DATE PARTNERS, NOT PROJECTS 👏🏻

TheOGJammies · 2020-05-15T13:20:41+00:00

This is so cringe. We shouldn’t have to create strategies and pitch speeches on how it would benefit them to contribute to basic household maintenance and a step by step PowerPoint guide. He needs to do it because he’s a fucking adult who lives there too. Honestly fuck this whole video.

alichuchu · 2020-05-15T14:42:52+00:00

this is how you speak to toddlers, not grown men. how embarrassing.

Delicious-Scholar · 2020-05-15T12:53:43+00:00

The “consequences” needed the most work I think.

chickenery · 2020-05-15T15:14:06+00:00

If your partner is really like this, just dump him and adopt a special needs child. Your lifestyle will not change much, but you’ll be doing a far more noble thing.

RegularStatus5 · 2020-05-15T15:32:37+00:00

Imagine needing to explain to an adult why a clean living space benefits them.

upgradingjewel · 2020-05-15T14:44:02+00:00

HAHAH I refuse to mother any man like this. If he doesn’t want to take the trash out I’ll do it and I’ll start with him. If a man can’t see past his own “binary thinking” (aka excuses for being lazy) and only focuses on the things that bring him “value” I don’t want him in my space...no thanks!!

timeknife · 2020-05-15T12:54:10+00:00

Lol I’ve never had to do this because I don’t date toddlers

draylth · 2020-05-15T16:30:11+00:00

Men rule most of the world and hold the most power... But somehow are also expected to be too stupid to perform simple tasks?

👀 Something seems a little off about that, no?

Wait__No__What · 2020-05-15T16:38:06+00:00

"If you don't do this for me then you're not going to have clean socks."

Fuck my life, WHAT did you just say? Bitch, I ain't doing ANYONE'S laundry except my OWN. I didn't do my ex's, and as soon as my kids got tall enough to reach the buttons, I taught them how to do their laundry and made them do it; like at 7 years old.

I don't need to "negotiate" with some scrote about the benefits of taking out the fucking trash. And so help me God, if my son ever acts like this to a woman, I will personally kick his ass into the next week and apologize to his SO for having (contrary to my best efforts) raised a scrote.

ManchurianCantaloupe · 2020-05-15T17:29:34+00:00

She's done A LOT of therapy, but evidently not enough to recognize her codependency problem.

Why do you care more about teaching a man to be an adult than he does, sis?

Salt_Satisfaction · 2020-05-15T18:28:27+00:00

"You need to be very clear, break it down to him"

Oh okay, she must be talking about some complicated issue that would require 20 minutes of explaining.

"I need you to take out the trash".

Sigh

Men are capable of hearing an ambiguous request from their boss, figuring out what their boss means, and doing it. You don't need drawings, lists, countless explaining on why whatever he's doing hurts you, or slow-motion demonstrations for simple shit. They're just doing a shit job at it so you'll give up and stop asking.

myousername · 2020-05-15T15:05:53+00:00

Personally, I prefer "take out the trash you dingus or I will break up with you"

discretevalor · 2020-05-15T15:32:54+00:00

Don’t have children with a man-child, y’all 🤢

Alexamaria · 2020-05-15T13:10:46+00:00

😂😂😂😂 I have no words.

Jinxhourglass · 2020-05-15T13:27:48+00:00

Hahahahahahahahaha

Novemberinthechair · 2020-05-15T15:43:20+00:00

She's describing a type of human women shouldn't get involved with.

wiindowsill · 2020-05-15T17:39:35+00:00

This sounds like the training I went through when I started working with children🙄

sylviebby · 2020-05-15T20:49:54+00:00

first off, men and women aren't inherently different like men r just socialized to see household chores as Women's Work and it's the mark of a LVM who adheres to this conditioning at his big age.

like imagine having a fucking business meeting w/ a man to get him to do the dishes/clean messes to which he contributes. girl bye

juliet-elia · 2020-05-15T19:11:31+00:00

So I need to explain to some scrotes basic house chores like I'm in the kindergarden. Got it.

2020-05-15T19:52:05+00:00

This is exactly what you do to children. Is she okay? 😒

Basem3nt · 2020-05-15T20:28:23+00:00

If i have to talk to my partner like he’s a childish autistic guy then bye

mightbethrowawayyy · 2020-05-15T15:43:02+00:00

Her eyes creeped me out so much like 🙄

I bet she works at daycare because she knows how to communicate with toddlers

tellmesomething11 · 2020-05-15T17:05:16+00:00

Feminine energy. But the consequences should be more serious. I used to tell men, “if you can’t do this, then it isn’t gonna work”. “If I’m not happy, YOU don’t have VALUE in MY LIFE.”

I’ve fallen back plenty of times over what might seem trivial. I’m not perfect, but I have been stepping up my feminine energy.

“It’s just not gonna work out” is not utilized enough. It needs to be.

rinabean · 2020-05-16T16:06:06+00:00

It's wildly unethical for a therapist/carer to date their clients. If he can't work out how to achieve clean socks, can he truly consent to sex?

Seriously though, how do these women fuck their men after playing mommy? And he's smelly, he's unclean... wtf is this? How can you possibly be attracted to a man like that?

Title	DATE PARTNERS, NOT PROJECTS 👏🏻
Author	loftycries
Upvotes	150
Comments	46
Date	May 15, 2020 12:32 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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