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I'm not saying that Bukowski was a model. But here's a quote that made me think a lot about what kind of man I want to be: Afterwards Jan got up and opened a bottle of wine. I opened my last pack of cigarettes and we sat in bed drinking and smoking. “You’re all there,” she said. “What do you mean?” “I mean, I never met a man like you.” “Oh yeah?” “The others are only ten per cent there or twenty per cent, you’re all there, allof you is very there, it’s so different.” “I don’t know anything about…
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/14 10:37 PM
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What's wrong with swallowing? I'm perfectly okay with my sexual preferences and see no problems using that word.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 11:03 PM
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true masters don't need the alcohol, but betas on alcohol are still betas.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 10:59 PM
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http://en.wikisource.org/wiki/Schopenhauer_as_Educator
/r/TheRedPill01/02/14 05:06 AM
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wow, you know that most of the community is composed by AFCs so they want those FR. I was just trying to reach out the advanced community of r/seduction. I don't see why you mods don't do it.
/r/seduction06/12/11 05:42 PM
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You mean askseddit I suppose. I think it needs a better moderation also. And I'm willing to do it.
/r/seduction06/12/11 04:57 PM
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wow he asked for her number. What a real man.
/r/seduction06/12/11 04:30 PM
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that's an AFC's insult hahaha
/r/seduction06/12/11 11:49 AM
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I see where your nickname comes from ;)
/r/seduction06/12/11 11:48 AM
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my way works better than his. I got results.
/r/seduction06/12/11 11:48 AM
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I'm not only talking about being original. I'm talking about taking them off guard, confusing them.
/r/seduction06/12/11 11:48 AM
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you're a creepy guy then.
/r/seduction06/12/11 08:49 AM
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you're suppose to make more than 100 approach like this one to learn seduction. Do you really think we need a post telling us about each of his fails? I'm really wondering if we're on r/patmeontheback or r/seduction. edit: stop replying to this comment. I won't delete it (like a boss). I unsubscribed from this subreddit because of the lack of real content.
/r/seduction06/12/11 06:38 AM
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what about, trying to refer to the current situation, and then saying something completely different. Because come on, if you're in a concert, they all have heard that line. If they're in a bar, how many guys asked them what they were drinking? Hey nice drink you're drinking, what's your favorite color?
/r/seduction06/12/11 06:07 AM
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It's funny because I always say "avoid basic topics". Don't talk about your job, her job, the weather. She's not your neighbor, you want to pull her into an interesting conversation. Example, I've heard this girl with a strange accent. Asking her where she got it from. She said Australia. I told her I always wanted to go to take a look at kangaroos. She said really? That if I go there she could show me some. Can we hunt them? Yeah we would hunt them together. Do you hunt? No she doesn't hunt. It…
/r/seduction06/12/11 06:05 AM
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over heard I think. Doesn't work that well.
/r/seduction06/12/11 06:03 AM
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I think the intonation is a huge part of it also. I'm doing research on that.
/r/seduction06/12/11 06:02 AM
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nice one! Does it actually work? I'm curious because it can come as agressive, creepy also.
/r/seduction06/12/11 06:01 AM
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Depends on the situation, there are extremly friendly environement where it doesn't really matter what you say (for example a class). There are others places where it's more difficult to engage a stranger and you have to confuse them early on (for example the streets). The famous line "Hey, can I ask you a question? Do you think guys or girls lie the most?" is famous because it's confusing, not creepy and it engages a conversation in a playful way. And the most straightforward place I can think …
/r/seduction06/12/11 05:59 AM
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this reddit is full of afc :)
/r/seduction06/12/11 05:56 AM
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results?
/r/seduction06/12/11 05:54 AM
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What's the point of asking for a number that soon? She will never answer. Of course you don't make physical contact in that kind of situation. At least wait a bit otherwise --> creepy. the jesus line? I think it's just creepy. Also you're using gorgeous, you're giving away your cards.
/r/seduction06/12/11 05:54 AM
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how to NOT pick up a celebrity. Misleading title.
/r/seduction05/12/11 12:59 PM
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Can you show me your boobs?
/r/seduction05/12/11 08:35 AM
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in embedding commands? I believe tonality + a good chose of words. If you have some articles to back this up I'm interested (I'm getting into it, I'm a noob)
/r/seduction29/11/11 04:26 PM
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I don't see interest in trying to read it. But what about giving it. Kino. Anchors.
/r/seduction29/11/11 12:03 PM
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7% for words. Bullshit. Embedding commands.
/r/seduction29/11/11 12:02 PM
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For my past experience: Girls responds way better when I have an open shirt with a tee shirt under (several layers of clothes). I had a piercing above the eye, I found it really easy to talk to girls with that. Girls would come up to me and compliment me on how cool it looked (I removed it since). a "who are you?" walks way better than any other pickup line in a club. if a girl smiles at you and look in your eye in a club/bar. You can go for the kiss (even if it's 30seconds after meeting her). I…
/r/seduction28/11/11 05:14 AM
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because he's an AFC.
/r/seduction22/11/11 05:46 PM
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mm I might have mixed the term yup.
/r/seduction22/11/11 12:38 PM
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I'm not interesting in extending my circle to people that are undeserving or don't meet the values I set for myself. I think you're losing sight of what seduction is. It's not about being a dick or being ful of one's self. It's about seducing people, male or female. And no, being a dick might get you a ONS from times to times, but you'll create more hate than love.
/r/seduction22/11/11 12:37 PM
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I used to have a very aggressive game so I know what you're talking about. I just realize it wouldn't work in the long run. Now I know how to be nice with people, make a lot of friends, and when I isolate a girl I turn back into the straight forward frame.
/r/seduction22/11/11 12:35 PM
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that's because I don't put up with their bullshit. you don't meet people or extend your circle acting like that. I'm interested to hear what TD has to say about that.
/r/seduction22/11/11 02:06 AM
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Do you know that guy that everyone is excited about seeing when he comes around to hang out nothing to do with value. You like someone in 1v1 when you can talk to him about stuff and he listens. That's why girls like good listener. Check who is your closest friend... yeah that's right, a guy who you can talk to and he will listen. You like to invite someone when you see he can talk to your friend and he's social. Meaning he's smiling and asking question by being interested in other's people life…
/r/seduction22/11/11 02:04 AM
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I really thought you were going to give a good advice when I started reading and.. no. Nothing really useful. So here is mine: I know you guys are humble and shit, but DHV the fuck up. I don't do it that much and I don't need to right now, but I got an average friend who always DHV. It's annoying being next to him because you know exactly what he's going to say the first 10 minutes he meets a girl. He's going to tell her about his DJ experience, about his work in a restaurant, about the deserts …
/r/seduction22/11/11 02:01 AM
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Change wingman?
/r/seduction16/11/11 06:55 PM
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My .50 : I read a scientific paper where they say if you don't jerk off for 7 days, the 7th day you get a peak of testosterone. When we went to Prague with some friends, we stopped jerking off so the 7th day we could have that peak. Didn't really notice anything though.
/r/seduction16/11/11 06:44 PM
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KFC Know what you want Find out what you are getting Change what you do until you get what you want
/r/seduction16/11/11 06:41 PM
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Just take a break man.
/r/seduction16/11/11 06:40 PM
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i suck at kino work only on that now.
/r/seduction16/11/11 08:31 AM
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my advice: if you want a relationship, give her a chance. She might have been too talkative because she was nervous. Also I would have told her if I were you, saying "you just can't stop talking" is a bad thing. But give her cues like "hey let me talk". if you just want to fuck her, man up and don't post shit like this here.
/r/seduction16/11/11 08:30 AM
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So many times I've seen guys hitting on a girl in a subway, or a bus.. They look creepy, the way they do it, the way they talk. But hey, this is exactly what you have to do if you want to get really good in seduction. You have to be creepy, until you're not. I remember when I was trying to speak to girls when I was a kid, I was creepy because I didn't know how. I said shitty stuff, did shitty stuff, really awkwards moves and on and on... and now I'm good with it, because I've tried over and over…
/r/seduction11/11/11 10:36 AM
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i never post horseshit
/r/seduction10/11/11 10:34 AM
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Smile is like the strongest weapon. And I feel like we don't talk enough about it, even if you have a shitty smile it's still warmer to talk to somebody who smile. And no girl will flip you off if you approach them with a smile. Actually I've been wondering, really recently, I've never seen mystery smiled during an approach.
/r/seduction09/11/11 10:47 AM
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You have to constantly correct yourself when you're speaking until you do it right. Recently I've been trying to be really straight in the way I talk, I only speak by affirmation and leave no doubts in my lines "you know you want it" instead of "i think we should get together"... A frontpage post pointed out that using "we" was working a lot as it suggest a lot of things. So use "we" instead of "you" or "I". "what about we go to another bar?" I've noticed really good results also when approachin…
/r/seduction09/11/11 10:46 AM
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Never get a phone number if there is no strong comfort before. You can feel it if she gives you her number but will never answer you baAnd if there is not, only get it if you're in a real time constraint and you have no choice. As for the boyfriend, girl who says they have a boyfriend that soon in the conversation either: do have a boyfriend, and will stick to them. don't have a boyfriend but find you too pushy.
/r/seduction09/11/11 10:41 AM
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what is wrong with you
/r/seduction09/11/11 10:40 AM
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TL;DR: money, muscles, confidence, humour. Wow I wonder why this is on the frontpage.
/r/seduction09/11/11 10:38 AM
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I don't want to be rude, but if I were a mod here I would have banned this post. Field reports are supposed to be insightful and this one doesn't bring anything. Hell it doesn't have any win in it, no #c, no kc. And I'm a strong believer a FR should have at least one fuck close... If you're a noob don't write FR and read stuff here until you get it right and have meaningful stories to share. Or write a blog.
/r/seduction09/11/11 10:36 AM
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That's assuming she asks you what you do in life. Which is an IOI in itself. And that's one way to avoid to answer a serious reponse and get into boring daily life conversation. Another way is to say "come on let's not talk about that, let's talk about something interesting, what's your favorite color?" What the other people in the comments are picking up in your routine is the game routine. Girls like to participate, to play games etc... By making her chose her question she's kinda playing, you…
/r/seduction09/11/11 10:32 AM
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This! I can't stop thinking there is a "suggestive" power in this word. "We should go to a bar", "we should go somewhere else", "we have a great chemistry"... i had 3 lines i really wanted to try these days. The "we" thing is definitely on my list. ps: btw the 3 lines are: I really want to get a breakfast in bed with you What about going to my place watching cartoons while eating cereals? What are your fantasies? I have to take note so I can do something about it.
/r/seduction09/11/11 10:24 AM
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THis is why I subscribed to seddit.
/r/seduction08/11/11 11:19 PM
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well. Frame is about suggestion and hypnose. If you suggest yourself you're back in your 20's and you're the man, you will believe it. Doesn't mean you will pick up girls, but you will be in the "right mood" to do so. After techniques and experience do the rest. You're 45 and you work at a car wash? Doesn't matter if it's one night or several night where you will keep answering bullshit to the girl ("what do you do in life?", "oh i'm just a plumber and i eat mushrooms"). What OP really meant is …
/r/seduction08/11/11 06:52 AM
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"fake it 'til you make it confidence". Works for me. I'm an undergrad not doing shit right now and I'm in pua mode I can act like I know what I'm doing and I'm the real shit. It's just about frame for me. And I think it's about something different for everyone here seeing where this debate is going.
/r/seduction08/11/11 01:04 AM
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Everytime I bump into this video I feel mad. Why is the guy telling me what to do? I really don't get the fuzz about it.
/r/seduction06/11/11 11:38 PM
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I often just say "who are you?" in a pretty aggressive tone. Works.
/r/seduction03/11/11 07:21 PM
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make an normal girl feel beautiful to get her. Make a beautiful girl feel smart to get her.
/r/seduction03/11/11 07:20 PM
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some pickup lines are extremly weird and they sometimes seem to work (like saying, oh do you need a gum, pointing out she has a bad breath).
/r/seduction03/11/11 07:18 PM
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It's a gentleman's catchy line. I never heard any PUA saying it though. Interesting. Right now I'm thinking about mystery always picking up stupid girls and the laughs it could take to make one of his target feel smart.
/r/seduction23/10/11 04:31 PM
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If continuing to ignore her doesn't get you anywhere, you have to be direct. If that doesn't work, then you have to move on. best advice here.
/r/seduction23/10/11 02:19 PM
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Every topic on seddit is about some afc having problems with a girl. At least here is someone who has a problem with a 10. She flaked on you? Logical next step is to give up on her. I know other PUA that would give her a call in 3 weeks to decide weither she's definetely game over.
/r/seduction23/10/11 02:17 PM
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this has nothing to do with seduction
/r/seduction13/10/11 08:01 AM
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I'm all for an advancedseduction subreddit. I'm really tired of all those beginners frontpaging this place.
/r/seduction13/10/11 07:21 AM
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I think it's dumb to go to a club/bar and not drink. Those are places made for that. If you can't enjoy a drink but need the social interaction there are PLENTY of great places to do that. Billiard, bowling, cinema, social activites, cooking/dancing classes...
/r/seduction13/10/11 07:02 AM
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You're young. I'm 20 years old, and I'm considering giving up drinking. That made me laugh. Maybe you should read "I hope they serve beer in Hell" to see that at your age you don't have to care about those things.
/r/seduction13/10/11 05:02 AM
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Isn't it becoming a ONE-ITIS? That's a huge reaction just for one girl.
/r/seduction08/10/11 06:07 PM
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I 100% agree with that, if you want to date her it will mess up with your game. That's something we learn in seduction, no ONE-ITIS! I'm curious about hearing the arguments of those who disagree though.
/r/seduction07/10/11 09:34 PM
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would you hang out with people who gets your mood down, would constantly put you in bad situations? I do that with my friends also. I only chose high energy or nice person to be around with. People who can contribute to my mood, to my life. Really, sometimes the reason you feel bad is that you're badly surrounded.
/r/seduction26/09/11 05:13 AM
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it's exactly like the frame idea of swinggcat. Mystery also says that he's testing girls, not the contrary.
/r/seduction26/09/11 05:12 AM
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"oh my god you're fat". I can't believe how fast I killed the mood. In one second she removed her hands from my body, turned away and started insulting me. She was not fat. At all. Also I touched her belly while I said that.
/r/seduction27/08/11 01:07 PM
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so angry boy.
/r/seduction16/08/11 11:34 AM
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sounds really bitter to me. She's going to be so glad she hurt one more guy.
/r/seduction16/08/11 01:56 AM
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When she said thumbs down it means it's dead for a relationship. You can still tell her you're cool with it and that you're still up for sex.
/r/seduction16/08/11 01:08 AM
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it's not because you receive a bad text from a girl you fucked you have to retaliate. Just play it cool and let her know that it's okay for you, and that you're here if she wants to fuck (obviously he was thumbs down just for a relationship, good).
/r/seduction16/08/11 01:06 AM
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this is not a solid text, this is just insulting her. No way it will lead to anything.
/r/seduction16/08/11 12:22 AM
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Haha, that's a funny response. But maybe you can have sex again with her sometimes if you send something more like "Hey okay no problem, just hit me up if you wanna hang out sometime ;)"
/r/seduction16/08/11 12:22 AM
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What the actual fuck. This girl sounds like someone I wouldn't date. You had sex with her, good, now move on.
/r/seduction16/08/11 12:18 AM
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you look like a chin fong!
/r/seduction06/08/11 08:17 AM
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It's part of the teasing.
/r/seduction06/08/11 08:16 AM
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If you don't agree with lifestyle without women is boring What are you doing in r/sedduction?
/r/seduction05/08/11 08:23 PM
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they know that if most women got to know them, they'd be attracted. But breaking through her defenses, her social conditioning, her automatic behavior and responses, etc., can be a challenge. That's my biggest problem here. Any advice guys?
/r/seduction05/08/11 08:22 PM
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Seems like "music" is something really reliable when hitting on someone.
/r/seduction03/08/11 07:06 AM
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I feel for you because I used to be the same AFC. Was afraid to kino the girl I liked. Ended up really bad for me because if you don't make a move sooner or later you'll pass as a pussy.
/r/seduction30/07/11 01:21 PM
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what the fuck =D
/r/seduction30/07/11 01:20 PM
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Exactly, I feel like seduction is the inverse of bargaining, you shouldn't have the last word if you're seducing someone.
/r/seduction18/07/11 07:02 PM
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