04 PM
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I'm going to have to disagree with you on this one. I've opened 500+ sets at bars with a variation of 'Hey guys let me get a quick opinion on something'... Do you know how many times someone said, 'SHIT MAN YOU WANT AN OPINION!? I THINK YOU READ THAT ON THE INTERNET!!', zero times. I've literally been called out zero times in 500 sets. The idea that you need 'fresh' openers is a myth perpetrated by people trying to sell you things. If you still don't believe me, go out next weekend and deliver e…
/r/seduction28/04/13 09:54 PM
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We didn't buy them any alcohol. :)
/r/seduction28/04/13 06:46 PM
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I got in front. This was natural since I was directing the cabby. The cab ride from the bar to our place is very short (why we location changed to that bar earlier). The shortness of the ride takes off pressure to stay engaged. I did (and always do) make friendly conversation with the driver... This shows that I'm a decent guy (#1 question on a girls mind as she's riding in a cab to your place). Girls pay a lot of attention to how you treat people you want nothing from.
/r/seduction28/04/13 06:40 PM
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All of the physical escalation was done during normal conversation. We talked mostly about where she wanted to travel (though it could have been anything).
/r/seduction28/04/13 06:10 PM
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Yes, this is true. Connecting is only related to banging in that it helps with LMR (in my experience). Last night I f-closed a girl from a bar, and all I did was build attraction. However if I tried to set up a day 2 now, she'd be more likely to flake than not.
/r/seduction27/04/13 07:10 PM
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Very attracted = I want to fuck this guy Very emotionally connected = I feel like I've known this guy forever
/r/seduction26/04/13 10:50 PM
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For festivals like Coachella that have on site camping, there is a TON of after partying at the camp site. There's also time in the morning/early afternoon when you can run 'day game' and make plans to meet up after the last show.
/r/seduction22/04/13 07:16 AM
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Coachella was amazing. It's near LA which might have the highest concentration of beautiful girls in the US, so the girls were completely out of this world. It was like you said, an embarrassment of riches. On the last day I blew out an asian HB7.5 who opened ME because I was genuinely tired and didn't feel like talking to her. No way I would do that at home. The music was good too, of course. :)
/r/seduction21/04/13 10:32 PM
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Summer music festivals have an insane concentration of hot girls that are down to have fun. I just came back from Coachella it was out of this world. My advice: open a TON of sets, using whatever method you like best. You will have success just by opening and having even the tiniest bit of game. Any technique will work (girls are girls everywhere) but I think daygame.com stuff, or the simple pick up are the most efficient during the day at a music festival. At night it's basically regular night …
/r/seduction21/04/13 10:17 PM
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This is good advice. Just one minor note on the last line... "Wow this was one of the meaningful conversations I've ever had. I'd love to get to know you better, can I have your number? Instead of 'can I have your number?' prefer 'let's exchange numbers.' or a similar statement. I've found number closing with a statement just plain works better than a question. It also assumes they want to give you their number, which is a stronger frame.
/r/seduction17/04/13 08:47 AM
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If you live in a city, you can hit up bars on weeknights. Just go in and immediately start opening sets / chatting with everyone. It's not going to be packed like the weekend, but it only takes one girl. Some of my best pulls from bars were on a Monday/Tuesday/Wednesday.
/r/seduction17/04/13 08:36 AM
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The Dicarlo Escalation Ladder, addresses your question directly.
/r/seduction09/04/13 03:11 AM
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I would give him a withering look and say 'congratulations, bro'. He'll immediately feel like a jackass.
/r/seduction07/04/13 08:52 PM
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Since she's already interested, your job is pretty easy. Just be yourself, and follow these three rules Be confident / lead Don't be needy (give everyone lots of attention) Be fun and playful, touch her a lot. Also google Dicarlo's escalation ladder if you're not sure how to touch her.
/r/seduction06/04/13 08:51 PM
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You should read the book 'How to win friends and influence people', if you haven't already.
/r/seduction06/04/13 08:46 PM
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She's pretty. You can tell by the way she writes and how other people treat her in the FR.
/r/seduction06/04/13 08:44 PM
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It's always good to try stuff. There's no better way to learn. Cocky has never worked for me. Cocky funny DOES work, I've just found it's too risky over text (unless I know my calibration is spot on).
/r/seduction03/04/13 08:22 PM
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In my opinion you started to lose her here: Her: Hey future husband Me: Agressive, we just met. But I mean you liked me on tinder and actually texted me when I gave you my number, so you think I'm cute so I understand. Being cocky over text is a huge gamble, usually not a good idea. I think it backfired for you in this case. An alternate response would have been to continue to be playful... Her: 'hey future husband!' You: 'Hey, what kind of car should we get? I was thinking a Prius.' Text game i…
/r/seduction03/04/13 07:29 AM
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You did good. A few points if you want to improve even further... It seems like there are some grammar mistakes in your texts. There's no need for this, texting is slow and there's plenty of time to proof read. Avoid sending two texts in a row without a response. Instead of sending two rapid texts, combine them into one. When you # close, call instantly (while she's standing there) and have her enter your name into her phone, this avoids the whole 'guess who this is' part of the conversation, pl…
/r/seduction02/04/13 09:46 AM
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You were so aggressive that it was hard for her to tell if you were serious or not, which is part of why what you did worked. Great FR.
/r/seduction02/04/13 09:32 AM
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That article is by Juggler from 'The Game', AKA Wayne Elise, a fucking conversational master. Thanks for sharing.
/r/seduction02/04/13 06:03 AM
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dysrhythmic is right, money comes after personality. I used to make 200k+ a year, then started my own business and now make around 20k a year. I can tell you when I made 200k/year it did NOT help me with girls, and making 20k a year hasn't hurt me.
/r/seduction02/04/13 05:53 AM
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I'm not a master pick up artist, but conversation is the strongest part of my game. A lot of the advice given so far is sound. Here's my general technique... Get them to talk as much as possible without making the conversation seem unnatural. This will take some practice, but knowing it's your goal to get them to talk as much as possible IS helpful. If you get good at reading body language you can see people's eyes start to glaze over when you talk a lot, even if what you're saying is pretty int…
/r/seduction02/04/13 05:37 AM
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Rock back on one foot as if you're about to leave, then say 'How do you all know each other?' From there pick on any conversational threads that get mentioned which seem interesting to you. If you're really bad on the spot, come up with something interesting to say in advance about the city you live in, going college, work, etc. All answers you get will involve one of these. For example... Them: 'We met through work'. Me: 'I'm not going to ask you what you do, that's a boring question. What did …
/r/seduction30/03/13 06:24 AM
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Every friend I have now started as someone I didn't know. What should I be doing with my time instead?
/r/seduction30/03/13 06:05 AM
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Thanks for sharing a female perspective, very helpful!
/r/seduction30/03/13 06:01 AM
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This has been my approach so far. That said, gaming girls is hard. If friendship is the only goal, is there really no easier way?
/r/seduction30/03/13 05:47 AM
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I never sleep with drunk girls. However, I would have kino'd the bejeezus out of the girl in your story (everything up to, but not including kissing), and made sure to exchange numbers to meet up again when we're both sober.
/r/seduction29/03/13 08:55 AM
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I call in the situation you're describing and hang up once it goes through, then walk them through entering my name into their phone. It's easier / cooler since they're standing next to you.
/r/seduction13/03/13 08:22 PM
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Vichet, I need to ask because I can't be the only one wondering... Have you ever had an orgy? Also if you have, that would be the most interesting FR ever. Amazing post by the way.
/r/seduction01/03/13 05:24 AM
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I've dated a beautiful super alpha female. I did it by playing very hard to get until she was super interested, then escalated. I always remained independent and never followed her lead. The guy she dated before me was an uber alpha male (super cool guy but didn't give a fuck about following any path but his own). I basically copied his attitude and it worked. Don't follow, lead. Play hard to get and make her pursue you a bit. Alpha girls will totally chase (they are used to getting what they wa…
/r/seduction01/03/13 02:32 AM
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You may be making a mountain out of a molehill. If your game is solid, you could be living under a bridge and it wouldn't matter (as long as you were clean and looked nice when she saw you). Just focus on sharpening all other aspects of your game. Is living with your parents a negative? Yes. Is it a deal breaker? Absolutely not. Everyone who isn't James Bond has aspects of their life that aren't attractive, but that's what's so great about seddit, it gives you tools and attitudes so that those t…
/r/seduction28/02/13 09:08 AM
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I've found harsh negs only work in the very beginning of an interaction, and even then only as an attention grabber for HB8's and above. The more rapport I have the less I neg. It sounds like you did everything right until the very end. If after she said 'I'm an overachiever', if you had just raised an eyebrow and said 'Oh really?', she likely would have started qualifying for you, and from there a number close wouldn't be out of the question. Keep at it man, I've found as long as I continue to …
/r/seduction26/02/13 11:16 AM
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It's not an either or, you can have 'lines' that you use for specific situations tucked in your back pocket, while still being yourself. Think of it like a stand up comedian who might be funny spontaneously but can also re-tell a great (canned) story or line when appropriate. For example on Saturday I opened a 3 set (1 gay guy, 1 HB5 1 HB9), While trying to to lock in I accidently knocked the chair over and it made a huge noise, getting everyone in the bars attention. I immediately threw up my h…
/r/seduction26/02/13 09:52 AM
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If your text message game gets strong enough, you don't even need phone game. I've had a ton of success using only text, so I don't think there's anything fundamentally bad about texting. This video series has examples of good texts: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X5DYxnUJ0JI
/r/seduction26/02/13 08:36 AM
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