How beautiful women view the average guy

SatanicBoner · 2013-04-22T20:34:37+00:00

This seems like a really negative over-generalization. If someone takes this to heart, I can only see it damaging their confidence. Of course it's true that meeting women is a numbers game, but getting bent out of shape about that is like getting mad at the sky for being blue. It is what it is - accept it and keep doing whatever makes you happy.

Truly excelling at seduction means getting to a point where people like this don't bother you anymore.

swm2fwb · 2013-04-22T21:06:51+00:00

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NotJosephDucreux · 2013-04-22T20:47:51+00:00

Or, you could move to a country where beautiful women are still feminine, and appreciate a man for his manliness, integrity, wit and drive…and not his social standing.

Where? I don't live in North America, but human nature seems to be universal.

DangerXX · 2013-04-22T20:22:11+00:00

As a Vancouverite, I like how the "Vancouver women" is a stereotype I can recognize.

Matter4u · 2013-04-22T20:24:54+00:00

Haha, I clicked the link and it said "unable to establish connection.".

TL;DR.

Larrea_tridentata · 2013-04-23T01:12:21+00:00

Let the butthurt flow through you

SethMemVegas · 2013-04-22T20:06:15+00:00

Cool write up man.

I don't agree with if you want a woman you need to "work your ass off in the gym, or make tons of money". Obviously, these will up your chances but aren't necessary requirements.

For the average guy he can make himself un-average by being passionate about something. Whether that'd be meditation, martial arts, music, whatever, just as long as the girl isn't the focus.

spacepack · 2013-04-22T21:37:06+00:00

Didn't really agree with the article but the point on social status is pretty true. After finishing university I realized how crucial social status was for your chances of getting with HBs. It didn't come down to how interesting or good looking you were, but often to "who do you know" or "are you friends with these people". Focus on building a large social circle, with many different characters and your opportunities to meet desirable women will undoubtedly go up.

Willem20 · 2013-04-22T22:05:28+00:00

GOD.. Talking about making alot of drama. I find it a pity that there wasn't a point in this story.

asad16 · 2013-04-22T23:44:05+00:00

how is this link being upvoted. this is ridiculous, /r/seduction needs to smarten up

galactic_fury · 2013-04-22T20:32:48+00:00

This is why the pickup artists do what they do. This is why we pretend to be carefree jerks. This is why we tease and neg.

The women made us this way.

AlwaysLateToThreads · 2013-04-22T20:03:33+00:00

If you find a good one that wants you for your potential hold onto her.

joope125 · 2013-04-23T02:35:58+00:00

Do I doubt my ability to seduce a pretty girl? Hell no, I’ve done it many times. I’ve been with hotter girls than her.

HURR DURR Women are currency worth only their looks M I rite?

When I found out my ex-girlfriend knew her, I asked her to find out, for science’s sake, why she didn’t want to hang out with me.

DAE NUMBERS GAME? This reeks of low self-esteem. I think maaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaybe that would explain why somebody may not enjoy you

Holy shit, relax, bro. I feel like I need a shower to wash away all this toxic, shitty attitude off myself. They're just people.

priceoflurkers · 2013-04-23T21:15:07+00:00

After the show she climbed on stage, stood in front of me nervously and said, “I didn’t know you were in a band!”

I patted her on the head, said, “Yes. I’m in a band.”

Never happened.

DuckTech · 2013-04-22T21:58:18+00:00

This guy is an AFC. sad really

TonyDAbsolute · 2013-04-22T20:15:06+00:00

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dumbsaintofthemind · 2013-04-23T01:21:51+00:00

This article is bullshit.

clls · 2013-04-23T09:16:52+00:00

As a woman, I think this is about as useful as trying to understand men through reading cosmo.

I am not from north america, but I just wanted to say that I disagree with almost every sentence in this article

jewiger · 2013-04-23T03:45:47+00:00

I think the OP is right to an extent. Obviously there are going to be exceptions with pretty girls, but for the most part they are going to be attracted to tall and buff guys. However that doesn't mean an average guy can't do anything to improve his status to the point where these women will be attracted to him. Money, looks, status, clothes, humor, friends combined with experience in pickup all wrap up into your confidence level. A higher confidence level will allow these girls to become yours. Obviously these things are not necessarily easy to attain however they are variables that can be changed in hour life.

Ra1den · 2013-04-22T23:39:33+00:00

I normally like Tony D's articles, but i disagree with a lot of what he says here. You don't need tons of money or muscles to get girls. In fact women prefer average builds to overly muscular ones. And as for the money, well they should have no clue about your financial situation anyway if you are playing the game right.

EpicStumblin · 2013-04-22T21:23:17+00:00

Kind of reminds me of the Solomon group document

jabo052 · 2013-04-29T01:52:00+00:00

So the article is telling you how to become shallow so you can attract shallow women. Cool! Wow!

navenager · 2013-04-22T20:54:42+00:00

Interesting article, I gotta say the idea behind it gets me fumed but there's nothing I can do about that. This in context with the "Why are all guys fakes and liars?" complaint that falls from drunken lips every weekend makes me cringe. Why? Because you won't pay us any mind unless we act that way.

sunnybitch · 2013-04-23T05:40:19+00:00

Wow, I feel sorry for the man that would even consider believing anything this article describes.

philosophicalfocus · 2013-04-23T05:51:08+00:00

I disagree with this article entirely. The author is suggesting that in order to date beautiful women, men must acquire superficial things (muscles, money, etc). This is untrue.

Health and a comfortable lifestyle is important, but not because women like it. They're important because you like it.

Social proof is something that is attractive to women, but it is by no means the be all end all of attraction. Yes, it's true that a fat ugly guy like Jonah Hill may have an easier time hooking up with the HB10, but tbh that's not saying much. People want to hook up with celebs to say they've done it, it's not really because of who he is as a person, it's because who he is as society sees him to be (movie star).

Guys, if you're making changes in your life, and doing things in order to try to get laid, you have the wrong mindset. It's true, if you work out a lot, women will initially be more attracted to you, but if you're still coming from the mindset of doing things to try to get laid, it'll come across in communication. Women aren't as shallow as men, and they can read sub-communication very well. Your true intentions come across without you realizing it. If you're in the gym because you want to get big to get girls, or you bought that 5,000 watch because you want to get girls, you will have attracted more of them initially, but they'll be able to tell once you open your mouth what you're all about and lose attraction.

Horrible article/mindset of OP. I don't recommend his advice or site to anyone.

I recommend you guys checking out RSD Tyler's 4 day bootcamp dvd The Blueprint De-Choded. You can find it on pirate bay. He puts to rest all these false beliefs that OP is trying to sell. It actually saddens me to see that this type of material is being published on a "dating coach" website.

blinkums · 2013-04-22T20:29:36+00:00

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joao_yabish · 2013-04-22T21:08:45+00:00

How I can stimulate emotionally?

Title	How beautiful women view the average guy
Author	TonyDAbsolute
Upvotes	8
Comments	100
Date	April 22, 2013 7:47 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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