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for the sake of logical consistency Is this not the most efficient way to pull apart the OP? To debate its’ merit?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 05:27 AM
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Ejaculate before you relocate.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 07:46 PM
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”I got 99 problems but a bitch ain’t one of em.”
/r/TheRedPill25/06/19 10:23 AM
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What colour knight is this?!
/r/TheRedPill19/02/19 12:42 PM
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u/ContinuousRegret3 tough times create tough men. A positive response to negative stimuli is to write it all down: the stimulus/situation; your reaction/thoughts/emotions; then finally worst/best case scenarios/outcomes. This process serves two purposes; it’s an effective and secure avenue to vent/“get it off your chest” and second; it aids in creating “distance”and objectivity which hence makes it easier to put problems/issues into perspective. Good luck and Godspeed!
/r/askTRP26/01/19 06:04 AM
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"Babe I accidentally tripped and fell on that cock but; I still love you."
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 08:17 PM
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He'll end up here; eventually.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 08:37 PM
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Thoughts on Keto fellas? I was training for Tough Mudder last year, followed a Liver Cleanse Diet 6/7 days a week for 10 months, got great results and have never felt fitter. Anyone else enjoy program eating?
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 07:44 PM
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Part 3; I fucked John's Fiance.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 09:41 PM
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Who do you think tamed the first wolf?
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 09:36 PM
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Watch China's most popular dating show. I find it hilarious they're so judgemental yet when there was a tall white guy from Oxford they blew up like crazy. AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/16 09:12 AM
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Haha my partner is the same! Whenever I've got raging morning wood she always says "man you've got a beautiful penis (which is true)." My response is always; "yeah I've been told that often."
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 10:50 AM
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Big Daddy Gov. This is too true. Everything's run by Big Daddy Gov. Half a century ago Big Daddy Gov didn't give too fucks about women, their rights or equality. Now it's a totally different kettle of fish. I'm not a conspiracy theorist but it doesn't take a sociology degree to see that either you use Big Daddy Gov or Big Daddy Gov is using you. Women/Feminism have just figured how to use Big Daddy Gov better. Fortunately the majority of us are free to choose if we want Big Daddy Gov to fuck us …
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 04:16 AM
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My brother in law is into crossfit (not one of those wankers he actually puts in the work and is trying to make it to Regionals) and a guy at his gym does Intermittent Fasting. Says he's shredded and all he does is not eat after dinner till 11am or something like that. I currently haven't got the discipline for it but I'm looking into it. Anyone else know much about it?
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 11:39 AM
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Because which ever way the man reacts to it he is fucked. That's Law 31; Control the options.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 11:29 AM
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Some reformed addicts do run/are employed by successful rehabilitation programs. Sometimes you can only relate to people that have fought the same battles as you.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 10:04 PM
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Exactly what I'm doing now. Bettering myself. You're fortunate to be at the start of your life. My advice is to use time wisely. Attract women. Read. Lots. Knowledge is power. Plan out your future so in ten years you're set. Reach F.I. as soon as you can. Time is your biggest asset. It's all of ours. To use, or to waste, as we wish. I'm currently learning an instrument and another language (Get Duolingo). I'd suggest starting there for hobbies. Good luck!
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 09:50 AM
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Here have my up vote. Just take it. one-chub In to the vocab you go.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 09:29 AM
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Confidence is key. I bet you Walter White wouldn't have any problems with the ladies. It's not what you wear, but how you wear it.
/r/seduction17/03/15 08:02 PM
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Me: "Woman." Her: "I HATE WHEN YOU CALL ME WOMAN." Me: "Woman. I'm going to call you woman." Still fucks to this day.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 09:24 PM
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I'm tinkering with a similar idea. Hope it pans out for you.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/15 11:49 AM
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Yeah I read it too. Man he's lucky. Lucky to lock down that pre-nup! #Whymarrynumbnuts
/r/TheRedPill17/01/15 11:16 AM
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That was me. Ended a seven year LTR that lasted the majority of my twenties. Went searching. Found The Game by Neil Strauss. Then found TRP and enlightenment. Ready to crush.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 08:31 AM
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It's why we're here. To get "that". The hot bod, the profession; it's all ours; for the taking!
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 06:53 AM
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Absolute Rolls Royce of death bed confessions. This. This.. Is why I covet my secrets. Can't wait till my memoirs come out.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 11:43 AM
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social norms This. The whole premise of social norms is based on social stereotypes. A woman who drinks too much is need of 'white knighting'. A man who drinks too much is fodder for ridicule. TRP is viewed negatively because we're viewed to be outside social norms; because we actively choose to cast aside social stereotypes and mold ourselves into our own. It's empowering and society fears it.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 12:51 AM
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I think LTR's are referred to as 'hard mode' for a reason. It's something to aspire to. When you find a woman worthy of turning into your unicorn; playing on hard mode is not just best for you; but for her. When I initially swallowed the pill I assumed that I'd always end up in an LTR and marriage (on my terms). That hasn't changed but I am much better placed now to enter hard mode. All the relationships/plates up until that point are just practice.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 05:26 AM
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Yeah. I got quoted $90-$100 to fix my iphone screen. Checked online, found a video and bang; $27 for parts; labour = free. Lesson learned = Priceless. Next I'm going to attempt to replace an old laptop screen. #Winning
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 04:44 AM
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Spirit Animal = Ghengis Khan. Fuck Hank Moody. When you're fucking so many woman you're starting your own race.. That's.. That's.. That's an animal. A spirit animal.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 11:28 AM
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Was given Crime & Punishment during my uni years by my then girlfriend. It was and still is one of the most prized additions to my library.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 08:33 AM
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In my territory (i.e. state) prostitution is legal. I never have, or ever will pay for sex (because I've always known I was better than that) but I spent most of my youth growing up with S.E. Asian guys. We'd go out party, drink like nothing else than after we hit the clubs, then the casinos, we'd head over to the various brothels in our city for them to get their needs met. I used to love going in with them, perusing the girls, letting them pick then whilst they 'got their money's worth' I'd dr…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 03:25 PM
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I'm a 31 year old two years out of a seven year relationship. We share one child. One of the first things I did after separating was to seek relationship counselling. I went to directly to our local state appointed counselling agency; began talking to them first, and initiated the process to create a family/co-parenting plan. Best move I ever made. Now I have shared custody (week on/week off split) of my child. Lack of positive male role models is why most of us found TRP. That's why I took the …
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 01:47 PM
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http://www.goodlookingloser.com/ You're welcome.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 07:10 AM
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Just because it hasn't been done, doesn't mean it won't be.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 11:19 AM
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You got GIFTED A FREE CAR man. Some people in the world walk for hours, just to get water. Instead of thinking about such mundane, materialistic things use your education to open your mind to the world. Be grateful. Go to Thailand and visit some poorer rural areas. That will show you how much your car matters.
/r/askTRP20/11/14 05:14 AM
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No. That's what bro's are for. If you don't have one; find one. Having a 'bro-mance' is indispensable; from relationship advice to career moves and beyond. You'll never need another confidante once you have a bro. Or get a dog.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 04:44 AM
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All I do is win - DJ Khaled feat J Sean? Anyways that jam is dope for getting pumped!
/r/becomeaman13/10/14 07:17 AM
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Loved it. Well written and humoured and I found it a radiant piece of enlightenment.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 06:35 AM
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Just ask yourself; what's interesting about me? What makes ME special, interesting and exciting that women WANT to get to know me? Working on those aspects of your life will pay the biggest dividends with women because they'll be actively interested in what you have to say. Confidence is key. Stay classy buddy!
/r/askTRP21/07/14 10:05 AM
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Question; Why isn't she allowed to be angry, bitchy or withhold that pussy from you? Swallowing the pill I've moved toward maintaining frame when these situations occur; then rewarding her when she displays the appropriate behaviours. I don't tolerate behaviours that don't contribute to my happiness (especially on holidays) however I do now know that I have to have a certain amount of understanding of them; because AWALT?
/r/askTRP31/05/14 08:00 AM
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Fuck the world! Keep that shit up! I'm the happiest, most positive and fun male on the planet right now! Your happiness is yours and who YOU CHOOSE TO SHARE IT WITH is entirely up to you! I love people; short ones, tall ones, black, blue and purple ones; but if they're not contributing to my happiness; then they're not in my life for long. Yes realistically it's important to be grounded, and I keep people around me that help me with that. I however am an eternal optimist; I love all the bad shit…
/r/askTRP31/05/14 07:44 AM
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Agreed. Sound's like you're having doubts. Regardless of history if you're harbouring a lot of anxiety and doubt about her going away with friends; regardless of where or with whom (you should have game locked down so tight even the tiniest penis couldn't slip in) it doesn't bode well for the future. Which is exactly where your current choices right now will lead you. So ask yourself (without emotion because YOU'RE A GODDAMN MAN!); where do you see yourself in the future?
/r/askTRP31/05/14 07:37 AM
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Read The Game too by Neil Strauss. It's well written and was the book that led me TRP thankfully.
/r/askTRP31/05/14 07:30 AM
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"You inherently offer nothing to society." This. What do YOU offer society? I understand the premise of community, solidarity and supporting the greater good: However; in terms of SMV YOU OFFER NOTHING to society. Unless you can prove it. ".. The game needs to be hard, really fucking hard, difficult as fuck, so when a man does win, he can say he actually worked for that victory." What do you propose substitutes evolution if not survival of the 'fittest'? In this the modern age I look upon some o…
/r/AlreadyRed25/05/14 10:27 AM
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u/SkorchZang has a point though. She obviously know's she fucked up. You could (if you're inclined) put her to the sword literally. Maybe not to the extent mentioned above but rough gut-fuck the shit out of her till she can't walk the next day. Then send her on her way and ignore her for 10 days. Even if after 10 days you're done with her and decide to next/downgrade to plate; her last contact/memory of you will you absolutely going savage and wrecking her ass.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 11:13 AM
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| If the woman can do whatever she wants F#ck that. It's whatever I want.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 10:52 AM
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Shoes MUST MATCH belt. No question. How: Is the subjective part. ;)
/r/trpGAME03/05/14 09:12 PM
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Upvote for "hamstercapades."
/r/askTRP29/04/14 04:21 AM
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One of my personal favourites is similar to your missionary position. -From missionary I grab both her legs and get her knees up as close to her head as possible. If you're bigger than her then from this position reach around her legs and grip her firmly with one hand on each shoulder. From here she should be lying on her back; bent in half lying underneath you; with the back of her legs wedged against the front of your torso. If you can reach grab her behind the neck and use that one hand/arm t…
/r/trpGAME28/04/14 10:21 AM
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As much as I feel enlightened by TRP I think the main point; and the one most subscribers take away from this sub is WHAT YOU WANT. Take what you want (from the side bar, the posts, comments and discussions) and ignore the noise. Yes the side bar material is controversial but that's the point; this sub is meant to provoke thought and discussion. This sub doesn't needs defending. Either you subscribe to the ideology or you don't. There is a physiological, historical and scientific basis to some o…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/14 08:17 AM
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Approach. Always. If ever in doubt always approach.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 08:41 AM
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X-FRAME. You're halfway their my man! Check out http://www.muscleandfitness.com/news-and-features/galleries/nutrition/10-ways-eat-x-frame
/r/askTRP22/04/14 07:51 AM
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Or their value. Every man's different and thus such is their taste.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 07:43 AM
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LOVE THE GT's! Life's not about getting "jacked" or getting laid. Life's about memories. Cheers to you and your new found bro going out and making some! xx :)
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 01:23 PM
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Social constraint. FREE WILL is a valid option. It's just matter of how much you're willing to tailor your FREE WILL to SOCIAL CONSTRAINT. Any more than acceptable than you're you're ostracised; any less than you're weak..
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 01:03 PM
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I love this. You're the epitome of example. She's wondering why yet you're not succumbing. It's amazing that TRP is so truthful. Keep it up! You're helping multitudes just by posting!
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 12:23 PM
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I'd entitle it "TRP Truths:Quotes from The Patriarchy" since we're at fault. Are we not? ;)
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 11:07 PM
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The Black Knight.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 10:06 PM
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I turned 30 a few months ago and have realised the opposite; I have more energy, more drive and more direction. The 20's are for learning but the 30's you're in a better position to catapult yourself into the life you want. That is; only if you actively choose to do so.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 01:47 AM
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Do it or don't. Some man will take the V card eventually so why not you?
/r/askTRP19/03/14 08:40 AM
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I have a 5 year old daughter and don't let her watch the 'idiot box'. We draw, play and listen to the radio instead. She derives no benefit from becoming another slave to the system.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 01:53 AM
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Thanks heaps!
/r/becomeaman18/03/14 01:23 AM
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FUN! What do you like to do that's FUN and active? Think of something fun to do such as mini golf, laser tag, go karting,hiking then a picnic on a mountain top, swimming, rock climbing etc.. Give her an experience. Plus doing something active gives you HEAPS of opportunities to escalate kino! The best dates are always heaps of fun!
/r/seduction18/03/14 01:16 AM
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"And it helps us feel less slutty to think we are just on the hunt for Mr. Right even if it takes many, many men before we find that one." Really? In the first paragraph? Because 'feeling less slutty' is better than making the conscious decision to just NOT be promiscuous? That's some kind of rationalising right there. You couldn't make this shit up!
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 11:04 PM
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Okay guys I'm needing to work out my nutrition. Macros are a random term to me and I get lost in calories and kilojoules. Previously my training consisted of heavy lifting, sprint work (former footballer) and eating everything. Now I'm attempting to lean gain. I'm 177 centimetres tall and weigh 87 kilograms. I'm trying to put on 15 kilograms of muscle then cut bf and maintain weight around 100kgs with as little bf as possible. Don't know the first thing about nutrition besides lifting big and ea…
/r/becomeaman14/03/14 02:12 AM
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Utter BS. Boys WANT TO BE MEN. Boys aspire to be men. TRP and /r/BecomeaMan are the directions modern boys need if they can't get it in RL. Elliot Hulse said something along the lines of "if you want to have a meaningful and fulfilling live you have to be strong. Strong physically, mentally and spiritually."
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 12:31 AM
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Is it viewed with a negative connotation? I believe it's up to the man how he views it. Society as a whole does generalise promiscuous behaviour negatively when associated with women but you and I are not 'society'; we are individuals and as such are entitled to our own views. If you think women's sexual history is bad that's your opinion. It might or might not be shared with the rest of society but that's beyond your control.
/r/askTRP05/03/14 12:26 AM
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What do you think tu-lips are? lol!
/r/seduction02/03/14 12:23 AM
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30 year old Australian. Was alpha until a seven year relationship beta-rised my mentality. Since it's demise have been happier reclaiming ground daily and loving life! TRP is the truth!
/r/askTRP02/03/14 12:11 AM
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Tyrion Lannister. He DGAF!
/r/TheRedPill01/03/14 06:09 AM
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I read that and one thought kept repeating itself in my mind; "Not me." Thanks to TRP we as men know better than to listen to this thought of thinking.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/14 12:06 AM
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Thanks for the advice /u/demoneys905 and /u/GaiusScaevolous. I currently run my program 5 days a week so that it's constantly shifting through the week (i.e. Mondays are never consecutive chest/arm days) so that my body doesn't fall into a lull getting used certain workouts on certain days. Saturdays I set aside for running and putting long distance kilometres in the legs (10-20kms). It seems to be paying dividends as the fat's coming off, the strength work's coming but my gains aren't big. Will…
/r/becomeaman28/02/14 09:34 PM
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Toastmasters! Art of public speaking right there! I'm signing up for it soon. Google it!
/r/becomeaman27/02/14 09:47 PM
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Okay here we go; my current goal (one of) is to be race ready to run Tough Mudder Ireland in October. I'm currently around 20-30% body fat, weigh 87 kilograms and am 176 centimetres tall. My goal is to drop under 20% body fat and ramp up my gains to reach 100 kilograms of pure muscle gain. What is the best way to go about achieving this and are there any tricks or methods that you know of that will enhance my current method? I'm grateful for any suggestions, constructive criticisms and tips you …
/r/becomeaman27/02/14 09:45 PM
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"Patriarchy is using equality to oppress women." -Really?
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 02:56 PM
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What does this line look like? I don't have much fashion sense and could use a graphic guideline to base my style upon. 'Overdressed' is such a general term without context.
/r/AlreadyRed27/02/14 12:01 AM
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This is true for most sports where aggression is a factor. All be it a controlled one. As a long time rugby player I found that any sport where physical contact is intrinsic in game play; aggression is an asset when utilised correctly. This I would imagine (looking for a martial arts discipline to master but haven't decided between Krav Maga & BJJ) is the same for martial arts. Aggression (a dominant male trait) is fuelled by testosterone (the dominant male hormone). The more you insert yourself…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 06:42 AM
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SET GOALS. Write them down and track them. Want higher a SMV? Make it a goal and write that shit down. Break it down; what contributes to your SMV? What are you lacking? Average job? Hard work and more studying will fix that. Posture fucked and you're a twig? Train hard, eat lean and you'll be a beast in 6 months! Got a 6' father? GREAT! ASK HIM FOR HELP & ADVICE! Ask your brothers to train with you. To do shit with you till you find a hobby YOU ENJOY. Bond, talk with them and draw them closer t…
/r/askTRP25/02/14 07:22 AM
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This is important but I'd also recommend staying the course during this period (excuse the pun) too. You're not going to tolerate childish behaviours? Then don't. Her period is NOT an excuse to disrespect you. If men around the world have been conditioned to ignore their basic primal programming and conform to socially acceptable behaviour, then she can control her behaviour for a couple of days of the month. Just be direct and consistent. If she starts acting out, then address it. Tell her that…
/r/askTRP25/02/14 06:25 AM
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Make it your desire. There's no re-adjustment necessary if you ACTIVELY CHOOSE to make a loving, honest and open LTR your goal. That's definitely my goal. The only difference now that I found TRP is that I will be screening every woman from now more analytically. It sounds crass but logically breaking down the pro's and con's in a woman give's me a better gauge of her emotional mentality. This will make maintaining a LTR with her easier and smoother over the long run. Check out /r/RedPillRelatio…
/r/askTRP19/02/14 08:42 PM
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"Leave them better than you find them." It's one I picked up from here. Great for a moral compass when making TRP choices.
/r/askTRP19/02/14 09:39 AM
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Tell her the truth. The trust is gone. Since you're apart tell her your soul focus is on yourself. I recently had a LDR (I'm in Australia and she's in England) but the distance was too much. We're still hopeful things might eventuate later but for now I've gone my way and she's gone hers. It's hard at times but I realise that it's time for both of us to grow. Hopefully not apart but I will let her go if I fall for someone else in the meantime. Apart from nexting her there's not too much you can …
/r/askTRP19/02/14 09:30 AM
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Wow thanks guys. I'm a single father of a 5 year old daughter. Since finding TRP it hasn't really changed the way I raise my child (my goal for her is to be strong, independent and be answerable only to herself and her own conscience) but it has opened my eyes to the current climate of society. Thus I will tailor how I go about teaching her life skills to better equip her to make good decisions for her own benefit. When the time is right one of the key tenets I picked up here I will teach her is…
/r/askTRP19/02/14 08:44 AM
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There was an interesting break down on the three main types of alphas; bear alphas; wolf alphas and another one I can't recall. I related mostly with the wolf alpha which placed an emphasis on being the alpha within the family unit. I'd suggest that should be your optimum goal (it is mine) because since you're TRP aware now you're in a better position to create the family unit you want. You have to be extremely selective with who you choose (I already have one child so am going to be damn certai…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 02:26 AM
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Your T levels are boosted every time you train. There's no better way to boost Testosterone then training; hard. T Boosters, Supps and all that industry does is make you feel inadequate if you don't take them for the minuscule gains they contribute to your goals. Better to change your mindset because boosters, steroids and supps to a lesser degree rob you of the rewards of hard work. They exaggerate gains and muscularity that really isn't earned. Better to eat right, sleep, and most importantly …
/r/askTRP18/02/14 01:24 AM
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"My goal is to always demand perfection of myself, but never, ever feel as if I have achieved it." - G.A.W.D. It's not a goal but a mindset for me. That is my goal.
/r/seduction14/02/14 12:12 AM
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Neg her. Push-pull. Number close then meet her outside of work and escalate to F* close. Read the side bar. Your social skills will only improve with practise. You're leaving soon anyway so wait till you're set up elsewhere(employment wise) then make a move.
/r/askTRP12/02/14 02:43 AM
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I'm in a similar sort of position. I agree with some of the advice posted here but to only to a degree. One character trait I read about alphas in a South American tribe is their ability to catch 'big game'. These alphas would then share their catch not with just their family but with the group as a whole. This was seen as a desirable trait to the females within that group and apparently gets them laid. It happens within western cultures too. Generosity in the right circumstances is demonstratin…
/r/askTRP12/02/14 02:35 AM
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Do what you want. You WANT to pursue a relationship with her? Then do it. TRP is about acting to get WHAT YOU WANT. Either way; you'll have a relationship with her or at worst; you'll remain friends. Personally I'd be genuine with her and say to her something like " look we're really good friends, we have so much fun together and obviously we're both attracted to each other. It won't ruin our friendship to see where this goes because we're both more mature than that."
/r/askTRP11/02/14 10:10 PM
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Self restraint. You practise it. I'm similar in being a very emotional creature (product of being raised by a caring sister) but since finding TRP am learning to utilise my emotions to aid me in my goals. I still am emotional to a degree, but am learning to temper my emotional side with logical process e.g. if it's illogical and there's no positive outcome for me, then I don't express or share that emotion.
/r/askTRP10/02/14 09:46 PM
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Introduce your dad to TRP.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/14 09:35 AM
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What's the e.n.n.i.s. system?
/r/seduction09/02/14 01:16 AM
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Definitely. I love women with athletic builds. Sprinters, long jumpers, high jumpers; athletic builds for me are a visual indicator of health and vitality. A well defined physique is also an obvious indicator of desirable internal traits; discipline, self motivation and perseverance. You can't go too wrong with a girl that trains to the point her physique is in impeccable condition. I just love it because if the world was to end and I was in a shit fight war for survival, I'd rather have a girl …
/r/askTRP07/02/14 09:58 PM
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G'day mate I'm in Canberra & a thing I like to do is at the beach/pool when I approach is to ask her to watch my towel for me is whilst I duck to the car. I set up my towel within talking distance (a couple of metres) then say something like "hey can you watch my stuff for a sec whilst I run to the car?" She'll most like say yes & you duck off. Come back a few minutes later then say " Well I don't know how safe my car is but at least my towel's in good hands/still safe/still alive." give her a w…
/r/seduction28/01/14 08:31 AM
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Attitude is everything. Use it. Make fun of it i.e. "I was hoping these would've been out by the fifth grade.." "I've come to love braces. I might just leave them in when my smile is amazing.." Or own it i.e. " I felt like treating myself so I bought a new smile.." or "I've always been self conscious about my jaw. So I did something about it. You ever had that feeling?" Pick-up IS about appearance but like any good magician; your looks can always be deceiving if you know the right tricks! Happy …
/r/seduction28/01/14 08:00 AM
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I agree. Women aren't in 'game mode' at the gym. Their intention should be focused on GENUINE self improvement. Just like YOU. i.e. Weights. Yes there are a lot of women doing 'pump', 'step' or whatever classes they 'qualify' as exercise to justify they're memberships but they're not the ones you want to approach. If any. The women I meet (I don't meet many cause I'm in there at 5:30am when the serious work's done) at the gym are genuine in their passion for training (not exercise). This is alwa…
/r/seduction28/01/14 07:46 AM
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Organise a date. If you've been conversing and escalated the conversation then set something up but be clear in your intentions that you want to take her out on a date. Flirting and escalation are much more effective in person. Texting should ONLY really be used to set up the date. Older ladies generally have kids (from personal experience). I took one cougar to this child orientated Science Museum as a first date. She loved it because she could be a little girl again (TRP) and I dominated the e…
/r/seduction28/01/14 07:08 AM
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It depends on how 'serious' you've escalated the relationship. Has she given you signs that she's at that level of commitment? I'm currently doing the same thing (LDR between Australia and England) and from personal experience if I hadn't built attraction to the level I have my girlfriend wouldn't have even contemplated attempting a LDR with me. So if you've built enough attraction that she's willing to maintain that level of commitment then I'd suggest to her having Skype dates or some such. If…
/r/seduction28/01/14 06:46 AM
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Happily ever after indeed!
/r/askTRP25/01/14 09:17 PM
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Honestly in my opinion she is. I can build with her a family and future that I have envisioned for myself. My doubts are based on how I can mould her into the partner I want. Her fear of a relationship with me is a major turn off/ red flag but we're compatible on so many other levels that it would be a waste not to see out the potential. Upgrading is an option but I'm in two minds..
/r/askTRP25/01/14 08:05 PM
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Sense of identity. I've been raised with intrinsically 'good' core values i.e. love/respect your family, mum, sisters, women in general. Swallowing The Red Pill seems to be at odds with that. I don't want to lose that aspect of myself. I'm hoping to retain some values and incorporate it into my future successes.
/r/askTRP21/01/14 08:53 AM
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I'm beginning to understand that aspect. I'm hooked on self-improvement/ self progression as a goal. How does one go about 'swallowing The Red Pill' without losing the respect and what would be perceived as "beta" characteristics that are intrinsically 'good' values? I'm all for being a bigger, badder and ultimately better version of myself. How does one go about achieving it without losing what are perceived 'beta' yet core morals?
/r/askTRP21/01/14 05:53 AM
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It seems the world, or at least the vast majority of society is geared towards this mentality (or coddling as I think of it as). Whilst not entirely anti-REDPILL, it does seem stifling towards gearing a boy towards 'traditional' ideals of masculinity.
/r/askTRP21/01/14 05:41 AM
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Thailand. Do it. That is all.
/r/seduction14/01/14 07:42 AM
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As a catholic I think TRP is just a tool. Once you've 'swallowed' The Red Pill (TRP) it's a matter of tuning your behaviour and lifestyle to achieving your goals. LTR (like you) then eventually marriage and a family is my end goal. TRP has just made me aware of the circumstances I will create for myself to achieve this. There's the basic self improvement theme that runs strong in TRP and I thoroughly recommend you focus on improving yourself whilst learning to game women. Gaming women (or PU) fo…
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