| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 24 | New here. Oblivious wife is inconsiderate and disrespectful. Do I STFU or call it out? | Basic Question | blackjackjackblack10 | /r/askMRP | 18/07/21 12:27 PM |
| 23 | Wife keeps asking if everything is alright | Basic Question | blackjackjackblack10 | /r/askMRP | 10/08/21 11:35 PM |
| 12 | How to stop micromanaging? | Basic Question | blackjackjackblack10 | /r/askMRP | 18/10/21 03:12 AM |
| 7 | Insecurity, codependency, so many comfort test? | blackjackjackblack10 | /r/askMRP | 11/09/21 12:58 AM | |
| 6 | Wanting to explode when STFU? | blackjackjackblack10 | /r/askMRP | 21/08/21 04:16 PM | |
| 1 | Leading by example? | Field Report | blackjackjackblack10 | /r/askMRP | 21/07/21 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Leading by example? | Basic Question | blackjackjackblack10 | /r/askMRP | 21/07/21 04:38 AM |
| 1 | New behavior coming off as shady | Victim Puke | blackjackjackblack10 | /r/askMRP | 11/08/21 05:07 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 2 | Hysteric bondingHahah oh the irony. May you should reread your comments What am I going to do? Go back to collecting Pokémon cards like a retard. Have a great day bud | /r/askMRP | 30/10/21 01:02 PM |
| 2 | Hysteric bondingI’ve made more money flipping Pokémon cards than you have calling people retards for free on a subreddit behind the screen for hours a day. In fact I’m sure I’ve made more in a month selling cardboard to teenagers than you have in 6 months. Who’s the retarded teenage girl now, bill. And if you find happiness and value in calling random dudes on the internet names on a hourly basis. Good for you. Some of us find value in more productive things and aren’t as miserable. Im happy for you, you alpha … | /r/askMRP | 30/10/21 05:00 AM |
| 3 | Hysteric bondingIt was rhetorical because Sbill has to say the word retard in all his posts so he can feel better about himself. It added no value otherwise | /r/askMRP | 27/10/21 12:56 AM |
| 2 | How to stop micromanaging?Bro for real all I see you do on here is call everyone a retard what a waste of your time. Either you have no life. Or you hate yours. You’re like a 13 year old going around acting tough in YouTube comments. | /r/askMRP | 27/10/21 12:53 AM |
| 1 | How to stop micromanaging?good shit. Thank you | /r/askMRP | 20/10/21 11:03 AM |
| 1 | How to stop micromanaging?This was really solid advice with an action plan attached to it. Thank you. Sub needs more people like you. I have a tendency to try to make everything perfect. It’s exhausting. | /r/askMRP | 18/10/21 11:38 AM |
| 1 | How to stop micromanaging?Bitter pill to swallow. Thank you | /r/askMRP | 18/10/21 11:35 AM |
| 7 | How to stop micromanaging?Wow. This is it… sadly. When I first read your post I thought. It’s about wanting it done right. But as I continued. I realized it’s about none of that. At home it’s about being right. And at work it’s about getting recognition. | /r/askMRP | 18/10/21 11:33 AM |
| 3 | How to stop micromanaging?I figured this. And it makes sense. The example you provided irritates the fuck out of me when people do that. So I get it and is the reason why I’m here. I guess in the situation of my co workers doing something wrong. I just have to let it go then too If I’m not able to help with them? | /r/askMRP | 18/10/21 11:31 AM |
| 0 | Own your shit. Earn your happiness.Forget the sex. Congrats on getting your mental right. And your life back | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/09/21 05:49 PM |
| 1 | STFU for the first timeI’ve actually been taking acting classes guess the 299$ a month is paying off. Anyway looks like you got it all figured out. Congrats | /r/askMRP | 14/09/21 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Insecurity, codependency, so many comfort test?You know what as I read that. I remembered she had said me she wanted to learn to play the cello. 💡 Good shit needed this | /r/askMRP | 12/09/21 06:56 PM |
| 7 | STFU for the first timeWhat are you looking to get from this post? A yes? A no? Validation that you did a STFU and now you’re a man? “I finally said fuck it last night and started solving my problems” All that in one night? Damn Slow down there killer. Save some alpha for the rest of us | /r/askMRP | 12/09/21 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Insecurity, codependency, so many comfort test?Yes. I had a feeling this was missing and I started writing down ways I could have her add value for me by directing her. “Hey babe I’m going to need to you to grab the groceries for us today. Here’s the list. You find the better deals anyway” She said “surely!” The dinner example is a good one for me to build off of also. I will say I am finding it difficult to find ways for her add valve other than kids. Sex. House chores. Like I said above I have everything else pretty much covered. I’m not s… | /r/askMRP | 12/09/21 06:46 PM |
| 2 | Insecurity, codependency, so many comfort test?Copy. Thank you | /r/askMRP | 11/09/21 05:14 PM |
| 2 | Insecurity, codependency, so many comfort test?Sounds good brother | /r/askMRP | 11/09/21 12:05 PM |
| 5 | Insecurity, codependency, so many comfort test?Got it. When I started out I had no fucking clue what my mission was it. I’d read through the OYS post and see a lot of guys making these type of things part of their mission and I felt like it fit with what I do want to become. I never realized it was shitty to want to live for your children. but I get what you’re saying. Becoming a man of value, self confidence, frame, and less emotional would be better and in return would make me a better father. Am I following you correct ? | /r/askMRP | 11/09/21 10:46 AM |
| 1 | Insecurity, codependency, so many comfort test?I think I see what you’re saying. Instead of being “a better role model for my children.” It’s better to - be a man with frame who isn’t Validation seeking. Become more confident in myself. A man who isn’t run by his emotions. A man who isn’t dependent on a substance to function (recovering addict). becoming a man of value. And Being present when spending time with my family Am I following you correctly? When I first started I had no clue what my mission was or where to begin. So I started with … | /r/askMRP | 11/09/21 10:39 AM |
| 1 | Insecurity, codependency, so many comfort test?My mission right now is to be a better father and a leader! A role model for my children. To find a better career (was working a miserable job) which I had been busy with as my main focus and I start a new job Monday. To do more things with the family. Which I hired a baby sitter and got us away last weekend. To invest our finances properly so we can travel more and have the kids taken care of, which I’ve been looking into and working towards. I agree with you totally. I guess I’m having a hard … | /r/askMRP | 11/09/21 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Insecurity, codependency, so many comfort test?Yes. And I did give that some thought. What do I want from her. But honestly. I don’t have much of an answer other than what she already does. Besides working out and maybe having a hobby. She’s a great mother, and tends to my needs. Cooks, cleans, she’s pretty bad ass. But she might ask me what I need her to do for the day or what can she do to make my life easier. And besides the kids. I say take care of what you need to get done (her work stuff. And side business.) Because I pretty much have … | /r/askMRP | 11/09/21 01:34 AM |
| 1 | changed behavior and silence treatmentYou’re right by I’m not operating in my frame when this happens. He’s very young (1 year) and when this happens in public. I can’t help it. I get instant anxiety. I’m empathetic and before I had a kid I used to be the guy thinking. Damn shut your kid up we’re trying to enjoy our dinner. So now I think everyone’s thinking that about me. I get I shouldn’t care but it’s a behavior that definitely has been embedded in me over time. So it’ll take some solid work. So I won’t disagree with that. How to… | /r/askMRP | 11/09/21 01:18 AM |
| 1 | changed behavior and silence treatmentGreat incite. I have a question related to the part we’re removing your child from the store. Promotes the frame of “if I don’t want to be here I will act up and daddy will take me somewhere else” As a new parent and given what you wrote, what would be the right thing to do if your kids flipping out in a store or restaurant. Ignore it? I always thought removing is the best option. After all you don’t want to be that guy who has a screaming kid ruining everyone Else’s time around you | /r/askMRP | 10/09/21 11:15 PM |
| 2 | Women who like guys who chase.So true. Also that’s separates a creepy guy from a non creepy guy…neediness. Be attractive. | /r/askMRP | 10/09/21 10:40 PM |
| 2 | Why is there so much hate and negativity here and on MRP sub?What are you trying to prove? Your wife cut you off for sex found an orbiter and now you’re the comedian? | /r/askMRP | 09/09/21 02:42 AM |
| -1 | Why is there so much hate and negativity here and on MRP sub?Damn Trengod look what you started. You even got the endorsed guys DEERing up in here | /r/askMRP | 07/09/21 05:26 PM |
| 6 | Why is there so much hate and negativity here and on MRP sub?Off topic but I noticed you practically live on here and comment on every single post. Maybe this is the reason your wife is always on her phone. She’s following your shitty lead. Your wife spends time on BS celebrity news all day. And you give out advice to random strangers on the internet while your own ship is sinking. Do you see the correlation? | /r/askMRP | 07/09/21 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Wanting to explode when STFU?“It took a few more months, but George began to change. The most significant change was a conscious decision to quit trying to make Susan happy. He realized that his attempts to please her weren’t working and were causing him to feel resentful.” Literally just read in this NMMNG after reading your comment. Damn | /r/askMRP | 22/08/21 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Wanting to explode when STFU?No just to understand. For me to internalize something. I need to understand it and make sense of it | /r/askMRP | 22/08/21 01:44 PM |
| -1 | Wanting to explode when STFU?You’re an idiot. And let me guess the earth is flat too. | /r/askMRP | 22/08/21 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Wanting to explode when STFU?Alright let me ask you this. You mow your neighbors lawns Bc you want to do a good deed. Later that week he trims his hedges and throws all of the branches in your yard. Do you just stfu and clean it up until he does it the next time? Or do you say. Yo? What gives, get your shit out of yard? | /r/askMRP | 22/08/21 04:31 AM |
| 4 | Wanting to explode when STFU?I think that’s given women too little credit. Being a good human to your partner isn’t much more than a respect thing. But what do I know. | /r/askMRP | 22/08/21 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Wanting to explode when STFU?I’d agree with you | /r/askMRP | 22/08/21 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Wanting to explode when STFU?Thank you this helped. Good to know some one else has felt This way | /r/askMRP | 22/08/21 03:04 AM |
| 2 | Wanting to explode when STFU?I did want to. But if you mow your neighbors lawn Bc you want to do a good deed. And then he cuts his bushes and throws all the branches in your yard. I doubt you’re going to just be okay with it. And just stfu and clean them up until he does it next time. | /r/askMRP | 22/08/21 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Wanting to explode when STFU?Actually pretty brilliant. Good reference | /r/askMRP | 21/08/21 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Wanting to explode when STFU?That’s a good idea actually. Thank you | /r/askMRP | 21/08/21 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Wanting to explode when STFU?Alright then I’ll ask. Did you ever deal with something like this in the beginning? How did you handle or let go of your anger or come to terms with it | /r/askMRP | 21/08/21 05:57 PM |
| -4 | Wanting to explode when STFU?I been doing the work. I just not there yet and in the meantime these things are what I’m facing. So you’re telling me to just deal with it. And stfu anyway. Is what I’m getting from This. Fair enough but telling me I complain more than a chick on pms is valueless and a better than thou statement. When we all been in similar situations first starting out. and doesn’t deserve a response more than I wrote | /r/askMRP | 21/08/21 05:50 PM |
| -3 | Wanting to explode when STFU?Thanks for the incite! | /r/askMRP | 21/08/21 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Wanting to explode when STFU?K. | /r/askMRP | 21/08/21 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Wife keeps asking if everything is alrightThat’s a great way to handle it. The problem then comes when I deligate task to her. That she feels like she already busy enough and I’m adding more to it. | /r/askMRP | 11/08/21 02:49 AM |
| 5 | Wife keeps asking if everything is alrightAwesome post I will re read it to make sure I’m getting it. But she has been throwing a lot of comfort test at me and been very horny. I like that post I will put it to use | /r/askMRP | 11/08/21 02:47 AM |
| 0 | Leading by example?Thank you for this. Instead of calling me a moron like the rest of the “enlightened” guys on here | /r/askMRP | 22/07/21 01:15 AM |
| -3 | Leading by example?Can you elaborate what you mean by that? | /r/askMRP | 21/07/21 07:12 PM |
| 0 | Leading by example?So your advice would be to keep reading and STFU am I reading that right | /r/askMRP | 21/07/21 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Leading by example?Helpful. Anyone can come on here and call people morons with no construction Criticism. Im sure you were perfect when you started your journey too bud. I know I’m doing shit wrong. I’m just starting out. But coming here to just call me a moron doesn’t do shit for anyone | /r/askMRP | 21/07/21 06:11 PM |
| -2 | Leading by example?If I should be setting boundaries/standards for my house hold. Or continue to do everything the way I want it and hope she jumps on board. Yea so retarded. | /r/askMRP | 21/07/21 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Leading by example?Makes sense. So STFU and keep on keeping on | /r/askMRP | 21/07/21 03:57 PM |
| -6 | Leading by example?So you’re saying it’s unreasonable to hold my wife to a standard while she’s living under my roof. I’d have to disagree with that | /r/askMRP | 21/07/21 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Leading by example?I’m working on the sidebar. This is a basic question I have as I’m working on it | /r/askMRP | 21/07/21 09:43 AM |
| 1 | Leading by example?That’s not answering the question tho. I also don’t find that a useful way to spend money when I have a wife at home doing nothing | /r/askMRP | 21/07/21 09:43 AM |
| 1 | New here. Oblivious wife is inconsiderate and disrespectful. Do I STFU or call it out?I can’t find what this is | /r/askMRP | 20/07/21 09:58 PM |
| 0 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 20, 2021I wasn’t. I was just good at game. And made women my life so I got good with them. But inside. I was a pussy | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/07/21 03:25 PM |
| -3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 20, 2021I’m aware. I mean the numbers are impressive but i get that it doesn’t mean shit | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/07/21 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 20, 2021Every job I’m on I take the leadership role I’m hoping in time this shows and bumps me up the problem is my lack of knowledge on a lot of the different units and equipment. I’m just too new to the trade but I’m working to get that lead position | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/07/21 12:13 PM |
| 2 | New here. Oblivious wife is inconsiderate and disrespectful. Do I STFU or call it out?“The thing is that by caring about her feelings, and trying to fix them. You validate them” When I read this I literally went “ohhh” 💡 that is an interesting prospective and helped me understand that better. The problem isn’t fucking. It’s never been fucking. I’ve slept with more woman than most men ever will. We fuck constantly. Dread is always there. I am attractive in a lot of areas. I just need to fix how I react and handle myself when she is disrespectful, inconsiderate, needy. Etc. it’s al… | /r/askMRP | 20/07/21 11:16 AM |
| 0 | New here. Oblivious wife is inconsiderate and disrespectful. Do I STFU or call it out?Yea time to wake the fuck up | /r/askMRP | 20/07/21 10:11 AM |
| 1 | New here. Oblivious wife is inconsiderate and disrespectful. Do I STFU or call it out?Yes I’m actually very familiar with that video. But it’s hard for me to accept it I think. I’ll get there with time. But there’s a fucking nail in your head. Take it out. Is how my brain works | /r/askMRP | 20/07/21 10:03 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 20, 2021OYS 1 32 | 6’0” | 212lbs | 2 kids (1 & 9 year old) | BP 285 OHP 155 SQ 215 & DL 315 (bad back. I go light) READING: Side bar. Top post. NMMNG MISSION: become an involved father. A great role model for my children. To grow better every day, to live present, confident, move with purpose, and provide value to those around me. To be finically free, and also to be able to give to those I care about, I would l love to do charity work or donate for kids with cancer. Also I want to start my own business… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/07/21 09:44 AM |
| 2 | New here. Oblivious wife is inconsiderate and disrespectful. Do I STFU or call it out?She’s just a hypocrite and I need to learn to deal with it. How to compose myself | /r/askMRP | 19/07/21 11:28 AM |
| 1 | New here. Oblivious wife is inconsiderate and disrespectful. Do I STFU or call it out?I’ll get reading thank you | /r/askMRP | 19/07/21 02:47 AM |
| 2 | New here. Oblivious wife is inconsiderate and disrespectful. Do I STFU or call it out?Needed to hear this. Appreciate you | /r/askMRP | 19/07/21 02:45 AM |
| 1 | New here. Oblivious wife is inconsiderate and disrespectful. Do I STFU or call it out?I plan to. Thanks | /r/askMRP | 18/07/21 10:07 PM |
| 3 | New here. Oblivious wife is inconsiderate and disrespectful. Do I STFU or call it out?You’re right. I don’t want to be that way. But something is wrong with me. I guess it’s ego. When I do so much. And she complain about how much she does all the time and how tired she is. When she barely does anything. I guess I need to keep STFU. | /r/askMRP | 18/07/21 10:06 PM |
| 2 | New here. Oblivious wife is inconsiderate and disrespectful. Do I STFU or call it out?You make huge valid points. And you’re right. I have huge trouble dealing with disrespect. What I’m looking for is how to behave in these situations. For instance. Today we had our sons bday party. We got him a smash cake. Everyone was waiting for us to give it to him before it started raining. She decided she wanted to go and take pictures with everyone at this time. I said “yo come on let’s take pictures later” We give him the cake. He’s having fun with it. After a while she said. Do you want … | /r/askMRP | 18/07/21 10:05 PM |
| 5 | New here. Oblivious wife is inconsiderate and disrespectful. Do I STFU or call it out?Yep. That’s why I’m here! | /r/askMRP | 18/07/21 03:21 PM |
| 5 | New here. Oblivious wife is inconsiderate and disrespectful. Do I STFU or call it out?It’s harder to during the day with a demanding one year old and 9 year old lol | /r/askMRP | 18/07/21 03:20 PM |
| 2 | New here. Oblivious wife is inconsiderate and disrespectful. Do I STFU or call it out?When this happens I get anxiety. I know I’m not supposed to give a fuck about what she says. And her feelings. But when she makes me feel overwhelmed Bc she’s home with the kids and I’m trying to go to the gym. I can’t help but feel anxious as fuck. Even when I try not to care it’s still there | /r/askMRP | 18/07/21 01:49 PM |
| 2 | New here. Oblivious wife is inconsiderate and disrespectful. Do I STFU or call it out?I read it years ago. And then I think once again. But I was at very different points in my life. I could use a refresher. And now that you mention it. I see what ya mean | /r/askMRP | 18/07/21 01:27 PM |
| 7 | New here. Oblivious wife is inconsiderate and disrespectful. Do I STFU or call it out?Sounds good. She does this thing When I do something that. She’ll go “wow. You don’t have to be so nasty”. Or comment on the “way I speak to Her” even if I’m calm. She will act as if I’m yelling at her. It’s a defense mechanism which doesn’t make any sense. Like most of the shit women does. But it’s hard to combat Bc then she just turns into a bitch for the day just because of a comment like “I’m trying to sleep. Knock it off” | /r/askMRP | 18/07/21 12:55 PM |
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