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not much you can do. avoid mate guarding and be ready for what might happen. first thing that came to mind when i read the title:
/r/askTRP29/09/19 04:08 PM
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what kind of guy spends so much money on a woman he has no intention to bang orbiters WANT to fuck the girls they orbit. sometimes they even think that they have a good chance because the girls string them along. they use this false hope to rationalize spending/investing. it's textbook beta thinking: "maybe if i take her out on nice dates and invest in her more, she'll realize i was the perfect man for her all along and we'll ride off into the sunset"
/r/askTRP26/09/19 07:13 PM
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she gave you a pretty accurate description. Orbiter - Also known as Beta Orbiter. A beta guy who accepted the proposal to "just be friends" from a girl he has oneitis for. He will stick around her and constantly validate her whenever she requests it. Also known as "friendzone." She will keep him around because he will do anything for her and provide validation, giving small hints that he might eventually win her love- but he never will. Typical signs of orbiter status: likes and comments on new …
/r/askTRP26/09/19 06:39 PM
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She was fairly open and told me she had an abortion done few days ago how did this even come up in conversation
/r/askTRP26/09/19 02:14 PM
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you already posted about the same girl AND got an EC's advice on how to handle it. let's see how you did: you bitched out and apologized. now she's confused as fuck. in the first message spoon fed to you by said EC, you're acting like an alpha, but then you can't maintain that image for longer than who knows how many minutes and so you send the second message. it's like you fired someone for doing a bad job then immediately came back and told them you'll give them another shot. both options had …
/r/askTRP26/09/19 10:30 AM
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the number of times you made me say "what the fuck is he on about" within just a few paragraphs is impressive. i'm definitely not going to point out the many obvious inconsistencies and outright retarded points you brought up, that would just be insulting my own intelligence. hate to break it to you bud but next time you're gonna have to come up with a plan better than: cherry pick rp concepts that challenge mainstream thinking misconstrue said concepts in order to make them seem extreme add in …
/r/TheRedPill24/09/19 06:27 PM
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notice how you're always concerned with how your actions might affect her instead of how they might affect you. what's wrong with putting in more hours when you can in order to have more in the bank? what's the problem if she misses you for a while? look through the main sub + the married rp sub for posts about "dread." that's the main concept that will save you. good luck
/r/askTRP23/09/19 08:08 PM
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none of these efforts made her happy regardless of what she says/what you think, this isn't what she wants. who wants a boring partner with no friends/hobbies that's always available? I quit because of life and because she was oddly never really supportive since when do you need her approval/support? the fuck is this? (very limited 1-2x's a month, and not very late) you're not a child, you're a grown ass man. you can go more often and you can stay out later. then we always end up fighting this i…
/r/askTRP23/09/19 03:22 PM
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first, the whole "asshole" thing is often misunderstood by beginners because they think it means to actually go out and be a dickhead to people for no reason. that's not the case. in reality, "asshole" really just means confident and assertive. you're not looking for conflict (physically OR socially) but you're certainly ready to handle it if you need to. it's called "asshole" behavior because in comparison to the Nice GuyTM behavior a lot of us were used to, this seems outlandish and extreme. m…
/r/askTRP23/09/19 06:02 AM
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so you'd impregnate her as long as she didn't have a crazy ex. makes sense... your head is in your ass and your dick wasn't in a condom. fix those two issues next time. ​ It’s 3 days in is the plan B too late? https://lmgtfy.com/
/r/askTRP22/09/19 01:51 PM
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and why exactly is her ex relevant to you?
/r/askTRP22/09/19 01:04 PM
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you seem to know a lot about her ex for some reason. stop being a tampon. now that we have that out of the way, some of the things you listed here are not "bad" like you think they are. he wouldn't fuck her when she wanted i'm sure they still had sex and if she's as hot as you say, he definitely wanted to fuck her. so if he doesn't fuck her EVERY time she wants, that's not really an issue because he's still fucking her and he leaves her wanting more on occasion. told her he was worried that he'd…
/r/askTRP21/09/19 02:23 PM
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he was an alpha when they were together. but then what happened after? Every time we are together he texts or calls her. telling her he loves her so much and she keeps blowing him off
/r/askTRP21/09/19 12:38 PM
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not reading this entire essay about one specific girl who is your coworker and your ex you broke 3 basic rules of trp based on your title and first sentence alone to the sidebar you go
/r/askTRP21/09/19 04:19 AM
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i'd place my bets on you
/r/askTRP19/09/19 02:50 PM
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yo ASKtrp66, welcome to ASKtrp... what's your question?
/r/askTRP19/09/19 10:11 AM
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plate not working anymore = plate not spreading legs anymore she wants to stop seeing you -> you say ok and leave things at that -> she comes running back or leaves and you move on she wants to be friends without sex -> you communicate that you're not interested in that -> she comes running back or leaves and you move on do you think she actually wants to stop after she's been seeing you for 5 months while doing this "im not sure" thing then coming back? actions not words
/r/askTRP19/09/19 05:18 AM
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"no its way too early for that, dont tell me you do this to all the girls." I didn't say anything in response. she's trying to shame you for being a male with a penis. by not answering, you're showing that you feel...ashamed. where's the A&A? AM? anything? I said "someone special" aside from being cringe, this is going to be interpreted as "i'm looking for a relationship" which is never the answer you want to give. keep it vague, something along the lines of "let's see what happens" I didn't tel…
/r/askTRP19/09/19 12:56 AM
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comfort is for LTRs
/r/askTRP17/09/19 12:27 AM
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6-9 are enough to give her the "crazy" label. try to find any reason as to why things won't work between you guys "things are getting serious with a girl i met before you" she said she doesn't want to meet in public so you can use that "the semester is starting i think i'm just gonna focus on my studies instead of dating for a while" gradually reduce contact ghost completely + block on all platforms
/r/askTRP16/09/19 04:50 AM
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not reading all of this but just based on the title and tldr alone: yes, women act like children and throw tantrums when they don’t have their way. hell, even some bitchass men do it too. expect to run into it often. ignore and/or use social shaming to deal with it.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 12:41 AM
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first, I don't think A&A is effective for this specific question. my approach would be to make it known that you're sociable and approach regardless of where you are instead of some creep that always checks X area for new girls to prey on. shits weird. "doesn't really matter where i am i just talk to people i find interesting/attractive." notice how this also communicates that you don't only talk to girls. you're just a sociable guy that befriends dudes he finds interesting. if you already A&A'd…
/r/askTRP15/09/19 10:59 PM
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you're right, if she ask you multiple questions similar to these and you answer them seriously, the frame of the conversation is you qualifying yourself to her. to avoid this, don't take the questions seriously. use whichever feels right for each situation: A&A, AM, pressure flip, ignore the subtext of these questions is the girl trying to figure out if you're a guy worth fucking. the idea is to let her hamster paint you as an amazing alpha she needs to fuck. if don't say anything that can be in…
/r/askTRP15/09/19 10:06 PM
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The whole point of sex is so develop a spiritual connection w your partner do you write for cosmo? the fuck is this shit you have sex because... you want to have sex. we have sex drives and it feels good to bust a nut. that's the point assuming you're not trying to have kids yet. After sex/blowjob I just want them to leave you don't want the romantic/affectionate stuff so just fuck them and leave/have them leave and repeat. "hey it's getting late" / "i need to get going" / "i need to go walk my …
/r/askTRP15/09/19 01:06 PM
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trp always stresses the fact that whatever we're telling you to do is for you, not for women. it's called SELF-IMPROVEMENT for a reason. frame control, lifting, independence, discipline and the list goes on and on. even if you hypothetically never interacted with a woman for the rest of your life, these things would still be infinitely valuable to you. i'm really not sure how you can't see the utility of it all.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 05:48 AM
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Realize we have just spent 4 hours talking and making out. she invites you over in hopes of getting laid but you're too much of a pussy to escalate properly and end up wasting 4 hours of sleep for conversation Text her Saturday morning when I get back > looking forward to Wednesday. needy Text her Tuesday night a joke about me having to watch CNN with some other chick if she doesn't come through needy Text her some beer to try in Austin. needy About a week later I text her that we should catch a…
/r/askTRP13/09/19 09:33 PM
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or complain that I came in their mouth this makes it sound like- now I just come without saying anything yup, I was right. Last girl bitched at me for doing that but who cares lol. im so alpha haha idgaf bro haha yea! ​ -eat foods that make your nut taste better -try to ease them into it, first you nut on her face, then in her mouth and she spits, then she swallows -WARN THEM before you cum you retard
/r/askTRP13/09/19 07:34 AM
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http://archive.is/Ic6gA "the ladder theory"
/r/askTRP12/09/19 11:43 PM
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put a cringe warning next time, jfc look at how many times you begged her to come over (i only read through the first pic so there's probably more shit like this in the second) I think her attraction to me is retained what on earth could possibly make you think this girl is a "done deal" This girl did straight up "meh" me yea totally got her in the bag bro Do I need to take her on a date what you need to do is stop texting nonstop and on top of that stop desperately trying to generate sexual ten…
/r/askTRP12/09/19 10:30 PM
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Most women are unattractive, but yet they feel like they deserve the best out there. due to our gynocentric society that puts pussy on a pedestal bingo. beta males constantly worshiping the ground they walk on + farming validation from various social media platforms + feminism's "you go guuurl" mentality being spread etc. etc. ​ all of that lets them have a natural abundance mentality and so they can afford to be picky.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 09:55 PM
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respect the shit out of her and remain platonic friends forever
/r/askTRP12/09/19 09:12 PM
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yes, taking valid advice to improve yourself is totally beta
/r/askTRP12/09/19 07:29 PM
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This isn’t a case of scarcity mindset will she come back?
/r/askTRP12/09/19 06:39 PM
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i'll dumb it down for you since you're obviously clueless... quite simple, really
/r/askTRP12/09/19 09:57 AM
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if you didn't already buy the tickets or if you can get your money back, you should've said something to the effect of "ok no problem we can go out some other time" to drive the point across that if she won't pay for her shit like an adult, you're ready to walk away. if you did buy them in advance and can't get your money back, you can either cut your losses and move on, find another girl to take or if you're REALLY into this one, go with her and make it known that you guys are going 50/50 from …
/r/askTRP12/09/19 04:08 AM
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Ok but this has nothing to do with the fact that you're trying to question the concept of "never showing weakness." I can be motivated to get my dream body/my dream job/a rotation of 7 HB9s etc. That doesn't mean I'm going to talk to people about my obesity / minimum wage job / sex drought of 10 years etc.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 03:45 AM
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It's not a flaw if you acknowledge it. I assume you mean it's no longer a flaw in the eyes of whoever tried to shit test you about it. That's right depending on how you acknowledge it. Using AM/A&A will yield wildly different results than unironically acknowledging it and offering no type of comeback. ​ If you acknowledge it, you can work on it and use it. Obviously I should be introspective and recognize my flaws and work on them but... all of that is irrelevant when I'm being put on the spot i…
/r/askTRP12/09/19 03:43 AM
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"Never show weakness" only works so far for me. Cause, if totally true, how come, in pickup, you have massive success when you exaggerate your flaws? A&A = exaggerating flaws = I'm blowing it up so out of proportion that it's OBVIOUSLY not true = it's not an actual flaw that I have A&A (AGREE & amplify) also needs something for you to AGREE with. Which means someone else has to bring up the topic of your supposed flaw. Which means I'm not showing my weakness on purpose, either someone else expos…
/r/askTRP12/09/19 03:31 AM
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I was thinking of saving this essay for later and reading it the next time I took a dump. Then I skimmed, saw the part where you didn’t understand that A&A =/= exposing your vulnerabilities/flaws and realized that there was no intellectual conversation to be had.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 03:05 AM
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http://archive.is/qJCHj
/r/askTRP11/09/19 10:14 PM
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I say well you just vanished with your sugar daddy so theres that. everything before this was good on your part. this was interpreted as you being jealous. all you had to do was say you were busy like you did before: Days pass by she calls to check everything is fine I make BS about I'm busy ​ Why is she making a fuss over me being 'weird'. "weird" = giving her less attention than before she wants attention but you decided she doesn't deserve it. continue not giving her any and go about your lif…
/r/askTRP11/09/19 09:48 PM
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I’m not entirely comfortable that the potential mother of my children has these kinds of relationships. "this girl has a lot of red flags that make me uncomfortable... What’s the best way to handle going forward?" something's not right here
/r/askTRP11/09/19 09:29 PM
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I would sit and listen and try to make things easy for her. This should've looked like this: I would sit and listen for a while and try to make things easy for her. I told her i was thinking about her In general, there's no need to tell her when you can show her by meeting up to do whatever. Obviously, trying to set up a date on the day of the funeral is retarded. In this case, just stfu and wait for her to get through it. She asked to come over that night when I was back and I said sure. Why ar…
/r/askTRP11/09/19 06:32 PM
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you have the right idea. nonchalant instead of butthurt, not looking for false hope of seeing each other again, short and sweet.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 11:38 PM
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she has mentioned how she enjoys courting and wants to be courted Sounds like she might be looking for BB, but who knows. Either way, date 3 will have to wait. Don't reach out for a week or two and then offer a date + time + activity near your place or her place. If you don't make any progress, next.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 06:57 PM
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yo nice post man i like how all of your field reports end with IG/numbers and "concrete future plans." seems like you have this whole game thing figured out! /s
/r/TheRedPill10/09/19 05:34 PM
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Her happiness is HER responsibility and not your burden. You owe it to yourself to do whatever you can to enjoy life. Be kind but firm when you let her know what's up. Aim for a clean break, no "let's still see each other" shit afterwards because it'll suck you right back in.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 06:36 AM
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When a plate says shit like that you're not supposed to take it seriously. She's just another replaceable girl that you're not invested in, after all. I don't have the heart to ignore her and she's going to wonder what's up if I start ignoring her. I'm afraid she might go psycho if I disappear on her The problem isn't that the replies you're getting aren't good or creative enough, it's that you admittedly can't carry them out. Notice how you're operating completely in her frame. "she wouldn't li…
/r/askTRP10/09/19 06:32 AM
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She told me her greatest fear is being alone. Who the fuck asked? Who the fuck cares? Every girl will say what she needs to in order to scare/shame you out of leaving them. If you really think she'll do some crazy shit and you're not just using that as a reason to avoid confrontation, make up some bullshit about how you're going to be busy or whatever excuse you want and let her down gently.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 05:43 AM
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Man the fuck up. You don't wanna see her so... don't see her. You're allowed to say no. You're allowed to ignore texts. She'd do it to you in a heartbeat if she was getting bored.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 04:22 AM
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It's not a compliment because you're using A&A. The sarcasm is what makes it flirting. being a beta bitch nice guy: girl: is it because im too pretty? you: yea most girls that do psychedelics don't look as good as you flirting: girl: is it because im too pretty? you: yea you TOTALLY look a model in your pictures
/r/askTRP10/09/19 03:34 AM
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"all good and thanks" don't hit her up anymore. assume she'll never reach out either. find more women.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 02:54 AM
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over-exaggerated about her prettiness sarcastically and then said "no, it's just an intuition from experience. i'm right aren't I?" A&A and your second message are both good responses. I think the issue here is using both of them together. A&A playfully makes fun of her for thinking she's so pretty but then the second message kinda curb stomps the idea and spits on it. You only need one. A better approach would've been girl: is it because im too pretty? call me pretty! give me validation! you: y…
/r/askTRP10/09/19 02:49 AM
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Why would you make yourself look incompetent?
/r/askTRP10/09/19 12:33 AM
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Who would you want to protect you if you couldn't protect yourself? A snowflake beta cuck or a jacked dominant alpha? why do they hate such men and do things specifically to hurt him again and again Ego. If she has the power to "defeat" a man by rejecting him, saying hurtful things, breaking his frame etc. she has done the unthinkable: defeat a man (who is supposed to be a dominant person by nature) while she's the submissive one by nature. It makes them feel "above" these men and thus inflates …
/r/askTRP10/09/19 12:26 AM
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how do you judge if she is promiscuous or not with others the safest approach for this is "guilty until proven innocent" which is basically AWALT. not every single woman on the planet is ready to spread her legs at the drop of a hat but since most of them are, you have to assume she is part of the 99% until she repeatedly proves otherwise. this is why we always recommend extended periods of vetting before entering LTRs.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 10:19 PM
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Traditional masculinity itself is being labeled toxic because of how outlandish it's becoming in comparison to the snowflake behavior you see taking over society. The term would have you think that they're targeting specific extreme behaviors, but in reality, they're complaining about all of it. If women were actually attracted to betas, it would make more sense for them to be so vocally against "toxic" masculinity, but they're not. Instead, they're doing the whole "lady in the streets, freak in…
/r/askTRP09/09/19 08:34 PM
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I don't see the issue here. This is pretty much exactly where you want her. She realizes your SMV will allow you to get better girls so she's being dreaded into making sure she's on her best behavior. Sounds like you think its too good to be true, but this is what good SMV and RP awareness does.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 06:03 AM
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you use what will be most effective. lying, spinning stories, stretching the details, being vague, telling the truth, whatever probably shouldn't lie about certain things like having a mansion then taking her back to your apartment but if you're teasing it's all for fun so nobody really cares
/r/askTRP09/09/19 12:13 AM
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she just sends a regular snap to which I ignore for 1 hour and reply to i'm assuming that by "a regular snap" you mean it was sent to multiple people or it was some bullshit without a point like a pic with no text or anything -> these don't deserve a response just leave it on read and stfu just like every other social media platform, snap is an attention farm. she's checking if you're still going to give her attention she hasn't earned. (and you are) if she initiated, cool. do the usual: propose…
/r/askTRP09/09/19 12:06 AM
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you thought you were being the big alpha man by saying "i don't play games blahblah" but really all you did was show how butthurt you are. a few options: - ignore and change subject - ignore and don't acknowledge - A&A "yea i hate you so i removed you"
/r/askTRP09/09/19 12:02 AM
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initiating in any form (day game approaches, sending the first message on tinder, trying to fuck her when you're together) gives validation. it's a mandatory part of the process since you are a man and men take the initiative. this is irrelevant because you're expected to DHV on top of having good SMV which will negate the tiny validation you gave by initiating and start to accumulate attraction points in your favor. side note: nobody gives a flying fuck which ethnicity the girls are. stop tryin…
/r/askTRP08/09/19 11:55 PM
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this situation could be salvaged by someone with decent game but i only really have this post to judge you off of and its not looking like you have that type of game. you can try to soft next for like two weeks then go for a hail mary but don't get your hopes up. assume this one's broken. dont unsend the dm just forget about it. if she answers it don't reply. for the future, never dm a girl on any platform if you already have her number and if you don't have her number, get it. READ MORE.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 07:57 PM
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I suggested a Jazz Bar with live music and pool tables, she suggested dinner at a seafood place instead. That's where we ended up. you roll over at the first instance of contention All of my jokes seemed to fall flat dance monkey dance She was upset with me for not always saying 'Please and thank you' according to you, you were being polite so you're clearly in the right while she's nitpicking and being bitchy. despite knowing this, I apologized and said I would do my best to not be like that yo…
/r/askTRP08/09/19 07:37 PM
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“👌🏼👈🏼❓” its foolproof
/r/askTRP08/09/19 04:54 AM
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she flaked once but offered another day so she can have a second chance.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 02:13 AM
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Of course you overreacted. If you think a girl is attractive, chances are other guys will agree. You can’t expect to avoid these situations. Read up on “mate guarding.”
/r/askTRP07/09/19 10:47 PM
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yes our lizard brains recognize that big strong man will be a good ally and a scary enemy so we respect him more than twig boy
/r/askTRP07/09/19 06:33 PM
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If he doesn't act butthurt, there's a better chance she'll want to see him again and he can seal the deal. Either way, knowing how to prevent his mistake here will help him with future girls that he does want to pursue.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 12:16 AM
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Your problem is you didn't wait between the "rejection" and leaving. If you do it right away, it looks like a knee-jerk reaction aka butthurt. You have to play it off, WAIT a little bit, then leave. That way, it looks like you didn't care about not having sex, in fact you sticked around for a little, but now you have shit to do.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 09:40 PM
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So, they are interested in me, but I am not. You misunderstood completely. Nobody is telling you to pursue women you're not attracted to. We're saying rather than chase those who have already rejected you, move on to others who are attracted to you. Things will be easier and you won't be losing your dignity and time.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 08:23 PM
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there's a red pill women sub
/r/askTRP06/09/19 08:19 PM
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In that case, these dudes have enough game and alpha traits to get sex, but can't keep the girls around because of the frame loss and beta behavior that comes later on. ex: the guy who wouldn't stop whining about the shit in the car
/r/askTRP06/09/19 04:06 PM
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from their perspective, the guys they are fucking are not real men. They are not alphas. the key words here are from their perspective These guys are alpha enough to fuck your coworkers with presumably little investment (no gifts, cheap dates, little attention, etc.) Of course the girls will try to show these guys in a bad light because they're winning the exchange. They use them for sex and the girls don't get the attention/resources they want. all of these girls could have a guy with money. Si…
/r/askTRP06/09/19 04:05 PM
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Every girl is desperate to find “that one ‘real man’ to ‘wife’ them.” beta bucks However, finding that ‘real man’ is next to impossible. they (probably) don't work on themselves (gym, fashion, pleasant personality, education, careers, etc.) so finding a rich man to wife them is a challenge So what they do instead, is have tons and tons and tons of sex with thugs, criminals, ex criminals, soon to be prison inmates, so on and so on. As long as a guy is a dog, they will fuck him. The more arrogant …
/r/askTRP06/09/19 03:44 PM
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keep doing what you were doing
/r/askTRP06/09/19 05:14 AM
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accepting the toothbrush won't automatically put you in a relationship. just say yes/no and carry on exactly the same way. this shit isn't rocket science god damn
/r/askTRP06/09/19 03:14 AM
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She handled it like a man and you handled it like a bitch. You guys into roleplaying or something?
/r/askTRP06/09/19 01:31 AM
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The stance on social media is basically: if you can use it properly, go for it (but most people can't). TRP acknowledges that social media helps if and only if you have cool shit to post. The problem is that the whole point of social media is to make people CONSUME content from other users and most people end up using it this way instead of building up their own profiles to show off their awesome lives. This means the average joe ends up wasting his time, giving free validation to random thots a…
/r/askTRP05/09/19 09:55 PM
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because I’m not giving her attention as I used to bingo you don't deal with it at all. you sense her attitude but you act like nothing is wrong and keep it moving.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 07:27 PM
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"cool I'll let you know when I want to hangout next time." I didn't really say that I would text her. ????
/r/askTRP05/09/19 01:38 AM
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that wasn't "amicable" it was beta. "it's ok princess i will extend another invitation for you to reject soon!" all you had to do was ignore the message or say "cool" "ok" "no problem" etc.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 11:07 PM
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autismspeaks dot org/treatments everything you need is right there
/r/askTRP04/09/19 09:13 PM
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like any other question you don't want to answer completely you can either be vague: "i direct movies" or lie: "i do X" and you can pick literally any job you want
/r/askTRP04/09/19 08:11 PM
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I stupidly sent a message like “yeah okay thanks” shouldn't have double texted (falling for the bait) and especially not with some petty ass shit like this. leave that to the women. I just replied ‘ok’ then she put ‘wow ok whatever’ you expressed your concern -> she didn't answer until she got the satisfaction of making you double text -> you were a bit fed up so you didn't give her what she was looking for translation: "wtf you didn't give me the attention i wanted so i'm mad at you now" ignore…
/r/askTRP02/09/19 12:51 PM
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Your estimate will always be lower than your actual SMV using this method due to the passive nature of women. You might get approached by girls a few points lower than you because they know it will be hard to find another guy at your level. Girls closer to/above your SMV will rarely feel the need to put themselves in the uncomfortable position of approaching and risking rejection because they have more abundance in comparison to the lower-SMV girls. Despite the fact that these hotter girls won't…
/r/askTRP01/09/19 09:03 PM
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If someone is going to offer a reschedule it should be the person who flakes. Otherwise, the power shifts to the flaker since they got to cancel and still have the other person chasing. Another thing to note is that reschedules need to be SPECIFIC. If you run into an old acquaintance that you don’t know well/don’t like that much, you’d say “yea let’s catch up sometime” instead of giving a specific day in order to avoid responsibility when you inevitably don’t follow through. This doesn’t mean yo…
/r/askTRP01/09/19 06:05 PM
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There's a guy she's more attracted to in the group and she want's to make it seem like she's not interested in you so that he'll make a move. She wants to look higher value in front of her girl friends by making it look like she's constantly rejecting/belittling you. Either way, you did the right thing by moving on. There's no reason to tolerate that.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 01:07 PM
4

You should act like a man for a change. (she’s shy so I’m taking it very slow) we’ve been snapping quite a lot to each other and we’ve been chatting since. I wouldn’t mind having her even as my gf. Clearly, you have no idea what the fuck you're doing. Read the sidebar before you ask about something so basic.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 11:06 PM
1

Read any of the countless posts that tell you how to deal with this specific thing.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 11:24 AM
-2

Coming out of your shell? As long as you're not being an ass for no reason, keep it up.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 01:22 AM
21

They're basically trying to scare you away from pump & dumping them so you can be their beta on a leash instead. "Those other guys did X thing I didn't like so it didn't work out. Don't even think about doing X thing or else you'll risk losing the best thing in the entire world: my pussy"
/r/askTRP30/08/19 07:30 PM
3

Joke with your boys about it. Say that they're only able to get laid with the 4s since they're ugly/fat/retarded/whatever banter you want. Stop doubting yourself so easily. They're entitled to have their own approach, but that doesn't mean you're going to go fuck some fat chicks just because they're doing it.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 06:19 PM
13

“Hold my bag for me!” “Will you go and get me a coffee?” These use the same concept: She can obviously do it without your help but she's testing the waters to see if you're thirsty enough to let her walk all over you. “Do you believe in love at first sight?” If you say yes to this, it shows that you're a beta who believes in fairy tales because you're oblivious to how the world really works. This shows your lack of experience with girls.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 05:09 PM
4

Listen to the shit you're spewing right now. What do you think TRP is all about? CHANGING via self-improvement to become the most attractive version of yourself. Nobody said you have to become a robot. You DO need to become outcome-independent. The difference is that you can still feel things without expressing them in a way that hurts you. Ex: crying in front of people/girls -> do it alone, being excited about getting with a 9 and possibly pedestalizing her -> control yourself and make it look …
/r/askTRP30/08/19 02:59 PM
1

Man up and make it how you are in the future.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 02:47 PM
3

"you can get to know me when we do X on X day at X time."
/r/askTRP30/08/19 02:43 PM
9

I feel she’ll message soon or she’ll keep me blocked, I can’t tell which way it’s gonna go and the uncertainty is killing me. Oneitis. You shouldn't care what happens. Just STFU. If she comes back, cool. If not, cool.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 02:39 PM
5

short guy needs to compensate for his height disadvantage while the tall guy is getting carried further by his genes. doesn’t matter in the end because you can’t change your height. lifting and game will take you where you need to go.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 11:50 AM
11

getting ripped will drastically improve your smv regardless of your height tall guys look better when they’re in shape short guys look better when they’re in shape
/r/askTRP30/08/19 11:31 AM
6

already knew you had 0 abundance. i'm pretty confident you have low SMV and probably use cringey openers. tinder will be a waste of your time as long as your SMV is bad. I live in a very big UK city so cold approaching is looked down upon. there are a lot of girls I could get to know. see the difference in perspectives? fix your smv, lift, read the fucking sidebar
/r/askTRP29/08/19 09:07 PM
1

I'm fat (obese) and can't dress properly due to being a fat fuck. I'm a good looking guy These are mutually exclusive. You're not attractive yet. Just having a good face doesn't automatically mean you're a good looking guy. Your body and fashion are ruining your image. Luckily, you can work to change them unlike your facial structure. You might smile at a girl you don't find attractive just to be nice, but if she came up and tried to talk to you, you'd be disinterested. Same thing is happening t…
/r/askTRP29/08/19 08:54 PM
6

your top priority should be finding your long lost testicles
/r/askTRP29/08/19 07:53 PM
3

indefinitely. better question: how long will you stay fixated on her? she's moving anyway so you're gonna have to man up and move on
/r/askTRP29/08/19 06:38 PM
5

You said no without giving her hamster an escape route -> she feels like a slut/unattractive/rejected -> she has to save face by turning the tables and rejecting you
/r/askTRP29/08/19 06:29 PM
5

So my gf has been declining sex for a week now ok I got fed up with her bs of calling me a “pussy”, a “femboy”, and other disrespectful words uh huh I tell her she crossed boundaries and withholding sex doesn’t work for me keep going I’m not done with this relationship wait what...
/r/askTRP28/08/19 07:41 PM
0

insert penis in vagina regardless. its her job to handle her relationship, not yours.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 07:05 PM
2

I despise the entitlement, attitudes, and ratchet behaviors they give off. The Ghosting, The Flakiness, and many women have the nerve to think you should bend and submit to their frames, with them putting little and or nothing in return. I dont want to be a beta and jump hoofs for sex When you're a high value man, the girl has little to no reason to test you as harshly as she would test a beta. She already sees you as the prize and knows that being with you is a good idea. As a result, she will …
/r/askTRP28/08/19 05:12 PM
7

She loves kinky stuff and describes herself as sassy but classy. Who fucking cares? It won't help us give you better advice and it won't help you come up with responses. While we're on the topic though, girls who feel the need to call themselves classy are almost always...not classy. Leave it on read.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 11:45 AM
23

Yeah, they're actually significantly different from every other woman on the planet who isn't studying/hasn't studied psychology. Stop asking retarded questions.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 10:02 AM
12

Even though you’re about to move out soon, try to see how well you can handle this for the remaining time as practice. First, let's see if they're right, shall we? They're telling you shit like "You look so bad. You looked better when you were skinny." Does that make any fucking sense? No. Now we know they're just saying dumb shit. You said you've already tried arguing and that it doesn't work (valuable lesson to learn especially for women). So what's the right way to handle it? It’s as simple a…
/r/askTRP27/08/19 07:02 AM
5

Lower smv girls orgasm, but this girl is higher than I'm used to. you're not making her cum she talked me into giving her a massage, and then she basically said if I don't please her enough in bed (tons of foreplay and pussy-licking) she's gone so she feels the need to spell it out for you like you're a virgin (do X Y and Z to make me cum) "I'm not going to perform for you, you perform for me." you get butthurt She looked kinda bored and then complained after about foreplay. continue to give her…
/r/askTRP26/08/19 07:55 PM
1

Leave. If she can't handle being called out when she's wrong, she can bitch about it all by herself. She can text you when she's done throwing her tantrum.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 07:03 PM
2

I recognize it gives you a bad vibe hitting on someone else’s girlfriend but is there some silver lining here? What do you mean? If you mean you feel bad because she has a boyfriend, that's your morality talking. You have to decide for yourself if pursuing girls in relationships is going to sit well with you or if you don't want to bother with them at all. If you mean a bad reputation, you can date girls that are taken without getting the title of homewrecker. As long as you can be discreet, mai…
/r/askTRP26/08/19 06:34 PM
1

Also she was at work the whole week, so no other guy that could possibly pop into the picture all of a sudden. And as we all know, you absolutely CAN'T meet anyone outside of work. Going out after work?? That's just ridiculous. It's now monday and I don't answer her the whole morning as I'm busy. This part makes it sound like you were answering her more often before monday and she noticed that your texts were less frequent so she double texted to see what was up. If you were answering this slowl…
/r/askTRP26/08/19 03:04 PM
5

You just...don't text her. Crazy, right?
/r/askTRP26/08/19 01:51 AM
6

unless she's especially hot i'm not even bothering with this chick but that's just me. “nevermind” “bye” leave it on read
/r/askTRP26/08/19 12:23 AM
3

You already posted this and got a bunch of advice. Why are you reposting?
/r/askTRP26/08/19 12:20 AM
3

I told her to find out what I said to cause it. everything was fine until this part. you're communicating "hey can you please find out why she doesn't like me? it's bothering me so much :(" Me: (I overheard) It was sarcasm responding with logic is bad here. you don't explain sarcasm, that just ruins it. Me: Maybe you wouldn't think that if you got to know me "Please m'lady! I'm begging you for a second chance! I'll be on my best behavior I promise!!!"
/r/askTRP25/08/19 07:01 AM
4

The time she is wasting on meeting up with me, she could be wasting on meeting up with someone else. You're right and that's exactly what girls do. They flake/decline their orbiters any time theres a chance to see Chad instead. When they can't see Chad, they get the next best thing available which is free attention, possibly free meals, shopping money, favors, etc. from the thirsty orbiters. The biggest mystery to me is why would my validation and attention be worth anything if she doesn't like …
/r/askTRP25/08/19 05:42 AM
19

My favorite is not picking hobbies for the purpose of getting women, but picking ones I genuinely enjoy instead.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 03:36 AM
2

Not worrying about whether or not she's mad (you say you don't care which is good if true) and if she's about to swing. The goal is to be indifferent. you right now: "I'm worried she might be ready to swing because she's putting effort into her appearance and flaking." where you want to be: "I should find new girls, this one might expire soon." Look for a post on the main sub titled "She's not yours, it's just your turn. The glass is already broken."
/r/askTRP24/08/19 04:38 PM
1

Put your foot down from the start unless you want to lose your money and have less sex with her, of course.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 04:30 PM
1

You only need to look at your title to see the problem and its solution but I'll spell it out. replies that she's taking a nap and will "let me know". I don't reply. 30 minutes later she calls me and asks me if I'm free later to do a favor for her to which I say no. Handled this well. telling me she got a beta orbiter friend to take care of the favor "look! other guys will kiss the ground i walk on! be scared of losing me and do what i want!" Personally, I wouldn't have tried to meet again after…
/r/askTRP24/08/19 04:17 PM
3

We got in an argument Save your breath. I'm not gonna lie I'm having a very hard time right now "I'm sad :( look at me :(" maybe one day in the future but we will see if that's gonna workout, I'll see you again giving false hope to bait out some beta behavior and string you along Do you guys think she'll reach out again after a few months or was she serious about the we're not for each other thing? Doesn't matter. She's in the past now. Why do you care about whether or not she thinks you two are…
/r/askTRP24/08/19 02:24 PM
2

Introducing a girl to your parents screams “I want to make things serious between us.” I’m a big fan of keeping plates as far away from social circles and family as possible. Another thing is that, given the context, I’m pretty sure it’s not common for you to bring girls around your family (hence why they’re still convinced that you might be gay.) If you start now, they’re going to see it as you jumping around saying “LOOK AT ME I’M WITH A GIRL PLEASE STOP NOW” so it could still keep happening a…
/r/askTRP23/08/19 11:17 PM
49

She prefers to just do nothing at her place and will play Nintendo switch all night. Should I just pull back and stop inviting her to do shit with me? Yes plus one more thing: actually be busy. Do something productive with this time. Gym, hobbies, business, self-care, anything. She calls me every night and we talk on the phone for an hour but I'm getting sick of that. Shouldn't have allowed this to become a daily thing. Stop this immediately and only do it for X minutes every X days (whatever yo…
/r/askTRP23/08/19 02:37 PM
3

As soon as he started leaning on you, you should have immediately taken his arm off of you. Leaning on someone you don't know is a sign of dominance/disrespect because you're essentially just using them as a piece of furniture or some shit. You let him keep his arm there AND you kept going back and forth with him in some retarded competition for dominance. This let him know that he could keep messing with you. You can talk in a commanding voice while remaining calm. The keys are to be loud (not …
/r/askTRP23/08/19 12:30 PM
8

I sense some autism here. they’ll text me the exact same (literally verbatim) narcissistic message: “Why do you hate me?” Translation: "Why aren't you giving me attention? :(" This isn't narcissistic nor is it serious. They're just breaking the silence with a little tease. This isn't a shit test and I'm confident that you're also perceiving other dumb things as more shit tests when they're not. There's 0 reason to break these plates. They’re plates, not LTRs, but would you still hold them to cer…
/r/askTRP23/08/19 10:36 AM
1

It's not only girls that do it. If you're fucking around with your bros sometimes you might pretend like you're about to fight or some other physical shit as a response to something that was said. It just means that the person accepts/agrees with what you just said. random example watch till 5:15 ish
/r/askTRP23/08/19 02:17 AM
18

Yes, it's validation that she didn't earn. Social media is a validation farm for girls. ignore it tell her you dont use social media that much "maybe i just don't like your posts" as a joke Your goal is to show her that you're not going to take it seriously and entertain her.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 02:09 AM
2

Sounds like she was making a joke/being sarcastic and it went over your head. Also, yes, you're overreacting. A lot.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 08:54 PM
10

Your understanding of RP theory is very wrong. Red pill Randy only picks hobbies that he thinks girls deem interesting every redpill action he does is to get women; every hobby, every thought is dedicated to chasing pussy What you described is a beta so desperate that he makes himself do things he doesn't want to do just for a chance at getting laid. That's not what we teach. The number 1 goal of anything RP-related is self-improvement. The RP man wants to do these things because he knows they m…
/r/askTRP22/08/19 07:14 AM
3

There's no reason to tell us her life story. Seriously, go back to your post and look at how much of it is irrelevant info that we don't give a shit about. Anyway, let's see what we have here: You don't have abundance which leads us to the fact that you've already developed oneitis which makes you ignore her red flags and also consider shitting where you eat Maybe you should get your head out of your ass, keep it professional with this ONE girl and try to fuck any of the other 3.5 billion? Sound…
/r/askTRP21/08/19 05:48 AM
26

Billy Beta is too scared to make things sexual so he gives compliments. Chad looks at her like a piece of meet and she feels the sexual tension.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 11:40 PM
4

We test each other so we know who we can fuck with and who we can’t. Simple.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 10:52 PM
3

Whoever is suggesting that you save hoes is wrong and you know it. Ignore that advice from them and keep doing what you know is effective. As for your options being shitty, it’s part of the grind. It’s like in video games where you have to fight very weak enemies at the start to learn the mechanics and gain experience before you move on to fight stronger enemies and bosses. Raise your SMV even further, preferably in a way you haven’t done yet (ex: maybe you’re swole but can’t dress for shit or y…
/r/askTRP19/08/19 09:16 PM
7

TRP doesn’t support this Cap’n Save-a-Hoe shit, it does the opposite. One of the ideas you hear thrown into the face of every desperate simp yearning to get back with his ex is Iron Rule #7 which says: “It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. “ This applies to girls who have any incompatibility with you that makes the relationship undesirable. It’s not only for exes. Some guys comp…
/r/askTRP19/08/19 08:16 PM
10

I have this sort of gratitude towards the person that gave me the opportunity, unknowingly, to learn this important lesson. She didn't get you to where you are now. You did. I don't even know if I should even be mad at her You shouldn't care. Pure indifference. She's not in your life anymore nor will she come back into it so you play 0 attention to her or anything about her. This includes the social media posts you've been reading. Stop that. How convenient the timing after a month of her gettin…
/r/askTRP17/08/19 10:51 PM
1

The only situation where mate guarding is ok is if someone is making your LTR uncomfortable. If someone’s flirting with her and she’s allowing it or even reciprocating it, you leave/turn your attention elsewhere and dump her later. Yes, you should be dreading but not with the intent of dreading. “The fuck does that mean?” It means you’re being social with other girls (and guys) because you are a social person, not because your main goal is to make her jealous. She should behave according to the …
/r/askTRP17/08/19 12:57 AM
44

Welcome and keep reading. For the most part, yes. There are a very small percentage of women who might not slut it up, but that number is so small that you're better off using a "guilty until proven innocent" approach. AWALT.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 10:22 PM
9

You're not fully getting the point. This is the right mindset: I’m not putting myself in her orbit by hanging out with her when I know sex isn’t an option But look at your response: “my results won’t be back until sometime next week and I’d rather hangout around then” This is still operating in her frame. Her requirement of having yourself tested should be irrelevant in your head and in your words. You don't want to see her because you're too busy, you don't feel like it, etc. NOT because you wo…
/r/askTRP15/08/19 05:28 AM
11

The STD thing is reasonable imo but the rest isn't. Taking her out for dinner on the first date is questionable, but these are good signs: brought up me not buying her dinner and a few other things that she said weren’t normal for guys to not do. I said I’m not a normal guy and haven’t replied to her texts because they’re for logistics only. Translation: You're not a beta that bends to my will, pays for all my shit and puts me on a pedestal. She said to try and do it tomorrow You'll do it at you…
/r/askTRP15/08/19 04:34 AM
7

The amount of comfort you give depends on how well you know her. Best thing to do is console her once, tell her that you're gonna give her space to handle her situation and to hit you up when she feels better. This way you're not being a robot but you're also not offering your undivided attention for her complaints/venting (covert contract).
/r/askTRP14/08/19 01:29 AM
4

TRP theory allows you to see the inner workings behind intersexual dynamics. Removing that mystery helps guys understand how/why women operate but it also removes some of the fascination as well. It’s like watching a magician perform a trick that you know how to do. It still looks cool, but it’s not as captivating because there’s no mystery. There’s nothing wrong with focusing on self-improvement like you want to do. Women will always be around and they will always want to fuck.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 10:44 PM
5

They respect guys who care about them. They don't respect guys that worship them for no reason. They're drawn to other parts of the abusive bf's personality so they rationalize his actions to convince themselves and others that staying with him is the right decision.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 08:01 PM
4

I just made a comment like “yeah we’re attracted to each other that’s what happens” and that was that good I then said “sure” and just rolled over preparing to sleep. good, not butthurt, nonchalant She asked if I was upset and I said “kinda, you’re just really hot and I wanna fuck you” bad, butthurt How can I make not having sex with this girl not bother me? You're asking the wrong question. Why are you preparing yourself to NOT have sex with her? You should be asking how to fix things so she's …
/r/askTRP12/08/19 05:41 PM
1

We have been talking on the social media regularly Feeding her validation she hasn't earned. Bad. To be honest I kinda romanticized about the idea internally about starting a life here together with her. Diagnosis: Early Onset Oneitis leaves me on seen when I make comments about the trip or romantic comments and gives me generally passive one-liner responses or no contact for days. I was the one who always initiated conversations and I could tell she never really put in any effort / interest to …
/r/askTRP12/08/19 05:26 PM
1

My theory is that these girls trick the betabucks targets into thinking that it is the man's privledge to have the relationship You're on the right track. The reason he thinks it's a privilege to have the girl is because he's beta and probably hasn't gotten much GENUINE attention from women. Now that a girl is showing him attention (regardless of whether or not he knows its just for his money) he does whatever he can to keep her because he lacks abundance. let's say a betabucks dude wised up to …
/r/askTRP12/08/19 02:12 AM
3

You never bring this shit up especially since you found out by snooping. Become less available, maybe flake on her and get the hamster moving. If she's still interested, she'll reach out. This is very basic stuff, read more.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 01:54 AM
3

You don't want to do something...so you don't do it. Which part of that is being a dick?
/r/askTRP11/08/19 02:51 AM
1

decent amount of red flags things got serious and we started dating desperation she more or less pushed me into it no frame I don't have any plates oh so that's where the desperation was coming from why are you talking about imposing boundaries after you got pressured into a relationship you didn't even want? you're in no position to start acting like you have balls all of a sudden. you're breaking up in two weeks (not even your decision, just because of distance) and yet you're still scrambling…
/r/askTRP11/08/19 02:03 AM
19

realize that your old oneitis is now your current oneitis and needs to become your past oneitis
/r/askTRP10/08/19 10:11 PM
6

So we texted alot what happening when you're doing this? being flirty and stuff you're giving her attention and validation for free this is 101 level shit, read up
/r/askTRP10/08/19 09:43 PM
1

bob is right, you use that tactic when you've already tried to set up a date but she's unsure she might have mentioned it since it seems like you've been seeing each other in a predictable pattern (once a week 5 weeks in a row). waiting two weeks will break this pattern and start some hamster action so you should be good from here. i would even go further and advise flaking/declining whatever date she proposes IF she does get back to you just to create some chaos.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 08:24 PM
1

sounds like you're doing fine, keep it up
/r/askTRP10/08/19 07:50 PM
3

We parted ways last Sunday with a kiss. She said "I'll let you know" regarding her availability. If you asked her about her availability at the end of a date, that's a dumb mistake. You're showing her that you either don't have much going on OR you do but you're dropping everything and prioritizing her. You have the right idea. Regardless of how she said it (text or IRL) you respond the same way: silence. Either she'll actually get back to you and you move from there or she doesn't and you wait …
/r/askTRP10/08/19 07:46 PM
2

I see what you're saying but girls can quite easily kill the expectation of sex with some fabricated bullshit like "Oh I'm seeing someone now and it's starting to get serious...LJBF though." / IHABF "I don't think we should do that anymore, it's ruining our friendship" etc. Also, the fact that he's only fucked once makes me think its reasonable to assume that she didn't really have a good idea of his character before he became a texting buddy. At that point, she realizes his alpha behavior was j…
/r/askTRP10/08/19 01:59 AM
1

Just because you fucked ONCE doesn't mean you have immunity from acting beta and being labeled an orbiter down the line. You have to keep proving yourself over time. (also from the context of his post it sounds like they fucked a month ago or maybe more and the rest has just been texting - sounds like orbiter shit to me if it's accurate)
/r/askTRP10/08/19 01:41 AM
1

shouldn't have agreed to the reschedule since it was too soon and makes you look like you don't have anything going on OR you dropped your plans just to see her...both bad i'm fairly confident that she'll flake tomorrow but if she doesn't, YOU should flake to salvage there are a million reasons why she might have cancelled on you today, so its not necessarily a rejection and there's no point in trying to figure out which one of the million it was
/r/askTRP10/08/19 12:37 AM
11

attention
/r/askTRP10/08/19 12:30 AM
1

giving us examples of what you message them might be a good place to start
/r/askTRP09/08/19 10:44 PM
1

It's subjective. My version of a 10 could be your version of a 6 and vice versa so you have to decide for yourself where girls fall on your scale. However, for the most part, people can agree on which traits are generally attractive (slim waist, big tits/ass, symmetrical face, long hair, overall feminine appearance) and which are unattractive (overweight, acne, fucked up teeth, weird-colored hair, really short hair that makes them look masculine, etc.).
/r/askTRP09/08/19 10:31 PM
1

????? If there's nothing below a 9, how do you know how good a 9 is? You need to compare something to the competition to appreciate how good/bad it is. If the scale was only 7-10 you might think a 7 was a fugly, bottom of the barrel girl when in reality, she beat all the girls that are 1-6.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 10:24 PM
1

welcome and read the sidebar, it'll explain things in a lot more detail with the underlying theory to support it. also, i didn't notice it but the other comment pointed it out - asking if she's dtf is a mistake. girls need plausible deniability when it comes to sex. also, it just screams "i'm thirsty and need to have sex asap because no other girls are fucking me, so please please please let me fuck you" good luck with the next ten chicks
/r/askTRP09/08/19 10:11 PM
6

we’ve been texting ever since bad she’s been keeping in contact ever since; hence, why I believe she’s high-interest she's seeking validation through text and you're giving her as much as she wants, bad when confronted bad, don't say anything, just ignore. all you're gonna get is some shitty made-up excuse. if she actually had something come up, she would let you know, apologize and offer to reschedule. three strikes is one too many imo, two is plenty of chances. you fucked up by dumping validat…
/r/askTRP09/08/19 09:29 PM
23

Read the "Ladder Theory" portion of u/omlala 's post over here. It talks about 4 "ladders" that women place guys on. You can easily use it with the genders reversed. Unworthy - fugly, mental issues, whatever other traits are undesirable in your eyes, basically invisible to you Beta - she's trying really hard to get with you, you know you can have her whenever you want, it's too easy -> these girls are usually lower smv and thus have lower self-esteem, etc. Alpha - she's a rare commodity, fucking…
/r/askTRP09/08/19 02:35 PM
2

Didn't read all of it but- If you're hungry and there's only fast food near you, the workers aren't "raping" you into eating out. You assessed the situation and came to the conclusion that having a cheat meal this time is better than your other option which is to wait until you get home and cook something which will take way too long. You COULD HAVE waited (it would've been uncomfortable, but you could've), but you CHOSE not to. The girls always have the choice to walk away. Chad makes walking a…
/r/askTRP09/08/19 02:26 PM
46

Leaving the ball in her court is good - shows abundance and DGAF. Move on and if she comes back, it's just a bonus.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 02:10 AM
3

I find it annoying in honesty that she doesnt take what i say at face value. She demands evidence etc ??? read that back to yourself
/r/askTRP08/08/19 09:11 PM
1

Look through omlala's post history in the sidebar. He has a few guides with examples of his own texts.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 08:06 PM
2

it's not all that much more lost time. what's another few months, I've already spent 3 years with her. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sunk_cost I want to get back in control and have the upper hand. Your ego took a hit and now you need to prove to yourself that you're still the man. You're being fairly stubborn about this so do what you want and see how it works out. That's the best way to learn, after all. I just wanted to save you time and headaches. Good luck.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 02:35 PM
2

I'm going to work on myself completely, use our relationship as a means of bettering myself by identifying and passing shit tests, focusing on myself and raising my smv. Staying with a woman that is ASHAMED to be with you won't help you. Where's your pride? You can do all of this more effectively if you don't waste even more time with this girl and instead game multiple new women. It's already been 3 years, wake the fuck up.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 02:26 PM
9

Rejoice my friend, you get to have a permanent break from her now. Kick that bitch to the side of the road and start spinning. You'll never look back.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 01:24 PM
19

She perceives herself as having higher SMV than you so she’s ashamed to even be seen with you. Your #1 priority is to kick her out if possible/find a new place. Until then, treat her like a roommate or a fat girl that’s invisible to you. Make yourself as unavailable as possible and do productive shit with this time. Pick up extra work hours, hang out with your bros, put more time into your hobbies, etc. She doesn’t get any more of your attention from now on.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 12:50 PM
4

opening up about his brother, family issues, n count and whatever other things he divulged =/= building a connection. massive loss of frame.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 02:34 AM
2

I told her that I've been like that and it's hard for me to sometimes get another people, Im more of a listener and I always listen to her attentively she's drunk and being disrespectful -> you DEFEND yourself with logic and try to open up to her in hopes of having her see your perspective I ask what's up wit us she should be the one wondering about what you think of her/the relationship not vice versa I still insist part 2 I finally apologise and tell her that i'll try to improve you apologize …
/r/askTRP07/08/19 02:29 AM
3

being a high value male
/r/askTRP05/08/19 09:09 PM
9

That should be subcommunicated. The fact that you feel the need to tell her directly shows her that she didn't really miss out. Cool guys don't call themselves cool.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 08:55 PM
3

"we can get to know each other when we [insert your date idea]"
/r/askTRP05/08/19 06:23 PM
3

Do I have to beat a woman up next time I have sex with her? Show that bitch who's boss. You didn't know she wanted it rough so if you get another chance to fuck her, keep that in mind. Most girls will be into some amount of choking/slapping/hair pulling/etc. so those are usually safe moves to use when you're unsure as long as you start off gentle and check if she responds well. Don't take what she said to heart, just do better next time. No big deal.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 06:20 PM
3

I then said, be straight up with me and I won't get mad - is there someone that you find hot that you're interested in/want to smash? Bad idea. Given the context of how you asked this question, her response comes off as disrespectful. You were being very serious and she had no problem bluntly saying that her instructor was hawt. "but she's just being honest with me" She'd keep this to herself if you commanded that level of respect from her. I bluntly asked why she was interested in talking to hi…
/r/askTRP05/08/19 02:14 PM
1

Would Chad have to struggle to get her in his bed? If she's attracted she'll jump at the chance to see you. Not much more to it.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 02:11 PM
3

"For my food/drinks/part, yea."
/r/askTRP05/08/19 01:38 PM
1

These girls are a lot of fun if you handle them properly. Talk about each other's kinks and fantasies. Keep pushing (with consent) until you find the limit and remember it. Texting should be kept to a minimum and sexting ruins anticipation. What you can do over text is tell her to show up wearing X thing or to bring something with her for you like food or whatever.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 06:24 PM
3

You sound like a guy who tries to be "alpha as fuck bro" in all the wrong ways. You try to kiss her right after you nut in her mouth and expect her not to taste like cum? Then you make her feel bad FOR BLOWING YOU by being way too harsh for no reason. You were in the wrong 100%. All you had to do was be a normal human and ask her to wash her mouth out a bit more.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 06:19 PM
4

You're a faggot if you: decide to wallow in self-pity and/or look for others to join said pity party do nothing to help yourself claim you have "depression" like a lot of people claim they have "mental health issues" when, in reality, they're just looking for attention/excuses/etc.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 03:44 PM
5

" There is no ONE. This is the soulmate myth. There are some good Ones and some bad Ones, but there is no ONE. Anyone telling you anything else is selling you something. There are LOTS of ‘special someones’ out there for you, just ask the divorced/widowed person who’s remarried after their “soulmate” has died or moved on. " - https://therationalmale.com/2012/10/29/the-soul-mate-myth/
/r/askTRP04/08/19 08:43 AM
15

I’m not really bothered even though I’m kinda pissed she didn’t say happy birthday You made the same post about the same girl 3 days ago. The fact that you're bothered by something so insignificant tells me you're gonna mess up with this chick sooner rather than later. Take a few days to grow the fuck up and pick up where you left off like nothing happened.
/r/askTRP03/08/19 07:02 PM
2

Not denying this. What I'm saying is you have to decide for yourself how much skin you're ok with your LTR showing. Some guys want their GFs extremely covered up, some don't care at all and some are somewhere in the middle. It's up to you.
/r/askTRP03/08/19 03:55 PM
7

Nobody can tell you what YOUR limit is. You have to create and enforce your own boundaries.
/r/askTRP03/08/19 03:36 PM
5

https://youtu.be/ehH9OQMQXIk
/r/askTRP03/08/19 08:17 AM
2

The entire time she was seeing me, she just kept bitch, moaning and complaining about everything, including the stuff I was/wasn’t doing. She's faced with the possibility of you ending the relationship (something that should make her work her ass off to keep you) and yet she's STILL unpleasant and has an attitude. Even if you didn't want to end things right now, this should show you that shit would've gone bad down the line. the moment I start calling her on her complaints and all the stuff she …
/r/askTRP02/08/19 10:02 PM
3

It’s like those guys that try to hit on a girl, get rejected and then say “You’re ugly/boring/stupid anyway.”
/r/askTRP31/07/19 03:11 AM
2

If you had a plate/fwb and you told her/implied that you don't care if she sleeps with other guys, you still wouldn't want her to tell you about the other guys bluntly nor would you want to find their clothes at her place or something similar. That's disrespectful. Side note: The dread/competition you're talking about is useful but you didn't need it here at all.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 08:38 PM
2

Obviously no longer LTR material what should my plan of action be ? ??? You keep spinning her (and other plates). That's it. when she texts to talk after tomorrow simply tell her she has a date with another guy so she's his for the day butthurt autism
/r/askTRP30/07/19 03:07 AM
2

All of them except for #1 are crabs. If #1 hasn't done anything disrespectful/hindering to you, keep him around. Just because he doesn't have the same opinions about sex/girls doesn't mean he can't be a good friend. Side note: Don't talk about fight club like you did to #4.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 06:05 PM
9

Any time you're unsure about where a chick stands just escalate and you'll have your answer.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 05:56 PM
0

You can 100% find something else. Retail and lifeguarding are both way better than fast food. Actively look for other jobs, go to interviews, etc. and stay at your current job until you find a new one then swap.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 05:54 PM
25

If you're flirting with girls in an attempt to generate attraction from one specific girl, you're doing it wrong. Focus on the ones you're gaming, not the ones that rejected you/aren't interested.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 02:12 PM
8

asked him if it was cool that me and my gf were now dating? You don't need his fucking blessing man, come on. unfollowed my social media .... seriously? THAT's a problem for you? This guy is irrelevant. You're giving him power by placing importance on his opinion. If he wants to act like he's constantly on his period, let him and ignore him/laugh off his retardation. Stop being a bitch and start being your own man.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 02:11 PM
1

It's not always the guys fault and that's something a lot of people have repeated over and over to prevent guys from overthinking every interaction they have with a girl. Girls will flake, ghost, block, pull back, go hot and cold, push boundaries, monkey branch, etc. It's not your job to use your third eye to see all of these things coming from the second you meet each girl. It IS your job to know how to handle them when they arise and be outcome independent so that you deal with them properly. …
/r/askTRP29/07/19 02:06 PM
1

She’s only been with 2 other guys Be skeptical about this. ​ We ended up doing nothing but talking on the couch for 4 hours Way too much time spent together without actually doing anything imo. ​ She might turn out to be a great girl, but there's no reason to be exclusive to her when 1. it's been less than a month and 2. neither one of you has brought it up. Think of it this way: you're setting yourself up for oneitis by breaking your other plates. That's only going to ruin your chances of keepi…
/r/askTRP29/07/19 12:16 PM
15

She's pleasantly surprised with your dick size. Should I be offended? Just keep fucking, nothing to see here.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 06:11 AM
1

First of all, don't call her a plate when you never fucked. Also thought about going nuclear and telling her I’m not going to play these games with her anymore/that I’m not going to be an orbiter/validation fountain anymore. Don't do this. I basically pretend she’s not there in the most polite way possible. Start doing this again. No more texting (if she confronts you about this IRL just say you're busy/bullshit excuse and keep it moving)
/r/askTRP29/07/19 02:16 AM
2

Give her a second chance and no more. If she comes through, make sure to wrap it up. If she flakes again, move on. You got it. Side note: don't ruin the sexual tension and turn all beta by reacting too much to the videos/nudes.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 02:10 AM
1

/s
/r/askTRP25/07/19 09:16 PM
1

Repeat their name to get their attention and have them stop, then continue what you were saying You: "So I get to LA-" Suzie: "Oh Tim, rememb-" You: Suzie. Suzie. Suzie: stops talking and looks at you You: "So I get to LA and x y and z happen" Make them acknowledge that you're not ok with them interrupting: "Let me finish" "Hold on" "I wasn't done" etc. you can combine this with the first bullet by adding it in after using their name Suzie: interrupts You: "Suzie. Suzie. I wasn't done." Suzie: "…
/r/askTRP25/07/19 09:08 PM
1

yea she does. since you're not gonna get any move along so I can hit it. thx bro
/r/askTRP25/07/19 08:55 PM
2

Think about it this way: If the roles were reversed and you were constantly trying to meet up with her, she'd lose interest. We want what we can't have and she's making herself very available. Neediness = annoying & unattractive
/r/askTRP25/07/19 03:22 AM
3

The ball is in your court to initiate by default because you're the guy. If you wait for her to ask you out (without having considerably high SMV), you're gonna end up wasting time texting her with false hope. I always give a second chance after a flake, but that's all they get - after that its a hard next.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 02:31 AM
4

I still want to be able to do the things people in LTRs do. I just want to do it like once or twice max every week or so. I dont want to call these bitches every night and have a 30 minute talk about our day. FWB.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 02:26 AM
7

you did fine but i don’t think there’s a point in texting after kicking her out
/r/askTRP24/07/19 12:53 AM
3

"We can also just have fun" on its own is already coming across as you trying to weasel your way to some pussy. adding the winky face (literally always cringy) is amplifying that effect. Ideally, she'll decide that you're the type of guy she can "just have fun" with because you didn't chase after her. Side note: this is why texting should be kept to a minimum - you can't really raise attraction, but you can definitely hurt your chances.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 12:44 AM
8

"ok no problem"
/r/askTRP23/07/19 10:53 PM
7

There's more where she came from, enough of this scarcity shit. You're a successful dude that's still working on his body which is miles better than the beer bellies and love handles out there - YOU are the prize. If you really still want to keep her around, punish her bad behavior by removing your attention (not arguing) and reward good behavior with affection/gifts. Make her earn things more often. Spend less time with her in general and reduce texts/calls to transition from LTR to plate. ​ Th…
/r/askTRP23/07/19 01:41 AM
11

I don’t want her frantic or 2 hour phone calls before bed anymore This never should've been allowed from the start. Yes, you should provide comfort, but this is excessive. She doesn't get to hold you hostage on the phone - you're busy and will talk to her later. You're getting sex from an average-looking girl (who has already found/is looking for another branch) with a shitty attitude in exchange for your hard-earned cash and your free time - the usual sugar daddy/sugar baby arrangement. Should …
/r/askTRP23/07/19 12:46 AM
6

actively work towards creating abundance (meeting more girls) SMV too low -> monk mode come to terms with the fact that the majority of girls you deal with won't stick around forever (read the article) focus on your purpose/mission fake it till you make it
/r/askTRP22/07/19 11:38 PM
15

Abundance & Purpose. Actually having girls that are into you provides you with concrete evidence to support and strengthen your abundance mentality. Without a rotation, you can still emulate an abundance mentality and use past success in place of current success so, no, it's not only a situational fix - it helps you down the road, too. Even if you're in a drought/moving to a new area/whatever, you can reassure yourself that "hey I've had a bunch of hotties before, I can definitely do it again." …
/r/askTRP22/07/19 11:27 PM
2

The best way to get over someone is to get over (or under) someone else. No gf means you’re a free agent so start spinning.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 09:11 PM
2

a few minutes after she left she texted me and immediately started talking about ideas for a second date tomorrow. & She paid the bill for dinner when I was in the bathroom These are way more important than where she put her purse and shit. You seem to be doing fine so try for another date and be a bit more forward with the kino. Good luck.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 02:47 AM
3

Sounds like the ones objecting are plates/fwb which is understandable - some girls can be attracted to you but not want to do PDA. Don’t worry about the leading thing. If you’re telling her what the plans are and maintaining a masculine frame, you’ll be leading regardless of whether or not you’re actually pulling her hand to come along.
/r/askTRP21/07/19 11:21 PM
3

Not blocking him on IG gets her free validation in the form of likes and maybe some comments. These things are available for all of her followers to see, boosting her ego and perceived status. When he hits her up on snap, its 1-on-1, so she can’t really benefit from it since nobody else will see it. Gonna be real with you, this probably won’t work out and you shouldn’t really be bothering with an LTR at 20. Ultimately up to you, but having a rotation is way more fun.
/r/askTRP21/07/19 11:19 PM
2

It's been an hour and a half - she's obviously not coming so just enjoy being with your friends. I guess you're checking up on her which is fine. She gives you some dumb excuse -> you ask if she's still coming She says she's not coming again -> "What days you off this week" She flaked and didn't offer to reschedule. Either hard next or give her a second chance after no contact for X amount of time (a week minimum imo). Hard next if she flakes again, no questions asked. the kicker: Your last two …
/r/askTRP21/07/19 09:32 PM
1

is it best to set up logistics ASAP? Before chad fucks her and the plate cracks? So what? There's a lot more where she came from. Having this mindset will just show her how much of a needy bitch you really are and help her decide that she'd much rather be with chad than you. How would you act if you had hotter options waiting for you to hit them up? (I know you don't but this is where "fake it till you make it" comes in.) ​ I know it’s all about doing what the fuck you want You know but you have…
/r/askTRP21/07/19 09:17 PM
3

I know people can "fake" who they are in the early stages of dating. If this is what you're seeing right off the bat, do you think it's going to magically get better if you get to know her for longer? My logic is telling me RUN before the crazy surfaces but feels hard to abandon a girl this attractive. but guuuuuuys it feeeeels hard to let go of this ONE girl :((((( ​ Normally, this girl would just be a plate and nothing more but since you're already attached, you need to move on completely.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 09:19 PM
47

First thing's first: yes, plates break, but you broke this one prematurely. ​ Your best plate caught feels (something you should be ready for given the amount of time that has passed) and your response was to be harsh for no reason. She's not dumb - she knows you're not dating and that you're probably seeing other girls. She can tell because you aren't taking her out on dates or spending that much time together. You didn't need to be so overt. All you had to say was "I know," "I love me too" or …
/r/askTRP18/07/19 05:28 AM
1

something tells me you haven't seen many naked women... ​ keep your mouth shut and try not to think about it. if you catch yourself thinking about her, redirect your focus to something else like your gf (during sex), work or literally anything.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 09:35 PM
1

can be either banter or disrespect depending on where she's from. it's similar to how you can call your bro a bitch and its normal but if someone outside of your friend group overheard, they could think you were being serious. considering the fact that she matched with op and barely knows him, i doubt its disrespect in this case.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 02:43 AM
19

which part of "ur too pretty to be saving the world" made you think he was rp?
/r/askTRP17/07/19 12:59 AM
0

I understand life's busy and meeting up with a rando guy off a dating app seems like a longshot not if that guy is Chad -> realistically assess your SMV and photos. are you someone she would want to make time for? ​ kinda sounds like your conversations might be dragging on too long. in a nutshell, your process should be build enough comfort on dating app to get # use # to set up date meet
/r/askTRP17/07/19 12:58 AM
2

when in doubt, treat the plate like its broken (no contact). if she doesn't want to reach out, you've already moved on to the next girls (PLURAL). if she does, you've left the door open for her to have another chance.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 12:01 AM
16

she offered to reschedule the first time so that's fine this time she didn't AND its her second flake so forget about her unless she reaches out ​ she feels bad for canceling twice lol
/r/askTRP16/07/19 09:46 PM
4

you're not ready for an LTR if something this irrelevant worries you
/r/askTRP15/07/19 05:53 PM
2

pressure flip = reframe treating her shit test as unimportant / joking about it = reframe ​ falling into her frame would be logically or seriously responding (ex: "oh no, uh, i really like you as a person and i want to get to know you better, sex isn't all i want) ​ ignoring / laughing off shit tests is another option, but if you can pass them and it's not too much of a hassle, why not?
/r/askTRP15/07/19 05:50 PM
6

you're not overthinking because its pretty easy to figure out what it means ​ the problems are that: you have too much free time which led to stalking her social media and finally you were so rattled by this it made you post here ​ remember: shes not yours, its just your turn
/r/askTRP15/07/19 05:02 AM
8

yea, shit test "I'm not that shallow... I also want _____" fill in the blank with any random thing you want in an amused tone other option is to pressure flip and playfully act disgusted, accuse her of only seeing you as a sex object and that you have so much more to offer as a person
/r/askTRP15/07/19 04:38 AM
1

game recognize game
/r/askTRP15/07/19 04:28 AM
5

http://archive.ph/uaRnM
/r/askTRP15/07/19 04:17 AM
1

you think back to the time when you read this post from the sidebar and follow its advice
/r/askTRP12/07/19 11:28 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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