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| 4 | How do women honestly feel about guys that are genuinely going about improving themselves but still can’t get laid?I don't think he's directing it towards you personally and is being more generic in how society tends to perceive the issue. Lonely guy feeling sad and lonely? It must be because he just looking for sex, wanting women only for their bodies and not the whole inner person. Plenty of men want genuine companionship that isn't just about sex. They still strike out even after active effort to improve themselves via their style, demeanor, how they carry themselves, initiate a conversation, read social … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 11:00 PM |
| 7 | Why do you think male loneliness and decline in dating is finally getting mainstream coverage?The economic situation sucks. But what's your alternative? Burning the whole shit to the ground and starting from scratch perhaps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Those who don’t agree with the red pill. What advice that isn’t red pilled would you give to those who struggle with dating?They don't all have the same exact beliefs/ideology, they're going similar life circumstances but that doesn't mean they all "associate" with one another. Again you're painting with a broad brush. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Those who don’t agree with the red pill. What advice that isn’t red pilled would you give to those who struggle with dating?What a way to cherry pick the absolute worst possible examples and stereotypes of struggling guys and use thay broad brush to justify why society shits on them, even though most of them don't deserve that vilification. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Those who don’t agree with the red pill. What advice that isn’t red pilled would you give to those who struggle with dating?This is the brutal truth right here. Sad to say but a lot (far too many) guys are going to spend most of their lives being perpetually single because of this even if they don't yet realize it. Yall can take that as you will, agree or disagree with me but one thing that would maybe be a bit helpful is too have just a tad bit for empathy towards those guys who find themselves is that situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 11:50 PM |
| 0 | This is the worst time in human history to be dating.And that pertains to this discussion how exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/22 07:43 PM |
| 4 | What would happen if most men asked themselves to list and defend the reasons why they need or want women? I mean really considered the question?All you're doing is proving my original point. Read my post again. Plenty of men actually DO upkeep themselves, bathe, dress smart, etc etc and STILL get hardliners rejections off the bat. Again you're just doing what all the other man-haters do on this sub: stereotyping men that they must all be unhygienic geeks with no fashion sense if they can't get a girlfriend. Naw man, there are a lot of men who don't fit that bill but still struggle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 11:12 PM |
| 3 | Society wanted to fix "Bad men" instead of women but end up redisigning average men for women as an alternative proposition.Sure, but I think what pisses off men in this sub is being told that they're being "entitled" or are "shooting out of their league" and to "lower their standards" if they want a girlfriend while women have free rein to hold onto whatever ridiculous standards they have towards men while being nothing special themselves. The majority of men (both attractive and average/unattractive) will find the same hot women hot, but the average/unattractive guys at least have a more grounded sense of what they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 11:07 PM |
| 2 | What would happen if most men asked themselves to list and defend the reasons why they need or want women? I mean really considered the question?If men actually cared about that, they would put effort into making themselves more attractive. They DO. That's the point I'm trying to make. Plenty of guys actively put in the effort to succeed but they still get rejected left and right. I have not met a man on PPD who is not extremely bitter and opposed to any type of effort that would have to go into making themselves more appealing to women. Demographics is an interesting thing and not all men are the same. I've come across guys on this sub … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 10:57 PM |
| 2 | Society wanted to fix "Bad men" instead of women but end up redisigning average men for women as an alternative proposition.Charisma and confidence I suppose, as well as not dressing like a scrub. But none of that really guarantees anything. Good looking Chads with said confidence and charisma can still get a better results even if he's behaving like an ass and dressed in his construction job clothes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 10:51 PM |
| 9 | What would happen if most men asked themselves to list and defend the reasons why they need or want women? I mean really considered the question?And plenty of other men have also said that coochie is NOT all they care about and they actually want a relationship, but they still get lumped into the same box as men who only care about sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 10:40 PM |
| 0 | Society wanted to fix "Bad men" instead of women but end up redisigning average men for women as an alternative proposition.I'm just telling you what's been observed countless times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 10:36 PM |
| 3 | What would happen if most men asked themselves to list and defend the reasons why they need or want women? I mean really considered the question?It's annoying how people on this sub keep comparing those two things as if they're not mutually exclusive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 10:33 PM |
| 12 | What would happen if most men asked themselves to list and defend the reasons why they need or want women? I mean really considered the question?If it was really that simplistic then all these frustrated men would be content just paying hookers for sex, but they don't, because they want more than just sex. That should be the giveaway clue but most man-haters ignore this and proceed to acuse men of just trying to get into women's pants. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 10:28 PM |
| – | CMV women's sexuality is the reason they lack empathy for men and their struggles.That's all fine and dandy, but then "society" shouldn't be a two-faced hypocrite and criticize men when men look up to toxic traits/behavior as a way to "improve" themselves in order to have a better success rate with women. Even former "nice guys" will tell you that they hate the fact that they kinda have be a little bit of an asshole in order to trigger women's attraction. Women reap what they sow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 10:23 PM |
| 4 | Society wanted to fix "Bad men" instead of women but end up redisigning average men for women as an alternative proposition.Plenty of dudes will also treat Tiffany Not reasonably well, they'll court her like a classic gentleman, but even Tiffany Nots only want good looking Chad to court them. They don't even notice average men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 10:15 PM |
| 2 | People who say sex is a need don’t understand what needs are.Seriously, this has been explained plenty of times but they continue to dismiss it as "not a real need" if you don't immediately drop dead from it. It's disingenuous and meant to trivialize what men depressed about. An argument not rooted in good faith. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 10:05 PM |
| 3 | Some women are to blame for the toxicity of some men, through the enabling of bad behaviour"Nice guys finish last". When men see that women continuously "reward" the toxic guys and dump/reject the non-toxic guys, a train of thought tends to enter the mind: be a tad less nice and a tad more toxic if you wish to be more successful with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 04:38 PM |
| 2 | Woman; do you think the dating market has become better or worse for Woman due to the advent of dating Apps?But loads of women don't care about "finding a life partner", they just want a good fuck/casual FWB and maybe find an occasional "mr.right" here and there then finally settle down with one. The point is just because dating apps are dominated by men doesn't mean that most women don't use dating apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 06:07 AM |
| 42 | Woman; do you think the dating market has become better or worse for Woman due to the advent of dating Apps?Of course it worked out for her, she's a woman and she'll always have options despite whatever deficiencies she may or may not have, none of that matters because as soon as she took a little initiative with dating app BOOM instant success. Instant dating, sex, relationships. Literally like flipping a on a light switch. Men don't experience thus. It just doesn't exist like that. So yeah, men find it irritating when being told to just "give over it" or "find other ways to be fulfilled" by people w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 05:55 AM |
| 1 | A vocal minority is not enough to explain the explosion of the manosphere and other dating related content, things are truly different nowIt's not bad in the sense that yes people can make decisions, but as the poster above said just because there's an unlimited number of choices doesn't mean people are going to make sane or rational choices, and they're likely to not be satisfied by any one choice again because there's the underlying perception that the "grass is always greener". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 05:34 AM |
| 10 | A vocal minority is not enough to explain the explosion of the manosphere and other dating related content, things are truly different nowSmartphones and social media is a whole different animal that is unprecedented. Yes the internet itself as we know it has been around for 30 something odd years, but pre-2012/2013ish before smartphones became the norm things were different. From the late 90's through all of the 00's were the 'analog' years as I call them: yes people were online but for the most part unless you carried around a laptop you still had to be at your desktop computer at home in order to be 'online', cell phones were c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 06:57 AM |
| 0 | This subreddit is 9 years old. How has it changed?Is it though? Can you provide sources that indicate most men are normally adjusted? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 04:48 PM |
| 5 | This subreddit is 9 years old. How has it changed?I told the other guy earlier it was a figure of speech, I didn't mean it in the literal sense, wrong choice of words I guess, but like I said earlier I was critiquing the social-circle strategy because it can backfire | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 02:01 AM |
| 4 | This subreddit is 9 years old. How has it changed?In the literal sense I never said anyone 'guaranteed' anything, did I ? Earlier I used it as a figure of speech. Of course nothing is guaranteed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 12:14 AM |
| 5 | This subreddit is 9 years old. How has it changed?It's not a strawman because it's been touted here before as a advice that social circle is a good strategy when it's not guaranteed. The point I was trying to make is that while initially there was discussion on a possible "solution " we since moved away from that and onto more of a "there is no solution" mindset. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 12:04 AM |
| 6 | This subreddit is 9 years old. How has it changed?Even the social circle strategy isn't guaranteed to produce results in fact it can backfire because once you a girl 'outs' you for your awkward/failed approach no other girl in the group will be willing to give you a shot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 11:20 PM |
| 18 | This subreddit is 9 years old. How has it changed?In the early days it was pretty classic RedPill vs Bluepill in the most obvious sense. At the time the RedPill/MGTOW was gradually picking up steam and it was becoming a focal point of discussion on the Internet but it hadn't hit the mainstream yet. I remember Bluepillers would swear up and down, day and night that Redpill was bullshit, that it's all in our heads and everything else is just fine: According to bluepillers, the vast majority of men are normal socially adjusted human beings who reg… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 10:36 PM |
| 11 | Have you ever cheated or felt the urge to, if so, why? (no judgement, just curious)This. That was the whole business model behind Ashley Madison...capitalizing on the human desire for the forbidden fruit. One important thing about marriage is to keep the "spark" alive, which tends to diminish as the years go by, if the spark isn't maintained then the risk of cheating increases. Of course, some people are just assholes and cheat no matter what even if their partner really doesn't deserve it... I also think the appeal behind swinging and open relationships is again the desire to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/22 06:37 AM |
| 7 | NYTimes article explains why women are biologically wired to like jerks, outgoing ballsy men and why they are repelled by men who play it safe, follow the rules and the crowdEven the quiet homely girls are picky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 06:32 AM |
| 2 | This Subreddit Moving Forward: Incel/Race content, flairs, moderators, rules and moreLol why not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 02:33 PM |
| 11 | 80/20 is common sense and it appears the mainstream is getting it...Not only is 80/20 common sense, it’s human evolutionary history Tell that to all the folks 5-10 years ago who swore up and down that the 80/20 rule was just a bunch of incel nonsense...now here we are in 2022 and the mainstream is now admitting it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 06:37 AM |
| 3 | This Subreddit Moving Forward: Incel/Race content, flairs, moderators, rules and moreYou should be celebrating because RP has basically "won" the debate at this point. I think I'm gonna make a post on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 06:27 AM |
| 8 | This Subreddit Moving Forward: Incel/Race content, flairs, moderators, rules and moreSeriously, it sounds like you're the one who needs a hanky, all mad because Redhill has basically won this debate...lol this is too rich. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 04:36 AM |
| 18 | This Subreddit Moving Forward: Incel/Race content, flairs, moderators, rules and moreYou know, I've said it from the beginning...the whole origin story of this subreddit is because of the dreaded 'I' word that women and blue pillers fought tooth and nail to eradicate from the sub...the fact is that the 'pill world' exist because a lot...again A LOT of guys find themselves in the 'incel' situation. Over the years I would always try to remind people this, but women/blue pullers didn't want to hear it.."this isn't an incel sub! Go complain somewhere else!" they would say... Well...… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 04:34 AM |
| 5 | This Subreddit Moving Forward: Incel/Race content, flairs, moderators, rules and moreThe word incel means, "involuntarily celibate." But they're voluntarily choosing not to rape women, so really, they are all volcels. Voluntarily celibate. Fucking A....gotta love how the goalposts keep constantly shifting to fit people's biased narratives.... Involuntary Celibacy means you're celibate when you don't want to be...rape is a whole different animal...stop trying to make a Vin diagram where rape and incel are basically one circle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 04:21 AM |
| 13 | 80/20 is common sense and it appears the mainstream is getting it...Grasping at straws much....40% is still a huge fucking number in any context not just sex and dating...if the statistic was you have a 40% chance of being robbed/assaulted every time you walk out your door, I guarantee people would be going out a lot less often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 01:03 AM |
| 0 | Purple Pillers, what would you have done to prevent this situation?And others are really good at hiding who they are until it's too late. The point is you can never be 100% sure how someone is until shit hits the fan | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 07:31 PM |
| 1 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hellWhat's a narc in this context? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 05:42 PM |
| 2 | After romantic rejection, men feel less positive emotion and hold shifted socio-political attitudes. Women do not follow the same pattern.What's broscience? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 03:59 PM |
| 4 | Purple Pillers, what would you have done to prevent this situation?O yeah, because we're all mind readers who instantly know when someone is toxic behind a facade... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 02:40 PM |
| 0 | What's the cringiest thing you've seen a guy do in order to impress a woman in a group or public setting?What if he really wasn't lying though? Some people are pretty quiet about their money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 04:41 AM |
| 4 | What's the cringiest thing you've seen a guy do in order to impress a woman in a group or public setting?Yeah, real friends support each and help build each other up. Your "friend" at the time should have been like "yo homie, that's a cute girl we're talking to, just go for it!", instead of trying to sabotage you. The ones who are sabotaging you instead of cheering you on are the envious haters who aren't your friend. Cut those people out of your life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 06:04 PM |
| 1 | What's the cringiest thing you've seen a guy do in order to impress a woman in a group or public setting?You know what's even better than the "AMOG", being the guy who isn't phased by the "alphas" antics. The guy who doesn't take the bait. Being aloof on your level focusing on your own life missing is more attractive than being the obnoxious douchebag pounding his chest. A real "alpha" doesn't go around trying to prove he's "alpha", he just does him and doesn't put too much energy into belittling and putting down those he perceives to be of lower station. Those guys are the biggest douchebags and y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 05:59 PM |
| 2 | What's the cringiest thing you've seen a guy do in order to impress a woman in a group or public setting?Two thoughts on this: 1.) Back in the bad old days before smart phones and jardashians, my and the lads went out on the pull and after last call we dragged a whole gaggle of college girls back to the house Key wording here is before smartphones. I bet this kind of thing was, maybe not necessarily easier, but more attainable than the current environment. Before when people weren't constantly glued to their touchscreens they actually interacted with the environment more, so having social skills an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 04:18 PM |
| 6 | What's the cringiest thing you've seen a guy do in order to impress a woman in a group or public setting?You talk loud, you belittle your guy friends, and you suggest doing activities like pushup contests so you can show the women around how cool you are. Umm...that's NOT what AMOG meant during my time at the redpill sub. Alpha male of the group simply means the guy who's more desirable in the group, that could be a good looking Chad/jock guy, a "player" type guy, a "thug" type guy, or a guy who's none of those things but can still command a social presence in the group, it doesn't even have to be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 03:19 PM |
| 1 | What will happen to current dating situation in the future ?I get the whole gist of your post and I agree to a extent, the thing is, men need to eat and pay bills as well, right? This whole "men checking out" of society sounds solid based on what we discuss on this sub, but it doesn't seem very realistic. As much as men want to "check out" they really can't afford to. Bills and eviction notices are still real so we'll still see men doing all those rough dirty jobs because they need to eat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Leonardo DiCaprio and his girlfriend breaking surprised absolutely no one, however is the whole “no over 25 rule” intentional?What's sad about it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 11:48 PM |
| 2 | The shameful Natasha Aponte experiment, "The Tinder Trap", shows just how desperate men are and how much choice women have.Even on "non-hookup" sites like eharmony or okupid which are supposed to be more "relationship oriented" have a huge gender imbalance. Way more men than women even on those sites so really guys are facing the same odds regardless if they're looking for casual hookups or actual relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 11:06 PM |
| 32 | Leonardo DiCaprio and his girlfriend breaking surprised absolutely no one, however is the whole “no over 25 rule” intentional?I seriously doubt these women feel like their time is being "wasted". First of all, Leo's dating habits have already been pretty well known for a while now, he likes 'em young and he periodically dumps his current lady for a new one, so these women already (should) know what they're getting into. Secondly, a part of me feels like these women already know exactly that it's probably not gonna last for the reasons stated above but who cares right? They're banging one of the biggest movie stars on t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 07:26 AM |
| 3 | "Just get a social circle bro" is very outdated adviceI've come across some posts here and there from women saying guys shouldn't be hitting up book clubs and art classes to meet women because "women aren't there to hookup". Yet, we always here on this sub that men need to "go out more" and try meeting women in places other than bars and clubs... So you see, there's a lot of contradictory stuff here that further frustrates guys and drives them crazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 07:33 PM |
| 2 | "Just get a social circle bro" is very outdated adviceWe do so because far too many who do approach do NOT have good intentions. What’s the saying to the victor goes the spoils. These men don’t fail every time that’s why they do it, that’s your competition, Wait, you just said the guys who don't have good intentions are the ones who succeed? I’m going to be INCREDIBLY blunt right now - the dating world isn’t going to slow down to make sure everyone gets on the train. It’s competitive and if you can’t compete it’s gonna suck. I do not understand tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 07:26 PM |
| 1 | "Just get a social circle bro" is very outdated adviceMagic shrooms? 🍄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 06:19 PM |
| 10 | What do you think actually helps men date?Yeah. This is a good description of how that kind of dynamic usually plays out. It can really crush a guy's morale. To put in all that energy in trying to connect with someone just for her interest to literally evaporate into thin air as soon as the better looking dude joins the party. That kind of thing is what discourages guys from trying to put themselves out there, it's what makes them feel like "dancing monkeys". Humiliating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 05:51 PM |
| 2 | "Just get a social circle bro" is very outdated adviceThats exactly the kind of thing I'm talking about. There needs to be regulations on things like internet/video game usage. Parents need to encourage their kids to play outside more instead of being on the phone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 05:28 PM |
| 6 | "Just get a social circle bro" is very outdated adviceIt’s not that women are these rare creatures who scatter away like scared animals, it’s that far to many men approach us as meat targets. But then y'all still scatter like scared critters even when a non-toxic dude takes his shot with you, it may have been an awkward and lame shot but still done in a respectful and non-threatening manner. I don't think you fully get just how cold and distant women can be towards guys who just try to make conversation. I’ve said this so many times the focus is on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 05:21 PM |
| 9 | "Just get a social circle bro" is very outdated adviceSocial skills are definitely important. Sadly, our modern society neglects to actually instill those skills to kids when they need it most. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 03:22 PM |
| 2 | "Just get a social circle bro" is very outdated adviceAnd his avatar is female. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 03:14 PM |
| 8 | "Just get a social circle bro" is very outdated adviceEven that approach is becoming increasingly in question. Lately I've been hearing from women that they are growing weary of guys joining yoga sessions, book clubs, art/cooking classes, volunteering at the animal shelter, etc etc; because it seems like these guys are joining those things for the underlying purpose of meeting women and women are there to "enjoy the activity and not looking to date". So yeah. The modern dating landscape looks really bleak for men, they're stuck between a rock and a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 02:54 PM |
| 2 | as hard as it might be, men have to make all the efforts if they want to be in a relationship.Did you report him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 02:01 PM |
| 2 | as hard as it might be, men have to make all the efforts if they want to be in a relationship.What explains what? That if men don't physically fight then they're not really 'capable' men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Why do people expect men to 'just get it' when sociosexual development takes years in other primates?"Reasonable" as in a dude who isn't an overweight, a raging misogynist, or who treats his partner like crap. Plenty of men fit that criteria. And they'll likely be more forgiving towards awkward women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Why do people expect men to 'just get it' when sociosexual development takes years in other primates?Attraction is non negotiable. To a degree yes. But as humans we've already shown that we're capable of "settling" for less than our ideal if need be and people do that all the time. Even in this sub there's debte on the merits and pitfalls of settling and the merits and pitfalls of sticking to your guns. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 06:31 PM |
| 2 | Why do people expect men to 'just get it' when sociosexual development takes years in other primates?I'm not gonna bother trying to navigate this mess of threads/parent threads to find one comment but I'll take your word for it. No you shouldn't have to "change" your preferences, whatever that may be. I think what people are trying to say is that while it's okay to have preferences just know that someone who matches those preferences may not be ideal choice of partner for you, whilst the less attractive option would actually treat you right. I don't necessarily interpret this as "you should cha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Why do people expect men to 'just get it' when sociosexual development takes years in other primates?And like I said, men are a lot more forgiving towards awkward women than the other way around. So for as much as the nerdy/awkward girl may be, odds are she'll still find herself a reasonable catch of a guy if she's willing to put herself out there. But just because this happens doesn't mean awkward guys are also partnering up, awkward guys largely remain alone unless they pull of drastic measures to up their appearance/game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 04:50 PM |
| 2 | Why do people expect men to 'just get it' when sociosexual development takes years in other primates?Who told you to change your dating preferences? You certainly don't have to do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Why do people expect men to 'just get it' when sociosexual development takes years in other primates?Understanding and an acknowledgement of men's struggles instead of feel good "everyones a winner" narrative, perhaps? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Why do people expect men to 'just get it' when sociosexual development takes years in other primates?Even awkward women don't want awkward men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 04:05 PM |
| 6 | Why do people expect men to 'just get it' when sociosexual development takes years in other primates?I mean, that's an overly simplistic way of breaking it down but if you're asking me if I think women should "fuck men out of pity" then the answer is no, obviously. No one is obligated to fuck anyone. See, this is where I feel a lot of you get the whole thing twisted. Having empathy for men isn't the same as fucking them out of pity, the latter of which most of these guys detest anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 01:38 AM |
| 5 | Why do people expect men to 'just get it' when sociosexual development takes years in other primates?You seem to think I care about you stereotyping women Umm..I'm not though. Look at my post again, I'm doing the opposite of stereotyping. I was pointing out that you're the one stereotyping by saying all ugly dudes are bad. This sub wants people to believe ugly and sexually repulsive somehow equals good. No, not all ugly guys are good. Just like not all hot women are bitchy. What's your point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 11:49 PM |
| 3 | Why do people expect men to 'just get it' when sociosexual development takes years in other primates?Really? All of the ugly men? Unless we're ready to accept to just blatantly stereotyping people for their looks how can you be sure that ugly dudes are assholes by default? There are just as many ugly dudes who aren't assholes as there are who are, just like a not every good looking person is nice but I've also heard the stereotyping that attractive women tend to be bitchy by default when many are actually insecure about their looks... See where I'm going with this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 11:07 PM |
| 4 | Why do people expect men to 'just get it' when sociosexual development takes years in other primates?Ok. So you believe that men don't care for relationships and only want sex? If that were the case men would be totally content with paying hookers if all they cared about was busting a nut. But that's not what we're seeing is it? We're seeing guys saying paying for sex doesn't fix the problem because they want to feel wanted and desired by women...ya know like in a relationship lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Why do people expect men to 'just get it' when sociosexual development takes years in other primates?Seriously? It's not like I screenshot every comment thread I come across, how a I supposed to comb through years and years worth of posts and threads? I'm saying in my time here I've across those claims from men. Pay attention more, maybe you'll notice it then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 10:16 PM |
| -2 | Why do people expect men to 'just get it' when sociosexual development takes years in other primates?I'm confused, are you agreeing or disagreeing with that person? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 10:11 PM |
| 6 | Why do people expect men to 'just get it' when sociosexual development takes years in other primates?Really? I've seen it plenty of times, granted I really don't visit this sub much that often anymore like I use to but plenty of men here have made it clear that they aren't trying to just sleep around an actually want genuine companionship...but that it's hard to even aquire that hence the frustration. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 10:08 PM |
| 2 | Why do people expect men to 'just get it' when sociosexual development takes years in other primates?I'm confused...what are you even talking about? What d you mean by 'female equivalents' ? Who said anything about women "sharing" men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 10:03 PM |
| 10 | Why do people expect men to 'just get it' when sociosexual development takes years in other primates?Because the men in this sub don't care about human companionship or romantic relationships. There have been plenty of men here over the years who've made it clear that they're not just looking to pump n dump women. They actually want real connection/companionship with women.... yet the find themselves still being largely ignored by most women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 09:28 PM |
| -3 | Why do people expect men to 'just get it' when sociosexual development takes years in other primates?You're making the mistake of assuming that every guy whom a woman doesn't find all that attractive but still gives him a shot anyway, is going to be a abusive/manipulate duck head who just wants a pump n dump. Therw are plenty of awkward/average looking dudes who aren't raging misogynistic ya know..but the still get ignored by women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 09:25 PM |
| 7 | Why do people expect men to 'just get it' when sociosexual development takes years in other primates?That's not at all what he said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 08:54 PM |
| 54 | Why do people expect men to 'just get it' when sociosexual development takes years in other primates?I don't think you can really compare those two scenarios. Women who "don't get it" still receive opportunities to meet and date men, they may not be the best options but they're still options nonetheless. Also men are a lot more forgiving towards awkward women than the other way around. There are plenty of women with autism who eventually marry and even have kids. Not so much for autistic men. For struggling men, there is little to no wiggle room for error. Men are just expected to be these conf… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 08:16 PM |
| 3 | The average man has poor dating prospects in comparison to the average woman, what is something men can do to improve their SMVI think this the psychological mind-fuck that guys need to break from. If most women don't seem to like most of us anyway, guys shouldn't trip themselves into believing that paying for sex somehow makes them "less than". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Would things really be "better off" if women were more brutally honest about what they like/find attractive?How do you know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 09:54 PM |
| 35 | Would things really be "better off" if women were more brutally honest about what they like/find attractive?Let's be honest with ourselves here for a second...are us men not also "shallow hoes"...? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 04:20 AM |
| 2 | Would things really be "better off" if women were more brutally honest about what they like/find attractive?Yes, they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 04:15 AM |
| 4 | Would things really be "better off" if women were more brutally honest about what they like/find attractive?Some of us do appreciate your honesty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 03:32 AM |
| 0 | Would things really be "better off" if women were more brutally honest about what they like/find attractive?But not everyone wants a relationship... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 01:04 AM |
| 2 | Would things really be "better off" if women were more brutally honest about what they like/find attractive?Like what? Give an example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Would things really be "better off" if women were more brutally honest about what they like/find attractive?"Sorry FatGimp but you have no abs, ass, or dick...." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 01:00 AM |
| 7 | Would things really be "better off" if women were more brutally honest about what they like/find attractive?And what if you find that the "game" is stacked against you? Keep trying? No shame in giving up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 12:14 AM |
| 12 | Would things really be "better off" if women were more brutally honest about what they like/find attractive?So "just become gay" if you can't handle women's emotional whims. Got it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 12:12 AM |
| 5 | Would things really be "better off" if women were more brutally honest about what they like/find attractive?Honest question, what would be your genuine advice/pep-talk to modern guys be? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 12:11 AM |
| 2 | Would things really be "better off" if women were more brutally honest about what they like/find attractive?I wasn't doubting she was being open and honest?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 12:04 AM |
| 3 | Would things really be "better off" if women were more brutally honest about what they like/find attractive?I would say men are a lot more accepting of women are the bottom of totem pole than women are of accepting men at the bottom of the totem pole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 11:59 PM |
| 8 | Would things really be "better off" if women were more brutally honest about what they like/find attractive?They'll call you a liar when you openly say you prefer big dick to small dick? Yeah, that's some denialism on their part. You're right, guys need to be more accepting of the brutal honesty rather than fight it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 11:57 PM |
| 5 | Would things really be "better off" if women were more brutally honest about what they like/find attractive?Huh? What on earth are you talking about? Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Would things really be "better off" if women were more brutally honest about what they like/find attractive?That's another thing people in this sub are either oblivious to/or choose to ignore...our economy is in shambles which only makes it that much harder to try and come out on top. It's hard to bring a woman over for the night when you're 30+ years old and living with roommates whom you barely know.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 11:53 PM |
| 7 | Would things really be "better off" if women were more brutally honest about what they like/find attractive?Translation: " learn to live life completely unloved and unwanted" Is why you should be saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 11:49 PM |
| 3 | Would things really be "better off" if women were more brutally honest about what they like/find attractive?It’s an artificial narrative because the majority of adult men are in relationships and a super majority of young men are sexually active. You know that's actually in question now? More and more young people in general (but men especially) are living sexless lives. So where are you getting this information that most people are sexually active? The issue is that OLD ≠ reality. All the apps have a stark gender imbalance. The difficulty of OLD has everything to do with male promiscuity and male deg… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 11:42 PM |
| -1 | Would things really be "better off" if women were more brutally honest about what they like/find attractive?How can you make that distinction? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 11:27 PM |
| 9 | Would things really be "better off" if women were more brutally honest about what they like/find attractive?LMAO! 😆 As of working full time would guarantee someone can afford a house or car... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 11:24 PM |
| 13 | Would things really be "better off" if women were more brutally honest about what they like/find attractive?How is 80/20 an "artificial narrative"? It's pretty well known/documented at this point that most average women find most average men unattractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Would things really be "better off" if women were more brutally honest about what they like/find attractive?But a lot of people treat brutal honesty as an excuse to just infodump with no real organization and a lot of people here will get mean about it specifically to hurt the opposite sex. Sorry, I'm a bit confused here..can you elaborate what you mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Would things really be "better off" if women were more brutally honest about what they like/find attractive?IRL I’ve always been honest. No one has a problem with it. I'm guessing your IRL social circle consists of healthy/socially-capable men and women...that's good. Really. On PPD, women are honest and get called a liar, get called names, told they have no empathy and want ugly men to FOAD, blah, blah, blah. There is no point in ever trying to appease a man on PPD. You will never satisfy them. They’re worse than women. Probably because the men of PPD aren't nearly as socially-capable as you and your… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 11:17 PM |
| 2 | Would things really be "better off" if women were more brutally honest about what they like/find attractive?And then what happens, in your opinion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 11:12 PM |
| 3 | Would things really be "better off" if women were more brutally honest about what they like/find attractive?So aside from consuming female-centric porn/erotica what would you say to the disgruntled "beta" guy to inspire hope and optimism within him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 11:10 PM |
| -1 | Would things really be "better off" if women were more brutally honest about what they like/find attractive?Will the system really "fall apart" though? I seriously doubt it. Too many people are too caught up in the Matrix already. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 11:07 PM |
| 2 | Would things really be "better off" if women were more brutally honest about what they like/find attractive?Right, this is exactly what I'm trying to address. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 11:04 PM |
| 10 | Would things really be "better off" if women were more brutally honest about what they like/find attractive?Hold up though...isn't Chad and the 80/20 rule being brutally honest about it? Women are the ones here who keep denying/downplaying it... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 11:03 PM |
| 1 | The importance of male look shouldn’t be a topic of controversy.I don't think you quite understand what I'm saying. The 9" dick was a exaggerated example of the culture standards I'm talking about...few men are actually 9+ inches long but nevertheless that's the cultural trope for genuine masculinity....are you saying that women are immune from these cultural tropes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 10:30 PM |
| 1 | The importance of male look shouldn’t be a topic of controversy.Women should freely talk about male physical attractiveness. The more honest the better. Honest question, do you really think things would be better off if women were more brutally honest in what they find attractive? How exactly would that collectively benefit men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 09:24 PM |
| 1 | The importance of male look shouldn’t be a topic of controversy.Good looking chad-like guys, yes. The 80/20 rule. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 09:13 PM |
| 1 | The importance of male look shouldn’t be a topic of controversy.How can you reconcile that with the fact that it's been socially conditioned into guys for decades that "women don't care about a man's looks, just be kind and sweet"? Because that's the messaging guys (until relatively recently) have been receiving. So when men see women hooking up with an abusive jerks simply because he has a big dick, it creates this huge cognitive dissonance. Perhaps the blame here should be placed at our cultural institutions that promote the misinformation that women aren'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 09:11 PM |
| 2 | The importance of male look shouldn’t be a topic of controversy.I think the disconnect here stems from the contradiction in how men often receive this information: Lets say we're casually chilling with a peer group consisting of both men and women at local dive bar/pool hall...somehow the topic of hot muscular men turns up and while the one tipsy girl admitted to hooking up with tall/hot guys on tinder the rest of the girls will absolutely insist that that isn't the case for most women...most women don't care much about superficial looks and care more about … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 09:02 PM |
| 9 | The importance of male look shouldn’t be a topic of controversy.Yeah, this is basically the gist of it. Not just that guys are starting out from a position of deficit, but that said deficit can still be very difficult to break out of by 'conventional' means for a lot of men, aside from basic things like showering and maintaining a groomed kept appearing, not dress like a teenager, make an active effort to go out and mingle with people; flirt ask out/rejected by women but keep trying etc etc; a lot of guys still unable to pinpoint that X factor that makes it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?So for some of yall it's this traumatic, nightmarish experience while others find it empowering... Interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 08:21 AM |
| 1 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?Interesting. Do you personally think that's the case for most sex-workers? Thanks for your input. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 07:54 AM |
| 1 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?Touche.. As a dude, did you personally feel like the labor/hassle was worth the $ ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 07:51 AM |
| 2 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?Yes..I have..especially after reading through a lot of these responses to this post. I feel like an ass...I get that as a guy I have a way of looking at things from certain perspective, but jeez...based on the way the women here are describing it, guys are monsters... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 07:49 AM |
| 1 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?Thanks for taking the time for this informative well thought out reply. I do appreciate it and the data included. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?I guess because the opportunity is always there regardless? Even if a straight guy wanted to be a sex worker catering to women he wouldn't be able to. Women though have that opportunity all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?See, that's a smart strategy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?Trust me I'm not underestimating it. I know it can be dangerous. Most me are physically gifted enough to even try out in the NBA, however most women (the average/unattractive ones) can get into sex work and make some money off it as a side hustle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?I'm not denying anything you say, however I am curious, do you not think it's possible that some of these women genuinely enjoy their sex-work? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?Small niche, there probably wouldn't be any much money in that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?We're speaking hypothetically. Pretend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?While those cases of abusive pimps and human trafficking exists, how do you know that's the majority of cases? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?It's emotionally and physically taxing. I get it, it's not for everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?all sex work is like that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?Boy, that's rough. Sorry you had to go through all that, I hope you're in a better place now. Thanks for your input, it's offered a fresh perspective for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 02:47 PM |
| 2 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?Thanks for your honest input on this, hope you're okay and wish you well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?Gotcha, yeah it definitely is a dangerous profession...much more for women than men, hell even though I say I would like to do that off the bat I remind myself that I'm thinking with a male libido, thus women are feeling something completely different from what I am so I can't really comprehend... Eh..this is why I ask these questions, I'm really trying to get a feel on how men and women feel on this and how they differ Thanks for your input | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 01:32 AM |
| 2 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?You really think the negatives outweigh the positives in this regard? Can you elaborate a little more? I ask because if you're insisting that guys are deluded about this I'd like to know how and why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 01:27 AM |
| -2 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?Well, technically sex-workers are taking part in "casual sex". Sex-work is causal sex. Regardless if you find the guy attractive or not, you being willing to fuck him for $ is considered casual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?So basically even if you were to cater to a male clientele you're still not gonna make a much money? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 01:12 AM |
| 2 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?Shit, but what if the hassle rakes in anywhere between 10-15K a month? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?1M in cold hard cash to fuck the poor dweeb who's had a crush on you since college? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?Defeat to what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 01:06 AM |
| 0 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?Do you know what the chances of being raped are as a prostitute? Yes. I do know. And that's why I empathize and respect sex-workers. If you look back at my earlier posts, you'll see that I never said sex was easy... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?That's it? "Self-respect"? I get what you mean, but that can be ambiguous no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 12:49 AM |
| -1 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?Ive seen cocktail waitresses can make anyway between $500 - $1000 in a single night. Maybe your lady just wasn't trying hard enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 12:20 AM |
| -1 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?It's easier to sell sex than houses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 12:17 AM |
| -2 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?Did I ever same women were all the same? Nope. I didn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 12:16 AM |
| 2 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?You're right in the sense that it will never be considered "normal" but I guess what I meant was more accepting. More accepting but not normalized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 10:48 PM |
| 0 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?As a man, no I would never be sex worker because it's disgusting. I'm assuming you're straight. You're telling me you would pass up making money off having sex with women? That "disgust" you? Second of all, once you're a sex worker, you always will be one no matter if you have that job or not. This sounds very judgemental...the kind of shit I hear religious extremists speaking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 10:46 PM |
| 2 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?Why not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?Love the honesty. Question though, do you think this (sex-work) will become more normalized among people as time goes on? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 10:42 PM |
| 4 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?LGBTQ is more and more normalized every day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?Antiwork 👍 yep. That's why I don't judge sex-workers, man or woman. If you can successfully pull it off then do it! Beat the system. I think that's ultimately the gist of my post here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 10:38 PM |
| 7 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?See, this is the kind of honesty and transparency I'm looking for among both men and women in regards to sex-work...shit ain't easy, not by a long shot. Thank you for this input 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 10:28 PM |
| 3 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?But no, there’s a reason, or several reasons, you’re not doing it. Those are the same reasons most women don’t. Since you seem to know so much, why not list those several reasons people don't do it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?It's possible. I've come across girls who block/censor out their faces when they post hot bod/tits/ass/pussy pics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 10:23 PM |
| -3 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?Uh no, that's not what I'm saying at all...I'm saying that while yes individual people are different, humans are still social animals and thus you can recognize certain behavioral patterns... Why do people take such offense at the thought that we humans are still mammalian animals/primates... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?Absolutely. Sex-work is emotionally and physically taxing work, it's legitimate work it and shouldn't be shamed or stigmatized. I respect sex-work. 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 10:08 PM |
| 2 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?Don't be an ass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 10:00 PM |
| 2 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?Indeed, this is true. I respect sex-work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 09:56 PM |
| -1 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?If your employer were to fire you upon finding out about your sex-work side hustle; you could always report it to some major media outlet and I guarantee you'll receive an outpouring of sympathy from society at large...hell, at that point you could probably open a GoFundMe where you'll receive thousands upon thousands of $ from people who sympathize with your plight. Like I said, we're currently living in the Golden Age of Pussy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 09:56 PM |
| 0 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?😆 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 09:52 PM |
| 0 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?Yep 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 09:50 PM |
| 0 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?I know there's a lot of labor involved in sex work (both emotionally and physically), I never said it was easy work...just that it sure sounds better than working in an overnight warehouse or oil rig. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?Do it. Guys will be buying that shit. Know how to market yourself and establish a clientele and you'll make decent money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 09:45 PM |
| 2 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?Thanks for your input/honesty 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?Went where? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 09:42 PM |
| 3 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?For the record, I believe sex-work is legitimate work and shouldn't be slammed or stigmatized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?Not even for 1M in cold cash? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 09:40 PM |
| 0 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?People really do follow common behavioral patters...it's why stereotypes exist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 09:38 PM |
| 0 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?C'mon man...you know damn well you wouldn't pass up 100K (for example) to send some gay dude a video of you jacking off... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?Well, that's the fist I've ever heard of smutty novelists being put into the same category as sex-worker but in the context of this post I'm referring to people who physically engage in sex work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 09:31 PM |
| -8 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?Sure people are different, but people also tend to follow common behavioral patterns. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 09:29 PM |
| -2 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?Hmm I'm not really sure if you can compare killing someone to having sex with someone...most normal people don't kill the people they have sex with and they don't have sex with the people they kill... My question may not deal with capability off the bet, but a part of me asking this question is an innate belief that everyone has a price, in your case it's at least 1M+ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?That's good 👍. For real, it is. It's a dying way if thinking (for better or worse, only time will tell) but I appreciate that there's still some "old way" of looking at things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 09:22 PM |
| -1 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?I’d only consider it in very desperate/extreme circumstances That basically tells me that you have the capability of doing it...so you'd do it if you really had to... Desirability and Capability are different things, but they overlap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?Lol c'mon...writing smutty novels is NOT sex-work... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 09:14 PM |
| 0 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?Well, if you're extroverted/do good with people type of personality I suppose a hustler can make good money off sex-work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?If you don't mind me asking, how come? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 09:10 PM |
| -6 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?How is it that some women can have sex with men they're not attracted to on the fly while others like yourself wouldn't fuck a strange dude even if offered a million bucks? You wouldn't have sex with some dude you're not attracted to even if he offered you 100K ? It's not like he looks like Jabba The Hut or anything, just an average non-Chad looking dude....still no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 09:10 PM |
| 3 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?Indeed, you'd be surprised at how many of your female friends, classmates, coworkers, etc; whome you wouldn't suspect at all to be engaged in sex-work actually do it on the down-low as a side hustle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 09:05 PM |
| -3 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?In the case of sex-work it's very true though. I've come across the most unimaginative, mediocre looking women who look like they're doing fairly well on OF. the men you mention in OP can just cater to gays, it’s a far more lucrative business Maybe. I wouldn't know. There was a fat/nerdy looking guy I used to work with whom (rumor had it) that had an OF and apparently generated roughly 500K from it. Who knows if it's true, but the way out crazy society is nowadays I wouldn't be surprised. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 09:03 PM |
| 3 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?Lol 😆 naw, I like being a cis dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 08:57 PM |
| -3 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?Just gotta know how to market yourself. You'd be surprised by the kind of money people make posting the same type of shit that's been around for free as long as the internet as been around, but because it OF is more personal based those who know how to market themselves will do just fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?Yes, that counts as sex-work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 08:49 PM |
| 0 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?So for you personally it's the initial revulsion towards fucking strangers that puts you off, that's understandable, not everyone is good at the "casual sex" thing. Question though, if you knew for a fact that working conditions for sex-workers was generally good (hypothetically speaking) would you be open to considering it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 08:47 PM |
| 2 | So what do men want women to say / do when they face continuous rejection?So basically you don't want to feel like you're with some loser who can't get anyone else. That's understandable I suppose. Women want guys who can naturally attract other girls, preselection and all that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 06:42 PM |
| 2 | The Dark Truth about the GameIn a way shouldn't this be an advantage for guys? If she's looking for a relationship then signaling a willingness to commit should make things easy in theory, and if she's already in a committed relationship but is looking for some strange, then be the dark/mysterious guy who will give her a good NSA fucking. It's not an ideal situation, and many guys resent the fact that this is how things are, but guys need to learn to adapt to the harsh landscape that is 21st century dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/22 10:16 PM |
| 2 | The Dark Truth about the GameYou're saying guys should refuse committed women? Out of principal? It's a free for all winner take all dating/hookup landscape out there, sad but true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/22 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Is hiring a hooker really the end goal for sexless men?How often does this actually happen? Have you experienced it first hand? I'm a dude looking to book one for the first time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/22 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Is hiring a hooker really the end goal for sexless men?How do you know "genuine" sex workers who actually like their job, no pimp, no drugs, etc are in the minority? You seem so sure of yourself without providing any evidence. Is it really that hard to fathom that some women actually like sex work? In this economy especially, it sure beats waitressing at IHOP at 3am dealing with rude/drunk customers who don't tip. I'd probably be a sex worker if I was a woma. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/22 09:11 PM |
| 2 | The abundance of options women have has gotten so out of control that even genuine mutual attraction and chemistry aren’t enough to keep their attentionI think you're kinda missing the point. Yes, your encounter was casual and spontaneous "in the moment", but there's still a slight degree of chemistry involved. Not in the sense of "omg I just met my soulmate!" but rather "im digging this guy right here right now..lets fuck!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 10:54 PM |
| 0 | Social media and online dating have ruined dating for menThis is absolutely wrong. Social media and online dating have lowered the average woman’s self-esteem and that’s backed up by studies showing a huge increase in depression in women. Can you cite your sources? From where I'm standing even the most plain looking/boring women with the personality of wood are getting matches from more attractive guys online and in real life. Gamer girl just needs to flash her pussy/tits and dudes will throw money at her streaming site. Yes, as an average woman I can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 08:56 PM |
| 5 | If virginity in men is a red flag for you, after which age would you consider it a red flag and why?I'd have to be curious as to why those were the only circumstances in which he met women. You realize that a lot (most?) men have limited avenues/platforms to meet women? I'm talking both online and offline. For guys who've decided online dating is too heavily stacked against them, that leaves the real world to meet women. If a guy has limited social connections with women whom he could potentially hook up with or have her introduce him to someone else, that leaves guys with the club/bar scene a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 12:51 AM |
| 1 | If women don’t prefer abusive men, why are they more lenient with them than shy/introverted men?No point in giving yourself a headache trying to make sense of it because even women themselves can hardly explain their behaviour hence why you see them always coming up with excuses and rationalizations to why they're attracted to abusive men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/21 11:44 AM |
| 7 | If women are responsible for their poor taste in men, then men are responsible for their poor taste in women.You're telling me you haven't had a single guy ask you out? Or even an awkward attempt at flirting? Not once? Have you tried online dating apps? You'll find a guy there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 05:51 PM |
| 5 | If women are responsible for their poor taste in men, then men are responsible for their poor taste in women.Sure, but that's easier said than done for most men; and men resent even being put in that position, with testosterone raging through their bodies. Expecting men to just be content with being asexual monks is rather dismissive of human needs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 05:47 PM |
| 6 | If women are responsible for their poor taste in men, then men are responsible for their poor taste in women.You got angry when I brought up personality. Not angry. Just flabbergasted. You should know that "personality" is a vague term in context of what's discussed on this sub. "Personality" can mean varying different things to different people. AND youre not willing think if it is your personality that’s the problem. Yes I have thought that and I can assure you that my "personality" isn't the problem because I've been told I'm easy to get along with and fun to be around and I generally fare well with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 05:34 PM |
| 8 | If women are responsible for their poor taste in men, then men are responsible for their poor taste in women.Personality Fashion Hygiene Social skills Lol are you just completely ignoring my previous posts? I've already listed those basic ass things when I mentioned hitting the gym and whatnot, I figured you would have had the common sense to put two and two together. Thank you for proving my point. The issue is personality. Huh? What point am I supposedly proving? You don't know me or my personality for you to make that call. Try again .As long as she’s super hot and fucks him by date 3. Nah. Plenty o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 04:24 PM |
| 9 | If women are responsible for their poor taste in men, then men are responsible for their poor taste in women.Improve on himself. Improve himself how? I already told you there are dudes who already go to the gym, work on their social/flirting skills, don't dress like a bum, etc..what else is there to "improve" on? The key is their personality is wonderful. It's shit like this that you write that makes me believe you're largely here to troll get a kick out of fucking around. Its more that Im basing it on what complaints guys have and what they prioritize. Plenty of guys just want a normal, non-gold diggi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 03:27 PM |
| 23 | If women are responsible for their poor taste in men, then men are responsible for their poor taste in women.Let me ask you something, what's a guy supposed to do when he finds himself being rejected and ghosted by even average/below average women? When he himself actively takes care of himself by working out, having a solid career, dresses well, goes out to socialize and meet people, etc etc..? I've noticed your common theme in your posts: if guys are struggling they just must be pursuing gold digging bimbos right? It's guys would just approach normal plain janes they would be okay... Newsflash: even … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 02:13 PM |
| 2 | Male Sexlessness Problem: Is It Still Personality That's The Problem?But even the guys getting laid largely agree and empathize to an extent the plight of guys who aren't getting laid. Even the dudes in relationships know how rough it can be for a guy to even get to relationship status in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 07:00 AM |
| 6 | The same way women shouldn’t settle for bums. Men shouldn’t settle for women who don’t give them regular enthusiastic sex.Men who have no concept of future possibilities if they merely sacrifice or delay gratification in the here and now in order to reap a bigger reward in the future. Men who are inept at planning ahead, who have no impulse control, who are as emotional and impulsive as the straw-women they deride. Okay...what does all of that even mean? Delay what gratification exactly? Men are sad and unhappy because they receive no gratification whatsoever, even after "putting in the work". There are more and mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 06:39 AM |
| 3 | Male Sexlessness Problem: Is It Still Personality That's The Problem?Curious to know why you spend your time on a sub that pertains to male "whining" then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 06:31 AM |
| 3 | Male Sexlessness Problem: Is It Still Personality That's The Problem?You should advocate for it if you're serious about giving men a legitimate outlet in order for them to "stop whining" as you put it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 04:02 AM |
| 3 | Male Sexlessness Problem: Is It Still Personality That's The Problem?In order for that to happen women need to be on board with it as well. Of it's only men advocating for legalized prostitution it looks bad because people will perceive it as men wanting to "exploit" women or aome shit, the narrative will be spun to make it look like a bad idea and so it would never gain traction. If women we're also out advocating for for it would probably gain more support because the narrative would then be spun to make it look like a women's lib issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 03:02 AM |
| 2 | Male Sexlessness Problem: Is It Still Personality That's The Problem?It may have used to be that way. But the fact is technology is accelerating at such a rate that what would have been a potentially dangerous thing in the past (in this case large numbers of disgruntled sexually disenfranchised men) can now be pacified by technology via things like VR simulators like the series "West World", or AI operating systems like the movie "Her". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 02:55 AM |
| 6 | Male Sexlessness Problem: Is It Still Personality That's The Problem?That's women's own undoing right there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Male Sexlessness Problem: Is It Still Personality That's The Problem?Yeah, and whats funny is they often fail to see the tragic irony. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 02:45 AM |
| 6 | Male Sexlessness Problem: Is It Still Personality That's The Problem?Honestly that's a dumb way of looking at it. Let's be real, sex is a fucking major part of life , its the reason we're even alive right now talking to each other. It's 100% human to desire sex/intimacy with another human being. So saying "just find other meaning in life", while a valid thought, is also rather dismissive and intentionally misses the bigger overall picture: it's not mentally healthy to chronically be single, rejected, and unwated | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 02:44 AM |
| 13 | Is the growth of someone like Kevin Samuels indicative of the growth of TRP and its entry into the Mainstream?. Although personally I think unfortunately the blackpill is gonna be more popular. It's easier to digest. The doom and gloomnof blackpill may be a bit overkill for some, but for sure more and more men appear to be deciding that this whole disastrous affair that is modern dating is just not worth pursing. The juice isn't worth the squeeze. Whether it will also be acknowledged and seriously discussed by the mainstream media is what I doubt. It's gradually been gaining traction, but the media will… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 12:54 PM |
| 3 | Women should stop having hookupsHas it occured to you that the main reason guys are becoming too "lazy to date" and are checking out is becuase the current dating market is ridiculously skewed against men that guys don't think the squeeze is worth the juice? I mean, when you're practically ignored by like 98% of the women around you, both in real life and OLD, and with the current social culture being very paranoid and hostile towards men, it's really no wonder why more and more guys feel the whole thing is just not worth it. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 06:18 AM |
| 7 | Women should stop having hookupsBut yet women keep hooking up with the same men who are selfish lovers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 04:40 AM |
| 8 | Women should stop having hookupsI swear, this sub keeps getting more and more strange. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 04:23 AM |
| 9 | Women should stop having hookupsNot all men are selfish lovers you know, you mean to tell me that there isn't a single dude out there who goes out of his way to make sure his hookup is having a good time and has an orgasm? Men really aren't given the benefit of the doubt around here... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 04:21 AM |
| 33 | Women should stop having hookupsWon't happen. Women like sex too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 03:14 AM |
| 4 | Who is more invisible to society, broke unattractive women or broke unattractive men?Well, respect is one thing, what I'm talking about is empathy and support from society at large. Hell, some horny dude would be willing to house a homeless woman for free if she put out for it...fucked up situation I know, but nevertheless she has support from somewhere or someone. She doesn't even have to prostitute herself, jusy go to a nearby state funded women's only shelter and they'll help her out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 04:45 PM |
| 6 | Who is more invisible to society, broke unattractive women or broke unattractive men?But women don't spend their money on other people, men do. Lol do you realize what you just said here? You're basically saying outright that women are more selfish and inconsiderate than men 😆 😄 Not a exactly a good way to earn brownie points for "team woman" here but whatevs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 04:42 PM |
| 6 | Who is more invisible to society, broke unattractive women or broke unattractive men?I don't understand. What do you mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 03:29 PM |
| 8 | Who is more invisible to society, broke unattractive women or broke unattractive men?Sad as it may be a poor woman in dire circumstances can always resort to prostitution. Can you imagine you as a man being paid to eat a woman out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 03:27 PM |
| 13 | Who is more invisible to society, broke unattractive women or broke unattractive men?What, women can't apply for a job? Women being able to work and form careers compares to times past is a common them in this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 03:25 PM |
| 25 | Who is more invisible to society, broke unattractive women or broke unattractive men?Yes. Women in these poor circumstances receive a bit more empathy and support. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 03:23 PM |
| 5 | Would men having higher standards actually *work*?Men are competitive with each other. Forming a coalition with the goal of making the dating market more "fair" for the average dude is wishful dreaming. Chads have no issue with status quo, why would they be onboard with that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 03:20 PM |
| 125 | Would men having higher standards actually *work*?No, I don't think it would tbh. Women will just be like "lol okay, fine with me" becuase they only have eyes for the most attractive men anyway. Average men suddenly having higher standards wouldn't phase women much, in fact they'd more likely appreciate the absence of less desirable men hitting on them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 02:23 PM |
| 3 | Men should not waste time focusing on dating appsWell then, if that's happened to you then I'm sorry, you have my sympathies. Is your experience common for every other woman? I mean, it's pretty instilled in guys to leave women alone, and guys who do behave loke that are again the type of dudes who get beaten up over it. I've seen guys gey jumped ay other dudes at the bar as soon as he drunkenly gropes a woman's rack. I'm not doubting your personal experiences, I'm just telling you how things look from my end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 02:19 PM |
| 3 | Young men and sexlessness: Why's this going on?Idk, it seems like most women, especially the younger generation, are pretty adamant that they don't want to be bothered at all. Not in bar or club ("We don't go out to be hit on by guys, we go to dance, drink, and have a good time!!" Stop creeping us out!"), not in a bookstore, a coffe shop, a venue, on the street, nowhere. This in turn causes stress and anxiety among guys who don't want to be that guy who creeps women out and so we keep to ourselves and not say anything, then people like you b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Young men and sexlessness: Why's this going on?Sure, but just as many guys do try. And try hard. But nothing happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 01:57 PM |
| 9 | Men should not waste time focusing on dating appsYou know, I'm always hearing from women that they always feel threatened or endangered when out and about in the world becuase men are just that much of wild animals that you must pack a knife and spray with you...but as a guy, as one od those wild animals, I must say that fear/concern from women seems to be greatly exaggerated. I'm not saying it violence/retribution against women isn't real, I'm just saying that it seems overplayed by the media. Most men aren't just randomly accosting women. Mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 01:53 PM |
| 6 | Mass media is the most impactful factor in whether people are happy with partners available to them. Being exposed to the most attractive/charming people in existence invites comparison, which realistically available partners are almost always going to fall short of.Female projection never loses steam around this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Mass media is the most impactful factor in whether people are happy with partners available to them. Being exposed to the most attractive/charming people in existence invites comparison, which realistically available partners are almost always going to fall short of.Lol but that's exactly what it is though. Society is indeed becoming more dumb and selfish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 01:29 PM |
| 4 | Mass media is the most impactful factor in whether people are happy with partners available to them. Being exposed to the most attractive/charming people in existence invites comparison, which realistically available partners are almost always going to fall short of.If most people really fished in their looksmatch pond then why do most women rate most men as unattractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 01:25 PM |
| 11 | Men should not waste time focusing on dating appsI understood you perfectly. I'm saying it must be nice having potential partners in your real life social circle(s) as well as the luxury of being able to actually choose someone else altogether through online dating with such ease. Two separate pools of potential partners. Meanwhile there are dudes who haven't so much as held a girls hand and aren't likely to in the near future. I'm hating or anything, just saying, it must be nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 01:15 PM |
| 8 | Men should not waste time focusing on dating appsMust be nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 12:16 PM |
| 2 | Young men and sexlessness: Why's this going on?Yeah, social media is a cancer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 01:54 AM |
| 0 | Young men and sexlessness: Why's this going on?Believe it or not many of us guys are genuinely attracted to black women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/21 09:21 PM |
| 2 | Young men and sexlessness: Why's this going on?I honestly believe we're heading towards a point where it's going to be socially normal for men and women to just...be there, not hooking up or dating whatsoever for the reasons you listed. Perhaps the most practical solution would be to condition people from a young age that sexual interactions between men and women will be almost entirely transactional in nature and that there's no shame in that because men and women just don't seem to like each other much these days. So if people were more on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/21 09:19 PM |
| 13 | Legalizing prostitution will barely change the dating worldIn other words, only men with proper "game" are worthy of having sex? You do realize why prostitution has the reputation of being the oldest profession in the world right? Most men aren't suave players with top notch "game". Sure men can strive to "improve" themselves in whatever way they can, but it's a pretty established fact here by now that most women simply don't like most men and aren't attracted to them. What are guys supposed to do? Just roll over and accept a depressed and unfulfilling … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 03:39 AM |
| 3 | Legalizing prostitution will barely change the dating worldWould it shock you to discover that not all "johns" are abusive scumbags? A lot of these guys are just sad, lonely men who just want to experience some intimacy and paying money is the only way they'll receive that. Look, sexual slavery and trafficking is bad. Very bad. But you make it seem like the vast majority of sex workers are in those bad circumstances when the likelihood is that they're not being exploited and are in fact making their own choices to do that kind of work. Also your typical… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 03:31 AM |
| 3 | Legalizing prostitution will barely change the dating worldWhat exactly is "ugly" about paying for sex? would it shock you to discover that some sex workers actually genuinely enjoy their work? Believe it or not some people just aren't into the lovey-dovey Disney romanticism that society instills in us. There are women who have no issue offering for bodies for money, and there are men who have no issue paying money to have sex and thus skip all the other stuff that comes with "traditional" courtship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 03:08 AM |
| 3 | Legalizing prostitution will barely change the dating worldSeriously? With the way the modern dating landscape is, legalized prostitution is the most logical next step forward in trying to create some form of balance in the SMP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 03:01 AM |
| 5 | Legalizing prostitution will barely change the dating worldIt will never be fully normalized. Even in countries like Germany it's seen as something shameful for a man to do as it signifies that he has no options. It's something that most men do in secret. This right here is the critical part that needs to change. It's not enough to just legalize prostitution...it's just as important to also normalize and destigmatize men paying for sex. If we keep shitting on men who pay for sex as losers who have no other options then you cannot realistically expect th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 02:41 AM |
| 4 | Legalizing prostitution will barely change the dating worldI just find the whole idea of exchanging money for sex disgusting Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 02:36 AM |
| 10 | The 80/20 rule and raising a sonDo you consider it parent's jobs to educate their sons on how attract women? More and more kids are being raised in broken, dysfunctional, single parent households. Not exactly an ideal environment for boys to learn how to be balanced, effective men in the future. If you're a dude, did your parents educate you on how to attract women and was it effective? My dad was in prison during the most critical and formative years of my upbringing, and my mom of course didn't teach me shit about gender dyn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 02:31 AM |
| 0 | Mod Nomination Mega Thread + UpdatesRed pillers and asshole trolls don't always overlap, even red pillers will tell you that the most asinine, outrageous, and trollish posts come from those who are still caught up in the anger phase. Even red pillers will tell you that it's unhealthy and counterprodcutive to remain in a perpetual state of anger...at some point you need to accept the way things are and adapt accordingly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Mod Nomination Mega Thread + Updates😁 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 02:10 AM |
| 2 | Mod Nomination Mega Thread + UpdatesYikes. That's not cool. Yeah, this place attracts assholes, but there are also some decent folk here who don't necessarily have malicious intentions and actually try to debate in good faith. Sorry that happened to you, btw.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 02:09 AM |
| 5 | Mod Nomination Mega Thread + UpdatesI still don't get too comfortable because I'm not a red piller and I've seen time and time again them get away with murder I have to call BS on that. I honestly believe the mod team has thus far had a strong bias against red pill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 01:30 AM |
| 3 | Mod Nomination Mega Thread + UpdatesGenuinely curious, I know you cant post direct links but can you elaborate further on what women put up with in this sub according to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 01:27 AM |
| 2 | Mod Nomination Mega Thread + UpdatesCan I nominate myself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 01:24 AM |
| 10 | Women, why is being "too nice" a thing, and why are a lot of you attracted to toxic behaviour?But certainly enough women to where it's a common cultural trope/meme that "women like bad boys" and "nice guys finish last" Are that many women really going through traumatic childhood that their attraction to toxic behaviour is a well known cultural trope? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/21 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Someone has to say it...men your OLD profiles are overwhelmingly terribleCan u elaborate further on how sex workers behave ob Reddit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/21 05:05 AM |
| 4 | Someone has to say it...men your OLD profiles are overwhelmingly terribleWomen, even bottome 80% women, will always have more inherent value than men because they carry the babies. We see this across the animal kingdom and especailly among mammalian species. Blame biology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/21 05:00 AM |
| 4 | NYT - Why American Women Everywhere Are Delaying MotherhoodPeople are realizing that the global economy is extremely volatile, and that having kids isn't some magical path to self-fullfillment and bliss, in fact it's actually quite mentally draining and financially expensive... So yeah, it's probably a good thing that birthrates are in universal decline. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 06:10 PM |
| 4 | What argument here has changed your mind?More and more men are realizing that the juice just isn't worth the sqeeze. I don't think there's anything "loserish" about that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 05:42 PM |
| 2 | CMV: social media and online dating have completely destroyed the dating market, it cannot be repairedYes, this is it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 03:31 PM |
| 2 | Attempting to Destigmatize Male Virginity Will Achieve NothingIt's reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 12:11 PM |
| 3 | Attempting to Destigmatize Male Virginity Will Achieve NothingWomen don’t turn down guys that they are attracted to because they find out he’s a virgin. If a girl is actually attracted to you, idk why that would be remotely relevant. If they weren’t attracted to him to begin with, then his virginity isn’t relevant, what do you expect? It’s not like women should be obligated to give sex to men they don’t like. I think you're giving women a bit too much credit here. Sure she could be initially attracted to a guy, but upon finding out he's a virgin she'll won… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 08:16 AM |
| 3 | Attempting to Destigmatize Male Virginity Will Achieve NothingI'm confused, you're saying this wasn't your experience? Then what exactly are you basing your claim that "plenty of women don't mind virgins" from?? Because I can assure you the vast majority of the time a guy still being a virgin well into his 20's is not something he'll want potential prospects to know becuase more likely than not women will perceive that to be a red flag. Hell, she could very well think crap, I hope he's not one of thise weird incel dudes I keep hearing about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 08:06 AM |
| 1 | Attempting to Destigmatize Male Virginity Will Achieve Nothingthe "why?" is understandable but again it's easy to see why the dude is a virgin if he had untreated anxiety, low self esteem, depression, etc. And you really think most young women today would be willing to deal with a guy like that?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 06:05 AM |
| 2 | Attempting to Destigmatize Male Virginity Will Achieve NothingYou're situation is the exception, not the rule. Good for you though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 06:01 AM |
| 1 | Attempting to Destigmatize Male Virginity Will Achieve NothingEither way being an older male virgin is stigmatized. People here seem to forget that PPD is not the real world, so all the "it shouldn't matter" beliefs doesn't hold much weight out in the wild. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Attempting to Destigmatize Male Virginity Will Achieve NothingThe rate of sexless men keeps rising. We can debate until the end of time as to why it's happening but the point is that it's happening regardless. As for your claim that most hookers are coming from traumatic and abusive pasts...most legitimate sex workers are operating as independent contractors and aren't being sex trafficked. That claim is largely overblown by the media. You don't think destigmatizing sex work and the purchase of it wouldn't be beneficial in the long haul? You'd probably see… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 04:06 AM |
| 2 | Attempting to Destigmatize Male Virginity Will Achieve NothingTrue practice makes perfect, but I'm saying at some point most guys are supposed to achieve some degree of success, even if it's just hooking up with single moms looking for a stable beta. Guys are expected to be "in the groove" of things by 25 for sure, beyond that people begin to wonder what's up with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 04:00 AM |
| 3 | Attempting to Destigmatize Male Virginity Will Achieve NothingThat's why there needs to be a societal shift in how we approach gender dynamics. If we as a society are going to accept a 50% incel rate among men, then boys from a young age should be taught that many of them will only get naked with a girl if he makes a direct monetary payment and that that's okay... That's what needs to be normalized and destigmatized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Attempting to Destigmatize Male Virginity Will Achieve NothingVirginity in men is not "nothing to be ashamed of." Virginity in men is the bare minimum requirement to be an at least somewhat moral person. I don't think it's morals so much as just being a basic, functional human being with decent social skills. I think most women don't really expect a guy to be a "player" type, but a 25+ year old virgin dude is just bad news. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Attempting to Destigmatize Male Virginity Will Achieve NothingThis seems like the most likely scenario down the road IMO. I think what needs to happen is a societal shift in how we go about gender dynamics, of we as a society are going to accept that at least 50% of dudes are incel, then it seems only fitting that prostitution be decriminialzed and destigmatized...boys from a young age should be taught that for many of them, women will never truly "desire" them the way men desire women, and that the only way they'll get naked with a woman is via direct mon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 01:45 AM |
| 3 | Attempting to Destigmatize Male Virginity Will Achieve NothingI mean, it's pretty much a deficit. If you as a man are failing at social skills, flirting skills, you don't have "game", can't sexually escalate, etc., are shy/awkward, etc..its basically you failing at being a man. Becuase you're right, this shit is hardwired into our core DNA, we're biologically compelled to desire women and want to have intimate relations with them, so for a guy to be in that spot where those needs aren't being met, it fucks with a guy's head in a way that it simply doesn't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 01:33 AM |
| 0 | The reason why men don't get sex is because of menThe struggle makes me better? Better at doing what? A better what? Being a resilient, self-sufficient individual? Even the redpill/mgtow guys say that a guy should accept not being intimate with women and findna way to be totally content with life living atop a mountain with a ripped body and practice with the Katana every morning... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 11:10 PM |
| 5 | Let's discuss the fundamental issues at hand: Do women have unreasonable and unrealistic standards/expectations? Or are men just impotent, underperforming and/or checking out? If the former, do you believe men have a right to be bitter and angry over the situation?I don't think anyone is denying that both men and women want to be attracted to their sexual partners, the problem arises when women who are 4-6 feel like they're entitled to guys who are 7-9. Guys appear to have more grounded and realistic expectations in who they can attract, women on the other hand don't pay any attention whatsoever to guys who are shorter than 6ft, aren't in prime shape, and who make less money than them. Did you see the male sexlessness is rising thread? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Let's discuss the fundamental issues at hand: Do women have unreasonable and unrealistic standards/expectations? Or are men just impotent, underperforming and/or checking out? If the former, do you believe men have a right to be bitter and angry over the situation?Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 05:43 AM |
| 7 | Let's discuss the fundamental issues at hand: Do women have unreasonable and unrealistic standards/expectations? Or are men just impotent, underperforming and/or checking out? If the former, do you believe men have a right to be bitter and angry over the situation?Both. The women are unreasonable. The men are middling. Most women might have to reconcile with the idea that is Kyle who makes 50k, is 5'8", is 185lbs, and is gonna need a roommate or a second income to afford a home; otherwise, she's gonna live alone with cats, dogs, kids, and besties. Yes, the cost of living is unreasonably high. That's probably what contributes to men's "impotancy". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 05:42 AM |
| 3 | Let's discuss the fundamental issues at hand: Do women have unreasonable and unrealistic standards/expectations? Or are men just impotent, underperforming and/or checking out? If the former, do you believe men have a right to be bitter and angry over the situation?If a man manages to randomly fuck a woman celebrity or a cute virgin or whatever, he's going to appreciate the incident as a one-of. He's not going to set that as his new standard This here is interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Let's discuss the fundamental issues at hand: Do women have unreasonable and unrealistic standards/expectations? Or are men just impotent, underperforming and/or checking out? If the former, do you believe men have a right to be bitter and angry over the situation?How is that hypocritical? By the sense of validation? The main difference here is that women actually receive validation whilst most men don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 05:37 AM |
| 8 | Let's discuss the fundamental issues at hand: Do women have unreasonable and unrealistic standards/expectations? Or are men just impotent, underperforming and/or checking out? If the former, do you believe men have a right to be bitter and angry over the situation?Impotent? Do you mean in the hormonal sense? In the sense of just being lame and incompetent, no style, no game, etc. Hell according the the women here most men are failing to even apply basic hygiene. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 05:34 AM |
| 6 | New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex.It's getting harder and harder to supresses this "great awakening" though. The more studies that are conducted and released, the more people become aware that something just isn't right with gender dynamics. People didn't even know what incel, redpill, manosphere were barely a decade ago; it was mocked and shamed, not taken seriously. I'm hearing a whole different tune these days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 10:10 PM |
| 5 | New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex.This system unsustainable. I don't think men are just going to go quietly into the night just because they're being told to shut and deal with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 10:04 PM |
| – | New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex.I don't know. I'm in the U.S and here it seems like we're heading down a realistic path to violence with each passing year, perpetuated by the shenanigans of our politics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 02:46 AM |
| – | New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex.Guys just need to accept that reality and adjust accordingly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 02:40 AM |
| – | New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex.I'm not the one you're responding to but I want to answer anyway. Simply put, there really is no solution. Whether we as a society like it or not we're gradually confronting the bitter reality that (for a web of reasons that have been discussed to death on this sub) more and more men are going dateless/sexless through no choice of their own No, the answer isn't to force women to be with guys they don't want, furthermore what society shouldn't do is casually and nonchalantly dismiss what guys hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Most men aren't born ugly. They're ugly by choice. Getting called creepy has more to do with a lack of proper social etiquette, which can affect grooming, appearance, and people's first impressions.Sadly, even too many fat ugly women often feel like men their looksmatch are beneath them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 01:42 PM |
| 2 | Why are so many men giving money to OnlyFans women?What's the matter? You don't think men are pathetically desperate these days? There's dudes who pay women to send them their used panties and bathwater...like how low can we get here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Why are so many men giving money to OnlyFans women?Sure, I guess if you go all the way back to hunter-gatherer days you'd find some cavemen who'd give cavewomen a little extra meat from the mammoth hunt in exhange for showing her hairy cavewoman tits, but the level of desperation from young men we see today is something else entirely that could only be a product of our technologically advanced society that commodifes human relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Why are so many men giving money to OnlyFans women?According to many on this sub it's not a biological need and men need to just get over it and find a way to be happy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 05:22 AM |
| 0 | Why are so many men giving money to OnlyFans women?How so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 02:06 AM |
| 2 | Most men aren't born ugly. They're ugly by choice. Getting called creepy has more to do with a lack of proper social etiquette, which can affect grooming, appearance, and people's first impressions.She makes the assumption that any guy who can't attract women must be becuase he's a dirty slob living in mama's basement eating cheetos and playing WoW all day. I'm explaining to her that that's often not the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 10:40 PM |
| 0 | Most men aren't born ugly. They're ugly by choice. Getting called creepy has more to do with a lack of proper social etiquette, which can affect grooming, appearance, and people's first impressions.Rachael What-her-name that pretended to be black I remember. That lady clearly has mental issues so I never understood why she got so much attention. Casey Anthony I think it's pretty clear to most people that she murdered her child. That whole situation was like a repeat of the OJ trial - a not guilty verdict in the face of so much damning evidence Men trivialize hot teachers sexually abusing male students, so I don’t know why you brought this up. Not everyone trivializes it. What's right is ri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Most men aren't born ugly. They're ugly by choice. Getting called creepy has more to do with a lack of proper social etiquette, which can affect grooming, appearance, and people's first impressions.millions of women flocked to see the movie and it was blasted all over social media and mainstream news outlets. I wouldn't exactly call that a niche. Yeah there's lots of gamers too, but gaming historically been a niche hobby, it's only been gaining in popularity in recent years. Gaming used to be a moslty male niche. Now since more women are gaming/streaming it's suddenly considered a mainstream and acceptable hobby and no longer considered lame or uncool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 03:41 PM |
| 11 | Why are so many men giving money to OnlyFans women?I'm honestly finding it harder and harder to feel sorry for men these days, men have allowed themselves to become this pathetic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 03:29 PM |
| 2 | Most men aren't born ugly. They're ugly by choice. Getting called creepy has more to do with a lack of proper social etiquette, which can affect grooming, appearance, and people's first impressions.No, we're talking about differemt things here. On one hand there's women by the millions being awed and swooned by chadly Mr.Grey, and on the other hand there's a niche community of gamer guys being silly with video game mods.. Night and day 🌙 🌞 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 03:26 PM |
| 9 | Most men aren't born ugly. They're ugly by choice. Getting called creepy has more to do with a lack of proper social etiquette, which can affect grooming, appearance, and people's first impressions.It's strawmanning every time with her... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 03:21 PM |
| 5 | Most men aren't born ugly. They're ugly by choice. Getting called creepy has more to do with a lack of proper social etiquette, which can affect grooming, appearance, and people's first impressions.He didn't say he personally knows women who write love letters to serial rapists and killers, he's saying Ted Bundy had no shortage of love letters from women who were well aware that he was a murderer and rapist. It's an uncomfortable subject to discuss in public because it makes women look bad, notice how whenever this is talked about there's usually an accompanying narrative explaining how these women are troubled and damaged and cant really be faulted for their desires. We see that same type… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Most men aren't born ugly. They're ugly by choice. Getting called creepy has more to do with a lack of proper social etiquette, which can affect grooming, appearance, and people's first impressions.Lol what? 😆 I haven't followed Resident Evil in a long while so I'm a bit rusty on the current installment but someone from work showed me on his phone that dudes are creating mods within the game ti make it more funny and silly...just guy horsing around like what guys do. I don't think you can quite compare the two. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 03:14 PM |
| 2 | Most men aren't born ugly. They're ugly by choice. Getting called creepy has more to do with a lack of proper social etiquette, which can affect grooming, appearance, and people's first impressions.Just becuase there may have been a few women here and there calling out problematic issues with 50 Shades in some HuffPost or NY Times article doesn't diminish the fact that millions of other women paid to watch the movie and absolutely loved it. Studies have even shown that women largely prefer masculine/dominant men so none of this should be surprising. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 03:08 PM |
| 16 | Most men aren't born ugly. They're ugly by choice. Getting called creepy has more to do with a lack of proper social etiquette, which can affect grooming, appearance, and people's first impressions.Fiction or not it's telling how women reacted to the movie, all head over heels over rich boy Chad and his objectively 'creepy' behavior that lesser men would simply have never gotten away with or viewed in an endearing light. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Why are so many men giving money to OnlyFans women?I refuse to believe this many beta cuck simps that get off to being used exist. Believe it. It's a testament to just how pathetically lonely and desperate young men are today. I don't understand it either, you have guys out there paying up to $100 for a woman's used panties with shit stains or dried period blood on them...but they won't hire an escort to actually have sex with... I don't know, the world is just a weird place these days... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 02:53 PM |
| 24 | Most men aren't born ugly. They're ugly by choice. Getting called creepy has more to do with a lack of proper social etiquette, which can affect grooming, appearance, and people's first impressions.And when this is pointed out by men we're told we're just a bunch of whiny incel losers... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 02:42 PM |
| 26 | Most men aren't born ugly. They're ugly by choice. Getting called creepy has more to do with a lack of proper social etiquette, which can affect grooming, appearance, and people's first impressions.Once again you're ignoring the swaths of men who aren't terribly ugly, aren't shy or awkward, make active efforts to improve themselves by lifting weights and dressing well, have a sense of style, going out with friends to mix and mingle, put themselves in social situations, and most importantly actively approach women in the most gentlemanly non-creepy way as possible..... ....and yet they still find themselves being chronically rejected and ignored by women. Most women just don't seem to like … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 02:39 PM |
| 3 | I think we all need to calm down a littleJust becuase women are biologically designed to rear children doesn't necessarily mean they are inherently more empathetic. Some women murder their own children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 05:52 AM |
| 0 | I think we all need to calm down a littleIt's inaccurate though, especially in modern times. I think it comes from the good natured "halo effect" that men place on women becuase men want women that badly that they see women as angelic creatures of purity and empathy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 05:51 AM |
| 7 | I think we all need to calm down a littleNo being is 100% pure. But women are caring and empathetic in a way most men are not. C'mon man, this is just wildy inaccurate. Women are no more or less caring/empathetic than men or vice versa. Human beings are generally shitty creatures. The whole "women are more caring/empathetic" is part of the Women Are Wonderful effect that leads guys to a lot of bitter disappointment and hate towarda women. It's not a healthy mindset to promote. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 03:57 AM |
| 13 | Most Legitimately Average Men Don't Have Such A Huge Problem With Having SexBut going back to ugly guys, they probably never get any signs of interest. So they just approach anyone with a pulse who they like the look of with no concern for the other person. But if approach doesn’t work, online dating doesn’t work, other in person stuff (social circles, hobbies etc) doesn’t work, what are dudes meant to do? At that point, nothing. It's an unspoken expectation that guys in that situation are supposed to just find a way to be find meaning and purpose in life without dating… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Why do men become so self-destructive without access to women?How exactly is this a "leading question"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/21 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Why do men become so self-destructive without access to women?...what? Where in my post did I say anything about women being in "pity relations" with men? I was only describing the male experience and how men perceive their predictable. I'm not saying women need to be in unwanted relationships with men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/21 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Why do men become so self-destructive without access to women?You know, it's really not even about "putting all eggs in one basket" as you're saying. It's mainly about men just being tired from not even getting a chance to obtain that particular basket in the first place. Have you ever thought the reason men seem to fall to pieces when they can't attract women us becuase they've never been able to attract women on a continuous basis? I think most people can agree that one shouldn't invest their entire life energy into finding a partner, that's not what I'm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/21 03:10 PM |
| 2 | Why do men become so self-destructive without access to women?I would argue women nowadays are being empowered to pursue the childfree lifestyle, people in general are having less and less kids so the whole "women are shammed for not having kids" doesn't hold much weight I think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/21 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Why do men become so self-destructive without access to women?All I'm saying is for men this innate desire is compounded by x1000 becuase testosterone and the male sex drive makes sex/intimate relationships almost like a physiological need. We observe this same behavior in other mammalian species of the animal kingdom and humans are no different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/21 02:52 PM |
| 0 | Why do men become so self-destructive without access to women?I'm saying you don't have a male sex drive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/21 02:46 PM |
| 10 | Why do men become so self-destructive without access to women?You don't have raging testosterone flowing through your body compelling you to fuck, you also don't have societal messages being thrown at you telling you that if you're not fucking, dating, you're basically an emasculated loser who unworthy of respect. You're a woman so you can't understand it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/21 02:22 PM |
| 10 | Why do men become so self-destructive without access to women?In a simplified nutshell yeah, basically. I don't gey why people are still having a hard time coming to grips with that fact. The truth isn't pretty but it is what it is. People think its a joke when we say sex/dating is almost like a physiological need for men, but thats whay it really feels like to these dudes. The testosterone and primal urge to fuck compells to be this way. I'm not saying people are incapable of altering or modifying their behaviour for the sake of social order and what not,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/21 01:23 PM |
| 3 | Most of TRP "truths" are symptoms of America being a dysfunctional societyFurthermore the assumption that society forms the dating rituals sounds entirely reasonable to me, as further evidence for this thesis we can perhaps consider how TRP is on the rise since about 2010ish (are there any long-time RPs around who have better numbers?) and their popularity may go back to a period of very slow economic rebound from the 2008 crisis. I wouldn't call myself a hardcore redpiller but some of thier points are valid. There has definitely been a shift since early 2010's, all t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 03:03 PM |
| 13 | Most of TRP "truths" are symptoms of America being a dysfunctional societyI'm a 90's kid as well, yeah, this is definitely it. Things are so fucked off now on a level that I don't think anybody back then could even possibly have comprehend. I remember if wanted to see some porno titties you'd have to have a magazine or a 'black box' installed on your TV. Now, kids as young as 8 have access to hardcore, raunchy porn and women with farm animals through their smartphones ( basically handheld computers, we don't even call them 'cellphones' anymore lol 😆) it's insane. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 02:50 PM |
| 8 | Most of TRP "truths" are symptoms of America being a dysfunctional societyThe prime years of a woman when she's out to just have some fun and fuck around with this person and that person from time to time..for whatever reasons. Then around 30ish she wants a guy to marry, settle down with in a commited long term relationship, but it's usually with a dude who may or may not have been the shy/introvert/nerdy dude in school...but overrall just not as attractive, physical or otherwise, as the dudes she fucked around with in school. The guy knows this and resents it. He's n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 02:21 PM |
| 6 | The Atlantic - "The Bored Sex"I can accept all of that. What's annoying AF tho is how (Western) society is still largely trying to maintain the blue pilled romantic facade. Why can't people just be upfront and admit that things are really fucked off on a level we've never seen before, we're in uncharted waters but people don't want to admit it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/21 08:13 AM |
| 7 | The Atlantic - "The Bored Sex"This still happens even when the dude is going out of his way to please to nagging wife who's chronically miserable and unsatisfied. My stepfather was deployed overseas during the height of the Iraq war around 2005/2006 when my mom decided to cheat on him becuase my stepfather was "never around"...never mind the fact that a woman should know what when you marry a military man you're in fact marrying an entire lifestyle becuase active duty military isn't your typical 9-5 civilian job. But no, I g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/21 08:09 AM |
| 3 | Female Privilege Exists?But here's the thing, us guys notice when you don't seem to care about any of those things you listed if you're receiving attention from attractive men. You'll fuck the attractive guy a day after meeting in line at Subway but yet you'll make Billy Beta invest time/money into your interests, hobbies, personality, etc before you put out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 01:06 AM |
| 2 | Female Privilege Exists?Women are the desired sex, and with all the perks which come as such. Yeah they have to wade through a lot of weirdos and dickheads, but at that point it's a matter of them being abke to effectively screen through the list of applicants. Women will never be alone. There will always be someone for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Social awkwardness, not looks, is the real relationship killer for menThen you need to readjust your approach/strategy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/21 02:41 PM |
| 3 | Social awkwardness, not looks, is the real relationship killer for menYeah, the modern dating landscape is crappy, that's for sure. But part of being a resilient man is being able to adapt to our environment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/21 08:02 AM |
| 4 | Social awkwardness, not looks, is the real relationship killer for menThat's certainly your choice to make, but you forfeit your right to complain about though if choose to opt out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/21 08:00 AM |
| 0 | Social awkwardness, not looks, is the real relationship killer for menThis is what resilience is. To be able to weather the storm and handle those rejections without it sapping at your self-esteem. Not saying it's easy, just saying that most guys don't have any other choice in this matter. Except to give up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/21 04:09 AM |
| -3 | Social awkwardness, not looks, is the real relationship killer for menIf you don't try, then it definitely won't happen. That's always guaranteed. But if you try there's always that chance, no matter how slim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/21 04:08 AM |
| 4 | Social awkwardness, not looks, is the real relationship killer for menGuys have no choice though. Not if you eventually want a girlfriend. Even if you have to wade through 1000 rejections to eventually find someone who says yes. I know it sucks but thats all there is to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/21 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Social awkwardness, not looks, is the real relationship killer for menThe idea is for guys to persistently push through those rejections. Sure rejections sting, but you're not supposed to allow it completely demolish your self-worth. You're supposed to have the emotional and mental resilience to brush each rejection off your shoulders (even the brutal ones) and keep trying. "It's a numbers game" they tell you... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/21 01:52 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Unattractive men are already socially relegated to mostly/all male social circles, further inhibiting their sexual behaviorI think what he means as in the dynamics of social circles - there's usually a sort if 'caste' system if you will, it may or may not be overt or potent but it's there. There's "that one" guy or girl who are just incapable of obtaining sex/LTR's, other people in the group may or may not see it too but if they do they don't say anything or bring up the matter to you, it's awkward and they can probably tell it makes you unfortable. That sort of thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: When it comes to casual sex, why does it seem like people are living in two different worlds?What about good looking people who are also unconfident/insecure, etc? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/21 01:23 PM |
| 6 | Q4All: When it comes to casual sex, why does it seem like people are living in two different worlds?Yeah, guys need to be more bold and take risks. Unfortunately modern society is hell bent on producing low-T beta males by suppressing thier natural "inner hunter" sorta speak for the sake of making life more comfortable for women who resent having to deal unwanted attention from undesirable males. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/21 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: When it comes to casual sex, why does it seem like people are living in two different worlds?People in general appear to have less social skills these days, but that doesn't change the fact that people who are more sociable and outgoing are going to have more opportunities than those who don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/21 12:40 PM |
| 9 | [Q4W] Do you dislike men with too few previous partners, similar to how some men dislike women with too many?sigh It's cute that so many guys on this sub apparently still actually expect women to be fully honest about these sorts of things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 03:33 PM |
| 5 | Casual sex happens most in casual, playful, and fun environs.Not everyone can be a well networked DJ who can throw frequent parties and have hundreds of people show up. Some people only have a handful of individuals for a social circle, and not everyone has the time or money to be going out all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Would You Make The Trade?Yeah, you should. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Would You Make The Trade?You don't appear to be fully aware. I've seen plenty of old hags on social media getting a lot of love from guys jerking to thier pictures. Even here on reddit. I don't thinj youve seriously entertained the idea enough for you to try it and realize just how much power average, plain, older women command on social media. The ole "men only want attractive, young white women" is simply overused and outdated at this point. There are NSFW subs all over reddit featuring women from all walks of life, e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 12:34 AM |
| 10 | Casual sex happens most in casual, playful, and fun environs.That doesn't seem very encouraging for your average dude. "Just be a well connected DJ who throws frequent event/parties" Lol okay, got it. Sometimes I wonder if some of the people on this sub get a kick out of being deliberately condescending and obtuse towards guys who are struggling with dating/sex/relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Would You Make The Trade?I think you vastly underestimate the amound of average, plain looking women who actually can make decent money off that. A girl I knew from 4 months ago, okay looking but nothing spectacular, made around $3,200 in just her first month with an Onlyfans account. Not bad for doing nothing other than being an average, okay looking female. You ladies are living in a golden age yet you lie through your teeth saying you aren't. Stop being in denial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Would You Make The Trade?I don't think that's what he means. Can men make money using a smartphone and subscriptions from an onlyfans account (by FEMALE fans, not gay dudes). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 09:20 PM |
| 37 | CMV: There's not much proof behind the "80/20" rule.Recent studies indicate that the rate of young men leading sexless lives more than doubled in the last decade. The number stands at around 30%. How does that happen? How and why did that significant jump occur? What's happening out there? Say what you will about Redpill/manosphere, but at this point anyone who continues to insist that it's all bullshit, that there's nothing to it whatsoever, that there's no broader issue at hand and it's all in people's heads...is someone who's being deliberatel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 12:14 AM |
| 11 | Let's say sex is indeed a need. What now? What do we do with this information?Not the same thing. You can't compare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Saying "Men aren't getting the sex they want" is a form entitlement. Too many lonely guys are picky beggars.So what are these above average women doing here on a sub full of lonely, average/below average low-SMV men? What do they get out of it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 08:06 AM |
| 1 | The Average ManHo do you know for sure that what you're defining as average really is what "average" is for men? What sources/statistics did you use to come to this conclusion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/21 09:44 PM |
| 3 | Why is it a problem if only ~70% of young men have sex?This right here is what needs to happen. Why is society so afraid of this deep, fundamental fact? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/21 10:57 PM |
| 9 | What are some things you dislike about your own gender/nature?Male thirst. Men are so pathetically thirsty it's disgusting. I'll never understand men who throw wads of cash at women just for flashing a titty or sometimes not even that, men will pay women to simply talk to them and have conversation...like, seriously? are men really that desperate and lonely that they'll just give women free money just to be acknowledged? It would be funny if it wasn't so fucking common so it's sad. These men need to stop deluding themselves and just accept tha that most wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/21 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Should men even bother with dating if women don't find them physically attractive?Bingo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/21 03:48 PM |
| 6 | First comes sex, then maybe commitmentBut supposedly most women aren't interested in casual sex, plenty of women here have said such. So for men who want casual sex, lying or ommiting is the way about it. Shitty? Sure, but that's why they say the male and female imperative are at fundamentally at odds with each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/21 03:14 PM |
| 1 | We all know the truth ladies...How can you tell if a client is a fuckboy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Should men just cheat on their wives/girlfriends if they want to have more sex?I'm not "advocating" for anything, I'm simply discussing a possible *sexual strategy" which is what this sub is about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Should men just cheat on their wives/girlfriends if they want to have more sex?I never said I was cheating/planning to cheat, love how you jump to conclusions. I'm simply asking in the abstract here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Should men just cheat on their wives/girlfriends if they want to have more sex?I'm actually sorta seeing someone, an old friend from school but I honeslty feel like she has deep emotional issues, feeling insecure about herself and that she has to be in a relationship with a guy in order to feel validated, it's not something I see wanting to deal with to be frank... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Should men just cheat on their wives/girlfriends if they want to have more sex?Only if you choose to partake in social media. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 06:12 PM |
| 5 | Men are approaching way less than people here think500 approaches in two years...there's guys who might be able to summon the courage to ask 2 or 3 women a year if at all, and with a 75% positivity rate? May I ask how old are you? What kind of area are you in? Because this sounds like something from another century. I know that's an exaggeration but people just have screens in their face all day and seem completely oblivious to the world around them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Sex is a need, but not a right & never should be.That's how bloops operate. Change the goalposts as soon as the general opinion on something shifts against their narrative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/20 08:59 PM |
| 1 | New Years Eve Purge and AutoModerator topic reassessment.Maybe of them are indeed trying though. Why should they be excluded from the sub? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/20 02:58 AM |
| 3 | New Years Eve Purge and AutoModerator topic reassessment.Agreed, it seemd to be working just fine. I feel like this is just part of the slow-moving effort to eventually ban all incel content from this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/20 02:57 AM |
| 20 | Is it a bit ironic, that people here are so heated and vitriolic on a sub about relationships and dating, which are supposed to involve love and passion?Bitterness and hatefulness lead people to develop very bizarre explanations for their problems. “Maybe my personality is off-putting and toxic” becomes “love never existed and looks are all that matter” with this mentality. Too often though this right here is used as a way to callously dismiss the chronic loniness and frustration of people who find themselves unable to atteact a partner, despite them being far from a "toxic personality". Believe it or not not everyone who describe themselves as … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/20 07:55 PM |
| 0 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadThat's why you as the client have to keep yourself grounded and not catch feelings as you go about the hobby. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Why is it such a privilege for women to be do onlyfans when most of us don’t want to and never will?I'm just saying the majority of people who pay for sex are straight men. All the exceptions aside, straight men are what drive the demand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 01:06 AM |
| 0 | Why is it such a privilege for women to be do onlyfans when most of us don’t want to and never will?If you know know this, then why make the comparison as if they're on equal footing when they're not... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 01:04 AM |
| 0 | Why is it such a privilege for women to be do onlyfans when most of us don’t want to and never will?The vast majority of men who pay for sex are straight men. Just because a miniscule amount of gay men pay for sex (for whatever reason) doesn't mean it's comparable to the level and frequency of straight men paying for sex. Paying for sex is mainly a man on woman thing. It's been that way since forever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Why is it such a privilege for women to be do onlyfans when most of us don’t want to and never will?No, we don't have to agree but don't make it seem like gay men paying for sex and straight men paying for sex are on the same level when they're not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/20 11:24 PM |
| 3 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadTherapists, nurses, and teachers won't fuck you though, and the context of this discussion (along with this sub) revolves around sexual relations between men and women so don't understand why you're even making that comparison. How do sex workers top the “‘most” sympathetic list? In the sense that therapists, nurses, and teachers won't be real with you and will just pour more blue pilled BS into your head. You are also specifically talking about sex workers that offer a GFE, which doesn’t accoun… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/20 11:21 PM |
| 0 | Why is it such a privilege for women to be do onlyfans when most of us don’t want to and never will?Here's the thing, if your supposed gay friends are actually paying for services like that then its one of either two things or both: 1.) Even as a gay dude they're so incompetent and inadequate that they still actually have pay for sexual attention. It should be pretty easy for gays to fuck each other for free but I'm sure gay incels also exist to a degree. 2.) The link you posted gives the impression that this is more of a fetish thing rather than <having> to pay for services. Gay dudes find st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/20 10:47 PM |
| 2 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadI have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/20 10:13 PM |
| 2 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadYeah but sexworkers don't want to date/marry their clientele. I never said they did. They see those guys as desperate, bottom of the barrel losers who need to resort to using a sex worker to get their jollies because they can't attract a woman IRL. Not necessarily. Sure they run into shitty clients at times, but that doesn't mean they hold all of their clients in utter contempt. You're also making the assumption that all men who pay sex workers are "bottom of the barrel" incel-types who can't at… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/20 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadI know a few Chad-types who have no issues attracting women, still catch feelings sex workers. Just saying. It happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/20 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Why is it such a privilege for women to be do onlyfans when most of us don’t want to and never will?Here's something for ya. Keep in mind that at least when it comes to OnlyFans this is a relatively new phenomena. So while we may not have solid numbers yet to work with, we can ready see a trend emerging. https://www.google.com/amp/s/evoke.ie/2020/06/05/life-style/sex-relationships/onlyfans-women-share-nudes-but-why/amp OnlyFans confirmed to EVOKE: ‘Since the start of the pandemic at the beginning of March, the platform has indeed seen an increase of 75 per cent in new sign-ups with currently a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/20 10:03 PM |
| 7 | Why is it such a privilege for women to be do onlyfans when most of us don’t want to and never will?<Your> friends in <your> circle doesn't mean you're right about women collectively. From what I see, the state of hetero male-female relations is in a rough spot and more women are opening their eyes to the lucrative possibilities of sex work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/20 09:49 PM |
| 0 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadOh, you'd be surprised. In fact I'd wager it happens more often than people realize. It's not an uncommon thing at all for men to catch lovey-dovey feelings for the strippers or hookers that they frequent. I'll also wager that even men are in denial of this. Men love sex workers more than they'll admit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/20 09:45 PM |
| 3 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadI know some women who have dabbled and they, if anything, lack a lot of empathy. How can someone who has sex transactionally be more sympathetic? Sympathetic in the sense that they know how men are wired, are able to gauge male emotions, give positive feedback, etc. Given the nature of sex work, they're just "acting" sure, but it takes a certain type of personality and emotional intelligence to able to effectively handle sex work. You’re also someone who condones cheating, so I don’t know if I c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/20 09:39 PM |
| 0 | Why is it such a privilege for women to be do onlyfans when most of us don’t want to and never will?Revenue for who exactly? That's right, the websites who run porn and automatically generate revenue by people simply clicking. It doesn't mean gay dudes are literally shelling out money directly from their pockets. Just like I don't directly give money from my pocket to watch straight porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/20 09:26 PM |
| 0 | Why is it such a privilege for women to be do onlyfans when most of us don’t want to and never will?Lol gay men don't have to pay for sexual attention. You're trippin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/20 09:12 PM |
| 8 | Why is it such a privilege for women to be do onlyfans when most of us don’t want to and never will?Most of the women who do have an OF account aren't exactly going to be telling that to their friends and family...maybe you do know women who use OF. You just don't know it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/20 09:12 PM |
| 7 | Why is it such a privilege for women to be do onlyfans when most of us don’t want to and never will?If I was starving, I'd choose death over onlyfans You talk the talk, but can you walk the walk? Be honest with yourself when you consider if things really did fall apart for you next week and the only way to come back on top was sex work..you would really rather starve than do what you gotta do? Second of all, prostitution is NOT easy work. First of all both your lady bits and face must be attractive. Second of all, you have to know your audience, what pleases them, and how to make them feel goo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/20 09:09 PM |
| 6 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadThe people who automatically equate inceldom with ER-style "Incels" are the same ones who conveniently cherry pick the ER-style Incel posts from online forums and use that as the gold standard to what inceldom folk are like. It would basically be the same as me picking out the screeching blue-haired man hating feminist who pull fire alarms at men's gatherings, and using that as the gold standard as to what a feminist is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/20 09:02 PM |
| 2 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadSex workers are probably some of the most honest and frankly sympathetic women you could meet. Sex work has historically been shunned and demonized (it still is), but people don't realize the valuable service that hookers provide. I would think most of the people in this sub, given the topic and nature of our discussions here, would at least have a neutral of not positive viewpoint towards sex workers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/20 08:54 PM |
| 2 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadWhat do you mean a pill watchdog? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/20 11:16 PM |
| 2 | If you can’t get a relationship from your social group then it’s an indication you’re not attractive enough and something is wrong with youAnd even then you know you're only being "liked" for your fame, status and fortune. It also sort of makes you a target: you're are at risk of being publicly outed and "MeTooed" as an evil bastard if she gets pissed off at you enough to take it to that level. All in all, the times we live in is just very anti-male. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/20 01:56 PM |
| 2 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadYeah, the anti-Chad propaganda isn't fooling anyone, men especially because we see Chads in action in our own personal lives. Some of them may be "broken" to a degree but I assure you NONE of them would trade that brokenness for the brokenness of a chronic incel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/20 01:10 PM |
| 2 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadEven if that's true there's no way they're as lonely and depressed as the average incel tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/20 01:05 PM |
| 24 | Counter-post: the average young man can't have a relationship.Unfortunately, not as many men these days do the work necessary to make themselves the right guy. Well, of course. Everything is men's own fault. Women's behaviour and actions play absolutely no role in state of affairs whatsoever.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/20 01:28 PM |
| 4 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadMen are more likely to die by suicide, homicide, more likely to be homeless, drug addicts, etc. Male rape is treated as a joke and just male issues in general aren't taken seriously; we're told to man-up and stop crying even when we're hurting physically or otherwise, while also being told that the onus is somehow on men to make the world a better place (for women) while simultaneously receiving the message that we're mean monsters who will assault and rape you on a whim because we're uncontroll… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/20 09:03 PM |
| 3 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadIf you want to have a conversation about how society fails men who are suffering, I’m in. Sarcasm? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/20 04:26 PM |
| 3 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadLook around. Even the most hideous, awkward women with poor social skills still coast through life with relative ease compared to their male counterparts. They still get asked out on dates, get jobs, have a support system, etc. "Loser" type women still receive help, support, and love. Generally. "Loser" type men...well, you already know how they turn out. No help and support for them. In fact I'd argue that society actually goes out of it's way to further kick and degrade such men who are alread… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/20 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Men just need to cheat more if they want to have more sexThis isn't meant to be an advice thread. Its supposed to be a CMV but im on mobile and don't know how to use reddit app, i don't see where you're supposed to label it, it's annoying. Please resubmit my post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/20 10:23 PM |
| 1 | How often are you the ones carrying a conversation and just getting one word answers?Fuck social expectations Men don't have a choice in this regard. Not without being socially stigmatized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/20 04:04 AM |
| 1 | How often are you the ones carrying a conversation and just getting one word answers?You're clearly an outlier among dudes so I don't think you're input on this particular matter carries much weight. No offense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/20 04:03 AM |
| 1 | How often are you the ones carrying a conversation and just getting one word answers?It's traceable to biology, even. If I make a mistake, I'm in for 9 months of awful pregnancy shit and years of feeding and changing diapers. The fact that you can get an abortion completely invalidates this response. As for everything else you wrote..yeah, just affirms what red pill circles preach. Don't expect the misogyny to tamper down anytime soon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/20 03:58 AM |
| 5 | How often are you the ones carrying a conversation and just getting one word answers?Let me tell you why we give those one worded answers, there's a few reasons. 1. Your questions are lame, standard and not well-thought. (Makes you seem uninterested and we still have hope you'll come up with something better so the convo will flow... "Dance monkey dance!" We have other things going on in our life and are not focussed on OLD at that particular moment, so we're distracted by the outside world pulling on us. Then log off the dating app and come back when you're not distracted and r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/20 07:57 PM |
| 6 | How often are you the ones carrying a conversation and just getting one word answers?That's a very brutal conclusion since it means that the argument of 'Looks only really matter for casual sex/ONS. Tinder isn't real life.' etc holds 0 ground. Savage. Would love to see blue pillers response to that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/20 07:33 PM |
| 6 | How often are you the ones carrying a conversation and just getting one word answers?When 8/ 9 out of 10 women display the same flaky "I'm not taking this too seriously lol" behaviour, it sorta paints a picture that women just don't seem to like men a whole lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/20 07:25 PM |
| 5 | How often are you the ones carrying a conversation and just getting one word answers?It's socially expected for men to do most of the engaging though, hence the frustration guys feel when they feel like they're having to put on a show "like dancing monkeys" to keep her engaged while she puts in little effort to actually get to know him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/20 07:19 PM |
| 22 | How often are you the ones carrying a conversation and just getting one word answers?Just couldn't help it could you...just couldn't help throwing out a "you're not entitled" line.... Nowhere in his post did he say or imply that he was "owed" anything. He simply expressed frustration at how some people behave with thier lack of effort in conversation. We get it. No one's "owed" anything, but stop acting like anytime a guy expresses even the mildest form of frustration he's being "entitled". It shows lack of good faith on your part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/20 07:12 PM |
| 4 | It's not womens responsibility to have sex with any type of man or any percentage of men. There is no sex quota to filled.But it's accurate tho... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/20 09:59 AM |
| 1 | Reuters: "Sexual activity among young American men has declined sharply since 2000, with nearly a third reporting no sex with a partner in the prior year...He said we see sex more than ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/20 07:06 PM |
| 3 | Reuters: "Sexual activity among young American men has declined sharply since 2000, with nearly a third reporting no sex with a partner in the prior year...Men aren't supposed to rat each other out like that. It reeks of jealous hater who envys more sexually successful men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/20 06:51 PM |
| 3 | Being a black woman blows (rant)I honestly wouldn't mind dating a black woman, some of them are quite attractive but that goes for any race/ethnicity. Truth be told, I think the issue you're having is that you're tired of being lumped into the Angry Black Womam stereotype, and unfortunately those loud ghetto hood rats leave a bad impression on black women in general. So just don't be like them. Chin up. You'd be surprised at how many guys actually like black girls. There are NSFW subreddits featuring black girls and all their … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/20 10:18 PM |
| 3 | Involuntarily sexless women exist and they are suffering as wellNo shit, rigjt? The cognitive dissonance on her side of the argument is astounding and its frustrating to hear | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 11:29 PM |
| 3 | The "sew your wild oats and then settle down when that becomes less palatable" approach to dating/sex is the ideal dating strategy of both men and women. Lower tier men are just bitter that they don't have access to it.Why is it to hard to understand? Are you a man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/20 12:20 AM |
| -1 | Why do men believe that women are not being fair towards men?Um, yeah there is. They can choose not to be so passive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 08:39 AM |
| 2 | EXPECTING a woman to have sex with you by the 3rd date is ridiculous.Selective enforcement by the mods. Any "team blue/woman" post is left intact, while any "team red/man" post is subject to all these regulations: "you're making an affirmation claim, your post has been chanhed to CMV". Well, OP is clearly making an affirmation claim but I don't see any mods regulating accordingly. And we're to believe that gynocentrism doesn't exist hahaha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/19 10:08 PM |
| 2 | EXPECTING a woman to have sex with you by the 3rd date is ridiculous.This wouldn't be an issue for us if it weren't for the fact that women will still put out for good looking guys on the first, second, or third date. That mainly is what gets guys upset: she make me wait while other more good looking dudes got to dip in her poon right away. Either you're going to make all guys wait for sex or you're not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/19 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Men need to stop seeking validation through sex.I mean, it's only on Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs. It certainly pertains some factor to mental health. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/19 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Would more men pursue alternative models of masculinity and gender roles if female sexual preferences weren’t so rigid?Just because it was "easy hunting ground"? To each their own I guess but to me that seema kinda....i don't even know what word I'm looking for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/19 06:30 PM |
| 4 | Would more men pursue alternative models of masculinity and gender roles if female sexual preferences weren’t so rigid?Wait, you hooked up with a homeless person? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/19 05:59 PM |
| 25 | CMV: Most women are in denial about their unearned power and privilege when it comes to sex, dating, relationships and socializing.And every woman on the planet has some guy chasing after them? That is so fucking ridiculous and if you actually think that, then you need to get out more. The manosphere can be wrong on some issues but this certainly isn't one of them. If you're a normal woman with a normal vagina, you'll be desired and wanted full stop regardless of how much of an unattractive low-value slob you actually are. Such is the nature of male/female sexual biology. Please don't deny this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/19 08:14 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Most women are in denial about their unearned power and privilege when it comes to sex, dating, relationships and socializing.And every woman on the planet has some guy chasing after them? That is so fucking ridiculous and if you actually think that, then you need to get out more. The manosphere can be wrong on some issues but this certainly isn't one of them. If you're a normal woman with a normal vagina, you'll be desired and wanted full stop regardless of how much of an unattractive low-value slob you actually are. Such is the nature of male/female sexual biology. Please don't deny this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/19 08:13 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Most women are in denial about their unearned power and privilege when it comes to sex, dating, relationships and socializing.Why? Do you think he deserves it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/19 08:08 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Most women are in denial about their unearned power and privilege when it comes to sex, dating, relationships and socializing.Oh, yes because "pulling" is how we really define a "human" these days... It's certainly how men are defined. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/19 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Men should not allow sex to influence their actions.So we should treat men like wild animals because they can’t control their urges? Simply calling it 'urges' is very dismissive. As the other person pointed out earlier, sex is more of a physiological need for most men. “Your honor! I did nothing wrong! That 12 year old boy needed sex!” Female teachers who bang their students already tend to get lenient treatment on the assumption that the kid 'wanted' it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/19 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Men should not allow sex to influence their actions.No one is denying this. What dudes are pissed off about is that women onlyn feel this way with a small subset of men while the majority of other men, totally average guys, aren't even on women's radar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/19 08:50 PM |
| 3 | Men should not allow sex to influence their actions.Too many men don't have the fortitude to actually be at that point. That's the issue being discussed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/19 08:46 PM |
| 2 | With so many young celibate men, who are young women having sex with?Think of it this way then, if this kind of dynamic existed prior to OLD then certainly OLD radically changed the landscape? If women were able to have their pick of chads prior to OLD then they must certainly be able to have them now for sure. Basically, all these means is OLD made it easier for women to be hypergamous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 12:31 AM |
| 1 | With so many young celibate men, who are young women having sex with?Many of them are trying though, they're still in the same boat. What's your point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 12:13 AM |
| 1 | With so many young celibate men, who are young women having sex with?Exactly this. People don't seem tonrealize that thus is a sustaining cycle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 12:11 AM |
| 9 | With so many young celibate men, who are young women having sex with?Actually, you're wrong...these same guys who have mutiple baby mamas receive attraction from your so called "high quality" women. One guy I know with mutiple kids and works manual labor fucked a good looking educated scientist MILF in her car. I'm not kdding you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 12:07 AM |
| 1 | With so many young celibate men, who are young women having sex with?I really didn't. Why are you so in denial that these things happen? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 12:03 AM |
| 15 | With so many young celibate men, who are young women having sex with?It's true. The Chads that I know, have multiple baby mamas and the women sort of just reluctantly accept that Chad is going to be getting ass on the side as well as her...she'd rather not have it that way but come to grudgingly accept that he's just not going to be monogamous but as long as he gives her at least some attention then they'll put up with it. What women absolutely cannot stand though is a beta, no matter how loyal he is. If anything his devotion to her repulses her because its a sig… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 08:21 PM |
| 10 | With so many young celibate men, who are young women having sex with?Those women are fucking the top tier good looking chads. It's the 80/20 rule on full display but watch all these bloops and women still hamster away some explanation as to why it ain't so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Is ignorance really bliss?But then we're told that we shouldn't be seeking validation at all in relationships... Honestly I sometimes feel like it's all a big mindfuck and no one really knows for sure if what they're saying is legit. Is it normal to wamt to feel validated or not? My gut instinct says yes and I think most people (subconsciously at least) realize it as well but since they've never had the misfortune of going without for years with no end in sight they don't realoze or appreciate how much we as humans actua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill concepts are becoming more mainstream. What will this mean?Keep looking. Outside your social circle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 02:14 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill concepts are becoming more mainstream. What will this mean?Hence why women have to sift through a lot of offers before finally finding a chad. They're willing to put in the work. Even if they are good looking chads not every woman will be down with casual crap. Maybe not all women but a good portion are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 12:38 PM |
| 3 | What's wrong with starfish, ie maintenance sex?Awww, such a gentleman you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 12:21 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill concepts are becoming more mainstream. What will this mean?Being a betabucks can be a good thing. How exactly? Betabuck is basically a moral formal and respectable arrangement of prostitution without calling it that. How do you know she isn't being as sexual with you? Well you can't ever really know for sure but sometimes the truth does come out and it often does, whether through gossip among mutual friends, social media posts, text messages, even solid proof like a sex tape from her wild college years...you hear a lot of stories of the truth coming out… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 11:59 PM |
| 4 | Discussion: Research finds that women do not prefer "nice" guys; in fact they prefer "bullies" and psychopathsPlus women who are "sweet, complimentary, available, etc." get pumped and dumped if they're not also good looking. Which says equally horrible shit about men. Women choose to get pumped and dumped tho by sexually selecting the good looking chads who are more inclined to pump and dump over average dudes who are less inclined to pump and dump. Women perpetuate the cycle and they don't even realize it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill concepts are becoming more mainstream. What will this mean?They have a consistent source of sex, companioship, and comfort. Not guaranteed. There's a reason beta men lament the fact that she's just not as sexual with him as she was with previous (usually AF) boyfriends. It's becomes a living reminder that he wasn't the "first" choice. He's being settled for. And dead bedrooms is a thing. Now if she is withholding those things its up to him to empower himself to get what he wants out of life. I agree, and it's why you see lots of angry, butter dudes who … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 10:38 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill concepts are becoming more mainstream. What will this mean?Most matches on tinder from men are useless, they're not interested in you, they're interested in having a quickie with you and quickly dump you into the trashcan. Women don't mind this kind of behaviour from good looking Chads though, or at least they're willing to put up with it more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 09:21 PM |
| 4 | Red Pill concepts are becoming more mainstream. What will this mean?Those tend to be BB role men. Some consolation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill concepts are becoming more mainstream. What will this mean?The other side doesn't seem too interested in seeking compromise between the sexes. It's totally TeamWoman over there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Eggs are Expensive. Sperm is Cheap.So what gives? Why the blanket denial that we are critters and our sexual proclivities are deeply influenced by evolution? Because that would mean our sexual behaviour is still largely base and animal like, people (more especially blie pill society) don't like to be compared to animals and like to pretend we're above that when we really arent. To admit that we're animal-like (which we are) would be having to concede that Red pill is largely accurate in its assessments regarding human sexual beha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/19 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Doesn't the average man LTR every girl that has sex with him? Isn't that kinda lame?Sure. Whatever you say. I'm. Talking about the observable behavioral trends, not your personall story. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/19 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Woman gets attracted to guy who beat up her boyfriend. Even people in the comments said that they had seen this happen or had it happen to them. Do women really have this tendency?Calling a story outright "fake" from the get-go isn't providing much of an argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/19 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Doesn't the average man LTR every girl that has sex with him? Isn't that kinda lame?Women may not want to get pumped and dumped but they tolerate and put up with it. They'd rather be in Chad's harem than be monogamous to a devoted beta | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/19 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Doesn't the average man LTR every girl that has sex with him? Isn't that kinda lame?I call bullshit. Plenty of dudes actually do and try and put in the effort but still yield no results. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/19 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Why even try? (not clickbait)BB is the reality of most men, I wish men would stop bemoaning this. Why should they? Why should men be content with it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/19 08:03 PM |
| 2 | Will manosphereans admit that toxic masculinity exists if we accept that it's partially caused by male biology?Btw I love being lectured about what women want by an incel. You don't have to be an incel to recognize common behavioral patterns amingat women and their sexual preferences, generally speaking. Even successful chads realize women's dual mating strategy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/19 04:54 PM |
| 17 | Who is as a group the more emotional and more sensitive sex, women or men?In recent years I've come to believe that men are the true (hopeless) romantic sex for the reasons already outlined in OP. Women seem rather more shark like and sociopathic in their sexual interactions with men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/19 10:45 PM |
| 2 | Do you really don't understand why men don't wanna be the "great guy" who ends up with you after you go through all the "assholes"?Because those guys have looks and game. It's really juat as simple as that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/19 02:25 PM |
| 1 | The Male ExperienceBut it is inexcusable that the more intellectual males, who might see things from a very different and (male) perspective have seemingly gone along with this notion of how the male experience is inherently superior and that men other than them are all some monolithic tyrant group using their power and spare time to suppress women. You lost me right here. I certainly don't see men within the manosphere speaking high and mighty on how the male experience is somehow 'superior' to that of women's. T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/19 08:30 PM |
| 2 | What do most women fail to understand about men?Women learn these things as they age but theres a lot of de-programming that has to take place. I wonder where all that programming came from in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/19 01:46 AM |
| 0 | What do you think of young people that are red pilled?It's the second one. They're becoming more radicalized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/19 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Why can’t men and women see what each gender brings to the table in terms of dating?Chimpanzees, not Bonobos, are our closest relatives. We share like 98.9% of our DNA with Chimps or something like that. Given the homicidal and psychotic nature of Chimps, this makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/19 10:41 PM |
| 3 | An ugly girl is an invisible girlI thought we were discussing this in a dating/sex/relationship context? I'm sure she's treated pretty neutraly outside that context. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/19 11:58 AM |
| 4 | An ugly girl is an invisible girlBut women also like sex for it's own sake, people just want to feel sexy and desired. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/19 11:55 AM |
| 2 | An ugly girl is an invisible girlYou cant really think that shes talking about sex can you? You can't really be that dense? Umm..given the subject matter of this sub, can you really fault me for jumping to the sex conclusion? C'mon now.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/19 11:53 AM |
| 1 | How much do you care about penises?Women generally are like "meh" to this question, qhen in fact most of them wouldn't mind a big dick if not outright prefer it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/19 08:04 AM |
| 3 | An ugly girl is an invisible girlIt's something though. Something is better than nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/19 07:59 AM |
| 0 | An ugly girl is an invisible girlAnd your point is? Yes, men are generally willing to lower their standards for a quick lay, that doesn't refute my point at all. It proves that OP's fat friend can get laid if she really wanted to so all this "she feels invisible" crap is just that. Crap. Women can't be incel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/19 07:58 AM |
| 1 | How much do you care about penises?Do you really expect women (especailly PPD women) to be honest about this sort of thing?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/19 12:54 AM |
| 8 | An ugly girl is an invisible girlI'm attractive and my closest friend is obese and unattractive. Men literally pretend she isnt even there. Guarantee if she made a tinder profile with the captions 'DTF' she wouldn't feel so invisible anymore. She has options. She's just complaining they're not the options she wants. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/19 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Is Legality the Only Thing Keeping Omega Dudes From Just Hiring An Escort?It is involuntary. Having to resort to hookers and fatties when you don't want to isn't a viable option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/19 06:03 PM |
| 2 | Is Legality the Only Thing Keeping Omega Dudes From Just Hiring An Escort?Like i said, if it works for you then more power to you. But i can't help but think of your outlook on it is rather...defeatist. Embracing and advertising yourself as a beta bucks doesn't sound at all appealing to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/19 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Is Legality the Only Thing Keeping Omega Dudes From Just Hiring An Escort?What if you did? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/19 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Is Legality the Only Thing Keeping Omega Dudes From Just Hiring An Escort?Curious, what did you like about his comment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/19 04:18 PM |
| 2 | Is Legality the Only Thing Keeping Omega Dudes From Just Hiring An Escort?OTOH, if sex is just seen a just a fun recreational activity that everybody likes, than it doesn't make sense to be super hung up about the emotional compatibility or inherent attraction between 2 people. I understand what you're saying here...but there's still a huge difference between someone having sex with you because you make that person horny and they want you to fuck them....and someone having sex with you because they know they'll have cash afterward to go buy new shoes with. It's a worl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/19 04:05 PM |
| 5 | Is Legality the Only Thing Keeping Omega Dudes From Just Hiring An Escort?If you're content with it then more power to you, that's good. But.. Most average looking dudes my age are trolling bars or clubs on weekends, paying for drinks for chicks, taking out fatties on Tinder, getting pussywhipped by their girlfriends, doing anything to get laid. That I see as ego crushing. That's only half of what you see of guys dealing with non-pros. Do you not also see smiling, happy couples? Do you not see the way they laugh and joke with each other? the way they dance together an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/19 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Is the ability to have casual sex almost whenever you want something you are born with or can it be taught?Both. There are social support structures for awkward women which stems from the Women Are Wonderful narrative. No such support structure exist for men. Men are expected to charge towards entrenched machine gun nests and be shot to pieces if they must because that's their calling. Also men are a lot more forgiving towards flawed women than women will ever be towards men. Socially awkward girl? No problem. You'll still find guys willing to date you. Socially awkward guy? No girl wants to be with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/19 02:57 PM |
| 3 | Is Legality the Only Thing Keeping Omega Dudes From Just Hiring An Escort?RP does tend to exaggerate and take things over thebtop for sure, but ultimately men from all walks of life find themselves there. For guys who just want to be attractive enough to consistently pull pussy RP is just fine as it is. For guys who maybe actually want a decent girlfriend to laugh and joke with..they have to learn to filter out the RP stuff that undermines that goal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/19 02:51 PM |
| 4 | Is Legality the Only Thing Keeping Omega Dudes From Just Hiring An Escort?I get the idea behind "you pay no matter what"...but i don't think it's that black and white. If all women are essentially hookers (which in a sense they are) and if society were more open and honest about that then we probably wouldn't be seeing so many guys hung up on the idea of paying for sex. There probably wouldn't even be a redpill/manosphere because men wouldn't have any further expectations from women if they knew how the deal really goes down. It's not like that though. The narrative s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/19 02:46 PM |
| 7 | Is Legality the Only Thing Keeping Omega Dudes From Just Hiring An Escort?There's a world of difference between a woman being with you because you make her wet and she wants to be with you, and a woman being with you because you're shelling out money for her. The latter doesn't care about you at all and you'll soon be forgotten shortly after your "appointment". Guys are looking for validation as sexual beings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/19 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Is the ability to have casual sex almost whenever you want something you are born with or can it be taught?Even socially shit girls want nothing to do with socially shit guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/19 06:43 AM |
| 5 | Q4All: Is the ability to have casual sex almost whenever you want something you are born with or can it be taught?Male thirst guarantees that men will continue to download and swipe on these apps no matter how shit they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/19 06:36 AM |
| 8 | Is Legality the Only Thing Keeping Omega Dudes From Just Hiring An Escort?To me I just had to get that love and being wanted shit out of my mind and just want sex. It's possible Possible sure. But easier said than done. For many guys it's basically like having to..destroy what little humanity you have left in you. At 19, I lost my virginity to a hooker, got with a fat woman I wasn't even attracted to, got with another hooker, got with another fat chick, and then got with another fat chick. My n-count is now 5 so I can talk about how cool I am to my friends hehe. I've … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/19 06:22 AM |
| 7 | Is Legality the Only Thing Keeping Omega Dudes From Just Hiring An Escort?Keep in mind a lot of guys actually do genuinely want girlfriends and not just a wet hole. Hookers are a hollow comparison. The dudes in referencing don’t seem to want girlfriends. They openly admit they don’t care about conversations or rapport. They mock conversations about the importance of personality. Those are the guys who have no qualms calling up an escort. They've already done it numerous times and don't think twice about it. I don't think these are the guys you're referring to in this … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/19 06:14 AM |
| 14 | Is Legality the Only Thing Keeping Omega Dudes From Just Hiring An Escort?Legal or not, it's ego crushing knowing that the only way to get a woman to have sex with you is if you directly pay her. It's basically an admission of how low value you are as a man if paying for sex is the only way you're having sex. Of course not all guys who pay for sex may feel this way and may disagree with me, but for many others this is how they feel. It's taking the easy way out because you're unable to attract a partner on your own merits, you're unable to compete so you have pay up. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/19 06:06 AM |
| 1 | What happens if you focus on your own mission and stop chasing women, but women still don't come to you?This. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/19 05:12 PM |
| 6 | Study: Only 3% of Straight People Are Willing to Date a Transgender PersonCare to elaborate? I'm curious to hear this story now. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/19 11:53 AM |
| 3 | The average guy dillemaIME girls only do this to get close to the real object of their desires - the hot guy. The average guy is mearly a means to an end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/19 12:01 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: What is your number one deal breaker?O_o. Okay.... So does being a drug user make one an "edgelord"? I'm just curious here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/19 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What is your number one deal breaker?What does this even mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/19 12:04 AM |
| 0 | Options for Low Status Men?Sorry it's taken me a while to respond, I'm on mobile and out n about. I don’t want men to just wither away and die. I want them to focus on things that make them happy in the absence of women. Most men won't/can't adopt a monk lifestyle, testosterone is a bitch when pent up. You make it sound as if the only way a man can ever be happy is if he has a woman at his side. I'm not saying that, sure you can achieve monk mode and find other worldly things to occupy your time with. Most men though, no … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/19 11:33 PM |
| 1 | The types of guys women go for at 20 are the guys women are truly attracted toI actually like older women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/19 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Options for Low Status Men?You don't think it's bad? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/19 08:54 PM |
| 1 | The types of guys women go for at 20 are the guys women are truly attracted toThere is no such thing as a "natural born chad." There are guys who pick up things easier than others. That is it. And why do you think that is? I've known guys who are dumb as shit with the personality of a rock who do well with women because they're good looking. Full stop. Women make it incredibly easy for thkse guys to "just pick up on it". Did you notice I said select for certain women, not "believe everything she says"? Actions speak louder than words so observe actions and react according… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/19 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Options for Low Status Men?Obviously turning back the clock to times past isn't realistic, and i honestly don't know any other viable answer that doesn't involve infringing on other people's right to choose. But telling these guys to just live life without DSR (dating, sex, relationships) is basically telling them to stop being human. No, women shouldn't be forced to do anything they don't want to do, that's stupid and asinine. But at the same time telling struggling men to stop wanting DSR with women is also stupid and a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/19 06:04 PM |
| 0 | The types of guys women go for at 20 are the guys women are truly attracted toWhy is it creepy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/19 03:04 PM |
| -4 | The types of guys women go for at 20 are the guys women are truly attracted toWhat do you fail to follow? You said in your own post that those young women go for the men they really want. So get in early. Problem is those women are mainly attracted (if we're talking raw, physical attraction/lust here) to a small subjet of men. The natural born chads. Your post implies that when a woman is older she is choosing you for more practical reasons no? Basically what you are saying is AF/BB. So to follow that through, select against women who only want your $$$ so you don't becom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/19 02:42 PM |
| -2 | The types of guys women go for at 20 are the guys women are truly attracted toCougars are applauded in modern society. Older men with younger women are shamed. Don't deny this hypocrisy doesn't exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/19 02:28 PM |
| 2 | Options for Low Status Men?find meaning in life that doesn't involve romantic companionship Right...find meaning in life without experiencing a fundamental part of the human experience, a fundamental part of being alive... Honestly, I get the idea behind finding other ways to find meaning in life and all that, but I think people are being way too dismissive towards the painful experiences of being without sex/companionship through no choice of your own for literally your whole life. It's not normal at all and shouldn't be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/19 04:46 AM |
| 3 | Options for Low Status Men?Basically. Males, by nature, are disposable roaches. It matters little in the grand scheme of things if some low status male withers away and dies without ever getting a chance to mate. We see this all across the animal kingdom and humans are no exception since we're still animals on a pure biological level. It's not what people want to hear but it's the brutal truth unfortunately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/19 04:30 AM |
| 1 | CMV Dating multiple people at the same time is trashy (men and women)You brought up sex first. Not me. Because dates do in fact have sexual motivations which brings me again to my question to you earlier that you conveniently chose not to answer so I'll ask again: Do you believe that dates have a sexual undertone/motivation? Yes or no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/19 12:37 AM |
| 1 | CMV Dating multiple people at the same time is trashy (men and women)Not really. Im just pointing out to you that going on dates where no sex is involved counts as spinning plates. Feeling "cucked" has little bearing if you're insisting that it there's nothing sexual about it based on your other post. Again, you're the one bringing up this whole "cuck" thing. You're the one deliberately making it into a sexual thing when my original post didn't make a point of that at all. Here, let me lay it out for you how our conversation has gone: You: "just because we're goi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/19 12:12 AM |
| 2 | CMV Dating multiple people at the same time is trashy (men and women)but it's a small part for women. Lady, c'mon... So women are less sexual creatures then men are? That's basically what you're saying. The major reason we accept dates is because we're seeking a LTR Tell that to the women who go on dates with my Chad buddies and end up smashing that night or the next night. Please, stop with this this whole "women prioritize LTRs over casual hookups" narrative because we've been calling bullshit on that line for years now yet y'all keep doubling down on that argu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/19 11:54 PM |
| 1 | CMV Dating multiple people at the same time is trashy (men and women)I’m using “cucked” because you’re the one who brought up sexuality and sexual motivations ....were talking about dates here. Are you denying that dates by nature have a sexual undertone/motivation behind them? Do people go on "dates" to strike up a platonic relationship? C'mon now... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/19 11:47 PM |
| 3 | CMV Dating multiple people at the same time is trashy (men and women)Are you denying that dates by nature have a sexual undertone/motivation behind them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/19 11:21 PM |
| 1 | CMV Dating multiple people at the same time is trashy (men and women)Who said anything about anyone feeling "cucked"? I'm simply sayjng that dating multiple people without having sex still counts as spining plates. BTW "cuck" is a pretty sexual term. The fact that you're using that word when in your other post you made it a point that it's not all sexual tells me that you think it actually very sexual | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/19 11:21 PM |
| 1 | CMV Dating multiple people at the same time is trashy (men and women)It doesn't really matter if you actually put out or not. Dates, by nature, have a sexual undertone/motivation behind them. Just because you're not sleeping with every date you have doesn't mean it doesn't qualify as spinning plates. You're still spinning plates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/19 11:13 PM |
| 2 | CMV Dating multiple people at the same time is trashy (men and women)It doesn't really matter if you actually put out or not. Dates, by nature, have a sexual motivation behind them. Just because you're not smashing everyone you go on a date with doesn't mean it doesn't qualify as spinning plates. You're still spinning plates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/19 11:10 PM |
| 2 | CMV Dating multiple people at the same time is trashy (men and women)Most people are NOT concurrently dating or fucking others. How are you so sure exactly? This is minority behavior and therefore not expected from MOST people. May I ask how old are you? I can understand where you're coming from if you come from an older generation but if you're a young person like me then surely uou should realize thay hookup culture is very prominent. Especially in booming college towns/citites like where I'm at. People my age (generally) just don't have the tatse or patience f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/19 11:06 PM |
| 2 | CMV Dating multiple people at the same time is trashy (men and women)But it's the way things are in the modern SMP, what is anyone supposes to do about it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/19 10:58 PM |
| 4 | CMV Dating multiple people at the same time is trashy (men and women)This right here is what is eating at a lot of people I think. Times have changed and indeed if you're a young person who's not regularly hooking up (not by choice) then it probably means you're low SMV. Such is the natural result of a free market SMP. A lot of the anger and bitterness we see in this sub and elsewhere must stem from this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/19 10:55 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Only a tiny number of cheaters experience any form of karmic retribution or enduring feelings of guilt.Anyone with a shred of intelligence and common sense should know that it's clearly money motivated in that kind of situation. Guys with money still get cheated on too though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/19 01:23 PM |
| 6 | Q4A: What do you think young men nowadays are doing wrong with regards to dating?Plus what happens when men come to a point where there won't put up with post-CC women? Men will just regress to their own devices, sort of like what we see happening in Japan with the herbivore males but in a different way. American men and men in the West in general are still mostly plugged into the BP narrative but more are waking up and many of them are certainly not taking it passively like the Japanese. Some of them are batshit nuts who think and do horrible things, lash out and hurt other… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/19 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: At what point does your hypergamic restraint fail?You sort of contradict yourself in this post. On one hand you're saying guys who stop flirting/sexualizing their wives end up with a bored wife who then looks for strange, on the other hand a guy could be completely over the moon for his wife but because he's a icky beta his sexualization of her doesn't turn her on at all and actually disgusts her? So bascially, as long as you're Chad and you don't stoo flirting with your wife then you're okay, but if you're an icky beta then your flirting annoy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: At what point does your hypergamic restraint fail?Women rated up to 80% as below average. Seems pretty cut and dry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: At what point does your hypergamic restraint fail?I have no personal beef with anyone, I'm simply telling you why guys feel the way they do. Men are doing the same thing women are. Women hold the sexual power in the SMP though, they have sexual power over men. Men would like to hold oit for a 8/10 bombshell but they quickly realize that it's not likely to happen so they make due with what they can get. Women on the other hand seem to disregard the vast majority of men as potential mates, they can afford to because they always have guys interest… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: At what point does your hypergamic restraint fail?I dont get why you guys want risk free lives so much. I don't think that it's not that guys want to live life risk free, but rather that they are bitter and discouraged by how lopsided the SMP is against them. They don't really want to opt out, but they feel like they're being sqeezed out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: At what point does your hypergamic restraint fail?Just google 'hot male model'. Physically, usual makers of chad in the wild include a fit body, symmetrical face, deep set "hunter eyes", a prominent jawline and high cheekbones. In addition to that, being alpha minded and dominant is usually a trait too. IME these guys will aggressively get in your face if you even look at their chick and won't hesitate to break your nose, they don't care if they go to jail...women get wet from this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: At what point does your hypergamic restraint fail?but women aren’t all attracted to the same type, The OKcupid/Tinder studies that seemingly confirm the 80/20 rule says otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: At what point does your hypergamic restraint fail?Why Happily Married Women Cheat I've seen this happen. It's why guys are sceptical towards relationships, even if she's "happy" with us, she'll still want something different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: At what point does your hypergamic restraint fail?I get the idea behind "personal Chad" but you don't think there are objective Chads? There are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 07:19 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: At what point does your hypergamic restraint fail?Women don't like non-chads. Even if a guy is doing everything right on his end, has his shit together, etc she'll still hit up Chad for a late night bootie call when you're away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 07:02 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: At what point does your hypergamic restraint fail?I think those guys DO find the "disgusting landwhales" hot, though. Those guys are fat fetishists. They aren't compromising Trust me when I say that the main reason you see guys with fat girls is either due to lack of other reasonable options, a fat fetish as you say, and because male horniness/thirst is real and consuming. Believe me, those guys you see with fat girls would much rather be with a Margot Robbie clone if they were able to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 06:56 PM |
| 2 | Economist article on lack of sex amongst millennial menum, women have the right to choose whom to have sex with Is anyone arguing the contrary? No one is forcing women to sleep or not sleep with anybody. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: At what point does your hypergamic restraint fail?I've seen disgusting landwhales in relationships/have guys all the time. Men are more forgiving when it comes to looks, sure a guy may fantasize about bagging someone who looks like Margot Robbie but they know reality isn't going to align with their desires so they're willing to compromise on looks and hook up with fat women if it means they won't be alone. Women on the other hand aren't forgiving at all and if you're not even a "chad-lite" you're not even considered a sexual being. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: At what point does your hypergamic restraint fail?Lol a "Chad-lite"? So a guy has to be some degree of Chad to be a worthy shot? Being a non-Chad is simply not going to cut it? Got it. Slowly but surely you ladies are beginning to come around and admit harsh RP truths not only to others but to yourselves as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 06:18 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: At what point does your hypergamic restraint fail?It's not the other guy that's just so great that the girl abandons her life for him. My experiences hanging out with my Chadly friends tells me otherwise. A woman may not abandon her partner outright for a more attractive man, but from what I've seen women are still willing to consider a side fling while still staying with hubby. Just because she's not outright leaving you for someone else doesn't mean she doesn't have eyes for other men. It's of little comfort to men knowing that your wife/girl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 06:13 PM |
| 4 | Q4W: At what point does your hypergamic restraint fail?But there aren't enough Chads to go around for every woman, at some point some of you are going to have to settle for a guy who's less than the ideal and that's where the ultimate problem lies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Economist article on lack of sex amongst millennial menThe mainstream will outright deny TRP/manosphere, even though TRP assertions have been shown to be true, or at least not entirely untrue Sorry, but TRP/manosphere is right about some things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/19 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Economist article on lack of sex amongst millennial menSo on one hand you recognize that women's sexuality is pretty selective and discriminatory, yet someone you see non reason why guys should retreat? The reason guys are retreating is exactly because of female hypergamy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/19 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Economist article on lack of sex amongst millennial menYeah right, I'd argue that Big Pharma meds produce the opposite effect. It's part of the reason these guys are in the situation that they're in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/19 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Economist article on lack of sex amongst millennial menSure women are upset. Fat acceptance movement and "where have all the good men gone?" indicates that. Further more history tells us that a surplus population of isolated and depressed "loser" males produces nothing good for the society at large. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/19 01:01 PM |
| 2 | Economist article on lack of sex amongst millennial menBush and Romney were normal presidents though. Trump is something else entirely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/19 08:17 AM |
| 1 | Economist article on lack of sex amongst millennial menCare to explain? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/19 08:15 AM |
| 1 | Economist article on lack of sex amongst millennial menYou first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/19 08:15 AM |
| 1 | Economist article on lack of sex amongst millennial menYou seem so sure of yourself, what makes you an expert on the subject? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/19 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Economist article on lack of sex amongst millennial menWhy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/19 10:18 PM |
| 2 | Economist article on lack of sex amongst millennial menScary to think about but you're largely right. The political tribalism in the U.S. right now is a little more than disturbing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/19 09:46 PM |
| 5 | Economist article on lack of sex amongst millennial menFirst...What meme? Second...you know I'm right though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/19 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Economist article on lack of sex amongst millennial menI think they will eventually, probably sooner rather than later, because like I said earlier this shit is getting to a point where it's getting increasingly harder to ingore or downplay. Five years ago no one outside the interwebs really knew what 'red pill', 'incel', 'chad', AFBB, or 80/20 really were. Now that jargon and terminology has seeped into mainstream outlets. Of course their initial reaction is going to be one of shock, amusement, and disgust...but just wait, the conversation has begu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/19 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Economist article on lack of sex amongst millennial menHow so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/19 05:03 PM |
| 3 | Economist article on lack of sex amongst millennial menOn average maybe the quality of men has droppes somewhat, but it's not like the quality of women is any better. Average/ugly women refuse to couple up with guys of their equal. Even ugly fat landwhales feel like they deserve Chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/19 05:01 PM |
| 0 | Economist article on lack of sex amongst millennial menThis should be how (lesser) men process this information. Unfortunately they don't though, we're dealing with emotions regarding sex and intimacy (probably some of the powerful of human emotions) so while men being resentful towards women isn't the most sound or healthy way to deal with it, one can certianly understand where the they're coming from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/19 04:44 PM |
| 4 | Economist article on lack of sex amongst millennial menLOL dude this has me cracking up, thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/19 03:51 PM |
| 10 | Economist article on lack of sex amongst millennial menWomen sure seem to feel entitled to sex though - cough "Fat acceptance" cough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/19 02:50 PM |
| 9 | Economist article on lack of sex amongst millennial menI think it's a shame that so few publications/channels will even cast a vestigial light on women's role in all this Nor should we expect them to, not in this feminized and gynocentric society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/19 11:20 AM |
| 13 | Economist article on lack of sex amongst millennial menMaybe because men are fed up with always having to be the ones to lower their standards just to attract the attention of fat women who feel like they deserve Chad. If you seriously can't see how this lopsided SMP is bound to piss off and embitter men then you're either hopelessly naive or disingenuous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/19 11:16 AM |
| 16 | Economist article on lack of sex amongst millennial menI'm saying Trump is a symptom of a larger social ill, in this case an increasing population of isolated, depressed, angry young men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/19 10:59 AM |
| 6 | Economist article on lack of sex amongst millennial menGotta ask yourself how so many of these Melvins came ended up these situations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/19 08:19 AM |
| 28 | Economist article on lack of sex amongst millennial menWho said anything about fat guys in particular? It's been shown by now that women seem to find the majority of men (totally normal, average guys) to be below average. Women are only attracted (as in real sexual attraction) to a minority of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/19 08:12 AM |
| 6 | Economist article on lack of sex amongst millennial menI don't think its been openly noted and acknowledged the way it's starting to now though. It used to be something that people would brush under the rug and pretend it didn't exist. People are less inclined to paint lipstick on a pig now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/19 08:09 AM |
| 14 | Economist article on lack of sex amongst millennial menIt's mostly a young man problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/19 08:03 AM |
| 9 | Economist article on lack of sex amongst millennial menIt's a step in the right direction though. It's an improvement from outright denying RP/manosphere observations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/19 07:53 AM |
| 18 | Economist article on lack of sex amongst millennial menBut it does also suggest that there might also be something more to the situation. Right, and we already have an idea of what that is - women and their mating choices. Can't bring that up though since it goes against the narrative that feminists and SJWs are pushing "It's all men's fault! Women are wonderful!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/19 07:52 AM |
| 105 | Economist article on lack of sex amongst millennial menYou know, I remember not too long ago when these issues were rarely talked about, mainly because the notion of it seemed absurd to most people, the only ones willing to discuss it were those already engaged in the manosphere which at the time was still largely obscure and unknown. Fast forward to today and we now see the mainstream beginning to acknowledge that something just isn't right, in particular with young men. It's almost as if...TRP and the manosphere have been onto something tangible i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/19 05:50 AM |
| 1 | Are most male insecurities fueled by women or by other men?Ok, but even by pre-internet/social media standards do you really think he was relying on looks alone to pull ass? I doubt it. The man looks like a goblin but his solid game and charisma won the ladies over. At least that's how I interpret the situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/19 09:30 AM |
| 3 | Are most male insecurities fueled by women or by other men?Nothing, but you should understand why a guy would feel insecure knowing that to get his lady off he needs to be good with mouth and fingers because his dick alone can't please her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/19 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Let's talk about Whores.Social skills are required to get people to have sex with you without paying for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/19 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Are most male insecurities fueled by women or by other men?From what I've heard, Danny Devito used to cut hair in a salon before his acting career took off...dude pulled bitches left and right and we can see why. Not saying every short/balding dude can get ass like Danny Devito but you can see how even short/ugly dudes like him can still get laid by having a magnetic vibe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/19 01:55 AM |
| 3 | Are most male insecurities fueled by women or by other men?That's basically a way of saying that small dick men need to up their oral skills in order to compensate for lack of dick. I don't think that's very comforting for smaller dudes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/19 12:48 AM |
| 8 | Let's talk about Whores.Of course, and? It's not a secret that it's a bad idea to wife up a hooker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 07:01 AM |
| 8 | Let's talk about Whores.But it doesn't necessarily better a guy's social skill/ability to puck up civvie women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 04:57 AM |
| 3 | Let's talk about Whores.How can you be sure they're actually telling you the truth? They're being paid to flatter you after all... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/19 04:39 AM |
| 1 | has the massive presence of incel/blackpill ideologyturned this sub into RP/BP/PP against Black pill?I think it's just the overall feeling of being discouraged from trying knowing that other people don't really have to try (or at least putting in minimal effort) yet the latter still has things in abundance versus the guy who actually does try and make an effort but consistently strikes out. It's like what's the point in playing a rigged game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/19 04:43 PM |
| 2 | How valuable do you think Tinder/Hinge/Bumble's internal data is?Men are in a rough spot. OLD is what it is as laid out in OP, and offline interactions aren't guaranteed anything except a string of rejection with no knowing when you'll catch a break if at all. Men have nothing left to lose so they keep playing the rigged game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/19 03:39 PM |
| 5 | Why women make “relationship material” guys wait, but not Chad.So the point is that guys require chad tier looks to even be considered for an audition right off the bat, doesn't that tell you something? Women inherently screen out %80 of the men they come across, it's buit in, they're not even aware of it themselves. That's what AFBB is about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/19 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Q4Women/BP: do you believe there's any validity to RP's claim that we're currently living in a gynocentric society?LMAO! Serioisly? Notice how my post contained no vulgarity, no name calling, no baiting or provocation. So what exactly is the problem? You're holding it against me that I didn't include a body? I find that odd. My post is pretty cut and dry and straight to the point...it was a simple and fair question. A simple and fair question. Yet somehow you find it inappropriate. I don't understand why. Can you give a reasonable explanation? Part of the reason why I hardly post here anymore is exactly beca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/19 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Apology to UCD students as 'consent app' proposal sparks uproar. "It's clear that the developer of the app's primary concern is not the safety of women nor is it to ensure that all sexual encounters are consensual."Reminds me of the feminist outcry against that make up removing app. What!? I never heard of this, can you post a link? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/19 02:41 PM |
| 1 | The REAL problem with MEN today...Without happiness everything is meaningless and if getting constantly rejected keeps you unhappy...well what's the point? Then you're supposed to find some other way to be happy in life without dating/women. Not taking risks with women doesn't say shit about your ability to take risks on other areas of life. It's a different thing to take a risk and lose money/fail at exam/job etc. than to risk getting rejected as a man. As an example: It isn't unusual that a fireman risks his life frequently bu… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/19 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Does dating culture create an atmosphere where an increasing number of men become conditioned into becoming players?Androcentric? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/19 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Does dating culture create an atmosphere where an increasing number of men become conditioned into becoming players?To bad the family unit is an increasingly dying concept. Sad to say but happy/stable families are the excpetion rather than the rule in this modern age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/19 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Does dating culture create an atmosphere where an increasing number of men become conditioned into becoming players?Apparently a lot of men did, so yeah... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/19 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Does dating culture create an atmosphere where an increasing number of men become conditioned into becoming players?Not in this case i don't think. A common trend and pattern of behaviour has been established at this point to reasonably conclude the modern dating market and AF/BB. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/19 10:15 PM |
| 15 | Does dating culture create an atmosphere where an increasing number of men become conditioned into becoming players?That's basically it in a nutshell. I don't understand why bloop/women get upset when guys proclaim they'd rather be a fuckboy player than the beta boyfriend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/19 10:13 PM |
| 0 | Q4Women: Do you have sex with other men whilst making the guy you like wait?He has a roster (most women don’t even have that) of women that he’ll hit up while he’s courting a chick he really likes and has decided to take his time with. The only men who have a "roster" of women to hit up on any given day are the good looking Chads, a minority of the male population, most other men have to date and court you to get any form of intimacy so of course they're going to feel sour when it turna out you have a fuckboy chad who comes over and pokea you in the ass after investing … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/19 09:03 PM |
| 2 | Women who date assholes in their youth don't deserve sympathyThat's dumb. You can't compare being inceldom/loneliness to women making stupid dating decisions. One group is perpetually locked out of the dating market altogether, the other is not. Can't compare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/19 12:42 AM |
| 2 | "Doing nothing does harm" - What do you think of the message in this youtube video?TRP already explains the causes and reasons behind the alienation of young men in modern society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/19 12:53 PM |
| 3 | How come when people talk about "nice guys" they almost always actually mean sociopaths? Doesn't that sort of make the term meaningless?Bullshit that's the correct answer. The whole "nice guys are actually butter manipulative assholes" meme, while true in some cases, is actually a strawman meant to deflect and justify women's tendency to reject genuine nice guys. It's basically a defense mechanism whenever women's contradictory claims/actual preferences are called out and out into the spotlight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/18 09:58 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Feminism is unsuited to fight "Toxic Masculinity"It's probably less rare than you think. Otherwise the nice guys finish last trope wouldn't exist the way that it does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/18 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Will abandoning any form of moral compass get you far in life?How do you figure? Dark triad sociopaths get laid all the time, someone must see them as high value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/18 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Will abandoning any form of moral compass get you far in life?A bad good guy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/18 02:45 PM |
| 30 | Reminder that Atlas_B_Shruggin married a convicted felon who went to prison for wife beating. Literally no one should care about her opinions re: relationshipsI always thought Atlas was/is a troll tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/18 07:09 PM |
| 4 | Toxic Masculinity is bad for men and leads to depression and higher suicide ratesWhat does that have to do with the overall social stigma of male virginity? Plenty of male virgins don't care a piss about religion, they're still brutualized for being virgins. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/18 06:59 PM |
| 6 | Toxic Masculinity is bad for men and leads to depression and higher suicide rateswe pay more attention to what women do rather than what they say. We see women rewarding "toxic" male behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/18 06:57 PM |
| 2 | More Blue Pill Advice?Spontaneous lust/attraction outweighs 'demisexual' slow cook time though. When someone is instantly turned on by you, it leaves the door wide open for you to show off all your other non-physical traits. When you don't even get an audtion (catching someone's eye immediately) then you're automatically fighting an uphill battle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/18 07:10 PM |
| 0 | No one can honestly deny that the Red Pill is true.It happens to too many men for it to be labeled as a simple personal problem. There's something systematic about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/18 08:08 PM |
| 9 | Teen dating violence is down, but boys still report more violence than girlsliterally cannot understand how you don't understand, a difference in physicality absolutely makes a difference, and although causes a double standard, it's a logical one. I'm not buying it. Yes there's a physical difference, but in no one way should that absomve women from being violent with men. The whole "don't hit a girl" shit has really gotten women on a high horse and makes them think they're untouchable. It's shit like that that really gets under my skin and makes me believe some of these… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/18 08:04 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Creep shaming and #metoo will exist for as long as society expects men to be the initiators and make the first move romance and dating-wise.There's nothing wrong with being socially awkward, and there's nothing wrong with trying to improve your social skills. Just don't expect women to rip their clothes off because you tried approaching them. There's a difference between that and women outright being cruel and vindictive towards men they don't fancy. It's one thing to reject a guy, it's another to paint him as a shitty person for even thinking he has a shot. Like i don't, i don't think you're fully appreciating how much women can be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/18 07:47 PM |
| 7 | Teen dating violence is down, but boys still report more violence than girlsTranslation: "men on women violence is worse than the reverse because women on men violence isn't nearly as painful or seriois because women are just weaker and thus deserve that double standard". The ingorance and hamstering from you in astoundingly breathtaking. Non wonder some men just lose their shit and beat the shit out of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/18 07:42 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Creep shaming and #metoo will exist for as long as society expects men to be the initiators and make the first move romance and dating-wise.Women who attempt to "revenge" (ie claiming rape that didn't happen) should be punished for it. Why do women feel like they can just do as they please free of consequences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/18 03:11 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Creep shaming and #metoo will exist for as long as society expects men to be the initiators and make the first move romance and dating-wise.I'm not familiar with any examples of this. Just take a look at various facebook and twitter post from young millennial women saying they've also been 'metooed' because the low-SMV dweeb dared said hi to her or awkwardly tried to flirt with her. Women have a knack of being repulsed by men they perceive to be too low SMV to even be in her presence. Don't underestimate that. The closest I can think of was Aziz Ansari and that was controversial and received enormous push back. It received pushback … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/18 02:51 PM |
| 5 | Gold-digger shaming is shaming women attracted to beta traitsI guess it comes back to these guys wanting validation. And? What's wrongbwith that? Considering that a lot of these guys have been starved of validation most of their lives. You call it insecure, but Maslows hierarchy of needs suggest that sexual validation and fulfillment is indeed a human "need". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/18 08:02 AM |
| 8 | Gold-digger shaming is shaming women attracted to beta traitsWhy shouldn't guys care? It's hard convince us that it's all in our heads when we see yall say one thing but do another, the way you behave around one type of guy(s) and the way you behave around another. Guys don't want to be taken for a ride. That's why they care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/18 04:08 AM |
| 2 | Gold-digger shaming is shaming women attracted to beta traitsSure sounds fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/18 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Gold-digger shaming is shaming women attracted to beta traitsSo what point is the OP trying to prove in this thread? I'm basically reading it as "gold digging shaming" is bad when it should be clear to most users here that men don't want to be wanted for their money, they want to be wanted for who they are as physical men. They want women to actually want to have sex with them for reasons that have nothing to do with money. Idk, i just see this thread as somehiw trying to make the point that gold digging shouldn't be frowned upon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/18 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Gold-digger shaming is shaming women attracted to beta traitsWhich is probably like 80% of the time. That's why i find it curious thay there are users here who seem to be acting like it's a totally normal thing when it really isn't. Why even bring it up then? This thead seems to be inplying that "gold digging shaming" is bad when it seems logical that most men don't want to be valued for their money and actually want women to want to have sex with them. What's the OP trying to prove with this thread? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/18 11:03 PM |
| 2 | Gold-digger shaming is shaming women attracted to beta traitsI think they mean "love" like "platonic love" and not "love" as in feeling in love with someone, to me to be in love with someone requires sexual attraction in the first place. Okay. Fine. And why should i as a man be content with that? It's like they act all shocked and surprised that hetero men actually like sex and want to not only have sex with women but also be sexually desirable to women. Do you see where I'm coming from? That being said, I don't see anyone saying "it's not an issue" or me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/18 08:37 PM |
| 6 | Gold-digger shaming is shaming women attracted to beta traitsTRP acknowledges this. We're living in the golden age of the female imperative. There are plenty of guys within TRP who acknowledge that the slutty CC-riders who end up lonely old cat ladies is largely a terp revenge fantasy that simply isn't likely to pan out given the way society is set up to bascially ensure that women get the best possible outcome for themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/18 08:27 PM |
| 4 | Gold-digger shaming is shaming women attracted to beta traitsTell that to the people in this thread who are basically saying "well yeah! Of course women can love a man without sexually desiring him! What's the issue?" What's the issue? What heterosexual man who likes sex his would subscribe to that? What the holy fuck...i sometimes wonder if the women/bloops around here are intentionally trolling guys here for shits and giggles. A mariage where your partner doesn't sexually desire you but likes you for "other" qualities. Does that sound desirable to you? … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/18 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Gold-digger shaming is shaming women attracted to beta traitsBecause that seems like a sham marriage to me. I'm sure it happens, just not very often and probbaly something most people wouldn't be content with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/18 07:50 PM |
| 4 | Gold-digger shaming is shaming women attracted to beta traitsThis is something I've always had a big problem with. Why don't men just get hookers if they want sex so much?? It's not that simple. If it was, you wouldn't be hearing incels griping online or shooting up their schools, if it was that simple they would be content just paying hookers. But hookers don't want you. They want your money. They don't actually care for you or hold any affection for you that comes with a genuine relationship. Hookers are just acting. Guys know this hence why their jaded… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/18 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Gold-digger shaming is shaming women attracted to beta traitsSo what exactly are you saying then? What point are you trying to convey? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/18 07:36 PM |
| 3 | Gold-digger shaming is shaming women attracted to beta traitsReally? I've never come across that in this sub, sex seems to be the biggest factor affecting men who visit these circles. Not the sexbin itself (otherwise they would be content simply paying hookers) but from a geneinue sexual relationship that includes affection hence the desire for a relationship of some kind even if it's mainly sexual in nature. I think you're misunderstanding guys here. Yes they want sex, but they also want to genuinely desired and loved for who theybare as men, sex include… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/18 07:04 PM |
| 6 | Gold-digger shaming is shaming women attracted to beta traitsHence the birth of TRP and the manosphere. Men don't want to be the guy she "loves" without sexually desiring him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/18 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Gold-digger shaming is shaming women attracted to beta traitsHave you never experienced non-sexual love? As if it's something that's just normal. You're essentially saying that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/18 06:50 PM |
| 3 | Gold-digger shaming is shaming women attracted to beta traits?? And? What's your point? That men should be content with sexless love? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/18 06:47 PM |
| 11 | Gold-digger shaming is shaming women attracted to beta traitsPfft. The fuck kind of marriage is that? I wouldn't want to be married to someone who wasn't sexually attracted to me. I would want a WIFE not a mother or sister. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/18 06:43 PM |
| 5 | Gold-digger shaming is shaming women attracted to beta traitsI'm assuming the men we're talkinh about in this context want to be loved the way a woman loves a man, not the way a mother or sister love their son or brother. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/18 06:42 PM |
| 3 | Gold-digger shaming is shaming women attracted to beta traitsGood for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/18 05:38 PM |
| 20 | Gold-digger shaming is shaming women attracted to beta traitsA woman that marries a beta bucks loves her husband. She just isn't sexually attracted to him. Screw that. No self-respecting man should ever accept that. She doesn't "love" her husband as a person, as a man. She loves his comfort and money. She's basically a hooker withtout having to call herself one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/18 05:33 PM |
| 32 | Gold-digger shaming is shaming women attracted to beta traitsNo guy wants to be wanted for beta qualities. Raw, physical attraction ("pussy tingles") trumps comfort/provisioning any day every time. Alphas are desired for exactly who and what they are (physically attractive males) while betas are wanted for what they can provide financially. So yeah, shame away those beta triats, because no guy wants to be wanted for being a beta, they want to be physically lusted by women because that's the real genuine female attraction. All other beta qualities is basic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/18 05:30 PM |
| 0 | Most of beta bux's problem arise because they marry up on looksIt's not taking the provider route itself that fucks over beta bux's ....it's because they try to trade provider-ship abilities for sex with a woman out of their league .....they get fucked over because they are shallow . No, I think what you're missing is that betas by default sort of have to trade providership for a chance at a sexual relationship, that's what beta is. There isn't a better" beta or anything. If your ability to pull women depends soley on your providership you're a just a walki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/18 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Would you get dick-enhancement surgery if it would improve your odds with women?You don't think people lie about this sort of thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/18 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Would you get dick-enhancement surgery if it would improve your odds with women?I don’t know what to tell you man. The idea that a substantial number of women are cucking their husbands, and waxing poetic online about how the physical size of their new partners has made an entire world of difference, and that this group of women is somehow representative of all women - I mean, that’s ridiculous to me. I never said anything about this being about women cucking their men. I'm only reporting what women have reported regarding dick size. I never said this was somehow a represen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/18 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Would you get dick-enhancement surgery if it would improve your odds with women?This is not how dicks and vaginas work. Physiologically speaking, they just were not designed for it. That sounds stupid. Dicks and vaginas are designed for copulation nare they not? Absolutely wrong. The greatest concentration of nerve endings is outside of the vagina. Right, and a big dick can get to those endings just by sheer size because they have bigger girth. Unless your dick is so big that it went inside, bent in half and wiggled out the other end, it’s not reaching the clit. Again i men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/18 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Would you get dick-enhancement surgery if it would improve your odds with women?Hmm idk about that. Plenty of stories from guys who describe her looking disappointed/being ghosted at the sight of a totally average looking penis. Porn hasn't just warped the minds of men ya know. Lots of women also think that a dick that isn't porn size is "small". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/18 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Would you get dick-enhancement surgery if it would improve your odds with women?Why can’t it be enough that a girl frequently wants to see you because you makes her cum multiple times every time you have sex? She can get exactly that from a guy with a big dick. Eventually she's going realize that bigger dicks just plain feel good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/18 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Would you get dick-enhancement surgery if it would improve your odds with women?I’ve never understood the mindset that making your partner cum is a chore. Guys want to make their partners cum using thier dicks nature gave them. Having to use your mouth and hands is basically telling a man subconsciously that he can't get it done like a man should - with his DICK. He must compensate. He's not an actual mam, the kind that women get wet over and look forward to getting thrashed by. There are things I do for my partner that don’t bring me physical pleasure, but I enjoy making h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/18 09:28 AM |
| 1 | Would you get dick-enhancement surgery if it would improve your odds with women?A word of advice: any time you read the phrase “horse dick” on the Internet, you’re talking to a man. And about 75% of the time you read a firsthand testimonial from a woman online about how much she jizzed with her new partner while cucking her husband? You guessed it - that’s a man. No, "horse dick" was my own choice of words for this example. And besides what difference does that even make? It's not like women are completely incapable of saying stuff like that. It's not like it's missing from… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/18 09:09 AM |
| 2 | Would you get dick-enhancement surgery if it would improve your odds with women?My advice is simplistic, dismissive, and effective. If girls aren’t giving you a second chance because they’re not enjoying the sex, make the sex enjoyable. So then it basically just becomes a chore for a man to perfom in order to keep his partner satisfied enough to not cheat or branchswing. Boy, that's encouraging. "You better get to work with that mouth cause that's the only real way you can get me off"... C'mon, please don't be stubborn, surely you can see why men see this as humiliating and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/18 08:58 AM |
| 1 | Would you get dick-enhancement surgery if it would improve your odds with women?I'm not too keen on believing "studies" where the participants are answering questions about things they know are sensitive subjects and can crush souls, it instinctively makes them biased and defensive, they'll lie to make themselves look good, to convince their own minds that they're not a shallow/superficial person. In other words, I don't trust people in these "studies" to be honest. Humans are liars to the core especially when it comes to touchy subjects like dick size. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/18 08:48 AM |
| 1 | Would you get dick-enhancement surgery if it would improve your odds with women?Okay but this guys only evidence that he’s getting passed over because of his dick is that the women don’t enjoy the sex. We’re talking about a guy with a average length dick and bigger than average girth. He had no reason to assume his dick is the problem. If I were to venture a guess, I assume it’s easier for him to think his dick is the problem, because then he doesn’t have to put any work into it. It’s out of his hands. Whereas if his sex skills are the issue, he could do something about it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/18 08:44 AM |
| 2 | Would you get dick-enhancement surgery if it would improve your odds with women?Your "practical advice" is basically saying "get good with your hands and mouth because you need to compensate". It's simplistic and dismissive. I suppose it's not entirely your fault. Biology is to blame. There's little one can do about dick size and if you're small, you're goign to have to go the extra mile to compensate no matter which way you look at it. I totally get why small guys would be understandably bittrler and jaded over it. Cut him a break. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/18 08:16 AM |
| 3 | Would you get dick-enhancement surgery if it would improve your odds with women?The latter (providing he isn’t painfully big). But who cares? You can easily work on your skills. It’s much more risky to get surgery. So why not just focus on the former for similar results? Spoken like a true woman who is unable to comprehend what men go through about this shit mentally. Imagine if men were telling women "who cares" about the emotions of getting an abortion or being unable to enjoy PIV sex due to medical issues. I imagine the ladies wouldn't take very kindly to that. Because m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/18 05:20 AM |
| 1 | Would you get dick-enhancement surgery if it would improve your odds with women?He considers it such a big problem he’s willing to get surgery to address. I’m simply suggesting that before surgery, he consider trying to eat a girl out first You realize that guys have been laughed at and walked oit on in the middle of playtime on the couch once the pants came off? Guys have been ghosted after sending pics of their average size dicks to potential online hookups (at the woman's request mind you), it happens a lot more than people and women especially are ever willing to admit.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/18 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Would you get dick-enhancement surgery if it would improve your odds with women?it’s that for most women, no amount of dick will make up for having zero sexual skills. Some of us have the opposite experience - girls coming back for more to a guy with a big dick despite his lack of skill/effort. I honestly believe most women underestimate/aren't aware of PIV orgasms until they've actually had a big dick. Also consider this, if what it takes for a woman to appreciate a smaller guy is for him to have amazing skills/effort compared to a bigger guy with no skills/effort...then a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/18 04:51 AM |
| 5 | Would you get dick-enhancement surgery if it would improve your odds with women?You should post your junk on Tinder amd watch as you'll get offers just from that alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/18 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Would you get dick-enhancement surgery if it would improve your odds with women?Right.....im sure women don't care about dick size at all....we totally believe yall when you say that... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/18 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Would you get dick-enhancement surgery if it would improve your odds with women?You can make a woman cum even if you had no dick at all. You have no idea how emasculating that is. Saying to just get better with hands and mouth is basically saying "yeah, your dick sucks but you can still compensate with your tounge and hands!". No, guys want to make women cum using their tool. Anything else is just compensating for lack of an adequate dick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/18 03:29 AM |
| 6 | Would you get dick-enhancement surgery if it would improve your odds with women?Medically? Sure it's average. But to many women that's a small dick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/18 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Video on women on tinderLike dude see a hooker omg. Go to Vegas. Go to Backpage.com or its equivalent. Assuming you’re in America. If you’re elsewhere I imagine paying for sex is much easier to come by. That's cheap. Guys don't want to pay for an act. They want to actually be wanted and desired by women. Paying for sex is just paying for an act, paying her to pretend to be affectionate. Sidebar — Chad also pays for sex. He buys bottles for the VIP table. He buys drinks at bars. He spends hella money on going out and lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/18 04:13 AM |
| 7 | For those who are unhappy with their place in the SMP, what are you doing right NOW to improve your SMV?Get this... I actually do dress much nicer than pretty much all American men (because I can afford to)... and guess what? I get compliments and female eyes on me regularly. Shocking, right? Those tricky womenz... must be some twisted ploy! Additionally: saying that someone likes "stylish men" is hardly pro or anti shallow. It's a neutral topic, if you ask me. Again, i never said dressing nice was a bad idea. Just that it has little to do with physical attractiveness. Learn to differentiate betwe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/18 10:03 PM |
| 7 | For those who are unhappy with their place in the SMP, what are you doing right NOW to improve your SMV?Who are you kidding? All else equal, nicer looking / better fitting clothing is always a good thing. Women voted "sense of style" to first place on what makes a guy "hot" physically. Your problem here is you're taking what women say too much for face value. Women lie about these sorts of things all the damn time to not appear shallow. That's not to say getting nice/good fitting clothes is a bad idea, but you're wrong if you believe good clothes make a guy "hot". Good genetics and facial aestheti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/18 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: How do you feel about prostitution morally?In that case doesn't that make it all the more...recreational? A no big deal thing? If people are able to switch it back and forth to mean different things... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/18 10:20 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: How do you feel about prostitution morally?I think the reason people in general have a negative reaction towards prostitution is because not only has it historically been perceived to be dirty and unclean, it also has this stigma attached to it when it comes to sex , specifically female sexuality, a woman's "virtue" is woven in with her sexuality, the reason why virgin girls were seen as these prized possessions by farmers and kings - they were "untainted" or whatever. So a girl whores herself out are seen as cheapening and degrading the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/18 09:30 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Male echochambers about casual sex cause inexperienced men to feel like they lose out a lot more than they actually doIndeed that seems to be becoming the norm these days, as one can imagine this only makes things rather more competitive and fast paced for awkward/inexperienced men with anxiety. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/18 06:18 PM |
| 2 | [CMV] Men use the same strategy as women: they chase "bad girls" in their youth and settle down with "good girls" when they're older"Thay guy" is real though. The 80/20 online dating studies prove that. Also post any male model pic on a dating site with the most offensive/outrageous bios and watch as that account is swamped by messages from women out of sheer horniness. It's not projection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/18 01:57 AM |
| 1 | [Q4W] What personality traits make a man more attractive/sexy/arousing?Think of ot this way, good looking chads are relatively rare, so we don't normally see them act 'slutty' around such men. Most men aren't all that aytractive to women so it appears that they aren't like that. But when women do eventually cross paths with chad then the inner beast awakens. Make sense yet? Take this example. Strippers. The women dancing in the club will never fuck any of the male patrons, unless maybe it's a good looking guy like my buddy who just smashed some stripper in the VIP … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/18 12:48 AM |
| 2 | [CMV] Men use the same strategy as women: they chase "bad girls" in their youth and settle down with "good girls" when they're olderWhat's YOUR point? Are you denying or admitting that chad is real? The RP describes chad. Because earlier you were insisting that it's all a bogeyman 'projection' but now you're saying that you went to school with chads. So which is it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/18 12:27 AM |
| 3 | Q4All: How do you feel about men being vulnerable?But if this were men being cold and distant towards their female partners who expressed vulnerability, the men would be called an insensitive asshole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/18 12:15 AM |
| 1 | [CMV] Men use the same strategy as women: they chase "bad girls" in their youth and settle down with "good girls" when they're olderThe majority of women understand that who they can fuck isn't the same as who they can marry The majority of women understand this? Then why is there ao much "where are all the good men?" lament from women? Another issue is that some guys spend tons of effort on chasing women with lots of options, and they half ass it with the women around their level. Women can tell, and they don't want to be the consolation prize. What do you mean by half ass in this context? Also doesn't this conflict with th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/18 12:10 AM |
| 1 | [Q4W] What personality traits make a man more attractive/sexy/arousing?Then doesn't that just prove 80/20? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/18 12:04 AM |
| 1 | [CMV] Men use the same strategy as women: they chase "bad girls" in their youth and settle down with "good girls" when they're olderJust saying. I don't know what kind of chads you know but the ones i know, they have women left and right hitting on them just because they're attractive. Is this the case with your chads? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/18 12:04 AM |
| 2 | [CMV] Men use the same strategy as women: they chase "bad girls" in their youth and settle down with "good girls" when they're olderThen you should know and agree with what I'm saying. Why I get the feeling you're just making shit up now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/18 11:19 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] What personality traits make a man more attractive/sexy/arousing?and even you only see a handful of your friends experience female attraction this way, then it is an outlier. No, most men aren't chads, therefore you'll mostly won't see this kind of female behaviour because most men don't turn women on the way chads do. Again, it takes actually knowing chads and hanging with them for this kind of female attraction to emerge. You get what I'm saying? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/18 11:01 PM |
| 2 | [CMV] Men use the same strategy as women: they chase "bad girls" in their youth and settle down with "good girls" when they're olderTry actually knowing a few chads and see how they live for you to see what I see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/18 10:23 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] What personality traits make a man more attractive/sexy/arousing?'outliers'. The convenient go-to retort whenever one comes across something that doesn't align with their world view. How are you so sure she's an 'outlier'? What are basing that of of? Because from where I'm standing women exhibit this kind of behavior regularly. Maybe it takes actually knowing a few chads for you to be able to see what I see. But just because you can't see it doesn't mean it's not there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/18 10:22 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] What personality traits make a man more attractive/sexy/arousing?....this was based in her looking at his facebook pics. No personal interaction. She judged him purely on looks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/18 08:05 PM |
| 3 | [CMV] Men use the same strategy as women: they chase "bad girls" in their youth and settle down with "good girls" when they're oldernot in high school, and it's not projection. It's real life observations. Which is what it’s all about isn’t it? Being angry at women for having choices and not picking you, and using Chad as an excuse for not trying and giving up. And telling everyone woman here whose experience doesn’t match up with your fantasy view of the world she’s lying. It's not so much about women having choices but rather people like you dismissing our experiences and observations as insecure projection. It's a weak ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/18 07:57 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] What personality traits make a man more attractive/sexy/arousing?No one is “ignoring” face and body. We’re sinply saying that women include other factors that men often don’t. It’s why we have difficulty judging how sexually attractive someone is based on just a photo. Then please explain how someone like my Chad bro can have stranger women friend him on facebook, and upon him asking if they know each other she responds with "no, I just think you're hot". C'mon. This whole women need to get to know a guy to find him attractive is a load of horseshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/18 11:23 AM |
| 3 | [CMV] Men use the same strategy as women: they chase "bad girls" in their youth and settle down with "good girls" when they're olderWow. I'm sorry but your post here is really full of shit, and frankly insulting to the intelligence of men who are paying attention. You're saying it's all just a boogeyman in our heads, that we're "projecting" something that's not real. Basically saying that Chad isn't real. Sorry, but that's a load of bullshit. Chad is very much real. Some of us interact with living breathing chads on a daily basis, we see how women interact with them compared to most other men, we see how women make it incred… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/18 11:02 AM |
| 2 | [Q4W] What personality traits make a man more attractive/sexy/arousing?Chads can have physical presence and sexy voices. Indeed they often do. However attractive facial aesthetics are a key component that's often ignored around here, as well as a fit body. You think a meek nerd can pull off having a physical presence and sexy voice? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/18 10:40 AM |
| 1 | [Q4W] What personality traits make a man more attractive/sexy/arousing?I’m just saying that the things that trigger attraction are different. Are they though? The chads i know get approached and even outright propositioned by women regularly, sometimes the women even make it clear that they think they're hot. Explain that one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/18 08:17 AM |
| 1 | [CMV] Men use the same strategy as women: they chase "bad girls" in their youth and settle down with "good girls" when they're olderOh, but i thougjt us humans were supposed to be above animals because we have advanced primate brains and are fully capable of ingoring our primal instincts... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/18 04:14 AM |
| 1 | [CMV] Men use the same strategy as women: they chase "bad girls" in their youth and settle down with "good girls" when they're olderLol, your most recent comment is accusing the women here of lying when they say they care a lot about a man's personality when it comes to being attracted to a man. I'm not denying that they care about a man's personality, I'm calling them out for the way they downplay the utmost importance of a man's physical looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/18 04:12 AM |
| 2 | [Q4W] What personality traits make a man more attractive/sexy/arousing?Attraction for men and women is different, plain and simple. There are some differences, but we're a lot more alike than people care to admit. For one, women are just as physical and visual as men. Women sexually objectify men the same way men sexually objectify women. For some reason society has deemed that un-PC to acknowledge. The sooner you accept that men and women are different, the better. There are some big differences in thought patterns and behaviors, but again when it comes to us just… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/18 04:05 AM |
| 5 | [Q4W] What personality traits make a man more attractive/sexy/arousing?The problem is that we have bloops/women insisting that personality and charm are mkre important than just looks. But you all just established that those things are biased by the halo effect based on looks. ....so...looks are super important, but yall somehow convince yourselves that there's a huge difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/18 01:11 AM |
| 0 | [CMV] Men use the same strategy as women: they chase "bad girls" in their youth and settle down with "good girls" when they're olderThat men have a wide range in what they find attractive. Fat women included. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/18 12:07 AM |
| 3 | [CMV] Men use the same strategy as women: they chase "bad girls" in their youth and settle down with "good girls" when they're olderYou're being ridiculous. You're making assumptions about male sexuality, something you can't possibly comprehend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/18 12:05 AM |
| 3 | [CMV] Men use the same strategy as women: they chase "bad girls" in their youth and settle down with "good girls" when they're olderYou know, if anything this also just says women have ridiculously high standards. For totally average looking guys to be content with their looks but somehow they're "overestimating their attractiveness". If anything, it shows that women find tje majority of men unattractive. 80/20. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/18 12:04 AM |
| 7 | [CMV] Men use the same strategy as women: they chase "bad girls" in their youth and settle down with "good girls" when they're olderNo. He doesn’t have to do shit that he doesn’t want to. If he wants to get laid he does because he doesn't look like Tom Hardy. You clearly don’t understand AF/BB. How do I not understand it? Guys who look like Tom Hardy just need to sit there and let the women make themselves available. Alpha fucks. Average schmucks needa to do this whole song and dance and show that they're 'worthy' in some way, this usually involves showing that you have some money to bank on as well as a 'personality'. Beta.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/18 12:01 AM |
| -1 | [CMV] Men use the same strategy as women: they chase "bad girls" in their youth and settle down with "good girls" when they're olderDoes it work? I dont know, but I do know that men have a wider range of tastes in women which include fat women. Sure some peopel call out FAM for promoting bullshit, but the overall point is that society deems ot necessary to even upflift unattractive women in that manner. What for? Why is it so important for fat women to be seen as attractive? That's the question im raising. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/18 11:52 PM |
| 3 | [CMV] Men use the same strategy as women: they chase "bad girls" in their youth and settle down with "good girls" when they're olderI still don't see where 'superiority' has to do with it. Seriously, what point are you trying to make? Where did I say that anyone is 'superior'? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/18 11:49 PM |
| -2 | [CMV] Men use the same strategy as women: they chase "bad girls" in their youth and settle down with "good girls" when they're olderThe point is that there's a mainstream social narrative to promote unattractive women as attractive when there's non such similar narrative for women. Women Are Wonderful strikes again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/18 11:26 PM |
| 2 | [CMV] Men use the same strategy as women: they chase "bad girls" in their youth and settle down with "good girls" when they're olderIt's been well documented that men overestimate their own attractiveness. I think that's bull. In my real life observations average/ugly men know they are such. Generally of course, there are always exceptions but generally men know where they stand on the sexual totem pole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/18 11:24 PM |
| 4 | [CMV] Men use the same strategy as women: they chase "bad girls" in their youth and settle down with "good girls" when they're olderYou're the one trying to explain male sexuality to when you're not even a man. Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/18 11:21 PM |
| 13 | [CMV] Men use the same strategy as women: they chase "bad girls" in their youth and settle down with "good girls" when they're olderSo basically you'd be ready to fuck Tom Hardy right away but Joe Average has to prove himself. From a guy's perspective it's basically AFBB because Tom Hardy doesn't have to "prove himself". He just needs to exist. Average Joes on the other hand nees game, dress well, buy you drinks, and dance like a monkey for you to give them a chance. Guys resent that. It's pretty black and white despite you trying to make it grey. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/18 11:19 PM |
| 6 | [CMV] Men use the same strategy as women: they chase "bad girls" in their youth and settle down with "good girls" when they're olderBut you line up 100 women and 100 men and then ask men and women to pick who they'd most want to bang and I guarantee the male choices will be at least as narrow as the female, and probably more so. I seriously doubt that. Are you a man? If you were you'd know that men are just less choosy not just for sex but relationships as well. I've seen the most fat and disgusting looking women who are married with kids. So clearly men aren't just pumping n dumping these ugly women, they're wifing them up … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/18 11:10 PM |
| 3 | [CMV] Men use the same strategy as women: they chase "bad girls" in their youth and settle down with "good girls" when they're olderBecause it's bull. Listen, I have chad friends, my own bro is a Chad. Just the other week some stranger woman friended him on facebook, when he asked her if they knew each other she was like "no, I just think you're hot". He sent me a screenshot of the exchange so I know it's real. Things like thay are just the tip of the iceberg of all the other things I've seen. Please, spin that one for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/18 10:54 PM |
| 4 | [CMV] Men use the same strategy as women: they chase "bad girls" in their youth and settle down with "good girls" when they're olderWhy do men have to "keep proforming" but women get Fat Acceptance movements that absolves them from having to keep up their appearances? Why do women get a pass but men don't? And then people around here try to convince me that Women Are Wonderful isn't real, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/18 10:49 PM |
| 3 | [CMV] Men use the same strategy as women: they chase "bad girls" in their youth and settle down with "good girls" when they're olderLike I said, people around here make it seem like men are deliberately ingoring less attractive girls, when what I actually see is men being shot down by less attractive girls and those same girls only having eyes for Chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/18 10:40 PM |
| 3 | [CMV] Men use the same strategy as women: they chase "bad girls" in their youth and settle down with "good girls" when they're olderThe point im making with the porn example is that men have a wide range of tastes in women, whilst women seem to have a much narrow taste in men (hence Chad, 80/20, etc). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/18 10:38 PM |
| 4 | [CMV] Men use the same strategy as women: they chase "bad girls" in their youth and settle down with "good girls" when they're olderWhat does superiority have to do with anything? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/18 10:35 PM |
| 1 | [CMV] Men use the same strategy as women: they chase "bad girls" in their youth and settle down with "good girls" when they're olderpro-tip: there are no leagues. No leagues? How do you figure? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/18 10:30 PM |
| 0 | [CMV] Men use the same strategy as women: they chase "bad girls" in their youth and settle down with "good girls" when they're olderShe just responded to my earlier reply saying those guys actually didn't date hot girls. She's contradicting herself and all over the place with her story. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/18 08:51 PM |
| 6 | [CMV] Men use the same strategy as women: they chase "bad girls" in their youth and settle down with "good girls" when they're olderat least girlfriends within their league. But it was clear that they really liked the hot girl in class too. If she had given them the chance, they would have definitely dated her instead. Wait, so this means that those guys actually didn't date the super hot babes? In your OP you said they did date hot girls. You're contradicting yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/18 08:49 PM |
| 8 | [CMV] Men use the same strategy as women: they chase "bad girls" in their youth and settle down with "good girls" when they're olderI think you’re basic concept is overall correct It really isn't. There have been many guys here claiming thay they do in fact aim for average/plane women who should be within their league but even those girls still only want good looking Chads to hit on them. red pillers/men here will say is that the older, more rationale man is going to be just as attracted to the woman he ultimately marries Let's not pretend that guys are as sexually selectuve as women. Guys generally are more forgiving toward… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/18 08:26 PM |
| 14 | [CMV] Men use the same strategy as women: they chase "bad girls" in their youth and settle down with "good girls" when they're olderWrong. Have you not paid attention to so many posts from men who make it clear that they do in fact approach plane/average girls, girls who should be within their league but still strike out because even those girls only want the attractive guys to hit on them. You seem out of touch with just how much struggling men struggle. These guys do in fact go out of their way to approach girls who aren't exactly anything to brag to friends about themselves, but those girls still want Chad and nothing les… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/18 08:20 PM |
| 2 | Questions about male anger.TRP doesn't like JP because he's telling them to be adults. Um, what? That's a load of shit. It's the opposite: TRP likes JP exactly because je doesn't sugarcoat things and tells men to get their shit together - the same things TRP says. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/18 12:13 PM |
| 2 | Questions about male anger.THANK YOU for a healthy injection of maturity and sanity from a male voice in here. Is that really such a shocker to you? I believe most men around here and in real life too are reasonable and level headed creatures who aren't all pent up with anger. People pay too much attention to the few crazy ones who spout outlandish shit that thyley forget that most men aren't rage fueled incel types you see online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/18 11:51 AM |
| 2 | CMV: The "NiceGuy" trope, is nothing more than women takin out their frustration on shy/socially awkward men.You can't really compare fat girls to shy guys though. Fat girls still get laid a lot more than shy guys. It's not exactly a secret that there's a fetish for fat girls out there. Seriously, ive seen the most digusting looking fat women with who are married, have multiple kids and boyfriends, etc. That tella me there'still a good sizeable numberbof guys who genuinely like fat chicks. Unfortunately, the same cant be said for women liking shy guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/18 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Let's talk about consentSocial standard Dumb. In the scheme of things, this is really irrelevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/18 12:44 AM |
| 7 | Let's talk about consentThat means she was not enthusiasticly consenting. Again, that should be the standard. You shouldn’t be proud of sex where you get anything less than that. So does this mean all those guys who are in dead/semi-dead bedrooms, who's wife/girlfriend rolls her eyes at his sexual initiation with a "fine I guess" then proceeds to lay out some lazy starfish duty sex.....are those guys technically commiting rape? Because by your standards, which is ridiculous. Hence why many people scoff at the enthusias… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/18 12:42 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The "NiceGuy" trope, is nothing more than women takin out their frustration on shy/socially awkward men.....okay but werw talking about wanting to fuck women, not platonic friendship with men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/18 08:15 AM |
| 7 | CMV: The "NiceGuy" trope, is nothing more than women takin out their frustration on shy/socially awkward men.I get the impression that females have a distaste for bringing a guy out of his shell, the general instinct seem to be to get with someone already “whole” That's what feeds into the whole shy/awkward guy cycle. Girls keep their distance from guys who are "incomplete" or inexperienced and so those guys will continue to be incomplete and inexperienced. It pretty much boils down to women being unwilling to be a little more forgiving and empathetic to such guys. Not saying anyine should be forced to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/18 11:36 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The "NiceGuy" trope, is nothing more than women takin out their frustration on shy/socially awkward men.Elaborate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/18 11:08 PM |
| 3 | [Q4Al] Why is your pill the best?But they do publish things on these topics. Not really. At least not in a sufficient manner. If it was working, there wouldn't be so many incel types. Whatever you'll find in the mainstream pertaining to this stuff will be watered down with SJW and Women Are Wonderful shit, so it doesn't provide an accurate assessment of the modern SMP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/18 10:47 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The "NiceGuy" trope, is nothing more than women takin out their frustration on shy/socially awkward men.Really? You consider it a "burden" for women to be honest? Holy shit. And then you ladies wonder why guys are growing bitter of you and thinking you're all a bunch of machiavellian creatures. Look, i get wanting to make a guy feel better i guess, but trust me, thay just cuases more harm than good because it doesn't allow for the guy to actually pinpoint underlying reasons for his lack of success with women. Like i said, guys (especially low SMV guys) have right to know where they stand in the wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/18 10:42 PM |
| 4 | CMV: The "NiceGuy" trope, is nothing more than women takin out their frustration on shy/socially awkward men.Am i wrong? You don't think brutal honesty would do better for guys rather than women just lying to them? All that does is produce more awkward and confused men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/18 10:19 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The "NiceGuy" trope, is nothing more than women takin out their frustration on shy/socially awkward men.Conversely, can you really blame women for not being super direct all the time because they are trying to spare feelings and not embarrass someone? Yes, i do blame women. They really should just be more upfront and honest about what they like/dislike, feelings be damned, guys have a right to know exactly where they fall in the SMP. Also, it wouldn't hurt if women were open to being a little more forgiving towards these guys but I suppose I might as well hope for the sky to turn a different color… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/18 10:00 PM |
| 10 | CMV: The "NiceGuy" trope, is nothing more than women takin out their frustration on shy/socially awkward men.This is a problem but let’s not pretend there is also a factor here of men tending to over exaggerate any possible sign of attention to him as her being interested. For shy, awkward, introverted men with no game or charisma, with years of chronic rejection/loniness behind them, surely you can see why it could be hard for some of them to not interpret any sign of attention as her being interested. They feel starved of any kind of positive experience with women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/18 08:05 PM |
| 2 | Time waster double standardWhen it's men, it's AMORAL. When it's women, it's IMMORAL. Pretty sure RP makes it clear that women's behaviour is also amoral because all they're doing is employing sexual strategy. Sure, many newbie reds may be angry because they're in the anger phase but they eventually accept that women's hypergamous behaviour is amoral. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/18 03:31 AM |
| 5 | Time waster double standardRight, because there's totally no BP bias and agenda in society... Get real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/18 02:29 AM |
| 0 | Time waster double standardGood. Glad you agree then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/18 10:57 PM |
| 3 | Time waster double standardThat particular web page you posted is weak and shady. Like i said, it doesn't look very professional, like someone with low skill made that using basic HTML. Oxford itself may be credible (somewhat) but don't sit there and pretend that they don't have a bias or agenda. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/18 10:50 PM |
| 2 | Time waster double standardReally? That's a weak and shady link you posted. It literally feels like some low-effort basic HTML page. Also consider who it supposedly represents: Oxford. I'm sure they totally don't have an agenda. In this case, trying to undermine and discredit RP concepts and ideas. I can't helo but think that was written by young millennial women who are more familiar with RP for them to be openly using phrases and terms like Women are Wonderful. Basically, your link has done little to disprove WaW. If an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/18 10:35 PM |
| 7 | Time waster double standardIf believing that sexual strategy is amoral then yea i guess that makes me amoral. But it's true though. You can't take the morality high road when it comes to these matters for reasons that have already been explained here many times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/18 09:07 PM |
| 12 | Time waster double standardIt's not a strawman though. You're denying WaW is real? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/18 09:06 PM |
| 6 | Time waster double standardSexually strategy is amoral. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/18 08:01 PM |
| 23 | Time waster double standardThe whole point of OP's post is to highlight that society will always see the man as the asshole in both situations, even in situations where it's the woman stringing him along. He's pointing out the societal double standard that's caused by the Women Are Wonderful effect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/18 08:01 PM |
| 1 | [Discussion] Dr. Jordan Peterson's Latest Interview with Joe Rogan 7-2-2018You're asking for specific individual examples, im talking about things on a wide social level. We're on two different pages, you did that intentionally because you know it's true. That's the problem with blue/purple users around here: theu attempt to make their individual cases the template for how things work collectively when you're really just comparing apples to oranges. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/18 09:05 PM |
| 4 | Imagine a pill that temporarily cut the sex drive and agression in men's brains to the level of the average woman.Why does it have to be a pill thay lowers men's sex drive? Why not a pill thay makes women as sex driven as men? Why is it always men who have to be on the same level as women? Perhaps if women were sex driven as much as men then there wouldn't be as much conflict between the genders because we would all be too busy fucking each other. Make a pill that makes women more horny. That's a better option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/18 05:13 PM |
| 1 | [Discussion] Dr. Jordan Peterson's Latest Interview with Joe Rogan 7-2-2018No it's not. Given that you hear it being brougt up here all the time. Not my fault if you're not paying attention. You know what's rather empty? Your replies. Weak. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/18 05:10 PM |
| 3 | [Discussion] Dr. Jordan Peterson's Latest Interview with Joe Rogan 7-2-2018Specific instance? It happens on a wide societal level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/18 12:38 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Red Pillers are red flags for LTRs, just as much if not moreso than high N womenIf she's just looking for sex then being in a harem doesn't really do much harm. She knows he fucks other women and she's cool with that because she's not really expecting anything more than a good dicking from him anyway. If she's looking for marriage/LTR then why being in a harem probab | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/18 06:58 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Red Pillers are red flags for LTRs, just as much if not moreso than high N womenIf women are oaks on the inside then you can't really fault RP guys for being the way they are and feeling the way they do towards women. I mean c'mon, mushy puppy dog on the outside but a cold oak inside? How much more Machiavellian can you get? Hence the birth of concepts like AWALT, women can't ever truly love you, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/18 05:53 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Red Pillers are red flags for LTRs, just as much if not moreso than high N womenYou know it doesn't always have to do with women trying to achieve an monogamous LTR. Sometimes they just want a good dicking without the expectation of commitment and alpha chads provide that. She can marry the rich doctor waiting for her at home but still ne on the prowl for alpha dick during weekend girls night out. She's fulfilling her hypergamy in both senses - her alpha fuck buddy and her committed provider beta partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/18 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Learning how to get casual sex easily is a worthwhile investment that more men should take onAnd was he beta bux? Fuck no, the guy never even once got married, he just banged a long line of hot girls for his whole life until he got old and died. I don't know who that is, but do you think that lifestyle would fly in this day n age? As in eventually some girl who's butthurt that you didn't put a rock on her finger will go "me too" on you out of spite. Looking at that guy you speak of, it's hard to imagine him slaying all that pussy if he didn't have wealth/status. In the scheme of things,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/18 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Learning how to get casual sex easily is a worthwhile investment that more men should take onYeah right, a cab driver who looks like Orlando bloom is not going to have a shortage of women throwing themselves at him for casual sex. That's the whole point I'm trying to make. If you were blessed with attractive looks, you can be a broke ass underachieving bum and still slay more pussy than the guy with the six figure salary from his STEM job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/18 03:46 AM |
| 5 | Learning how to get casual sex easily is a worthwhile investment that more men should take onThe women thought those alpha chads were marriage material if they agreed to marry them. Not all the time. From what i see, these women are well aware that what they're getting out of guys like my friend is side piece action. And I agree that women have their own problems but it doesn't change the fact that men see being a husband as demeaning. So on one hand you agree women play their part in producing a disastrous SMP but on the other you're shocked that men have such a cynical view towards ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/18 01:44 AM |
| 8 | Learning how to get casual sex easily is a worthwhile investment that more men should take onI know a few alpha chad 'fuckboys' in my circle. Believe me, they always have married women/women with boyfriends hitting them up wanting the D. Perhaps you're barking up the wrong tree. For all the talk women give about how much they value and prefer relationships, they don't seem to have any qualms cheating on their boyfriend of a few years for the right kind of man who gives her the pussy tingles. Fun fact: women initiate the majority of divorces. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/18 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Learning how to get casual sex easily is a worthwhile investment that more men should take onDon't get me wrong, i appreciate the work escorts put in into making men happy and i appreciate your input. I'm simply pointing out that in a way you're only cheating yourself out of actually learning hiw to be someone a woman genuinely wants to fuck without a direct monetary compensation. I'm sure youve had your number of guys who get a little too clingy or cross boundaries? Where you've had to put them in check and bring them back down to earth and remind them that it's all a fantasy? At the e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/18 01:09 AM |
| 4 | Learning how to get casual sex easily is a worthwhile investment that more men should take onWhy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/18 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Learning how to get casual sex easily is a worthwhile investment that more men should take onEssentially, a good "date" requires energy. Two complete strangers thrown together have to suddenly try and be interesting and funny and charming and clever and humble and brave and strong and sexy... A (good) escort picks up a lot of this slack so that the client can relax and just enjoy himself. So in essence, you're (the client) basically having to "cheat" your way out of actually learning on how to actually be interesting, funny, charming, clever, humble, brave, strong, and sexy. She's not g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/18 11:51 PM |
| 2 | Learning how to get casual sex easily is a worthwhile investment that more men should take onBut you're in the minority. So your opinion and experience matters little in the scheme of things. Not trying to be a dick, just saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/18 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Learning how to get casual sex easily is a worthwhile investment that more men should take onWhat he does with his money is more indicative of “beta bux”. Hell, it can be argued that he was betabux before he had money in the first place. If he’s promising lavish gifts, paying her bills, or leading a woman to believe that she should settle down with him then sure give him the label. But having money or a career does not inherently make him betabux. Nah, I call BS on that. It doesn't matter how he uses the money - the fact that's relevant is that he has money. Logic dictates that the only… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/18 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Learning how to get casual sex easily is a worthwhile investment that more men should take on?? Please explain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/18 09:50 PM |
| 15 | [Discussion] Dr. Jordan Peterson's Latest Interview with Joe Rogan 7-2-2018I also do not know why people need "TRP notions and theories" constantly validated, Really? Maybe it has something to do with the blue pilled women are wonderful narrative that society shoves down people's throats. If society wasn't hell bent on systematically pushing a certain narrative, there wouldn't be so many "oh wow, RedPill was right all along!" situations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/18 09:47 PM |
| 6 | Learning how to get casual sex easily is a worthwhile investment that more men should take onI'm not the person you're replying to, but for me I would take it as she doesnt she me as "marriage/LTR" material which in this day n age of hookup culture is a condescending and humiliating position to be in. In other words, I'm the fuckboy, which is much better than being the boyfriend/husband. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/18 09:38 PM |
| 2 | Learning how to get casual sex easily is a worthwhile investment that more men should take onYou're not like most men, therefore your input is of little relevance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/18 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Learning how to get casual sex easily is a worthwhile investment that more men should take onI was paid to essentially not sweat the small stuff and make up the social differences - it’s not something everyone is capable of doing, which is why I charged for it. Curious, can you explain what you mean by this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/18 09:27 PM |
| 4 | Learning how to get casual sex easily is a worthwhile investment that more men should take onMake sure you invest some points in career. A.k.a. beta bucks. No thanks. Guys are beginning to realize what a crap deal that is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/18 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: What is the current state of men?Maybe that's the problem. You're insisting we use the feminists definition. The feminists probably have it wrong. Hence your definition is in the wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/18 05:33 PM |
| 3 | To what extent are women responsible for keeping traditional forms of masculinity alive?That's only if everything around sexual selection is entirely genetic...and it's not. Maybe not entirely but it's a core factor that influences other non-genetic factors. You'd be a fook to pretend otherwise. Most "traditionally masculine behaviors" are learned, not genetic. They're often based on broad and non-specific genetic instincts and impulses but the specific ways they are expressed are entirely socialized. Even if they are "learned behaviors" which I doubt, all it does it further show u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 09:36 PM |
| 3 | To what extent are women responsible for keeping traditional forms of masculinity alive?More like the moment Elgin starts getting laid, the definition will change and he will be Chad. What planet are you living on? Emotional/sensitive guys like Elgin aren't getting laid nearly as much as Chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 09:30 PM |
| 4 | To what extent are women responsible for keeping traditional forms of masculinity alive?Actually TRP is salty about the blatant hypocrisy, solipsism, and lack of self-awareness from "society". Society wants men to change and be less masculine, but it doesn't exactly reward men for doing so, there's no incentive for it, old school masculinity keeps winning despite all the lip service from society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 09:29 PM |
| 4 | To what extent are women responsible for keeping traditional forms of masculinity alive?It is because it is socialized from the time we are babies that a girlfriend -- sex comes later, but not a lot later -- and children are the only and ultimate true validation of our worth as a man. Bull. It's not "socialized", it's hardwired into our DNA to desire and seek out female companionship. You're basically suggesting that men somehow stop being attracted to women, wanting families, etc. The OP is about the other half of the equation - women and what they're attracted to. If women are re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: What's your opinion on these "Dating requirements" videosNo, im pretty sure taking selfies doesn't (shouldn't) count as a "hobby". Same with tv. A hobby usually implies that you're utilizing some skill or asset that you posses for your own enjoyment: drawning, painting, writing, making music beats, playing an instrument, buliding motorcycles, paintballing, playing basketball, etc. Taking selfies as well as watching tv aren't "hobbies" at all. They're just mundane things people do when they literally have nothing else to do. There's no skill or craft i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 09:26 PM |
| 2 | Women: do you genuinely find men who are unmasculine and show signs of weakness unattractive?You may not be doing it consciously, but y'all are still doing it. You want a man who is strong with solid frame, then wonder why men don't open up or become vulnerable. The women of PPD may not be overtly guilty of it, but women collectively are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/18 01:05 PM |
| 2 | Women: do you genuinely find men who are unmasculine and show signs of weakness unattractive?Lovely to see all the ladies here reinforcing and feeding into that "toxic masculinity" they complain about. Oh the irony. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/18 12:51 PM |
| 4 | [Q4W] Socially awkward attractive dude vs below average dude with game/charismaYeah right. There have been online dating experiments using fake profiles of male model pics and saying the most outlandish shit including things like "im horribly awkward and have aspergers" and still receive positive messages from women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/18 04:59 PM |
| 11 | Thread on /r/relationships about OP who doesn't want to expose his best friend for cheating shows how delusional the sub is, and why BP advice is ignorantand also tell the girl what’s up. Bitchmade move right there. It's none of your business if your buddy is cheating on his chick, especially a chick you barley know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/18 11:51 PM |
| 2 | Evidence and discussion on "Alpha fucks / beta bucks", female sexuality and differences, if any, between the sexual behavior and desires of the two sexesThe point he's making is that you can't claim something has been "debunked" based off only 1 or 2 two studies that contradict literally dozens of other studies that show different results. GreasyPole is right, that's just how statistics work. Of course you're eventually gonna come across information that 'refutes' other information, but in no way does that somehow mean the original data is wrong. If anything, the fact that there have been a lot more studies supoorting the ovulation argument than… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/18 05:22 PM |
| 1 | TheRedPill: Fundamental HypocrisyYou broke a rule. We don't know what rule was broken so we have nothing of value to judge off of. Sorry, but that doesn't 'prove' anything, it's certainly not proof of any hypocrisy. Also take note that this very thread here got nuked, perhaps that should tell you the problem lies with you as a poor quality poster and not with "TRP hypocrisy". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/18 07:34 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] How is AWALT any different from saying "Men are trash"?Am i missing something? How is the 'opposite side' of your argument true then? Did you read the part where I mentioned "men are trash" is socially sanctioned and encouraged? In that case your 'opposite side' isn't true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/18 07:31 PM |
| 1 | TheRedPill: Fundamental HypocrisyYour whole thread went to shit. Post better next time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/18 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Niceguys, justneckbeardthings, thebluepill, inceltearsNot saying anyone shouldn't be held accountable, but this thread was originally about awkward/incel/manosphere guys being shit on just because. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/18 07:25 PM |
| 5 | [Q4W] How is AWALT any different from saying "Men are trash"?But isn't saying "men are trash" or "men just want one thing" basically used the same way to describe "male nature"? AWALT is the same, they're both blanket generalizations. Just because some airheads over at trp try to pass it off a 'science' doesn't make it any less a generalization as "men are trash" is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/18 07:22 PM |
| 5 | [Q4W] How is AWALT any different from saying "Men are trash"?AWALT is essentially the same as "these hoes ain't loyal" and "fuck these bitches" though. It's just worded differently by a different set of guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/18 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Niceguys, justneckbeardthings, thebluepill, inceltearsI guess in a generalized sense yeah they appear to be shitty people at first glance if you only pay attention to the most obnoxious and outlandish posts, but there's still then chicken or egg question of which came first - them being shitty because people already treat them like shit, or people treating them like shity because they're just inherently shitty people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/18 07:06 PM |
| 1 | TheRedPill: Fundamental HypocrisyBut you haven't posted any relevant details regarding this particular ban so we don't have information to work from on whether or not this is proof of TRP "hypocrisy". All you did was post a message of a ban notification. You didn't mention anything about the exact circumstances that led to the ban. Subreddits have rules, you must have broken one of them to get banned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/18 07:01 PM |
| 3 | [Q4W] How is AWALT any different from saying "Men are trash"?What a way to completely side step the question. The point he was making is that "men are trash" is socially sanctioned and encouraged, while AWALT is seen as a heinous crime against women. He's (rightfully) pointing out the blatant hypocrisy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/18 06:55 PM |
| 3 | TheRedPill: Fundamental HypocrisyI don't understand, how is being banned from trp proof of hypocrisy? Subreddits, including this one, have rules. If you violate them then you get banned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/18 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Niceguys, justneckbeardthings, thebluepill, inceltearswe don't know what's going on Then maybe you should think twice before posting simplified generalizations like "because they're shitty people". Your response in itself is an example of awkward people being shit on just because | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/18 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Niceguys, justneckbeardthings, thebluepill, inceltearsSocially awkward guys will always be easy targets to shit on. That's just the nature of the beast. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/18 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Niceguys, justneckbeardthings, thebluepill, inceltearsBut which came first, do people make fun of them because they act like shitty people, or do they act like shitty people because people already treat them like shit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/18 06:11 PM |
| 1 | [Q4M] Do you wish women weren’t so obsessed with money and status?Huh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/18 09:07 AM |
| 2 | Women should not be afraid of RP game, they should be afraid of "beta game".It may be aot more women than youd think who are down for this arrangement. My alpha buddies always have married women hitting them up for exactly this kind of thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Telling young men to settleI am not denying that there are naive women who delude themselves into thinking a hot guy wants a relationship with them. This is another thing too that gets under my skin, your insistence that women who engage in casual sex did so under the belief that the guy was going to give them a relationship. Not my experience at all. For the Chads i know, the women they have casual with know full well that this is casual and that Mr.Chad has other women lined up. The women accept this. They accept it as … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Telling young men to settleIt's really annoying how women around here are always coming up with excuses and insisting that most women aren't into casual sex because in my also nauanced experience most women are pretty open to casual sex for the right kind of guy. This myth that women aren't interested in casual sex is part of the reason why guys become bitter MGTOWs and incels, you're feeding these guys false or misleading information regarding female sexuality and then wonder why they end up angry at the world for "lying… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 06:41 PM |
| 4 | [Q4M] Do you wish women weren’t so obsessed with money and status?Because with beauty, the know the attraction was genuine, being "attracted" to a guy because he has wealth/status shows us that the attraction is towards the money/status, not towards the guy himself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 01:18 AM |
| 3 | [Q4M] Do you wish women weren’t so obsessed with money and status?Beauty ages and withers away, that's just biology. The point is that you know someone likes you for real if they're attracted to your beauty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 01:16 AM |
| 1 | [Q4M] Do you wish women weren’t so obsessed with money and status?Naw, testerone blockers doesn't produce anything good, just a bunch of effeminate fags. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 01:15 AM |
| 1 | [Q4M] Do you wish women weren’t so obsessed with money and status?Bit female sexuality clearly isn't leading us forward, otherwise there wouldn't be rampant divorce, single motherhood, dysfunctional households, kids growing up without fathers, depressed/suicidal young men, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 01:14 AM |
| 1 | [Q4M] Do you wish women weren’t so obsessed with money and status?No, beauty is essential for "love" to take shape. If someone isn't physically attracted to you, they can't love you as a lover. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 12:44 AM |
| 3 | [Q4M] Do you wish women weren’t so obsessed with money and status?To attracted to beauty is more authentic than being attracted to money/status. The latter is more artificial and shallow, the former is more organic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 12:36 AM |
| 1 | [Q4M] Do you wish women weren’t so obsessed with money and status?Back when men had particular gender roles to perform (being the breadwinner in most vases) they had value, it may have been artificial but it served a purpose: keeping female hypergamy in check, because as we're only beginning to realize female hypergamy run amok produces nothing good or healthy towards the stability in society. Betas held things in check, they produced the stable environment we take for granted. Now they're being shit on by women who are repulsed by them on a physical level and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 12:33 AM |
| 1 | [Q4M] Do you wish women weren’t so obsessed with money and status?It would likely apply to them, if they were complaining about it. They do complain about it "where have all the good men gone?" Then men should do the same Try having raging testosterone coursing through your body that biologically dictates to seek female companionship and tell me how easy it is. If it was so easy, you wouldn't have a surplus population of bitter, frustrated guys feeling suicidal about it all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 12:25 AM |
| 1 | [Q4M] Do you wish women weren’t so obsessed with money and status?You're one trying to sell me the beta model, but all it tells me is that I'll just be used for my money. Women earn their own money, they shouldn't care whether a guy has money or not then. Correct? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 12:22 AM |
| 1 | [Q4M] Do you wish women weren’t so obsessed with money and status?At the end of the day, you're still being "loved" for your money and resources. Not for who you are as a person if you were living dirt poor. You keep trying to sell me the beta product but I'm just not buying your pitch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 10:39 PM |
| 2 | [Q4M] Do you wish women weren’t so obsessed with money and status?Nature and natural selection will never benefit betas (the genetically unfit). Does that mean they should just opt out of life entirely? Why not? They're smart enough to realize their station in life/society, I'd say they're certainly not obliged or to be happy about or even content. If they choose to check out and refuse to invest, they have every right to do so without ridicule. Their rush to give up instead of fighting for success emphasizes the subpar status of their DNA and why no one was s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 10:37 PM |
| 1 | [Q4M] Do you wish women weren’t so obsessed with money and status?But that same logic applies to low SMV women who refuse to hookup with betas or guys within their SMV range. Those guys too are inconvenient options but still options nonetheleas, and as we've observed women would rather stay single than dabble with those options | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 10:28 PM |
| 2 | [Q4M] Do you wish women weren’t so obsessed with money and status?If it's undesirable or inconvenient then it's actually a real 'option' at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 09:39 PM |
| 1 | [Q4M] Do you wish women weren’t so obsessed with money and status?"Go the distance in this case is basically offering to be a meal ticket for a materialistic gold digger. You can frame it however you like but that's basically what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 09:38 PM |
| 2 | [Q4M] Do you wish women weren’t so obsessed with money and status?Naw, i don't think beta men should ahve any incentive to invest in any system that they don't inherently benefit from. Hence why you see more and more men checking out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 09:37 PM |
| 1 | [Q4M] Do you wish women weren’t so obsessed with money and status?Sorry but that just sounds lame. I have no interest in moving out of country just get some third world pussy. All this shows us is the limited pool of options betas have. Hence why betas suck overall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 09:05 PM |
| 2 | [Q4M] Do you wish women weren’t so obsessed with money and status?Genetics helps or hinders, but rarely it is a determining factor. Bull. I know alphas who have total stranger women hitting them up on social media, saying he's hot, willing to drive across state to hookup, sending nude pics. I know at least a couple guys right now going through that. A genetically gifted alpha that was born in the slums of brazil and can't even take a bath more than two times a month because he is homeless and can't hold a job even if he had the chance to find one has no chance… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 08:17 PM |
| 0 | [Q4M] Do you wish women weren’t so obsessed with money and status?What Im saying is often the case the "better product" is genetically gifted alphas. It has nothing to do with money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 07:46 PM |
| 1 | [Q4M] Do you wish women weren’t so obsessed with money and status?Sorry but your response seems kind of vague if not obviously wrong. I basicaly interpreted this as "So, be smart beta who knows how to sell his quality beta traits". Screw that. Guys would better off focusing on generating spontaneous pussy tingles rather than on any "economic" asset betas may hold. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 07:34 PM |
| 6 | [Q4M] Do you wish women weren’t so obsessed with money and status?Who wants to be beta bucks? Betas are used and desired for their money and stability, not raw pussy tingles. Raw pussy tingles are really the only real genuine attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 06:53 PM |
| 5 | [Q4M] Do you wish women weren’t so obsessed with money and status?Showing up for dinner sounds like “doing” something. Lol. Yeah. Sure. Dolling yourself up and showing up for free drinks and food must have really exerted it's toll on you. Women have it so hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 06:31 PM |
| 5 | [Q4M] Do you wish women weren’t so obsessed with money and status?And yet, there arent too many women lining up to raw fuck those beta computer programming dorks inventing all those cool things, are they? You enjoy the technological inovation and stability that betas bring to the world but you'd still rather fuck the good looking bad boys who don't invent or innovate because they inspire raw pussy tingles while betas unfortunately don't. Don't get me wrong, im sure you enjoy betas for what they invent and | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 06:28 PM |
| 3 | Feminism its own worst enemy by ignoring / excusing hypergamy.Wouldn't it be great then for the Fat Acceptance crowd to get called out on trying to change male sexual preference? Men like what they like, shouldn't the fat hambeasts either get to work or stfu? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 06:18 PM |
| 3 | Feminism its own worst enemy by ignoring / excusing hypergamy.Lol c'mom, you know he's probably right about that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Feminism its own worst enemy by ignoring / excusing hypergamy.Tell that to those feminists who insist that any form of hetero PIV is inherently 'rape' by default. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Feminism its own worst enemy by ignoring / excusing hypergamy.Marriage is declining and cohabitation is increasing. Women often choose men that earn less because money matters less because women can work now. Doesn't this supoort the RP assertion that because women earn their own money now, they now look for traits in men that are more alpha and lesa beta? Men who could be unemployed or on drugs but because they're physically attractive and inspire pussy tingles women choose them over the meek beta dork who makes 6 figures with his STEM job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Feminism its own worst enemy by ignoring / excusing hypergamy.Why are the mods always switching posts that clearly werent made to be a CMV into a CMV? Just because someone makes an assertion or a statement doesn't necessarily mean that person is looking to have that particular posts challenged or anything, sometimes people just want to generate a discussion about something controversial without dismantling the topic by having it challenged and therefore refuted. Honestly, i feel like you guys pull this shit in an effort to control the course of the discuss… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 05:52 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Will Women ever be to empathize with Incels?That doesn't make them a 'movement'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/18 02:07 AM |
| 4 | [Q4All] Will Women ever be to empathize with Incels?Lol a 'movement'. That's not what it is at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/18 05:19 PM |
| 1 | [CMV] RP men are responsible for the decline they are now trying to enjoyExactly. I'm not disagreeing with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/18 03:25 AM |
| 1 | [CMV] RP men are responsible for the decline they are now trying to enjoyIf a guy (as opposed to his provisioning) actually inspires emotions of comfort and affection he's got enough Alpha in him to keep a lot of women What? Hell no. What I'm saying is the caring/affectionate trait is associated with beta traits, not alpha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/18 02:00 AM |
| 1 | [CMV] RP men are responsible for the decline they are now trying to enjoylol. Okay. Sure. Pretty sure you didn't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/18 10:42 PM |
| 1 | [CMV] RP men are responsible for the decline they are now trying to enjoyYou're right, you in particular may not have in this particular post, but i was mainly referring to the general trend I've seen from blues. But wouldn't you agree that "high beta" is a hijacked term? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/18 10:24 PM |
| 2 | [CMV] RP men are responsible for the decline they are now trying to enjoyI just think it's funny the way RP critics attempt to hijack RP terminology to discredit RP, such as "high beta" to justify why RP's version is false or inaccurate.. To be fair, I am mainly using it to describe black and white "attractive vs unattractive* like the way you yourself mentioned earlier. But to me, that's pretty much all there really is to it. From my experience and observation men are simplified into basic categories when it comes to raw sexuak attraction - the alphas and the betas.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/18 10:10 PM |
| 3 | [CMV] RP men are responsible for the decline they are now trying to enjoyThe baseline here for female attraction if you buy into RP and want to generalize women is masculine, not “psychopathic alpha criminal.” The RP argument is that most (western) men are lacking in that baseline masculinity. Do you agree or disagree? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/18 09:31 PM |
| 1 | [CMV] RP men are responsible for the decline they are now trying to enjoyBut others (including me), look at it as traits rather than a description of men. That is why you will see some on this sub saying you need both alpha/beta traits to be a good LTR partner. And since when do bloops and women get to decide what their version of what alpha/beta means? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/18 09:30 PM |
| 3 | Virgins by 24I am a male virgin with high sex drive and it doesn't bother me at all. Good for you. Just understand that you're experience is more of an exception than a rule, therefore holding little weight compared to the overall trend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/18 06:12 PM |
| 0 | Virgins by 24but I still feel okay about it. She seems to be doing just fine by her own admission. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/18 05:57 PM |
| 3 | Virgins by 24Try having male hormones and a sex drive that drives you up a wall if you're not regularly having your sexual needs met. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/18 05:25 PM |
| 5 | Virgins by 24I acknowledge that it's a choice to adhere to my religion No offense, but this is probably the most lame and most frustrating reason as to why someone hasn't been laid. It almost seems like you're allowing yourself to being held prisoner by some quack and outdated religious notions surrounding sex when there's no real reason to. It just makes me hard to sympathize with people who are unhappily virgins because of what they themselves impose upon themselves by adhering to some religious belief. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/18 05:21 PM |
| 2 | What do men misunderstand about women the most? What do women misunderstand about men the most?I’ve heard some on here talk about how men’s status and behavior is viscerally arousing - how it can transcend his physical appearance. That's bull. Status and behavior are a whole different set of attraction than raw visceral arousal from seeing someone good looking . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/18 11:45 AM |
| 3 | What do men misunderstand about women the most? What do women misunderstand about men the most?Women are generally more shallow about status - money, power, standing amongst peers, etc. Men are generally more shallow about looks. Women are just as shallow about men's looks too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/18 11:41 AM |
| -1 | What do men misunderstand about women the most? What do women misunderstand about men the most?Men misunderstand the way attraction works for women, judging by many comments around here. They seem to believe it works the same as it does for men, which I think is generally not the case. I strongly believe this is false. Women attraction to men is very similar to men's attraction to women. It's really annoying seeing women/BP continue to deny it though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/18 11:38 AM |
| 5 | The Easiest and Most Effective Solution to The "Incel Problem" is Legalizing ProstitutionWomen want a man, not a little boy with mommy needs, fact is, most of the equality preaching is just lip service, women want a man to look up and who protects them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/18 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Girls making men wait for sex, and guys not moving on.Lol "cornered" me. That's rich. If you want to pat yourself on the head and tell yourself you won then feel free too. But you still didn't address any of my arguments, sorry but throwing a temper tantrum and hurling insults doesn't make you right or clever. All you've demonstrated here is that you lack the inellect and maturity to actually formulate an argument. That's on you, not me. I explained to you my reasoning, but you failed to explain yours. The onus was on you, not me. But sure, go ahea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/18 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Of 27 Deadliest Mass Shooters, 26 of Them Were FatherlessThe onus is on you to back up your argument and provide proof because you're the one making a ridiculous claim. "Google it" is such a lame copout. At least try and debate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/18 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Girls making men wait for sex, and guys not moving on.Yes, I gave you several that utterly shredded your logic LMAO no you didn't. All you did was screech like a harpy and call me an asshole. That's not 'shredding' anything. Man you're funny. "we bros are so rational and you feemails/manginas are so emotional" derailment tactic doesn't pass for an argument for me, But you are being emotional hence all the insults you've hurled at me. Name calling doesn't pass for argument. Give me an actual argument that's full of logic instead of your emotional fe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/18 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Of 27 Deadliest Mass Shooters, 26 of Them Were FatherlessYou've yet to provide me with actual concrete proof that pullout works. Just because some dumbasses at planned parenthood told you that doesn't make it scientific. Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/18 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Of 27 Deadliest Mass Shooters, 26 of Them Were FatherlessThere's no way it's 96% effective. Whoever is telling you that is full of shit and don't know wtf they're talking about. Seriously, that's one of the most retarded things I've heard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/18 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Of 27 Deadliest Mass Shooters, 26 of Them Were FatherlessPeople like you are the reason there's so many dysfunctional and unwanted kids. You'd probably act all surprised with a dumb look on your face upon discovering the pull out method didn't work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/18 04:30 PM |
| 2 | Of 27 Deadliest Mass Shooters, 26 of Them Were FatherlessThere's been some debate here on the merits of financial abortion for men. Since men and women seem keen on blaming wach other for breeding dysfunctional kids, wouldnt this be a viable option? If daddy bails but she insists on keeping it, then it becomes her problem when little Jr becomes a mass murderer. Men keeping it in their pants? How about women keep their legs closed, why do only women get to fuck around like a horny bonobo without consequence? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/18 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Girls making men wait for sex, and guys not moving on.Oh man, I know your buddies told you it's a great idea to keep parroting "I'm so rational and everyone who disproves my arguments is an emotional feemail/mangina" but you'll quickly find that tactic doesn't work in any kind of rational environment. You haven't been able to adequately address any of the points I'm making. Just more name calling and screeching like a harpy. Surely if anyone here lacks rantional thought, it is you my dear. You know, just because you desperately repeat your bros' ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/18 10:37 AM |
| 2 | Of 27 Deadliest Mass Shooters, 26 of Them Were FatherlessWidely accepted statistic? Says who? Apparently planned parenthood doesn't have the brightest people. Also, pre-ejaculate most likely does not contain viable sperm. You might want to go back to school. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/18 09:36 AM |
| 2 | Of 27 Deadliest Mass Shooters, 26 of Them Were FatherlessFucking A, if Planned Parenthood is really giving out that kind of shitty, non-practical 'advice' then perhaps they deserve to have their funding slashed. News flash: sperm still travels from a man's penis even when he hasn't cummed yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/18 05:26 AM |
| 2 | Of 27 Deadliest Mass Shooters, 26 of Them Were FatherlessLol my ass. It's still a very irresponsible way of preventing pregnancy. Are you being serious here? Because I honestly feel like I'm speaking to an ignorant teenager. Where are your sources that it only has a 4% failure rate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/18 05:09 AM |
| 1 | There is no grand conspiracy. CMV.I bet if Chad offered his seat you'd be all stoked and feel pleasant, but when crusty old men do it it makes you feel uggh. Lovely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/18 03:49 AM |
| 4 | Of 27 Deadliest Mass Shooters, 26 of Them Were FatherlessWhy can't we at least see what was posted? Sometimes the shit flinging around here is hilarious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/18 03:06 AM |
| 2 | Of 27 Deadliest Mass Shooters, 26 of Them Were FatherlessI take it you didn't take sex ed in school? Pulling out is far from a sure way of preventing pregnancies. That's a pretty lame retort, tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/18 03:03 AM |
| 4 | Of 27 Deadliest Mass Shooters, 26 of Them Were FatherlessMen are trying to get laid with whoever is interested, that's why the onus is on women to better vett potential partners. There's a reason we say women are the gatekeepers to sex. The deadbeats wouldn't be getting laid and knocking women up if women weren't agreeing to have sex with them in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/18 11:54 PM |
| 3 | Of 27 Deadliest Mass Shooters, 26 of Them Were FatherlessNot a legit argument, anyone with any common sense or intelligence can see a link between banana pudding enthusiast and the decimation of the Cavendish banana. Lol what? That's such a weak retort. You know damn well I'm making a solid point but you have to bring up weird things about bannas and pudding just to appear clever. There's been academic research into the cause and effect of feminism looking into these things, and one of the trends that has been repeatedly noticed is the decline of the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/18 11:51 PM |
| 3 | Of 27 Deadliest Mass Shooters, 26 of Them Were FatherlessWomen choose to mate with said deadbeats, so... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/18 11:45 PM |
| 4 | Of 27 Deadliest Mass Shooters, 26 of Them Were FatherlessTo be taken to task they'd have to believe in all the casual links ya'll have established, and I have feeling they don't. Of course they don't, because they're incapable of ever seeing themselves in the wrong even when they are. What's it to them, and what's it to you, that they admit ownership of a problem that's mutlifaceted? Not saying they have to take complete ownership, but just acknowledge the critical role they've played in creating the situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/18 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Girls making men wait for sex, and guys not moving on.lol coming from a guy who's literally ending every paragraph throwing random insults that have nothing to do with anything in order to avoid addressing actual arguments. Come on. I really don't give a damn about a redpiller trying to insult me, but don't make it so that I can literally remove the whole insult and lose nothing in your whole comment. ?? Im onky making a fair point. You're coming from a position of emotional irrationality. Not good state of mind to debate you know. You're the one w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/18 11:40 PM |
| 7 | Of 27 Deadliest Mass Shooters, 26 of Them Were FatherlessAnyone with a shred of intelligence, common sense, and who's not in denial can see as clear as day the link between feminism and the decline of the family unit/increase in fatherless homes, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/18 11:03 PM |
| 6 | Of 27 Deadliest Mass Shooters, 26 of Them Were FatherlessWomen are the ones who open their legs to the deadbeats, so... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/18 10:25 PM |
| 2 | Of 27 Deadliest Mass Shooters, 26 of Them Were Fatherless....of course, it's always men's fault, right? As for unplanned pregnancies, if only abortion was legal..oh wait... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/18 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Of 27 Deadliest Mass Shooters, 26 of Them Were FatherlessFatherless households raise fucked up boys. ok. But I don't think that's the fault of feminism LMAO! Boy that's rich. I guess feminism isn't at fault for anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/18 10:22 PM |
| 6 | Of 27 Deadliest Mass Shooters, 26 of Them Were FatherlessBecause women are being pumped n dumped and left as poor single mothers, and frustrated young men are shooting up schools and plowing vans into public gatherings. Feminists may not feel like they need to explian anything, but it would probably behoove them do some explaining on their part | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/18 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Girls making men wait for sex, and guys not moving on.Women often lie about what they like. Shocker I know, but don't rule that out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/18 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Girls making men wait for sex, and guys not moving on.Except they don't, for reasons I already explained, and parroting conspiracy-like wording isn't helping your case. You didn't explain shit. All you did was screech and call me names because you didn't like what i was saying, but I'm reasonable and here to learn new things. In case i missed something somewhere, explain to me exactly how women don't hold sexual power over men? You deny that men are the ones expected to initiate the first move, escalate, and hope to get somewhere with women? Sure s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/18 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Girls making men wait for sex, and guys not moving on.You're being naive or in denial that women also employ their own sexual strategy and how they categorize men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/18 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Girls making men wait for sex, and guys not moving on.Again, please stop this bullshit. No-one is buying it. I know it's hard to admit to yourself that you're a selfish manipulative asshole, but it's easier than trying to do all these mental gymnastics in order to hide behind some fake emotional pity-inducing cover. Wharlt are you talking about? You sound off your hinges all you're doing is name calling and not making any solid argument manipulative egomaniacs like you who think you're under attack because women are having sex with men that aren't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/18 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Girls making men wait for sex, and guys not moving on.Where you're going wrong here is that it's not always about sex, and it's certainty not a "fake emotional" act. Yes, sex is an important way for men to feel wanted/desired, because womenbare the sexual gatekeepers. It's not that men are demanding a porn fantasy, many guys go for years and years without any female attention and most of them aren't exactly being picky Honestly, it's sounds more like you women are the ones getting their panties in a bunch because they've come to realize thay yes, m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/18 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Girls making men wait for sex, and guys not moving on.So basically guys learning sexual strategy = "manipulation"? Okay. Gotcha. Don't sit there and pretend that women don't also employ their own sexual strategy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/18 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Girls making men wait for sex, and guys not moving on.Have you ever considered that perhaps female solipsism prevents women from seeing it from another view of things? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/18 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Girls making men wait for sex, and guys not moving on.you're not getting your shitty porn fantasies fulfilled Lol what? Seriously? What are you on? That's not at all what it's about. For many men, it's simply about being accepted and wanted as actual people. Is this going to be one of those times when guys like you try to project your entitled, selfish egomaniacal behavior onto women and women just look in disbelief at how pathetic you are? Is that a yes or no? I'm not projecting anything but simply restating the same argument(s) that's been made b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/18 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Girls making men wait for sex, and guys not moving on.Why getting those so emotional? You disagree that women categorize one type of man from another? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/18 10:22 PM |
| 2 | [Q4All]Vett yourself a high quality partner....what im saying is mainstream narrative propagates the idealistic fantasy of it, hence why you got a lot of confused and angry guys doing things like PUA/TRP,.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/18 09:34 PM |
| 2 | [Q4All]Vett yourself a high quality partner.Hence why the idea of marriage itself it largely an idealistic fantasy that's best avoided, wouldn't you agree? In that sense RP is pretty spot on. Marriage is a sham. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/18 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: personally, how does it feel to be the object of desire of men, the reason why men kill, fight, start wars, build empires, aspire to become movie stars, powerful CEO's, etc, and overall why many men completely lose their shit when they can't get you?That's not even counting the damage that male desire can do to women, and the fear it often causes. I know I'm way late to the party here, but what exactly is this supposed to mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/18 06:19 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Are men less masculine today?You can move. My home here in Denver has a much wider range of "ideal" masculinity (and more women who might be attracted to your personal brand of it) Can you elaborate more on this out of curiosity? than somewhere like where my grandparents lived 3 hours south of Atlanta where the talk of the town was how they had recently installed their second stop light. This made me lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/18 09:21 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Are men less masculine today?I didn't move any goalposts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/18 09:20 PM |
| 5 | [Q4W] Are men less masculine today?It's not just white men. The Virginia tech shooter was asian as was elliot rodger (though technically half). Also consider the it's not exactly a secret that radical islam often recruites from a pool of sexually frustrated men. That should tell you something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/18 09:11 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Are men less masculine today?Waiting for the culture to change to accommodate a more wider range of ideal masculinity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/18 08:18 PM |
| 2 | [Q4W] Are men less masculine today?Everyone has their own personal truth, but then there's also the objective truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/18 08:17 PM |
| 2 | [Q4W] Are men less masculine today?In that case, if it's not so much a niche then you're probably a good looking chad. A blooper feminist chad perhaps but a chad nonetheless. In that case, you're not much in a position to be sitting there dictacting what's masculine or not because women are going to like you no matter what. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/18 08:16 PM |
| 6 | [Q4W] Are men less masculine today?You're a minorty among men who found a niche of women who appreciate guys like you. You're not the majority of cases. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/18 07:25 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Are men less masculine today?Even if you're using that argument (which is weak), it's not practical for young men wanting to learn sexual strategy to wait around for decades waiting for the culture to change, and right now chest beating 'toxic' masculinity is what the ideal is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/18 06:57 PM |
| 6 | [Q4W] Are men less masculine today?You have to admit there really is a masculinity crisis. If there wasn't, you wouldn't have things like PUA/TRP or angry frustrated young men shooting up their college in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/18 06:55 PM |
| 8 | [Q4W] Are men less masculine today?Women respond sexually to the agressive chest beaters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/18 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Girls making men wait for sex, and guys not moving on.In a sense yeah, but people have never been fully honest about it. I'm talking about society being upfront and blunt with the fact that men and women's relationship is transactional. So you'd be favor of legalizing prostitution? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/18 06:03 PM |
| 7 | Girls making men wait for sex, and guys not moving on.You gotta admit though, it's funny watching them lose their shit and start throwing the gay labels out there. It's their only weapon, really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/18 07:00 AM |
| 1 | Girls making men wait for sex, and guys not moving on.I don't doubt that people can genuinely stop liking something, but i believe those cases are in the minority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/18 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Girls making men wait for sex, and guys not moving on.That won't happen. More likely that men will just adopt a more transactional relationship with women. You get your money, and we get to boink you. Win win. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/18 06:56 AM |
| 1 | Girls making men wait for sex, and guys not moving on.He doesn't have to wait, she doesn't have to have sex before she wants to. It's not really hard -- if it's a deal breaker then either is free to break the deal. If you're not compatible you're not compatible. It sounds simple. But people are generally selfish and insecure, they want to get things out of other people and if that involves lying about intentions and breaking hearts, so be it. Hence why guys pump n' dump and why women string along betas | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/18 02:39 AM |
| 5 | Girls making men wait for sex, and guys not moving on.Believe us the feeling is mutual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/18 02:35 AM |
| 3 | Girls making men wait for sex, and guys not moving on.Why is it wrong for guys to be upset that she did things with other men that she won't do with her current partner? You can label it however you'd like (immaturity, insecurity, whatever) but at the end kf the day it only shows that she doesn't value her partner as much as the previous dick she was riding. I'm so women would also be upset to find out their current bf was doing way more 'relationshipy' things with previous girls he isn't doing with her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/18 02:34 AM |
| 2 | [CMV] Its unproductive to care if the girl made you wait longer than the other guy.But as someone else mentioned, it's a terrible idea to comparre job hunting to seeking out sex/companionship. The two aren't anywhere near the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/18 04:30 AM |
| 1 | [CMV] Its unproductive to care if the girl made you wait longer than the other guy.Yes, when she makes you wait longer she is offering you a worse deal, however that doesnt mean thats the deal not worth taking. How is a worse deal worth taking?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/18 03:40 AM |
| 2 | Dating experiences of attractive men validate TRP?That makes no sense. RP already lays it out clearly how non-chadly guys compare to chad in their experiences with women. Most men already have trouble with women with there onkly being 10-20% chads around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/18 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Dating experiences of attractive men validate TRP?How is that us being 'lucky'? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/18 06:46 PM |
| 5 | The need to be desired vs the need to be lovedBullshit. Women are just as sexual and objectifying as men. Can you please explain how it's any different? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/18 12:34 AM |
| 2 | The need to be desired vs the need to be lovedYou just agreed with atlas that women want to be wanted in a sexual sense, doesn't chad eyefucking you show you that you're wanted? And how exactly is that any different from women eyefucking chad? What am i missing here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/18 12:29 AM |
| 3 | The need to be desired vs the need to be lovedAm i missing something here? You're telling me women don't notice attractive men and even flirt with them? You're telling me women don't feel good about themselves when Chad eye-fucks or flirts with them? That's being wanted, isn't it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/18 12:23 AM |
| 3 | Dating experiences of attractive men validate TRP?Oh don't get me wrong, just to clarify, I know there are also attractive chads who are BP as fuck and it ultimately screws them over. I was only giving an example of a chad who's also not a brainwashed BP simp. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/18 12:21 AM |
| 7 | The need to be desired vs the need to be lovedSo then why is male sexuality (seeing women and being attracted to them, wantingb o fuck them, admiring their bodies, etc) met with so much scorn by society at large? Rape culture hysteria and 'meetoo'? Yiu yourself say that it's important for women to feel wanted in a sexual sense, men want this too, but women often send men conflicting messages when they say they prefer sex to happen in an LTR/romantic context yet they eye-fuck Chad and get the pussy tingles when chad flirts back..all in a raw… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/18 12:19 AM |
| 13 | Dating experiences of attractive men validate TRP?I think attractive men tend to be more mentally blue pill quite often, because they don't "need" game. Wrong. Attractive chads like my buddy quickly realize all too well how on point RP is when it comes to how women behave in certain ways. When you regularly have married women and the such hooking up with you or sending you very obvious IOI's, they quickly come to the 'bitches ain't loyal' conclusion that you'll hear a lot of hip-hop artisits say as a trope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/18 12:08 AM |
| 9 | Dating experiences of attractive men validate TRP?I believe the reason is that these threads very much validate alpha fucks. This is exactly what it is. Women sexually objectify men the same way men objectify women. Some women have been honest about this, but for most of them? Don't expect them to be honest about that, they'll keep insisting that it's not true even as they eye-fuck and flirt with the Chad they're just meeting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/18 12:04 AM |
| 1 | [Discussion]Young Feminists Rejecting Sex with Nu-Males, going for broke old guys instead.You can't preach from the altar about how evil and dangerous male domination while seeking that same thing out to satisfy sexual urges. The contradiction comes when they make pretty black and white - spouting this narrative that any degree of dominant masculinity is toxic and unhealthy, it's not like they're adding in the nuance "but some dominance and masculinity is okay". No, they tendsl to say that any form of that is bad bad. The contradiction is everywhere. You, like always, are just playin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/18 05:28 PM |
| 13 | [Discussion]Young Feminists Rejecting Sex with Nu-Males, going for broke old guys instead.Isn't it also interesting how young liberal feminist women are ways harping about the patriarchy, rape culture, toxic masculinity and metoo are also the same women who want to be hog tied and spanked silly by a dominate masculine man? Women say one thing but do something completely different. Can't blame guys for being confused. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/18 12:56 PM |
| 1 | The State of The SubredditI agree. Out of all the blues they could have tapped to be a mod did they really feel BiggerD was their best choice? I'm just totally flabbergasted by it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/18 07:34 PM |
| 1 | The State of The SubredditNone of the new mods had a vote on any of the other new mods. So then shouldn't there be a new/different referendum on who's going to be a mod if there's a different set of people all together? Yes. Does any of that affect his ability to mod? I would say it does. You're being naive if you think he's going to be completely 100% unbiased and fair. Not claiming that. But you could at least give l him a chance. I am fairly familiar with BiggerD, he has been active a long time and most have it has be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/18 07:00 PM |
| 1 | The State of The SubredditIf you honestly can't tell, then it's no surpise that he ended becoming a mod. Apparently you guys have some horrible judgment when it comes to who should and shouldn't be a mod. The dude's a smartass troll who shifts goal posts and plays dumb when people challenge him and who regualry mocks RP users/ideas. But hey, you guys are the wise men who know whats best, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/18 06:44 PM |
| 3 | The State of The Subredditthere is no reason to think he's going to be biased. Don't be naive, just look at his post history. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/18 06:34 PM |
| 3 | The State of The SubredditI was reffering to the way he's open and tolerant to ideas/viewpoints that are different from his own. About as much as Mussolini. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/18 05:43 PM |
| 6 | The State of The SubredditHonestly i couldn't really give you one, but it's painfully obvious that BiggerD is NOT the solution. You don't take out a fly with a bazooka. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/18 04:53 PM |
| 8 | The State of The SubredditI'm certainly NOT seeing any mods being biased along the red/blue axis. The mod team thus far has been somewhat reasonable imo, but, no offense, you're being naive and should open your eyes more if you think making someone like BiggerD a mod is a good idea - just take a look at his post history. You can easily tell he harbors a grudge against red leaning users/ideas. Honestly someone like GinSmokeLies would have probably made a better mod because she at least seems more reasonable and open to an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/18 04:27 PM |
| 10 | The State of The SubredditI'm telling you that I doubt this will happen because realistically he should not have been made a mod in the first place. Pretty much nominating Mussolini for the Supreme Court. Y'all could have picked any other person who isn't known for trollish antics to be a mod but somehow you settled for BiggerD. If that's really the case then it tells me the mod team is already in a questionable state as it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/18 04:18 PM |
| 11 | The State of The SubredditJust give it some time. He'll soon be removing posts and using the ban hammer for anything he personally disagrees with or finds distatesful under the guise of 'circlejerking' or some other thing even if the posts in question aren't violating any rules while using his position as a mod to justify it. Again, bad move. Might as well make GLO, Rollo, or Roosh V a mod as well to counteract the horrible blue pill troll that BiggerD really is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/18 03:55 PM |
| 24 | The State of The SubredditBiggerDThanYou is now a mod? Lol. Great. That's pretty much like making Rush Limbaugh or Alex Jones a mod on a debate platform because they're totally non-biased and non-trollish. Can't see how he could have qualified to be a mod given that his 'debate' skills consist of being a smartass, twisting words, playing dumb, and changing goal posts whenever other user's challenge him. Bad move guys. Expect the quality of the sub to decline now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/18 03:49 PM |
| 1 | What are the best options for unattractive men?No shit right? And funny how later she says this - " Plus some girls actually want to have an enjoyable sex life." Does she not realize that men also want this for themselves? Why is okay for women to feel it's within reason for them to have standards and preferences in a mate but men need to "get over" things if they're coming up short in their lot in life? Gotta love the blatant double standard hypocrisy, what makes it more rich though is that she's likely unaware of her biased hypocritical ou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/18 11:05 AM |
| 1 | CMV: It takes more 'social courage' these days for the average heterosexual man to be honest about his sexuality than it does for a homosexual, bisexual, etc. person to be honest about theirs."I know you are but what am I?" Ok. Sure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/18 09:00 PM |
| 1 | CMV: It takes more 'social courage' these days for the average heterosexual man to be honest about his sexuality than it does for a homosexual, bisexual, etc. person to be honest about theirs.No, im simply telling you that for most people they don't care to see or hear it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/18 08:24 PM |
| 1 | CMV: It takes more 'social courage' these days for the average heterosexual man to be honest about his sexuality than it does for a homosexual, bisexual, etc. person to be honest about theirs.Who the hell is getting this stuff thrown in their face all the time? The whole bathroom bill thing is an example of the LGBT crowd insisting on putting their lifestyle in the faces of others, wouldn't you agree? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/18 07:52 PM |
| 1 | CMV: It takes more 'social courage' these days for the average heterosexual man to be honest about his sexuality than it does for a homosexual, bisexual, etc. person to be honest about theirs.Why should people be forced to keep their lifestyle to themselves? Because no one wants to see that disgusting shit. Live your life the way you want to. More power to you. But don't sit there and make a spectacle of yourself because you feel the need to be validated for your life choices. That's all I'm saying. It's not like the everyday normal person is putting out press releases about their sexuality No but it's being pushed upon by the MSM who clearly have an agenda. The whole bathroom fiasco… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/18 07:46 PM |
| 1 | CMV: It takes more 'social courage' these days for the average heterosexual man to be honest about his sexuality than it does for a homosexual, bisexual, etc. person to be honest about theirs.I'd argue homosexuality isn't so normal. There are more straight people than gay people, reproduction happens through heterosexuality, etc...it's normal while being gay isn't so normal hence why everyone makes a big deal about being gay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/18 07:36 PM |
| 2 | CMV: It takes more 'social courage' these days for the average heterosexual man to be honest about his sexuality than it does for a homosexual, bisexual, etc. person to be honest about theirs.What about hetero people who don't keep it "behind closed doors"? Heterosexuality is normal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/18 07:18 PM |
| 1 | CMV: It takes more 'social courage' these days for the average heterosexual man to be honest about his sexuality than it does for a homosexual, bisexual, etc. person to be honest about theirs.I don't think it's a matter of being "afraid to accept" rather it's more that people are weary and tired of having the shit thrown in our faces all the time. Its like, we get it, if you want to chop off your balls and get boob implants and trip yourself up into believing you're female go ahead...just keep your lifestyle to yourself, don't be throwing it in people's faces, and don't try and convince others that your lifestyle is in any way normal because it's not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/18 07:16 PM |
| 3 | [Q4BP] Why is it bad to want a woman who will cook and clean?The thing is men who exhibit anything other than traditional masculine characteristics are little more than effeminate. Breaking free of gender roles and expectations is a luxury for women, men don't have much room to maneuver around because men are still expected to adhere to their gender roles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/18 07:05 AM |
| 3 | [Q4BP] Why is it bad to want a woman who will cook and clean?Stoic, calm under pressure, emotions held in check, physically fit, ready to throw down in a fight if it ever came to that, etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/18 11:01 PM |
| 3 | [Q4BP] Why is it bad to want a woman who will cook and clean?Elaborate please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/18 04:55 PM |
| 3 | [Q4BP] Why is it bad to want a woman who will cook and clean?or for a man to not want to be stereotypically masculine. Men don't really have a choice in this regard. To not be "stereotypically masculine" is to basically not be a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/18 04:18 PM |
| 205 | I'd rather fuck a man.It's really a wonder why there aren't more men willing to fight for their dignity and self-respect, given that these are the kind of women that make up the culture these days. Are men really that brainwashed and pussy whipped? I guess so. When I hear stories like this, it's no wonder why some dudes just totally snap and proceed to shoot up their school, it's also a wonder how men as a collective group could have allowed themselves to become so spineless and subservient to women and their imperat… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/18 03:29 AM |
| 1 | It’s not easy to just have sexKarma is a myth. Might as well tell me you believe in Santa Clause. Broadcasting an avoidance? I do my best to smile, be communicate, and open myself up to people as much as possible. Explain that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/18 03:18 AM |
| 1 | It’s not easy to just have sexEven low-SMV women still hold out for good looking chads. Explain that. I've gone out of my way to approach women whom I didn't find particularly attractive still reject me. I'm talking chubby, divorced, underemployed women who felt like they could do better. Explain that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/18 02:09 AM |
| 0 | It’s not easy to just have sexSure, but that doesn't really change anything regarding the overall dynamics of the SMP. Being hit on by post-wall divorced middle aged women doesn't comfort me, it only tells me that my SMV isn't high enough to be hit on by the kind of women I'd like hitting on me - attractive young women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/18 01:25 AM |
| 1 | It’s not easy to just have sexDo you spend time around women? And in what venues? I guess I do have some advantages that most people don't have, I'll grant that. Yes, in school, work, and bars/bar-like places. I don't have women hitting on me regularly. Neither do most of the men that I see attending these same places. I guess I do have some advantages that most people don't have, I'll grant that. There you go. Please realize that most ment aren't exactly in any kind of advantageous situation. Looks are probably an advantage… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/18 01:22 AM |
| 3 | It’s not easy to just have sexAs far as women being the gatekeepers of sex, I can always turn down a girl who wants me, Lol doesn't this illustrate that you're a rather attractive guy for you to be in a position to reject women you're not interested in? Most men really aren't in this position. Because most men aren't attractive as you. Once again, projection...and solipsism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/18 10:20 PM |
| 1 | It’s not easy to just have sexI disagree. I think your mindset is what is causing you difficulties. Adjusting your mindset isn't going to compensate for subpar looks. Even blues here on this sub have admitted that there's a minimum threshold for physical looks. You not experiencing female interest is because you don't put yourself out there in the appropriate venues for women to express interest in you. Tell that to all the guys who have done EXACTLY THAT and it still got them nowhere... Also you pedestalizing me is not good… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/18 10:12 PM |
| 3 | It’s not easy to just have sexI have to call bullshit here. Most men really don't have women showing obvious signs of interest in them. I have to agree with the other poster, if you and your buddies get regularly get hit on by women then I think it's safe to assume that you guys are probably above average in looks and of course women are going to notice attractive guys in a sea of average/ugly guys and they're going to be a lot more open to you compared to most men. It's sounds like hardcore projection on your part. Most guy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/18 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Virginity and Shamingno they don't, most kids lose it to some high school boyfriend or girlfriend: I think you're greatly underestimating the amount of guys who never hook up. The Kinsey Institute repurposes and discusses 2017 data from the CDC, which says the average age of first intercourse in men is 16.8, while women, on average, have intercourse for the first time at 17.2. The problem with this data is that it's self-reported and frankly I don't trust people to be honest about these sorts of things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/18 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Male Virginity and ShameAnything specific you want to know, like commenter demographic or age they finally shared their virginity? Sure, mainly im looking to see into the extent of female "inceldom" because we always hear it here in this sub and elshwere that women cant ever be truly 'incel' the way men are and if they are, the extent to which their stigmatized for it. I mean, do women really tease and frown at other women who haven't had dick yet? Is there just as much pressure for women to become sexually experienced… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/18 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Male Virginity and ShameYes, I would like to hear from you on that post. Honestly, I'm genuinely curious to know if women really experience the kind of shamming men go through on a regular. You claim it's happened to you and others you know, I believe you, but I'm curious to know if this tends to happen to women as a general rule. We know it happens to guys but women? Like I said it seems like women are given more leeway and a social pass for being awkward, inexperienced virgins. If you have any additional input on thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/18 03:21 AM |
| 2 | She wants you to sell her something, she doesn’t want to know what it is, and she’s going to be really picky about.Like others have mentioed already in this thread, context comes into play here. If a woman if being direct in a passive agressive (or even just agressive), bitchy, or snarky way, then yeah you'll find few men willing to stomach that. If women do it in a way that's more open, sincere, and communicative then you'll get a different response. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/18 03:11 AM |
| 2 | She wants you to sell her something, she doesn’t want to know what it is, and she’s going to be really picky about.That's some huge mental hamstering there. I think guys would like it more if you were direct. Women and their ambiguity and plausible deniability has always been a frustrating thing for men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/18 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Male Virginity and Shamebecause you're seen as lacking in social skills, awkward, prudish, or just plain weird. How often does this happen to women though? Seriously. I find it strange that a woman would even find herself still a virgin at 25+ years old given that women always have sexual opportunities available. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/18 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Male Virginity and ShameI get your point(s), but are you getting mine? You make it seem like male and female virginity and the stigma associated with it are equivalent when I'm trying to explain to you that they're not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/18 11:19 PM |
| 3 | Male Virginity and ShameMy comment simply reflected that both are shamed now, because it supposedly denotes a type of "loserdom". But my point is women are less shammed for it, any shamming towards women now is relatively new. It's not inherent as it is in men That being said, I still believe that women are way more likely to get a pass on it. Hell, people would probably be open to actually help you get better, with all the fat acceptance/body positivity thing going in their favor women who feel shy, unwanted, and unat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/18 06:51 PM |
| 5 | Male Virginity and ShameI'm not doubting your personal experience, but I am saying that as a general rule women are more easily forgiven for being an adult virgin than men are. For men, being 'outed' as a virgin is essentially the kiss of death socially. If there were any women in your circle who may have been considering you, they're not anymore. A man who hasn't had sex is a red flag, it's basically signalling that said man must be defective and unfuckable, maladjusted, not quite on par socially...basically a loser w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/18 12:31 PM |
| 15 | Male Virginity and ShameThe stigma is moslty towarda men though. Female virginity has historically been viewed as a positive thing (chaste, intact, unspoiled, etc) and even now it's not really frowned on as nearly as much as male virginity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/18 06:37 AM |
| 1 | A new perspective on dating Beta nerdsYes, silly me forgot to include this quote. My bad. Or is there no solution, and many men are just not going to be loved for who they are instead of what they provide? But yeah I think that's the more likely scenario. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/18 10:10 PM |
| 1 | A new perspective on dating Beta nerdsCall me cynical but I think thia is the more likely scenario. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/18 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Interesting data about disparities in sentencing between male vs. female teachers who take advantage of their students (statutory rape).Then it's not rape, is it? SO what point are you trying to make here? Well, if the genders are reversed it suddenly becomes 'rape'. Why? Are teen girls not just as capable as teen boys of making conscious decisions to have sex? The whole point of the OP was that female teachers get lighter sentences in these cases where's men tend to have the full book thrown at him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/18 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Interesting data about disparities in sentencing between male vs. female teachers who take advantage of their students (statutory rape).Yes, and the kid wasn't being held hostage | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/18 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Interesting data about disparities in sentencing between male vs. female teachers who take advantage of their students (statutory rape).Huh? Elaborate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/18 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone here actually know an 'incel' in real life (or someone similar to an incel)? Have you tried giving them advice or helping them in some way with their situation? How did it go?are you talking about this sub? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/18 05:03 PM |
| 4 | Does anyone here actually know an 'incel' in real life (or someone similar to an incel)? Have you tried giving them advice or helping them in some way with their situation? How did it go?If by “human,” you mean “an advanced monkey,” then yes. If you mean “human” in the way that people commonly use it to mean “something different from an animal,” then no, not really. Don't kid yourself man. Just because humans are relatively smary and can talk doesn't mean we're not any different from other animals on a biological level. You might be sad to hear that a vast number of animals whose species reproduced through penetrative sex never got to experience it. Lol I'm not sure how that's s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/18 07:40 AM |
| 11 | Does anyone here actually know an 'incel' in real life (or someone similar to an incel)? Have you tried giving them advice or helping them in some way with their situation? How did it go?I really wish this distinction was discussed more on this sub. Not everyone who struggles to get laid is a whiny entitled brat over it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/18 06:13 AM |
| 8 | Does anyone here actually know an 'incel' in real life (or someone similar to an incel)? Have you tried giving them advice or helping them in some way with their situation? How did it go?Secondly, I find it sad that people put sex on such a high pedestal as if it is the only thing which justifies their existence. It shouldn't be put on a pedestal (in theory), but at the same time it's one of the fundamental parts of being human. If you're perpetually incel/not having sex, you're essentially missing out on something that makes us human on this piece of shit rock called earth. Whether anyone has sex or not makes zero difference as to what happens on this rock, in this solar system… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/18 06:03 AM |
| 3 | Does anyone here actually know an 'incel' in real life (or someone similar to an incel)? Have you tried giving them advice or helping them in some way with their situation? How did it go?When i read posts like this, it makes me sad that there are men who are this low and downtrodden. What makes it worse is when they resign themselves to their station. At least buy a hooker to know what sex is like man, that way if you ever do get together with a woman she won't feel totally weird out about you being a 30+ year old virgin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/18 05:07 AM |
| 1 | A new perspective on dating Beta nerdsI guess, honestly the whole relationship thing has been spoiled for me post-RP. I'm not quite sure how to take that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/18 04:56 AM |
| 1 | A new perspective on dating Beta nerdsI doubt that would change things much, because men are divided on the issue of prostitution. Men want to be genuinely loved by women and buying a hooker doesn't provide that. If anything, paying for sex may only further hurt a man's self- esteem because it serves as a reminder and confirmation that he has to pay for a woman's intimacy...he has to pay for it...just think about that for a moment. Can you see how that can make guys who are struggling feel even more shitty about themselves? There's … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/18 04:45 AM |
| 2 | Being able to casual sex/ONS as a man and why it's important.What you see there is mainly the PUA types shitting on the guys who've decided that the juice is not worth the squeeze and so they choose to opt out of the game. Personally, i don't think guys who choose not to play the game should be painted with the same broad "unsucessful losers giving up" brush. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/18 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Being able to casual sex/ONS as a man and why it's important.MGTOW falls under the same "redpill" umbrella. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/18 03:30 AM |
| 8 | Being able to casual sex/ONS as a man and why it's important.How can you come to that conclusion? It seems pretty clear to me that if your partber made you wait while other guys didn't have to, she doesn't find you as attractive (as in pussy tingling attractive). Its totally understandable why guys would be sour over that and want to avoid that situation as much as possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/18 03:24 AM |
| 0 | The wreckage of Feminism is here and its hilarious.How can you pick apart a video you haven't watched?? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/18 02:22 AM |
| 1 | A new perspective on dating Beta nerdsBut my point (along with RP) is that is that relationships are overrated because it's about comfort and emotional availability rather than raw tingles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/18 09:27 PM |
| 3 | A new perspective on dating Beta nerdsThen don't you think it's kind of pointless and counterproductive to rely on beta qualities to attract women like you if yall are in the minority? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/18 09:25 PM |
| 3 | A new perspective on dating Beta nerdsDate different women. Those women are a minority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/18 09:20 PM |
| 1 | A new perspective on dating Beta nerdsSpot on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/18 09:18 PM |
| 2 | A new perspective on dating Beta nerdsSo in other words, your personal situation is more of an exception rather than a rule. TRP is about aiming for the rule, not the exceptions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/18 09:00 PM |
| 5 | A new perspective on dating Beta nerdsBetas, as you describe them, have a host of excellent qualities. Men, though, are more hung up on what really gives women the sexxy tingles and being able to do that. And as long as women keep favoring the tingles over the supposed 'good' qualities of a beta, the alpha model is going to be preffered choice for many men. Thing is, even if betas posses those things mentioed in the OP, in a sense they still are chumps because our current culture doesn't exactly do anything to encourage beta behavio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/18 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Interesting data about disparities in sentencing between male vs. female teachers who take advantage of their students (statutory rape).That kid was sad and depressed when she was locked up, and he appealed to the court for them to be able to have contact when he was old enough to appear in court. Doesn't that tell you that he was head over heels for her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/18 06:16 AM |
| 2 | Interesting data about disparities in sentencing between male vs. female teachers who take advantage of their students (statutory rape).I believe that's actually happened, I'll have to dig around for it but yeah they were trying to make the teen father responsible for child support. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/18 05:01 AM |
| 2 | Interesting data about disparities in sentencing between male vs. female teachers who take advantage of their students (statutory rape).It is not okay for adults to sexually exploit children who do not have full legal rights - end of discussion. But these aren't children, they're teenagers, historically teens have been considered adults. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/18 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Saturday Gender Wars Megathread (24 February 2018)Exactly. I'd find it hard to believe if a 25 yr old woman was insisting this was her 'first time' having sex casually or whatever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/18 12:49 AM |
| 2 | Interesting data about disparities in sentencing between male vs. female teachers who take advantage of their students (statutory rape).So then you can see why few people would consider these situations as 'rape' due to said different sexual organs and functions... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/18 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Interesting data about disparities in sentencing between male vs. female teachers who take advantage of their students (statutory rape).Yes, because women never want sex. They are pure and chaste. Losing your v-card isn't a thing for girls. I never made the claim that women don't love sex, did I? If anything, the fact that so many female teachers lust after their teenage students shows us that women are indeed just as sexual and horny as men. I've pointed that out many times in this sub but you'll still hear women and bloops insist otherwise. See, you make a huge assumption here - the attractive older teacher. If I was a kid hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/18 12:38 AM |
| 2 | Interesting data about disparities in sentencing between male vs. female teachers who take advantage of their students (statutory rape).Who/what are you talking about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/18 11:29 PM |
| 2 | Interesting data about disparities in sentencing between male vs. female teachers who take advantage of their students (statutory rape).You're basically saying we should look at the situations differently based on gender. That female students are somehow more 'vulnerable' compared to male students. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/18 11:29 PM |
| 2 | Interesting data about disparities in sentencing between male vs. female teachers who take advantage of their students (statutory rape).Well, they certainly can speak for themselves, but that's what I'm saying, it seems like they genuinely wanted to sex..we hardly hear any tales of it being really as traumatizing for these boys as you claim it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/18 10:26 PM |
| 3 | Interesting data about disparities in sentencing between male vs. female teachers who take advantage of their students (statutory rape).But doesnt the fact that hundrends of men saying they would have enjoyed it show us that...there's strong chance the boys will largely enjoy it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/18 10:24 PM |
| 3 | Interesting data about disparities in sentencing between male vs. female teachers who take advantage of their students (statutory rape).You don't comprehend the male psyche and sex drive. Trust us. Few guys would take a situation of his attractive older teacher coming onto him as a negative experience. I even read about one case where the boy's grades actually improved once he began banging his teacher. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/18 09:52 PM |
| 7 | Interesting data about disparities in sentencing between male vs. female teachers who take advantage of their students (statutory rape).Yes. If someone is in a position where they are forced to have sex, But from what it sounds like, these teen boys largely aren't being "forced" upon; they're choosing to actively engage in consensual sexual activity with their teachers. Teenage boys know what they want. As do these women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/18 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Interesting data about disparities in sentencing between male vs. female teachers who take advantage of their students (statutory rape).www.google.com/amp/www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-4118338/amp/Alexandria-Vera-Houston-teacher-sentenced-10-years-admitting-having-sex- In the case of this woman you'll see that the boy's family approved and actively encouraged the relationship. Teenage boys know what they wabt. As do these women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/18 08:01 PM |
| 3 | Interesting data about disparities in sentencing between male vs. female teachers who take advantage of their students (statutory rape)....and here comes all the BP bullshit excusing women's behavior with WaW. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/18 07:43 PM |
| 3 | Interesting data about disparities in sentencing between male vs. female teachers who take advantage of their students (statutory rape).The long term relationships fuck up the boys even more. The boys form unhealthy attachments to their abusers that basically destroy their lives. Says who? It's every dude's fantasy to bang the hot teacher, and the fact these stories keep popping up on a weekly basis shows us that it's probably happening a lot more than people like to admit. Teenage boys are horny and are going to be attracted to their teachers, and evidently female teachers are attracted to teen boys more than what society likes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/18 07:39 PM |
| 2 | Interesting data about disparities in sentencing between male vs. female teachers who take advantage of their students (statutory rape).Even though on some level they may enjoy it they are diverted from forming age appropriate relationships and never learn how to form healthy bonds with women. I doubt it. I'd argue they actually develop the kind of strong confidence with women to last a lifetime. I'm a public defender and have several young men on my caseload who never recovered from the abuse they suffered at the hands of older women. But we're talking specifically about teachers with students. Any hetro man will admit that thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/18 07:32 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There will always be a Red PillDon't you think it would be better if the blunt, honest truth was out in the open for everyone to see? That way people can evaluate and decide for themselves how they want to proceed with things. Perhaps that will make people more sad, bitter, and cynical, but shouldn't truth (no matter how harsh or unpleasant) triumph over feel good lies and propaganda? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/18 10:01 AM |
| 1 | What happens in real life when you try and date an incel/beta nerd...and why I will never date one again.You have a contempt for low SMV men that probably shows in your attitude and persona IRL and men find it off putting and unattractive. I find it strange that you would even entertain the idea of dating these kind of men in the first place, if you're such a catch then why aren't you paired up with a high value man? It must mean you're not all that great yourself but you manage to trip yourself up into believing that you are. It's outright narcissism and again men can probably sense that in you he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/18 02:06 PM |
| 8 | What happens in real life when you try and date an incel/beta nerd...and why I will never date one again.I know right? Almost seems to childlike, oh wait... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/18 07:23 AM |
| 5 | How are men strategizing about women seen as manipulative and fake?You're correct but notice how she's been silent to everyone who points this out to her. I sense some cognitive dissonance on her part lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/18 09:12 PM |
| 4 | How are men strategizing about women seen as manipulative and fake?Women dress like that because they enjoy dressing like that, like I enjoy wearing tank tops to the street, even when it's cold. Because I enjoy looking at my arms and feeling sexy. Women also feel that way. They revel in their own attractiveness, they feel good about it. They're not doing it to attract men. That's a load of horshit. Not saying it's your sole purpose of dressing nice, but don't sit there and pretend that women don't enjoy the attention from attractive men hence why it makes them … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/18 09:11 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women get annoyed when guys discuss having trouble dating, pickup strategies and/or being incel because these concepts are alien to themIt’s why that radfem yesterday admitted to only wanting Chads to approach her and any ugly men who approach her is akin to harassment. What is this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/18 08:13 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Much of TRP has some of the most beta mindsets and have underlying flaws in their "self improvement" tactics.But women do the same thing though is what im saying. That's where RPs idea of the cock-carousel and AFBB comes from, because women do the same things they accuse men of doing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/18 01:58 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Much of TRP has some of the most beta mindsets and have underlying flaws in their "self improvement" tactics.Wouldn't you agree then that both men and women "date" and use eatch other as a means to an end? If everyone is on the same page then what's the issue? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/18 02:39 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Much of TRP has some of the most beta mindsets and have underlying flaws in their "self improvement" tactics.They're down to date because that's the only way they get sex Do you believe this is the reason most men "date"? Don't women also want to have sex when they date? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/18 12:26 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Much of TRP has some of the most beta mindsets and have underlying flaws in their "self improvement" tactics.There are plenty of average, regular men who are down to date and LTR, they just tend to get passed up for good looking chads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/18 11:51 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Much of TRP has some of the most beta mindsets and have underlying flaws in their "self improvement" tactics.So he's upset to find out that he has a set of skills and traits that apply to one context but not the other? He's upset that she doesn't find him as sexually attractive as her previous chad partners. Where's the hard pill to swallow for women who find out that most men just want to fuck them, not date them? Oh wait, they just swallow it because that's life. Oh please, as if women don't also enjoy casual sex. Far more than they let on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/18 11:26 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Much of TRP has some of the most beta mindsets and have underlying flaws in their "self improvement" tactics.Sure people change over time, but the point being made that the kind of guy she eventually settles for is not the same kind of guy she fucked around with in high school and college (good looking alpha chads), instead it tends to be the kind of guy whom she never would have considered for for a casual fuck in her youth, the kind of guy who is "good husband material" (a stable if boring thirsty beta) for an LTR but not attractive enough to be a 2:00 a.m. booty call. That's the kind of thing that's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/18 10:10 PM |
| 4 | Women prefer the sex of their more attractive lovers than the men they end up with long term.Open relationships tend to become a one-sided arrangement, it's a convenient way for women to optimize their sexual strategy by getting the best of both worlds: raw passionate tingle inspired sex with alphas while also enjoying the perks of a stable LTR with a beta whom sex with may be okay but quite on the same level as the alpha. Of course one could argue that the guy is also getting a good deal because his partner is cool with him sleeping with other women, but this goes back to men and women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/18 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Women prefer the sex of their more attractive lovers than the men they end up with long term.Because sex feels good and people like variety instead of the same thing for 50+ years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/18 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else here feel embarrassed for wanting a relationship after reading posts here and elsewhere?Its not. Only a very small portion of men hold TRP viewpoints and that practice it. Based on what evidence? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/18 08:02 PM |
| 15 | The Only Real Reason for School ShootingsBecause young men who need help can't really be considered 'men'. Men are supposed to be able to handle their problems which is where most of the hatred and disgust for struggling guys stems from. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/18 11:48 PM |
| 2 | Q4BP: if the bulk of RP advice is nothing more than common sense, please provide your sourcesEven as you say this we have women in this sub who keep insisting that thus isn't the case. By continuing to feed guys false or musleading info, it further sets guys up for failure and makesbit more likely that they'll probably end up at places like TRP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/18 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Q4BP: if the bulk of RP advice is nothing more than common sense, please provide your sourcesright, that's why fatasses and skinny twinks are cast as romantic leads. ?? Sometimes they are. come on. stop bitching about "muh conditioning" and use your god-given powers of observation. I guess conditioning has absolutely no bearing whatsoever on a person's upbrining. None at all....c'mon . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/18 03:24 PM |
| 2 | Q4BP: if the bulk of RP advice is nothing more than common sense, please provide your sourcesTry doing something different. Find some other hobbies that can connect with other people. This doesn't chnage the overall dynamics of sexual attraction, the nerdy bookwork girl is still more attracted to the good looking Chad who teasees her a bit and who can be an "asshole" than an equally nerdy guy who's more nice than asshole but she ain't attracted to him. Im saying the second guy needs to bring in some assholeness to have a healthy balance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/18 03:19 PM |
| 2 | Q4BP: if the bulk of RP advice is nothing more than common sense, please provide your sourcesI'm not saying it's "just" being an asshole, and I'm not disagreeing with the attributes you listed having the potential to be attractive, I'm saying you kinda have be an asshole or just ease off the nice guy peddle because assertiveness, independence, and i intelligence don't mean much if you're too mild mannered and nice. You kinda have to throw some bits of asshole in there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/18 03:15 PM |
| 2 | Q4BP: if the bulk of RP advice is nothing more than common sense, please provide your sourcesI'm mainly criticizing your "PPD isn't about this" claim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/18 03:10 PM |
| 2 | Q4BP: if the bulk of RP advice is nothing more than common sense, please provide your sourcesYou make ot seem as though it's an inconceivable impossibility that women can be attracted to men the same way men are attracted to women. I don't understand why that ruffles so many feathers around here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/18 03:04 PM |
| 2 | Q4BP: if the bulk of RP advice is nothing more than common sense, please provide your sourcesI don't lift weights. but if I wanted to be swole I know from just living life on this planet for almost 28 years and living near gyms that advertise and walking past men's magazines and being on sports teams. I refuse to believe that redpillers didn't know this on some level, there's no way you were that socially isolated. While seeing fitness ads/images is common, It's not exactly pointed out that women have a visceral attraction towards attractive male bodies. In addition to that, many guys a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/18 02:57 PM |
| 3 | Q4BP: if the bulk of RP advice is nothing more than common sense, please provide your sourcesWhile i agree its not anyone's responsibility to help others get laid, your response is still a lazy copout. Don't forget something: PPD is about TRP and it's teachings. So while you may feel the topic is inappropriate for PPD, the fact is it is appropriate for this sub because again this sub pertains to TRP which is concered with helping men get laid. that is what TRP subs are supposedly for. And this sub is dedicated to discuss and debate TRP...and yet you act so surprised by all the topics pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/18 02:47 PM |
| 2 | Q4BP: if the bulk of RP advice is nothing more than common sense, please provide your sourcesThey are taught respect and manners and those are their basic rules to follow as they learn how to interact with other people. The part that gets glossed over though is the dyanmics of sexual attaction...so while it's normal to be polite and have manners with people you interact with, things tend to get a but murky when it comes you being attracted to someone and wanting to fuck them...at that point it's important to point out that being polite and well mannered may not exactly make a girl feel … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/18 02:39 PM |
| 3 | Q4BP: if the bulk of RP advice is nothing more than common sense, please provide your sourcesBut seriously though, the assertion thay being skinny is better than being muscular is just a flat out lie, why even say something like that? That's just dumb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/18 02:30 PM |
| 3 | I really don't like deadbeat dadsLook into a vasectomy. It won't protect against STDs but at least you'll know you cant knock anyone up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/18 07:17 PM |
| 5 | I really don't like deadbeat dadsNo offense but you sound like a jealous hater. Of whay exactly? First of all what are these guys in your circle like? You say you don't want kids but why hate on guys who do have kids? Me personally i don't care for kids either and I don't care much wether someone i know if being an ideal parent or not. What are you judging them on? That these particular guys aren't fullfing the "dad" role that you believe they shoukd be fullfing? What about it? Here's ba better way to look at it..who allows for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/18 08:53 AM |
| 7 | TRP tactics are devastating to communities. A Gynocentric Sexual Marketplace is necessary to maintain a functioning society....and silence... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/18 11:42 PM |
| 5 | TRP tactics are devastating to communities. A Gynocentric Sexual Marketplace is necessary to maintain a functioning society.So according to you gynocentrism is supposed to be a good thing...that doesn't make sense though because how do you think men are going to react in the face of gynocentrism? Theyre going to be adopting strategies thay are self-serving and anything but 'adding value to the community' (spinning plates, refusing marriage, etc). You have it wrong. You should actually try and listen to men and their grievances more, because from what it sounds like to you your way of thinking will only further fuel w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/18 10:04 PM |
| 3 | Men are the gatekeepers of commitment and women are the gatekeepers of sex. Am I wrong?I used to think men had some form of power (i.e. commitment) but lately I've been realizing that even that is in question. I think women have most of the power for both sex and relationships. Think about it. Men are so low-SMV and thirsty out there that they're willing to wife up the first ugly woman who shows them the slightest attention, that's far from having power, that's being desperate out of a lack of power in the SMP. On top of that, men's commitment doesn't seem to count for much anymor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/18 05:58 PM |
| 1 | The SMP is fucked up because of menNot really, but whatever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/18 04:29 AM |
| 1 | The SMP is fucked up because of menIf you understand it then good, but initially it seemed like you were under the impression that MGTOW and RP were mutually exclusive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/18 04:21 AM |
| 1 | The SMP is fucked up because of menOkay, but the point being made is that most women aren't LTR worthy. Jusy pump n dump worthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/18 02:14 AM |
| 1 | The SMP is fucked up because of menMGTOW falls under the same 'red pill' umbrella. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/18 02:12 AM |
| 4 | The SMP is fucked up because of menIf they're having sex (even pump and dump) regularly that's red pill not MGTOW. This right here is when you're painting MGTOW and RP to be mutually exclusive, when in fact a guy can be MGTOW but still deal with women (including fucking them) on his own terms using RP strategy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/18 01:58 AM |
| 2 | The SMP is fucked up because of menHow does this refute the claim that casual sex is the main thing worth chasing for men these days? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/18 01:54 AM |
| 4 | The SMP is fucked up because of menWomen are still willing to try to have a relationship with even very low quality men. Lol what planet are you living on? If that was the case you wouldn't have TRP or a bunch of whiney incels in the first place. Also I don't think that feminism made it so that women desire top tier men. Everyone desires the best. Men desire the instagram fitness model, or the 18 year old beauty, or the supermodel with huge tits. Women desire the tall dark and handsome mysterious man who can defend himself. Or so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/18 09:31 PM |
| 4 | The SMP is fucked up because of menSo in other words you're just stereotyping and aren't all thay interested in looking at the nuance within TRP. A sign of debating in bad faith. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/18 09:29 PM |
| 5 | Being Anti-Blue Pill is not being Anti-Women. It is the Blue Pill which harms men.lol, they've only recently added the "best version" part to that line. After realizing that many guys are being their genuine selves and it gets them nowhere. Before that it was fully "be yourself/there's someone out there for everyone". BPers tend to move the goalposts and adjust their lines when they've realized that can no longer take a certain position on something once it's been proven to be misguiding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/18 01:20 AM |
| 3 | Being Anti-Blue Pill is not being Anti-Women. It is the Blue Pill which harms men.It was a bestseller because loads of people are too 'nice' and don't know it. One day they wake up and realize their life is shitty and they made it that way. People like this need a good kick in the ass. I think you're missing the point. The concern being raised is why are there so many men in this position? you don't find it odd that so many men are seeking these kinds of answers? don't you think if there were more "normal" men than not then a book like "No more Mr.Nice Guy" wouldn't have been… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/18 01:12 AM |
| 5 | Why do we talk about sex like men are getting something, and women are giving something up?A weak argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/18 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Why do we talk about sex like men are getting something, and women are giving something up?I agree with this. Why? basic biology dictates that men are the pursers and women are the selectors. We see this in other species of animal. We as humans are egotistical and like to pretend we're somehow "above" our basic biology but the truth is we're not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/18 12:03 AM |
| 4 | [Discussion] We all agree that it's harder for guys to get casual sex, but is it harder to get a relationship too?You're being overly simplistic. There are guys out there who in fact do put in time and effort into making themselves better and attractive as possible. They shower, they dress well, they have friends, they make an effort to go out and mingle with people, they flirt, they approach women, they make a genuine effort...and still get shot down time and time again with no end in sight. How do you explain those guys? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/18 12:48 AM |
| 6 | [Discussion] We all agree that it's harder for guys to get casual sex, but is it harder to get a relationship too?if you don't mind me asking how old are you? because it I wonder if you're really in tune with how the SMP is now, because causal sex is is what leads into relationships these days the majority of the time. I think you're picking at straws and being overly optimistic on that one. If you struggle to get causal sex then it only makes sense that you will also struggle to get an LTR. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/18 12:32 AM |
| 0 | What is the biggest issue in your opinion that's leading to the fractured relationship between men and women in the modern dating world.Who's doing that exactly? How are men "expected to fill their roles" by women wanting to work more? It seems women in fact want to share the burden that used to be on the men. How can you find a way to complain about that? Women always aim up though, never downward. That's what hypergamy is. So even though they make as much money as men, they still want their ideal man to make even more money and be more succesful. That's what people mean when they say men haven't really been freed from their ge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/18 10:00 AM |
| 7 | Feminism needs to stop pushing young women towards casual sexBut many guys who are rather average still get classifed as "ugly" by a lot of women because they're using Chad as the standard of what's "normal" and "average". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/18 10:34 PM |
| 9 | Feminism needs to stop pushing young women towards casual sexThe problem is that it's impossible to get a relationship without sleeping with the guy first nowadays. Isn't it normal now though for people to have sex without being "serious" first? How are you supoosed to kbiw if you're sexually compatible for a relationship? Men complain that the dating game is rigged in favor of men, but come on, they've completely won and made everything centered on their imperatives, as usual. Really? Isn't TRP about the fact that men actually don't have much power in th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/18 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Men will spend, on average, nearly double what women spend on Valentine's Day (this trend also continues across all demographics for birthdays, anniversaries, engagements, Christmas, etc), Why so much inequality in terms of gift-giving?It's probably a bad idea to have kids yhen, isnt it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/18 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Men will spend, on average, nearly double what women spend on Valentine's Day (this trend also continues across all demographics for birthdays, anniversaries, engagements, Christmas, etc), Why so much inequality in terms of gift-giving?Unless if she's been raped and the man is famous, powerful, or popular. Well now you have metoo to bring rich powerful men down even if they really didn't do anything to you. K. If we're entirely responsible for raising the next generation into functioning adults, as well as working full time jobs, then the least you can do is pay for dinner. The least you can do. You don't have to have a full time job. You can choose to get government assistance or have a guy who's willing to pay for your thing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/18 09:35 PM |
| 8 | Men will spend, on average, nearly double what women spend on Valentine's Day (this trend also continues across all demographics for birthdays, anniversaries, engagements, Christmas, etc), Why so much inequality in terms of gift-giving?Like what? A box of chocolates once a year? Women always receive the benefit of the doubt, such as for example when she says something went down one way people will tend to believe her by default because women wouldn't lie, women babe social safety nets to ensure that they don't fail, etc. Right, but why are women always expected to do most of the career sacrifice to raise them? A lot of you skip off and leave your kids to live your life on your own terms and still have the nerve to complain abo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/18 09:20 PM |
| 3 | Your experiences with men/women are what causes your opinion of them, but your opinions aren’t true for all members of the opposite genderOh yes, this. Really eye-opening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/18 06:58 AM |
| 2 | Your experiences with men/women are what causes your opinion of them, but your opinions aren’t true for all members of the opposite genderYou know, there is nuance within RP and the manosphere. It's not like they're all monsters who really hate women. Many of them are just guys searching for some answers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/18 06:56 AM |
| 3 | Doxxing and harassment Wars - Countercultural response to PC cultureHow is that a strawman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/18 09:32 PM |
| 2 | Female Field Report IIShe got some justice served, but lets be real, most cases are punished this harshly. There's this perception that female teachers banging their students isn't "wrong" in any way and the kid was lucky hence why they often get a slap on the wrist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/18 10:38 PM |
| 2 | Female Field Report IISociety loves this shit though. Hence why these teachers often get a slap on the wrist once caught. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/18 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Women want less sex in relationships because men don't put nearly as much effort into being sexually attractive.No, the real point is that for all talk men receive of having to man up and become more attractive, women themselves don't seen to have realistic expectations at the same time. What, just because women spend thousands of dollars on makeup and beauty that makes them in Chad's league? Wrong . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/18 09:43 PM |
| 1 | The Blue Pill is merely an anger phase response to the Red Pill's callNo I think the reaction of the very angry bitter people at TBP is just because of the demographics of Reddit. You can go to any random sub and there's a 75% chance that if you suggest in any possible way that men should have standards and disqualify women you will be down voted. This is because Reddit is filled to the brim with highly unattractive nerdy men who are desperate to protect their fragile egos. What are you basing all this off of? There are plenty of things to dislike about TRP. Like … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/18 07:03 PM |
| 3 | Is there a red pill for women who want to find attractive beta providers?You want men to be ripped and 'real men', so why can't men ask that of women and for women to remain to decent shape and not blow up like a balloon after the ring is on? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/18 12:24 AM |
| 0 | Q4All: what is the most legitimate/concerning gender issue(s) to you?It's not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/18 10:08 PM |
| 10 | Is there a red pill for women who want to find attractive beta providers?I want more men to be men. Everybody would be happier that way. But too many of you act like hysterical women. Thank your feminist sisters for that, they wanted to feminize and subjugate men and now they're bitching and complaining because they got exactly what they asked for. That's rich. Joke's on you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/18 10:05 PM |
| 2 | Is there a red pill for women who want to find attractive beta providers?Yeah I agree women’s standards are too low. I promise you men's standards are even lower. Women are capable offl finding guys within their "station" if they're being honest and reasonable with themselves and their expectations. Yet, women still complain about not being able to lock down 8/10 chads who makes bank. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/18 10:01 PM |
| 8 | Rise in anti-social behavior among menIt's obvious isn't it? Society just doesn't care about men. Men are left to their own devices to either sink or swim. Women get a lifeboat along with lofe jackets. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/18 08:13 PM |
| 1 | What's with the casual sex obsession?Because they're strangers, that's the point of casual sex - to not worry about what they think of you because again it's supposed to be casual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/18 07:00 PM |
| 6 | Rise in anti-social behavior among menHonestly I don't think people will care if these guys fade into the background. If anything, society will be happy with it because now they don't have to actually see these undesirable guys if they're too busy locked up in their rooms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/18 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Man claims that woman who agreed to have him perform oral sex on her didn't actually consent.For all the people out there who insist that whenever she says "no sex" she actually means exactly that. I'm saying that's nit always the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/18 08:52 AM |
| 2 | Man claims that woman who agreed to have him perform oral sex on her didn't actually consent.You're saying it doesn't happen much? On what basis? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/18 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Q4Women: Would you date a man who is bi?Well, gay/bi men do make up most cases of HIV so that's good indicator that they probably are more promiscuous than straight men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/18 01:59 AM |
| 0 | Why don't the guys in the MGTOW sub actually go their own way?Exactly this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/18 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: what is the most legitimate/concerning gender issue(s) to you?Marriage as an institution is decaying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/18 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: what is the most legitimate/concerning gender issue(s) to you?Don't be a smartass. You know what I mean. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/18 01:20 AM |
| 0 | Man claims that woman who agreed to have him perform oral sex on her didn't actually consent.This is why i think most men should take the whole "metoo" thing as a giant social shit test and not to be too fearful of the hysteria. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/18 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Man claims that woman who agreed to have him perform oral sex on her didn't actually consent.You know women do shit test men all the time? Seeing if he actually has the balls like a man should to "seduce" her. Yes, many women have that mentality. Don't pretend that it's not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/18 01:12 AM |
| 2 | Q4All: what is the most legitimate/concerning gender issue(s) to you?Agreed. Father's rights is a concern. Now that you point that out I also notice RP doesn't talk about much, maybe because most of them are so over the whole family and fatherhood thing that they give it little regard and even say that you're dumb for getting a woman pregnant. Seems like more men are taking on a selfish approach to things so fatherhood is out the window. I supoose that could be a good thing given that it is indeed a gynocentric society that doesn't care about men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/18 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: what is the most legitimate/concerning gender issue(s) to you?Do you think there will be a backlash or not? Because the possibility of the latter is probably more likely than I had originally thought - i think these same young men who are going through all of this lack the will and drive to collectively organize. If anything, i just see them fading away into porn and VR simulations than any actual solid pushback against the feminine imperative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/18 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: what is the most legitimate/concerning gender issue(s) to you?Because it's better to stay away from decaying, toxic things? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/18 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: what is the most legitimate/concerning gender issue(s) to you?Where do you think this is all heading? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/18 12:59 AM |
| 4 | Q4All: what is the most legitimate/concerning gender issue(s) to you?Like all complicated things, there's more to Trump winning than just foreign influence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/18 12:58 AM |
| 3 | Q4All: what is the most legitimate/concerning gender issue(s) to you?You mean most millennials in general? Interesting about a generational "wall". I think millennial are in a general sense of..disarray? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/18 12:57 AM |
| 3 | Q4All: what is the most legitimate/concerning gender issue(s) to you?What would you attribute the cause of this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/18 12:53 AM |
| 4 | Q4All: what is the most legitimate/concerning gender issue(s) to you?And, most concerning, that the FSB (and probably Chinese intelligence, although they have enough money to not be so obvious about it), are actively attempting to use this group for the purpose of destabilizing the anglosphere and western europe. Interested to hear how you come to believe this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/18 10:57 PM |
| 7 | Q4All: what is the most legitimate/concerning gender issue(s) to you?The thing is, our current feminzed cultural narrative doesn't really see this as a problem. The opposite in fact. As long as girls and women are doing good the everything is A-okay, if this means causing a host of problems for men then so be it because of the "patriarchy" boogeyman. It's funny, when men are running the show then there's all this outrage and activism to get women on top, but these same people wouldn't have any qualms if the situation was reversed. This is why a lot of people beli… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/18 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: what is the most legitimate/concerning gender issue(s) to you?The collapse of marriage and rise of illegitimate children. RP does not help because it discourages marriage. But if marriage is already decaying then wouldn't RP discouraging marriage be a good thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/18 10:23 PM |
| 3 | Q4All: what is the most legitimate/concerning gender issue(s) to you?But is that a pressing "social problem"? Your home life is supposed to be private so if you're having issues at home then you need to adress them as such. I'm talking about things that have an overall social impact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/18 09:45 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: what is the most legitimate/concerning gender issue(s) to you?I guess i should have clarified, but yeah im mainly adressing N.America, the Western world really. We all know people in less developed countries have it way worse than anyone in the West, both men and women have rough lives in those places, but they're not who I'm adressing in this post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/18 09:42 PM |
| 3 | Why are women getting so triggered by sex bots?That would be creepy af. Hopefully he won't go haywire and butcher you in your sleep! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/18 08:38 PM |
| 1 | How widespread is The Red Pill?In all honesty, most reasonable liberals I know are just as tired of the PC crybabies/SJW culture wars as much as anyone else. Even liberals are calling out 'MeToo' for some of it's witch hunt antics, for example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/18 05:31 PM |
| 2 | How widespread is The Red Pill?Pretty sure there are plenty of liberal folk who are working class. Don't know where you're getting this idea that libs "despise" the working class. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/18 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Will the categorization "divorced" eventually go away? And when?Thank you grammer nazi. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/18 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Will the categorization "divorced" eventually go away? And when?if the "prestige" of marriage goes down that means the concept of "marriage" itself goes down with it, right? Marriage going down in society, a good or bad thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/18 11:10 PM |
| 4 | Discussion about why some women dislike shy guysIt's not "toxic" then if it's netting positive results. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/18 05:15 PM |
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