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Ones that deep down think they’re not worthy of love, so don’t like themselves very much.
/r/ExRedPill23/09/19 01:05 AM
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You don’t have to be extreme with it, but your correct in that no one male or female wants to hang around a negative or depressed person. Especially if they have no prior relationship to you.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/19 02:41 PM
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It’s not that they know your insecure. It’s that your full of anger and resentment. No one will take the time to see past it. Why do you believe they should when you’re the one causing your suffering? People have their own happiness to worry about, and it not their job to fix you.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/19 02:21 AM
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I 💯% think so.
/r/ExRedPill21/09/19 05:41 PM
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We all think we’re islands, but this is false. It is more like we’re all in a pool. Everything we say, think, and do, sends out little vibrations in the water. These vibrations hit everyone. If we send out negative ones those around you will pick up on it and start to avoid you. This can quickly causes you to become resentful. Resentment is like pissing in the pool. Eventually the area around you becomes to toxic for anyone to stay around for long. If you want to get rid of the toxicity around y…
/r/ExRedPill20/09/19 09:56 PM
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Goal achieved ❤️❤️ However it’s also true. I think about those facts when I get down myself
/r/ExRedPill19/09/19 10:49 PM
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I hope it’s because you’ve realized how awesome you are, and not that you took my words the wrong way❤️❤️ I meant nothing but love.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/19 10:18 PM
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I truly believe all the worlds problems can boil down to our amygdala and lack of love (self love in particular). We tend to externalize our internal struggle. Meaning if you would have found a good relationship before starting your journey of healing, you’d probably have unconsciously sabotaged it (just like your ex did). Hurting people, hurt people. Luckily this last hurt caused you to start your journey. To farther it I present the following truths: The water that makes up 70% of you is older…
/r/ExRedPill19/09/19 02:49 PM
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This is by far the worst infomercial I have read. 😂 thank you I needed the laugh
/r/ExRedPill13/09/19 05:16 PM
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If you believe “it’s a dog eat dog” world, them it is. We create our own reality. If you instead see the beauty and complexity in it, the world becomes more beautiful and complex.
/r/ExRedPill10/09/19 09:16 PM
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Okay so...... Self improvement isn’t toxic in and of itself. It becomes toxic when you don’t do it for internal reasons and instead engage in it in an attempt to change your external world. For example I work out and lost weight because I wanted to. Not because of how it would affect others. If you engage in a behavior change just to affect others your going to fail. Mostly because any change on your part only has a 50/50 chance of affecting change in your environment positively. So if you becom…
/r/ExRedPill10/09/19 09:13 PM
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Her and most women including me as well. Only 30% of us can orgasm from PiV alone and from what I read it has something to do with the distance of the urethra to the clitoris.
/r/ExRedPill07/09/19 04:00 AM
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First and foremost you sound like your suffering with depression and should probably get some help. You’ve been through a lot with your parents divorce and doesn’t sound like you’ve heal from it. Also size doesn’t matter. 70% of women can’t orgasm through PiV alone. Clitoral stimulation is what is needed for the vast majority of us. So a man can have a big penis but is still not likely to cause an orgasm. If you really want to learn about female sexuality please read come as you are
/r/ExRedPill06/09/19 10:07 PM
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That’s just a lot of fucked up karma coming his way. But the funny thing is him taking no responsibility for hurting people and instead blaming it all in AP. He is probably a psychopath
/r/ExRedPill03/09/19 04:41 PM
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No the cause of the manosphere is the same reason for most of societies problems, Neurology/psychology. We refuse to evolve past our amygdala that causes us to be afraid of uncertainty and vulnerability. In order to feel safe and protected we project concrete ideology onto a complex uncertain world. Basically the easiest way to feel safe and secure in a very unsafe world is to attempt to control the external world and everything in it. For some men women are easy targets. We’re not as intimidati…
/r/ExRedPill03/09/19 02:39 PM
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No one knows what’s best for you but you. However you asked for our perspective so here is mine. Narcissistic ass holes come in all shape, sizes, and sexes. My frist hubs beat me, cheated, and stole all my money. Marriage can be beautiful when done right. My current (and last one I will have) hubs is the best person I know. I won’t leave him for anyone. He is my best friend, and because of him I am a much better person. He would say the same about me. We’ve been together almost 16 but are still …
/r/ExRedPill30/08/19 08:42 PM
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No but my masters degree dictates that I am suited to check methodology and make sure their study actually dictates what their asserting it does. Just because something has been published does not make it accurate. Personally I need to look at methodology before agreeing with any research. For example if the standard deviation is greater than .05% it is not considered valid enough for the hypothesis. So yes my background very much dictates I am suited to read and decipher research.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 03:02 AM
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I need to see METHODOLOGY I have no idea the scale used, the standard deviation, or variables measured, etc. I have no idea if they attempted to eliminate external variables like childhood trauma. So again I cannot go by this. However I have seen the methodology for climate change research.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 08:03 PM
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it’s relevant to my point that I stated and if I make an assertion I like to back it up. Also since we both of us agree sex is very important in a marriage...... Of the following who is most likely to have the most frequent and enjoyable sex? A. Two spontaneous sexual arousal types. B. Two responsive sexual arousal types C. Mixed arousal types. (Answer A) Also if the following who is going to suffer with higher rates of sexual dissatisfaction? A. Spontaneous sexual arousal couple B. Responsive s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 08:00 PM
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Actually spontaneous people tend to have high libidos, responsive tend to have low ones based off male (which is the majority of spontaneous) being the social norm. Read come as you are . It’s the best book on female sexuality and well cited. Dr Nagoski goes in depth about the dual control model and different arousal types as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 07:14 PM
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Once again I can’t read that study and see methodology so I am sorry I can’t change my opinion based of it. I can’t see who sponsored it either
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 07:10 PM
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I don’t know if it’s a specific number, but I agree completely. I know how lucky I am and what I have due to the prospective I got through various experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 07:09 PM
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You do though because again by lumping all “spontaneous desire women” as prone to poor relationships you do them an injustice. Sex count alone doesn’t mean poor relationship satisfaction or outcomes. In reality quality frequent sex is in fact a good indicator of a happy relationship. By thinking all women who enjoy and engage in sex frequently are poor relationship partners you could actually be missing out on a mind blowing marriage all because of prejudice. here even better one
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 07:07 PM
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It is a spectrum but being spontaneous means you able to get aroused by your own thoughts so I would believe you would touch just as much. 75% is a majority however by saying “all” your insinuate that women that aren’t like that aren’t feminine. For example 20% of men are responsive does that make them less men? No, neither does a women being spontaneous. I acknowledge this probably wasn’t what you were saying, but it is way I caution against using absolutes in any situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 07:00 PM
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Frist most people don’t have a real grasp of research so would naturally assume causation. I am stating their might be (still very much caution even this) a correlation. However not a causation. You’d be supersized at what junk gets published especially if it adheres to a world view of the group that paid for it. Once again most people only read the bringing and end of research because they are not able to decipher proper methodology. I seriously doubt they took attachment style into account whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 06:14 PM
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And you’re reality apparently, sad
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 04:59 PM
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It’s a completely selfish act from the male partner and not an expression of love on his.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 04:58 PM
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First only 75% of women have “responsive sexual arousal” (and 20% of men as well). 15% of us have spontaneous sexual arousal (80% of men). So again saying all women are one way and all men another isn’t just wrong it can be damaging. Personally I am lucky and both l and hubs have spontaneous which leads to daily sex. So I don’t have “maintenance” sex, but IMO no one should have to just “take it”. That seems rather selfish and I worry could easily lead to resentment which is the death of any marr…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 04:56 PM
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I believe it’s all allowable depending on the couples preference
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 04:47 PM
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Ya, I am because we have what’s called a “neocortex “ that is the most advanced organ to date. Way more advanced than any of those animals you just listed Also again making statements is not applying or suppling ACTUAL research. All of what insects do or other mammals isn’t not applicable to HUMANS. Why are you struggling with this..... Oh ya it is because your being governed by your amygdala (our lizard brain) and it’s confirmation bias
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 04:46 PM
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Added to my original point
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 04:38 PM
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Again RESEARCH please. You can just say shit. Your discounting that we are not like any other species, that our neurology can/does override our biology (often), and our society structure is the most complex (and dictates way more than you give credit).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 04:23 PM
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Sorry not a good source this study doesn’t indicate methods, standard deviation, etc. also your assuming causation with correlation, but that isn’t necessarily true. They could correlate because if attachment styles. Meaning they could just suck at relationships due to trauma and therefore be less prone to commit. So of course their counts will be higher. However the “sex” isn’t the cause it’s just a correlation. Also I am not “lucky” I have spontaneous arousal type, we tend to enjoy sex the mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 04:19 PM
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Not necessarily, I don’t find feminine men beautiful, but I do find my hubs beautiful and he is far from feminine
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 04:10 PM
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I say beautiful, and cute all the time. I mean he does have a pretty cute ass 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 04:07 PM
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I call my hubs “honey bunny”, and tell him he is beautiful, has a nice ass, pretty eyes, etc. He doesn’t mind at all and normally just answers back “me? Your way more______”. I would have to question a persons insecurity in themselves if they got all worked up about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 04:06 PM
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Married faithfully 16 years both had high counts. I would have to see more actual research for “less successful”. Because I doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 03:16 PM
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No there are multiple biased studies conducted by conservative groups
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 03:13 PM
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The “science” isn’t conclusive about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 03:12 PM
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That would still be a faulty research design. The sample size would not be indicative to real world sexual experiences. Also you wouldn’t have a control group.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 12:17 PM
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No, no he doesn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 12:15 PM
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People only ever change because of internal factors not external motivations. We find that when people use externally motivated factors the change is shallow. Again the change isn’t permanent, and behavior will revert back to baseline as soon as they get what they want from others.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 12:07 PM
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Why put the disclaimer of it having to be “none religious”? Why does that matter? However Europe during war in business during the economic crisis (this ones not really about rights but more about how we’re only given a chance when shit hits the fan.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 12:04 PM
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Saying this based of your opinion from observation in your own life and proving it by research our two different things. I could just as easily assert “all men are rapist and murders” based off my own. However I’d be just as wrong as you. Things MOST be proven by research to be stated as fact. Otherwise we’re letting our biased prospectives get in the way of truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 11:43 AM
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Nope, basic behavior modification. Change always has to come from within. It is the same reason interventions never work.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 01:26 AM
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I get it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 01:25 AM
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My bad. I’ll leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 09:11 PM
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You can’t control boys either
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 07:54 PM
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Ya I am female with a teen son but can straight up tell you it doesn’t matter what you want them to be” because they’re going to be who they want to be. End of story
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 07:54 PM
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I am here to be the voice of reason. No this is not real research at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 07:46 PM
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No the behavior was very real, toxic, and horrific. However their thinking (thoughts cause behavior) was delusional, and based off faulty self-hating ideas. Basically these men hate themselves a lot and displace that hate onto women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 06:39 PM
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Shootings occur because of this warped view being re-enforced and feed by the toxicity of the online community going unchecked. However their views aren’t a reality for anyone other than themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 06:27 PM
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To a guy that raped me....
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 06:16 PM
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There has always been people who for various reasons don’t get to reproduce. Their have also always been people controlled my their fear and anger who choose to project it onto “the other”. I agree incels are nothing new, they just unfortunately have a platform and echo chamber now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 04:41 PM
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No it wasn’t a community but the thought process was very much the same “women are evil” isn’t a new standpoint. If you really want to get deep anytime a civilization starts to fall the frist things to go are women’s rights. It’s classic projection (one of several ego defenses mechanisms) on a societal scale. “I am scared and don’t feel in control, so let’s attempt to control those we feel are less and different than us to make us feel more in control. This is because fear (which is what runs mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 04:36 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 04:19 PM
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The internet is not inductive of reality, it more a warped mirror of our collective “ID”. Men dominate both YouTube and Reddit that alone make it not reality
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 01:45 PM
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Yes they are, we all have human biological characteristics. The vast majority of what TRP claims to be “biological” is in fact not actually based of any real scientific research Yes it’s all about empowering men by having them point fingers at a different group and seeing the relationship as adversarial. Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 01:40 PM
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I am saying you insult and imply women are one way while ignoring men as the same way. Personally marrying my hubs was the best thing I ever did. But it you don want to don’t, who gives a shit? Just stop insulting half the population
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 12:20 PM
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So you admit it’s all just about fucking and attempting to control women.... through hypocrisy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 12:09 PM
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That is very kind of you to say. However I am only that way due to the experiences I have had that shaped me and my ability to overcome them. I am sorry you’ve gone through such crap. Unfortunately the Information Age is making people become way to shallow (it has to do with the paradoxes of choice and progress). Please know you are worth more than the cards you’ve been handed and things will change (they always do).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 11:50 AM
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So do men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 11:45 AM
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Status/wealth/money is not currency into a decent women’s heart anymore than being attractive is for a decent man. However they are both currency required for shallow indecent people. How is what I am saying “entitled”? Also no that’s not how “nice asses” work they to require work just a different kind (calorie restriction, exercise, dedication). However that’s is not my point, my point is that shallow self serving people look for shallow attributes. For shallow women it’s “what they have” for s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 11:44 AM
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Unfortunately that’s not the definition of codependency. Codependency = enabler not necessarily avoidance Codependent characterized by excessive emotional or psychological reliance on a partner, typically one who requires support on account of an illness or addiction. "you go with her all the time because you're a little codependent" a person with an excessive emotional or psychological reliance on a partner, typically one who requires support on account of an illness or addiction. "codependents…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 11:01 AM
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The incel phenomenon isn’t new at all. It pre-dates the internet. The only thing new is not they have their own echo chamber that re-enforces and feeds their toxicity.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 10:46 AM
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I work for the VA and know several types but we all have loyalty and self sacrifice programmed into us, so leader material. All great civilians have and will continue to fall because they are based of unequal power dynamics and become corrupt. Power corrupts absolutely no matter. Jim Jones started off wanting to create a loving society but ended up killing 800+ people because he had the power to. YES humans will ALWAYS do what they want to do regardless of your desire. They’ll just go behind you…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 11:52 PM
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This is just on Reddit and other man-o-sphere place like YouTube, and red pill ideology has always had a high prevalence. I started coming here two years ago and no matter the sud eventually your going to get into an argument with a bat shit crazy incel or red pill zealot. I don’t think they’re becoming more “mainstream”. I think it’s more likely we live in an uncertain time and during times of uncertainty people get scared. Scared people let their amygdala’s take over and in order to feel safe …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 11:35 PM
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Now your changing the definition. My marriage is very “interdependent”, most healthy relationships are. I depend on him for emotional support and he does me as well. However that is very different than “codependent”, meaning your enabling unhealthy behavior. If you “need” someone to survive you’re enabling their codependency not fostering interdependence. I don’t take your opinions as knocks against me. You obviously come from a different background and environment than me. Your entitled to your…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 10:50 PM
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Literally everything you’ve said is just opinion based. Shit your idea of “optimize” is barbaric and inhuman, “we should just force others to behave how I want them to” . Seriously?? Also instead of regressing how about we just evolve? People should not be punished for being human, instead we need to let go of out dated belief systems. Women’s sexuality isn’t bad or something that needs to be controlled to make you feel better. Instead you need to address your own feelings and grow. In reality a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 09:04 PM
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Attractiveness is a “strong social value” for men. Soo hypergamy all around?? You could literally go round and round all day with this “Women like money =hypergamy” but “men like younger mates =hypergamy” “Women like nice cars= hypergamy” but “men like nice asses= hypergamy” “Women like (insert socially valued trait)= hypergamy” but “men like (insert socially valued trait) = hypergamy”.,,, How can you not see there is no true dichotomy in this thinking??
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 08:50 PM
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Ya, but those type of relationships fail because you cannot “fix” people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 08:39 PM
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😂 priceless, you managed to insult men and women in one go, good job. Also none of what you just said is actually based on any research
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 08:37 PM
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I can’t deny the logic 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 08:34 PM
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You’re trying to equate correlation between to variables that have no researched correlation (height =/= hypergamy just because you want it to). The first reason being “hypergamy”” is a bullshit theory that has no legitimate backing. You are grasping here because height =/= best genes. In reality taller people have a higher probability of being ectomorphs (like my hubs). Ectomorphs have high rates of being underweight. It’s is actually healthier to be obese by 50 pounds than it is to be underwei…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 08:32 PM
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Actually unequal power dynamics have been the ruin of ALL systems that have had them. Kings, countries, partnerships it doesn’t matter. Please give me one example where this is “done right” ? Unequal power breeds resentment and almost always leads to abuse. Absolute power corrupts absolutely. Obviously you no knowing about the military. It breeds leaders. That’s literally what the fuck it does. It shapes children and brain washes leadership into them through the core values it installs. It’s way…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 08:19 PM
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Ya, I don’t stay because my “feelings” in the moment (feelings will always come and go). I stay because I promised to, and my word is my bond. I have gone weeks, months, even once a year where I loved my hubs but didn’t like him much. However those storms pasted and I was happier and loved my hubs more for having weathered them with him. I don’t think dependency is ever a good thing. It’s more of a trap and keeps toxic/co-dependent/abusive relationships stuck. I don’t believe dependence breeds h…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 07:37 PM
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I am a licensed mental health professional and former military. So a lot, however in reality I am not a leader or a follower. I am “follow the bet of my own drum” type. If you’re relationship is based of unequal power dynamics it will fail. Plan and simple. This is why divorce rates are higher the more religious states in the US. They marry younger, are less educated, and therefore have unequal power dynamics
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 07:31 PM
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Again it’s about personality type.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 07:21 PM
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Personally does play a role. For example I am an ENFP and hubs is an ISTP. Neither one of us are followers but we do take turns leading depending on situation and strengths. Most healthy relationships are like this. If you find one that only one person leads all the time and the other follows all the time there is a MAJOR chance co-dependence and other issues are going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 07:20 PM
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Yes I do, it is still not “outliner” material though, and 2/10 men aren’t crazy horny either so you can’t generalize. Silence didn’t stop me either, I just didn’t talk about it. Also if it was 100+ years ago I would have probably been burned at a stake for being intelligent.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 07:15 PM
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First I am probably the wildest women you’ll meet 😂 (biker, free spirt, HL, creative, ENFP personality, etc). But that’s besides the point. First I am going to have to get a little deep here so come down this rabbit hole if you will.,,, We all cause our own suffering due to our expectations and attachments. For example say I go to an ice cream store and really want vanilla, but I get there and they don’t have any. So I get shitty because I am holding on to the idea that “all ice cream stores sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 07:12 PM
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It shouldn’t be any of those things because there is a couple MAJOR issues with this philosophy. The power dynamics in teacher/students, child/parent, or spiritual leader/follower are completely not equal. This will lead to eventually the less powerful person revolting because people will always rebel against being controlled. People have to learn on their own through they’re own experiences and mistakes. You can’t stop, control, or force your knowledge onto them and expect them to take it. We s…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 06:32 PM
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I am a US army veteran and own a small arsenal. I will take this challenge sir 😂 Also my point stands... you don’t trust (and honestly like) women. So don’t get into a relationship with one. You’ll only end up being in a toxic (and probably emotionally abusive) one with your current mindset. For what it’s worth I am sorry for whatever happened to make you this way. However until you heal any relationship will go badly for you and definitely her. So spare adding more pain into an already overly p…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 06:19 AM
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Nope, just a old school feminist. Not liberal enough for the libfems and not radical enough for the Redfems. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 06:13 AM
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There are no “winners” or “losers”. We compromise. If you go into an argument with your spouse wanting to “win” you’re being adversarial. They’ve become your enemy, and that’s not a winning thing in a LTR. Instead (since I am a therapist) we use our adult feeling words. If either one of us are really upset we take time to calm down before discussing it. I also know the fundamental rule of never starting a sentence with “you”, instead use “I”. For example instead of “you didn’t do what I asked, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 06:10 AM
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I bet I can do several things better than you. Including riding a motorcycle, conduct therapy, and firing an M16. However if you see no value in women, you need to stay single. With what you’ve just shared your current mindset would only lead to a toxic relationship anyway. Marriage/LTR aren’t mediatory stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 06:01 AM
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I hold three degrees, clinical license, and make more money than hubs. No I don’t “need” him. He doesn’t “need” me either. Which we love because we’re not together out of necessity. We’re with each other because we love each other and want to be together. He never has to worry that I am only with him because of necessity, and knows that I am with him be because I desire to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 05:57 AM
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Not in my marriage. In mine we’re a team and decided things on what’s best for the team. My husband definitely doesn’t have the final say and neither do I. Happily together almost 16 years. Will be empty nesters in 18 months. We’ve already decided to travel more and take long term trips on our Harley’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 05:48 AM
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Lol thanks I needed that laugh....
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 05:42 AM
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Ya, I call bullshit. You’ll never know anyone more than they know themselves unless they’re dysfunctional. It’s sounds like your looking for someone who suffers with dependent personality disorder.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 05:36 AM
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If your looking to your spouse as a “father figure” you need therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 05:33 AM
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Ya with the exception of him having the final say, and adding in that we decided everything together, and he does all this for me as well (I have never really been a complainer). This is my very “blue pill” equal marriage. However I am 39 and mature to the point we have learned to argue without it being some big thing. I am also a LCSW so am very therapeutically minded and like to talk and come to a compromise. However I wouldn’t say he leads, I would say we stand together side by side.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 05:31 AM
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Not true at all.... you need to actually read about female sexuality. I would suggest Come as you are First 80% of men and 15% of women (like me) have what’s called spontaneous sexual desire. Meaning the typical “male” type and social standard. We can easy get aroused just by thinking about sex. We’re not “outliers”. We’re just often shamed into silence for simply being ourselves. 75% of women and 20% of men have what’s called responsive sexual desire. They are very context/environment driven. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 05:04 AM
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There is a lot wrong with all your examples. None of them actually provided the source or linked to the actual research. The first one flat out states that it was a study conducted in Israel (so therefor can’t be crossed referenced to other country, and would be only applicable to Israel). A lot our talking about teenagers which in and of itself is suspect because teenagers brains are fully formed and teen girls are easily manipulated. A lot of the “studies” talked about came from evolutionary p…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 11:33 PM
1

Lol, ohhh honey so naive. I make more than he does.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 03:07 PM
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This is an individual prospective question. You should read come as you are . It’s the best book on female sexuality out there. For example 80% of men and 15% of women have what’s called “spontaneous sexual desire” like me and my hubs. We viewed sex as important and engage in it almost daily due to it. Basically people with this type can easily get aroused just by thinking about their partners. Yet 70% of women and 20% of men have what’s called “responsive sexual desire”. They have a harder time…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 11:03 PM
2

Because people grow, and should not be constantly held accountable for past mistakes or experiences. In reality people are like sponges. Every experiences does changed us in small ways (not our vulva though that’s not how that works).. If you like who the person is you need to accept that their n-count is a part of what made them that way. So to me it’s positive no matter the number especially since I love who my partner is. He wouldn’t be the man I love if his count wasn’t so high because he wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 10:41 PM
1

We are all entitled to our standards. I am well aware that something might happen to my spouse and I will be taking care of him. I have no problem with that because I love him dearly. However in reality that love won’t have been possible if I wasn’t attracted to him in the first place. I personally don’t find men 10+ years attractive. I realize that many people can look past the practical/physical attraction. Good for them. I can’t, and from what I’ve read a lot of people can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 05:34 PM
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Don’t worry about it, he is way to funny to be mad at.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 05:29 PM
1

Lol thank you I needed the laugh. Frist he “demands” nothing because we’re a partnership not an ownership. Also he is just as experienced as I am (which I like). Secondly he did require a lot of a partner, (intelligence, loyalty, character, sexual prowess, independence, etc) sex count just wasn’t one of them. Lastly your sure like to assume. We have wonderful sex, often. I have explored/experienced more with him than anyone because I am not worried about being judged. I am able to be my complete…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 05:28 PM
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No it’s not, men just normally go through it at younger ages. I don’t have to bail because I won’t be with someone not my age. You also don’t know shit about me. I am former military and one fact about veterans is we’re some loyal ass MFs. I am happily married to a guy a year younger than me, and have been together for 16 years. I am not going anywhere. What does anything I’ve said led you to believe I am a mercenary??? That’s just fucking confusing. I am in no fucking way looking for money. Tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 02:50 PM
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Not true, I need no ones validation. The only opinion about me that’s actually matters is my own. Luckily I am completely cool with who I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 01:50 PM
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Because in fact a lot of men are juveniles and won’t be with a women that isn’t “a good girl”. Personally I’ve never lied because those men tend to view women’s worth only in terms of her vagina. So I like to weed them out ASAP. I am not going to be less-than just to make anyone more comfortable. This had paid off big time. My hubs is a wonderful man who likes that I had enough experiences to appreciate him even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 01:47 PM
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It’s not facts, and isn’t a good representative sample of the actual population. Tinder is a hook up app and therefore the findings aren’t applicable to any actual relationship
/r/ExRedPill23/08/19 02:06 AM
2

I am married the goal for me is to actually just have fun 🤷🏼‍♀️ I mean I already get sex when I want it, but I don’t always get to hang out with my peeps
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 12:09 AM
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Actually you don’t have any better odds. People only die in four different ways. Suddenly (only 5%), quick illnesses (less than a month another 5%), medium length illness (<2 years, like quick cancers, 20/30%), and lastly prolonged illness (>2 years, 60/70%). The vast majority of people are going to die from prolonged illnesses. Men or women doesn’t matter. You just think women need more care because we live longer than our male counterparts. However I was once a long term care social worker. We…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 11:52 PM
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It’s sad you only view a women’s worth in regards to their sexuality (especially the lack there if).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 08:42 PM
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Just look at my profile 😂 but don’t worry I am not leaving my hubs for anyone. So it’s kind of a mute point🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 08:26 PM
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I understand the fear of risk, and the fear of pain. Believe me, I don’t know you but I sure as fuck know pain. However all the best things in my life and yours came out of risk. They happen because we choose to jump in spite of the fear. In spit of the vulnerability. I also know that you don’t know me, and obviously haven’t had a relationship with anyone quite like me so let me tell you a little. My frist sons father left me homeless and pregnant. Yet even though in my state single mothers get …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 08:23 PM
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IDK he lost me at culinary arts 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 07:35 PM
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That is the major issue with this strategy: You’ll never get what your aiming at. See a relationship has three stages. The romantic stage. It is marked by high endorphins, passion, lots of sex. This is were your wearing blinders to all your partners faults and believe you so “in sink”. This stage last at most 2 years. Conflict stage. This is marked by conflict. The blinders come off and you start to realize that the person you thought your partner is in fact not who they are. Each of you attempt…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 07:30 PM
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Yep, I am lucky I ended up with some nothing like you. That one thing the RP does very well. It reminds me of how rare my hubs is. So again thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 07:07 PM
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No it isn’t about being “useful” to a women. I am not under a delusion that people need each other to be happy. I would still be happy single because I love my own company. It more just about being a decent empathetic human being. Your pain is stopping you from being one. My husband is the best person I have ever and will ever met. He is has a loyalty few have out side the military and as a veteran we tend to long for that after we leave. He loves my son and has help raise him since before he wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 07:05 PM
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No they really fucking don’t. However the karma is hilarious. Luckily my hubs and I both had high counts and it did turn either one of us off. We are actually happy we did because it help us have prospective. I know how special my hubs is because of my past experiences. He does as well. Also past experiences shape who you are and I won’t want to change him one bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 06:52 PM
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What the fuck?? He gets laid nightly by a hot wife that good is at it. Who also recently bought him a 2019 Chevrolet and a 2018 limited addition Harley Davidson street glide special for a surprise birthday present . I sacrificed having anymore children to stay with him after our son died and he refused to have anymore. Shit when we where dating he never actually paid his bills and they would keep getting cut off. Now we own a house and am about to buy property all because of my financial sense. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 06:44 PM
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Yes, and our son died. I I choose to stay with him instead of going off and having more kids. My husband is far from a “cuck” and a better man than you will ever be.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 06:40 PM
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Nope, most of the older women I love kick ass. One is currently 63 and riding her motorcycle across the country. We don’t “need” each other, we just want each other. However being single and older does not mean sad and lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 06:35 PM
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Not true, 15% of women have spontaneous sexual desire just like 80% of men. Also 20% of men have responsive sexual desire like 75% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 06:32 PM
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Actually menopause doesn’t take away sexual desire in most women, in some women it actually increases it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 06:30 PM
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Most windows/divorcée over a certain age are WGTOW, they just actually go their own way and don’t join support groups about hating men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 06:18 PM
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With hubs almost 16 years we both make around the same amount of money. We only have one bank account and both put our money into it. So his is mine and mine is his. We don’t keep track of who’s is who. Instead we pay bills but some in savings and divide up the rest 50/50. I would be shitty if we keep our income separate. I won’t want him to go without on weeks I got paid and me to go without on weeks he did. We’re a partnership, so we do things as partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 06:10 PM
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No it’s not just a “social hiccup”, the relationship rarely work due to power dynamics and life stages. However you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 06:00 PM
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Ya, not in a million years. I am definitely no ones nurse
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 05:57 PM
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No way, not in a million years. I was actually very rude to older men that even tried hitting on me. I wanted someone I could grow old with together. Not someone I would have to be a nurse to in middle age, because they’d be senior citizens. Fuck that noise.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 05:54 PM
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Thank you for reminding me of how lucky I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 05:50 PM
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Wow, not my experience but than again I have spontaneous sexual arousal like 15% of women and 80% of men. My (39f) sex life with my hubs (38m) is fucking awesome. Most women aren’t “LL” they have what’s called responsive sexual desire, along with 20% of men. Unfortunately most haven’t read come as you are which is sad because mixed match desire types can work well together if they try.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 05:45 PM
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It’s a sad view that you see it as that. When I meet my husband I was a single mother with an infant, making 12 am hour as a correctional officer, and just got out of the military. My husband was a maintenance guy making 8 dollars an hour, and didn’t even have a car. Through the 16 years we’ve been together we’ve made each other better people. I now hold three degrees, a clinical license, and make 75,000 a year working for the government. He has his own business, makes 80,000 and has over 83,000…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 05:21 PM
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How do you think it make a human feel to be shamed and told “they hit a wall” which first off is implying that their attractiveness is all that matters. That after a point you have no value no matter your accomplishments, education, contributions to the world. That your only worth is in your body. That the complexity and wonderment of being a living sentient being is nothing to men if your not 20, and active. All humans have schemas (core beliefs) that already tell them they aren’t worthy. We do…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 05:10 PM
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Their are others, if the man isn’t getting his emotional needs met, if he is not benefiting, etc. this isn’t one sided.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 04:26 PM
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There have been sexist men since the dawn of time. That’s not a surprise
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 04:09 PM
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This☝🏼☝🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 04:08 PM
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That’s because you only have your prospective to go off of and that prospective is male so your more attuned to the male side.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 04:07 PM
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That is truly sad. Love on both sides requires sacrifice, because TRUE love requires intimacy. However you don’t need love so have fun. I personally want it so am willing to compromise to have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 04:06 PM
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This☝🏼☝🏼🎉🎉
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 04:03 PM
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No we don’t, it is collaborative. If the male doesn’t find the female attractive no family is formed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 04:03 PM
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That’s bull shit. Most people (male and female) will only participate in behavior that benefits them. Men are not excluded from this. For example my husband loves me very much but if I withdraw affection he won’t stick around. Also how do you know what other people feel?? You don’t. I stay with my husband because of his affection and love. If I lost it I would leave just like he would.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 04:01 PM
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If she loves you it won’t matter. I and my husband both had numerous partners and honestly I am glad. Having many helped with prospective. We both know and can further appreciate what we have in each other. I know I won’t be leaving him because I have a very clear understanding of how special and wonderful he is. I say go for it.
/r/ExRedPill21/08/19 02:42 PM
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I actually know this one. Yes we are all drive by emotion and just use logic to give reason to emotional states. These people are hurting and displacement is a strong defense mechanism
/r/ExRedPill20/08/19 08:23 PM
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Me too❤️
/r/ExRedPill20/08/19 08:21 PM
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True, hurt people, hurt people. I am glad you found your way out. ❤️
/r/ExRedPill20/08/19 08:21 PM
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Not going to lie I skipped most of what you wrote as soon as you claimed again that hypergamy is researched but failed to back it up with actual research. But here is some of my rebuttal First it sucks when we say “not all women” but for some reason “not all men” is fine? Maybe next time a women talks about an issue she is facing you’ll think twice about “but what about the men” comments. No bad things don’t just happen to people that deserve it. Your taking my point out of context. Think critic…
/r/ExRedPill20/08/19 08:17 PM
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I actually don’t talk about them outside this sub. We also have no problem with men going their own way, however most just say they are while insulting women every chance they get. Displacing blame on to others and not taking responsibility for their own happiness. The irony being that if they actually just went their own way they would be. However to your other points. The pain these men feel is completely valid because all feelings are valid. However the lack of an internal locus of control of…
/r/ExRedPill20/08/19 02:50 PM
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Very true, these people are driven by emotion, especially hurt. You are completely right, it’s just sad because I also see the road ahead of them and how full of suffering it is. The social worker in me can’t help but hold up the “maybe change paths” sign.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/19 02:33 PM
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A handful of Ass hole women agreeing with hypergamy again doesn’t make it true. It just make these women ass holes. Hypergamy implies women want the strongest men that provide the best resources. News flash, many women protect and provide their own. I know because I am an US army veteran, who holds 3 degrees and makes 75,000 + a year on my own. My sisters and many female friends have also gotten their own without needing a man. Yes these people are toxic but one only falls for them if they eithe…
/r/ExRedPill20/08/19 02:27 PM
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No it’s not. It’s not my job to dis-prove anything, because you have yet to prove anything
/r/ExRedPill20/08/19 02:38 AM
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True, I seriously have to stop answering the damn trolls on here. However stupidity is my trigger and I am addicted to logic, so here I am yet again 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/ExRedPill20/08/19 12:40 AM
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Because I am not the one attempting to assert a “truth”, you are so the burden of prof is on you. Also life in and of it self is pain. If you hold on to any idea/person/place/thing (basically anything outside yourself) and form an attachment you will suffer deeper. So no your actually wrong, the more he stays stubborn on any position he will suffer because life is change. Nothing is permanent, everything is temporary. I am not “die hard” anything, but maybe reason zen research More research
/r/ExRedPill20/08/19 12:20 AM
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First I feel I must give a class on what is considered good sources of information and what isn’t, but I don’t have the time. So just know “YouTube” isn’t a good source. Secondly yes there are shallow women, because women are people and people can be shallow. However that doesn’t mean hypergamy is real. There are plenty of women who make their own money and find their own security. I know because I am one of them. I never understood women who thought like that. The truth is if something comes ea…
/r/ExRedPill19/08/19 11:55 PM
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Because none of what you just said is true, show this “data”, history is a whole different issue since women weren’t allowed to own any land and also were property, and stories of some old mean are anecdotal and not valid research.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/19 11:33 PM
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Spoiler alert: no one needs any person/place/thing to be happy/content.In reality external things can never cause internal states of being. They exist in different dimensions. Women don’t need men either. However only through interaction do we grow as people. One can choose a depth of experience with one individual or (like your example) one can choose a breadth. Neither is better than the other, they are just different and have different pro/cons
/r/ExRedPill19/08/19 08:32 PM
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It really pissed me off but because I knew I and most the women I love aren’t anything like what they depict. So I never bought into it. What you’re experiencing is called internalized misogyny. This is what happens when a woman starts believing all the negative things said about her gender, and starts hating herself. The truth is you’re a person before your female, and people all want the same thing. We all want to be loved, and accepted, but unfortunately we have what’s called “negativity bias…
/r/ExRedPill19/08/19 08:21 PM
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I am sorry your going through it, it is not an easy thing to have to live with. The good news is that it's treatable. I hope you find the strength to recover, but until you do intimate relationships are going to be rocky at best. please know my heart is with you.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/19 07:56 PM
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I work in the mental health field and have worked with several BPD suffers. It’s one of the hardest disorders to work with, and I just had to point out the elephant in the room. Hopefully he gets DBT and has a better outcome than the ones I work with that refuse.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/19 12:19 AM
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A lot of women love artists. I don’t think that’s your biggest hurtle. You glazed over your suffering with BPD (borderline personality disorder). Which is way more of an issue than you being an artist. One of the biggest issues BPD suffers face is unhealthy (and honestly often toxic) interpersonal relationships. BPD symptoms include: Fear of abandonment. People with BPD are often terrified of being abandoned or left alone. Even something as innocuous as a loved one arriving home late from work o…
/r/ExRedPill18/08/19 11:36 PM
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Yes but unfortunately people are stupid 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/ExRedPill17/08/19 04:11 PM
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I didn’t but it’s probably because I am female and therefore my tiny lady brain is not able to comprehend the complex science involved /s
/r/ExRedPill17/08/19 04:04 PM
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Man, you need help. Of corse I am pro-vaccines, but hey when they can’t attack your argument they will start to attack your character, that’s when you know you have won. Yes have a nice day.
/r/ExRedPill16/08/19 11:13 AM
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This is just confusing, and is literally giving me a headache. Wouldn’t she have been a slut if she actually slept with you?? However she didn’t sleep with anyone so how in the fuck is she a slut?? Can someone please define the meaning of the word “slut” to this poor guy? Seriously guy revisit the dictionary
/r/ExRedPill15/08/19 11:40 PM
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Sooo everything I’ve read on your threads/sites was planted there by feminist in order to misrepresent you? Now that’s diabolical next level genus, and the kind of shit I wish I could aspire to. However I and most feminist have lives and other shit to do. Sorry to be the one to break the bad news but in fact that’s all you guys. We’re not doing that shit.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/19 10:31 PM
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I am female of course they’re going to insult me, I not am equal human to most of them.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/19 10:25 PM
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How would you know?? I believe the stories your hearing are the exception but they get out there more because people force on the bad. In reality 50% of marriages last.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/19 05:47 PM
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MGTOW to you is about being yourself, but visit ANY MGTOW forum and it’s about insulting women. Edited to add: Its just like going to a Klan rally and saying “I am not racist, I do it for the unity”..., you might but your still going to be seen as a racist POS.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/19 03:49 PM
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Yep!!
/r/ExRedPill15/08/19 01:45 PM
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No it’s about hating women. You are who you associate with.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/19 01:44 PM
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Not all women are out to get you. This is where looking at character comes in. To many men just look for a pretty face. My husband seen that I didn’t fuck over my ex and even though the ass hole left me homeless and pregnant I still gave him joint physical and legal custody (yes gave Bruin my state single mothers get 100% automatically). I also was awarded 500 a month in child support but have only taken 300 a month the whole 16 years my sons been alive. On top of all this my husband seen that I…
/r/ExRedPill15/08/19 01:22 PM
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No I read all of it, that’s just the part I didn’t agree with. I agree 100% with the rest. Sorry it hits a nerve when whole groups are all lumped together. I will be 40 in October and have also lived everywhere (former military). So I always go by personality not gender. There are a lot of men and women I just don’t respect or enjoy being around so don’t. The I find the ones I do (of either gender) to be very enjoyable and fun. I agree all life’s do look different ❤️
/r/ExRedPill14/08/19 04:01 PM
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I find my group of friends both male and female to be awesome to be around, and equally fun. However we’re mostly all bikers. Maybe you should find better female friends?
/r/ExRedPill14/08/19 02:58 PM
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I am glad I was able to find such a man, and knew (probably because my own military service) what yo look for.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/19 02:41 PM
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On my god you such a fucking idiot. You brake down some statements like your actually combating them but you don’t respond to all my points (or anyones) you cherry pick but never actually back up your shit. You make blanket statements of bullshit then state that they are just “common sense”, so you think you don’t have to. Also you sale tech, you have not built anything for any female, you have not done anything of real importance for your society or the world. My husband actually builds shit fi…
/r/ExRedPill10/08/19 04:45 AM
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Frist women build this world as well. It is ignorant to think we stayed only in caves like bats. We help build huts, fish, we even fought and died in every war since the beginning (our stories have just been left out). We have ALWAYS contributed but unfortunately have been left out of the history books because men write them. Case in point Sybil Ludington who was a fuck ton more bad ass than Paul Revere, but I know you never heard about her because again men wrote history. Do you really think al…
/r/ExRedPill09/08/19 12:11 PM
1

I work for the federal government. I am a case manger for homeless veterans in the the HUDVASH program. Many have mental issues, and many don’t
/r/ExRedPill09/08/19 11:39 AM
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Ya more statements with no evidence
/r/ExRedPill09/08/19 11:38 AM
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I have a short fat male friend that are native. I still love him as a person and even got him a motorcycle battery when he was stranded. In no way is our relationship sexual.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/19 05:12 PM
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Those two links are bullshit opinions not peer reviewed..... I can’t believe your actually using “the rational male” as a fucking source. You obviously never had to write a paper in college. “The nature of males and females known and concrete” ..., nope not at all sir, bullshit, bullshit, bullshit..... nothing in life is black and white, but nice try, you get an F for effort
/r/ExRedPill06/08/19 07:00 PM
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Awww Reeeee our resident turd in the punch bowl. First you’re fucking male and can never understand how anyone else loves including other men. So STFU about how women feel because you have no actual fucking idea. This is because you only have your own prospective and ideas to go off of. Read whatever you want but your prospective can ever physically change. Second you believe only in biology and discount actual psychology. People (male or female) who have avoidant attachment don’t trust anyone e…
/r/ExRedPill06/08/19 06:53 PM
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That’s strange because I work with homeless women, that don’t have addictions or SMI.... Reeee back at it talking completely out of his ass, and when you give him examples of how what he believes it not true, he simply changes the definition of what he meant.
/r/ExRedPill06/08/19 06:16 PM
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When I met my husband 16 years ago he didn’t have a ca, and made 1/3 less than I did. We as people want more than financial security. I felt several men who looked better on paper than my husband did, but they didn’t have half his character. Same could be said of the male stereotypes, do you only want to fuck women or do you want emotional intimacy as well? Do you only find physical attraction to be important in relationships with us, or does our character matter as well?
/r/ExRedPill06/08/19 05:35 PM
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Well I am 39, and know a few things. I can reassure you I have witnessed enough to say that in fact the ideology is completely bull shit.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/19 01:03 AM
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You sure don’t sound like your “ex” anything and instead are just advocating for red pill doctrine.....
/r/ExRedPill01/08/19 08:03 PM
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It’s a horrible idea, if you don’t want the child man the fuck up and tell her you think she should get an abortion, and no longer want to be in a relationship with her. That is what an adult would do. This is actually probably a good thing since your not mentally prepared or mature enough for a relationship or to be someone’s father. However if she choose to keep it, you should be in the child’s life since it will need you. If you don’t you will pay for it in karma on top of the support.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/19 05:54 PM
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That’s one good way to really get raped by karma and is something a child not a man would do.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/19 05:45 PM
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It’s pretty obvious
/r/ExRedPill01/08/19 05:42 PM
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Sooo ya lost...or a stalker
/r/ExRedPill01/08/19 12:16 AM
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Nope not true, if she is worth it, you liking her will be something she is happy about. I’ve been with my husband almost 16 years, we’ve never hidden our attraction for each other since our first encounter.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/19 12:14 AM
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You lost or something??
/r/ExRedPill01/08/19 12:11 AM
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It’s what ended mine!
/r/ExRedPill01/08/19 12:10 AM
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No it does not show trust, it literally shows the opposite to her, but it does not matter. If you want one, get one. I had no issues with getting one, however I sure as fuck didn’t stay in the relationship. Because I wouldn’t stay with anyone who questions my loyalty when I ever gave any reason to.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/19 12:09 AM
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Anyone over the age of 18 has been burned by the opposite sex. Shit I was left homeless and pregnant, yet normal well adjusted people don’t blame the whole gender.... You father a CHILD you should pay support, children are expensive and you are half the reason it’s here. It not okay to engage in sexual activity but refuse to accept the consequences of it. In future If your not ready for another child you probably should use protection.
/r/ExRedPill31/07/19 11:57 PM
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Sooo in other words fuck your kid? Nice, karma going to be hard on you.....
/r/ExRedPill31/07/19 11:52 PM
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So you mean people?? Since all “people” can be snakes?
/r/ExRedPill31/07/19 11:51 PM
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Thanks for the confirmation of my assessment. You really are a sad, sad man. I feel profoundly sorry for you.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/19 01:30 PM
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God damn you LOVE to fucking hear yourself speak..... Blah, blah, blah..... women....blah, blah, blah, men, blah, blah blah. The truth is you’re a sad pathetic man, who deep down knows this. You attempt to use your perceived intelligence to feel superior to others but its all a lie. Because anyone who attempts to pigeonholed whole groups is in fact just sad and sacred, but definitely not all that intelligent. They want to make a gray world black and white so they feel safer. Deep down your a sca…
/r/ExRedPill22/07/19 11:49 AM
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Like I said, IDGAF about your backwards, hateful, ignorant opinions about anything including any half ass assessment about my mental capacity or intelligence. Yet, I am glad we can both agree on the fact that the RP community is comprised of simple minded (stupid) men. Also, I like that you’re going back in your “AWALT” stance and are now say “maybe if conditions are right this might happen”. Which could literally be said of anyone, male of female. Luckily for my husband it’s a mute point. I cre…
/r/ExRedPill21/07/19 02:57 PM
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I am not aware of Lancan, I am more an Eric Erickson and Maslow person. I don’t believe Freuds negative reputation has much to do with what langue the critics speak, and more to do with the Oedipus and Electra complex.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/19 02:42 PM
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Most people don’t have a firm understanding about how their past has shaped them and how it negatively impacted their resilience to trauma. Very few understand schemas (core beliefs that shape would view), what conformation and negativity biases are. They especially don’t understand the relationship between amygdala, limbic system, and neocortex and how it evolved. However even if they do, I would still suggest therapy to everyone. I am a licensed Therapist I have a better understanding about th…
/r/ExRedPill20/07/19 03:07 AM
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Ya I watched this yesterday. The catfish guy has some serious mental illness issues, and is doing some really fucked shit. From his his own admission he has a Hx of DV and stalking toward his ex. Yet now he catfishes women, harasses them, and believes they are less than human.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/19 02:01 AM
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Ohhhhhh I like that one, but if we’re going that way, I am taking the steak-and-Moly pill, because if we’re all going out might as well eat good and feel fucking awesome doing it.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/19 01:30 AM
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You know, that’s what you keep saying, but honestly coming from you I take that as a real sign it does, so thanks 🤷🏼‍♀️. How is the wife and kids? She left you due to her hypergaming and found a better provider/gamer yet? Might be time for that Suicide pact we talked about, you got to admit Jim Jones knew his shit....
/r/ExRedPill20/07/19 01:24 AM
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Ohhhhh my main man Reeeeeeee is back. How you been? Did you take my suggestions to the cult, sorry “men’s empowerment group”? Please tell me you at least agreed on a theme song, or my uniform idea?
/r/ExRedPill19/07/19 09:34 PM
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No therapy is the best option. Life is painful for everyone, we all suffer, and no one is special in their suffering or alone in it. We’re all just different in our coping mechanisms. It’s sounds like you could use a better toolbox. I hope you find it.
/r/ExRedPill19/07/19 09:30 PM
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Awesome If that’s the case I’m taking the Zenpill and finding contentment. No god, or external validation needed. 😂
/r/ExRedPill19/07/19 09:25 PM
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I am glad you got out
/r/ExRedPill19/07/19 09:19 PM
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Humans love to point fingers, it keeps them from having to look in the mirror and take responsibility. It’s a very simple way to protect our ego. I believe it’s called displacement.
/r/ExRedPill19/07/19 09:17 PM
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See this is why I just love to fuck with the guy.... ask him about how his klan cult, I mean “men’s empowerment” group is going. He’ll stop responding ASAP😂
/r/ExRedPill19/07/19 09:14 PM
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It’s tribalism at its finest
/r/ExRedPill19/07/19 09:11 PM
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Simple, stop caring about what others think. Realize that the ones that matter won’t care, and the ones that care don’t matter. You’re putting way to much into a label. I’ve had plenty of non-virgins that still sucked at sex. Having or not having sex isn’t indicative of worth. So relax and let BS labels go. Eventually you will find an understanding lover.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/19 06:31 PM
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Isn’t evolution just consistent growth over time? One never gets to control anything in life, including our emotions and thoughts (they are just things that happen to us), accept how we respond. We can respond to our emotions and thoughts as the foremost truth or we can learn to see them for what they our. Our bodies attempting to communicate with our consciousness and is often running off information that has faulty filters. Learn to see the truth of this and ones starts to stop being controlle…
/r/ExRedPill16/07/19 01:37 AM
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Lol, would you like to talk about string theory? How about E8? Have you seen the double slit experiment or know anything that the hadron collider is indicting? What about Einstein space time? Or my personal favorite Schrodinger’s though experiment? I do understand how evolution works, I also know how neuroplasticity works. I don’t have a drive to care for children I work with a adults because I am not a fan of children. We definitely can evolve emotionally and biologically. I am not the same per…
/r/ExRedPill15/07/19 10:37 PM
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Honestly some did, some didn’t. I don’t agree, past a point even the elderly can’t care for others. To me it’s not just about gene survival. If it was I and my husband would have children because the drive to have them would have been to strong to resist. Yet it wasn’t, because we have evolved past reproduction being the whole point. I am also sorry you only see the world from a biological animal prospective. I follow Zen and quantum physics, and view the world from spiritual consciousness. I am…
/r/ExRedPill15/07/19 07:41 PM
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Me, and my husband both are easily 8’s. He had very unattractive female friends, and I had unattractive male friends. Edited to add still do.... Not all of human existence is centered around reproduction. If it was we wouldn’t live past being able to reproduce.
/r/ExRedPill15/07/19 05:05 PM
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Been with hubs 16 years, all my friends are his friends and vice versa. My husband and I both would be there for the people we love as well.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/19 10:46 PM
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Ya, that’s what I am noticing too. That’s why it’s so funny. Cults don’t like you to leave because in a way it invalidates their world view (as opposed to when someone agrees and they get validation), but yet they still can’t see how/way their a cult. The cognitive dissonance is astounding....
/r/ExRedPill12/07/19 03:40 PM
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Bingo, but it’s more like a continuous honeymoon/conflict mixed stage. A little of both but no really either at the same time.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/19 12:44 PM
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Something, I don’t get laid, something, everyone is predictable, something, somethings, blah blah blah.... I was thinking about how to help make your men’s klan cult, I mean “men’s empowerment group”😉, taken more seriously. There is my suggestions. Frist you guys need spiffy uniforms. All the best groups have them. Catholics have funny hats, the military has BDU’s. So I was thinking, how about red construction vests? We could even but pills on the back of them. I would definitely stay away from …
/r/ExRedPill12/07/19 12:42 PM
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Nothing keeps me up, and am definitely not upset just got laid and am relaxing, Reddit is just fun. You mean evolutionary psychology and no it’s doesn’t sit well. Just like it’s doesn’t with actual psychologist or anthropologist because it’s bull shit, and not based of any scientific methods. The guy that came up with it doesn’t actually know shit about anthropology, but hay it fits your world view so have at it. Again why are you so up set about people not believing your shit, to the point you …
/r/ExRedPill12/07/19 03:55 AM
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They’re ex-pill so they already know your side. I am sure the cult sent you.... all hail the “coaches” keepers of all our hateful and biased bull shit.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/19 03:31 AM
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That’s strange, I am friends with several men and haven’t fucked one of them. Not only that they’re also my husbands friends but will often just hit me up when they need to talk or looking for advise. They’ll hit him up separately for the same reason. Either you’re wrong and are only basing this opinion on the fact YOU can’t be friends with women or I am some magical unicorn. Shit I am also a member of the American legion (but hubs isn’t), and have friends there. I must be a unicorn.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/19 03:27 AM
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Omg, why do you frequent this sud? Your not ex-red pill your more like their grand master. Did they send you to try and win people back or stop them from leaving your cult??
/r/ExRedPill12/07/19 03:19 AM
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Do they actually require you to call them “Coaches”.... that’s pretty cultish. Anyway yes men and women can be “friends”. I am married and am good friends with the males in our friend group. So much so that they will often communicate just with me. For example my husband has a friend he has known since middle school. We actually consider him like a little brother. He calls me sis, and will often hit me up to BS, or ask advice (especially since he recently got married). So ya, maybe not at 22, wh…
/r/ExRedPill12/07/19 02:59 AM
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“RP” relationships only work on the surface. They use Esther Pearls methods of fucking with the wife’s head so she is continually attempting to re-attach to her primary attachment base. It’s really fucked up actually, but yes because your making her insecure she’ll do anything to try to feel secure and therefore give you whatever you want. Basically in attachment theory peoples frist primary attachment base is their parents. When they leave their home and get involved in a serious intimate relat…
/r/ExRedPill11/07/19 11:59 PM
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Sorry if you are in an adversarial role, or keep your spouse at arms length, that is not truly a loving intimate relationship. I’ve been to married RP. They actually think you can either have a mother, friend, or lover but not all three. They believe if you want passion you must sacrifice intimacy. This is completely bullshit, but because they buy into Esther Pearl (fuck with her attachment base and head theory) and not Gottmen’s (build intimacy theory), they don’t believe so.
/r/ExRedPill11/07/19 11:24 PM
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😂 nope, he lost big, and this was even before on social media or online dating. He was a lot like you. He had a profound hatred of his mother and women in general. Last I heard he was homeless, addicted and alone living in Idaho somewhere. Yet another cautionary tale of the dangers of not taking responsibility for your suffering and letting resentment poison you. But ya, a great role model for you. 😂 Edited to add: but that was over a decade ago so he is dead by now
/r/ExRedPill10/07/19 06:41 PM
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No one can even comprehend one thing if it has nothing to compare it to. We only know that there is day because there is night. We only know there is up because there is down. We of course cant appreciate or even acknowledge a good person if we didn’t have bad people to compare them to. This is not a negative thing. We need the bad so we can see the good, it’s called growth and learning. If we found the “good guys” right off we wouldn’t appreciate them. So not understanding how that’s a bad thin…
/r/ExRedPill10/07/19 05:00 PM
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I am also a year and a half older than him 😂
/r/ExRedPill10/07/19 04:33 PM
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I don’t care what you think, but thanks for sharing.
/r/ExRedPill10/07/19 01:37 PM
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Lol you know nothing about me. You think alpha fucks and beta bucks right? Well let me educate you. Frist if we’re being honest my husband looks more like a bad boy (shaved head, goatee, biker) than anyone I’ve ever been with. However he is the kindest and best person I have ever known. I have three degrees and he only has a high school diploma. I make around 80k a year, and he only makes 60k..... but ya women suck 😂
/r/ExRedPill10/07/19 12:43 PM
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Deeper than the mind can conceive
/r/ExRedPill10/07/19 11:32 AM
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If you were happy about being single, why hate women? Seems to be a mute point..... unless you just need an adversary to blame your life’s problems on so you can displace responsibly for yourself.
/r/ExRedPill10/07/19 11:30 AM
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Not true, karma is just cause and affect. We all think we’re on individual islands, but this is false. It’s more like we’re all in a big pool. Every behavior, thought, and mood sends ripples in the water, those ripples bounce back to us. That is why anger begets anger, violence begets violence, but love also begets love, and joy begets joy. Unfortunately pain is the universal constant, it is our best teacher. However resentment is like pissing in the pool, eventually the water around you gets to…
/r/ExRedPill10/07/19 01:13 AM
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Women aren’t the issue. Your expectations are. The truth of life is you control nothing, but how you respond. You don’t control if you ever get laid (yes you can increase your chances but nothing is curtain), you only control how you respond to your life. You can continue to do what your doing. Pointing fingers, obsessing over who is at fault for you pain and wait for the world to change so you can find contentment (good luck, the world will never change for you or me), or you can ask yourself w…
/r/ExRedPill09/07/19 07:50 PM
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I like to say fuck pills the world is over medicated anyway... 😂 But in seriousness the “pills” are actually just shitty lenses, and you don’t need anyone else’s to see, but wear them long enough and your sight will suffer
/r/ExRedPill09/07/19 03:44 PM
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Man the cognitive dissonance is stronger them... 😂
/r/ExRedPill07/07/19 11:22 PM
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First rule of fight club is you don’t talk about fight club..... Lol, good luck with your ego death, Buddhist have been trying for thousands of years and haven’t accomplished it yet. Yet we all know the RP crowed is soooo much more intelligent they’ll do it in no time. 😂
/r/ExRedPill07/07/19 05:54 PM
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Yes, frist off you must understand brain development. You, and everyone your age, aren’t operating on a fully developed system just yet. Around 25-30 (as long as drugs or trauma doesn’t get in the way) your brain will make its final stage of development. Currently when you experience stimulus it goes from your nervous system to your amygdala/limbic system and reaches your neocortex last. Meaning you respond emotionally before rationally. After this last stage stimulus bypasses the amygdala/limbi…
/r/ExRedPill07/07/19 01:08 AM
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Definitely I have attempted to reason with him before and recognized the user name. Definitely narcissist and probably autistic. It sad really he’ll never have with his wife what I have with my husband. However I feel even more sorry for his wife. She must really hate herself.
/r/ExRedPill06/07/19 05:26 AM
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They also use A LOT of mindfulness tactics like they cane up with them. That shits been around for literally thousands of years....
/r/ExRedPill05/07/19 10:17 PM
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Yep just ran across this on the RPW site. The author of most the books they recommend Laura Doyle is insults marriage therapy but then adheres to a lot of what it teaches spinning it at it’s her idea.
/r/ExRedPill05/07/19 10:15 PM
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The things it get “right” are actually stolen from other philosophical beliefs...,, RP in and of itself gets nothing right
/r/ExRedPill05/07/19 06:09 PM
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Narcissist, I work with delusional people, no you actually can’t argue with them, but once again it shows your narcissism that you believe you can (because your just sooo smart you can achieve what mental health professionals can’t). Thank you. Your bullshit angered me weeks ago when I did attempt to reason with you but it did no good because all your responses are just deflection/projections/rationalizations (common psychological defenses used to protect ego). This current encounter enabled me …
/r/ExRedPill05/07/19 01:40 PM
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Correction long winded narcissist. Which makes sense because that diagnosis loves to hear it self speak, and alway believes they are the smartest in the room. I am not arguing with you because frist, you can’t argue with a delusion, and secondly, just by keeping you responding you’re proving my assessment to be accurate. Interestingly enough deep down narcissist feel extremely tiny and completely inadequate inside. This is why they love to project a sense of exaggerated superiority and grandeur.…
/r/ExRedPill05/07/19 04:23 AM
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Narcissist I very much doubt you’re married..... but in the unlikely event that you are, thank her for taking one for the team. Poor poor women, must suck to never be satisfied. Glad it’s not me....
/r/ExRedPill05/07/19 03:30 AM
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Narcissist through and through. :)
/r/ExRedPill05/07/19 03:27 AM
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Yep your definitely a narcissist......
/r/ExRedPill04/07/19 11:44 PM
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Soooo narcissist...... Ya I going with narcissist as indicated by the statement “All it did was reinforce and give context to everything I knew about human relationships. How women and men act and why they act a certain way”... You know nothing about women you’re just making assumptions. However believing yourself smarter than others is in also fact a sign of narcissism as indicated by your statement of “I had friends who had trauma who could simply not understand where they went wrong and would…
/r/ExRedPill04/07/19 11:39 PM
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It hurts everyone. Men who view women as subhuman will not be able to have a really deep emotional bond. This lack of bonding just makes them feel disconnected and hollow. This feeling of disconnection feeds anger, anger feeds resentment, and resentment is like a poison. Eventually you poison yourself enough and everyone around you can taste the toxicity so stay away. You end up isolated hating life but never really give yourself a chance in the first place. That’s why I love Brene Brown and her…
/r/ExRedPill03/07/19 07:06 PM
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I really hope it clears some things up. Like what actually goes into desire for women (brain, context, self image, stress levels). The dual control model of sexuality (the gas, and breaks). How men are more sensitive to the gas and women are more sensitive to the breaks. How 80% of men and 15% of women have spontaneous sexual desire and 20% of men and 75% of women have responsive desire and there differences . I believe EVERYONE should read that book. I have taken human sexuality in undergrad an…
/r/ExRedPill03/07/19 05:09 PM
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Ya not true at all, you should read come as you are. It’s the best book on female sexuality and is based of science and written by an actual sex educator that studied at the Kinsey sex institute at Indiana University. I can tell you from personal experience I fucking love sex. Me and my husband both have what’s call spontaneous sexual desire, which luckily for us, equals crazy awesome and daily sex. Even after 15 years together. Earlier in the relationship I never orgasmed but after finding my c…
/r/ExRedPill03/07/19 02:18 AM
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Agree 💯
/r/ExRedPill02/07/19 12:13 PM
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You can see my profile I haven’t expired shit, and I am 39 😂 Edited to add: they should really inform my husband that I am no longer desirable because he obviously didn’t get the message, he can’t keep his hands off me.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/19 01:37 AM
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Ya, you should read the book I linked. It even talk about the D/s fetish. It’s more about trust, giving up control, and fantasy. For example I love BDSM, but it makes sense because it’s completely opposite of me in real life. In real life I am in control of everything all the time, including all the emotional labor. So of course it’s sexually gratifying to let it go. I also have trust issues so it’s also very satisfying to show how completely I trust my husband. I would have never done BDSM with…
/r/ExRedPill02/07/19 01:32 AM
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They tell me 25, but if it happened I climbed that shit like I did in basic training because I look awesome 😂
/r/ExRedPill02/07/19 01:18 AM
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Soooo pretty much they’re telling men to dedicate their lives to the idea of revenge in mild age? That’s just sad. First off the “evil women” who actually hurt them will be fine in mild age and not give one thought about a past bf they had years ago. Because they actually spent time making a life worth having. Second this is bullshit, men don’t get any better looking with age either. I know because I have eyes. You also should improve for yourself and no one else. If you change for some idea (if…
/r/ExRedPill02/07/19 01:16 AM
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A lot is wrong with this... It’s dated from 2003 and is talking about a study from 1995, in graduate school we are taught to never only use one source and especially one that is 25 years old. It flat out states men weren’t included, so in fact is pinning all this on only half the equation. The rest is just common sense, you have sex outside marriage you’ve had more sex. More sex equals more risk and less moral obligation to continue to stay in a horrible relationship. Lastly I have had multiple …
/r/ExRedPill01/07/19 01:24 PM
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..... and ruled by your emotional state
/r/ExRedPill01/07/19 12:54 PM
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Honestly I don’t even know where to start. All those beliefs aren’t in anyway based of truth or science. How here are some of my “thoughts”..... Women are actual people just like me are. We also enjoy sex a lot. Our desire and arousal is different but we are what’s referred to as homogeneous. We actually have the same reproductive equipment it’s just arranged differently. If you actually want to learn about women’s sexuality (and not just a bunch of bullshit made up to make a group of men feel b…
/r/ExRedPill27/06/19 07:59 PM
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Please tell, me who is treated fairly all the time???
/r/ExRedPill25/06/19 10:02 PM
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No one has it any easier than anyone else. We all just have it different. Women have women’s problems, men have men’s problems, ugly peoples have ugly peoples problems, pretty people have pretty peoples problems, rich people have rich peoples problems, no one in life doesn’t suffer in some way, everyone is in some kind of pain. It is naive to believe anyone has it any better than anyone else, it’s just different but the side affects are all the same. I have been with my husband for 15 years, I w…
/r/ExRedPill25/06/19 09:58 PM
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This☝🏼 If you want a quality person you have to be quality as well. Like attracts like. If you’re suffering emotionally you will only attract someone who is also suffering. I tell my clients that wounded birds will only attract other wounded birds. And all that ends up happening is they flop around pecking each other’s eyes out. Mend your wings and you’ll find someone who will fly with you and not keep you injured.
/r/ExRedPill25/06/19 06:31 PM
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In the long run they’re only hurting themselves. Because their batshit ideas will never go mainstream but even if they did sex by itself doesn’t fend off loneliness. They could fuck everyday, but after awhile they would feel just as lonely angry and isolated. We as a species need emotional attachment that’s how we’re wired, and I am sorry but you can only get so much from your “bros”.
/r/ExRedPill25/06/19 11:43 AM
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It’s just extremely insulting. I have been with my husband for 15 years. Love him dearly, but to these people I am not even capable of love. As soon as a guy that looks remotely better on paper comes along I am just supposed to drop my panties and leave my husband. Because of corse shared history and emotional bonding is something only half the species gets to experience and I am not in that half.... it’s fucking bullshit of the highest order promoted by young idiots that don’t know shit about s…
/r/ExRedPill24/06/19 11:46 PM
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I think that’s completely bullshit. Some women aren’t loyal and some men aren’t loyal. That’s like saying “men are always rapists” . No some men are rapists and some aren’t. I don’t understand why absolutes are fine if your talking about women but not if you’re talking about men. We’re all the same fucking species.....
/r/ExRedPill24/06/19 11:19 PM
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Most people (male or female) only care about what they can get out of a situation and what you do for them. We as a species are selfish by nature, this includes men. Are we always like this no, but self is almost always our drive on some level. For example I work with homeless veterans, yes I love helping but it also makes me feel good by releasing dopamine when I do. If it didn’t get the dopamine release I won’t do it. This is the same for EVERYONE. I am sick of the one sidedness. My husband lo…
/r/ExRedPill23/06/19 10:23 PM
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Very true, I pity them. True intimacy can only occur if one is willing to be vulnerable. Most these men have been hurt to badly to currently allow themselves to be open to real love. However they do give me prospective on how good I have it and how rare what me and my husband have is. So in a way I am grateful for the haters because they help reflect my what I am thankful for even if they don’t mean to.
/r/ExRedPill21/06/19 07:29 PM
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Bottom line: hurt people, hurt people and the RP/MGTOW/incel community is full of men in pain trying to deflect it onto women and the world.
/r/ExRedPill21/06/19 12:59 PM
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You can’t make a blind man see, especially when he is emotionally invested in his current value system. So it is useless to feed the trolls. I completely agree with what you’re saying because in the RP mindset my relationship wouldn’t exist either. I make more, I have way more education, house belongs to me, I would be considered more attractive (but I still believe he is hot as shit), I enjoy sex a lot, and am deeply in love with my husband (even after 15 years). We’ve served the loss of our so…
/r/ExRedPill21/06/19 12:45 PM
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When one can no longer attack your argument they will start to attack your character. I definitely take pride in my Hx, including my education. My mother always told me to never cast your pearls before swine. It’s time I start to lesson to her. I wish you and your family the best. I will no longer respond to any of your comments on any thread. Have a nice day.
/r/ExRedPill21/06/19 12:17 PM
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Have a nice day
/r/ExRedPill21/06/19 12:07 PM
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I am saying not all cults are religious and that RP and the others are a cult. I never said they claimed to be a religion, I was just agreeing with you. 😊
/r/ExRedPill20/06/19 09:55 PM
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Yep, cult. They aren’t all religious...
/r/ExRedPill20/06/19 02:31 PM
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We can test current people, not past. That is why Evolutionary Psychology is all just speculative and not really scientific. Because we cannot apply the scientific method. However you can believe what the fuck ever you want. In the end we all walk our own path. If you’re getting your current hope/meaning by buying into extremism more power to you. We get what we put out. So keep putting out hate by shoving half the population into small boxes. I personally would like more love in the world so I …
/r/ExRedPill20/06/19 01:06 PM
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Nope because in fact all human traits vary from person to person no matter the gender. Let’s take “competitiveness” both men and women have varied levels of this trait. One man could display it at 35% and one women could display it at 90%. This is due to genetics and environment not gender. The same can be said for all human traits. So again no one can’t say “all women” or “all men” but one can in fact say all humans. For example all humans have some degree of narcissism, some only a low level w…
/r/ExRedPill20/06/19 12:41 PM
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I am work with physiologist. Even they agree that evolutionary psychology is mostly a pseudoscience. These theories haven’t been observed “throughout history”, in fact they are all theory. I have taken anthropology 101, and none of the massive crap your group loves to spout as “truth” was part of the corse.... Fits my narrative??? You and your kind are the ones twisting bullshit that has never been scientifically studied or observed (or could be because no one has a time machine) just to fit you…
/r/ExRedPill20/06/19 02:36 AM
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Ya,sorry 99.9 % is to much a majority to be true. 99.9% of anything doesn’t apply to a whole group of anyone. Insult me all you want Babur it won’t make your statement any more true. Have a nice evening I am finished interacting with members of your men cult.
/r/ExRedPill20/06/19 02:05 AM
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In life we don’t control the cards we are dealt, we only control how we play the hand. I believe toxic people are put in our path to force growth. Shit makes the flowers grow. I am glad your waking up and am sorry your mom was shit. Mine was to for most her life.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/19 05:13 PM
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Irony..... in your comment is fucking hilarious thank you.... Edited to add: if all women are one thing, than so are men. We’re not different species. You can’t say only have a species fits a descriptor. For example “Women can’t love like you love” (which is really just saying we don’t t love) is not only applicable to women because in fact we’re all a mix. I am half my father, and your still half your mother. So if women can’t love men can’t either. Only .05% of us has a completely male or fema…
/r/ExRedPill18/06/19 03:10 PM
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We found a cult follower!!! If AWALT, Than all men must also be
/r/ExRedPill18/06/19 03:08 PM
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💯
/r/ExRedPill18/06/19 03:02 PM
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I am female, I was a single mother of one and always loved sex when I met my husband 15 years ago. Luckily he didn’t have your mindset. We’re mostly very happy, we have sex almost daily (two people with HL equals awesome sex) and I have never cheated. They do like to make blanket statements and the truth of life is no one has it good. We all just have it different. Women have women problems, men have men problems, ugly people have ugly peoples problems, pretty people have pretty peoples problems…
/r/ExRedPill18/06/19 03:00 PM
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They believe we haven’t evolved at all which is ridiculous. They can see my profile, if I hit a wall I sure as fuck climbed that bitch just like I did in basic. I look damn good.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/19 01:37 AM
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Completely agree, I’ve never been red pill (I am female), and am glad I came across a sub dedicated to seeing through their BS. According to them I can’t love and honestly don’t exist. I am an attractive 39 year old female, masters degree in social work, army veteran, who has been with my husband faithfully for 15 years. My husband only graduated HS, works as a maintenance man, and makes less than me. Yet some how I am supposed to be shallow AF and jump on the next guy that is remotely better on…
/r/ExRedPill18/06/19 12:24 AM
2

My husband cries more than I do, and I still find him hot as fuck. In reality he is the healthier one for it, I am avoidant attachment so rarely let anyone in. I understand this is just my experience but it’s does illustrate that this is not always the case. I personally believe those opposed to overly emotional situations are probably having trouble with processing emotions in general.
/r/ExRedPill10/06/19 02:03 PM
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But it really doesn’t, all you have to do is accept reality. In reality no one with ever find contentment outside themselves. Forget happiness that’s an emotion and emotions are fleeting. Everyone can find contentment at any moment in their life. It’s as simple as changing your focus, stop focusing on what you don’t have, and comparing yourself to others. Instead focus on what you do.
/r/MGTOW27/01/19 06:53 PM
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(even though I have to add that I wouldn't want either woman). It's all good I bet they don't want you either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 08:36 PM
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I did both loved all of it (so don't understand the "worse" part). I played around until I meet my SO, and then started going back to school and am now 38 with a very profitable career. I did this while raising a son. We've been together for 15 years (married 11). We are very happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 08:27 PM
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I bet, I was also really defensive when I asked this
/r/MensRights20/06/17 04:13 AM
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I think people should always be happy for what they have. I also think people shouldn't be counted out due to sex or size. It's not the size of the dog in the fight, it's the size of the fight in the dog. By all statistics I should be a cracked out sex worker due to my up bringing but too much fight in me to ever keep me down. The only thing in this world that will actually lead to less conflict is if we all started to realize we are the same and pull our heads out of our collective asses. We al…
/r/MensRights19/06/17 09:27 PM
1

I do believe you, and I want to change it. I also don't think it just a feminist issue. I am starting to believe the left wants to control thought while the right wants to control personal life choices and behavior. I don't agree with either. I just want to help and let you know that not everyone is against you.
/r/MensRights19/06/17 09:14 PM
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Re-read my reply I know your cause really isn't about me. What do you want more to prove you can do it alone, or do you want your goals achieved?
/r/MensRights19/06/17 05:14 PM
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Completely agree
/r/MensRights19/06/17 03:11 PM
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It does though. who do you think put sex rules in place? It wasn't you or me. It was those who wanted power and control. What is the best way to control a large group of people? Keep them scared, ignorant, and divided. It started thousands of years ago with church's and continues today with the help of the 1%. Don't believe me, read a history book.
/r/MensRights19/06/17 03:08 PM
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I did
/r/MensRights19/06/17 02:50 PM
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Okay I agree that males are also raped and molested, but no it is not at the same rate. This one states 1/6 female 1/33 male https://www.rainn.org/statistics/victims-sexual-violence There is a newer one that states 1/5 females 1/70 males http://www.nsvrc.org/sites/default/files/publications_nsvrc_factsheet_media-packet_statistics-about-sexual-violence_0.pdf This one from the CDC states the same as the last but believes molestation to be the same https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/pdf/sv-data…
/r/MensRights19/06/17 01:54 PM
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I would join your world, I would do okay :)
/r/MensRights19/06/17 01:11 AM
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I was molested twice, and raped. All before the age of 18. Shit my step dad who raised me from the age of 8 until I joined the military attempted to fondle me when him and my mom broke up. Ya, all the free drinks I got from 2001 to 2004 while I was of age and single didn't make up for it.
/r/MensRights19/06/17 01:07 AM
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On noooooo you found me out, what will I do.......good job kind Reddit user ThePigmanAgain thank you for pointing out my falsehoods and continuing to insult me, it's starting to feel like Christmas at my sisters. Bwawawawaw
/r/MensRights18/06/17 04:24 AM
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No I'm the fuck not. Dude I am telling you I don't cling to the gender roles I like and give my husband the crapy ones. I wanted to be in combat and wasn't allowed. So no I don't want to run away from defending the country when I signed up and wanted to fight in the front line. I give my ex half custody because I wanted it to be fair, so of course I am for equality in family court. What in the fuck am I not getting? I am actually agreeing with you and you keep insulting me what the fuck? This is…
/r/MensRights18/06/17 04:09 AM
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I like that.
/r/MensRights18/06/17 03:55 AM
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Its not about me, but what do you want more, to do it alone or get it done? If it's to do it alone as the strong people your are fine. I apologize and wish you the best of luck. If it's to get it done your going to need a fuck ton more than the 100,000 or so that are estimated you have now and really should try to welcome everyone who is willing to fight with you. Also thought you were only 49% of the population? Since when did you become 75% especially with the current wars going on?
/r/MensRights18/06/17 03:53 AM
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To each their own, but that just sounds sad. Shit I admit women are human and therefore at high risk of being just complete and utter ass holes but fuck what if the wombs stopped working? Doesn't sound like a solid investment for the species, but it would probably prove some long standing bets right or wrong. The old "who can't live without who" argument would finally be put to rest. Fuck you might be on to something, it might solve all our issues lol.
/r/MensRights18/06/17 03:40 AM
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I have had no privilege in my life that has been worth the trauma I endured for being female. I know you suffer to, and I want to help. I would listen to you state your issues and never say you don't experience them or have no right to feel hurt. I would love to even brainstorm ways to get them addressed. However understand that if you want me to do these things I require the same. I hurt too. Luckily I know you didn't do it and I think we have some of the same enemies. Win, win
/r/MensRights18/06/17 03:20 AM
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I can respect that, I could even consider joining if it didn't mean they got to win. If I gave up on feminism I let them be the only example of what feminism is and all hope of ever returning it to a time before pre-hyper connection, 24 hour news, and thought policing is lost.
/r/MensRights18/06/17 02:46 AM
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Here you very much do speak about us the way the haters speak about men, not all of you but some of you very much do. Unfortunately for me I personally have never really benefited from my femaleness some have I haven't. On many levels it has even hindered me. I would like to explain how but I am tried of being accused of being a rambling crazy person for being open about my experience. Interesting study, is there more or is this the first one?
/r/MensRights18/06/17 02:35 AM
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I hope you mean there would be no need for you to have to fight this fight and not that you don't want to be here. Because you not being here would have a negative affect on everyone. We aren't islands and I have seen some really cool quantum physics experiments that suggest we might be more connected than I even thought. I wish my fight was over to, but honestly I wouldn't know what to do if I had no one to help. My fight isn't just for my rights, more than that I want to help heal as much emot…
/r/MensRights18/06/17 12:44 AM
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My point was I am one of those women who understand we can't have it both ways, and still chooses equality over bull shit sex roles. To the point I gave up my privilege several times because of its inherent inequalities. In my ancestry the females were warriors to. Biology decided nothing, those wanting complete power and control did. But since you reduced my very human attempt at saying "women like me are real" to just the ramblings of someone unhinged , I will have to agree that we have nothin…
/r/MensRights18/06/17 12:30 AM
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I would end up committing suicide. I hate cages :(
/r/MensRights18/06/17 12:15 AM
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You are completely right. I also acknowledge that I came off way wrong. It wasn't my intention. I spoke out of frustration not anger. I had been in other threads attempted to articulate some issues I seen with them. Yet I was called a "depraved sexist pig" for believing men where sexually attracted to attractive women, that I am a "feminist twit" for believing that Okay Cupid statistics aren't an accurate representation of the female mindset. So I wasn't in the best place when I asked this and s…
/r/MensRights18/06/17 12:14 AM
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I don't think I am better than anyone, I have my MSW which required taking research and statistics. I just know that people like me don't date on the internet. Which population do you think does? How are they different than the other populations? Can you really say "all" women do _____ of any surveys that only target the 15 to 35 year old demographic? No you can't but somehow I don't know what I'm talking about when I say this could never be valid because it not a good sample. Maybe I should hav…
/r/MensRights17/06/17 07:50 PM
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Thank you. I completely agree except I am attracted to men and have been happily married for years. Even down to my caution of overly attractive people, and not wanting bitched at all the time. I really do believe we will always have more in common than not.
/r/MensRights17/06/17 07:36 PM
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I honestly would have to look into it more before I could speak to either what or why about parenting time and hear both sides before I could really make any statements on that. But if no real abuse to the children is going on it should be shared. I guess what I was really unset about is that no one should tell another person regardless of gender what their words mean to them, because no one should tell someone else who they are.
/r/MensRights17/06/17 06:10 PM
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Thank you, I am sorry if in anyway I added to your suffering or anyone's here not was not my intention.
/r/MensRights17/06/17 06:03 PM
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Yes I do meditate, I am beginning to study Buddhism. You're right I could easy come off anyway anyone wants to take me. My day did get better after I left and stopped reading all the hate comments I was getting in other threads. I probably wasn't in the best frame of mind to start a new thread when I asked this question. I believe their is a high likely hood that your not being genuine but fuck it. The hate has to stop and this is unfortunately the kindest statement anyone has made to me yet, th…
/r/MensRights17/06/17 03:29 PM
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Yep big giveaway I am literate and have been reading your post.
/r/MensRights17/06/17 02:47 PM
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Actually it is, as a man you don't get to say what feminism is just like as a woman I don't get to say what an MRA is. I can say what I see and question but I don't have any real right to change the meaning of your words. unfortunately for many decades the word feminism has been twisted (mostly by the religious camp). damn they really hate women like me, lucky through my Viking ancestry we didn't all die out even through the inquisition and witch trials. However strong women will never die out b…
/r/MensRights17/06/17 02:45 PM
1

When I am back at my computer I will cut and paste, some of the comments I have gotten.
/r/MensRights17/06/17 02:26 PM
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It's hard not to when you get overwhelmed by all the articles talking about how evil you are. I actually didn't have any preconceived notions until I came here. I admit my first reaction wasn't my best. I actually had to walk away take a breath and analyze what was the real underlining thread. Its pain. Its unfortunately understandable you do have issues that need addressed but no one is listening. I believe they can't hear your messages because of your messengers. I know I really have no right …
/r/MensRights17/06/17 01:44 PM
1

I don't put women first, I don't think I should get anything for simply having a vagina their not magical. You might not know what the perfect world is but you know what your perfect world would look like. I asked to attempt to get at the core of what was really wanted and maybe help with some healing. A lot of people on here are in a lot of pain, not a judgement statement it's actually really justified women are human and humans can be selfish shallow evil things when they want to be. See I cam…
/r/MensRights17/06/17 01:02 PM
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I fucking don't, who decided what was female and what was male? Oh ya the god damn church I don't believe in. See sir I served in The fucking military and was pissed to learn I couldn't be in combat in 1998 when I joined. I really wanted to drive tanks but was told no I couldn't because I was female. He actually attempted to get me to sign up for a chair born ranger position. It didn't work out well for him. I think everyone should have to sign up for the draft unless they are a only child, disa…
/r/MensRights17/06/17 12:39 PM
1

Way does anyone have to play a role?
/r/MensRights17/06/17 12:12 AM
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I have three degrees I need no more education. However I have just been going off my treatment. I watch the red pill had questions, came here, didn't get any answered, but I sure as fuck have been insulted. Sadly I can even understand it. I have been the target of a lot of pain transference, and it has caused me to be on defense level 10. Think you for telling me about the list. Maybe next time don't go straight to insulting I didn't say MRA's hate women I said from were I am it looks like it an…
/r/MensRights16/06/17 11:04 PM
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I did that's why I am here. I am not reporting anything to anyone. I actually agree up until it takes a left turn into crazy town and starts blaming me for all your pain. I am a real feminist because I believe in actual gender equality for all. Some would call me a humanist but I refuse to let ass hole haters define and take away my word. I support myself, served in the military believe EVERYONE should sign up for the draft. I as was well aware of most of what the documentary said. I just don't …
/r/MensRights16/06/17 10:55 PM
1

They might pretend to, some evil people might even take it as a challenge but believe me the world really doesn't care because the world doesn't care about anyone. It didn't care when my son, mom, and dad died, when I reported being beaten at school, when I was homeless after getting out of the military, or when my husband was kicked out at 14 and also became homeless. The world doesn't care because not enough people care enough to get off their butts and actually attempt to help. Everyone is me…
/r/MensRights16/06/17 10:34 PM
1

I know several weapons I would have loved to know more, but was not allowed to because when I signed up women couldn't be in combat. It actually really pissed me off because I really wanted to drive tanks. That would have been awesome. Where is your casual research? I am in no way shape or form better than any man, and no man is better than me, we are all just mammals doing the best we can with what we have. I know it was the point of the garbage man comment mine was more that she wasn't worthy.…
/r/MensRights16/06/17 10:13 PM
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Your right I assumed a lot because I believe this to be one of those straw-man arguments feminist are always accused of. Why care about what some shallow ass rich women wants? I sure don't give a fuck what some rich shallow man wants or who he fucks. When I hear "MRA" I used to think sad middle age overweight loser who can't get laid, I was hoping to change that but it's not looking hopeful. It's sad to because you really have some issues that need addressed. Maybe one day you can pull your head…
/r/MensRights16/06/17 09:55 PM
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I didn't mean to come off that way, it's my first time on Reddit let a lone talking to the "evil" MRA (I am just kidding I haven't seen evil just pain). However I am very overwhelmed by all the hate and feel that just like a lot of the current issues SOME feminist bitch about are misdirected, this type of bs is to. Shallow people are going to always be shallow why be angry? Why would you want someone like that? Yes their are superficial self-entitled shallow women, but their are also superficial…
/r/MensRights16/06/17 09:42 PM
1

I am not a troll but a real person, born before the electric collective "ID" took over society. I actually just watched the red pill not to long ago and wanted to find out what you guys were about. That's why the accounts new. Sadly I thought I was allowed to state my opinions as well. I guess not. I had issues with this article and made a statement. Right or wrong I thought I was allowed. Maybe someone can direct me to a place I can help out with the family court situation without having to dea…
/r/MensRights16/06/17 09:22 PM
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I am not very eloquent in my typing but can assure you I am not a troll, however I wouldn't further engage you either because I won't be bothered to engage condescending asses. Just know this masters level LSW has been with her maintenance man husband for 14 years. You don't know me, you really don't know many of us. I hope You just don't see shit on the internet and have your individual life experience and truly believe that it makes you better, wiser, or some kind of martyr. Wake the fuck up. …
/r/MensRights16/06/17 09:07 PM
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No one said a women did, I might have transferred a little due to getting attacked earlier, but being a feminist we seem to take the fall a lot around here. Of corse female nazis were just as bad, shit I bet they were worse because they had something to prove. Not as much as you'd think, back then you could freely beat your wife. I think it was even socially expectable. I know that up until the 70's the cops would just tell my grandmother to stop upsetting my grandfather every time she would cal…
/r/MensRights16/06/17 08:36 PM
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I served 4 years active US army and was a corrections officer. I can and have gotten male jobs. Oh I also have personally helped to house 150 homeless veterans (most of which being male). So to let you in I have actually put my ass on the line every fucking day of my adult life or shit twenty fucking years to better the world for all people. I don't just sit on the internet and complain about how horrible I have it and I have had it pretty fuck bad too. The truth I learned from childhood is that…
/r/MensRights16/06/17 08:26 PM
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It's been 2 years since I finished grad school, but there is no way you can remove tampering because these numbers were all just pulled from questionnaires given over the internet. Also you can't even apply it to Canada because only certain groups use internet dating sites. Shit I never have. So no it's not a valid representation.
/r/MensRights16/06/17 08:05 PM
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Bwawawaw, hot chick science, no asking friends, lol cute. I won't be condescending like you. I will just point out that okay Cupid could never be an okay data set since it's not reliable representation of the actual population, and you could never get any valid or reliable outcomes because you could never remove bias and tampering out of it. Meaning of those 68,000 how many are repeats. I didn't provide cites because I have a job and wasn't about to tell a client to reschedule his therapy appoin…
/r/MensRights16/06/17 01:15 AM
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Okay if you start with insulting you shut down conversations. But you are also unaware of who I am and I understand that when I say feminist you hear demon, so have at it but that's really not what I am here for. I will educate you a little on me in hopes that you understand that I am not here to attack you or invalidate your struggles. I have three degrees in social work, including my LSW. I served 4 year active US Army, and worked two years as a corrections officer. I have personally housed 13…
/r/MensRights16/06/17 12:44 AM
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Sorry about the gender slip not sure about the does and don't I am new. I read the rules wasn't in there. I really can't speak to what you where taught. I really just meant it as a point about being mad because you can't get a CEO. Most can't its okay fuck those people away, who wants to be with someone gone all the time? I can speak of my experience with my ex who upon us braking up strangled me, and stole all my money by cleaning out my bank account. He also got me locked in the brig while I w…
/r/MensRights15/06/17 09:12 PM
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Are you really citing ok Cupid? Like I am supposed to take that seriously. Also reducing yourself to insulting me when you're miss my point is sad. My point was people generally end up with people that are their equal. It's not wrong for a CEO to want to marry other ceo's. Your experience my be different but not mine. I hope one day you can learn that we are not all the same. However I understand your pain I have my own. Luckily for me I know that Ass holes come in both sexes and will never blam…
/r/MensRights15/06/17 08:26 PM
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I give no shits, I literally stated I am an 8 on my best day so logic dictates I am average.
/r/MensRights15/06/17 07:44 PM
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First off women in no way made these rules, men did. Women didn't pressure them to make them we had no hand in it. Secondly, women's sexuality has always been viewed as something for the enjoyment of men, especially back in the 30's and 40's. Meaning I bet they weren't killed because the Nazis probably just raped the ones they found, and didn't kill them so they could come back for more later, we are talking about war and fucking Nazis. Normally the simplest explanation is the correct one.
/r/MensRights15/06/17 04:58 PM
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How is this any different than the standards you hold us too? Meaning if we are greedy for wanting to marry someone more successful than we are, than you are shallow for wanting to marry someone more attractive than you are. Like attracts like, If you are a male 5 that makes around average income, you need to understand that it is almost impossible for you not to end up with a partner that is the same. It is very rare not to. Yes rich men can get attractive females but their both still 10's just…
/r/MensRights15/06/17 04:38 PM
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You are also a contradiction, you are upset a women doesn't want to "marry down", but you wouldn't marry an unattractive women. The truth is like attracts like. Women who are successful of course want to marry men that are also successful. People do marry for love, but the trick is they don't fall in love with people they don't feel are equal to them. That goes for all genders. Me and my husband make around the same (he makes 3,000 more a year I wouldn't call him the bread winner since together …
/r/MensRights15/06/17 02:08 PM
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Ya, the research used is flawed, and can't be applied to all successful women, this is do to the study sample being all from Canada. Also it is only one study you would need more to actually make these statements. At best you can say more research needs to be done.
/r/MensRights15/06/17 01:15 PM
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