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blazing_comet38/r/seduction08/09/21 01:07 AM
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blazing_comet38/r/seduction05/02/22 07:05 AM
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How can you have charisma without coming across as feminine? I can display charisma and charm, but there's a feminine element to the way that I do it that turns most women off. Do you have any YouTuber who you can point to as an example of how to carry masculine charisma? Or any advice on tonality or anything? Thanks.
/r/seduction09/02/22 03:18 AM
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My overall point is that it's never ok to intentionally act in a way that suggests a mindset contrary to your truthful, conscious thoughts in a shallow, narcissistic effort to emotionally bait and hook someone. Do you agree with that?
/r/seduction07/02/22 05:56 PM
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Thinking and displaying are two completely different things. I was curious about what would happen next, so I just sat there and did nothing. That's not exactly the same thing as flirting back/displaying attraction. You attempting to equate the two is a very dangerous game.
/r/seduction07/02/22 05:50 PM
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"So it's ok for you to not have real feelings for her but not for her to you", is the straw man. I never suggested that it's ok for me to not have real feelings for her, but not ok for her to have real feelings for me. I made the case that it's not ok to initiate flirtatiously with someone in hopes of swooning them if you're not actually interested in being intimate with them. I wasn't interested, but unlike her, I didn't deliberately, outwardly signal interest when there was a certain lack of i…
/r/seduction07/02/22 10:53 AM
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Both did not act in the same manner. She initiated and engaged in a way to suggest sexual attraction, when there was none. I didn't technically display sexual attraction in return. The best case your could argue for me displaying any sort of sexual attraction is me being unresponsive and neglecting to jerk my knee away from her, but that could have easily been interpreted as me freezing up, which I actually was initially. Equating a lack of pulling away with displaying sexual interest is like a …
/r/seduction07/02/22 10:50 AM
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It's not ok to deliberately display interest in someone, putting in effort for it to appear as if you're interested in them if you're not actually interested in them. There's nothing wrong with spotting this behavior and declining to express that you're not interested in turn. Don't straw man, that's annoying.
/r/seduction06/02/22 10:52 PM
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Nah u violated like crazy. If a girl puts her knee up against yours as she's having conversation, doesn't immediately move away, and doesn't apologize or verbally acknowledge it as the conversation progresses, she's clearly trying to escalate in some way. I didn't know pointing that out was "having a borderline psychotic breakdown". Hop off my nuts g
/r/seduction05/02/22 10:09 PM
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Yeah I know you're not, I was just curious. If anything wouldn't she be the one who wasn't being genuine? She introduced kinesthetics into the conversation, but wasn't actually feeling that way. I wasn't feeling it either, but I just let it happen. It's not like I was faking attraction, I was just neutral and observant. How was I "not being genuine"?
/r/seduction05/02/22 11:05 AM
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I've learned that over the years, but I've come to lose a certain level of respect for myself for constantly "chameleoning". It's like putting on a mask for every occasion. It makes sense tactically but I disgust and confuse myself whenever I do, because there's a huge question of which of these two people I really am.
/r/seduction05/02/22 08:53 AM
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But no, she didn't have any friends in the classroom. Although I did see her hanging with someone outside of class. Likely assumed I'm an easy catch and brag. That's such an offensive and frustrating thought. She saw me as just an npc to manipulate for ego validation.
/r/seduction05/02/22 08:48 AM
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Aight, I'll intentionally shift things next time around. Me not reacting probably made her think that I'm autistic or nervous asf. I was neither, just too stunned to do anything initially, and eventually just curious to see if she would escalate further.
/r/seduction05/02/22 08:45 AM
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How did I "fail"? She clearly didn't like me like that, I think I took a dub. I didn't bite the bs.
/r/seduction05/02/22 08:41 AM
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Thank you, I appreciate it, I'll look into him🔥
/r/seduction05/02/22 07:16 AM
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I was down in the moment, I didn't realize she was trying to play me lol. And maybe so.
/r/seduction05/02/22 07:07 AM
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Also want to add, yes, I'm 1000% sure that this chick didn't actually like me. Plenty of girls have liked me in the past, this wasn't that.. Her advance came across as straight forward and laid back rather than uneasy and hopeful. She wasn't worried in the least bit.
/r/seduction05/02/22 06:50 AM
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P.S. what might it be about me that causes girls to assume that I'm the type to chase after them? What body language flaws am I exhibiting? I'm uneasy about how (no offense, but) a girl as big as HER assumed that I would chase after her. You know you need to improve when even the linebackers see you as a potential target.😭
/r/seduction05/02/22 06:41 AM
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Don't settle down in your 20's bro!
/r/seduction20/01/22 01:49 AM
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Idk why this got so many down votes. It IS true in part. If you ask most women for advice, they'll give the generic answers that ends up screwing over your chances for short term hookups.
/r/seduction18/01/22 08:54 PM
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Dude isn't completely wrong though. Alot of the time women give advice that leads up to you being the nice guy, like buying flowers, texting alot, etc. I know women hate to hear this because all of women's advice isn't terrible, but tbh some of it is dogshit.
/r/seduction18/01/22 08:52 PM
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Golden advice
/r/seduction18/01/22 08:05 PM
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Girl: "If you just wanna fuck then say thaattt" Guy: "Ok, I just wanna fuck" Girl: Leaves
/r/seduction18/01/22 08:04 PM
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Found the fresh and fit watcher.
/r/seduction18/01/22 08:02 PM
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After all that investment you recommend that he breaks contact before even seeing an roi?😭 I mean I see how it could be a good ego boost to kick her to the curb so I can give you that, but we don't know if she likes him or not. I think I gotta agree with a combination of what two of the guys said above. He needs to setup a date at his place, and make some bomb food. She can chill on the couch and he can put on Netflix, bonus points if he grins and says "you know what that means", in a joking way…
/r/seduction18/01/22 08:00 PM
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If she is making it to date 7, she must like you. Or she likes the fact that this man's a walking restaurant. I should put on a wig and find him lmao. I'd be skeptical if I was this guy, but also get her understanding on how she feels like you said. Kinda a red flag that it's been 6 dates and it's still been platonic.Bonus red flag points of she's been snapping pics of the meals.
/r/seduction18/01/22 07:51 PM
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Confidence isn't a part of someone's personality. 🤦 The closest thing to confidence on the big 5 scale is agreeableness, and that's not even really confidence, it's how much you value social harmony. It could moreso be branded as "sociological neuroticism". Having multiple personality traits like low neuroticism, high extrovertedness, and low agreeableness can come together to FACILITATE confidence, but confidence in and of itself isn't a personality trait. Confidence can vary by a long shot bas…
/r/seduction17/01/22 05:02 PM
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True
/r/seduction17/01/22 03:07 PM
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If you wanna smash it's not really a friendship
/r/seduction17/01/22 03:06 PM
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You're right, I'm not the most comfortable around them. But I'm not a complete nervous wreck at the same time. I can hold a decent form of conversation. It's just that I honestly don't see much of a point in doing so. It's not self fulfilling, because it requires a certain amount of inventiveness on my end. For alot of guys like myself, talking to women honeslty does feel like an investment, because im an introverted as hell which means conversation drains me, especially when it's with someone w…
/r/seduction17/01/22 03:04 PM
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Lmao fist enough.
/r/seduction17/01/22 08:16 AM
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Ok that last point is golden ngl.
/r/seduction17/01/22 08:13 AM
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Looks are alot more significant for something as simple as a one night than personality. In alot of these situations, the 2 second judgement rule is applicable. Some guys can make up for their poor looks by having that "it" factor, but the fact of the matter is that we all know way more instances of the average looking guy being turned down before he even has the chance to present his personality than the amazingly attractive looking guy being turned down for having a bad personality. I could ev…
/r/seduction17/01/22 08:08 AM
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The exception doesn't make the rule.
/r/seduction17/01/22 07:58 AM
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And are you a girl by chance?
/r/seduction17/01/22 07:54 AM
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Capppppp my g. Maybe for a long term relationship, but for a one night stand you can be a 6'2", cut douche and get more play than a 5'8", quirky, average body figure guy any day of the week. We all know the facts fam. Just be honest.
/r/seduction17/01/22 07:53 AM
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I don't care to address the points you made because I just don't have that kind of time. But I will say that I think the idea of having a girl "friend" is laughable at best . Disgusts me a little. I've been in that position before so I kinda project that disgust for my former self onto others. You're assigned the roles of a boyfriend without the benefits (or let's be honest lol THE benefit) of being a boyfriend. I would also argue that if you have any desire to fuck her, you're not friends. You'…
/r/seduction17/01/22 07:49 AM
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Right lol. I guarantee you that if all of these guys who call the girls their "friends" could smash, they would. And even further, if they had tons of other girls that wanted to smash but the girl was still friendzoning them, they would eventually quit talking to her. Newsflash y'all: you're not friends if you lowkey wanna dig until she BUHHHHH😫 (shout out StephIsCold lmfao)
/r/seduction17/01/22 07:13 AM
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Is there any way to spot if she's for the streets fam?
/r/seduction17/01/22 07:08 AM
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Social proof is better gained through sex than being friendzoned, and alot of the time chicks complain about the same exact thing that they're attracted to so seeking out advice from them is a terrible idea. They'll tell you things like "honestly looks don't matter, it's all about personality", "I want a guy who can be vulnerable", and "a guy who can make me laugh really turns me on." Don't be the guy who puts his looks on the back burner in favor of "personality" (whatever that means), opens up…
/r/seduction17/01/22 07:03 AM
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They dish out recommendations like "he's such a nice guy for you". I don't know about you, but I don't want that to be on my resume. I'd rather get with chicks directly than rely on recommendations from chicks I've been friendzoned. "The more girls you smash and satisfy in bed the easier getting girls tends to be", I think you meant to say. Why would a girl pick a guy that their girl didn't want to pick? They tend to want what other girls want, so why would they want a guy that their friend didn…
/r/seduction17/01/22 06:56 AM
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And yeah if you ever come back you gotta try the chicken and waffles ftom Helen's. Really good.
/r/seduction12/01/22 10:54 PM
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Nope,that's just goofy tourists thinking it makes them fit in. 😂 Yeah, it really is different and that's what I love about it. I'm black, and grew up in an area with tons of different ethnicities and races. Never felt like I was unrepresented or looked at funny because I was different, because everyone here's different. It's lowkey only the lower class areas, but it can be diverse, especially in South Nashville. You won't find too much diversity in West Nashville or East. Going based off of down…
/r/seduction12/01/22 10:53 PM
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When I think of Chicago I think of OBlock. What's the culture outside of OBlock, how are the chicks?
/r/seduction12/01/22 09:53 PM
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Now that I think about it, Nashville and other southern states Lowkey are good places to smash alot. The standard of living out here is less than many other places, so if you're in shape, good looking, confident, and making six or even low five figures out here you can have your pick of the litter like crazy.
/r/seduction12/01/22 09:42 PM
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What's so good about Chicago?
/r/seduction12/01/22 09:37 PM
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Ah okay. Although I've been here my whole life, I'm not into the whole country music thing either. In fact most of us natives aren't. You'd be surprised, it's really more of a gimmick, because aside from our regional accent, we're not that "country". We do talk slower than most other states (which I resent because when I hear people from California talk I have to adjust my ears and process twice as much info in the same amount of time lol), but we don't play the guitar, wear cowboy boots, or rid…
/r/seduction12/01/22 09:37 PM
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I live here but I'm 19 so I have no experience in the adult world just yet. What's wrong with here?
/r/seduction12/01/22 07:58 PM
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When you turn 21 work for a courier company, those guys get paid 100 to 300 a day driving boxes around. You have to make plenty of time for it, but you'll be able to live at your own place once you become one, no doubt.
/r/seduction12/01/22 07:30 AM
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I can agree so much because when I started dating a girl in highschool, I was so misguided as to what her intentions were with me were. Although I did get ahead of myself by miles, I assumed that we were going to spend time together even after we graduated from highschool. The first red flag that let me know that it wouldn't be anywhere near long term was when she said "I always wanted a boyfriend", like my asking her out and us dating was just some mile stone she wanted to pass. It stung, espec…
/r/seduction05/01/22 11:47 PM
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It's honestly so easy to score a gf in highschool. Most of them are competing with each other to prove how attractive they are, so all you have to do is slide in as the chill funny guy and make one particular girl laugh often. Hang around her alot if she's feeling you, and eventually everyone around you two will suggest that you start dating, and you then start dating because of the pressure from everyone. That's exactly how it played out for me, but it wasn't on purpose. I was just naturally fu…
/r/seduction05/01/22 10:34 PM
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This fasho. Relationships benefit the girl alot more than the guy, generally speaking. What we as guys envision in our heard for relationships to be is quite often nothing like reality. I would advise my younger self to smash before looking for love.
/r/seduction05/01/22 10:31 PM
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Why are people down voting this? Absolute facts, wish some of the girls in my highschool heard this.
/r/seduction05/01/22 10:29 PM
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I like your advice in so much as you prescribe getting out there and gaining experience, but I completely disagree with your advice when it comes to asking girls for relationship/attraction advice. Some good pointers may be thrown in, but generally speaking, women give advice on how a man should act to be fit for long term security, not attraction. Following a girl's advice oftentimes lands you in the friend zone rather than the romantic/bone zone.
/r/seduction05/01/22 10:27 PM
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Ahhh in that case: https://youtu.be/vWIBOL8J15k Good advice on how to take dope pics, which will likely lead to a higher success rate.
/r/seduction27/12/21 01:13 PM
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According to Austin Dunham, let them initiate conversation first. Cuts out alot of the bs and only exposes you to chicks enthusiastically interested. If you're not at the level to where chicks almost regularly initiate first, get to that level.
/r/seduction27/12/21 03:49 AM
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I'm sorry, did you seriously say that a woman can add to her attractiveness by gaining status or wealth?😂 No.. that's not how it works. Men in general don't get boners when they find out a chick is famous or making tons of money. Quit trying to tell men what we care about! We don't care about a woman's fame or money!
/r/ExRedPill24/12/21 08:59 PM
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I find choosing signals mildly annoying tbh. Something about the message of "you look interesting enough, so I'll make a half ass effort of showing that I'm granting you the massive burden of performance that comes with trying to seduce me", rubs me the wrong way.
/r/seduction23/12/21 06:35 PM
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That's a tough height to be at lol. If he says his actual height then they'll say he's too short, but if he tries to squeeze in an extra inch or two and say he's 5'9", they'll say he's JUST under their height requirement.🤦
/r/seduction23/12/21 04:36 AM
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And the key with getting out is to expect absolutely nothing don't hang your hat on the idea of getting laid, and don't give any chick the power to determine your mood or self esteem. Just roll with whatever happens and try to make fun out of it. That's the key, I think. But this is coming from a guy who's been putting off his first cold approach for 2 days now, so what do I know?
/r/seduction23/12/21 04:33 AM
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If he falls close he can easily cap about. Like dick sizes, most chicks overestimate length. Most can't tell the difference between 5'10" and 6"
/r/seduction23/12/21 04:31 AM
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Reveal your secret😫🤞
/r/seduction23/12/21 04:29 AM
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Just have a conversation, but make it tilt sexual over the course of time. If she's no feeling it, back off but if she's genuinely giggling, escalate. Don't bee too sudden with your advances. Be bold but not autistic about it. You don't need a script, you need an overall objective and the experience and confidence to get there. Just keep on trying different things and look for what seems to work best. Good luck.
/r/seduction22/12/21 09:05 PM
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Not gonna lie, the reverse seems to be true more often. I hear so many women complaining about the lack of quality men while always going back to pooky and rayray in a toxic cycle. But then again you have dudes on the internet who complain about the expectations of women, but don't do shit to improve themselves or become more attractive, so there is some of it on both sides. But it seems to be a moreso feminine trait to blame others and society instead of solving it, though. Literally every guy …
/r/seduction10/12/21 09:00 PM
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When I said "don't be honest", I should've said "don't wear your heart on your sleeve". Overall good advice you've spit, I agree.🔥
/r/seduction09/12/21 02:40 AM
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I'm assuming that these chicks are young, so of course they'll be in their hoe phase, where they look for the jerks that don't text back... if you want to be successful with them, be the jerk who doesn't text back. Don't be the guy who's consistent, stable, and honest. That just makes you the guy chicks come back around to in their early 30's once they're "tired of playing games and looking to settle down", which really means that they've hit the wall. Check out this helpful clip: https://youtu.…
/r/seduction08/12/21 08:42 PM
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Boy you sure do use alot of shaming language. She blocked him for her mental health? He has a huge ego? He doesn't see women as human beings? Lol ok
/r/seduction19/11/21 11:47 AM
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She blocked him to restore her ego. She was mad that this guy who she didn't find very attractive had the AUDACITY to reject taking her Instagram, so she forced him to take it just to shoot him down. It was petty asf but it seems like it was just a play to "get back at him" and restore her ego.
/r/seduction19/11/21 02:01 AM
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Facts, you gotta understand body language to get better at deciding if she's a waste of time or not.
/r/seduction19/09/21 02:42 AM
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You sound wise🙏🏾🔥 What's a "hot" approach btw?
/r/seduction19/09/21 02:39 AM
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Truuuue. This is for first meetups, where I have to set the mood, though. Where she may be open to hooking up in the back of her head, but isn't even in that "zone" just yet. I'm tryna to get her in that zone, but it takes alot of energy Investment for me.
/r/seduction17/09/21 12:40 AM
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I think I'm an ISTJ, so I can relate to what you've said alot. Maybe being high energy isn't as necessary as I thought.
/r/seduction16/09/21 06:40 PM
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I'm working on seduction because I know it's something that exceeds just being able to get sex. Mastering seduction's also gonna teach me stuff I need to know about other areas of life, like holding conversation, being charismatic, being likeable, etc. Plus the sex feels more "earned" when I have to use charm for it. It's tiring, but I don't mind. I think you're right, I just need to build up stamina. I've been in quarantine too long, and I've never been outgoing before now.
/r/seduction16/09/21 04:12 PM
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Do I need to build up stamina through repetition; is it even possible to "build up stamina"? Or do I just need to work on "sealing the deal" quicker, before I get too tired?
/r/seduction16/09/21 01:35 PM
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Sorry for the long reply. Alot of gems in there, but a long read.
/r/seduction16/09/21 12:44 PM
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Everybody's been saying this. Glad I'm not the only one educated on the topic🔥🔥💪🏾
/r/seduction16/09/21 12:37 PM
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" The person who asks for commitment has less power in the relationship," is exactly why I told you in all caps, earlier, to let her ask YOU for commitment.😎 And I also said not so soon because it can be seen as a red flag if you try to move in so quickly. I didn't explain myself so I'm glad this guy did for me. Read my mind on both these things. Best of luck.🔥
/r/seduction16/09/21 11:32 AM
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You should start a YouTube channel bruh. I never hear guys be this blunt and factual with advice.☝🏾🔥💯
/r/seduction16/09/21 04:07 AM
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DON'T ASK TO DATE, AND ESPECIALLY NOT SO SOON, LET HER ASK YOU.
/r/seduction16/09/21 04:05 AM
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I've heard from numerous well seasoned "players" that apparently, as the guy, texting should only be a tool you use to set up dates. Outside of setting up meetups, texting is a waste of time, especially because you don't know her so we'll. She just may not be used to a guy trying to get to know her so much over text. I'd keep the personal talks for in-person. Texting's a tool to get to the next level. Not the ultimate goal.
/r/seduction16/09/21 12:56 AM
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U right. Reading back it borders on arrogance🤦🏾‍♂️
/r/seduction08/09/21 09:07 PM
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Parking zone for students, and I would have black tented windows and/or put up black curtains so nobody notices.
/r/seduction08/09/21 02:01 PM
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🪳🪳🪳🤦🏾‍♂️🤮
/r/seduction08/09/21 01:56 PM
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I mean that it's observably true that the guys at my college generally lack charisma and confidence. I consider myself on the lower end of both of those things, but the average guy I see @ my college is even lower than me. Which makes the "competition" virtually non existent.
/r/seduction08/09/21 01:54 PM
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Hopefully they don't do a clean check with a blue light lmfao
/r/seduction08/09/21 04:27 AM
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My man's they got cooking tutorials on YouTube.🤣
/r/seduction08/09/21 03:54 AM
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I was thinking a hotel😂
/r/seduction08/09/21 03:06 AM
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Ahhh a test run
/r/seduction08/09/21 03:06 AM
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Well shiii not a bad idea!🤔😏
/r/seduction08/09/21 02:45 AM
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True, although its definitely gonna make me lose some points. I don't technically need a car rn. Public Transit's cheaper, and I could use the extra money to save. This might just be my wallet talking, but I think cars are overhyped by the youth.
/r/seduction08/09/21 01:19 AM
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Bro, sounds like she's stringing you along. Telling you where you should take her next, but not even fully committing to something as small as being held? When she's more invested in the events you take her to than she is in sexually escalating with you, that's a bad sign. I would bail tbh. Assuming you didn't go dutch, you already spent enough money on that broad for her to be playing coy.💯 Her interest is too low, find a better investment.
/r/seduction08/09/21 01:13 AM
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