So my gf has been declining sex for a week now, and I’ve been getting annoyed. A whole push/pull game between her and I this past week.

Today I was thinking about those words, I got fed up with her bs of calling me a “pussy”, a “femboy”, and other disrespectful words, and I texted her to tell her I want my clothes I left at her house. She gets upset and calls me, asking why I wanted my stuff, so I tell her she crossed boundaries and withholding sex doesn’t work for me. Apparently she’s withholding because I keep wanting sex. I get there, pick up my clothes, and go.

She kept asking if I was breaking up with her, I only replied “no” once.

I plan on giving her a few days to cool off or to wait for her to text me again. I’m not done with this relationship, I just want to have her stop withholding sex and stop calling me names.