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I'm currently in the same boat as you. I've had one girlfriend before (when I was 18, and now I'm 30), but haven't been with a women since. Currently I'm going to therapy because of this feeling that men are bad and that expressing sexuality is bad but I'm getting better. The advice I can give you is what others have said: start complimenting and expressing what you feel. I've been telling a couple of female friends that I find them sexually attractive. I've even asked one if she just wants to h…
/r/seduction26/08/15 05:12 PM
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Ok. Thanks
/r/seduction30/07/14 08:55 PM
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I'm sorry, I wanted to say that I will say that I've made plans already, but that I need to confirm. Then I'll call her back and say that I can stay with her for a couple of hours. What do you think of this approach? I want help when this kind of situations take place, as it is pretty often for me :(
/r/seduction30/07/14 02:02 PM
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I think there is a misunderstanding. Let me state the facts: I don't have plans for tomorrow right now. I could make plans if I want to, and I will if I don't go with this lady. I don't like being a second option, and I want her to know this. I'm looking for a good response. Besides that, I think I'm going to joke around and amplify. If she can't make or doesn't answer by tonight I'll make plans and thats it. The thing is I hate when girls say "I will tell you if I can".
/r/seduction30/07/14 10:58 AM
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Well, I would actually make some plans if she couldn't come.
/r/seduction30/07/14 10:21 AM
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I haven't got plans actually. I was going to teach her to play guitar, and I set a date. She said she couldn't manage it, and proposed another day, to which I said I had alredy got plans and proposed another day. She said she could go. I see your point, but I don't like being the second option of anyone, and showoff as needy by agreing to her approach.
/r/seduction30/07/14 09:59 AM
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Yeah. She finishes her exams this friday, but I will leave for the weekend. I will text her tonight just casually asking how did it go. On another school I used to go, we switched after a couple of minutes, just as you said, but in this one, it is for the whole lesson unless you have gone to the lessons as a couple. I actually enjoy dancing with her, I feel a strong connection, and this is what I like about her. Mmm I will talk to her about this before the lesson, and hear her opinion. Good luck…
/r/seduction11/11/13 04:16 PM
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I would call just to be sure if you got the correct number. If she doesn't answer, or you see no interest, I would just move on. Something like this happened to me. A woman gave me her number, and she looked interested. I texted her a couple of times with no response. Tried to call, and she didn't pick the phone, so I just moved on. BTW I'm in a similar situtation to yours right now! Let me expose it, and see if I too can get some advice in this same thread. I just joined swing dancing lessons. …
/r/seduction11/11/13 02:58 PM
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I like to play a game that consists of asking questions all the time. The first person who doesnt ask a question loses. Have you understood the game? Can you explain the game again? What part havent you understood? Etc... I find this game really fun, and you can mess it up all the time. I tried it yesterday and worked like charm :)
/r/seduction07/01/13 12:13 PM
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I just googled "improv [my city]". I found a couple of improv academies and chose the one I liked the most. I pay 30€ per month, for 2h of class per week. Prices vary a lot from one academy to another, so I recommend you to ask if you can try a free class first.
/r/seduction22/12/12 10:00 AM
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Ive started taking improv classes, and although I havent used it in my game, Ive had tons of fun! Ive done a show too, and women do want to see you on stage ;)
/r/seduction21/12/12 05:07 PM
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I would like to read that blog. Why dont you try blogspot? I had a couple of blogs there (non pua related) and it is very easy to use! Pm me if you have any trouble with it.
/r/seduction25/11/12 11:05 PM
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Any video tutorials from youtube you recommend?
/r/seduction23/11/12 02:29 PM
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Why is this bad for PUA may I ask? I always thought you should start a conversation like this and theb escalate into other more attraction topics. Im not that bad in small talk, and I tebd to meet women casually during daygame pretty often.
/r/seduction24/08/12 12:10 PM
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Well, I really don't know how further I can take it. I really had lots of fun and I think I could have maked out with 2 women at least. But yeah, maybe in the future I will need to move on. I'm not going to do this forever (it wil be very boring to do this forever, am I right?) :)
/r/seduction16/08/12 02:59 PM
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I would love to! Where are you from? Im from Europe so it might be a little bit expensive ;)
/r/seduction16/08/12 02:54 PM
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Rubbing our noses :) EDIT: yeah, each other's nose. "Kissing" each other with our noses instead of our lips
/r/seduction16/08/12 01:14 PM
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I do have fear of success too. I feel more anxious of success than rejection. I am always thinking "I get nothing" or have been rejected if I don't try, therefore I do not fear rejection. I fear if something will happen!
/r/seduction29/07/12 08:59 PM
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Thank you! I will have a look at his material. I really like his style and how he explains things. Ill pm you if I find anything
/r/seduction20/05/12 09:03 PM
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I loved Gambler's video. I'm digging in the last part of the video, when he talks about "emotion, motivations and character traits". Have you got any more info or videos where I can read more about this? I had a chat with a lesbian friend who told me she was in love with a girl (this girl is really really not attractive) because she really connected and because their conversations really flowed and seem very natural. My friend has read some stuff on PUA and agreed with this part of the video, an…
/r/seduction20/05/12 08:05 PM
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I see. I find it quite interesting to select my best stories :)
/r/seduction11/04/12 03:53 PM
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I've been carpooling a lot last year. I have a 3:30 hour ride nearly weekly, so I have met quite a lot of people. It is true that I tend to know people of my age, and that there are a lot of girls! I haven't got a car, so I go with the same driver nearly all weeks. The good thing I see about carpooling is the oportunity to start to know a lot of people, practicing which stories are best to tell, but I have trouble in getting into something more private/isolation (as we are really close to the re…
/r/seduction10/04/12 04:25 PM
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Thank you man. Tonight I'll take her with some friends to a party. Ill hit on other girls and see what happens!
/r/seduction07/04/12 01:58 PM
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I did break it up into paragraphs, but I think Reddit mixed it up? Sorry for my spell/grammar mistakes. English is my second language. I'll try better next time.
/r/seduction07/04/12 01:14 PM
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Yeah maybe. I'm trying man. I'm trying my best. Going for the kiss these days with her. Being sexual.
/r/seduction07/04/12 01:13 PM
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Thank you man. It's a wierd friendzone, as I didn't feel anything before and now I do. I should be really flirt with other girls.
/r/seduction06/04/12 12:45 PM
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Well, I don't usually perform routines, but I do sometimes have a couple of stories that sound quite interesting. I think this is a good one. Just that, a story to tell during a regular conversation. It shows that I'm cocky, I'm a sexual being, and that I can man up to do stuff like this.
/r/seduction26/01/12 11:35 AM
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I see. Thanks!
/r/seduction10/01/12 07:55 AM
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I just finished reading the book. I think it is more to do of someone who doesn't really feel the same as regular people. He has emotions that are not thos that are usually related to that event. I mean, if your mother died, you should feel sad. He feels the hot weather. I did not, however, find it helpful for my game. Can you further explain? MAybe that we are to attached to conventions or standards, and that we not feel things as our own?
/r/seduction09/01/12 08:45 PM
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Thank you!
/r/seduction03/01/12 07:02 PM
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Yeah, its tough. I had tried that in the past, and seemed to work then. I need to get my jazzy old character back!
/r/seduction03/01/12 06:43 PM
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I think you are right. But I still find it a paradox, you know. If you look, you can't find. And if you don't look, you find something! The other thing is, that I usually don't talk that much to my target. I tend to chat with the "second target" in order to not show myself too needy.
/r/seduction03/01/12 06:36 PM
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Yeah, that is what I understood. I want to work on those 2 minutes!
/r/seduction03/01/12 06:34 PM
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Thanks! The character I want to convey is that of a guy that wants to try new things, and give a good time! Like... I dunno, jazzy and smooth like Thomas O'Malley from the aristocats?
/r/seduction03/01/12 06:33 PM
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I climb for sport, that should give me that confidence (I think). Either way, I need to work on it harder. I think she means I don't understand what a women wants at a precise time. Maybe I can't see when I attract a girl, or when she wants to get away. I've got better at this, but I still have problems detecting real IOIS for simple friendly interest. Yeah, I think she meant attracted. I didn't realize it was that soon! Damm, I can't even say a couple of sentences before I know I'm out! I think…
/r/seduction03/01/12 06:30 PM
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I think she meant attractive, not in love. And it is true most of the girls they don't understand their own emotions, but I do know that it is very soon when they do look over to a guy and know if he is attractive or not. I need to work on those 2 minutes!
/r/seduction03/01/12 06:27 PM
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Well, I think she meant attractive, although she said "love at first sight". I mean, they DO know right away if anything is going to happen by that time!
/r/seduction03/01/12 06:26 PM
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hahahahah actually, that is my job "penetration tester" lol.
/r/seduction13/12/11 10:20 PM
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Well, actually they sometimes do. At least, the ones I do like. The point is making it cool, and not having that unconfortable silence :)
/r/seduction13/12/11 10:13 PM
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Hehehe the marrying part sounds funny. I'm going to try that one too!
/r/seduction12/12/11 09:20 PM
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I'll try it. The thing is people don't believe it at first and stare at me seriously. Then I explain it and they find it cool, specially guys. But I will exaggerate it and see where it leads to.
/r/seduction12/12/11 08:55 PM
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Yeah, car pooling. Didn't know the term in english. The thing is that I need to build attraction, but I can't make any clear IOIs from my side (other people watching + listening for 3h!)
/r/seduction23/10/11 09:22 PM
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Can you recommend me any material? Any links? I tend to meet girls naturally during daygame!
/r/seduction22/06/11 08:59 AM
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I know, I know. Ill just keep on going :). BTW do you know where I can read about daygame?
/r/seduction21/06/11 02:25 PM
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As ive said to PosterKitten, I didn't find my escalation very natural, and I was rejected last year. I was expecting some kind of "you can do it now" sort of signal.
/r/seduction21/06/11 11:58 AM
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Yeah, I wrote a post on my fear of success. I think my escalation was great, although I didn't feel it natural. I don't know if I did good on not kissing, given that she rejected me last year, and this time I didn't find it very natural. But... it is true that that was the kiss moment! Ill keep an update on this if I go on another date.
/r/seduction21/06/11 11:57 AM
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Very appropiate, even for myself Thanks a lot!
/r/seduction20/06/11 08:15 PM
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I love reading about taoism, and have read Tao Te Ching many times myself. Never thought of it as PUA or inner game! Got to read it again. Thanks!
/r/seduction20/06/11 05:52 PM
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tl;dr: had a date a year a go, tried to kiss, got rejected. Last saturday, had another date with same girl, got to bite each other's neck, didn't go for the kiss this time.
/r/seduction20/06/11 05:27 AM
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Just added an update!
/r/seduction19/06/11 04:04 PM
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Mmm this year i've started reading about PUA stuff, including mystery method... so let's say that this year, I'm starting to learn PUA skills! Anyway, I hope I have fun, whatever the outcome
/r/seduction17/06/11 10:05 PM
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Maybe, but we are not very good friends either, so either I can get something, or start a new friendship. Who knows
/r/seduction17/06/11 10:04 PM
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I don't know. It's been a long time since we last talked. I'll try to find out tomorrow.
/r/seduction17/06/11 05:54 PM
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Good advice. But I think it may be the other way round better. Not giving a fuck and just enjoy. Thanks anyway :)
/r/seduction03/06/11 09:42 PM
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It could be, but... if THEY are doing the move, it shows I can win. Maybe I have fear of a long time failure?
/r/seduction03/06/11 09:40 PM
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Mmmm I think you're right. I use to flirt with women that show interest more than the ones I really like. Yeah, that is a very good point. If I get approached, I don't really know if im interested, and that may be the reason why I want to flee. Maybe a smoother approach by their side, and then show interest, can make me feel more confortable :)
/r/seduction03/06/11 09:39 PM
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Once ive passed through k-close, everything goes smooth. If I approach, I feel good too. Ill take your advice, and simply dont let the anxiety keep me from closing. Thx!
/r/seduction03/06/11 09:37 PM
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Well, my question was not about this but yeah, it depends on the kind of friends. Some of them I feel confortable in front of, others don't
/r/seduction03/06/11 09:35 PM
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Lol, not gay! I don't know what it is, really. I feel more confortable with female friends than total strangers. If suddenly a woman comes and approaches me, I tend to look downwards, or tell im not interested. It is as if I was taken by surprise, dont expect it, and try to flee. If I get a strong IOI (not a smooth curve of IOIs) I simply feel unconfortable, as "this is going too fast". Maybe I just need things to get more natural. Maybe I just need a "not giving a fuck" attitude. Maybe I think …
/r/seduction03/06/11 09:34 PM
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I still feel young :P
/r/seduction12/04/11 07:38 PM
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Im 26. Thanks for the advice. Ill take it in mind.
/r/seduction11/04/11 07:44 PM
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Well, what I mean is that my job is not a usual job and sounds quite interesting IMO, but on the other hand, it is computer related which tends chicks to step back.
/r/seduction08/04/11 07:16 AM
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