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There are so many variables. Like where do you live? Is he a colleague? What sort of work environment is it? You can PM me if you like. But generally speaking, I think that for the average male who is available and interested, he will let you know subtly or not. The type of man who does really like you but is too shy to even hint at it, is probably not going to be the type of guy you want if you're using this subreddit. I really think we need more info. I know it can be confusing but for me I ge…
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/16 10:20 AM
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I kept having to go back and reread. Meth is serious. I would say things are pretty perfect with my dude and I but if I found out he did meth I would be gone yesterday. I would let him know how concerned you are but ultimately it will be way to easy to get sucked into the black hole that is drugs if you don't leave now. Leave, tell him why and that you hope he gets help for not thinking meth is a big deal. He is a grown man. There is nothing that I can come up with to justify why he would do suc…
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/16 01:34 PM
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Does it count as showing too much if its shoulderless? I've been wearing a lot of those tops with some jeans and sandals or the same style in dresses. It doesn't show cleavage but is sexy in a feminine way. Something like this: http://imgur.com/Tbs3AHw Otherwise, dresses are your friend! You can always pair it with a summer cardigan or jean jacket if it isn't too hot and want to be more conservative.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/16 05:43 PM
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Where I'm from it is very, very common. One doesn't even need implants, they will actually graft your fat. In other words, they will preform liposuction (on your hips, thighs, abdominal area, etc.) and inject that fat into your breasts, buttocks. A lot of the women on Instagram who have unbelievable tiny everything but still have a donk and breasts have had similar procedures done. I'm sure a small percentage of people do have this body type naturally, but I would say it's rare.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/16 08:28 AM
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Hahaha that's awesome. Man, never thought of it that way. My bitch hangovers are bad. This is something I really need to work on.
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/16 09:05 AM
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I would love to do something like this! But sorry, what's Fitocracy? An app?
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/16 09:03 AM
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I am 21 years old and sometimes I feel like I SHOULD feel like I'm missing out. But I don't. I see all the drunken pictures of friends and all their hook up stories. And sure it sounds entertaining and fun. Something to laugh back on. But it's not something I want for myself. Sure I have some funny drunken stories but my character is simply way too different to want to be out every weekend and hooking up or going on spring break trips. And it has nothing to do with how I view relationships, eith…
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/16 08:48 AM
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This is what I truly believe, and I'm someone who struggles like OP. I didn't have the greatest of childhoods and I can see A LOT of similarities with the way I react to my BF and how my mom dad with my step father and I hate that. But at the end of the day, however difficult, I have to take responsibility for my own actions. People have far worse pasts and still don't let it stand as an excuse for shitty behavior. I have to remind myself I'm in control a lot. It feels bad to of course, because …
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/16 10:46 AM
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Thanks. I think I do have things like this but sometimes posts like these remind me to actually do them and get some time for myself! Some things I like: -doing my nails, makeup, etc. Taking care of my outer self always makes me feel somewhat better about myself in general -working out. Although, I need to be more consistent. -cooking or baking! This is one of the few things that forces me to stop thinking so much and focus on the task/steps at hand and it just relaxes me. Plus, after my BF and …
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/16 10:42 AM
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Ugh I love cheese. My boyfriend can't stand stinky cheese. Even innocently waiting to be eaten by me in the refrigerator.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/16 09:36 AM
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Hey, you're definitely not a hopeless case. I'm actually really young and in university but moved to a new city and just felt like I couldn't connect with any women. It sucked because I really thrive on having that energy from other women and having close friends to spend time with. I've just had to tell myself to go and not think of it as a mission in finding a friend but being pleasantly surprised if I do. This keeps me relaxed and myself. I'm still on the hunt but I've had better luck with fe…
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/16 09:34 AM
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We are also doing brunch :) except on the day of since I work the day before. It'll be a day of sleeping in, fresh squeezed orange juice, and glancing at each other every so often while we read our own articles in the newspaper. No packed to the brim expensive restaurants here. I'm pretty excited. Have fun!
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/16 09:28 AM
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Oooh that sounds awesome :) I might have to do something similar when I get some money. I'll just have to bake some cookies. Also that dress is super subtly sexy!
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/16 09:25 AM
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I thought your response was really enlightening. Can you offer more advice on silencing that desire to struggle for power and seemingly throwing temper tantrums? I don't really do it in this way about a toaster oven, but I have real issues picking my battles, so to speak. I am a highly sensitive person and I have real trouble knowing how to differentiate between a big deal and "let it go" moments. I know this is something I need to develop as an adult, let alone in a relationship. I know it's my…
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/16 09:21 AM
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You got a lot of good advice from the ladies who previously commented. I just wanted to say I've been there and am still sort of getting out of it. I never really compared myself to other women at a noticeable amount because I was usually happy and confident. For various reasons the past half year I've been not myself and all I could do was think of how I wanted to be (like my old self, like other women, etc). I was obsessing so much about being perfect and attractive that I didn't even have the…
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/16 02:24 PM
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Hey it seems you really want to improve, which is a great thing. A lot of people never even consider that they could be the reason for things messing up. Anyhow, you honesty really didn't say much. Seemed more of a rant and I have no idea what happened to be able to say anything of use.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/16 12:36 PM
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I feel like when I wasn't doing well and was under a lot of stress I reacted really negatively and it seemed like we had quite a HHL relationship where he was naturally the dominant one yet I was constantly trying to stir things up and challenge his dominance and shit test him. Now that I've stfu and relaxed and got my stress under control we are much more somewhere between HLH and LLL. We are pretty relaxed in the LLL way and easy going at the heart of our relationship without any explicit, obv…
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/16 12:34 PM
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Just checked out Freddy Cousin Brown (interesting name!). Super cute. If you love her style and demeanor check out Eleonora Sebastiani. She's a beautiful Italian woman with amazing feminine style. I would probably kill for her closet. She's also a photographer so she posts a lot of dreamy photos. https://www.instagram.com/eleosebastiani/?hl=en
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/16 01:52 PM
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I want to: Get more creative with cooking! My bf got me a cooking class as a Christmas gift so I'm super excited for that. Continue eating healthily and lose some weight plus get more into fitness. Continue to do really well at University. Make more quality woman friends. My boyfriend and I are relatively new in this city and its been pretty hard meeting cool, like-minded people. But this will improve by... Continuing developing hobbies I'm passionate about- to meet other people who are similar …
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/16 04:56 PM
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We have pretty similar goals! Those frivolous purchases are definitely something that needs to go. Have to stop window shopping for fun :) good luck! Also if it helps at all, looking at Pinterest for home stuff really helps me to get inspired to clean a bunch.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/16 04:49 PM
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That's so cute that you two would read the same books during his deployment. I'm way bad with wanting to read so many books that I move onto one and leave the other abandoned :( maybe this will hold me accountable.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/15 10:37 PM
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Thanks for reminding me with the walks. We used to do this every night after dinner and I felt so close just being next to him, even without unnecessary chit chat. Will start again. It's hard to convince myself now that it's cold though.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/15 12:28 AM
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If you love the smell of your little crockpot concoction, you should try making mulled wine (or glühwein)! It uses wine, orange slices, cloves, cinnamon and sugar. Smells wonderful and then you can drink it too :)
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/15 11:10 PM
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How so? I am not saying she has time to wait to see how he feels by 26 years old. That would be a colossal waste of time. I'm saying if he is on board with marriage in the future when she TALKS to him (now) and he thinks 5 years from now is a good time and she informs him of when SHE would like to be married and he agrees, THEN a marriage at 26 is imo still quite young(in a positive way) and perfectly fine because her goal is to get married and preferably with him. Right now she just has to be s…
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/15 08:40 PM
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I am in college and 20 and have also been with my boyfriend for 2 years. He is older than me and at an age where marriage would not be considered "too young" but I still am not stressing about marriage or needing to have some sort of "talk" because two years in my opinion is still early on enough that you should be proving you're even marriage material and seeing whether he is, too. Especially, if your boyfriend is also young. You guys have TIME. Even 5 years seems totally fine to me. You would …
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/15 07:11 PM
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I LOVE getting socks. My bf got me smart wool socks twice because my feet are always so so cold but they're expensive and I wouldn't really buy them for myself. They're amazing. I am 20 so I imagine we are just old souls ;)
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/15 10:05 PM
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Gonna have to agree with everyone else...this sounds cute in theory but honestly men are happy to eat pizza and fart while you're gone. He can entertain himself he's a big boy. Save this kinda thing for a special occasion if you'd really like to. The nicest thing you could do is leave a home cooked meal for him or even just a beer or two he likes.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/15 02:31 PM
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American. Located in Germany.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/15 12:01 PM
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Your username is super süß.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/15 12:01 PM
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There is a lot of good advice in here. I just wanted to say you're not alone. I'm struggling with this a lot lately, too. And I guess we are both so lucky to have men who are sticking by us and being our rocks. Stay strong lady!
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/15 11:54 AM
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I will have to try this! I am also SO bad with the meditating. It makes me feel really anxious actually. Probably means I really need it haha. But I love coloring, it's so soothing.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/15 11:53 AM
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I can second this. Focusing on something like skincare is good for me because the process of it is already relaxing and I looked forward to doing it. Plus it's always fun showing my boyfriend all the weird stuff I put on my face and trying to run after him to put it on his too.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/15 11:51 AM
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You mean politically incorrect?
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 08:24 PM
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Hm I never looked at it that way. You're right. I guess by even acknowledging her, I am in a way enabling her behavior. That will be hard for me just because it goes against how I am as a person but I guess I gave her a chance.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/15 12:06 AM
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Lol. This has to be a joke right?
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/15 12:39 AM
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Are we dating the same man? He is the chilli and taco maker in the relationship. I'm not allowed to do touch those two things besides help with prep because he is so particular about how he makes it (and is good at it). Hahaha
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/15 09:51 AM
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Chicken is your best friend. It's so versatile. This will be a long comment because I have so many things to share because I too, struggled with healthy yummy dinners that didn't take a long time to prepare. My current go-to's are: Balsamic chicken Preheat at 205 C (400 F) and arrange skinless boneless chicken breasts in a pan (I usually do about 4), drizzle evenly with about a tablespoon of olive oil, salt and pepper, add a 1/4-1/2 cup balsamic vinegar depending on how big your breasts are (wel…
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/15 12:06 AM
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Thank you for your advice! A lot of good stuff
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/15 07:57 AM
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Thank you for giving a lot of great advice. Although it does bring on mild anxiety, a lot of you have said it is probably due to my lack of that kind of outlet for myself and that is probably very true. I am getting back into doing things that are just for me, that will in turn, only improve our relationship by helping me to (like you said) stop worrying about what it all MEANS. I don't do well with having too much time on my hands and not having creative or relaxing things that I can go to when…
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/15 03:04 PM
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Thanks for the response! Like I said to another poster I am working on getting back into my hobbies and passions. I've finally began working out like I used to, and signed up for dance again, am meeting more people. It'll be good for me too. I've definitely been in a funk that took me out of doing things that made me happy
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/15 03:00 PM
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Good point...interesting read, thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/15 02:58 PM
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We do live together (and have for about half a year now) and we've been together about 2 years now. I am working on this. It doesn't make me panic although it does make me a bit anxious and I'm working on actually putting my hobbies back into practice. Going to start dancing again, got back into working out, meeting new people etc. I'm sure this will help
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/15 02:57 PM
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Haha I did not even realize there was a name for it...glad i articulated it well.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/15 02:56 PM
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I've never properly had all of my hormones checked. Maybe it's worth looking into. It doesn't feel cyclical so much as it just feels like it has gotten progressively worse as the stress continued but it's worth paying attention to, maybe I just didn't realize. Everything you wrote seemed to resonate with me. Especially the caring for myself first. Anytime I would feel as if I was ruining things because I hated how I was feeling/appearing, I would hyper-focus on him and the relationship and all t…
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/15 07:32 AM
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I will check that book out and thank you very much for your wishes. You women are lovely, really. And I usually have tampons in every bag of mine or place that I would be where that situation might crop up. It was just one of those messy days and it really got to me. Thank you
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/15 07:24 AM
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I love Armani's Acqua di Gioia for the colder months. It's a stronger scent but it's beautiful and not overpowering. During summer or warmer months I don't like heavy fragrance so I'll usually use some sort of light oil with a light scent or a floral, summery perfume such as Daisy.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/15 10:52 AM
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Thank you for sharing. And your perspective is a nice one. That it can be a "we" thing and that I can let go of the guilt once I stop thinking that I need to feel guilty in the first place. I also struggle with communicating that I'm feeling a certain way and that X and Y would help me, even to myself. So I need to work on that as well. Learning what makes me feel better when that feeling arises instead of trying to rid myself of it with guilt or ill feeling.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/15 12:23 AM
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Everything you wrote was true and very comforting. So I just wanted to say thank you. It was nice that you said to trust him to take care of me and rest. It made something click. I really do feel like I just want to rest for a while. It's like mental fatigue.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/15 12:19 AM
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Thanks for pointing that out. I absolutely do not want to be that person who falls back onto such an excuse. I am aware of my behavior, am unhappy with it, and want to make changes to improve how I feel and the behavior that stems from it. It is probably far easier to continue and rely on providing excuses with a label for myself such as 'anxious', but I would be miserable and easier doesn't necessarily mean better for me. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/15 12:17 AM
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Thanks for sharing and responding. As I wrote to another poster, I struggle with just letting myself feel things as well, guilt-free. Because I'm always thinking of how I feel because I keep it inside, it doesn't seem obvious at first that I ignore my feelings, I mean I think about them, but I respond to them in a horrible way. I get very annoyed and angry at myself, it makes me feel worse, so I act in ways I do not like on top of it, which adds to the way I feel too, then I just feel terrible. …
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/15 12:13 AM
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This is true. I find that when I am feeling a certain way, I get very annoyed with myself and then angry, which only ups my stress at trying to force myself to 'get over it' and then I am grumpy, moody, sad, highly sensitive, etc. It's not a great way to deal with things, but it just wasn't an issue until now I suppose. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/15 12:09 AM
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Everything you said is so spot on. I always question why I have a hard time being vulnerable with him. He has shown repeatedly that he is worthy of that trust and I feel I do trust him! At least when I think about it. Something about showing imperfection in that way makes me panic and the panic leads to me being more imperfect because I am constantly in my head in those moments and overthinking everything. It's been a hard few months. I know I have to work on this because if I were able to just …
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/15 12:07 AM
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My boyfriend and I have the same age gap. It isn't a thing we "feel" at all. It only works because there is a connection there/common ground and are similar people. I only really notice when we are seeing friends of his who have babies or when he's wearing his sexy work clothes and I'm still in my pjs because I don't have class that day ;) But really, it works for us and I love our relationship. I was (and sometimes am) in a perpetual phase of "figuring it out" and I think he enjoys that he can …
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/15 01:27 PM
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There is no way that every girl around you is strictly into shopping and drinking. Though you will find a hard time finding a girl who doesn't like shopping (you want a girl to look good no?), you are looking in the wrong places. Go to book stores/library and shows and museums. Learn to approach women. Don't use the excuse that the ones you want do not exist. Maybe they are harder to come by, but they are there. Be the type of guy such a woman would want too.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/15 12:48 PM
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I live in another country with my boyfriend and am largely supported by my parents for the time being, unfortunately. He covers the majority of the rent, which is very fair since he is a professional. I love to have dinner ready for him when he comes back and I will admit that sometimes I felt overwhelmed but it had nothing to do with me cooking dinner for him, but because I was feeling stressed or overwhelmed because of something else already. And when you feel that way, EVERY little thing seem…
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/15 12:43 PM
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I LOVE baking, but because my weight doesn't appreciate it as much, or my boyfriend's weight/workout routine, when I get that itch I've been baking oatmeal for breakfast. There are a ton of recipes out there if you simply search: baked oatmeal. And you can get creative with your additions. It is healthy, scratches my baking itch and now that it's getting colder (where I am anyway), I think it would be nice to have a more comforting breakfast instead of a toast and black coffee or whatever it is …
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/15 12:38 PM
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I would really like to make this a thing that I do. I am 20 and a student and whenever I've held student jobs, I like to use it on extra this or that, and experiences but I know that it would be much wiser to have that extra money in the event of an emergency or to simply save it instead of spending it on a bunch of extras. Good advice.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/15 12:29 PM
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I don't eat pork really but that sounds delicious. It would probably work just fine with chicken too right?
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/15 01:55 PM
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Haha I understand that struggle completely. I have to tell myself to stop it sometimes because I don't really have anyone to bake for that's ok with eating baked goods all the time. At least we aren't alone :) thanks for the suggestions
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/15 01:54 PM
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I think I'll make this tonight! It's chilly enough outside too :)
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/15 01:53 PM
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What homemade desserts do you make? I LOVE baking and making desserts but I'm trying to watch what I eat. Although, I guess it can be an occasional indulgence.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/15 07:25 PM
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The chicken with roasted vegetables sounds delicious.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/15 06:49 PM
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I've actually never made ratatouille, I think I'll do that next!
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/15 06:48 PM
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This was so helpful, thank you! I love to cook for my dude too, but I get a bit overwhelmed with EVERYTHING out there so thanks for including some links :)
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/15 06:47 PM
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Unfortunately, where I live we have no frozen squash or sweet potato :( but thank you for the tips anyway, I will use it in future!
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/15 06:46 PM
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We go on walks together after dinner sometimes and that's really nice. I could see us doing that forever. Showers also feel so intimate. With the warm water and skin-to-skin contact. We also light candles and put on music as much as possible when we are eating dinner together. And last but not least, when we cuddle right before sleeping, it is the most intimate feeling in the world.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/15 10:14 PM
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Pretty weird how occupied you are with the number of men your sister has slept with. I mean, you aren't exactly leading by example either if your way of life is "spinning plates" and you're talking to her about men committing despite choosing a lifestyle that is clearly (at least at the surface) founded on non-committal beliefs for many. She sees that inconsistency. Both of you cannot relate to one another and she will only resent you for 1) being strangely curious about her sex life and 2) judg…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 08:59 AM
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I really need to do all of this. I had my tight social circle and was always more busy and now we are in a new city and I have to start from scratch, which has definitely added to the stress of having no real release. I'm going running this evening :) being active definitely does help and I have to commit to hobbies again. Thank you for the reminder. I guess I know all this but it is nice to hear it from other people when I feel this "drowned" in stress feeling that it isn't actually so hard.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/15 03:58 PM
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I just meant, a part of me feels like there is a weakness in doing so? Or at least I felt that way because I was taught that and it is hard to let go things you were taught.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/15 03:56 PM
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You're right. Just easier said than done but I have done it before and can do it again. I just tend to go off the rails when I am very stressed.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/15 03:55 PM
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Thanks so much for this advice and the offer for PMs. I may take you up on it some time. I will also try as much as possible to just chill out about the drive thing. It's easy to get pouty and mean and it becomes a weird spiral.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/15 03:55 PM
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Lol interesting logic...have you tried telling her?
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/15 07:10 AM
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I think if you know your partner enough you can tell what will be something he may be sensitive about or not. My boyfriend and I are also really Jokey and playful and I think it would change our relationship (not for the better) if I outright stopped. I can probably get away with making fun of him for eating a whole pack of something but he probably couldn't without making me feel like a whale.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/15 07:09 AM
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Was a great realization :). I could take 40 minutes getting ready to go run errands and while I wasn't letting myself go by any means, I wasn't really making any special efforts for him to see me all prettied either just because it's easy to when I'm home studying all day and not seeing anyone else.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/15 07:40 PM
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Thank you and keep up the search! They exist. Sometimes I even buy stuff not meant to be pjs specifically to wear as pjs. Cute tank tops that aren't too expensive, cutesy shorts and things like that.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/15 07:38 PM
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I completely get where you are coming from. It's easy because it seems harmless to say stuff like that but whenever he's done it to me (and also probably meant it harmlessly) I think, Ouch. Anyways about the pjs some of the really sexy things are way too itchy right?! Luckily my boyfriend is really into the cutesy, girl-next-door looking things if that makes sense and is always comfy. Basically my go to are cute little shorts and a revealing/tight tank top. Girly, subtly sexy, innocent vibes goi…
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/15 04:53 PM
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Very true. I'm a very self-critical person so it's a double-edged sword in that it helps when I need to change something and sucks when I'm just being harsh on myself. Edited to say thanks for congratulating me :)
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/15 04:49 PM
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Thanks, it definitely takes effort on my side to let him unwind because I'm such a talker haha
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/15 04:48 PM
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No, my entire post was to point out that everything you said is legitimate but doesn't negate very similar situations that are unfair to women as well. My point was that all of these things are not very sex exclusive, in my opinion. And I think how people view violence against men is a very personal thing. I find violence of all sorts to be disgusting, regardless of who it is coming from. I think a lot of people maintain the view that it is worse against a woman because they tend to be smaller i…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 08:57 AM
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The situations wouldn't be exactly the same but still there is always a counter question that is true from a woman's point of view. I think a lot of things just don't make sense, from the way PEOPLE behave in general, and not only men/women. Sure some things are male or female exclusive in the injustice department, but it isn't as simple as saying one sex is treated more unfairly than the other. "Why in the news do they only talk about the death of “women and children” during a tragedy?" Firstly…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 08:24 AM
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This sounds like a feminist post with the gender switched.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 07:36 AM
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You do know this is not all women? Sure there are people who become downright nasty when divorce comes into play and they victimize themselves to rationalize what they are doing. But all women take your kids away and strip you of everything you have? No. That's total bullshit. Both men and women can become vicious when a marriage ends. This is a type of person and not sex exclusive. That said, just sign some papers to avoid all this if ever you do get divorced.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 10:53 AM
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I live in Germany. I don't think this is very true. But I do agree that german girls are more interested in long term relationships and most girls don't put out in order to test who is after what. German or not. But there are plenty of german girls who I'm sure are as European as they come and down for one night stands and the like. If you're in american and in the military, just wear a rubber. There's a stereotype for the type of german girl who sleeps with american soldiers and actively seeks …
/r/seduction05/05/15 08:52 PM
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If you're not gay it honestly sounds like you're afraid of making the first move and seeing her reaction so you've somehow convinced yourself you don't want it at all? Or maybe you're simply used to being friend zoned and don't know how to leave that role. Just do it once. Just commit to one time and any questions you have afterward will be more clear whether it is sexuality, repressed guilt, plain anxiety over rejection, etc.
/r/seduction05/05/15 08:42 PM
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Are women really doing this? I can only imagine women approaching a male in that way if she's seen him around a lot and comfortable (works with him for example) or if she's with friends and a little tipsy. But not a complete stranger. Or am I wrong? I'm a woman and have only had one friend in my entire life do this a lot and she turned out to be a lesbian.
/r/seduction05/05/15 08:37 PM
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Agreed that "good girl" would really creep me out.
/r/seduction05/05/15 08:31 PM
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Yeah ok, I'm thinking more little girl maybe? As in high pitched. I rarely baby talk as in how one talks to a puppy. That's just irritating but I will admit to my voice getting extremely high pitched at different times. More so with my boyfriend, I'll admit that.. but not only him. My siblings have always teased me for having a high pitched voice when I'm angry or trying to be serious with them. It also happens with girl friends of mine. I think it's natural and guys shouldn't run for the hills …
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 07:35 PM
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That's a terrible way to look at it. Plenty of victims young girls too. Most rapists know the victim. Family members, good family friends, etc. There is fear and power involved. There is a lot of psychological manipulation such as a repeat rapist making sure a victim thinks they brought it onto themselves, etc. I get where you are coming from but it's one of those things you can't comprehend unless it has happened to you and each situation is different. And this stupid bitch makes people second …
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 04:56 PM
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I really feel like this is overthought. Many women probably do it on purpose but for a lot of women it is totally a thing that happens without even realizing it. I notice rarely (although I know it happens frequently) and it always bothers me once I'm aware I've done it. It might be learned but I think it's a pretty normal way for a female to showcase how feminine she is subconsciously. I really don't think it means the woman is nuts. Think about when a couple is fooling around or annoying each …
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 04:46 PM
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Yes. It's amazing how one feels moody and unsure of things when both parties have let things get too predictable. something like this seriously causes a 180 when I've been feeling a bit down or annoyed with the routine of thing.
/r/seduction22/01/15 04:29 PM
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Yup, completely agree. Good example.
/r/seduction22/01/15 12:51 PM
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I'm actually a woman, but thanks!
/r/seduction22/01/15 11:14 AM
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Like I said in another comment, I think it most definitely goes both ways. A sexual relationship is just that...a relationship. Both people have to put in work. But I think, generally speaking, men are more comfortable doing the initiating or have to pretend to be because it isn't familiar territory for lots of women. Is it fair? No. But the more secure a woman is in knowing her boyfriend wants her by seeing he initiates often, the more secure she will be in the sexual relationship and will use …
/r/seduction22/01/15 08:29 AM
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Woo!
/r/seduction22/01/15 06:41 AM
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yeah it was a bit "BRO you gotta do it this way" sounding. But, nonetheless, underneath the tone, I really do think it's solid advice that more men should take into consideration.
/r/seduction22/01/15 06:40 AM
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This woman understands. Listen to her.
/r/seduction22/01/15 06:39 AM
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I think I understood the article entirely differently. In my opinion, he isn't saying to totally disregard a girl's feelings and use her as a toy to pounce on every time he's with her but I think he is saying to remember that there IS a big difference between a girl'a boyfriend/husband and the rest of the people in her life. And that big difference really is sex. It isn't the most important thing and not true for all, but many. You most definitely SHOULD listen to her, offer advice, cuddle and w…
/r/seduction22/01/15 06:37 AM
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