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Incredibly! It’s often hard to find role models as a young woman, so I’m always on the look out for people like her
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/20 01:54 PM
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I love her videos! She has such a positive energy I can feel through the screen
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/20 01:51 PM
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I wouldn’t say there’s no hope, but it depends on the circles you associate with. I’m from a MC background, my dad was in the military then went into his own business so a decent 6 figures but my soon to be husband is an international student with a much higher family income, and was even gifted an office building for his 18th birthday. Look into groups, meet women first. Sports clubs at more expensive gyms or things like that. Then they can introduce you and you can grow your circle. This video…
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/20 03:33 AM
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I’ve had the same from my own mother, who was a stay at home mum until I was 14. My though process is that as long as you’re doing the best for you and your family, then that’s good enough! Being a SAHM is my ultimate goal and nothing anyone ever says can change my mind
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/20 06:01 AM
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I was 16, he was 17, and we met on TikTok actually! He was in America at the time and I was in the U.K. so it was pretty long distance and we closed the distance for good about 9 months ago Edit: can whoever downvoted this explain why? Not mad, just curious
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/20 03:44 AM
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I just asked and he said ‘you and food’ haha But earlier when I asked the initial question, he said that he just wants to feel my love, and I’ll use the five love languages to explain. Mine is touch and his is acts of service/ gifts, so to show love I do both touch to show him I’m enjoying his love and I’ll also do acts of service/ gifts to show him that I love him in his way. It’s really just being here for each other and showing that you understand them
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/20 03:07 AM
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I always think it’s useful to get some kind of... feedback almost?
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/20 10:51 PM
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Oh is it not? Thank you but I want someone who says ‘hey this thing you did upset me, please don’t do it again’ or says ‘I want this from you’ He’s not sensitive or overly emotional in any way, but I want him to be able to express his thoughts to me and our relationship to be a space for him to do that. Suicide is the leading cause of death in men age 25-40 and I want him to have somewhere where he knows he is safe and loved and respected and supported.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/20 10:44 PM
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Having emotions = being feminine... A guy can say he wants love and support from his wife without suddenly being feminine for that. I’ve dated guys who are more emotionally challenged and I don’t want that. I want someone who’s able to tell me what he feels and why he feels it. I told him I wanted a motorbike and he was EXCITED so we can ride together. I’ve seen him cry because I had to leave to another country, laugh with happiness and share his deepest thoughts. If that’s feminine then I’m gla…
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/20 10:38 PM
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He gets those things, but unlike you clearly he does have a sensitive side and gasp access to his emotions!
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/20 10:34 PM
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Nope, I’d love for you to tell me
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/20 10:28 PM
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Oh wise one, please tell me what me boyfriend desires that he wasn’t able to tell me
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/20 10:24 PM
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Yeah I have no through a of ever pushing him into it, but it doesn’t stop me wondering ‘what if’
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/20 10:23 PM
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I’m in the same position as you :( 18, I’m not in college but my bf is but I work, and I feel like just waiting for my chance to be able to be SAHM. I’m getting married this year but I’ll still have to work because he can’t get and I feel it’s unfair to ask him to while he’s studying for our future. But that doesn’t stop me dreaming of a nice life with babies and our own happy life one day
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/20 06:39 AM
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Haha thank you! And really we had the discussion that we’d be married by the end of 2020, and we had been together some time and lived together at that point so I had full trust in him. Plus he was the first (and only) guy I’d been with so I knew that to lose it to the person I was going to spend my life with is a good decision
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/20 09:37 AM
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1 year 2 months. That was around 7 months ago, and we’re going to be married this year. I knew he was the person I was going to marry we already had plans, and I knew it was going to be worth the wait
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/20 09:21 AM
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You could use another social media if you ready want (I met my bf on TikTok lmao) but honestly just go out and meet people!! After the virus is over tho. For now, stay in quarantine
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/20 10:07 AM
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Dating apps are a bad idea, and I’m glad I never had to use them from the horror stories I’ve heard from friends It’s hook up culture and if you don’t want that then look somewhere else
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/20 09:30 AM
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Example They are at different levels because of women's hips/ waist
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/20 01:22 AM
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Personally, submission is trusting him enough to lead you and to be your sanctuary and security. Everyday submission for me has always been caring for him by doing tasks such as cleaning and cooking, so that when he comes home our space is peaceful and clean. I’ll do little things such as get him his drink or put clothes away, or major things like moving to his home country and becoming a housewife at a young age. Overall it’s just knowing that he’s not going to do things that could harm me or o…
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/20 07:33 AM
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I met my boyfriend online, now we live together and have been for about 6 months and are getting married this year. I think long distance can work but it’s just a different style of relationship that needs different things to be done to make it work Edit: to answer the question from OP, it depends on how committed you are. I waited 1 year, but I think after a month or 2 is a good idea. As long as you’re both committed and have long term plans
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/20 11:07 PM
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When I was younger I never felt like being a strong powerful career woman was for me, I felt like my life was meant to be me with a husband and children. I never though that would happen but I met my boyfriend and then I knew I’d be able to do it and I was able to slot comfortably into a traditional mindset. I found RPW specifically through YouTube and then then came to this subreddit. It felt like a good fit for my ideas and I love it
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/20 04:07 AM
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Welcome! I used to have the same feminist mindset, so I’ll share a few things that helped me change how I act Is the argument worth it? Small issues I just had to become more relaxed in and over time it just became natural Hold my tongue. Do not criticise your partner for his choices, remember you’re on of them! He’s not a child and wouldn’t be making bad choices on purpose Appreciate him. He works hard and is a good partner (I can assume the same for your husband) so small mistakes can be forgi…
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/20 10:52 AM
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I think you can find it on YouTube!! Mary Berry Christmas baking show, something along those lines?
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/20 12:42 AM
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Kate Middleton! She always is seen to be a fantastic wife and mother, always looking elegant and loving, but is also a strong woman. She hasn’t let the press or anyone change who she is even in the face of hate. She’s always refined but caring and on her recent show with Mary Berry she just seems so genuinely sweet. I adore her and hope I’m able to be like her one day
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/20 05:13 PM
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You managed to get to 31 and haven’t thought ‘maybe the way I’m following hasn’t been working’? Men are not simple minded creatures who only want sex. Sure they enjoy it, but don’t we all! Sex comes in a long term stream when you’re in a long term committed relationship and the two of you are able to figure each other out, figure out what works for your relationship and figure out what you want. Don’t use sex as a tool to bargain and withhold it to get what you want, it won’t end up well.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/20 03:18 PM
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Sex is not a tool to bargain with. It’s a connection between two (hopefully committed, preferably married) people. You can get the things you want without using sex to get it. You get things (items, sex, affection, care, love) by picking a good guy who is able to appreciate what you do for him as a wife and partner. Things like caring for the home, supporting him, making sure his needs are met, keeping yourself looking good and just being a loving and respectful wife. Sex is intimate, living, sp…
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/20 01:26 PM
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'the title is a bit exaggerated' Incorrect, the title is the truth
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/12/19 08:58 PM
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The surrendered wife is a guide to allowing your husband to lead, not questioning his choices as you know he can handle it! I really like it, especially as someone who used to be a major control freak now I’m able to follow rather than lead A dance has 2 people, one who leads and one who follows. The same is true in a relationship, if both are trying to lead it won’t go anywhere
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/19 05:43 PM
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Will do!!
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/19 11:03 PM
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Thank you <3
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/19 11:02 PM
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I relate to the mother focusing on job part, she started working when my dad left the army and now all she’ll do is work or sit on the sofa and nap/ eat. I love mrs Midwest!! I just hope I can live up to my own goals
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/19 11:01 PM
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Oh we’re engaged (legally too as it’s on our visas) just no ring, we’re getting married next year and moving in together in January.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/19 11:00 PM
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Thank you so much for this!
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/19 07:46 PM
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My mum keeps the house clean sometimes but since my dad works from home more often now (ex-military, now self employed) he does everything almost and waits on her hand and foot. I guess I just needed to hear that maybe I’ll turn out different to my mum, me and my bf are getting our own apartment in January and I can’t wait to take care of it.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/19 07:40 PM
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I wish we could be doing Christmas! I am staying with my parents and just my family of 4 will have lasagne and my bf doesn't celebrate Christmas so next year will be nothing :(
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/19 04:31 PM
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I think first you need a sit down discussion, work through how you both want to picture the future. A time frame of what will happen. Then, if he isn’t progressing towards these then you need an ultimatum. RPW techniques and beliefs only work if the man is a natural leader, if he isn’t then it becomes so much harder
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/19 01:50 AM
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I think every person can evolve, I can and so can he. No person is perfect and we are always advancing and improving ourselves. Just last night I asked him what I could do to be a better wife for him (we’re considering marriage next year) and I chose to evolve and develop in that way. And when I said ‘small deal’ I said it would probably seem like that for other people but it was a big deal for us and I was so happy with that. I’m talking about how things feel in my relationship and to celebrate…
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/19 04:19 AM
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I basically took an emotional step back. I though ‘if he loves me, he’ll show me’ and then when I see him do all the things he’s done (supported me leaving my home country, introducing me to his parents which is pretty major for a Chinese guy, is always willing to communicate and make things work when he we have disagreements because he wants a future, surprises me with little gifts etc) I realise he cares for me equally, just shows it differently. Today he introduced me to someone calling me by…
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/19 01:09 PM
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Yeah it’s possible that he can evolve. My bf is pretty shy, so PDA is 100% not his thing but I’m a very physically affectionate person (different upbringings, my parents showed lot’s of love in front of me while his parents didn’t) so it’s just a learning process. He held my hand in public today and while for most it’s small, for us it’s a step forward! As long as he takes things at his pace, it seems to go well
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/19 11:17 AM
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I absolutely adore her!! Such beautiful work and I watch her videos often to relax
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/19 03:55 AM
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Before my boyfriend leaves for classes/ work, we always make sure to have a along full hug and kiss. No matter how we feel that day, it just really lifts the mood ^
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/19 10:03 AM
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