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I'm sorry you're finding yourself in this situation. Ask yourself, what would you do if you weren't financially dependent on him? I don't know your situation or circumstances or what's possible. Figuring out how to become less financially dependent on this person is important. Prepare for the day where you cannot rely on him and what you can do. Look up abuse shelters, so you are prepared and informed in a worst case scenario. Look into mutual aid in your local community talk to friends and fami…
/r/ExRedPill07/03/26 11:06 AM
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Marginalized people's voices are marginalized. Part of marginalization is that your voice and your experiences are decentralized, ignored and silenced. White women are experiencing marginalization due to their sex and gender, so their perspective take up less space and are given less weight than if they'd been male and men. Double and multiple marginalization, like being both BIPOC and women, intersect and amplify the marginalization, leading to much more silencing. Both systemically and algorit…
/r/ExRedPill26/02/26 11:58 AM
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To expand your media consumption and feed your curiosity on different perspectives, I wanted to share some videos that've been formative to me. You might as well check them out in between the doomscrooling, right? I highly recommend watching Edgelord Movies and the Men who Love Them I think you'll be able to relate to a lot, and will find a lot of answers and new perspectives. Based on your media consumption, I really think Pop Culture Detective would be a great entry point for you. He talks abo…
/r/ExRedPill18/02/26 03:40 PM
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OP, I get where you're coming from. I've been in a similar bog as you. And, I'm out. I'll share some pointers with you that's helped me, that I think would help you too. What I'm hearing is a lack of meaning. That's what I would address first. Connect with yourself. Figure out - What are your values? I found out what my values were in connection with other people. I was a volunteer, and I saw that I was able to make a genuine difference in someone's life. That I cared about something. That somet…
/r/ExRedPill18/02/26 03:39 PM
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It is very common to try out a few therapists before you find someone you connect with. You have the money and time to find someone. Go find them. You should both be able to find someone to vent to, and experience that you can share yourself openly without rejection. And find someone who helps you question incorrect and harmful beliefs you're carrying, and give you tools to manage life in a healthier way. A huge part of successful therapy is talking to someone you vibe with. Trying one (1) thera…
/r/ExRedPill18/02/26 01:59 PM
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I was asked in a DM; "How do you actually find someone you can resonate with?" That's a great question, that I think all of us struggle with. Especially in contemporary society where we're isolated and segregated into homogenous groups, with our social life and 3rd spaces are gatekept and put behind pay walls. The best advice I ever got, that I'll pass on to you, is Be a Lighthouse. I asked my friend the same thing 10 years ago. "How do you find all these creative, rulebreaking, playful people a…
/r/ExRedPill04/02/26 01:22 PM
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You are not undesirable. Don't adopt that mindset. It's both harmful and wrong. When two people meet and don't enter into a relationship, it doesn't mean that there's a problem, nor that that problem is one of the people. It means they're not compatible. That doesn't mean there's anything wrong with either of them - they're just not a match. It's good that you didn't get together. It would've been a waste of your time. Time you could use with people you do match with, whether it's romantically, …
/r/ExRedPill01/02/26 09:09 PM
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I'm truly sorry for the betrayal and heartache you've been subjected to. What I hear is that you've been in a unhealthy, toxic and probably abusive relationship for many years. You are 4 months past a grueling breakup with this person, and they are both callous and actively trying to hurt you. Your trust has been deeply broken and you're being treated horribly. It will take time to process and move through this. That's okay, normal and natural. This does not sound like a person who is good for y…
/r/ExRedPill22/01/26 04:14 PM
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I hope with time you'll realize that the people who lied and decieved you were men, not women. The ones who've earned your mistrust is men, not women. Since you're a man yourself, and therefore know that the men who decieved and lied to you are not representative for all men, you'll hopefully come to realize that neither men nor women are monoliths. We're all just people, regardless of gender.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/26 12:12 PM
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I have no data to back this up, so it's just the vibe I get. In my experience it seems that the 'history' and 'politics' they love and dig into is written by men for men. It's often nationalistic, romanticize and glorify war, empire, power, violent subjugation. After all, history is written by the "winners" - and a lot of history has been written down in a society where men's perspective was the "objective" perspective. There is lots of queer history, lot of minority history, lot of women's hist…
/r/ExRedPill07/01/26 11:51 AM
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Ah, that makes sense. So your message is "There are good, healthy, non-toxic, wholesome ways of approaching women IRL" rather than "The red pill is not all bad, it's actually on to something".
/r/ExRedPill27/12/25 03:05 PM
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