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how do you send a msg? all i can do is just "like" someone
/r/seduction03/01/14 10:27 PM
73

Smiling and eye contact are seductions cheat codes
/r/seduction02/01/14 04:49 PM
1

How have you guys found "demographic" game MM writes about? I like yoga and hippie girls and do well with them so I need to start doing yoga etc. Lots of them tend to be flaky tho
/r/seduction19/11/13 11:40 AM
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im in asia and they look the same from 15 to 50
/r/seduction31/10/13 11:36 AM
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Second, he didn't "steal" your girl. She was (hopefully) more than capable of making her own decisions in regards to who and what she was doing at the party. Don't blame someone else for your inability to close. Agree to a point. He should have just left it alone and let me close it out or fuck it up. It's not really up to him to break up something I had going. He shouldve been my wing to help or just leave it alone while I fucked it up or prospered. We both kind of liked this girl though from t…
/r/seduction28/10/13 05:10 AM
2

there was a girl that was super busy and i told her to hit me up when shes free. does this give her too much power? i just really didnt want to drop off the face of the earth and have it seem like im being passive aggresive and pouty. i also didnt want to be chasing her and making plans either. would it be okay for me to msg her in a few weeks or should i continue with letting her do her own thing?
/r/seduction26/10/13 05:33 AM
0

I have a hard time if I ask a question and she never answers after good recipicstion back and forth before I set up the date. In Korea tho so they are kinda weird like that.
/r/seduction10/10/13 04:40 PM
0

grinding while dancing. yay or nay?
/r/seduction24/08/13 11:22 AM
8

thoughts on backpacking and travel game. in malasia now. hard to find a place to go if both of of.you are staying in dorm rooms too.
/r/seduction05/08/13 11:06 PM
2

Was so close to burning a bridge with a girl who really hurt me. Glad I didnt.
/r/seduction03/08/13 01:47 AM
1

I like how it talks about joining clubs etc to find girls who have similar interests. I did really well in a fermentation class in Korea making rice wine that was loaded with cute and interesting girls. Ive always done well with hippie girls.
/r/seduction31/07/13 01:42 AM
3

Ive always done best at these but there are never enough them.
/r/seduction30/07/13 07:18 AM
7

How do you react if a girl you're gaming sees with another girl you're also gaming? I live in a small town and I may bump into one while with the other. Introduce them and say hello? Be shy and awkward and ignore the other girl? Als0- is is worth it to date a girl who lives in your building?
/r/seduction09/07/13 01:52 AM
1

Leave a VM if she doesnt pick up? One call only??
/r/seduction30/06/13 12:38 PM
1

Where did you meet this girl? Western bars are a good place to meet Korean women but friends of friends seems to be the standard in Korea.
/r/seduction24/06/13 01:43 AM
2

Very conservative. Depends on where you are though, I am in the south not near Seoul where it is more conservative. Lots of flakes too due to shyness.
/r/seduction24/06/13 12:58 AM
2

If you meet a girl at a bar/party, do you stay around her at all times or do you mingle? Do you set her up for a date and get her number right away and leave it at that or do you try for a same night lay? I'm a social butterfly so I've left many girls and have came back and the dynamic has changed and she's getting hit on someone else or try to text her for a day 2 to no avail.
/r/seduction11/06/13 04:51 AM
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Indeed they do. I've been meaning to make this post for awhile now. I'm glad others also have found this out to confirm my ideas.
/r/seduction28/04/13 10:53 PM
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Do you change your aggressiveness with a girl who seems innocent? My problem is too many girls seem innocent and I don't push hard enough. I also have pushed too hard in the past and dont want to be creepy.
/r/seduction27/04/13 04:57 AM
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i recently kind of gave up on a girl who is too busy. she's starting her own fashion boutique and has no time. ive been subtlety bragging about doing things we are both interested in on facebook without acknowledging her. i think i will freeze her out for a full month even if she contacts me.
/r/seduction27/04/13 04:54 AM
1

I'd really like to find a booking club or date cafe in Busan.
/r/seduction23/04/13 10:28 AM
1

How have you found pickup in Seoul? Korean women are so flaky.
/r/seduction23/04/13 02:56 AM
1

What's a less forward and smooth way to get them to a DVD bang or Love Motel?
/r/seduction08/04/13 10:22 PM
1

Korean girls are difficult and require a lot of work/texting/buildup. They randomly stop talking to you after you've done really well meeting them initially. Them living at home is a big hurdle to over come with how their nazi moms overlook them. I'm in Busan though which is more conservative than Seoul.
/r/seduction08/04/13 10:15 PM
1

Mine also. That and getting our schedules to line up to hang out again.
/r/seduction08/04/13 10:04 PM
12

Take them for a walk in a park.
/r/seduction04/04/13 02:57 AM
11

Asian girls in Asia (or at least Korea) expect to be contacted about every day or so. Just something nice like "Hope you're staying warm on this cold day" or some bs. I've been told this and have seen my success rate increase instead of being aloof and strictly making plans.
/r/seduction19/02/13 10:23 PM
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I go through this as well. I remember stories and intricate details about people where it makes me look like I have a ledger about them when in reality I just have a great memory. Great question and I've been wondering about this too. I often play dumb and shy but that plays into my AA and social anxiety.
/r/seduction08/01/13 08:27 PM
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How do I set a date up for a specific day in case she's busy and not seem like a loser that has both weekend days available? Recently I said lets hang on friday (I was free saturday too) and she said she was busy. Should I have said "how does saturday work?" I'm then asking for permission and look weaker and going along with her schedule and while having nothing to do for the weekend. The same thing happened a few weeks later (she has a tight group of friends).
/r/seduction08/01/13 08:24 PM
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bumped into a girl i fooled around with 6 years ago at a phish show. havent seen her in forever and tried to hang out. she was in my section but was with some dude and didn't know what their relationship was. we hung for a bit during the show walking out she started kissing my fingers. i was pretty intoxicated at the time. she was texting me after and wanted to hang. wasnt able to meet up with her since she then stopped answering her texts/phone. i went to another bar and kissed some fat chick. …
/r/seduction03/01/13 05:26 AM
2

'Are you trying to seduce me?"
/r/seduction26/12/12 03:53 PM
1

I'm in the same place in a way. I'm picky when it comes to looks and almost too picky, which leads me to AA when I do see an attractive lady I'm interested in.
/r/seduction26/12/12 03:50 PM
1

I met a girl a few months ago and went out with her a few times. Our schedules don't match up at all and I want to move forward but not burn any bridges with her. We still have great chemistry but want to infiltrate her social circle. I live in a foreign country (korea) and don't know too many people. How do I transition from being interested in her to being more impartial and maybe interested in her friends without being a dick?
/r/seduction25/12/12 01:13 PM
2

We used to call these guys a girls "legion" in college, haha.
/r/seduction16/12/12 08:35 AM
9

The car first kiss is so hard and awkward to pull off.
/r/seduction13/12/12 05:06 PM
3

I kind of mean to hold hands first and initiate contact but yeah, agree.
/r/seduction11/09/12 11:50 PM
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I used to wait for her to escalate. Like for a long time. Woops.
/r/seduction11/09/12 05:37 AM
1

really want to go to montreal. met some really cool people from there.
/r/seduction09/09/12 03:16 AM
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Biggest mistake I've had over the years was wanting to set something up later on and leave that night without sealing the deal. That window is small and closing...
/r/seduction02/09/12 12:59 PM
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If you get flaked on by a Korean woman do you just brush them aside or continue to try and pursue her? I had a girl set up a date and then no showed me because she "lost her phone" and I cast her aside.
/r/seduction27/07/12 12:57 AM
3

It's level difficult out here for sure. I've had so many head scratchers that just blow my mind.
/r/seduction27/07/12 12:48 AM
1

What are your isolation techniques? Lets say you and a friend are out at a bar and you meet a girl who has another group she's with.
/r/seduction25/07/12 09:18 AM
13

A buddy of mine dated then married a solid 9.5 and she was constantly hit on by other guys, even one of his best friends. She was constantly told she could do better. They were together for 9 years and married and she finally cheated on him. Not really surprised since she constantly had guys scheming to get with her.
/r/seduction24/07/12 02:14 PM
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She said she was "sick" and couldnt make it. Then she said she would do the activity we were going to do herself at a later date. She gave me her phone number and now has a phone. At least she messaged me before the date unlike the last one who left me stranded and gave me a lame "I lost my phone excuse" a few days later after I asked what happened to her. I'm going on vacation for a month next week, I'll probably hit her up one more time in a few weeks and give her one last chance. Probably sho…
/r/seduction21/07/12 03:03 AM
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Going through this now. She kept talking about all her ex boyfriends constantly on our weekend together as well. She even asked me if I had a "gay experience" ever. Just constant prodding questions/shit tests. Really fucked me up and I really didn't recover with her. I tried to make things light hearted and change the subject but couldn't I'm 32 and never had a serious relationship, just small flings and usually with girls where there are logistic issues. Her talking about her exes constantly ma…
/r/seduction10/07/12 11:57 AM
1

no speeches. this isn't a movie. show her, don't tell her. you'll only weiird her out.
/r/seduction18/06/12 02:31 PM
1

What about different departments? The only time I ever see a girl who is interested is when she comes into my office to hang out. If things went south I think she'd just opt out not to visit...
/r/seduction17/06/12 03:13 AM
3

What if you're equally drunk?
/r/seduction22/05/12 07:53 AM
1

Haeundae has a shit ton of people, and mainly Korean. There are a lot of foreigners there though. I prefer Songjeon because it's super chill and not alot of people there.
/r/seduction21/05/12 12:53 AM
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I was doing well kiss closing and getting numbers for awhile. Day 2's I got a lot of flakes. I think they get scared as they get sober the next day. I need to start day approaching more, but the language barrier is frustrating when going for approach. A lot of times I don't bother because it's a high chance it's a dead end. The gym teacher at my school wants to hang and she's super sexy. I don't see her that often but I'm trying to avoid my pen in company ink... I'm in Busan btw.
/r/seduction21/05/12 12:27 AM
1

"I like the cut of your jib" after a bit of talking is good too.
/r/seduction21/04/12 02:42 AM
2

Using your nerdom and geekdom to DV is possible. The girl I just started gaming is a huge science nerd and loves when I drop random science references.
/r/seduction10/04/12 03:42 AM
6

So brave.
/r/seduction28/03/12 01:55 PM
1

guilty. ha. really need to get over this. im a sucker for chemistry, not really the whole marriage thing though.
/r/seduction01/02/12 02:01 PM
2

"holy shit my hands are cold, check them out" use as an excuse for kino
/r/seduction25/01/12 07:10 AM
1

thanks for posting. i read this awhile ago and forgot some of it's points and was looking for it.
/r/seduction25/01/12 07:09 AM
2

I teach English in Korea and have a super sexy co-teacher I am with all day. She drives me wild. I come home and have to fap right away because of her. It's been killing my desire to approach lately and my aggressiveness. I choose not to shit where I eat with her. I've always been kind of "go with the flow" when it comes to approach and not really force it. I need to more.
/r/seduction16/12/11 08:23 AM
1

Little hip checks "Feel how cold my hands are......Oooooh warm them up!"
/r/seduction07/12/11 10:56 AM
1

I use Stinky a lot.
/r/seduction12/11/11 10:52 AM
1

The girl I am gaming now always call each other Champ, Sport etc She loves it.
/r/seduction12/11/11 10:51 AM
3

Avoid oneitis. See her if it happens, but don't go out of your way to see her. I always end up in this situation because I travel a lot and it sucks.
/r/seduction01/11/11 03:56 AM
2

Don't get one-itis. Don't be the clown that is attention seeking. Leave them better than you left them and don't lash out when things don't go according to plan. Never get involved with a girl where there is distance involved.
/r/seduction01/11/11 03:53 AM
1

How did you do in Korea? I had a hard time since I lived in a smaller city and had to travel. The language barrier gets to me and I just assume they don't speak English and I can't communicate.
/r/seduction28/10/11 05:06 PM
2

How do you not give a fuck if you want to set up a day two? Just have the mentality whatever happens happens? Flakes kind of fuck me up and confuse me and make me give a fuck when I originally didn't.
/r/seduction19/10/11 10:58 AM
1

Bitchy flirty is one of the hardest things to figure out.
/r/seduction02/10/11 02:09 AM
2

Great post. The best game I pull is when I don't think, I just am. I don't force, I go with the flow. Meditation helps with this. The book Power of Now helped me a lot. Been out of state lately though (oneitis and change in my life) and going through some depression lately. I need to start meditating again.
/r/seduction08/09/11 07:15 AM
2

that damn jessica always popping into my head
/r/seduction08/09/11 07:11 AM
13

How screwed is Tokyo, is that why you left?
/r/seduction08/07/11 06:22 PM
3

Yeah, I agree. I was soaking it up there and have had my moments where I wish she was with me. Oneitis for sure, but it was a really special time. Nothing lasts forever.
/r/seduction24/06/11 11:19 PM
2

Back in the states now fortunately but unfortunately. Ha. I like your username. I actually got called it when I was gaming a girl in the town this story took place in by a cute bartender girl. All I heard was in a foreign language blah blah blah american blah blah blah casanova. ha. I should have continued but am kind of a gentleman when it comes to girls with bf's. I let them make their decisions to cheat and not push too much, but I think by her keeping her bf secret she kind of did but got co…
/r/seduction23/06/11 10:30 PM
7

Use your on the fly creativity for teasing/negging with some playful kino and you'll be fine.
/r/seduction19/06/11 10:40 PM
1

I usually do well with women by bringing up past travels or future travel dreams.
/r/seduction09/06/11 05:41 AM
3

When a girl was typing on her phone the other day I asked her "are you on twitter? are you tweeting?" Could be an opener or a neg.
/r/seduction29/05/11 11:16 AM
1

How about for burning bridges and being done with someone? Is it dumb to burn a bridge?
/r/seduction29/05/11 11:04 AM
7

Putting sunblock on a girl I was gaming. She leaned and laid on my lap as I applied the sunblock. Got super sexy. Ha.
/r/seduction27/05/11 09:41 PM
1

Leave a VM?
/r/seduction22/01/11 04:30 AM
0

siihb
/r/seduction19/12/10 05:21 PM
2

What if she doesn't respond to your first "nice to meet you" text?? Proceed with asking her out in the next text?
/r/seduction28/11/10 10:53 AM
1

She came crawling back once, and its the second time this happened. Cut the cord regardless?
/r/seduction30/08/10 01:37 PM
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It just doesn't seem like either of us care now and its at a stalemate.
/r/seduction30/08/10 01:04 PM
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