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Ty and I've subscribed. She's hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 12:00 PM
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On a side note, I'm in love with the baby yoda (grogu). I know people overdo it with the memes, but he has to be the cutest oddest television character of all time and I think about him too much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 09:23 PM
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Came here to say the same thing. That part kind of ruined it for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 12:03 PM
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These are the sort of HVM posts I love and crave. I'm probably jaded, but when I see expensive purses and other gifts, I think yeah that's nice but does he manage his emotions and offer equity? Does he do his own laundry and other chores? I like this guy of yours. He sounds like a team player, and I hope he treats you this well forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 03:19 AM
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Haha this is amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 06:24 AM
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It's fun stuff like this that makes me seriously consider downloading tik tok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 03:59 AM
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It sucks because if she leaves, at least she'll have that. It was on her terms. Her choice. If/when he leaves her, she's going to feel so betrayed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 01:49 AM
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Yes queen!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 03:04 PM
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In my experience, men will also try to get into your pants by claiming skills. "I'm handy. I'll change your oil. I'll fix your house up." But they don't. They are truly ungrateful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 02:51 PM
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The judge ruled she didn't poop in the bed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 03:54 AM
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Ladies, please stop defending Johnny Depp. Whatever Amber said to Johnny in those recordings were words - just words. No words should ever lead to a beating. Did you forget her black and blue face? What about the video of him raging first thing in the morning? Imagine being trapped with an abuser for years! It leads you to do and say things you wouldn't do under normal circumstances. He deserves everything coming to him. Let's not forget she also gave $9 MILLION to domestic violence charities. S…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 08:53 PM
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It is cheating. Not every guy does it nor was it prevalent before modern times. You're not irrational. Irrational is a word used to undermine our emotions and our intelligence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 04:38 PM
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I have never felt comfortable posting there. While I was married, I also subbed to deadbedrooms and it was a lot of the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 07:19 PM
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That grossed me out too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 07:12 PM
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Kick him out 2020!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 03:25 PM
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In the comment section, some folks pointed out that he'd been posting on r/dirtypenpals, so yeah he's a cheater. He ended up deleting his profile because he didn't get the responses he wanted. From his post, his wife's looks are all that matters. He's useless. I hope she never takes him back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 03:25 PM
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I agree. As women, we are basically trained to turn the other cheek or accept their excuses. From childhood it begins. Yet, i don't recall any little girls from my youth who got in trouble for similar things whether they came from troubled backgrounds or not. It's infuriating. Luckily my sister recognized this and basically said as much to the principal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 05:40 PM
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My sister told me something gross today. My niece (8 years old) was harassed last year by a little boy in her class. It started with grabbing her hand and went as far as grabbing her privates "by accident." My sister was upset and they separated the kids. My niece had to go to a new classroom. This year, due to covid, they're all in one class. The boy has started harassing my niece again. He says he's in love with her, they'll get married, etc. His favorite color is red and she has a red lanyard…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 02:49 PM
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Every one of those women are attractive, very pretty. Then we have neck meat looking like he stands a chance with any one of them. He's probably stressed because he knows he doesn't stand a chance because he puts his turtle necks on upside down. I imagine the artist is a very sad, very big-necked man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 11:33 PM
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Haha did you steal the pic from my ex-husband??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 11:48 PM
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Men trap women. Regardless of social or financial status, often men will cum in women knowing full well they're unprotected. Men want to trap women. Maybe because women are so great. Truly it is men who lie in wait until you're vulnerable and then pump you with their seed. They will swear it was an accident. It wasn't. How come the 12 million other times you've fucked he didn't cum in you? Lvm want to be wanted, they're insecure and they'll knock up anyone. If you're what he considers his standa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 09:12 AM
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Haha I love you sis!! This sub helped me through my divorce too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 10:56 PM
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When I was much younger, I thought there was something wrong with me. I have never orgasmed without clit stimulation. All the women around me claimed they had all these orgasms just from their boyfriend's D. It made me feel like there was something wrong with me. It was a question I continued to ask the women in my life, do you cum during just sex? Over time, as we got older, the truth came out. They didn't. A girl I used to be friends with told the truth, that she faked it all the time. Then la…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 02:20 PM
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I wish i lived in that timeline.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 09:16 PM
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Check out r/menwritingwomen. It's a goldmine for how terrible male authors, even some of the best ones, write women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 01:14 PM
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Yeah maybe if they were into it. I'm in no hurry. I'm almost forty. Retirement seems like a good time to see the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 03:43 AM
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I'm not sure where I'll be in 15 years but I'm on a path to decentering relationships. I've been focused on my writing and side hussles. I'm sick of my job, so for the next few years I'll be focused on education and leveling up. I do want to travel but I have two daughters so that will have to wait a long time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 02:34 AM
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Lyrics from Nicky Minaj song. They go, had to cancel dj Khalid and we ain't speaking ain't no fat kid telling me what he ain't eating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 04:27 AM
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Haha ain't no fat kid telling me what he ain't eating!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 02:34 AM
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Fat and wrinkly. Looks to be in his prime all right. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 07:26 PM
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He's superdad, but he's constantly in a room they have to run into "to show him something?" Mom's watching them while he games. He can't shut the game off to pay full focus to his children and people are going off in the comments about what a great dad he is. Wtf are men and why do people champion them when they're doing less than bare minimum? How low is the fucking bar??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 10:14 PM
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Yes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 05:07 PM
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Yes. I edited it. Sorry about that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 07:01 PM
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Thanks for sharing. I live in a community with a large native population too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 06:51 PM
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She's a selfish and horrible woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 06:14 PM
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I'm sorry. How horrible was she?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 06:13 PM
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She's fucking trash and idc if she's starting to realize men are trash. I will not watch her video or pay her any mind. I fucking hate this person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 06:11 PM
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"Should I be offended?" Omfg obviously she is offended.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 06:07 PM
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I almost thought he created an alt to agree with himself, but nope. She really wrote that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 06:12 PM
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Good for you sis. There's no shame in divorce. The process is long and difficult, but when you're on your own you'll feel so much better. Life becomes good again, full of hope and free of the burden these men bring to us. You are liberating yourself and that's amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 10:28 AM
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This made me giggle. They are very lovely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 02:56 PM
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Exactly. This is something I am really curious to discuss. If a woman is on a single income, she is limited and thus oftentimes feels forced to settle for a lvm. What advice do you have for women in these situations? For women who don't have kids, I recommend tiny house mentality. Look at studio apartments and roommate situations as a chance to flex your organizational and decorative skills. Embrace less stuff so you can increase savings and investments. For single moms, I recommend second incom…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 06:44 PM
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This is great advice. My favorite piece is to not follow him anywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 06:34 PM
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I ended up shackled up for this exact reason. I'm out and happy but I was in poverty for a while. I am glad you're staying single despite the struggle. I'm not rich but I'm doing ok and a lot better than I once was. My advice is to always be looking for high paying jobs and applying to them, don't be afraid to make a change for more money. Alternative income streams, such as writing, sewing, painting, tend to pay for little things such as extra school supplies and take out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 06:24 PM
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I have really enjoyed discussions about how men can stop being useless in this department. Like they take zero responsibility, yet our ability to thrive relies on it. I like to tell any guy who will listen how invasive birth control is and how it has side effects. I think that men need to be accountable, but have no idea how to measure or facilitate accountability. I do love to explain to men how they're nearly 100 percent at fault for accidental pregnancies though. It's fun to watch them scramb…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 06:19 PM
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Congrats on your financial independence. I can relate a lot to your story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 01:56 AM
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I'm sure so many were turned away. Very sad. I'm glad your company is coming around. I work for a company like yours. Once a male dominated fortune 500 that now values itself on diversity and pushes for more inclusion. There are many, possibly more, women in my company but there are fewer in high ranking positions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 11:59 PM
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That's awful. I'm sorry. It always amazes me that the same governments that outlaw abortion also make it hard to get birth control. How can a woman who was raped and forced to give birth ever get the financial independence needed to not be financially dependant on a man? Unfortunately the situation in Brazil is common throughout the world and even in the US and Canada where reproductive health is supposedly a priority.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 11:53 PM
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Access is key. Are there many family planning services in Brazil? In US, some states have it together but many do not. It is like reproductive healthcare deserts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 11:35 PM
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I have hope that I will find a companion. Men seem to want to lock me in for marriage which is why I'm inclined to put it off as long as possible. LVM want a wife so they can take advantage without the consequence of being dumped. It will be a long time before i sign on for marriage again, but i still relish in the idea that during my retirement I'll have a sweetheart to pass the time with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 06:55 PM
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Yeah but he wasn't sniffing her, so it's fine. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 04:13 PM
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My low value exes always bought flowers when they were in the dog house. Never anything special. Just your run of the mill grocery store bouquet. I've always wanted to be with someone who buys me jewelry and flower arrangements from a florist. I'm not going to hold my breath for that though and will continue to buy my own as I have been.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 10:12 PM
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They took down r/pornfreerelationships too. I don't understand why they'd do such a thing under the guise of eliminating hate speech. Both women and men suffer because of porn and people talking about it is akin to any other group asked to support and not demean. It's sickening. Yet so many toxic subs still exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 10:34 PM
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Pretty sure I've read over and over again not to let scrotes drive especially on the first date. Do what you want, but I'm just saying it's not the best idea to let them drive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 09:44 PM
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That's not FDS though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 09:21 PM
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You should drive yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 08:29 PM
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No scrotes allowed. Please and thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 11:51 PM
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You're not paranoid for no reason. Why invalidate yourself when others will do that for you (not here of course). Be strong. You're recognizing a threat, and you're not overreacting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 11:51 PM
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I have seen him neg a woman interviewing him in a pr interview, such as the one pictured here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 11:30 PM
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He should also remember birthdays, anniversaries, and holidays. But he won't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 10:48 PM
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Lol the wall hits men so much harder than women. I'm 36 and men above 31 have usually let themselves go, like really go. I've never seen a hot old guy outside of movies or tv, and they're using special effects so of course they look beautiful. But in real life, nah there's so many men that are just sad to look at. Successful men even just let it blow up. I've been in enough places (upscale, regular, podunk) to know that men complain about the wall but are the ones to hit it hardest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 03:32 AM
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They crave affection, so self awareness and working on themselves is a benefit to themselves. We hold the keys to sex. The dude who made this, assuming it was a dude, probably did it because some chick he wants told him fds was important to her. It won't matter to him when she doesn't matter to him. It's like that episode of How I Met Your Mother when the integrity of a building didn't matter once Ted (lvm) found out it couldn't get him laid. He was majorly into saving it until that very moment.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 03:23 AM
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It can take a couple years before a man like that begins gaslighting, emotionally distancing, refusing household work, etc. As soon as they feel secure, they settle into their true form.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 11:45 PM
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I'm sorry you're going through this. I know it sucks and hurts so bad. Probably more lonely than usual so hits harder when your partner stops showing up. Maybe stop reaching out to him and see if he reaches out to you. If you can, block him so he gets no response. He has appeared on your doorstep in the past. If he does again because he couldn't reach you, it's up to you if you decide to hear him out. If he is willing to let you go, he doesn't deserve an ounce of your affection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 02:23 AM
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The other side of the coin is the LVM who feels he's ready for a wife. This male masquerades as a HVM, which is to say he will appease you, compliment you, and claim eternal love for you. He will jump at the opportunity to marry you. But he is not self-sufficient and he will gaslight you when you least expect it. The warning signs are always there and if not for FDS we would ignore them. Beware men who are eager to settle down too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 01:52 AM
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Sis you are spreading the word. Ty! Block and move on. Do not settle on the word of a man who wouldn't move suns to keep them from your eyes. You are a goddess!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 05:15 AM
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I don't like this meme, but it's true. We need to be brutal, but we're out here sending novellas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 05:10 AM
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A lot of women want to be stay at home moms and mommy bloggers. A high value man takes care of the mother of his children. LVM and NVM often want a sahm too, but for nefarious reasons. Most men have no value; therefore it is imperative that we show no mercy and work hard. We need to look out for the mothers out there, and teach our daughters to respect themselves and hold out for an hvm or don't have kids. Have a career either way, but a lot of women want to and should be safe when raising their…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 03:12 AM
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Bunch of hotties. I'm low key jealous that I'm not on here. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 09:58 PM
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I wasted time browsing posts on that toxic sub. Curiosity and an affinity (shameful affinity) for subreddit drama kept me there for a bit, but it's too much recycled content to hold my interest. The same arguments over and over again, most of which you can find in other subs' comment sections, and no one changes their opinions. I don't know why women on reddit attempt to reason with troglodytes, such as mgtow and redpill types. It's not worth the emotional tax.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 12:34 AM
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People would have said "highly doubt it" about my exhusband too. He also was low/no libido. I caught him. He was and probably still is addicted to porn. She'll catch him one day and it will hurt her terribly to know he can use that. I wish she'd get away from him. Long term, i worry he's going to fuck with her mind and self esteem so bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 08:32 PM
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She is kowtowing to men and virtue signaling on their behalf. Who knows what prompted it, but if she's trying to impress a teenage boy, it's going to blow up in her face when he does what all men do. Ignores her. Degrades her. Watches sickening porn. And that's like the normal stuff. That's the stuff women are forced to excuse to even have romantic relationships. She'll get told, "if you don't like it leave." Hopefully she doesn't deal with abuse, but she probably will. Her parents should have d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 08:25 PM
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I wonder if she has any female friends. In one statement she's worried about protecting her married clients, and in another she notes how she councils married women in seduction. She has no loyalty to those women and is the worst person to be providing them with advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 03:54 PM
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We never speak to him for this and other reasons. He is so lazy, he doesn't pursue custody and that works out just fine. You validate me so much. I am honestly so grateful for this sub. It was exactly how you described.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 09:54 AM
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Yeah he's an asshole but we have nothing to do with him. We get along on our own and my self esteem is recovering with therapy and self care. I'll never tolerate abuse again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 12:26 AM
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Thank you. It was traumatic. After I initially discovered it, he pretended to give it up. He never had a strong sexual attraction to me. That's a big red flag in terms of identifying a porn sick man, I think. I'm an attractive woman. It really damaged my self esteem during the years we were married. I kept rediscovering the grossest barely legal stuff in his phone, and eventually just called it quits. Best decision I ever made.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 09:38 PM
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Right? I'm not even going to lie. Barely legal porn ruined my marriage. Well my piece of shit abusive husband ruined our marriage, but I was never comfortable around him because of the porn he enjoyed. We have daughters, teenagers, and he watched that. Men who watch that are pedophiles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 09:25 PM
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Average webcam model makes like $32k per year. She's not making that much to betray her baby sisters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 09:13 PM
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💯 The porn is never enough which is why women are constantly complaining that guys want to choke them and do anal. Scrotes see it in porn and become desperate to act it out. And barely legal stuff is the grossest because it exploits children. The women who participate in it are part of the problem. They are normalizing child rape and I find it so fucking gross and traitorous. To me they are traitors. They are like brothel madams selling little girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 08:21 PM
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Right? It's so fucked up. What's Ddlg mean? My guess is daddy dom/ little girl. So the kink is beating and then sexually abusing little girls? Ladies, we are not safe and what's scarier is our daughters are not safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 08:03 PM
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It makes me sick too. This is advice. She's providing this as advice to newbies. I think she was asked by someone how she got into the biz. Oh you want to stand out, you should pretend you're a child. Like you can't even make money just flicking the bean for these porn sick scrotes. You have to be kinky or pretend to be a child. I wish women would stop sinking to these lows. I'm a single mom to two daughters and will forever be worried that men interested in me are really interested in them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 08:01 PM
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Haha came here to say this, but you beat me to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 08:30 PM
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She probably tries. I tried to do that and it just created more problems. What she needs to do is dump his ass. It's no woman's responsibility to tell loser men how to be normal human beings. No amount of nagging will fix him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 07:45 PM
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Yes his comment history was nauseating. I hope he never gets what he's after. Loved your simile at the end there. 🐍🛢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 09:26 PM
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She felt she had to lie because their culture is so misogynistic. Hopefully someday she is able to see she majorly dodged a bullet by not marrying this religious whacko and thus subjecting herself to him and his disgusting friends. She very well could be a virgin as well. All the OP knows for sure is that she sent nudes to a mutual friend. She's very likely the girl who was lied about in high school because she had white male friends. I was lied about in high school. It happens. Edit: I see OP d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 08:35 PM
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Yeah and they troll and lurk here. Two minutes after my comment, I had a private message that said, hey beautiful. I never get PM's. Blocked! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 01:42 PM
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This is what I think everytime someone posts "I've met a hvm." I'm like, give it time sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 12:12 PM
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My exhusband did this. He is 8 years older than me and we met when I was 22 and married when I was 26. I begged him to stop smacking my ass in front of our children (all girls). For 12 years I would ask nicely. I would demand. I would beg. I would get angry. This piece of garbage would do it anyway. Smack my ass while I cleaned or stood up. Humiliating and sexualizing me in front of my female children. But he never wanted me in private. He was porn sick and abusive. Today, if a dude did this, it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 12:57 PM
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I've long followed that sub the same way I follow public freakouts. Something to shake my head at and think, wtf is wrong with people? Those women are the worst and their advice is horrible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 12:49 PM
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Building financial strength. It's difficult getting by on one income which can be a reason to stay with a lvm. I stayed with my abusive ex-husband far too long because I was dependent on him. 18 months in and I'm still supporting myself and my two daughters on a single income, no child or spousal support in exchange for no contact with him. It's lovely. Cultivate your financial independence. It will keep you safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 10:50 PM
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Preach!! 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 03:03 PM
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r/men_of_the_wall
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 04:13 AM
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My hero 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 10:05 PM
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I thought the TM meant you helped coin the term
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 04:55 PM
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Does he do garbage cans because he's obviously trash. Sidenote: I love your flair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 03:08 PM
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Im 6'1" and I don't mind if a guy is shorter than me. Other people (mostly men) make it weird with their rude comments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 03:26 AM
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No shame in an abortion but these men are making it difficult to get one. Stand with planned parenthood. Make your voice heard. Protect family planning services. I volunteer for planned parenthood sometimes. They need people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 01:59 AM
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This is great advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 01:53 AM
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Can't send them if they're blocked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 02:31 PM
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Why is his name redacted but hers public? She's the victim. It seems very wrong, backwards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 03:20 AM
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🍋 Lemonade is so fire too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 03:02 AM
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I subbed to redpillwomen thinking the same, only to find out they are actually red pilled and call their dudes "captain." The advice there is terrible. I'm so happy to have found this place too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 08:11 PM
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