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A lot of people saying this and that, and i personally wouldn't wait, but I think it highlights a point that is perhaps isn't talked enough about? As you say, do what works for you. As i get better at game I realize that part of it is doing what works for me, which is simply an extension of who I am as a person. Cannot always just take the advice 1:1 from someone else.
/r/seduction04/11/24 05:41 PM
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Do you believe there's no value to playing it slower in the start? My first girlfriend invited me over to her house for a joint and i went on 5 dates before sex with my second girlfriend (both beautiful girls, good people). Also I am from Denmark, so I feel like it is correct to tailor it ? Maybe I should ask what changes after sex, what kind of "date" do you go on that is different or is it in terms of talking?
/r/seduction27/10/24 09:17 AM
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Great post imo! I haven't used online dating for years while learning daygame, but I am going to. One thing is, I want a girlfriend, do you have any suggestions in refining the process towards that objective? How would you suggest perhaps still keeping the bio/conversation sexual, without it becoming casual sex vibes?
/r/seduction27/10/24 06:23 AM
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Great post imo! I haven't used online dating for years while learning daygame, but I am going to. One thing is, I want a girlfriend, do you have any suggestions in refining the process towards that objective? How would you suggest perhaps still keeping the bio/conversation sexual, without it becoming casual sex vibes?
/r/seduction27/10/24 06:23 AM
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Well i want to be a great boyfriend in the future so i am trying my best to become that
/r/seduction01/09/24 06:29 AM
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What do you suggest in attracting LTRs with quality women?
/r/seduction31/08/24 01:00 AM
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Thanks!
/r/seduction31/08/24 12:59 AM
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I do all of the stuff like tying her up, etc. Very much into it. Solid advice to get better at fingering/eating out. Only recently that i started caring about that stuff.
/r/seduction30/08/24 04:01 PM
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I only mean in terms of: i desire a gf, this shows up in my energy and i repel her after sex. I do not desire to actually approach or go on dating apps. Am i supposed to do what i do not desire to do, and act in a way that is not congruent with my desire, or what to do on the front of actually meeting some1 to eventually be non-needy towards and begin dating
/r/seduction30/08/24 03:07 PM
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What would you suggest?
/r/seduction30/08/24 11:20 AM
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This does make a lot of sense and is also my gut feeling around it. What would you advise I do then? I dont really want to approach or use dating apps qt all. Should i pressure myself to do it or take a period of not doing anything?
/r/seduction30/08/24 11:19 AM
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This last one i met at a music event late at night after my friends left. I had the party game 'cheers' with me and i just sat down with her and her two girlfriends and played it for a few hours. The one earlier this year i just met on the street here in copenhagen.
/r/seduction30/08/24 09:38 AM
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this is a very true perspective. I just feel like it is draining to go approach etc when what I actually want is to just ease in to a relationship like it happened the 2 first times. Would you try to be more straightforward in terms of wanting a relationship ?
/r/seduction30/08/24 08:20 AM
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I dont double text or appear to be openly needy. In terms of the dates, i literally said to the last one that I didnt want to have sex with her that night when we were at the bar and then she began making some sexy roleplay about it.. i do talk about heavy deep stuff tho. Those subjects are also what I am interested in personally tho, so I feel like I would compromise on what I want to do if I dont talk about our soul and the purpose of life ?
/r/seduction30/08/24 08:19 AM
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I am not necessarily acting differently, I dont think, as much as they've only had a surface level glance at me. This is even worse as I feel like I am only getting rejected once they DO get to know me. Would you suggest thinking about your frame ? If i do want a girlfriend would it be possible that I should be more upfront about it so that my frame becomes that I am this wonderful boyfriend material, rather than a mysterious seducer, which might be more of my frame intially ?
/r/seduction30/08/24 07:50 AM
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the problem is that I dont know what I am doing. I have thought along the lines of, this girl is hot enough and calls me daddy during sex, she could be the one, but at the same time I have thoughts about her not being perfect or I am thinking that someone will come along. If I feel like what I am after is a girlfriend, is it wrong to be serious ? How do I balance my need to be authentic towards myself (both in terms of the topics that i want to talk about, i.e. values, philosophy, etc and in ter…
/r/seduction30/08/24 07:49 AM
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how do you balance that I am into those things then? I am only looking for a relationship so I also want a partner that is into these topics, tho i realize that I do it to a too high degree
/r/seduction12/07/24 08:42 AM
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Point is she wanted to be reminded of her job because its a big part of her life. I am not talking about only talking about her job, but about bringing balance to it so that I am not too deep
/r/seduction11/07/24 08:43 PM
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what do you even imply here? that it isnt possible to know what you want and for that thing to be that I myself change ?
/r/seduction11/07/24 08:41 PM
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i already know all of these things. I am very clear on this because my past relationships have been with the same type of woman i am pursuing. I also realize that I want to be succesful with women and be fun to be around. So it is not that there was anything wrong with her, in fact she is a great match, it's just that I am too focused on deeper subjects while most people are not able to go straight into that type of thing
/r/seduction11/07/24 08:38 PM
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I get that, I really do. The thing is, if I am ALSO moving towards my purpose in terms of fitness, business, spirituality then I just want to meet women in the most effective way possible. I do agree that inherently it is a sort of desperate thing to do, but I feel like going on dating apps is even more of a loser thing to do. I want to take control of my life in ALL areas and I am willing to put the work in, but hopefully without becoming a manipulative PUA. Meeting women on the street IS walki…
/r/seduction19/06/24 08:30 PM
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Makes sense to have that outlook. On the other hand, if we were playing a video game, I would still be doing my best. I dont feel like it is my "best" if I just say hi and ask them their name.
/r/seduction19/06/24 08:26 PM
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What you mean? What would you do?
/r/seduction05/03/24 06:20 PM
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What made you stop, and did you (if that is the case) find your partner through daygame?
/r/seduction05/03/24 05:56 PM
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Well she goes for walks, she goes grocery shopping, she goes to bars occasionally when shes single. She has hobbies and so on. But i dont feel like having a hobby to meet girls. My hobbies are my passion projects currently, and it just feels right to have the balls to approach any1 i fancy on the street
/r/seduction05/03/24 05:34 PM
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I want to have a beautiful and compatible girlfriend, who I will make my wife. I have had two long term relationships with such women, but my addiction to weed and lack of purpose meant i lost them. I no longer have those issues and just need to get on dates with beautiful women, then someone will fall in love with me
/r/seduction05/03/24 05:02 PM
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I know this is kind of against the philosophy of becoming dynamic in what I want to say, but can you give me some examples of what you might say? In my mind it is difficult to come up with something - on the fly - that is appropriate so hearing what you guys might say allows me to understand that it doesnt really matter (which I know intellectually, but cannot quite comprehend experientially).
/r/seduction05/03/24 04:20 PM
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Thanks. I like that and I like your article. I like doing direct game, but I am not yet dynamic enough to say something besides her looking hot or what I like about her outfit. Do you have any thoughts on how to make daygame more fun, or how to go about scaling it up? I currently do 3 approaches on fridays, but it feels like something I have to gather courage to do. Want to get to a stage where I do it whenever I see someone I fancy. Thanks!
/r/seduction05/03/24 03:59 PM
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Makes a lot of sense. Guess I am very focused on wanting to become better, and I see daygame as a vehicle for that and online dating as simply a tool for getting some days sometimes. I don't really have trouble on dates, moreso in getting the amount of dates with the quality of girls I like (if using online)
/r/seduction05/03/24 03:48 PM
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Thanks for all your comments! What I gather is that we all have slightly different approaches as to how the communication manifests itself, but follow the same principles, namely that we're there to have fun, we're confident and relaxed. I guess the only solution is to keep finding out who I really am. Thanks again guys!
/r/seduction02/03/24 07:28 AM
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usually something like "you look good", "you look cute", "i saw you from over there"... What would you recommend? I feel like its best when I saw something about their clothes
/r/seduction01/03/24 06:53 PM
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Thanks, i really appreciate that! This is something I can easily do!
/r/seduction01/03/24 05:25 PM
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I mean at the moment i mostly approach on huge streets in copenhagen, so basically they are typically shopping, going home from work or heading out to meet friends. I just dont feel like I have anything interesting to say at that moment, except perhaps sometimes guess what type of person she is. What might you say on a regular big ol' street?
/r/seduction01/03/24 04:39 PM
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