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SCROTES MADdenimlace/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 08:34 PM
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LESSON LEARNEDdenimlace/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 12:58 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYdenimlace/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 11:05 PM
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STAY WOKEdenimlace/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 02:39 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYdenimlace/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 02:10 AM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMEdenimlace/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 05:46 PM
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LEVEL UPdenimlace/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 09:48 PM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMEdenimlace/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 07:04 PM
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PICKME CULTUREdenimlace/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 08:31 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYdenimlace/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 01:22 AM
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FDS TRANSLATES MENdenimlace/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 06:17 PM
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STRATEGYdenimlace/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 05:16 PM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEdenimlace/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 12:35 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYdenimlace/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 12:42 AM
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Shorties get disrespected because we are petite and adorable. Shorties beware.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 06:21 PM
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Olivia Munn consistently picks the losers and makes horrible life choices.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 01:04 PM
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Every dude under 5’10 online is a midget irl. If they’re actually 5’10, then they say they are 6’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 12:54 AM
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Dirty fingernails and long toenails. Not flossin everyday and no face wash (use same bar of irish spring he uses for his dick). Dirty undies if you see them but god forbid you have to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 09:12 PM
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Drama is like water to pickmes and NVMs. They can’t fathom a life of stability and peace. That’s all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 12:07 AM
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The right answer is to cut up all his shirts to use as DIY pads.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 03:29 PM
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He is ugly and gesticulating like a sopranos character.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 12:21 PM
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Asked some dumbass this and his response was “im too good looking to pay”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 02:49 AM
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Building an OLD profile is like trying to arrange poo in the toilet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 05:24 PM
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“I’m busy”, “gotta work”, “im just trynna eat ya know”, “sup”, “wyd”, “just woke up”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 05:06 PM
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I am starting to recognize pickmes and NVMs by just the look of them. Something in the eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 11:10 PM
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No. Ruined for life by their degeneracy. It’s like asking if you can reform a criminal. Um yeah, I guess theoretically maybe but I would not touch with a ten foot pole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 09:56 PM
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Compensating for small dick/brain
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 10:27 PM
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Wasn’t Perrie with Zayn forever too? Zayn sucks. He has the dead-eyed look of a NVM and both Perrie/Gigi are pickmes sadly. If anyone watches this season’s Love Island, Will and Kyra are the zayn/Gigi narcissistic NVm/pickme couple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 06:18 PM
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Exactly lmao. I’m not interrupting my diet and fitness routine for a taco and margarita with Scrooge McScrote anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 03:54 PM
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Same. Also refuse to date men with pickme moms and NVM dads. They learn from what is modeled in childhood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 02:49 PM
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Success in these fields is 1 in a thousand, hell even a million. By early 20s, you know if someone has even a shot at success in these fields. Not dating a 30 year old trynna be a DJ or whatever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 02:49 PM
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It’s the “shoot yo shot” attitude to life from NVMs. They don’t give a shit about anything, let alone social graces or decorum. They will try just cus you are there. Best response to a shit date is to curb it early and GTFO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 07:21 PM
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Agreed. And I would NEVER go near an influencer dude. Add that to the list of FDS not-approved male “jobs” like “personal trainer”, “crypto trader”, “cannabis entrepreneur” 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 01:50 PM
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Honestly, any man super active on social media is a big red flag. He should have less than <200 followers/following and they should all be friends with also private pages (no e-thots). His sporadic posts should be stupid shots of his dog, a pic from a trip, etc. Not carefully curated flaunting shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 11:35 AM
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Tl;dr: small town woman led into prostitution by scrote bf. Key takeaways: Sugaring is prostitution, pimps troll SA and IG for new girls. Keep your social media private. Stay off online dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 02:42 PM
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I know a woman with a male bestie. They fight like a couple, go to Walmart together on the weekends, go on trips together and he even was her “roommate” for a year while unemployed. No, he did not pay rent the whole time. Yes, she has feelings for him but he refuses to date. What kinda “friendship” is that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 02:26 PM
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😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 11:33 PM
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My friend called up a food truck asking if they were open that day. The dude saved her number and proceeded to ask her out over text. He is probably close to 60. You really cannot say anything beyond “hi” to a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 12:15 AM
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I mean, would you do anything else in life if it meant constant disappointment at best? Nah sis. That would be insanity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 04:01 PM
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Amen. I was also so naive at one point I thought most men were essentially decent. As in, like me. But NOOOOO, they are all so mentally fucked there’s no salvaging shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 02:53 PM
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No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 02:14 AM
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Amen. Watched this today too. A few FDS things it reminded me of (spoiler): beware of male therapists, watch out for love bombing, and do not lift a finger for a man (let alone avenge his murder lol)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 02:04 AM
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I had a man who supposedly made reservations at a restaurant then proceeded to not text me the day of. I was wise enough at this point to not get ready or do shit. Literally the minute of the supposed reservation rolls around and I get a text saying “omggg i forgot sorry! I can’t make it”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 08:41 PM
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Deffo the classic NVM artist-narcissist trope. He is such a POS. One of his songs came on a Spotify playlist while I was in the car, and in the middle of the song it really sounded like a demon just says “cookies”. Freaked me the fuck out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 04:37 PM
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I had the same thought while listening to this song. TKL is only 18 - what a lost cause.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 01:11 AM
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Men are really unattractive. In a major metro city, I see a handful of hot guys a day max. Meanwhile, every other girl who walks by is a babe. Too bad I was born straight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 01:09 AM
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So upsetting. My mum told me back in her home country in her gran’s generation, women weren’t allowed to sit down to dinner with the men. So the women spent all day cooking and cleaning only to eat the leftovers crouched in a corner of the kitchen. Broke my heart but so much of that rings true today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 05:11 PM
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When I first started reading FDS, I saw some advice about countering coffee offers with saying “I prefer dinner”. Ok, some losers basically dragged their feet into taking me to a restaurant and it was a shitty time each time. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 01:21 AM
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I got catcalled on my way to and from school as a middle schooler who wore glasses and GAP sweatshirts. Kids these days dress more mature due to influence of social media and the kardashians. Couldn’t imagine trynna grow up as a young teen girl now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 05:18 PM
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That makes no sense at all. You’re just opening yourself to being manipulated and conned by men who just fuck you anyway? Where’s the friendship? The only male friends I can think of in a healthy context are casual acquaintances who may partake in co-ed group activities like a sports team or whatever. Even then, I would draw boundaries where I wouldn’t text with them outside of the group chat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 04:07 PM
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So true about the blackmail thing. That is literally how Epstein made his money. And we know how wide his nefarious net went.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 03:00 AM
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You coulda dumped him in the time it took you to write this out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 11:56 PM
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This makes me think of cat marnell. I mean, her friends are literally hobos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 06:52 PM
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Yeah lol. Ben Affleck is a drunk loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 02:17 AM
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Men literally think thrusting their peepee in n out is pleasurable for women. So yeah they don’t care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 12:03 AM
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I told my some NVM orbiters the news that I got a very nice sportscar from crypto gains and they got mad as hell and never spoke to me again. Good riddance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 11:57 PM
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All my exes are ugly as hell. Pickemishism is a form of delusion. These losers had acne, receding hairlines, dad bods, hank hill no-assitis, you name it. Lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 12:43 AM
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Realest starter pack out there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 11:35 PM
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Lesson learned. Oh and by rescue, did he mean “rescue” her with his dick? Anyway, dates should end by 11pm. Nothing good happens at 4am
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 09:04 PM
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Wow. She looks lovely in her photo and that POS murderer is seriously disgusting to look at. On looks disparity alone, women need to stop fucking men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 11:52 PM
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Lmao the slouching in the seat and the hand on the leg. 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 02:52 AM
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So disgusting how men view womens bodies as a household appliance. Like, damn the oven’s broken AGAIN and i can’t heat up my bagel bites MOM!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 07:05 PM
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It’s gonna be a fuckin NOPE from me , babe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 07:04 PM
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Why would a dad have pics of a topless 11 year old???? That’s nearly a teen. I wore training bras then. Some 11 year olds have gotten their periods. JFC
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 03:40 PM
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Woah dat face 😧
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 04:05 AM
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Rap music in 2021 is big fat NOPE. It’s a great way to filter out NVMs too btw. If you see a guy blasting that shit, lol just run before your eardrums bleed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 03:15 PM
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Ryan Reynolds has an untrustworthy face. Smirky face with dull eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 01:12 AM
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My friend has a college hookup who does this. NVM literally puts girls bdays on his google calendar and spends 5 min a day sending out breadcrumbs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 08:42 PM
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Omg. Imagine living in a house and raising kids with a man who begged you for sex the way my dog begs for a slice of pepperoni. 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 08:41 PM
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Lots of men will say yes to marriage/kids if a woman holds a proverbial gun to their heads. The same men will also 100% cheat in t-minus 10 seconds if ever given the chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 07:58 PM
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Stay busy. You are gonna go out and prowl for hookups like a degenerate LVM if you’ve had a fullfilling day? Nah sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 05:22 PM
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The thought of squeezing a watermelon out of my vagina makes me violently ill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 12:03 AM
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Leave him. You are trying to rationalize your affection for a man you have no attraction too. Also you fail to convince me how an adult man in poor health and physical condition who games all day in his man hovel is “HV”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 01:55 PM
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Google the address to make sure it’s not around the corner from his apartment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 02:17 AM
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Most of the engineers who took advantage of access to user data were "men who looked up the Facebook profiles of women they were interested in," the book said. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 11:23 PM
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LVM trademark is saying they’ll do something then making a huge fuss about it then never accomplishing shit. A HVM quietly gets the job done and that’s it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 02:28 AM
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A girl friend told me she has a supposedly straight male friend who has never made a move on her. He did once stay rent free in her apartment for a whole year while he was in between places. He also treats her like a mommy/neglected wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 02:51 AM
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Yep. Once a guy told me he had just woken up at 3pm then proceeded to not text back. I thought he had fallen asleep again. I went over there and he was not at home lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 11:18 PM
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🤣🤣🤣 indeed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 09:01 PM
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Last minute curves. Say he comes to pick you up to go get dinner. As you get in the car, he suddenly goes “You wanna do something else instead?” Jokingly gaslighting you about your surroundings. Forgetting things you tell him or playing dumb. Crossing your sexual boundaries eg asking for sex acts in public (incl the car)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 05:02 PM
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Wow men jack off to a “sup”. The barrel is a bottomless pit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 04:49 PM
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5’4 is absurdly short. You want short kids? You want a man who needs help at the store to reach the top shelf? Who needs to tiptoe to put his luggage in the overhead?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 12:17 PM
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Early bird special starts at 5pm. Who eats at 3?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 09:20 PM
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All the NVMs I have known all have major personality defects or just are plain ol’ dumb. They all seem to be surprised they ended up as losers in life, unable to excel in their careers or in human relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 06:59 PM
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“I can be quiet, but I enjoy conversations”. Dude writes like a moron. Ding this idiot for stupidity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 02:29 AM
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Dude has high incel energy. He should probably just embrace being an incel cus having sex doesn’t seem to even cure his inceldom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 07:28 PM
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Doesn’t look like she’s messaging him. Lol delusional pickmes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 07:16 PM
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Rape sponge 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 10:20 PM
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Agreed. A male therapist literally said to me once “bbbb-but not all men!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 08:01 PM
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Brej. Reminds me of my shit NVM ex. “whatever you want, i’m your man”. Translation: Hehehehe idk what to say but i’ll say whatever to get in yo pants
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 11:39 PM
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Yep, he is a still dating a woman decades his junior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 11:37 PM
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30 min? Wam bam betcha not even a thank you ma’am
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 11:33 PM
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I prefer lunch first dates so I have an exit strategy - got plans with friends to run to so you don’t linger at a first date. Or if you go to dinner, make drink plans with girlfriends that same night.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 10:20 PM
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I would only cohabitate with a man if he has proposed and actively involved in planning an imminent wedding. Seems safest - he has shown commitment and you can test out if he would be a good domestic partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 10:16 PM
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It’s not about if an 18 year old is mature enough to date a 30 yo. It’s about how creepy and fucking immature a 30 yo would be to date a kid who just graduated high school. Also, don’t forget the shittiest old man/teen couple - Scott Disick and whatever child is he with now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 10:10 PM
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What a FREAK
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 11:30 PM
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I went on two dates with a man who FARTED in my face twice. The first date was patio dining so I thought we got crop dusted and let it go. Wtf do you say about something like that?? God the smell was so awful. The second time it happened, I KNEW it couldnt have been a coincidence. I couldnt eat anymore and made an excuse and left.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 02:34 AM
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They are nicer when they haven’t gotten in your pants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 01:21 AM
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No. Some blue collar guys make a killing anyway. I would only date my salary or higher. I am not compromising my standard of living.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 01:15 AM
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Had an ex talking to women behind my back and I noticed he was acting “off”. One night, he bumped into me at 4am in bed and angrily muttered “quit hogging the bed”. I looked down and I noticed motherfucker had literally pushed me to the side of the bed so one of my legs was hanging off. Literally the dumbest, most inscrutable case of gaslightin and blame shifting I ever faced.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 01:27 AM
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I saw a middle aged senior executive from work on Tinder once, posing shirtless in sunglasses. At work that day, he wrote some blog about hiking with his wife and kids and posted their pics. Absolutely shameful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 11:22 PM
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Yup. Just check out how many male yoga teachers are predators using their jobs to access women and their bodies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 09:24 PM
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Sad story. When the news first came out, I immediately suspected the hubby. We know the VAST MAJORITY of violence against women are perpetrated by their intimate partners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 08:00 PM
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Yes! I loved American Girls books and dolls growing up. Also loved Nancy Drew books.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 07:00 PM
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You’re totally right. OLD is not healthy at all. People who use it are obsessed with it and most spend years probs decades trapped in that hellhole. I re-downloaded Hinge recently after a 6 month hiatus and immediately got a bunch of likes from dudes whose profiles I have seen before. I live in a major metro city! Anyway, I promptly deleted the app again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 08:36 PM
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In the US, this means he does not have custody of his kid. He only has supervised visitation which means the court determined he cannot be safely left alone with his kid. Bad sign
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 03:10 PM
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Male dating strategy: how do i get peepee wet?? Female dating strategy: how do i live a good life without fear of rape, violence, abuse and manipulation?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 08:10 PM
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50 shades of depravity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 08:09 PM
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God. I remember when my NVex spent all day with his NV pillhead buddy then came back to the house with takeout cheesesteaks and greasy food. They sat down to eat and I walked past and he was like “yo, i didnt get you anything cus u don’t eat junk food anyway”. Really shows you who is a POS when they can’t even bother to pick you up a soft drink.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 03:14 PM
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He should 1. Ask if you’re ok 2. Ask details of what happened 3. Offer to help call insurance or do whatever to sort things out. That’s it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 12:25 AM
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I’m an introvert so I feel like it’s easier for me than maybe the more extroverted ladies out there. But I started going out to this monastery once in a while and it’s so peaceful to walk the grounds and they have free tea and snacks for visitors too. When I go, there are always visitors or regulars I run into that I chat with. There are healthy ways to connect with people also on spiritual/uplifting journeys if you look for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 08:13 PM
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Respond, “Why? Is that your iq?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 03:01 PM
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For real. Ever heard of a man dieting or working out for his wedding day?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 02:59 PM
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If they are with a LVM or date LVMs. Drug use/binge drinking Tiktok/ig addict.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 09:05 PM
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I realized the thing with pickmes is that they are hella brainwashed into thinking they need a man. Reality check: you literally dont and youre better offer without a crusty ass bum or spendin time suckin on his smelly dick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 08:39 PM
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Yes! I dated a man whose mother’s sister was a retired schoolteacher in her 60s, never married, very active in the community, owned multiple investment properties, travelled and continues to travel all over the world, and is super fit! Just goes to show you how much women can achieve on their own without shitty men dragging them down!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 03:03 PM
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Breh they really gonna make a fake subreddit and post and comment on it? Don’t they have porn to jerk off to or a customer to ring up at the gas station? 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 01:51 PM
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Omg you did the right thing. Once I was told that in threatening situations, you gotta act crazier than the crazy person. Meaning if you are being followed or harassed, scream like hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:55 AM
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Lmaooooo holy shit i think had an ex who did this 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:06 AM
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It’s because of men’s innate depravity and desire to exert control over 50% of humanity. They will lock up their wives and daughters at home ostensibly to “protect” them aka “protect their property”. But due to their lustful depraved nature, they need to satisfy their needs by seeking other women whom they must now term as “whores” to differentiate from the virginal property they have sequestered at home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 09:06 PM
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I’m so sorry. If you want to continue fighting legally, I suggest contacting women’s advocacy groups who may be able to put you in touch with a pro bono lawyer. The cops told me that in my sexual assault case, things may move faster if my attacker was “high profile”. It’s hard to have faith in justice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:08 AM
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Well she’s out now and has an OF account go figure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 10:51 PM
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And they don’t brush their teeth/floss either. Legit had a man tell me at work today he flossed this morning only cus he has a dentist appt later. Um 😶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 07:13 PM
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I hate this. I have been fuckin gaslit by NVMs for “walking slow”. If you ever see a man doing this, just turn around and walk away. Same if some asshole barely holds the door open or just flings it open leaving it to smack in your face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 05:17 PM
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Fuck him. He wants you to donate an organ? Just think of when he never gave a shit while you were sitting in the hospital or in pain after surgery. He is gonna take your kidney or whatever, barely mutter thanks, and run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 05:15 PM
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Ever caught a scrote jerking off and watch him immediately flip the phone over/slams the laptop shut while his sad lil dick is hanging out of his pants? So pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 01:28 AM
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Hm ok. Sis can go enjoy her walking dates
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 11:50 PM
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His dick is the size of a tampon then?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 07:09 PM
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Amen! As I said to my NVM ex when he “forgot” an appointment we had once - “did you forget to wipe your own ass too?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 11:46 PM
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I actively avoid walking around the city these days so I haven’t seen more street harassment. I have noticed as a single woman driving a nice car, I get a lot of vehicular harassment from male drivers and especially truckers!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 06:04 PM
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Never believe a LVM’s promise of ANYTHING. They are like dogs or infants: no concept of the future or time itself. Hell naw was this POS gonna make a mental note of something he was gonna do in 16 years time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 03:28 PM
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Saw a pic of Chinese government meeting once. Literally an assembly hall of nasty old men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 02:54 AM
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Yeah they still treat attractive women like crap though; they might just hold the door open for her in the hope they can get their peepee wet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 02:52 AM
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LOL she sounds like a great dog mum! Maybe scrotey boy can sneak a bite of doggy steak out of the fridge when she isn’t looking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 07:33 PM
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Rings true from experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 12:13 AM
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Good on you for phasing her out. It’s not the job of busy, accomplished HVW to save PickMeishas
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 09:48 PM
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The relationship was already broken doe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 12:17 AM
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I only agree to go out on dates with professionally successful men. Still have yet to find a HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 02:43 PM
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It’s literally a shitty excuse to never take the girl out, spend any money or plan anything. It’s one thing for a married couple to read in bed separately together. A whole other thing for a NVM to force his bangmaid watch him play video games.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 02:41 PM
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Shitty men don’t want to marry anyone - maybe find a pickme supreme when they are too feeble to swipe on Tinder. Don’t think it’s some prize if some LVM says you’re the one and they want to marry you either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 02:02 PM
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If you invite someone out, you pay. How difficult of a concept is that? Oh and I will call out female friends for this shit too. Had a LVW former friend invite me over to hers for pizza and wine night then Venmoed requested me afterwards for half the pizza. Wow, who raised these people?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 01:16 PM
247

Incestuous pedophiles should not allowed to be parents. Terrifying thing is that this level of depravity is too common amongst men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:06 AM
49

Wtf. So wrong on so many levels
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 05:25 PM
14

The audacity of this goblin looking dude
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 11:29 PM
22

Disgusting. A few other red flags from this story: doctor asking out a patient, 32 is too old for 22 year old. I can go on but fyi to all ladies just put a stop to it right there at that stage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 06:09 PM
114

Word to the wise: if a man asks you “wyd”, block and delete
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 03:15 PM
31

Omg. I had a loser bark at me recently at the gym, asking what food he should order at 9pm on a weeknight. Who thinks that’s an appropriate thing to ask a random stranger lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 08:50 PM
50

Yeah. First thought was this is a woman’s handwriting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 08:47 PM
49

I prefer to sleep alone in my King sized Casper mattress. I don’t want to my share my bed with a smelly dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 06:30 PM
60

Lmao. I am a regular at my gym and this is a pic of me on the left and the male gym members on the right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 06:29 PM
25

I wouldn’t go on a date somewhere with no table service. I have done so in the past (like a brewery) and men who offer places like this on an early date are cheapo LVM. This is the type of place where they can get away with ordering drinks and food without offering to get one for the date or cheap out on tipping. Say NO to counter service dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 06:27 PM
133

Nothing like a first date walk in the woods with a creep who still carries a map in 2021.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 08:29 PM
133

Nobody needs to spend 3 hours at the gym to stay fit. Guaranteed he is hogging the squat racks while salivating over teenagers on TikTok. Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 11:23 PM
24

Yes. I grew up poor and never lived in a house with all working appliances and renovated bathrooms. Now I do and own a nice vehicle and have a gorgeous puppy. I am in excellent health and look great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 11:54 PM
209

Yes. Back in my pick me days, I used to still respond to exes who breadcrumbed me to “catch up”. I had two LVM exes who magically stopped hitting me up when I told them I got a new luxury car due to my investing successes. Lmao. Their last words were literally “but that car costs 100k?!!l”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 11:00 PM
5

Bon apple tea!! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 02:26 PM
41

I would evaluate the setting as well. If it’s the street or a typical gym aka a place where people should damn well be minding their own business, I immediately dismiss as they are straight up using PUA tactics. If it is at a place where there is more of a sense of community and he strikes up a convo based on that common interest (e.g at a climbing gym, a social group), then I would respond to see what he has to say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 02:12 PM
1

This is a trending post on r/tifu. Tl;dr: Pathetic middle aged man gets a lot of internet points for whining about his life and wife. Bemoans his family and working 9-4. Regrets not bedding more women. Gag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 06:20 PM
84

I can write a book. Here are some of the high (low)-lights: One guy just got married 9 months ago (found out after first date while vetting his identity online). One went berserk and harassed me to Venmo him half the cost of dates #1 and #2 when I refused date #3. One made American Psycho murder jokes on first date. One went on an anti-women rant when I asked him “how do you like this city so far?” as he had recently relocated. Anyway. Cesspool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 06:22 PM
76

Lol so a “masculine” man is one who does not cook, clean, look after loved ones, or take of their appearances. Got it! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 09:13 PM
19

Exercise and do a hike to check out the fall foliage. Make a dent in the pile of books I have accumulated on my nightstand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 05:53 PM
38

Yes! Even the most successful men make time and have time! Funny how it’s always been the men with middling careers pulling this card 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 02:25 PM
44

NVM all seem to believe coronavirus is a hoax. Ask him his thoughts about the pandemic. Studies have shown psychopathy/narcissism correlates to refusal to wear masks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 08:47 PM
16

A pair of pumps or high heeled boots that are easy to walk in. My preferred brand is Stuart Weitzman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 06:46 PM
22

My mother taught me many FDS things but she did not live the values she espoused. I felt her words were just lip service and spent a big part of my life being a massive Pick-Me. Finding this sub has been a lifesaver and I feel so grateful for my mum now that I see she was trying her best to look out for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 01:25 AM
109

I had a very similar exchange with a NVM once about a $17 cocktail. This NVM made high six figures, maybe even 7 figures, but still tried to harass me over $17! Unbelievable lol 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 05:36 PM
62

HUGE red flag for anyone to harbor these thoughts let alone say that out loud.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 09:05 PM
31

Yikes. That is why women need to be so careful about sharing anything related to mental health or past traumas with men. They will weaponize it against you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 03:49 PM
59

You should assume he is seeing other women unless proven otherwise. But easy signs are if he’s always “busy” with work. Not answering texts/calls at night/weekends or a delay in response. Active on OLD (it is easy to see if they are active on Tinder due to the “recently active” feature”). If he has social media, not adding you as a friend or also liking pics of random girls in your city.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 03:46 PM
71

Hahaha! Is he a child or a dog? I get a lot of “meet me for a drink at <bar conveniently downstairs from my apartment” and recently“let’s go for a walk at <park conveniently across the street from my apartment>”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 05:37 PM
32

I am the same age. This is what happens when over a decade of poor lifestyle choices catches up to men. Crows feet, dad bods, white hair. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 05:13 PM
26

All the LVM I have come across have lots of male friends who support and enable their toxic behaviors like drinking, using drugs and gambling. They get trashed every weekend and then hit each other up for cash to pay off gambling/drug debts. Female friends are usually pick-me’s who are also enablers or those they can hit up for a hook-up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 10:57 PM
54

Shouldn’t be texting a 28 year old from Reddit when you are 18. 18 year old girls and 28 year old men cannot be friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 12:56 AM
15

Ego boost? He tried to get sympathy out of you by mentioning the yearlong celibacy. See how that made you lower you guard? Don’t worry about it. And never text a man first. Guys who say “text me” are also just looking for an ego boost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 12:55 AM
53

Why do LVM always send invites with weird caveats? Example: If you’re free, you’re invited. You can come if you want. Etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 11:28 PM
39

When I hear a man expressing he likes the “natural” look, it is an immediate red flag. Of course, the natural look they refer to are always women who are impeccably groomed with very fit physiques. It is part of a LVM’s delusional fantasy that women should be perfect and cater to their needs all the while appearing totally effortless and compliant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 09:40 PM
26

The narrative of a reformed LVM/NVM is a story that many women fall for and is a fantasy trap. Many women have the delusion that a LVM will come to the realization that he lost a queen. People can change, sure, and anyone can work on their self-development if they are committed to it. Just don’t fall for a trap or a delusion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 09:35 PM
33

I had a LVM express repeated disappointment when he couldn’t make me cum and I thought at the moment he was trying to satisfy me. Thank you for reframing it in this light.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 05:25 PM
115

This happens all the time. ALL THE TIME. Short answer: no you can’t fix it. The problem is him. You can’t fix him. Suck it up and move on and next time some man holds your hand and calls you pet names, don’t believe him so much. He was just playing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 04:34 PM
58

Do not disclose your (lack of) sexual history. Follow the handbook.And of course, your education and career should always be your top priorities regardless of your age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 05:42 AM
21

Good places to get advice and mentorship in college is from your advisor, the dean, student societies, alumni groups, etc. If it’s practical advice like how to get a car, try to ask if a friend has a family member or older sibling who can provide assistance. Do not rely on men you date for this stuff. They won’t deliver anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 09:26 PM
13

The last LVM I dated turned up on a date in a college lacrosse pinny and sweatpants while I wore a designer sundress. We are both nearly 30. That should have been my cue to exit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 05:33 PM
32

If you write out a super well worded text, he will still respond in a disappointing way and you will just be disappointed again. Break the cycle now with silence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 05:11 PM
42

There is no game to play. He doesn’t care that much. Whatever petty revenge you want to plan or sassy text isn’t gonna make him care or change. Move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 05:02 PM
32

Never, ever try to involve yourself with a guy who gets “drugged out of his mind” for fun. They are flaky, impulsive, and completely unreliable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 07:18 PM
74

This is so true. They are Bateman wannabes, but deeply ashamed and insecure at their core. Some of them don’t even earn very high salaries but will do anything to keep up the appearances. It is a very transparent act.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 01:13 PM
27

Many of the LVM I have known were broke due to their spending habits: drugs, alcohol, taking out multiple women, gambling etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 08:55 PM
24

Look into meditation and mindfulness. Filling the void comes from within.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 10:30 PM
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