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Business. Make money. Money runs the world.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 05:59 AM
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Dude just do your own thing. Ignore that BS. Don’t nut for 2 weeks and do basic strength training and just set up your own vibe. I promise everyone will wanna be around you as long as you’re confident/funny/know how to socially banter with people. Literally just do that and you’ll be way ahead of those orbiters. That girl will literally completely forget about those orbiters and start to show you IOIs etc. It’s all about the vibe you set up for yourself. Let the girls come to you. Let them show …
/r/askTRP22/10/20 07:33 AM
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Yes. Actually.... no. We’re living through a pandemic and social/economic activities are limited, and increasingly so. So like, just chill at home and keep saving up money, until COVID passes over. Whether that’s in a year or 3 Plus when you move out you’re gonna run through your savings faster than you can think. Not worth it. You will thank in the future for saving up that money. You’re also lucky your living situation is tolerable and you don’t have annoying parents / can do basically whateve…
/r/askTRP17/10/20 09:01 AM
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Trying too hard. Just let it happen. Why do you guys make everything so try hard and methodical. Getting girls should be a natural, go with the flow process. It’s an art not a science.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 09:28 AM
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If you were you would’ve closed the deal and this post wouldn’t even exist.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 11:26 PM
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Nah. Bottom line is a creep is a creep. (even if you’re Leonardo DiCaprio or Justin Bieber) Woman break rules for Alphas when it comes to stuff like how they treat them, the type of sex they give them, threesomes with other women, devout loyalty, etc 90% of girls prefer a soft spoken, cocky guy that goes right to their feels vs. a wannabe jackass with his chest puffed out trying hard to get at girls.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 08:17 AM
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You’re overthinking shit and don’t have abundance mentality. That’s like the problem with 90% of guys on TRP and in the world, really.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 05:58 AM
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She just didn’t see the confidence in you so she backed out. That’s why you’re on here over analyzing and nitpicking the situation while she’s already forgotten about it. It worked out for her. She’s stuck in your mind now. Learn abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 05:48 AM
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It’s true what she said. It’s not fake. It’s not a shit test. Girls hate find it creepy when guys try too hard. Doesn’t matter who you are. They hate it. So just play it cool and be nonchalant.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 05:47 AM
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Yeah just follow up with her ONE TIME, ask her what’s up or something, then have outcome independence. Ghost if no response. Wait this is all over an instagram follow? dude.....
/r/askTRP04/10/20 05:15 AM
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Goldman Sachs CEO has a part-time gig as a DJ. Definitely play it safe as a techie from a financial standpoint but by all means chase your music interests even if it has a “beta” agenda. It would truly be beta to set your interest off just because of society’s labels. The Alpha move is to own it and be confident in whatever you do.
/r/askTRP28/09/20 06:44 AM
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Yes it’s beta. It’s beta that you’re asking this question instead of being confident in what you love and are passionate about. Own it man. That’s the way to an Alpha. No matter what anyone says or thinks or judges, own up to it and don’t be ashamed of what you love doing. Is Harry Styles beta? Or does he get more pussy than he’ll ever know what to do with? How about Shawn Mendes? Kurt Cobain? Yep those guys are total betas. It isn’t black & white. If you want to be “Alpha” just be confident in …
/r/askTRP28/09/20 05:46 AM
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trying too hard vs. not trying too hard
/r/askTRP27/09/20 05:47 AM
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Your job isn’t to save anyone
/r/askTRP26/09/20 05:17 AM
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Just go with the flow man. Don’t force anything. It’s not a big deal. After it happens, you’ll realize it’s just sex with 2 girls and just another vibe. Anyways definitely work out, retain your semen, and be confident and work on your LMR. You’ll for sure encounter it. You don’t get threesomes without a good amount of comfort & shit tests. Pass them confidently and you’re in the clear. Don’t hesitate or think too deeply. Focus on your enjoyment first and then on theirs as well. Make sure everyon…
/r/askTRP25/09/20 05:56 AM
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It sucks, but as far as we know SARS-CoV-2 is a real disease and can be deadly to some people and that’s why it’s such a big deal with the whole mask and hygiene thing. I look at it as a simple “Pause”. And will work on myself and build a solid foundation so in the future, humans are social I know things will recover and we will all reconvene and gather together in venues, bars, stadiums, religious gatherings. It will happen. Just not now. Take a break from everything. This is a reflection perio…
/r/askTRP21/09/20 09:52 AM
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Master your sexual impulses and you can master anything else in life.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 01:30 PM
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It’s basically the #1 indicator of interest and the most perfect way to get laid. If you’re not making a clown out of yourself.
/r/askTRP14/09/20 10:18 AM
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Just leave the bitch. Sounds like a huge fucking burden bro.
/r/askTRP14/09/20 10:16 AM
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Overthinker. Just act dummy.
/r/askTRP14/09/20 10:14 AM
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Yeah bro this. Just go up to the bitch. Fuck a staring contest, bottom line girls always want and respect someone who just approaches them and closes the deal
/r/askTRP11/09/20 10:16 AM
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You’re a pussy. Start getting rejected. You’ll get over it. Everything is relative. You could have 10 girls reject you and hit a fucking grand slam amazing perfect night with 1 amazing girl. So what. Keep it moving.
/r/askTRP06/09/20 09:47 AM
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The outgoing, confident, and well regarded male will always benefit in any type of scenario.
/r/askTRP06/09/20 09:45 AM
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Definitely man. Do it. In the private sector your sole purpose is to make and funnel money towards the rich. That’s your only worth. Fuck that. Make something of yourself in the service. Don’t settle for any occupation get a good one that you may or may not transfer to the civilian world. Make a plan when you’re in what you’ll do when your 3 or 4 years are over. Save your money stay out of trouble and download investing apps on your phone. TDAmeritrade, Charles Schwab. Get out with 100k or more.…
/r/askTRP06/09/20 02:31 AM
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If you don’t make her feel wanted she’s just gonna go looking for that somewhere else. It’s cool to act aloof and nonchalant but sometimes give a girl what she wants damn. Otherwise she’ll go on to the next Chad that will make her feel all yippie!
/r/askTRP01/09/20 12:10 PM
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Boss up first
/r/askTRP30/08/20 10:27 AM
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If you’ve got a feeling chances are it’s true. Just accept it as if it were true. And be a badass and continue your life like nothing happened. You should try and act distant and just reciprocate her behavior. If she’s acting aloof and sketchy then you do the same. It’ll all work out and remember stand ten goes down. Fuck a bishhhh
/r/askTRP30/08/20 10:12 AM
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Yeah it’s like that. To be fair most men don’t care either they just accept they status quo and go through life on autopilot. 80/20 rule but hey trust me there are some “woke” “enlightened” women out there, I’ve met some hot bookworms and political science majors. I think if you’re looking for these girls some of them are alternative/artsy type but a lot of them are social activists and not SJW-y which is good. Not many people are into that stuff, much less girls, they just wanna have fun and fe…
/r/askTRP25/08/20 05:16 AM
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Sluts are fun. Most girls are sluts. Get over yourself.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 05:49 AM
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She’s more emotionally invested than you? HAHAHA. Dude you’re already beta as fuck if you’re on here asking this dumbass shit. And yes, every girl is capable of cheating. Yours is no exception. Stand on your own two feet and live life freely.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 01:43 AM
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Agreed a buddy of mine is always stressed out with the city life, and he said after a Jiu Jitsu session he was in “zen mode”
/r/askTRP20/08/20 07:48 AM
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You write too much. Girls just wanna have fun. They’ll switch up to whoever’s most lit and having the most fun.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 06:53 AM
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Dude the entire point of TRP is do whatever you want, live life on your terms. If you want a LTR and cuddling and intimacy then don’t be a blue pill moron and just go for it. Just don’t be a fucking simp. Vet the girl first, and remember, you are the prize. Don’t ever simp.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 07:33 AM
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Make mistakes. Learn from them. Trial and error.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 08:03 AM
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Brief phone calls in a flirty context , good stuff...
/r/askTRP15/08/20 07:20 PM
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Make people feel important/good about themselves, subliminally in exchange for their vote. Make sure this is implied in your compliments.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 07:16 PM
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Ouch. Work on yourself man. Focus on irl game. Even with COVID there’s still shit you can reasonably do.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 07:15 PM
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You seem wayyy too attached my man. Get rid of that. And just go with the flow, both sound like solid respectable options. Can’t go wrong with either imo
/r/askTRP15/08/20 06:31 AM
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It’s definitely the porn. Cut it out and you’ll feel more aware and alive.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 10:18 PM
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Most girls become predictable after a certain point you know what they’re gonna say/do and all their usual silly shit tests. Every single girl. It gets boring mate. The crazy girls in the other hand bring on new scenarios and test your emotions and it’s just a roller coaster. Mind you this is my first time. Most guys prefer loyal girls that will hold them down but I’m a weirdo and like exploring different stuff even if I get burned I’ll take the risk just for the thrill in that sense. Been there…
/r/askTRP23/07/20 12:33 PM
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It gives you more of a fuckboy impression and some girls will give you shit for it. For me pre-selection works best when I'm seen with a sexual partner in public, women will gauge their interest a lot more rapidly that way. If you're a cocky type of guy you may be able to pull it off. Just tell the friends "Oh I can't kiss & tell, you know this!" in a flirty way. Act like you never even hooked up with her even though her friends are aware. Just another regular day. with a smirk of course.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 07:23 AM
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This is better than 90% of game on this sub. Here's where most people fuck up: ALWAYS BE ESCALATING. Push & Pull - don't ask too many questions at once or act too interested you'll put them off - pull back and gauge their interest, then escalate. Good on you for making a good faith attempt to meet people and get to know them. That's the key to pulling girls. Just being an all around cool, chill guy that knows how to talk and game and knows their worth. ALWAYS have outcome independence. If the gi…
/r/askTRP22/07/20 07:19 AM
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Business. Learn it. How a company makes money. If your company is publicly traded google their S-1 and 10-K forms to see what I'm talking about.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 07:06 AM
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Don't fuck her man. it's not worth the risk.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 07:03 AM
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You're already losing by caring too much bro. You're going down the path of oneitis. Sigh.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 11:53 PM
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Pre-selection. Walk around a grocery store single and alone, no one will bat an eye at you, most women won't care. Walk with a girlfriend (sexual partner) alongside you in the grocery aisles, you will get stares from every. single. woman. Basically pre-selection makes your current partner do all the vetting for other women and they see that if you're "hot" enough to be with her then you open yourself to a lot more options, and women will come at you.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 11:50 PM
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"Ha, good one!"
/r/askTRP18/07/20 06:52 AM
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As a man you're supposed to stand on your own 2 feet. You entered her frame, she left you. Cause and effect. For her biological survival she needs someone with a strong mental fortitude, not some guy that puts her on a high pedestal. She obviously saw right through you the moment you fell in "love". Don't let that happen. You can be in love but you can't fall head over heels. That's pathetic. Anyways, time brother. Time heals all. Occupy your mind with other things. As the days pass this girl wi…
/r/askTRP15/07/20 03:01 AM
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Dude it's not gonna happen. You posted this a few days ago asking the same shit. If you're too pussy to do anything then forget about it. Lift some weights. Get horny. Bang her. And get this trash out of here. Touching her shoulder? Fucking weirdoooo. Be direct with her. Goddammit kids are so pussy nowadays. She's 4orty fucking 2wo dude. JUST DO IT ALREADY
/r/askTRP14/07/20 09:05 AM
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Indecisiveness is a trait for pussies. Also it's safe to assume most girls' mouths have been wrapped around 5 different cocks so if you wanna bang chicks just get used to this fact.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 08:11 AM
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We can't tell you what to do pal. I would buy a big ranch out in the country and a Cessna 152 airplane and go flying and taking care of animals, horseback riding, and buy some Polaris toys and ATV's and raise my kids there. I don't know what you want for happiness, no one else here does. Maybe you want to live in the city and do other things. edit: I do know one thing! Travel! Go all over the world and see what different cultures and people do for a living, or for happiness.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 02:04 AM
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How do I let "the roommate" know that I'm not going to entertain such behavior without sounding butthurt or like a bitch? Dude, come on, grow a pair. Seriously, speaking in a firm, authoritative tone letting her know that this is not okay and let her know that you're on a strict diet and her doing that throws things off, will do the job. I'm laid back Type B kind of guy too I hate confrontations but as a man you have to stand up to shit and set limits. Otherwise you're a door mat. And if you're …
/r/askTRP13/07/20 01:51 AM
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Standing your ground is a turn on. Like when someone does something that is upsetting or bothersome and you speak up to it, girls find that attractive. Nothing wrong with being respectful & nice. The moment you're a door mat is the moment it becomes a HUGE TURN OFF.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 01:45 AM
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Whoever has the biggest balls takes them all. It's obviously not gonna be you little guy.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 10:42 PM
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It's alright man, we all have our days. That being said you will NEVER be able to confidently approach until you: a. get your ego out of the way b. be totally okay with rejection unless you got that down you're just gonna walk around frantic, anxious and paranoid and it's no good for you. Meditate, ride a bike, get in a confident state of mind that nothing can bring you down. For me psychedelics have helped me understand that rejection is the tiniest thing in the universe and just go on and keep…
/r/askTRP12/07/20 09:37 PM
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He's older than you and probably a little more experienced. Who cares the big issue here is you're getting hung up over this 1 girl. When you see her act like nothing ever happened and continue grinding in school.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 09:32 PM
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Do the roof thing. It sounds fun. And if you're gonna go on a date, find a date that's a little more fun and experiencing. You're right the sugary drinks at a bar is kinda meh. Go horseback riding, skydiving, riding ATV's. It's cool that she's laid back enough to come to your place and chill. but yeah find other fun things to do as well or the chick will get bored lol
/r/askTRP12/07/20 09:27 PM
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You fucked up bro. TRP isn't about treating girls like shit. It's about gaming them. You know, push & pull, flirting, pre-selection, things like that. You need to treat girls with respect & give 'em attention. Then you can game them up. You do realize they are still humans and want to be treated fairly right? I know because the same thing happened to me. I thought I was too good and "Alpha" and she left me for billy the beta. If I would've respected her a little bit more and not been a total jac…
/r/askTRP12/07/20 09:22 PM
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Ehh it's gonna take 60% more effort to try and change the impression you left. It can work, but tat this point you probably cemented in her mind as Billy Beta friend-zone chit chatter. If you're gonna do it make sure you come back strong and ready to close. Otherwise learn from your mistake and move on.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 11:25 AM
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Emotions, tingles, butterflies, lovey dovey shit. Give her that. She'll want you inside. BUT keep up the player shit too, you're obviously doing something right if you're getting this far. but sprinkle some feeelzzzzzz <3 <3 on top of everything. It has to be like a movie for them. You can't just have everything one-sided. give em a little bit of what they want. they'll give it back ten fold.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 11:17 AM
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News flash: every girl is a slut.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 11:04 AM
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You're probably just failing the LMR every time. And the next day the girl rationalizes everything and just loses respect for you because you're unable to close. Don't think about it too much just move on to the next one. Be a flirty confident guy, get in better shape, have a stronger frame, all these things can help with getting over that LMR next time. And establish some sort of emotional connection, some girls like to have some sort of baseline trust before they let you inside of them. Work o…
/r/askTRP12/07/20 10:59 AM
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Settle down hotpants. A girl trying to hook you up with her girl friend could mean a lot of things. The thing about girls is that their decisions aren't based on logic. They do a lot of random stupid shit, so don't think into it too much, JUST GO FOR IT. That'll turn all the girls on. Stopping to think turns them off. Live in the moment. Always have a confident frame. Always respect boundaries and never be a creep. Cheers.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 10:55 AM
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Stand on your own 2 feet first, before anything. That'll give you the confidence & freedom to explore other social circles and build your network. The male shit testing stems from insecurity a good majority of the time. Despite how big their muscles are, their egos are very tiny and fragile. Look for the cool, confident, laid-back guys. Best type of people to surround yourself with. Find and establish mutual benefit for the relationship and you will thrive.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 10:48 AM
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This is an extremely medical specific question and not one the red pill can really answer. I have a buddy that's got ADHD and depression and he's been taking Ritalin for 15 years since he was 5. Hasn't effected him. Whereas other people get really burned out and get severely dopamine sensitized. Find your sweet spot those medications are no joke. If you don't crash after, your body neurochemistry is probably more tolerant and accepting for long term use. If you're crashing after use and having m…
/r/askTRP11/07/20 07:51 AM
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Just focus on having a fun, good time. Have a plan for the future. Don't grow too attached to "friends". Move on when it's time. Never ever ever get stuck to one girl.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 06:56 AM
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Put all the RP shit aside and just be a feely, emotional human with her for a second. The fact that she found all your RP bookmarks is just cringeee......... give your girl some attention, she's gonna be an emotional wreck and needs you to be her rock, and then go back to whatever your mission is.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 11:35 PM
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Live life on your own terms, so if you're gonna study instead, the way I see it is to then be a gentleman and apologize for flaking but reschedule with her.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 11:32 PM
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You have to drive in with heavy laser-beamed eyes. You can't be a softie doesn't matter if it's her girlfriend, mom, dad, sister, who gives a fuck. She'll respect you more for NOT GIVING A FUCK and just going forward with your intentions.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 11:23 PM
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Kill them with kindness. Seriously, it's the ultimate amused mastery.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 11:18 PM
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"Tech" sales position, but you're selling fucking printers in person? that sounds fucking miserable to me. Tell this guy to go fuck himself. If you're smart study up on tech Cloud use cases, and apply at AWS/GCP/Azure, 200k+ easy if you're smart and can put together solutions for companies and offer a good sales pitch for cloud products
/r/askTRP03/07/20 01:24 AM
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Ehh he's 20 years old man. Let the kid fuck the cougar, he's probably horny as shit. that's my opinion anyways i love older women. most people would opt for younger.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 07:06 AM
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Nope. Outcome independence. Don't cum for like 7 days, you'll have enough sexual energy to escalate and get things where you want to be. Escalate in a chill nonchalant way. If she's dtf she'll be receptive to your advances. If she turns you down, have outcome independence and act like nothing ever happened. Best thing you can do as a man is not take things personal or get butthurt.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 07:02 AM
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If you see the IOI's escalate & bag her... you're fine it's just a summer job no big deal, your manager probably hasn't gotten good dick in a long time and just spends her time working. now's your chance. I'll tell you this though the eyes never lie.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 06:49 AM
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Stand on your own two feet. Be comfortable being on your own. Make it fun, happy, and productive.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 09:11 AM
2

Just be cool about it. Be a player. Be confident. It’s a breeze man don’t sweat it I’ve had plenty of threesomes. Make sure everyone is comfortable and vibing and get the sexual tensions going... don’t make it 1-sided for you, make it a pleasurable experience for all. Cheers & good luck
/r/askTRP25/06/20 07:38 AM
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You shouldn't be intimidated it's just a show. Take their mask off it's way less interesting than it seems. Every time.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 07:37 AM
2

Let's face it; you're going to need money. Plan and budget accordingly. Money is the #1 thing in these scenarios. You'll need money for rent, food, and fun. Then set some goals. And add some women in between. Rinse & repeat.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 03:47 AM
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The fact that you give them attention already gives them the upper hand. Ignore it, don't take offense, laugh it off, kill them with kindness. The annoying person just ends up looking stupid when you don't take any offense.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 03:43 AM
1

Of course psychedelics can make you more redpilled. You become aware of how corrupt the world is, laws are unjust and man-made, the U.S. is nothing more than an imperialist capitalistic empire, that nothing is sunshine and rainbows, that you're just a tool used to make "the man" more money, and you're given bread crumbs, just enough for you to survive and keep you enslaved to the system. It can be tough, harsh, and sometimes outright depressing to accept these truths once psychedelics reveal the…
/r/askTRP05/06/20 06:01 PM
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Take a small dose of LSD/mushrooms and find out for yourself. It can't really be explained but it's highly advisable.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 05:54 PM
4

This is generic investing advice. No one knows whether these index funds will hold up in the next 20-30 years considering the current economic and political climate. They might, but this putting all your eggs in one basket. It's good to max out your retirement accounts in index funds. Beyond that, other investment vehicles (high risk, high reward) are more sensible for a young person.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 05:08 PM
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Save money, be frugal, invest in experiences. (travel, books, classes) You need good credit & multiple banking relationships. That way, when an opportunity presents itself you will have the ability to capitalize on it and potentially create a revenue stream for yourself. Don't let a girl, friend, or family member, hold you back from where you want to go.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 05:05 PM
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Have genuine interest in people and what they like, and what they like to talk about. Doing that can go a long way and will give you power make them subconsciously reciprocate favors in your advantage all because you paid a little attention to them. It’s a little cycle. The book can be powerful when applied in the appropriate context. Don’t be an ass kisser, or you’ll give them too much power. But, don’t be a shut-in, or no one will care about you and you will not even be in their radar. Give th…
/r/askTRP03/06/20 01:25 AM
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Stop being a fucking pussy what is this shit. Man up, Cover your ass and take the appropriate PRIVACY measures.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 11:33 AM
1

Fear is an illusion Find some peace within yourself and stop giving a fuck. No one cares.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 09:05 AM
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Good life
/r/askTRP23/05/20 07:56 AM
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If you’re in Los Angeles, the women will be a lot more promiscuous, hypergamous, and savvy. If you’re in a city in the Midwest, not so much. However the principles still apply.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 11:05 PM
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SURPRISE!!!!! Most girls find other girls attractive enough to do sexual things with. It’s just stigmatized. Also don’t ask so many questions holy shit. In order to have a 3some you need to lead and guide her into it. That’s all it is bud. Go caveman mode. Good luck.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 07:13 AM
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Thank you Captain Obvious!
/r/askTRP11/05/20 08:19 PM
1

Sure you can. But when the fire goes out, it's time to get out.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 11:02 AM
5

Huh? Instant gratification is everywhere my guy. Getting likes on social media, matching with someone on Tinder, playing video games, watching videos, drugs. All sudden bursts of dopamine.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 07:41 AM
1

Fuck that. You’re gonna regret being mediocre later on.
/r/askTRP28/04/20 09:02 AM
1

Net worth 1M +
/r/askTRP23/04/20 10:55 AM
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Don't force or push anything, she'll pick up on it and leave, an unintended consequence. Your only leverage is to be the best man you can be. That will have her stick around.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 05:36 AM
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This is toxic and just off a bit. I think mutual respect is where it's at. Or maybe I've been brainwashed by the mainstream to think that. I can't choose for myself. I think nature's dynamic between men and women should dictate behavior
/r/askTRP22/04/20 04:48 AM
2

I disagree with you. My man here has a point. Yes, women will have their own personalities and interests, they'r not automatons, but the majority of their moulding will come from external sources (popular media, peers, parents, surrounding culture, exs) and they don't have convictions or beliefs like men will, which would be irregardless of mainstream BS. Along with that women that are attracted to you will start mirroring you like crazy. They just don't have that strong of a personality to stic…
/r/askTRP21/04/20 11:58 PM
1

Ahh there you go my man. Spot on.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 12:38 PM
2

You are the definition of a Simp. She needs to play your game. You’re playing her game. See what you’re doing wrong there? Fix it. Lifting will help.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 08:02 AM
1

Say Bye find someone else and give em the tingles.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 02:33 AM
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Feed their ego (specially in front of others), you’ll get whatever you want from them. Play it right. Don’t take it too far and always have self respect for yourself.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 02:31 AM
1

Someone’s taken psychedelics.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 08:07 AM
1

Don’t ask us all this shit. Figure it out yourself. Be a fucking man goddamit. Pussy boaaaaa
/r/askTRP14/03/20 02:31 AM
8

Channel that sexual energy into something useful or it will lead to your demise. NoFap & Semen retention is not some pseudoscience bullshit, it will turn you into a god.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 02:18 AM
134

Yeah getting laid definitely changes your demeanor in the following few days, girls pick up on it. The disadvantage is that you're less virile after busting a nut. Still cool though. On the contrary, if you haven't been getting laid or are needy, girls can "smell" that too.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 08:52 PM
1

You went full-on MDMA hippie mode. Must've took some strong stuff hahah. Most important thing: Love yourself first. Then spread the love to others. Dance around, talk to people, but DON'T overdo it. That's where you went wrong. Read the vibe and stand your ground, and don't let your guard down. But be a happy, cool person. It's ok you'll never reach your full potential without learning experiences like what you had. On to the next thing it'll go better for you don't worry! Make sure you eat heal…
/r/askTRP08/03/20 08:20 PM
5

This is the only real answer bud. The system of nature is working as it was perfectly intended to. If you’re capable, then you will smash.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 12:36 AM
1

Just act like she never found out and it never existed. Continue your day to day life don't act better or worse because of it. Keep it a mystery. She will hamster about it all day.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 03:38 PM
5

Why are you so invested in her? wtf...?
/r/askTRP24/02/20 02:30 PM
1

Just treat it with sarcasm. This is a really easy situation to handle. "We're supposed to work as a team you know. Be a team player cover up [guy's name]. Let's Get IT!!!!"
/r/askTRP24/02/20 01:00 PM
1

I don't know about your situation but I've got plenty of other options available. Current gf can fuck about if she wants, I'm not one to mateguard.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 03:44 PM
1

It's ok to have your own opinion on things! Thanks for contributing something valuable to the discussion.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 03:39 PM
3

YEAH MAN YOURE TOTALLY THE TOUGH GUY HERE YOU'RE ALL TOUGH GUYS LET'S FIGHT IT OUT FIGHT ME. LET'S GO RIGHT NOW !!!!! Nah dude. Amused mastery and de-escalating a situation will earn you mad respect and will overall leave a good impression and amuse the people watching if you're verbally eloquent and funny enough to do it. Fighting is a last resort. Don't be an attention seeker.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 02:31 PM
1

No. Move on to the next plate that actually shows interest.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 02:26 PM
0

Don't be an actual cuck. But as for being a cuck in your sex life it's up to you. I've experimented with my girlfriend and she's had no problem with it. In fact she was turned on with the fact that I could be dominant and possessive but also experience the complete opposite spectrum and let her be with another man. It's totally fine. Don't let the RP Alpha Chad Bros tell you otherwise. Quit porn though it gives you unnatural sexual desires. I know I have no shortage of pussy so I can do all kind…
/r/askTRP19/02/20 02:23 PM
4

It's not that deep girls don't think too philosophically about you. You need to just not give a fuck and be irrationally confident. Fake it till you make it. Just make sure you're working on making it, whatever that is.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 04:23 AM
5

Be in your own vibe at the club. If you're lit, the girls will surround you/come up to you or around you and test your vibe. Game them accordingly.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 03:27 AM
1

Go bang other thots. Paging /u/trpcops
/r/askTRP15/02/20 04:07 AM
3

You were sold a fairy tale bud. It's called the red pill for a reason.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 02:04 PM
1

MILFs are awesome. You should elaborate. Any IOI's?
/r/askTRP10/02/20 10:57 PM
6

Dude seriously, a thousand dollars? two thousand? that's pocket change man. hustle ferociously, you'll get there. the first time in your life you threw profit out the window.... smh... shit happens to everyone bro I just failed to close on a 60k deal, any businessman in the planet has incurred a loss you're not special. JPM had a $6billion dollar loss i really don't get the point of this. Most important thing is to just learn from it, but if you're talking about the amount... LMAO!
/r/askTRP06/02/20 04:40 PM
1

Ding ding ding!
/r/askTRP05/02/20 04:04 AM
8

Submitting to your impulses and lizard brain is indeed self sabotage. Self-awareness and having a clear mind can help circumvent this issue. A strong man is one who has control (and awareness) over his actions, and predicates his behavior on well thought out logic, to his advantage.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 04:03 AM
2

This input should revolve around your individual conversational style. As long as you keep your composure, and have a hard frame that words cannot penetrate, you’re doing the right thing. Do not condemn your critics or argue against them. You know who you are, so outside opinions do not matter, but they can help.
/r/askTRP03/02/20 11:23 AM
3

Sure. I think it’s always best to accept constructive criticism (even unsolicited) and not immediately resort to defending your actions/pride/ego unless it’s NECESSARY. Not only can you improve your life that way by hearing what other people observe about you, it makes you seem more badass and confident if you just accept it and nod your head, people will wonder why you don’t break frame. If you start saying “IM NOT WHAT YOU SAID I AM” that just comes off as beta behavior and childish, and prett…
/r/askTRP03/02/20 12:10 AM
3

Put your ego aside man. source: a hippie
/r/askTRP02/02/20 11:03 PM
20

What the fuck is this verbal diarrhea? The Red Pill really is going to shit....... Grow some fucking balls and tell her where you're going, and if she wants to come along she can. If she says no, fine, move on. She's just being friendly dude, you got the wrong impression. If you want her to be with you, you must escalate NOW or NEVER. Hit her up with a "funny pic""? are you serious? girls don't want funny pics. They want a charismatic man with a high SMV and fit body that can dominate his way th…
/r/askTRP02/02/20 11:00 PM
1

The irony in my username is was meant to imply that I’m beta. Maybe you didn’t catch the ironic part. “Don't criticize, condemn, or complain.” Cheers mate.
/r/askTRP02/02/20 04:36 AM
3

Your feelings are relative and easily modifiable. Just takes a little bit of effort and she'll be completely gone, out of your head. Listen to what the guys on here are telling you.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 01:10 PM
0

Every women is a slut/cheater. Why don’t you just accept women’s nature for what it is? Don’t be a simp.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 07:51 PM
2

Haha, if you're looking for your purpose and fulfillment you're not gonna find it chasing a hedonistic lifestyle. Plus, parties are everywhere, on every corner of the planet. Go to Vegas and get hammered, go to music festivals. Drinking at a college bar with your local Chad gets kinda boring after a while. Join a winner's circle, or hang with bosses, that shit's nice. Besides, you'll feel more fulfilled working on something in your life, that you build up from the ground up.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 12:32 PM
1

Settle down hotpants. You're losing already, mentally you're in her frame. You can't be thinking like that if you're trying to win. Definitely keep her craving you, but not too often to satisfy her itch. See her infrequently and you'll be fine. This is business as usual.
/r/askTRP25/01/20 05:59 AM
1

Respect is earned not given.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 07:00 PM
1

Money doesn't really matter man. You're asking the wrong question.
/r/askTRP22/01/20 06:10 PM
1

Dude, don't know if you're trolling or not, but here's a serious answer: Do whatever the fuck you want. There's no right or wrong answer to your personal sexual preferences.basically 99% of girls I've met say they'd be down for a MMF threesome, and it would turn them on. TRP's gonna say you're a cuck if you do it, but nah. just act on it. Definitely quit the porn. It'll make your tastes unnatural. Whatever your tastes are now just go for it.
/r/askTRP22/01/20 05:52 AM
2

Yeah man, just go out there and do your thing. Be in your own vibe/zone, but look approachable. People like it when you’re yourself and have irrational confidence; it really matter what you look like or how you perform. Just put on a genuine performance, focus on that, you’ll be alright. Source: live in big city
/r/askTRP21/01/20 04:50 AM
4

Stop being bland. You sound like a guy that doesn’t take a lot of chances START TAKING CHANCES. Get rejected. Talk to new people. Have FUN hobbies. Take a bitch skydiving. Do exciting activities. I fly planes (GA aircraft), have a motorcycle, I go kite surfing, trade stocks, play tennis, go mountain biking. Just make your life interesting. That’s step one. People will want to be a part of something you’ve built up for yourself.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 04:35 AM
1

Say controversial-type things that will eagerly invoke a response from all parties. Be a proxy for conversation. Chime in here and there.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 07:25 PM
1

Double entendres are majestic when gaming. Smart man. Good advice.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 11:41 AM
1

imo social skills get better the more frequently you approach people. it’s the only way to do it, each person you approach is a building block to making your social skills tower. Before you know it you’ll be in front of important people and think “Oh I’ve been here before!” And know exactly what to do/say. Start working on this now. You’ll fall a couple times but you’ll be flying in no time. I love rejection. Immediately after getting rejected I internalize the lessons and burn them in my brain.…
/r/askTRP17/01/20 05:02 AM
1

Step 1: Spend your time BUILDING and LIVING a fun, exciting lifestyle. Step 2: Let the girls see this. Once they do, they will come to you. Step 3: PROFIT!!!!!!!!!
/r/askTRP17/01/20 12:09 AM
11

Fucking is easy. Every girl in college is dying to get dicked down. I argue it doesn't really matter what you look like. Wanna go full god mode? Don't touch your dick/jack off for 10 days. If you can't do it, you know why you're not getting laid. Continue exercising and do calisthenics.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 12:07 AM
7

Pussy bro. Seriously? You shouldn't even be worried about a chick. Like at ALLLLL. Be the type of guy that women want to experience. TLDR bro, she's way ahead of you if you're worried about her. She needs to be worried about you. Take the L and move on like a boss.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 12:04 AM
7

Me, personally. I'm into open relationships, on either end of things. It doesn't matter. I don't give a fuck. I go about my life married, single, etc, and whoever wants to be a part of it can. Everyone else can either hop on the train or get off. I feel like this is a point a lot of people miss out on. Downvote me to shit but you guys are wayyy to dependent on women. You should be the type of guy/experience women crave. I've had my fair share of oneitis too but DAMMIT GUYS COME ON! ABUNDANCE MEN…
/r/askTRP17/01/20 12:02 AM
5

Do it in a nonchalant matter. You care too much about what the outside world thinks. Don't. Have outcome independence. They don't matter, you do. Majority of humanity fails at life and is too pussy to do anything, or take chances. Are you one of those, really? Come on man. I go by this motto "Talk to whoever you want, whenever you want, about whatever you want." Who the fuck is to say what you do? Only "God" can judge. If they pursue a conversation, you've got a valuable relationship. If they do…
/r/askTRP17/01/20 12:00 AM
3

First impressions (When conversing) are everything. Your demeanor should be that of a high SMV male. Fake it till you make it. She'll fall in love in a second if you play it right. Don't hesitate.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 11:57 PM
3

You're keeping it real with this guy. I wouldn't be surprised if he stays with her tho :\ I live in a big city full of wealth and I came to the conclusion that it's not worth chasing ANY type of LTR because with money comes power, then comes the bitches. It doesn't matter what you look like! You just need to have money to do whatever the fuck you want and everything comes into place. Just don't fall in love with money. Hardcore truth. OP get your shit straight first; then find a gf if you want.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 11:55 PM
1

Show don’t tell.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 07:03 AM
13

Hey, women LOVE unapologetic men that simply do not give a fuck. OP really could've salvaged that situation, would've been great. Don't take every fuck up at face value.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 08:14 AM
3

Yeah, really, this is it. Your mindset is what manifests your reality.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 08:11 AM
6

Realize that you're a man, with balls that drop, not a pussy or vagina. Therefore act like one. No gossiping, no holding back. Look at whoever you're speaking to directly in the eyes and say what you want and how you feel whenever it's warranted. Trust me, I used to be the biggest pussy ever and hated standing up to anything. It wasn't until I started getting stepped on for being a passive little bitch that I decided enough was enough.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 08:09 AM
5

A girl can never complete you. The sooner you internalize this the better off you will be. As a man you're supposed to have your own bases covered before you can even think of catching feelings for someone else.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 10:11 AM
5

Ever heard of a crash or comedown, desensitization to dopamine, etc. Everything comes with a price my friend.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 11:06 AM
13

ehh, you're right you CAN find interesting girls. but his points #1-6 are still correct. girls will get the edge on you if you allow them to think you share the same interest, etc, you become infatuated with them.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 11:02 AM
14

Girls aren't interesting.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 10:53 AM
5

You're born alone and you will die alone. There are no "friends" in this world. Be comfortable spending time with yourself. Learn to love yourself before you try and make friendships with anyone else. Don't be needy. People detest this. Have your own life and things to look forward to. Be more confident in what you do, no matter what it is.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 09:43 AM
10

I'd say forget girls and focus on achieving as much as possible academically and in athletics, the girls will then come to you, and remember there is a life after high school and it is so much better than right now, but if you wish to know: The girls will NOT come to you. I repeat, the girls will NOT come to you, YOU NEED TO GO UP TO THEM. High school is all about popularity so make sure you have it. Most males in HS are puny and fearful, it's a great place to have a very high amount of testoste…
/r/askTRP03/01/20 09:39 AM
-2

Real estate; know what you're doing.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 06:28 AM
2

"Too much money out here". It's a good start but find other avenues to make money.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 10:13 PM
2

You can either love women or understand them. Pick one. Also, unicorns don't exist pal.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 12:13 PM
8

Not really, don't slap labels or follow stereotypes. You can be a social, outgoing engineer. Do things that high SMV males regularly do. I kite surf, fly general aviation aircraft, go clubbing, drive fast cars. Be passionate about what you do. Don't talk about boring SE stuff on the first date though. The reason engineers are socially retarded is because their interests typically revolve around World of Warcraft, video games, and that's why their chosen livelihood is Software Engineering. If you…
/r/askTRP31/12/19 05:06 PM
2

What? Who are you to have her delete her whatsapp conversation? Her owner? Stop worrying about who she's talking to. If she wants to stay with you she will. Worry about increasing your SMV, making more money, and lifting heavier weights. The fuck is wrong with people nowadays lmao
/r/askTRP31/12/19 04:50 PM
1

You're already losing and falling into their frame by worrying about it.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 07:17 AM
1

ITT: I'm laughing my ass off at all these responses.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 08:42 PM
3

You wanna swallow a red pill? Club whores aren't interested in meeting up with you, despite exchanging snaps, they really don't care. They're just gonna go back to hanging with their regular friend group. Not unless you have the proper logistics and a fun experience to provide them with. Take it from me, I live in Miami and have exchanged hundreds of snapchats with HB10's, and got 0 interest until I got my own place and my shit straight.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 08:37 PM
2

Hahaha I like this. Should be recommended more often as a oneitis cure. Seriously, this sounds amazing.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 06:44 PM
5

It all starts from within. The moment you choose to become decisive, talk to everyone you meet, have the discipline to work out, is when you'll feel yourself becoming a man. Everything is relative, there are 8 billion people in the world. Don't get discouraged because 1 rejects you. Rejection has been the key for me to become socially confident. Anything else is all bullshit, and there is no answer to your question. Focus on knowing and understanding yourself. You will be able to handle the rest…
/r/askTRP25/12/19 06:20 AM
1

Stop mate guarding you jealous faggot.
/r/askTRP25/12/19 04:23 AM
3

Dude, why do all of you guys get so jealous? mateguarding, oneitis, jealousy, come on seriously...? I literally have had girlfriends/plates with an amazing success rate, all because I'm clear, transparent, and completely remove my ego. Plate talks to me all the time about other guys she'd fuck or wants to fuck and I listen to her about it, but she always ends up coming back to me because of my indifference to it. Call me a cuck if you want. I'm just not a jealous bastard, I understand and accept…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/19 07:16 PM
4

Look at him with complete sarcasm and make sure your acknowledgement of his inferiority is NOTICED by the group. Say something along the lines of "Yeah let you tell it man" sarcastically always gets the job done. Treat pests like pests. Don't try acting like a smart-ass and say "takes no energy to be a lazy skeptic", because people don't care about your logic. They want to see, feel, and hear experiences. You'll have to stoop down to his level, communicate in his native simpleton language, and t…
/r/askTRP21/12/19 08:42 AM
1

Nah man, it's just relative. If you make it fun, it'll be fun. If you choose to ignore or to avoid putting any emphasis on "fun", you won't get it. It's within your sphere of control to make it fun.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 05:23 AM
1

Just know, in the end: the feeling of joining the Marines will be more gratifying than having sex and partying. Choose for yourself and find out. I promise you that'll be the conclusion.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 03:56 PM
3

Holy fuck. Insane oneitis big man. None of this shit is really as grand as it seems man, she's a thot-thot, your brain is playing damn tricks on you to try and make you feel some type of way for this girl. Fuck that. Boss up. Imagine if she found out how you felt internally right now? That'd be the biggest turnoff! This is not how a man should be feeling. But it's okay. Hopefully something great will arise out of your oneitis struggle.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 06:59 PM
2

sorry for the autism, but: What exactly is teasing?; can anyone give examples?
/r/askTRP17/12/19 03:58 AM
10

Go ahead and actually fuck his bitch if you can arrange it, PLEASE. Then go up to your ex-friend (acquaintance) tell him you never fucked his ex, but because he was such a little whiny bitch about it, it seemed like an appealing idea and you did so. That'll teach him.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 05:19 AM
2

Born alone, die alone. Fuck your friends for leaving you out.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 05:15 AM
1

Just make casual, cool, friendly chat. What's the big deal? the fact that you're making it an issue does in fact make it seem autistic.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 05:14 AM
1

This is your answer, OP.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 05:14 AM
3

Take a tab of acid or 2 grams of mushrooms, you'll realize how we're all just a tiny cosmic speck and your anxiety will go away over this trivial issue; you'll thank me later.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 05:08 AM
3

Wow, phenomenal read. That last part, man. Hits different. It's true, you can't be a pussy when it comes to this. Had a girl give me the 1,000 cock stare and a ton of IOI's, then the moment she knew I was too pussy to approach she immediately cancelled her interest altogether. Geez.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 05:04 AM
1

Serious question; onion armpit smell, is that smelling like a man? Or should I wear deodorant and a manly cologne. What exactly is "smelling like a man"? Or do you mean like pheromone-and-testosterone-wise
/r/askTRP16/12/19 04:59 AM
1

Thanks for this. I usually try to make friends with girls and get shut down and placed in the "orbiter" category then wonder why? and just give up. To differentiate myself I'll definitely set boundaries and hold frame for sure. Game still applies, even platonically.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 04:36 AM
7

Sure, why not? If you've gotten close and intimate with her, it doesn't hurt to ask. Makes the experience better.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 04:32 AM
8

Not being able to take criticism, and instead resorting to immediately defending your precious ego.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 04:31 AM
2

Ultimately it comes down to one thing: SMV.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 05:46 AM
1

Somewhere fun.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 04:42 AM
2

Get a taste of success. See what it's like. Yes, you're nihilistic yes we're all gonna die one day "memento mori". What would you rather do with your time? Did it feel better when people took notice of your physique and touched your abs or would you rather have people negate your existence? If you don't value success that's fine. Someone else will (in fact people are already doing so) and they will live their best life, then die. What are you gonna do? Remain nihilistic or try and make this shor…
/r/askTRP12/12/19 04:38 AM
1

Perhaps you didn't read the part where I mentioned outcome independence. Lose it. Why do you care what it translates to? Why are you thinking it makes you lose frame? Speak your mind, grow a backbone, and hold your frame. Her coldness will turn into respect for speaking how you feel man. You gotta really live this Red Pill shit.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 10:38 PM
1

Ahh okay my misunderstanding. Then maybe you should be a decent person too, to yourself and communicate this concern to her? Although that might jeopardize the sex. Perhaps you should tell her that we don't have to be so close but I'd like you to acknowledge me as a human being too. Something along those lines lol. I don't get what's so hard about asking her and getting to the bottom of it and holding a strong frame while just conversing about it. Have outcome independence, and don't be too inve…
/r/askTRP10/12/19 10:12 PM
3

this was a hilarious read man lol.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 10:04 PM
8

Ask her a question. Then when she gives you a response. Ask her a question about that. So forth. Chime in with your own experiences confidently here and there. Make her go on and on and on. Girls are chatterboxes man. Awkwardness isn't real. You just decide to make it obvious. If there's nothing to talk about then fuck it! There's nothing to talk about lol laugh it off. what a surprise you play league of legends. ehh i figured.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 10:01 PM
1

I really don't mind or care at all. She belongs to the streets. I have fun when with a plate, and work when I'm not with one. It genuinely gives you more power if you don't care or pay no mind to it. Focus on being an enterprising individual instead.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 09:56 PM
1

What? Just answer her questions man. Keep things subtle, mysterious, and exciting. Don't be a clown. Give her answers that she'd respect. Who cares what she says. You do you and hold your frame. The rest will work itself out.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 09:54 PM
3

Dude, this isn't middle school. She's upset over contact name? really? You should've just done exactly what she asked as soon as she asked, in a compliant, confident manner (and kept your frame, "sure babygirl", change her contact & show her) so she thinks she has control over you but then you push/pull show her she doesn't. Regardless she probably wanted to be done with you and used that as her excuse and probably now riding the CC.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 09:52 PM
3

"TO BE CLEAR I DON’T WANT ANYTHING SERIOUS WITH HER ANYMORE just enjoy the nasty sex cause she lets me do ANYTHING to her." Yet you're asking what her intention is? Do you not see the juxtaposition here? She's got an ice cold heart and you want in on it. Blue pilled. Still plugged in. Next.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 09:48 PM
1

You're in the wrong, she's in the right. Stop texting like a needy weirdo. Keep things funny, confident and serious.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 09:44 PM
4

What? Are you insecure or something? If you're good enough for her she won't fuck anyone else. If you're not good enough for her, she will fuck someone else. Let her make that decision. Don't be a jealous fuck. Never mateguard.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 09:26 PM
5

take a dose of mushrooms. ~2g at least. i won't bother elaborating. trust me. edit: ok fine mushrooms basically make you realize several things. one that we are just a cosmic speck and you aren't really as important as you think you are. memento mori comes to mind. you are confronted with your own conscience and the decisions you have made and why they have been good or bad so far. you see life as a big logical tree branch of decisions that are made or can be made in order to be where you want t…
/r/askTRP10/12/19 09:17 PM
1

You met her at a club? Really...? Do you think women go to clubs to make friends with guys?
/r/askTRP10/12/19 03:12 PM
1

It's not that scary once you actually do it. She's a mortal human just like you. You're just psyching yourself out. Lifting helps with confidence approaching.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 10:14 AM
1

LMAO this is actually hilarious bro. You're good at A&A don't get choked up.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 12:10 AM
8

There's 7 billion people on the planet. Find better friends. Don't be a chump.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 09:55 PM
1

My response is always "Let you tell it"
/r/askTRP21/11/19 10:36 PM
1

The Red Pill optimally succeeds when done right by open-minded, smart, knowledgable individuals. Not clumsy eager socially autistic people. Mistake showing your friend TRP.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 08:08 AM
1

It's all relative. If you REALLY wanted to she'd come crawling back to you if you upped your game and became a 10x better version of yourself. But you're not gonna get there making posts like this and worrying the way you are right now. So get to it.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 08:04 AM
1

This is the only right answer. She's doing it because she's a submissive brat. Stop interpreting it in 1,000 different ways. Want her to do something different or your way? Train her. She'll be more than happy to do so given the proper strong guidance.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 08:01 AM
2

Hey man, just be yourself. AND REMEMBER: Socially calibrate and modify yourself and internalize lessons after every social interaction. Still be true to yourself. Just know that you have to put on a well decorated, calibrated mask when dealing with others.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 07:54 AM
2

I get what you mean. People will definitely call you crazy. Thing is some people on this subreddit aren't that true to their primal core. They're more in tune with modern societal norms. Have you taken psychedelics by any chance? Mushrooms have made me realize just how much of fucking animals we are. Weirds me out when I see tall buildings or travel in a car or airplane or deal with money. Definitely more in tune with my primal self after that. I'm hyper-aware of body language and how successful…
/r/askTRP21/11/19 07:50 AM
1

It's an evolutionary size-mate-prospect thing. Being taller is just seen as being better. Of course you can compensate for height with other things. But it's critical to looks.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 07:44 AM
1

Gonna go against the grain here and just say go ahead and do it. Priority #1 is making sure nothing interferes with or jeopardizes career prospects. Anything after that is fair game.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 07:28 AM
1

Yep. 3-day music festival took some MDMA during it. Come Monday, at a pick-up basketball game, I ended up befriended my "enemy", someone I had been beefing with and earned their respect by being amicable and feeding their ego. MDMA helps tons. New applications for upcoming clinical trials can be present in the overrated overly rated contextual trials
/r/askTRP19/11/19 09:04 PM
1

You're super blue pill dude. Start doing things for yourself and in your own interest and the girls will follow. That's why the chick rejected you, you reek of desperation. Get rid of it.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 08:52 PM
0

Nah man. Get rid of your ego first. Why do you care who gets left on read if it’s you vs. them? Wtf? Do your own thing reply and have outcome independence. Chicks dig that, when you just are confident and don’t give af. The point of the red pill is to become RED PILLED. Not act like it. You need to internalize the concepts first and not be so stuck up on such a trivial thing such as being left on read. Wtf man this is sad. You probably just live a lifestyle most girls aren’t interested in. Chang…
/r/askTRP13/11/19 05:23 AM
3

Here are some of the adventures/risk-filled activities I like to lead girls on. Keep in mind you will need money to do these. Fly planes as a hobby. Tell a girl we're going on a spontaneous surprise date and rent a propeller plane/glider for the cheap. Your life is literally in her hands, and the skill required to pilot an aircraft impresses her. 500HP tuned BMW that I drive around campus (it's a cheap 3 series). Go skydiving together (most girls haven't yet) Cycling together during critical mas…
/r/askTRP30/10/19 05:10 AM
1

Yes, but they are few and far between. If you're focused on your goals and missions, friendships will come by and appear themselves. And you'll know.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 04:57 AM
1

Sorry, but this is beyond the scope of The Red Pill. Just kidding. Sort of. If you're gonna work in Europe, see which jobs are in demand, highest paying, and match your interests. Seek a relevant degree to this. The job market in Europe is quite different than that of the U.S.. Remember DEGREE=JOB.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 05:22 AM
2

Make it whatever you want it to be. Seek friendship and companionship first, keep sexual tensions high and intentions subtle. Once you figure out her intentions you can go from there and assess the risk/reward situation from that point ongoing.
/r/askTRP24/10/19 05:00 AM
5

Wtf. yea beta mate guarding buddy. overprotective asf. imagine how she perceived you when you said she'll be going alone. what you don't understand is that by not giving a fuck, it will in turn make her find you more attractive/higher SMV IF you do it right. (exude abundance mentality and don't become jealous.)
/r/askTRP24/10/19 03:25 AM
1

Not sure I agree. Although I get the memo, I prefer being something like "cold hearted". Not necessarily rude or obnoxious, just confident in a protruded manner..
/r/askTRP23/10/19 03:41 AM
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Meet newer more reliable cool people. Dump the ones that are flaking on you. **Also; Increase your SMV so that you will be someone that guys and gals will actually WANT to be around, have other things in your life going for yourself to look forward and cling to rather than people. For me it's fitness and being a hobby pilot. You're too focused on being with "friends". My belief is something like Aristotle's; "O my friends, there is no friend." Having tons of money to do cool shit with also helps…
/r/askTRP22/10/19 04:50 AM
5

Midwest areas in the United States. Think big cities in Oklahoma, Michigan, Missouri, Utah, Colorado... Texas in some parts.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 04:42 AM
1

Dude, you're doing too much. This is taking too much of your physical and mental resources. Get back to your mission. And be more spontaneous when it comes to women, and do cool shit.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 04:40 AM
1

Ahh. It seems you must also have high amounts of estrogen. That is why you don't get this feeling of manhood that the rest of us here at TRP do. Feel sorry for you.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 02:27 AM
3

Oneitis.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 12:50 AM
4

3 A's. Attraction? making out, good attraction's there. Anticipation? you should've had her anticipating the next move via body language. check ur phone pretend u have to leave, look up at the stars momentarily, etc. Application? THIS is where you messed up. No don't use some stupid excuse or seem like a creep. Give her the freedom to decide, your job is to provide options. "Wanna go for a walk? We'll have more privacy down there." "Damn you're a good kisser we can take this back to my place if …
/r/askTRP16/10/19 09:56 PM
18

Made her catch enough feelings to let me do what I want and I turned rather toxic and masochistic, going from complimenting to degrading at a moment's notice, giving attention to other girls in front of her, etc. Don't ask me what's wrong with me lol. Billy Beta came around and treated my girl way better and snatched her, can you believe it? I had way better alpha things going than him but I definitely should've known how to treat a woman, would've kept my LTR. On to the next plate! Find a balan…
/r/askTRP16/10/19 09:42 PM
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Yeah, definitely this. Respect goes a long way. I made the mistake of being an asshole thinking it's cool but women are actually way more into kind-hearted loving respectful individuals rather than masochistic ones. I betrayed my partner's trust and she left me, hah. I think this pretty much answers OP's question.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 09:38 PM
1

Curious about the psychology/social factors behind "banging her friend", seems like a common remedy to rejection. Will it spark jealousy/spite? Anyone care to elaborate?
/r/askTRP16/10/19 09:06 PM
1

What the hell are you on about? First and foremost, decide what you want for yourself, in terms of training, education, job, whatever you're looking for. Move to that location then become a super social person. If you know you're gonna be transient, why are you looking to settle . down? Spin plates man.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 08:56 PM
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Depends on 2 things. How high your perceived SMV is. How much butterflies and tingles you give her (women are innately insecure compliment and boost her confidence thru push and pull, feelings) Last, don't abuse your power, it'll backfire. Be a fair partner. Use it responsibly. Take it from me, had a girl become my bitch, and she left my ass due to mistreatment. edit: formatting godammit
/r/askTRP16/10/19 08:51 PM
1

Psychedelics. Self reflection my man.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 08:47 PM
6

Start developing a workout routine on the regular, doesn't have to be too intense, enough to maintain your physical activity. Don't touch your dick or cum (semen retention). Don't do drugs or keep it to a minimum. Get a good amount of sleep.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 08:46 PM
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Unpopular opinion BUT She may be wanting you to dig deeper/make you work for it. Inquire with a soft, confident tone "why is it a mess with you sweetheart?". Have outcome independence, you don't care about the outcome. The moment you feel like she's not into it, dip. She may just open up to you and you can go from there.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 08:40 PM
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Fellow Miamian and MILF enthusiast here (lol). Dog parks. Workout places gym, park, etc (good place to game, show off physique). Higher-end bars. and yes, whole foods, trader joes, hell, even Publix.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 08:36 PM
2

Thanks for writing this. I didn't know the difference between being an "asshole" and straight up being toxic, ended up losing a good LTR as a result. Being toxic gets you nowhere. Well, this is TRP, on to the next plate.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 04:32 AM
1

2 grams is enough, for sure. anything more than that you're asking to experience the universe's energy and trip balls. 1.5g and a dab pen was enough for me to experience ego death, an out of body experience, and have profound revelations about myself introspectively as well as my habits and some new ideas about economics which is what i was studying prior. but yea, i would say 2 grams tops. i like to go on a knowledge binge before i trip so i reflect on all the shit kinda like this
/r/askTRP04/10/19 06:44 PM
1

Yeah shrooms will definitely do the trick. Know what you're doing, but after my 2g-ish shroom trip, i have absolutely no notion of fear/approach anxiety, any type of anxiety whatsoever, it just vanished from my consciousness. i guess having an out of body experience and then realizing we're just a cosmic speck makes you do shit you otherwise wouldn't cuz ur in ur head and being a pussy too much
/r/askTRP29/09/19 04:55 AM
2

Interesting experience Have to wonder what age group we're talking here? I've had some pretty RP encounters myself, but nothing as extreme as this, seems like an eye-opener.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 06:41 PM
4

I used to not talk to a single soul in my teens and now I'm the biggest chatterbox there is, people LOVE receiving attention. Your "social anxiety" only exists in your tiny little brain. I understand you come from a smaller town, but you're gonna need to become more social. Get to know people around the area. Don't push friends away, they might not know you have "social anxiety" but don't be a clueless dork either. You should literally talk to almost everyone you see when you're there. This is t…
/r/askTRP14/08/19 04:05 AM
6

Yes. If you're a moderately attractive guy girls throw themselves at you in certain jobs as opposed to in public. My friend works at a hotel as a bellman and gets shit like this all the time. You can be a cashier and have chicks flirt with you when they're buying their items, or a waiter at a restaurant with a group of girls have them hitting on you. You take psychedelics right? You know the schmick. You can read people's body language/manipulate/etc specially if you've taken psychs, your brain …
/r/askTRP14/08/19 03:49 AM
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No shit sherlock, you folded last minute. Don't you think things might've went your way if you weren't a little bitch about it? You probably would've fucked her in the back of your car. You had the Attraction, on the walk back you had her Anticipation, all you were missing was the APPLICATION. Anyways I've gone through some similar cringey shit so don't worry we've all been there at some point. Next time just detach yourself from the situation, don't listen to your stupid emotions, fear isn't re…
/r/askTRP14/08/19 03:41 AM
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