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This is a deep and common problem. You need to brainwash yourself. "I'm awesome. I don't give a fuck. Girls like guys who don't give a fuck. I'm awesome. Girls love me." And they will. But you have to believe it. That's the hard part.
/r/seduction25/01/20 09:48 AM
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Personally I don't know many guides other than "Way of the superior man" and "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus."
/r/seduction25/01/20 09:05 AM
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Oh boy. That's like asking the best way to win a fight, or write a book.
/r/seduction25/01/20 08:10 AM
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That one day I'd arrive and it would be easy as being a wizard amongst muggles. Like anything, you get back exactly what you put in. I thought having "game" was like magic... but it's more like sales. You're a product, looking for a buyer. You need to be the best product you can be, use a deep understanding of human psychology, and interact with many, many leads. That's how you catch the big fish. It's very pragmatic. Also, as a coach I thought I needed to live this super playboy lifestyle, and …
/r/seduction25/01/20 08:06 AM
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Do what's best for everybody and try not to be too much of a dick.
/r/seduction25/01/20 07:58 AM
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I'm attracted to beautiful, intelligent women. If I was going to articulate that, I'd have to do it with poetry. “And yet women-good women--frightened me because they eventually wanted your soul, and what was left of mine, I wanted to keep.” ― Charles Bukowski, Women
/r/seduction25/01/20 07:28 AM
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All you lizards... laying low on the sand... go outside. You wish. You wish...
/r/seduction25/01/20 07:13 AM
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That's a very good question, without an easy answer. I always ask.. is that true? Is honesty really the best way? How so? In relation to what, exactly? That you're 54 but you're at the club, and you look 35, and you really want to score this 22 year old hottie that's been on your lap for the last fifteen minutes, but you know she's gonna freak out if you tell her your real age. So when she asks, you say "35!" Because the last time you told the truth.. she went.. "Oh my god, no..." and ran away? …
/r/seduction25/01/20 07:09 AM
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I'd say go to www.girlschase.com.
/r/seduction18/08/18 09:14 PM
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Sure I have an article about this. http://www.absoluteability.com/dating/pickup-while-backpacking-in-south-east-asia/ And this http://www.absoluteability.com/travel/picking-up-girls-in-hostels/
/r/seduction06/07/18 10:32 PM
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Sorry man there's no fast way. It takes years. Can you learn guitar quickly? Create a business that's profitable quickly? Master any skill? But since you're going on vacation, use it as an excuse to start practicing as much as possible. Enjoy the ride.
/r/seduction18/06/18 01:18 AM
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That's what I'm talking about. Massive action for positive change. Remember, if you fall off the bull, you can dust yourself off and get back on. Everytime you fail, it makes you stronger. But you have to try again, and again. This will put you in the top tier of men in the world. At anything.
/r/seduction15/06/18 11:23 PM
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The opener is bad. "The awkward guy." You should be saying, "The awesome and near perfect guy." Women are not attracted to shyness, humbleness, timidity. Even if you were awkward, you have to appear overly confident. This actually makes the text funny. Also the content of the text is boring. "What are you majoring in." There are resources out there for texting on Youtube. Study some of that.
/r/seduction15/06/18 11:21 PM
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Bro you have issues. Everything's fine. You look fine. Nobody is laughing at you.
/r/seduction30/05/18 12:00 AM
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Awesome
/r/seduction29/05/18 10:44 PM
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I was incredibly shy, insecure, needy. But then I saw a documentary around 2006 about dating coaches called "Charm School." I was fascinated. I moved to Montreal and practiced 7 nights a week for about a 2 years. Then I returned to Vancouver and worked for a local coaching company. Today I still am a coach for my own company. The whole story is in my book. I started with Ross Jeffrie's Speed Seduction. Then Mystery, and pretty much everything I could get my hands on. I tried a few routines but m…
/r/seduction29/05/18 07:33 PM
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I can for sure, if you have any specific questions.
/r/seduction29/05/18 02:46 AM
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A "Neg" is often attacked by the mainstream media, and labeled as an insult meant to lower self-esteem or something. In a way, it is. For example Mystery says "Nice nails, are they real?" So that's a negative compliment, but not an insult. Another might be "You have nice hair. Any split ends?" To an outsider it might sound rude, but when you're an average Joe talking to a super hot girl, it just says something else, that you're not so impressed by beauty. You are familiar with it. Most hot girls…
/r/seduction26/05/18 12:00 AM
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Well, you're on a subreddit that's dedicated to teaching the concept called "game." Call it "seduction" or "pickup" or "charm" or "charisma." Call it what you want. There are hundreds of books and youtube videos and online courses blogs and irl bootcamps you can look into. Start with the sidebar here even. I don't want to sound dismissive, it's just sort of a big subject. It's like trying to explain the Matrix to someone who is still in it.
/r/seduction14/03/18 04:08 AM
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I'm 40. I have no problem with younger women at all. Some don't want to date an older guy, but I meet so many through work that don't care at all. I was making out with a 25 year old last night who told me she used to date a 50 year old, and she's really pretty. Before that I was sleeping with a 23 year old, a 21 year old, a 19 year old, and some older girls too. A 17 year old Russian girl asked me to move in with her, but that's just too damn young for me. I like women over 23. If you have game…
/r/seduction13/03/18 06:52 PM
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What you lack is a concept called "Push Pull." Mark Manson calls it "Polarization." You want the girl to feel like you are somewhat of a challenge. You need to get her to qualify herself. An example might be, "Can you cook? Not really. Oh that's too bad." If she can cook you say, "Oh, I bet I'm a better cook than you. Too bad. I thought you would complete me." You want her to sell herself to you. Be the Prize, as they say. As for holding hands, that's nice, but did you go for a kiss? You need to…
/r/seduction26/01/18 10:14 PM
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"Im a girl!" Post goes #1 on Seddit. Here's my advice to the op: Sex Therapist, online dating, two glasses of wine.
/r/seduction29/11/17 09:28 PM
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Listen to this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f_HkQ4-x4P4
/r/seduction20/05/17 07:39 AM
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I'm 39 and dating a 23 year old. I told her my age, she touched my arm and said "That's ok. I like older men."
/r/seduction10/04/17 02:31 AM
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Youtube RSD. Start watching.
/r/seduction20/03/17 09:01 AM
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High energy social skills. Be pro active in talking to everyone, not just the women. But social proof is powerful, so the more you are seen by women having positive, fun interactions with women, the more attractive you will be to women.
/r/seduction19/03/17 07:25 PM
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Hire a coach
/r/seduction09/03/17 09:26 PM
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Watch Westworld. It's like we are all robots, wired for this.
/r/seduction28/01/17 12:29 AM
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Great if you like fat chicks
/r/seduction14/01/17 08:08 PM
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I like my books https://www.amazon.com/A-Thousand-Tiny-Failures-Newton/dp/1492375772
/r/seduction25/11/16 08:57 AM
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Well at least Throwaway, you should watch it and let me know your thoughts.
/r/seduction17/11/16 08:06 PM
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Ohh. A conspiracy?
/r/seduction17/11/16 08:05 PM
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That's really unfortunate you are afraid of having this important conversation.
/r/seduction17/11/16 07:43 PM
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It turns you into a man, and you'll appreciate your wins more. You can't be good at pickup if you can't handle rejections.
/r/seduction26/10/16 10:05 PM
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That's not garbage advice. It's completely true. I know Eddy personally and he's one of the biggest manwhores I know. World class expert at daygame.
/r/seduction26/10/16 10:04 PM
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Yeah it's my bad. She was pretty. But we were having a great time until we discussed politics. This isn't a seduction article btw. It's just a story that I think many guys can relate to in these messed up, post feminist, post gender studies times.
/r/seduction26/10/16 08:44 PM
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Hmm. I didn't demonstrate her nice parts well enough I suppose. I just assumed the reader would accept my word. We'd hung out for a few hours at the beach and it was pleasant, until dinner. She doesn't hate anyone. Sjw's think they're altruistic. They don't see the damage. They're far too attached to their identity and it takes hardcore redpill moments like this until they consider other points of view, if they're intuitive.
/r/seduction23/10/16 03:00 AM
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It's mostly about your body language. You have to appear confident. So stand up straight. No apologetic body language. It should look like you already know her. Enthusiasm. She will stop.
/r/seduction02/10/16 03:20 PM
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Sometimes I open with a wave hello, or a high five.
/r/seduction02/10/16 03:18 PM
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After they pass you, turn around, jog up to them and start talking. That's it. There's no magic trick involved. Done it hundreds of times.
/r/seduction01/10/16 08:57 PM
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Get in front of people. Have people talk about you. The easiest way is to host parties or gatherings. Learn an instrument or start a band is the second easiest, except for learning how to play. But any performance art or public speaking.
/r/seduction24/09/16 05:55 PM
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I wrote a blog post about this
/r/seduction02/09/16 03:04 PM
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That was beautiful. I kinda see a cigarette smoking theme here. It could have been the plot from The Notebook, but Ryan Gosling was obsessed with the hot girl, not the ugly duckling. It's more like 1987's "Can't Buy Me Love." But with less cigarette smoking.
/r/seduction13/08/16 02:34 PM
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Fuck what society thinks. Learn game. Go out. To the mall. To a bar. And hit on women.
/r/seduction15/07/16 11:41 PM
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I've noticed these lists haven't changed in the last ten years, other than Models.
/r/seduction11/07/16 05:36 PM
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As long as you don't become obsessive and weird around her, she respects you now. The "I have a boyfriend" line is usually a knee jerk. She will be watching you closely now for alpha male behaviour. Let her see you with another pretty girl, and you're in. She'll give you a second chance. Unless she actually has a bf, which she probably does. Your best bet is to not care. Go meet more women.
/r/seduction10/07/16 08:26 AM
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I'm good at night game, and I have to go out about 7 nights straight to pull.
/r/seduction07/07/16 01:28 AM
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More practice.
/r/seduction30/06/16 06:27 PM
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Yes. I'm merely stating that there is always social proof. Shorter guys can get hotter taller girls. It's a little harder yes, but that's what game is for. I run a coaching company and one of my coaches is 5'6" and he kills it.
/r/seduction27/06/16 05:35 PM
35

Not much if you have game. Women will say it matters, but take a midget and put him on Game of Thrones and he'll be throwing harem parties in his honour.
/r/seduction27/06/16 07:38 AM
1

My book. I Hope It's Sunny Out.
/r/RedPillBooks24/06/16 12:27 AM
2

For the gym just use situational. Talk about workouts, diet, gym stuff. The first step is that she knows you exist.
/r/seduction14/06/16 11:16 PM
2

Start by chatting her up. You have to at least introduce yourself.
/r/seduction14/06/16 10:04 PM
4

Stop feeling weird about it. Lead. Show confidence. And who cares if they reject you? It happens. "We should chat about this later. What's your number?" Make sure your phone is ready. If she give you the number, sweet. If not, just say "No problem."
/r/seduction31/05/16 03:26 AM
1

If you live in a first world country then you will need to learn what we call "Game." Because women have the power in mate selection, they will be looking to land the "best" guys they can. Not the nicest, kindest, gentlest. If you want to be yourself, just nice, go to a developing country and try online dating. Like Vietnam, Columbia or Eastern Europe. There women just want to meet foreign guys. If you're in the West, learn how to be excellent at everything you do. Be more fun, more outgoing, be…
/r/seduction31/05/16 01:02 AM
3

Really great post. I don't have time to read it all right now but it's bookmarked.
/r/seduction25/05/16 04:44 AM
1

Save up, hire a coach.
/r/seduction19/02/16 03:24 AM
1

Sure. I've been coaching six years. I wrote an article about how to become a dating coach because so many guys asked me.
/r/seduction17/02/16 06:30 PM
1

You have to do what works.
/r/seduction04/02/16 10:28 AM
0

I liked it
/r/seduction25/01/16 12:42 AM
1

This one
/r/seduction24/01/16 06:51 AM
1

That's too bad. Can't help ya there.
/r/seduction19/01/16 06:17 AM
1

Exactly. The same way you learn any skill. By failing and learning from your mistakes.
/r/seduction18/01/16 11:40 PM
0

Why what? It's called cold approach pickup. Go to bars. Go to malls. Pickup girls. Doesn't matter what age you are. Go learn.
/r/seduction18/01/16 11:23 PM
2

I never went to college. Didn't get good with women until my late twenties.
/r/seduction18/01/16 11:02 PM
1

Shhhhhh
/r/seduction18/01/16 09:14 AM
1

I actually have a pathetically small subscriber base. I live month to month off coaching clients. I just want to create art man. That's all.
/r/seduction15/01/16 10:29 PM
1

I get that. Was just checking.
/r/seduction15/01/16 10:28 PM
3

Malls, street corners, book stores, coffee shops. Anywhere.
/r/seduction13/01/16 11:58 PM
1

Awesome list. I'm saving this to pillage later for my own articles. Just letting you know.
/r/seduction13/01/16 09:35 AM
1

Here is something I wrote about this just now
/r/seduction12/01/16 11:34 PM
1

Look for mastermind's groups. Also, join your local team sports. Toastmasters maybe. The online thing is a great idea. Create that space and invite people. Be a leader in the community.
/r/seduction05/01/16 09:14 AM
2

Don't try to be perfect. Fart if you have to fart. And if you're embarrassed about farting, say "Shit. I'm embarrassed." And if you're not, say "Fuck yeah I've been holding that for an hour."
/r/seduction05/01/16 09:13 AM
2

Thanks everyone I managed to get six new reviews.
/r/seduction20/12/15 03:19 AM
1

Yep that's him.
/r/seduction18/12/15 06:36 AM
4

Whatever
/r/seduction18/12/15 04:43 AM
2

Awesome newbie guide and a good reminder.
/r/seduction16/12/15 04:28 AM
1

Sure not strict. Just helps to have a model for some.
/r/seduction14/12/15 07:50 AM
1

If she's hot she's already fucking someone anyway. You won't lose anything. If she wants to fuck you, she will. There is no risk. Be abundant. You're not pretending to be busy. You are aware that she has other men in her life, and many social opportunities. She is waiting until the last minute to decide on everything, as her feeds bring in new opportunities every hour. And if you come off as needy you are done.
/r/seduction14/12/15 06:31 AM
1

Always wait 48 hours for a reply. You'll learn.
/r/seduction14/12/15 03:06 AM
1

So what. Be seen hitting on more women. If they're smart girls they will recognize your ambitious nature, and fight for your attention.
/r/seduction13/12/15 11:39 AM
3

I clearly stated it was for intermediate guys who have some social intelligence, or game. Not an idiot on a social experiment. Intermediate guys shouldn't have social anxiety. That's the point.
/r/seduction12/12/15 04:42 AM
1

I have one
/r/seduction11/12/15 11:37 PM
1

I am a coach in Van. My Facebook is TonyDAbsolute. Website is www.absoluteability.com. There is a Vancouver Lair Facebook group with some active guys.
/r/seduction10/12/15 10:11 PM
2

Hi. I am 5'7" About 8 years. Do it.
/r/seduction08/12/15 11:00 AM
1

;)
/r/seduction07/12/15 09:48 AM
1

Player guilt. My motto is I don't date women I'm not interested in spending more time with than one night.
/r/seduction07/12/15 03:42 AM
8

Obviously I don't have zero game. It's clickbait to get you guys curious enough to watch it. Guys who don't do pickup will never understand how many women you have to approach to get "results." It's not one, or two. You need to do thirty, forty, who knows? You do what I did in this video over, and over, and over and you go on instant dates, and collect bundles of phone numbers. It's not like a "One shot, one kill" sort of game. It isn't for me or any of my friends anyway. I've slept with a lot o…
/r/seduction07/12/15 02:31 AM
6

That's right. The primary means of communication for the majority of humans on the planet...doesn't mean shit. This is the part where you get inspired to go and try it yourself. Then report back with your findings. TD.
/r/seduction07/12/15 12:47 AM
1

Thanks! Yes I want to make more.
/r/seduction07/12/15 12:01 AM
2

I can't talk about that stuff because it could fuck with the girls' reputations irl. Sorry. But everything is all good! If I share that stuff it will be with trusted people in a closed forum. I have loads of lay stories in A Thousand Tiny Failures.
/r/seduction06/12/15 11:44 PM
1

Excellent advice
/r/seduction05/12/15 11:24 AM
3

RSD has a lot. And loads of daygame vids on youtube.
/r/seduction01/12/15 07:48 PM
1

The Montreal used to be a thing but it's sort of dead. You could try to join. Just Google it.
/r/seduction01/12/15 06:11 AM
1

oopsie. heh. Good luck!
/r/seduction30/11/15 12:51 PM
7

Yeah pretty much.
/r/seduction30/11/15 03:35 AM
3

All I can say is...you're doing it right. We all play the law of averages. You want a lot of options with daygame because most will flake. Probably 80%. If that seems like a lot, then you don't really know game. Krauser talks about it too.
/r/seduction30/11/15 03:33 AM
5

"You have to risk creepy" - 60 Years of Challenge
/r/seduction30/11/15 03:24 AM
7

6 years of teaching experience, running weekend bootcamps in bars and malls around the world. I don't need to psych myself up. It's like going to the office, or picking up a leaf. Just flirting with women is easy. Doesn't mean much. I need to do about ten of these to get a date with a hottie. You'll get there. Go feel the terror. Feel the pain! Pay your dues.
/r/seduction30/11/15 02:12 AM
13

They can tell I'm confident enough. But when it seems like the girl is unsure, it's just something I say to make sure I get the number. It shows a little abundance. Let's her know I'm not gonna be weird about it if she doesn't immediately text me back.
/r/seduction29/11/15 09:50 PM
46

Oh, it's just these guys
/r/seduction29/11/15 08:57 PM
4

No it's Vancouver BC near the art gallery. But I have done lots of daygame in Toronto. It's a good city for that.
/r/seduction29/11/15 08:36 PM
27

Man it makes me happy to know you're making progress. And yes everyone gets a little nervous. I mean, I don't very often anymore. I kinda miss that feeling. Let's you know you're alive. You need the skill to approach, the game to hook and close. But for the text backs you need abundance. Meet as many girls as you can. Always have multiple options.
/r/seduction29/11/15 08:13 PM
1

I'm pretty sure Cajun doesn't teach anymore. I travel all over Canada and have a decade of experience. I'm in the sidebar here on Seddit. www.absoluteability.com
/r/seduction25/11/15 06:37 AM
1

Thanks for your input!
/r/seduction25/11/15 04:30 AM
2

You should watch "Flawless Natural" by RSD. You shouldn't be hiding the fact that you have a dick. One one hand, you don't want to be the guy who is super eager to display your intent: i.e. think of the guy who just grinds on girls before introducing himself. On the other hand you don't want to pretend you don't have a sexual intent. Don't be ashamed of your sexuality, or think that you are fooling anybody. When I go out, I am a fully sexual being, and girls know it. But that doesn't necessarily…
/r/seduction23/11/15 04:25 PM
1

That's awesome mate. Next time stay in the interaction for two minutes after the spin.
/r/seduction23/11/15 12:34 AM
1

Mystery and Style started out on alseductionfast, which became fastseduction.com. That domain and forum was purchased by Gambler and is now gone forever, but archives can be found at a forum called "Sedfast." There's the Casanova Crew Rsd forums are very popular. As is Roosh V's if you're more into redpill stuff. I think the London pua community has a lot of forums. Check daygame.com. Also just Google various cities + lair, or men's group.
/r/seduction21/11/15 10:18 PM
2

Thank you so much!
/r/seduction20/11/15 09:22 AM
4

it is available in the UK
/r/seduction19/11/15 11:10 AM
15

But it's #1 on Seddit, so my headline worked.
/r/seduction19/11/15 05:23 AM
12

Canada! My country.
/r/seduction19/11/15 05:22 AM
5

2 days
/r/seduction19/11/15 01:52 AM
1

I hate Tinder
/r/seduction18/11/15 08:52 PM
1

Women are spoiled for choice. Women act on emotions. Given the choice to take action, meet someone new, or stay comfortable with the familiar, they will choose comfort most the time.
/r/seduction15/11/15 08:39 PM
1

tldr
/r/seduction25/10/15 12:50 AM
7

I read it. I always had the feeling that Mark Manson wrote that book. Not sure though. Basically it says to not just cold approach, but get involved with extra-curricular groups. If you just sarge your campus solo you will develop a bad reputation. That is if you're a newbie. It's better to become involved in sports, arts, or other groups, to meet people. Also, hosting parties.
/r/seduction13/10/15 01:25 AM
0

Seen this all before. AFC Adam comes to mind. Neil will be divorced in five years tops.
/r/seduction10/10/15 08:20 PM
0

Looks don't matter!
/r/seduction07/10/15 08:48 PM
19

It takes a lot of work for the average guy to be calm, confident, and "just be himself." Having a game plan isn't a bad thing for the anxiety ridden newbie.
/r/seduction07/10/15 05:11 AM
1

Here is my Goodreads list https://www.goodreads.com/review/list/24194456-tony-d?shelf=read
/r/seduction05/10/15 08:04 PM
2

I've had this happen to me before. You have to draw boundaries. "If you slap me again, I will bend you over my lap and spank the shit out of you." Say this seriously. And if she slaps you, seriously do that.
/r/seduction05/10/15 02:48 AM
2

Even for women, shy and awkward comes off as insecure, or low intelligence. Perhaps an abuse case, or just socially retarded. You need more social experience. Or you need to understand that valuable men do not like dating weird women. If you are an actual social anxiety case, you can hire a dating coach to help you. Being faux shy and awkard because you think that's what men want, is alright if you pull it off...with confidence.
/r/seduction02/10/15 07:25 AM
1

Look for a book by a guy named Wayne Elise Juggler.
/r/seduction02/10/15 12:40 AM
-3

Right. Whatever. My comment history is awesome too!
/r/seduction01/10/15 09:31 PM
0

Manipulation is the act of manipulating something in a skillful way. There is nothing wrong with manipulation. Harming someone is bad. Using someone is bad. You manipulate food when you cook dinner. You manipulate your bedroom when you clean it. The only "Trick" is you tricking your brain into being jealous when someone else is getting laid, and you aren't.
/r/seduction01/10/15 07:42 AM
-3

Hey I've got like 29 #1 posts. I've kinda figure some of it out.
/r/seduction01/10/15 05:46 AM
3

Well if you like nightgame, parties, clubs, etc. Make friends with promoters. Or, start a party house of your own. Rent a house with other single guys and start hosting house parties. Or, go to live music shows and befriend the cool musicians. Offer them value somehow.
/r/seduction01/10/15 05:22 AM
1

Focus on lasting more than two minutes in a conversations, making physical contact (kino) and getting a phone number. Then look for dates. "Hey, what's your phone number. We should hang out." Get to the point where girls say, "Ok." Or at least get rejected. As for "what to say," this is called "verbal game," and takes years of practice for some. You are essentially learning how to flirt. Keep reading. Keep meeting new women. Meet as many as you can.
/r/seduction01/10/15 05:19 AM
3

They're mostly still cool and popular, at work, in their social circle. It depends on what you define as cool. Are you into sports? Or the music scene? If you want to find the cool kids, realize they aren't kids anymore. People grow up. But look to niche communities.
/r/seduction01/10/15 05:17 AM
-2

Thanks
/r/seduction01/10/15 02:50 AM
5

Nah. Here's this idea that everyone is reading Mystery Method, and they're all a bunch of incels. It's not the case. Most guys are way too normal. They're boring. And their game sucks. Verbal, physical, and inner. But they're not a bunch of weirdos. Those guys mostly don't have the guts to go succeed at this stuff anyway. Edit. And you shouldn't take advice from anyone who isn't field testing their strategies.
/r/seduction01/10/15 02:46 AM
1

Just airing grievances.
/r/seduction01/10/15 02:32 AM
3

That's pretty negative. Lots of people go to lairs. I'm personally a member of two. The Montreal lair and The Vancouver lair. We have an active community and I've met lots of great guys who are my good friends. Not sure what you mean by having some fucking morals.
/r/seduction01/10/15 02:32 AM
137

Nice post not sure why it didn't get upvoted. You have to make a better headline and repost. Try this. "These Kissing Techniques Will Have Her Begging For Your Dick!"
/r/seduction01/10/15 01:27 AM
4

Why don't you want to be that guy? Why would you say "nobody" wants to be that guy. You know who wants to be "that guy?" "That Guy." That's who. Be that guy. Get the girls.
/r/seduction01/10/15 01:26 AM
1

Maybe you should take a bootcamp with a good dating coach?
/r/seduction01/10/15 01:24 AM
9

Most public forums have the same problem but they don't have a voting system. You could try Sedfast, or Girls Chase, RooshV, Mark Manson, Casanova Crew. Those are a few. But mostly I would say find your local lair, and meet the guys that are actually going out and getting laid. Talk to people in person where they aren't being censored. Edit: Also, I don't think the advice here is bad, the stuff that gets upvoted. It's just too bad the stuff that is edgy gets downvoted, where on a normal forum it…
/r/seduction01/10/15 12:57 AM
2

I get that. I don't blame Seddit. It was just a lot better when it was smaller. There are too many non-community people reading it and voting on pieces that would otherwise create great debate and discussion. It's part of having a voting system in place I suppose. I've learned over the years how to write headlines that the non-community, matrixy people will upvote. Basically it's anything that fits their narrative of "good guy hollistic self-help." As anything edgy gets downvoted by...well proba…
/r/seduction01/10/15 12:48 AM
2

This is another case of posts being upvoted when they're not really true, because they give good "feelings." Approaching is very important. And without approaching you won't meet any woman. But I would say that if you don't know anything about pickup, then approaching is about 50% of the work. If you're a newbie without experience with women, you have to actually go on dates, and spend time with women, and actually seduce and sleep with them. That's the rest.
/r/seduction01/10/15 12:35 AM
1

Here's an article I wrote called "How to avoid the friend zone." Maybe it will help.
/r/seduction30/09/15 09:39 PM
1

Because men want 9's and 10's. These super hot girls don't usually date below their league. So it's a lot of work to find a really hot girl that is willing to be a girlfriend to a regular joe with game.
/r/seduction28/09/15 09:03 PM
1

Just play in a band and gig on a regular basis. Then make sure you have approach skills. You'll have too many girls in no time.
/r/seduction28/09/15 07:50 PM
4

The book "The Game" sold like ten or twenty million copies. It was the first ever dating advice book for men. Since then thousands of online forums have popped up all over teaching guys how to get girls. If you know a guy, chances are he has read, or at least tried some of the techniques in these books. Blocking someone out of your life for being into pickup is like blocking out the male population. I think you are afraid he wants you just for sex. Perhaps you need to work on your self confidenc…
/r/seduction27/09/15 05:46 PM
5

If you're into night game, make friends with promoters. Adam Lyon's has lots of stuff about entourage game. You can get a group of pickup dudes and start a frat house, or a "project wherever" house. But I would not just look for pua dudes, but just people who are pretty good at pickup, or really into learning. Then throw parties. Throwing parties will bring many, many women into your life. For daygame. Anything girls like too. Yoga. Team sports. Dance. Acting.
/r/seduction27/09/15 06:33 AM
1

Go out with a wing if you are a newbie or hire a dating coach. The guys who get good at this stuff, they don't care if they have a wing. They have the gangster mentality that drives them towards success and they'll practice on their own, day and night.
/r/seduction27/09/15 06:29 AM
1

60 Years of Challenge by 60 Years of Challenge
/r/seduction27/09/15 06:26 AM
11

Dude I'm 5'7" and I've been with loads of beautiful women in my time. Don't worry about it.
/r/seduction27/09/15 04:44 AM
1

Ok.
/r/seduction27/09/15 02:22 AM
2

You're kinda nuts. Did some guy really fuck you over or something. I'm going to the date now. But if you want to talk do it through my email. I don't believe that girl is you. I want video.
/r/seduction27/09/15 02:17 AM
1

Perhaps I misjudged you. Doesn't feel nice to be judged, does it?
/r/seduction27/09/15 02:14 AM
2

Being pretty isn't a talent. I'm into girls who read books, travel, do yoga. Not take selfies in nightclubs and seek validation from pickup artists.
/r/seduction27/09/15 02:10 AM
1

7.5
/r/seduction27/09/15 02:08 AM
1

Ok. If you are really so eager to qualify yourself, you can email your pics to [email protected] where I have a crack team of experts who will be the judge of your attractiveness.
/r/seduction27/09/15 02:03 AM
1

In fact I'm repulsed by your ignorance and apparent intellectual laziness. It makes me think that if your mind is so dull, perhaps your body is obtuse as well.
/r/seduction27/09/15 01:58 AM
1

I don't want to neg you. I'm not attracted to you.
/r/seduction27/09/15 01:58 AM
1

That is not a neg. I don't know where you're getting your information from. Google it. Read one of our books, then come back here and judge us.
/r/seduction27/09/15 01:54 AM
1

Like what. What's a neg btw? Can you give me an example of a neg?
/r/seduction27/09/15 01:51 AM
2

Tell me why I'm an asshole. Let's talk more about me.
/r/seduction27/09/15 01:47 AM
4

You are one of those bitchy girls. That's not a neg btw, that's an observation. Doesn't mean you're not a sweet heart. But coming into a community and claiming to know what we're about, when you've read no books, met none of our thought leaders, and then claim that you are above the tens of thousands of women that our hundreds and thousand of hobbyists have dated using this stuff. Yeah. It's all evil trickery! You're right. We're all a bunch of jerks. This stuff doesn't work. Thanks for helping …
/r/seduction27/09/15 01:45 AM
5

Seduction works on anyone. The last guy you dated used "Things" to seduce you. We just point at psychology of attraction and use it to our advantage. The way women put on heels and lipstick, we use teasing, cockiness, aloofness, and other stuff. It's not trickery. It's just focused flirtation and self improvement. As for "negs" yeah they can be great for those bitchy girls to knock them down a rung.
/r/seduction27/09/15 01:37 AM
3

These "Things" do work on girls.
/r/seduction26/09/15 11:41 PM
0

American women are more masculine because of feminism.
/r/seduction20/09/15 07:44 PM
8

Get her to drop some E and play Black Sabbath for her. She'll figure it out.
/r/seduction20/09/15 07:27 AM
1

I would recommend not doing that, even though I guess some might. Most of my friends who are girls would find that extremely invasive and off putting when they just may be wanting to tune out the world. Says the guy who doesn't know how to pickup women
/r/seduction18/09/15 08:30 PM
4

Dude. Don't listen to these ladyboys. I've approached hundreds of girls with earbuds. You walk up to them and motion for them to pull their headphones out. Then you say, "Hi. I'm Kris." Or whatever your name is. Or ask what they're listening to. I would say half of the world has their headphones in, or are staring into their smart phones. Fuck their little electronic world. Seriously.
/r/seduction18/09/15 08:27 PM
2

www.mc2method.org
/r/seduction12/09/15 10:40 PM
1

Been there done that. It won't help. Just like exploring alcohol, or mdma, won't help. It will get you high. And when it wears off, your serotonin will fall and you'll want more. Coke sucks. Stay far, far, away from it.
/r/seduction04/09/15 02:59 PM
1

Yes, but you are social circle, so you have the upper hand on all of them. Next time, engage the men, become the leader, and keep the girl close. After all, none of those guys ended up with her. Women will always prefer a man who is vouched for by the social circle to a stranger.
/r/seduction31/08/15 04:40 PM
2

I've banged lots of hot girls. I worked hard for my game and learned a few things. If it's a social circle thing, don't ignore her unless she is ignoring you. You only need to ignore and punish her if she is doing it to you. You flirt with her, do your push pull, take her dancing and assume the sale. The moment she starts flirting with other guys and ignoring you, THEN you go hit on other girls and let her see it. The moment she shows jealousy, you try to make out with her, or become intimate. W…
/r/seduction31/08/15 04:25 AM
1

It's a good story. But what if instead of ignoring the girl all night because she's hot, you flirted with her all night, got to know her, showed her a good time, took her home and banged her?
/r/seduction31/08/15 12:56 AM
2

Here is video of the horrible assault that has instigated a nationwide manhunt
/r/MensRights10/08/15 11:17 PM
1

It's ridiculous that you're a prude
/r/MensRights10/08/15 11:12 PM
2

But they didn't. Because...who cares?
/r/MensRights10/08/15 10:04 PM
1

What? I'm not an mra. I don't know what you mean.
/r/MensRights10/08/15 10:03 PM
2

Yeah. And what about the ones that didn't sign?
/r/MensRights10/08/15 09:27 PM
6

Kissing me on the cheek is not sexual assault in my world. Because I'm a cool guy. Kiss my cheek, tickle me, slap my ass. I don't care. It's happened in bars, both straight and gay. It's part of life. I've even had gay men cup my balls. I don't care. If I don't like it, I let them know and move on with my life. If they inflict real assault that harms me, then I'll press charges or kick their ass. Or both.
/r/MensRights10/08/15 09:24 PM
1

They haven't stated it in the article. But the woman did file a complaint with the rcmp. Details haven't been released on the rcmp's decision.
/r/MensRights10/08/15 09:21 PM
3

I'm totally fine with it.
/r/MensRights10/08/15 09:20 PM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R7GQn8e3Erc
/r/MensRights10/08/15 09:12 PM
5

Is this assault? Where is she? Let's charge her with assault.
/r/MensRights10/08/15 09:09 PM
2

Your fashion sense is what matters here. We have to see that.
/r/seduction06/08/15 05:31 PM
1

Sedfast has an archive
/r/seduction03/08/15 08:27 AM
2

Hire a coach. Take a bootcamp.
/r/seduction30/07/15 07:10 AM
3

Nice close bro. You needed some kino. Maybe a neg.
/r/seduction29/07/15 08:00 AM
2

I don't like your opinion. I'm charging you with harassment.
/r/MensRights18/07/15 05:09 PM
3

Oh. Here's a podcast about that http://www.absoluteability.com/podcast/tony-d-vs-cyber-bullies/ And here's a recording of me vs some male feminists on the radio http://www.absoluteability.com/podcast/tony-d-vs-male-feminists/
/r/MensRights18/07/15 08:26 AM
3

Here's the story http://news.nationalpost.com/full-comment/christie-blatchford-ruling-in-twitter-harassment-trial-could-have-enormous-fallout-for-free-speech
/r/MensRights18/07/15 08:12 AM
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I've been on the receiving end of sjw lynch mobs. They couldn't fire me because I'm self employed. But I fear for a future when I could go to prison for a blog post.
/r/MensRights18/07/15 12:23 AM
8

Unless he's a male feminist
/r/MensRights18/07/15 12:22 AM
1

What is the neighbourhood called?
/r/seduction15/07/15 08:08 PM
1

I posted a blog post here that hit #1 for 24 hours. A 5000 word dating guide for women.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/15 02:44 AM
6

If you want to share it on r/theredpill that would be great. Spread the word. For some reason they downvoted me when I posted it. Not sure why they would hate on a free story.
/r/becomeaman13/07/15 11:16 PM
1

It's a reddit about redpill stuff? I like girls. You are girls who like redpill?
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/15 08:28 PM
2

Cheers.
/r/seduction12/07/15 07:33 PM
1

Oh. Maybe it isn't July 12th yet in the UK?
/r/seduction12/07/15 07:33 PM
2

No, here's the Canadian store, it's free.
/r/seduction12/07/15 07:16 PM
2

Really? That sucks. I'll look into that.
/r/seduction12/07/15 07:14 PM
11

Tinder is a female validation machine. Learn real life game. It's better.
/r/seduction05/07/15 08:47 PM
1

Welcome to seduction, where you unplug from the matrix. It's painful, and you will probably let out your nerd screams as you learn the truth. You might even ask to be put back in.
/r/seduction03/07/15 07:28 PM
2

I wrote a book about daygame
/r/seduction03/07/15 01:23 AM
1

Sure. But I did get invited to a party by a girl that used to bang Luke Wilson. She works in a bar with about a dozen hot girls. Another girl contacted me because she didn't know I was back in town. And three buddies invited me to parties. So, I don't see how this isn't pro active. But you all can keep on with your theories of what's better.
/r/seduction24/06/15 08:28 PM
1

I know what you mean. Another strategy is to host your own events or parties, and invite people. But for introverts, it's tough to do. This is easy, and a great first step. I actually got a date out of it.
/r/seduction23/06/15 02:23 AM
0

I posted the same message today and had 2 in ten minutes.
/r/seduction23/06/15 12:18 AM
1

email me @ [email protected] and I'll give you one.
/r/seduction18/06/15 11:22 PM
1

What country are you in?
/r/seduction18/06/15 10:07 PM
1

Exactly. It doesn't present a social barrier, as you display your own approachability with confident body language and a care free vibe. And you don't get bumped into and spill your drink.
/r/seduction15/06/15 06:43 AM
2

Yeah man. It's great you have passion. It's tough when English is a second language and I apologize there.
/r/seduction14/06/15 08:52 PM
5

Really bad article mate. Full of typos and spelling mistakes. "Be chill, just don’t do anything creepy: always have a smile on your face. lower your drink, don’t hold it up in front of your chest. Generally be relaxed in your own space." Telling guys not to be creepy. This is what stops most men from stepping up in the first place. They're afraid of being creepy. Be fucking creepy! Fuck haters. And what's with the drink thing. Want to spill your drink? Hold it at your chest where it's safe. It d…
/r/seduction14/06/15 08:23 PM
5

No. The mentality is just a stepping stone. You have to take action, whether to build a social circle, or status, that will bring more options into your life. It's thinking positively and acting positively. Not just one or the other.
/r/seduction05/06/15 07:10 PM
5

I wrote the article if you want to Ama.
/r/seduction05/06/15 06:54 AM
11

If you want to hold a girl's hand, you just hold your hand out palm up. When she places her hand, or hands in yours, you hold them. Give no reason, no explanation. I've done it on my bootcamps a hundred times. It's actually one of my exercises. Try it. And don't look at your hands when you do it. Assume she will comply. It's basically a compliance test.
/r/seduction04/06/15 09:52 PM
4

Who gives a shit what people think about you. Fuck them. FUCK THEM Do what you need. See a girl you think is pretty? Go talk to her. There's no law against that. Grow a pair of balls.
/r/seduction04/06/15 08:28 PM
1

I didn't get into game until I was 27. By 29 I was teaching professionally. I'm 37 now and glad I did.
/r/seduction04/06/15 12:52 AM
-8

I've been teaching pickup bootcamps full time for six years, and I've helped hundreds of men learn how to do day and nightgame to great success. It shaves a lot of time off their learning curve. I'd say about a year. Most problems are usually body language, like leaning, lack of eye contact, too much distance and not enough physicality, vocal tonality (upward inflection) and more. Then there's the fact that they usually eject too soon, so I make them stay in set. I get them to escalate when ther…
/r/seduction02/06/15 08:37 PM
2

Dude. It's your first try. This stuff takes years of practice.
/r/seduction27/05/15 02:02 AM
2

I love Mark Manson. I do write. I blog and wrote a novel.
/r/seduction01/04/15 01:31 AM
19

Any lawyers here?
/r/MensRights16/03/15 12:32 AM
2

I like that. Objectively observing behaviours.
/r/seduction13/03/15 05:49 AM
3

I don't see Canada being much different than your country. It's more likely that you were in "Travel" mode, in a better mood, with more of a feeling of adventure. This state is contagious and what puas try hard to emulate while out. Pickup is different in Vietnam though.
/r/seduction11/02/15 01:19 AM
0

This is like asking a fish why it swims. Read this. http://www.absoluteability.com/dating/girl-isnt-texting-back/
/r/seduction07/02/15 05:24 AM
2

This one
/r/seduction30/01/15 05:52 AM
5

Nah I've taught bootcamps with some really ugly guys and you're not one of them. You look Irish. The problem is, your game sucks.
/r/seduction29/01/15 07:53 AM
0

This must be written by a man. I've never heard a girl write "Mad Pussy."
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/15 01:11 PM
2

Yes. You might have to try a few times. Many girls will just jump to another guy if she thinks he is better. You never know if you don't try.
/r/seduction16/01/15 03:25 AM
2

Sometimes it's just logistics. I've hooked up with girls with boyfriends and husbands. (Sorry). You have to listen to "how" she says it.
/r/seduction15/01/15 05:09 PM
2

Have you tried meditation? I teach guys how to approach women, and for nearly all of them it can be a very emotional experience. I teach them how to check their breathing, their present moment awareness, and draw attention to what "actually happened" rather than the story their ego tells them. For example, a friend of yours see's your new outfit and say's, "Nice outfit," with a bit of a sarcastic tone. You get emotional because you interpret it as her being a bitch. But what really happened? She…
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/15 07:51 AM
1

Good point. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/15 07:27 AM
-1

I thought you meant Charles Manson. That would make sense.
/r/seduction07/01/15 01:00 PM
1

Thanks. So far there are 0 reviews from this giveaway. I'm glad you liked it.
/r/seduction31/12/14 05:06 AM
1

Thanks I could use it.
/r/seduction30/12/14 03:37 AM
1

Cheers.
/r/seduction27/12/14 03:17 PM
1

Eaton Centre is the best!
/r/seduction26/12/14 04:22 AM
1

Thank You. Vancouver BC. I don't know if I came up with Insight vs observation on my own. Maybe. It just makes sense though.
/r/seduction26/12/14 01:21 AM
0

Thanks guys. Enjoy. Please leave reviews on Amazon. The link is above. You don't need to purchase it to leave a review.
/r/seduction25/12/14 01:06 PM
10

I wrote a post with a few hundred comments about this. It's all about supply and demand my friend.
/r/seduction25/12/14 06:09 AM
4

Amazing book
/r/seduction18/12/14 03:01 PM
2

She's not losing interest, she just doesn't have enough to begin with. If you're going for very pretty white girls, you need a few things to get them more excited. Social proof. Let her see you being more social with other girls, getting numbers, etc. This is also called pre-selection and will make you more abundant. Your look. Hot girls like hot guys. Be in shape, well groomed and dress well. Be more fun, with more positive energy. If you can make her laugh, and give her a roller coaster of emo…
/r/seduction10/12/14 08:31 AM
0

This will ruin the bloggers Google rankings and lower their keyword strength. Google penalizes the website because Reddit is a stronger site than most small seduction blogs, which costs them readers.
/r/seduction06/11/14 04:01 AM
4

I've had about 27 of my blog posts hit #1 on Seddit. Many sat there for over 24 hours. If you want, I could stop sharing them? They're not all spam. Let the voters decide.
/r/seduction05/11/14 03:29 PM
3

No. Be the player. Own the player. You will get a lot of shit tests but just play it up. Laugh it off. Women love a player because it means women like you.
/r/seduction31/10/14 01:44 PM
1

This article on hostel pickup might help
/r/seduction31/10/14 02:54 AM
6

It doesn't matter what you think she thinks. It only matters what you think of yourself. She's looking to you for leadership. If you don't believe you're the shit, no matter what you look like, how much you make, what you do, then why should she?
/r/seduction01/10/14 03:40 PM
1

If you go to look at it on Amazon.com, it will show you all the books that other people buy after reading Models. This is one of them.
/r/seduction27/09/14 03:14 AM
2

You are a ball of clay and you can be whoever, or whatever you want to be every day and night of the week. Your personality isn't static. Do what you want that night. Wanna be an asshole? Do it. Want to be charming and polite? Try it. I've tried and succeeded at everything.
/r/seduction25/09/14 11:26 AM
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Women can be incredibly needy, jealous, anxious and more. They don't instinctively understand any more than you or I do. It's just that they've been flirting with men since they were thirteen years old, discussing sex and love since they were 14, and in field since they were 15. You are 31 and just getting started.
/r/seduction25/09/14 11:25 AM
1

Here I wrote a post http://www.absoluteability.com/game/busted-for-daygame-on-campus/
/r/seduction16/09/14 01:21 AM
10

You are miscalibrated somewhere? Usually it has something to do with your game coming off as "creepy." That could be your nervousness, "over" gaming (trying too hardy to be flirty) or going "direct" on every single girl on campus. It's not illegal to talk to people but it's easy on a campus to be labeled as a "street harrasser" or some bullshit. If you're getting no responses there is definitely something off with your approach. Maybe you look like a nerd, a slob or something? That makes all the…
/r/seduction16/09/14 12:32 AM
2

I wrote a book about it
/r/seduction30/07/14 07:54 PM
2

I just talk to them both, number close. I spent years doing night game so handling a group isn't a big deal.
/r/seduction29/07/14 08:12 PM
4

I have picked up girls by approaching 2 or 3 sets and saying, "Hi. You're all really cute but I had to meet this girl. I'm so and so." It's just a direct approach, and I've done it dozens of times.
/r/seduction29/07/14 08:05 PM
2

The eye contact one is golden. The thing is, most guys can force eye contact by waving or saying hello. That's all that is required. As for the office, I've never worked in one. If it's too loud you work on your body language, taking up space, being physical, dancing, etc. Groups are just another obstacle. Learn how to approach and charm the group.
/r/seduction28/07/14 07:49 PM
1

Read this about oneitis
/r/seduction25/07/14 07:15 PM
1

It's like fishing. You pack your gear and go home, try again tomorrow.
/r/seduction24/07/14 07:08 PM
1

St Catherines or the mall
/r/seduction24/07/14 07:07 PM
1

Loads of places. Any type of bar you could imagine. Too many to count. St Laurent is perfect for street game. Lower St Denis for the French girl action. Crescent street downtown for the mainstream tourist bars.
/r/seduction23/07/14 05:29 PM
1

More like 2 years actually.
/r/seduction22/07/14 07:10 PM
5

There is no one moment you move past it. It becomes a part of who you are. The social freedom or, "I don't give a crap," way of being is ideal for being a great seducer, but it doesn't come easy. This book is all about that process. For myself I got over the major heart pounding, stuttering, foolish behaviour after about three months of going out every night. I mean EVERY NIGHT. I did that for 1.5 years. Now, 8 years later, I'm not really afraid to approach anyone.
/r/seduction21/07/14 09:40 PM
1

Hey thanks. Mail like this keeps me going. Proud to say I have been working on lasting longer, but those big asses get me sometimes. Tell Reddit you like my book! Peace.
/r/seduction21/07/14 08:48 PM
3

First, don't even consider yourself creepy, not for a second. Become as "in the moment" as possible at all times. Remember, whatever you feel, she feels. Any insecurity on your part is transferable. However there are certain aspects of perception you can easily control. Master your emotional/physical link. Mental anxiety causes physical oddities like facial twitching, hand wringing, stuttering and so forth. Master your mind. Drive your own bus.
/r/seduction19/07/14 10:54 PM
9

This book is all about that and it's cheap
/r/seduction18/07/14 06:19 PM
5

I've been teaching pickup full time for five years, and trust me, almost everyone has this same problem. You're not alone. I used to have aa too, really bad. Heart palpitation, sweating palms, stuttering, not knowing what to say. The reason you can't talk to strangers but you can talk to your friends is simple: When you're nervous, it causes a loop. Your brain goes into panic, flight or fight, and it affects your body: Heart rate, etc. So in order to stop the body from freaking you have to stop …
/r/seduction06/07/14 07:44 PM
3

Actually those aren't negs. Neg's are negative compliments ie. "Your hair is really nice, do you have any split ends?" Or, "You did a great job on your nails, except for that one." When he is mocking your pants this is actually "breaking rapport." Men have been taught with bad dating advice that being a jerk gets girls turned on, and sadly, for many it does. But it has to be executed with great skill for it to come off as flirtatious. Men's big fear is that they will come off as needy. So giving…
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/14 07:00 PM
2

You're right in pointing this out. I guess I just picked up a bit of the flavor of the movie. I'm all for supporting the whining, snivelling newbie. (A bit of sarcasm here.) I actually teach approaching for a living so I deal with all sorts of men, and the ones that learn the fastest are those that keep their heads held high and don't fall into despair too often. You can support someone for only so long before they must learn to support themselves.
/r/seduction20/06/14 11:48 AM
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Well imo what you're doing right is that you're out there on the corner taking action. But your energy is not that good. You sound a little bit, no, a lot robotic. "Hello. How are you. Come talk to me." The girl who said, "Why?" was pretty spot on. You're not really giving her a reason to stay and talk to you. Maybe have another routine. Or ask questions. "Hey, where would you go to have the best night in Dallas?" You need to do what we call, "Plowing." That's where you talk, and talk, and talk.…
/r/seduction10/06/14 08:20 PM
1

I lived in Montreal for 2 years. That's where I learned pickup. I even wrote a novel about my time there called A Thousand Tiny Failures. It's a fantastic city. Move there. You won't regret it at all. You don't need any french if you live central, The Plateau or downtown.
/r/seduction10/06/14 08:13 PM
5

Here's an article on daygame
/r/seduction09/06/14 11:11 PM
1

And don't worry about teasing people, it doesn't really matter at first. That's like a pro snowboarder saying, "I want to snowboard, but I can't do a backflip while taking a selfie."
/r/seduction06/06/14 05:15 AM
2

Everybody starts off like this. You have to man up, be a nervous fool and suck at it. I did. Everyone did. You can't become a pro without falling on your face a few hundred times. This is why you practice on strangers, in places where making an ass out of yourself doesn't matter. Sorry.
/r/seduction06/06/14 05:15 AM
0

Asian men are my #1 customer for coaching actually. Indians and Chinese mostly. They have issues with women in North America. Mostly having to do with their own limiting beliefs and maybe a little bit of prejudice.
/r/seduction05/06/14 08:30 PM
1

Mad? Heck no. Go learn. Private coaching is great for guys that can afford it. But if you can't, just get out there and put in the work.
/r/seduction05/06/14 08:29 PM
1

That's my website
/r/seduction04/06/14 02:04 AM
2

The Montreal lair is the first group I ever joined. Back in 2007-2011 it was very active and hosted great speakers from all over (including myself 5 times)
/r/seduction03/06/14 07:49 PM
2

Everybody starts off with a little social anxiety. You wouldn't be here looking for help if you didn't. The pua advice all says the same thing. You get good at picking up women by trying to pickup women. The side effect is confidence and a general lack of anxiety. So yes, make small talk, all the time, every day.
/r/seduction03/06/14 04:26 AM
2

Yeah man. I do it two or three days a week with total strangers on the street. Myself and most of my students and friends are having about 1 or 2 dates a week this summer. It's not that hard, but it's real hard.
/r/seduction02/06/14 07:47 AM
3

10 a week. But they can't be like, "Hi you're cute!" EJECT. You need to stay in the interaction as long as possible and try your best to get a number close or insta date. If you just say something then eject, it doesn't count.
/r/seduction02/06/14 07:46 AM
5

I'm a coach. I put guys on a 2 approach a day, daygame program. Most guys get a girl to at least meet them for a date within one week.
/r/seduction02/06/14 01:21 AM
1

If you want "game" to work, you have to believe 100% that it works. Just like when Morpheus told Neo he had to believe to jump across the buildings. And I am right.
/r/seduction26/05/14 02:12 AM
3

It works just fine. The odds are usually about 1/10 meaning that if you have good grooming, body language and control of your emotions (meaning you aren't a nervous wreck) at least 1 out of 10 women will give you their numbers. I'm dating a few really attractive girls. One I met in a clothing store, the other outside a restaurant. I haven't had a guy get less than this percentage ever. And about 1/10 of those numbers usually turns into a date. These are newbie numbers. Vets have much better odds…
/r/seduction21/05/14 05:49 PM
16

It's a long story
/r/seduction21/05/14 05:41 AM
58

I've been teaching daygame for over five years. Men pay me thousands of dollars a weekend to go to the beach, point to a girl and say, "Go now." The most popular line these days is, "Hi I just thought you were cute and wanted to meet you. I'm blah blah blah." Seriously. It's my full time job for half a decade and I get results. They pay me to do that. You can do it for free.
/r/seduction21/05/14 02:25 AM
2

Don't shit where you eat. On that note, don't be needy. If you like a girl, it's easiest to look her straight in the eye and say, "Hey, just so you know. I think you're cute." If you say this like a man, without a care at all, very matter of fact, she'll take it. Then get her number. "What's your number I'll text you later." Don't pull this shit all of the time, especially on shift. If you have loads of anxiety and approach fear, etc, you need to dedicate some time to practice far away from work…
/r/seduction16/05/14 04:34 AM
1

Ok no worries.
/r/seduction28/04/14 12:49 AM
2

Nailed it
/r/seduction27/04/14 10:21 AM
1

I say M'lady all the time and I teach pickup for a living. It can come off as rather funny and not as supplication if you are making fun of it.
/r/seduction17/04/14 09:46 PM
1

Mystery and intrigue
/r/seduction10/04/14 08:24 PM
2

It's pretty much true. I want to be Charles Bukowski. He didn't use his real name. I don't want to be remembered as a pua, but as an author.
/r/seduction24/03/14 10:03 PM
3

They are too cute I guess
/r/seduction24/03/14 05:55 PM
2

Thanks
/r/seduction24/03/14 07:56 AM
14

Next I'll write a book that might get me laid
/r/seduction24/03/14 04:31 AM
1

Did you read my novel? I got a bad rap with my roommates. Never in a bar though.
/r/seduction13/03/14 09:39 PM
1

IT happens when you're a newbie. But what can you do? Try going to different bars? Maybe hire a local coach to eradicate some of the issues that are causing girls to get creeped out. If you're not creeping girls out, you won't have a bad reputation. There is no law against flirting.
/r/seduction13/03/14 02:17 AM
1

Maybe this will help https://www.goodreads.com/review/list/24194456-tony-d?shelf=read
/r/seduction12/03/14 02:44 AM
1

Check out Charles Bukowski
/r/seduction08/03/14 09:29 AM
1

I share freebies on the [website and email list](http:www.absoluteability.com) all the time. Gave away I Hope It's Sunny Out last month to my mailing list.
/r/seduction05/03/14 09:08 PM
1

Yes I do. On Vokle.
/r/seduction05/03/14 08:02 AM
2

When you don't really care what people think of you as you shamelessly hit on a girl in public.
/r/seduction05/03/14 05:17 AM
1

You don't have to purchase the book to leave a review
/r/seduction05/03/14 05:16 AM
14

My plan is to take the reviews and use it to capture the interest of the big five publishing houses, and guys like Tucker Max, Neil Strauss, and any press that might review the book.
/r/seduction05/03/14 04:44 AM
2

Man I miss those women. I hope more women read it and then I will have groupies instead of puas. One day. ;)
/r/seduction05/03/14 03:19 AM
2

Follow my email list at my blog www.absoluteability.com.
/r/seduction05/03/14 02:57 AM
15

Edit. Wow thanks everyone! Sniff. You like me. You really, really like me!! 14 new reviews. I realize most people didn't finish it yet, but I thought if I asked a month from now most people would have forgotten about it.
/r/seduction05/03/14 01:17 AM
3

Sorry this one
/r/seduction05/03/14 01:03 AM
19

The giveaway is over but I'm still receiving a ton of email asking for free copies. Yeah I guess it is a decent strategy. Hey, I learned game the same way, by hustling. Thanks for the upvotes I thought this would get trolled and downvoted right away. Nice.
/r/seduction05/03/14 12:23 AM
2

The game is littered with paradox. For every ying there must be yang.
/r/seduction04/03/14 10:35 PM
1

Don't worry what people think of you. Tell them you like the story. It's fiction.
/r/seduction03/03/14 04:49 AM
2

There's a kindle app that works on any mobile device or desktop.
/r/seduction02/03/14 10:03 PM
1

Thank you I'm glad you enjoyed it. Please leave a review on Amazon
/r/seduction02/03/14 09:24 PM
1

Wait. Write to? You mean submit a link? I don't get it.
/r/seduction01/03/14 11:46 PM
2

Thanks. Please leave a review somewhere. On the lawn outside your house maybe.
/r/seduction01/03/14 09:43 PM
1

Where do I get a Dogecoin wallet? I don't know how to accept these donations.
/r/seduction01/03/14 07:27 PM
2

Merci. Vous devez partager un lien vers cette r / montreal
/r/seduction01/03/14 07:20 PM
2

I might be down there in May if I sell any bootcamps.
/r/seduction01/03/14 07:10 PM
1

Thanks. Please review it on Amazon or a blog
/r/seduction01/03/14 07:02 PM
1

Thanks for the support guys. Remember to leave your review on Amazon
/r/seduction01/03/14 06:21 PM
5

I always wanted one of these dogecoins
/r/seduction01/03/14 05:56 PM
1

I've been to LA. I've taught there but I live in Vancouver. I was there in October. I like the beaches.
/r/seduction01/03/14 10:06 AM
5

$7 total. I get $5. But it's my birthday present.
/r/seduction01/03/14 06:47 AM
3

It's still around. Full of typos and errors and horrible advice.
/r/seduction01/03/14 06:44 AM
1

Sure. Two beers though. Everything in twos.
/r/seduction01/03/14 06:37 AM
5

Oh boy. I think you need to read my memoir. Haha. One woman. Oh boy that's a tough one. Is there such thing? I'm still searching for my goddess I suppose.
/r/seduction01/03/14 06:01 AM
6

Delusions of Grandeur and a nagging feeling that I was worth more than what I was given. I still suffer greatly from this.
/r/seduction01/03/14 05:49 AM
21

Thank you for paying for my americano and muffin addiction.
/r/seduction01/03/14 03:38 AM
7

Oh yeah. I used to be an incel, anxiety attack case with no direction in life. Now I write novels, date hotties and teach pickup for a living. Quite a different person.
/r/seduction01/03/14 03:23 AM
2

Interesting. I've been tweeting for a year and still only have like, 150 followers. www.twitter.com/tonydabsolute
/r/seduction01/03/14 01:51 AM
3

Can't open it? I offered three versions above.
/r/seduction01/03/14 01:44 AM
21

I do have a wallet but nothings in it! 16wLmutbrcJrxNmJKRt8qW9d6rXA3uDxAm Not even sure how to do bitcoin but that would be cool. I have a donation button on my website at www.absoluteability.com. Much appreciated if you do. If you don't, no worries.
/r/seduction01/03/14 01:44 AM
2

Woa thanks I'll take that. Ride the rainbow to your dreams or whatever.
/r/seduction25/02/14 02:48 AM
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Thank you
/r/seduction28/01/14 05:45 AM
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I learned copywriting the same way I learned game. Trial and error. What works and what doesn't. The ability to hit #1 in a sub involves many of the same principles of game. Anyway. Thanks for the upvotes everyone it's always exciting to share my ideas with r/seduction. If you're not a producer you're a consumer.
/r/seduction28/01/14 01:31 AM
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Quit telling yourself you have "crippling AA." You are perpetuating this behaviour. Tell yourself, "I'm confident," "I'm attractive," "I'm never afraid of talking to girls." And of course practice more.
/r/seduction24/01/14 10:58 PM
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Maybe the problem is you're seeing women as adversaries. Put me in any situation where there is a woman I want to meet, and I will meet her. That's all I'm saying. All these guys trying to logic why they shouldn't make an approach, or ask the forum members for permission. It's just wrong. I understand some guys are serious introverts, and I was too. Not anymore.
/r/seduction16/01/14 11:30 PM
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I talk to any girl I want to, whenever I want to. This is my strategy.
/r/seduction16/01/14 12:00 AM
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It's a joke about ego. Watch the movie "Being John Malcovich."
/r/seduction15/01/14 07:29 PM
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I'm a Pisces. We're natural artists, healers and performers.
/r/seduction15/01/14 07:37 AM
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I can only teach you how to teach yourself. Bootcamps are a great investment if you plan to keep practicing. Otherwise you might as well go on a trip with that money. I've never had a bad review. Check all the lairs I frequent as Zardoz. Lots of bootcamp reviews. All glowing. I'm friends or in touch with many ex students that will attest to my dedication and professionalism. I will never ask a student to do something I am not immediately willing to demonstrate. How's that for a sales pitch? I st…
/r/seduction15/01/14 07:34 AM
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A New Earth I consider mandatory reading. Bonus points for the power of now. It's basically self-awareness for dummies. It's a lot of what we forgot about when we transitioned from deities to capitalism and scientific method. If you don't understand how your ego functions, then you are blind to the workings of your own mind. The ultimate ignorance. This is why no matter how much we read and hit on women, we're still in The Matrix, and always were. Other heroes are too many to count. All great fi…
/r/seduction15/01/14 07:31 AM
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I'm still a nice guy. Fuck you! ;)
/r/seduction15/01/14 01:26 AM
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"Tony. Would you be interested in meeting my sisters?"
/r/seduction15/01/14 01:19 AM
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Is this how you think women see your approach? Newbie Vision. Notice the laughter when they realize the baby isn't that scary. Allow women time to adapt to reality. Instead of walking away, remain in the interaction. They'll figure out that you're fun, or they'll walk away. edit. Or you will creep them the f$&%k out. It happens. Oh well.
/r/seduction15/01/14 01:08 AM
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I don't think that meta. but here's a post called How Long Will It Take?
/r/seduction15/01/14 12:49 AM
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The first time I went out solo. I was so scared I pretended to talk on my cell phone, because everyone was looking at me. This is one of the stories in A Thousand Tiny Failures. The stories teach very specific lessons. Layered lessons. Last Year I travelled Se Asia for four months alone. So yes, you can learn to do this. Go out tonight, alone. Talk to at least one girl. Then come home and write about it. Go to a club, or a mall, and try it once. This will do more for your game than ten ebooks. I…
/r/seduction15/01/14 12:45 AM
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Ten. Damn. I'll just make a list of ten random aphorisms. Follow your questions and fascinations Say what you feel you need to say I'm satisfied with never being satisfied Malcovich, Malcovich, Malcovich Don't compare yourself to others. Model others. Respect. Pua coaches are people. They're not much better than myself, or my friends. They get flaked on a lot too. Puas handle rejection well. If it makes me angry, I probably don't get it yet. Before swans make love - they fight Negs work Hot girl…
/r/seduction15/01/14 12:20 AM
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Imagine you arrive your first day at Hogwarts, and all the bigger kids are flying on brooms, shooting lasers from wands and levitating things. They tell you, "If you want to do this too, you should go out and practice as much as possible." For me, every night out was like going to Hogwarts. It was a fun adventure. Not a grind. I loved every minute of it, and it made for a good story, which I knew I would write about one day. How bad do you want it? It's really easy. Go out and practice. Put on y…
/r/seduction14/01/14 11:43 PM
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I think redpill is a combination of MRA (mens rights) and Pua. They are unnecessarily obsessed with fat shaming, feminazis, white knights, manginas and false rape accusations. They are also leaning very far into the conservative right wing. I just did a podcast on this. Check this out.
/r/seduction14/01/14 11:23 PM
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Oh man. Isn't learning this stuff an emotional rollercoaster? In the novel I attempted to illustrate the emotional aspect of constant validations and rejections. Up and down, up and down. Good news is the more you do it, the less of a fuck you give what happens, and what people think of you. Bad news is as long as you play the game, chase women, seek validation and all that - you will continue to face this paradox. This is why many pickup artists (cough redpill) end up becoming mysogynistic. Lik…
/r/seduction14/01/14 10:23 PM
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Honestly, as far as pickup neediness is concerned, you have to find success with it. After you've been with a handful of women that you cold approached, you will feel like a Dick Wizard. Like anything is possible. Then after five years or so and a long series of sexual, or dating experiences, you become pickier about who you share your time with. In the long run it won't be a something to overcome, but who you are. Women who are curious will find out for themselves. You can fake it until you mak…
/r/seduction14/01/14 09:16 PM
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Well, the best advice I can give you is to prove yourself wrong. Go out, practice for thirty days and hit on every tall girl you meet. Do not ever let them know you are insecure. Other than that, try hiring a good Hypnotist. For real. They can do wonders for limiting beliefs.
/r/seduction14/01/14 09:14 PM
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God I'm a bad dancer. I spent one month practicing only dance floor game, grabbing girls and spinning them, pulling them in, grinding. All it lead to was a serious case of blue balls. But after that month I learned how to be comfortable on a dance floor, even though I'm a pasty white guy with no rhythm. Take salsa lessons. That's what every pua does. I'm doing that soon actually, with a girl I met at the mall.
/r/seduction14/01/14 09:13 PM
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Well, I wouldn't say I ever overcame that, since it is the girls choice whether or not she wants to see me again. However, I've matured. My retention is much better. Girls often want to be my girlfriend, but I'm not that anxious to have a monogamous relationship. So this lack of neediness is very attractive to girls. And also it's because I'm on my path. I've been on the cover of a major newspaper, I have my own business. I've published popular books. But the big thing is that I know how to give…
/r/seduction14/01/14 09:08 PM
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I would say the first time I had a super hottie riding naked on me. I was like, "It works!" That took me three months, going out 7 days and nights a week. A hundred rejections, sets that went nowhere, humiliating moments like hands in the face, being told to go away, phone numbers to nowhere that wouldn't text back. Three months and I finally got a girl. This is what my novel is about.
/r/seduction14/01/14 08:54 PM
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I'm 5'7" Been with many women who are taller than me. Younger, taller, older. It doesn't matter what: Flip the script. "What did your parents feed you?" "How tall are you without the heels?" Serious limiting belief here. If it bothers you it will bother her. Don't let your self-image affect your game. Ignore it, because there is nothing you can do about it. I know plenty of great pua's who are short. Cajun for example. Tenmagnet, Jeffy, Alex, Shit, most puas are shorter.
/r/seduction14/01/14 08:51 PM
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Women love sex and lie about how often they partake. Don't judge them and they will open up to you.
/r/seduction14/01/14 08:43 PM
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This is a good question with an emotional core. It sounds like you have a little bit of a Madonna - Whore complex. That's not a bad thing. But do some research into the subject and ask yourself why you consider a woman "slutty?" Is it because she's had more sexual experience than you have? There are plenty of slutty girls walking around in the daytime, and plenty of good, virginal type women in the clubs. I make plenty of physical connection in the daytime, and sometimes emotional connections at…
/r/seduction14/01/14 08:37 PM
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I saw this really bad (great back then, and still useful) video of a second Gen pua named Mehow. He was running a kino, mind reading routine, where you hold the girls hand. I tried the routine but forgot the lines, and just ended up holding the girl's hands. Then I would go out and hold out my hand, girls would put their hands in mine, and I would pull them in closer. After a while I was picking them up into my arms, over my shoulder fireman style, and more. I realized that if I acted dominant a…
/r/seduction14/01/14 08:33 PM
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I never had a problem with motivation. Going out and flirting with women was an enjoyable and exciting pastime. It was scary sometimes, but I liked that element of it. I was investing in my future. This was my college education. And the pretty women were so sexy, how could I not want to go out and meet them? Every time I went out I felt a little bit more confident. Logistics helped. I moved into a neighbourhood, The Plateau in Montreal, where there was an abundance of clubs, pubs and cafe's. Eve…
/r/seduction14/01/14 08:28 PM
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What I'm talking about in my blog post is not about the initial negative feelings. It's about the post negative feelings generated by guys immersing themselves too deeply into the culture. And trust me. I'm not a white knight beta male. I've fucked close to 100 girls, using pua techniques. But it's sad watching a cult form that is promoting close minded thinking. It's not blue pill to think outside the box, when your box is your religion. Following a dogma is not Red Pill. The Truth is subjectiv…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 07:07 AM
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You all have 45 minutes. You are just fine, just where you are, in a box.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 07:03 AM
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This is a perfect example of someone not understanding what has been said, and lashing out with anger and downvotes.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 06:58 AM
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Redpill will turn you into an angry little man. Get the information and get out. http://www.absoluteability.com/philosophy/manosphere-rant/
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 04:01 AM
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You didn't even listen to it.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 04:00 AM
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There are women like Kezia Noble and Arden Leigh who give very good advice, because they learned from pua instead of bitching about it.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/14 05:43 AM
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Thanks for the tip.
/r/seduction13/11/13 10:28 AM
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At least read the article if you're going to whine
/r/seduction13/11/13 02:57 AM
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I wrote an article about this. Check it out. http://www.absoluteability.com/game/what-to-say-to-girls-2/
/r/seduction11/11/13 08:35 PM
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Nice guys finish last. Risk being creepy.
/r/seduction10/11/13 08:05 PM
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I wrote about this not too long ago. http://www.absoluteability.com/game/insta-girlfriend/
/r/seduction02/11/13 09:49 PM
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People always hate and fear what they don't understand. But maybe someone will come here, or buy my book and change their life. I'll be a damn martyr for that.
/r/seduction02/11/13 12:15 AM
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90% flake rate is pretty standard. 9 out of 10. That's 1 out of 10. Most men say they have high flake rates, but get one, two or three numbers a week. Get ten numbers a week.
/r/seduction29/10/13 05:42 PM
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Read this. http://www.absoluteability.com/dating/girl-isnt-texting-back/
/r/seduction24/10/13 06:54 PM
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So you look really young? You must have a baby face. If you're too skinny, consider hitting the weights and taking protein shakes? It might take a lot of work to put on weight. I know it's hard to do but that is an option. I know plenty of other guys that have done this. 5'3". I've dated plenty of taller women. I'm 5'7". Luckily there are plenty of women that are around your height. There's not much you can do about it. I know a pua guy who wears shoes that make him taller. He is about that heig…
/r/seduction19/10/13 06:02 PM
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Yeah I don't have a direct email. They'r literally being lazy since they just changed mods. Contact them again and say, "Hey man, you didn't reply to my application." I did mention it on the forum.
/r/seduction19/10/13 05:42 PM
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Sorry it's not hard copy yet. I'm working on it. Just send them another email because they had a change in management. I'll send them an email about it.
/r/seduction18/10/13 07:02 PM
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If you google your city + lair you would be surprised. Btw, I learned pickup in Montreal. It's a great city for nightlife and easy women. I even wrote a book about becoming a pua in that city. http://www.amazon.com/Thousand-Failures--Memoirs-Pickup-Artist-ebook/dp/B00F225ZTM/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1379017038&sr=8-1&keywords=a+thousand+tiny+failures
/r/seduction18/10/13 02:21 AM
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I don't think they're fake. I've seen enough of these girls giving the guys weird reactions, and they post a lot of blow out videos. They're just gags for sure, but they are using hidden cameras in some stuff. My friend showed me their subscriber only videos from vegas and I was wondering how they hide the cameras, that's all. I appreciate your opinion though. Mystery method is ridiculous. I love the guy and all I've learned from him. But we've come a long way man. A long way. Seddit is light ye…
/r/seduction09/10/13 06:39 AM
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Really?
/r/seduction09/10/13 04:28 AM
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If I have money and it's like, $3 I just buy it. Then I say, "you get the next one."
/r/seduction08/10/13 07:41 AM
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You can pick up girls without smiling at all. There was a study where they had women pick out the best looking guys from a bunch of pictures. They mostly chose the stoic looking faces.
/r/seduction08/10/13 07:39 AM
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It doesn't matter man. You're thinking too hard about stuff that doesn't matter at all. What you should be concerned about is staying in your set for two minutes, touching the girl, and closing. Pretty, sexy, babealicious, tasty, beautiful... It's all irrelevant. She gets it. You want to fuck her. Just be one with that. Don't be second guessing yourself. Just give her your compliment and don't expect anything in return. If she doesn't run away you better get her number or try to kiss her or fuck…
/r/seduction08/10/13 07:36 AM
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Whenever I tell hot, snarky girls to shut the fuck up with their daddy issues, they get turned on. I'm serious. Women and blue pill betas will deny it, but hot women are sick of pushovers and they have to go to the other extreme to find alpha type guys. Guys that won't take their bullshit.
/r/seduction07/10/13 05:44 PM
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Well, you've done well. Now I suggest you go out with her. Drop the ego man. Flakes happen.
/r/seduction05/10/13 06:15 PM
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Is she hot? If she is, just set up another date. She obviously likes you because you didn't chase her. That's all.
/r/seduction05/10/13 05:45 PM
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Yeah that one is good. In another episode from Season five Jake tells Finn to quit reading the dating books because they mess with his head.
/r/seduction04/10/13 08:34 PM
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It doesn't matter whether you go direct or indirect. If you are new to cold approach daygame, 10% is a very reasonable success rate, meaning 10% of women you number close will actually meet you again. That's not so bad, 1 in 10. Considering you can easily get ten phone numbers a week. The thing is you have blind spots, things you can't see yourself doing wrong. It is probably in your body language, vocal tonality or verbal game. Maybe you have a rising inflection, maybe you talk too fast, maybe …
/r/seduction03/10/13 06:57 PM
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Well, if you're looking at Thailand, Laos, Vietnam and so forth, I wrote this on my blog after I got back from 4 months of backpacking. http://www.absoluteability.com/dating/pickup-while-backpacking-in-south-east-asia/ I mostly went for white girls and did quite well with the method above. If you're after locals, Thai girls aren't hard to find. Though they're poor and looking for a sugar daddy. I'm not really into prostitutes and lots of them are prostitutes. I wasn't really attracted to Thai gi…
/r/seduction01/10/13 04:13 PM
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Snapsave
/r/seduction01/10/13 04:05 AM
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Thanks alot. Amazon reviews are my friend. ;) And btw, I wrote that book to answer the question: How long will it take?
/r/seduction01/10/13 03:15 AM
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I wrote a whole book about finding the redpill. Good for you man. http://www.amazon.com/Thousand-Tiny-Failures-Memoirs-ebook/dp/B00F225ZTM/ref=la_B00F206ZMU_1_2?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1380579103&sr=1-2
/r/TheRedPill30/09/13 10:14 PM
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I wrote all about coffee shop game in my book. It's my favourite place to meet women. If they're reading ask, "What are you reading?" If they're writing, ask, "Are you a writer?" It's up to you to have some game. You need to have some verbal skills and closing skills. http://www.amazon.com/Hope-its-Sunny-Out-ebook/dp/B00F13MD3I/ref=la_B00F206ZMU_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1380579103&sr=1-1
/r/seduction30/09/13 10:12 PM
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Memoirs of a Pua? http://www.amazon.com/Thousand-Failures--Memoirs-Pickup-Artist-ebook/dp/B00F225ZTM/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1379017038&sr=8-1&keywords=a+thousand+tiny+failures
/r/seduction30/09/13 10:10 PM
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I'm 35 and I date 18-21 year olds often. I'm also a professional dating coach. I'm seeing three girls at the moment, 19, 24 and 27. Open relationships in all of them. It happens all the time, but people try to shame you for it. It's none of their business really. Then again, I'm not really the monogamous type anymore since I spent so many years learning how to pickup girls. I'm pretty good at it I suppose. Young girls can be annoying, and they can be really fun. I like the really smart younger g…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/13 02:31 AM
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I love me my beard. It's so soft. I always make girls touch it in the bar and say, "It's soft right? Do you like that? Hmm. Yeah girl."
/r/seduction26/09/13 07:13 PM
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Sorry everyone that the free promotion is over. I will likely make it free again in the future as I have five days every three months. For those that bought a copy and left a review, thank you.
/r/seduction22/09/13 09:52 PM
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Great work bro. Don't forget to give it a few stars on Amazon.
/r/seduction22/09/13 07:06 AM
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There is a free kindle cloud reader and apps for iphone and ipad. You can also download the mobi and use Caliber to convert it to epub or pdf. I'm on a contract with Amazon for exclusivity for three months. Part of the deal is I'm allowed to give it away for several days for free if I am exclusive.
/r/seduction21/09/13 10:44 PM
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I gave this book away one year ago http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/u9cqb/for_2_years_ive_written_about_seduction_and/
/r/seduction21/09/13 09:05 PM
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You can use Caliber to convert from mobi to epub I think.
/r/seduction21/09/13 03:12 AM
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Read the first five pages, I promise it's good. I worked hard on it. if it sucks, don't read anymore.
/r/seduction21/09/13 03:07 AM
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There is an online Cloud kindle reader and a downloadable one.
/r/seduction21/09/13 03:07 AM
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Yeah that's funny. I get tons of haters from my online work, mostly women. But I have loads of female friends. They love my books and job. You just can't make everyone happy. It's a polarizing subject.
/r/seduction20/09/13 09:00 PM
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I bang a lot of girls, but they're all fine with it, mostly. But yeah the slut shaming is a real problem for me, since it's hard to find honest book reviews and not emotional knee jerk reactions. I mean, I was a journalist. I know how to write. At least mention the writing, and not just the theme. Sure it has lots of fucking and drama. Is that bad? I love books like that!
/r/seduction20/09/13 07:26 PM
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I'm a writer who writes pua books. Look at the difference in reviews from a man who likes pua material, and a woman who has never heard of it. http://www.amazon.com/Thousand-Failures--Memoirs-Pickup-Artist-ebook/dp/B00F225ZTM/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1379017038&sr=8-1&keywords=a+thousand+tiny+failures Women will mostly hate what we do, because they don't understand it. She calls the book narcissistic, but in order to learn success with women, you have to love yourself. That's the point! But yet, t…
/r/seduction20/09/13 07:05 PM
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I gave you guys a daygame book for free last month and it was downloaded 1200 times. It hit #1 in redpill. I'm not evil. I'm just a game blogger. It's what I do.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/13 10:53 PM
2

Really? There must be a way around that.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/13 09:31 PM
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You have to do what makes you happy. That's SELF improvement. I ditched almost all of my old friends when I discovered the pua community. I'm much happier now. Used to be so depressed.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/13 12:22 AM
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Tits Mcgee
/r/seduction20/08/13 11:11 PM
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I would take improv lessons. Learn to roleplay. Also, make insights, not observations. www.soundcloud.com/zardoz1 There's a seminar on verbal game I did a few years ago. More for daygame.
/r/seduction19/08/13 08:44 PM
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Well I only listened to the first one, but you sound confident enough to approach, and socially competent. But there is little flirtation. Not verbally anyway. That would be fine if you had plenty of accepting kino escalation like hands around the shoulders, holding hands, etc. Which is very possible in a short day game approach, because I've done it many times. It's good you went for the insta-date, but you are too soft. You sound like a little sweety. Man up and tell them, "Hey. I wanna fatten…
/r/seduction19/08/13 04:45 AM
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sedfast or Casanova Crew
/r/seduction15/08/13 12:57 AM
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Read Double Your Dating by David Deangelo. Square one. Female psychology.
/r/seduction12/08/13 05:20 AM
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That might be your own fears manifesting, because you don't understand seduction. Go out for a few months and try this, in a fun way. You'll start to get that it's just a way to flirt. Got me laid last night. That's why I wrote this post. Got me laid several times. I never plan it. It just happens in the moment. One of many random moments in the party. Chillax bro.
/r/seduction12/08/13 04:42 AM
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It's not misogynist. Chill. If you're a normal guy, it's obviously playful and fake. The girl is roleplaying. This allows people to discard the social pressure of being "proper" and tease each other. Like when you raise your pimp hand, the girl always laughs, because you obviously aren't going to hit her. Like you do it with a funny face. But a soft man would never do something so strange, because he fears rejection. I always play to fail. If she doesn't understand I'm pretending, and that I'm r…
/r/seduction12/08/13 04:40 AM
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Hmmm. Thanks for that. I find the movement interesting, I'm just trying to understand where it's headed.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/13 06:04 AM
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Thanks for this!
/r/TheRedPill07/08/13 02:10 AM
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Thank you for being real and answering my questions. The level of ignorance here is discouraging. I'm trying to research for articles. Yes they are few and far. I agree. This needs to change. But how? I'm not sure what philosophies. I just know there was strict code in place to keep women out of politics. Again, stating this does not make me a feminist. It's just the truth isn't it? Well not we in the present, but many men here would love a return to the past. I think that's unrealistic and mess…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/13 09:21 PM
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I can't stand r/seduction. And I have a hard time here too. I find the general level of commenter to be of low intelligence. Like yourself. But there are the odd guys that give me the information I'm seeking. And to those enlightened souls, I'm grateful. A parrot is a creature that mimics what it hears.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/13 09:15 PM
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Don't be a hater. It's unbecoming. "I know you are, but what am I?" That's how nerds think. Join the conversation or piss off.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/13 09:13 PM
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Not until our physical or human rights are threatened on a scale that grabs media attention.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/13 08:55 PM
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Well, if you enjoy generalizing. It makes you feel good to be angry. Who is they? I used to bang a really pretty girl that studied feminism. The reason that all men are considered potential rapists and pedophiles, is because we ARE all potential rapists and pedophiles. But a rational woman isn't a fearful idiot. You guys want to get laid, but you are full of hate. This won't help. I get that you want to understand why women are the way they are, and you feel like you are unjustly prosecuted, whi…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/13 08:48 PM
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But it's the truth. Feminism would not exist if we had not repressed women. They used to be property. This is why the White Knight exists, to protect the honor of his property, right? I'm not saying it's good or bad, but it's the truth. Red pill is about the truth right. So man the fuck up and say, "My ancestors were men who repressed women. This made the men happy and many women angry and sad. So they formed little groups to talk about it and the groups became larger." What's dipshit about that…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/13 08:39 PM
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Interesting. Well, I see a cultural battle a brewing. I'm just trying to understand the difference between the community and the manosphere, and predict what movement will arise from the backlash. It's modern culture that's the culprit, not the women.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/13 08:20 PM
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But there is a manosphere, just like there are feminists. They call themselves manosphere. They mention each other. They salute each other. Like any movement, it will evolve. I'm just trying to figure out what it is they are trying to accomplish.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/13 08:13 PM
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Feminists do not all hate men. Where did you get that. It's an ignorant statement. That's like saying all manosphere bloggers hate women. I make my girlfriends laugh, I listen to their stupid stories about their friends, I give them orgasms and once in awhile buy them presents. Does that make me a tool? Perhaps. Then they are also tools, since we apparently only want them for their pussies.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/13 08:09 PM
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Manosphere message to women example http://donlak.wordpress.com/2011/06/28/strong-women/ And another http://taoofdirt.wordpress.com/2011/07/04/the-power-of-a-womans-submissiveness/ We're trying to talk to women, not to men. But in order to re-mold the female, we need to look to our own behaviour, like we've been doing with the re-masculinization movement. But we're not communicating effectively because the hot women aren't listening. Why would they? We're still pissed at each other.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/13 07:50 PM
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Then what is the point of bitching about it? The bloggers obviously want the women to hear.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/13 07:29 PM
7

This is why I like Redpill. Common sense.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/13 07:22 PM
1

Thanks for the support. :)
/r/TheRedPill04/08/13 06:25 PM
3

Weird. Maybe the coupon is expired.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/13 05:33 AM
3

Yeah I'm working on that. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/13 04:34 AM
2

I just released a new one today http://www.absoluteability.com/dating/2360/
/r/seduction03/08/13 12:41 AM
1

Breaking up sucks eh. Good luck.
/r/seduction02/08/13 11:39 PM
3

You dumped a girl, and this left her better? These old pua memes are ridiculous.
/r/seduction02/08/13 08:12 PM
3

You're about to get a whole lot of trolling for this. The problem with western women is they don't need men to provide for them, the state can do that if they can't themselves. So men are more like accessories, like a new couch with a penis. Pickup works though. It's just a lot of work, and sucks. I'd say if you really want women to see you as valuable, start a shitty band and get on stage. You can be horrible and women will still chase you. I know from experience.
/r/seduction18/07/13 07:18 PM
4

Try reading this. I spent four months in Se Asia http://www.absoluteability.com/dating/pickup-while-backpacking-in-south-east-asia/
/r/seduction24/06/13 04:35 PM
1

I don't see what's demeaning about the truth.
/r/seduction21/06/13 10:23 PM
1

I think it's necessary. I also think it's more demeaning towards men.
/r/seduction20/06/13 05:35 PM
-1

60 is a friend of mine, and a great guy. His book is fantastic and one of the best products of the last decade.
/r/seduction20/06/13 05:34 PM
0

It is the only way to learn. We have to use women for practice. Sorry about that.
/r/seduction20/06/13 04:44 PM
1

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gBVuAGFcGKY Sums it up.
/r/seduction19/06/13 08:21 PM
1

You're in your prime dude. I'm 35 and I do just fine. Even with girls in their early twenties.
/r/seduction19/06/13 06:57 PM
1

Montreal has a seduction lair. It's very active.
/r/seduction05/06/13 07:50 PM
2

There's already a lair. You can Google it. But start your own if you want.
/r/seduction16/05/13 07:49 PM
-1

Somewhat true. But women aren't visual they way we are. They are attracted to confidence. How many average guys have you seen with beautiful girls? Plenty.
/r/seduction09/05/13 03:11 AM
2

No, never be afraid. I mean, acknowledge fear of the unknown. Think of life as an experiment. The bold will move up, the passive will remain static and sink. The guys I know that push the limits get the girls often, the passive, too-nice guys, they just can't compete. Not with pickup.
/r/seduction09/05/13 02:15 AM
1

Do you want to give me a call. You can add me on Skype. Pm me.
/r/seduction08/05/13 11:29 PM
1

Ahh the voice of reason. Of course you need to find a balance. This is called common sense. But in pickup, the nice guy really does finish last, because he's afraid to make bold moves.
/r/seduction08/05/13 11:20 PM
-3

What makes you think I'm a fraud? You seem slightly unstable my friend.
/r/seduction08/05/13 11:19 PM
0

Why do you find this so hard to believe? Go try it.
/r/seduction08/05/13 09:45 PM
-5

It's funny.
/r/seduction08/05/13 08:26 PM
3

What are you trying to say? It takes years to learn any skill. All you're doing is quitting and whining after a few measly tries, because it's hard. Pickup works and your personality is malleable. You can do it. You have to believe, Neo.
/r/seduction08/05/13 06:57 PM
-1

No, I'm single for now.
/r/seduction08/05/13 06:05 PM
13

That's pretty much his style in most of his videos. He plays the numbers game, like most oldschool puas. I wrote an article about body language, and if you watch his other videos, his body language is rock solid. So is his tonality. And he appears confident. This might enrage people who say inner game is the key to pickup, but I don't know, I've met too many puas who were great at cold approach, but suck at life. I hope he's not a weirdo.
/r/seduction08/05/13 05:22 PM
25

His vibe is good, he's not audibly or visibly nervous. I've actually done this, taken a girl's phone and spoken with her mother. I said, "Hi, Mom, I'm flirting with your daughter, she'll call you back." And then hung up. After another minute of chatting I got her number and met her that night for drinks. She thought I was hilarious. Pickup is about confidence. This guy is very confident.
/r/seduction08/05/13 04:26 PM
1

I only use alpha and beta as reference points. People can use these words as metaphors for winners and losers. Even a loser learns a valuable lesson. Winners get what they take action towards. Of course it's not concrete, but that debate gets old. Nothing wrong with marriage. Just don't be surprised when your wife gets fat and you stop having sex.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/13 06:23 AM
-1

I'm unapologetic. But thanks for letting me know.
/r/seduction24/04/13 08:01 PM
1

Yes. I don't mean you need to be a body builder. But being in great shape will always help. I have to get on that, to be honest.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/13 06:39 PM
2

Haha. I understand. Of course I would talk in public. I do have time throughout the day to chat, I just should be doing work.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/13 04:46 AM
2

I have the time for public discourse, but not for private conversation. The fuck just means I'm about to enter the public sphere and it's a load to think about. Exciting though.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/13 11:30 PM
8

I want to make clear, I don't believe you need big muscles to attract hot women. I'm just saying, it wouldn't hurt. I don't have big muscles and I've banged lots of hot women. Not all of them were supermodels by any means, but definite head turners. But the next time you see a big guy walk by with a ten, realize, it's because he is big. What can you do about it? How do you get the hottest girls? You learn pickup, develop your charm. You start a small business, or start a band, or write a great b…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/13 11:09 PM
2

Its cool man. I appreciate it. I'm pretty busy. I'm launching a book in ten days. I'll have plenty of discussion by after that. Fuck.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/13 10:42 PM
4

You're entitled to your voice. I don't mind if you want to spend your afternoon writing about my annoying blog post. It baffles me that people are saying they learned nothing from the post. It's not like I don't believe in pickup. I love rsd, I pickup hot women, I teach it for a living. And not on a blog. Almost every weekend, I'm out in bars, malls and street corners running cold approach bootcamps. The post was just a highlight of my frustrations that I felt many guys could relate to. I fully …
/r/TheRedPill23/04/13 10:10 PM
1

And here is the reply to their responses. http://www.absoluteability.com/news/reddit-is-a-haven-for-trolls/
/r/TheRedPill23/04/13 08:35 PM
-1

I had no idea. Thanks man.
/r/seduction23/04/13 08:32 PM
-1

Absolutely. I guess my post sounded like whining. But I hope guys understand the message, that pickup works, but we should think about why we need it in the first place, and work on the big picture.
/r/seduction23/04/13 08:31 PM
4

I totally agree. Thanks alot for the message.
/r/seduction23/04/13 08:30 PM
3

You must understand this...you aren't psychic. So when you say that girls aren't there to be hit on, you're pretending to be psychic. This is your ego, it fills your head with lies and chatter. Women respond to their emotions, so if you can take a girl that is chilling with her friends, and give her pleasurable emotions, she will then enjoy being hit on. You have some limiting beliefs...beliefs that will if left unchecked, limit your growth. Approaching strangers will always feel odd, but what c…
/r/seduction23/04/13 06:52 PM
2

Thanks for the comment. Keep it real.
/r/seduction23/04/13 06:25 PM
7

I really like Mark. He's a good guy.
/r/seduction23/04/13 06:05 PM
-35

As far as pickup goes, I'm not superior, just incredibly more experienced than 100,000 redditors. Yes.
/r/seduction23/04/13 01:36 AM
-27

You don't think the human race is overall, quite insane? Prove me wrong. We're doomed man, doomed.
/r/seduction23/04/13 01:34 AM
-34

You guys have a loud voice. http://www.absoluteability.com/news/reddit-is-a-haven-for-trolls/
/r/seduction23/04/13 12:57 AM
-3

I cover this. You'll have to approach hundreds of girls, and learn pickup. This is what Tyler is doing, facing hundreds of rejections from girls that have no idea he's successful and famous too.
/r/seduction22/04/13 08:24 PM
1

Tell height to women is like big breasts to men.
/r/seduction22/04/13 08:16 PM
3

There are loads of good teachers, and loads of bad ones. I like almost everything by rsd. But honestly, you should just go out lots and practice, day and night. You will learn. None of these guys are super heroes. They're just horny dudes hitting on chicks.
/r/seduction31/12/12 02:34 PM
1

I love stories about bar skanks. God bless them.
/r/seduction24/11/12 02:10 AM
-2

Here is an example of how I deal with shit tests. Though, I've been doing this stuff for seven years. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/13osla/turn_her_on_by_insulting_her_at_your_own_risk/
/r/seduction24/11/12 02:09 AM
0

Screw that bitch
/r/seduction24/11/12 12:49 AM
19

It's not bad. The only problem is most guys will "act" out the part. It will become a routine and they will deliver it like a line in a bad sitcom. But if you have good game you could make this work. Like, if she says "Yes" then you're in. If she says "No" you could tell her she's a stupid idiot for destroying six years of therapy. Then cry on her shoulder and squeeze her butt at the same time.
/r/seduction24/11/12 12:48 AM
-1

Absolutely.
/r/seduction19/11/12 12:29 AM
9

Yeah dude. Read this. It's not her boyfriend http://www.absoluteability.com/dating/that%E2%80%99s-not-her-boyfriend/
/r/seduction31/10/12 10:56 AM
2

Humiliation will help your game grow. It helps you break free of the bonds of social conditioning. I have used the monetary take away many times. It is not helpful as a teaching tool in most cases. You are self motivated.
/r/seduction22/09/12 06:32 AM
2

When a student refuses to do an exercise...not he fails, but fails to TRY, then the entire group must do twenty pushups in unison, on the street, in a public place. You learn to go. Humiliation is more powerful than monetary loss. Look at how much people pay to be entertained, to be comforted. And compare that to how far they go to avoid looking bad.
/r/seduction22/09/12 12:03 AM
2

It is illogical and unreactive. The best way to pass tests is to either agree and amplify, ignore, or re-direct. Never address the test directly. That would show you care, and you lose your frame.
/r/seduction21/09/12 07:23 PM
7

"You're not my Dad." Best comeback for everything, ever. Copyright Tony D.
/r/seduction21/09/12 05:10 AM
1

Read my blog at www.absoluteability.com Go to www.fasterseduction.com
/r/seduction20/08/12 01:09 AM
4

Dude. Shut the fuck up. Scoring once out of five nights out with an attractive girl is very, very good.
/r/seduction16/08/12 08:40 PM
2

Hey thanks I appreciate the support. Keep it up bro.
/r/seduction16/08/12 07:49 PM
1

It sounds like she's into you a little. Don't be too cocky. I generally don't game girls I work with. But if it's a short term job then why not. Just ask her to grab a drink or a coffee after work.
/r/seduction11/07/12 07:00 AM
1

My friend Sixty Years of Challenge said it best. "You have to risk being creepy." If you feel creepy, they will feel creepy. If you feel your behavior is normal and fun, they will follow your lead.
/r/seduction06/07/12 08:06 PM
1

Who said anything about being told to go away? That's not supposed to happen, but if it does, whatever. Move on and try again.
/r/seduction06/07/12 05:07 PM
2

Guys. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tlWrFgIR6CU Being really polite doesn't always work. And yes, squashing your dick against a girl is a viable form of game. One way. And it works quite well. And I do get laid. I'm a freaking dating coach.
/r/seduction06/07/12 05:01 PM
1

"You're my sexy little slut aren't you?" Try it sometime. Most girls like it.
/r/seduction06/07/12 05:16 AM
2

It's not like you do this to every girl you meet. It's called physical escalation for use on women that are compliant and attracted. Ever danced with a girl?
/r/seduction06/07/12 03:53 AM
1

Masf is dead. All the current top posters moved to http://www.pua-zone.com/
/r/seduction19/06/12 05:09 AM
1

To pump up your libido and get you out of the house approaching women
/r/seduction07/06/12 07:52 PM
10

Heck yeah! That's awesome. Congrats.
/r/seduction29/05/12 09:31 PM
2

I know right. I think I messed that one up.
/r/seduction29/05/12 09:00 PM
2

There will come a time, when I will call upon thee for a favor...
/r/seduction29/05/12 08:57 PM
2

You don't need to be a jerk, you just need to practice being assertive, and a little cocky. Just for a little while until you understand the social dynamics. Then you can be as nice as you want to be. Just not a pushover. I mean, if you spend all your time helping others, how much time do you have to develop yourself? You will do everyone a favor by becoming more like a dominant male. Then others will be helping you.
/r/seduction29/05/12 07:55 PM
3

Damn girl, that sucks. I dunno. No...in the middle of an epic bj, hold up your Ipad with that article, then walk out unfinished, and fly to Mexico for a week.
/r/seduction29/05/12 07:51 PM
2

There are many Internet marketers that teach very practical advice. Some will fill your head with nonsense. As for bootcamp instructors, seek out reviews and do your research. But in the end, it doesn't matter what they can do because its just information. It depends like you said, on how you utilize the tools.
/r/seduction29/05/12 07:49 PM
2

You can try to kiss her. Or you can tell her. You have to risk losing her forever. Be willing to walk. It will be awkward and weird.
/r/seduction29/05/12 07:46 PM
2

Sure, check this out. Pickup for girls. http://www.absoluteability.com/dating/pickup-for-girls/
/r/seduction29/05/12 06:18 PM
1

Oh bummer. Well email me through my website and I'll hook you up. Thanks for reporting.
/r/seduction29/05/12 08:53 AM
14

You think I'm too aggressive, bitch. I'll fuck you up.
/r/seduction29/05/12 08:06 AM
9

Oh that's not good. I suppose this is the beta test. Let me know what pages and I'll love you forever.
/r/seduction29/05/12 02:32 AM
29

I am Zardoz
/r/seduction29/05/12 01:09 AM
12

Upside down with a hollow coconut full of Gin. Thanks for the thank you's everyone. Read! Read! Practice!
/r/seduction29/05/12 12:33 AM
3

It's not that much tougher in Vancouver. I've picked up plenty of girls here. I just wrote that after a few rough nights. Keep at it.
/r/seduction29/05/12 12:12 AM
1

Done
/r/seduction28/05/12 11:09 PM
14

I remember. Haha. Hi how are you?
/r/seduction28/05/12 11:08 PM
48

Thanks! Well, it is shameless self-promotion I suppose. I just really love writing and being read. And this book isn't quite purely pickup related. I usually try to cover other aspects of seduction and whatnot that aren't commonly investigated. I hope you enjoy it, and if you do, give it to your friends. Thanks a lot!
/r/seduction28/05/12 10:57 PM
2

Haha. Ok I'll take it down. Read Think and Grow Rich by Napolean Hill.
/r/seduction28/05/12 08:30 PM
1

Thanks
/r/seduction26/05/12 06:32 PM
7

This is the perfect plot line for a man with a mask and an ax
/r/seduction26/05/12 06:31 PM
1

Really good advice. Take it.
/r/seduction18/05/12 05:56 AM
0

I'm sorry to have offended you sir. I have many fine Homosexual friends. Next time I write a post I'll soften the language and execution so as not to offend you while you learn to pick up bitches.
/r/seduction01/05/12 06:58 PM
1

Give er. You gotta believe Neo.
/r/seduction29/04/12 11:26 PM
2

That's crazy talk.
/r/seduction29/04/12 11:26 PM
1

Nah, that's just your lack of experience talking, no offense. The girls are happy to fuck you because you're fun and don't give a fuck.
/r/seduction29/04/12 11:26 PM
1

Nope. You're right. I don't know a thing about this.
/r/seduction29/04/12 09:49 PM
2

Hey, this is pretty much what RSD teaches.
/r/seduction29/04/12 09:38 PM
1

Sure. But girls that do drugs will probably think you have blow. Nothing wrong with it, it's a pretty cheap way to hook those girls though, haha. Not that I care. I'll try it out this week.
/r/seduction29/04/12 08:34 PM
11

One of her friends thought you were cute.
/r/seduction20/04/12 08:52 AM
1

Formhandle is done with the pickup community and won't talk to anyone I'm sure. Most of the old members now post on Fasterseduction.com, including myself. I'm Zardoz.
/r/seduction17/04/12 12:49 AM
4

Are you kidding. Have you ever heard of pre-selection? Social proof? Sure you temporarily look like a slut, but most women secretly want a bad boy. You just proved to her that you have options. Think Hank Moody, Don Draper...you get the point.
/r/seduction16/04/12 08:04 PM
2

Aaron has the best of intentions although he gets messed up in the delivery. Bro, you're a character from the community whether you like it or not. You inspired me with your relentless study of physical and fast escalation game and you called out many losers in the scene. Bravo! Your crusade is over man. Everybody reads everything. We know. The thing is nowadays, pickup coaches that don't have integrity are quickly weeded out by poor reviews. The bad guys are the minority. Nobody cares unless it…
/r/seduction02/04/12 12:14 AM
-4

I see. It's just hard to quantify social skills. Like, does Leo Dicaprio have more game than Mehow? Haha. Who's more experienced there? It's pretty obvious that Tyler has more experience in the pua thing than most anybody excluding normal horny men that are good at pickup. But I mean, if say you and owen were dropped into a club, and it was like "Go!" Pickup competition! How ridiculous is that? But I get it because I teach this stuff in field. I'm not the best pickup guy in the world, but I can …
/r/seduction16/03/12 11:54 PM
3

This is ridiculous. Just saying. Run of the mill amoging? They're staying in set too long? Maybe they had the flu? Does every pickup need to be super aggressive college guy game? It doesn't. There are many ways to pick up a girl. Last night I picked up a girl off at a red light and went for a drink with her. A very hot girl. She turned out to be an ex heroin addict. I can imagine if some forum dude saw me and then went and critiqued my game on a forum, he wouldn't know what the fuck we talked ab…
/r/seduction16/03/12 11:08 PM
6

Wear a shirt with your introduction written on it in blood?
/r/seduction05/03/12 07:21 AM
1

You just need lots and lots of practice. Focus on being original and creative and playful. Worry less about words and more about getting physical. Learn to entertain groups and experiment by saying off the wall type comments. Record your progress in a journal.
/r/seduction01/03/12 06:46 PM
2

Yeah those subtle changes do make a huge difference don't they? And it's soo easy to fall back into old habitual behaviours. Everybody learns pickup at a slow rate. I did too. And we're always learning! I think the act of creating something out of nothing is art. In that respect, learning to interact with, entertain, and seduce a woman is definitely art. Moreso than science.
/r/seduction28/02/12 09:10 AM
2

Interesting. Has this been your experience?
/r/seduction28/02/12 07:04 AM
7

Nope. We do plenty of bookstores. But I hear ya. Clubs can be terrifying dens of intellectual despair.
/r/seduction28/02/12 01:01 AM
-1

Money is tight eh? This is YOUR LIFE. Cough up the $50 and get your ass to that gym you lazy bastard. :P
/r/seduction26/02/12 05:23 AM
2

Wrong. A hideous man with fame can have all the supermodels he desires.
/r/seduction26/02/12 05:21 AM
2

You got it. Fake it till you make it.
/r/seduction26/02/12 05:20 AM
2

Dude. Look at your thought process. We understand, you have low self esteem, feel like shit, live like shit, look like shit. The first step is to recognize that you are at an all time low point. Here's the good news. Self-help exists. Get a nutritionist. Hire a dating coach. Join a gym and get a personal trainer. Get a life coach If you can't afford all of this, then get one at a time. Or you could do it all yourself. You wouldn't be the first guy to turn his life around. No, pickup doesn't work…
/r/seduction26/02/12 05:18 AM
2

Get out and approach girls. It's not rocket science. You can do it!
/r/seduction19/02/12 06:42 AM
2

Many are insecure and lack social skills.
/r/seduction19/02/12 06:40 AM
3

Yarbles isn't a seduction teacher or a writer, he's just my buddy. I've done lots of day game with him and thought this would be a good post. I don't see why you think it's weak. But I'll check out this other dude. Also he's only been in the game for a year and a half. Was married to a fattie. He moved to Taiwan I think.
/r/seduction19/02/12 06:38 AM
2

What you "think" is irrelevant. Go try it, and report.
/r/seduction17/02/12 04:57 AM
1

Hey thanks a lot!
/r/seduction16/02/12 04:06 AM
4

I teach guys how to pick up chicks. We go to malls, bars, etc, and approach girls. I tell them what they're doing wrong which is obvious to me, but not to them.
/r/seduction15/02/12 01:58 AM
12

I teach bootcamps for a living. What do you want to know?
/r/seduction15/02/12 12:51 AM
-8

Fucking women without condoms is immoral. Lying about your intentions is immoral. But who makes moral law anyway? The Majority? Fuck them.
/r/seduction13/02/12 09:36 PM
2

You are just a noob. You need to desensitize yourself. Unfortunately this may take months to years of relentlessly practicing your game.
/r/seduction12/02/12 08:36 PM
2

I guess you aren't a blog subscriber? I didn't advertise it here on Seddit.
/r/seduction30/01/12 10:10 PM
3

No, running around asking opinions over your shoulder at 45 degree angles isn't natural. Going direct isn't the one answer to all your seduction questions. You need to master the fundamentals. Learning to go direct will just help you grasp deeper understanding of yourself, human nature and the game.
/r/seduction30/01/12 08:44 PM
2

There's a dark spot about ten minutes in because the Internet failed for five minutes.
/r/seduction30/01/12 08:29 PM
1

Look for a local coach at half the price or grow a pair of balls, go out and start practicing tonight. I teach bootcamps for a living and they help, a lot. But I can't stand what I call, "Approach Anxiety" bootcamps. Learn the basics yourself by putting in the work, then go to an instructor so he can fine tune your body language, vocal tonality, conversation skill and style.
/r/seduction24/01/12 09:49 PM
1

It's alright. It's pretty weak. If you want to go direct try, "You look great in that shirt." Or try to be a bit more specific. Openers are more about the confidence you display in your body language, vocal tonality, eye contact.
/r/seduction21/01/12 09:42 PM
2

Sounds fun. Thanks.
/r/seduction16/01/12 01:25 AM
6

I would love to. :)
/r/seduction16/01/12 12:30 AM
2

Yeah man. Actually I had a guy ask me this question the other day, and I was like, "Why the heck do you want to know how to do that?" But if you learn deep rapport I think it will keep your flake ratio down. As for straight pick up yeah it's pretty unnecessary, though wouldn't hurt.
/r/seduction06/01/12 06:58 AM
1

I love that book.
/r/seduction29/12/11 07:34 PM
8

He's not using a fucking technique. He's just being authentic, approaching girls, telling them they're hot and spitting some dope life philosophy.
/r/seduction29/12/11 12:27 AM
-4

Don't be a moron. It's obviously not staged. But he does tell them he's making a show and that he's a published photographer, which hooks them. That's fine imo.
/r/seduction29/12/11 12:26 AM
3

Breaking through the shield? All you do is talk to enough women until one is nice to you. And if they don't tell you to go away, you stay in. Don't act weird.
/r/seduction29/12/11 12:12 AM
61

Look guys. I've banged dozens of women from cold approach pickup, some were as hot as these girls. I used to suck at this shit too. You wanna know what made me really get good at it? I stopped acting weird about the whole thing. Just keep chatting up as many beautiful women as you can and quit trying to "Run Game." This guy does well because he is calm, cool and collected. The camera also gives him a purpose but I'm sure he can charm plenty of women without the camera. You just need to talk to t…
/r/seduction28/12/11 11:36 PM
2

There are a host of factors involved.
/r/seduction28/12/11 12:08 AM
3

http://www.absoluteability.com/attraction/guide-to-sex/
/r/seduction17/12/11 10:43 AM
3

This article may help. http://www.absoluteability.com/attraction/cockblocker/
/r/seduction16/12/11 01:23 AM
1

You went out once.... Once... Don't over analyze. Most of us had to work at this for YEARS.
/r/seduction15/12/11 01:40 AM
2

It's funny because I had onion breath at the bar from my salad and my opener for awhile was, "I am insecure because I have onion breath." It got laughs.
/r/seduction30/11/11 07:45 AM
2

Yes...Indeed it is. Onions too.
/r/seduction30/11/11 07:45 AM
5

Dominance. Grab her, push on something holding her neck like you are about to rape her gently...then let go a little bit. Take a sip of your beer...then kiss her...beer breathe and all.
/r/seduction29/11/11 05:49 AM
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Get it! Watch it!
/r/seduction15/11/11 06:22 AM
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This isn't an abnormal thought pattern. Even the extremely pious flog themselves. Life is pain! Just realize there will never be eternal bliss. Don't give up. Endure! Thrive!
/r/seduction15/11/11 06:22 AM
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Wanna come over? I have little big planet.
/r/seduction11/11/11 08:29 PM
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Most guys aren't approaching women. I teach bootcamps almost every weekend and "game" doesn't mean a lot. The act of "doing" is all the lesson they need.
/r/seduction10/11/11 01:31 AM
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He isn't saying anything new, he simply wrote a book that explains the key concepts of understanding ego to western masses.
/r/seduction09/11/11 10:26 PM
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Just try to stay in your sets for two minutes. Keep talking past the awkwardness. You are going to suck but it's really, really important that you make your sets last as long as possible. Be relentless. It takes hundreds of hours to get good at this stuff.
/r/seduction08/11/11 04:42 AM
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this is very true. Until you are calm and solid with the basics all that theory is a waste of energy.
/r/seduction08/11/11 04:39 AM
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He's funny. He's a good writer. I like his stuff.
/r/seduction02/11/11 11:04 PM
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Chinese fobs are known for being fickle about public displays of affection. If you want to know more about that, go to fasterseduction.com and read the posts by a guy named Yarbles. He's a friend of mine and we sarge together sometimes. The guy is absolutely addicted to asian chicks. I teach bootcamps and I can't stand them for the most part. They always run away screaming or give my students tons of shit tests. But I hear they are fine once you win them over, and are dirty sluts just like all w…
/r/seduction02/11/11 01:50 AM
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Get surgery and have it lipo suctioned. That's what I did. Thank god. I wasn't fat though. Just do it. Should cost about $1500.
/r/seduction01/11/11 02:00 AM
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Right on I'll check it out.
/r/seduction24/10/11 06:55 AM
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There you go buddy. Struttin around like Bruce Willis not giving a fuck has obvious advantages. Nice job.
/r/seduction23/10/11 08:14 PM
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Omg all of us that have played this game know what it means to feel like a chode. You have to take a beating to learn pickup.
/r/seduction23/10/11 07:27 AM
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Why wait till Saturday?
/r/seduction23/10/11 07:19 AM
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RSD has a touring workshop called Hot Seat. It's $300 though. Join your local lair and go out and try it yourself. See what happens. That's what I did.
/r/seduction23/10/11 04:25 AM
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For the bar, I suggest trying out super aggressive kino. Lots of grabbing and clawing. Lift girls off the floor into your arms like you are getting married and carrying her across the threshold. Go to the dance floor and hip check, spin, pick up. Literally pick her up. Try by grabbing her in a bear hug and leaning back. You can pick up really tall chicks like this. You could do a fireman carry. Those are always fun. Or pick them up and wrap their legs around your waist. Grab their wrists as they…
/r/seduction23/10/11 04:09 AM
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I've written 150 articles on approaching and fucking women. It only gets you so far. You wanna be cold approaching chicks when you're 40?
/r/seduction22/10/11 08:55 PM
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This is awesome. I use affirmations all the time. My dead Grandma def needs to go out tonight.
/r/seduction22/10/11 07:31 AM
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I like that. Is that yours?
/r/seduction22/10/11 06:51 AM
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Well Done Friend.
/r/seduction22/10/11 04:05 AM
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Women are women even if they have extreme cases of entitlement syndrome. I prefer Spanish girls. Vancouver has a huge multicultural diversity.
/r/seduction20/10/11 10:26 PM
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This is good advice for anyone looking to get started. Change your attitude and move forward to action.
/r/seduction20/10/11 07:56 PM
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Having eye contact always helps. It's an approach invitation (or so we would like to believe) and will help you approach to stick. But you can't rely on them at all. Most bars are swarming with stimulus, so to make yourself known usually means a "cold" approach. Don't let lack of eye contact stop you from getting on that shit.
/r/seduction20/10/11 10:25 AM
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I was also alone that night. Good job with your pua friend. That's funny stuff.
/r/seduction20/10/11 10:11 AM
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