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Yea you right. The thing is, the car is an essential purchase right now bc his current one is literally falling apart. I’m gonna have a talk with him about it bc i havent brought this issue up once yet. i probably should have gone to a different sub for advice, bc this is the healthiest relationship ive had and like i said he has paid for pretty much every date since we met with very few exceptions, like this man goes out of his way to make my life better. he’s just been dropping the ball lately…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 12:35 AM
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I dont doubt this at all given how creepy guys have been toward me throughout life. Im sorry that happened to you 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 06:30 PM
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UGH what the actual fuck. I hope he got arrested for this. Also, in the first 15 or so seconds after he said “snapchat? twitter?” he also asked her if she had onlyfans. 🤢 I fr hate this so much. depraved
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 04:56 PM
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every part of this song and music video sucks… it’s unfortunate bc her freestyle is incredible and she’s really talented yet this stuff only keeps hurting women in society
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 04:05 AM
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love this, love you. hope you find some peace soon ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 01:33 AM
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thank you girlie ❤️ i hope you do the same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 03:25 PM
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ugh guys. I'm feeling pretty down right now. My ex looked at my linkedin a few days ago and it really ruined my mood/ has been making me think about him lately. its been almost 2 years
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 02:01 AM
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i just had to cut a guy ive been talking to off because of a few weird comments he was making here and there. I thought at first i was being overly hyper-vigilant but then he made a “step sis” comment today. I’m pretty disappointed. but whatever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 10:29 PM
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yeah you’re so right! lmao even a lot of rom coms have relationship elements that encourage toxic behaviors
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 04:03 PM
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yes.. its actually neurotic when you think about it. true love is a lot more rare than we were taught to believe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 03:39 PM
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this sub has opened my eyes to a lot but the message in this video is by far the most important. As a society we’ve collectively allowed ourselves to be convinced marriage is one of the ultimate end goals, which couldnt be farther from the truth. Out of all the people married today id be willing to bet less than half of them are truly happy or right for each other. It’s going to take a while for me to accept that ill either find the right person or be alone forever but im glad i know it now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 02:17 PM
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am i the only one who interpreted this as satire? hes making a joke of ppl who are uncomfortable by it right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 03:05 AM
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men like this think theyre the only ones with baggage lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 10:15 PM
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Stunning ring & nail combo queen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 01:32 AM
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I walked away from a guy i had been talking to after he told me this. We had some really good dates, got along really well and texted a lot over a month or so, so it was kind of painful but im so glad i learned to walk away thanks to this sub. “Not labeling things” is such a cop out, they just want relationship benefits with no risk or obligation on their part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 07:39 PM
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i honestly missed that part of the story. thats terrifying. UGH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 06:02 AM
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this dude is obviously a scumbag but this is exactly why you ALWAYS say no to going to someones place or having them over at yours
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 05:29 AM
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reflecting on those times feels like god putting you in a chokehold 😫 all it means is that we’ve grown though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 06:27 PM
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this hurt, sorry that happened to you. why do they lie like this? how little value their words have... :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 06:08 PM
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he somehow managed to put every red flag we look out for in this one message
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 05:17 AM
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i personally just straight up hate being asked questions like this in a dating context. If we're talking that means we're both obviously interested in each other. Questions like these slowly suck the fun and mystery out of getting to know someone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 04:00 PM
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This is disgusting. HE belongs to the streets. and he will hopefully never find someone to tolerate this nonsense again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 08:00 PM
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point blank period! I did it once cause it’s so normalized and afterwards i felt empty & used. You should only be giving such a vulnerable part of yourself to people who actually care about and deserve you, the sex is always better when you do that too. it’s just disturbing to see so many people treat it as if its something meaningless
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 04:12 PM
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my dream for the world is that hookup culture dies out because this shit is not good for anyone involved
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 03:43 PM
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all of them are HVM in the first few months 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 03:25 PM
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to men, promiscuity= the fact that you’ve had sex in the past ☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 04:28 PM
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this is legitimately sickening. especially to joke about leaving those photos on her grave what the fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 07:00 PM
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Asha is such a pure soul! i love her, plus she interacts with everyone in the comments
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 03:01 PM
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oh yeah. spf every day. like sorry i dont want my skin to look like a leather purse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 04:47 AM
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you are my inspiration. the sister i never had, the friend everyone wants. ugh your power!! you seriously handled this in such a boss way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 06:53 PM
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girl i feel you and i swear its so fucking annoying. The lukewarm interest ruins it every time. study it up queen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 05:30 PM
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I would love to see more wholesome stuff like this on the sub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 03:34 PM
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those pigs should continue to live in their own slop until they clean it themselves wtf. people like that don't even appreciate a clean house
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 02:51 AM
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I come across so many gross posts here but this particular one has me seething. How can you treat your wife like that? How can you be so blatantly disrespectful of someone else's privacy, of someone else's body.... this makes me sick. Him and his friends are all disgusting for that behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 02:26 PM
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why do people hate themselves so much? if you've ever had loving sex you'd never want that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 02:25 PM
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shes so smart and beautiful!! a true queen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 03:51 AM
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ugh i was this way and i am still in the process of forgiving myself for it. i think a lot of us are
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 11:50 PM
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I just know this guy smells
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 01:47 PM
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girl i just teared up reading this. Sounds like he really loved you and you were both lucky to have each other. A year is not a long period of time at all. I can't imagine moving on from anything like that quickly. Take care of yourself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 04:55 AM
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Notice how david had 0 context but automatically sided with the dude she went on a date with lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 05:53 PM
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For real. Sometimes i try to talk about the things we agree about unanimously here (porn, the disparity between men and women, etc) outside of this group and im met with so much backlash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 10:45 PM
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This is sooo true. I've often seen other men say this as well and it has always gotten me down. it only seems like a man will act right for the "right woman" because in actuality you're looking at two clowns in a circus
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 03:51 AM
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😂😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 04:18 AM
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What i wouldn't give to see the look on his face when he read that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 12:13 AM
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This is one of the most important lessons i've gleaned from this sub. When someone loves you, they'll show it. They'll be there for you as much as you are for them. None of this maid or housewife bullshit when you're both grown adults who work
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 03:03 AM
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I regret it too. Ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 03:20 AM
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#5 ☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 09:59 PM
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Laughing at dusty is busted 🤣My ex is so ugly now. i really lowered my standards
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 02:45 AM
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Are they all beating their dicks when they type out messages like this? I have gotten many similar to this on there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 02:37 AM
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FR.. we get made fun of for caring about people
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 02:23 AM
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some people are using your post to condescendingly stand on their soap boxes. Sending nudes is dangerous. We already know this now. Unfortunately some of us trusted our ex partners with them in the past before knowing this. I understand and sympathize with you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 04:48 PM
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You are the hero we deserve and need . A watchful protector
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 03:00 AM
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I cant read all of a sudden, i dont know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 02:39 AM
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Not me having sex once and i was sore so it hurt and the dude noticed but said “im almost done”💀🚮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 04:11 PM
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Saw this on twitter and immediately thought of this group, im not surprised to see it on here. So disappointing to see this tweet have as much interactions as it did. Its sad and gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 09:07 PM
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sorry you've had to go through this. but i just want you to know your comment provided me with some comfort. I've been slowly moving on from my ex for the past year and i still think about him every day. Its really good to be reminded I'm not the only one experiencing this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 02:51 AM
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i don't want any part of that. i don't understand why men thrive in relationships where women are bitchy/ mean to them. I mean props to the women who can do that but that goes against every fiber of who i am! id rather stay single than be cold to my partner/ play hard to get.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 02:31 AM
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emphasis on the instagram comments thing. i have to unfollow so many big meme pages because of the sexist garbage in the comments
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 01:04 AM
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You handled it really well. Its sad to think some people would accept these last minute “dates”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 03:31 AM
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Wow, taco bell, beer... AND netflix?? There is nothing inherently wrong with liking this stuff but its not a personality trait either... man i really do feel bad for her. I think we all kinda behaved in similar ways ourselves in the past. Why have we been indoctrinated by society to think that liking things of higher quality= bad?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 03:07 AM
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Wow. That one comment that said “improve yourself so you can improve the quality of men you date” how is it always somehow deflected back onto us? your rant is so valid. Ive been on wayy too many dates with crusty dudes who have put 0 effort into their appearance and/or brushing their teeth, that has nothing to do with us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 04:49 AM
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oh man imma have to leave this sub soon from how many flashbacks I'm getting. You did the right thing. that's no way to treat someone, and that's something that no amount of "communication" on anyones end will be able to fix.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 02:01 AM
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oh man the more i learn about this guy.. its all trash. Please do!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 08:06 PM
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wish i could hug you and shit talk our exes all night. Im so sorry that happened to you. He sounds so fucking manipulative! He might live guilt free but he'll also live a life not ever having experienced true, genuine love for another person. It makes sense that your relationship felt good in the beginning, we're conditioned from birth to give more than we receive and put other's needs before our own. Im really glad you realized how bad he was and got out before he wasted any more of your time. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 07:47 PM
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AHHH yeah I completely relate. Many times i felt like he used me as a status symbol around his friends instead of an equal partner. He never put me before his friends once. Did you realize this stuff was happening during the relationship or only after some reflection once it ended? I agree with you on the leaving with no guilt thing. Theres something about the fact that they got off scott-free that takes a long time to heal from. And not receiving any sort of apology for how you were treated jus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 07:25 PM
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My ex was similar to yours in some ways. Not a narc but cared very much about his work and career. I thought he was handsome, and he treated me pretty well. I love people with ambition so i fell very hard for that, it is a good trait to have. That same level of dedication wasnt very present in other parts of his life. He had some bad drinking habits and didnt make me a priority much at all. I dont expect anyone to rearrange their life for me but i realized after our split that he barely lifted a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 06:22 PM
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Took me almost a year of healing to fully grasp this. You ALWAYS win when you take the high road and just walk. Nothing but good comes from it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 02:06 PM
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ew, this goes beyond NVM and is straight up rapey. No means no. How would he even feel if he had to literally beg you to have sex and you acquiesced? I mean he probably wouldn't care, but yuck. If its meant to happen you should never have to pester someone that much for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 05:33 PM
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lol i did pickme shit back in January to ring in the new year. It's embarrassing, but at least we recognize we were doing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 01:17 AM
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you are beautiful! you deserve someone who cares about their living space just as much as you. Proud of you for realizing you need more than this, queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 01:30 PM
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Thank you for this incredibly thoughtful reply. I agree with all of this. There isn't something inherently wrong with us, it's that the men we're looking for are much harder to find
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 02:40 PM
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Thank you, all these replies are making me feel better about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 07:21 PM
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The advice we give on FDS give isn't about 'avoiding imperfect men'. Nobody is perfect. This person is greatly undermining the type of men we are trying to avoid. the men who will use you and then discard you in search of something better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 07:22 PM
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fully intend on doing this. Ultimately I'm living my life for me but that years later revenge glo up is really gonna hit different
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 03:53 PM
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LIT RALL LEE! it mentally drained me and fucked with my peace so much. Most of the time it really isn't worth it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 03:50 PM
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I will never understand how pointing out shitty male behavior=man-hating. We don't hate men. We hate shitty men, which there are a lot of. The only ones who would be insulted must exhibit some of these behaviors themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 10:03 PM
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Lol i dont talk to people like this. This “woman” is assuming that all other women are borderline verbally abusive to their partners, and therefore its our fault If we’re dating a man who doesnt listen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 12:43 PM
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i laughed but it hurt a little cause i was like this in the past 🗿
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 04:09 AM
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I believe that sometimes when men break up with women they come to regret it. But usually when us women break up with a man we have a damn good reason (or multiple reasons) and we don’t usually tend to look back. You probably put up with his minimal effort for longer than you wanted. Im proud of you for making an incredibly difficult decision for your own well-being. you’re going to be okay ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 10:27 PM
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Trust me im currently struggling with this on tinder. Its almost impossible to have high standards and meet someone worth my time on there so i might just give up altogether. I used to be the person who would get screwed over too. Good for you though, you know what to do from now on ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 05:05 PM
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Ewwwwww the things he said to you were so insecure. I hope you’re not going on a date with him. This reminds me of so many NVM I’ve met off tinder. He’s literally projecting his past relationship shit onto you with that whole “you’ll probably ignore me” comment even though he doesnt even know you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 12:01 PM
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This is great, good to be reminded of this stuff. Thank you for sharing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 11:47 AM
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Thats a good point. I have nice pics up but they arent suggestive at all. Its all about the image and i figure the right dude would appreciate those pics in a sea of pickmes offering to show their buttholes. Idk like arent these guys bored ? We’re all in quarantine still.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 03:39 AM
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Im currently having this problem tbh. Not sure what the solution is. Why is it so hard to find someone to maintain a convo with?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 03:27 AM
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Yeah naw.. the “quit life with randoms” thing is so weird. Wtf does that mean? Probably would’ve been a bizarre date in person
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 03:23 AM
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Its good to know im not alone in this. Its harder to let go when you know theyre not absolute garbage men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 04:51 PM
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Yeah reading this was the opposite for me. It was hard for me to get over my ex mainly because he wasnt like a lot of men i’d met. Very goal-oriented and motivated. Smart and pursuing an extremely difficult phd. But i think he was still insecure, he got a great deal of validation from telling my family and other people his major bc it impressed them so much. He was an alcoholic workaholic. I gotta keep telling myself that. Although he had a lot of good things going, he still wouldve dragged me d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 02:49 PM
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Proud of you!! You were literally asking for the bare minimum. If he was REALLY into you he wouldnt dare risk fucking it up at all. Period. Im honestly so happy for you. Feel the pain and grieve but keep reminding yourself that you did the right thing for your happiness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 08:20 PM
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What the fuck. LVM will literally give you the bubonic plague and not give af
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 02:11 AM
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You’re right, and I do rely on my friends a lot. But a few of my really close ones have relationships so at the end of the day they have someone to go home to, you know? im gonna try to keep working on being more secure with myself but i also dont think theres anything inherently wrong with wanting a romantic partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 02:18 AM
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Companionship is really it for me. Someone there for you, who enjoys your company just as much as you enjoy theirs. Thats what i want. Hard to find organically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 01:18 AM
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... i am beyond shook
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 02:54 AM
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y’all hear that? Sounds like circus music ..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 02:00 AM
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Yeah I completely agree. He probably went from “ehh i can do better” to “SHIT, she’s the best I can do now!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 01:59 AM
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Oh god lots of mixed emotions with this one. He dumped her after a few months of dating, and 2 months later this brings them together? Regardless if he expressed regret for hurting her, she should’ve taken some time to heal. He didn’t want to be with her when he was healthy. It seems like they are very happy but would he be with her had he not been injured like that? Idk. She clearly cares about him a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 01:42 AM
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You dont like [completely unacceptable behavior]? good luck getting married some day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 09:44 PM
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Makes me sad whenever i hear about it or when my friends make “jokes” about it. Women have so much more to offer than this. Onlyfans, porn and hookup culture in general are all equally detrimental to our image and the way men continue to perceive us in society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 06:24 PM
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Have you thought about getting some advice from a domestic violence life line or women’s shelter near you? For some reason i kinda glazed over the part where you said he was hitting her when he gets angry. you can either call or online chat with them and they are there to listen, its completely confidential. https://www.thehotline.org/help/ They would probably be the best people to help both you and your mom get things in order before its time for you both to leave. Stay strong til then
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 06:29 PM
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All you can really do in this situation is be there for your mom. It sounds like she needs to divorce him but that decision has to come from her. Im really sorry you have to deal with this. Its hard when you realize your parents are just as flawed as everyone else. Please dont give up on dating or marriage because of this though. There are good men out there who aren’t like your father. Is there a way you can distance yourself from him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 06:12 PM
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And the thing is, the women who go to that sub for advice usually always have significantly worse, horrifying stories about their SO when compared to the men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 05:58 PM
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My father is a LVM. I think more are than not. He cheated on my mom and has jumped from woman to woman ever since. He’s literally incapable of being alone. It drives me nuts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 05:56 PM
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I’d rather keep my dignity than send a paragraph to someone who doesn’t care
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 10:29 PM
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yes! r.h.sin (more about the types of dudes to avoid and dealing with heartbreak) and thefemalehusters, which is basically FDS material
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 02:17 AM
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LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 02:24 PM
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Thats a fair point. I guess it just seems like common sense to me. Its sad to think even still with a higher amount of women both in the workforce and graduating with college degrees we are always the ones put in the position of having choose between careers and aspirations and being child caregivers/housewives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 01:56 AM
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I fail to see how this doesn’t apply to any sane woman. We all have to focus on our careers, we cant sit around floating through life on autopilot hoping for a man to sweep us off our feet and provide for us someday. This is the way I see FDS as a whole, you either find a supportive partner or you stay single, anything less is not only not worth it but neither parties will be satisfied with the arrangement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 01:45 AM
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this is actually a really good way of reframing it. I guess it just seems like there are so many less options now, even though there werent many there to begin with. i was just blind to a lot of the bullshit before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 09:22 PM
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We dont hate men. We hate shitty men. Therefore I dont see why any guy would feel threatened by thi- oop
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 04:24 AM
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Proud of you. You can tell a lot about a person’s character by how they behave when they leave your life. You already got a glimpse of what he was like, but i think the fact that he hasnt fought to be with you shows his unworthiness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 06:27 PM
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Omg girl. Run. My ex was very close with his friends in almost an unhealthy way like this. He could not integrate our relationship into his life without them always being at the center. and i do believe that was a large reason why our relationship ended
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 02:47 AM
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Every time i see shit like this i just think... this is what im surrounded with ?? People are so vulgar, its sad. And when pickmeishas respond to these types of messages dudes send they see no reason to correct their behavior. FDS has really changed the way i see this. What happened to talking to each other normally ??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 04:59 AM
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Trying to establish that you’d like even a MODICUM of respect is like swimming upstream on that app i stg..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 03:29 AM
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I really hope she dumps his ass but I'm not sure if she will. Women make excuses for men like this all the time. One of my friends has a LVM boyfriend who did nothing for her for valentines or her bday and upset as she was she is still with him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 01:36 PM
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I agree with the other comments here. You will learn this at your own pace but men usually tell you VERY quickly the type of people they are, in subtle and not-so-subtle ways like this. You can either take the advice now or learn for yourself down the road
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 03:58 AM
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:) love the energy, thank you for this. I hope you are able to stay away from your ex as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 04:23 PM
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Good to know im not alone, thank you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 04:21 PM
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Isnt that how it always works? Ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 03:34 PM
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Wish I could give u a hug. I know that feeling. you deserve better especially at a time like this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 03:27 PM
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i know. Ive made it almost a year without talking to him. This whole thing is really the nail in the coffin. It shows me he doesnt care at all but ive kinda figured that for a while
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 03:15 PM
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Imma keep holding out on texting but damn its hard. Thanks for sharing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 12:28 PM
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Not really mean but hilariously awkward: had plans to get dinner and walk to some bars for drinks with a dude. We went dutch when the bill came and the date was just all around awful?? I dressed so nice and spent time getting ready and he was dressed like a clown- im talkin dad jeans with bright yellow running sneakers. And to make things worse he was giving me bedroom eyes a few times while we were talking. After dinner he was like “where we going next?” And i just said, “Im gonna go home. im n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 02:14 AM
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im really kicking ass in school and at the gym lately. And ive become really passionate about cooking over time. It literally gets so me excited to make healthy food and plan out meals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 03:03 AM
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She’s fine with it guys! Thats why im not wearing my wedding ring
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 04:24 AM
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Judging solely from this post, you are not only a queen, but perhaps the best person i know. keep it up cause you’re doing God’s work
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 03:19 AM
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Made my day tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 02:58 AM
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Many women dont realize the power that they possess though, and accept this bad treatment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 02:51 AM
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my veins are poppin out of my forehead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 02:46 PM
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this is kind of interesting because all of the very nice dates ive been on have involved me and someone else going to multiple places in one night. Always unplanned tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 03:06 AM
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what a great mindset :) i hope i can get there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 08:42 PM
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Always directed at the men. I support all women out here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 05:48 PM
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sounds fake but okay
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 08:15 PM
5

Oh man this hurts when your ex responded like a hvm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 02:06 PM
9

Wait so you’re telling me... men that put money and invest in dating... tend to be more serious about dating? Haven’t heard of this one before!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 01:28 PM
3

I was blinded by how much i cared about him. It happened slowly, over a long period of time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 02:02 AM
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I know i used to get this excuse constantly when i was just expressing how i felt 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 04:52 PM
459

“Well now i feel like shit”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 03:55 PM
4

He sounds like a very kind person. I dont think intellect matters as much as long as you make each other happy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 03:22 AM
6

Lol yup. Deleted tinder like 2 weeks ago and im already feeling urges to get back on and try again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 02:34 AM
1

Hahaha oh man, i like you. 😂Im really sorry you have to be alone during this time but you WILL come out of this shit on top in a much better place than him and I guarantee it. Just from hearing your description of him he wont be able to find anyone better than you or even on your level again. I hope you’re doing something to treat yourself these next few days
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 02:31 AM
6

You are not a mug. You made a sacrifice for someone you loved to make your relationship easier, and he is so useless and lazy he cant even respect the bounds of a relationship with someone who moved to be with him. If anything he is the one who made himself look like an idiot. And yes the first few weeks will fucking suck. Im so sorry this has happened to you, nobody deserves that. Listen to podcasts, work out, take advantage of the fact that you’re free from that dead weight of a man and in a b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 01:46 AM
3

Friends and family are crucial right now. Write out all your feelings whenever they come up but id strongly suggest not texting him or talking to him again. Not only does he a.) not deserve it, but b.) he most likely wont care. You seem rational but i just gotta emphasize you shouldn’t waste any effort on sending him any texts or long paragraphs. My ex ended our relationship almost half a year ago and looking back on it i am SO glad i didnt give him the satisfaction of knowing how much he hurt m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 01:27 AM
29

Living a successful life is the best revenge. Dont do anything petty to get back at him right now. I promise you It’ll feel good momentarily but you’ll look back on it and cringe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 01:12 AM
9

Same 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 11:28 PM
32

need more wholesome content like this on here ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 11:22 PM
28

Hey girl. He might sound impressive on paper but this dude obviously has some introspection problems he either refuses to address or is too ignorant to. You did the right thing by not letting him back in your life on his whim. I feel like guys like this dont have the ability to recognize when they have a good thing until its too late- if ever. They date women for superficial reasons whereas we date them because we are attracted to them, enjoy their personalities and genuinely like them as people…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 11:20 PM
15

is this supposed to be a burn? Lol they are allowed to look. They should see the behavior we have to put up with regularly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 02:21 AM
23

Makin a meme about my partners laziness to cope with my growing resentment✌️🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 07:07 PM
18

seriously lmao... reminds me of that quote from I, robot “Can a robot write a symphony, or take a canvas and create a masterpiece?” Sonny: “Can you?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 04:59 PM
22

Theres so much wrong with this but the fact he doesn’t even know the real reasons why women want to get married just dismisses the validity of his argument
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 04:02 PM
10

Oof, this hits in some painful ways. First of all, I understand your stance. I think everyone has been hurt by someone at some point in their lives. You cant let fear make you believe this though. I dont believe good men are “one in a million”, if they were all of us would’ve given up at this point. I do, however, believe they are pretty hard to find. Thats why we have FDS in an attempt to weed them out. This is hard for me to weigh in on because i understand both sides of it completely. Its lik…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 11:50 PM
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Not too long ago i was taking a walk in a park when this guy’s two dogs came over to say hi. Him and I talked a little bit and in that brief conversation he mentioned how he loved taking walks in that specific park cause him and his wife used to do it all the time. I think she died of cancer or something similar. He said something along the lines of “she’s my heart and soul, she keeps me going everyday.” this was a month or two after my ex dumped me and I almost started bawling. Thats true love.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 09:26 PM
8

:( that hurt to read. Im sorry that happened to you, you seem like a good person to do that and fortunately that cant be taken away from you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 03:04 AM
72

sometimes i hope this is how my ex feels when/if he ever thinks about our relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 05:03 PM
98

a friend you can also bang? Exclusively?? Lmao men like this think they invented a new term for a relationship. They just want to get out of the commitment aspect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 09:07 PM
12

Funny cause my friend has a boyfriend who does all of these very sweet sentimental things like you’ve described. I used to mail letters to my ex all the time and he’d thank me for them on the phone but never wrote back🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 06:24 PM
3

Hadnt considered some of those, and you’re right. It sucks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 06:19 PM
7

Really? Idk i feel like their bad behavior is only documented more because of the internet. But you may be right, fwb situations are normalized now and its making them lazier than ever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 05:01 PM
19

right. I feel so much less lonely knowing there are other people out there who go through the same things, and we all have a common goal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 03:40 PM
5

Damn all my ladies on here have been hurt by lvm in the past. Im truly sorry. We’ll do better next time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 07:12 PM
34

Wow, good for you for getting out of a bad situation. I get what you mean though. Its been like 6/7 months since my breakup and i miss sex/ cuddling so much. Vibrators are great but they just simply cant replace the feeling of human touch and intimacy. i wont be caught in a fwb situation, and hookups are so empty. It sucks girl. Im with you in solidarity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 06:59 PM
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Lol this is me to a tee, and i don’t think there’s much wrong with this. Just dont let it consume your life. I started running/ going to the gym after he left, now ive lost 20lbs and got toned and i feel so much hotter honestly. I hope for your sake he does regret it, but you wont let him back into your life to hurt you again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 06:37 PM
11

gonna get that second sentence tatted on my lower back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 04:26 PM
26

The only reason why FDS exists is because we want to find men who are good people?? Why be psychotic about manipulating women when you could just go to therapy instead...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 08:57 PM
20

Oh jesus girl i feel your pain :( im so sorry. I thought i was dating a HVM too. Id mail so many thoughtful letters & cute postcards to his apt at school.. i sent him goodnight texts even if we hadnt talked that day, made playlists for him, got him gifts and clothes randomly because i loved him so much and everything reminded me of him. Not once did he ever send a return letter in the mail. I didnt mind at the time but looking back on it i think it did affect me and i feel like a fool for giving…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 06:40 PM
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Love how she manages to work the “he’s not perfect” line into like the 3rd sentence lmao. I wont settle for this reason. Its not one person’s job to take care of a house you share collectively in every way with someone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 06:34 PM
16

so disappointing.. giving all your love either makes you weak to them or they get easily bored with you. Yikes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 06:02 AM
3

Woo by Rihanna and upgrade U by beyonce
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 05:58 AM
20

It sucks but i dont have many ways of meeting other people in my day-to-day life 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 03:40 PM
1

Lol this hit hard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 05:46 AM
9

You’ll have moments where you think of it and go “WHAT THE FUCK WHYYY did i do that??” But then someday you wont care. Its okay, if he left you on read he doesnt matter and you can move on knowing you didnt make any rash decisions regarding your relationship. I accidentally liked my ex’s pic on instagram. It was him with some unknown girl, this was like 4 months into no contact and oh my godddd i felt like such an idiot. It happens though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 03:23 AM
6

This is a really good perspective that i havent even considered yet and i understand it completely. I remember how i was after my breakup, You’re so right. Thanks for the advice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 11:14 PM
4

Thank you for this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 09:17 PM
4

I know im torn! but this is more along my line of thinking right now. He hasnt said any creepy or perverse things and hes really funny ahhh. Also the only guy who has carried the conversation on with me for more than a few days so like 🤷‍♀️I know i gotta trust my gut but its also nice to get the reality check from everyone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 09:02 PM
1

I was planning on this, im still not sure about it but i dont think i have anything to lose
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 05:29 PM
8

Hey everyone thanks for the feedback, I really appreciate it :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 04:48 PM
1

Lmaooo what a dunce
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 09:23 PM
38

“She needs to drop a few” Says the bald man with the muffin top
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 01:53 PM
8

Aw this is great im so happy for you. Isnt it funny that getting into a less trusting/more discriminatory mindset when it comes to the men we date actually gives us better opportunities and more hope? Very inch resting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 06:57 PM
0

Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 12:06 AM
23

Pretty sure the last time anyone in my family saw my father cry was 9/11 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 08:04 PM
23

Just happened to one of my close friends. They dated for 9 years/ lived together and her bf didnt want to marry her. You wont ever catch me in that situation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 03:23 PM
1

This is the best way to put it. There is just something so off about a woman proposing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 08:39 PM
9

“Because other positions are too difficult for him or will give him a heart attack” i actually laughed out loud. True though. Not taking care of yourself is beyond unattractive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 12:45 PM
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