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For white males in NA/Europe this might be a bit hard to understand, but for any non-White person, this is all too apparent. I find that as a reasonably successful, good looking black male I get attention from females across the entire spectrum but mostly in admiration. Once I make a move, many females will become immediately standoff-ish even though moments ago they were giving me "the look" so to say. If I can get over the fence, it requires much more effort to prove my value and actually get …
/r/TheRedPill15/02/14 09:33 PM
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money: the great equalizer.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/14 09:20 PM
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I completely agree, but at the same time this bit ignores the whole bit about 'sex'. Yes, I would love to full dedicate myself to becoming what I truly want to be. But at the same time, the part of my brain that says " go for the one in the short skirt" is always going to be there.
/r/seduction29/12/13 02:57 AM
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Beach.
/r/seduction24/05/13 12:03 AM
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Dude, go out and just start interacting with people. Being at university you will never be in another environment where everybody is always looking to be social and the amount of gorgeous women is seemingly endless.
/r/seduction01/05/13 08:48 PM
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How often are you going out a week or having high potential interactions with women on a weekly basis? You many not have the macro-momentum to make these interactions seem like second nature. Usually I'm focused a lot on body language first and then how I can escalate second. I find that if I'm thinking about the conversation directly or what to say then the interaction doesn't have much potential. The conversation should flow naturally so you can concentrate on escalating imo. If I'm 'locked in…
/r/seduction24/04/13 02:55 AM
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I'm not super big on texting either, but I think it's important to build some sort of comfort-level before going straight to asking for the date (unless a level of comfort was previously established). I'm not saying that you should have an all-day text marathon, but at least throw some texts back and forth then go for the date. A lot girls may not like how direct you're being.
/r/seduction23/04/13 05:26 PM
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Didn't really agree with the article but the point on social status is pretty true. After finishing university I realized how crucial social status was for your chances of getting with HBs. It didn't come down to how interesting or good looking you were, but often to "who do you know" or "are you friends with these people". Focus on building a large social circle, with many different characters and your opportunities to meet desirable women will undoubtedly go up.
/r/seduction22/04/13 09:37 PM
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abundance. have several girls on the go at all times and you're good.
/r/seduction27/03/13 06:00 PM
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I don't think there's an appropriate amount of time that you can definitely say "I think that I should tell them now", but it comes down more to getting to know the girl and gauging how you think she would handle the news. I say this not because I went through abuse myself but because I was previously close to a girl who did go through some terrible shit. She told me pretty early on about what she had gone through as a child and it pretty much doomed any chance of us having a relationship. I'm n…
/r/seduction26/03/13 02:49 AM
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Commandeer the situation. Escalate quickly, see if she's receptive and then go in for the number/kiss/close. If she backs down, move on.
/r/seduction24/03/13 04:18 PM
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This is an interesting topic that you've brought up because I was thinking about something related to this the other day. I feel that at the age of 23 I'm finally comfortable being friends with girls that have previously rejected me. A lot of it has to do with maturity, but also due to developing myself and not taking everything personal. That cute HB8 that you see every week at the bar turned you down? Oh well, she's still fun to hang out with and makes for a good drinking partner. She shouldn'…
/r/seduction24/03/13 04:07 PM
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So much truth in this article.
/r/seduction23/03/13 03:55 PM
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"Hey Girl"
/r/seduction20/03/13 12:30 AM
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They can usually see through all your bullshit. These women are smart, so the part of seduction that I like to call "fake game", all the clever jokes, games, routines, etc. has way less of an effect on them. It's all about "real game"; conveying to them your interests, that you're a genuine person, have a great social life, have goals, etc. Real game served with sex appeal and confidence is what I've (so far) come to see as the way to go. Basically, be a straight shooter. The difference that I f…
/r/seduction18/03/13 03:26 AM
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I would suggest starting small and then adding on as you get more comfortable. Just smiling at a girl, saying "hi" and walking away is easy to master and will get you comfortable with approaching strangers. After you get the hang of this you can start to initiate conversations, ask people how their day, comment on something in the environment, etc. etc. If you're going to tell a girl that you find her pretty, make sure you have something to back it up/follow up with. Keep it simple at first. Goo…
/r/seduction18/03/13 02:55 AM
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I've always had pretty high standards, but before I started following Seddit I honestly had no idea how to get these "high value" women. And while I was trying to figure out how to get HB8s+, I feel like I missed out on a bunch of opportunities to close more average level girls. So those two things lead me here basically. My expectations and standards haven't changed too much, but it definitely feels like my goals are far more achievable now then they were say a year ago. I would say that looks …
/r/seduction18/03/13 01:03 AM
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Nothing wrong with approaching from behind, I just wouldn't recommend it to someone just starting out or trying to overcome AA.
/r/seduction18/03/13 12:45 AM
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Try not to approach anyone from behind, especially in a non-social environment. If possible, catch their attention for a second before you go in for contact. When I was behind 2 of them(at different times), I said "Excuse me."They turned around and I told them they were pretty. They didn't say anything and they went on their way. I think one actually said thanks Where did you approach these girls? Did they notice you looking at them before you approached them? Did you say anything else to them d…
/r/seduction18/03/13 12:08 AM
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If you're sitting at a table try and sit perpendicular to each other. At first it might seem kind of weird, but it'll put you in prime position for kino.
/r/seduction18/03/13 12:02 AM
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Whenever I introduce myself to a girl I'll usually shake her hand with both of my hands or shake and touch the elbow. If you're at a loud spot, gently touch her elbow/arm and lean in close to talk to her or listen to her when she's conversing. Be careful not to pull her towards you which could be creepy. Using eye contact to feel out the whole situation is crucial though. If you getting good, extended eye contact from her it's probably safe to step up the kino a bit.
/r/seduction18/03/13 12:00 AM
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I went through a brief phase like this in college too. And yes, you're right: a girlfriend will not solve this problem. This is honestly just part of growing up. You're starting to coming into your own but there's so many activities and people pulling you in every which direction that you get lost in the chaos. There's really no straight "cure" for this besides just continuing your life and improving yourself. As time goes on you'll drop some activities, pick up others, meet new people, end frie…
/r/seduction17/03/13 02:40 PM
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golf clap
/r/seduction15/03/13 10:18 PM
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Like the girl is only using you for sex? Has she told you/have you asked her how she feels about you?
/r/seduction13/03/13 01:30 PM
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Dude, you don't have oneitis, you're getting confused with the term. Oneitis is one-sided in that you have feelings which are not being reciprocated by her. Oneitis usually occurs after that weird phase in-between seeing someone and being in an exclusive relationship. Where most people either break-up or start a committed relationship, the people that still cling to the idea of a relationship after the idea's being explored and then dismissed, THESE are the people that have oneitis. The only way…
/r/seduction13/03/13 12:20 AM
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I like to use "cool, want a second one?" which always gets a good response.
/r/seduction13/03/13 12:03 AM
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Nip oneitis right in it's tracks. Create more options for yourself immediately. Although from the sounds of it, she's creating some options for you. Take advantage.
/r/seduction12/03/13 11:56 PM
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This is the one place you could argue where there is no real "etiquette". Clubs are all about body language and acting in the moment. Quick points: LOTS of kino, escalate fast, have some super sexualized lines ready, be bold and don't invest too much time with any single girl.
/r/seduction11/03/13 09:26 PM
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These are the type of FRs that I like to hear. It's all about progress.
/r/seduction08/03/13 03:37 PM
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Toronto's really a city of neighbourhoods/boroughs now due to its size (2.79 mil according to a release on Tuesday). Some of the neighbourhoods around downtown offer some good pickup opportunities though. Little Italy (college girls) and Queen Street West (stylish women, fashion-types and hipsters) are a couple of my favourite spots.
/r/seduction07/03/13 05:26 PM
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Having good style in university will have a huge (read: HUGE) effect. In the real world (making up hypothetically numbers here to make a point), maybe ~40% of men dress nicely, so style doesn't really set you apart that much (especially if you're in a large city). But in university, if only about ~20% of guys have style give or take, paying more attention to how you dress well get you noticed. If anything, start brushing up on your style now for when you graduate school. From my experience, ther…
/r/seduction07/03/13 05:10 PM
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I know Montreal has beautiful women, but how would you compare them to girls from Toronto? (if you've ever been)
/r/seduction07/03/13 04:40 PM
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This shit right here is what you need to read and internalize OP.
/r/seduction06/03/13 10:50 PM
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Once again, this all comes down to confidence. That's really all I have to say. (from a fellow African-American)
/r/seduction06/03/13 07:14 PM
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Use your best judgement and not the advice of people on the internet. Every situation is different.
/r/seduction05/03/13 09:21 PM
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Agreed.
/r/seduction05/03/13 09:19 PM
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The use of proper grammar is especially important. If you're looking to attract high quality women, you have to exude quality yourself.
/r/seduction05/03/13 05:22 PM
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Toronto has a solid HBs population. Probably above average for a large city.
/r/seduction05/03/13 05:06 PM
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I'm 6'1" and I'd say she was about 5'3", maybe 5'4". But once again, height doesn't matter. Don't worry too much about something you can't control. Focus on improving the things you can.
/r/seduction04/03/13 04:00 AM
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Dude. Fuck height. It's all about confidence. The other day I saw a cute girl walking towards me on street and right away I decided to go for it. Stopped her, told her that she caught my eye cause she was pretty and then proceeded to have a short conversation with her. I literally asked her about the most mundane things, tripped over every other word I said but still managed to get her number. She just texted me to see if I want to meet up tomorrow. Point is, confidence can overcome just about a…
/r/seduction04/03/13 03:34 AM
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Great line.
/r/seduction03/03/13 10:54 PM
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Make sure you're in a good mood before you go out. Hit up the gym, listen to some of your favourite tunes, watch a comedy, etc. are some ways I elevate my mood before daygaming.
/r/seduction03/03/13 10:52 PM
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How To Pick-Up at a Funeral for Dummies (Revised 2013 Edition)
/r/seduction02/03/13 11:54 PM
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You never know until you try . .
/r/seduction02/03/13 11:47 PM
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coffee date fun activity like bowling, hitting up an arcade, small concert, karaoke, etc. invite her out to a bar (you can make it a group thing with your friends and hers to take some pressure off) slay (preferably just you and her) if step 1 goes really well then just skip to step 3.
/r/seduction02/03/13 11:45 PM
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If you already know the girl and you think it well be received, than yes, I would say go for it. With 95% of girls, this strategy will not work though. The key is kino, kino and more kino. Couple this with suggestive remarks (you have to be creative) and a girl will understand your intentions very quickly. Your job is connect with the female's sexual desires without making her feel like a hoe, straight up. This especially true in public places/when other people are around. Girls don't want to be…
/r/seduction02/03/13 06:24 PM
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"I'm going to hold your hand while we talk. Don't want you wandering out of my field of vision." accidently brush your hand across her chest "Sorry, I thought that was my chest." "Since I'm blind and all my other senses are heightened, some people call me the 'Fantastic 4'. (sorry if any of these are offensive) The key is to be creative. You'e not at a disadvantage but an advantage (you could get away with touching a girl's twos, no doubt).
/r/seduction02/03/13 04:42 PM
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Crucial post. Making your intentions clear from the beginning (even if you come across as aggressive) is definitely a better route than playing it passively and hoping she figures out what you want. Remember two things gentlemen: women can't read minds and they like men that take charge and lead. Definitely going to keep this in mind for my date tomorrow. Thanks for the post OP.
/r/seduction02/03/13 04:11 PM
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THIS comment. Invest your time in your band, other HBs, friends, etc. and allot none to this girl.
/r/seduction01/03/13 08:53 PM
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I feel that I have my priorities in order, just need to actually get down to doing them.
/r/seduction28/02/13 10:42 PM
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Well done. Take it step by step.
/r/seduction28/02/13 10:01 PM
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This is where the one exhibitionist girl comes in. And she will come through with flying colors. She's looking for an excuse to get naked. If you're winning at life, she's also physically attractive. This will spark the powder keg of sexual tension, excitement, and fun in the room, and will usually be all that's needed for the rest of the girls (if they've gotten this far) to get on board. Ah, so the exhibitionist girl is . . . The One.
/r/seduction28/02/13 09:48 PM
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Not too bad overall. The last section on "Recognizing poor choices and getting on the right path" was pretty good. I'm definitely guilty of thinking a bit too much on some things rather just doing. TL;DR Go for it.
/r/seduction28/02/13 09:40 PM
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Yup. If she doesn't comply, then move on.
/r/seduction28/02/13 09:29 PM
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Don't take online dating personally. You have to remember that for every decent, thoughtful message an attractive girl receives she probably receives 10 that are crap. Look at it this way: imagine your junk mail from 3 separate accounts along with your regular inbox from one account, were all consolidated into a single folder. Sounds terrible doesn't it? It also sounds like a place that I wouldn't want to go to very often. That's how (I imagine) it is for most attractive girls on OKCupid. Person…
/r/seduction28/02/13 04:32 PM
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Well put. I think the amount to pursue will vary between guys. I have more of a passive aggressive attitude so I tend to give the girl options and let her respond. If she doesn't respond or takes a while then obviously there's not enough attraction there so time to next that girl.
/r/seduction26/02/13 02:04 PM
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Bitches are most definitely crazy. I'm not saying to not give it a shot just don't expect anything, that's all. And dude, if you have lots of friends that are girls you have this in the bag. The difference between going out with four of your bros and going out with two girls, two guys is HUGE. The difference in attention you'll get from random girls without having done anything is crazy.
/r/seduction26/02/13 04:58 AM
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It's going to be incredibly difficult/near-impossible to convert any long-term friendship into anything romantic. Girls and guys are very different but they're similar in that they categorize members of the opposite sex into one of two categories (potential partner or friend) within the first 5 minutes of meeting them. What you're trying to accomplish is akin to going back in time and re-introducing yourself and reframing your entire first contact with this person. Not going to happen. If you do…
/r/seduction26/02/13 04:47 AM
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Don't keep asking. You'll start coming across as desperate and needy. If she says that she's busy say something like "well I'm free on X and Y, so give me a shout if you're down to do something" - end of discussion. If she doesn't respond back or says that she's busy on those days too, move on.
/r/seduction26/02/13 04:36 AM
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Ask your wing for one or just makeout with her anyways. If she says anything about it then tell her that the both of you should get out of there to go buy some. Assume attraction no matter what.
/r/seduction25/02/13 05:15 AM
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Well done man. Amazing what can happen when not giving a fuck. Quick question though, why didn't you try to K-close the Asian girl? Was she not ready? Seems like you easily could have done it.
/r/seduction25/02/13 04:57 AM
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This screams neediness. You made a mistake, learn from it and move on. Even if this girl has the looks of Miss America I wouldn't even bother with her anymore. You're already in a hole so you're going to have to do major work just to get back on level ground before you can even consider making moves.
/r/seduction25/02/13 12:47 AM
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Text them something funny, sexy and then once the convo is going set a date. Don't prolong text convos. Tell them you're super busy so you have to set dates way in advance.
/r/seduction25/02/13 12:36 AM
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Nice FR. Definitely keep this girl within arm's reach in order to establish other contacts and expand your social circle. Move on to another girl quickly though and don't get caught up on this one. Keep up the good work.
/r/seduction25/02/13 12:25 AM
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Purely a boost. You didn't really elaborate on what you did, why you think it worked, her reaction, etc.
/r/seduction22/02/13 04:30 AM
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Like the downtown area of a big city, a park or any kind of public space with lots of people milling about. I think one would have to open and throw in maybe a quick line but this approach might have some potential. What do you think?
/r/seduction22/02/13 12:14 AM
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Dude, I'm in the same boat. As /u/teddylingus mentioned, everybody goes through the post-grad lull and it's not specific to you. I finished school last April so I've been back at home for about 10 months now. I knew things would slow down dramatically so the approach I took was to try working on my inner game more than anything. There's only a few places to go out in my town (which gets old really quick) that I frequent maybe a few times per month. Other than that, I've been going to the gym a l…
/r/seduction21/02/13 03:26 PM
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Great read, points at the end are bang on.
/r/seduction12/08/12 02:07 PM
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Well said.
/r/seduction12/08/12 01:54 PM
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Good advice on shaking their hand. You get very simple kino but more importantly break the barrier between total stranger to stranger-moving-towards-acquantinance
/r/seduction28/07/12 01:40 PM
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I commend you for having the courage to approach these women in untypical situations. Unfortunately, you're trying to pick up these women as if you're in a bar setting when clearly you're not. Save the "hey you're pretty, let's fuck" comments for the club. When everyone's had some drinks in them the line will probably go over better (a lot better), even if you get rejected. EDIT: Also, don't go for commenting on the girl's looks right away. Start with a simple opener, comment on something about …
/r/seduction28/07/12 01:34 PM
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