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| – | Women will flirt right in front of their partner, if the guy they are flirting with is HVMAnother perspective: very attractive very wealthy people make people nervous. Men are notoriously BAD at identifying flirting bc all women are different, and we are socialized to be friendly and open and appear available for conversation especially to people higher up in status. Sometimes people just differently around “High value” people bc they’re nervous. Different doesn’t equal flirting. Also age plays a huge role in this. Are you under 25? Feels like everyone’s constantly flirting with ever… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 01:36 PM |
| – | Why therapy doesn't work for men and trauma dumping clarityI can try! It is a bit hard for me to not go too into depth haha, but for example CBT focusses on the idea that our thoughts, behaviors, and emotions are all interconnected. Basically, you can focus on any one of the three as a starting point so you can discuss a negative thought pattern or focus on behaviors (like exercising!) and track how this is effecting the other areas of your life. Solutions focussed is future and goal-oriented and focusses on strengths rather than delving into past exper… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 03:15 PM |
| – | Why therapy doesn't work for men and trauma dumping clarityI can see why many men say that therapy does not work for them, but I do want to add some education and context on therapy. For starters, the article you reference of men getting less benefit from therapy is from 1978. There have been so many new types of therapy since then. "Talk Therapy" is not just venting and an emotional exchange. There is Solutions Focussed Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Psychodynamic, Interpersonal Therapy, and so so so many more… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 02:56 PM |
| – | Bluepill is mostly right on relationships, Redpill is mostly right on dating and meeting new peopleI agree to extent, but it comes in ebbs and flows. I found when my partner's mother was dying, you quickly realize the redpill is all bullshit. In a loving relationship you will both cry to each other, throw up and get sick, take each other to the hospital, support each other at the absolute lowest points of life. In those moments you don't give a shit about your man being alpha or your woman being hot. You just love their soul so deeply and want them to be ok. Other moments in life may come up … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 07:28 PM |
| 3 | Sad that my husband likes lingerie model types and not me.Yea also Adriana Lima doesn't look like how she did for those brief years anymore. It's such a fleeting goal to want for yourself and a partner. Like you said, your body will never be exactly the same and that's ok. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/08/23 07:10 PM |
| 5 | Sad that my husband likes lingerie model types and not me.I'm sorry you're in this position. It is so hard as a woman to be expected to be perfect at all times, but even these models and gorgeous women are only this beautiful for a brief glimmer in their life. Look at Adrianna Lima post baby. She gained a ton and does not look the same at all. We are people. We will change and grow and age. Is he a male model in looks or the most successful 1% man? It sounds to me like he is in fantasy. We can fantasize about people in magazines who are highly edited a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/08/23 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Would you forgive cheating in my situation?Imo this is cheating and I would never trust him the same. The only way I’d ever be ok staying is if he starts therapy like tomorrow and takes it seriously for months to years. I had something similar happen in my past with a boyfriend and I never got over it and ended up self destructing the relationship despite staying. I’m so sorry, but you are young and there are men that exist that would never fathom doing this. If you decide to stay no judgement either, but be honest with yourself. You kno… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/08/23 12:27 AM |
| 12 | AdviceOthers probably won't agree with me, but I don't like to date men that consume red pill content. Men that are still continuously deep in that content either have too much free time or are in the early stages of understanding who they are as men. As far as sex, I would tell men very early on that I do not sleep with men that aren't my boyfriend. Some saw that as a challenge, but other respected that. Many stopped talking to me, which is fine! I said it kindly and when I knew sex was going to come… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/06/23 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Are red pill fathers contradictory when raising daughters?I can empathize with that. I have a wonderful father who has me and my sister, and I respect him immensely. I ask this question out of curiosity as my father encouraged me to go for my PhD yet openly judges women who have phds lol. I’m seeing it’s more the personality behind it. I have a long term partner who supports me while in my program and we plan to get engaged this spring and start a family in a year or two when I complete my education. My career will allow me to work part time for good m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Are red pill fathers contradictory when raising daughters?This has been my experience as well. My father worked very hard to bring us up in a good life and now we are in a social circle of all my friends having professional degrees (doctor, lawyer, engineer, etc) married to other people with similar professions. No one I know actually marries the uneducated girl, and it is very confusing to me that that is what is told in these communities. Perhaps I’m still too young to see the long term divorces and marrying the uneducated girl as a second wife or so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Are red pill fathers contradictory when raising daughters?The contradiction comes into play when it takes a long time to achieve a career your dad can be proud of, so most end up over 30 single and without kids in order to meet those expectations. You cannot have it all, so if you encourage a career you are inadvertently discouraging marriage and children until an older age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Are red pill fathers contradictory when raising daughters?I agree, but I also think men hold their daughters to a different standard than other women in their lives which creates confusion as to what our roles should even be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 08:10 PM |
| 1 | What do you guys think of Pearl Davis on YouTube?Not saying you are but just thought I’d point out the comment comes across that way by the “where can a guy like me find a girl like that.” she’s not some magical unicorn and I’m sure you’re a capable guy. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/01/23 02:38 PM |
| 1 | What do you guys think of Pearl Davis on YouTube?You need to seek that advice from other men. To be blunt, your comment comes across as simp behavior | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/01/23 02:25 PM |
| 1 | What do you guys think of Pearl Davis on YouTube?She is entertaining, but she is in no way shape or form a red pill woman. I saw her on an interview recently where she wore a skirt sure, but her posture is poor. She speaks aggressively and in a masculine tone. She doesn’t appear to have knowledge on fashion, how to do her hair, or how to apply makeup. She is content for men, and she really is killing it career wise. That’s the thing though. She is a sheep in wolf’s clothing. She is another boss babe with 1 mil subscribers preaching to women to… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/01/23 02:21 PM |
| 1 | What made you joint this community/subscribe to this school of thought?I am 100% with you on all of your reasonings for liking this sub as well. I am a late 20s PhD student and many of my peers do not actually support women rather they dislike men. They love to hear my partner supports me financially while I study, but when they hear I do all the cooking, they are appalled? I love my man and I love nurturing him, and to other female communities, that is internalized misogyny or whatever. I have never once felt judged in this group and it is a breath of fresh air. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/01/23 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Anyone know of a website with research articles on Red-Pill related topics?That is awesome! I'll be joining :) I'm a researcher, so I'd love to help critique articles and their methodology. I probably will comment on some in my free time for fun haha. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/01/23 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Anyone know of a website with research articles on Red-Pill related topics?This is a womens thread, and it is not typically recommended for women to consume redpill male content as it is not for us and overall not very productive. That being said, those articles can be cherry picked at times. If you search on google scholar, you can find many articles, but look with a broad perspective. For example, almost every youtuber cites a study from 2009 that showed those who cohabitate prior to marriage have a higher divorce rate, but a study from 1 year later shows alternative… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/01/23 03:08 PM |
| 8 | can someone explain me who is Andrew Tate and why is he so popular lately ?He prolly paid money for YouTube to promote some videos now everyone is jumping on the train using his name so the algorithm will promote them too. He provides no useful info in my opinion and is really weird to me. I don’t get it and don’t care to haha. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/08/22 09:46 PM |
| 1 | most men don't want vanilla sex from their wivesI saw a post on r/marriage where the guy said he hired a prostitute for anal because he didn't want to do that with his wife bc he didn't view her that way but it was a fantasy of his. He never even asked his wife if she would try for him. I think it depends on the guy. Some guys absolutely want to have freaky sex, but others view their wives as pure I've notices. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Are altered gender roles responsible for the mass amount of teachers and nurses leaving the profession?What was it like for your generation? I'm curious but if you don't feel like typing it out I understand. Ah yes the class thing is a big piece too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Are altered gender roles responsible for the mass amount of teachers and nurses leaving the profession?I always wanted to be a teacher too until I saw the reality after my first highschool summer job in a daycare! It was horrible, but I loved the actual teaching part lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Are altered gender roles responsible for the mass amount of teachers and nurses leaving the profession?I agree...in my state a way to remedy the teacher shortage is to hire people who aren't certified yet or are still in training....they will do ANYTHING but pay them more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Do you think modern dating is fair for men? Why?nothing in life is ever fair. Dating is unfair to everyone for different reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 08:36 PM |
| 2 | Women are property now?It’s all sensationalism for views and so we talk about him and he gets more revenue in my opinion | /r/ExRedPill | 05/08/22 12:01 PM |
| 1 | How big of a deal breaker is sharing your man?I would never be ok with this. I need too much attention to share, and I admit that willingly lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 05:34 PM |
| 2 | I wish my husband was more romanticBecome more interesting and he will become more interested and start trying to chase you again | /r/RedPillWives | 19/07/22 10:12 PM |
| 2 | Many redpill communities say modern women need to change, but is the average male fueling women to not change?I deleted my post bc I was getting hate messages lol but I agree totally. I really think I made smart decisions in my life but I can see a hundred different times in where I could have been steered so wrong and just feel bad for those women that figure it out too late | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 10:10 PM |
| 14 | Advice for navigating the next steps in my relationshipId argue you taking care of the home is equivalent to paying rent. I really do question him making you repay rent. If you are planning to get married, it would be like repaying yourself since you’ll have shared familial income? I feel some concern that the way he speaks is you and me and not “we.” A man that wants to marry moves in a way as if you both are one solid unit. I could be overthinking this, but it is a yellow/red flag for me. I am unfamiliar with your culture, but if I were you I woul… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/07/22 10:02 PM |
| 3 | I wish my husband was more romanticThis is the best advice | /r/RedPillWives | 19/07/22 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Redpill Success storyfor sure! I had realized it has the opposite effect of what we are going for. Example, I nag and things get done even less bc he now associates those tasks with nagging and bs. Praising and patience works better for sure. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/07/22 02:15 PM |
| 1 | My boyfriend who makes six figures annually thinks a good budget for an engagement ring is $1,000 or below.Lab grown diamonds are still very expensive. A stone under 1k will be about 1/2 a carat or less, but I agree with your points. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/07/22 07:10 PM |
| 15 | Redpill Success storyIsn’t it the best!? So many ppl recommend dating much older men, but growing with ur guy and learning together is awesome 🥰 | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/07/22 04:24 PM |
| 1 | This idea that women are racking up high body counts at a young age is greatly exaggerated, most women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire livessame...I have one friend who has a high one and all the rest of us are under 5 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 03:50 PM |
| 1 | This idea that women are racking up high body counts at a young age is greatly exaggerated, most women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire livesI'd say it depends. I'll say the girls easy to find that are out actively dating, and the "hot" outgoing ones a lot of guys quickly gravitate towards do have very high n counts. My friend group all has under 5 n counts though, but that is because most of us are consistently in relationships. If you are going for girls who have been single and dating for years, expect a higher n count than a girl who has been in 1 or 2 long term relationships and just got out. It also depends on your circle and w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Is lifting weights mutually exclusive with being feminine?!!!! Yes | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/02/22 01:24 PM |
| 2 | Is lifting weights mutually exclusive with being feminine?Thank you! Can’t tell you how much I’ve had to argue this point that lifting does not make one masculine. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/02/22 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Is lifting weights mutually exclusive with being feminine?I am a powerlifter but super feminine and girly and don’t look muscular at all. As a woman, it takes a LOT to look manly, and as a natural athlete lifting just makes you shapely I think. Whenever I told guys on dates they told me they thought that was awesome. They could have been lying, but they all asked to keep seeing me and were fellow athletes (crossfit people or avid gym goers). The only people to ever give me crap about it were non athletic people/ overweight people that didn’t get it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/02/22 01:23 PM |
| 8 | How can you become a soft and gentle woman?I hear you, and agree florals may not be for all people but they definitely make up like half my closet 😂 | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/12/21 08:36 PM |
| 3 | How can you become a soft and gentle woman?This makes so much sense! I went through a similar journey after college. The feminine nature is one to be open and accepting of all that life has to give. Practice walking through life as if you are a loving energy constantly open and accepting all the experiences life gives (little hippie-dippy sounding but hopefully it makes sense haha). Actually imagine yourself radiating a light of love and acceptance. I actually need to work on doing this more again too. I’ve definitely fallen out of my pr… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/12/21 08:25 PM |
| 16 | How can you become a soft and gentle woman?Do you have any additional context to this question? I think for me I've always been a softer person and have those tendencies naturally. As such, I tend to pick out activities that are "softer" which furthers those natural tendencies. I love nature, fostered cats for a while, volunteering with older people and children, and am in a field where I can be more feminine. If this isn't natural to you, try the fake it until you make it method. Dress softer. Wear skirts and dresses, floral prints, and… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/12/21 03:27 PM |
| 40 | What do women really gain from being in LTRs or relationships with men?Depends on the woman. My relationship gives me stability, companionship, fun, and peace of mind. He is my home. I have to admit I got damn lucky with someone great, but I think we also just have great communication skills. When you find a compatible person and you are in the right mature place ready for a real relationship you get unbelievable satisfaction and peace from it. You need to pick well and communicate well early on to build a foundation for that though. Most people pick poorly and hid… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 01:32 PM |
| 17 | RP and Cheating During Marriagesexual discipline is part of marriage.. yea i agree | /r/RedPillWives | 02/08/21 03:10 AM |
| 2 | I (31M) Upset by my pregnant wife’s (36F) sexual history that has surfaced again - and am now feeling really RedPill about life in general. What should I do ?you decide if you're "beta" or not, not your situation. Get some sleep, take care of yourself, keep up with the gym, and don't let yourself become the beta you envision. I'm sure there are redeeming qualities about her that made you want to marry her in the first place. Also be careful in these forums, people go extreme and will say some shitty mean stuff to you and your family | /r/RedPillWives | 30/07/21 08:08 PM |
| 18 | RPW/RPGF Soft Skills: Other than being an all around Domestic Goddess, what are some small things, overlooked things or “soft skills” you think more women should learn or utilize?How to bring up things you are unhappy with in a way that you feel fulfilled but you aren't nagging or creating a bigger deal out of issues. Learning how to read and manage your emotions in a relationship is huge. Also not losing your childlike fun outlook on life. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/07/21 07:55 PM |
| 1 | I (31M) Upset by my pregnant wife’s (36F) sexual history that has surfaced again - and am now feeling really RedPill about life in general. What should I do ?This is tough...first off I always recommend therapy if you feel like the issue cannot be dealt with between the two of you alone. Individual and couples ideally. For now though I'd say the past is the past. It is something you can never control, and although her bringing it up in texts to friends may be inappropriate, you should also not be snooping. It only ever causes issues, and it keys in to the fact that you're clearly feeling really insecure about your relationship, which is understandabl… | /r/RedPillWives | 30/07/21 07:53 PM |
| 2 | Non-frumpy (but comfy) pajamas?Adoreme has CUTE nightgowns | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/01/21 08:05 PM |
| 3 | I'm new to this, so my post will probably be removed like every other post I've posted on reddit... Anyway, based on red pill philosophy, what is the function of women who arent in their "peak sexual market prime" or whatever it's called. What if you are passed your prime, and are single? Still try?I made it 6 years ago when I was 18 and thought I was funny haha. I’m totally stuck with it now, but it gets laughs 😂 | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/05/20 07:04 PM |
| 14 | I'm new to this, so my post will probably be removed like every other post I've posted on reddit... Anyway, based on red pill philosophy, what is the function of women who arent in their "peak sexual market prime" or whatever it's called. What if you are passed your prime, and are single? Still try?I think it’s important with the “red pill” thing to not over analyze and digest the men’s subreddit and ideology. A lot of men on there and their beliefs come across as still in their “player” phase. They also can be quite harsh on women’s outer appearance, but in reality I’m sure many of them date women that look perfectly normal and average. There’s a lot of facts in red pill beliefs like yes physically speaking, overall women become less desirable after a certain age, but life isn’t so clear … | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/05/20 03:38 PM |
| 13 | Cute Feminine Loungewear SuggestionsThe Camila midi skirt in blue and the Elena crop top in black from Shop Sozy :) The wrap top makes your waist so defined, and the skirt goes up on the sides so it's just a liiiitle bit sexy yet also modest! | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/20 01:00 AM |
| 28 | Do you know your partner's N count?I ask and have been asked | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Advice for meeting the parents?Sri Lankan | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/05/19 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Body hair care: thoughts on arm hair?I have blonde hair, and my bf has told me he likes my arm hair and doesn’t want stubble on my arms. I do trim it sometimes tho as to not have long arm hairs hahahah | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/05/19 07:20 PM |
| – | Homemaking: Tips, Tricks & QuestionsOoo great idea about the slow cooker! I definitely should buy one. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/03/19 02:57 PM |
| – | Homemaking: Tips, Tricks & QuestionsAnyone have tips on how to cook chicken breast so it isn’t dry and disgusting? Hahaha I’m learning how to cook good meals, and I think I’m getting pretty good, but chicken is constantly a struggle for me. I have no idea why it keeps coming out dry when I cook it in the oven! | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/03/19 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Is it ok that he’s never asked me to be his girlfriend?Yes he has been exclusive as well. We have been long distance due to him finishing up his PhD so that’s been his reasoning for not wanting a labeling girlfriend for a while. I asked him your question a while back, and he said he refers to me to his friends and family as his girlfriend. He’s just never asked me. I freely call what we have a relationship as well, but he hasn’t really labeled it. His focus has been his PhD, which I’ve understood and been patient with, but after 2 years I just feel … | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/02/19 02:16 PM |
| 4 | Unexpected things he cares about?Oh that is such a good point! In the US I just use the whitestrips or the whitening toothpastes. If it requires the hassle of going into the dentist though, focus your energy on things you can do more easily! | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/12/18 08:15 PM |
| 21 | Unexpected things he cares about?Totally agree with the natural makeup point! I'd say also keeping up with your hair and styling it, even if it is just a quick 10 min in the morning. Teeth whitening, good skincare, and going to the gym and staying in the best physical shape you can for your body and your lifestyle are a few more! :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/12/18 08:02 PM |
| 1 | How to handle a man with all female friends and coworkers?Thanks for the advice! Yea I think you're totally right | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/12/18 03:21 PM |
| 9 | Help picking between two guysI think you answered your own question. You said you prefer guy 2. Take the leap, trust your intuition and be true to yourself. You got this! | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/12/18 03:12 PM |
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