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Some girl scowls at you is ‘rejection’. Tryna get her dog off the porch is ‘rejection’ Not being interested in you when she’s scowling tryna get her dog off your porch: rejection What are you gonna do with the other 7 billion of the world? This sub is like the guy on r/ dating who thought all women had suddenly received some woman memo to avoid him or all men. Even if I did agree with the mission statement of hatefucking as many women as possible, calling this a rejection means you truely (not a…
/r/seduction19/07/21 01:22 PM
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I’m not just talking about straight porn. Men are in porn as well, and they are also objectified and used.
/r/seduction17/05/21 07:17 PM
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Porn isn’t just bad because social cues. It’s bad because it portrays part of humanity as an object and the other part as using that object. Not that I’d expect individuals looking to get better use out of their fellow humans to understand, but that’s the rub lmao
/r/seduction17/05/21 07:08 AM
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I’m so glad you two are on your own timeline. That’s exactly the way a partnership should work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 08:43 PM
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What fosters this culture is it’s becoming more clear Reddit actually provides a space technically free from the FBI. There is cp and revenge posting of couples on here. Men/boys have sent me death and rape threats, graphic continuing ones, plus long strings of psychological assault in my inbox from Redditors I have never directly interacted with. Some have referenced me being in this sub as the ´reason’ they say I should die horribly. Like this isn’t even a copypasta, it’s a personally targeted…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 10:19 PM
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You’d think stock phrases would not be something you’d want to keep typing out, but...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 10:11 PM
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I like you. This was precise and deadly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 10:10 PM
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RIP your inbox is infuriating because some guy is commenting about the culture of dick pics and/or hate (depending on whether they will try for sexting or threaten to rape her), like it’s funny. ‘Oops a whole bunch of scrotes will now harass you, oh it must be awful to be you rn’ Schaudenfreude is the basis of most scrote humor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 10:09 PM
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Most comedy movies aren’t actually funny they’re a string of fart jokes and awkward stock situations plus as you mentioned, misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 10:04 PM
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I was once in a years long « relationship » with a LVM. I was not the same person on either side of that horrendous time. After, the person I was rejected several more like him, easily and without a second thought. 90% of it is control and doing whatever they want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 09:58 PM
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Chewed guuuum
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 09:49 PM
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🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 09:49 PM
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That’s quite literally the dream for a lot of scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 09:48 PM
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I mean doesn’t this already exist? I’ve seen this content on mom groups where basically this is how they vent ‘in a funny way’ to get sympathy and reassurance that everyone else’s man is shitty like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 05:01 PM
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There are some things you just don’t bluff with. Like commitments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 04:59 PM
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It doesn’t help when women are trite bullies. They didn’t like my comment above on this thread and have relabled me a Pickmeisha to show they are upset. 😂 Bullying is always a sign you have nothing more useful to say. I thought this sub was supposed to be about achieving a non-prostitution relationship with men. Don’t understand why it’s taboo to say that men will continue to treat us as unpaid prostitutes until other aspects of society and our own lives are rectified. I think maybe then the Pic…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:01 PM
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Prostitution is a result rather than a cause. Please refer to my previous comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 12:58 PM
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‘You’re so sensitive’ ‘You can’t handle it’ ‘You’ll mess it up’ ‘Why are you so angry all the time’ ‘It’s not that important, what’s wrong with you’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 11:17 PM
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And yet, I’ve been harassed at every workplace but one I’ve ever been. No onlyfans necessary. 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 11:07 PM
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I only learned in adulthood this is the most common way for women to be murdered. Leaving a partner. Being pregnant by a partner. These are the deadliest times. So many women experience their scrotes flip from ‘kinda sucky’ or even just ‘meh’ to ‘really psycho’ when said scrote impregnates them, or when they try to leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 12:07 PM
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Violence
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 11:38 PM
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👏 👏 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 11:37 PM
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Go back and read my comment again. You did not understand it the first time and are going off on a tangent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 11:03 PM
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As someone who experienced daily sexual violence in baggy jeans and a t shirt after exhibiting zero sexual behavior or self-grooming, I need you to carefully rethink your wording about clothing ‘causing’ men’s behavior. ‘Provacative’ is unfortunately a very very vague spectrum. It interacts with a range of nonclothing factors including privacy, age, current dynamics, personal morality, presence of others, time of day, type of space, language, culture, season, gender, class.... We could all agree…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 09:17 PM
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I mean, should is all well and good. But she can wear baggy like she was previously—trying to get away from pedos (many of us did), she can dress stripperific, she can modify her body, she could wear the hijab. It all doesn’t matter. Men have been playing Simon Says for a long, long time. They still think they’re entitled to your body, whatever it looks like and however you treat it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 09:14 PM
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I wear things that are decidedly not fashionable in clothing and makeup. They look good on me, so they’re for me. Even if we were naked I still like how my hair feels braided correctly. I still like putting flowers and feathers in my hair because the color contrast is beautiful to me. That behavior is definitely not encouraged for a grown woman as sexy or responsible. I do think there is a spectrum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 09:01 PM
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I can count on one hand the number of times I’ve been truely just offered sex. I can’t count the times I’ve been told they want to do sex using me. (Rape) The experience is 1000% different.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 08:22 PM
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I can’t walk outside without someone rejecting my existence. Talking over me. Getting into my personal space. Making a comment on my ass. Laughing at my appearance they don’t agree with, find unattractive, or threatening. Shutting down my opinion because it came from me. I am too sexy or not sexy enough. I am too old or too young (to be ‘useful’) depending on what man it is and what task they have in mind. That’s all rejection. Rejection as a human. Men truely have no idea how much socialization…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 08:19 PM
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‘Suicide by cop’ ok den
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 08:03 PM
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I understood the phrase, I just thought it was an insensitive one, especially given Banks is black, given the number of (especially black) murders by law enforcement logged as this when eyewitnesses to body cams say otherwise. Not sure why that was necessary to downvote, I thought we were pro POC here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 03:51 AM
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I just thought suicide by cop was a horrible phrase given plenty of POC die just for being within a 3 block radius of a cop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 11:17 PM
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Errr what
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 05:14 PM
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It’s insecurity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 04:02 AM
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Makeup yes, just not exactly this makeup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 03:29 AM
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They want you to know how big it is, aren’t men super concerned about that? We’re just being appreciative! Heck I’m not insulting him, where’s he going?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:58 PM
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I mean, yes. There’s active examples of edited truth, facts that don’t match up, and a massive Whine Complex. I hesitated to blame it all on wealthy background, but I do find myself assuming that as well given the particular flavor of taking backbreaking work and diligence for granted. Middling and poor assholes would be complaining differently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:56 PM
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Yup. That he doesn’t even clock that is also super telling that this situation is probably abusive atop him being an ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:53 PM
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You tried making excuses for him and softening his abuse of his young daughter. Don’t gaslight yourself atop this, yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:53 PM
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Yup. I also know a man like this who resents his daughter for doing the same thing even though he doesn’t understand that it’s, unfortunately, usually required to partner with a man who makes as much money as you do. Edit: I’m not describing pickmeisha behavior, this is maintenance. I come from super poor people where every little thing has a noticeable ripple and you will never convince me that looks and quality accoutrements don’t pay. They pay a good 20-30% atop whatever you make in a career …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:51 PM
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I threw up a little. How can you hate-fuck the mother of your children of all people? Just a tiny bit of respect. In my mind that crosses into ‘kinda evil, not just asshole’ territory.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:57 AM
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‘At no point did I ever bring up”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:55 AM
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And it’s not even like she can slide right into a job which makes money. He’s literally just setting a fire on a fire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:53 AM
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It takes A Shitton of discipline to look good at 55, especially when all your expenses are going to putting 2 boys through college. I’m sure their previous lifestyle wasn’t cheap either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:52 AM
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If he can’t even say to his partner of 20 years ‘ya know honey the economy is making me feel really emasculated right now and I want to fix that stat because it would be a shame if I let Covid ruin everything else good in my life, any good ideas?’ He definitely can’t make his own meals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:50 AM
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His sweet sportscar to pick up college chicks in. /s His professional golfing and cocaine habit to keep up old ties. Several onlyfans subscriptions and a secret mistress. Idk, these are some of the things I’ve seen in the wild.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:48 AM
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Even HIS friends are pointing out he’s wrong about the situation. That’s...a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:44 AM
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Ding ding ‘I was fine with this division of labor when I made a shitton of money but now that the entire world is having growing pains I’m gonna blame my insecurity on my wife who so far has done nothing wrong’ So either she wasted 20 years putting in that effort for mr. oblivious or he’s lying that he thinks she’s great for karma points.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:43 AM
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My dude, “if the genders were reversed” it would be different???? ‘My husband is 20 years older now but looks fabulous, he’s the best stay at home dad to our great boys, we have sex bc tbh he’s bangin...I also hate my life with him because I’m the breadwinner and he does nothing besides what I mentioned and I want a divorce’ Yeah no this doesn’t check out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:39 AM
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The first time I had a lock on my door I locked it and unlocked it repeatedly in complete delight then proceeded to lock it as part of a nighttime routine. Fabulous sleep followed although I still have problems with literally any sound waking me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:33 AM
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Frankly the food pantries helped me more than church or onlyfans ever will...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:23 AM
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I also did this once and the reaction was also dismayed confusion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:14 AM
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This nailed it for me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:12 AM
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R/ perfectly timed cut
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:10 AM
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I realized my religion was truely bonkers through Animal Planet. Every other highly social monogamous/polygamous species the males have to prove themselves—their fitness, their intelligence, their interactive ability, their aesthetic qualities. Then many of them have to defend the shit out of the girl that picked them, either from other males who wanna, and/or from predators as she/they goes about raising babby. The other model is the same except it’s not monogamous and the females just mate wit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:08 AM
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“And I never spoke to any of them again” We stan
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:57 AM
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What do they roll up their sleeves for? What do they take selfies for? Why they gotta wear those 🍆 pants?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:48 AM
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The ‘you stupid b***h’ laugh. Makes me nauseated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:48 AM
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Look at it, you can see it poking! How am I supposed to keep my hands off his package? How rude, saying I can’t touch him, he’s got a nice one. Wearing sweatpants. Audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:47 AM
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This is the most obvious and 100% reliable 🚩 🚩 🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:41 AM
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I’d say this is a reduction...but it’s not
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 04:53 PM
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You’ve described this well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 04:49 PM
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Sticky this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 08:05 AM
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Men who want bangmaids are gonna trash talk the others’ bangmaids. And they won’t defend you. This is the best sign of someone who won’t be there when it counts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 02:58 AM
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‘She’s a 10 to me bro’ Is the proper answer here. Anything else is acknowledging his ‘bro’ has the right to bitch about HIS girl. For doing something beneficial.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 02:57 AM
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I SHALL SELECT YOU AND THEN HOOKUP WITH YOU Slow your roll, Hannibal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 02:56 AM
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I see more a parallel to the privileged in any society, indulging both their desires and delusions at the expense of the people actually making their world go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 06:49 AM
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I had a membership at a womens gym in a former city and if I still lived there I still would. Highly recommend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 06:45 AM
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But isn’t this just polyamory? Don’t hate on me I’m making a joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 06:36 AM
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What’s fascinating to me is that men who fail the writing-women test in the modern sense have cottoned on to the ‘got to give them something not traditionally associated with femininity’ yet have them perform essential male-referenced femininity anyway—failing Bechdel, putting their goals aside for a male character, shutting up, not affecting the plot....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 06:05 AM
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I know a girl who grew up on this and ....it was not good for her or a significant portion of people she interacted with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 06:01 AM
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The Eowyn thing totally reads like that in the books though. I remember being seriously pissed off that he took a lovely character like Eowyn, lovely character like Faramir, and the lovely concept of them together (and Eowyn’s crush/hero-worship of Aragorn finally taking a chill pill) and just really awkwardly tied up ends Dickens style. Was so disappointed not in what happened but how. Anyway. I think I know what he was getting at but um.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 06:00 AM
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I was wondering when we would get to thaf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 05:12 AM
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I secretly loved Ursula. And I also knew that was completely forbidden.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 05:11 AM
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Wow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 05:23 AM
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‘Girls, boys can’t help being toddlers forever. Yes, Cheryl, that means you need to clean up after the meeting, can’t expect grown men to throw out their coffee cups.’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 12:45 AM
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‘Girls, take care of the boys, they can’t help but be toddlers forever. Yes, Cheryl that means cleaning up after the meeting because salaried dudes can’t throw out their fucking coffee cups.’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 12:44 AM
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The answer you’re looking for is that marriage law in the US is different than marriage law many other places. It’s financially protective here, rather than a societal justification for a man financially (or otherwise) abusing you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 10:12 PM
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You’re not the clown, he is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 10:08 PM
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It ain’t different than 6th grade when you by necessity or choice can’t wear what the cool kids do. They can’t even wear what the cool kids do because the second they wear the wrong thing they’re not cool anymore. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 04:07 PM
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Yup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 04:06 PM
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Especially UTIs, I’m so glad that’s over
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 04:02 PM
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It was a revelation that Men: call a woman ‘ugly’ for having a big nose or small boobs nothing particularly stunning facially Women: call a man ugly for having poor hygiene or dressing in rags The % of time that this is what they’re talking about is unreal, starting in hs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 04:01 PM
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Billie: ugly men don’t get a pass for being assholes Scrotes: same ones that had a calendar for when she turned 18 Speaking of o f f e n s i v e
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 03:59 PM
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‘The world was ok but you ruined it’ ‘Men/women/abominations (see below for article 3) are sinful and must be controlled by all the rules in article 15, (see below) lest we all get smote’ ‘Some dude died for you because of a quality you don’t control, aren’t you sorry you exist yet’ ‘Women are inferior to men and it sucks but that’s how it is.’ ...whoever wrote this stuff is basically sadistic. I did Christianity for a long time. I stopped when I realized how similar it was to my narcissistic fa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 03:49 PM
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Ok, it makes sense tho. God punishes man with labor, man punishes woman with labor, dunno why that makes it all ok again but God as written is definitely a sadist so idk...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:42 AM
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🙏🏿🙏🏾🙏🏽🙏🏼🙏🏻🙏....🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:41 AM
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Oooh, Zeus, they smoking your shiz, get down here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:39 AM
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It’s even better. It’s canon that he blamed the fiasco on God giving him this woman because he was alone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:38 AM
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Tbf the Madonna-Whore complex began here. It should really be called the Lilith-Eve complex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:37 AM
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Lilith left. Adam was like ‘I am the dominant part of this relationship’ and Lilith was like nuh-uh. So Adam complains to God (notice a theme yet) and God’s like ‘u gotta let him f**** you and stop bothering me ok’ Lilith : ‘Imma head out’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:35 AM
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And then Adam was like ‘it’s your fault God, you gave me this woman thing’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:33 AM
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...”Sex-pest” is the old fashioned way of spelling ‘rape-ist’...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 11:13 PM
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No, I mean the guys. The guys are petty when they don’t date awkward girls even though they’ll sleep with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 02:52 PM
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This also, OP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:45 PM
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Yup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:43 PM
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Yup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:42 PM
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this is the answer, OP^
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:42 PM
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Very close to this age, also, was when I would first be dressed up in fancy dresses for events and discovered pedos consciously. To say that this ad is triggering is an understatement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:34 PM
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Why do you need to color the lips of a five year old child?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:32 PM
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Idk but I spent significant time with a narcissist and it was all gaslight all the time, even after I woke up. It was so disgustingly sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:32 PM
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There’s a shorthand in Turkish apparently that is literally flowery asshole, it’s from a practice in old timey butcher shops.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:30 PM
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Good edit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:28 PM
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He sounds exactly like my old classmate’s dad but different culture. Raging narcissist ruined multiple lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:25 PM
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The problem is it wasn’t two minutes. It was way, way more than that. This wasn’t one decision, it was a habit and pattern of decisions, for years and years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:24 PM
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They don’t get it because they’re LV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:12 PM
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Incelception
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:10 PM
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They flood my inbox with inappropriate things, so, yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:10 PM
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Going now for the low low price of low! Don’t wait, don’t miss out ladies! I’m a car sales ad from low low long ago low price limited time only don’t miss out ! Uuuuuuugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:09 PM
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Vote to make ‘hoars’ a post flair
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:07 PM
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Men will stick their dick in awkward, but not actually date awkward. Dunno if that’s your definition of ‘not petty’ or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 07:06 AM
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Oh, no. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 07:00 AM
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Yuuuup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 06:59 AM
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I’m not one to think that trash doesn’t exist everywhere, so I will not be conflating classism with my scrote alarm, thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 06:49 AM
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If you won’t sleep with men you’re labeled a slut. Make up y’alls minds, bro. Source: intimidating since hs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 06:43 AM
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Rey is a naturally gifted child growing up in a sketchy part of a third world country. We meet her basically free soloing a star destroyer wreck. It’s implied she works and lives alone because she’s been attacked or robbed, a lot. Her first reaction to Finn is to beat him up. These things hint that if she were not very skilled, as well as a ‘good person’, she would just be dead. Contrast: Luke the farm boy whose only worry is that his uncle isn’t ever going to let him do something cool with his …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 10:22 PM
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Dolores Abernathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 09:55 PM
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Eeeeewwww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:24 PM
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You can hope for it offscreen you know. Use that energy to make yourself more likely to find it. Working on yourself is the best way to make sure you accept or reject based on what you want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:23 PM
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*someone is trying to get me banned for hate speech for saying that estrogen lets us deal with male bullshit This is obviously a troll and I wish not to be banned but I’m putting this here thanking the mods because my comments get marked hate speech all the time, is there a way to ban lurkers to stop this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 05:57 PM
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Oooh, this one Btw did you know men have a hormone that causes them to not plan ahead, to disregard safety rules and to ignore those they regard as un-useful? That’s science, bitch. It’s called t e s t o s t e r o n e. But we never hear that thrown around or how men have it cycle too ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 05:47 PM
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I don’t know your husband but if he was a whiny child while home free with unemployment income coming in...be careful about that vasectomy. Men baby trap women more often than the other way around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 04:00 PM
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Men are so weak because the entire world is built to cater to then
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 04:27 AM
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I threw clean sealed tampons at boys to make them shut up and it worked. They acted like they were radioactive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 04:26 AM
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This is the important bottom line
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 04:25 AM
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For me it was no longer having the rocket fuel of radioactive levels of fear. Fear largely inspired by knowing I was genuinely missing out on all this fun shit fostered for teens and twenties if you got a different lotto ticket than I did re: circumstances and life events. I worked my tail off and it still didn’t help. I now know some people will never accept me or help me, simply because they don’t. That everyone has different standards and worldviews. That I truely don’t give a shit anymore ab…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 04:12 PM
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Prime years are just like cool jeans Whatever the cool kids say they are I mean I have friends who were gallivanting around the world at 30 and friends who finally got away from the people trashing their lfie since birth. Am I really going to say that one is less cool than the other just because it doesn’t come with an Insta feed and envy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 04:06 PM
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Yup. After that LVM I felt robbed not just personally but on a basic level. It’s the same way with friends or money or the patriarchy. Some of us are very hampered for a long time by deep programming and people intent on keeping us there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 04:04 PM
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Yes, yes you were. I’m so glad you didn’t sign up for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 04:01 PM
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To be fair, teachers I now know were talking about doing 80-100k of work for 30-40k of pay. I decided not to be a teacher. In the US at least. When I worked a white collar job it was better than hs; working low level restaurant and retail jobs was often worse. The ‘life sucks in adulthood’ message is often from people whose life does suck in adulthood, and a big factor is money, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:57 PM
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Don’t look back darling; you’re not going that way. As the old quote says.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:56 PM
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Um that’s interesting because like, it’s dripping with toxic masculinity and various other things like genocide and murder. It just doesn’t actively condone these, in fact it’s pretty much the story of why these are bad. Anakin is literally a failure of the class structure, interplanetary war, and Jedi militarized system. Now we know where dictators can come from. Kylo Ren is so unbelievably many flavors of toxic masculinity writ a bit more subtly, yet healthier than either his father or grandfa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:44 PM
4

Attractive female nerd here. It is hell. I can’t nerd out in normal society, and I can’t be normal in nerd society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:42 PM
2

Well to be fair, this exact thing is the goal. Armies aren’t just people with guns.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:40 PM
23

I don’t agree with the idea that she should have stayed, or that she should have kept the baby. Or that she’s abnormal. A ‘mature’ person would have left him and gotten an abortion if that’s what she needed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 07:53 PM
6

I feel so sorry for the kid that this slimeball is his parent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 07:50 PM
23

Yup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 07:44 AM
8

I like your brain
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 03:53 AM
28

I remémorer I asked for bc and my gyno was like ‘well I’d put you on Yaz but that’s a TERRIBLE idea’ God.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 03:52 AM
8

Come now, let’s not give men a monopoly on the wide sky idea of hot. If by hot we mean ‘indicative of an object I would use to orgasm’ then fuck that shit. If by hot we mean ‘indicative of person I would like to get as close as possible to’ then no, I don’t think that’s quite what Atwood was talking about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 09:37 AM
4

I get a lot of hate for not giving dadbods or ‘hello I am an underwear model, how are you’ a chance anymore, but from different genders lmao. I find that dudes toward the upper end—attractive, fit, but more lowkey in the ‘hello I am super hot’ department. Tend to have the best actual personalities. No choice and insanely spoiled for choice in a population tend to do weird things to people, just like the money versions of same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 04:47 PM
9

It must also have been hard to move on because of the trauma of someone getting rid of you because their parents said so. I’d be messed up for a long time about that if I was stuck on the guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 04:42 PM
1

Again like I said, this isn’t an opening statement. And even if you’re down to peg someone/anal/macaroni and cheese —doesn’t ever mean you HAVE to do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 06:08 PM
1

I don’t compromise my boundaries. Until a pegging occurs I don’t have to do anything. Like I said, it’s after they push my no that I say this. I have no intention of playing games with someone who disrespects my boundaries. It’s just about their hypocrisy at that point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 03:19 AM
114

I’ve slept on the same bed with people I’m attracted to but nothing happened. But then I’m not a man. sips tea
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:23 AM
30

I couldn’t get beyond the first page. Oh my god. Sis I’ve been houseless and even sleeping on someone else’s floor is better than this. Leave. Tonight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:21 AM
11

They’re not self imposing it. This card was written designed illustrated printed and distributed by men. This is gaslighting. This is like the paintings of the happy slaves seranading the “Massah” of an evening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:13 AM
3

Women still endure this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:11 AM
5

« Well honey, slavery is better than change » How romantic. I’d definitely pick her to be my old timey bangmaid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:08 AM
27

Homicide death rate DOUBLES? That’s 200%. That’s insane. And terrifying. I’m assuming it’s a domestic homicide where the partner kills her. I mean I’m not aware of the rate of people on the street capping random pregnant women. It’s these little moments that expose just how toxic and burdened these relationships are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:04 AM
6

🐖 🐖 🐖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:55 AM
12

And yet so many have asked me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:54 AM
15

Yeah like I was prepared that people think I might cheat because monosexuals don’t get it But the next level hypocrisy of using that as justification for premptive cheating is just...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:53 AM
23

Tbh a lot of people don’t. A whole lot of people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:51 AM
4

Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:51 AM
30

I have a policy of I’ll try a sexual thing a dude wants to do...if he’ll go first. Fine, I don’t want anal and we’ve been over this but since you’re so right it’s normal and I’ll like it I’ll try anal with you if I can peg you first. They don’t like that. Haven’t found anyone who tried to push me who actually had the guts. The men who weren’t sexually trash just took my boundary as a boundary and moved on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:50 AM
36

Yes. It lead to awkward silence but no admission of hypocrisy or stupidity. Then he accused me of maybe running around on him with a male friend. I just don’t think they think the same way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:45 AM
1

Today I learned that this man can’t tell the difference between consent and curiosity. I’m bi, guaranteed to have a higher sex drive than you (because it’s handed out at random and I have a really high drive, duh) Definitely not into you cheating on me or hurting another woman. This man isn’t just trash he’s Chernobyl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:43 AM
18

The friends I know that enjoyed it basically were backed by healthy families and had low to no health/relationship disasters. So basically they explored and got up again when they fell down. They were able to steadily grow in jobs and personal growth and relationships. It would be beautiful. Everyone else I know would rather have all their toenails pulled out while awake than relive their 20s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 11:09 PM
2

THIS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 11:18 PM
1

Unicorns are the flipside of ‘just get that bag’. There’s a whole range of how hard and in what ways that’s going to be difficult. You’re a unicorn because you made it, not because it was easy for you. You’re accusing me of things which I did not do, but which you are currently projecting. Nowhere did I say you are privileged (privilege isn’t a yes or no question anyway...) and nowhere did I say people shouldn’t try. I just don’t agree with setting the same standard across the board for what suc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 04:34 PM
6

100% of unwanted pregnancies are from irresponsible ejaculation. Well, 98%. I’m gonna give the guys who actually tried with correct condom use but it failed a pass. But everyone else...who do you think you are?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 05:46 AM
22

Yes. That said, sorting when people throw themselves at you for any reason is exhausting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 05:45 AM
1

I just think you don’t understand that bootstraps don’t connect to anything and if you wanna go up you have to connect to a hand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 12:04 AM
1

Society in general is not kind to people over ~25 as those who have their financial and health sorted believe everyone else is just lazy. I feel like you’re giving men a little too much credit for gatekeeping that. You still haven’t given me an age which makes me think you can’t name one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 06:17 PM
23

I laugh extra hard at the POC men who say this bc they should read the Peterson fine print on Anyone Who Isn’t White
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 05:09 PM
2

There is a living breathing person in front of you who is struggling. You can celebrate making it work without deriding her. The ladies who ‘jump through all the hoops and make it work’ also have substantial luck and support on their side. Not everyone makes it. Have some compassion; you’re more unicornlike than you think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:57 PM
3

I feel like there’s a wide range of economic backgrounds on this sub. It doesn’t conflict when say, listing scrote red flags or supporting specific wins. But I’ve seen a lot of confusion about what ‘winning’ is for some women and some odd conflation of being high value oneself and being wealthy. I prefer the content to stay on the dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:53 PM
1

What is with the equating women who got connected to a man with laziness, though? I’m 30 and know zero correlation between how hard a woman works to take care of herself and her man status. It is easier with two paying rent but are you really going to look down on people for that? You didn’t like people saying ‘why don’t you have a man’ and you cry back ‘you’re just lazy’? It’s weird af to me to now learn that you have done law school and don’t realize there are different levels of privilege in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:46 PM
3

Men are 50% of the population. To not accept help from any rather absurd to me. If I hadn’t I’d literally be dead. Sure as hell wouldn’t be in grad school. This sub is about avoiding asshole men, and being in relationships with ones of high caliber, not annnnny weird shit about ‘I make money so I don’t need to have a relationship in my 20s’ Plenty of women do both. It’s not rocket science and dating men isn’t the fail here, it’s dating bad men. Even your ‘no it’s not what it looks like’ just con…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:34 PM
8

I feel like you have some oopsie incel ideas mixed in here. Praytell, when is this ‘expiration date’ you speak of?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 09:08 AM
8

I think if you let them people will get their teeth into you and make you feel bad for having to rely on people (your less than perfect dad and your boyfriend) which tbh is kinda fucking normal? Not all of us have magical instant access to that bag or those lovely families that set you up for it. I just feel my hackles going up at the weird dynamic being set up here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 09:06 AM
12

I’m gonna need the weirdass high horsing to stop, real and imagined, from all comers. Nobody is morally superior for having had or not had a man in their 20’s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 09:01 AM
7

Yuuuuuuuuuuup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 09:17 AM
34

Get it over with and say ‘I don’t rate humans. There’s something wrong with you.’ And leave. Because it’s true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 09:14 AM
24

If a fuckboi has your number he better only text you for the pleasure of your time compensated by him in cash or dining experience Stopped reading at fuckboi
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 09:13 AM
8

This man put his body fluids in this woman and can’t handle that she has them. Throw him away. Like from humanity away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 09:11 AM
32

Yup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 07:00 AM
5

Yuuuuuuup. Someone nearly destroyed me when they did this. I trusted them with so much, slowly, for years, then they pulled some serious shit. I don’t know how to guard for that, OP, besides just leaving at the first whiff of naaah. Because there were small red flags, I guess I just didn’t notice the beachful. I still haven’t opened my heart back up and may not for a long time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 05:41 AM
7

As someone whose own bio father attacked her on multiple occasions out of the fucking blue (at least no incest?) Lemme just say FUUUUUCK THIS BITCH. Violence is a problem of violent men. Not bc someone got too horny. Goddamnit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 05:38 AM
17

You cannot know what someone wants to hide. You can know what they show you. If he doesn’t respect you-you, it doesn’t matter if he wants an Instagram model or PickMeisha down the street for the night—he is not for you. You don’t have to suss out who he actually wants, just if he actually wants you or not. Takes care of both problems. Some 🚩: —overly concerned with how you and he appear to others, at all—-whether you’re front page news on day 2 or a secret long time, both are bad for different r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 08:00 PM
20

Oof. Maybe make that the ‘final gate’? He seems like he was just withholding until he found your deepest trigger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 07:32 PM
2

Ewwwwwwwwwwwwww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 07:26 PM
75

I visited a grown man with, I later figured out, were cum stains. On his wall. His waaaaaaall. What. This man made $$$ and had at least one ex marriage. His bedroom wall. Ok but ???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 05:35 AM
24

DAMNNNN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 04:38 AM
28

🙏🏿🙏🏾🙏🏽🙏🏼🙏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:36 AM
77

^ I second this question. When I was 17 I dressed like I was 45 and conservative because of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:34 AM
16

^ this entire response to the letter ^
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:33 AM
6

You’ve completely lost anyone at that house. All you can do is protect your daughter now. The adults need a sit down conversation. Immediately. Just the adults. No overhearing. No kids. Go to a fucking park if you have to. This is not appropriate and I’m enraged because I spent my childhood both attacked and trying to cover to lessen it but it never did. Fuck that bitch. More importantly, you need to model appropriate action and boundaries for your daughter by making the problems go away and als…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:31 AM
1

Found it online, dunno what, if any book.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:28 AM
10

Ewwwwwwwww 💩 💩 💩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 10:14 PM
23

I read most of his diary a few years back. Besides the rich people ew, the worst part is where he OUTLINES how he is GASLIGHTING HER. His plan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 10:13 PM
3

Yup, nailed it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 10:11 PM
21

Having grown up with various people with addictions and mental illness, many hide things quite well. We also don’t care unless there’s money or love involved so it’s pretty easy for someone to be sick for a very long time. Why I didn’t then remember that principle works with violent assholes I have no idea. But I assure you that out there, people weirder than Nest Dude exist, it’s just that they may have difficulty hiding it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:18 PM
3

I definitely don’t have the kind of money to pay for lessons. I’ve already asked for work study but they’re staffed enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 01:48 PM
12

Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 08:10 AM
3

I have a complex dating history because of exactly what you describe. I always look like the wrong age group physically for whomst I seek.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 08:06 AM
6

I get called sweetheart and hun by any woman over 40 during the pandemic. I’m getting kind/creepy treatment from both men and women that I haven’t had since high school. Excuse me I am grown. I figured out with my mask on I look like way, way younger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 08:03 AM
5

Yup. It’s control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 08:00 AM
3

Wait can I get more info would enjoy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 08:00 AM
2

I lived this too. It’s real and it’s not an illusion. I’m sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 07:59 AM
8

Do you have any ELI 5 or links for this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 07:24 AM
3

Teenage me thought most teens were brainless. I wasn’t wrong. I’m glad you had some sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 07:08 AM
9

Mine wasn’t even smart enough to go for a plan like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 07:03 AM
20

Some guy added up everything he spent on me during the period of the relationship he apparently felt was subpar. We were having a rough spot. I stopped him in the middle and told him if he finished adding it, we weren’t just breaking up, we then couldn’t be friends either since this is not something friends do. He didn’t stop. What triggered this? I asked for a loan and he believed I couldn’t pay it back. So he gave me just some of the amount I asked for and also decided to tell me how much he h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 07:00 AM
78

I was very athletic as a kid and young adult. Every time I dropped below certain bodyfat I lost my period no matter what I was eating or doing. The percentage varies among women. I didn’t care, but my body said ‘we cannot make a baby at this capacity, no dice’ so I knew I’d hit a biological marker for my particular health. Still can’t find info on if it’s ok or terrible for you, because science doesn’t like researching specifically female bodies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 06:45 AM
41

I click off when I hear chicken and broccoli. Bro/sis—science doesn’t work that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 06:41 AM
19

Thank you for your insightful summary. It never ends. If you’re perfectly attractive with a glum face you get told to smile. These same dudes lose their shit when a picture of a celebrity doesn’t look perfect, as if they’ve been deceived all their lives about their imaginary celebrity girlfriend on IG. Let alone a live decent person on YouTube. It would horrify me a few years ago to know that many men were there just to criticize my body. But it doesn’t now that I know the bar is in hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 06:39 AM
11

They are being an unruly colt. Subjecting another human to your private sexual feelings is not just dangerous it’s incredibly immature. I am very tiny in size lol. Edit : I would like to work with horses, any ideas ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 06:31 AM
55

Women don’t understand how men are socialized. Women’s socialization is the opposite and societal organizational compliment to how men are socialized. Men don’t sacrifice themselves when they don’t want to. This is all men. The good, the bad, or the ugly. If there’s no gain, they will not do it. A man will die for you if he wants to. If he doesn’t want to he won’t even save himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 06:27 AM
29

If someone ‘should’ be an ally but instead they’re deliberately shanking you... They’re not your ally. Oh well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 06:22 AM
21

I use my mean dog voice and tell them from the bottom of my guts to stop staring. It’s the command in it. I used to be domme kinky and men will do anything for that voice. It’s why the poor bastards think dying in wars is heroic because another man used the ‘no, bad doggy’ voice on them. A significant percentage actually will mindlessly obey it just like they obeyed their dick to make a whole stranger uncomfortable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 01:34 AM
16

I wish I had learned this when I was still with my ex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 01:30 AM
31

I have a similar story. I couldn’t even have the presence of mind to say something. I remember being flabbergasted at how normal he seemed otherwise. Naive me thought he was mentally disturbed and that was that. Ten years on I know it’s not mental problems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 01:29 AM
5

My Capricorn energy says I’ll always accept money that has literally no obligation attached.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 05:11 PM
105

Oh he owes me more than this for just the mental pain of previously being in his presence. But yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:26 PM
8

How many years? At some point if you’re serious there has to be an integration. Don’t be like my ex, they lost me despite being ok in the dating department but I’m not going to date for 2.5+ years and be chopped liver priority to you still at that time. That’s not fair to me. A lot of parents seem to forget that their partner doesn’t want to just be sex and late night phone calls and loving affirmations any more than they would. If you’re gonna do life together you can’t always be outside it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:16 PM
28

Yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:10 PM
259

Working in mostly male environments pulled the wool off my eyes that most men (yes I said that) looking to marry are looking for a full time bangmaid and/or baby incubator. I’m just trying to find the ones that aren’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:09 PM
21

See my new post about ex fwb who definitely qualifies and is t r a s h.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:07 PM
44

If you look at any ‘how do I fuck women for cheap to free’ threads They always bitch about how they’re not 6 feet or 6 figures so how are they supposed to pull all the women even with the fancy manipulation techniques. They really do be barking up the wrong tree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:05 PM
29

You’ve just articulated exactly why I tell every man I don’t like cum in my mouth. The ones smart enough to not reject have been very happy with what my mouth can do without them trying to choke me. Have a nice day and know it’s an option.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:42 PM
-8

Peterson is a shithead and if you’re any other color than white he thinks you should ‘know your place’. So maybe he’ll work for you if you’re white.
/r/seduction21/03/21 03:38 PM
24

I laughed but yes. Even their salaries can’t tempt me to look.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 06:20 AM
20

You don’t run in wealthy enough circles. Have you not heard about blood cycling?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 06:17 AM
9

I unfortunately have never read a truer statement
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 06:16 AM
313

Visibility is super important. I don’t come from a ‘professional’ family and it’s hard to describe how weird it is to see a relatively normal looking person and ‘million dollar deals’ in the same picture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 05:35 AM
23

To be 21 and say ‘I’m boring sexually’. And then it’s this. No, my darling. You are abused. :(((((((
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 12:40 AM
13

Uh no that was a violation. I’d happily smack that man’s face with my bike lock. Be grateful in other countries it’s acid/s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 11:04 PM
4

Not probably, are. I can confirm the top searches are abusiveness, rape, and not legal consenting age followed closely by incest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 02:14 AM
1

Can you show me where the 10% stat is from? I’d heard higher but I’d like a solid source.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 02:11 AM
3

I literally just read an article about marine scientists trying to figure out why a population of seals they studied routinely r * pe and then k * ll the large penguins they share the islands with. It’s not mate confusion (the penguin are often k * lled/eaten afterwards) It’s not young sexually frustrated males (the incel theory lmao 😂) They just know it’s spreading. It’s learned social behavior my friends. Everyone knows men raping is a male problem but what male wants to stop his friends and b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 02:04 AM
18

What I’m about to say is not excusing the amount of violence against women in mainstream male culture. But tbh there’s a lot more kinks out there than ‘choke a hoe’... Including goddess worship and gentle femdom. There are literally men out there who would die to just lick you for 2 hours, it’s not their fault the patriarchy before them has made that a kink and not a standard menu option. I’ve dated all three we just didn’t have the same life goals or had other toxicity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 03:27 PM
48

This is the deep thinking I’m interested in because it’s true to dynamics I’ve observed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 03:23 PM
11

His dog is his gf. Sometimes it’s a car or a job or a kid, and they really don’t have that slot except in their pants. Hope that was the last date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 09:06 AM
9

YAAAAAAAY ! It’s what I got rn but it’s heartfelt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 09:05 AM
5

I mean this is cool but I still know nothing about Charlie,34. Besides that he knows how to karma.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 04:43 AM
5

You’re my friend as of this comment. DM me any time for a free ear or if you need an emergency $30.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:47 AM
94

This was my life at 12-15. Adult men yes but also boys. The school admin was no help. They told me it was my problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:43 AM
6

😂 😂 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:41 AM
9

I mean he can’t have this in a committed monogamous relationship. No woman worth their salt is gonna put up with a child who wants to be a flake, fuck whomst he wants, never have to step up, and belittle you into silence. “Haha I want u to service my dick as I abuse you cuz we’re being fun” I wouldn’t wish that on anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:39 AM
6

Yup. Also add ‘wont bitch about any stds he forgets to tell her he gave her’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:38 AM
8

If u take yourself seriously You’ll laugh at his bullshit Cannot have that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:37 AM
3

My chickenshit ex blamed my indelicacy about our actual fwb “relationship” on his fee fees One of the last things I said to him was ‘your dick can take calling this what it is but your heart can’t?’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:36 AM
9

U gon be secret sex under the table It’s not even gonna be fun sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:35 AM
3

Yuuuuup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:35 AM
2

He’s just mad no one is taking their beauty or fertility anywhere near him. As my ugly female friend says : ‘yeah I stopped believing that bullshit a long time ago because I couldn’t take the bait.’ She’s stable and happy, folks. With her ‘sad’ career and man who is a good fit. Hmmmm 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:05 AM
3

I loved this most. Gaslighting filet mignon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:04 AM
18

Like if the gay dudes aren’t hitting on you you aren’t fine enough to be talking about this my dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:02 AM
3

I’m still laughing about this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:02 AM
4

Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:01 AM
9

If you shoot down everyone you don’t have to admit you played yourself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:01 AM
23

Beauty and fertility are volatile. Money: still going since 3,000 BCE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:00 AM
10

😂 😂 😂 I would but only after removing his balls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 02:59 AM
1

A woman’s value is measured by how much $ € ¥ £ she has in the bank, and the number of real loving relationships in her life that don’t disappear or disappoint in the hard times. Not by what scrote says he’s gonna give her the world. Ain’t seen the world on a plate yet. If zillionaires cheat on the likes of Beyonce who the hell you think you kidding with Dude #3 because you’re young and beautiful?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 02:56 AM
37

It is. For like 80% of men. It has been and always will be business. I grew up with boys. It’s business. Your widdle heart doesn’t count for anything in the face of more wet dick or money for 80% of men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 02:51 AM
38

Because he doesn’t care. She asks him about opening their relationship (a common thing in six-figure liberal cities mind you) and he reacts like she’s been cheating on him with the milkman for 8 years. Now he’s gonna fuck over an 11 year old child he doesn’t care about for...reasons? All because his penis got a little insecure. She DIDNT EVEN DO ANYTHING. There’s no way any of this was healthy to begin with, at all. I don’t trust men to begin with and this is why. They can cheat for years multip…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 02:47 AM
13

Please notify when you publish. I’m curious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 02:42 AM
18

Well she did say he threatened her life and her family’s life and tbh... I believe it now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 02:32 AM
49

Tbh I wish we could not just hurt the lil fee fees but remove the lil pee pees. Then they can only rape and torture in their minds, or can’t say ‘muh penis made me do it’ when they land in jail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 02:05 AM
85

Wait this is terrorism. The user that posted the post you screenshotted was posting about a dude went on a killing spree in various businesses. This is not okay. He is inciting racial and gendered violence. Why hasn’t Reddit shut him down
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 02:03 AM
13

Yessss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 02:02 AM
14

You can be for sex workers without approving the things that forced them to do this. Don’t waste your time with religious (particularly monotheistic) women they are part of patriarchal culture which denigrates some and pedestals others while damning them all to abuse by men. Just do your thing and report any abuses you see. It’s better to get these kinds of places broken up by anti sex trafficking groups rather than the police proper bc the police only care about butts in jail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 09:43 PM
8

The police are a racist and misogynistic force recruiting largely the same. Does it make more sense now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 09:40 PM
2

I actually saw this said the same thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 09:39 PM
35

I’m sorry if any boy in my class had the audacity to say being unable to consent is consent. His ass would be doing an entire independent study on How Not To Become A Rapist, Part One
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 09:31 PM
6

Same but my DM scrote made 6 figures at 25 and wondered why women kept leaving lmao It’s you, bruh. All that money won’t save a LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 09:24 PM
18

I vacillate between wanting to marry for security reasons and always being able to leave for security reasons. I think they’re two different strategies, the only commonality is that the man’s word is not trusted in either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 09:07 AM
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Yeah like sometimes we don’t make a good distinction. I’d take a HV man going somewhere than a LV man thinks he’s arrived. Both flavors come in both socioeconomic levels and I can tell you that is a hard learned truth lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 09:02 AM
3

Orrrrr y’all could care about not doing violence to another human being. But that means the pp comes second. Can’t have that. I remember passing out from punch in a friend’s boyfriend’s HVbrother’s apartment. We were all just kids and someone got crazy with the vodka. Half of us were out. I remember my first thought was how utterly lucky I was that it was this guy’s house and not the place we were originally supposed to be. In another place that would have been intentional and some of us would h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 11:39 PM
3

Amen 🙏🙏🏻🙏🏼🙏🏽🙏🏾🙏🏿
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 11:34 PM
6

Oh hey it’s fair game. Can I use a food analogy? It looked nice on the plate but tastes bad and gave me food poisoning. Never ordering that again thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 11:29 PM
5

I hope it’s not from Jmoron Pedoson either. That man is a bad thinker and an even worse therapist. Berating your raped clients and then bragging about how you cool and smart you are unlike the dumb h o r e s you had to listen to That is a bad therapist and tbh a bad human Don’t get me started on where he thinks black people belong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 11:24 PM
27

Ironically this post is just dividing women into two categories all by itself. I get where you’re trying to go but ‘the wall’ is just the line where women generally have the life experience and anger to not put up with lame manipulative fake men anymore. It’s not the internet (also you’re gonna have to go older—try 40+ for that) and it’s not new. The whole point is that women are never irrelevant and never abuseworthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 11:18 PM
18

Yuuuuuuup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 11:12 PM
58

I have had my (bi) heart broken many times by male friendships angry and in tears that I just don’t want them back. Then they swan off and never contact me again. My dude. I said friendship. I explicitly said ‘this will not be romantic.’ Then it’s my fault. Do they need a fucking contract on paper ? It’s the feelings catchers fault for misrepresenting themselves originally which has basically been the case. I love my gay male friends bc I know we’re bot there because we have the same humor or bo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 11:12 PM
31

Unpopular opinion: If it’s not worth it with a condom why are you doing it in the first place, mf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 07:43 AM
53

Everyone I know has experienced stress around Either they want 2 forms bc they never ever want to be pregnant and the man balks at a condom (come on she’s already in hell with bc), they want to die and not have sex Bc hormonal birth control sucks. Or their dude leaves because they get on bc and gain weight or lose libido. Jesus christ put some plastic wrap on yer dick, bucko.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 07:42 AM
2

Like if you’re immediately turned off that we don’t have a big age gap.... Imma need to know why you want that age gap so badly. It was shockingly bad when guys thought I was 18 when I wasn’t. They were almost universally predatory.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 04:52 AM
1

So....never. I would be content with family if I had any.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 04:46 AM
2

This. Pickme friends and roommates have caused me so much pain re: awful men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 06:51 AM
3

No homo, that’s why
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 06:42 AM
12

I’ve seen plenty of men with mommy issues. This dude is 1000% daddy issues though. Like a lifetime subscription.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 06:42 AM
5

I had to scroll past and didn’t click. It vibrates out of the photo. Run away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 06:40 AM
7

Yesssssss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 06:39 AM
3

I...what
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 06:39 AM
19

Because when you can’t even comprehend a woman being human you make up all kinds of reasons for stuff
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 05:49 AM
19

It makes me sad to know I have like 10 years of shit to somehow overcome before I can be in a relationship. I don’t even know what to do with that information given the shitty state of the rest of my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 05:41 AM
8

Yuuuuuup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 05:39 AM
19

Imagine wasting your precious time in life telling someone who doesn’t care nasty things
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 02:27 AM
30

“SHe’S nOt pReTtY eNoUgH tO bE AsSaULtEd”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 02:26 AM
15

Until they find out I’m 8 years older than they think I am—I’m their age. Until they find out I canceled my ex for jealousy games. Until they find out I have 2 ex guy friends who are ex friends bc one assaults girls and the other is shit to his wife. Until....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 02:25 AM
1

Yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 08:06 PM
3

Yessssssss flip it where it belongs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 10:14 PM
12

Yessss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 10:14 PM
17

Well that’s why we’re the confused irrational sex, right? 🤣 not listening to men explain how we’re crazy and they need to let their pp steam off with us even though they hated us 5 seconds ago. How can we not see the logic?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 10:09 PM
58

Margaret Atwood quote is still best: ‘Men are afraid women will laugh at them. Women are afraid men will k*ll them.’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 10:05 PM
59

I felt double betrayed finding out people who hurt me or others have been let off the hook multiple times over the years by ‘good’ men around them not saying ‘change or get out’ to their friends. You knew, you said ‘thats a disposable female problem’ and you aren’t worth any trust now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 10:03 PM
14

I’ve gotten those messages too. They found me through cptsd and therapy subreddits. ^ the important part is they are predators and gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:28 PM
43

Motion for PickMeNique to be an official term for a red-herring-er who hates women and human rights in general. She’s out here defending a subset of male humans slobbering about their right to rape. No, PickMeNique, no. That is bad. You are sick. No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:26 PM
2

“Many of their views come across as mean-spirited” Excuse you WHAT? Is it ‘don’t date lying men’? Is it ‘respect yourself and leave if he doesn’t respect you’? Is it ‘if his idea of forever is netflix and chill, dump him’? Is it ‘we were culturally brainwashed to accept popping out kids for someone who hates us and will cheat so don’t do that sis?’ Is it ‘hey here’s a list of red flags for cheaters, for rapists, for violence” FDS is saving lives. Literally. “Mean-spirited”. Is “men who try to us…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 10:58 PM
1

Amen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 03:21 AM
2

Oh I’ve served men like your father. They suck. I hope his wife got a better deal but I imagine that attitude goes all the way through. It’s helped me sort so many men, having seen the range of how they treat service when you are service secretly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 06:22 PM
5

My other point was men are labeled a traitor to their gender if they admit they were raped. They don’t come forward not because no one believes them but because they’ll be laughed at by their friends not just their enemies. And then those fuckers have the audacity to use the pain of people of their own gender to mess with women. Toxic masculinity hurts literally everyone it touches.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 06:20 PM
4

What does ‘break big notes’ mean? Edit: got it, but why is it relevant? Splitting checks?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 07:35 AM
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Yeah, like I genuinely want to find this woman and be there for her and then ruin his vehicle and present her dear john letter to him myself so I can see his face. I don’t even know her but I know she doesn’t deserve something like that said to her face. I hope his pp shrivels up and falls off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 07:32 AM
28

Yuuuuuuuuuuuuuup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 07:31 AM
31

EX FIANCÉ
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 07:30 AM
3

🤣 🤣 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 12:50 AM
54

The thing that made all the ‘but men get raped too’ baffling complaints simple. When do you march against men and boys getting raped? Why are you interrupting this women’s march? The disgusting gross audacity. No wonder men can’t come forward either, men are against men when they can hurt them. I don’t know what to do with an entire species of predators but the emerging picture needs some serious help or we’re all gonna continue to have a bad time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 12:48 AM
23

They telling on themselves every year they search it on Womens Day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 12:46 AM
5

AHAHAHA Thank you for confirming my suspicions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 12:46 AM
8

To be honest I would tell someone to remain single forever than swallow red flags. Red flags are red flags for a reason. They’re red. They say danger. Why have a shit relationship just to have a relationship, all else being equal?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 12:42 AM
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sex makes it so much harder to leave men bc hormones How the FUCK did you take this^ and turn it into ‘ergo women can’t pairbond if they have previously had sex’ Women don’t have more trouble pair bonding if they’ve had previous partners. They have trouble uncoupling if their brains are full of yay sex hormones. Not even remotely the same thing or even correlated things. You just wanted your incel theory validated and hoped skimming people were stupid. This is not a place for false logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 12:37 AM
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It isn’t, though. I hear ‘have you tried CoMmUnICaTiNg’ all the time! on r/dating, r/sex, r/relationships and the subs you also mentioned. Maybe it’s just the new car effect for you. Also maybe I take my dating advice from strangers on the internet with a grain of salt given we all have vastly different lives and histories. Also, you’re upset people might not be giving you a fair shake...but do you give everyone a fair shake yourself? Do they think you’ve given them the chance they deserve? It’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 12:34 AM
8

Whenever I’ve seen something sus it’s always a feeling not a checklist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 01:30 AM
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Not sure why you want to know. But. She says she doesn’t know him, (garbled, possibly mentions the attack), she’s really scared, she was just going to school, thank you, thank you so much. Tbh the particular baby reflex cling hands on a random safe stranger’s clothing says more to me. That’s unconscious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 01:26 AM
28

Yup. Mine started joking about selling me off to be married when I was 12. She wasn’t joking emotionally. It just wasn’t legal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 12:53 AM
5

We talk a lot in this society about how important good mothering is. Then we laugh at girls with parental issues, we let boys run around being awful unchecked, we don’t care that kids are going down bad paths because ‘that’s not my business’. It’s the whole damn village’s responsibility when it comes to a child. I know of no healthy adult of any persuasion, class, or ethnicity who says ‘yeah, only my mom was there for me, every other adult shat on me or wasn’t looking out for me’. If you see som…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 12:52 AM
1

Ew, gross. I’d believe it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 12:45 AM
8

Ran into my lvex today since he ghosted me in the middle of a promise a month ago. Ngl I was feeling pretty rageful but reframing is good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 04:53 AM
19

This one needs lots and lots of awards
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 04:50 AM
9

Help meeeeeee 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 04:40 AM
15

It’s just one more, particularly ugly, form of pickme
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 04:37 AM
30

You described half of the women of my family, only they lied and manipulated so they could get in their own fucking house some of the time. I hate the tv shows like ‘modern couple Bettie and Harold love the 50s so much they live like it’s then’ Show me the episode where she can’t get an abortion. Show me the episode where she needs to take out a loan to help with her sister’s illness but he says no. Show me the episode where he rapes her when she doesn’t want sex. And absolutely nothing can be d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 04:36 AM
18

I think this is the first time I can be proud my backwards ass country did something before another developed nation. 1994 spousal rape became a concept and punishable. Woof.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 04:31 AM
1

I can’t understand my full value until I receive the same wage for the same work as someone of the other gender I can be around someone of the other gender without fearing rape from someone who wouldn’t take my wallet I’m not about to pretend our worlds are even close. So yeah, there’s gonna be gender strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 01:39 AM
14

I repeatedly had this conversation with my NVex. Men either care about you or don’t. If they wanna be black and white about it then I get to say it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 01:36 AM
16

Friend here chimeth in: “My mom told me last year my biodad forced half a piece of wedding cake down her throat and it messed up her lipstick in front of everyone and she nearly choked. I would prefer not to think about the implications.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 07:15 AM
16

The guy that forced a kiss on me after I said no was later confirmed to have raped 4 other young women. So, like....yes. It’s a big neon sign.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 07:12 AM
6

I tried ....I couldn’t. Ick ick ick ick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 07:09 AM
1

Hahaha, ‘if you really want 🍆💦 then you need to make an effort at least. come on man just try.’ That is so sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 01:15 AM
6

The non-monogamous but only on your end thing would ordinarily be a self cuckhold fetish. But with allllll the other flags, it’s much more likely it’s that he has an IRL wife or gf and you are the side piece free to get down with others so that when you find out he lied to you he can say there’s no reason you can be mad. There’s no logic, just run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 04:42 PM
2

As someone who has had 2 ex roommates like this, chef’s kiss. You’re doing amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 04:39 PM
2

😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 04:36 PM
12

I looked into Tinder once out of curiosity. I have never been tempted to look into Bumble. ^ The above is why
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 04:35 PM
4

Yuuuup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 04:33 PM
15

But then you get to how they talk about bisexual women, and you realize it’s always just about hating women. Doesn’t matter if they’re dating her—she has the possibility to cheat on them, won’t let the man f * ck another random woman in a freesome, might leave them for a woman, is she really attracted to me even though we’re in bed.... Literally anything threatens the ego. Bisexual women are Schrodinger’s lesbian for straight men. And that means she’s an enemy. Of their d * cks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 04:28 PM
3

🥇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 04:24 PM
18

I have also noticed this and it’s incredibly disturbing. Bisexual women are the uber threat to certain unhealthy men because while they could date men many choose to date women. How unfair of them to remove themselves from the fantasy pool. They chose that way to spite men! Lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 04:23 PM
20

I send the Reddit mental health care team to them when ‘reporting’ is “down”. Because if you’re threatening to rpe and kll an internet stranger for posting that they want a man who loves them—you need help. I’ve gotten one furious response I will cherish forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 04:19 PM
9

I’m just super amused that they spend enough time hating this sub that they have theories. That’s commitment. If only they would commit to health and respect. I get harassed a lot by randos from my professional sub , I report all the slurs and r*pe threats but so far Reddit has banned no repeat offenders. I plan to stay even after I’m in a great relationship. This place needs to exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 04:16 PM
23

Yesssssss. Women in so many traditional societies were (some still are) bound to the literal home. Some by threat of actual or community violence (shunning, ostracism, beating, refusing help)....some by threat of sexual violence (must have male escort outside, must only go out for necessary practical or religious function, any deviation punished or left to r*pe)... Public morality, religious laws, sexual codes....so many of them did and do depend on keeping women inside and effectively silent. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 04:09 PM
25

Do you get the history of the world? History is written by whomever can literally eliminate the others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 04:04 PM
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Same! I was like...on Reddit there exists torture porn, PuAs, people getting how-to adultery adivce, rape apologists, Holocaust deniers, lynchers, pedophilists.... I gotta see what counts as ‘more toxic’. Yup. A sub about how to avoid toxic men. Very toxic. I
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 04:01 PM
13

I found the sub this way. “Incellism is about how men hate themselves so much they’re convinced women are in a conspiracy to never touch their pp when obviously they deserve that for existence....I have to find out what woman thinks this about themselves.” Surprise! It was a sub about women being sick of cultural misogyny and looking for healthy men who may be out there and how to spot them. Spoiler: not surprised
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 03:57 PM
7

Oh I could, I no longer have one. I’d be happy to stick up for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 09:04 AM
41

Times a thousand
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 09:02 AM
195

You mean sick of being a slave. You’re definitely an adult. I’m so sorry they were so gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 09:00 AM
1

Yup. Same from restaurant. Guy in his 40s can be healthier than a guy in his 20s, depends on what they do on their me time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 01:31 AM
7

People that judge you for walking away from trauma bonding are fucked up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 01:29 AM
4

Yeah this was ok in that he says ‘your relationship gonna be work, you want an awesome gf, get over it’ Very concerned about the overall message of ‘you paid Rolls prices for a hooptie and now you’re tired’ message. LVM vs HVM are based on behaviors and traits; this nonsense is about car parts and people parts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 10:10 AM
2

I have been asking myself this question. I am curious if this is what all the nonsense is intended to cover and if it’s like what I had to come to terms with when I realized our society is literally built on grinding the bottom 15% to death.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 07:55 AM
2

Oooh, this was concise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 07:26 AM
9

S t o n k p o w e r Actual market aside the indignation makes me giggly happy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 07:25 AM
4

You just got negged. ‘Wait so I sprint up mountains in my spare time and you just said you’re too lazy? And I’m supposed to feel bad?’ You’re right, you don’t need him to keep up with you, with that attitude he’s not keeping up with anything. No, sis. That was toxic abusive shit and I would have shut it down if someone said that to my groupmate. Those men are lame too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 07:20 AM
6

have trouble being their own zookeeper 1000% this. It’s because they’re not expected to as a matter of growing up. ‘Wow look you didn’t do laundry now you have no clean clothes.’ ‘You didn’t go to the store so obviously you need to do that or you won’t eat dinner’ ‘If you drink too much you will feel and look awful.’ ‘How is MAN PERSON feeling and progressing today ? Why are they that way? What can change?’ I feel like the world would be so much better if they weren’t failed as children by paren…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 07:17 AM
9

I actually told my LVM ex that the reason things keep not working is he will do anything on earth including destroying whole relationships and his bank account to avoid feeling his feelings. I don’t think there’s hope for him I’m not the first ex to tell him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 07:13 AM
1

I know a guy with a wife, three daughters and a nice I just stopped reading. Bc this is exactly the kinda dude who has 50% chance of being a decent dude and 50% being a scrote who landed there because of where he started out So don’t be surprised if he is in secret debt or cheats on his wife with the babysitter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 07:11 AM
5

I’ve babysat and cleaned for those people. Sometimes the family truely is Disney. More often, the skeletons in the closet are just better hidden with the use of all that money and privilege.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 07:09 AM
3

🤏 🤏 🤏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 07:07 AM
2

Ok but why were the kids expelled? Where are they? Is this some Alabama nonsense?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 07:05 AM
8

I mean imagine if you said ‘molecular biology or bust’ and 50% of the population said to lower your career goals. That’s what’s happening with men. It’s not their problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:58 AM
9

I move we start using letters, as in beef grades. If they’re going to use a number to encompass an entire woman what the hell are they mad about 1 measly attribute they may or may not have?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:51 AM
8

I actually notice hands first. Must be dexterous, clean, unclammy, no weird nail business. You can be mr. toughguy or mr. mettro with the nails but they need to be clean, smooth, and short. Anyway. If men can be weird so can I. I love shoulders.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:48 AM
13

Oh! No! No one should be allowed to use your weapons against you! How unfair!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:43 AM
9

Tombstone will read ‘was not issued bangmaid; died of grief’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:27 AM
3

I came from that horrorshow. It is as you describe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:25 AM
13

The last 10,000 years or so. Men have used rape as a legal weapon of war to basically show how powerful and number one they are so I imagine it’s all kinda fuzzy in the popular male consciousness for millenia. I do wonder if any of them can connect sex and love, deep down. Like even HVM. I am wondering how deep this rabbit hole goes. Am I demanding respect but will never get love, and getting his dick wet is the end goal, period ? So it’s up to me to essentially set the price for that and call i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:23 AM
2

Did he think you were gonna find him kissing his screen when he’s never kissed you....sexy? What is the logic?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:15 AM
2

I’m gonna start using this phrase thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:08 AM
11

People can get in any windows you leave open or unlocked. Happened to a relative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:07 AM
10

Oh I can tell you it’s definitely saved your life, even if your examples are vague. It’s explicitly saved mine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:04 AM
21

Unfortunately yes. It gave me a clue which would later help me make the decision to only ever see female gynos unless I was actively dying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 06:22 AM
46

I HAVE UNLOCKED THE VAGINAL SECRETS. Seriously the only play here is humor because homicide is the other option. I know what I’m talking about. I’ve known 3 men in adulthood who have spoken this way. All of them were confirmed rapists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 06:20 AM
54

This woman. Who just had. An abortion. Who is physically, emotionally, sexually vulnerable (plus god knows what else) is I guarantee In the least hitting -on -little-old-you moment of her existence
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 06:18 AM
8

🤢 🤢 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 06:16 AM
48

We each have to find our own special HVM, for they deserve a full life with us as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 03:33 AM
41

Rebirthday!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 07:58 PM
69

I had a bad couple months when I started realizing I’ve seen it everywhere and just not known water is wet. Very grateful to know it wasn’t my fault for existence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 07:58 PM
22

Yup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 07:57 PM
83

I like when we build each other up, rather than the weird ‘ok sis but I never made that mistake’ going around lately. Our purpose is to ensure we have better lives without LVM drama, for ourselves and other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 07:57 PM
52

I kind of feel like it is. Can’t put my finger on it. Doesn’t matter I’ve seen a lot of real-this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 11:41 PM
36

Yup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 11:40 PM
57

Mine just threw me to the wolves and pretended they didn’t raise me like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 11:40 PM
22

Aaaaaand this is what that kind of upbringing does. When you are raised without autonomy over your body, having a less than stellar home life is a recipe for this. “I might marry him” “This makes me so uncomfortable” It’s been beaten into her head so long that this is some event that changes her, that she’s ignoring her own body practically running away in text. I mean I would believe if this was a scrote fantasy too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 11:37 PM
24

Having Seen Some S**t in my experience with others, yes this can be a coping mechanism. It could also be a coping mechanism to make money off said asshole dudes using both her trauma and their now-pavlovian response to uwu pedo voice. The dudes however are not gonna care either way and I think a lot of people know this. In the end everyone loses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 11:15 PM
-1

You’re gonna get banned and branded like me for talking like this. You’re someone who has systems thinking and an understanding of causal chains in human behaviors. So, good job there, but. If you want to stay on the nice list here you need to parrot that if we just shut prostitutes down they’ll leave our good honest minimum wage neighborhoods in peace. This sub is becoming like a weird feverdream in some of its nastier and more opinionated folks. I have no idea why prostitutes are so threatenin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 04:56 PM
4

My point was mainly that people are arguing whether or not she’s had work done when the whole point of that backbiting is also to see if women deserve looking however they look. If you had zillions of course your lifestyle would be a bit different. It’s the zillions version of a Mercedes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 01:08 AM
1

🎶It’s abortion time 🎶 Before or after the divorce is up to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 01:07 AM
11

YOuR pArEnTs aRe tOgEThEr yOu dOn’T hAvE pRoBLeMs Other than watching the two most important people to a developing brain torture each other.... Be triangulated. Always. About every situation from trauma to graduations that should be about the kid. But it isn’t anymore. Hiding a parent hurt you bc they’ve JUST stopped fighting with each other. Having one of them leave for days at a time to threaten the other. Having to eat in front of the parent that the cooking spouse didn’t serve. Having the p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 01:04 AM
43

ten or fifteen years older than they originally thought THIS. I’ve seen the flip many times—men older and younger than myself. It really has nothing to do with you, your looks, your apparent age, your accomplishments It’s that they know if you’re not 19 you will laugh at their nonsense and are more likely to leave than let them abuse you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 07:05 PM
13

I think it’s different message with this person. She was never a bimbo-of-the-week contract, that was never her claim to fame—in fact a lot of men hated her for starting off in the Alien franchise. A lot of men had their eyes opened by it. She’s been humanitarianly active forever and literally always has really articulate good things to say, from when she was young up through now. I think this particular celebrity has a message more of ‘I was worthwhile then and I am worthwhile now.’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 07:00 PM
5

🎬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 06:19 PM
19

One of mine struggled with their weight. I never brought it up, was supportive and helpful of any diet or exercise plan, and constantly reaffirmed them when they wanted validation they looked better. I was slender. Then a bunch of stress happened and I gained a few pounds. He started making comments. He squished my middle as if measuring it. I started not seeing him. Edit: I loved him at the size and shape I found him in (or loved the lovebombing lol) and his weight/shape was entirely his questi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 06:17 PM
16

If men don’t want to date « xyz » women, why do they date them ? It’s simple. They want to treat you like garbage and also keep you chained to them thinking nobody could ever love you for real because you’re « xyz ».
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 06:14 PM
40

Yup. Scrote : ´ur a whale and now ur my whale, forever’ un-ironic evil cackling They’re really like that, abusive people. They’ll use literally anything, but seem to try to pick something with societal reinforcement so it’s harder to tell them for the unreasonable fucks they are. I’ve seen age, ethnicity, economic status, financial mistakes, addictions, oh pretty much anything used this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 06:12 PM
3

Please accept me into your Royal service.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 06:08 PM
37

I’d be more willing to believe I misinterpreted your comment if you weren’t still complaining her video is ´too ratchet’.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 08:27 AM
124

God forbid anyone ever admit something stupid they did. I know I never have done anything stupid and if I did I certainly wouldn’t let it get out so others think I’m perfect /s Every time a lame male has approached me in the past I have smote him down without ruining my $300 manicure and said ‘begone foul scrote I must away to my Mercedes! I have some world diplomacy to get to. I am 16 and in the United Nations for my valuable life perspective !’ /////s We can recognize this situation as unideal…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 06:37 AM
35

Maybe she has stopped and this is how she deals with the trauma and warns others? I’m kinda amused at all the ladies on here going pssssshhht I’ve never been that stupid. It’s not like she’s defending these men or her own behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 06:35 AM
1

I added that bisexuals exist because you mentioned women which had previously dated men as unreliable indication of whether they’d be into women. Then you elaborated that these women had only done so for compulsory heterosexuality reasons. So then I assumed your target demographic was lesbian-only women. You’re making this kinda weird, in terms of implying I’m saying anything untoward. Why don’t we both assume good intent? I’m glad you’re not one of those lesbians that hate bisexuals, I just wan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 03:58 AM
4

No, on his electronic device that should not be on a table with dangerous liquids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 03:55 AM
2

Every day we stray further from Goddess. I both like and hate that the charity name is just the statement of blatant fact. ‘we cannot consent to this’. I had a man full on kiss me in private once, after I had earlier once agreed he was attractive but I had zero interest in doing so. They know what they do sometimes. They just know there will be no repercussion. It’s just the ultimate form of ‘pls do my laundry I too dumb’. Only it’s murder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 03:54 AM
9

Because they’re told from infancy that ‘girls are like this, women are like this’. Add that to ‘they’re just live sex dolls’ and I wouldn’t be surprised to have a murder defense in 2021 consisting of ‘I thought that’s what we both wanted’. Because there’s no theory of mind. He may have a dick and a beard but his brain in charge of that huge body is literally 3 years old.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 12:59 AM
13

😂 😂 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 12:35 AM
17

Um. I don’t know where to start. But I would have been tempted to spill my drink.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 12:33 AM
32

Ooooh you nailed it though. ‘Guys I gotta table this might get pp wet’ was too hard for him. Deserved zero goodbye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 12:32 AM
4

😂 😂 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 12:31 AM
3

Not a vibe!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 12:31 AM
10

’Anyone that doesn’t worship/obey them is attacking them’ YES
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 11:44 PM
7

Classic projection. The logic: Oh no, I am not finding what I want. Ergo I might die alone. Curse you for not being what I want and evoking my fears and therefore u should go die in a fire Classic, classic scapegoating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 11:43 PM
4

But the underbelly pastime of society is judging women’s life choices regardless of what they are. Don’t have kids? Have too many? Are you single? Did you marry too early, or too many times or for reasons I don’t like? Are you too educated ? Are you too uneducated ? Why do you have emotions? Why won’t you smile at me? Society is exhaustively bullying. Anyone who makes a decision because she truely wants it and it’s not something or someone bullying her into it has my ok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 11:33 PM
1

Got it, thanks. Imagine outing themselves like that lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 11:26 PM
3

I agree with you on the last sentence for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 11:25 PM
3

I laughed too hard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 08:59 AM
12

WhErE are my techbro-in-denial ‘makers’? ‘I’ve decided to give back to the land by creating artisanal rowboats, of course it would be nice to go full primal and quit my 100k job but I’ll settle for telling you I’ve exited the rat race. Come sleep in a mosquito filled tent with me bc I don’t understand bugs but hope nobody notices.’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 08:57 AM
12

The ones that ski in Vail with daddy’s money or the ones in weekly motels on withdrawal shakes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 08:51 AM
4

As a non-Aussi (?) I understood virtually none of this but the scrote vibe. Would love to know what a nando is and the last idiom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 08:50 AM
3

But plus so much more molly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 08:48 AM
2

This sounds extremely similar to my Brazillian friend ranting about dudes in Rio.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 08:48 AM
9

Can second this. He’d never explicitly use the words ‘yoni chakra’ but he’s deffo hoping he can touch it as you cuddle under the fairy lights while listening to a philosophy supercut on his MacBook with lame background music. I’m sorry I can think of three ex acquaintances right now. They were all genuinely terrible human beings, so far up their own butts they thought the story of themselves would sustain the girls they were all shattering. Thank god none of them were me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 08:45 AM
7

Yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 08:40 AM
3

Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 08:36 AM
6

Immaculate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 08:33 AM
22

Also going to add: bisexuals exist. So don’t assume someone is lying just bc they have dated men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 08:24 AM
4

I’m howling. ‘Tell me I’m being an inappropriate child without telling me I’m being an inappropriate child’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 08:15 AM
9

Yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:50 AM
21

Yup it happens with dads-daughters too and it’s called enmeshment and emotional incest. Really, really fucks up the kid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:50 AM
24

He has his biggest cigar for the occasion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:49 AM
20

Ladies if your man is afraid of trousers. That’s not a man. That’s a cat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:48 AM
21

What I find fascinating is how much of this is about. Men having to do chores Women being into each other It’s like they’re afraid we won’t be a captive audience anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:42 AM
13

Speaking of Dita, all these women came forward accusing her ex husband (Manson) of assaulting and torturing them, with audio and visual proof. She actually released a statement saying ‘he never abused me so idk what to say to y’all’. Never thought I’d say it but Dita the pickme. Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:36 AM
8

Yuuuuuup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:31 AM
3

Cutting your hair weeds out all the losers just there for the armcandy. 10/10 would recommend. I’ve had everything from hip length to almost buzzed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:30 AM
10

I like that you pointed this out. I dislike that it’s so good/bad it’s gonna live in my head for a while.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:23 AM
11

Where do you live that teen girls don’t have body hair, periods, or cellulite? LA? Westworld? Enterprise’s Holodeck?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:22 AM
16

I just want him to not look like he makes a ton of money but like, makes a ton of money ok? ✅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:21 AM
13

Nailed it 💫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:20 AM
24

And then keep fucking the porn star. Because the wife is to make their progeny and appease their mother, since 2000 BCE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:19 AM
17

I’ve seen this in action and it’s jawdropping. It’s not so much they reduce you, they can’t make the decision in the first place because all the blood has rushed to the little brain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:17 AM
15

The treatment all round is shit, but the difference is sometimes there’s loose change in the shit if you’re pretty. Still have equal to greater chances of violence and death lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:16 AM
24

I call them butt lips. The IG ones. Beestung is 1920s lingo for small and pouty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:09 AM
34

I blew a male friend’s mind a few years ago on Instagram: ‘She has bad lip filler for sure’ ‘Foundation, concealer, good primer, mascara, probably lashes’ ‘Yeah that’s badly shopped’ ‘No human spine works that way IRL’ They can’t tell. It’s not even in their brains. They just know it makes pp happy so I don’t know why they’re upset.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:07 AM
12

😂 😂 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:04 AM
29

I mean tbf he said NOTHING regarding plastic surgery so she’s safe there. Plastic is the ultimate no-makeup makeup. Lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:04 AM
62

My LVM even went so far as to watch me apply no-makeup makeup almost a whole year in and go ‘I thought you didn’t wear makeup’. ....Is...is this the part where I pretend I’m flattered or pretend he’s not stupid? Both look bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:03 AM
30

GOLD EYELIDS Do you know Our Lady of Salt, Sailor J? She cracked the code for me about makeup, it’s a pity she’s vanished online.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:01 AM
1

Answer: yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 10:28 PM
37

That’s when you say ‘How old are you? I want myself a man, not a 12 year old boy. You can’t clean obviously you can’t be my partner.’ How do you think they managed before, ladies? Either they did it themselves adequately (faking) or they are so beyond help you have no business there anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 04:32 PM
46

bUt wOmEn DiDn’T gEt dIvOrCed sO oBvIoUsLy tHeY hAd gOoD mArRiAgEs FuLl oF rEaL LoVe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 04:30 PM
17

The creepy part is it’s been so pervasive in your experience you can feel when to start withdrawing or suffer the consequences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 04:22 PM
3

Oh no :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 04:18 PM
5

Bad people get mad when you do something that makes them feel guilty, just by living life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 04:17 PM
26

You just described my own self imposed escape attempt. Futile bc pedos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 10:21 AM
2

Society doesn’t love me because I just view them as an encumbrance to my pp. 🤏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 10:14 AM
8

They could literally measure it. It had immediate and longterm effects.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 10:13 AM
35

Keanu has somehow transcended the programming. The One indeed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 09:46 AM
3

Men are mad women won’t laugh at their jokes. Men are afraid women might laugh at them. Ergo women clearly must not be allowed to define what is funny for themselves. Classic prison/gang/slavery rules.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 09:35 AM
5

Oooh because accidental murder is fun, kids Bullet dodged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 09:33 AM
15

It feels so good and in the cases mentioned is justifiable. But there’s a difference between justifiable and useful. Unfortunately it’s necessary socially to effect the useful by not going for the jugular. Or you know, only be friends and coworkers with completely straight shooters. A dream but hey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 09:30 AM
37

MMMMM WANNA FIGHT HUH Is a whole mood. You can tell after a while living when people want to get something done in a situation and when they just want to piss on you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 09:28 AM
2

💜 💜 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 09:21 AM
1

This is a good answer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 09:20 AM
36

He’s not gonna leave her he’s just banging someone on the side and wants to divert attention. Seriously no actually aggrieved dude would post this it makes him look easily triggered and emasculated in a culture which would require him to hide that in the first place. I call bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 09:13 AM
64

My a r e o l a s are huge, bro. Like so h u g e. I like the idiots that think nipple size is related to literally anything including breakfast diet. 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 09:04 AM
64

Scrote skin is s t r e t c h e d 🥜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 09:02 AM
45

I have been this salesclerk. It’s so fucking obvious and usually I ask the creep to leave and if I see it again I’ll call the cops.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 09:00 AM
50

I had a skirtless period. Didn’t notice until adulthood that I wore zero skirts from 11-15. But I was a smart kid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 08:57 AM
20

Uh the only thing wrong with it is there isn’t a single upside for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 08:56 AM
29

Why do they always mention aureolas though?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 08:55 AM
95

Oh my. I’m not saying all desi men but...there’s a reason a gay desi boy has so much material about men treating their women like trash just from living life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 08:44 AM
38

☠️ ☠️ ☠️ Deadly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 08:42 AM
17

“I don’t remember that” You don’t have to, or the 60 other horrible things you did/said. Either I’m lying and we dispense with the relationship, or you think you can do whatever you want, so we dispense with the relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 08:41 AM
25

Because you didn’t want to believe someone could be such an awful person and that intimate a part of your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 08:39 AM
21

How about #toomanymen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 08:32 AM
17

Oof ptsd I’m sorry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 08:32 AM
19

Can you go back in time and send this to # 2014 me?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 08:31 AM
68

I learned from watching a hs friend’s NVM father’s behavior with both his daughter and new gf that the only way they will treat you humanely is to stay just an inch out of mutuality, for your entire life. What a way to live any close relationship. Fuck that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 08:14 AM
20

I had a man I was dating do this only he had offered 70-30 split, his end. Turns out he didn’t mean it. I lost money and part of my heart. Drop them after the first time they fairytale you about anything. Shortly after that the man I was going on perfectly fine opening dates with wanted to visit another country in 6 months. He made it clear we’d have to be sleeping together if I wanted to go. Never sleeping with you now, jerkface.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 04:26 AM
52

No, I’m a conventionally attractive woman and ... it’s a societal thing. I get told the flipside— that something ‘must be wrong with me’ because I look like I do and I’m single. It’s just society putting their nose where it doesn’t belong. Whatever you look like, your happiness is the important part not this bullshit floating around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 09:58 PM
11

Seconded
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 08:00 PM
91

You can be a man at any height. You can also be a crybaby at any height. I know which one is attractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 07:58 PM
27

I saved this to my phone to cackle at.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 07:57 PM
7

Me biodad once said the gay dudes in his city would hit on him (he is not interested). “Oh, so you know how being cornered and starring in a verbal fantasy when you’re definitely not down and just trying to pee feels, huh?” He still doesn’t get the connection. Too brainwashed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 07:40 PM
3

Somebody can’t disguise his jealousy any better. This is exactly like jr high catty girl bathroom shit. ‘Omg ur dating the cute boy? He’s trash, leave him’ (I want him for myself) Wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 07:24 PM
12

Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 04:00 AM
7

People joke about ‘no Irish allowed’ but the only reason they caught a break was the Civil War and white middle class Americans could then direct their hatred and classism at the black people just trying to set up in the North. Round and round.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 02:34 AM
9

Add to this that men get in fights over like...a lot of nondeadly stuff. Maybe they think they’re ‘settling’ something. If a man physically attacks me, it will be at best to thoroughly beat me up, and more likely far worse. At this point I cannot assume the intent isn’t deadly, and should be within my rights to use deadly force. Attacking someone who cannot possibly equally fight back proves ill intent. There would be no reason to attack them in the first place. The weaker party is fighting inju…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 02:27 AM
120

Are these ‘younger women’ 18-23....dare I ask?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 12:28 AM
28

Also take ‘he has to stop because his back hurts’. Because he didn’t take care of himself not because he had some catastrophic injury or something. Lame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 12:27 AM
17

They really do be like that. I was the hot young one. I turned down so many people and finally cracked with one because of other factors. Everything said so far in this thread is accurate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 12:26 AM
13

🏅 🎖 🥇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 10:05 PM
6

Yuuuuuuup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 10:05 PM
29

Also this reads like she’s his dog.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 02:24 AM
15

What, and I cannot stress this enough, the fuck. EWWWWWWWWW
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 02:21 AM
14

See my comments about ‘men are transactional, time to wake up’ I’m sorry for your SIL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 02:20 AM
21

I keep saying men are transactional and people keep getting upset about it. Yet the above is obviously transactional. They’re just picking the goods that work for them, this versus that, one situation vs another. The picked is the rejected in another transaction. It’s all relative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 02:18 AM
3

I can tell all the ups and downs of my almost-ex’s current relationship. He tried teasing me for years, finally got a gf (let’s be honest I met her and she’s...definitely using him for certain advantages which I also enjoy about this dynamic) and our friendship was, surprisingly, not real. (/s) Whether he’s all ears, ghosts for a month, sends a subtly sexual meme I decline to view or discuss... I haven’t blocked him because I find it so amusing. If he ever breaks up and comes out and says someth…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 02:12 AM
10

Oooh, that Signo. Let’s be friends. Your art gear is top notch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 02:09 AM
18

Because they literally don’t understand that men aren’t like ‘cute outfit, girl, you do you being so hot, get ittt’ Without their peepee involved. I’m bi and if I did this to a girlfriend I’d deserve it. You like your relationship you don’t have time to be out there liking thirst traps on your free time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 02:07 AM
20

I’m hoping it’s a 3 part: The thoughtful gift His reaction Divorce papers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 02:05 AM
6

Yuuuuup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 02:02 AM
9

That room looks fun to be in. Have a great day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 02:00 AM
16

My point is, hookup culture did no women any favors at all. But let’s not kid ourselves that it started some kind of bad behavior amongst men that didn’t exist. That’s deadass 1950s talk, the compliment to ‘when men were men and women were in the kitchen’. We can have standards without letting patriarchal culture dictate those standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 01:22 AM
53

Um no men have never been different. Deuteronomy 22 in the Bible states that if a man rapes an unmarried girl/woman, he has to pay damages to her parents. This didn’t work so well so some judges upped it to threatening you’d have to marry the girl yourself and pay essentially alimony for the rest of her life. Also because in the society she was then worthless as cattle bride. Vending machines before vending machines.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 09:30 PM
15

I try to let it roll off my back. There’s a lot of classism here as well that bothers me because I worked hard just to be alive and not tied to some LVM to survive...excuse me for not having a mortgage and investments at 23.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 09:20 PM
18

I am so interested in the tech men for their proximity to both stable incomes and the cutting edge future. Then every time I remember 95% are hungry, angry babies. They prove this to me at hello. I watched a friend get corrupted, he is now an ex friend. Nope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 09:16 PM
34

U speaka de scrote!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 09:14 PM
18

Someone ‘broke’ me and I wish him nothing but an endless hamster wheel of people using him for as long as he lives and being alone on his deathbed realizing he took sincerity and cruelly wasted someone’s life (probably multiple people) and deserves his fate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 09:13 PM
11

These words healed my soul, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 09:11 PM
12

Yeah, he’s not 40ish, hell no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 09:09 PM
81

Men are transactional. They just are. Not all transactions are bank balance. If you don’t like the terms, find someone who agrees to yours. Source: 30 years of growing up in male oriented spaces and fields
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 09:07 PM
2

I’d gasp but I too have these stories.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 09:04 PM
8

I broke out laughing. talk hosts maybe?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 09:03 PM
8

I’m slow cackling at this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:57 PM
2

You need an award
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:56 PM
28

No I’m sorry. You have a corporeal form.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:56 PM
50

He knows you’re invested. Throw a fit, ignore him, move out. If he comes after you all apology, it was that. If he doesn’t come after you it’s someone else. Either way good riddance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:54 PM
50

What hurts me most is when people know what’s wrong but then try to find an alt reason. As someone who did that for multiple people, romantic or not, you just dig a deeper pit for yourself the day you have to admit it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:53 PM
64

He feels too much pressure! He wants to make it extra special 15 years from now. How dare you rush him. (My ex-boss used to say this about our ex-POS crewmember and it absolutely applies here)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:51 PM
13

Amen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:49 PM
48

I was discussing this with myself actually, having experienced this several times and observed hvm and lvm. Men, in general, I think cannot love. The love we’re talking about is something else to them. They can desire a woman. They can reason about what it would take to remain in proximity to a woman and make her happy. They can feel happy or at peace around a woman. They can value—what are they willing to do or be to keep a woman. All of these things are not love. I may change my mind but keep …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:31 PM
15

You mean Beauty ‘Baters. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:22 PM
5

Bc, u/capresesalad1985, the using is only supposed to go one way! God forbid they be immature or use him back, he worked hard for that money to flash and bragging rights to sit in at college bars. I used to live in a college town. So many of these fuckers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:20 PM
2

Joss Whedon is pretty much a shitshow—sometimes his people are too. I personally couldn’t watch buffy because of this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 11:51 AM
4

No. If I, a 6 year old child, can be compassionately reminded to shut the fuck up and let my sibling’s serious and alarming medical care crisis be about them. Then a grown man experiencing a normal and entirely caused situation can not scream at his wife. She has nothing to be sorry for and he has no excuse to hide behind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 11:36 AM
2

The first one wasn’t cute either. Who the hell gets mad at a person yelling for experiencing mindbending pain? Oh right, LVM who have never heard a peep out of the women they impregnated. I couldn’t work labor I’d be slapping husbands left and right. And I’d be right. Maybe not legal, but right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 11:31 AM
2

Think about it this way. Your potential sole business partner walks into the room the day you’re planning to announce to the world and all of your vendors, customers, employees, investors, everybody—that their word is yours and your word is theirs. You find out they aren’t willing to invest in you. And that they also reserve the right to make decisions on your joint business that hurt you, for any reason. And they reiterate it—for you, or in front of shareholders, or employees. That every day yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 11:22 AM
1

Vote to be a sticky
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 11:17 AM
2

This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 11:13 AM
5

This math was how I knew my fuccboi wasn’t serious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 11:11 AM
1

I can top it. A NVM story. Travelled to me Vday weekend. On his own. When we’d just been chatting online for a month and hung out a few times. When I explicitly said we were too early in anything for that. Lovebombed me for 2 days. I wanted to kick him out entirely, but it wasn’t my house and I didn’t know if he’d make a scene and I needed to keep living there. Then poof off to never neverland. He kept in touch to talk up a trip he wanted to take that summer, ostensibly with me. No. No I do not …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 11:03 AM
2

Nailed it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 10:53 AM
3

Yup this is true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 10:51 AM
8

To be fair, herpes actually can fuck you up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 10:49 AM
15

“...Punish long-ago child sexual abuse” Honey, that never leaves your psyche. It doesn’t matter if it happened 50 years ago. It should never have happened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 10:47 AM
29

Leo has more money and hair so I gotta say no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 10:42 AM
38

Oh they’re not friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 10:40 AM
28

Odysseus: « and he put to death the maids and serving girls of Odysseus’ wife, which had been defiled by her suitors » Translation : buncha dudes wanted to take Odysseus’ house and wife but he wasn’t legally dead so they settled for eating all his food and raping his servants The word used is for teen girls in my recollection I mean, to my knowledge Odysseus was allowed to do that himself if they were slaves and not freeborn Thus the reason they had to be killed because they might have squatter …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 10:37 AM
27

The usual ratio I’ve seen is 1/3 girls and 1/5 boys...also depending on country and reporting. People mess with numbers according to ‘rape’ vs ‘assault’ vs ‘molestation’ definition dancing It should be zero. But no one stops them. Like adult rapists (usually a different category).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 10:33 AM
28

I enjoyed that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 10:30 AM
33

‘No homo, bruh but I wish you were a 13 y.o. girl. Wait, still too hairy.’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 04:31 AM
13

I’m saving this comment because it is true and made me laugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 04:30 AM
30

It’s like cops who say they stop black drivers all the time. They just don’t get they’re selecting the sample in their own bigbrains.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 04:30 AM
75

After I left my most fucked up age gap NVM I found he had a pattern of finding ~24 y.o. and dumping them at ~30. Repeatedly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 04:28 AM
192

Unfortunately you are right. Workplace, roommates, cohort, exercise group. Every time. It’s a bunch of 28-32 men hitting on 21-23 women. The kicker is...3/4 of the women aren’t the attractive ones in the group. I’m watching this play out in multiple scenarios and the hot 25-34 y.o. are completely ignored. Every time I look it gets more obvious. They don’t want biology as in attractive they want biology as in ‘brain still squishy please abuse’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 04:25 AM
107

Nah they signed up for a brat. So they got one. Play stupid games win stupid prizes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 04:22 AM
24

Thank god I’m safe from people who think I’m a puppy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 04:21 AM
43

What the hell was he doing dating a 36 year old at 50? scrote #autoblock
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 04:14 AM
14

You divorced him, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 04:05 AM
10

My point was 1. He was upset you didn’t orgasm because he’s obviously perfect and if you don’t from his actions you’re broken You were trying to console him that you absolutely did orgasm from his actions which definitely did not make you orgasm and also felt bad about yourself I cringed multiple times for you. Please know that this whole interaction was wrongheaded, no matter how skilled anyone was
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 08:40 PM
31

So wait, your orgasm was supposed yo be about his sKiLLz?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 05:47 AM
9

I laughed so hard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 05:35 AM
25

‘No bro see you could get laid so much more by those living fleshlights’ ‘But your strategy isn’t working. And I’m not a dude.’ ‘Those women suck so much we have to stick together to use them bro’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 02:44 AM
2

It’s because they don’t want to change because that would require admitting there’s something lacking. Their egos and laziness won’t let them have a better life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 02:40 AM
8

I think they should add cover letters. Both men who tried to rape me when I wasn’t even their gf have the most beautiful resumes. Good families. Ambition. Intelligence. Style. Wealth. Pieces of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 02:18 AM
13

I mean this is the fairytale. There’s just as many families marrying their daughters to a steaming pile of shit. So there’s that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 02:17 AM
58

I would give almost anything to be 23 and know what you know. That was the age everything started to tank really quickly from LVM all around me. You gotta recognize the LVM who aren’t potentially romantic too, because they have the same red flags.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 01:22 AM
31

I’ve straight up argued with them for fun and they’ve still assumed I’m a dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 01:14 AM
18

Just like really old and really young men they desperately need assurances they could still bang u, totally, from 4000 mi/km away, if the situation called for it and they really felt like it. Their schlong is that long, you know. It’s ego-stroking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 12:57 AM
9

tHe OtHeR gIrLs LiKe mY sTuPiD gAmEs Nobody does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 12:55 AM
34

And that’s when you know they’ll say those things about you, completely unprovoked, if one of your hot friends in the picture were to show up at his door. nope
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 12:54 AM
5

“Hopefully this will lead to stroking my ...little brain”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 12:48 AM
49

My ex used to say “I don’t know why I’m so attracted to you.” Bruh. Your peepee knows. I’m attractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 12:48 AM
5

I don’t know either, Kyle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 12:47 AM
2

‘U R wrong and rude.’ respectfully
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 12:44 AM
9

The projection is out of control. If you want to see if a guy’s an ass you can say you’re taking a hiatus from dating and sex, just in general. The ones that aren’t creepy obsessed will ghost. The others take work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 08:53 AM
15

But then they go scream on Reddit and it’s unsightly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 08:10 AM
4

Reaching ouuuut Touching youuuuuuuuu
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 07:35 AM
12

I think you cracked it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 07:34 AM
7

Ngl I ‘out of the blue’ had flashbacks to reading Lolita here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 07:34 AM
9

Yup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 07:32 AM
5

Is ‘bitch shield’ a ...technical term? Also what’s funny is this whole snake oil spiel is written in hypnotic induction for the dudes he’s ‘reaching’. That’s good, because none of it is scientifically true. None of it. A record.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 07:32 AM
4

Why do you want to support a secret, abusive, not advantageous relationship? Stand up woman, it’s your fucking daughter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 07:10 AM
5

Women: be my friend, maybe we’ll do sex if you’re not an asshole Men: be my sex, maybe we’ll do a relationship if I’m not an asshole 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 07:06 AM
6

Yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 07:03 AM
2

Yup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 06:48 AM
4

I personally was being psychologically and financially abused. I never agreed to it being posted online but boys will be walking subhuman behavioral issues, apparently. And he had very few other red flags in this area. Blindsided. Everything I know of was deleted. But I’m still pretty sure it’s out there, privately. Because why wouldn’t it be?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 06:47 AM
1

What to do? Take him to court.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 06:44 AM
28

Tech dudes are a special breed of ass. They could have anything they want if they would just be decent but...no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 06:40 AM
91

‘Everyone should be nice to everyone regardless’ Bad treatment, disrespect, lying...these things take you off the nice list. They’re called boundaries sweetie
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 06:39 AM
15

Girl, why are you going? You should go nowhere with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 06:37 AM
12

Yup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 06:35 AM
30

This is amazing wording
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 06:34 AM
153

A girl in my highschool almost died this way. She never did come back to school. I was always told as a teen to never go sans at least one female friend to any place with more than one boy. Thought my mom was being dramatic till this went through the school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 06:32 AM
49

The funny part : Women create an entire sub about high-value as a behavior Male lurkers: u only want hot tall men with big dicks They didn’t even absorb. Can’t take issue with something that isn’t there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 06:24 AM
45

Wait wait. You’ve done step one only. To be fair you now need to tell all men that not only do you only date men of your description, but now you need to tell the men you date they’re honestly not good enough for you. Then cheat on them with some dude who had a dick to hand. Then go back to hot dude and tell him what you did but refocus the conversation onto ‘dick to hand dude has amazing bed skills’ even though he doesn’t and even though he was a potato. That will be a good approximation. Espec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 06:15 AM
153

This was the moment I realized society was insane. Dad bod is ok but his wife’s body, which grew, carried, and birthed an entire human while he drank beer is ...unacceptable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 06:12 AM
16

I’ll let a man talk about the thickness of my calves... When I can tell him to wash his ass like a grown adult. The two aren’t even on the same plane. I was born with my calves, he can hop in the shower (or stop eating shit, or interact with humans instead of porn etc.).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 06:10 AM
69

Socializing men: how does this situation benefit me? Socializing women: how does this situation benefit others? You’ll start to see it everywhere and begin to break out of it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 06:08 AM
35

Be my friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 06:06 AM
27

I would have enjoyed being there as you said it though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 06:05 AM
1

A marriage can be arranged as you want and the guy can still be a piece of shit. Your point was western dating lets people get caught up. But here’s the thing. My parents are not happy together and seriously considered getting me together with someone who I also would have been unhappy with. Like I said, the method can’t fix the problem. If anything, the western style where the person who has to live with the end results is the one making the decisions about those results seems to make more sens…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 03:56 AM
1

Welcome !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 12:50 AM
26

got caught up in the excitement of the early stages Ok, hold up. I am from a culture where the sex was not allowed in the dating, since the implication in the comment is this will result in better marriages. Nothing before marriage. The parents are heavily involved and/or accept/deny the partner. And they still made bad choices, and some of them are still unhappy because: Divorce is not an indication of failure, only of cutting losses or escaping an unbearable situation. Plenty of people stay in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 12:27 AM
17

something to be said about being able to grow in love Any relationship should be able to grow in love. If you started out with no love, that’s not a good example of growth if you eventually get to the minimum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 12:21 AM
1

No, a mod will decide to do that or not
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 05:39 AM
94

Most rapists are serial rapists. I feel like this isn’t mentioned enough. They know no one will stop them. They know no one will even slow their roll. In the event some magnificent person manages to have the finances, fortitude and people power to put them in jail, they’ll be out again really fast. Every time a rape or assault was acknowledged in my acquaintance network, three more came forward with some form of assault committed by this person. It’s usually not a one-off event.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 11:05 PM
26

I had a LVM sneak in this way and to this day I regret knowing him because aspects of him were beautiful. But pretty trash is still trash. Trash is not for me. Exhausting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 12:04 PM
6

Streamline this list and sticky it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 12:03 PM
5

Ooooooooh yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 11:59 AM
44

This is what I told my ex. If you want it, you got it—first. You do it, I’ll do it. He didn’t like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 11:49 AM
47

Excuse me? You’re supposed to like something bc you’re Latina? Let alone your specific sex likes? That’s misogynistic AND racist. You’re in front of him, willingly having sex, and he’s talking about an ethnicity flavor in porn. Um. I’m so glad you opened with ‘your ex’.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 11:48 AM
7

If you’re arguing with a man he’s prolly already gone. A discussion is one thing, where either of your base positions may potentially be modified by said discussion. An argument about something mutually exclusive is a sign he has considered leaving and may be in the process. Because he’s not gonna get that ‘I get porn but she doesn’t get drinks’ deal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 05:27 AM
6

The Void is familiar to me. It’s the realization that none of these relationships (abusive parents, abusive exes, whatever) were real. They didn’t love you. That’s the gap you feel and you may alway feel it until your entire paradigm shifts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 02:32 AM
6

Sticky this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 02:28 AM
19

I just had a hater follow me from another sub (specifically because I’m in this sub) and put the nastiest messages in my inbox for reporting his harassment and death threats against some regular other Redditors. Swearing, names, saying I’m what’s wrong with the world. Saying I have no future, etc. He was issued a warning. Reddit mods are trash. They are trash humans. Thank god for this sub because it’s real. We’re in a world that truely hates women and all we’re trying to do is get along without…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 02:01 AM
13

That’s what makes this so creepy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 11:48 AM
17

I likes upthread ‘a raw chicken breast he found in the fridge’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 11:48 AM
12

Ironically your shitty parents prevented a shitty guy from running off with teen you. Can relate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 11:47 AM
47

This. You won’t be out of the woods for a while, sweetheart. Why don’t you not add ‘assholes his peers won’t touch’ to the mix?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 11:45 AM
43

Yeah that was the point where I felt I was reading a 14 year old boy. ‘I can never ask her for anything again’ sounds nice in theory but hot damn you’re both grown adults in a relationship, you’ve asked before and you will again. He’s lost the plot and I’m concerned he’s gonna go have some nice “whore” affairs or completely control the shit out of his Madonna and Child since she proved her devotion...for him. Nooooooooooooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 11:25 AM
86

The Madonna-Whore complex in its most pure form, Doctor. I present the classic case. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 11:20 AM
75

We can never know if she happened upon some kind educated souls and proceeded to be an evil harpy ... or 5 minutes earlier they were trying to get her number and being asshat frat bros trying to get laid with their school name. We can’t know, so I choose the latter and enjoy it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 11:18 AM
29

You tell him no, ew, he has his own special Ivy Tinder for that. Look it up. It’s true. There’s a Tinder only for Ivy grads.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 11:16 AM
24

Have to say I agree. I worry about friends when there’s nothing— or something every 5 minutes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 11:14 AM
14

He’s not treating her better. He has to give her that much more to hold her attention. He’s learned more lovebombing. If it wasn’t an act it would be treating her better. But it will end and probably for the same damn reasons yours did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 11:12 AM
28

This was the point I knew it wasn’t going to work out in mine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 11:11 AM
104

Men vote with their feet and wallets. Kinda high time we did the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 11:07 AM
5

how does a person do that yet introduce you to their family Friend, anyone can be emotionally abusive and nothing else they do will cancel it out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 11:04 AM
3

I grew up thinking the tactics would never be necessary. I thought I was ok, that my situation was okay, I was going to have a nice life based on my grit and kindness. That I would keep myself safe and somehow meet kind, HV men without retraining in what that looks like, what it doesn’t look like, and plan B if your life is hell rn regardless. Life is a snowball. Or a freight train. Once it gets going enough it’s very difficult to fight it all on your own. I could not risk assess for myself bc I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 02:18 AM
33

I have two of these but we met when we were children and I wonder if that’s what it takes to remain human in their eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 08:38 PM
88

I dated the FUNNIEST GUY. He would point out I had gained a pound when he had gained 5, and told me to buy all the clothes that looked bad on my body. Wow did he have humor and fashion sense. Unfortunately we broke up when I could no longer keep up with his humor or sartorial eye. I told him he deserved better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 08:30 PM
20

A relationship can make or break your life. It’s something you should think about. Do people casually go scuba diving?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 08:29 PM
61

I can’t believe he missed this vital advice! Maybe his bigbrain was just too filled with important thoughts or he hadn’t ejaculated that day? Idk I can only imagine what that might be like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 08:27 PM
86

🏅 🎖 🥇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 08:24 PM
17

The Moors also had female (and male lol) sex slaves so like....be careful with the blanket statements
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 08:18 PM
20

The LVM Americans can talk a good game. But basically you don’t have to listen to talk. Money doesn’t cover actions and disrespect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 08:16 PM
48

Jesus what
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 08:14 PM
31

Women having money and safety means they don’t have to rely on men. Turns out some men aren’t worth being with unless your life is at stake. What a fucking concept. Duhhhhhhhh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 07:02 PM
16

Good one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 06:08 AM
10

You’re not. Let’s talk. Pm me, I have some similar situations and I want to know what we can do about this nonsense. Hey if a group of women in pink saris with cricket bats and an outreach program cut down on rape and domestic violence in their neighborhood, imagine what we can do for women about to get left at death’s door by shitheads...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 05:52 AM
8

You have articulated my life philosophy since birth. I’ve unfortunately proved it true inadvertently as well. Was really rooting for this one to not be a shithead, to turn around and do for me what I did for him. Nope. Damaged goods.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 05:49 AM
12

The problem isn’t them marrying, relationships are a fact of life. The problem is it’s so soon, there’s zero allowance of either grieving for anyone or any real relationship with whomever they do marry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 05:45 AM
9

Tbh I couldn’t either. So gross. I admire the sister and I’m sorry for your loss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 05:43 AM
19

My ex wanted to guilt me with the money he spent on me. He started adding it up. I said if he finishes adding it he’s never sleeping with me again unless we renegotiate the arrangement at my financial terms. His pikachu face when I did exactly that is...delicious. He can’t pay what I require for that transaction. It began as a ‘love’ relationship. I was very put out that it didn’t end that way but it’s his loss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 04:18 AM
18

I would give this gold if I had it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 03:23 AM
27

😂 😂 🤣 🏅 🎖 🥇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 03:22 AM
83

She does have a magnificent soul. I wondered how she entered hollywood because she is very distinctive looking. Then I saw a movie. I saw her speak. Oh, that. That. <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 03:21 AM
8

No, it isn’t. The sooner you learn the sooner you can start winning at its stupid game.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 06:13 AM
4

Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 06:12 AM
23

I keep reminding people on here that not every woman is making 40% + above the poverty line and healthy to boot. They seem to think everyone can snap their fingers and have prince charmant if they just believe. At least we can sympathize with foreign women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 06:10 AM
5

I was kinda hoping this would happen with a friend but no. The mom got sick and everything went sideways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 06:07 AM
14

Can you help me with the no contact thing? Feel free to private message. My life has been hell for years with this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 06:05 AM
105

Why are we focusing on feminism being trash when it’s the men’s’ misogynistic racist tax-break ass doing the awful? Isn’t that playing into their hands? I don’t want casual sex but I also don’t want to be sold by my parents with a nice wedding, thanks. Especially if it’s a trash man, whatever color. The problem is the men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 06:04 AM
33

Yeah usually what I see is (divorced or not) a bad relationship between husband and wife and then the spouses start seeking emotional validation from their kids. Doesn’t end well. It’s called emotional incest and it fucks up the kids too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 06:01 AM
10

I’m so proud of you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 06:00 AM
94

Could it not be that they saw how life/the govt/rich ppl by a different name fuck whomstever they can and the only insurance in life is insurance? Every Eastern European woman I know is master of interpersonal plan b, even the absolutely lovely ones. It’s just a given in society, whereas here you’re shunned bc some pickmeishas get to live in a sparkle castle and look down on everyone else. You act like that in the US (where it’s the biggest naked emperor lie about meritocracy this equality with …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 05:53 AM
9

Is it really intimacy if they don’t care to know you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 02:27 AM
35

I messaged a man about his photo on social media once. He described the circumstances (his honeymoon) and I expressed interest in the location and asked for advice. After a short bland conversation he said we should talk again sometime. Like... why? You’re married, we have nothing in common, and my question is answered. The whole vibe was just...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 08:51 AM
5

Like if this is what she’s getting out of the picture there are only 2 possibilities : She brainwashed as hell She sarcastic af
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 08:47 AM
10

I used to game before I found something to fill my hobby time that also made me money. But the second I turned on the mic...the rape and death threats, even as I proved to be in the top 3 on the team every time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 08:44 AM
11

My ex: ‘i think I have a cavity’ Me: ‘u still have insurance for 3 months just go to the dentist’ Ex: ... Three months later ex is at the dentist paying out of pocket for a root canal 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 08:42 AM
5

I have seen several decades on this planet. Society trains men to be monkeys, if they don’t start out that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 08:39 AM
98

Oh boy, we found a human being. The other 40 are monkeys who should be prevented from reproduction for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 08:33 AM
9

Nah. I’ve met some nice furries, but the toaster guy is also real and incapable of seeing you as human.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 12:13 AM
51

An ex-friend who was incredibly degrading to me told me I wasn’t gf material after I didn’t jump to get in bed with him though the attraction was there. I said ‘bold of you to assume I was considering you for bf material’. No one worth crying over will treat you like shit. Cry only for love, not hate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 12:49 PM
110

The point is it feels extra nice when it’s nonconsensual /s I am less attracted to men every day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 12:43 PM
15

If rape were the victims’ fault, there would be zero raped children. But, uh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 12:40 PM
33

The thought of telling your wife to go get the clothes in the dryer AS sHE IS EATING, like as a human option, makes me want to reach through time and rescue both of you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 12:37 PM
14

I’m laughing thank you. Carry on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 12:34 PM
61

I have a brother. I figured it out at 17 when I could clean the entire house, do everyone’s laundry, drive, care for animals and children, cook, etc He couldn’t load the dishwasher correctly. My parents were fine with that. Y i k e s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 12:33 PM
4

Yes this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 03:38 AM
3

His gf was doing his laundry. He put the clothes in the hamper. He can check his own damn pockets. If you took them off the floor the morning after a fun night I could see that. But if they’re in the hamper it is 10000% on him being lazy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 03:38 AM
17

It’s generally accepted it comes from worship of the phallus all the way from fetushood and gender reveal. A good percentage of men actually believe women exist to service the penis, and also never question why they are servicing their own penis at the expense of literally anything else that they want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 01:05 AM
7

I’m sorry but I laughed out loud. Like snorting laughter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 01:04 AM
10

It’s not a blanket answer but the older single women in my life hoped against hope I’d find a rare good one, and that misogyny levels would have receded enough by my gen. They haven’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 01:03 AM
18

When they object to anything I have fun asking them what they envisioned. ‘I wanted this to work’ ‘Oh, ok, how would that look?’ ‘I want to see how this goes’ ‘Oh, so where do you see this best case scenario and worst case, for you? Maybe we match.’ Etc They can never answer. No clue why. It’s jUsT cOmMuNiCaTiOn?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 01:00 AM
14

-50000 out of 5 star experience. I did this and it was worse than being physically abused by my legal guardian as a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 12:58 AM
6

I saved this for...purposes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 12:57 AM
5

I’d like to point out that even as stunningly over the top this is, when she steps on his back she can feel him and is completely conscious about holding her own weight in motion across him to not injure. Something to think about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 12:46 AM
12

It’s more nonsense, notice how the blame was placed on your chests ? How Euro men will supposedly react? All bogeymen (monsters under the bed) to distract from the people actually saying and doing bad things to you in real life, right this moment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 12:37 AM
15

Burying the cat is ‘a dad job’ Honey put your own cat down and bury it. I had to for my sibling. This is the problem. Nothing abusive assholes can do is worth losing your whole life to them. Also it’s gross the article writers compared a couple attempting to stay together through the Sudanese war with a woman hung up on an alcoholic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 12:32 AM
8

So wait, he: 1.) used both of you 2.) cheated on both of you 3.) lied to both of you 4.) is blaming you for losing her(and let’s be honest is blaming her for losing you in their communication) And...you think any of this is your fault? He messed with your brain good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 12:28 AM
19

I wised up as a young teen asking what my parents learned in the womens and mens groups. My mom: ‘how to support your husband, how to raise ethical well behaved children who are equipped to interact, how to increase your spiritual patience, how to deal with cheating husbands’ My dad: ‘how to exercise authority, how to deal with the guilt of aftermath of cheating, porn addiction, alcoholism, bitchy wives’ etc My mom always had study material. My dad, though naturally a notetaker, was discouraged …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 12:20 AM
20

Yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 12:15 AM
26

Perfect answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 12:15 AM
9

Your tradition tells you to treat others with respect. Your tradition does not ask you to ruin your life. In no way do respect and doormat overlap, whatever your religion. Allowing others to doormat you is actually disrespecting THEM. So either way, no, you’re fine. It only says for you to behave well. It nowhere says for you to take shitty ass treatment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 12:14 AM
3

I’ve seen this, it’s lovely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 12:03 PM
3

😂 😂 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 11:58 AM
20

I always just remember the phrase ‘he believes I have gold eyelids’ and then I’m good to go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 11:56 AM
111

Guys get a six pack—beer or body. Women get their whole life together. Really shows priorities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 11:54 AM
10

Does your mate hate broccoli? Better make them eat it. Yeah, no thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 11:52 AM
17

Woooo, flashbacks. I had a job for which I had to leave the house at 5:30 am, which meant getting up at 4:45. Guess who was unemployed AND wanted to stay up till 2 am? Who blissfully slept until long after I had started work? He justified it in that my job was shitty. Edit: this was supposed to be in response to the ‘chronic sleep deprivation is a narc thing’ but reddit formatting has not been working for me lately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 12:13 AM
53

In America it’s impossible for a lot of the population to pay rent or have healthcare without a partner. I’d say that’s a big factor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 02:56 PM
1

Are you linking being nice with being timid? Because those are not mutually bound. Most people on earth prefer some confidence in any endeavor, business or pleasure. If you view lack of confidence as either inherently or somehow opposed to the dark triad traits, I have nothing further to help you with. Edit: also, you never addressed that she simply met two different men in a chronological timeline. Also, it’s creepy that you’re extending to all women the story you have about a specific one. Goo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 04:14 AM
31

This is true. I know two that dye their hair for this reason, pain though it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 08:27 AM
17

Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 08:25 AM
138

Margaret Atwood: “Men are afraid women will laugh at them. Women are afraid men will kill them.” In a nutshell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 08:15 AM
2

You’ve cited umpteen papers, which is fine, anyone can use data however they like. But your premise is wrong to begin with. You can’t say she chose one over the other when they weren’t both on the table. It’s perfectly fine to date one person and then another when that relationship ends. It’s called life and is not an insult to whatever type of man you perceive yourself as. This is what scares me, that you’re...not seeing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 07:19 AM
2

Guys don’t want shitty women, unless they do. Some get off on that. What they really want is to cow women that don’t want them into accepting guilting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 11:10 AM
2

“Notice how nice is second” Nice guy came second in the timeline. Are you dumb? It’s not like they’re all lined up for the dating mugshot the first time she went to get a boyfriend unless this is podunk town pop 300 where there are exactly 20 single men and they all line up every Friday in church. Come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 11:04 AM
8

It’s interesting how you go from ‘this one group I know’ to ‘most women’ by the end of the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 11:03 AM
6

I mean if you think about it, all relationships are tournament rounds that only end when you say so. I have exactly 2 friends (both platonic) that have passed my many years of rounds, but who knows, if they’re dicks tomorrow and don’t change when I ask why, I’m not beholden to keep that energy in my life. It’s basically like a madam character on a tv show puts it. Cowboy declines one of her girls because he likes to ‘earn’ sex not ‘pay’ for it. “You’re always paying for it, darling. It’s just th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 12:43 AM
4

“Make sure he ain’t broke and ain’t here to drink beer with your money” “Yes, fleece that man” It’s hopeless. It’s what they will hear anyway because they’re brainwashed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 12:36 AM
75

When I was in late teens I was followed by a guy. There was nothing else for it. I made sure I was under a streetlight, well lit, and then pretended to be possessed by about 30 demons. Howling, spitting, shaking like a seizure. Threw my stuff on the ground. He turned around and left. Don’t mess with demons, pathetic creeps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 12:16 AM
48

This. If anyone is getting in your personal physical or emotional space in the city, they’re crazy or up to something. Even the panhandlers stay the fuck away as they ask you for any money you may want to give them. It’s basic respect in this environment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 12:11 AM
19

Wooooooo yes. I have ‘misled’ men about : -my age. (I look younger than I am. Deal with it.) -my social background (having table manners means I must come from the yacht set 🙄) -my availability (I will make time for him until he stops making time for me) —my patience (it’s infinite for mistakes and very thin for bullshit games) So many things. So many accusations. Delicious tears.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 01:25 PM
16

I’m starting to think LVM are the gold diggers they talk about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 01:21 PM
3

My LVEx asked me ‘why do other women have a problem with you?’ Excuse you, I have a wide circle of female friends. I have mentioned them to you, you’ve met some. Have you noticed it’s the same kind of woman over and over which has a problem with me? They always start it. It’s always because I did something well. Usually they weren’t even directly involved. But they felt the need to come defend their workplace/friend circle/ watercooler/ whatever. The right people aren’t that insecure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 02:39 AM
10

This needs to be tattooed on arms from college graduation. If frats wanted to do their membership a real favor...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 04:53 AM
14

I understand the message of this panel. I also feel conflicted because I was repeatedly attacked for speaking my mind and having ‘nonstandard’ interests. Also bullied for not having the coolest clothes. I know they felt rejected first just out of insecurity, but I don’t think the answer is wholesale offering yourself as a sacrifice to the clique system. It doesn’t originate in a vacuum. This comic would be more effective if it was a ‘stereotypical’ girl offering to include the ‘outsider’.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 04:46 AM
58

Couldn’t post above so I’m putting it here. I’ve been exploring what YouTube men and women say about the same subjects and tallying results. This one is about red flags, and seems normal enough for any gender until you get to items 2 and 1 which are: Feminists want the mens to be under their heel. If you want love follow this list but if you’re looking to just use her proceed with caution. This is how she gets views. Promoting the fantasy of ‘you don’t deserve an asshole but you can go ahead and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 02:46 AM
17

Speaking from personal experience, I really hate to see those of you on here all wHaT dOeS sHe eXpEcT I’ve worked in many ‘respectable’ restaurant environments. If you’re young and female you get looked up and down. This is expected anywhere. What I am not getting paid for (and neither are these women) is the abuse. They also grab your ass and make inappropriate comments. They do weird little power games. Their wife tells your manager you need to apologize. Remember, family-friendly dining. ´Nor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 01:16 AM
6

It’s called « emotional enmeshment ». Occasionally leads to actual incest/sexual contact. Whether it gets physical or not it’s psychologically torture—parentifies and fucks up whatever son or daughter something awful. Men do it too with their daughters when the wife is unavailable or awful. It’s super gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 12:57 AM
3

Yaaaaaaaay you. I wish everyone could have this friend. Totally necessary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 12:54 AM
5

I grew up with my parents making fun of me for being ‘jealous’ of my brother when I was ‘better’ than him in almost every way. I was jealous, bc they couldn’t recognize me or it would hurt his feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 12:51 AM
1

Cannot. Am allergic. I need girlfriends but they all have dogs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 12:45 AM
2

👏 👏 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 12:43 AM
9

Yup. I could have written your post. They dealt with the trauma of being crushed by believing that’s how it’s ‘supposed to be’ and attempting to shape you to that. I’m so glad you had other plans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 12:38 AM
10

I was just talking to a friend who was worried about returning to school. I can’t insert the pic here, but the search results on YouTube for ‘college at 30 for women’ speak for themselves. They’re literally all women saying ‘this is how you go back to college at 30’. Or men saying ‘women are worthless at 30’. Hmmmmmmmmmm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 12:35 AM
144

Told my ex’s 12 year old kid that rudeness does not apply in cases where you feel unsafe. To always listen to your gut, get safe, and then apologize if there was no need. Ex told me later I had no right to give ‘parenting’ advice like that. I told him to shove it because he’d never know the level of caution his supposedly beloved daughter has and must live with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 03:44 PM
2

I lived with male roommates and family through much of my 20s. It presented an unglossed version of what I was not looking for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 12:07 AM
29

“I loved that girl so much it made me hate other women so much I’d use them and put them through hell for my dick” Naw, fam he never loved anyone but himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 05:59 AM
11

Oooh yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 05:56 AM
6

My dude how you know what 4 billion men want in preferences of dress or conversation? How stupid are you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 02:26 AM
2

If you want to fuck your mom, you know where she lives. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 02:25 AM
2

Dude’s a rapist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 02:24 AM
7

Also, he’s a racist piece of shit. The headdress is sacred.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 02:22 AM
75

He’s an abusive narcissist. I know several. This is how they work. He literally doesn’t understand that this story is utterly horrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 02:21 AM
11

You threw out her hobby worth, in your own words, thousands of dollars. Which she worked for, all of it. And then sleeping apart from you and crying about is ‘dramatic’? Forget AITA, if you can’t tell you are just a cruel motherfucker with no empathy there’s no hope for you, dude. I want to find your girlfriend because this is severe psychological abuse and I don’t want you to coerce her into sex anymore which you are probably also doing. To be in such a sad state at 23, hardworking, and gorgeou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 02:17 AM
11

Their first date was Valentine’s day? 🚩 🚩 🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 02:13 AM
26

Just a few things to update your look, ladies. Brilliant job, but a few bonuses: Tissue. Questionable tissues. On the floor. In random places. Needs more crumbs, this place has never seen a vacuum (hoover in Aus?) Trash. I need to see condom wrappers, actual takeout containers, beer bottles. If he likes beer that’s how he shows it. You left the sheet on the mattress and the bed has a proper frame. I can see you’re going for ‘has well-off parents’ here, but I think both is too much, and removing …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 01:03 AM
3

He was eager to read you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 12:59 AM
200

I am so glad you have found something that feels like armor for you. Like you, I developed ‘early’ and have terrible experiences from boys and grown men from an early age. But I also have the opposite experience with covering up growing up as a white-passing American in a liberal state. I was raised Evangelical Christian. Everything from my clothing to my speech to my movements were designed to minimize opportunities for me to appear sexual. Or even bodied. It did not help. It did not eliminate …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 12:50 AM
42

This is the saddest picture I’ve seen this week, other than the emaciated 2 year old in the Congo who is uncared for bc he’s been accused of witchcraft. You did this to yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 12:27 AM
9

Oh I got told to ‘communicate’. I stayed when I should have run. Reddit is sick. It’s just a bunch of sad 24 m circlejerking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 07:35 AM
16

I was being funny because the men I’ve heard in unpolite company it’s like picking out spare parts for a car. It’s personal, but it’s societally sanctioned. So once again, he gotta have them shoulders, not no sad lazy weakling with skinny ones. It’s just biology. ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 07:31 AM
7

WRITE DOWN HOW IT MAKES YOU FEEL ‘I felt ignored’ ‘I felt unappreciated’ ‘I feel uneasy’ ‘I feel nonplussed’ Etc. because this is about you. So many ppl trained to miss red flags are so other-focused they know they’re unhappy and go right on focusing how the questionable person is acting/feeling, good or bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 07:17 AM
7

“I never said that” “I don’t remember that happening” But they did. And it did. Over and over. Ping-pong behavior; cold in private, hot in public or vice versa Introducing you to other people without a title or indication you are ‘together’ (depends on crowd) Not protecting you from attack by their friends or your enemies Letting anyone else call the shots about what happens between you Finding yourself anxious that they won’t call or if you don’t wait for it they won’t wait for you You say some…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 07:14 AM
18

Exactly. There is no ‘hey mom bods are hot don’t you wanna cuddle her dudes’ propaganda. So it’s still open season. Where are my biceps?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 07:04 AM
23

I ain’t gonna date no man without them shoulders. Hard no. So there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 07:01 AM
8

My honors chem teacher told me to quit when I took extra testing time. He straight up said ‘you’re never going to need this stuff anyway, the girls never do’. I was too polite at 16 but internally I thought ‘dinosaurs don’t need chemistry either’... Maybe he’s dead now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 06:52 AM
28

All my poly friends have bitched to me about being in non-primary ‘oops veto time’ situations. Someone had to cancel on a birthday or an emergency because someone’s “primary” was having an Ego Moment. All of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 04:12 AM
7

“I can’t touch my own girlfriend now? “ Not when she doesn’t want you to, fuccboi. It’s called consent. She’s not a lawnmower you got at Walmart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 04:09 AM
3

Male insecurity. They know that even a mute animal totally reliant on you is a better life companion than their abusive ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 04:03 AM
9

Yuuuuuuup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 04:02 AM
14

It’s not mild. It’s everywhere and constant. Plus the induced anxiety about leghair when you haven’t been out of the house in 3 weeks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 03:59 AM
6

I’ve been insulted for free. This is better imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 09:35 PM
144

Yes, just like degrees of racism. People think they aren’t racist just because they’re not burning crosses or using slurs. But scratch the surface about their unconscious stereotypes, cultural models, and reactions to situations and....how’d that get there? Pickmeishaism is the same. As women we have to unlearn it even if we were lucky enough to not grow up steeped in it. Because the LVM won’t as it benefits them. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 06:51 PM
10

I was raised in a gender and culture and religion that was like a triple denial of my own needs. Really wish I’d had this attitude at 19 or whatever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 06:40 PM
13

Same. The audacity is so intense. Maybe he’s still got it? Never had brains though. Perhaps he’s not in the US and this is his US sizzle roll?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 06:34 PM
18

Rashed, 43 20 years is a long time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 06:32 PM
3

Buuuuuut not all situations are the same. Not all exes would show up at the door, or be violent. Obviously if that would happen in your case it’s safer not to show them you’re alive or in the same country. Accepting the 200 is in no way ‘accepting’ that you’re even or anything. You just have 200 more to use.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 06:20 PM
2

:)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 06:17 PM
3

Same, but the evidence evaporated like smoke. Still mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 11:39 AM
2

Is your username at all related to ‘rain’?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 11:31 AM
26

But the great part is, she has $200 for her trauma (legit) and he won’t get laid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 11:28 AM
27

It’s very simply: ‘I only put in any kind of effort for a woman I fuck. And sadly, I am tied to one that is-not-you. So no help for you!’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 04:26 AM
-3

It’s because there’s a lot of sentiment (including on this sub) against it as somehow ‘cheating’. ‘Sex work is work’ is akin to ‘leave the minimum wage worker alone and go back to your Karen world’. Ironically it’s often said to people with privilege. I don’t know who it was but I saw someone on here bashing that EMT for ‘not being able to pay for EMT school some other way’ That denotes a certain level of ignorance about how it really is like sometimes. Agitate for the health, safety and protect…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 07:43 PM
15

This. All of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 11:01 AM
4

Can we like, start a life needs fund for this guy so he can concentrate full time? I didn’t want to subsidize my ex but I’d subsidize this guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 10:58 PM
92

Every post on r/relationships: ‘My female s.o. is mad at me, for serious or minor reasons. This is bad because she doesn’t want to have sex. Reddit, please help me force her to have sex. I really miss sex.’ Comments: ‘U poor dude’ ‘Here’s what to say so she thinks the issue is over’ ‘Just cheat/leave her/ r*pe her while she’s asleep’ Reddit has done more for me understanding male bullshit than any relationship coach...they tell on themselves. LVM don’t get sex because well, do you want to with s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 02:32 AM
18

If you’re asking me on a date, we might talk next time after a nice dinner. If I am a sex worker, that charge will be upfront, far more than a comped meal, and likely out of your wallet range. So... how much is your money’s worth now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 02:25 AM
20

Translation: ‘I’m done being nice. I paid for this dinner and your consent is now forfeit whether you like it or not’ Are we really entertaining violent NVM like this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 02:23 AM
2

I needed this. I’ve heard the opposite so many times during Covid. I hope you enjoy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 02:21 AM
6

I just found him! He is!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 03:43 AM
24

I’ve been dropped by two people when I was severely ill, one by family and the second by a man. Not doing that shit ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 03:42 AM
14

I can always tell how the relationships of the (attached) men in my life are going by how much they want to talk to me. I’ve eliminated the worst of them so the swings aren’t extreme anymore but....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 03:41 AM
23

Yes please. I need to earn a high paying job so I can get immunized to your 66 cats but I am so there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 03:40 AM
30

When someone says ‘die alone’ by ‘alone’ they always mean ‘without me’. Abusive anybody, standard playbook. It’s a threat. A primal ostracization threat. They’re just scared you don’t want them. So they flip it on you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 03:37 AM
15

I didn’t shave or wear makeup as a teen. I just didn’t want to put in the effort as I was very busy and rarely home. The amount of hate I got for that from other women woke me the eff up that nobody was doing it bc it was a choice, in general. Obviously some consciously do. Now it reminds me of all the women upset I don’t want kids. Like, you do you but me doing me should be fine unless ...there’s some rule you’re afraid of breaking? Hmmmm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 03:34 AM
24

I remember as a child how awkward it was whenever there were commercials talking about ‘men does your bedroom life have problems’ and just bandying about erectile dysfunction. Meanwhile, you can’t say menstruation and period ads took me forever to figure out, I thought they were women-diapers bc there was so much ‘u suck but it’s ok’ vibe in them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 03:32 AM
32

We are. Much of society is about negging women. I’m secretly convinced we must have superpowers if we’re this scary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 03:28 AM
15

So the class basically just blamed women for being attacked every second already? How charming and progressive of them. It’s cultural misogyny. Congrats, they discovered some effects. Brilliance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 03:26 AM
27

Find a deserving human to give it to. I would have killed for an ‘auntie’ who knew what was what when I was a child and teen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 03:24 AM
63

I watched Ex Machina with a male friend. Just friends. Midway through the movie he asks me, ‘do you think she has human consciousness? Does she love him?’ I said ‘if she does have human consciousness, both of the men are so fucked’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 10:26 PM
73

🏅 🎖 🥇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 10:24 PM
11

Which is why I don’t get why nobody saved me either, lol. I’m saving girls left and right. Sometimes you just need to buckle up and tell someone they deserve better in life, whether it’s an abusive job, abusive parents, or abusive relationship. I am that person and I’m not sorry. It took 10 years for a former friend to come around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 09:48 PM
5

The daughter is 17. She’s still a child. It’s not a magic button. I would not consider it to be at all presumption to sit her down privately and lay out ‘I got nothing against you having a boyfriend, but this one treats you like shit. I hope you find another one.’ No ultimatum, just ‘I’m willing to help whenever you decide to be with someone who treats you right’. 17 year old girls don’t know anything about how they should be treated, raised in this society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 09:44 PM
62

Exactly. Anyone who thinks this is an order sheet clearly has not thought about what they bring to the table or has nothing. Left. Always. No exceptions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 09:38 PM
10

Wait. Wait they had r*pe when she didn’t want it AND was in no condition to anyway...because he needs sexual release? But he couldn’t do it himself? I boot thee off the human boat, Negative Value Man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 09:34 PM
55

I mean, yes. If rape is necessary so are sharp objects.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 09:32 PM
39

Yuuuuuup. If you want the job you gotta do the tasks on the job description.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 09:31 PM
2

I’m looking forward to this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 12:14 AM
4

Came here to say this. I told my friend to do this; she stopped speaking to me but did after her sister repeated it and they’re okay now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 01:35 AM
66

Yuuuuuup “Oh look a teen girl let’s be 30 and fuck her up. It’s her fault, just like sexual assault.” Welcome to the root logic of the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 11:51 PM
47

I judge actions on a sliding scale of wealth and status. If it costs the person literally nothing in their world to not be an asshole, yet they are an asshole... Asshole detected.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 01:12 AM
16

It’s always primarily ‘how naked can I see you w/o paying’ lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 01:06 AM
23

Yuuuuup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 01:06 AM
17

After learning that they’ve had rapes of 14 y.o.s up for like, a decade, hooray I guess?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 01:05 AM
23

Lemme argue with your life’s work....we’re still gonna bang tonight after you clean the kitchen, right? Boooooooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 01:02 AM
22

This sub is centered around ignoring and not falling for the tricks of LVM. Who would be angry about that? Ta da.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 11:37 AM
7

I keep business and pleasure separate. I don’t date coworkers or start projects with significant others. This goes for housemates also. That shit’s for when you are legally married with both bank accounts and legal full names on the line.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 06:56 AM
19

Definitely the lack of consent. Boys only want one thing. But it ain’t sex. It’s r*pe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 06:35 PM
2

TW: sexual assault — One of my friends was r*ped at 14 by a sports coach. It did so much damage that telling her this did nothing to make her feel undeserving of it. The damage is done long before anyone r*pes you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 06:26 PM
3

Time to fix that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 06:23 PM
2

This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 06:20 PM
1

🥇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 06:19 PM
5

Um in case you’ve only every been around fantastic people or are 13—people can and do use their ‘spouses’ opinions as a weapon. It’s exactly like when your boss tells you profit is tight, so sorry you aren’t getting a raise, would love to help you but their hands are tied.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 06:14 PM
3

Um have you met American men or is this /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 06:02 PM
13

you don’t think ‘oh cool let’s have sex now’ My experiences with men who are able to pretend they care about you until an inappropriate opportunity for sex presents itself are many and the reason I have trust issues. Are you sad and need cheering? Did something horrible just happen? Are they technically blackmailing you? Have they been acting sad like you don’t care about them? Are you unwell, drunk, had surgery or are otherwise immobile and prone? Decent people don’t see this as an opportunity …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 05:52 PM
2

Can I find out where her ex is? Just this once. I’ve been so poor I didn’t have a good jacket and that would never excuse this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 01:49 AM
15

🏅 🎖 🥇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 02:39 AM
9

It’s working really well for the kid of my longago date, lmao. She’s a stunner too and probably going to land a very wealthy man this way, she’s had so much practice on her dad. He loves chasing her when she won’t give him the time of day and so will every boy in her vicinity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 10:24 PM
24

Speaking as someone who has lived with the threat of living on the sidewalk before, you can’t eat nice feelings. Thoughts and prayers mean nothing in the face of needs. I’ll take a man willing and able to put his money and actions where his mouth is any day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 10:22 PM
1

Ok because I do not read Labyrinth as nonsexual at all. The stuff Jareth pulls is CLASSIC LVM lmao. Dance magic dance. jazz hands
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 12:39 AM
29

Ain’t it chief, move an inch to the left
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 11:21 PM
14

👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 04:50 AM
3

I’ve seen a lot of horrible things and it’s near the top of the list. Because if someone so close can suddenly be someone else, what else is solid? Aside from the dangers of not knowing what else they will do, it’s existentially destabilizing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 09:27 PM
11

The best phrase I’ve EVER learned about men: “If he wanted to, he would”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 04:30 AM
16

My worst time was 12-15 and I looked YOUNGER It’s 100% the bully fantasy. I could kill you, I could r*pe you, nothing you can do about it. When I think about it now I want to go back and stab all the men who tried to groom me and yell at the people who let it happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 03:53 AM
6

My relative was like this. The ‘not there anymore’ thing. The last time I saw him he tried to strangle me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 03:50 AM
9

U ur so bad to check my ways of cheating on uuuuuuu fake fuckin cry Howww could you VIOLATE MY PRIVACY. You broke that privacy showing your privates to strangers, my guy. Take all the seats.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 03:49 AM
7

I have never snooped on anyone, at all, for any reason, and found nothing. Because those people I wasn’t snooping, because I didn’t have any suspicions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 03:44 AM
1

Tbh it depends on the man. But really it has nothing to do with marriage and everything on the quality of the man. 90% of it is about what he feels he is ‘owed’ by society and what he is willing to do to get it. Most men are interested in items that make them feel immortal and wealthy, but exactly what those items are (could be fishing gear, could be your little sister) vary. The whole point is not being with one of these, not how far into a marriage you should worry. TL;DR—a new wife will distr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 03:18 AM
3

Anyone who gives you a genuine compliment is not invested in how you will react. They can be surprised, but they’re not gonna dig for thank you or I acknowledge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 03:13 AM
1

Yup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 03:11 AM
2

I wish but the last man who tried to grope me has one foot in the fucking grave. The whole reason y’all can even do this in the first place is you don’t know what it’s like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 07:40 PM
3

I love this sub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 07:38 PM
5

I’m a big fan of his work but I give nobody any passes anywhere when they use every single stereotype and projection about a demographic to sell their shit. Especially not people who aren’t of that demographic by birth or choice. If I saw him illustrate a black single mom on the bus it better be more respectful than this shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 07:06 PM
3

This is a very ‘dude’ floor. The women I know who are messy, nothing that goes on your face or fragile goes on the floor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 07:01 PM
14

Yeah like if we’re that far in and we’re not gifting each other small things (food, helpful items, flowers) it’s a no from me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 06:47 PM
12

‘Did I spend too much? Does she appreciate it? Why doesn’t she do the same stuff as she does for her good friends? Aren’t we iN a ReLaTiOnShiP?’ Asking the wrong questions, dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 06:46 PM
30

I mean 8 weeks is not long enough for me to be writing a poem about how I love him so much. He hasn’t shown me that yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 06:44 PM
15

It’s too early where I am to feel this angry. I’m glad he’s an ex and I’m sorry that happened to you. Your neighbor is how everyone should have been treating you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 04:20 PM
19

What I’ve seen is college is the sweet spot for this nonsense because nobody knows/cares where they are at 1 am. If you’re 45 you can’t tell the difference between 17 and 20.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 04:18 PM
51

“You know what Gregg[sic]? Your wife’s crazy. Why don’t you fuck the 17 y.o. babysitter and then when your wife divorces you let’s use your retirement to buy sportscars and try to pick up college students.” This behavior is so common it is called The Male Midlife Crisis. It’s regularly scheduled, you gotta charge it up every week with diligent practice on being a screaming football coach from your couch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 04:10 PM
1

So, you’re off on a bunch of tangents I never brought up. I just don’t think women should be written off as ‘she know what she done’ at any calendar age. Where did I condone anything you’re going on about? Edit: not sure who is downvoting me but you’re sure mad that I’m trying to stick to my subject when you’re off on the whole FDS handbook. We read it, we know. I get it, your thing is ‘she is old and should know better’. We all have our sticking points and unless you engage with what I actually…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 04:22 AM
23

I only trust vegan men who became vegan before it was a hipster fad, which also rules out most of my dateable ages. But wow, I’ve lived with some assholes. Mostly in it to get women. Extra hubris. No thanks. The women I’ve met are all across the spectrum from fake woke to genuine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 04:17 AM
23

Yup. I mean if you lowkey want these things you already know no HVW who keeps herself and has a lifestyle is going to respond to that laundry list. So...?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 04:12 AM
10

Bleeehhhrrrggggggf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 04:10 AM
26

As long as you’re no strings you could walk away anytime. That’s why they lie about a relationship, so you think you have obligations—to keep having sex with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 04:09 AM
8

How can a slaveowner know he does not know how the slave sees the world? For those in power, water isn’t wet, it’s nonexistent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 11:48 PM
9

ups and downs happened in conjunction often on the same day Haven’t seen the show yet, thought it would probably be lame. But I come from a hell of a background and you can tell a lot about a person if they handle this without blinking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 11:43 PM
12

Usually when something “perfect” doesn’t work out it means something was very not perfect and at least one party was aware for a long time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 11:35 PM
8

We hear you bragging, glad you had your life all sorted. Hope it’s all sorted from now on. See the problem I have with this is, what area are you weak on? Maybe we should all abandon you there. If age isn’t an excuse nothing should be. It’s just weird to hear a HVW bragging how that could never be her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 11:31 PM
25

Uh...it doesn’t matter if we’re talking about two jillionaires. A potential abuse dynamic is always a potential abuse dynamic: He got more money He got more life experience He male. You don’t get to stop bowing to men with more power than you. No idea which one is neurotypical if either but he’s shown himself to already be a piece of shit, lifelong I’m not gonna throw anyone under the bus given 3/4. It’s sad as fuck yes but it’s not like rich or successful women are somehow magically immune to a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 11:27 PM
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Yeah, the last straw was ‘I didn’t know you saw our relationship as so transactional’ when I dared to remember some big things I’d done for him during an argument to the contrary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 08:05 PM
33

It’s a dominance thing. If y’all in a relationship that means he has an obligation to reciprocate in kind and at that level if he expects wifey shit from you. Otherwise in his (NVM) mind he’s free to receive anything and everything from you with zero reciprocal energy. No title, no gf shit. No ring, no fiancé shit. No husband, no wifey shit. Simple math.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 05:04 AM
1

👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 05:01 AM
9

🏅 🎖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 05:01 AM
9

🎖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 05:00 AM
7

Uh yeah I’ve trusted people with my life but never would I let them read my private correspondence. That’s betraying the trust of the people who sent it to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 07:38 PM
16

This. Also if he starts to slack off (some men with kids do this initially, fabulously) especially in response to anything kid related, it means you are somehow on the scale with his kids. Which is not where you should be. You should have your own scale in his mind. Behave accordingly and give zero passes for any disrespectful behavior you would normally flag because ‘he’s so tired with kids’.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 07:32 PM
27

🏅 🎖 🥇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 07:27 PM
2

‘I would have gotten the headshot but Jared cheated’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 07:26 PM
12

It’s boring and contrived as hell because it’s not about you and them anymore, it’s about being a trained fuck monkey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 07:24 PM
5

🏅 🎖 🥇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 07:23 PM
9

Yeah I was like wait a second but then realized they’re using therapisty lingo for what we call Hot and Cold Katy Perry song saved my sanity once. It’s a PSA, tbh. ‘You change your mind/ like a girl changes clothes’....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 07:21 PM
8

Very well said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 06:34 PM
3

Being a parent is hard Doing any thankless long term job that may turn out all wrong no matter what you do is hard. Parenting, “good enough-ly”, is super hard. It should not be attempted if you actually didn’t want 20 years of such a job. This man can’t even help out around the house and sees his wife and child as drags on his life instead of boons or even (yikes) necessary evils. That’s entirely his problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 06:23 PM
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It’s like, dude, some of us would k*** with a spork to have a 9-5 and a wife that brings in another income. I have zero sympathy for consenting adults who knowingly make a baby and then cry about it. I have endless sympathy for their baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 06:32 AM
9

2006 Oh, boy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 05:48 AM
69

I have had a hard time parsing what’s asshole and what’s just dudes. I’m 98% sure dudes just want what they can’t have, as a built in feature. That could go well or horribly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 04:07 AM
55

I joined a women’s gym while I lived in a town with one. Suddenly I had time to work out every day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 04:03 AM
2

I cringed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 03:59 AM
32

Future faking; do not do work to exist in their future they are not doing to exist in yours because there is none. If you think about it you will identify areas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 03:58 AM
36

Guys with multiple exes; ‘she was crazy’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 03:57 AM
21

Is something important for you happening? Are they off having their legs amputated? If the answer is no and they are ‘distracted’ They just wanna fuck you, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 03:55 AM
20

I’m all for teens exploring themselves, their autonomy, and pleasure. Getting into a traumatic, abusive dynamic full of violence and dehumanization because ‘that’s what an adult relationship is’ is actually abusive. And predatory. And pedophilic. Because it’s not for the teens. It’s for the sick voyeur pleasure of whoever is writing this fuckery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 03:53 AM
26

Teen Vogue has been going downhill hard and fast since 2012
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 03:51 AM
3

“To much ambition” Darling...don’t worry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 03:42 AM
26

I lost every single friend in my big group at 17 due to bullying and snakery and ever since I keep at least 3 mutually-separate groups. Sometimes there’s overlap but it’s better this way. Keeps snakes to a minimum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 03:35 AM
14

Damn. Yes. Good on you for seeing the pattern.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 03:33 AM
27

I’m glad you have someone who loves you for real and that he’s also a handy yardstick for measuring assholes to boot from your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 03:32 AM
2

Yup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 03:09 PM
3

The lyrics read like a teen girl wrote some One Direction songs about herself. What I mean is Lana’s just a mouthpiece, whoever is writing the songs is fetishizing themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 02:25 PM
2

Please do. Important topic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 02:22 PM
4

An often overlooked thread on this sub isn’t just ‘women not having high standards’ it’s also that a lot of pickmeisha behavior is understandable coming from a place where a nice dinner is a shocking luxury. I’m so mad for her but I also understand why. It looks really good if what you know is baby daddies and no one ever around. Which just makes it sicker that it’s used on people from backgrounds
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 02:19 PM
40

If she knew what was up why the hell did she get with Ron?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 02:13 PM
5

If I was a zillionaire I would take her away from him but not before I’d hired an excellent lawyer to clean him out and make sure he never has anything close to resembling custody. This asshat made 7 children with (in?) her, is absolutely cheating on her, does not care about her or the children, and the last straw is he’s gonna blame his « midlife crisis » on her when he goes. And she’ll believe him. I can’t read more today I’m so angry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 02:11 PM
11

Yup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 07:50 AM
1

Her videos gave me permission to do improv and I’m working on humor videos myself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 09:56 AM
11

It’s how they see them, not as organs, but as spaces, for a dick. My attraction to men fluctuates dependent on how much I believe men can deviate from their social conditioning. I don’t have a conclusion yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 11:51 PM
2

🚩 🚩 🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 07:48 PM
14

Your friend isn’t a friend. He hates women and therefore you. Imagine were he to say such things about immigrants for instance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 07:41 PM
58

South Korea jumped several centuries of social and technological advancements...in 80 years. That’s a lot for a society to absorb. Suddenly you don’t have to be married with 5 kids and a husband who beats you nightly just to survive economically and socially? The obvious result is not wasting time on shit dudes, and if the dudes were raised by someone which conditioned them into the whole wife-beating etc thing they’re shit dudes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 07:39 PM
37

The r/sex subreddit has so, so many terrified and confused teens asking if this is sex why do adults like it Conversely there’s also a lot of ‘my gf won’t let me rape her anally does she love me.’ They’re 16. I had to stop reading for my own sanity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 07:31 PM
16

Same. I thought porn must be super compelling! Then I got on the internet in college. Extensively. Feeling incredibly cheated when all I found was disgust and sadness. What I found then, and have heard of since, does not even look like a good time was had by anyone, let alone the women. Fucking creepy, the gap between what I imagined was so tempting and what zillions of men out there ruin lives for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 07:28 PM
6

If the food on the grocery shelves was fake and awful you would complain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 07:24 PM
16

holes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 07:22 PM
27

I wish the Sailor J video was still up. ‘If men find out we wear makeup, they’re going to tell the church! It’s all over for us then, we’ll never find a man—they’ll never trust us and our solid gold eyelids again! ‘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 07:17 PM
11

Oh they understood all right it’s just that no one cared. People understood slavery and child labor were Bad Things too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 06:56 PM
1

Yup. With the long hair I am saying ‘I am here for you to fuck, please engage in bullshit nice behavior for the slimmest chance I will get in bed with you’ I have to say I do have amazing bone structure because all the lesbians flocked immediately. But it was invisible to most men because they don’t actually see it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 01:10 AM
1

I did give a plausible reason someone might choose sex work as a lucrative option (true or not) when the classic tale of ‘study good and get rewarded’ was substantially damaged. If you’re saying our generation was not affected financially and careerwise by the 2008 collapse, particularly in the US I’m afraid your argument is with history and numbers, not me. People who graduated at that time will forever be 10-15 years behind financially in the US. It’s just numbers. As for ‘oh, Europe’—the coll…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 12:52 AM
1

Still putting words in my mouth. Go home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 11:42 PM
1

So what you’re saying is because you went through so much you get to spit on others? A lot of the rest is just you putting all of your resentment at life into my mouth and has nothing to do with what I said. Where did I gaslight you when I said you’re being pretty judgemental about girls and women whose pasts and futures you cannot know? You’re pretty much off in your own indignation and pain atm and that’s ok but don’t put it on me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 08:39 PM
2

Oh I met a Kevin. Quite a lot of Kevins. Been watching Kevins at my (ex)church, my jobs, my own social circle. Been asked by a lot of Kevins. Kevins are what makes me despair of men. The idea that suddenly no matter who you marry or your mom or your best friend or whoever, they’ll wake up one morning and tell you ‘I was only here to protect myself against the cold of life using you. Now I’m off to go use a child.’ I think the point of HVM is even if this gets to them you can start over, you’ve g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 08:31 PM
1

Oh, Europe. I live in the US. You’re doubling down pretty hard on judgemental for not knowing how bad literal thousands of women have had it. You’d have to have omniscience to know their situations. I particularly despise people who assume everyone’s able to just save money working their shit job. Sometimes people are alone, and there is not even empathy from the other rats in the bucket who crawl out and sneer instead of reaching back to help someone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 10:20 AM
1

I’ve lived a life where the line between ‘good people in my life’ and ‘bad people in my life’ was very thin. And this is because people judge others’ lives by their own standards. People are complicated. They can want good for you but not understand you, and they can also not understand why your issue needs respect when it’s attached to a mental health label. Because like subtle racism, mental health stigma is still definitely a thing. Look at all the dudes on r/relationships absolutely convince…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 10:13 AM
2

So basically you’re saying that just because I could be wrong about someone I vetted 20 years in, I shouldn’t try? Also I wonder if you have any imagination or have ever been around assholes. They don’t march up to HR and say ‘have you heard, ponchoacademy has bipolar?’ or whatever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 10:05 AM
1

Yup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 10:01 AM
3

I agree but when it was too much for one of the narcissists in my life they almost murdered someone So, y’know, I don’t really give a shit about the inside of their heads bc the result has run from horrible holidays to extreme violence
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 10:00 AM
16

Is this why the male midlife crisis is often finding a young girl to fuck? Is it just they never got over they’ll die so they have to ruin more peoples lives? You’re fucking 48, Kevin. Grow up. Memento mori.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 09:56 AM
26

He deserves to be left on the side of the highway like a dumped puppy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 09:51 AM
7

like tar babies Ignore him. As much as possible. These people are bombs. Unless you can end him or are inextricably involved. Then things like ‘the meeting was posted on the group schedule and we all saw it was 9:30 am’. No commentary, no emotions, just facts. ‘You sure you’re on payroll for x hours? Because there’s only <x available on shift this week.’ No personal information. Anything you say can and will be used against you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 09:45 AM
2

Accept help. Never accept gaslighting and orders.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 10:14 AM
5

Literally all of what you suggested is more worthwhile and contributes to life more than letting a stranger fuck you unsatisfyingly because you’re bored????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 09:55 AM
3

It’s the flipside to Instagram. But also the economy is totaled. Studying hard and being tip top gets you...not where it got you in 1995 for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 09:44 AM
2

Yup. Men ‘hate’ someone that much you know they want to pay to rape her in their heads.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 09:40 AM
18

She probably thinks she ‘won’. Yes. She won a cheating asshole. Hooray.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 09:37 AM
6

🖖 it’s too much logic for humans I’m sorry 🖖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 09:11 AM
7

🥒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 09:11 AM
5

🍴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 09:10 AM
3

They’re not saying that. They’re saying don’t give people you’re not 1000% sure of a weapon. And yes, mental health info is used all the time to ruin relationships and jobs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 09:03 AM
5

They’re not saying to hide a mental illness or trauma needs. They’re saying not to give the story behind it at the risk of being gaslit. Not all bad boyfriends are sniggering villains it’s just few people are totally objective about psyche trauma.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 09:00 AM
19

I cannot overemphasize this. Even good men don’t fucking understand what it’s like to be female; they just don’t. Don’t give them rope to hang themselves if everything else is good. Let them deal with your symptoms, never the story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 08:57 AM
10

I knew my last relationship (ever) with a LVM was ending when he was trying to get me to eat shitty food.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 08:55 AM
19

Louder for those in the back. Weirdly it’s self hatred taken out on us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 08:54 AM
4

Huh, same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 08:44 AM
9

I love this sub for similar reasons. Mostly the entire paradigm shift. Accepting only good treatment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 08:42 AM
13

JFC. Although I knew something was up when I was a teen and my dad expressed jealousy that my mother’s insults made me cry and his didn’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 08:41 AM
15

He wouldn’t, objectively speaking. It why he mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 07:39 AM
1

🤣 🤣 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 07:38 AM
7

Someone from a similar background took me on a first date. I noticed this in the restaurant and it made everything else just go a bit off. Still I thought maybe there were extenuating circumstances. Second date they were still that way so it was the kicker on the other...unconscious ...behaviors I’d learned a bit about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 12:27 AM
8

Mr. Darcy, to be fair, paid a shitton of money and his own efforts up and down the country to resolve things for Miss Bennett’s family in several areas, before asking to get with her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 12:19 AM
12

Never and I repeat never let a relationship with someone you’re fucking take priority over someone who has had your back no fucking involved. Oh god. I just reread it and it’s worse. Anyone who would date her sister’s abusive ex’s brother doesn’t deserve a sister. I’m so sorry for the sister and this double trauma.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 12:12 AM
19

I laughed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 12:09 AM
22

Intellectual rebel means ‘I will act like someone switched my apple juice for piss and make it your fault just like when I was 5’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 12:07 AM
78

🥇 🎖 🏅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 12:06 AM
10

I finally figured it out on my last lvm ever when I did intensive research on his ex combined with his ‘she wuz broken n crazy’ informative tales. girl survived a terrible childhood (probably left marks that drew her to his lame ass), is basically self-made, and clearly has an insane amount of ambition. I have no idea if she’s a good person but she’s worked 10,000x harder than lvm, and that threatened him. Sir, you like broken bc you get to call it crazy when she won’t make you a sandwich after …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 12:03 AM
7

Well my biggest fear is being locked in an abusive relationship because I ignored those red flags but I hope you like cooking after you’ve been beaten, sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 04:05 AM
4

I wonder this too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 04:03 AM
8

I’ll add my story and I can tell you it came out of trauma and ended in trauma and was just a bad time. I look at girls the age I was when I met him...they’re babies. Little babies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 09:21 AM
10

Low self esteem is always the answer. Fortunately I know I can be sad at way uglier and poorer than either of those women and so the only way to go is up, it will remind me to do better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 09:19 AM
11

Oh I remember this. I was 24 looking 18 still. It was a ducking nightmare and I nearly swore off the male species.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 09:15 AM
7

Do you have more of this lsd? It sounds freeing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 09:14 AM
5

🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 09:04 AM
14

Fortunately for us, Compulsive Heteronormativity isn’t Compulsive Heterosexuality. They’re not recruiting for anything, they’re just saying it’s ok not to be a sex doll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 09:02 AM
4

Yes. If you don’t think so, watch how regular old women have no sex drive in a suffocating relationship but then they get out of it and bam, horny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 09:01 AM
8

I recently messaged a man on social media because I had a question about information he mentioned in a comment. His profile picture shows he was recently married. He ‘wants to talk again sometime’ Boi what
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 11:19 PM
14

Plot twist: he is the conga line
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 11:15 PM
8

It’s ‘I’m gonna pretend you’re not gorgeous so hopefully you feel bad enough to compromise your standards and your selfcare for my online penis gratification’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 11:13 PM
6

‘Where are you going making that stink-face, dahling?’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 11:12 PM
15

I need ‘think of the penis’ on a coffee mug. On the other side, ‘Wait, no time.’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 11:12 PM
22

by hiding it in the conscience of a victim Yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 11:08 PM
46

Yup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 11:07 PM
15

Part of the external motivation I haven’t heard yet is money. Not in the golddigging sense. But women are still paid less than men for the same job. We are actually the stronger gender—I was on AskWomen the other day and all these men were overwhelmed at the thought of experiencing sexual harassment daily since puberty or before. Of their opinion not mattering in a meeting just because they’re female. Of other men in the thread trying to make it about male pain. It may have dawned on some of the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 08:03 PM
23

The flavor is called ‘hating you for existing and reminding them that not only are they not as attractive as some dude they made up competing for you, they’re also not kind or responsible’. This is where stalking and murder exes originate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 07:58 PM
24

Agreed. The bullet I managed to dodge before I needed full on therapy was objectively a god, physically. Ironically that’s what made me actually examine his personality. (Revenge of the stereotype society has about beauty in women lol). I see a lot of personality ascribed to not attractive, actually kind of mean men just because there’s not much else to say about them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 07:55 PM
5

WHAT IS THIS AND WHERE DO I SIGN UP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:28 AM
29

This has always upset me. She’s being humiliated, intentionally, and we’re trying to badmouth her further?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:27 AM
16

This makes me so happy for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 03:17 AM
15

As long as they know it’s derogatory and true, yes. ☕️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 03:16 AM
20

Wait you mean this sub got tagged above: r/MGTOW r/seduction r/redpill And countless others which describe living breathing humans who did absolutely nothing at all besides not have sex with them as meatpuppets and worse language? Advocate for women to be ‘allocated’ as ‘sex slaves’ by the government because they’re ‘ruining the world’? I knew parts of Reddit were a cesspool of shit but didn’t know it included the powers that be. We’re going to have to stop giving them money and work out our own…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 03:13 AM
18

She didn’t do anything. The comment means ‘why didn’t your dad protect you...ie sit on questionable Santa’ Because most men don’t know/care their friends are pervs until their own daughters are the target.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 02:59 AM
33

Men said all kinds of things to me that made them laugh when I was 12 because they either thought I didn’t understand or I couldn’t do anything about it. I hope they all drank themselves to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 02:57 AM
13

I think most of us are. It’s grown fucking men wanting to destroy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 02:56 AM
8

Everyone I know who wasn’t molested at say 5 by a pedo, said that men-on-the-street noticed them visibly at 10-14.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 02:52 AM
7

“Aannoying” “bitchy” “clingy” These words could on the off chance be what they mean. “Intimidating” however ALWAYS means ‘your competence or presence makes me feel unworthy of your interest and I’m gonna go hide now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 02:49 AM
30

I cut my hair, the attention went away. It grew back out 5 fucking years later (theoretically due to pedo bullshit I should be ‘less’ attractive now, but...no) and all the attention is back. Loose weight, wear ‘feminine’ clothes, get a boob job, whatever. It all has zero to do with you. Erection town. It’s like they’re just bulls with flags.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 01:04 AM
9

Life circumstances are life circumstances but this dude opens with contradicting her one request. You played yourself, Teddy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 10:36 PM
3

I think this is true for a lot of people
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 06:26 AM
12

“I’m gonna die before my 21st so we need to fuck drunk rn even though you’re mad at me, right?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 04:05 AM
15

Your best friend needs to run. I’m her, 5 years on. Plus some time post break. Please maintain contact and do not stint with the leading questions about ‘do they actually take care of you and what goes down when your feelings are shattered’ Show her what a person which really cares about her is like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 04:02 AM
21

I think it’s best summed up as ‘hurt a hot girl now (insult) or hurt her later (god forbid when they interact later). Because the goal was always hurting hot girls. Realizing this^ connects up the dots of street harassment, school codes, domestic violence apathy, every dating guide ‘for men’ ever, bro code, glass ceilings, assault statistics, ‘what was she wearing’, acid attacks, stalker exes, pedo apologists, murder for breaking up...I could go on. They know they cannot control the pee pee. The…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 08:52 PM
44

Cargo shorts are the condom of emotions May I use this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 09:12 AM
14

Try it, it’s amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 09:11 AM
4

It feels good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 09:11 AM
51

The first time a man seriously disrespects you is the last time. Doesn’t matter what subject.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 08:54 PM
4

The spin on this article is gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 02:45 AM
3

That last line tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 02:14 AM
20

This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 02:06 AM
10

I wish his pee pee had been hurt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 02:04 AM
3

If she was truely not fun, I have heard ‘I didn’t like how she was treating our relationship’, but every time I hear ‘she was crazy’ it’s always...him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 02:00 AM
0

Imagine not doing something immensely healthy for yourself but doing it full steam to bamboozle others. Why? If you’re actually a healthy happy person it works like Axe body spray claimed to and you can’t peel off the ladies. —sincerely, a lady into ladies
/r/seduction14/11/20 05:57 AM
3

There’s a reason for millions of sperm lol. They do all the heavy lifting, dudes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 04:38 AM
7

I learned some odd informational things about an ex’s previous gf during a breakup. Glad it solidified my decision.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 04:37 AM
4

It’s performance based but that also makes them insecure. 😟
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 04:35 AM
21

I wish they’d feed us chef food but they out here with McDonalds
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 04:34 AM
6

larger than theirs, and she’ll be able to tell Yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 04:32 AM
17

Nah the LVMs I’ve met are equal opportunity ‘something besides my dick was in it so it’s ruined now’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 04:31 AM
59

Ex tried this on me I was like. “The size of a healthy baby and the size of a healthy shit are not remotely close to each other.” The sphincter is one-way, darling. Certainly mine is. If I was say a gay male, into it and interested in spending all the prep and risks, then maybe. But not just so you can spelunk because you saw it at 2 am one night.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 04:30 AM
15

<Isaiah Mustafa voice> Hello, Ladies. Let me ask you—look down, look up, look back at me, now in the mirror, is that your face? Now back at me. That’s right. You are a woman. You’re welcome. sparkles into the sunset
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 07:24 AM
2

Do both
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 04:36 PM
5

I have a friend and an ex friend with this problem. Both were assaulted by older men in their teens, one was groomed extensively as a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 04:27 PM
3

People speak with actions. If he’s acting shitty that’s how he likes it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 04:25 PM
4

If you want me to cry with you over shit you did to your own life, that’s called therapy and you owe me $200. “But you talk to your friends!” “They’re my friends. They show up at 3 am. You show up at 3 am I’ll talk to you.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 04:00 PM
6

I laughed because it’s true and two (past) men say so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 03:59 PM
8

They should be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 03:53 PM
5

All of me not just my sexual and emotional labor 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 03:50 PM
7

Standards. Am bi and my attraction to men in general fluctuates heavily given the average treatment of me. It’s a clue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 03:48 PM
5

Yeah. Like life is hard and we don’t all start with a silver spoon. But if this isn’t temporary, it’s permanent, and it’s not your best so don’t settle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 03:23 AM
7

The problem with shelters are that they are only designed to keep you from freezing to death or starving, even when they’re not crowded out. It’s almost impossible to comply with shelter regulations, staff, and messed up other occupants and keep a job that makes significant money to get rent. Certainly in cities like these.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 03:17 AM
29

Probably this isn’t the first way they went wrong
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 10:20 PM
57

A casual perusal of cragislist gets lots of these. Particularly in crazy stratified cities, LA, SF etc. Usually they’re not living with their parents, they’re just a piece of shit looking to exploit a ‘female’ that needs a roof.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 10:19 PM
16

Yes, not a lot of heart has gone into this "gift". In Chinese we call it no "誠意", and it's perfectly fine in Chinese culture to dislike a gift because of that. Would ‘without sincere intentions’ be a good approximation?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 08:08 PM
7

Ooof. Tied down indeed. Ladies cuffing season is a drug.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 07:55 PM
35

I’ll admit I only know the storyline. But at the end how is being part of a cult that controls even how you are supposed to feel not being a pickme? How is it triumphant? Are we talking about the same movie?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 07:53 PM
1

As someone who has had multiple acquaintances obviously with a man for security emotional or financial yet either stockholmed or lying because the man was so awful to be around for 5 seconds...yes. Relationships get curated too. That’s something people don’t remember. All relationships. For someone outside the relationship. Curated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 07:47 PM
8

It triggers you out of the script. Most of us live with massive cognitive dissonance daily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 07:20 PM
4

Still better than getting taken for a ride by some boy who doesn’t know he’s taking you for a ride till that morning when he texts you goodbye and is kissing your classmate by 6th period. Just saying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 07:18 PM
10

Lets start calling this what it is. Mommy issues. God knows any woman who makes any bad choice or lazy moment or questionable dynamic or just random tragedy has ‘daddy issues’. Time for equality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 07:06 PM
29

Yuuuuup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 09:25 AM
31

The crisis was already happening, it’s just you’re aware of it now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 09:23 AM
55

I didn’t date in high school. Instead I focused on creating and keeping strong friendships. Best decision ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 08:05 AM
35

I mean I think we should follow the +/- years rule here too. I personally felt ready at 18/19 to date, but would have been way in over my head with a 25 year old. The younger you are the more likely an age gap is unhealthy and predatory so it should be smaller the younger you are. Keep the dating to people near your age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 07:56 AM
31

This is huge. Your world is extremely skewed right now. This is a good thing, in that it’s more titrated for you to handle, but it’s also a hard thing in that every little thing you do or someone says to you carries huge weight about how you might see your world and future. It’s just part of being a teen, biologically and socially, how your brain equipment is developing. I wish someone had told me that growing up so here it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 07:53 AM
97

After age 25 don’t date anyone more than 5 years older. After 30 you can go up to 10 if you really wish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 07:51 AM
8

😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 01:11 AM
19

This is also what’s behind all these “male experts” saying “Men compartmentalize” Yeah when compartmentalization like this happens among friends or coworkers, people get unfriended and fired. No gender changes shitty behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 12:16 AM
3

Yuuuuuup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 12:15 AM
1

Try MAMAMOO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 07:27 AM
7

Yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 07:25 AM
17

If you have shit insurance you have to see primary first. Hope OP has decent stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 07:23 AM
48

Yes. Male doctors are your mediocre white male on steroids, cranked to 800% power. I had a few bad, bad experiences as a child and now I refuse to see anyone else abused in this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 07:20 AM
37

He took off his mask? Report him stat. Bring it up if they won’t let you change doctors. Tell admin he is ‘endangering your safety and health’ If you have time and juice, I’m sure the local health board would love to know that an instated physician is breaking CDC medical guidelines in order to abuse a patient.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 07:18 AM
82

This is extremely troubling, yes. Not just for all your hassle and invasive nonsense, but because your healthcare plan is too important to trust this asshat with. You need a new primary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 07:15 AM
34

When I cut my hair men stopped holding doors for me. I became enlightened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 07:11 AM
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