Stupid question: how do i make better conversation after approaching?

ArcaneAces · 2024-03-01T16:49:04+00:00

First of all, it's not a stupid question. Being good at conversation in a pillar of seduction. You should probably find topics that you can bring up naturally but which will intrigue the average person. For instance, you can commend her outfit then ask if she's wearing her favourite colour. Depending on the answer you can either ask what her fav is, tell her yours, or day something along the lines of "I pictured you as more pf a (insert other colour)."

Conversations should be fun and dynamic and also a bit centred around her because people are naturally narcissists.

Also go online to see how you can be better at starting and maintaining conversations.

TodayOrTmrw · 2024-03-01T16:36:28+00:00

Conversation is dependent on several factors with one being the environment your in, what she’s doing/you, the vibe, etc.

Electrical_Formal755 · 2024-03-01T18:16:37+00:00

https://mindful-masculinity.org/2023/09/22/10-ways-for-men-to-improve-smv-for-better-day-game-interactions/ for me after 600 approaches some things that made better inteeractions was speaking different languages- helped me win their trust in my city there are a lot of chinese people so i simply learnt chinese over the course of the year.

also meditate more before your sets - it will improve your vibe and the quality of your sets on average that could in principle lead to less flakes .

Sometimes questions like guessing her job or university can spark some better conversation " what do you study im guessing you look like you're studying medicine" etc.

letsgetwizzyy · 2024-03-02T02:14:23+00:00

When guys hit on women, they often communicate with them like they would their guy friends. In a logical, information exchange based way. Essentially, guys put more importance on the exchanging of facts as opposed to the "vibe" of the conversation. Women don't care about facts nearly as much (at first anyway) as men do. So, you need the social skills to be able to take any piece of mundane information she gives you and turn it into something that is playful and fun to leave an emotional impact. Women hate guys who are boring and predictable

One of the worst things you can do is ask unrelated, rapid fire questions like you are in a job interview. She will associate you with job interviews, and you will be like the majority of the guys who hit on her

Now, the good stuff, How to have fun and playful conversations:

At some point during the conversation, a woman will give you information about herself, this is an indicator of interest, Not necessarily a big indicator or interest or one of significance, but it suggests that she is willing to converse with you (assuming her body language and non verbal facial cues suggests so also). It is your job to take what she says, and make the conversation playful and fun.

Let's say you ask a girl what she does for fun and she says: " I like to go to bars" You could respond with the following questions that are not boring and predictable and make the conversation fun

When was the last time you got black out drunk?

How do you focus with hangovers the next day?

Has a bouncer ever thrown you out?

Have you ever gotten into a bar fight with a guy/ girl

Have you ever seen anyone get jumped?

What would you do if a girl accused you of something and wanted to fight you? Would you square up?

This article goes into more detail about how to stimulate a woman's emotions during conversation: https://open.substack.com/pub/jackedguy/p/how-to-have-fun-and-playful-conversations?r=31tj3q&utm\_campaign=post&utm\_medium=web

SnooHesitations4922 · 2024-03-01T18:20:36+00:00

You just need to stimulate emotion, there is countless ways to do that. Just don't exchange facts or be logical. Be different.

Matter of fact..talk complete nonsense, but with masculine tone, tempo, and poise.

You will notice the less you make sense, the more she smiles and/or laughs. Don't worry about giving class clown energy as long as u don't get hyper or giddy like a clown.

Don't use common words, use uncommon words with common meaning. Matter of fact use made up words.

For example "You look good in that dress" becomes "You look fantasterastically seasonable with that choice of garment."

"I prefer my coffee columbian...light and sweet" becomes "I beckon them beans of Columbia plus a touch of creme and granular sweetness.

"I'm careful who I get with to prevent disease" becomes " I best be dodging all the supercalifragilghonnoreasyoholite out here".

MadonatorxD · 2024-03-01T17:35:33+00:00

What's your opener btw?

Fantastic-Life-2024 · 2024-03-01T20:29:41+00:00

Google womanese. It's a distinct dialect of english.

tilldeathdoiparty · 2024-03-01T22:43:37+00:00

Keep em laughing, I say ridiculous things to get laughs, if the don’t react well, I don’t waste time. I’m not some expert, but I have done enough to know you can’t take any of this seriously and if you do, you end up alone

silk_1233 · 2024-03-02T00:17:14+00:00

Listen to this https://open.spotify.com/episode/0C6Ho4D1SHdMuzsrGUregR?si=aPGze_YPRCKx8N1UbisEYQ

AnAIAteMyBaby · 2024-03-02T00:19:22+00:00

Your words are a tiny part of what she will judge you on. What's far more important is everything that you're sub communicating.

So smile, be playful, be relaxed and have fun. Show a little curiosity in her and maybe have a little fun by trying to cold read things about her like the type of person she is, what music she likes, even guessing her star sign.

Your emotions will transfer onto her so if you're playful, relaxed and having fun she'll start to relax and have fun too.

doshealo1850 · 2024-03-02T07:28:20+00:00

Thanks for all your comments!

What I gather is that we all have slightly different approaches as to how the communication manifests itself, but follow the same principles, namely that we're there to have fun, we're confident and relaxed.

I guess the only solution is to keep finding out who I really am.

Thanks again guys!

Title	Stupid question: how do i make better conversation after approaching?
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Date	March 1, 2024 4:25 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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