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36

channeling her spirit for 2022
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/21 12:31 AM
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The only red flag here is how hard OP is trying. Texts should be one liners, they should be doing most of the lengthy narrations and do not text them back when they message at 3am ffs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 08:20 AM
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What a juvenile cretin. And how is it a surprise if he knows it’s going to happen?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 09:48 PM
47

Yes, an overly high number is usually associated with insecure or narc personality. They constantly need the validation of sex. And I don’t want them to be embarrass me by flirting with every woman of my acquaintance. Speaking from experience this is toxic and exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 04:57 PM
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The absolute mind fuck hypocrisy-get on ANY of the dating forums and it will consist a plethora of men ENCOURAGING women to make the first move. They know they don’t respect women that ask them out but they still want it. Because it allows them USE women for sex and emotional comfort with the ABSOLUTE LEAST AMOUNT OF WORK.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 06:58 PM
70

part of the success code is dumping the starter wife and finding a younger model. she didn’t mention that part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 05:00 PM
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they all want a low maintenance woman at home while the fap to high maintenance women on the internet and chase after them at work. fucking morons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 10:04 PM
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First mistake, telling him how she really felt 6 months into dating. Stupid. Second mistake, lowering your standards not once but TWICE! Unless he significantly improved over the two years, I have no idea why someone would do this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 03:02 AM
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I think it’s just a convenient lie they tell women they want to sleep with but don’t want to be in a relationship with. Men who want to actually date and marry have zero qualms about their past trauma and actually move super quickly to lock it down. So if a guy is telling you this - translation: I am going to dick around until the right one comes along.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 08:18 AM
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lol imagine Kanye losing his shit wondering about the size of Pete’s dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 08:05 AM
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oh good, they caught him before he escalated to rape and murder. dead psychopath eyes, check.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 08:04 AM
9

Absolutely, such a good point. Reminds me of an ex that led be on for 18 months before abruptly dumping me and flying off to France the next week, I am almost certain, to see his ex. I was bitter, sad and furious. But friends and family members told me ‘be classy’ and one idiot friend even said ‘if you love someone set them free’. In any case, in approximately 3 months he messaged asking to meet again and obviously wanted to rekindle things. I pretended I was delighted at this prospect, we texte…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 07:37 AM
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IDK, I think he’s just a human dildo. None of the women dating him consider him serious prospect. And SNL has a long standing skit about it - Chad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 06:58 AM
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wow can they do Yelp next? I am literally getting harassed by a local cop on there and it’s terrifying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 04:08 PM
6

Exactly, he is a classic example.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 12:51 AM
7

I’m glad he instinctively knew he was not in her league at all. Dr.Athlete Queeeeen!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 07:35 AM
2

Apple needs to design a device that shuts scrote noise out. Oh wait they already did! airpods.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 07:33 AM
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Ok this is truly insane to hear because men from indian/arabic culture frequently have a serious fetish for slavic/eastern European women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 07:09 AM
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drop this friend. low value is contagious. hang out with people that elevate you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 05:06 AM
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Exactly! And men of color know how to play that racism card on women. In fact redpill had a post about it. Additionally most of these men from India, east asia and middle east are already functioning under the notion that white women are easy and they arrive fresh off the boat completely addicted to western pornography. These men are absolutely repulsive and dangerous to be honest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 05:00 AM
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1000% this. And it’s not just white women. I am brown and at one point I was dating an arab guy and I cut him SO much slack because I figured it was difficult being from his culture in a western country. Big mistake. He turned out to be the most LV of all races I had ever dated. Do not lower your standards because they are POC!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 04:52 AM
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yes, north african men are basically well know for marrying women 30yrs older for visa and similar nonsense. stay well away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 04:48 AM
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yep - white women need to be careful of indian, middle eastern men especially. They literally plan this shit when they move to the US. Their plan is to f as many white women as they can before their parents summon them back home for arranged marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 04:44 AM
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I feel so validated reading this. As a brown woman I gave up dating men of my culture because of the inherent bigotry and self-hate they would project on me. I’d much rather be with a white guy with a fetish for my culture than a brown guy that treats me like dirt and then dumps me for the first white woman that looks at him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 04:42 AM
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his friends coming to watch her tells me two things - 1, she won the break up. 2, they are so trash, even their friends are trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 07:42 PM
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This is so cringey and pathetic. Both of them sound impulsive and generally LV. They deserve each other. She became a stripper so his friends could see her naked? Wow. I feel bad for her current husband. idk how you’d trust someone with that track record. The dude is single and that makes sense to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 07:55 AM
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this could be the title of my autobiography, getting ‘well actually-ed’ by overconfident morons on topics i’ve studied for decades.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 03:07 AM
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Yep you basically hit the nail on the head with that observation. This is the nature of academia-you have to train folks for free and women do a lot of that legwork. In the private sector it is a little less cut-throat but women still end up doing a lot of unpaid/un-recognized labor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 03:02 AM
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Fair enough. My experience might be unique to academia and the tech/engineering world, which are already male dominated fields and attract narcissistic personality types.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 02:18 AM
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IM 6 FOOT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 07:54 PM
150

oh my god the look on their faces as it sinks in. i do love this. men are stupid babies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 07:54 PM
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jesus the scrotes are evolving in their lying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 04:20 PM
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if you just want sex your best bet is to not wait for 3 months. Just don’t have sex with the same man too many times, you can actively prevent an overload of attachment hormones in that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 03:40 AM
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good job letting that shit stink until he got uncomfortable, that’s my goto method for repelling scrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 08:47 PM
412

LOL! reminds me of the time in grad school, I was out with friends at a club and dancing with this guy. And he goes ‘there’s so much sadness behind those eyes, you’re waiting for something’. And I was like ‘Yeah! i’m waiting for my lab experiments to work so I can get my PhD’. He lost interest almost immediately after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 08:41 PM
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Being south asian. EVERYTHING about men from my culture irks me. I don’t even need to get past 15 minutes of conversation with an Indian guy to find evidence of LVM misogyny oftentimes combined with racism and porn sickness. They are obsessed with white women/light skinned women so you will forever be measured against women you can never genetically look like. But they all have a serious madonna-whore complex so they intensely lust after white women but don’t consider them wife-material. These m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 08:28 PM
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IDK why you said ‘If you change your mind, I’ll be here’. Because FUCK NO. A tirade like that with the comment about acne is a non-starter. Please do not go back to this guy. Find someone that loves your vibe no matter what your skin looks like!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 12:34 AM
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I think if you are being petty the appropriate opposite response is having one of your friends object during the vows because the groom is a cheater. Or invite exes that are still in love with you and see how he likes it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 11:08 PM
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If women are constantly competing with each other and fighting for male attention, they can’t focus on getting ahead in careers, earn more money or generally outcompete men. In addition, insecure women bend over backwards trying to please men. And so the patriarchy continues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 12:55 AM
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these women make me so sad. also the moment her 20 yr bf finds a younger replacement she will get dumped. they usually end up marrying the next one within the year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 08:42 PM
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dog mom = liberal?? since when? sounds like he basically fantasized her entire personality from one thing that triggered him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 08:26 PM
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Yes, when she mentioned he’s in her apartment building I was immediately concerned for her safety..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 08:24 PM
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tell me you have mommy issues without telling me you have mommy issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 06:36 PM
129

those kids are going to need a lot of therapy when they grow up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 06:31 PM
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holy cow, you just described my ex word for word. He was from Morocco. Basically a culture that instills ‘redpill’-like values in men from a very early stage. Constantly joked about prostitutes and which countries have the best prostitutes. But then would turn around and criticize his friends who went to get handjobs at massage places. Worst relationship of my life. Ladies, stay away from guys from Morocco.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 06:50 AM
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only reason he is triggered by these women is because he wants to sleep with them but he can’t because of his dumpster body and marital status. so he needs take his frustration out by SCOLDING THEM for turning him on by simply existing at the beach. fucking baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 07:17 PM
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take note ladies - the moment they think they have made the slightest progress or improvements in their lives they start looking for an upgrade
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 07:15 PM
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Hard no. Woke guys are a fucking nightmare. They are low key virtue signaling because they WILL break all the boundaries once you’re in a committed relationship. These are the guys that wait for you to fall in love and then announce that they are poly and how liberated women can have threesomes. Stay away. Also, if they are super obsessed with blm, they’re probably racist and have zero poc friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 04:39 AM
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Get therapy and work on yourself. That energy is going to attract HVM. There is no one unicorn HVM. Tons of good men out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 04:36 AM
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hmm let’s see ‘alpha professional’ needs to pay someone to date/sleep with them and lives in a tacky ass rental? yep all adds up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 04:28 AM
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yiiikkkes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 02:10 PM
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yikes, the ‘hahas’ are cringe AF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 05:24 AM
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I think HVM/LVM are constructs. People are dynamic and constantly changing. I think one of the best ways to maintain the status quo in a relationship is to have high self esteem, take care of yourself FIRST. Because men believe actions, not words. If they see you treat yourself like a queen they will follow your lead. Second, reward good behavior and punish bad behavior. If they are not doing their part, dont pick up the slack. When my SO starts neglecting his end of the work or stops giving me …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 12:08 AM
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by fuck like a pornstar he means a random third dude will have to assist him in ejaculation by sticking a finger up his butt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 07:34 PM
120

men love themselves for their own potential and not who they actually are :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 05:31 PM
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awesome!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 06:03 AM
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The only thing high N count does is increase the statistical probability that the woman orgasmed during sex at some point in her life. And obviously this makes her a terrifying prospect causing instant pp shrinkage.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 01:06 AM
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yeup, this and the flaming dumpster fire called Sex and the City.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 11:56 PM
40

boooom!! buy yourself some champagne and something shiny with that starting bonus!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 11:37 PM
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LOL. this post proves one thing. Trash attracts trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 08:48 PM
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LOL. not even close but when my ex dumped me I took him off my google family plan and canceled his costco card. The look on his face, the betrayal! hahahaahha!! I am still riding that high and it was 3 years ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 05:50 PM
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an app where you can subscribe to watching a live feed of guys destroying peoples lives daily. good startup idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 05:48 PM
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throw the whole man out sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 03:42 PM
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The level of sociopathy required to pretend to love someone for years. Only men can do this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 09:59 PM
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no thanks, and goodbye.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 08:51 PM
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you’re welcome ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 08:18 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 07:45 PM
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I think every single married woman should imagine the worst case scenario and have an exit plan exactly like her. The reason we are so caught off guard by cheating, betrayal or being abandoned is because we didn’t account for that outcome. And then even when we do, we try to ‘talk’ it out, go to couples therapy or worst swallow our pride and get on with it. No! Have an exit plan, have a list of lawyers you can call, record everything for evidence, keep a secret stash of funds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 07:41 PM
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I live in a ‘woke’ liberal west coast city and a guy introducing himself as feminist is the BIGGEST red flag. It usually translate to low-key gaslighting manipulator that will use feminist tenets or equality to take advantage of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 07:17 PM
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Exactly, also pretty much EVERYONE can be somewhat attractive by working on themselves. If you workout, eat well and try to find clothes that fit well, you'll be attractive. He wants the benefits of attractiveness without putting the work in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 06:42 PM
1

Yes! In my head I was imagining him as really fucking ugly just because of how much importance he is putting on looks. Most average to attractive people know that it helps in life to be good looking, but not by a lot. And we're all going to be old and wrinkly soon enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 06:18 PM
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I had a few friends like these. I got rid of them but now I don’t really include my SO when I am hanging out with female friends. 1) i need my own friends sorry, not sorry 2) all men love female attention, they’ll mistake friendly banter for flirtation 9/10 times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 05:16 PM
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jokes on him because 2lb is literally water weight, or like, one dump
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 07:00 AM
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yup. and god forbid if he does lose weight he’ll probably dump her the moment another woman makes eye contact with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 06:50 AM
95

right. she could lose 30lbs easy, but she first gotta lose 200lb of garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 06:42 AM
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Exactly. And hidden in the details: dating for 5 years and not married. smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 06:42 AM
193

neckbeards trolling their way through villages in japan looking for their wifu
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 07:48 PM
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LOL. This entire plan wouldn’t work because most men can’t show me the level of luxury and self care I give myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 07:45 PM
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yup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 04:54 AM
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YEAH! And I truly think Camilla and Diana were both victims of terrible husbands and terrible lovers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 01:07 AM
37

Yeah. Seriously fuck her sisters. Who throws their 19 yr old, impressionable sister under the bus like that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 01:05 AM
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this is an obese gamer's fantasy on his 80k salary, living with 5 roommates in Seattle. fuck off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 12:39 AM
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the rapists and the serial killers know that the best disguise is the virtuous feminist man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 09:00 PM
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this is the premise for 90 day fiancé and every single guy from morocco or tunisia on that show
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 03:43 PM
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just the fact that he feels guilty when men are called out for sexual harassment shows he’s had rapey/harrasey thoughts and intentions. all the mental gymnastics to ease the self loathing of basically being a fucking pervert/incel himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 08:10 PM
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anytime a guy has asked me for an open relationship, I have enthusiastically agreed. That in itself fucks with their primitive brains so hard. Because they expect me to get upset and beg them to be monogamous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 08:05 PM
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make way for the neglord. i’m a hedonist (look it up) lmfao. ‘bet you dont even know the words I know’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 07:25 PM
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mine is secret alligators in the swimming pool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 07:23 PM
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oooh yes I knew I was forgetting one. u/beam_me_up_softboi is amazing. just mind boggling how many sub-genres of fuckbois exist out there..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 08:37 PM
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don't know about phantasies but that dead narc stare is definitely a thing of nightmares
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 09:22 PM
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you're the real queen here. being single isn't being lonely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 09:12 PM
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Yeah! love the author. She just came out with a book as well. Couple of other IG accounts of similar theme https://www.instagram.com/supersluttysnake/ https://www.instagram.com/bodeburnout/ ALSO this one is satire but pretty funny, exposing senior scrote prowlers on Tinder --> https://www.instagram.com/swipes4daddy/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 06:21 PM
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and a medical insurance digger. gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 12:37 AM
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If anyone ever watched the show 'The Fall' with Jillian Anderson. She talks about the matriarchal society of Mosuo women and how they practice 'sweet night' which is basically a one night stand with men and after which the guy is asked to leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 12:11 AM
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did she just say she does his HW???? nah bruh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 07:29 PM
8

lol someone’s got a case of they “hey you”s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 04:03 AM
15

Should have dropped kicked that rotisserie chicken as well. Lesson learned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 04:30 AM
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After almost an entire year of dating we got a joint Costco account because it was cheaper for both of us. As we were leaving Costco he made a joke about how he’d have to explain to his future wife why he had a Costco card with some random woman’s name on it. In retrospect, should’ve have left that mofo in the parking lot that day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 12:39 AM
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Ah the sweet song of the narc trying to hoover you back into his life. I’d bet money he’s bored sitting at home and if OP does respond get ready for an even more dramatic discard. Burn this stupid email with fire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 11:28 PM
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Under the umbrella of 'does bother him with his movements' -cheats on you -no emotional or physical labor in the relationship -won't participate in household chores
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 05:26 PM
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I had this notion that he had been hurt before and if I was just endlessly kind to him, he would learn to love again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 02:42 PM
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Summary: aging causes men to forget their own age
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 11:30 PM
17

Translation: A sociopath love bombed her for a month. When he realized the love bombing is working he moved on the next phase, manipulation and devaluation. Which is usually followed by phase 3, abandonment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 11:17 PM
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Absolutely. I think I was at my lowest in terms of self esteem at the time. Since then I have upgraded my life in every way: health, career and men. He still checks up on my LinkedIn, IG for some odd reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 07:32 PM
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Yes they did cry. I would get acne and then he’d comment on that as well!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 04:39 PM
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I dated a guy in my pre-fds woke days and I didn’t know about RP at the time but I’m pretty sure he was. He was also from a conservative culture that teaches men how to be RP-ish from an early age. This story is so close to what my life was like with him. I would wear makeup and lingerie to bed, cook all the time and yes, we split everything 50/50 even though I was in grad school and he worked as a software engineer. And he constantly made jokes about wanting to sleep with my friends or random w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 02:43 PM
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If I’m being honest, most men won’t settle unless they feel ready to settle. And this is an arbitrary marker based on culture, age or them just realizing they hit the wall when younger women no longer find them fuckable. You could put the most perfect woman in front of a pre-wall man and he’ll do the entire fucboi routine. You need to catch them post-wall, usually past 30 when they are stuck in a dead end job and starting to see male pattern balding. But for real, do so at your own risk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 10:34 PM
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Yes. Met a guy several years ago that I had really strong feelings for. The first time I slept over at his place, I was so anxious I couldn’t sleep. I thought I would have a panic attack when he put his arm around me. In the coming months, he trickle truthed about how he had an arranged marriage wife in another country and how he never loved her. He was married the entire time, but he believed he was entitled to dating other people in the US..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 04:00 AM
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I believe the key point here is the fact that the guy chose to tell her he isn’t over his ex. Many people aren’t over their exes when they meet someone new. They usually keep that to themselves if they see potential in the new person. And simply wait for their previous feelings to naturally fade. If they choose to tell you, they are alright with risking losing you. And that’s why you should leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 04:48 PM
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This shit is real. Pickmeishas will either try to convince everyone how happy they are in their current relationship with a LVM (usually second choice after being ditched by first choice). Or they will make it a point to undermine your career, education, appearance, relationship choices and anything else they can latch on to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 05:27 PM
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Strephon. His name is Strephon! If that isn’t a fuckboy name I don’t know what is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 07:20 AM
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which time though?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 01:17 AM
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I would like to mail them multivitamins. They all look like they are suffering from anemia and gout.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 10:03 PM
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The “I want to move next year, maybe with you ;))” was the cringiest
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 03:13 PM
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It’s like the Dunning–Kruger effect except instead of cognitive abilities they have grossly miscalculated their sexual attractiveness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 03:11 PM
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lol. getting a PhD at 45 basically translates to ‘I’m a middle aged grad student’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 03:09 PM
66

TBH more worried about his clown ass female friend having her birthday in a female strip club. Best example of “cool girl” behavior. RIP to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 08:54 PM
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Yep. This point is key to unlearning pickme behavior. Men don’t aggressively hit on women that they find amazing or super attractive. They hit on women that they think they have a chance with. Don’t give them the satisfaction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 08:30 PM
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evolving much like a virus that might cause a mild epidemic indeed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 09:43 PM
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One word: solipsism. They can't see anything outside their own bubble. So a fact that might be obvious to everyone else probably eludes them. Pretty sure they think they're the special one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 01:14 AM
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Ignore him like everyone else that’s no longer at my level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 04:29 PM
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Yes. Thank you! ‘Work wife’ is literally him telling you that he’s got someone at work that he’d like to fuck but she won’t let him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 04:27 PM
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This describes my life..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 06:59 AM
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The ‘very’ at the end is perfect. It basically sums up to “I’m too classy for you, please leave”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 03:58 PM
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you're seeking r/FemaleDatingStrategy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 07:18 AM
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There is no way to know. But if you are independent and continue to better yourself on your own time, there are no regrets if he happens to leave. And usually when you’re your own fabulous self, men are afraid to cross boundaries because they know they’ll get dropped instantly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 09:19 AM
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This is the sad reality of the ephemeral quality of male friendship. I have had 95% of male friends completely ghost me when I got into a LTR. Not to mention, I have a lesbian friend who reported the same thing. They were literally waiting for her to change her mind or something...the fck is wrong with these people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 07:45 AM
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Ryan: Do you have a question? Kelly Kapoor: First of all, how dare you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 06:15 AM
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I mean, you're sort of describing modern Japan. And they have a population problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 06:10 AM
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I wish I knew this a few years ago. I dated a guy that texted incessantly. But all the texts lacked substance. They were either “good morning beautiful” , kissy heart emojis or memes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 07:09 AM
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I would add a 6th one. Believe actions, not words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 06:29 AM
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