Beware the "forever date."

glazedhamster · 2020-02-07T20:52:42+00:00

Wasn't there literally a post about this just the other day? A user went out with a guy and ended up spending like half the day with him hitting up all these different spots. I specifically remember advice along the lines of "he's trying to multiply the 'bonding' effect without putting in the effort for multiple dates, get out of there."

w0manifest · 2020-02-07T20:31:28+00:00

I just feel like this seems like you have no plans are are setting him up to think that you're overly available

Also if you hit enough places, that's more opportunities for women to be tempted to pull out their card and offer to pay for something, or having him ask (after you spent 5 hours of your time with him).

delicateearthbabe · 2020-02-07T20:32:39+00:00

Sounds nice, good idea for a night out with the girls.

themissdaydreamer · 2020-02-08T00:50:07+00:00

multiple locations to build rapport? more like seeing them being boring and uninteresting in different environments so we can vet them faster

anyway it's not like I have enough social battery for such things, so anyone who try to drag me around like a horse will get a big NO and watch me head back home

Sarahthegreen · 2020-02-08T02:56:21+00:00

This was me today playing Pokemon Go. Moving around to new locations constantly. Wonder how they'd feel if someone pulled out the game?

hilariouslystated · 2020-02-07T22:04:29+00:00

Bookmarking this.

kht777 · 2020-02-08T22:20:19+00:00

Solid advice! Just made me think of that 30 rock scene where Jack advises Liz to "never go with a hippie to a second location" 😂

funky_worms · 2020-02-08T03:06:43+00:00

this is kind of interesting because all of the very nice dates ive been on have involved me and someone else going to multiple places in one night. Always unplanned tho

thewetdog_ · 2020-02-10T17:05:26+00:00

I’d just reply that in the age of the new coronavirus I don’t want to be shuffling from one crowd of people to the next.

Title	Beware the "forever date."
Author	Ishouldbewriting83
Upvotes	68
Comments	14
Date	February 7, 2020 8:24 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/f0gabj/beware_the_forever_date/
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