Being Creepy Rules!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

theubernoob · 2011-11-11T08:01:44+00:00

It just depends on what you want. If you've been an outcast your entire life with little interaction with girls, read up on seduction, and decide to go out and apply it, yeah you're going to come off as creepy. You'll eventually get what you want and you'll eventually level out as a normal person. If you're already a pretty normal person who has problems talking to girls then there is no need to walk around creeping girls out. Simply strike up a normal conversation and be you, we're all interesting and have our unique perks. Some girls will be into you and some won't, it may even depend solely on your timing. You'll have one night stands and dates and one month relationships and more, but the important thing is it will all be on account of you and who you really are.

annamal · 2011-11-11T16:48:03+00:00

Lady here.

Alright, so I'll fess up - lady who gets hit on constantly.

IMO, this is good advice - no matter how seemingly ridiculous the propositions I get are (ie: men with granddaughter's my age), I always admire the bravery it takes for these men to make these addresses. Worst case scenario, you'll end up flattering me. So go ahead and take a shot at this - there will always be a flattery the woman can appreciate.

BUT, the article advises to have an air of entitlement. FALSE. This attitude is one that many women find offensive; being hit on is one thing, having a person acting like, without even knowing you, they deserve you...not great. Be confident, but don't be terribly dominating when you flirt - that's when creepy becomes scary or offensive.

debman3 · 2011-11-11T10:36:18+00:00

So many times I've seen guys hitting on a girl in a subway, or a bus.. They look creepy, the way they do it, the way they talk. But hey, this is exactly what you have to do if you want to get really good in seduction. You have to be creepy, until you're not.

I remember when I was trying to speak to girls when I was a kid, I was creepy because I didn't know how. I said shitty stuff, did shitty stuff, really awkwards moves and on and on... and now I'm good with it, because I've tried over and over, I've been weird, creepy, and ... other words.. with girls. Now I know exactly how to be smooth, I know how to be "cool".

lancepants42 · 2011-11-11T06:44:38+00:00

I feel like this works, as the author says, for obtaining more women, although I would argue against "better," depending on how you define it. Yes you will pick up the women looking for the aggressive alpha, but given my experiences, and from what I've seen in my friends, those girls aren't really worth much within a month, if they even make it past the next morning. While being very forward and "creepy" will grant success (it's statistically foolproof almost... approach girl and quickly engage, if rejected, move to the next. In a shorter time you will approach more girls and your chances increase) I have a problem with "creeping them out." You're potentially passing up more quality material by being lazy.

This is just my opinion. It seems like you need to assess the situation before switching on the creep or playing it out to determine if A) she'll go for it, or B) if she's worth extra effort. If you're not looking for a serious relationship, then B) is an automatic "no" and A) doesn't really matter because there are more vaginas walking around elsewhere.

jks007 · 2011-11-11T09:05:14+00:00

I believe the point he's trying to make is that people should stop thinking about how people judge them or whether they come off as creepy. Basically by not giving a fuck and do what you want or feel like.

He is not asking people to be creepy in the eyes of the women. while things may seem to the new people coming into pick up as creepy, it is totally normal and works when it comes to women.

assholebiker · 2011-11-11T13:18:41+00:00

Bad advice. Word gets around. Never do anything you wouldn't be proud admitting to later.

choc_is_back · 2011-11-12T00:17:34+00:00

Actually, I believe that guys who never ever heard of seduction / pickup are a lot more likely to come off as creepy compared to somebody who tries to consciously work on it.

You know what's creepy? Caring too much about a person you just met. That's exactly the mistake NON seduction peeps would make.

GodofPH · 2011-11-12T01:37:55+00:00

Why has no one posted this yet: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tLPZmPaHme0&ob=av3e

Genesis_of_wayne · 2011-11-12T04:21:46+00:00

I can't stand going out to bars and see guys being utter creeps to everyone every time I see them going out and thinking "wow, they've probably been reading up on the internet pickup community." Being a part of this community, it sickens me.

no_dating · 2011-11-13T19:24:04+00:00

Fuck. That. Title.

KingNarcissus · 2011-11-11T15:47:02+00:00

Great article, but could you go with a better title next time? I almost skipped it - because I thought it would be a low-brow attention-seeking article - but I'm very happy I read it.

Title	Being Creepy Rules!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Author	TonyDAbsolute
Upvotes	87
Comments	40
Date	November 11, 2011 4:36 AM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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