I started studying this ladder, and wanted my own version a little bit more concise so it was easier for me to remember. I am planning to do this with a girl I have been on a few dates with and I'm hoping this will do the trick. Please give me any suggestions or opinions.

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DiCarlo Ladder Concise and Emphasized

-Eye contact is key at outset

-Under each class first points are incidental, second are overt

Class 1

  • Shaking hands, tapping on shoulder, touching to emphasize points, high five

  • Holding hands, arm in arm escorting

Class 2

  • Legs touching while standing and sitting, brushing abdomen while talking, touching back with palm while pulling in

  • Hugging, escorting with hand on back, putting her legs over yours while sitting, holding her tummy on the side while sitting and talking, placing her hand on your thigh

Class 3

  • Brushing something off her face, talking while touching her face to yours because loud etc, touching necklace, pinching cheeks
  • Placing head on your shoulder, smelling her neck, stroking face with finger looking in her eyes, running fingers through hair looking in eyes, holding side of her neck looking in eyes

Brief points to remember:

  • Touch to emphasize points, brush abdomen while talking, touch back while walking, brush something off face, pinch cheeks. When seated: put her legs over yours, hold her tummy on the side, place her hand on your thigh. Place head on shoulder, smell neck, stroke face, run fingers through hair, hold side of neck.

Ramp, to be done in an isolated location:

  • Kissing from close, move in as to kiss then pull away to say something else, builds tension. Place finger under her chin and pull mouth towards.
  • Kiss neck gently while holding her close, possible biting.
  • After kissing mouth & neck, move hands under her shirt on her back.
  • Move hand to front under shirt, lift her shirt, lift your shirt as well and touch abdomens.
  • Start kissing abdomen with shirt exposed, along sides and move up. Gauge if can move toward breasts.
  • If kissing body position in-between legs so midsection rubs against vagina. If kissing mouth position thigh to stimulate vagina. Can also plant hand on bed below her, using forearm to stimulate vagina.
  • Slip hand inside panties and touch naked ass. Move hand all the way down and reach vagina. Start touching area around it. Finger from behind.
  • Undo front of pants with other hand. Move to the front, use “come-hither” motion pulling forward on front wall.
  • Keep fingering while removing pants. Can say “do you want me inside you?” or directly tell her to take off her pants.

Notes: Higher rungs unlock lower rungs of classes. Do not start ramp with intention to finish later.

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