The truth!

RavenAva · 2020-10-09T02:27:48+00:00

Oh man, does this hit home! I haven’t dated in years, but the last two relationships I was in, I felt like the men were looking for someone to fill the position of wife and it didn’t matter too much who they were.

I was kind and agreeable and I think that’s all they saw. They didn’t get to know me as a person or show any real interest in getting to know me on a deeper level, but they wanted a wife.

(This was all pre-FDS, btw.)

wolfie379 · 2020-10-09T02:22:55+00:00

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funky_worms · 2020-10-09T03:03:48+00:00

This is one of the most important lessons i've gleaned from this sub. When someone loves you, they'll show it. They'll be there for you as much as you are for them. None of this maid or housewife bullshit when you're both grown adults who work

2020-10-09T06:49:48+00:00

This is sadly so true. And then they’ll protest that actually they do love their wife......no you love what she does for you and how she enables you to live your life unchanged.

SayNad · 2020-10-09T14:25:41+00:00

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Prinnykin · 2020-10-09T12:09:30+00:00

I was just thinking the same thing!

My ex said he doesn’t want to marry me even though he loves me, because I’m not attractive enough. He said he wants to marry a hot Spanish or Brazilian.

They marry for looks, it’s not love.

gcsubthrow · 2020-10-09T15:25:45+00:00

Is this the same guy who made the scissors on the grass tik tok? Men never pull their weight. Glad this one is calling it out.

ayhtdws1989 · 2020-10-09T20:10:17+00:00

fuckin pathetic

SaulHun916 · 2020-10-11T01:51:21+00:00

Even though love is the ideal, I notice it factors very little into marriages in the cultures where it’s espoused. Either that or these guys have a messed up idea of what love is.

nihilistic_outlook · 2020-10-12T11:42:26+00:00

They will be a spouse to a woman who cooks and cleans for them for twenty years and STILL be hung up on the girl that rejected him in his early twenties

shortywannarock · 2020-10-09T03:34:02+00:00

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Title	The truth!
Author	bluegemwalruscamp
Upvotes	889
Comments	30
Date	October 9, 2020 1:58 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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