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sentinelsexy · 2020-11-21T20:59:06+00:00

My biggest fear is getting married and losing all my friends/being known as "Mom" and not my own name.

Hmtnsw · 2020-11-21T19:31:59+00:00

Having a roach crawl into your mouth when asleep.

CatlovesMoca · 2020-11-21T21:22:19+00:00

What's "late marriage" anyway? Like after 7 pm?

HottPinkSlug · 2020-11-21T20:20:04+00:00

Did you know rats are strong enough swimmers they can go up sewer pipes into toilets and bite your tushie?

BlackThummb · 2020-11-21T20:29:10+00:00

Mine is sitting on a toilet and a hidden snake attacks my vagina but okay

I thought I was the only one 🤣

denverkris · 2020-11-21T21:35:30+00:00

I didn't get married until I was 45. Was probably best for all that I waited so long, I definitely wasn't mature enough to make a good choice earlier in life.

EclecticBarbarella · 2020-11-21T19:31:23+00:00

One of my biggest nightmares is marriage. Just marriage. The thought of letting someone in like that, making that forever commitment and then having them drop the act and show their LV true self after I’m already legally chained is terrifying to me. Doubly so if i have a kid with them. I know so many people it’s happened to, if I wanted to be married early I would have accepted the proposal at 19, or 24, or 27. But I didn’t because I knew it was wrong and they were proposing for the wrong reasons (normally control and to keep me from moving on). K bye

RabidWench · 2020-11-21T21:28:08+00:00

Ooooh story time! My father married my mom when she "got knocked up" and they moved into.... a tent on the property he had bought while he was building the house (which i last saw in my late teens and still wasn't completed 😒). At some point the house became finished enough to live in, but had carpet over concrete floors, and interesting roommates - scorpions, which loved nesting under the carpet in the corners.

Apparently, one night my mother felt something crawling on her face, grabbed it in the dark and smashed it on the wall above her head without really waking up. In the morning she looked up to find a dead baby scorpion crushed on the wall.

To my knowledge, that house never did get finished. I haven't spoken to my father in over 15 years, so I'll never know.

iaintgonnacallyou · 2020-11-21T21:16:12+00:00

When I was about 5, my mom once told me there were alligators in port-a-potties to get me to hurry up. Almost 20 years later and I’m still terrified of an alligator in an outhouse.

ShieldMaidenLagertha · 2020-11-21T19:13:33+00:00

Hidden flies in the toilet bowl.

Shudder

ThrowawayKITTY777 · 2020-11-21T22:49:43+00:00

My biggest fear is honestly something bad happening to either my family, friends, cats or my dude & his daughters. I worry like hell all the time these days for my sister who is in the medical field.

Marriage wasn't even in my plans until this year ( at age 42 ).... never bothered me that I hit my 40s unmarried.... a little loneliness is far better than being legally stuck to a worthless dude.

Unlikely-Marzipan · 2020-11-22T00:49:04+00:00

I was thinking about this yesterday - how many women are waiting on men to complete their lives in some way. The man has all the power and they are giving it to them. One friend was beside herself as she’s been seeing a guy for 6 months and they only see each other once a week - usually he just comes to her place, eat takeaway, have sex and sleep. And she asked him the other day where this is headed and should she be dating others. Of course, he said no and girlfriended her... but nothing has changed and I wonder if he just didn’t want to lose his weekly lay.

Another has been waiting ten years for hers to propose. The last two years she’s thought every holiday and Christmas he would propose but he hasn’t. So she’s being a good wifey and waiting for the ring. All her friends are getting married to their partners. I’m sure it will happen, but ten years is a long time to wait... why hasn’t he done it? They are 30.

Another was just a hookup to a guy. Started as a walk date, then he asked her for sex which she did. She ended up saying to him after a few months that she was going to look for something serious, so he locked her down. But she’d already asked him before and he said he didn’t want anything serious, but I guess by the second time he didn’t want to lose his bangmaid. He ended up moving in with her straight away, she cooks and cleans and all sorts of things. He buys her flowers which is nice, but also she did have to prise his Instagram and OF girls out of his hands (he’s late 30s) so I don’t know how well this is going to go.

These women, always waiting on men to show they are worth something. It’s scary.

Cairenne · 2020-11-21T18:52:24+00:00

Same girl. Same.

to_learn_to_fly · 2020-11-21T19:26:43+00:00

For me it's a spider

fruitbowl_ · 2020-11-21T21:10:06+00:00

I knew I was justified in my fear of toilet snakes!!!!!!!

CatlovesMoca · 2020-11-21T22:12:19+00:00

Especially in Australia. I heard in that country animals do anything they please. Heck, the Emus even won a war over there.

Should a woman be more afraid of a "late" marriage or of a Emu with a willingness to fight?

ThatOneRedditGirl · 2020-11-22T02:43:21+00:00

Women should really be scared of early marriage with an abusive ass hole. Trust me. Made that mistake and married at 19.

iheartcookin · 2020-11-22T00:24:45+00:00

Every woman’s worst nightmare is a ~~late~~ marriage.

smilodon91 · 2020-11-22T01:08:55+00:00

every woman's biggest nightmare SHOULD be marriage. period.

mr-jimbusiness · 2020-11-21T23:37:45+00:00

Tbh a spider is actually the real fear but I do live in Australia. A girl can't get a break here with the wildlife and the wild men.

N2Gen · 2020-11-21T22:31:51+00:00

Mine’s falling on my ass on black ice in the middle of winter and breaking a leg.

backforbeskar · 2020-11-21T19:23:25+00:00

mine is secret alligators in the swimming pool

spoiledsweet · 2020-11-21T21:50:04+00:00

Uh, yes, I’ll have one (1) nightmare please ☝🏼 ty

ALocusInTheBiosphere · 2020-11-22T00:49:21+00:00

Mine is having an IBS poop attack while giving a public presentation.

localgirlcult · 2020-11-22T01:13:38+00:00

When I was like 6 years old I accidentally saw the old version of Stephen King's It on tv. They were showing it DURING THE DAYTIME. And there are scenes where Pennywise comes out of the drain. So little me was worried for probably months that It was gonna come out of every drain in the bathroom and from the toilet. 6 year old me sitting on the toilet getting ready to quickly jump up, wipe, flush and run out and thinking ^oh ^no ^what ^if ^Pennywise ^bites ^my ^butt

GuineveresGrace · 2020-11-22T01:18:34+00:00

I mean, personally, it’s pseudocoma/ locked-in syndrome ... but you do you, Miss Havisham.

CatusCactus · 2020-11-22T03:29:54+00:00

Most marriages fail before someone turns 30, so a “”late”” marriage is better than a unhappy/toxic one.

Old-Flower-9089 · 2020-11-22T05:52:37+00:00

A marriage is never late, nor is it early. It arrives precisely when it means to.

VivaLaSea · 2020-11-21T22:45:04+00:00

Mine is I lift the toilet lid and a tarantula or rat jumps out.
I literally never lower my toilet lid for this reason.

yolosunshine · 2020-11-22T04:05:08+00:00

Well my biggest fear is being locked in an abusive relationship because I ignored those red flags but I hope you like cooking after you’ve been beaten, sis

ChonkyCatzPlz · 2020-11-22T09:37:03+00:00

My greatest nightmare is having children. I keep seeing my sister saying "motherhood is a blessing" and gritting her teeth 20 seconds later while muttering "stop. Screaming!! Mommy can't take it!!!"

Considering marrying most men is like having really ugly overgrown children, marriage is on the list too

yalllove · 2020-11-21T23:43:17+00:00

Eating sushi with a live worm on it. Saw a video of one last week and now can’t eat fish. 😭

lessabe · 2020-11-22T01:18:46+00:00

I used to have the spider crawling Up there worry but then I moved to Arizona and now replaced that with scorpions crawling up my poussoir

NoonLooney · 2020-11-22T04:25:12+00:00

Mine is human trafficking or being burnt alive

CloacaDiddler · 2020-11-22T06:58:39+00:00

My mom kept nutty bars under her bed in college as a snack. (Before she dropped out to have half a dozen kids while my dad continued his education and career) She said one night, without looking she reached down and grabbed one, but it felt weird to touch and really weird going down. Turned the light on and saw the whole thing was covered in ants.

So that’s kind of a main fear of mine. And marriage. Losing my name, my agency, my identity, hitching my carriage to someone who almost certainly will at some point betray my trust somehow or not treat me right but now I’m contractually stuck to him. Being the eternal plus one in some man’s story while he takes me along to business dinners and gets commended for being a family man now as I carry the burden of being “a wife” (already, the first thing most new people ask me is if I’m dating and everything about my relationship, someone even asked how much allowance he gives me and was shook when I said bitch none I make all my own money that’s why I have a job??) When I’m with a man, I always become lesser to other people and society, despite being the one most likely doing far more than the male partner.

2020-11-22T01:32:28+00:00

Shark in the swimming pool. A chlorinated swimming pool...

2020-11-22T02:20:42+00:00

Right like image ALMOST escaping and then one gets you at the last minute

Pudding5050 · 2020-11-22T09:47:25+00:00

I'm far more worried about ending up in an abusive relationship than late marriage. Or even just getting stuck feeling lonely in the marriage/relationship. Late marriage doesn't scare me at all. What's late marriage anyway, 80? 90? If they're suggesting it's like 35-40 then they're most likely just kids who think anything over 30 is ancient and who don't yet have any concept about what life is like.

Delilahh12345 · 2020-11-22T02:29:13+00:00

Mine's a roach crawling into my vagina

2020-11-22T04:26:08+00:00

When a Spider decide to land on my head while I’m driving on the highway!! Trust me been there

SayNad · 2020-11-22T20:11:20+00:00

late marriage

You mean prolonged freedom. So far the one who freaks out like it is the damn apocalypse when they hit 30 and still can't find a spouse are mainly men. Women do feel sad, but they often are very even-tempered about it. Or are happy and not sure they want to be tied down.

Meanwhile men gets more bitter and nastier the longer they are single - blaming women for literally every single fucking thing.

boredbitch2020 · 2020-11-22T09:52:52+00:00

Spider is more likely to be there

Trocek · 2020-11-22T12:22:47+00:00

Electric kettle blowing up while boiling water ✋😬

maraslove · 2020-11-22T12:48:53+00:00

I want children more than being tied down to a possible son of a b*tch. However, I just want to do the marriage thing beforehand since my family would go bat shit if I did things my own way. I just know in my heart my kids would never leave me in the dust versus a shit “husband”.

Jasmineof-Agrabah · 2021-04-02T02:54:30+00:00

My biggest fear is to get married 💀

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Date	November 21, 2020 6:26 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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