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The good news is that if you're worried about a girl being too clingy you can always just treat her with respect so she dumps you :)
/r/MensRights17/05/26 05:40 PM
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That's not really what it's about... the consensus. Women are only in love if they're hypergamic. If they feel the man can get another girl, then he must be out of her league. This is why women constantly have strings of 'narcissist' men that they date. What they haven't yet learned is that they're all just sluts being used for free. That's really all it boils down to. They give it up, get nothing in return, and then they're mad about it. It's a problem THEY LITERALLY CREATED!
/r/MensRights17/05/26 02:31 AM
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France did it. But they should be mandatory.
/r/MensRights16/05/26 11:52 PM
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One person's rights shouldn't override another's especially when the truth is on their side. Have you not been paying attention? The issue is that mens rights are constantly being overridden. That's basically the entire point of this subreddit.
/r/MensRights16/05/26 11:13 PM
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> “Well, who provoked them into it!” They're doing this for domestic violence too calling it "reactive abuse" when a woman attacks a man. Because obviously all women are innocent and a man must have triggered her into doing it. They're literally not responsible for their own actions.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/05/26 08:07 PM
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I mean you sound like a nihilist who's just given up and decided that nothing can be done. This isn't how we should live as a society.
/r/MensRights15/05/26 07:58 PM
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"Rape culture"
/r/MensRights15/05/26 07:57 PM
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Ha. It's funny because it's rape! /s Flip the genders and lets see what happens.
/r/MensRights15/05/26 07:50 PM
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Forcing a man, who isn't the father, to pay for a kid who isn't his, is a crock of shit too. I realize that this is WHY the state is doing it but it's theft. It's also robbing a child of his father. That's evil.
/r/MensRights15/05/26 07:14 PM
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BTW. It turns out all a lot of the bias against test comes from 'roid rage' which in turn comes from the association with something called trenbolone. Trenbolone is used by weight lifters because it's VERY anabolic (creates lots of muscles) much faster than testosterone. However, it's NOT testosterone. It's just really close. Turns out when you take tren it cause mental health issues and anger. That anger is assumed to be due to test but it's not... it's from tren. I've been on physiological dos…
/r/MensRights15/05/26 03:55 AM
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> Do not ever, EVER, give them any access to your wife, girlfriend or mother's contact information. Be careful how this can leak too. I had my ex add me to Linked In... and my stalker figured out she was my GF and then started stalking her too.
/r/MensRights15/05/26 02:55 AM
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I mean, I think I agree with you in a lot of what you're saying. We're probably on the same page here. I find that there are two categories of women in tech right now. There's a category of women that are more around execution and management roles. They're not technical. They just kinda understand trends, know how to fire people, can keep track of things, etc. They're basically glorified secretaries. Then there are women that are legitimately very technical and very skilled, but frankly I find t…
/r/MensRights15/05/26 01:49 AM
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It's also more about out culture war. Companies and orgs like the UN want cheap wins. Like when people 'celebrate' gay pride or black history month. They don't give a SHIT about either groups. All they want is the free PR that comes with it. They wouldn't give $1 to help these groups. It's just patronizing the public for cheap publicity wins.
/r/MensRights15/05/26 01:25 AM
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> Oddly they don't have an option to choose the race of your driver I'd prefer F1 but definitely not NASCAR because I'd never get to work just going in circles like that.
/r/MensRights14/05/26 11:15 PM
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"Female genital mutilation" is a GREAT example of how women work to actually get people to pay attention to their issues. Men do a horrible fucking job. Really, we should be embarassed.
/r/MensRights14/05/26 05:21 PM
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It's not just queens from the ages of old but also female leaders from modern times. They go to war at a higher rate than men. This is why I think we need a uniform draft and it should be a draft by role in the military too. You won't be able to pick. You could be in the navy, airforce, infantry, etc. It's not just women too it's the rich. The rich should be drafted too. Right now it's just poor men that serve (in the US) and some countries have mandatory service - but just for men. It has to en…
/r/MensRights14/05/26 05:01 PM
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It's a MASSIVE problem in tech too. Lots of VC firms have "DEI" programs where they literally set aside money only for women. That said, there are a lot of VERY competent women in tech. I'm meeting with a female VC in 30 minutes to pitch my company and she's very sharp. Looking forward to it. I don't care anything about your race, religion, gender, nationality etc. If you're smart I'm on your side. That's the way it should be.
/r/MensRights14/05/26 03:53 PM
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"Not all women but always a woman. "
/r/MensRights14/05/26 03:18 AM
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it's also for the sake of kids in order to get accurate medical record. This is a REALLY strong argument against the "it's offensive to the mother" nonsense. A child deserves to have a father.
/r/MensRights14/05/26 02:31 AM
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Document EVERYTHING now. Also, tell your friends when it happens. Send them an email documenting everything. If they fire you. Threaten to sue the hell out of them for creating a hostile work environment for you and say that it was constructive termination for speaking out. Settle with them for $$$ - which is what usually happens.
/r/MensRights13/05/26 06:34 PM
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Maybe you don't. No shade either way. I do... I will get burned out and depressed without it. I need the outdoors too. I can't live in cities anymore. Without sunrises, birds, etc. I burn out. Same thing with women.
/r/MensRights12/05/26 04:05 PM
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I found that woman but what happened is that her sister became a feminist and convinced her I was abusing her because I wanted a traditional lifestyle. I didn't want her to work and I wanted to just focus on making the money. We had a GREAT lifestyle until she started to believe feminist bullshit. Then we got a 'divorce' and she ruined her life. It was a shit show and she ended up in a mental ward twice.
/r/MensRights12/05/26 01:57 AM
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Translation... women are always victims of men :) I agree with you. Just making it shorter.
/r/MensRights11/05/26 09:33 PM
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For the record, when I talk to women I shit on these people. I do standup too and I've been shitting on manosphere people. Women tend to love those jokes.
/r/MensRights11/05/26 06:47 PM
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It's just rage bait... I don't doubt that they believe a lot of what they say but the whole point is to make people angry. They're not on our side. They're only trying to make money.
/r/MensRights11/05/26 05:44 PM
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Adults lie, steal, cheat too. I think being a man and being a woman are valid goals. It's just that women want NO responsibilities whatsoever and if you disagree you're a misogynist.
/r/MensRights11/05/26 05:18 PM
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Fetterman sucks but he's right. Dems can win the next election but they have to start running straight Christian white men. That and they have to hold primaries. I hate Trump but I hate Democrats too. They're just feckless losers. Chuck Schumer: "Trump is literally Hitler but we don't do anything about it except ask for more donations"
/r/MensRights11/05/26 04:56 PM
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Nothing... except it pays like 1/10th. I have a sad story but a friend of mine got cancer and had to resort to being a gay prostitute to pay his bills. The problem is that he wasn't gay. So it was gay for pay or die. Is America great again, yet?
/r/MensRights11/05/26 04:26 PM
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Also, they don't have to "be a woman" because saying that is "misogynistic". You're required to literally die to protect them but you can't ask them to be loyal, chaste, honest, loving, respectful, etc.
/r/MensRights11/05/26 04:12 PM
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I mean, it's another good example about how women can't exist without men and how men basically drive the world These prostitutes don't cater to other women. They're making their money from men
/r/MensRights11/05/26 03:40 AM
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Nah... that's like saying the solution to eating disorders is to stop eating. :)
/r/MensRights11/05/26 02:32 AM
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One thing that isn't mentioned in ANY of this is that even if you DO want a western woman, that living and dating in these countries is SO much cheaper. You can date 10 girls for the price of 1 vs the US. Not talking about sex just first dates where you go out to dinner. In the US, men are expected to pay the costs and a date can cost $50-150 now.
/r/MensRights10/05/26 08:57 PM
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I'd support a male-only draft but what equal sacrifice are women expected to make? We shouldn't just agree by default without hearing their proposals for what we receive in return when THEY don't serve.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/05/26 08:46 PM
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Conscript women too or it's a no go... The fact that men aren't constantly protesting against this is insane.
/r/MensRights10/05/26 06:58 PM
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A privilege is something the person who has it actually wants. An option that has significant value. No, it's not. People can have privileges and not even realize their privileges Spend a bit of time outside the United States, and you'll see what I mean. In poor countries, even basic things like running water are privileges, but we take them for granted. My point is that women are taking these things for granted
/r/MensRights10/05/26 03:35 AM
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The current administration won't be in power forever, and when they get removed, we're going to be in a situation to fix it
/r/MensRights10/05/26 03:34 AM
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Gaslight elsewhere.
/r/MensRights09/05/26 09:23 PM
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No one is forcing women to shave their kitties mimicking little girls. Literally millions of women in the US actively try to look as young as possible to manipulate men but somehow WE'RE the villains. They can never handle accountability. They always have to make it someone else's fault.
/r/MensRights09/05/26 08:54 PM
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How long until women claim this was "reactive abuse" and blame the man somehow.
/r/MensRights09/05/26 08:48 PM
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And then when we say fuck it all and become passport bros it's STILL our fault. I'm tired boss.
/r/MensRights09/05/26 12:37 AM
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As far as she's come base on just LOOKS alone it wasn't enough for her. They just can't help it. She was literally born a nepo baby and still wants more.
/r/MensRights08/05/26 09:55 PM
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I think we're talking about two different things. I'm talking about the definition of biological life. You're talking about whether you enjoy it or not. I don't care about this point because that's an entirely different issue. And the point is out behavior is mediated TOWARD replication. That's the general thesis of the book Iw as pointing out btw.
/r/MensRights08/05/26 08:30 PM
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Doesn't matter what the point is... what came next was "life"
/r/MensRights08/05/26 08:22 PM
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Women are trash because a minority of them make false rape accusations. Like the three that were made against me.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/05/26 05:28 PM
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Life, itself, is replication. Replication, mutation, and natural selection. The first forms of "life" were amino acids that started self-replicating, then turned into DNA. Therefore, replications is one of the core requirements for life. Mutation and selection come for free from the environment. The Selfish Gene is a great book to read on this subject if you're interested.
/r/MensRights08/05/26 04:43 PM
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Just start lying to them. They don't deserve your respect anyway if they are just going to walk away from you because you don't have any money. So the ends justify the means, in my opinion.
/r/MensRights08/05/26 04:17 PM
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And women that are decent people should be on our side too. They DO exist. A lot of them read this forum and are supportive of us.
/r/MensRights08/05/26 04:03 PM
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Report them to HR and start framing this as a toxic work space. You don't need to be in an environment where you feel threatened.
/r/MensRights08/05/26 04:01 PM
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This needs to just flat out be unconstitutional.
/r/MensRights08/05/26 02:35 AM
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Yeah, that's my point. I don't think it's as severe of a case if I have a killer career or a really awesome-looking rig. But if it looks cheap and like I'm homeless, then I'm fucked.
/r/MensRights08/05/26 01:00 AM
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GREAT example actually. IF a man lives with his parents he's a loser. If a girl does it she's saving money and being kind and taking care of her mom and dad.
/r/MensRights08/05/26 12:58 AM
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Meaning that a woman that is considered "homeless" won't turn off a man but the reverse is not true
/r/MensRights07/05/26 10:11 PM
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Not trying to be funny but, regardless of gender.. who is going to attempt to keep up a relationship where there other half is abroad/away the majority of the time. How do you build something from that? I will take her with me or bail that year if we really like each other.
/r/MensRights07/05/26 10:10 PM
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I've not heard of any of these people. Look at the number of MtF women in music that are just pulling in tons of cash.
/r/MensRights07/05/26 10:09 PM
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I'm working on it !
/r/MensRights07/05/26 10:09 PM
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Luckily for me I'm shooting blanks :) I realized there are probably two definitions of "life" we're talking about. Life in terms of evolution, is absolutely just about reproducing.
/r/MensRights07/05/26 10:08 PM
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Life isn't all about attracting women. That's the only point actually. To pass on your genetic material. That's literally the only point of life. The "I want to enjoy this" thing is just an emergent property of being a human. I'm a science/evolution nerd though
/r/MensRights07/05/26 08:41 PM
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Would you move to a house and give up continuous travelling for a life partner? Normally you'd be right but actually this is my plan.
/r/MensRights07/05/26 08:40 PM
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The nutball issue is the problem. I'd PREFER to date a girl like this though as long as she wasn't insane. The bad kind of insane though. I tend to like the good kind of insane :)
/r/MensRights07/05/26 08:37 PM
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They always say "if I were a man" but they can convert at any time. I see PLENTY of thriving MTF transgender women but there are NO thriving FTM transgender men that I can think of. This is why I hate Taylor Swift's song about her complaining that she isn't a man. The ONLY reason she's famous (to her level) is that she's female. She can become a man at any moment but she doesn't.
/r/MensRights07/05/26 08:36 PM
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... and women want to keep these privileges which is why the gaslight people that they don't exist.
/r/MensRights07/05/26 03:26 AM
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Women also are strongly opposed to being excluded from male spaces in general. Yup. Yet they want to exclude us from Ubers, Gyms, etc
/r/MensRights06/05/26 10:58 PM
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They're never going to argue in good faith because lying gives them more power. Men start having to insist that women carry equal responsibility in our society. AKA women need to be drafted into CRITICAL roles that men normally provide to society that women don't want to do. Front line police, fire fighters and military. AND in combat and dangerous positions. We can't continue to keep it on our backs.
/r/MensRights06/05/26 04:41 PM
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In Saving Private Ryan two men come from a bunker and say: "Please don't shoot me! I am not German, I am Czech, I didn't kill anyone! I am Czech! They're shot anyway because they weren't speaking English. This is what happened to my family. They were forcibly conscripted by the Nazis in Alsace Loraine (France) which has a large German population. They were given to choice to fight or be shot. 99% of fighting age men from Alsace Loraine were either killed by the Nazis or the Soviets. To be fair. …
/r/MensRights06/05/26 03:59 PM
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BTW. The "Lord of the Flies" thing actually happened and the boys got along just fine, did really well and were rescued in good health: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tongan_castaways
/r/MensRights06/05/26 01:26 AM
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There's also the issue is that boys are more rambunctious. They get in fights, they argue, compete against one another. Girls are easier to manage in groups and now that girls have entered classes with boys the boys are getting dinged as being 'difficult' for just being boys. Boys and girls should not be taught in the same schools at the same time. Not saying they shouldn't interact. They should. Just in after-school activities.
/r/MensRights05/05/26 07:10 PM
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That said, marriage from the legal perspective is a huge risk for men, and an archaic practice. I agree that the nuance is a problem here but the aspect of marriage being a MASSIVE downside outweigh any of the nuance.
/r/MensRights04/05/26 10:58 PM
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I have similar stories... Men are simping though and that needs to stop. What's especially pathetic is when men will give GF treatment for a woman that's NOT his GF hoping she will be in the future. That's pathetic.
/r/MensRights04/05/26 10:15 PM
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Ask them what responsibilities a man has to a woman in a relationship. Then ask the reverse. What responsibilities a woman has to a man. Their answers are mind blowing. They're usually actively OFFENDED that there's even the assumption that a woman would have responsibilities to a man but a man must literally DIE to protect his wife. It's crazy. Like you can't even expect her to make a sandwich for you.
/r/MensRights04/05/26 08:12 PM
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I'm a standup and I've been using a lot of the frustration I feel about how most people assume I'm angry and integrating it into my comedy. I call it "resting German face". Basically, if I don't smile, it looks like I'm about to invade Poland. It's no joke either. It's a legitimate disability. ha. So what I do now is I try to be over the top nice to everyone. If I say something straight out, people assume I'm going to kill them! Really, I'm just being direct - AKA German. It's really helped my i…
/r/MensRights04/05/26 04:02 PM
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This is actually a GREAT issue for men to fight over because it's not something that makes it seem like we're fucking over women. It's not part of the men vs women war.
/r/MensRights03/05/26 09:05 PM
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It will always be majority men going to war because of natural instincts and biological differences (stronger, fitter, etc). I am willing to concede that point but then what do men get in return? Right now we make all of the sacrifices and get NOTHING
/r/MensRights03/05/26 02:33 AM
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Anytime we bring up our issues, the reply is “your problems are caused by other men” or “it’s mostly men doing it anyway,” while women are painted as perfect creatures who can do no wrong. This is the key point. I know you haven't ever dated a heterosexual woman but most are flat out ALLERGIC to any type of accountability. I used to feel it was a joke, by older men. That were jaded. But now that I've been through it, every serious argument I've had with an ex was when SHE did something wrong, I …
/r/MensRights02/05/26 08:44 PM
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I treat EVERY women like I would expect a man to treat my mother. Yet, I've had THREE false rape allegations that have seriously impacted my life. - The first was in college where a girl that had a crush on me, got drunk in my dorm because she wanted to sleep with me, I slept on the floor, my two other roommates were there. Her bf found out she slept at my place and she said I raped her to avoid consequences. The school took it seriously and I got sent to a 'discipline review board' and they wer…
/r/MensRights02/05/26 06:44 PM
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Also, everything else is expected and the "bare minimum". I have to hold the door for all women but I can't get one to make me a sandwich.
/r/MensRights02/05/26 06:21 PM
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Sure but to be fair I'm sure if these were her sons she's be just as pissed. But the key point is that women need to be serving or we need to re-investigate a woman's role in society. It can't be just men going off and dying in war.
/r/MensRights02/05/26 06:16 PM
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I have a solution. Draft the woman.
/r/MensRights02/05/26 06:15 PM
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The manosphere is definitely *part* of the problem because a lot of it is just rage bait. Many of the manosphere people are the worst types of humans to represent our cause.
/r/MensRights01/05/26 10:38 PM
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Right now, what I've been doing is that if they're obviously toxic towards men and have harmful misandristic values I'll immediately cut my loses. However, there seem to be some women that can slip through that filter and you only find out months later. That's the problem I'm having now. My big pet peeve is when I have to do all the traditional male things (like paying for the date, driving, etc) but she won't be feminine.
/r/MensRights01/05/26 04:21 PM
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But then you use terms like feminist to describe people that disagree with you even if they aren’t in fact feminists. I've never used the term to invalidate their opinion. You can be a feminist and be 100% correct on issues and I'll support those. If you're wrong I argue from first principles. I usually call people out as being a feminist if they're attacking by using logical fallacies, ad hominems, etc. It’s not feminist to believe that drafting women would be harmful to any military I'd agree …
/r/MensRights01/05/26 04:17 PM
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The only reason I care about is that it shouldn't be a requirement to be a certain religion in a country. I'm an atheist so I also feel discriminated against in the US. I don't get to start orgs that are tax-free unless I lie.
/r/MensRights01/05/26 04:13 PM
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Some of my female friends support me or give me warnings about the problems that come with it and other females hate it. And a few don’t care I’ve never put myself first and i finally am It seems horrible to shit on someone else's relationship and tell them it's doomed without knowing the person. Maybe they should mind their own business? If you can't say anything nice don't say anything at all. Single women keep women single. They sabotage each other.
/r/MensRights01/05/26 04:11 PM
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The entitlement and delusion is through the roof. They're all just getting ran through by chads and will be single and 30 and never have kids. How do I know? I'm one of the chads. lol. Not worth committing to these women. I only commit to very feminine submissive traditional women.
/r/MensRights01/05/26 03:31 AM
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Yeah. I had a step daughter and the moment I wanted to break up with the mom she told me she was going to tell her daughter that I SA'd her. She literally said "Veronica is NEVER going to speak to you again!" I called her bluff because I knew she wouldn't believe her because I treated her VERY VERY well and we were close.
/r/MensRights01/05/26 03:12 AM
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And women will gaslight the fuck out of anyone who doesn't think dating a single mom makes any sense. It's an INSANELY stupid idea. Unless you have your own kid and it's 1:1 ... But only if she doesn't require you to alienate your own children. My bitch step mom was like this. ALWAYS hated us. My dad was an idiot. Put up with her for 30 years and she divorced him at 72. The MOMENT she inherited 1M from her btw. Like it was 2 weeks after she inherited the money and she was gone. Also, my step-sis…
/r/MensRights01/05/26 03:09 AM
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It's a good example of top down math not being backed up by bottom up... If what they were saying was true the bottom up math would synch up with it. ... but it doesn't.
/r/MensRights30/04/26 10:51 PM
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It's actually three in one: gaslighting red herring and ad hominem The point I was trying to make is that it's important to realize when it's happening.
/r/MensRights30/04/26 10:43 PM
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It's not discrimination if you just ignore it! :)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/04/26 10:16 PM
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If you shift your a discussion to why you are not an incel, then they have successfully distracted the conversation away from a point you had them in. Yup.. That's called a red herring. It's a deliberate distraction. It's used all the time in political debate on TV.
/r/MensRights30/04/26 10:15 PM
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The problem is that the people that are really anti-semitic will always gaslight and try to pretend that they're not. So either way it's better to attack them for the substance of their argument. I do think it's fair to call them out if they've done this like 3-5x like they're constantly bringing up horribly weak arguments that have been disputed elsewhere.
/r/MensRights30/04/26 09:54 PM
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Or just call them out on it. The can't debate the context of your argument so they attack the quality of your character. I've just been telling people that they immediately lose the debate. If you have to result to name calling you've lost the argument.
/r/MensRights30/04/26 09:50 PM
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It's the best example of this type of logical fallacy being used. If you can think of a better example I'm all for it. But I think by definition all the ones we would come up with would be controversial.
/r/MensRights30/04/26 09:27 PM
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It's TWO layers. The draft is a non-issue because no one is actively being drafted. R or D what I want is that we bring back the draft. Random lottery. No exceptions. If you can't serve due to health reasons the length of time is adjusted 3x and you're forced to serve as adjacent to the front line as possible. You would also lose the right to vote or run for office. Your medical records and combat history also being public. This would require the rich to take going to war seriously so we hopeful…
/r/MensRights30/04/26 09:07 PM
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The only reason you picked specifically semitism as your example is recent rise of anti-semitism, and by doing so you are indirectly contributing to it by spreading the sentiments around it. You don't speak for me. Who the hell do you think you are? Don't you date try to put words in my mouth. Your message is structured and framed in such a way, that it makes it seem like anti-Israel rhetoric is most of the time valid, and is being called anti-semitic to shut down valid criticisms, while in real…
/r/MensRights30/04/26 08:40 PM
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Great. So ignoring my choice of examples (which is fine), you agree with my underlying premise.
/r/MensRights30/04/26 08:11 PM
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I don't have to result to insults or logical fallacies when I'm debating my position. You should do the same if you want your arguments respected.
/r/MensRights30/04/26 08:10 PM
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Yup. The goal is to dehumanize you so you're opinion is no longer valid.
/r/MensRights30/04/26 08:09 PM
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Senate Democrats propose female draft registration Been pointed out before. Nothing has changed. Politicians promise shit all the time that they have no intention on delivering on. Ping me when it's implemented. Also, these are two different things. In this US this wouldn't effectively change the gender distribution for those who serve. IF woman want the same rights as men they should meet the same responsibilities. If they won't volunteer to serve they should be drafted. In South Korea or other…
/r/MensRights30/04/26 08:07 PM
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You might be right but I'm not following your point.
/r/MensRights30/04/26 08:05 PM
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I agree with Shutup here. Your example is bad, because in reality, unlike with incel usage, anti-semitism claims are often very valid and aren't used with "VALID criticism", as you put it. Then that's not a logical fallacy then in that situation. That's like saying gaslighting isn't real because sometimes people tell the truth. If a REAL anti-semite has valid criticism then it's still valid. If a KKK member is mad that she was raped it's still valid
/r/MensRights30/04/26 08:04 PM
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How was this ad hominem?, "are you illiterate" was not an argument, my argument was that it is not beneficial, the other thing was clearly an insult, you need to distinguish and no, I didnt lose the debate Because you were insulting my intelligence. I'm literally on a community forum reading text so I'm not illiterate. Don't gaslight me. Just own up to it. Anyway. No longer willing to discuss this with you if you can't engage in a rational discussion.
/r/MensRights30/04/26 06:53 PM
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But it can be stopped, something else to say?, another generalization and you are wrong, search "feminists against draft", look at the images and movements I'm aware that there ARE women that are against the draft and that that population size is NOT zero. My point is that this isn't a normative thing they bring up to fight against. That's my whole point. I just said its not beneficial, are you illiterate? and I am a man Boom. Ad hominem attack. I'm sorry you had to lash out because you lost the…
/r/MensRights30/04/26 06:42 PM
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Well just replace it with a rhetorical device or something we AGREE that happened. A fake hypothetical "bad thing". So you agree with me now then?
/r/MensRights30/04/26 06:40 PM
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Do you not read? It seems like you either didn't read what I wrote or you're being willfully ignorant. But I'll give you the benefit of the doubt that maybe I just need to explain it a 3rd time. There are a lot of people here that are not engaging in rational dialog but I'll give you the benefit of the doubt. HATE against Jews simply because they're Jews is wrong. We agree there... Calling out Israel because they killed journalist then buried and hid the bodies and lied about it is NOT anti-semi…
/r/MensRights30/04/26 06:28 PM
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You’re blaming women like they were the ones who decided they were to weak for those jobs I'm blaming you for not speaking out on it... Women NEVER discuss this issue. It's always an issue women benefit from. Like it or not that system was set up by men It was initially setup by men because women were supposed to be feminine and wives and raise our children. That's no longer the case. It was WOMEN who wanted the change in status quo. I believe women should be allowed to work those jobs and yes I…
/r/MensRights30/04/26 06:20 PM
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Okay, so with the argument you made an example of, drafting should be stopped not made "equal" Stopped OR made equal... If it's not stopped it must be made equal. I also love how feminists always use this argument yet this is NEVER an issue they discuss. This why mens rights are so important. It's so tiring. and the reason politicians only choose men is pure practicity, they dont hate in especific they just only care about their comodity Not the fault of men. If women can't step up then we have …
/r/MensRights30/04/26 06:18 PM
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Is this part of the discussion that the reason men are doing better in schools is that they aren't designed for normal male behavior? It's not called "acting out" or "being distractive". Girls are naturally quieter and easier to manage but that doesn't invalidate men.
/r/MensRights30/04/26 06:13 PM
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Pretty solid example of pretty privilege
/r/MensRights30/04/26 06:01 PM
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BeLiEvE AlL WoMeN Guys, it's reactive rape /s
/r/MensRights30/04/26 06:00 PM
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My buddy lost a promotion at Microsoft because they were trying to meet internal inclusion metrics and a Latina woman was promoted over him (a white male). I mean I'm sure this woman was a great person but people should be promoted over merit. He was friends with his supervisor and the decision was kind of outside of his control and he too thought it was discrimination and told him "you just don't meet the right demographic"
/r/MensRights30/04/26 05:39 PM
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Women shouldn't have the same rights as men if they don't have the same responsibilities? Or another way to phrase it, YOU think women should have the same rights as men when men are 90% of cops, firefighters, military, first responders, etc? 99% of deaths in wars defending the US were men, not women. So why should women have the same rights as men? Seriously. Not trolling you. Why should they? In the US it's kind of complicated because we have a volunteer PAID military but still have the draft.…
/r/MensRights30/04/26 05:28 PM
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I'm not sure what you're saying. Both can be horrible situations. These women CAN be ran through AND it's terrible that men are forced to go to war. ... and you wonder why men are tired of feminist nonsense.
/r/MensRights30/04/26 05:23 PM
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They'll keep talking about it... lol. But, let's assume it's true, with 62 MIL that would be 35% of all men. WHERE ARE THE ARRESTS? Why aren't millions of men being arrested? I'll tell you the answer, because it's nonsense.
/r/MensRights30/04/26 05:15 PM
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I imagine like 500 years ago it was probably just "children" and them some proto-feminist came along and said "hey, what if we made it WOMEN and children"!
/r/MensRights30/04/26 03:00 AM
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Agreed. I think part of it is that they realized how fucking HARD it was and instead of admitting that they made a mistake and many of them should just be wives, they decided that they wanted to shift the game in their favor.
/r/MensRights29/04/26 10:15 PM
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You can call them femcels... There are plenty of them. They're all over TikTok
/r/MensRights29/04/26 08:47 PM
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> ... filled with men who are hurt by women You mean like how my ex wife came at me with a knife because I had the audacity to break off financial support after giving her rent money and paying for her daughter's school for a YEAR. Then she went on and started attacking me by contacting the customers of my company, my employees, and friends, and saying I raped and beat her. Then I had to pay HER $75k to leave me alone because my lawyer told me I can't win the case because a jury would simply agr…
/r/MensRights29/04/26 08:46 PM
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> Feminism is terrible because whoever invented it wanted to turn men and women against each other and built the whole thing on pure hatred and anger There are multiple 'waves' of feminsim. I remember my mom crying when she tried to go into the work force because she couldn't get hired and was directly told that they only hire men. They also made her do 'female responsibilities' which were not part of her job. I still feel strongly that that's not right. However, modern feminism has gone off the…
/r/MensRights29/04/26 04:15 PM
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Men want equality. Women want superiority. Feminism is about female superiority which is why they are constantly gaslighting. In order to get superiority they have to take away the rights of men. They want all the rights of men but none of the responsibility. They want 50% of the high paying CEO jobs but 0% of the janitorial jobs, coal mining jobs, or anything else they think is beneath them. This is why a man has responsibilities in a relationship like driving, defending her, paying the bills, …
/r/MensRights29/04/26 04:12 PM
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Post a message to their social media. Also, note that the sidewalk is public property. You're allowed to hang outside and tell other members that the gym is discriminating against men. Totally completely legal. Maybe do it for a day or so... Another thing you could do is contact your local news. They love stupid stories like this.
/r/MensRights29/04/26 02:46 AM
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I don't... but a woman shouldn't be able to force a man to be a father. Economically or otherwise.
/r/MensRights29/04/26 01:58 AM
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You could threaten to sue for defamation. This seem pretty defamatory. What's also problematic is that if you *look* the part people assume it's true. But you might just be autistic or something or have bad fashion sense.
/r/MensRights28/04/26 09:10 PM
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Louis CK has a bit about this... "a man will attack you but a woman will destroy your soul." In Band of Brothers, one of the guys gets a divorce while in Germany and his wife keeps his dog. Multiple times he's screaming "IT'S NOT EVEN HER DOG!" She just did that out of spike. Who steals someone's dog?
/r/MensRights28/04/26 05:54 PM
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Women like to do shit like this because it increases their perceived value among other women. This is why they're reject men, painfully, when in a group. If they pretend they're a victim and that men "constantly approach them" then they must be high value. Long story short. Women can be horribly abusive.
/r/MensRights28/04/26 05:29 PM
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It's because they buy into the "men are only valuable because they're disposable" theory. Unless you're giving them money, because you want to sleep with them, you're useless. OR you could also join the army and die for them. ... but if you're a gay man they get none of the above.
/r/MensRights28/04/26 05:19 PM
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We should start drafting women into the military.
/r/MensRights28/04/26 03:11 AM
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You're absolutely right. The only reason women have any rights, including safety and the right not to be permanently raped, is because men AGREED to protect women from it I can't tell if you're being sarcastic and disagreeing with me :) But I'll assume the best and just wanted to clarify. My point is that if women are so concerned about rape (which is fair) why don't they step up and take up 50% of the police force to defend women from it? They don't... Because it's inconvenient for them.
/r/MensRights28/04/26 12:44 AM
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> I’m getting real tired of this double standard You're an incel! I'm being sarcastic. This is why they can't discuss things in good faith because they'd lose every debate.
/r/MensRights28/04/26 12:32 AM
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I realized you can make this matrix to better understand the problem: https://imgur.com/a/RO9yMH1 I'm curious what you guys think. It CLEARLY illustrates the problem. I think if the man wants to 'walk away' he should be able to. Then women have the AUDACITY to talk about "deadbeat dad's" when they DIDN'T WANT TO BE A DAD! You forced him!
/r/MensRights28/04/26 12:14 AM
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Nah... we're good. Keep it. These things are complicated. Honestly, I never understood female on male violence either until I saw it play out with women beating the shit out of men and then them not reporting it. The cops show up and automatically arrest the man. The man can't leave due to financial issues or they have kids or something. With my ex it was sudden. I ended the relationship and she immediately became VERY violent and abusive. There were red flags in how she treated other people tho…
/r/MensRights27/04/26 04:15 PM
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That's prob ably part of it but I think it's sampling bias too. I don't think people realize they're doing it to themselves. Men do it too. Other ways outside of dating as well.
/r/MensRights27/04/26 04:14 PM
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Women are often their own worst enemies. I was reading a theory the other day that women just actively sabotage each other. "You look SLAY in that new haircut bae" when in reality they hate it or "You should totally go blonde" when the girl is competition and would look WORSE as a blonde. I think it's somewhat valid. Women are horrible to each other - AKA Mean Girls.
/r/MensRights27/04/26 04:13 PM
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THE FBI data shows that app 99.1% of persons arrested for forcible rape are male. arrested ... men do not report rape and when they do it's not believed shows that men accounted for 91.3% of defendants in domestic abuse defendants because when a man is attacked by a woman, the MAN is arrested. This is why most male abuse is not reported because when the police show up they arrested the man. I can't tell you don't work with data for a living. I do... you have to work backwards from how it would b…
/r/MensRights27/04/26 03:14 AM
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All expectations are "abuse." The problem is that you can't even date a normal girl because she's eventually exposed to this shit online and it ruins your relationship eventually.
/r/MensRights27/04/26 03:10 AM
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> Why on earth would they think men would go along with this? They don't think. They live in a weird alternative reality.
/r/MensRights27/04/26 03:08 AM
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The "all men are scum" women are the ones that are telling on themselves because they're getting ran through by multiple men and can't figure out why. Keep your legs closed and demand marriage and that problem will go away. Feminism taught women that having sex was a good thing but this is why they're just getting ran through by dozens of men. Why would you value something when it's given to you for free?
/r/MensRights27/04/26 03:07 AM
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They have a new term for when a woman is caught beating the shit out of a man. It's called "reactive abuse" They like to pick pseudoscientific names for this shit. The idea is that they're only hitting you over the head with a shovel because you did something to trigger them. So it's not THEIR fault. It's yours. They've taken gaslighting to whole new level. They're absolutely allergic to any type of accountability. No matter what happens it's always a man's fault.
/r/MensRights27/04/26 12:14 AM
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It's just the "Loneliness Epidemic" not the "Male Loneliness Epidemic". For every man without a partner there's a woman without a partner. There ARE women that are getting ran through, of course. This is why there's such a femcel problem right now. Women are a debt... why would you sign up for a debt with no upside. This is why I prefer to date overseas. It's SO much easier and women are way more appreciative of men
/r/MensRights26/04/26 05:09 PM
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I think her view is that the ONLY use for men is fodder for them to die so her life can be protected. That's a COMMON view actually. It's also on us for the fact that men don't revolt against it. BRB... I have to go register for the draft so I can die for a country that doesn't respect my life.
/r/MensRights26/04/26 04:18 PM
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Right but that just helps underscore my point. Why would men protect a system if they get no benefit from that system. Especially when they're actively discriminated against.
/r/MensRights26/04/26 04:14 PM
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That's what happened with my ex... I paid for everything but she 'gave up her life in Seattle' to move to San Francisco with me. After paying for her for a YEAR to live I had to cut her off and then she extorted me for $75k
/r/MensRights26/04/26 03:13 AM
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This is why I've been saying that we have to push the draft on women. It's the only way for them to acknowledge that that if they want equal rights they have to accept equal responsibilities. In some countries like South Korea this is more straight forward because they have a mandatory draft for women.
/r/MensRights25/04/26 06:10 PM
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Yeah. They can tell somehow. It's pretty amazing how they're able to pull it off.
/r/MensRights25/04/26 06:04 PM
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Same reason women shame men who date younger. They got ran through in their 20s and are now in their 30s and no one wants them. So they have to gaslight and say that older men dating younger women is abuse so that they can increase their sexual market value.
/r/MensRights25/04/26 05:23 PM
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It seems to be a feminine desire to feel like you can always do better. This is why women prefer to date men that cheat on them. EVERY SINGLE TIME I treat a woman with respect it's the biggest ick for her. When I'm juggling them and really don't give a shit is when they fall in love.
/r/MensRights25/04/26 05:21 PM
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The last girl I dated (who happened to be black) said that she doesn't really know her dad that well but that he has 11 kids with 4 women. Honestly, I think he's figured everything out and has life on lockdown. The idea that he's a deadbeat but actually winning at life is totally feminist propaganda. If woman don't want men like this they can keep their legs closed. Pretty sure this is going to be my strategy from now on.
/r/MensRights25/04/26 05:20 PM
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I lost count of how many commented that "men shouldn't be allowed to leave a relationship without consequences". What does that even mean? Like it's a crime? Or there should be civil liabilities? One woman even gave the advice that "your man needs to get a vasectomy ASAP unless he marries you". Works for me :) This reminds me that when a woman says "all a man wants is sex" the answer is always "well maybe you have nothing else of value other than sex?" What's also funny is that they're having se…
/r/MensRights25/04/26 05:18 PM
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Not irony in that they don't put any critical thinking into it. They believe men are useless and that's where they stop thinking. It's like if you hated jews and someone had a song that said "jews are useless" you'd agree. Just like these misandrists because they're bigots and instead of hating jews they hate men.
/r/MensRights25/04/26 05:03 PM
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This is one issue men should absolutely be furious about but the fact that nothing is done in UKRAINE of all places doesn't give me much hope.
/r/MensRights24/04/26 09:07 PM
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I'd never be under the impression that she's my girlfriend but I do interact with ChatGPT via voice often. Mostly to ask questions that just pop up in my mind while I'm driving. I think this is going to become more common and if so why wouldn't you want to interact with someone attractive.
/r/MensRights24/04/26 05:54 PM
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They want you to pay and they want your money. That's what this has always been about. AI girlfriends are just cheaper. There's a version of girlfriends that are just VERY VERY expensive of course, they're called wives.
/r/MensRights24/04/26 05:52 PM
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Everything is a man's fault... Aren't you paying attention. It's not because women are entitled, not loyal, cheating, and easy and not worth the investment. It's 100% the fact that men are abusive and controlling. /s
/r/MensRights24/04/26 05:52 PM
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These things are perfect examples of women gaslighting and gate keeping themselves. Most of feminism is just gaslighting to increase female sexual market value. They're using legitimate issues as leverage which I think is pretty terrible.
/r/MensRights24/04/26 03:43 PM
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And they constantly make excuses for the women, like she was ignored by her husband and shit.
/r/MensRights24/04/26 03:45 AM
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It's totally true. When my ex-GF came at me with a knife and then extorted $75k from me or she would report me to the police for rape (which I didn't do) her "adequate justification" was that I had the audacity to say I couldn't afford to pay for her daughters school anymore or her apartment (a year after we broken up) because my company was imploding and I had to lay off half the team. I mean that's totally adequate justification, right? Women want to continue to gaslight that they're all littl…
/r/MensRights24/04/26 03:39 AM
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Literally no where did I say forced conscription was acceptable, that 11 years was something I was advocating. My family was forcibly conscripted during WWII and everyone on my mothers side died. You're arguing with a fake person you created in your head. If you can't be intellectually honest there's no point in having a debate with you. Go bother someone else.
/r/MensRights23/04/26 10:48 PM
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> And they can! But not with you. Their agency doesn't equate to your borderline pedophilia. It's weird for you as a man who is presumably in their thirties pushing forties (especially sixties holy shit) to feel entitled to date women as young as the legal age of consent... which, again by your logic could be as low as even 11 in some countries. Child soldiers exist! You think those children can have sex too? No! Because two wrong's don't make a right. Just because a child is forcibly conscripte…
/r/MensRights23/04/26 10:44 PM
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The last time this happened and there was a concern my GF was 22 at the time and I was 38 I think and I sat down and asked for her parents permission to date her. We were really serious and wanted to move fast and move in together. They approved. We were together for 7 years. > It's strange that you have a hard time dating women the same age as you. How old are you? You're aware that there are VERY few single woman the older you get right? They're married or not worth dating. There are just more…
/r/MensRights23/04/26 09:11 PM
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Read all my comments below. Also, I find your relationship gross. How would you feel about me bringing it up during Thanksgiving and shaming you in the family for your partner to dump you. I imagine you would think it's crossing the line.
/r/MensRights23/04/26 09:00 PM
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Women who were late twenties and up I found were just barely more interesting to talk to, but harder to get along with and much pickier - paradoxically It's not though... It's survivorship bias. The interesting, sexy, kind, and honest ones are already married. The older women get the fewer of them are single. It's just math. 35+ women should really up their game as far as fitness and knowing about something to talk about besides their friend circle politics atm, reality TV, fashion, and social m…
/r/MensRights23/04/26 08:42 PM
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Yup... 100%. They don't want the competition.
/r/MensRights23/04/26 08:23 PM
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Fair point.
/r/MensRights23/04/26 08:22 PM
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With Leonardo DiCaprio I don't care at all. The women dating him aren't victims. They know full well what they're getting into because people have been joking about how he dumps them when they turn 23 for well over a decade. I mean maybe he just hasn't found the right one yet. We don't know. They're adults and I have no idea what's going on. It's none of my business
/r/MensRights23/04/26 08:20 PM
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Can be... doesn't mean it is 100% ... That's part of the problem. You're assuming that men are predatory by default.
/r/MensRights23/04/26 08:18 PM
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Yeah. That's generally how I feel about it.
/r/MensRights23/04/26 08:16 PM
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18 is more than old enough to decide for herself what she wants to do. This argument is almost always brought up by older women, the usual assumption is that they aren't getting the attention from men their own age. I assume your step-sister is roughly your age? Yup... She's in her 40s. And I agree it's woman gatekeeping so they can increase their sexual market value.
/r/MensRights23/04/26 07:45 PM
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Yes.... it's a common argument used by women when confronted with age gap relationships. I wish you were right though.
/r/MensRights23/04/26 07:42 PM
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I mean by your logic, a 60 year old man can date and a sixteen year old in Connecticut and there'd be nothing wrong with that. What's stopping a sixty year old from going to Brazil and having sex with a fourteen year old? It's legal, right? But noooo, this is totally female supremacy. Fuck feminists, right? Actually, I think the argument of 18 is because it's not just sexual consent being legal but they're also legally allowed to do other things like join the millitary. So this is a different di…
/r/MensRights23/04/26 07:41 PM
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And sometimes it's not a mistake. There are 18 year olds out there who are fully aware their most valuable asset is their body and they can trade companionship for a lifestyle that would otherwise completely out of reach. At the same time there are 60 year olds who understand the most attractive thing about them is their bank account. I mean you just described POTUS and FLOTUS :) I actually am fine with it other than the whole Epstein/illegal shit. It's their own private business.
/r/MensRights23/04/26 07:35 PM
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They were all made clear above multiple times. I didn't have to resort to logical fallacies once my position fell apart.
/r/MensRights23/04/26 07:21 PM
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100% agree. Like they can have an Onlyfans account or do porn at 18 making money and somehow their brains function in that context just fine.
/r/MensRights23/04/26 07:19 PM
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I sort of agree but when I bring it up they gaslight and say it's not acceptable either. It's also rare. There are plenty of women that have a preference for older men. They never attack the women though. It's always because the man is toxic or controlling.
/r/MensRights23/04/26 07:19 PM
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You created the post and made it everyone’s business. I made the post everyone's business. Not my personal relationship status or the ability to shit on other people due to having an age gap relationship. Why don't you tell me details about your marriage so I can discriminate against you. How would you feel if I told your wife she should divorce you because your religion is toxic, or your race? Same thing applies to age. You do you; date whoever you want. I respect your right to date any woman o…
/r/MensRights23/04/26 07:17 PM
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You do like children. Can I ask you why you are attracted to 18 year olds? I'm not saying that. I'm saying that there's nothing wrong with it. If I met an 18 year old and we fell in love and we were amazing together that's fine. For the record the first time I had problems when I was in my 40s and she was in her 20s. I think I was 42 and she was 26. My point is that >= 18 it's legal and if two people are consenting adults, no matter how weird you find it, it's none of your business. Can I ask yo…
/r/MensRights23/04/26 07:15 PM
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Hot take but no fucks given: I wouldn't date 18-20. But anyone 22 and up I would date--I've dated models who traveled the world at 22. Am in my 30s. Great... so how would you feel about your family telling your GF that you're abusing her and that she should leave you. That's the point I'm talking about. It's just bigotry.
/r/MensRights23/04/26 07:12 PM
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Also actively seeking out 18-year-olds to date is very much predatory Who said that? You brought that up. Not me. The point is that 18 is where it's legal. For the record, my girl was in her 20s and I was in my 40s when we started getting this shit and we were amazing together.
/r/MensRights23/04/26 07:11 PM
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Shame, I was enjoying laughing at how ridiculous your false equivalences were. You couldn't even get two sentences in without a personal insult. Congrats.
/r/MensRights23/04/26 07:09 PM
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I don't get why you're desperate for some kind of parallel, those are all different types of preferences with different implications / perceptions etc. Again. You're avoiding questions that make you uncomfortable and that would change your position. Each of these is a protected class. Age is also a protected class. If you discriminate against someone based on their class it's bigotry. That's why I keep bringing it up but also why you keep refusing to answer. Why are we trying to pull a victim ca…
/r/MensRights23/04/26 06:37 PM
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but an older man demanding it be socially acceptable for him to date right on the statutory line isn't one of them So to clarify, since you said she's a 'child' at 18, then you consider me a rapist? If my family members staged an intervention on my relationship over concerns about her age I guess I'd book myself into therapy probably. That's a terrible position that you wouldn't stand up for yourself and your wife. I'm not certain where the straw man is here btw. You are of advanced age (forties…
/r/MensRights23/04/26 06:21 PM
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But maybe it was because your brain wasn't fully developed /s (I'm being sarcastic)
/r/MensRights23/04/26 06:10 PM
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Being gay isn't a preference, it's a sexual orientation, so I struggle to take that parralel seriously. It's a poor comparison to an age preference. What about race, or religious affiliation? I brought those up before but you ignored them. If I have a preference for asian woman, or latina woman, you're saying you have the right to tell my wife that our relationship is invalid? The topic is nuanced and again its legal, but regardless that type of preference of a 40 year old pursuing teenagers is …
/r/MensRights23/04/26 06:09 PM
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I do have the right to judge, so does your step-sister. I already conceded that point. You just have to keep your opinions to yourself if it's none of your business. I view 18 year olds as still children. As for the 18y/o boy dating the 18y/o girl; yeah nothing weird about it. That makes sense. You just said they're still children? So you think it's rape then? So you think it's a crime? I didn't say I wanted to date someone under ten years old. I said I have a personal ick on dates if the woman …
/r/MensRights23/04/26 06:01 PM
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Even if you were 100% correct, what business of that is yours? That's my entire point.
/r/MensRights23/04/26 05:55 PM
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> I agree it's legal, and yes legality is black and white. You're good dude do your thing. You're just bringing it here because you don't like being judged for it. You can judge me for it. I can't prevent that. You just have to keep your opinions to yourself and not try to harm another person's relationship/life simply because something makes you uncomfortable. You don't have the right to do that. It's hard enough to find love as it is without other people trying to sabotage you. > What's weird …
/r/MensRights23/04/26 05:39 PM
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So if someone finds to men dating each other to be creepy it's ok to judge them and make them feel terrible? What if they're the same age but one is immature? It's just bigotry.
/r/MensRights23/04/26 05:33 PM
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It's this projection that's the problem. You don't have the right to judge the private lives of other people. What if I just think your wife is controlling? Or that your abusive? Should I go around calling your relationship weird and creepy? It's none of my business. The same thing was said about people that were gay, dating people of different races, etc.
/r/MensRights23/04/26 05:32 PM
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I agree completely but the point is that they're using this argument in only ONE direction.
/r/MensRights23/04/26 05:19 PM
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You have that right. Its not illegal. You're literally putting on display your wish to walk the very line of what is legal with regard to sexual interest in children. It's not walking the line. It's legal. It's a black and white issue. An 18 year old is an adult. Full stop. It's not a sexual interest in children and even holding that position is disgusting and reprehensible. Is an 18 year old man, who is attracted to an 18 year old woman "walking the line with regard to a sexual interest in chil…
/r/MensRights23/04/26 05:17 PM
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Thus, they use Machiavellian duplicity to manufacture consensus among women in their peak, 16-26, to sabotage their lives so they become a 26+ miserable left over too. I totally agree.
/r/MensRights23/04/26 05:11 PM
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We should ONLY have women serving in wars - we'd win all the wars!
/r/MensRights23/04/26 05:08 PM
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I had a major problem with this because before we got serious and moved in she had an eating disorder that she hid from me. It eventually became unsustainable and she gained a significant amount of weight. I still loved her to be clear and would have even stayed with her but she didn't love herself was the problem. She connected her happiness with her weight and the fact that before, she looked like a barbie. This caused depression and for it to spiral out of control. She also hid all of this fr…
/r/MensRights23/04/26 04:50 PM
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I mean if they made the same argument, that the clitoris removal had medical benefits, women would lose their fucking minds. It's part of our reproductive system and central to our identity. That skin has sensitivity similar to the clitoris. Ask and adult man if he would want it removed.
/r/MensRights22/04/26 06:03 PM
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EVERY TIME. "We should just solve war, prevent all fires, have total social justice so police aren't needed, then we're good". My response is always, "great, let's do that, until then you need to be drafted and serve." In the US it's a bit muddy but in places like South Korea where all men must serve it's more clear cut. If men have to serve then women should serve too. I think what is going to happen is that women won't tolerate it or want to serve. Chivalry evolved because women CAN NOT do the…
/r/MensRights22/04/26 05:23 PM
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> The Porsche-driving software expert, who earned up to £300,000 a year, went on to marry Polish-born Beata in 2024, more than six years after his first wife's suicide. Why did they go out of their way to talk up how much money this guy made?
/r/MensRights22/04/26 05:19 PM
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This is why I want women drafted and force them to serve in the military, police, and fire fighting units at the same rate as men. If they can't then we need to have a serious discussion in our society about why men are dying and serving in these roles when women can't.
/r/MensRights22/04/26 05:17 PM
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I'm so jealous... I mean I'll never know what it feels like to have sex being normal.
/r/MensRights22/04/26 04:10 PM
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I'd agree with you on the draft ...
/r/MensRights21/04/26 11:11 PM
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> Yes, it’s a tough pill to swallow but we have to swallow it. The right woman will love you as much as a woman can love you, but not before you demonstrated your material worth, and her love will never be fully unconditional. This isn't totally true... I've been thinking that part of the problem is that society doesn't give men a way to prove their "worth." Like in high school there's football or school sports to prove your worth but when you're an adult those things don't exist. I've started t…
/r/MensRights21/04/26 10:33 PM
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Seems like mutilating children is kind of a big deal. What would you propose is the top issue?
/r/MensRights21/04/26 10:26 PM
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Where would that be though :-P All the apps suck.
/r/MensRights21/04/26 09:36 PM
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You lose a good amount of sensation during sex because of it... There's a reason we evolved to have it. Plus, there's no medical reason to do it.
/r/MensRights21/04/26 08:52 PM
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I mean I think if you're worried about alienating people that are mutilating children then you've already lost. I mean why would there be a religious exemption to mutilation?
/r/MensRights21/04/26 08:51 PM
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Let's also bridge the social responsibility gap and draft women to defend our country. I'm SO tired of them saying that they deserve the same pay as men when they provide no where NEAR the same level of service to our country that men do.
/r/MensRights21/04/26 08:35 PM
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And if they get pregnant, and are now a single mom, you're an evil man if you have preferences for a woman with no children.
/r/MensRights21/04/26 08:07 PM
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I'm still trying to find her.
/r/MensRights21/04/26 08:06 PM
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Right but I can't use these subreddits now because women pile in and the comments are filled with vitriol saying how horrible I am :-P
/r/MensRights21/04/26 08:05 PM
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Half the men would rather follow feminists for a chance of crumbs than respect themselves and act for more respect about what they are I think it's more like 80%. I wish I was wrong.
/r/MensRights21/04/26 08:04 PM
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They have these delusional ideas that men are supposed to like any woman who gives them a chance, but men aren't allowed to have expectations or preferences I think this is the main point. One of things I want is a submissive and agreeable woman and apparently that's toxic and a red flag because I'm not allowed to have preferences.
/r/MensRights21/04/26 08:04 PM
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There are actually some good ones which let you focus on more traditional women that want marriage and a family. The problem is that so few women want something traditional it's like finding a needle a haystack. They all want to be boss babes. Sprinke. Sprinkle.
/r/MensRights21/04/26 06:38 PM
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The women who say all men are toxic are like this because THEY pick the toxic ones. It's not men that are the problem. THEY are the problem.
/r/MensRights21/04/26 06:37 PM
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It's also women optimizing their sexual market value. If older women can't date older men, because the older men date younger women, then they're just femcels. That's part of what this is about.
/r/MensRights21/04/26 06:30 PM
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I generally agree at this point but there are still women that are high quality and worth it. I think though that do to US culture and feminism it's getting harder to find them. Plus, if you disagree with them you're toxic, a red flag, abusive, etc. Dating outside the US is so much better. Honestly, part of this is due to men not standing up for themselves. We SUCK at this compared to women. They literally won't shut up and even invent fake things to complain about. Men won't even stand up to fi…
/r/MensRights21/04/26 06:25 PM
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I think it's an outcome of pretty privilege. If a woman accuses men of horrible things the courts believe them and then the father gets SCREWED over due to custody.
/r/MensRights20/04/26 09:48 PM
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It's a PERFECT fucking example of how society gives ZERO shits about men.
/r/MensRights20/04/26 08:19 PM
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Great except you ignore that she's alienating him from his own kids and that this is parasitic. Every time a woman is parasitic like this they always try to shame people that "a man should be a man" ... enough of that crap.
/r/MensRights20/04/26 07:17 PM
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The parental alienation thing isn't something we talk about often enough. My mom did it to my dad... BIG TIME. She was vicious ... The problem is it's not a crime and even if it was it would be difficult to prove. Not only do women not police each other here, they actively encourage it. You should also tell your kids. I wish my dad would have told me his side of the story. Especially, when what my mom was doing was wrong. What my dad did was give up. My sister and he had a discussion and she sai…
/r/MensRights20/04/26 07:16 PM
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There are definitely outliers. Saying all women are lower IQ is as foolish as saying all men are high IQ. There are just a lot of these 'operator' types of women at big tech companies and I've never really been impressed. They're just good at following orders and organizing things.
/r/MensRights20/04/26 06:48 PM
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First ... she's quoted as saying it in an off hand comment. It was NOT a focus of her campaign. Second. This is NOT for a draft. It's for selective service in case a draft is implemented. Selective service is not the same thing as the draft. Whether she supports women being ACTUALLY being drafted is up in the air but almost certainly NOT. Also, women need to serve in FRONT LINE positions not just backend office jobs. The casualty rate needs to be identical for women and men.
/r/MensRights20/04/26 04:30 PM
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Part of the problem is that we've changed society to benefit women, but women are STILL struggling. So now they've become even MORE aggressive towards men rather than admit THEY are the problem It's not that men are superior to women at running business, being CEOs, starting companies, etc. No. It's because of a grand conspiracy against women. So, we need to hurt men more so that it's not embarasing to women that they can't compete. Look at tech CEOs like Elizabeth Holmes or Marissa Mayer. They'…
/r/MensRights20/04/26 04:06 PM
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Some are benign like the Blair Witch Project ... or Bigfoot. Others cause massive damage to our society.
/r/MensRights20/04/26 03:55 PM
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Also the fact that women don't take male rape seriously at all means that this is just about them getting more power. They want legislation passed that hurts men.
/r/MensRights20/04/26 03:40 PM
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Hoax is not the right word. I mean I get what you're trying to say but it's far more malicious than that. Women are doing this for rage bait and making money of slandering men.
/r/MensRights20/04/26 03:39 PM
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In Ukraine they recently passed a law that you can not run for office as a man if you didn't serve. Does not apply to women. Literally nothing ever applies to women if it is something restrictive or bad. All rights, zero responsibilities. I really like that law actually. Just not the "man only" part. Ukraine needs to get its act together. These men are going to come back from war and their women are going to be ran though by men in other countries. Why Iceland ? Maybe I need to move there.
/r/MensRights20/04/26 03:34 PM
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Hillary Clinton was ready to sign into law selective service for both men and women at 18, but we couldn't vote for the woman. Hillary Clinton said a LOT of stuff that was never going to happen. Is it your first day in politics? Turns out promises don't mean anything. Only action. Here you go. I promise to give you $1B if elected. See how easy that was? Only a woman would ever equalize this. We refuse to vote women in. And then we blame women lmao. What a circle jerk. Not our fault she couldn't …
/r/MensRights20/04/26 03:32 PM
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Has there ever been a class action defamation suit? Because, maybe we need should look into it
/r/MensRights20/04/26 04:28 AM
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This is why we need to draft women. Equal rights means equal responsibilities. If you live in a country with mandatory military service, it should be tied to voting. If you don't serve, you can't vote or run for office.
/r/MensRights20/04/26 03:46 AM
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Fair
/r/MensRights19/04/26 09:58 PM
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oh gotcha... ok. That's dark but glad you brought it up
/r/MensRights19/04/26 07:58 PM
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It's always on TikTok, Reddit or YouTube posts and the feminist hive mind is VERY cult-like. Especially the whole incel, manosphere hate. We're like 2-3 months away from them proposing a "final solution."
/r/MensRights19/04/26 07:01 PM
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I don't know why this is so difficult for them to understand. We need to start doing it back to women. They're very myopic and only see inequality when it applies to women.
/r/MensRights19/04/26 06:37 PM
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yup... and when it's a woman they just don't give a shit. This shows that it's not about rape or anything like that, it's just about shitting on men. If women cared about rape they wouldn't trivialize male rape.
/r/MensRights19/04/26 06:36 PM
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What's this mean?
/r/MensRights19/04/26 06:35 PM
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I like this one better!
/r/MensRights19/04/26 06:35 PM
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OK, get off Reddit and go to Congress and tell them to draft women. Go create a petition and rally up all the signatures to draft women into the military. Nobody is stopping you. Part of doing this is initiating the conversation and creating a movement to get this done. I could care less of you(men) and women destruction. I have no idea what you mean.
/r/MensRights19/04/26 03:47 PM
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> The worst kind of response is "but [insert small number] people is still too many, it should be zero" And how do you know these aren't women doing this? Even if you take their statement at face value, why can't you insist that it should be ZERO WOMEN TOO!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/04/26 03:39 PM
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I've had 2-3 situations that got BAD. Here's what I would do. Try to reasonably ghost them. DOCUMENT this process and you might want to TELL the person that you're going no contact. This isn't for them, it's for the judge. A judge likes to see a paper trail plus the fact that you're being respectful to her. Then if they violate your wishes, assume it's not going away. That was my mistake last time. I assumed it was just going to magically go away - but it didn't. For some people the more you pul…
/r/MensRights19/04/26 03:15 PM
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The same applies to the current situation ... every man that dies is a husband that dies. We're not interested in this game any more. Time for women to serve or recommend an alternative.
/r/MensRights19/04/26 02:51 PM
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I think we're definitely over carrying capacity in some areas and that reducing the human population would be good. However, that's clearly NOT why they're doing it.
/r/MensRights19/04/26 02:38 PM
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What I think is really funny/sad is how these same women LOVE their dogs and treat them like children but then say they don't want children. If you love your dog IMAGINE how much you'd love your own baby!
/r/MensRights19/04/26 02:36 PM
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men make up the majority of those fields because women historically have been excluded from joining HISTORICALLY. And this doesn't prevent women from constantly complaining that they can't have high paying CEO jobs. Yet somehow they're not standing in line to be firefighters, police, military, etc. women also contribute to the functioning of society. it doesnt matter how much you devalue our work. we are nurses, teachers, mental health professionals, we are 50% of the population and you need us …
/r/MensRights18/04/26 03:07 PM
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Or all the police, firefighters, etc. who constantly save women's lives every year, yet get none of the credit. We're constantly getting shit on by women that say that men are rapists, abusers, etc. Fine. Okay, maybe. But if you're going to shit us for us on that, then you have to give us credit for the constant times that we're rescuing you. 150 cops die every year in the US, and 95 percent of them are men.
/r/MensRights18/04/26 02:07 AM
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do you actually care about men’s rights or do you just want to blame women for all your problem and punish us? the facts are that there’s a difference between interpersonal violence vs systemic/institutional violence. You mean like a system that forces men ONLY to go to war, like the draft, which this entire post is about? Or maybe the fact that the judicial system punishes men asymmetrically versus women. saying that there would be less violence against men if women met their social responsibil…
/r/MensRights18/04/26 02:00 AM
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When money isn't involved, women are FAR FAR more looks focused than men. We're rookies by comparison.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/04/26 10:24 PM
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I'd concede this is absolutely a problem and Hegseth is contributing to this as well. Women should absolutely be in all these roles and have 50/50 representation - even if it means many of them are injured at a higher rate. We might need to have just female only organizations like female SWAT. We have a WNBA... why not a all women SWAT ? lol
/r/MensRights17/04/26 09:47 PM
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Except the past aligns with the present. Nothing is preventing you from singing up now and defending your country. But I bet you won't and are more than happy to let a man die so you don't have to fight. Also, NOTHING is preventing women from demanding the right to serve as it's your responsibility as a citizen. I guess I'm more of a feminist than you are because I think women should have the same responsibilities as men if they want the same rights. Until you step up you're not a feminist but y…
/r/MensRights17/04/26 09:46 PM
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feminism isnt about being equal to men. I mean clearly you don't speak for all feminists because the vast majority disagree. Other organizations that parallel feminism like the NAACP insist that equality is a major component. its about about autonomy and liberation of women from gender based oppression and violence. the violence men face is very real but its not gender based. violence against men is directly related to class struggle and labor exploitation, not gender or sex. There are countless…
/r/MensRights17/04/26 09:42 PM
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I think a lot of them take secondary roles. Like desk jobs, secondary response, etc. If you watch something like cops, you'll see the women almost NEVER shop up initially. It's a male cop, then once suspects are in custody, women show up to do paperwork. So the stats look seriously disjoint...
/r/MensRights17/04/26 03:03 AM
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Those numbers are VERY distorted because first responders are NOT women. Female police roles are usually for clerical, booking, etc. NOT active police duty where they're busting down doors, pulling people over, etc. You can extrapolate by looking at deaths for police. They're 98% men.
/r/MensRights17/04/26 01:55 AM
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That's fine... then they get drafted. I mean, why are men dying to create a matriarchy? Young men shouldn't be dying so that women don't have to fight in wars.
/r/MensRights16/04/26 11:20 PM
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My personal pet peeve is the "It's not all men but it's always men" thing that women do when a "bad apple" that's male does something wrong. They NEVER acknowledge the same thing about first responders (police, firefighters, paramedics, etc). It's ALWAYS men in these roles (95%). Like it's unfair for them to only point out criminals and NEVER heros. We should be demanding that women take up 50% of these roles since they seem to forget how vital they are to our economy.
/r/MensRights16/04/26 05:00 PM
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What does this mean? Why do you think heterosexual men hate other men? That doesn't make any sense.
/r/MensRights16/04/26 04:14 PM
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their whole personality about having a chip on their shoulder. The chip on their shoulder is the main problem and I've seen this before. What bothers me is that I've ALWAYS been an LGBTQ ally - primarily because I support equal rights and don't think people should be discriminated against. However, I've been shit on FAR more by lesbians and women when I was supportive of their rights the whole time. One example is how I said I didn't want to date a trans woman because I want to have children and…
/r/MensRights16/04/26 04:13 PM
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As a straight man, I've noticed that I see eye-to-eye pretty easily with gay men. I think part of it is that they don't get pretty privilege like lesbians and straight women do. Pretty privilege massively distorts a womans perception of 'social' reality. They're used to the entitlement and assume we have it too so obviously men should be crushing it and it must be our fault somehow.
/r/MensRights16/04/26 04:09 PM
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This is a great point, actually. Like, your girl will actually dump you because some other guy offers her a trip to Miami or whatever. Miami or Coachella or Vegas or anything like that. As long as it's fun, she'll dump you.
/r/MensRights16/04/26 04:12 AM
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Dude, they cover shit like this all the time.
/r/MensRights16/04/26 03:33 AM
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I assume he's an ex-boyfriend?
/r/MensRights16/04/26 02:46 AM
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You can reach out to some podcasters, or you can just contact your local news channels. They LOVE doing stories like this.
/r/MensRights16/04/26 02:31 AM
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Is this just a hypothetical, or have you done it before? I bet you you haven't done it before. This isn't a "toxic masculinity mindset." Men here have literally seen these things happen. It's not like a hypothetical idea we have of what it would look like in the future. We've literally seen it happen.
/r/MensRights16/04/26 02:03 AM
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If this is real and actually happening, you should contact the press so they can cover it, especially in light of what happened here in the United States with Eric Swalwell. The fact that women online disregard due process if multiple women make accusations really enables this behavior. But seriously, if this is actually real, every right-wing podcaster would basically have you on in a heartbeat.
/r/MensRights16/04/26 01:48 AM
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They want an emotional guy like in a chick flick like "The Notebook" not a guy that lost his job and his mental health.
/r/MensRights16/04/26 01:40 AM
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Just do the same thing and post the same quote every time you see a video with some woman doing some crazy, random Karen shit. "It's not all women, but it's always a woman. " ... Or you could flip it around, like every time a firefighter or a cop or someone in the military does some hero shit, spit it right back at them. "It’s not all men but it's always a man"
/r/MensRights16/04/26 12:31 AM
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I assume you're a woman? Don't take this the wrong way, and I'm trying to be very nice. Women do not behave the way they say. You say these things, but I don't believe you because every woman in my life has told me similar things and then behaved the exact opposite way. The worst thing a man can do is take a woman's advice regarding dating women. For starters, you don't date women. You won't have any experience. Second, you don't actually give advice based on how women behave. Only how you think…
/r/MensRights15/04/26 11:33 PM
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Maybe, but this is just part of the red pill, right? I mean, as a man, I'm always trying to be my best, which is fine. I just don't want my girl to abandon me just because I have a bad month.
/r/MensRights15/04/26 09:43 PM
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I also love how they think that because of patriarchy, they want to be born men and just are going to have these amazing lifestyles. And if they were only men, all of their problems would be solved. However, at the same time, all men are losers, and the male loneliness epidemic is our own fault because we're all pathetic. It's just bigotry at some point.
/r/MensRights15/04/26 09:42 PM
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This is one of the reasons a woman will break up with you if you cry or show any weakness. Our dog got into some medication at home, and we had to take him to the vet. The vet told us that he probably was going to die. The dog turned out to be fine, but I was really upset about it because I thought it was my fault for leaving out my medication. I thought my dog would die, and I became really distraught. I started crying. Anyway, my girlfriend broke up with me the next week, saying that she didn'…
/r/MensRights15/04/26 09:22 PM
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I don't really understand the point of this comment. Not calling you out or trying to be mean. I just really don't understand what you're trying to say. If it's your partner, the point is to be loyal and focus on something long-term. I mean, I get if it's a girlfriend or you haven't agreed to commit to one another. But just to jump ship the moment something is slightly more shiny, I think, is pretty fucked up. I get that some women might not be loyal, but now it seems like all women are not loya…
/r/MensRights15/04/26 09:21 PM
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I think it's actually worse than that. I think a lot of women view us like they view jobs. If you get a better offer, you'll quit your job and move to the new one. I’ve had women do that before. We hit a small bump in the road when something isn’t going well, and they think they’ve found a better option, so they move on. I mean, if you're happy at your current job, you might not look for other employment. However, if a former co-worker pings you and is like, "Hey, I can get you a 30% raise at my…
/r/MensRights15/04/26 08:12 PM
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It seemed reasonable that women should be treated with respect. That part always made sense to me - still does. The turning part was when my ex attempted a false sexual assault extortion against me to try to get money. My lawyer said to settle for $75k because it would cost more in court cases just to defend myself because he said "when a woman cries in front of a jury, they tend to believe her and not the man." Then I looked back at my life and I realized that a lot of shitty things that have h…
/r/MensRights15/04/26 06:19 PM
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Yep, I want forced quotas. Men shouldn't be sacrificing their lives just so that way women can be feminists.
/r/MensRights15/04/26 02:32 PM
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I mean, I think I'm making "a modest proposal" here that women serve in combat roles. Because frankly, it wouldn't take very long to hit their required casualty rates. Which I think underscores your point. I'm not expecting women to want to do this. I think they're going to want to avoid it at all costs. So if they are avoiding it, what are they going to give us in return? Either way, the key point is that men should not die while women get to run off to college, start an OnlyFans, become stripp…
/r/MensRights15/04/26 03:56 AM
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> I mean, for one I fundementaly disagree with the statement that someone that cannot defend their rights on a battlefield does not deserve them. I didn't say they didn't deserve them - that they didn't FIGHT for them. If we didn't fight during WWII we wouldn't have our rights. You can deserve something but not earn it - and if you didn't earn it, it shouldn't be yours. Why should I die so that you can have freedoms when you're not willing to fight for them? > You wanna sweeten the pot for the (…
/r/MensRights14/04/26 11:23 PM
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Sure, but all things being equal, women and men need to have the same responsibilities. If you can get the number of soldiers we need down to zero, I’m all for it. Humanity has had thousands of years to figure that out, and we still haven’t done it.
/r/MensRights14/04/26 10:18 PM
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I didn't say anything about suppressing a woman's financial freedom. I don't know what your point there was. My point being is, if men have a lot of responsibilities to women, what responsibilities do women have to men?
/r/MensRights14/04/26 07:53 PM
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I'd like to understand what responsibilities a woman has in a relationship towards the man. Because men have dozens of them. - We have to walk on the outside in traffic in case a car comes out of control and might hit her. - We have to open doors - We have to drive for them - We have to pay for meals + dates ... but women won't cook, clean, or anything else traditionally feminine.
/r/MensRights14/04/26 07:25 PM
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I mean, you might be right, but then women have to do something to offset the fact that men are dying for them. Men should not die just because women are weaker. Why is it that, in almost every other field, including sports, feminists argue that men and women are equal, but as soon as it comes to the military, suddenly women are super weak and can’t serve?
/r/MensRights14/04/26 06:47 PM
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Aaaaa, I see your vision. Btw don't agree men goes to jail when they do crimes tho. I personally know too many cases , even death which was very clearly done by husbands or men but didn't go to jail or anything. Yeah, but this applies to all crimes, right? We can't conflate issues. Women commit crimes too. My ex-wife attacked me with a knife and extorted $75,000 from me. She wasn't punished for either. ... I don't understand the rest of your comment, though.
/r/MensRights14/04/26 06:11 PM
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I think everyone should face the draft, actually. Men. Women. The rich. The poor. Politicians. Everyone. This way, when the country goes to war, everyone bears the burden. Right now, women can vote for a war-hungry politician, and there is no penalty for them. Same thing for the rich and for the politicians. If everyone could be drafted for four years, it would definitely change the equation about whether or not we go to war or not.
/r/MensRights14/04/26 05:56 PM
1

There's a LOT of responsibility on "allegedly" in their sentence.
/r/MensRights14/04/26 05:40 PM
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I mean, if the trade-off was that women don't work and that their goal is to be wives and raise children, then fine. At least I'm fighting for something, right, because my wife is at home raising my kids so they can grow up and have freedom and democracy. That's no longer the situation. Women want to not get married and they want to have jobs and be rich CEOs.
/r/MensRights14/04/26 05:03 PM
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I mean, I agree with you. But there's a third "or" here. They'd have to come up with something that would be the equivalent of men dying in combat. I just can't think of what it is. It needs to be a sacrifice of equal proportion. Having children or getting married is not the same.
/r/MensRights14/04/26 04:08 PM
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> 78.1% of men was "told her whatever she wanted to hear." So if you told a woman that your favorite movie is "The Notebook," (because that's a chick flick) then that would make you a rapist. lol
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/04/26 03:42 PM
2

95% of self-reported rapists self-report that they are rapists. News at 11.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/04/26 03:41 PM
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What you're talking about is a crime, but people that commit these crimes go to prison. There is a goal (by the state) to actively prevent this. The reverse is not true. There is no movement by the state to prevent men from dying that would balance things out and be representative of gender.
/r/MensRights14/04/26 03:13 PM
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Vote a female in as president and I bet the need for so many men getting killed in the frontline would be dramatically reduced. This is not true. Statistical studies of European history between 1480 and 1913 show that queens were nearly 39% more likely than kings to participate in inter-state conflicts, often because they could delegate internal logistics to spouses while focusing on foreign expansion. In more modern contexts, data from 1875 to 2004 indicates that female executives initiated mil…
/r/MensRights14/04/26 02:48 PM
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That was back when women were feminine and there were wives and mothers and were submissive in staying home and raising their children. That's not the case anymore. There's no upside for men.
/r/MensRights14/04/26 02:42 PM
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Ad hominem attack right out of the gate. I'm glad you're angry.
/r/MensRights14/04/26 02:42 PM
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Actually, this is an argument FOR the draft, by the way. Many have argued that applying a draft to anyone would mean that rich politicians would get drafted as well.
/r/MensRights14/04/26 02:41 PM
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So what do you propose the solution is to prevent men from dying then? I shouldn't have to die for you and be forced at gunpoint to do so simply because you're weak. I didn’t mean to imply you’re weak or inferior, or that I meant it as an insult. I’m just saying that if your argument is correct, you can’t be on the front lines. So why do you deserve the same rights if I'm the only ones giving them to you?
/r/MensRights14/04/26 02:39 PM
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It's a good analogy, but it's imperfect. One is that some women want to give birth. Also, when women give birth, they're actually creating life, and I think one is a lot better than the other one.
/r/MensRights14/04/26 02:36 PM
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Oh, you want to end wars? That's a great idea. It's a shame we never thought of that. /s Well, up until we end wars, women need to be serving. If not, they don't deserve the same rights as men.
/r/MensRights14/04/26 02:34 PM
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Except for the most part, only poor men serve because they need the money. Barron Trump is never going to serve. Donald Trump got a deferment because he had "bone spurs" and didn't have to serve in the Vietnam War.
/r/MensRights14/04/26 02:34 PM
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Then how do you propose solving the fact that men are dying to support women and receive nothing in return? If women can't defend their rights, then they don't deserve them.
/r/MensRights14/04/26 02:33 PM
3

Hegseth also doesn't support women voting. Pretty sure he's mentioned that a couple times and hinted at it.
/r/MensRights14/04/26 02:32 PM
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There actually is a strong argument that requiring the draft also forces the rich to fight. And if the rich fight, maybe there would be less war
/r/MensRights14/04/26 02:31 PM
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Then, if women can't meet their responsibilities here, they need to not have the same rights or they need to meet other responsibilities. They need to do something just as equal.
/r/MensRights14/04/26 02:31 PM
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Women can run for office; they're just not elected. Here's a list of modern wars started/executed by women. So, by your logic, men should have fought in none of these wars? Margaret Thatcher (The Falklands War, 1982): As discussed, while Argentina initiated the invasion, Thatcher’s decision to send a task force was a definitive military choice that transformed a territorial dispute into a full-scale naval and land war. Indira Gandhi (Indo-Pakistani War of 1971): Gandhi led India during this pivo…
/r/MensRights14/04/26 02:30 PM
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Yeah, that's why I said that they have to be in combat roles and across all roles. All the way to the front lines, same number of tank commanders, same number of pilots, everything. Infantry, everything. Deaths need to be 50/50 across the board. This is also an argument for the draft because the draft would also impact the rich as well. Pick random people. Random Americans. They got to do four years. And you're right about Japan. The Allies were expecting 1.5 million dead if they had to do a lan…
/r/MensRights14/04/26 05:34 AM
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I don't care about where my anger is placed. For the sake of argument, I'll even concede that it's the patriarchy that set it up this way. Just fix it. Either end all war, or women need to serve or be drafted.
/r/MensRights14/04/26 05:03 AM
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In what way is you being drafted enabling feminism? Because every time a man dies, that is a woman not dying. Men are literally dying so you don't have to. How in the hell is that fair? And if it's only going to be men that are dying, what are women going to do to offset that since you don't have the same responsibilities that men do? If women don't have the same responsibilities as men, they do not deserve the same rights. Men died for these rights. If it's only men dying for these rights, then…
/r/MensRights14/04/26 04:30 AM
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By the way, there is a strong argument that the draft should be compulsory and mandatory. This way, the rich would have to serve too and would have an incentive for the country to not go to war. Right now, it's just poor males that go to war because they need the money. Trump got a deferment. He got out because he hired a quack doctor to say that he had bone spurs.
/r/MensRights14/04/26 03:53 AM
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Yeah, but what you're arguing for is the elimination of war. Obviously, that's not going to happen anytime soon. So until that does, women need to have the same responsibilities as men.
/r/MensRights14/04/26 03:34 AM
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In the United States, we don't have the draft. We have selective service in case the draft is ever applied. However, right now women do not represent the same casualty rates as men. So until that changes, we need to start drafting women in the United States. And they also need to serve in the same roles. They need to be under fire and in foxholes at the front line, just like men.
/r/MensRights14/04/26 03:31 AM
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Sure, get rid of the draft, but only if women have the same casualty rate as men. If not, then we have to draft them.
/r/MensRights14/04/26 03:30 AM
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I'm applying feminist logic here. They have argued that society needs to change the rules so that women have 50/50 representation in high-paying jobs like CEOs. But they can't only have the high-paying jobs. They need to have the responsibilities as well. And in Germany, Israel, and South Korea, only men are drafted. So in those countries, women need to be drafted as well, but they also need to have the same roles on the front line. If men are gonna be cannon fodder, then women need to be cannon…
/r/MensRights14/04/26 03:28 AM
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Not just expendable, but our lives are worthless so we have value as cannon fodder. We get drafted so women don't have to serve, and then we're treated like shit and called criminals, rapists, and a dangerous to society.
/r/MensRights14/04/26 02:07 AM
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Would be hilarious if a ladyboy got drafted and had to fight at the front. Like, I don't even know how they would figure that out and what they would do in that situation. Just for the record, "ladyboy" is the correct term in Thailand. It's not slander by any means. By the way, in Thailand, the only reliable way to tell a ladyboy from a real woman is that ladyboys are both prettier and nicer than real women.
/r/MensRights13/04/26 11:22 PM
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It's literally the same subject. Whataboutism is a non-sequitur, where you bring up another issue to distract from the primary issue? These two issues are directly tied to one another. You just can't stand any criticism of women, so you're trying to distract and use a logical fallacy where it's not applicable. Women use their sexual market value to get resources from men which further enforces the idea that women are only "2D sexual beings". You're literally advertising that sex is for sale, so …
/r/MensRights13/04/26 07:15 PM
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Well, my point being that feminists propose a solution that we haven't been able to resolve in like a hundred years. Like I've asked what should we do about the war and the draft and women have literally, and with a straight face, said that women would solve war if men were removed from office.
/r/MensRights13/04/26 06:33 PM
1

When are women going to start teaching other women that men are not ATM machines? When are you ladies going to address that problem? I'll be over here holding my breath.
/r/MensRights13/04/26 05:40 PM
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I'm 49 and have a lot of experience with women at this point. I think you just totally figured it out. Women don't admit publicly what they actually want. They want a man that is out of their league and borderline toxic. That's why a lot of women are with men that are abusive, cheating on them, hitting them, etc. Stop listening to what women say they want, and listen to what they respond to. As a fisherman, I kind of explain it like you can't ask a trout how to catch itself. A trout wouldn't und…
/r/MensRights13/04/26 04:35 PM
1

I was thinking just a general consent notice that everything can be recorded and then just have cameras throughout my house. That's just as difficult, though.
/r/MensRights13/04/26 04:28 PM
1

Yeah, I've confronted a bunch of them, and they say, "Oh, well, our goal is to end war so then no one would be drafted!" Great! Why didn't WE think of that! When will that be done? Say by Thursday? I’ve heard them say that multiple times. At a conference, I asked why women can’t be coal miners, and they said, “Our goal is to ban coal.”
/r/MensRights13/04/26 04:15 PM
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I feel the same about a number of issues too. For example, there are plenty of situations where female babysitters have assaulted children. So I don't see why anyone should be alone with a child. Same thing with bathrooms. Just make individual bathrooms. There's no easy way to solve this. To make everybody happy and save money, we just have to make individual bathrooms.
/r/MensRights13/04/26 04:13 PM
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And women wear high heels, skirts and makeup because in some workplaces if they don’t they are deemed to look unprofessional. Not mixing sex with work protects everyone. I mean, both of those sentences are in conflict. You can't show up to work dressed super sexy and then not mix sex with work.
/r/MensRights13/04/26 04:12 PM
1

Honestly he should have gotten consent in writing. "I, Alice Smith, do hereby consent to Louis CK to jerk off in front of me... "
/r/MensRights13/04/26 04:09 PM
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It's infuriating. Like, I totally understand that they may regret giving consent, but they consented. I can't retroactively go back in time and undo the events after they've revoked consent. Basically, their argument is that they were too stupid/foolish to consent so now he's a criminal/scumbag.
/r/MensRights13/04/26 12:11 AM
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Another woman says that he did ask for permission. But the problem is it becomes a he said, she said situation. Another commenter pointed out that Vice President Pence refused to be in the same room with another woman that wasn't his wife. Man, in retrospect, that guy is a genius.
/r/MensRights12/04/26 11:52 PM
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Well, especially if they didn't like him or they had a falling out I've seen a lot of women do this, where in order to punish someone, they'll accuse them of sexual assault or other things like that. My mom did it to my dad, and my ex did it to me. When my mom passed away, it was really obvious how abusive she was. All of the paperwork that she had while she was alive was available to me, and it was really clear that she did some really messed up shit.
/r/MensRights12/04/26 11:51 PM
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God, you're right. You know what? Now I really do regret this, because it seemed weird at the time for me, but now I totally get it.
/r/MensRights12/04/26 11:11 PM
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Yeah, I agree with you. I was just trying to use a more conservative number so that the Reddit armchair warriors wouldn't come in and nitpick.
/r/MensRights12/04/26 11:11 PM
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I actually do work in stand-up, so I can speak to this a bit. It's an industry made out of connections, and so if you're friends with someone like Louis CK, he can dramatically change your career. So I actually spend a lot of my time trying to meet people and then befriending them. And so I think their argument is, "Hey, if I told Louis to fuck off, he might sabotage my career." But the point is, consent can't be revoked. Because he can't go back and change his decision.
/r/MensRights12/04/26 11:10 PM
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My issue is the retroactive revoke of consent. They gave consent, and then at some point in the future, they can revoke it. Consent is irrevocable. If it was revocable, then at any point in time, if you made someone mad, they could say that you sexually assaulted them.
/r/MensRights12/04/26 11:08 PM
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Yeah, I've been falsely accused of sexual assault twice. Once in college, where a girl spent the night in my dorm and her boyfriend found out about it. I didn't sleep with her because I knew she had a boyfriend, but she still claimed rape so that way her boyfriend wouldn't break up with her. It got escalated, and I was found "guilty," and then she eventually recanted when my friends pressured her because they knew she was lying. I was in the process of being expelled, and then the intermediary b…
/r/MensRights12/04/26 07:16 PM
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Plus, they said yes! So he made a decision based on their consent. You can't invert consent. I don't care what the power dynamic was or any of these other reasons. You can't invert consent because then the man has made a decision based on your consent, and at any point in time you can put someone else's life in jeopardy? I mean, they destroyed three years of this guy's life at the peak of his career, costing him probably $5M, at least. I mean, feminists went on this campaign for five years calle…
/r/MensRights12/04/26 07:11 PM
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She didn't actually demand it. It was just that I broke down. I mean, they literally told us that there was not much that they could do; the dog was probably going to pass, given the amount of elapsed time. So it makes sense that I was fucking upset. I mean she was crying too - we were both really upset.
/r/MensRights12/04/26 06:59 PM
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The issue is that men and women are not equal in the workplace. For example, women can wear makeup, they can wear a mini skirt, and they can use that sexual tension to get a promotion. Or a woman can say she was sexually assaulted/harassed at work, and the man immediately loses his job. Man could not do the same thing. If a man says that he is sexually assaulted at work, he's ignored/ridiculed.
/r/MensRights12/04/26 06:55 PM
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Oh yeah, 100% I had the same problem. Our dog broke into my laptop bag and ate all of my Adderall. And I thought I killed him. I was really, really broken up about it, but we rushed him to the vet and they pumped his stomach. And then we were at the vet. I broke down crying because I thought I had killed my fucking dog. Anyway, she broke up with me a week later, telling me that she needs a man that is strong in times like this. It's nonsense.
/r/MensRights12/04/26 06:54 PM
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Victim status is very powerful socially right now so this philosophy probably won't be going anywhere any time soon. I think we need to actively speak out on it. One of the other things that I realized lately is "crying privilege. " That if a woman starts crying, she's immediately believed. I don't want to deal with female police because of this. If something happens and she gets in front of a jury and she starts crying, I immediately lose. So if I'm dealing with the police, I'm going to just sa…
/r/MensRights12/04/26 06:38 PM
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Her explanation: I had woken her with a kiss on her cheek. As I hadn't ask before if I am allowed to do so, it constituted sexual assault. Never trust these types of explanations. From women, investors, customers, employees, etc. Often times, it's not the REAL answer and then you make life decisions based on it. Only pay attention to behavior as that's the only real indicator that you have something to go on. For a woman, 9 times out of 10, she just found a better option.
/r/MensRights12/04/26 06:20 PM
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You can if it's just taking personal vows. It's just not recognized by the law. But I agree with 80% of what you're saying. There are people in relationships like this, though.
/r/MensRights12/04/26 06:18 PM
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See my comment above: https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1sjivtu/louis_ck_was_cancelled_by_feminists_even_though/ofsftif/
/r/MensRights12/04/26 05:49 PM
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I mean, you might be right, but then we fundamentally have a broken society, and men are effectively wage slaves where 80% of their life is blocked from meeting a partner. But remember, it's not blocked for women; it's only blocked for men. And then women show up to work in high heels, short skirts with makeup on so they can get ahead in the workforce. This is insane. How is any of this sustainable?
/r/MensRights12/04/26 05:40 PM
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Reasoning giving by the higher-ups: as a man he should had anticipated that she might withdraw her consent once she sobered up. Because after all, everyone knows that only a woman can withdraw her consent. Man can't withdraw his consent, and he's responsible for all of his decisions, even when he's drunk. But not a woman. We live in a fundamentally broken society, man. I also saw a whatever podcast clip where a feminist stated, that any sex under the influence of any amount of alcohol constitute…
/r/MensRights12/04/26 05:37 PM
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The reactive abuse thing is hilarious. Yet another lie that feminists have invented to avoid accountability for their own shitty actions. There is no reactive abuse. There's just abuse. It doesn't matter what your excuse is. That's why Jenny in Forrest Gump was the villain. It didn't matter that her dad was abusive; she was abusive to Forrest, and that was abuse. Because how far back does it go until there's accountability? How do we know that Jenny's dad wasn't abused? And his was just reactive…
/r/MensRights12/04/26 03:45 PM
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That's a great way to look at it.
/r/MensRights12/04/26 03:42 PM
2

Yeah, actually, it's a really good point that feminists have really pushed this narrative that all prostitution is because women are abused by men. I mean, in California, that was one of Kamala's big "wins." She shut one of the prostitution websites here. Basically making the argument that it was all trafficking, ignoring the fact that most, if not all, of the posts up there were independent women. Because after all, there's one thing feminists hate, and that's women making decisions about their…
/r/MensRights12/04/26 02:13 AM
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I mean, it would be kinda like having a movie that portrayed all the women as prostitutes. They were also recruited by the CIA, which wasn't exactly innocent in South and Central America at that time.
/r/MensRights11/04/26 11:59 PM
2

You know, the funny thing is I really think that the reverse is true too, that a lot of women are selling out other women when they become MAGA. Some of the right-wing women are horrible people. KKKaroline Leavitt being a GREAT example.
/r/MensRights11/04/26 11:58 PM
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She pulled off a cryptocurrency scam and then acted like the victim.
/r/MensRights11/04/26 10:54 PM
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This happened a long time ago, maybe 8-10 years ago. These male Democrats that are doing this are only doing it because it's politically expedient for them. And yeah, the "believe all women" nonsense needs to stop. I'm literally a victim because of this. It's not a joke. It's really a serious problem.
/r/MensRights11/04/26 10:49 PM
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> This was back when movies did not view all men as monsters, but just as people. I mean, I sort of get what you're saying with this post, but the movie "Predator" depicts men as being killers, hyper-masculine, and basically hired hit men. It's not a good portrayal of men.
/r/MensRights11/04/26 10:14 PM
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Feminism is about equality for females, just like Scientology is about science. /s
/r/MensRights11/04/26 10:07 PM
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I had to deal with this personally because my ex accused me of sexual assault, and I had to settle with her for $75,000. I really want to underscore this: I didn't do anything. In fact, I treated her like an absolute angel. I think it's important that you treat your girlfriend like you would want another man to treat your mother. She did it because I financially supported her for a year after we broke up, including paying for her apartment. After a year, I told her I had to cut her off because I…
/r/MensRights11/04/26 10:01 PM
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I actually broke up with my ex over a big argument that I had about this. She comes home one day, furious because her boss keeps "harassing" her, probably because she wears cute little skirts and makeup to the office. So I tell her flat out that you can't dress up like a rose and get mad when you attract bees. Now she's mildly mad at that, and then we have this like 10-minute argument. Her main point was that women should be treated the same as men and not judged by how they look, but she benefi…
/r/MensRights11/04/26 09:48 PM
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They actually do, though. Women started calling them "fuckboys". But this is entirely a problem that they created. All they have to do is just keep their fucking legs together.
/r/MensRights11/04/26 09:42 PM
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Especially when the men in their countries are actively volunteering to sacrifice themselves to save women. We need to have a draft for women since they aren't willing to serve voluntarily.
/r/MensRights11/04/26 06:35 PM
2

After the hype died down, the women realised they just ruined their own lives for a movement which didn't get the traction or attention they thought it would. See, here's where I disagree. I don't think women have yet realized this. :) They're still in their insane feminist era. I just don't deal with it anymore. I only want a very submissive, agreeable woman. I actively want to be more of the traditional male role provider figure, but I won't do it with a woman that wants to pretend that she's …
/r/MensRights11/04/26 04:53 PM
4

She's a unicorn for a VERY small amount of time. I'm 50 and have had 3-4x of these. One was probably the closest I've ever come but that ended too.
/r/MensRights10/04/26 10:54 PM
14

I mean, Martin Luther King and the civil rights movement in the 60s fundamentally changed our society. When you stay focused on these things, it does change reality. I never said it was gonna be easy, though. It's hard to get a whole bunch of people focused on one common goal.
/r/MensRights10/04/26 06:08 PM
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Oh, because of PII? (Personally identifiable information). Yeah, it's really interesting. I have to think about that more.
/r/MensRights10/04/26 05:51 PM
2

It's because society views men as disposable. Especially younger single men. Your life doesn't mean anything; only your death.
/r/MensRights10/04/26 05:39 PM
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They broke a lot of laws too. What laws did they break?
/r/MensRights10/04/26 05:29 PM
14

Yeah, they want all the rights of both men and women with none of the responsibilities of either. That's a better way to phrase it. The thing is, they don't even want the responsibilities of women anymore! Men need to fight more against this. It's ridiculous that we're so passive.
/r/MensRights09/04/26 06:48 PM
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I’d like to see something like this, but I’d like to combine it with a message that acknowledges the fact that about 99% of firefighters, police, and military personnel are men. And those that are dying in the line of duty are almost always men. And I'd like for it to be where men just don't work that day. Police, firefighters, et cetera, all men take the day off. We go fishing or hunting or something. But no work for all men, so if women need to call the police, they're shit out of luck. I thin…
/r/MensRights09/04/26 12:10 AM
9

Yes....
/r/MensRights08/04/26 04:28 AM
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Because men are expected to support women so the inverse is fair play. If women want support for women abused by men then there should be plenty of examples of women supporting men. Instead, they say it's "reactive abuse" and that the man is STILL at fault. Happened to me.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/04/26 09:01 PM
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> 1. At the individual level — men are socialized from childhood to "man up" I don't tolerate this anymore. The "man up" thing is bullshit especially from women. Women don't know what it is like to be a man nor do they have our responsibilities.
/r/MensRights07/04/26 08:52 PM
2

Read the article and she wasn't really bragging but the boy did SA her first... This is just a really bad story where both people are in the wrong and they were both kids at the time
/r/MensRights07/04/26 07:42 PM
38

17.8 veterans die in the US per day which is 2x the normal rate.
/r/MensRights07/04/26 07:16 PM
17

I'm skeptical of the 'convicted' too because my ex came after me on false rape charges. I'm very vocal about it because I would NEVER do anything like this and she totally betrayed me after I took VERY good care of her and her daughter a year after we broke up. I paid for their expenses for a year and when I had to cut them off, she threatened me with SA lawsuit unless I continued giving her money. She went completely ballistic and psycho. Like out of "fatal attraction". She was crying, contacti…
/r/MensRights07/04/26 04:54 PM
2

I agree with you 50% but my point was meant to point out how short and submissive men are invisible to women. There are plenty of amazing men who are ignored simply because they're not 6'
/r/MensRights07/04/26 04:47 PM
10

Does this apply to cops, and fire fighters, security, the national guard, etc which are all 99% men. Good luck after your curfew kicks in and you need help. We need a national "no men" day where men just take the day off and go fishing. It's time for women to step up.
/r/MensRights07/04/26 04:35 PM
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This is like a 10+ year old story but my buddy found out his gf was cheating with her ex-fiance. She left her laptop open and he saw all the emails and it was clear one was open in plain view. They planned on going up to Napa for the weekend and staying at a restaurant and there were spicy message sent back and forth. He was totally destroyed by this and didn't know how to react but I had a good strategy. We just hired movers, packed up all her stuff, so that when she came back she was already m…
/r/MensRights06/04/26 08:21 PM
18

This is 100% ok for the woman to do because he's a very attractive man and she can't be responsible for her decisions. This is reactive abuse /s (being sarcastic).
/r/MensRights06/04/26 08:18 PM
45

I was really upset that the Muppets had her on for their first show :-/
/r/MensRights06/04/26 08:01 PM
72

The frustrating and sad part for me is that I have ADHD and 'info dumping' is something we do when we like someone. We're trying to share our passion on a topic because it's exciting for us and we want you to have the same experience. Then to be kicked into the teeth and told it's abusive is really horrible.
/r/MensRights06/04/26 04:51 PM
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By the way, the slave owners prior to the Civil War felt that they were the ones that were being oppressed because their argument was that the Northerners came to the South to destroy their heritage. Specifically, a lot of their net worth was bound up in slaves. So they felt that the North was basically destroying their entire wealth. Like, imagine if someone burned down your home. That's what they were saying. Never mind the fact that they were enslaving fucking humans.
/r/MensRights06/04/26 02:37 AM
6

He's a man so he's guilty... That's the way it works. My ex made similar accusations and my lawyer suggested I settle for $75k. Mind you I DID NOTHING WRONG and treated her VERY VERY well and I was repaid with nothing but complete betrayal. Some women love money more than they are loyal and will absolutely destroy you if that will get them more money. It's VERY sad but it's true.
/r/MensRights05/04/26 08:33 PM
8

Suck it India! USA! USA!
/r/MensRights05/04/26 08:14 PM
35

I haven't seen it, but is she supposed to be a villain? Like, I think it's fair to do things like this if the person is a fucking villain. They're supposed to be evil, right?
/r/MensRights04/04/26 06:05 PM
1

An ad hominem attack is an attack that focuses on the person making it rather than the argument itself. "0 braincell way of understanding taxes" is clearly calling the argument itself stupid, not you. You can say what I said was rude, which it was, but it wasn't ad hominem. Okay, so then your point being that you agree that you're rude, not that you're foolish for using an ad hominem? Your point was still an ad hominem because you were saying that I had zero brain cells as one of the criteria fo…
/r/MensRights04/04/26 02:44 AM
16

And they would make shitty men because they'd be short and submissive.
/r/MensRights04/04/26 02:35 AM
4

I used to have a lot money, but she took it all. ;) Half joking but I did have to settle a claim due to false accusations that my ex made against me simply because I'm male. Didn't do anything wrong, only treated her with respect. I want above and beyond treating her when we broke up, including paying for her daughter's school and their rent for a year. No good deed goes unpunished, though, because when I couldn't afford it anymore, she threatened to go to the police and say I assaulted her. Whi…
/r/MensRights04/04/26 12:47 AM
2

This is such a 0 braincell way of understanding taxes. Leading with an ad hominem attack is a great way to embarrass yourself. What is and what is not paid for by taxes is one of the single biggest disputes in world politics over the last 100 to 200 years. Literally, this is one of the reasons our country exists, and Franklin and Jefferson talked about it extensively. There is nothing, including roads, paid for by taxes and that every single taxpayer uses. There will always be someone who could …
/r/MensRights04/04/26 12:39 AM
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A woman isn't entitled to my money though. Why should a single man (or woman) have to pay for the children of other people? For things like roads, this makes sense because everyone uses roads, but not everyone wants to have children. For most of my life I didn't want to have children, so why the hell am I subsidizing schools? It isn't the only issue, though, because I'm an atheist too, so why the hell am I subsidizing churches?
/r/MensRights03/04/26 11:59 PM
86

Yeah, I agree 100%. That's the point I'm trying to make. They need to be given 50% of these roles in every single role, not the high-paying CEO jobs. Every year, police and firefighters die protecting the citizens of this country, and 99% of them are men. I want them to be 50/50. It's the hardest job that this country has and probably the most important, but women don't want the responsibility. We need to bring up this talking point on every single issue that they bring up. Sure, you can have wh…
/r/MensRights03/04/26 08:23 PM
63

This is why that Taylor Swift song about being a man really pisses me off. Literally, her entire career and success have been because she's a woman and has pretty privilege. If she were a fat, middle-aged, balding man singing the same songs, she wouldn't have had her success. And she can become a man anytime she wants. Just transition. The hormones are cheap. She can afford it.
/r/MensRights03/04/26 08:14 PM
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I'm so tired of this and the fact that we don't do anything about it. Feminists are arguing for equity in employment so that they have 50/50 of every single role. I think we should do the same for the military and draft women too. Put them in frontline roles. The deaths in war should be 50% male and female too. They should be doing the exact same jobs that we are.
/r/MensRights03/04/26 07:19 PM
6

Steven Crowder is chopped too... I'm so sick and tired of people that talk about these issues being the worst possible representatives we could possibly nominate. Is Steven Crowder the best that we can do to talk about this issue?
/r/MensRights03/04/26 06:25 PM
5

I've actually worked it into my stand-up comedy. Now, I do about half of my jokes are about my shitty treatment as a man. :-P
/r/MensRights03/04/26 05:06 AM
90

Happened to me. I'm not a big-time CEO or anything, but I was running my own company at the time. When I broke up with my ex, she accused me of sexual assault, and my lawyer advised that I settle with her for $75k. I always treat women with respect and treated her very, very well. And she repaid me with nothing but complete and total betrayal. I would never have done anything like that, and I'm completely innocent, obviously. I also helped raise her daughter. Paid for her daughter's school, etc.
/r/MensRights03/04/26 01:06 AM
25

Women can be absolutely vindictive and, honestly, far more cruel than men, I think. Primarily because they do shit like this and get other men to do their dirty work for them.
/r/MensRights02/04/26 09:02 PM
27

Women want all the rights of both women and men, but none of the responsibilities of either. They don't want to have to worry about the draft. They don't want to work in coal mines. They don't want to do heavy labor. They don't want to be plumbers. They don't want to work construction. They want free money, and they want to be princesses. I just won't tolerate spending time with these women anymore. Like, even if they're absolutely beautiful, it's basically a liability. Women are a debt.
/r/MensRights02/04/26 08:36 PM
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You're 100% right, but I think it's actually worse than that. There's a lot of situations where it kind of becomes like a running joke that the husband is like submissive or obedient to his wife. My dad was like that. He was such a beta for so long. He should have divorced his wife in his 50s, but in his 70s she ended up inheriting a million dollars and immediately divorced him. Everyone in the family, including her son, was furious that she did that because he had been completely loyal to her a…
/r/MensRights02/04/26 08:24 PM
19

... I think this is why I do better when I'm single. It's just because I can walk away. If a girl doesn't make me happy, I can just leave.
/r/MensRights02/04/26 06:54 PM
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YouTube has this new feature called "Ask Questions" at the bottom of a video. Here's a two sentence summary: > This video argues that many modern relationship failures stem from a pattern where women initiate conflict and refuse accountability while blaming their husbands. The creator asserts that families can only thrive when both partners accept responsibility and move beyond defensive manipulation tactics Then I asked it what those were: In this video, Mr. Eugene outlines several defensive ma…
/r/MensRights02/04/26 06:53 PM
2

Andrew is no more dishonest than the feminist rhetoric though. It's not a very high bar, though.
/r/MensRights02/04/26 04:46 PM
1

Sure but men too...
/r/MensRights02/04/26 01:41 AM
1

Same answer... low risk = no problem. high risk = problem
/r/MensRights02/04/26 01:06 AM
1

> Cpr requires mouth to mouth, which leaves you at risk for disease. Very minor risk. > Ok another question, if you saw a child who was in danger, like if a kid came up to you because someone was stalking them, would you help, or would you do nothing? There are kids that are like that right now that *I* don't do anything about, and that you don't do anything about as well. Palestinian children right now need adoption, and people aren't doing that, including you. And I'm not trying to attack you …
/r/MensRights01/04/26 10:14 PM
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The issue is risk. CPR doesn't create risk. Generally speaking, I would not fight someone to the death to protect an anonymous person I didn't know. If someone comes at you with a machete you're on your own. :-P
/r/MensRights01/04/26 08:00 PM
4

Men need to stop fighting in wars and in the military until this bullshit is rectified. Women want equal rights but not equal responsibilities.
/r/MensRights01/04/26 07:18 PM
4

Other women/men, bears, snakes, spiders, war, fire, natural disaster, disease, etc.
/r/MensRights01/04/26 06:57 PM
4

Then what does a man get when he offers a woman protection? Why is he doing it? Even if what you're saying is true, that a man isn't owned sex, then a woman isn't owed protection.
/r/MensRights01/04/26 06:57 PM
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You know what? I've been thinking about this a lot lately, and I don't think it's sex as much as it is loyalty. Like, I get that a woman might not always want to have sex with you because maybe she's not feeling well, or maybe just physically she can't do it. But it does question whether or not divorce should be legal and whether infidelity should be a crime. If I risk my life to save a woman only for her to divorce me the next day, what's the point of risking my life? I mean, I can see risking …
/r/MensRights01/04/26 06:56 PM
5

> No woman is suggesting that all women are innocent little princesses. Most of us went to school and live in the real world. Women are well aware that women can be cunts. You believe this because you're a woman and you're completely disconnected from the reality of what it means to be a man. If a woman accuses you of sexual assault, she is assumed to be telling the truth, and the man is assumed to be guilty. I wish I was wrong because if that wasn't true, I'd be $75,000 richer. And this didn't …
/r/MensRights01/04/26 07:49 AM
6

You know, the funny thing is that statistically, women are more likely to poison you if they do murder you.
/r/MensRights01/04/26 01:37 AM
2

That's definitely part of the song though. It's like the 2nd or 3rd verse.
/r/MensRights31/03/26 10:52 PM
11

> He told me that men are very quick to defend the honor of women, almost by instinct. So women should respect men by always acting honorably. I've done my best to live up to that. Honestly, that's a really great way to view it.
/r/MensRights31/03/26 10:49 PM
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I completely agree, and I can understand maybe an argument that if you lived in a jurisdiction where there was no law enforcement, that you might have to take law into your own hands. This isn't any type of justice, though. In no world is it ethical to murder someone because they physically assaulted you. Also, her friend flies out from Atlanta. Why couldn't she just move to Atlanta with her friend? This is more like revenge than it is justice.
/r/MensRights31/03/26 09:04 PM
12

Exactly, and it plays into this stereotype that women have been pushing that women are all these little innocent princesses, and all the problems in their world are caused by men.
/r/MensRights31/03/26 07:39 PM
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Yeah, it's the double standard. I hate this idea that women are innocent little princesses that never do any harm or commit any crimes. And that men are these horrible monsters that can't ever even be trusted and deserve to be killed like dogs. Men are not disposable.
/r/MensRights31/03/26 07:38 PM
9

Interesting, but I don't actually remember that. I was a kid when he came out too. I think I was like fifteen though.
/r/MensRights31/03/26 07:12 PM
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Pretty sure that's just flat out illegal. This is just as bad as men refusing to hire women because women should stay home to take care of their husband. People should be hired based on their merit.
/r/MensRights31/03/26 01:30 AM
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I don't know about laws in Quebec, but I think in the United States if you're found not guilty, you can sue for court costs. You could also maybe counter-sue her for emotional damage and reputational damage Women shouldn't be able to use the law like this just to punish people they don't like.
/r/MensRights30/03/26 11:01 PM
5

I've seen plenty of right-wing males furious about male disposability. It's one of their main talking points.
/r/MensRights30/03/26 09:44 PM
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You should also consider counter-suing her for damages. I had the same thing happen to me with my ex-wife, where she wanted money, basically, so she accused me of sexual assault. My lawyer just flat out told me to settle with her for 75k. That if it got in front of a jury, they'd believe her and not me. The fact that this even goes to trial, where it's just he said she said, is obscene. This is something we need to fight for. Shouldn't be able to destroy someone's life just based on accusations …
/r/MensRights30/03/26 09:01 PM
1

So we shouldn't let women before the age of 25 drive cars, make the decisions about their own body? Is that what you're arguing? They shouldn't be able to get married either, right? Because their brain isn't fully developed? This line of argumentation is pathetic.
/r/MensRights30/03/26 02:17 AM
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Well, even if they weren't, it's no one's business but mine and my girlfriend's. You don't have the right to judge the relationship of other people. Whether they're gay, have an age gap, are transgender, etc., they can also be interracial, for God's sake, or marrying across religions. If two people are happy, just shut the fuck up and don't say anything. It's literally none of your business. Eighteen was a compromise because it used to be sixteen. Eighteen was an age that was picked because wome…
/r/MensRights30/03/26 12:38 AM
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The reason they're shamed is because women in their 30s want to gaslight society to increase their sexual market value. The more high-value men that are prevented from dating 18 to 25-year-olds because they're shamed, the better, because then women in their 30s will be able to date. I totally agree with you. In fact, I think a lot of the feminist arguments stem from just increasing the sexual market value of women.
/r/MensRights30/03/26 12:22 AM
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Twice.
/r/MensRights29/03/26 01:39 AM
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I want to avoid false sexual harassment claims and other female, bullshit.
/r/MensRights29/03/26 01:19 AM
2

It's not a "partner" when you're a 304. It's not a partner when you're a side piece. This is why so many women complain about f*** boys. This is entirely a problem that they created, yet somehow it's still our fault.
/r/MensRights27/03/26 09:57 PM
6

> The women I'm speaking of single, but that's because she chooses to be, and repeatedly doesn't commit to any guy. I mean, being a hoe doesn't mean she's not single. I don't think that this is a win. It also flips back to this idea that if a man doesn't have sex, he's a failure.
/r/MensRights27/03/26 08:44 PM
56

This was on the Youtube video: Hey everyone, my name is Matthew. I’m a close friend of Jack’s, and I’m posting this with full permission. As you saw in the video, Jack has been stripped of his platforms, his career, and now 3 years of his life due to these accusations. He has already spent hundreds of thousands on legal fees, and the system is trying to ensure he has nothing to return to. We are not letting that happen. We started this GiveSendGo to build a "Life Restoration Fund" for Jack. 100%…
/r/MensRights26/03/26 11:57 PM
17

Male loneliness epidemic is the wrong term. I don't want to be with women that give me more drama than what they're worth. That's really all it boils down to. If she doesn't bring as much value to the relationship as I do, I'm not interested. Like, it's literally not worth it. Like, I'd love to own a Ferrari, but not if it costs $10 million. That's what modern women are like. They're way, way, way overpriced.
/r/MensRights26/03/26 11:01 PM
5

Yeah, I have similar experience. I mean, my dad wasn't perfect, but it sure as hell didn't help that my mom was actively abusing him. I think he was just trying to make the best of both worlds, where he was trying to distance her as much as possible but still have a relationship with the kids.
/r/MensRights25/03/26 10:10 PM
13

Try to have a conversation with feminists about domestic abuse propagated by women, and they will write it ALL off as reciprocal and claim the men are always initiating (not true). When women do this in arguments now, I say it's just patently misogynistic. Saying that all women are perfect little angels is a distortion of reality. Women are capable of as much evil as men. All the Nazis had wives that knew exactly what the fuck was up.
/r/MensRights25/03/26 10:03 PM
17

Yeah, I think women deliberately try to provoke the man to leave so that she doesn't have to deal with the break up. My ex basically treated me horribly as soon as we broke up. Like, one day she loved me, and then the next day she hated me, and I couldn't ever get her to go back. She just decided that she completely and totally despised me at one point.
/r/MensRights25/03/26 10:01 PM
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This is literally what my lawyer told me when my ex threatened to destroy my life by reporting a false rape acquisition. The lawyer basically said that I needed to settle because a jury would believe her, not me. He's my buddy, and he knew I would never do anything. I think he believed me, but he was just like, just settle, because if you lose, it's going to be $250,000 to $500k in damages. I had to give her $75,000 to get it to go away. It was completely made up. I would never treat a woman lik…
/r/MensRights23/03/26 04:25 AM
7

THEIR failures too... not just capitalism. They've been sold this line that they're just as capable as men. And even if that was true, reality is difficult. It's just as men, we don't blame women for our flaws. We generally tend to own up to them and realize that the reason our business was a failure was because of us. Not because of some insane feminism conspiracy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/03/26 09:20 PM
2

And who rescues all the above people when there's a problem? It's 99.9% men. First responders across police, firefighters, EMTs, national guard, etc are all 99.9% men. Maybe women should start stepping up? You literally made my point for me, by the way. Thank you very much.
/r/MensRights22/03/26 07:00 PM
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If men were smart and were not, we'd petition the Grammys to revoke the award they gave her in 2025. That is something that feminists would do. Here's a woman openly saying that she writes music that is bigoted against men.
/r/MensRights21/03/26 06:53 PM
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Yes, but women are perfect little princesses that never commit any crimes or lie or do anything bad. /s That's sarcasm if you can't tell.
/r/MensRights20/03/26 07:19 PM
5

Also, same treatment either way. One of the things I think feminism gets wrong is this idea that women can't be hit because they're perfect little princesses that never do anything wrong. That's an insanely misogynistic ideal. It also leads to men's abuse because a woman knows that a man can't retaliate, so she can beat the shit out of him. The second she gets a scratch, she can call the police. There are a lot of men actively being abused now because of this.
/r/MensRights20/03/26 07:10 PM
10

VC firms often carve out portions of their funds specifically for female owned businesses at the detriment of men. They're literally picking women over men even though the women;s company isn't doing as well
/r/MensRights19/03/26 10:14 PM
26

> Men who don’t register with the Selective Service become felons. Women don’t have to register at all. Not anymore. Men 18-25 are automatically registered thanks to recent legislation. However, if you want to vote, you better have a drivers license or a passport
/r/MensRights19/03/26 08:52 PM
63

The biggest problem with this documentary is that they focused only on the men that are rage baiting. All of the men they interviewed were just losers. It's really a shame that we have to deal with people like this. They ruin the movement and just enable feminism.
/r/MensRights19/03/26 05:07 PM
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Sounds like you dated a woman that has borderline personality disorder. > After a tense 15 minute of her packing throwing insults and threats to have 5 dudes show up to “fuck my ass up.” You made the right decision. Kick her out and don't ever talk to her again. Only keep people in your life that treat you with respect.
/r/MensRights19/03/26 12:13 AM
27

I had this happen last week. I walk into a men's room and there are multiple stalls for men to urinate and two bathrooms. There was a woman in the handicap stall. Who, I might add, was not even handicapped. I mean, she definitely wasn't in a wheelchair. Honestly, I didn't say anything, but mostly because I was just so shocked.
/r/MensRights18/03/26 06:58 PM
14

Make it a crime. It's already a crime if a man doesn't pay child support. So make it a crime if that woman can't financially support her child. She has to make up for the man's portion. If she can't meet the man's responsibilities financially, then she should face the same punishment a man faces.
/r/MensRights17/03/26 10:21 PM
33

Beyonce's song "We run the world (girls)" was written by five men. Let that sync in...
/r/MensRights17/03/26 09:15 PM
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Also, since we're so useless, I think women should take over for us in terms of military service, police, fire fighters, etc. We've died protecting you for the last millennium or so, since society was invented, but you know what? We're done now. It's your turn. I mean, look at South Korea. The women there constantly whine and complain that life is so hard for them. They created the 4B movement so that women don't get married and don't have relationships with men. Meanwhile, men are forcibly cons…
/r/MensRights17/03/26 09:00 PM
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Friendly reminder that Tim Pool (the guy in the video), too, and probably takes, money from Russia. https://www.reddit.com/r/OutOfTheLoop/comments/1f9pyzs/what_is_going_on_with_tim_poole_being_outed_as_a/ The Trump DoJ won't prosecute.
/r/MensRights17/03/26 03:16 AM
2

Serious answer. We should look at how the pro-marijuana legalization movement has executed in the last twenty or thirty years - in the US I mean. They didn't make it a left or a right issue. They also pursued it state by state. By making it a wedge issue, it will never get solved. If it's like abortion or gun rights or healthcare, we're never going to get this fixed. Make a clear argument on one issue and push it forward at the state level.
/r/MensRights15/03/26 08:17 PM
1

I think the no-divorce and obey aspects of marriage came from the fact that men are supposed to die to protect their wives. But we legalized divorce, and now women no longer need to obey their husbands. Which might be fair, but then why should husbands die to protect their wives?
/r/MensRights12/03/26 05:15 PM
35

This is like saying opposing the Church of Scientology is rejecting science. I'm anti-feminist because I support women's rights.
/r/MensRights12/03/26 12:38 AM
11

Force them on the wife. Create some crazy law, like a fertilized embryo has the right to a uterus. :-P
/r/MensRights11/03/26 08:43 PM
6

Pro tip... never pay attention to what a woman says. Only to how they react. Women don't want any of that bullsh*t; they want a man. If anything, they want a man that's borderline toxic. Focus on you. Focus on absolutely crushing it. Don't ever put a woman first in your life.
/r/MensRights11/03/26 06:39 PM
5

Yeah, of course it should.
/r/MensRights11/03/26 06:37 PM
12

My buddy is from Poland and he left for the same reason, but says that it's also infiltrating Europe harder as well. He says that feminism is really becoming a massive problem in Poland.
/r/MensRights11/03/26 04:21 PM
14

They've argued that the child has the right to child support, not the mother. But of course they won't audit the actual money that is spent. The child has the right to the child support, but the check goes to the mother, and then the mother can spend it on whatever the fuck she wants.
/r/MensRights11/03/26 04:10 PM
35

He needs to do this with the other two embryos and then force the woman to pay child support. Obviously I'm joking. This is a horrible story.
/r/MensRights11/03/26 04:10 PM
12

It's just really unfortunate that society is constantly shitting on men. Like every time there's a crime against women, a whole bunch of people dump on men, saying that we're all horrible rapists, murderers. Yet it ignores the fact that when that woman needed help, dozens of men came to her rescue (cops). Police, firefighters, etc. Those are all men. Yet we never get any credit here. I mean, fair is fair. If you're going to shit on us for the minority of us that commit crimes, you can't ignore t…
/r/MensRights10/03/26 02:35 AM
28

Listen, I'm more than willing to appreciate that a lot of these Manosphere idiots are very toxic, horrible people. But you're only focusing on the worst of the worst. So do this for feminist content too. Do this for femcell content. I love Louis Theroux and I wish he would do a video like this. Create a video talking about how women think men should receive mandatory castration.
/r/MensRights09/03/26 11:43 PM
2

I mean, I don't think you're wrong. I was just speaking about it from an evolutionary perspective. Evolution is one of the things that feminists don't really seem to understand, and their worldview is tainted because of it.
/r/MensRights08/03/26 04:56 PM
4

I mean, I know this is about genocide and reducing the male population, but if this actually happened and men were only 10% of the population; the amount of sexual selection would be through the roof. A man would be able to basically pick as many women as he wants. The population would explode and quickly revert to 50/50 again.
/r/MensRights08/03/26 05:08 AM
3

By the way, I can't see the full context of that third slide about France, but I'm pretty sure it has to do with female punishment of collaborators that we're having sex with Nazis However, this is a perfect fucking example of female privilege. Female that collaborated with Nazis (had sex with them) had their hair shaved. Men that collaborated with Nazis were fucking shot.
/r/MensRights08/03/26 03:49 AM
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I treated my ex with nothing but respect. Paid for an apartment for her for a year after we broke up. Paid for daughter's college, etc. In return, she accused me of sexual assault, and I had to get a lawyer involved. The best he could do was propose a settlement for $75,000. My mom taught me to always treat women with respect, and I treated her the way I would want a man to treat my mother. This is what it's like to be a man. If you're accused of sexual assault, you're guilty. That's it. Full st…
/r/MensRights07/03/26 04:55 PM
0

Are you actively dating? The amount of 304s out there is very, very, very high. Either that, or maybe I'm very bad at dating. :) I think also women look at me and they flip into gold digger mode. So that might be part of the problem. But honestly, if she turns down my date zero idea then I just move on. It's a great filter function.
/r/MensRights07/03/26 04:51 PM
61

If only you could have told me 15 years ago :)
/r/MensRights06/03/26 11:34 PM
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I got this probably 10x worse when I was with my ex because she had a daughter and I was her step-father. One time they wouldn't let me take her home from school, even though I was on the approved list. One of the teachers was responsible for dispatching the children, and she said it was "inappropriate" for me to pick up my step-daughter and take her home. Another time, our fucking dry cleaner asked if my step-daughter was my girlfriend. My step-daughter got confused and said yes. She thought sh…
/r/MensRights06/03/26 08:06 PM
31

Women have been going out of their way to say that the "bare minimum" now is this full-on fancy date where you're taken to a fancy restaurant and the man has to spend hundreds of dollars. I guess this is a counter to that.
/r/MensRights05/03/26 10:34 PM
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Maybe it's my age or the type of women I attract, but they definitely have an expectation of being taken to some place fancy on the first date. When I was in Mexico City, I had a woman who wanted me to take her to the most expensive restaurant in all of Mexico for the first date. It would have been like $300 to $400... in Mexico. This girl is gorgeous, though. I mean, she was a model, but I told her no way because I don't want the gold digger type.
/r/MensRights05/03/26 10:01 PM
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Also, it seems pretty clear that if a woman was hiding the child from you, that you shouldn't have to pay back child support. How the heck was he even supposed to pay child support in the first place if he didn't even know the baby existed? Plus, I think we need blanket laws that, if someone is below the age of 18, they do not pay child support if the woman getting pregnant is older than 18. A lot of these women and feminist laws are just built out of pretty privilege and sympathy towards women,…
/r/MensRights05/03/26 08:43 PM
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Boy, these are just trolls trying to get rage bait.
/r/MensRights05/03/26 02:23 AM
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Abstract: "This article explores scientific evidence that societies care more about the welfare and safety of females than that of males I live in San Francisco, and we have an area called the Tenderloin, which is basically the center of all homeless activity in the city. Ninety percent of the people there are men. I don't know why we need an academic paper to figure this out. It's pretty fucking clear that if you're homeless, you have a very good chance of being a man.
/r/MensRights04/03/26 09:52 PM
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The thing is, it's just up to the jury about whether or not they feel the "victim" is telling the truth. So a woman that's just a very good liar and can cry easily can throw you in prison any time she wants.
/r/MensRights03/03/26 09:25 PM
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This is literally what my lawyer was saying, in essence, when I had to settle with my ex-girlfriend after she falsely accused me of assault My lawyer basically said that all I can do is give her $75,000 and propose a settlement. I told him I was innocent. I didn't do anything, but he said it doesn't matter because as soon as she cries in front of a jury, they're going to agree with her. I really want to underscore that I treat women with respect, and I would never do this to a woman or a man. On…
/r/MensRights03/03/26 09:24 PM
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Also, if the battle was a desperate for the losers, they might have gotten women involved because they had no other choice. The women might have volunteered to slow down the enemy so that children could escape. Heroic, to say the least, though.
/r/MensRights03/03/26 06:32 PM
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By the way, not just forced conscription for women too, but also forced distribution across roles It can't be just men on the front lines and dying. It has to be women too.
/r/MensRights03/03/26 06:30 PM
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lol... yup... It also means that women are bad at math. :) This is my initial thinking exactly. That of the ones that remained, 50% were women. Also, we don't know what the status of this battle was. It could be that these women were not trained soldiers and that this was a retreat, and women and children were involved.
/r/MensRights03/03/26 06:29 PM
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By the way, not just the draft. I don't want them subject to just the draft. We should argue that the rate of death needs to be the same for men and women. This needs to be across the military, police, and firefighters. Every year about 200 cops die in the United States, but 99% of these are men. We need to start arguing that it needs to be 50-50, and it should be a major talking point for us. Yes, there are women in the police, but they don't serve in any sort of front line capacity. They're no…
/r/MensRights02/03/26 06:08 PM
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This actually reminds me of a story that happened like maybe 15 years ago. I was out at a coffee shop and a woman was holding a baby next to me. Well, I actually just thought it was very adorable and cute seeing this woman holding her baby. It was like a beautiful Normal Rockwell portrait, basically. So I was actually staring at her, thinking to myself, "Man, I really need to find a nice wife and have children." Anyway, I didn't realize that she was actually breastfeeding. The guy next to me bas…
/r/MensRights02/03/26 04:45 AM
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Also, it's not creepy if you're handsome. It's only creepy if you're ugly.
/r/MensRights02/03/26 04:37 AM
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So, how can it possibly be the overwhelming majority of women supposedly experience "creepy" behaviours constantly, when the majority of men are actively avoiding them and are not even approaching them in the first place(according to that survey at least)? Serious answer just from a data science perspective but this can totally happen if a small minority of the men consistently approach and consistently demonstrate "creepy behavior".
/r/MensRights02/03/26 04:36 AM
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How are you being "punished" in this situation? It's actually laughable that you keep using that word. There is one less train car that you can use, at most that's an inconvenience, not a punishment. A punishment would be banning you from their metro system completely and forcing you to walk. This is not a punishment and it's absurd that you want to keep calling it that. I asked you to read about the history of Jim Crow. Did you do that, yet? You're making the exact same argument that white raci…
/r/MensRights02/03/26 12:22 AM
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Okay so you're resorting to mentioning Jim Crow and the American legal concept of protected classes, which are all American things but did you realize that the photo in this post is not in America? We should actually research the history of every country so that way we can avoid bigotry in the future. For example, it turns out that learning about how the Nazis treated people during World War II can be used to help us prevent mistakes in other countries. In fact, I'd go so far as to say that it's…
/r/MensRights01/03/26 09:39 PM
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No one in this thread has managed to explain how having a car dedicated to women is a "punishment" to men lol. Are you aware of the Jim Crow laws segregated whites and blacks in the United States during the 1950s? Not calling you out here or trying to be rude. Maybe you didn't grow up in the United States and you're not aware of the history here. This was the same argument that they made. That, as long as the separation was "separate but equal," it did not equivocate to discrimination. I'd recom…
/r/MensRights01/03/26 08:30 PM
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Right, but we wouldn't do this to other ethnic or religious groups. I'll rewrite your sentence so you can see how bigoted this is: You know this is because these countries have a problem with white people being assaulted on public transportation, right? There are shitty black people out there that take advantage of the crowding on trains to assault white people. This sub whines about the dumbest things That's why this is bigoted. You don't punish the majority because the minority misbehaves. And…
/r/MensRights01/03/26 06:58 PM
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That's hilarious! That sounds very, very Japanese. They are very, very insistent on people following the rules. I mean, I'm borderline autistic and I kind of like it though. :)
/r/MensRights01/03/26 06:57 PM
10

What about trans men? Also, I identify as female.
/r/MensRights01/03/26 06:56 PM
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And millions of Ukrainian women are living in places like Poland, Germany, the United States, Dubai, etc. Ukrainian women have left the country. They're not there for the most part. They've left.
/r/MensRights01/03/26 06:54 PM
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Completely agree. In fact, I actually think it should be one of the things that men campaign on and actively fight for. Look at South Korea, where they have forced conscription of men who will have to DIE to protect their country but women get a pass. Their military is filled with men that are forced by gunpoint to serve in the military. I think as a society we should start insisting that women, if they want the same rights as men, should have to serve in front-line roles in the military. We als…
/r/MensRights01/03/26 06:53 PM
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The other man is treated as the "primary perpetrator" whilst the woman is just a "secondary culprit" who "didn't really mean it but was coerced into doing it". They're doing this in the Epstein files too. There's Epstein but also the following women too who actively enabled him, schedule 'dates', recruited girls, etc. These are the names of the women responsible for enabling Epstein and provide all the 'support' for trafficking and abusing women: Ghislaine Maxwell — convicted of sex trafficking …
/r/MensRights01/03/26 06:10 PM
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wokeness You misspelled bigotry.
/r/MensRights01/03/26 01:54 AM
4

I mean, just because something is hard doesn't mean you shouldn't do it.
/r/MensRights01/03/26 12:55 AM
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The vast majority of American women just aren't worth dating. Dating for men is like deliberately going out and searching for a liability. I have a quick test that I do with women to see if they're worth dating, and I just ask them, if they will cook for me. If she won't cook, I'm out. Because you absolutely know all the other traditional male roles I'm expected to do. I'm expected to provide for her, be willing to die for her, drive for her, provide pest control for her, be her personal securit…
/r/MensRights28/02/26 06:24 PM
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Honestly, one of my biggest problems with the men's rights movement is that we are not activists. Feminists are so much better at this than we are. Swear to God I wish I was wrong.
/r/MensRights28/02/26 06:20 PM
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What's messed up about this is that I'm absolutely certain that if a trans woman applied but looked like a straight white man that they would NOT get the job. And you know, the thing that really pisses me off about this is that I actually don't even give a shit if someone is trans, gay, etc. Nor would I discriminate against them. If I was hiring someone for that role and they did a great job, I would welcome them to the team. But this exclusionary hiring is just bigotry.
/r/MensRights28/02/26 06:19 PM
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Can I propose that we stop calling women feminists when they've demonstrated their misandrists ? Wanting rights for women is one thing but being a bigot against men is quite another.
/r/MensRights25/02/26 04:43 AM
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It's easy to say stupid shit like this because there's never any downside, and if she ever has a problem with her life, she can always call the police or the fire department (men) to bail her out.
/r/MensRights25/02/26 02:23 AM
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I'm wondering if a lot of the bias is because of pregnancy. Like when a female teacher sexually assaults a male child you don't have to worry about him getting pregnant. However, the reverse is not true. And a girl getting pregnant at that age can cause actual damage to her during child birth.
/r/MensRights24/02/26 07:39 PM
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What I also think is not talked about are the men and women that just go along with it. They take the money. They take the promotions, and they use it to sleep their way to the top. This is worse in a lot of ways because this ends up reinforcing this culture of abuse.
/r/MensRights24/02/26 02:15 AM
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I do think a lot of men are mad and angry, but I think that's kind of a natural response when someone is constantly shitting on you. I mean, the amount of women that are just unashamedly bigoted against men is really shocking. I was on TikTok yesterday, and a woman said, "I'm not a feminist. I just hate men. I hate all men." And her comment had 23,000 upvotes. Imagine if you could just walk around and say that you hate all black people or you hate all Jews. That's where we are now.
/r/MensRights22/02/26 07:49 PM
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Women say shit like this too. TikTok has been sending me videos that I interact with about women saying bigoted shit against men. One of the common comments is that boys should be grateful, and it's often said by women.
/r/MensRights22/02/26 07:03 PM
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No, I want her to dedicate her life to me. A woman should give herself to her husband, and her life should be focused on taking care of him.
/r/MensRights22/02/26 03:07 AM
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Oh no, no, you don't understand. They want empathy only to be applied to them. They don't want to have empathy for other people. That's not how that works. (sarcasm)
/r/MensRights21/02/26 06:52 PM
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I think one of the biggest problems with the "manosphere" is that, since feminism has demonized any discussion of men's issues, the only people left over to have any sort of discussion on this are bad actors. There are a lot of bad actors in the manosphere. The problem, though, is that these men are talking about issues which are completely reasonable and mainstream media isn't discussing it. If these ideas would become normalized, then it wouldn't only be the extreme lunatics talking to young m…
/r/MensRights21/02/26 06:50 PM
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And it's always about 30% of the people saying that the boys were lucky because the girl was attractive and how people wish they had a teacher like this when they were kids It's really sick.
/r/MensRights21/02/26 06:33 PM
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This is not something you want to be protesting though. It might be more complicated than that. You don't want to throw boys under the bus just because they don't support transgender girls and other secondary issues.
/r/MensRights20/02/26 09:35 PM
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When will women teach girls that rape is not okay?
/r/MensRights20/02/26 08:02 PM
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If it's a transaction, then maybe the man should just withhold his paycheck.
/r/MensRights20/02/26 06:12 PM
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She's gaslighting you. If I'm being honest, I would just end the relationship if I were you, but obviously I don't know the whole situation. A girl not willing to sign a prenup with me is an immediate red flag that I'll end the relationship over.
/r/MensRights19/02/26 06:56 PM
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I know, I saw that. That was great. By the way, they identified as women. They weren't men. Get your pronouns right. :)
/r/MensRights19/02/26 04:40 PM
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Well, there used to be a few groups and meet-ups that were called "Women in Tech," and I remember those being really big. Now those groups don't meet as much, and they're basically non-existent.
/r/MensRights19/02/26 05:34 AM
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The amount of bullshit, preferential, pretty privileged treatment that women get in tech is obscene. It was worse a decade ago, but it's still pretty bad. Like, VC firms will allocate a specific 20% of their fund to female-founded startups. Imagine if any other demographic did this. Imagine if a startup allocated 20% to ONLY white male-founded startups.
/r/MensRights19/02/26 05:13 AM
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Scott's co-host is Kara Swisher. I generally like Kara, but she's kind of a feminist/lesbian. Scott's never going to see the light because coming around to our way of thinking means he's going to lose millions a year from that podcast deal.
/r/MensRights18/02/26 10:56 PM
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PaTrIaRcHy
/r/MensRights17/02/26 08:40 PM
45

It's pretty pathetic how far the UK has fallen. I'm not sure which is worse, Brexit or feminism.
/r/MensRights16/02/26 11:33 PM
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Women are pissed because when they break up or divorce the father, they want to estrange him from their kids so they don't ever see them again. I've seen this with women that I've broken up with, where once the relationship ends, they're like fucking furious at you. It's like their love flips the entire way and becomes hate. When they are in love with you, they are obsessed with you and they want to be in your bed constantly and they want to be by your side. But then, once that ends, you are the…
/r/MensRights15/02/26 09:37 PM
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My go-to on this one has been when women state that the vast majority of assaults, physical violence against women, is perpetrated by men. They always, always, always leave out the fact that nearly 100% of the people that come and rescue them in these situations are fucking men. Cops, firefighters, the National Guard, first responders, they're all men! It's always men. Every year in the US about 150 cops die in the line of service, and they are nearly all men.
/r/MensRights15/02/26 04:05 PM
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This has been my experience as well. I've dated two women that turned out to be really abusive, and that was their pattern. They would start throwing shit and breaking things in my house, and then I started to really understand why women were hit. Because when your girlfriend picks up glasses and plates and starts throwing them against the wall, the first thing you want to do is basically grab her and get her to stop. I've seen some old movies where women would act up and the husband would retal…
/r/MensRights14/02/26 02:48 PM
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It really is easy to be cynical. Like, you just have to look at the number of people that are suckered by politicians. It's pathetic.
/r/MensRights14/02/26 05:29 AM
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Honestly, if the United States ever does something truly evil and starts, like, bulk executing people, I'm absolutely certain Target and Walmart would find some way to profit off of it. Like that was one of my biggest criticisms about the LGBTQ movement. It was primarily that companies like Target would just use it for marketing and then literally not do anything to help these communities. They did this with Black Lives Matter or Black History Month. They'll happily sell t-shirts and then litera…
/r/MensRights13/02/26 11:20 PM
8

What? Why? I don't want to fight anybody.
/r/MensRights13/02/26 09:10 PM
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Just north of the Golden Gate Bridge is a small little town off to the side of the road. The local high school has banners all over the city that says "Girls Rule." I think they're trying to get people to go to the girls' volleyball events that the high school is hosting. But imagine if there were signs that said "Men Rule." Feminists would be losing their fucking minds. It's just the sheer volume of this stuff and how comfortable misandrists feel about just shitting on men. Like, you would neve…
/r/MensRights13/02/26 09:08 PM
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So she gets pregnant by him, and then she murders his child without any discussion with him at all or his consent. I'm generally pro-choice, but I do have to admit that the one argument that really gets me is this idea that the man has no say in the matter. If I'm forced to fucking pay child support, then I better goddamn well get a say in the matter.
/r/MensRights13/02/26 05:28 PM
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Girlfriends do this to one another, too. If you're trying to date a girl, and she has a bunch of female friends that hate you, you might wanna either give it up or tell her she needs to ditch her friends. I mean, if they are legitimately shitting on you and trashing you, then I think it's fair.
/r/MensRights12/02/26 03:35 PM
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Because they want all the benefits of being a woman with none of the responsibilities of being a man. It all boils down to that. This is literally what feminism is about, 100%.
/r/MensRights12/02/26 03:30 PM
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Also, all the problems in the world are because of men, and they're only fixed when feminists are given control of the government in all of our lives. When you call feminists out on real problems, they always say, "Oh, it's the fault of patriarchy, and if you guys would just give us control of everything, we would have solved the problem by now. "
/r/MensRights12/02/26 03:28 PM
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It's not a complete protection, but sex between a man and his wife usually isn't automatically considered rape. Getting married is an entire process, not just a ceremony, and you can vet a person and their family as part of that process. Again, nothing is guaranteed, but you can decrease the likelihood of problems by exercising judgement. I am a married man, I have the approval of my wife's parents and siblings and she was well liked by my family as well. I cannot guarantee that my wife will nev…
/r/MensRights10/02/26 04:34 PM
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It's weird and gross people shouldn't do this shit. Don't get me wrong, I don't approve of this. Like, if you want to be having sex then you need to get married to the person you want to have sex with and have a permanent, monogamous relationship. Doing it that way protects everyone involved. lol.. are you new here? :) Since when does marriage protect men from either the horrible outcomes or divorce or even false accusations of rape WITHIN marriage? By the way, I'm not trying to be rude. I'm kin…
/r/MensRights10/02/26 04:10 PM
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I had this happen to me in college. This girl was really weird and had a crush on me, and she comes to my dorm one day and she sleeps in my bed. She insists on sleeping in my bed. I wasn't into her at all, and I didn't want to sleep with her, but she kept insisting. She literally took off almost all of her clothes and was coaxing me into the bed. Anyway, I slept on the floor. So her boyfriend finds out that she spent the night in my dorm room and flips out. She told him that I forced her to stay…
/r/MensRights10/02/26 04:04 AM
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I think a more practical way to do this is to end chivalry. Like no longer holding doors for women, no longer helping them out with bags, no longer helping them out with moves, etc. If you have an acquaintance or a female friend, and she's asking for traditional male help, tell her no. I mean, if it's your sister or your mom or something, sure. Go for it. But if it's some random chick, definitely not. This is what I've been doing.
/r/MensRights09/02/26 08:48 PM
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I hate to say it, but I think one of the big oppositions to abortion is that some men are basically doing it as a protest vote against feminism. They're tired of women not supporting our issues, so as a form of protest, they've decided that they don't want to support women's issues. I also think that one of the reasons that feminists want abortion legal is because many of them are Jezebels and were in their ho phase, and without ready access to abortion, they can't remain in their ho phase. I do…
/r/MensRights09/02/26 06:57 PM
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Because all of women's and feminism is based around increasing a woman's sexual market value. This is one of the reasons that women rage about age gap relationships. When older men start dating younger women, it seriously devalues them, and they can't stand it. Most liberals don't tolerate bigotry except when it's directed towards men. In fact, they even virtue signal about it constantly. Except when it's ageism, it's totally fine. They're even going so far as to say that even after 18, an older…
/r/MensRights08/02/26 07:24 PM
2

TrUsT WoMeN!
/r/MensRights08/02/26 02:36 AM
6

This is why when I talk to girls, when I'm considering dating, I'm interested in their friends too. Like if they have a whole group of mean girl friends, I don't want to date her.
/r/MensRights07/02/26 12:06 AM
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They were called Hitler Youth for those who don't follow World War II history. They were some of the most fervent Nazis because they were indoctrinated as children. They never had any values around democracy.
/r/MensRights06/02/26 08:52 PM
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Yeah, I completely agree. It's weird that the United States government takes our taxes and then uses it to support things which are optional. Take back the money and lower our taxes. I'm also sick of California having to support the rest of the country. Our federal taxes shouldn't be used to support other states, especially while the federal government attacks us.
/r/MensRights06/02/26 08:50 PM
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I agree with 90% of what you said, but you have to ask for sole custody. You have to be on the offensive.
/r/MensRights06/02/26 08:46 PM
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I agree man, do what you have to do to protect your children. Remember that they're going to grow up with her. Get sole custody.
/r/MensRights06/02/26 08:45 PM
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My dad isn't a perfect guy. In fact, there's a lot of things I don't like about him. However, my mom definitely abused the legal system against him, gaslit him and the court system, lied about him to me, and did everything in her power to alienate him from us children. When she passed, the abuse was pretty out in the open because she couldn't hide it anymore. We had all the paperwork, all the things that she stole from him, etc. Parental alienation by itself should be a crime. If there's a patte…
/r/MensRights06/02/26 08:43 PM
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Think of it this way: If you wanted to CREATE a system that incentivized women to lie. You would literally end up with a list very similar to the above. Part of this is that women NEED to be the victim or feminism falls apart. If all the problems in their lives aren't caused by men it means it's THEIR fault
/r/MensRights06/02/26 08:29 PM
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They also enjoy being as mean as possible because it makes them higher value with their other friends. If a woman is mean and can reject other men, it signals that she's high value. So women are incentivized to be as mean as possible. When I tried to approach women in my 20s, I was amazed at how fucking cruel they can be. That was like 20 years ago, though.
/r/MensRights06/02/26 05:21 AM
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There are also a lot of misandrists now, and they're doing it for profit.
/r/MensRights06/02/26 12:37 AM
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This shouldn't need jury nullification. In the 50s through 70s, women made the argument that the age of consent should be raised to 18 because a woman isn't an adult until she's 18. But now she's not an adult at 18 either. There are women on TikTok that will literally rant that an 18-year-old is a "literal fetus" if the woman is dating an older man. It's just older women gatekeeping and gaslighting people into thinking that an 18-year-old woman is not intelligent enough to make her own decisions…
/r/MensRights05/02/26 07:20 PM
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You're completely right, but I think that the "red flag" is bullshit. I think women respond instinctively to red-flag men. This red flag nonsense is what women do to signal to other women that they're high value.
/r/MensRights04/02/26 10:58 PM
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My ex said that she found it disturbing that when something bad happens, I don't cry. Because of the fact that I don't show emotions when something bad happens, it kind of makes her scared of me, and she says she thinks I'm kind of a psychopath. Anyway, flash forward a couple years and our dog actually ate some of my Adderall. My bag was on the floor, and he just kind of broke into it. The next thing you know, he'd started chewing some pills. I thought he was gonna die, and we rushed him to the …
/r/MensRights04/02/26 05:39 PM
1

after they had their fun I think we really need to stop euphemisms for this and be direct about what it means. They've hit the wall. They're starting to realize that their looks are degrading, and now they want to trade them in before they completely depreciate. However, at this point, they're ran through. And because they've had dozens to hundreds of partners, they're not exactly loyal. I think I'll pass. Also only male gender roles are supported kind of like "women's money is their money men's…
/r/MensRights04/02/26 05:35 PM
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Most young women in Turkey DO what to be wives because traditional gender roles are still very much enforced and supported in Turkey BRB... moving to Turkey.
/r/MensRights04/02/26 05:16 PM
7

Definitely not equal to men in terms of rights and responsibilities. Women have almost no societal responsibilities compared to men.
/r/MensRights04/02/26 01:29 AM
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Yeah, but everybody knows women never commit crimes. /s
/r/MensRights02/02/26 09:10 PM
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Otherwise known as the "Jenny" defense.
/r/MensRights01/02/26 06:21 PM
15

Believe men!
/r/MensRights01/02/26 06:21 PM
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Honestly, these stats are so hidden. They don't publish them. I mean, maybe you can get lucky and find them, but every time I've tried to track them down, they've been really obscured. Gun deaths, police shootings, anything even remotely politically incorrect is "censored." God, I would love to be proven wrong, but it's just so hard to get good data here. I'd even be excited if it proved it the other way. Like if we could get good data, really good data, and it showed that men were actually caus…
/r/MensRights01/02/26 08:45 AM
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No, I mean you'd see a spike in the anomalies. It doesn't matter this cause whether it's affirmative action or DEI. If people are less qualified and these are causing danger, then that would show up.
/r/MensRights01/02/26 02:18 AM
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I mean, the crazy part of this is that this was sort of the original purpose for the invention of husbands. A husband is supposed to die to protect his wife and his family because his wife is loyal to them, to him, and faithful and dedicated. And his children are biologically his. That's why men are leaving relationships. Because I'm not going to die for a woman that I don't know is 100% faithful and dedicated and kind. Or if I have any doubt that my children aren't biologically mine.
/r/MensRights31/01/26 06:57 PM
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How would I be ignoring that? That would show up in the data.
/r/MensRights31/01/26 06:03 PM
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I agree with your reasoning? But I think your math is wrong? I think you don't mean. participants_per_sex2 ?
/r/MensRights31/01/26 05:40 AM
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Citing anecdotes like this is embarrassing for our side. What you would have to do is find the total number of accidents over total participants per sex. Not just random examples of women killing people because accidents happen to both genders. Only then would you be able to find a correlation where a specific gender is more responsible for accidents. The inverse could actually be true that female pilots are better than men. Even with these anecdotes, they're just outlying data points. My bet is…
/r/MensRights31/01/26 05:13 AM
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It's not just feminism, it's across the board, even into really weird cult conspiracies. If you're older, you'll see it because things like the flat earthers never used to be a thing. They exist now because of the internet.
/r/MensRights29/01/26 10:33 PM
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It's because feminists tell women that they can do anything and that they would be massively successful if only they weren't constantly being sabotaged by men. So then they go out in the workforce, and they find out it turns out that it's a lot harder than they thought it was going to be. So it must be men destroying their lives. All the problems in their lives are caused by men. EDIT. Another point is that a lot of feminists literally are misandrists that hate men. So they create this narrative…
/r/MensRights29/01/26 09:31 PM
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This is a woman we're talking about. A woman would never lie about these types of things! /s
/r/MensRights29/01/26 03:54 AM
1

Not arguing that it has consequences, I'm saying that the consequence of men dying are far greater. If women have to come to the table and realize that they're going to have to start dying, they're going to have to come to terms with the fact that their rights are only given because they have responsibilities. You can't have rights without responsibilities. Yet women do.
/r/MensRights28/01/26 08:14 PM
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There's literally a 0% chance that the United States is going to have a draft any time soon. Even if we actively went to war, and we've been in multiple wars, we don't need to have a draft. There's 350 million American citizens, and there's plenty of opportunity to expand our military without a draft. Meanwhile, every men are dying being firefighters, police, and in the military. Listen, you do what you want. I literally don't care.
/r/MensRights28/01/26 07:42 PM
-1

You know what else is another problem? Malaria. But malaria has been eradicated in the United States, so it's not effectively an issue for me. We have to fight for things that actually impact our lives and the fact that men are CURRENTLY dying is a problem, NOT the draft. You spend all your time fighting a draft. I want to prevent men from dying. 200 cops die a year in the United States. 95% of them are men. That should be 50/50, men and women.
/r/MensRights28/01/26 07:33 PM
-2

I literally don't know what that means. Like, all of society can be against men, and men can be cowards. We're literally not fighting. Women do a much better job at this than we do.
/r/MensRights28/01/26 07:02 PM
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Except the United States doesn't have a draft, and we're not actively using it. It's only a life contract if it's actually used. I mean, I don't disagree, but we have clearly bigger problems if we actually had a draft. Like men served in the military because it was a trade-off. Chivalry benefited men and women. Now it only benefits women. We basically got screwed. We're fighting and dying for none of the benefits.
/r/MensRights28/01/26 07:01 PM
-2

I'm going to assume that's a sarcastic comment but there's literally no shame in going against the social norm. And listen, I'm not really even calling you out personally. If you feel their shame, I would just say get over it. Or work through it with a therapist. And again, I'm not trying to call you out. But there's literally no shame in going in a different direction as a society.
/r/MensRights28/01/26 05:47 PM
15

This is a good example of why there aren't reverse passport bros. Men in foreign countries don't lust over entitled American women.
/r/MensRights28/01/26 05:25 PM
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Making the draft unconstitutional wouldn't actually do anything because we don't actively have the draft. It's just mildly annoying. What would change things is forcing women to serve at the same rate as men in the military and across all fields of public service. And specifically, the indicating factor should be the rates of death. Men defend our country due to their roles in the military, police, and firefighting. Nearly >90% of the deaths here are men. For example, about 200 cops die every ye…
/r/MensRights28/01/26 04:48 PM
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A lot of it has to do with the lack of legal funding. Many things are anti men but there's no change since no one is funding legal action. Yep, 100%. Men are cowards, and we never do anything to stand up for our own rights. All we do is whine and complain. At least feminists are funding themselves and taking action, but no men will actually stand up and fight for themselves. It's a little bit like unions in a way. I mean, unions have problems, but there's a lot of really good unions that have ac…
/r/MensRights28/01/26 04:45 PM
13

"Thou shalt not kill, except anyone left handed"
/r/MensRights28/01/26 04:42 PM
1

Yeah, that's what I was referring to. I literally said Gemini had a similar problem. EDIT: it would have been a separate thread, though. We were talking about the alignment problem this can be introduced in post-training.
/r/MensRights27/01/26 03:35 AM
1

I've had issues with alignment before, but I've never seen any situation where the alignment would give you a bad answer, specifically that it reject giving you an answer at all. They're called refusals. It sounds like you know what you're talking about here. I'm just kind of filling in the background for other people. Was a massive conspiracy around Gemini in this area though where it did all sorts of crazy things around race. But there is a massive problem with the training data being contamin…
/r/MensRights27/01/26 03:27 AM
0

They do in later generation models, yes. It's called curriculum-based learning. They basically cull a lot of bad nonsense data, but at some point, it becomes a little bit difficult to determine where the cutoff is. Additionally, there are a lot of trade-offs. Yeah, you could remove a lot of feminist nonsense, but then you might actually remove valid data from the index too.
/r/MensRights26/01/26 07:55 PM
-3

Well, it's also a marginalized group as well... If you start indexing bigoted crap, you'll get bigoted output. Whether it's bigoted against white men or Asian women or black women or lesbians or whatever.
/r/MensRights26/01/26 07:20 PM
3

It's still a legitimate problem, but it's not like a grand conspiracy to deceive. If a whole bunch of idiots write your training data, then you're going to get idiotic output. And a lot of the nonsense that feminists spew is basically idiotic. So, of course, you're going to get stupid viewpoints like this.
/r/MensRights26/01/26 06:02 PM
9

Oh, maybe. What is often claimed is that the company has some sort of inherent bias, or that the AI is broken, or something.
/r/MensRights26/01/26 05:45 PM
9

I think of AI more as what the common sense on the topic is, not what's actually correct. Only if it's a topic that is clearly objective. Like if you were to talk about something very basic, like I don't know, high school chemistry. Then it would do a good job. If you try to talk to AI about something that's super controversial, then it's going to fail.
/r/MensRights26/01/26 05:41 PM
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I work in AI. It's the training data. It's not any massive bias necessarily against men vs. women that is inherent in the algorithm. It's just emitting a next token based on the highest priority. So if you train it on a whole bunch of wacky, crazy feminists saying shit like this, then this is what the output is going to get. The problem is that the training data is corrupt.
/r/MensRights26/01/26 05:23 PM
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That's because the link is The Daily Mail... Basically, if it's on The Daily Mail, it's probably false.
/r/MensRights24/01/26 06:40 AM
1

According to recent U.S. Census Bureau data, the average monthly child support payment ordered and paid in the U.S. is about $430–$441 per month (roughly $5,160–$5,292 per year) across all cases with cash support. https://www.modernfamilylaw.com/resources/what-is-the-average-child-support-payment/?utm_source=chatgpt.com
/r/MensRights24/01/26 05:32 AM
1

A while ago? It's still happening. There's actually a flower that grows on trees in Colombia, so it's really easy to make the drug and it's been happening for a long time. I do think the problem is a little bit amplified by media because it primarily happens to men that are going out, getting drunk, trying to find hookers, and generally living dangerously. I was in Medellin two years ago and didn't have any problems. Then again, I'm not going out to bars by myself getting fucking wasted. Not tha…
/r/MensRights23/01/26 04:22 PM
4

I don't have time to read that link. I'm just about to walk out the door. But 91% is good. I don't understand really what point you're trying to make. I think that a man's position is that he should try to get 100% custody of his own children if there's even any doubt that the mother will cause problems and not raise his children properly.
/r/MensRights23/01/26 12:20 AM
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Pretty sure that's not how it works. The courts decide on some sort of amount of cash that needs to be spent on the child. It's usually $500/month. If the mother doesn't spend that on the child, it's theft from the child. It's literally theft. So without receipts, there's no way to verify that these children are not being abused. Are you a feminist?
/r/MensRights23/01/26 12:19 AM
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Then there should be no problem providing receipts for those. Trust but verify. The problem is when the kid is not going to the dentist, is not going to the doctor, does not have medical insurance, is not being fed properly, but is still receiving child support because the woman is deranged on drugs, etc. And listen, I know there are plenty of women that are amazing mothers, but there are also a lot of women that are shitty moms.
/r/MensRights22/01/26 08:45 PM
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Yeah, I know the court says that the baby has the right to child support, but they never verify that the child actually gets the money. How does that make sense? I thought the child has the right to see the money? The problem is that courts are literally scared shitless of feminists because Democrats, and listen, I hate Republicans too, but Democrats have cucked up to women and just do whatever the hell they tell them to do.
/r/MensRights22/01/26 04:58 PM
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My ex-wife accused me of terrible things, and I had to settle and give her $75,000. She has borderline personality disorder, and when we broke up, she lost her mind, went completely psycho, and involved my company in it. My lawyer said settle or you could owe her potentially half a million dollars.
/r/MensRights21/01/26 04:29 AM
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The one thing that men should start to do is demand that if women want equal rights, they have to have equal responsibilities. Every year, 200 US cops die, primarily men (like 99% men), so that women can have their rights. Feminists almost immediately cite statistics saying that almost all violence against women is perpetrated by men. Yet they leave out the fact that when they call the police, the people that come to rescue them are 99% men. Women do not have roles in the military, fire departme…
/r/MensRights20/01/26 06:14 PM
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It's worse than that. There are female-only spaces where, if you try to gain access to them, you are considered deprived, disgusting, a pervert. Women want a society where they have special privileges and none of the responsibilities that men have. It needs to end.
/r/MensRights19/01/26 06:04 AM
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It's definitely a massive problem. But I'm generally speaking left of center (although I think that's an oversimplification) and I think that the anti-male behavior on the left is really repugnant. It needs to end if the left wants to expand their voter base.
/r/MensRights18/01/26 03:54 AM
6

Okay, fair. I meant more like act like a lady, get treated like a lady. I agree that entitlement is terrible.
/r/MensRights18/01/26 02:23 AM
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Act like a princess, you get the princess treatment. Act like a man. I'm going to treat you like a man. Now go get a job, lady boss.
/r/MensRights17/01/26 08:04 PM
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Fair, but I think it would be a reasonable argument to say, "Hey, you don't have to go to work. Fine, but we need to start saving our money because we only have one income now." Denying vacations and eating out. I don't see how that can be abuse. Those aren't requirements. I mean, I know that you're kind of just saying, "Hey, this is the law, and the law is bigoted towards men." Not denying that
/r/MensRights14/01/26 06:52 PM
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Oh, that's interesting. I've never heard that before. I mean, I think obviously it could be considered financial abuse if you just stop funding her all together. But what I really meant was just do the bare minimum. No vacations, no fancy dinners, no eating out, no shows, no plays, no movies, etc.
/r/MensRights14/01/26 06:19 PM
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Yeah, marriage can totally lead to abuse, which is unfortunate. I mean, I guess the husband has leverage too. He can stop funding her. He's basically like Congress. He has the power of the purse.
/r/MensRights14/01/26 05:54 PM
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My ex came at me with a knife and tried to murder me and I had to settle with HER for $75k. Also, in all the examples in your messages above where women are being injured or threatened, who comes and rescues them? It's nearly 100% men. I think we should pass legislation that men protect men and women protect women. Call the girl cops from now on. Every year, 200 men die acting as police officers to protect women. And we get no fucking respect for it.
/r/MensRights13/01/26 05:19 AM
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It's possible to turn it around - discrimination is just discrimination. Blacks were able to turn it around, and rightfully so. And they're even a sharper minority. If men had one day a year where we just all refuse to work, the country would shut down that day. But we just don't do it. We are the problem. Women actually fight for their rights. We do jack shit.
/r/MensRights13/01/26 02:41 AM
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What's messed up about it is that they will literally admit to it it is part of the DEI hierarchy. If you take into consideration gender, ethnicity, religion, and sexuality, then it starts to make a lot of sense. For example, people at the top of the DEI hierarchy would would be minorities in all four groups. Which liberals generally say should get "special treatment"? So, female, black, Jewish, and gay would be at the top of the hierarchy. And that these people need some sort of special treatme…
/r/MensRights13/01/26 02:11 AM
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Exactly. Now you're understanding it. This is a person that wants to both have it and eat it. That's why it's irrational. Having the cake means you can look at it because it's pretty or you can eat it in the future. They want both outcomes, and it's not possible.
/r/MensRights10/01/26 11:15 PM
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Because if you eat it, you no longer "have" it.
/r/MensRights10/01/26 10:25 PM
3

Rival isn't the right word. Rust isn't a rival to metal. Cancer isn't a rival to humanity. Gonorrhea isn't a rival to sex.
/r/MensRights10/01/26 03:36 PM
6

There was a thread I was going to post here on TikTok about the same thing, where hundreds of women were piling on talking about how men need to be castrated.
/r/MensRights10/01/26 03:34 PM
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I commented about this in another post, but one of the women employees that I hired said that I sexually harassed her, which wasn't true. AFTER I fired her. The lawyer basically said, "Listen, if she goes in front of a judge and she cries, you will lose." I ended up having to pay her $75,000.
/r/MensRights10/01/26 03:00 PM
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After COVID, I wanted to test the passport bros hypothesis, so I went to 6 countries. I lived in Mexico, Colombia, Costa Rica, Thailand, Cambodia, and Vietnam. Now I'm in my late 40s, so I've had plenty of experience with women. Here's my take. Feminism and the idea of equal rights is a complete failure for both women and men. But I don't think it's been explained properly, and I've only now just really started to understand it. And I actually understand why women would be angry by what I just s…
/r/MensRights10/01/26 03:19 AM
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If you look at all the feminist arguments the perspective of them trying to maximize their sexual market value and their sexual optionality, it all starts to make sense. Most of their decisions and morality comes from them trying to increase their sexual market value. That's why, through the 90s, women argued for chastity before marriage and engaged in slut-shaming. If women are promiscuous, that lowers the value of sex. And women traded social position, money, protection, etc. for sex. So if th…
/r/MensRights09/01/26 11:04 PM
1

Serious answer. Ask ChatGPT It's very good for things like this. It will come up with a short list of 5-10 for you.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/26 05:32 PM
1

Actually, I traveled for two years and I went to seven countries, but just didn't find the right girl.
/r/MensRights01/01/26 08:49 AM
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I assure you that is absolutely false. That's just really bigoted. Human sexuality has a wide variation. That's why there's people that are gay, lesbian, bisexual, some people like other races., etc.
/r/MensRights01/01/26 08:48 AM
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There are women that are physically attracted to older men. They don't like men their same age. They're physically attracted to older women. But also, older men are far more intelligent and less stable than younger men and far less likely to cheat. I'm definitely less likely to cheat now than when I was in my thirties and twenties. Because I just know the type of woman I like. And when I find her, I know it immediately. And I commit to her. Because I know how rare she is.
/r/MensRights01/01/26 08:47 AM
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I can't parse your sentence. Are you saying it's weird because she's dating someone older? I look 15 years younger because I take good care of myself. And there are plenty of women that love older men. I don't have a problem pulling younger women. I have a problem pulling sane women. :-P
/r/MensRights01/01/26 07:14 AM
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I think we might not be talking about the same thing. What I'm talking about is that a woman does not have the option easily to find a man that can financially support her. Because most men cannot. Now. But they could back in the 1950s. So for women to switch back is basically impossible. They have to work.
/r/MensRights31/12/25 12:01 AM
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I really think that this argument about how corporations were incentivized to support feminism because it basically means twice as much labor on the market that can be exploited. I mean, conspiracies are usually hard to argue because it requires some sort of massive competence orchestrating everything. But it's pretty goddamn clear that corporations are all optimizing to make money. So if all of a sudden there's twice as much labor on the market, that's good for them. I think that we should real…
/r/MensRights30/12/25 11:50 PM
3

She's anti-semitic-lighting. I need to come up with a better name for it, but it's a combination of anti-semitic and gaslighting (if that wasn't clear) It's exactly the same strategy that Israel is doing when they do messed up shit like do double-tap a hospital filled with children. And then when you say, "Hey, maybe you shouldn't bomb a hospital twice that's filled with children," then they attack you and say you're anti-semitic. Which obviously isn't true. You don't care that they're Jewish. Y…
/r/MensRights30/12/25 06:00 PM
2

I reconnected with my uncle's side of the family using 23andMe after probably 30-40 years. Maybe 50. Both of my mother's brothers served in Vietnam, and after the war, they never reconnected with the family. They just went off and did their own things, and nobody ever knew what they did. But 23andMe found us, and I reconnected with them. Also, when you tell your kids what the mom did, they're gonna fucking hate her. This is going to go back on her eventually.
/r/MensRights30/12/25 03:52 AM
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I'm not sure what rights you have as a father but I imagine you will be able to track down the kids. When they're 18, if you can prove parentage, I wonder if you could prove that they were kidnapped from you. Because this seems like kidnapping. At the very minimum, I would imagine you have a civil lawsuit. At least for damages. So I don't think you can prove parentage now because you can't get access to their DNA, but you will be able to when they're 18. And I imagine they would want to know the…
/r/MensRights30/12/25 12:56 AM
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To be fair, I think the 1950s, at least from my perspective, is advantageous because it's somewhat close enough that it still feels modern. We don't have to go back thousands of years. Basically, it was our grandparents. And as long as men are actually the only ones dying in war, I think the calculus is clearly that women benefited more from the situation.
/r/MensRights29/12/25 10:51 PM
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The "/s" at the end is a marker for sarcasm :)
/r/MensRights28/12/25 10:26 PM
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It's okay though because it's a fair trade-off because when you get back from your military service, you can always find a very feminine and submissive wife to marry and start a family and also a high paying job with health insurance and benefits. /s
/r/MensRights28/12/25 03:49 PM
1

Yeah, that sucks. I think part of the Me Too movement was kind of involved in that, where women were trying to hurt men on purpose.
/r/MensRights27/12/25 11:57 PM
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Women need to hold each other accountable for this stupid trend. No, they're doing the opposite, just like your wife's sisters did. They all seem to pull each other towards the worst possible behavior. This has actually happened to my wife and with her sister, too. Her sister was a crazy feminist and was arguing that I was abusive to her because I didn't want her to work. We got a divorce, basically, and she then wanted to start a housekeeping company, which then failed. I didn't want her to wor…
/r/MensRights27/12/25 06:25 PM
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I think that's half the problem. The other half of the problem is that divorce is literally a loaded gun that is handed to a woman that is now vindictive. Your wife might be great now, but who knows what's going to happen when you get divorced? Mine went completely crazy and vindictive.
/r/MensRights27/12/25 06:22 PM
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What's sad is that the argument is that the child has the right to parental support. So why doesn't the child automatically get the right to have a father his/her life?
/r/MensRights27/12/25 06:20 PM
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Yeah, I think the point I was trying to make was that these are roles that are clearly better suited for men. But they've stretched them so far that they're now using women. And honestly, I just think they're doing it because they want to have some sexy woman on screen. They did this with "Underworld" with Kate Beckinsale. They just wanted an excuse to have Kate Beckinsale walk around in a latex suit.
/r/MensRights27/12/25 04:37 PM
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Where we're at now is that feminists overpromised what women were capable of. So now we have a decade of boss babes that were told they should go to college, get an education, and then make tens of millions in the workforce. But that didn't work out so feminists need some sort of scapegoat. Which is why they invented the patriarchy. It's not a woman's fault that she's not successful. She's actually being sabotaged by a complex conspiracy to keep her down. AKA the patriarchy.
/r/MensRights27/12/25 04:26 PM
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What personally bothers me is when it's a female protagonist in a traditionally male role that only a male can do. Like she's some sort of street fighter ninja, and she's constantly beating up men that are literally twice their size. Like I'm about 195, but I am well aware that there is no way I could beat up a guy that is 380-400lbs (assuming he's fit and not just fat) Yet it continually happens in these movies. Happy to root for a woman if she's doing awesome stuff and it makes sense. But Holl…
/r/MensRights27/12/25 04:24 PM
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by the way, for people that are skeptical of this and what would possibly be the motivation? Money. That's it. Pure and simple. Drama on TikTok generates views. Those views generate money. This is what people like Candace Owens and Charlie Kirk do for a living. They generate drama. They find whatever way to make drama in any way they can. Because drama equals money.
/r/MensRights27/12/25 03:25 AM
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Honestly, I don't follow her enough to give you a consistent viewpoint. Plus, there's a lot of disinformation about her.
/r/MensRights27/12/25 01:19 AM
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Ah, you're not wrong, but not right either. I think I can get a pretty good prenup in place to protect most of my assets. And I'm also going to talk to a lawyer about filming my house 24/7, but the crypto keys will be split so that I actually don't have access to the video. My lawyer has to release it essentially. Long story. I'm not going to do this again where a woman can just say I did something horrible and I'm guilty until proven innocent. I think what especially makes me angry about this i…
/r/MensRights26/12/25 09:45 PM
1

People that have autism and attention deficit disorder also have Oppositional Defiant Disorder. I have all three. :) You have to remember that most of the people that have changed the world have been on some sort of neurological spectrum. Normal people, by definition, are normal, and they don't do anything extraordinary. It's always the people that are a little bit unique that change the world. I have like 10-15% of people in the world that are like this, even though I don't agree with some of t…
/r/MensRights26/12/25 09:43 PM
2

It was just that in our culture her looking out for her interests is seen as necessary, while everything a man does can be interpreted as selfish or manipulative All of my future relationships are going to be 50/50, and I'm only going into it where the woman is very submissive and very feminine. I'm willing to be very protective and enter the provider role, but only if she's like a traditional 1950s housewife kind of woman that cooks, cleans, and does my laundry. I'm not interested in a woman th…
/r/MensRights26/12/25 05:11 PM
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And Greta Thundberg clearly has some kind of disorder. It is very well known that she has some form of autism spectrum disorder, and her behavior is definitely indicative of some kind of narcissism. Although, that may be mostly pushed by her parents. I have autism, and I also work in the tech industry. A lot of people here have autism. I think she has autism. I'm on her side. I think she's not perfect, but the world needs more people that are not willing to compromise their morals. Even if you d…
/r/MensRights26/12/25 05:03 PM
1

I've seen plenty of chill folks have tats and piercings Did you date them? Or just have a random conversation with them. I live in California, and honestly, it seems pretty dead on. I mean, I think one is probably okay or one unusual one. But if she has a lot of tattoos and a lot of piercings, yeah, she's a freak show. Also, there's a social component to not just a mental/neurological component. The subsection of society that has lots of tattoos and lots of piercings tends to demonstrate a lot o…
/r/MensRights26/12/25 05:01 PM
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Yup, same thing happened to me. Mine was borderline. Don't ever believe this thing that women are just happy little princesses that never do anything wrong. I'm like 50 now, and I think I'm going to tell my girlfriends that I'm videotaping our entire relationship. The percentage of women that are downright dangerous is way too high. P.S. If you're in a relationship like this, and you need to break up with a woman, honestly, I think the best way to do it is to try to figure out a way to make it h…
/r/MensRights26/12/25 04:54 PM
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My ex had borderline personality disorder, AKA BPD. She was a legitimate, full-on psycho. The way it triggers itself is that early in the relationship, she's completely and totally obsessed with you, and very passionate, focused, and committed to you. You are her everything, and it feels like true love. Especially if she's your first, you're totally obsessed with her, too. Probably because she spends every moment with you, wants to be in your bed 247, etc. The problem is that BPD people put that…
/r/MensRights26/12/25 04:47 PM
1

Oh, so homosexual men don't like to date Indian men? I'm out of the loop, obviously.
/r/MensRights26/12/25 12:42 AM
23

They did this with Jenny in Forrest Gump, too. Jenny was terrible, and she actively abused Forrest but she gets away with it because she's a woman who had an abusive father. It's also a good example of pretty privilege. Men don't have pretty privilege. Although some do, like Luigi. There have been a number of serial killers that have had a lot of female fans. Charles Manson was one of them, too. So I guess the moral of the story is, if you want to be a serial killer, just be very attractive.
/r/MensRights25/12/25 09:59 PM
1

You know I really think that the law should probably be changed that if the app doesn't allow and require the person to use their real identity, then the app itself is liable as if the app made the defamation against you personally. Because what's happening here is that these people are using the apps to basically launder defamation.
/r/MensRights25/12/25 04:27 PM
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No worries, I'm mostly just giving you a hard time. :)
/r/MensRights24/12/25 10:47 PM
12

If men are pigs, wouldn't women be sows? Not that I'm saying either men or women are pigs. I'm just focusing on your grammar. lol
/r/MensRights24/12/25 10:41 PM
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It's huge on TikTok. Women love supporting one another and listening to each other rant about how terrible men are. I spent the last few years overseas, and when I came back and started dating in the United States, it was really apparent how much women have grown to just hate men. Now I routinely get asked questions about me being like a murderer or a serial killer. Stupid stuff like that. Or whether I'm going to kidnap her. It's really crazy. Dating in the United States is horrible.
/r/MensRights23/12/25 05:05 PM
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I'm pretty sure I lost a job as a VP of engineering for a company because I didn't agree with their DEI nonsense. This was in San Francisco. I told them that I wasn't comfortable with the calculus behind it, like which minority groups get more points and stuff like that. Makes me very uncomfortable. Like even if you did agree with it, what makes a black lesbian higher ranking in the DEI hierarchy higher than a black heterosexual woman? It's just bigotry baked into a mathematical formula. There's…
/r/MensRights22/12/25 03:11 AM
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It's more like 30%. But you're essentially right.
/r/MensRights22/12/25 03:09 AM
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The cut over for me, and I think that the real distinction when I became anti-feminist, was when they started making this assumption that all men are violent and abusive. Like you would never make this, the statements they make about other minority groups, like Jews or blacks. If you take the statements they make about men, and just replace the word "men" with "Jews," they sound like rabid Nazis and anti-Semites. And mind you, every time a man commits a crime, they never give men the credit for …
/r/MensRights20/12/25 11:43 PM
3

I'd like to introduce your metaphor to the war on drugs ;)
/r/MensRights20/12/25 07:25 PM
1

Correct, and I think this is the main motivation behind France blocking paternity tests. Because they know that the women there are not loyal, and half the children are probably not the children of the father. I mean, maybe not half, God, I hope not. But obviously it's significant enough that it would cause a massive impact to the French economy.
/r/MensRights20/12/25 07:09 PM
24

Same amount of money being allocated to steer women from misandry, right? RIGHT?
/r/MensRights19/12/25 06:18 PM
12

My mom raised me to treat women with respect. She was from a family of women that were very feminine and felt that men should protect women at all costs. So that was really baked into my skull that a man has to be very protective of his wife. So when I tell you I would never hurt a woman and that I'm insanely protective, that's almost certainly an understatement. However, this has happened to me twice. I was almost expelled for the first one. And the second one, I had to settle for $75,000 even …
/r/MensRights18/12/25 10:46 PM
50

BTW this is code for "let's suppress any criticism of feminism" That's what this is about.
/r/MensRights18/12/25 01:16 AM
1

He's not lazy... he's just a normal guy. Not everyone who struggles in life is lazy.
/r/MensRights17/12/25 08:43 PM
19

Correct. Because the way the law is worded, child support is the right of the child from their parents. Except, of course, if a man donates sperm to a corporation. Then the corporation has more rights than you do because the corporation gets to sever the rights of the child to get child support from the man. The way the law is worded: A child conceived via artificial insemination has less rights than a naturally born child. We need to be rioting in the streets about this. LOL By the way, I was j…
/r/MensRights17/12/25 02:49 PM
34

They did this to my step daughter and I once. I went to go pick her up at school. I was on the approved pick-up list btw but usually her mom did it. So I pull up and she's not there so I have to run in and find her. I go up to the front desk so they can call her and things get weird. Long story short, they say "it's weird and not appropriate for some man to come pick her up" ... I explain I'm literally on the approved list, show my ID, and that she's my step daughter. It took 30 minutes to get h…
/r/MensRights17/12/25 05:45 AM
38

The staff member explained why he was there and I had to prove he was my son I was about to say. I would tell him he would have to prove he doesn't want a broken nose. I'd be happy to go somewhere and wait for police but no one would take me from my children.
/r/MensRights17/12/25 05:42 AM
62

I think "wash their hands of responsibility" is really downplaying how horrible this is. Not that I'm calling you out, op. They just can't live in a world where men aren't monsters.
/r/MensRights16/12/25 04:53 PM
3

Are you sure? I just did a few minutes of research, and that doesn't seem true. I hope you're right.
/r/MensRights16/12/25 03:36 PM
28

My feminist sister-in-law was furious when I brought this up and said that "why wouldn't I just hire all women? " She did the "it's more complicated than that" and then just started yelling and acting irrational. It's pretty crazy. I think part of it is that they need to believe these lies to explain their mediocrity. That they go out into the workforce and find it is a lot harder, and that men are being successful. So clearly it must be some massive conspiracy to keep them down. It couldn't pos…
/r/MensRights16/12/25 03:27 PM
13

Are they to start culling some of the women to make up for the fact that men take up 93% of workplace deaths?
/r/MensRights16/12/25 03:25 PM
2

It's basically legal if a corporation does it. Like if you go into a sperm dealer, then you can give up your right to be a parent. And then the child all of a sudden loses that right to child support. But if you did it naturally, then all of a sudden it's not acceptable, and the child doesn't lose his rights so, I wonder if you could do this. I wonder if you could create your own sperm donation corporation and only date your girlfriend as the corporation. :)
/r/MensRights15/12/25 10:37 PM
6

REALLY good point about sperm donor man! So maybe what you could do in this situation is sign paperwork saying you're a sperm donor so should this ever happen you won't be on the hook!!!
/r/MensRights15/12/25 10:11 PM
23

It's like Jenny from Forest Gump. Women are allowed to treat men like shit (and in this case murder them) because they were 'abused' and everything is forgiven. Pretty privilege is real.
/r/MensRights15/12/25 10:03 PM
7

This is /r/mensrights not /r/prolife...
/r/MensRights15/12/25 08:03 PM
2

And there's no such thing as lifelong child support, it's literally only until they are adults. Still a long time, but not forever. 18 right? Did I say lifelong ? Maybe I misspoke. My math was for 18 years though.
/r/MensRights15/12/25 05:17 PM
15

This could have happened in marriage too. Being married doesn't mean you agree to have kids.
/r/MensRights15/12/25 05:16 PM
3

I'm considering just video taping my whole life when I'm alone with women. There are security cameras where I can give the crypto key to a lawyer in escrow so I can't access the footage. Then I only enter relationships where the woman agrees that she can be video taped in this scenario, including in the bedroom, in private, etc. This way it's NEVER a he said/she said situation. I KNOW I would never hurt anyone, only in self defense. So this would save me from situations where the woman said I di…
/r/MensRights15/12/25 05:15 PM
19

Why not just opt out completely? I'm not calling you out, btw. Just legit curious. I think this is what I would do... just cut the check if I had to. I think two things can be true: a mother can be a GOOD mom to a kid. she can ALSO be a terrible wife. I think my mom was like this. She was a psychopath to my dad but a good mom and fiercely protective of me as a kid. Though I guess if she was a better wife, she would have made a better mom. But my dad wasn't a good dad so having him around wouldn'…
/r/MensRights15/12/25 05:11 PM
46

yeah... fair!
/r/MensRights15/12/25 05:02 PM
16

She was in birth control and said she said she didn't want kids...
/r/MensRights15/12/25 05:01 PM
9

I mean I sort of hear you but no police orgs were ever defunded so they never felt the consequences of their actions. If you can't call the cops or fire fighters for 24 hours shit's gonna get real ;)
/r/MensRights15/12/25 04:16 PM
24

We need a "men's day off" where men refuse to do any work and just go fishing or whatever. A full protest. Let women step up if they're so awesome. Good luck with no cops, firefighers, military, etc.
/r/MensRights15/12/25 03:02 PM
33

Perfect... so women can take mens roles in the military, police, fire fighters, right? They can die for their country for the next 100+ years and men will just take a breather. Works for me!
/r/MensRights14/12/25 07:16 PM
9

It's a scam actively talked about in women's 'growth hacking' circles. They literally say "just keep a tinder account open, tell them you don't check this account, and to follow them on instagram" ... you seem to live in a wonderful naive little world :). It must be so nice This you? https://townsquare.media/site/442/files/2012/06/retro-virgin.jpg?w=780&q=75 I'm mostly just giving you a hard time but it is pretty naive to assume that most people are good actors here when it's a consistent patter…
/r/MensRights14/12/25 03:56 PM
6

Yeah, but dating apps have "needed to crack down" for 10+ years now. It won't happen.
/r/MensRights14/12/25 03:54 PM
6

I guess stupid but also that they're just cattle and their only purpose is to be used as onlyfans/instagram/fansly followers. Men are disposable tools to support feminism.
/r/MensRights14/12/25 03:34 PM
6

The good news is that there's a branch of AI called 'curriculum learning' that's about rewriting the training data to be more conducive to both more efficient training and more accurate training. For example, you could remove everything violent and sexual to train something for children. That way the LLM has no knowledge of any of this... You could do the same for mens/womens issues.
/r/MensRights14/12/25 02:33 PM
38

Men getting themselves off is disgusting and an addiction that requires therapy. Because it lowers the sexual marketplace value of women when men have alternatives. I'm REALLY looking forward to seeing what AI porn does to onlyfans... :). All those models are going to be unemployed overnight.
/r/MensRights13/12/25 10:23 PM
7

They will never ever, ever lift a finger, or for that matter allow a finger to be lifted, We need to have a national male boycott day. Where men simply just do not show up for work. The whole day. Let's see how quickly the United States rots with no cops, no army, no military, no firefighters. I'll admit the army one is a little bit difficult because we wouldn't want to accidentally get invaded. :)
/r/MensRights13/12/25 05:26 AM
34

It's the biggest travesty in mankind. 658k men have died in the US since its creation. 99% of the casualties of war are men. Women have had to make no sacrifices for the right to vote. The burden is entirely on men. We need a unified movement behind this. I was debating with a woman who was spamming this forum the other day, and she said it was our fault that men died because we've never let women make the rules. If we would just let women make all the rules, there would be no more war. This is …
/r/MensRights13/12/25 05:22 AM
3

I think it's great when people overcome their disabilities! /s
/r/MensRights13/12/25 12:35 AM
2

You joke, but I'm really tempted to create a meetup in San Francisco called "Tech Bros for Bros" And the whole point is to counter the whole "women in tech" movement. I wanted to be funny about it, like I didn't want to be a jerk about it. I just wanted to kind of have fake meetings like "Your man cave. How many posters is too many posters? " or "Are tacos actually a vegetable? " ... But I did want to make it all men, men only.
/r/MensRights13/12/25 12:30 AM
11

Can you sue for the false accusations ? Honestly... I think men should go for 100% custody if the wife does something like this. Also, feminists continually argue that men need to "call out other men" when they're abusive to their wive/girlfriends but NEVER any discussion about false assault/rape charges or parental alienation. My mom was a parental alienator... it didn't help that my dad wasn't perfect so I didn't know who to believe. She still shouldn't have done it. It was made more clear how…
/r/MensRights12/12/25 05:52 PM
45

Technically the judge can not give her bail if he feels she's at risk of doing this to someone else. But that's not prison, that's jail.
/r/MensRights12/12/25 02:48 PM
32

The same way pro-Israeli groups label anyone that's critical of Israel as anti-Semitic. It's a form of ad hominem attack combined with gaslighting. If I'm critical of the Israeli government, it does not mean I'm anti-Semitic. It doesn't mean I hate Jews. Doesn't even mean I hate Israel. It means I'm critical of the Israeli government on that one issue. Same thing with feminism. Just because I criticize women on a specific issue. Doesn't mean I hate women. It just means that I'm being critical of…
/r/MensRights12/12/25 12:07 AM
0

Maybe it's just me but it's sounds weird and is hard to pronounce. Misogyny sounds wrong. Misandry doesn't have any weight to it.. Maybe it's in my head.
/r/MensRights11/12/25 09:45 PM
5

Next time she needs police or fire fighters she should call women instead since 95% of these are men.
/r/MensRights11/12/25 06:35 PM
13

I just checked and you can't report an artist for bigoted lyrics. You can only report or things like their "profile image" or "text posts" and so forth. But 99% of the content is in her music so you can't report her for being a bigot.
/r/MensRights11/12/25 06:34 PM
-11

We need a better word than misandry...
/r/MensRights11/12/25 06:27 PM
31

In Maryland when I was growing up they had hunting and fishing classes in school to teach conservation. It sounds weird but the Chesapeake in MD is one of the largest freshwater bays in the world and fishing/crabbing is one the things our state is most proud of. In like 5th grade I remember them talking about how you have to throw away the female crabs and the male crabs are the only ones that are eaten. I remember our teacher (female) made a joke about how the same should apply to humans becaus…
/r/MensRights11/12/25 03:41 PM
2

I've lived in Colombia, Mexico, Costa Rica, China, Vietnam, Thailand, and Cambodia. Costa Rica: Never go there. It sucks. It could be ok if you wanted to go like fully off grid mountaineering/backpacking though! China: Nice for a vacation. You have to go VERY native if you want to live there. Must learn the language. Everyone was very nice to me. Shanghai people can be a big rude when dealing with things like trains. Cambodia: Cool place to visit. You could retire there but it's a bit rough. Vie…
/r/MensRights11/12/25 02:06 PM
16

I read that as "testicles" ha
/r/MensRights11/12/25 01:59 AM
27

Charge her and let a grand jury figure it out.. What's the problem here? This is literally what a grand jury is FOR!
/r/MensRights11/12/25 01:58 AM
11

It might be worth it if they added back in 'obey' and got rid of no fault divorce. Marriage was supposed to be a 50/50 situation. Now it's just ALL about women. She gets to be a princess. She has her big day where everyone focuses on her and she gets the dress and everyone tells her how pretty she is. It satisfies her ego... It's all about her. What do YOU get from it? You already HAVE the girl. You get a debt.. you get a responsibility. You get risk. You get a depreciating asset. There's just n…
/r/MensRights10/12/25 03:21 PM
39

I've been doing it in my comedy and I have like 15 minutes of material just roasting women/feminism. I LOVE it because the women are groaning upset the whole time but like half of them are legit laughing :) The men are all on board!
/r/MensRights10/12/25 03:15 PM
6

Part of the problem is that men and women are bifurcating into red/blue or conservative/liberal. It's because we have a two party system.
/r/MensRights09/12/25 10:43 PM
13

He's been hanging out with Kara Swisher too long with her complaining about the patriarchy.
/r/MensRights09/12/25 10:42 PM
45

Scott Galloway would be totally right if it was the 1950s and the woman you were dating was a lady, and acted that way. If she was submissive to you. Cooked for you. Showed you respect. Didn't lie or cheat, was loyal to you, etc. Women today aren't like this. Scott is married and dating a woman from a totally different generation. Your 'girlfriend' is talking to a half dozen men on her phone. The second you're out of line she will switch. All her male 'friends' are your replacements but you're j…
/r/MensRights09/12/25 03:06 PM
3

I had a woman do this to me once a long time ago, and she just finally stopped. She would bombard me on online forums and that started attacking my family. She saw me literally at my office through the window on the street, found me through my company name, and then started stalking me. I literally never met her.
/r/MensRights08/12/25 02:07 AM
1

Men ran the world for all of history and delivered nonstop war, drafts, and exclusion. Feminism shows up for one generation and suddenly it’s expected to fix every global conflict? Be serious. And you've literally accomplished nothing in one generation. Nothing. Again. Anytime you're ready. Why don’t you go help out your fellow brothers instead of whining on Reddit? This is literally a subreddit for helping your fellow brothers.
/r/MensRights08/12/25 02:04 AM
1

Great, well, it's been 40 years since you girls started feminism, so any day now that you're willing to fix it, we're waiting.
/r/MensRights08/12/25 01:57 AM
1

Men banned women from combat because we were trying to protect you and then you repaid us with saying we were all criminals, rapists, etc. So time for women to step up... The reason men "start all wars" is that men are more intelligent than women and thus have all/most of the leadership roles.
/r/MensRights08/12/25 01:50 AM
1

Great... well any time women want to fix things, and end war, we're waiting. In the mean time, either check your privilege or serve in combat roles.
/r/MensRights08/12/25 01:23 AM
7

It's a good thing feminists systematically argued against financial support for mens domestic abuse shelters! /s
/r/MensRights07/12/25 03:36 PM
14

I've done this before half joking and said I identify as a woman/lesbian trapped in a mans body. They'll still discriminate though. It's really political discrimination too. Like if you aren't a left wing lunatic they can tell and that's the main goal here. I mean I'm not some right wing MAGA here complaining but I'm not some left wing lunatic either. That's what this is about though. This is why discrimination just needs to be illegal.
/r/MensRights06/12/25 11:20 PM
13

In the tech industry it's been standard for VCs to say they're 'female friendly' and reserve a percentage of their portfolio investments to only female only VC firms. Some also add 'women of color'... Imagine if it was the opposite. A VC firm investing millions of dollars into your industry carved off 10-20% of their VC firm for ONLY white men.
/r/MensRights06/12/25 09:00 PM
2

"New study finds that eating the rich cures billionaire disease. More news at 11"
/r/MensRights06/12/25 06:27 PM
1

I've been really thinking about the argument that a large amount of funding and support for feminism was from corporations because it meant that they could reduce wages. When you DOUBLE the amount of talent on the market you can cut their salaries. There are a large amount of women that are NOT happy with working and would love to be traditionally feminine and housewives and take care of the children BUT , that's not really possible now. It's too expensive for one man to support her because his …
/r/MensRights06/12/25 06:14 PM
7

How about this... women need to catch up. They haven't been doing their duty so for the next 100-200 years we have 100% female only militaries. I think we men should focus on our hobbies plus women are JUST as capable as men so I'm sure we can turn this over to them. Should be no problem.
/r/MensRights06/12/25 03:17 AM
3

I suggest civil disobedience, sharing resources how to avoid the military service and inspections, have an entire network helping male teens avoid even getting any kind of military ID. The more disobedience there is, the more likely the collapse of this system is. You won't get any objection from me here.. IMO this is part of democracy.
/r/MensRights05/12/25 04:58 PM
10

Just need to start winning elections. Also, I think men need to start some type of active non-violent resistance against us. Like we refuse to take voluntary jobs or certain tasks that are normally expected of us until women serve in the military at the same rates. We just can't continue on as normal Women can't have equal rights without equal responsibilities. Chivalry is a good example. I no longer help women with tasks unless I know them. Ask the bear.
/r/MensRights05/12/25 04:45 PM
3

In the current environment, without 100% loyalty it's literally not worth it.
/r/MensRights05/12/25 04:37 AM
5

They either need to step up and exchange equal responsibility for equal rights or step down and accept a different role in society. The current situation where men are sub-human and women have privilege is no longer acceptable. It's obscene that men have 95%+ of combat deaths, police/firefighter deaths and women just benefit from it.
/r/MensRights05/12/25 12:58 AM
1

This doesn't exist in other societies btw. For the most part, it's the US. I hate dating in the US and it's pointless. If I date in South/Central America it's insanely easy. It's only a problem here in the US.
/r/MensRights04/12/25 11:56 PM
3

There's a dude on TikTok that was complaining about saying hi to a woman on a trail, and getting ignored. And that the woman should say hi to him back and not be rude. He has women dumping on him and men calling him out basically calling him a loser and a stalker. He might have said it a bit awkward but ALL these people were lined up ready to destroy this man just because he's a bit nerdy. If a super handsome chad said this it wouldn't be an issue.
/r/MensRights04/12/25 11:54 PM
12

I used to say that it's a commitment to get through any obstacle. I no longer believe that. There's really no point.
/r/MensRights04/12/25 11:11 PM
24

Female privilege means being on trial for rape is being in "hot water" Honestly, I think the end of feminism is anchored in forcing them on one issue - military service Men should start refusing aggressively and fighting to change the laws for equal representation until the deaths on the frontline are 50/50.
/r/MensRights04/12/25 04:43 PM
3

Yeah. Thats the point. They have privilege and it's bullshit.
/r/MensRights04/12/25 02:56 PM
99

That and the other thing they really enjoy is talking about how men approach them, and they turn them down in some rude way and how the men are idiots because she's out of his league. It's a sick cult.
/r/MensRights04/12/25 02:28 AM
12

This is why men need to stop playing defense and start playing offense. We have to start demanding that false rape charges be seriously prosecuted with real consequences. Not just "sorry" but actual jail time. It has happened to me twice. Once in college where a girl tried to cheat on her bf with me, got busted (I didn't sleep with her), then said I raped her. Then my ex wife went nuclear, threatened to mail all our customers and employees that I assaulted her. Obviously, this is not true. I rai…
/r/MensRights03/12/25 05:25 PM
10

This type of stuff is why you get people going nuts and going Rambo. When you're sent to prison for something you literally didn't do... The US prosecuted a friend of mine, Aaron Swartz in a similar rigged trial. They turned "breaking into a wiring closet", AKA a misdemeanor, into felony domestic terrorism and he was up for 40-50 years in prison. The prosecutor was trying to make an example out of him to further his political career. The legal bills were in excess of $1M and his parents had to s…
/r/MensRights03/12/25 04:12 PM
0

A buddy I work with is Muslim and we talk about this often... Once I'm rich I'm gonna convert so I can buy four wives :)
/r/MensRights03/12/25 12:34 AM
11

OK one upside :) ... My ex wife was Russian but she was bat shit insane and VERY abusive... she abused her own daughter. Tried to unalive me... She's truly a horrible person. Sample size of 1 though... I wonder if Russian woman are this insane though.
/r/MensRights02/12/25 11:57 PM
8

Because the purpose IS to discriminate.
/r/MensRights02/12/25 11:53 PM
13

Don't worry... the genocide will pay off because you might get a job in the future! The money we steal from Ukraine will benefit you because you'll get %0.000001 of it!
/r/MensRights02/12/25 06:16 PM
27

I don't think men in these countries will ever see peace and freedom from war but they can damn well assert that they get ALL the rights when they're back home.
/r/MensRights02/12/25 04:45 PM
5

I've been thinking of it as 'waves' ... like the 2nd wave was fine. The 3rd wave is a gyno-centric female supremacist movement. We have to start pushing back and demanding that they have equal responsibilities for men. Men need to start saying we won't take these dangerous roles in society until we get something in return OR women take 50% of them.
/r/MensRights02/12/25 03:48 PM
33

This is literally happening in Ukraine. The women are leaving and going to Poland, German, Dubai and becoming hookers, strippers, and running Onlyfans accounts and the men are staying at home dying. Ukraine should force these women to fight.
/r/MensRights02/12/25 02:37 AM
18

We need a focused, multi-national campaign for men to reject mandatory military service if there's not a 1:1 requirement for women. It's slavery to force ONE gender to serve to protect the other when it's forced by the state. Imagine if the state only forced WOMEN to perform one specific role how much of an uproar their would be.
/r/MensRights02/12/25 02:36 AM
35

I think we need a meme/concept to counter feminism. I'm VERY pro female. I love feminine women. But feminism isn't pro-female. It's more similar to a female supremacy and bigoted anti-men movement.
/r/MensRights02/12/25 12:56 AM
3

My dad who's maga has been raging about deporting people that are from Venezuela/Afghanistan because one dude is bad but when you point out the same thing about white people he's all of a sudden quiet.
/r/MensRights01/12/25 07:05 PM
31

Because male child rape is "acceptable" in their culture... These things really test the bounds of cultural tolerance. Sometimes in both directions. Like they believe that usury (AKA high interest loans) is a sin against god and is against their religion. But in the US we have a VERY robust predatory loan system. I think they're right on this issue.
/r/MensRights01/12/25 04:39 PM
2

Someone in the mensrights group should create a TikTok account and start interacting with toxic feminist content. Then create a bunch of these. The output would be insane. The feminists on TikTok are nuts... actively advocating violence, saying that all men should be unalived, that men should be removed from all leadership positions across all countries, crazy shit like that.
/r/MensRights30/11/25 04:50 AM
1

That too...
/r/MensRights29/11/25 07:26 PM
1

It's not really for themselves but I see where you're coming from. The way I see it is that it's a race to the bottom with women COMPETING with each other for male attention. So makeup, hair, heels - it's now mandatory. Even in the workplace. It's a tragedy of the commons.
/r/MensRights29/11/25 06:21 PM
10

Feminism: All the problems in the world are caused by men including the problem that only impact men. Brilliant! /s Also, they're going to fix these problems any day now. I was talking to a feminist family member on Thanksgiving and I asked her to address the fact that women do not take up their fair share in the military and that >95% of combat deaths in the last 100 years were men. Her solution wasn't that women should be drafted but that we should end war. That's her solution. World peace. Wh…
/r/MensRights29/11/25 06:20 PM
17

Also, if you factor in that your parents gave YOU free labor, then it balances out. YOU are here because your parents cared for you. So to pretend that mothers are these angels from heaven burdened due to men's laziness is complete nonsense. This is just more gaslighting to justify women's entitlement
/r/MensRights29/11/25 04:26 PM
1

Jesus you're thicker than in Molasses in Antarctica in January. Follow me here... men and women aren't the same and men having profiles with photos isn't the same as women with photos. If it WAS I literally don't have photos here. Don't waste my time with your stupid comments working out the flaws in your brain.
/r/MensRights29/11/25 06:06 AM
1

I don't care if she has a insta without photos dude... It's literally a waste of time discussing this with you.
/r/MensRights29/11/25 05:38 AM
1

I don't have my photo on Reddit bro.
/r/MensRights29/11/25 05:25 AM
1

I don't have socials... and it's called boundaries. She can say no... and I break up with her. Pretty easy. Just like a woman can tell her husband he can't hand out in strip clubs, have a tinder account, etc.
/r/MensRights29/11/25 04:59 AM
1

It's funny how when men have boundaries it's called 'controlling' If I'm dating a girl... she can do whatever she wants. It just won't be with me.
/r/MensRights29/11/25 04:37 AM
2

These aren't like 10s to be clear... Like not Hollywood models or anything. Like I met a girl a few months ago, and she has NO money but she was in Dubai, Paris, etc. Was on private jets, etc. That's very suspect. I asked her about it and she said "she usually dates rich men" so I put 2+2 together... IT happens pretty often. I mean she's not 'dating' them...
/r/MensRights29/11/25 03:34 AM
2

Women don't pursue men the same as women.. turns out men and women aren't the same. Attractive men don't have offers to fly them to Dubai for $5k... Same way male porn starts don't get paid anything.
/r/MensRights29/11/25 03:26 AM
2

The male equivalent would be men going to the strip club constantly.
/r/MensRights29/11/25 03:23 AM
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I think all attractive women do this to some degree. Like some are news anchors, some are models, but I think they're all exchanging sex for position.
/r/MensRights29/11/25 02:52 AM
2

Not ready to give up and accept defeat :)
/r/MensRights29/11/25 02:45 AM
4

I mean even just other men in your city. If it was Tinder you'd immediately call her out on it but she'll lie to you and pretend it's about her 'modeling career.
/r/MensRights29/11/25 01:56 AM
1

Your comment suggests that “out” for women is a dangerous place. She is making a poor choice for having the audacity to be drinking in the dangerous place of “out”. No. I said "Like she goes out, gets drunk" ... the DRUNK part is important. We should live in a perfect world. We don't... There is still plently of blame on the perpetrator but the woman put themselves in a very stupid position to be in. When my grandfather was teaching me how to drive, someone almost cut us off. I told him "we were…
/r/MensRights28/11/25 09:34 PM
15

That won't happen until men refuse to engage and start demanding that women should receive no rights without meeting their responsibilities.
/r/MensRights28/11/25 04:33 PM
13

We have to start demanding that women anyone that wants a job/votes needs to join and serve in the military. MEN serve as cops/military/fire fighters. It's 95% ... We take all the responsibility and get none of the rights. That needs to change. In fact, not only should we refuse, we should start insisting that women catch up and we need a 100% female conscripted military for 50+ years. THEN we can go back to 50/50... Men are 95-99% of all combatant deaths over the last 100 years.
/r/MensRights28/11/25 04:32 PM
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THIS... The other reason they don't want equality is that most women are not as capable as men and so they need the game rigged to their benefit. There are plenty of intelligent women, mind you... but it's about 10% It's a game rigged against them. I love women.. they're amazing. But they're not men. What they want now is what you said. All the benefits of equality with none of the responsibilities. I only date feminine women. NEVER feminists or women that want to be men. I'm happy to be chivalr…
/r/MensRights28/11/25 04:28 PM
1

I'm not sure what you're suggesting. What are the 2-10% of statistics? I'm not disagreeing with you I just don't understand.
/r/MensRights28/11/25 03:58 PM
1

If you put yourself in a dangerous position, dangerous shit can happen. It's different based on gender. I do not go out and drink alcohol when I'm in Mexico City for example because it's not safe. Even the police can harass you. SHOULD I be able to ? Absolutely.
/r/MensRights28/11/25 03:57 PM
4

I'll keep the chocolate cake and gameboy and GTFO
/r/MensRights28/11/25 04:41 AM
3

Working more hours makes you a misogynist. :)
/r/MensRights28/11/25 04:40 AM
21

"also, give us money!"
/r/MensRights28/11/25 12:52 AM
17

I posted in another thread about this but we should make child support theft in paternity fraud cases automatically have 3x damages. If you misrepresent, either deliberately or accidentally, the father of your children, the woman needs to pay back the man she defrauded. Don't want to pay 3x? Get a paternity test with the child is born.
/r/MensRights28/11/25 12:08 AM
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The 'believe all women' thing is bullshit. Like I get that it's a situation where women are vulnerable because it's he said/she said. However, we're not just going to throw out due process just "because" ... There's also a large percentage of the time where women make poor choices and are NEVER called on it. Like she goes out, gets drunk, and ends up in a situation where it's dangerous for her. You can't do this AND expect us to throw out due process. It doesn't work that way. Amber Heard is a p…
/r/MensRights27/11/25 08:03 PM
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Is there a timeframe for that ? Like what if it's 3 months after the baby is born? I get that it's designed to prevent women from murdering their children but even the fact that this sentence has to be written is disturbing.
/r/MensRights27/11/25 03:43 PM
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Even ignoring the issue with abortion being unethical, a woman can decide UNILATERALLY to get an abortion whether or not the man likes it. If I get NO say in the decision then it seems fair that I should be able to have a similar right to walk away and not pay for the child. Either make sure the guy you're sleeping with is a stand up guy or keep your legs closed. I trust the man for the most part... if he doesn't want to support his kid there's a reason.
/r/MensRights27/11/25 04:27 AM
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I wonder if false rape accusations will rise proportionally should this ever become law. Nine months later a lot of women are going to 'realize' they were raped but "didn't tell you because I did't want you to be angry"
/r/MensRights27/11/25 03:50 AM
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If a woman can walk away from a child a man should be able to as well. A woman can bet an abortion but a man is tied to her decisions. He needs the ability for a financial abortion. If she wants financial support for her children, get a husband and keep him happy.
/r/MensRights27/11/25 03:48 AM
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What if we made law like this... A woman has to repay a man 3x for every month of false child support payments. This way, she's financially incentivized to figure it out sooner rather than later.
/r/MensRights27/11/25 03:46 AM
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Part of the problem is that women lie to each other about their sex lives due to slut shaming, virtue signaling, etc. This is one of the main reasons it's impossible to talk about sex as a society. For example a LARGE percentage of women like VERY rough sex... (at least the ones I seem to attract, lol) When I was younger I thought it was weird and that I wasn't supposed to encourage it but I would lose partners/girlfriends because I was too timid. Because society taught me that women are these p…
/r/MensRights26/11/25 11:31 PM
9

So THAT'S how Lindsey Graham got elected!
/r/MensRights26/11/25 02:45 PM
2

The way he complains that it's not fair that men have to sign up for the draft but women don't--God created men to protect & provide, doesn't going to war fall under that? The way he pushes traditional wives but as soon as a woman talks about a man providing, as God intended, they're called gold-diggers. I sort of agree but I think the point is that women want it both ways. They want equal rights with men, but not equal responsibilities. If they wanted to be traditionally feminine and just be wi…
/r/MensRights25/11/25 03:58 PM
1

No worries... it's a complicated discussion. However, I'm tired of the current situation where men and only men protect and defend our country/society and we're constantly insulted and made to feel like criminals in the society that we created. That needs to end.
/r/MensRights24/11/25 09:43 PM
1

This is why I was saying that we might need to have it be "mandatory" in exchange for voting rights or something else.
/r/MensRights24/11/25 07:58 PM
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They've been referring to 23 year old women as fetuses on social media when she's dating a man in his 40s...
/r/MensRights24/11/25 07:57 PM
1

Ha... fair point. Maybe just change the law and say that pregnancy DELAYS conscription.
/r/MensRights24/11/25 09:41 AM
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The ad-hominems are kind of funny when you take a step back. It's the moment you see him lose the debate.
/r/MensRights23/11/25 06:20 PM
0

They also seem to go out of their way to invite people that are foils they invite that are designed to lose the debate. Not the first time it's happened.
/r/MensRights23/11/25 08:16 AM
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He's ALWAYs doing this though. This isn't his first time. It's not like I can't find dozens of other clips like this easily.
/r/MensRights23/11/25 06:15 AM
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I have other shit to do bro... I can't drop my life and go off on arbitrary tangents just because one due is an asshat.
/r/MensRights23/11/25 05:57 AM
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20% or 80% ... my point being it sucks when you agree with someone about something yet they do a horrible job of actually representing your position.
/r/MensRights23/11/25 05:37 AM
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The problem is that he's doing their job FOR them when he resorts to calling women bitches, dykes, stupid, etc. He can spend three hours trying to make his case then completely blow it in under 1 minute. He's his own worst enemy.
/r/MensRights22/11/25 09:47 PM
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Sort of fair, but he's ACTIVELY doing it and his response to lash out and name call and be actively aggressive like that defeats any point he could possibly make. To your point, a healthy response would have been what you said above. but he imploded and went the other way. It's a joke.
/r/MensRights22/11/25 09:11 PM
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That's just the Overton window and the shifting of US politics that's always happened in the US. The winning party never really has an agenda until it screws things up enough that things switch back again. We're on a pendulum that goes back and forth. I'd like some things to permanently change so we don't have to fight over them any longer.
/r/MensRights22/11/25 09:09 PM
1

It's not my fault that other people misuse the "real man" argument but I agree that it can cause problems. My point being that it's not appropriate that and adult would act like this and you have to have a set of standards for how you treat people.
/r/MensRights22/11/25 09:00 PM
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Him marrying a ran through woman with multiple baby daddies, if true, is just funny but isn’t something that would invalidate his positions. One of his positions is literally that you shouldn't marry a ran through woman with multiple baby daddies. :-P
/r/MensRights22/11/25 08:57 PM
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I looked up his wife and she's a hot actress, so yeah, worth it, and honestly I don't even have a problem with the baby daddy thing, It's none of my business, I generally agree but this was one of HIS talking points. She pointed out how much of a hypocrite he was and he lost his mind and became very irrational. He's a clown, and his arguments were weak af. You wouldn't understand him because you're an idiot /s I'm just joking. He's said this multiple times across multiple interviews. When he's c…
/r/MensRights22/11/25 08:56 PM
1

I mean not addressing the fact that he's in a relationship which is the EXACT opposite of what he recommends to young men is NOT a fact. It's a lie... Also, calling someone a *ike and a *itch might be a fact but it doesn't help our situation. A real man would know this isn't the way a man behaves.
/r/MensRights22/11/25 08:26 PM
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It has nothing to do with being equal. It's female supremacy. They want all the benefits of men AND women and none of the responsibilities of either.
/r/MensRights22/11/25 03:17 AM
0

Can you expand upon this? in what regard?
/r/MensRights20/11/25 05:39 AM
1

I was thinking this would only apply for active combat roles. Like you actively served in a war capacity and were taking fire. But it's a good point that many countries like South Korea are not actively at war and they STILL have to serve. It shouldn't be that men have to take up 100% of the burden here and women get all the rights of being a man with none of the responsibilities.
/r/MensRights20/11/25 03:42 AM
1

Call out individuals? I don't know what you mean here. I don't think it's practical even if we did make it a law to have women fight. We don't WANT most women in front line combat roles because they're not as strong and fit as men. Also, it's biased against fit and healthy men too. This way if you DO serve then you get fair compensation for life. Not paying taxes is a HUGE perk. It might be too much actually... It also discourages the US from going to war because you have to subsidize the soldie…
/r/MensRights20/11/25 12:57 AM
1

What if we were to do this... if you serve in the military, in a combat role, and were actively deployed, you don't pay taxes - forever. That would seem like a fair tradeoff. It's targeting neither men NOR women. It doesn't remove women's rights and it's fair to anyone that served their country.
/r/MensRights19/11/25 10:15 PM
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They're trying to brand us as a misogyny group. That secretly we're all just trying to hurt women. That's the main reason.
/r/MensRights19/11/25 08:13 PM
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The context here is that the women are allowed IN and aren't forced to fight. Ukrainian men are forced to fight for their country and what do they get in return? Their women go overseas, become OF models, escorts, marry other men, etc. Then these men come back from war bruised and broken. It's sad. I'm VERY pro-Ukraine btw... but we need to start having a discussion about what men get in return for being forced to fight.
/r/MensRights19/11/25 07:39 PM
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Men need to really stand up for themselves. If it's only going to be MEN that are up for forced conscription, then what is society going to give us in return. If women-only were forcibly conscripted you'd hear about it non-stop. Rights come with responsibilities. Women want all the rights of both men AND women and the responsibilities of neither!
/r/MensRights19/11/25 07:35 PM
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I think the main one he talked about was how in South America he would get followed around when he was in stores. I think we were talking about Medellin and he said he didn't like it because of this reason. This is just story though... i didn't see it happen or anything.
/r/MensRights11/11/25 05:38 AM
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It's because they all believe we're all 100% violent rapists, murderers, thieves, abusers, child molesters, etc. The other thing they think is that the rest of us, that AREN'T are somehow complicit anyway. The comments you read on TikTok are just revolting. Women seem comfortable saying absolutely horrible things about men ... Oh. We're all losers too who don't make enough money.
/r/MensRights11/11/25 04:04 AM
3

Yeah! Everyone knows it's money! /s (well, half sarcastic)
/r/MensRights11/11/25 04:01 AM
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South + Central America... It's also because I speak a bit of Spanish plus the cultures are more compatible. You CAN date in Vietnam/Thailand/Cambodia but the cultural barrier is too high and I don't speak the language. Even speaking a BIT of Spanish helped because I could meet women that wanted to practice their Spanish and we could have basic conversations. It's also CHEAPER and since men have the burden for paying for dates that helps things a bit...
/r/MensRights11/11/25 12:10 AM
2

Yeah... I'm already aware. I met some friends that are black while traveling and our treatment is often 180... Very sad
/r/MensRights10/11/25 06:52 PM
5

I had a girl in Mexico City that wanted me to take her to the most expensive restaurant in the city and was probably the most expensive in the whole country... considering CDMX is the capital. Told her to pound sand. She was definitely not hot or special enough fro that kind of treatment.
/r/MensRights10/11/25 06:46 PM
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I disagree that it's bullshit but you should also try being an ATHEIST straight white male... FAR FAR FAR less societal support. At least you can join a church.
/r/MensRights10/11/25 03:09 AM
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Women often have better support networks than men because they're more social. Men are often asocial and their wives+family were their support network.
/r/MensRights10/11/25 03:07 AM
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It's also just flat out money... Look at all the Ukranian women that are now on Onlyfans or working in Dubai as hookers or just flat out gold diggers. The main reason I brought this up is look at the outcomes of the men in that country. Either they're serving in the front line, have legs blown off, or have basic jobs but if you're a woman you have tons of options to make a very very significant amount of money. Not men, though.
/r/MensRights10/11/25 03:05 AM
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I've kind of given up dating in the US because of how EASY it is to date outside of the US. Women actually LIKE strong dominant and protective men outside the US and are actively invested in seeing it happen. It's not a panacea of course... it's not perfect. It just makes the US look like a nightmare by comparison. EDIT. There are definitely entitled women overseas too. But it seems to be about 10-15%... I've also switched up my strategy that the first date is just modest. If she wants a fancy/e…
/r/MensRights09/11/25 10:51 PM
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For me the most common is women telling me who I can and can't date. I'm not interested in your advice or feedback. Full stop. Last time it happened was with my step-sister.... She told me I was too old to date women in their 20s. Adult women btw... because apparently women in their 20s are too stupid or immature to make up their own mind and I was "grooming" them. This is the same step-sister who convinced my step-mom to divorce my dad after she inherited $1M so that my step-sister could get th…
/r/MensRights09/11/25 06:19 PM
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Heteronormative men/women tend to always act around a normal distribution. For example, most straight men like things like sports, outdoor activities, cars, etc. Women tend to like clothing, being feminine, social activities, yoga, etc. But they tend to be complementary when combined..
/r/MensRights08/11/25 10:47 PM
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In theory, some of it is fine and even great. Where it falls apart for me is no guy deserves to be treated like the pack mule and the sole adult. I don't see it this way.. When I'm single I have to do ALL the heavy lifting. I have to both earn my income AND cook, clean, do grocery shopping. I'd rather split these 50/50... You cannot live off of one income anymore.
/r/MensRights08/11/25 10:37 PM
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Yeah... I think that's a major downside with our society. Women can defect with no downside and TONS of upside. When men defect then we lose (no custody of our kids, false accusations that society believes, etc) I mean 'defect' in terms of game theory and cooperation btw.
/r/MensRights08/11/25 09:35 PM
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because I'm not carrying the entire load. Only the financial load... she carries 50% of the total load of both of your lifestyles.
/r/MensRights08/11/25 08:51 PM
0

I personally want a virgin and I also don't want her to work.
/r/MensRights08/11/25 08:49 PM
3

I think marriage needs to have some sort of plan B so that if something goes wrong you have an escape plan. But I think being too pessimistic also isn't good strategy.
/r/MensRights08/11/25 08:48 PM
2

huh? I don't understand what you're saying.
/r/MensRights08/11/25 08:16 PM
8

It's possible to meet them... But in my experience while they're not 100% flawed like the pro-feminist crowed, they're only like 80% flawed. It's a sad state of affairs.
/r/MensRights08/11/25 08:00 PM
12

What I find frustrating is that there seem to be two types of men: Men that are simply exhausted with the current system's continual onslaught against them but haven't really had anything massively bad happen to them. They're just exhausted and apathetic. Then there are men like you with stories of how their lives have been absolutely destroyed. The worst that's happened to me is that I was accused of abuse by my ex GF and had to settle in court and had to pay her $50k. Mind you I ALWAYS treated…
/r/MensRights08/11/25 07:57 PM
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Women have some sort of social signaling they do with each other to signal their sexual marketplace value and I think part of it is how cruel they can be to men, signaling they get a lot of attention. The more cruel they can be the more attractive they're demonstrating to their friends.
/r/MensRights07/11/25 08:05 PM
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I was thinking of creating an inverse type of app... where it's only good karma that's verified. Like if you help an old lady across the street, she can say thank you, publicly. The problem is how do you verify this stuff.
/r/MensRights07/11/25 07:59 PM
4

I'm hoping this is just a happy error because Lina M. Khan is legit though. Her positions on anti-trust are amazing and right on the nail. It's also only 5 and they seem reasonable: Here are the key members of Zohran Mamdani’s all-women transition team: Executive Director: Elana Leopold — longtime adviser in city politics. Co-chairs: Maria Torres‑Springer — former First Deputy Mayor of NYC. Lina Khan — former Chair of the Federal Trade Commission. Grace Bonilla — President/CEO of United Way of N…
/r/MensRights07/11/25 01:33 AM
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Also, we get all the casualties in war and the draft, selective service, forced conscription, etc :)
/r/MensRights06/11/25 05:26 PM
5

They want equal rights (great) while keeping all of the privileges and advantages they've been granted over time, but with none of the responsibility or accountability of a man. I agree and I've been saying that women want all of the advantages of being both a woman AND a man with none of the disadvantages of either
/r/MensRights06/11/25 05:54 AM
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I'm not sure how I feel about the Louis C.K. incident... Apparently, he asked permission to masturbate in front of two women. I mean it's SUPER weird thing but they DID consent. However one said: "One anonymous woman said she agreed to watch him masturbate in his TV-production office in the late 1990s, though she later said it was done under power imbalance and wasn’t true consent. " ... so now consent doesn't even exist because she can later say it was due to a power imbalance?
/r/MensRights06/11/25 02:41 AM
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Happened to me... a girl in college had a crush on me. I didn't reciprocate and she was VERY insistent. One day she stayed at our dorm and INSISTED on sleeping in my bed. I slept on the floor. She wasn't drunk.. .she was fine. She just wanted to be in the same bed as me. She had a BF. Her BF found out, assumed she cheated, and she told him I assaulted her and forced her. Obviously not true. He told the school via his RA and they started a whole investigation and it became a full on drama. Luckil…
/r/MensRights06/11/25 02:36 AM
0

Physical injuries... I sort of agree. My understanding is that caning DOES NOT break the skin. I'm not an expert in it of course but there was a big controversy about this like 30 years ago when I was a kid. Some American kid was chewing gum and spit it on the ground. They convicted him and sentenced him to a public caning. It was VERY VERY mild... It's only psychologically frightening and I think more designed to embarrasing. I think we need more public shaming as a society.
/r/MensRights05/11/25 08:43 PM
1

They can't undo years in prison either.
/r/MensRights05/11/25 07:53 PM
11

Men need to stand up and start demanding rights for what we provide for the country due to our sacrifices. If men serve in combat roles so much that we take 99% of casualties I think that we should discuss some sort of compensation for that sacrifice. Women DO NOT care about these issues... This is why I no longer support or vote for women's issues - because they don't care about ours.
/r/MensRights05/11/25 07:52 PM
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I'm an amateur WWII historian and I like reading Japanese/German newspapers that are online from their perspective. I put some text into ChatGPT to translate from a German newspaper about the Battle of Stalingrad and it refused.... This is really disturbing.
/r/MensRights03/11/25 12:28 AM
1

So I was thinking about writing a thriller story about a husband who discovers his wife is cheating on him and intelligently plots vengeance while keeping her in the dark This is the most /r/mensrights post I've ever seen on this subreddit... lol
/r/MensRights03/11/25 12:26 AM
0

We need to make up our own nonsense like this.... I think we should do it around women dressing too sexy and say things like: a woman can't wear heels or fake eyelashes around me or it's triggering to me
/r/MensRights31/10/25 11:48 PM
1

Who told you this stuff ?
/r/MensRights31/10/25 10:51 PM
2

Well in that brief moment you the man commited an assault because you touched a women inapropritaly without their consent. I think legally that would not be true because there's implied consent that accidental touch could happen. But these women are literally insane and LOOKING for drama so you're probably right.
/r/MensRights31/10/25 09:13 PM
3

What's that one ?
/r/MensRights31/10/25 05:57 AM
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Modern feminism basically says that: most men are probably going to rape you most men are probably going to kidnap you most men are pedos most men are criminals most men are liars. most men are thieves But if a man says ANYTHING even remotely critical of feminism he's a misogynst. They're also INVENTING new crimes like if a 40 year old man dates a 20 year old women he's now a pedo for that too.
/r/MensRights31/10/25 02:13 AM
1

I love how you turned this into Schrödinger's hookup... Also, months is not a hookup. The common denominator here is you. Maybe you just really suck as a girlfriend? Have you thought of that?
/r/MensRights27/07/24 07:53 PM
1

Totally fine with that! Are you assuming I'm homophobic and racist? I hope not... I think we might bias towards men in traditional gender roles though. Heterosexual men. Nothing against gay men. They're also welcome to attend as are women as long as they contribute positively and have fun!
/r/MensRights02/06/24 04:00 PM
2

Trust me. I'm a standup comic and my material is dark. It anyone can pull this off it's me. It will be fine.
/r/MensRights01/06/24 07:39 PM
1

This is why we just make the goal to have fun ... Can't be counter-productive if the only goal is to have fun! :-P
/r/MensRights01/06/24 07:17 PM
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I'm sure we'll eventually find a lawyer to write them some angry letters. Getting canceled would rock!
/r/MensRights01/06/24 04:10 PM
1

We're going to allow women too - to be fair. It's just that they have to stay in the kitchen! /s
/r/MensRights01/06/24 04:08 PM
1

I'm a comic... I find that the better way to deal with these things is humor. Otherwise people just yell at each other.
/r/MensRights01/06/24 04:08 PM
2

Ha. The new movie? I didn't see it. Can you expand?
/r/MensRights01/06/24 12:25 AM
4

I work in tech but I've been doing standup comedy too. My comedy is VERY dark and I found that I can take them on directly but only if it comes from a place of love. Otherwise they have weapons to fight back - even if you're right.
/r/MensRights01/06/24 12:23 AM
6

Actually, "Boys in Tech" would be better.
/r/MensRights31/05/24 11:55 PM
12

"How to rack a server without breaking a nail."
/r/MensRights31/05/24 11:54 PM
2

It's both ... there is what's called RLHF tuning (reinforcement learning from human feedback) where they tell it to do obviously stuff like not give people instructions on how to make a bomb but I think there's some liberal/feminist shit too. Google's Gemini was REALLY hit by this because they have a lot of 'woke' idiots on their team. Hopefully they learned their lesson. We'll see.
/r/MensRights31/05/24 10:34 PM
0

Not saying this isn't true but the Daily Mail is a shit rag and doesn't deserve any link traffic. They constantly lie and manipulate and misrepresent the truth.
/r/MensRights07/04/24 04:12 PM
1

I'll post the link if I get the time. Kind of busy now but if I get bored it's my #1 :)
/r/MensRights09/03/24 04:10 AM
6

Yup.. completely agree. I actually think voting should be connected to drafts and conscription and that women should not be able to vote if they aren't eligible for the draft.
/r/MensRights09/03/24 01:57 AM
15

The funny thing is that this is literally one of the Nazi gripes about the Jews. That they would give no-interest loans to each other.
/r/MensRights09/03/24 01:51 AM
8

??? What do you think women getting into the trades would result in???? Men die more at work, because men discrimante women from working those jobs. Really. You think men are going to prevent women from becoming coal miners? Are you out of your mind? Women are saying let women work those dangerous jobs. No women are saying this. No women are lining up to work these dangerous jobs. Women want the high paying fun jobs like CEO. Men do not want to die less, they just want to be "appreciated" for it…
/r/MensRights09/03/24 01:35 AM
15

Same way it's not legal to have a company with 100 employees and no men? Look at nursing. This exact same problem can happen there the only issue is that it's actively encouraged and they have no problem with it being a place that's anti-men. Those programs are designed to get women into the trades. False. It's not about equal rights it's about female supremacy. There's NEVER any discussion from women about trying to get more women to die to offset male workplace deaths. Not to mention, not only…
/r/MensRights09/03/24 12:34 AM
2

New rule. Women don't get to walk about war in a country where they are not eligible for the draft.
/r/MensRights08/03/24 11:53 PM
29

OK. I'm going to make a men's only group and start running it. What's the most potentially offensive but funny group for a mens only group. I'm thinking like "Fort club" ... we build forts and it's men only. No women allowed!
/r/MensRights08/03/24 11:48 PM
10

This isn't the type of woman you want to be bound to. This is the FIRST interaction with you basically and if she lied to you about THIS she's going to lie to you about everything! RUN!!!
/r/MensRights23/01/24 02:58 PM
0

You're really a sick human being. My 14 old step daughter isn't 14 any more. She's 28. I'm literally in Thailand - like right now. I'm in Bangkok. And I was in Colombia last year... There are a lot of really mentally unwell people on /r/digitalnomad and /r/MensRights that come here to just spam people and be assholes...
/r/MensRights23/01/24 09:17 AM
67

Seriously. Can we get this data normalized across divorce? My dad gave my mom the house so she could raise the kids and she did nothing but screw him over. It was really sad to watch him rebuild his life afterwards.
/r/MensRights22/01/24 10:55 AM
-16

So you support a drunk guy, attacking a 14 year old girl, and I'm the idiot. The guy was fucking arrested. I don't know what reality you are living in where you randomly judge people on three sentences. Delete your account. (blocked)
/r/MensRights21/01/24 08:50 AM
-33

Fuck off. The guy was drunk. It was literally 30 seconds after the lights went down. She was in the process of turning off her phone but it wasn't cooperating. He was WAY out of line. It wasn't even close. Stop making yourself feel better about being a loser by shitting on random people on reddit so you feel like a superhero.
/r/MensRights21/01/24 07:20 AM
-52

Wives (good ones) and daughters too. My step daughter gets my protection. It's amazing how that protective instinct kicks in though! One time a dude yelled at her at the movie theater for not turning off her phone and that dude came very close to losing his head :-P
/r/MensRights21/01/24 03:31 AM
255

A few years back I got really into fitness and the gym. Now I'm a bigger guy. I've been lifting for about 8-10 years so I'm somewhat built and intimidating. To be clear, I'm the nicest guy ever. I'm not violent by any means. A few years back in California, I was at a coffee shop and three punks came in with guns and stole everyone's laptop in the coffee shop in the middle of the day. They just took laptops. The entire event was so fast. Like maybe a minute. When the police showed up there was an…
/r/MensRights21/01/24 03:28 AM
11

Also, they don't get to complain about the downside while keeping the benefits of the upside. attractive women are disproportionally represented in news anchors. Why are like 70% of Fox News anchors basically bimbos in short skirts? they're also given MASSIVE perks in clubs. In Miami the club promoters literally go and find the most attractive women on the beach, then give them free drinks, food, and free access to the club. female influencers on Instagram make $$$ and get tons of perks like the…
/r/MensRights20/01/24 05:35 AM
11

Plus women give me unwanted attention too. When you get big and fit women comment on you. Gay guys more often though. I was out at a club last night and a woman grabbed my chest while I was walking in the club.
/r/MensRights20/01/24 05:30 AM
3

Maybe a double opt-in system would work. The man might NOT want to meet his child though. That has to be respected. We're not sure why. Maybe the man has trauma. Maybe he has a family. My grandfather had a son before he started his family and when he passed my dad found his photo in his wallet. They did research and apparently his wife knew but for some reason it was a hard break and my grandfather couldn't meet his son for whatever reason. We don't know why but my dad and my uncles wanted to re…
/r/MensRights19/01/24 04:57 AM
3

Everything they disagree with is misogyny at this point. It's there version of "you're an antisemite if you disagree with Israel doing horribly shitty thing X"
/r/MensRights19/01/24 02:25 AM
11

I think this seems fair. You don't have any financial responsibility but you also waive all rights. It's like the child never existed from your perspective. It also needs to be permanent. You can't back out once the decision is made. Just like a real abortion. I think the only exception would have to be if you were under duress or something AND if the child agrees but you might also need to be on the hook for back child support at that point.
/r/MensRights19/01/24 02:24 AM
45

Their reality has no basis in fact so they have to resort to name calling when confronted.
/r/MensRights18/01/24 07:17 AM
4

Yes... VERY strong evolutionary pressure. The main reason is that when a woman is pregnant she's basically helpless and that extends for probably 10 years if she wants to care for her children. Men should be off hunting for resources. Either food or (now) money.
/r/MensRights18/01/24 07:16 AM
48

There was a therapist talking about this on TikTok and that sees the woman at fault, she will avoid accountability and immediately drop out of therapy and blame the therapist. Now clearly there are times when the man is also or solely at fault. Just that she says men will own up to it and often remain in therapy. Women on the other hand will almost universally fire her.
/r/MensRights17/01/24 01:42 PM
13

There's a good quote going around that modern schools just view men as defective women. I think this is a great way to view it. Men naturally fall into more leadership roles and are less pro-social but schools want people that fall in line. Women fit that role perfectly so they've been starting to prioritize their education style and this isn't something men respond well to.
/r/MensRights17/01/24 10:25 AM
2

I don't think so... I've heard multiple people mention this and there is no magic number really. BTW. At least in SE Asia it's always cm. So 180cm... I'm 185cm.
/r/MensRights17/01/24 06:07 AM
3

You'd have to change your height in dating apps because they're explicitly targeting you.
/r/MensRights17/01/24 12:26 AM
1

This 6' thing isn't an issue in Europe and Asia where they use the metric system.
/r/MensRights17/01/24 12:25 AM
13

Nope.. it would be more like saying if she's > 110 pounds. 6' men are the minority the same as 110 pound women.
/r/MensRights17/01/24 12:22 AM
25

I mean they're 170 men! It's not like they're human! /s
/r/MensRights16/01/24 09:39 AM
16

She would be a bazillionaire if it wasn't for men! /s
/r/MensRights15/01/24 12:06 PM
1

I guess the problem is that the states forces you either way and you have no repercussions. I wonder if you could sue the state directly for the lost revenue or damages from not being able to afford your own children.
/r/MensRights15/01/24 02:58 AM
3

It's a fair question but I think it would happen at the same rate as A ... A might not be paying child support because we don't know who he is. I guess you could make an argument that the false positives (people who are not the father) would be found already, and paying child support but false negatives (men who actually ARE the father but we don't know who they are) are higher since by definition we don't know who they are. It's still wrong though. There would be a measurable impact on society …
/r/MensRights14/01/24 02:47 AM
5

It would be a zero sum game for the though. They either get the money from father A or father B.
/r/MensRights13/01/24 04:18 PM
51

Yeah. Their argument is that "fatherhood is determined by society, not by the father" or some bullshit. However, it sounds like it's really just the assertion of the mother. That's some serious insanity. What's more, if you get a paternity test anyway, you can face a fine up to 15k euro and up to a year and prison and the paternity test isn't recognized by a court of law even if you're NOT the father. This is really seriously evil.
/r/MensRights13/01/24 02:16 PM
139

Why is this even remotely controversial. It should be self-evident.
/r/MensRights13/01/24 12:12 PM
9

... and then do promotions at big tech companies. This needs to be a class action lawsuit.
/r/MensRights12/01/24 06:37 AM
24

accuse accuse ... key word. I was innocent. Had to still pay her $40k to get her to go away.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 09:41 AM
22

What I do is I just start eating a lot of yogurt and fart all the time so they end up breaking up with me :) /s
/r/MensRights11/01/24 09:39 AM
23

Same here... I had a lunatic stalk me for two years. It would ebb and flow. She eventually sent an email to my GF telling her I was a rapist and that she should be afraid for her daughter's safety. Fortunately, her message was the rant of a lunatic so my GF didn't believe her story.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 09:38 AM
37

Watch the whole clip but this is why Patrice is a genius: https://youtu.be/yauS_XKlqwM?t=95 This is mandatory viewing today here men!
/r/MensRights11/01/24 01:34 AM
34

Yeah. This type of response is why men bring this up. They're saving themselves a ton of hassle. Also, aren't these women, by their own definition, incel?
/r/MensRights11/01/24 01:29 AM
10

I also love how they denigrate women here by comparing men to 'princesses' as if this was a bad thing. So if you're a princess this means you're somehow less than a man now? OK. Good job! I guess.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 01:28 AM
38

Honestly, I think a woman's romantic love is sort of a form of temporary insanity. I've seen it a number of times now. You go out with them for like 4-5 dates and they're totally gaga over you. Wanting to see you. Doing everything you want just to be with you 247. Then, you fuck up, or do something they don't like and you're done. They'll ghost you, call you names, etc and then they hate you, want to trash you, ruin you, etc. The worst for me is how they blame you for the bad decisions they now …
/r/MensRights11/01/24 12:55 AM
14

Where are the stats on that? Not calling you out but I don't like to cite stats without backing them up.
/r/MensRights10/01/24 07:13 AM
6

He still sent a whole lot of creepy and unhinged messages to multiple underaged girls online. Serious question for you @CaramelSame4673 What should happen in this situation? It doesn't seem like these actions are illegal. I'm not sure either but should the guy lose his career over it?
/r/MensRights08/01/24 02:42 AM
55

My ex wife tried to extort money from me by saying that I beat and sexually assaulted her. Couldn't be further from the truth. I'm incredibly protective and kind. I also raised her daughter as my own and paid for her school. I had to stop financially supporting her because I couldn't afford it and in return she basically stabbed me in the back. I paid for her to live next to me for a YEAR so I could still have a relationship with her daughter. She's like family. I thought we were like an extende…
/r/MensRights08/01/24 02:38 AM
-34

No... not always. There are defamation lawsuits that are possible they're just usually difficult to prosecute.
/r/MensRights08/01/24 02:36 AM
157

I bet the father has no right to audit the finances either. Let's assume for a moment, that this kid DOES need $32,000 per month. What's it being spent on? I want the ability to audit those finances and I want receipts. What feminists do is argue that producing these receipts is somehow 'abuse' or something and that the father should have no right to audit these finances. This is supposed to be for CHILD SUPPORT. Not alimony!
/r/MensRights07/01/24 01:15 AM
20

I believe the overwhelming majority of people don't care what race or sex a character is as long as he or she is likable and memorable I actually do enjoy it when the race of the character is trying to tell a story ABOUT race in the larger context of history and philosophy. The problem now is that they're pandering to stupid US political divides and - I hate to say it - wokeism. It's really pathetic and transparent now actually. At first I thought the right was just whining but holy shit it's ju…
/r/MensRights04/01/24 03:13 PM
-2

Can't do it... he's too jealous!
/r/MensRights03/01/24 08:23 AM
-5

I was actually thinking "gay AND black" here but gay is the determinant. I have my gay friend here next to me and he happenes to be black :-P No one is going to accuse him of harassing any women. Believe me! (he'd agree)
/r/MensRights03/01/24 08:19 AM
-15

There are definitely things that can counteract this and bring you out of it. If you're gay and black then these types of accusations don't work.
/r/MensRights03/01/24 07:24 AM
87

If there is a record you can request it from the police. If not, go back to the bar and tell them it was someone that was harassing you and there is no police record. Explain to them that this is harassment and that they're enabling your harasser.
/r/MensRights03/01/24 07:23 AM
203

I was clearly shocked and tried to ask questions. The bar manager refused to answer questions to “protect” the victim. I thought they had the wrong guy yet they knew my name. You're the victim.
/r/MensRights03/01/24 07:21 AM
25

Women do this as a form of bullying to elevate their social status.
/r/MensRights02/01/24 10:36 AM
6

Gave me an ick! /s
/r/MensRights02/01/24 10:36 AM
5

Super complicated question to ask. It depends on hundreds of things. Your age, blood pressure, weight, etc.
/r/MensRights01/01/24 04:11 PM
2

I have high test. Confirmed via blood tests I get every 4 months. High testosterone does not correspond with high sex drive. They're only weakly correlated. Sex drive is actually mediated between the ratio of estrogen and testosterone. I've never raped a single woman nor feel the need to do so. Research falsified.
/r/MensRights01/01/24 04:10 PM
5

It's really sick. Women glorify being toxic whores and borderline criminal now. I'm watching Miss Maisel now and it's set in the 60s. These women are amazing. They're all sweet and kind and want to dress nice and have cute hats and cook for their husbands and have children and nice families.
/r/MensRights31/12/23 02:31 AM
1

Time and resources. This woman said it was your child. She lied. You wasted a massive amount of money and time caring for a child that wasn't yours.
/r/MensRights31/12/23 02:28 AM
21

You can probably sue at the very minimum. She shouldn't just be able to walk away like nothing happened.
/r/MensRights30/12/23 10:47 AM
52

I recently had a woman I was dating had her father killed sort of while we were ending things. I was traveling and she couldn't come with me due to work so we didn't break up on bad terms. Her father was hit by a car and in a coma. I saw the photos and it was the same man in her facebook profile so I'm pretty sure it's really happened. They were $500 short of being able to pay for his surgery. I loaned her the money on the condition that she would repay me. ... then she ghosted me. It's just so …
/r/MensRights30/12/23 10:46 AM
6

It sucked because my mom alienated my dad and was very abusive towards him. Used the legal system against him. Alienated me from him. Stole all his shit including his mother's literally priceless piano. Then she 'trained' me to be this little bitch frankly and I had no understanding of how to deal with other men or women. She convinced me that women were these perfect little creatures and if you break their hard they fall apart. Which prompted me to NEVER want to date until I felt I had met my w…
/r/MensRights29/12/23 04:44 PM
13

They're going to do what my mom did to me and raise a boy that's "trained to be a gentleman" ...
/r/MensRights29/12/23 03:22 PM
1

I get it... totally. What's frustrating is that men would NEVER do to other men what women routinely do to men, and other women. For me, I kind of view it as a form of self defense. If I'm around women that require me to act this way and treat them with kid gloves then that's a red flag and they're dangerous. I should have taken that advice with my ex who threatened to slander and extort me by telling everyone that I abused her unless I paid her $$$ ... ended up having to settle with her for $40…
/r/MensRights28/12/23 02:53 PM
24

She convinced her new husband (of two weeks) to kill her ex. What a fucking cuck. So this guy is not only a murderer, didn't realize this was a huge red flag, but also put hoes before bros? Dude deserved to die.
/r/MensRights28/12/23 02:23 PM
5

I agree. Get everything in writing. If you decide to see then having a paper trail will help immensely. You can also be cordial when asking for it too. Just way that you want these things in writing so there is no miscommunication as you take this seriously, that you think it's a misunderstanding, and want what's best for the company.
/r/MensRights28/12/23 10:01 AM
3

If anything, I tend to treat women with far more respect than men, being careful of what I say, even in humour I know you mean well but don't do that. Treat everyone with the same level of respect.
/r/MensRights28/12/23 09:59 AM
41

... and below six feet and/or make less than $350k
/r/MensRights28/12/23 02:50 AM
9

I think a lot of fathers have to struggle with this... maybe that's why he's staying.
/r/MensRights27/12/23 11:54 AM
12

Better to set a good example for your kids to show that this type of behavior is unacceptable. Divorce her and move on.
/r/MensRights27/12/23 11:15 AM
7

What worries me about this is that women will line up for the higher paying positions. Then those will be 50/50 and then the remainder position won't be... and that will never be corrected. Now if they aggressively increase the salaries of those jobs so that women take them then that's probably ok but it won't happen.
/r/MensRights27/12/23 09:22 AM
6

I'd be supportive of that if they're actually allocating time and effort into solving these problems but they're not.
/r/MensRights27/12/23 04:04 AM
181

You're half way there. The main issue for me is how they want the high end premium / high salary jobs to be 50% women and 50% men but the jobs that are dangerous or low paying they're totally fine being 90% men. They're completely happy with >90% of workplace fatalities being men. They NEVER complain that coal miners or oil workers should be 50% women. Also, we won't even come to the table and discuss it with you until you register for the draft just like men do. Until that point there's no disc…
/r/MensRights26/12/23 12:06 PM
17

I was listing to a Youtube video and a guy called it "the high heel phenomenon" in regards to women wanting taller men. Basically. the man IS fucking taller but she's wearing high heels and so now she feels entitled to an even TALLER man. That's what's happening here. It's basically bitchflation.
/r/MensRights24/12/23 04:43 PM
3

I work in the AI field. There are two problems here. One isn't OpenAI's fault. It's trained via public web data and what the public says online. So if the public has a bias then the AI will have a bias. There's nothing OpenAI can really do about that. The second, may be OpenAI's fault. They use what's called reinforcement learning from human (RLHF) feedback to help it answer questions in QA/chat format but also to censor itself. IF the RLHF data has bias, and OpenAI added that bias, then that's …
/r/MensRights22/12/23 07:17 AM
38

It's amazing how hostile they are. I was on a skin care subreddit and a woman around my age asked what to do about her skin. I have a similar issue and I suggested trying to get to her ideal body fat percentage. For men that's 10%. Nope... I got a shit ton of hostility bordering on harassment. She specifically asked ways to avoid surgery and it's literally what I'm doing right now. I'm about 14% body fat. Dieting down to 10%. I guess it's better to encourage women to go through risky plastic sur…
/r/MensRights19/12/23 07:44 AM
4

This is super interesting but the cuttlefish uses the SAME strategy that these men are doing: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KT1-JQTiZGc&ab_channel=BBCEarth ... all these losers are doing is simping over these women, telling them waht they want to hear, in the hope of having sex with them. Cuttlefish do something similar. Juvenile cufflefish pretend to be females. The males can't tell the difference and allow these faux males to get too close to the females they're protecting.
/r/MensRights18/12/23 07:59 AM
1

Only works if you're splitting rent but with my ex I just paid for everything.
/r/MensRights18/12/23 07:57 AM
50

Oh fuck. I didn't think this was /r/MensRights and I thought this was /r/politics and I got all excited that these things were being discussed correctly there! Then I realized I'm in an echo chamber (favorite one though).
/r/MensRights17/12/23 02:06 PM
4

They're really bigoted against men and assume that all women are too stupid to make their own decisions and/or are bullied by men and end up 'trapped'. IE the bigotry of low expectations.
/r/MensRights17/12/23 06:24 AM
25

b) Never Legally Get Married, No Marriage Certificate, But have a Wedding to Keep Her Happy be SUPER careful of in-law marriage where, if you live together, the state will declare you married.
/r/MensRights17/12/23 03:49 AM
10

IT's because of virtue signaling and anyone that does is implying that women aren't perfect little angels that have been discriminated against by big bad horrible men. Until society understands that women are no better or worse than men we're going to continue to face this problem
/r/MensRights15/12/23 10:49 AM
2

Try it. Report back and see how you do ;) Obviously this depends on jurisdiction but in the US it's almost universally illegal and actionable.
/r/MensRights15/12/23 08:41 AM
55

If they carry on with these policies for much longer, white men will be forced to create their own firms with exclusively white male workforces... I mean it's illegal... I still don't know how diversity hiring isn't flat out illegal either. You're literally saying your hiring practices are bigoted.
/r/MensRights15/12/23 04:00 AM
2

and every single worker there gets put on trial That's now how corporations work.
/r/MensRights12/12/23 04:56 AM
8

It's just bigotry but they've gaslighted everyone with 'reasons' that it's justified.
/r/MensRights07/12/23 10:43 AM
2

My man!
/r/MensRights05/12/23 04:25 AM
32

The second is laughable, especially when studies have shown that Asian women have white fever more than white men have yellow fever. A girl I know publicly called me out at party for having yellow fever. She's asian and married a white dude. YEah.
/r/MensRights04/12/23 02:25 PM
22

Framing is important. It's one reason feminists do so well in the court of public opinion.
/r/MensRights03/12/23 01:38 PM
63

Also, can we stop calling it 'circumcision' and start calling it male genital mutilation?
/r/MensRights03/12/23 11:16 AM
23

Women used to teach their daughters how to be good husbands. It's just not done anymore so modern women are completely clueless how to keep a man. The reverse is not true though. Men are taught by their moms that women are precious snowflakes that need to be taken care of and spoiled and in return we get nothing now.
/r/MensRights03/12/23 10:08 AM
6

She has no argument so she deflects the argument towards a red herring. Its a dishonest conversation. Yes. And you won't ever be able to connect with her and understand each other until she fixes this core issue. So unless you can fix it you should just move on.
/r/MensRights02/12/23 03:32 PM
31

Happened to me. My ex told me that if I didn't pay her she would tell all my customers and co-workers that I raped and beat her. My lawyer basically said I had to pay her $45k. I can write a longer post if you guys want but the laws in CA benefited her. It would have been much much much worse had we actually been married.
/r/MensRights01/12/23 05:46 PM
25

Q: What do you call female incels? A: Feminists.
/r/MensRights27/11/23 03:43 PM
123

It's worse than that... They're basically 6s and 7s getting ran through by 8s and 9s because they're hypergamic. Run from these girls. They're telling on themselves.
/r/MensRights24/11/23 06:45 PM
10

I've been thinking of starting a dating app and just charging a flat $1.99 per month to all users. Seems like a better model.
/r/MensRights23/11/23 03:52 AM
4

What you're talking about is part of the underlying process. We're being pushed towards picking a party, because it's the evolutionary stable strategy. It's NEVER going to be perfectly binary because you might identify with some issues of the other party but most people have a wedge issue or two that keeps them bound to the GOP or the DEMs. But this is why things are so painful in the US.
/r/MensRights22/11/23 12:06 PM
8

I think it's worse than that. In the US, due to the two party system, political groups tend to bisect into two groups. What we're seeing now, with feminism, is symptom of this underlying problem. We can FIX it with ranked choice voting, or instant runoff. We'll no longer have two parties which means feminism won't be as rabid as it is now. Also, EVERYONE would benefit from this. Each party can run the best candidates without the risk of "wasting your vote"
/r/MensRights22/11/23 11:48 AM
14

It's unfortunately but SHE made all the decisions that triggered this. My ex-wife basically did something similar. We were really best friends for a while but she freaked out and threatened to contact all my employees, customers, and tell them I beat and raped her, that I would do the same to my step daugher, etc. I didn't force her to lie and it's sad that there were serious repercusions but those were all her decisions.
/r/MensRights20/11/23 12:17 PM
39

Especially if they're > 40 or about to hit the wall. They're insanely bitter and cruel to younger and attractive women.
/r/MensRights20/11/23 08:43 AM
111

Women are FAR more harsh than men when it comes to looks.
/r/MensRights20/11/23 04:04 AM
8

But she has girl power! /s
/r/MensRights19/11/23 10:05 AM
-1

How about neither on a mens rights forum.
/r/MensRights18/11/23 06:35 AM
-20

Can we delete this post... this is Russian propaganda. Literally. Russian disinformation deliberately targets "sympathetic" channels to push their bullshit agenda. Think it's hard being a Ukrainian man? Try being a RUSSIAN man and living in a country that uses you as meat for the grinder. This is just disinformation to shit on Ukraine.
/r/MensRights17/11/23 04:58 PM
7

nothing but insults and shaming tactics You forgot gaslighting.
/r/MensRights16/11/23 11:30 AM
28

I mean I'll take it... White folks were some of the first ones that stepped up to help black folks end slavery.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 04:24 PM
7

If a woman gets to decide that she can have an abortion, and walk away, then a man can too.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 12:25 PM
21

I don't talk about shit or diarrhea in public and a litany of other medical issues that I could have that are personal. Doesn't mean I'm oppressed.
/r/MensRights08/11/23 04:48 PM
2

Most of these are scammers so I'm not actually sure she was a real woman. They're just accounts in Thailand or PH or something and have times of time on their hands.
/r/MensRights08/11/23 10:55 AM
3

Not of mens rights cases but this is generally the legal consensus. I've seen it discussed in a number of cases regarding Trump, OJ Simpson, etc. That once you have a criminal judgement, even if it was for minor punishment, the civil cases can just be like an avalanche.
/r/MensRights07/11/23 04:03 PM
26

Really depends on the location too. Some locations are shit and the girls have horrible filters like you have to be 6'3" or some shit. Some locations I crush it, some I do horribly. The only reason I know this is I travel often. Been to multiple locations in the US, asia, south america, etc.
/r/MensRights07/11/23 11:49 AM
199

Tinder and Bumble are extortionary and only work if you buy both premium (so you can see matches) AND pay for boosts. Essentially, without paying for boost, they don't show your photo to women AT ALL. This should be illegal honestly. It only works if you pay about $100 per month. EVEN if you're handsome, on point, etc. When I pay for boosts I get hundreds of matches. Otherwise, none. The problem is that the women on these apps are mostly trash. Just not the girls you'd want to date.
/r/MensRights07/11/23 10:44 AM
8

When you have a judgement like this already, the costs fall significantly. The burden of proof is lower.
/r/MensRights07/11/23 09:10 AM
4

Your wife has an infinitely small penis and it's your fault!
/r/MensRights05/11/23 03:03 PM
2

Pretty sure there are laws in the UK about this where they can't.
/r/MensRights04/11/23 09:18 AM
7

and what about psychological damage too... it really hurts to be accused of these things.
/r/MensRights04/11/23 09:16 AM
10

I mean the wife would just "leave" by not giving you love, attention, sex, support, etc. You can't force her to be a good wife so just move on.
/r/MensRights01/11/23 04:25 PM
9

I know what I bring to a relationship but I want to know what the woman brings. If she's just bringing another job for me I'm not interested.
/r/MensRights31/10/23 10:13 AM
11

...and who are they?
/r/MensRights31/10/23 10:11 AM
27

Not just that but that women are incapable of committing crimes or being abusive. That's a VERY common belief among the pro-feminist community.
/r/MensRights30/10/23 10:15 AM
64

This is why there's an explosion of Karens.
/r/MensRights30/10/23 10:10 AM
70

It became your fault the moment you became drunk. Whatever happens when you're drunk is still your fault.
/r/MensRights27/10/23 10:08 AM
18

We need more lawsuits and men need to stick together. Especially the women-only groups at universities that are already > 65% trying to claim that they're some sort of oppressed minority. The only way it's going to get fixed is with money and lawsuits.
/r/MensRights26/10/23 03:29 PM
6

Why don't we literally just have marriage insurance instead of divorce. Both men and women would pay like $250 per month and if you ever end the marriage there's no alimony or settlement needed. It's just a contract at that point. I think the main problem with this idea though is that the divorce rate is way too high so the payments would be pricey.
/r/MensRights26/10/23 01:22 PM
21

We need to flip this around on them and demand that women take up 50% of work place deaths before we even entertain the notion that they should get paid the same. They want 50% of CEOs to be women but not 50% of coal miners, loggers, roofers, construction workers, etc. You can't have it both ways.
/r/MensRights25/10/23 10:12 AM
56

At this point the gender pay gap is just slander. The idea that we should compare AVERAGE salary between two genders, and not account for experience, role, job, etc is just laughable. We should demand an official apology for this stupidity.
/r/MensRights24/10/23 01:15 PM
16

The house really helps. I'm a nomad now so all over the world but when I had my house in SF literally as soon as I would bring a girl home the deal was sealed. The sad thing is that it's taken a lot of the idea of romance away from me. Women will only date a poor man if you're in college and only then when you have status.
/r/MensRights22/10/23 03:50 PM
2

Me too... hard core. When my mom passed it opened up a shit ton of drama that I was unaware of because I had to go through all her assets. She stole my father's mothers piano that was essentially priceless to him and did it out of spite.
/r/MensRights22/10/23 12:05 PM
94

These men do exist... The more I improve my game the more obvious it is to me how easy it is to manipulate women because they literally can not help themselves. What is happening is that via instagram, women see these men, want to date them, but they're an illusion. You can get access to him, but you can't keep him. Then, when these men just uses these women for sex, women start saying shit like all men are toxic, etc. When in reality they created the fire in which they burn.
/r/MensRights22/10/23 09:17 AM
10

My ex used to say that it was sad that I didn't cry... that I didn't show emotion. She knew that my dad was strict about this when I was a kid and would hit me. It was more emotional abuse than physical. His argument was that if I cried I'd get beat up at school basically so he had to toughen me up. For the record, I don't really blame him for it. His dad was insanely strict and that's how the family raised boys. Anyway, when I grew older and had my second wife I told her this story basically. S…
/r/MensRights20/10/23 03:10 PM
8

Children... definitely. But if chivalry is dead and men and women are peers then they can get in line for the lifeboats just like the rest of us.
/r/MensRights20/10/23 01:25 PM
13

Big PSA here and please upvote this as I think a lot of people would be confused. The title here is "Nearly half of men who take paternity test are not the real father" This does NOT mean that 50% of men aren't the parents of their children. This is what we call selection bias. This is only men who DOUBT the paternity of their children. If most men don't then they don't show up in any of the data.
/r/MensRights19/10/23 07:14 PM
3

Appreciate it. I think it's important for bad things to happen so you appreciate the good. Sounds a bit weird but it gives you perspective on life and really makes you appreciate friends and family while they are here.
/r/MensRights19/10/23 06:01 PM
9

I posted a link already but you can read more here: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aaron_Swartz ... and I'm obviously biased but basically, yeah. That's the only crime he committed. Misdemeanor trespass.
/r/MensRights19/10/23 02:30 PM
21

United States: https://www.latimes.com/nation/la-xpm-2013-jan-15-la-na-nn-aaron-swartz-funeral-eulogy-father-20130115-story.html
/r/MensRights19/10/23 12:45 PM
93

It's more complicated than that. My buddy killed himself because of the financial costs of his court case. The gov created seriously inflated charges so that they push for a plea deal. He did commit a crime, misdemeanor trespass, but they padded everything and the legal costs were about $1M and his parents had to mortgage their house. He was facing 50 years in prison for breaking into a wiring closet.
/r/MensRights19/10/23 04:18 AM
16

I only like money because women like money and I like women.
/r/MensRights16/10/23 03:14 PM
92

It's not just that... men moderate their behavior in public because they know men would, justifiably, "moderate" them right back. These Karens act this way because they're basically instigating a fight but feel they have a force field protecting them from someone responding accordingly. They will actively hit men too and know that if the man hits them back that he's going to jail. If I were to act like this to another man, I'd expect to get decked.
/r/MensRights16/10/23 09:20 AM
2

This is probably extremely politically incorrect but it seems like there's a rebound effect in minority groups that were repressed where they feel justified in repressing their oppressor. Often the level of oppression can be magnified or distorted as well. I think that's what's going on here. Women that are mediocre feel that they would have been successful, if it just wasn't for those pesky men.
/r/MensRights15/10/23 04:18 AM
39

Imagine if this was the reverse. That MS had targets for the amount of white heterosexual men they hire. It would be literally 100% of what everyone is talking about. People would be calling MS executives Nazis...
/r/MensRights14/10/23 01:29 PM
9

The other is underqualified women are getting these jobs that white men are competing for at increasing rates. I checked back for the roles I was rejected for that have been filled and, unsurprisingly, all but one of them were filled by women with less experience than I have. To be fair, we can pay them 30% less than you're being paid! /s
/r/MensRights14/10/23 01:27 PM
20

I wonder what ChatGPT thinks about Hamas? /s
/r/MensRights14/10/23 01:05 PM
13

Yup.. they want 50/50 representation for high paying and glamorous jobs like CEOs but not for jobs like Alaskan fisherman or coal miner which have a high mortality rate compared to other jobs.
/r/MensRights14/10/23 06:06 AM
98

Because they thought feminism meant female supremacy. Feminism is really about misandry and women trying to get revenge for perceived slights they've experienced.
/r/MensRights13/10/23 05:57 PM
17

Believe women... are often psychopaths!
/r/MensRights13/10/23 05:46 PM
-5

Ah.. ok. I see what you were saying but it's a muddy sentence. Up to you... not calling you out just thought you misspoke. I do it all the time. Especially on mobile. Up to you. I don't care either way just trying to hook you up mate.
/r/MensRights13/10/23 07:28 AM
-12

I know... but you meant "uncalled for" not "called for" ... you have a typo.
/r/MensRights13/10/23 05:00 AM
-13

There are legitimate grievances like violence and rape that are 100% called for. Pretty sure you mean "uncalled for" ...
/r/MensRights13/10/23 04:40 AM
3

No matter how horrific the actions of a women are, feminism will take their side. That’s feminism for you. Part of it is that men HAVE to be the cause of all their problems or they have to admit that their shitty lives are their own responsibility. This is one of the draws of feminism. You'd be an Astronaut or President of the United States but men somehow sabotaged you and prevented you from reaching your goals!
/r/MensRights12/10/23 03:25 AM
55

That's not even the main problem. The main problem is a society that assumes men are guilty by default.
/r/MensRights11/10/23 09:49 AM
12

Schools just great men as dysfunctional/broken women.
/r/MensRights10/10/23 12:07 PM
10

Agree 100%... it's approved societal discrimination.
/r/MensRights09/10/23 02:08 PM
39

My buddy is a mid-level exec at MS and he didn't receive a promotion because of a female Latino woman who was promoted instead. He was literally told to his face "you didn't match the demographic" but that promotion opportunities will come in the future. This has been happening more and more often but not speaking out because they're making significant money, like $450k per year, so they're hesitant to speak up. Mind you these promotions are like + $100k or more with stock grants so this was a s…
/r/MensRights09/10/23 01:55 PM
5

The trout in the river by my house hate it when I catch them but I also don't listen to their advice.
/r/MensRights09/10/23 09:08 AM
7

I've found that the randomly just jump in a comment and make some insulting comment like how I can't get a woman so I'm angry or something. It's very childish behavior.
/r/MensRights08/10/23 03:15 AM
43

I'm over feminism... no more chivalry for me and no more patience. It's just bigotry at this point. There's no reason we have to suppress mens rights to talk about women's rights.
/r/MensRights07/10/23 03:58 AM
2

You're not wrong but from an AI -engineer's perspective (mine) it's a problem I'd like to solve
/r/MensRights04/10/23 12:13 PM
55

The problem is that AIs inherit the bias that is present in text that they're trained on. The problem here is that OpenAI keeps talking about alignment as if it's an easy problem to solve. Literally all we have to do is solve human bigotry and prejudice - super easy! /s This isn't just about men/women too. There will be lots of subtle bias.
/r/MensRights04/10/23 07:56 AM
1

If your looking for a female to support you, then good luck! I'm in Vietnam and probably moving here for at least 6 months out of the year because the women are both beautiful and a lot more conservative here. Most of the women I meet immediately tell me they only want a long term relationship / husband.
/r/MensRights03/10/23 11:40 AM
21

It's because a LARGE percentage of western women are like this now. Even the nice ones are eventually cornered by a feminist and taught this shitty behavior. That's why women trash talk prenups because they feel entitled that men should become slaves if they're ever divorced.
/r/MensRights03/10/23 05:00 AM
73

... and it's also shaming people that "only" make $45k because everyone knows that a man's value is only in his wallet.
/r/MensRights03/10/23 04:59 AM
2

Released without bail is one issue... I'm fine with that. The problem is that $50,000 bail for someone is poor is different than someone who's a billionaire.
/r/MensRights03/10/23 04:55 AM
1

My dad just got sick and tired of my mom constantly using us as tools of abuse. If this every happens to me I'm going to document it... We should make it a crime.
/r/MensRights03/10/23 04:54 AM
2

Totally agree
/r/MensRights03/10/23 04:51 AM
-16

bail is bullshit... we need to get rid of bail entirely.
/r/MensRights02/10/23 02:48 PM
6

Not with that attitude ;)
/r/MensRights02/10/23 11:49 AM
12

Feminists do a GREAT job of making these things cultural issues and if we don't do it as well then we're pretty much useless. They way they work is that they usually give it a name. Like "father ripping" or something. Then they talk about it endlessly and then use that term as a derogative like "Yes, she's a father ripper" and then use that to shame people into behaving better.
/r/MensRights02/10/23 09:05 AM
1

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Straw_man
/r/MensRights02/10/23 03:26 AM
52

To be fair, non-AI girlfriends have ruined an entire generation of men too!
/r/MensRights01/10/23 12:42 PM
1

Yes... but there's no chivalry for men. I'm going to stop treating them that way in retrospect.
/r/MensRights01/10/23 05:23 AM
1

Nice. I had forgotten about that!
/r/MensRights01/10/23 05:22 AM
2

I agree but it either has to go away, or women need to be included. Women aren't required to register for selective service. It should be illegal due to unequal protection.
/r/MensRights30/09/23 06:45 PM
55

I love the trope that men are just dumb idiots that can't understand how to wash our laundry so women have to talk down to us because we're just neanderthals ... It's not cute. It's not funny. There are ads in the 1960s making the same jokes about women like they're too stupid so they have to stay in the kitchen and let men make all the decisions like which cars to buy. It's not right when it's done to women and it's not right when it's done to men.
/r/MensRights30/09/23 01:13 PM
4

I hear you about helping women but they're arguing that they don't deserve/need the help. It's their whole argument. It would be VERY weird if I started behaving chivalrous to men so why do we do that to women?
/r/MensRights30/09/23 01:00 PM
-1

I'm looking for a tradwife so I'm going to be super chivalrous to her. No doubt. I'm just talking about other random women.
/r/MensRights30/09/23 11:42 AM
6

It made sense back in a world where both genders optimized with what they were good for. Women were valuable and can create children. Men needed to work and sometimes go to war. Chivalry was a tradeoff so that men protected women and women invested into men. It's not obsolete thanks to feminists so no thanks.
/r/MensRights30/09/23 11:41 AM
9

Bro. Are you me? Like I seriously could have written that. I agree 100%
/r/MensRights28/09/23 12:10 PM
13

I think they're trying to gauge your reaction. Like if you get super nervous or something. But I agree with you. It only serves to be offensive. What I say now is "well, to be honest I was going to murder you but once I met you you seemed so cute so you're good for now" Women love shit tests.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 09:51 AM
44

Yes. It implies that men have no value unless they're having sex. Imagine men called women that didn't have a partner an incel because of course women only have value if they're celebate. Feminists right now are by far the biggest bigoted group in the US and they actively embrace it and come up with excuses for their bigotry. The most obvious one for me is how you will go on a date with a girl, whom you met online and she asks if you're a serial killer or a murderer because "men are dangerous". …
/r/MensRights28/09/23 03:36 AM
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