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Healthblahpunchlineblah/r/MensRights31/07/20 01:49 PM
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LTR/MARRIAGEblahpunchlineblah/r/RedPillWomen15/04/20 11:54 PM
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blahpunchlineblah/r/MensRights04/06/20 07:22 PM
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ADVICEblahpunchlineblah/r/RedPillWives10/02/21 11:13 PM
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DISCUSSIONblahpunchlineblah/r/RedPillWives13/12/21 01:49 PM
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blahpunchlineblah/r/MensRights01/10/20 02:30 AM
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ADVICEblahpunchlineblah/r/RedPillWives02/02/21 12:39 PM
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DISCUSSIONblahpunchlineblah/r/RedPillWives15/02/21 05:21 PM
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blahpunchlineblah/r/RedPillWives22/03/21 01:30 PM
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HOMEMAKINGblahpunchlineblah/r/RedPillWives24/11/20 08:27 PM
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Marriage/Childrenblahpunchlineblah/r/MensRights06/03/20 07:27 PM
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Good. My 2 month old son just graduated from physical therapy (tortacolis)!
/r/MensRights24/09/22 02:16 PM
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That's the real issue I have with this. Not that he has an opinion about who should or should not be on magazine covers, but that he was comfortable dishing it, but couldn't take it.
/r/MensRights20/05/22 02:33 PM
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Because they already do. They don't have sick days like in the US. They just need a doctor's note. Debilitating periods are just now also covered. They were not listed as a medical condition before.
/r/MensRights17/05/22 03:55 PM
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If I wanted to NOT accept my insurance through work I could apply for insurance through the ACA, but since I have my works insurance I have to follow those rules. Under ACA more women's preventive care might be free, but that isn't applicable under all insurance
/r/MensRights17/05/22 03:52 PM
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They all are free under the ACA, which I don't have since I get my insurance through my employer.
/r/MensRights16/05/22 07:38 PM
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This is one of those posts I love to see on here (i am a woman), because I always thought that women did have worse healthcare than men. And for some aspects it's true, but there are plenty that I just don't see that show that I can't just pick and choose or make blanket statements.
/r/MensRights16/05/22 07:30 PM
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My (I'm a woman) STD screenings and PAPs are definitely not free.
/r/MensRights16/05/22 07:27 PM
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Spain has unlimited sick leave for medical conditions. Debilitating periods would just now be recognized as a medical condition. They were not covered before.
/r/MensRights13/05/22 02:53 PM
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It's a doctor's note loophole. If you are sick, you need a doctor's note. This allows up to 3 days without a doctor's note for periods.
/r/MensRights13/05/22 02:49 PM
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Spain doesn't have "sick days" like the US does. If you are unable to work, you get a doctor's note and you are not expected to work. This new law just says that women can take up to 3 days of leave without getting a doctor's note due to periods.
/r/MensRights13/05/22 02:48 PM
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I thought the period leave was just "you don't need to get a doctor's note to use 3 days of sick time"
/r/MensRights13/05/22 02:45 PM
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This sounds super unromantic, but can younschedule time together where you are just cuddling watching a YouTube video or Netflix show? On Thursdays at 9PM this is what we do.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/22 07:40 PM
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Really? Maybe it's different in different countries.
/r/MensRights05/05/22 02:59 PM
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That has not been my expierence. Women usually are tested first while SAs are recommended after nothing being found with the woman (without very intrusive testing.)
/r/MensRights05/05/22 12:40 PM
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Little thing that happened today! I have an autoimmune disease and get infusions via IV every 8 weeks. Today was infusion day, and I have a needle phobia, oh, and I'm 26 weeks pregnant. He packed my favorite candy in my lunchbox as a treat for after :)
/r/RedPillWives04/05/22 06:54 PM
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I would not stay with my husband if he cheated. Being a SAHM (I am not, full disclosure) puts women in a unique position and unfortunate scenarios like this are the reason most women on this sub suggest having an education and having method of work to fall back on.
/r/RedPillWives28/04/22 05:03 PM
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Two things. I think because he is a special education teacher he is already thinking ahead to the struggles your son will have in school. But your son is only 3. Your husband might projecting every worst case scenario he can think of and trying to come up with solutions now that can help mitigate them, but there is simply too much unknown for that. The mental burnout is causing secondary reactions and additional stressors. I used to do this and my therapist calls it catastrophizing. The second t…
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/22 01:00 PM
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Went to our birthing class and they had a while section on how to take care of your baby's circumcision. That the American Academy of Pediatrics has seen more benefits to doing one, than to not doing one. We decided to start asking questions about NOT getting one done, just so the other couples in the class knew that someone else there was NOT planning on getting it done.
/r/MensRights25/04/22 01:29 PM
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The affect pregnancy has on a womans body is permanent. It doesn't stop at 9 months, it will affect her for the rest of her life.
/r/MensRights14/04/22 12:35 PM
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Yeah, this only happened because the single women were being asked for sexual contact in exchange for accommodation.
/r/MensRights14/04/22 12:32 PM
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22 weeks pregnant and I am sick! Not sure if it's a bad cold or covid (waiting on test results), but I feel terrible. I just hope my baby doesn't feel bad too.
/r/RedPillWives06/04/22 02:18 PM
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Lesson learned! If you are adding lemon juice to a cream based sauce ADD IT TO COLD CREAM. My first batch of creamy lemon pasta sauce split on the stove, but when I added the lemon to the cold heavy whipping cream THEN heat it up on the stove, it worked perfectly!
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/22 03:05 PM
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I was diagnosed with an autoimmune disease after 1 year of marriage (7 years together), right when we were planning on trying for a baby. I ended up attending therapy because I felt like I had failed my husband by getting this disease, or that I did something wrong to cause it to happen to me. I understand now that neither are true. I am in remission now, 1 year later, and people always how much I have had to deal with, but no one ever comments to my husband that he had to deal with just as much…
/r/MensRights29/03/22 12:56 PM
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I remember when this subject was talked about a lot when Season 1 of Brigerton came out (spoiler alter, because this happens). I could see it coming up again because Season 2 just dropped.
/r/MensRights29/03/22 12:47 PM
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Yep! I have an autoimmune disease, I get not finding jokes about it funny, but that does NOT mean you get to instigate violence due to it. You could have just done an interview after. Saying that making a joke about a disease isn't appropriate.
/r/RedPillWives28/03/22 02:23 PM
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You're correct. I shouldn't do blanket statements like that. Better phraseing: BC should be considered like every other prescription and not handled so casually, as it currently is.
/r/MensRights24/03/22 02:19 PM
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I get so mad thinking about how I wasn't told about all the issues BC could cause me. I found out that BC increases the likelihood of crohn's disease AFTER I was diagnosed with it. Doctors just prescribe it without any thought or discussion. We did condoms and BBT tracking and NEVER had a pregnancy scare. 2 months of actual trying resulted in a pregnancy. I am never going on BC ever again and I wouldn't reccomend anyone else either.
/r/MensRights24/03/22 01:02 PM
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I have been seeing male celebrities open up about this in recent years. Christopher Egglestton, Sebastian Stan, Ed Sheeran, Zayne Malik, Rob Pattinson, and more. I hope that more men can see that they aren't alone and feel comfortable reaching out to get help.
/r/MensRights23/03/22 01:16 PM
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For couples I can see how it gets missed. Mom has just gone through an ordeal. Labor is extremely physically and mentally demanding and after she has control over how her body responds. The hormone drop from pregnant to not pregnant is WILD and not everyine responds the same way. She now is bleeding, trying to breastfeed, recovering from stitches, may not be able to go to the bathroom without help, and can't drive or even go up stairs. It's so easy to forget about dad in this situation. Watching…
/r/MensRights22/03/22 01:59 PM
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Currentmy 19 weeks pregnant genetic screening is available and encouraged at most OB offices. It isn't mandatory because it can be super expensive. I got every test possible done chromosome screening, carrier screening, the works. We were comfortable paying for it (and the peace of mind for coming back as low risk for everything). I offered paternity for my husband for when our kid is born. No judgment, just if he wanted it we would get it done. He declined. Maternity wards have crazy security n…
/r/MensRights20/03/22 10:55 PM
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30F here. We are taught to. I started walking to school in middle school. I was told stories about my mother's rape when she was walking to school as a kid. I was told that it I shouldn't fear all men, but any man can be the one that will rape me. I was told I will be raped at some point in my life. So when I walked down the street I see a man and thought 'is it going to be this one? Is this when it finally happens to me? I know I can't do anything. I'm not strong, I'm probably not outrunning hi…
/r/MensRights16/03/22 02:47 PM
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Started lurking on here a while ago when I started looking for alternative view points. I realized that I was in a echo chamber and every part of my life was suffering because of it. My relationship wasn't strong, I wasn't happy. I stepped out if the twoX mindset. I try not to comment here too often because this isn't my space, but every once in a while I can contribute something specific.
/r/MensRights07/03/22 09:04 PM
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Most herbal supplements are NOT recommended for pregnancy.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/22 03:54 PM
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Hey, I am 17 weeks pregnant and can relate kinda to this. First trimester is HARD. Exhaustion, sickness, and just new changes are overwhelming. Hot take here: having less sex shouldn't make you feel guilty, and if he was a real provider he would understand. I don't care that his drive is higher than yours. What is going to happen postpartum? 6 weeks is the average amount of time, most women I know took about 8 weeks for PIV sex. My sex drive went back up just recently, but you have bigger issues…
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/22 03:52 PM
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I try to call out, especially at work, double standards. Examples: I had a bridal shower thrown for me at work and everyine chipped in to get me gifts, about $200 worth. My male coworker didn't get one, which if he doesn't want the party is fine, but not having the same opportunity for gift giving bothered me, so I set it up so he was able to get gifts as well. A woman asked my very busy male coworker to help carry something, I told her I would help instead because I had some down time.
/r/MensRights04/03/22 06:57 PM
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Still pregnant, but we are not going to circumcise our son. I'm worried about other caregivers not understanding how to clean properly and that they might damage by pulling it back prematurely or something similar.
/r/MensRights02/03/22 03:24 PM
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Kinda similar story for me! I went on a couple first dates before I met my husband is college, but I always felt 'off' (I like your description of feeling ill) and just not right. I had been kissed before, and light petting, but that was really it. Husband was the same way. I think one big reason why our relationship worked is because we were in the same place and looking for the same thing. We were in college, but not party people, didn't have experience, was looking for a serious 'marriage mat…
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/22 06:34 PM
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I will be 30 when I give birth to my first, and I am planning on another child after that! Because you know that yoy want kids, you can do SO much to prepare your body and eggs for pregnancy. There are tons of resources on it! There is no reason you can't have healthy children!! Edit: also, I have an autoimmune disease and still decide to have biological children. There is a chance that I will pass it on to my kids, but my life is not so horrible that I wish I wasn't alive.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/22 02:04 PM
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Yeah! I have lurked on this sub for a while, but more so once I found out I am pregnant with a boy.
/r/MensRights22/02/22 01:52 PM
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This is something I am concerned about. During my pregnancy so far my husband has definitely had some sympathy symptoms. And he has admitted he is worried about newborn care and making a mistake to hurt our baby. I, along with many women, babysat at a teen and I did infant care in church for a long time so I am reasonably confident, but he never had those experiences. Plus, his work doesn't give any paternity time for him to be home and really bond at the newborn level. He'll have his vacation t…
/r/MensRights11/02/22 07:06 PM
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Random female perspective. The cervix moves depending on where in her cycle she is. During her period is when the cervix is the lowest, ovulation (midpoint of cycle, usually) is when it's the highest. So that will factor in too. A position might not feel good at the begining or end of the cycle, but toward the middle ot might work better.
/r/MensRights05/02/22 03:22 PM
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Officially 10 weeks today. I'm getting to the point where I am feeling better, which makes me think something is wrong. I had the nurse education visit today and I just realized there is so much that could go wrong. So many genetic issues to be checked for and it is a bit overwhelming.
/r/RedPillWives13/01/22 07:24 PM
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Have not seen the movie yet. Isn't Peter Parker supposed to be a young teen, like in high school? His character shouldn't be sexualized at all because the character is underage (even if the actor is not).
/r/MensRights19/12/21 03:24 PM
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I'm super suprised! We had 30mph wind from the storms in the south so I had to collect things from the yard so they wouldn't blow away and rhe 'Why didn't he help?' Because he was sick, Jan. I'm not so helpless, I can't move some patio furniture.
/r/RedPillWives13/12/21 03:34 PM
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Thank you so much!
/r/RedPillWives01/12/21 04:07 PM
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IM PREGNANT!! I have posted before when I was diagnosed with my autoimmune disease and this sub was very helpful. I'm so excited!!!
/r/RedPillWives01/12/21 02:11 PM
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My mom proposed to my dad, and when I told my now husband the story, he asked me (I'm a woman) not to because he wanted to propose to me.
/r/MensRights04/11/21 06:38 PM
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The scheduled date nights is what we did too!
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/21 02:58 PM
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Husband and I have officially started trying for our frist child! It's such a strange place to be, we have not told anyone, and don't plan to so I feel a bit giddy holding on this this 'secret'.
/r/RedPillWives26/10/21 02:01 AM
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I have a chronic illness, crohn's. It's a very...crass disease. It's an inflammation disease that affects my intestines so I can have bathroom issues. It's the most unfeminine disease (but is any disease feminine?). It took me a long time to come to terms with it. I still see a therapist actually, but I cannot change my disease, I can only change my mindset. Does my husband have to make sacrifices for me, yes. It means that we have to establish a more fluid life because diseases are unpredictabl…
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/21 06:34 PM
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It sou ds ike this is what he has wanted for a while and was putting 'feelers' out to see if you would want it as well. He didn't want to lose you so he agreed but now that you are engaged he thinks the relationship is secure enough to make it a demand. If you do not want this, as you have told him MULTIPLE times, then it is a dealbreaker for you. You have to sit down and tell him exactly what the means for you. You need to present the options of 1) the relationship will stay monogamous and this…
/r/RedPillWives12/10/21 07:27 PM
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Is this something he has mentioned before?
/r/RedPillWives12/10/21 06:29 PM
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I posted on this sub 8 months ago after being diagnosed with the autoimmune disease crohn's. I was very lost, upset, and scared about my future and my dream to start a family. I had 8 inches of damage in my small intestine and was bleeding internally. I couldn't get treatment for 3 months because I was also diagnosed with latent tuberculosis and had to have that treatment first. Yesterday, my doctor told me I now have only 1 cm of damage, my new medication is working very well and I am healthy e…
/r/RedPillWives09/10/21 06:03 PM
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Even aside from all this the pill can increase risk for developing IBD/IBD. I didn't know this until after I was diagnosed with an IBD, unfortunately. But there are so many health factors at risk. Being on the pill is a huge regret of mine.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/21 01:11 PM
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I would suggest looking into Pajar (canadian brand) and Sorel. Both have great winter/waterproof selections and both are very comfy. Also, you can have a pair of 'desk shoes' or shoes you put on when you get to work and take off before you leave. That's what I usually do.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/21 01:07 PM
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Would it be possible to do a doggy daycare for a bit? Let him socialize and get energy out?
/r/RedPillWives08/09/21 06:59 PM
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I have been dealing with my autoimmune disease for a while now (have posted about it before) and I just did testing after being on the new medication. A normal inflammation level is between 0 and 50, before meds I was at 350 and today I am at 61!!! Almost normal!! In October I have an appointment to see if I am healthy enough to try for our first pregnancy. Fingers crossed and prayers!
/r/RedPillWives19/08/21 04:37 PM
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This is one of those situations there isn't a compromise on. Would it be worth considering a non biological child to negate the situation altogether?
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/21 07:21 PM
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That was actually a scenario my parenta were in. Mom had a scan and it showed potential lifetime disability. The secondary testing took a week, but my mom was far wnough along that if they wanted to terminate they would need to do it immediately after getting the test results. So they were given one week to decide what to do if the results were positive. They got lucky and it was negative, and my older brothers was born with no issues, but they still had to make that choice. They have never told…
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/21 07:13 PM
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I know that having something that you perceive to be 'not feminine' is be difficult and a blow to self esteem, but I know many tall women (I'm 5'7, bff is 5'10) who have not had any issues with height. Try to adjust the provider/ protector image to be an attitude or presence/aura. He just just give off those vibes, instead of looking for a physical type of trait. Being feminine isn't about being short, it's about cultivating your surroundings (environment and people). So it goes hand in hand tha…
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/21 12:37 PM
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Thanks! It's been a while since I had good news from the doctor, even if it's tentative, I just had to share it!
/r/RedPillWives07/07/21 08:08 PM
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In February I was diagnosed with an autoimmune disease (crohn's). I wasn't able to start treatment because I also had tuberculosis (who even gets that?!). Last month I started medication, and at my appointment yesterday my doctor told me that if my inflammation numbers are down in 1 month we can start trying for a baby agter the next appointmentin October! I am obviously thrilled, but I am trying not to get too caught up, because what if the numbers aren't down? I am happy that this doctor is wo…
/r/RedPillWives07/07/21 06:29 PM
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Understanding that the situation is frustrating, not the person.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/21 01:47 PM
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Definitely suprising! I don't know anyone else who has ever had it. This is a very good point, and something I needed to hear. We will get there when we get there. I am very thankful that we have a good plan in place (we won't try IVF, we plan to adpot should we be unable to have 2 children, we have family friends who adopted so we have a good support system). Thanks for the comment!
/r/RedPillWives18/05/21 03:57 PM
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Me and husband 29, together 7 years, married 1.5 years, no kids, working as a chemist Backstory: I was diagnosed with the autoimmune disease crohn's in February after going to the doctor for an unrelated issue (turned out to be a symptom). I have been unable to get treatment for it because the drugs I need to be on will make me immunocompromised, and bloodwork found I was positive for latent Tuberculosis (who in the US even gets TB?? I have never traveled anywhere!). I am 8 weeks into my TB meds…
/r/RedPillWives18/05/21 01:55 PM
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My husband and I both wear silicone rings at work for safety (he works with electricity, I work woth chemicals). This might be an alternative for her husband is the ring (physically) is the issue.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/21 03:58 PM
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Something that worked well for me and my husband regarding quality time was scheduling. His love language is quality time, and I struggled with that. We now have standing times we know we will be spending together on Tuesday and Thursday nights. I know I need to be ready at X time, and I know that this is more important than any other plans I have. I woyld schedule something specific. Example, There is a Netflix show I would like to watch with you. Every Thursday at 8pm can we watch an episode t…
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/21 01:40 PM
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I actually dont use it as a "classic" bullet journal. I use it as more of a...what am I doing right now and an art thing. I made a drawing copy of my current bookshelf, what movies I have liked recently, and stuff. We just bought a house, so right now it keep track of my paint color ideas! I do a month title page, but that's it. I didn't think I would keep up a mood tracker or a to do list. I also didn't want it to track my chronic illness because I just wanted something that wasn't a constant r…
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/21 02:00 PM
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You have such a great plan!! Kinda aside, but have you considered bullet journaling? It seems like something you could really get into. For the "masculine" things on here, your field of study and potential workout, I wouldn't worry about those. I used to do kickboxing workout as well (in the before times) and loved them. I'll kick butt in my pink flower leggings. I love that you are taking time to yourself before going back into the field, but you don't have to have such a strict timeline. If yo…
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/21 06:36 PM
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I'll check them out! Thank you!
/r/RedPillWives22/03/21 06:25 PM
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This was very helpful, thank you!
/r/RedPillWives22/03/21 06:25 PM
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Also strong prescription (-5.5), that something else I'm worried about. That the frames I like will look silly with my giant lenses in them.
/r/RedPillWives22/03/21 04:28 PM
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Thank you!! I have always tried to get away from my glasses, but life had other plans. So I feel like I am a kid again trying to find a pair I like
/r/RedPillWives22/03/21 04:22 PM
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It's been so long since my glasses I couldn't remember if I got them thinned or not! I definitely will be getting that
/r/RedPillWives22/03/21 02:34 PM
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Thanks! I am trying the Warby Parker try on at home thing, so my husband can see some styles and help me pick some. My lenses are so thick it's hard to feel cute in them.
/r/RedPillWives22/03/21 02:24 PM
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Have you tried to do things together? Go on walks in the neighborhood or local park, or cook a healrhy meal together? Would game-ifying work? Something like Ring Fit Adventure for the Nintendo Switch?
/r/RedPillWives22/03/21 01:32 PM
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That was terrible! Typos, poorly worded questions, and what a mess. I wouldn't suggest anyone here waste their time with it!
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/21 09:07 PM
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No sarcasm. My husband and I took the love languages quiz and it really did help a lot, not only making each other feel appreciated, but communication as well.
/r/RedPillWives22/02/21 02:42 PM
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Thank you for this. I told my boss about this and he specifically told my to stop using sick and vacation time for doctor's appointments, and that getting healthy was my first priority. My husband is so incredibly supportive. I am blown away by him more every day. My team of doctors has a solid plan goong forward and I am in a much better place than when I posted this. Although things are still difficult. I am making plans to start therapy as well. The support this sub showed me at my lowest is …
/r/RedPillWives20/02/21 05:38 PM
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The quiz isn't really either, but I have heard the actualy book has Christian connotations, but I have not read it so I can't 100% say.
/r/RedPillWives20/02/21 03:45 PM
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I would suggest you both taking the Love Languages quiz. This will help immensely with this issue.
/r/RedPillWives20/02/21 03:14 PM
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Nice! I got my dress at a secondhand bridal store. And while part of me loves the idea of someone else getting the same chance I got, there is this little voice that is telling me to keep it!
/r/RedPillWives15/02/21 08:36 PM
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That's super cute!
/r/RedPillWives15/02/21 05:48 PM
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Just confirmed crohn's disease by the doctor.
/r/RedPillWives12/02/21 03:32 PM
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I can't even tell you how much I needed this comment. I know it may be harder for us now, but we still want to try.
/r/RedPillWives11/02/21 11:07 PM
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Thank you! I have yet to get a lot of positive stories from people.
/r/RedPillWives11/02/21 10:22 PM
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I'm crying in my car right now from all these positive comments. I have tried to post in the actual crohn's subreddit, but I keep getting downvoted ans my comments ignored. The whole sub is filled with hospital photos. I think I just got very overwhelmed getting so much bad news so fast .
/r/RedPillWives11/02/21 10:22 PM
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It is not. It looks like it is crohn's disease. Basically my small intestine is inflamed and scarred. I will probably need surgery to remove part of it.
/r/RedPillWives11/02/21 10:33 AM
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Thank you. I have mostly been trying to distract myself because if I don't think about it too much I still feel normal. Like maybe it isn't really happening. When I do think about it I blame myself, did I do something to make this happen? Logically I know that isn't true, but logic sometimes doesn't apply.
/r/RedPillWives03/02/21 11:06 AM
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I would be open to adopting, but I have no idea what it entails. It took me a while to open up to having kids, honestly, and I have been working for years to get to this point, and to just have it dropped so suddenly.... I know I am getting ahead of myself, but part of me thinks that if I accept the worst now I am protecting myself from the pain later.
/r/RedPillWives02/02/21 06:58 PM
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Thank you
/r/RedPillWives02/02/21 06:55 PM
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Thanks, I really appreciate it ❤
/r/RedPillWives02/02/21 01:03 PM
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I had to get a blood draw, and I am terribly afraid of needles, but I will be getting more since we are going to try for our first child this summer. My husband ordered a buzzy device that is supposed to help with needle fear/pain for me! He wrote a note that said "may your tears only be from happiness" ❤
/r/RedPillWives29/01/21 01:53 PM
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It seems terrible, but talk about bad scenarios. What if you (as a couple) can't have kids? What if an abnormality is found in pregnancy? Things like this.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/21 08:11 PM
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I am so sorry you are dealing with this. Good thoughts to you and your family.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/21 12:45 PM
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This is something I have struggled with. My husband mentioned it to me that I was very independent, and while that was nice he didn't feel needed. I was actually sick, and asked him to help (soup, get meds, etc.) And while he didn't like to see me ill, he was happy I was leaning on him when needed. It took time, but I was able to find a balance between the two. I ask for him to help, we do more things together (even if I could do it alone) and it has really helped our relationship grow.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/21 02:37 PM
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It made for a hilarious Maid of Honor speech!
/r/RedPillWives30/12/20 09:13 PM
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Husband and I picked out my E-ring together. I was very aware I would be engaged soon. We had an event at the college we met/started dating at coming up in a couple months and I was SO SURE he was going to recreate out first date (stargazing on the golf course) to propose. The week before I had a sleepover with my best friend. We did a workout, ate dinner and showered. After my friend kept being weird (hindsight 2020) asking me if I wanted to dry my hair, or get dressed and I kept looking at her…
/r/RedPillWives30/12/20 04:14 PM
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Just had a look around Evie Magazine website, looks cool! I stopped reading Cosmopolitan and I missed reading something during lunch.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/20 01:43 AM
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I met my husband when I was 22. When we met, I previously had one high school 'boyfriend' that was a couple weeks of holding hands in the hallway, one real date in college, that was mutually agreed we didn't work, and that's it! We met and started officially dating 1 month in. That was 7 years ago. Boys might be looking at you and thinking, 'she's too serious, I want to party and find a girl who likes that too'. You just have to be patient until the man who looks at you and says 'that woman coul…
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/20 07:53 PM
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I have worked with truckers in the past. You HAVE to act like this. It's unfortunately the best way to keep going and not get straight up harassed all the time. Keep doing what you are doing.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/20 01:46 PM
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Love languages!! I tell people about them ALL the time. Gifts are my love language as well, and since discovering the quiz and finding out he has put much more of an effort in!
/r/RedPillWives16/12/20 08:56 PM
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Accomplishment: I successfully made caramel!! I'm so proud of myself! I dipped apple slices all week! Accountability: the house is a mess right now. We got back from his family Xmas and some orders came in, and everything has really added up. Holiday's don't mean shirking household tasks!
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/20 03:28 PM
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Actually, a quick check into your post history, and girl, you have bigger issues!! He is on tinder? This is not okay!
/r/RedPillWives15/12/20 12:55 AM
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This calls for a proper sit down discussion. For me, it isn't so much the topic, but the fact that he didn't want to talk to you. Was he upset from something and just wanted to rant (not have a discussion), or was he processing his thoughts outloud and not actually wanting to talk? Ask him for 20 minutes one day this week, sit at the table and ask why he didn't want to talk about it with you. Don't acuse or attack, aim for understanding. Use "I" statements. You said "that isn't very nice" and he…
/r/RedPillWives15/12/20 12:51 AM
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Any type of yellow tinted glasses. They help reduce eye strain when looking at screens for long periods of time.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/20 03:21 AM
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Grocery shopping once a week. We meal prep, so all meals are planned out beforehand. We spend about $110ish give or take a bit. Food is the one aspect we are not strict about because, in the words of my husband "why else am I making money?" We don't go crazy with variety, we have a google doc of recipes we like and alternate between weeks.
/r/RedPillWives10/12/20 11:44 PM
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Nope. Some people are more compatible than others, but ultimately relationships work because two people make the choice to do the work and grow together toward a common goal - a happy family.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/20 11:43 PM
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Dude, quick check on your post history. If you need to constantly ask the internet for relationship advice, you are not ready for a relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/20 06:38 PM
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Same boat! Husbands and I will be 29 next year when we TTC in June for our first. I always flip flop between "what were we thinking, we should have started earlier!" And "this will be good timing" and " we should wait for X to happen first"
/r/RedPillWives04/12/20 03:01 PM
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I didn't find redpill until I was engaged. I realized that I wasn't being a very good partner. I wasn't prioritising my relationship and it was suffering as a direct result. I was looking for advice, and found redpill. I can't say I apply every tactic, but I started making changes. Small self improvements over time that were sustainable. Our relationship got strong. And now being married (just past 1 year) our relationship is the strongest it has ever been. We are on the same page and are growin…
/r/RedPillWives27/11/20 09:11 PM
4

Heads up, the plot of the books (haven't seen the show) is very rape heavy for all major characters. I had to stop reading it.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/20 04:01 PM
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Thank you for your words. I have to keep telling myslef that most people don't list their home in the early winter right before the holidays. More will come.
/r/RedPillWives24/11/20 08:57 PM
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Are there other things that he says that 'translate' into I love you? Inside jokes or other comments? Are you looking only for "I love you" or other words of affirmation like "I appreciate you or thank you for doing X" and he won't tell you anything?
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/20 07:44 PM
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Hello! I exclusively wear dark colors. The color I wear the most is black. It is 100% possible to wear dark colors and look feminine. Texture: wearing all the same type/tone of fabric doesn't look good. Different textures will add visual interest. Velvet, sheer fabric, silk, small cutouts, and ties all add elements. Shape and fit: when wearing dark colors your overall shape and the fit of your clothing matters more because it's harder for others to recognize your shape in dark clothing. Skin: sh…
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/20 02:03 PM
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One situation my parents faced was when my mom was pregnant with my older brother. The scan came back as abnormal so further testing was done. They had to discuss if the result came back positive for abnormalities that would result in a severly disabled child that wouldn't make it to double digits, would you abort or go through? Luckily for my parents, the tesult came back negative. Both of them have told me this story, but neither will tell me what option they would have choose.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/20 05:35 PM
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No. That isn't normal.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/20 02:21 PM
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If you have to test his trust, you don't trust him. You need to take a serious look at yourself and decide if he is giving you a reason to distrust him, or if you are letting insecurities get the best of you.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/20 02:46 PM
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I am not arguing that wage issue, but where are you that women can take off years to have a kid?
/r/MensRights21/10/20 03:05 PM
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I am a huge fan of meal prepping! On Sunday I cook lunches for the week and on Monday I cook dinner for the week. Occasionally I will cook a side, like a veggie, everyday, if it doesn't keep well (asparagus is one). That way during the week I don't have to worry about food. Weekends are in case anything is left over, so there is no food waste, and usually cooking every meal separately. Another thing is sectioning. Not everything needs to be done in one night. Tuesday is cleaning front rooms, Wed…
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/20 02:20 AM
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28, married 1 year but together for 7. We are currently looking for a house and we are waiting to try for our first next summer! I am having a lot of baby fever right now and making sure I am as healthy as possible for a future pregnancy. I am new ish, to RPW, but I love the space.
/r/RedPillWives19/09/20 10:11 PM
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Absolutely yes. I have a male coworker and we are friends. My husband and I have met his wife and kid (they just had their second though!!), we exchange cards/ gifts for major events (I made a week of freezer meals for them when their secind child was born). We text, and are friends on social media. My husband has a female coworker. They run together after work, which I like so neither of them run alone. They talk, we have sat next to each other at a wedding. Neither my husband or myself have ev…
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/20 07:49 PM
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I used to be really scared (I will be trying for my first next year), but I started to look into the baby/oregnancy subreddits. Seeing so many women expierence pregnancy and labor and sharing their stories turned out to be really comforting. I learned about the most common issues and how to spot them. So should anything happen I know what signs to look for. I am actively working on my 'pre-pregnancy' self. I am making sure I eat very healthy. I am working muscles that will help with labor. I am …
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/20 01:05 PM
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Husband and I are both non-religious, but both grew up in Christian households.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/20 07:50 PM
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Congratulations!!
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/20 12:37 AM
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My husband and I lived together when we were still dating and it was the right decision for us. Living with someone for the first time is really hard. It was the hardest time in our relationship. We did everything separately. I paid rent, while he paid utilities and grocery and every 3 months he paid rent as well to make it an equal split. We did our own laundry. We traded weeks to make meals (something we still do!). Our finances were 100% separate. When we got married notna lot felt different …
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/20 12:43 PM
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It seems crazy, but I have found the same thing. Like, his sex drive is much higher than mine, but I don't mind AT ALL about helping him feel better (so not always PIV sex). It makes me happy for him to be happy. If I am truly not in the mood, he doesn't push and 100% respects my boundaries.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/20 01:37 PM
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It interesting to hear about this, because I (as a woman) keep getting told that I need to advocate for myself because Doctors don't take women's health seriously.
/r/MensRights25/08/20 07:07 PM
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Work on my sewing projects Taking a bath Doing my nails One weekday dinner with a friend (done safely) Watch my favorite YouTube show! (Pupper History)
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/20 12:52 PM
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No idea why you are getting downvoted, you're right.
/r/MensRights19/08/20 05:08 PM
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My husband has commented that I am his motivation to work out. When he sees that I have been going to the gym (in the before times) or doing a video in the living room, he knows that he shoukd be doing something too. It isn't always a straightforward workout, but he has joined a coworker golfing once a week and now is involved in a diskgolf league. Sometimes we just go for a walk, or ride bikes together too. Your consistency in your actions can help him in a way your words may not.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/20 01:42 PM
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Both sides can expierence very bad outcomes from being rejected. Men have been accused of rape because they rejected someone. Humiliation, public shame, and social outcasting are all sadly common. Woman have experienced violence from rejecting men. Stalking, and physical violence are more common than social ramifications. This is also a problem. Men expierence social ramifications MORE and at a higher rate than women expierence physical dangers. Both are unacceptable. Women's rejection of men ge…
/r/MensRights16/08/20 06:42 PM
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I learned about the categories of flavor, salty, sweet, sour, bitter, and umami. Each flavor has an opposite (like the color wheel), and can fix too much. Buttercream is too sweet? Add some salt. This is a good article to read about it HERE I actually got into it because most of my friends can't cook and want me to help them. My husband needed a lot of 'fixing' as well when we first got together, but he has come a long way! Edit: I adjust by putting some of the food in a small dish and adding th…
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/20 11:14 PM
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I was told countless times in school that when I started applying for jobs and interviewing I had to "sell myself". Male applicant did, female applicant didn't. That's why he got hired.
/r/MensRights13/08/20 03:52 PM
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Her advice is along the lines of r/femaledatingstrategy which is so sad to see so many women fall into.
/r/MensRights12/08/20 09:31 PM
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I believed it for a super long time! It's a common one that goes around. Have a good day!
/r/MensRights12/08/20 09:28 PM
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Periods synching up is actually a myth. But you point still stands. There are 4 weeks (avg) per month. The more women employed, the more overlap there will be.
/r/MensRights12/08/20 01:06 PM
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As a woman, if your periods are so bad you are unable to work, there is something wrong and you should see a doctor. Throwing up, crippling pain, fainting, etc, are NOT NORMAL. You should be able to be a functional member of society while on your period.
/r/MensRights11/08/20 07:57 PM
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The key to change is SMALL AND SUSTAINABLE changes over TIME. This applies to anything. Pick one thing this week you will make sure is clean like making your bed. Every day make sure of this. Then next week add something else. If you are a visual person I would get a white board calendar you can write things down on. You can also break up daunting tasks. Wash laundry on Tuesday, but fold it on Wednesday. Run dishwasher Thursday but empty it on Friday.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/20 05:37 PM
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Cinnamon rolls would be one I think everyone should know. But more vague, my biggest kitchen flex is being able to fix dishes. My best friend made her soup too spicy, and she asks me how to fix it (little bit of lemon, sugar, and salt). My husband couldn't tell what was missing from his fried rice (butter and ginger). Learning how ingredients interact and how to counter them will go a long way!
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/20 07:18 PM
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I am doing final fittings on my first sewing project! I was VERY ambitious and chose a pattern that was probably too difficult for me level, but I am learning so much!
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/20 07:13 PM
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US
/r/MensRights01/08/20 12:14 AM
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Hysterectomy and tubal ligation are diffefent procedures and are preformed for different reasons.
/r/MensRights01/08/20 12:13 AM
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Yes. And this one is variable depending on the doctor. Some women say they were able to get their tubes ties with no issue. That's great. Some men say they got a vasectomy with no issue. That's great. Now ANYONE who wants it should have that expierence REGARDLESS of location or doctor. That's the point.
/r/MensRights31/07/20 02:05 PM
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Basically. I didn't want to group other procedures/medical reasons into the argument because that to me is separate.
/r/MensRights31/07/20 01:57 PM
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We got married when we were both 27. We are almost at 1 year married together, and 7 years total.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/20 07:34 PM
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It depends on when you are dating. Husband proposed to me after 5 years, but we met in school and didn't finish at the same time (one year apart). So that's 2 years. Then we ended up going back home with our parents for a bit to find a job, and we didn't live close to each other (1 year). Then we had to find an area we both could work and actually get jobs.(1 year) We were there for just over a year when we got engaged. We were married 2 months before out 6th year together. If someone meets olde…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/20 12:58 PM
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Same! I didn't expect it, but I am so happy it was possible for us!
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/20 01:08 PM
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I love kickboxing! I love showing up to my gym (in non-pandemic times) in my pink flower leggings and hand-wraps ready to punch and kick.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/20 01:06 PM
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I remember a few years ago when the popular womens underwear brand Aerie went "photoshop free" and the next year for APRIL FOOLS said they were releasing a men's line. Got every body type of men to model fake products and posted them on April Fool's Day. How in Earth did they get away with that??
/r/MensRights27/07/20 03:16 PM
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Totally fine! I get how it could have been read like that. I say "my body my choice" about a lot of things, but I am pretty new to the circumcision debate (live in the US) and there is so much information our there that it is kinda overwhelming. Sometimes seeing it simply make it clearer!
/r/MensRights25/07/20 01:30 PM
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I mean "got me" in a I need to rethink my own hypocrisy way. Like it suddenly just clicked (I am a woman).
/r/MensRights24/07/20 10:59 PM
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This is going to sound crazy. I have scrolled past this three times today and for some reason this dumb meme got through to me more than any other post about circumcision.
/r/MensRights24/07/20 10:14 PM
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Initial reaction to downvote this before I rembered what sub I was in. Her behavior is disgusting.
/r/MensRights24/07/20 12:31 PM
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Ah, the mobile site for the first link confused me, I understand now. And thanks for the second!! I studied chemistry in school (US) and I would say that I see similar findings that this UK study did, more women in the program then men. We definitely out numbered men in bio as well. I know some of my (female) friends who didn't go on to get jobs in the field as well. One is a teacher because she hated lab work (4 years of school didn't clue her in??), another did retail odds and ends until she g…
/r/MensRights23/07/20 05:26 PM
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The two links for the STEM part are not working. The first is blocked and the second gives me an error. Do you have other sources for them? I'd like to read about it.
/r/MensRights23/07/20 04:56 PM
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Yeah, it's super variable. I am in a super strict state so sometimes I don't remember it isn't like this everywhere.
/r/MensRights22/07/20 05:32 PM
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That's what the doctor she went to said. She is currently searching for a new one. Hopefully with better results!
/r/MensRights22/07/20 04:16 PM
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My best friend has a rare, complicated form of crohns disease. She has never wanted kids, ever. At 28, she can't get sterilized because "What if her future husband wants kids?" (Her BF, who is ring shopping, doesn't want kids) Also, just a gentle FYI, female sterilization is a tubal ligation or laparoscopy not hysterectomy (the total removal of womb).
/r/MensRights22/07/20 02:38 PM
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Everyone has a skill set they are suited for. Society thrives when we work together to compensate for each other's shortcomings and excel at our personal strengths.
/r/MensRights22/07/20 02:00 PM
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100% agree. There are bad people in every group that in no way should represent the whole. There should be a stick post about it.
/r/MensRights22/07/20 01:57 PM
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The comparison isnt vasectomy and abortion, it's male vs female sterilization. Women need permission to get sterilized. So do men. Both are bullshit.
/r/MensRights22/07/20 01:50 PM
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Do not flush condoms! It can cause serious damage. Rinse them out maybe be a better option?
/r/MensRights10/07/20 01:19 PM
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Okay, as I understand it, this is what the situation is. Chad (20) has been stalking Stacy (21)for months. Stacy says shenfeels threatened and will report Chad to the police. Chad says to do it, but Stacy doesn't. Chad continues to stalk her. Chad thinks that because stacy didn't file any charges that it was okay to stalk her. He thinks that by saying "I feel threatened and will go to the police", Stacy is causing drama and making Chad suffer. Who is correct? Is this what you are trying to say?
/r/MensRights08/07/20 06:54 PM
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I didn't mean to come off as offended. It's a hard subject for me, and I am trying to think logically through it and not react emotionally.
/r/MensRights08/07/20 06:35 PM
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Assuming that the stalker knows that it wasn't reported, why would someone report it? It could be fear of retaliation, being scared of not being taken seriously, or not believed at all.
/r/MensRights08/07/20 06:33 PM
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The stalker is in the wrong.
/r/MensRights08/07/20 06:27 PM
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Sometimes charges can't be filed based on intimidation. Going and starting a report is a good first step to a paper trail, but not a lot can be done unless the stalker escalates the situation. Source: I was stalked in college.
/r/MensRights08/07/20 06:09 PM
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If there are kids involved, I would 100% expect some help with housecare. Raising the children is a lot of work and having a division of labor with the rest of the house is fair. If there are not children, and the wife stays home, then I wouldn't expect much help. The odd big thing or something might require two people.
/r/MensRights08/07/20 06:05 PM
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She asked him if he wanted to quit his job and he said no...
/r/MensRights08/07/20 12:05 PM
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My husband has female friends. He has a running partner at work, which I like so that neither of them are running alone, just in case. He keep online contact with some friends from high school. He grew up in a very small town where everyone knows everyone. I don't mind. He doesn't have any women he would meet for something like dinner or after work drinks (we don't drink so moot point).
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/20 12:44 PM
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r/FeMRADebates
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/20 06:50 PM
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Yeah, which sounds like he think he is a babysitter, not a father. Which is an issue
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/20 02:32 PM
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Finding the right therapist is definitely the first thing on the to do list. It sounds like you are getting overwhelmed emotionally and don't have an outlet. Short term solution is to find something you can do physically. Working your body can help, but it isn't going to be a permanent fix. Dance, run, brisk walking, anything to get you moving. Drawing may not help, but have you tried writing? For grounding yourself, try a factual statements " My name is X. today is July 1, 2020. it is 9:30am. I…
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/20 01:26 PM
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When he says he has to allocate a few hours watching the baby, what does that mean? That he will have to take off work so avoid paying childcare?
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/20 12:48 PM
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Beingna stay at home mom is a super difficult job, but for different reasons than most outside the home jobs. From 0-2 years the kid is VERY dependent on parents. 3-5 it can get easier, but not usually. Watching toddlers is like being on suicide watch. Plus usually the hormones of giving birth are very up and down. Depression is very common and it can even be anxiety. This is difficult for both parents. Lack of sleep makes any job 100x harder. The mental game here is crazy. Yes, onve the kid goe…
/r/MensRights30/06/20 01:43 PM
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My best friend has a rare variation of crohns and does not want kids. It would be physically impossible for her to carry a child to term. She is not allowed to get sterilized because "what if she changes her mind? She's only 28!" "What if her future husband wants kids?"
/r/MensRights30/06/20 01:17 PM
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Much better said.
/r/MensRights29/06/20 06:28 PM
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Of course!
/r/MensRights29/06/20 06:09 PM
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I really stopped when I realized I wasn't being a good partner anymore. My husband commented that I was getting hard to talk to and was taking everything personally. And I was. It was an uncomfortable conversation, and I had a lot of self reflection to do. I hope she finds a balance. Fighting for women and fighting for men is the same fight.
/r/MensRights29/06/20 06:08 PM
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It's hard. I try and bring it up irl to friends and family. Online, I usually start with small comments. Just mentioning a point here and there and most if all asking questions. I just try to be open to talk to people. Just get the ball rolling a bit for them to explore.
/r/MensRights29/06/20 06:01 PM
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Breaking out of the current feminist shell is super daunting. The idea just gets hammered into us, "you should be a feminist because you are a woman, or support women", but finally looking and realizing that things have gone too far and this good idea isn't anymore...it's tough.
/r/MensRights29/06/20 05:50 PM
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I can't even read most of TwoX anymore. It seems like a caricature of a women's/feminist sub at this point, instead of an actual one.
/r/MensRights29/06/20 05:41 PM
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If she needed time DURING her contract for appointments or if her insurance was tied to her contract and she needed something done in 3 months, I could see her asking. Otherwise no. It sucks that she thought her contract would be extended, but it's within terms.
/r/MensRights29/06/20 04:15 PM
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I mean, if she wants to spend that money it's fine, but stop complaining about it.
/r/MensRights29/06/20 01:45 PM
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On what? What the hell could $3k even be spent on especially every month!!
/r/MensRights29/06/20 01:18 PM
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You can bypass this by going to a trade school. But if you want an office type job you will have to have a degree. Most places have it as a requirement anymore. College is a place to grow wothout parental oversight. The forst month is the biggest testament to parenting you will ever see. Who is actually prepared? Very sheltered kids can go wild and fuck up before the semester starts. Not having the same group of friends can lead people to do stupid things in an effort to make some. Everyone is s…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/06/20 03:22 PM
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I am personally okay using pronouns when people ask and or tell me. I do agree with you about sports, though. What gets me is the new trend to not refer to me as a woman but as a body part or function like "person who bleeds, menstruator, or vagina-haver". It's dehumanizing.
/r/MensRights26/06/20 12:13 AM
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Deleted my upvote.
/r/MensRights24/06/20 02:51 AM
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Not exactly first meeting, very early dating. I met my husband in college, and he was in a fraternity.. that made me a bit nervous, but we stared dating anyway. His 'job' is then was Risk Manager or try not to let the guys be dumb, and he was 100% sober all the time. At parties he was at the door collecting keys to out into lockers and if they wanted their keys back, they had to pass a sober test. He also coordinated designated drivers (DD). I helped out at parties because I don't drink either a…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/20 06:25 PM
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I wish I could upvote this twice. Amazing. My husband and I had similar issues when we would speak before I sat down and explained (worse than you did) how I felt. We both started changing how we spoke to each other, he started pausing, giving me a chance to speak, and waiting longer before talking when I was telling a story. I started adding small expressions for when he speaks so knows I am following and speaking up more to ask questions. We start stories with, what do you know about X? And th…
/r/MensRights18/06/20 11:13 PM
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Same! I agree that getting information about abuse (physical, emotional, sexual, financial, etc) out to the general public is good, because then more people can recognize unhealthy relationships. Unfortunately, it also creates "headline readers" who get a small snippet of information and take it out of proportion. Gaslighting is a really intense form of abuse where victims question their own reality and/or sanity. I hate that it gets throw around so casually.
/r/MensRights18/06/20 12:43 PM
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Yes to taking notes!!! My MOH took notes and it was so helpful. I handed her the cards and gifts after opening them so she could organize them, it made the thank you notes so much easier.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/20 04:13 PM
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Olay ultra moisture body wash. Maybe I just need to try a different brand or something.
/r/MensRights11/06/20 03:46 PM
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Of course! Good luck with your conversation!
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/20 03:43 PM
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I saw your other comment that you did talk about what you wanted and he didn't do it. If you made it clear and he blatently ignored it and did something else (even with covid restrictions) it is time for an uncomfortable talk. "I appreciate the mug that you got me, but was there a reason you didn't visit the patisserie I had mentioned?" "We talked about this and I feel under value that I wasn't listened to." "We went to the zoo, which was a great way to spend time together, like your love langua…
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/20 03:06 PM
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I usually shower every other day. I get very dry skin and overwashing it causes issues for me. Same thing with my hair. I always make sure to shower after I workout, or get particularly sweaty/gross doing something, even if I don't shampoo my hair. I can go 3 days before I need to wash my hair.
/r/MensRights11/06/20 02:57 PM
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This wouldn't suprise me actually, I know I bathe less than my husband does.
/r/MensRights11/06/20 02:41 PM
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To me this seems like an example of "expectations vs reality" Have you even had a conversation about how you would like to celebrate your birthday? You say that you spend a lot of time and sometimes money for him, but is it possible that he doesn't see that? My husband doesn't like gifts or cards. Doesn't like giving them, and doesn't like recieving them. I do. For birthdays and Christmas and anniversaries we ALWAYS have a conversation about how we will celebrate. Have you heard/take taken the l…
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/20 02:37 PM
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There is a reason I buy the same deodorant as my husband. And men's razors. Problem solved
/r/MensRights09/06/20 01:41 AM
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My husband and I have this issue. I am a planner and he is not. It was an issue we discovered during wedding planning. This is what we do. I gather information and give options usually 3-5. He then looks them over and chooses from what I presented. We also hire a travel agent for big trips! We are going to visit New Zealand next year and our agent will be doing most of it. We are going to do the "options" method above for choosing what to do. Edit: Husband is the one who works directly with the …
/r/RedPillWives08/06/20 07:26 PM
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Hello! It makes me really happy to see more female MRAs on here! The more of us that educate ourselves the better the world will be. I originally came here for the same reason, my husband and I started talking about having kids. When we were talking about how different our childhoods were I decided I needed more information and new perspectives so I can (eventually) become the best mother I can. I went down the rabbit hole of circumcision research and found this sub and I stayed.
/r/MensRights08/06/20 03:19 PM
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I think it's pretty nornal to want to be with someone who actually wants you and isn't settling. You deserve that.
/r/MensRights07/06/20 03:02 AM
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Sometimes we need a good rant. And Yes to physical strength that men have, I am definitely a bit jealous of it. This sub has really opened my eyes to the fact that feminism gives this false bravado to women. I never felt happy as feminist. It made me MORE afraid. It was mentally exhausting. I can't imagine how worn down men must feel being constantly berated by current feminists. It seems crazy more aren't angry.
/r/MensRights06/06/20 06:17 PM
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Okay?? But we are talling about MEN here. Their experiences and if women comment here, keeping it how it relates to men. If you want to talk about women go on one of the many womens subs.
/r/MensRights06/06/20 05:59 PM
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Attractiveness is something a lot of men and women struggle with. You have direct control of your body too. Men have to financially independent too. This is not a woman specific argument. Edit, forgot a word
/r/MensRights06/06/20 05:36 PM
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I want to start by saying I am currently 28, just for reference. Many reasons I had for hating being a woman were because of how my parents treated me vs how my older brother was treated. I was a pretty sheltered kid and grew up to be 'weird'. I didn't date until I was 22. My parents treated me like I was worthless until I started dating. I had no value until I had a man to share my life with. Even when I graduated college, my dad said to me "but what does it matter if you are alone?" Accomplish…
/r/MensRights06/06/20 05:00 PM
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So I am a woman, and I felt the exact same way when I was a teen. I hated being female and wished I was male. Not trans, just unhappy as I was. This post completely blows my mind because anytime I tried to explain it nobody really understood what I was trying to say. I know our situations are different, and I can't truly understand they type of stress and pressure you as a man feel. It took me a long time to get to the point of being comfortable being a woman. I am not great at writing so I hope…
/r/MensRights06/06/20 04:02 PM
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It still has low comments in it about how she obviously still does more, but I hope this is at least a step forward for men to get more domestic recognition.
/r/MensRights04/06/20 07:23 PM
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Yes to finances!! We actually waited a bit longer to get married so we could do it 100% debt free. We both wanted to pay off our student loans on our own before marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/20 03:47 PM
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I have the same issues at times (I am a chemist). My husband totally supports me and my work and it has never been an issue (he is an EE). I personally struggle with the balance between "work me" and "home me", but I like the idea of masculine and feminine energies. Good luck!
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/20 04:48 PM
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Aew there any consignment shope near you? I have a Clothes Mentor shop I LOVE. They have everything.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/20 01:33 PM
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Yeah, I hang my purse up because keeping it on my shoulder is essentially impossible while trying to do business. It has honestly never bothered me to hang it up.
/r/MensRights25/05/20 11:37 PM
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Meal prep dinner for the week! Sirloin stir fry with brown rice, mushrooms, and other assorted veggies!
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/20 11:28 PM
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The US. They were a couple weeks before each persons wedding, so more like wedding showers
/r/MensRights21/05/20 11:41 AM
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Female MRA. I work in a male dominated industry and that is what started to open my eyes to everyday sexism men face. Just little things. Renovation offices and need help carrying something? Just ask one of the guys. I was ALREADY carrying it, when an office lady told me to out it down and let a man handle it. Why should he have to stop what he is doing? Why is he expected to do this? There were 4 of us that all got engaged around the same time. 3 women (including me) and one man. All 3 of us wo…
/r/MensRights20/05/20 08:11 PM
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Married my first boyfriend last September! We were dating for 6 years. One thing that helped me was realizing that we were and are going to change, but we choose to change together. The biggest struggle for us was when we first moved in together after being long distance for 1.5 years. That was the biggest struggle our our relationship, but we knew we wanted to make it work. It was a lot of uncomfortable conversations and we learned how to talk TO each other instead of AT each other.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/20 03:14 PM
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Total aside, but our neighbors has 2 great danes that got out and attacked our dog.
/r/RedPillWives14/05/20 10:46 PM
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I remember my parents telling me to do this for our dog and if we were with children, but I haven't heard of it for a SO.
/r/MensRights11/05/20 01:36 PM
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I always understood rape culture to be "playing down" the topic or victim blaming by the general public. When I started taking a karate class in middle school, my friends mom said if other friend had taking the class maybe "they wouldn't have gotten raped" Or the popular video of a woman running the baseball field slapping players butts and everyone laughing. No, she is assulting them, why are you laughing? On the same note the prison rape "jokes" that are common in TV and movies.
/r/MensRights11/05/20 01:32 PM
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Had a male gyno for years and he was great. Plus, you can ALWAYS say no to a test, or find a different doctor.
/r/MensRights06/05/20 05:08 PM
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She could have post partum anxiety as well, but if she is not taking her PPD meds then she may not take those either. Is there a family member that she is close to, like her mom, who could back you up? You need to call her doctor now and explain this. If not resolved it could progress to something worse. Do you feel like your baby is safe with her? Are you safe?
/r/MensRights05/05/20 07:33 PM
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Hello! I wasn't in a relationship until I was 22 and, believe it or not, I am also an olive toned woman! I was a virgin, relationship noob who had never done more than a single peck on the lips before I met the man who ended up being my husband. We also didn't get married until we were 27. Don't place such strict rules for yourself! Don't focus on the timeline more than the person. This is the time to understand what you want out of a relationship, but also to not lose you identity in the proces…
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/20 12:56 PM
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Of course! Ingredients 1 cup of water between 100-110 degrees F 1 packet of active yeast (or 2 and 1/4 teaspoons) 1 tsp white sugar 1 tsp salt 2 tbs oil (I like using olive oil but any will do) 2.5 - 4 ish cups of flour (while wheat or regular) Instructions Dissolve sugar in the warm water in a large bowl. Add yeast and let it sit for 10 minutes. Add salt and oil Add flour slowly, about 1/2 cup at a time stirring until incorporated. I actually never measure the total amount of flour. I just add …
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/20 07:56 PM
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We made pizza last night! We finally mastered whole wheat flour for the crust
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/20 11:20 PM
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This is awesome, thanks! I have been trying to put more effort into my lounge wear and my husband noticed too!
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/20 12:26 AM
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We met in college! Physics class to be exact. Then his fraternity has study hours when I worked in the library and we got to know each other better.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/20 03:01 PM
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He was concerned that I would be upset. Like it was reducing me somehow. I'm thankful he was thinking of my feelings, but I did tell him I'm happy to be his wife :)
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/20 02:32 AM
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Definitely! He really is amazing. He wanted to tell me he was thankful in a way I would like. I can't fault him for that. I am very proud to be his wife!
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/20 01:10 AM
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I love doing this hairstyle on myself! It looks great!
/r/MensRights15/04/20 10:54 PM
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I have stopped using the word 'feminist' because it now has such a bad connotation. I am for equal rights for all people. I stipped actively looking and following current feminists becuase I felt so angry all the time. Everything I saw was somehow an injustice I personally needed to call out. I was focusing only on women and not on people. I was becoming slefish and thought only my problems and my 'causes' mattered. Everything else was just getting in the way. I was going down a very isolated pa…
/r/MensRights05/04/20 05:20 PM
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Good link!
/r/MensRights26/03/20 05:31 PM
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I have this problem! I finally got to the point where I started asking it is was a "conversation sound" or a "outloud thought sound" My husband just needs to say things or make sounds outloud sometimes. It isn't directed at me, they are for him to process. I am getting better at recognizing them now.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/20 05:28 PM
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I am not great with reddit. Can you suggest a sub that might be better? I will delete the post after.
/r/MensRights06/03/20 07:30 PM
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For your nails, how is your iron? Low iron can lead to weak nails and hair. Fellow dry skin gal here! For your feet I would suggest O'keefs foot cream. Amazing product found at drug/ grocery stores. Dry face: what face wash do you use, and how often do you wash your face? Dry skin does better with 1 wash a day and a non-foaming cleanser. Clean and clear makes a good one it's in all drug/grocery shops.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/20 03:29 AM
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The mantra I am using is alert but not anxious. Pay attention to my area/anywhere I am traveling. I know who the most vulnerable people in my life are (old, young, or immunocompromised) and that I should pay extra attention to them.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/20 04:43 PM
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Rape against ANYONE is a serious crime, not only because of the physical violence, but the physiological trauma as well. As for thr jail time difference, reccomend time versus time actually served is very different. Non violent drug offenders usually serve more time than rapists do. The whole system van be very disheartening
/r/MensRights23/01/20 04:07 PM
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There was a time in my life where I was a little too into feminism. My (now) husband mentioned that I was getting hard to talk to, and I reacted more emotionally charged to everything. I had some uncomfortable self talks and realized that I wasn't being a good partner or a good feminist. I was only looking at one side and it was skewing everything I saw. I still have some work to do, but self-improvement is a long term goal I suppose.
/r/MensRights22/01/20 02:43 PM
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