~ archived since 2018 ~
~ archived since 2018 ~
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| -1 | Why do so many women wear very revealing clothing and then look uncomfortable and self conscious?It’s the type of clothing that is available. It’s way more common for that type of clothing to exist than not. When I would shop femme clothing it was a legit struggle to find not revealing and tight and flashy clothing. I had to tailor it like sew up v necks and patch up ripped jeans to not be so revealing. when people are neurotypical they follow along in the hivemind of capitalism in North America. So they don’t think about it as much as you are able to point out. You are likely neurodivergen… | /r/MensRights | 03/03/23 05:22 AM |
| -16 | Why do men feel like no one care about how they feel?I would like to point out that this sentiment is applicable to neurodiverse men specifically. Patriarchy is a useful model. Read about intersectionality, hegemonic masculinity, toxic masculinity. Male privilege is still a thing but this is an example where male privilege ends up working against someone. neurotypical men cruise by. Neurodiverse men don’t but because they are men it is assumed they are like the neurotypical at the top. it’s more like 2 categories of men and one oppressed class of … | /r/MensRights | 01/03/23 03:43 AM |
| 1 | How many of you are left wingers?I find that men’s rights movements get labeled as right wing because people representing (or thought to represent them) lack the words to describe the issues per the sociology terms. Like patriarchy is a concept in sociology that is helpful for understanding the struggles men face. Then there are a bunch of people who don’t support transgender rights. So can be claimed to be right wing. | /r/MensRights | 28/02/23 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Paid menstrual leave for women in spain without specified limitsMenstrual leave was a thing in USSR and no one was freaking out | /r/MensRights | 18/02/23 05:09 AM |
| 1 | As a a man, the lack of positive reinforcement and affirmation that I have to deal with on a daily basis deeply hurts my soulIntersectionality. You need to intersect patriarchy with ableism. male privilege is still a thing. But so is able-bodied privilege which is related to the mind. So neurodiversity. if you don’t see being privileged then you are not the man people claim is at the top of the food chain due to not having the privileged neurotype. It is common to find people like that on Reddit btw. Basically, if you are writing what to are writing from realizing this it’s probably you have an autism neurotype. This … | /r/MensRights | 18/02/23 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Analysing feminist rhetoric: The hypocrisy of the "patriarchy that hurts men too." (Draft)Patriarchy is more complicated than what you wrote. Read about white supremacy cisheteropatriarchy. amatonormativity. bionormativity. Read about intersectionality. Like actually scholarly sources. There is way more to it then what you think patriarchy is. It’s not a simple google definition | /r/MensRights | 18/02/23 05:05 AM |
| -15 | I felt unable to perform a prt of my managerial duties due to my gender and sexual orientationYou should being up that it’s sexist (it’s an extension of policing women’s bodies and seeing them as sex objects with sexualized body parts) and not gender-inclusive that 1.) women are obligated to wear bras 2.) that the type of bra is policed This will systemically avoid any further problem like what you experienced | /r/MensRights | 18/02/23 05:02 AM |
| 2 | Women By Nature Are Indirect When It Comes To Romantically Rejecting A Man.Holly shit is this stupid. Can this sub stop with the evolutionary psychology bullshit. It’s a bunch of cisnormative and heteronormative is-so stories. this detective work is pointless if your logic blocks are flawed. Go read scholarly media on human sexuality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 12:14 AM |
| 1 | What happens to the men without money looks and status?Deemed threat/joke/crazy/invisible Prison, substance abuse, mental illness, full time on drugs, homeless. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/23 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Showerthought: women get empowered to not need a man so men also need to get empowered to not need a womanWhy did they need to be conjoined in the first place lol | /r/MensRights | 13/02/23 12:05 AM |
| 3 | Showerthought: women get empowered to not need a man so men also need to get empowered to not need a womanthe ruling class wants more wageslaves lol. You don’t need to give them to it. We need artificial wombs invented already so anyone can start families as they wish | /r/MensRights | 13/02/23 12:04 AM |
| -3 | You guys helped me a lot last time I asked about "arguments against gender pay gap" for my class. Now I'm back for arguments that The Patriarchy doesn't exist.The patriarchy hasn’t quite disappeared in North America. Human with uterus are still seen as an object for creating humans since we don’t have artificial wombs. It’s not empowering anyone to “choose to reclaim” that role either since human evolved to be unfit for childbirth. Read about obstetrics dilemma. Childbirth is violent. More people get PTSD from it than serving in the military. Menstruation, pregnancy, childbirth, postpartum is unpleasant at best and suffering at worst. The weirdest par… | /r/MensRights | 12/02/23 11:50 PM |
| 2 | Learned Helplessnesshttps://www.researchgate.net/publication/339474273_The_Role_of_Fear_and_Learned_Helplessness_in_Authoritarian_Thinking_Interdisciplinary_reinterpretation_of_the_underlying_thinking_patterns_of_authoritarianism | /r/MensRights | 12/02/23 11:47 PM |
| 3 | circumcision is the most basic and obvious ways to show people don't care about menNot men but people’s bodily autonomy. If you start digging up the issue you will see it’s not men’s rights. Intersex people also routinely and legally have their genital integrity violated under the same arguments as circumcision. Same with transgender people being denied gender-affirming care. Another one is denying abortion, since that is a violation of bodily autonomy to force a human to go through childbirth which is violent. Also relates to genital integrity considering how often vulvas and… | /r/MensRights | 09/02/23 06:17 AM |
| -2 | Anyone else sick of the flagrant bashing of white people on social media by feminists and their leftist ilk, especially white men?There is the effect of bashing weird white men. It’s more of an ableism thing. Start thinking of most things you read on reddit from a neurodiversity discrimination lens. Patriarchy and white supremacy are very much a problem in North America due to how society was designed. People with privilege are blind to it. Oppression doesn’t get fixed overnight and isn’t just about laws. | /r/AntiFeminists | 05/02/23 04:08 AM |
| 1 | I wish I was a girl.lol the gender identity spectrum existed prior to colonization | /r/MensRights | 01/02/23 09:53 AM |
| 0 | I wish I was a girl.Which parts of being female you want? | /r/MensRights | 01/02/23 09:52 AM |
| 1 | I wish I was a girl.let’s not be misogynistic | /r/MensRights | 01/02/23 09:51 AM |
| -2 | I wish I was a girl.People can opt out of periods lol. What problems urinating? | /r/MensRights | 01/02/23 09:46 AM |
| -14 | The Sad Decline of the Relationships Between Men and Women In North Americawhat’s the point of seeing women as an accessory piece? that’s a remanent from patriarchal thinking | /r/MensRights | 29/01/23 12:54 AM |
| 0 | The Sad Decline of the Relationships Between Men and Women In North Americawhat’s the point of seeing women as an accessory piece? that’s a remanent from patriarchal thinking | /r/MensRights | 29/01/23 12:54 AM |
| 1 | The Sad Decline of the Relationships Between Men and Women In North Americawtf is this caste system. Humans are not objects to be ranked | /r/MensRights | 29/01/23 12:53 AM |
| -5 | The Sad Decline of the Relationships Between Men and Women In North Americawhat’s the point of seeing women as an accessory piece? that’s a remanent from patriarchal thinking | /r/MensRights | 29/01/23 12:53 AM |
| -5 | The Sad Decline of the Relationships Between Men and Women In North Americawhat’s the point of seeing women as an accessory piece? that’s a remanent from patriarchal thinking | /r/MensRights | 29/01/23 12:52 AM |
| -16 | The Sad Decline of the Relationships Between Men and Women In North Americawhat’s the point of seeing women as an accessory piece? that’s a remanent from patriarchal thinking | /r/MensRights | 29/01/23 12:52 AM |
| 0 | We know women love hot guys. But the average guy doesn't focus on looks-maxxing. Why?Women like hot guys is kinda cringe. There is more to arousal than looks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 02:11 AM |
| 0 | Q4A: What do you think would happen if men stopped giving so much attention to women?It would be good. Women don’t like being objectified | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 01:58 AM |
| 3 | Reason why women can stay single easily is because sex is easy for themyour whole view on relationships is whack. Partnered sexual activity and relationships are another location on the human bonding spectrum. it’s a fun thing human does the way it has conversations. you just need to account for safety like STI prevention/treatment and no unwanted pregnancy. sex is not something you get. It’s a mutually pleasurable event like a game where you try to get the other person to win. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 01:57 AM |
| -91 | What are you guys thoughts on people who call men privileged?what in the actual fuck bro. Do you even read anything about politics, sociology, anthropology. You should learn about what privilege is. search up intersectionality wheel and start with these videos: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=WTCyqir2nX4 https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=tgTr3mG47lU To get well informed you can make an account and go through all the content here: https://ccdi.ca (don’t need government email just use any) If you feel overwhelmed or confused by any of the content you can use this… | /r/MensRights | 11/01/23 01:54 AM |
| -89 | What are you guys thoughts on people who call men privileged?How is this gender related lol? Capitalism and US not allowing for adequate social support is not gender related. It isn’t like having a vulva gives people extra support. people who present femme get raped on the streets. it isn’t a given people care to treat them with kindness what does that even mean | /r/MensRights | 11/01/23 01:54 AM |
| -22 | What are you guys thoughts on people who call men privileged?You should learn about what privilege is. search up intersectionality wheel and start with these videos: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=WTCyqir2nX4 https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=tgTr3mG47lU To get well informed you can make an account and go through all the content here: https://ccdi.ca (don’t need government email just use any) If you feel overwhelmed or confused by any of the content you can use this service https://kidshelpphone.ca/live-chat-counselling/ (Doesn’t matter what age or country you… | /r/MensRights | 11/01/23 01:49 AM |
| -21 | Where did all of this "I have to work X times as hard as a man" nonsense come from?You should learn about the myth or meritocracy, structural violence, symbolic violence. Dig into history, sociology, anthropology related to US or where you are from. Systems of oppression are large scale problems. They don’t get resolved over night. Even if something is one way on paper it is not always reflective of society on a macro level and this takes a long time to change. It’s not just women btw. Search up intersectionality wheel. In US women were treated like property to men. Just like … | /r/MensRights | 09/01/23 08:31 AM |
| -16 | Avoiding false accusations in the workplace. Since the hashtag “Believe all women” false accusations are now an unavoidable part of life for men. Here are some helpful tips to improve your odds and avoid false accusations.It should have been believe all survivors to not be gendered. btw it isn’t just women that get raped so really believing all survivors is a good tactic for eradicating rape culture which is prevalent. I rather have the pendulum swing to survivors right now so we can develop proper systems to have them get justice. I am trying to help a 17 year old male that was sexually assaulted in the military by a 27 year old male. It is so fucking difficult to get justice. Just for a moment think of that, pe… | /r/MensRights | 07/01/23 09:50 PM |
| -15 | USA: Desperate father pleads with his pediatrician ex-wife NOT to chemically castrate their son, 9, after she suddenly moved to California from Texashey man, transphobia is not cool. puberty blockers delay puberty, it is like being a late bloomer if you will. they can have it activate again if they want to or not, it is the person's body. understand that "natural" puberty is not in any way superior to the one that a person wishes to experience for gender affirming reasons. that is an appeal to nature logical fallacy. just like menstruating is not superior to not menstruating, there are a lot of tools for opting out of it these days. North Am… | /r/MensRights | 06/01/23 06:33 PM |
| -17 | USA: Desperate father pleads with his pediatrician ex-wife NOT to chemically castrate their son, 9, after she suddenly moved to California from Texashey man, transphobia is not cool. puberty blockers delay puberty, it is like being a late bloomer if you will. they can have it activate again if they want to or not, it is the person's body. understand that "natural" puberty is not in any way superior to the one that a person wishes to experience for gender affirming reasons. that is an appeal to nature logical fallacy. just like menstruating is not superior to not menstruating, there are a lot of tools for opting out of it these days. North Am… | /r/MensRights | 06/01/23 06:33 PM |
| -61 | USA: Desperate father pleads with his pediatrician ex-wife NOT to chemically castrate their son, 9, after she suddenly moved to California from Texashey man, transphobia is not cool. puberty blockers delay puberty, it is like being a late bloomer if you will. they can have it activate again if they want to or not, it is the person's body. understand that "natural" puberty is not in any way superior to the one that a person wishes to experience for gender affirming reasons. that is an appeal to nature logical fallacy. just like menstruating is not superior to not menstruating, there are a lot of tools for opting out of it these days. North Am… | /r/MensRights | 06/01/23 06:32 PM |
| -1 | Stop blaming others or the 'system'. Help fix the simp epidemic.are you not aware of the difficulty to the work that being an only fans model implies? erotic content is just another branch of entertainment. this is like claiming that youtubers have an easy life "just talk to the camera how hard could it be" or professional gamers having an easy life "they just play video games all day how hard could it be" it comes from ignorance of what goes into it and disrespect to the profession. There is massive competition on onlyfans, overwhelming majority make jack s… | /r/MensRights | 04/01/23 09:18 PM |
| -1 | How did men go from supposedly ruling the world to being public enemy #1?lol there is more to power and privilege than white and male for “public enemy”. Search up intersectionality wheel. Anyone on the fringe of it is in same boat. You can learn about privilege here: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=WTCyqir2nX4 | /r/MensRights | 04/01/23 02:12 PM |
| 3 | Women often talk about hormones influencing their emotions and behavior why are there some women who shame men for being horny when testosterone is a male hormone?Hormones don’t influence people into uncontrollable behaviour. If anything neurotransmitters have more influence. The myth about hormones influencing women’s emotions is actually a stereotype made up by male doctors. It comes from the “women are too emotional” argument. The hormones argument was used against them to say that they can’t possibly be logical and leaders because their hormones make them uncontrollable and shift their reasoning ability. Same thing with testosterone. It doesn’t make y… | /r/MensRights | 04/01/23 03:54 AM |
| 3 | (How) do men protect themselves against assault?Just to point out: sexual assault is all unwanted sexual touching, not just to genitals or in an intercourse fashion. | /r/MensRights | 03/01/23 07:08 PM |
| 1 | What do you see as the problem with the Duluth model?Intersectionality helps explain abuse. Since abuse is related to exploring a vulnerability. Some groups are more vulnerable than others. Like sexism to women is a big issue with for example lack of adequate abortion and menstrual support. someone who has a uterus is now more vulnerable than someone without a uterus due to how society was structured. It could have easily not been structured this way. Asians are more vulnerable comparing to white if you acknowledge that Trump was racist in how he … | /r/MensRights | 01/01/23 08:27 AM |
| 0 | What do you see as the problem with the Duluth model?All the gender based violence lens is doing is highlighting that the disproportionate targeting of women makes it that they are targeted due to being women. So yes it’s like another way of saying hate crime. When sexual violence is done at someone due to their gender it is a hate crime. Like how the LGBT+ bar was raided recently. Or all the targeted to Asians crimes that gone up 700% those are hate crimes. The term gender based violence highlights that some crimes people experience due to gender… | /r/MensRights | 01/01/23 08:22 AM |
| -2 | What do you see as the problem with the Duluth model?wtf lol. misogyny/sexism (to women) and patriarchy is as connected as racism to white supremacy. I don’t think you understand what patriarchy is. No one is born the wrong gender. There is a spectrum of gender identities and everyone is somewhere on it. | /r/MensRights | 31/12/22 12:56 PM |
| -3 | What do you see as the problem with the Duluth model?The term gender-based violence is a label for the phenomenon that every crime is committed more by men at MEN while sexual violence is at NON-MEN. that is where that gender based concept came from. Since people wanted to study what creates that outlier. Which today there is a lot of backup theory that can be traced back to how society evolved. | /r/MensRights | 31/12/22 12:54 PM |
| 0 | What do you see as the problem with the Duluth model?What you said there. Like where did you get this info from? | /r/MensRights | 31/12/22 12:51 PM |
| 0 | why is sexual assault considered gender-based violence and where do men stand in terms of this concept?wtf did you write lol. It’s a problem women don’t have control over sex. All humans should be able to consent equally. The solution is to remove people being forced to go through pregnancy, childbirth, postpartum against their will. Like normalize hysterectomies and have artificial wombs. Anyways childbirth is violent no one should have to go through that. No one owns anyone sex. If men want sex but women don’t that isn’t a problem on women. Partnered sexual activity is a fun bonding thing human… | /r/MensRights | 31/12/22 02:19 AM |
| 0 | why is sexual assault considered gender-based violence and where do men stand in terms of this concept?You will understand these sociology concepts. It will help you understand about the world you live in | /r/MensRights | 31/12/22 02:11 AM |
| 0 | why is sexual assault considered gender-based violence and where do men stand in terms of this concept?patriarchy can be seen through history of how colonialism in North America developed. The cishetropatriarchy model was forced on humans. So claimed there is only two genders based on genital shape (with intersex being deemed broken), claimed everyone has to only do sex which was to be specifically intercourse for reproductive purposes between those two genders, claimed the man is above the woman. Amatonormativity and bionormativity was also applied to make people think they have to create those … | /r/MensRights | 31/12/22 02:03 AM |
| 1 | What do you see as the problem with the Duluth model?The power and control model does help explain abuse though. The gender-based phenomenon can be explained through patriarchy and misogyny too since if you consider North America had the model where women were property to men, seen as inferior to men. You see this in other cultures too like Chinese foot biding and Abrahamic religions are all patriarchal. They claim a natural order. Apply a cisnormative and heteronormative lens with a claim that men are above women. | /r/MensRights | 31/12/22 01:50 AM |
| 1 | What do you see as the problem with the Duluth model?There is an updated Duluth model though. Have you seen it? There was a reworking of it. It is explained in the documentary. Yes the phenomenon of gender based violence comes from patriarchy and misogyny. So when talking about crime people noticed that overwhelmingly crime is committed by men at men but the outlier is sexual violence which they called that outlier gender-based violence. That phenomenon for why its gender based can be traced back to how women were seen as property to men and infer… | /r/MensRights | 31/12/22 01:47 AM |
| 1 | What do you see as the problem with the Duluth model?lol “overwhelming majority” doesn’t mean anything. everyone deserves to be treated with equity and fit in society. the problem is people kept being forced to come off cis and straight, that is a colonial concept. the full sexual orientation spectrum and gender identity spectrum is not allowed to exist still. these things are in the mind, so people can be pansexual and non-binary and still come off as cis and straight so fall in line with society expectation and not facing extra burden of society… | /r/MensRights | 31/12/22 01:43 AM |
| 0 | What do you see as the problem with the Duluth model?That isn’t what the updated model does though. There was a reworking of it. It is explained in the documentary. Yes the phenomenon of gender based violence comes from patriarchy and misogyny. So when talking about crime people noticed that overwhelmingly crime is committed by men at men but the outlier is sexual violence which they called that outlier gender-based violence. That phenomenon for why its gender based can be traced back to how women were seen as property to men and inferior and sex … | /r/MensRights | 31/12/22 01:39 AM |
| 0 | What do you see as the problem with the Duluth model?That isn’t what the updated model does though. There was a reworking of it. It is explained in the documentary. Yes the phenomenon of gender based violence comes from patriarchy and misogyny. So when talking about crime people noticed that overwhelmingly crime is committed by men at men but the outlier is sexual violence which they called that outlier gender-based violence. That phenomenon for why its gender based can be traced back to how women were seen as property to men and inferior and sex … | /r/MensRights | 31/12/22 01:38 AM |
| 1 | What do you see as the problem with the Duluth model?Is there not a gender neutral edition now? In the documentary even they showed how it was adjusted. | /r/MensRights | 31/12/22 01:36 AM |
| 1 | What do you see as the problem with the Duluth model?What is the evidence you have for this claim? The power and control aspect is useful since this is relavant in abuse situations even in reference to military with rank differentials for example. I think the gendered aspect could be improved | /r/MensRights | 31/12/22 01:35 AM |
| -4 | I want a legitimate conversationI think it’s more about the society perception of what a man has to be. Like watch this documentary there is a point they mention that men across the world have similar patterns with abusing women https://thoughtmaybe.com/power-and-control/ That’s a big fucking issue. Something about the way men get socialized is causing the problem. It’s not about having a penis or identifying as a man at that point. | /r/MensRights | 30/12/22 12:44 PM |
| 2 | what are things feminist has done for the betterment of society as a whole?Your question doesn’t really make sense. Read more scholarly media about what feminism is. You can read stuff like that too to see the progress: https://historyofrights.ca/encyclopaedia/main-events/womens-rights/ | /r/MensRights | 30/12/22 12:33 PM |
| -7 | 'Article' Dehumanizing Men: "Toxic masculinity may be caused by an actual, infectious, brain-altering parasite"Watch this to understand better what toxic masculinity is describing: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=54BKouigrzk | /r/MensRights | 30/12/22 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Why should child custody not be based on the best interest of the child standard?Yes it should be. US is a tad bit fucked. Look at how Canada does it. | /r/MensRights | 30/12/22 12:28 PM |
| -1 | why is sexual assault considered gender-based violence and where do men stand in terms of this concept?It is a good proof of misogyny and patriarchy. Though maybe back when it was labeled people didn’t know why it’s relevant yet they just have it a name to work with it more. It shows that women’s bodies are still seen as objects to be used by men coming from stuff like purity culture and patriarchal religions and colonialism with the human puppy mill mentality. If you watch documentaries about rape culture there is a common theme like that. | /r/MensRights | 29/12/22 08:09 AM |
| -2 | why is sexual assault considered gender-based violence and where do men stand in terms of this concept?You should read about cisnormativity, heteronormativity, patriarchy | /r/MensRights | 29/12/22 05:42 AM |
| 1 | why is sexual assault considered gender-based violence and where do men stand in terms of this concept?The current justice system is so bad to sexual assault survivors. What do you think could be done to improve it? | /r/MensRights | 29/12/22 05:40 AM |
| -1 | why is sexual assault considered gender-based violence and where do men stand in terms of this concept?I think the distinction is useful to label a phenomenon since yes it is know that most crime is done by men at men but sexual violence is an outlier with more non-men getting impacted. I do find it odd though how these days we can’t see it from a more gender inclusive lens. I am confused what is the actual leverage. It’s interesting to point out though that for example with sexual assault in the military (huge problem that has been going on for ever) it’s almost as if it only started being treat… | /r/MensRights | 29/12/22 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Why do feminists not allow debate?You need to find people who are educated. Feminist is not a descriptor for person like gamer or gay. When someone says Judith Butler is a feminist philosopher that is about her work related to having a feminist lens. You need to read in depth what feminism is and there are may branches and waves. People who are educated also get fed up with stupid rhetoric like the Andrew Tates and incel/MGTOW/misogynistic kinds of people. Read about crisis of masculinity. As the cishetropatriarchy crumbles peop… | /r/AntiFeminists | 29/12/22 05:35 AM |
| -6 | I have a hypothesis that anywhere you find women being mistreated, you find men being roughly equally mistreated or worse.You need to learn more about how patriarchal structures work. Humans can be mistreated. But due to systems designed by men for men when all else equal the woman is put at a disadvantage. Read about intersectionality. It’s just like with classism. Rich woman is better off than a poor man. But all else equal in that category on the intersectionality wheel the rich man is better off than a rich woman. It’s systemic. It comes from society in North America being built with male human assumed default.… | /r/MensRights | 28/12/22 05:55 AM |
| -7 | How Disney's Turning Red normalises false accusationsOther movies were cisgender and heteronormative and patriarchal agenda though. it only comes off weird to you now to see a different story because you think status quo is cishetropatriarchy | /r/MensRights | 27/12/22 09:09 AM |
| 4 | How Disney's Turning Red normalises false accusationsI agree with this. It isn’t normalizing false accusations. It’s showing they are wrong if anything. | /r/MensRights | 27/12/22 09:08 AM |
| -1 | Why is the default insult always “incel”? Isn’t that insult indirectly reducing women to sexual objects…..?Well yes because incels reduce women to sexual objects | /r/MensRights | 27/12/22 02:15 AM |
| -4 | Got banned from Twitter for hateful conduct just for arguing with a feminist that our major infrastructure would fall apart if men disappeared for a day. WTF?Well yes it’s hateful man come on. Keeping up infrastructure isn’t gender based. It isn’t related to having a penis or identifying as a man. If there was not men tomorrow women would fill up the jobs and structure society to what fits for them. There isn’t a huge divide between men and women. That is some gender essentialism shit you believe. It isn’t based on genital shape that someone knows how to fix a toilet. Anyone regardless of gender can do those jobs. Without men tomorrow the world popul… | /r/MensRights | 26/12/22 04:53 AM |
| -4 | If My Man Wants Me Take My Lingerie Pics Off Of Instagram, He's Insecure "That's A Red Flag"What does signing the marriage contract/changing civil status to married have to do with continuing to post pictures lol? Marriage is a pointless contract, in Canada you lose money on taxes from it even. You can get the same benefits through separate specific legal agreements like power of attorney, will, custody etc. Without having to pay money to sign the contract and then paying a fuck ton when need to divorce. When divorce you have to pay half of what earned while being in marriage agreement… | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/12/22 02:28 AM |
| 2 | Wow, just wow. I guess common sense & social debate left the chat.What did you say? The patriarchy is harmful to everyone in North America. Not sure why you would support it unless maybe you profit from it | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/12/22 12:42 AM |
| 0 | Why is it considered men’s fault when their spouse cheats on them?It’s a low-sentience insult. You can rebuttal it by explaining that this is sexist and not gender inclusive to say. Also has a not sex positive tint to it. So toxic overall. | /r/MensRights | 24/12/22 12:39 AM |
| -2 | I don’t think I can date a feministMaybe reconsider why you see people with a uterus as having to be forced to go through pregnancy, childbirth, postpartum when it is unpleasant at best and suffering at worst. That doesn’t seem like a nice way to see people. Human evolved to be unfit for childbirth, it’s violent. More people get PTSD from childbirth than serving in the military. Read about obstetrics dilemma. Until hysterectomies become the norm and artificial wombs is where new humans get grown, it is imperative to have a medica… | /r/MensRights | 19/12/22 08:53 AM |
| 2 | Who is toxicly masculine and proud of that?this sounds like some Andrew Tate shit lol. wtf is "traditional man". comes off like you want to follow some Mormon Christian fundamentalist lifestyle. idk I guess you could for yourself but there are more free modes of existing. Read about religious trauma syndrome and https://www.researchgate.net/publication/339474273_The_Role_of_Fear_and_Learned_Helplessness_in_Authoritarian_Thinking_Interdisciplinary_reinterpretation_of_the_underlying_thinking_patterns_of_authoritarianism and https://docdro.… | /r/MensRights | 18/12/22 06:20 AM |
| -2 | As a woman I’m starting to really hate other womenThis is all the same damn patriarchy. maybe join some advocacy groups to try to lift up women to not be bitchy like whatever is happening here. | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/12/22 08:00 AM |
| 0 | As a woman I’m starting to really hate other womenThe saying stupid shit is also harmful. But yes it is in fact this bad in a lot of parts of the world. People get sexually assaulted a lot since consent isn’t even taught. Sex Ed is shit in US. | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/12/22 07:58 AM |
| -24 | why don't we ever hear about "empowering boys" and "empowered men"?The empowered women concept is coming from a history of oppression to women in North America. Since they had less rights from colonization. Treated like property and basically womb on legs/sex doll. As part of the cisheteropatriarchy to create that human puppy mill effect in colonies. Since it was profitable for the ruling class. So it is a term to contrast to that. Just like you can use it as well for empowered Black people. Or more nicer way of saying it would be empowered people of colour. Fr… | /r/MensRights | 17/12/22 07:53 AM |
| -60 | I couldn't babysit because of my gender.Molestation isn’t about sex. It’s about power and control. Like any assault so violation of bodily autonomy | /r/MensRights | 11/12/22 12:42 AM |
| -1 | Misandry in the Netflix show "Wednesday"It’s interesting these concepts are being featured. Awareness of them is useful. Maybe they didn’t do it to well but like movies are all exaggerations and performative. Maybe after this movies people will at least become aware of stuff like patriarchy and male gaze. A movie is not in exchange for deep sociological discussions though. I see this attempt as a cringe version of trying to shine light to very real, harmful social patterns | /r/MensRights | 10/12/22 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Called Misogynistic For Asking My Sister Not To Date My Friendsi don't understand what is going on here. why do you see doing partnered sexual activity with someone such a big deal that you think it will ruin friendships. there are various forms of human bonding. friendship is one, romantic is another, sexual is another. and its all on a spectrum. so it is a strange claim to make to force a human to not bond with someone they wish to. are you sure the problem is not with the mates reacting inappropriately instead of blaming your sister for bonding with them… | /r/MensRights | 08/12/22 07:22 PM |
| 1 | A women's opinion on why women shouldn't be draftedI think no one should be drafted. Fight the other way. This feels like fighting for equal representation in homelessness. No we don't want anyone to be homeless | /r/MensRights | 05/12/22 03:52 AM |
| -5 | we have a French exchange student at my school who says she fights for woman's rights in France. what rights do they not have in France?there are only 3 countries in the world, I know Canada is one of them, that have truly no restrictions around abortion. so full bodily autonomy for people with a uterus. France is not one of them. That is one. France does not have menstrual products in all bathrooms free like toilet paper is. The bodily function of menstruation is not accounted for so that is another one. I am also pretty sure topfreedom is not as progressive as in Canada where it is protected by human rights. Though Canada stil… | /r/MensRights | 05/12/22 03:49 AM |
| 0 | Are women owed marriage?No marriage is a stupid contract. Neither does everyone need a committed monogamous relationship. That’s just amatonormativity and bionormativity socialization | /r/MensRights | 01/12/22 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Why I'll Never Be Treating A Woman As My EqualAre you not aware that systemic problems don’t get fixed overnight? there is centuries of sexism that today still have aftermath. From the language people use to the way facilities are designed. I am not sure who “you” is in your sentence. People who work on dismantling cisheteropatriarchal structures by definition work on dismantling issues men face because patriarchy hurts men too. Just like racism hurts White people too. look into gender inclusivity vs sexism. gender inclusivity is things lik… | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/11/22 10:39 PM |
| -2 | in the year 1600, venician woman Lucrezia Marinella argued women are superior to men because men treat women better than women treat menTreat better in that context was like a pet. Women were supposed to be in their place at home. They were considered men’s property. | /r/MensRights | 23/11/22 07:44 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone feel like suicide is called selfish cause of misandry?No I would say it’s because of capitalism. When you are alive you are useful to the ruling class. Dead people don’t pay taxes and consume advertised stuff and work for wage that is barely enough to make ends meet. This applies to all humans. Maybe if historically in US working was a man thing there could be some tie to “not killing yourself” being masculine trait hence shamed in men if done but given more leeway in women. that connects to the masculine marketed trait of not showing emotions and … | /r/MensRights | 23/11/22 06:01 AM |
| 1 | "Men are disgusting"Your thoughts are your own. It’s the actions that are a problem like as you wrote sexualizing women online. So harassing them online. Having an erotic fantasy that doesn’t change your way of interacting with someone is not sexualizing. It’s like in context of breasts. When they are sexualized it means they are made into sex objects like made to be covered up such that people can’t even breastfeed and shamed like “why are your tits visible, you must be asking for it”. Women’s bodies being seen as… | /r/MensRights | 23/11/22 05:18 AM |
| 2 | My experience with 'girls nights' and 'boys trips'. Is this common?Shouldn’t be gendered. Sexist and not gender inclusive. | /r/MensRights | 22/11/22 02:54 PM |
| -6 | Is anybody on here a father to a daughter? What is your take on this community?lol your response is like the "i can't be homophobic i have a gay friend". do you know why that doesn't work? | /r/MensRights | 22/11/22 09:41 AM |
| 2 | Is anybody on here a father to a daughter? What is your take on this community?lol funny joke, artificial wombs are getting developed soon. it is only due to sexism and misogyny that it is taking this long. look into the term "fem tech" and how the field of everything related to female bodies gets understudied and underfunded and ignored. it took this long for humans to have available birth control, sterilization, abortion, methods to opt out of menstruation even though we could have made these tools already if people cared enough. actually minority of humans have these re… | /r/MensRights | 22/11/22 09:41 AM |
| 1 | I wonder when feminists are going to claim the reincarnation of Jesus will be female?Well to country the patriarchal take on it since making God male is just as weird. Anyways it’s all made up. This question is on the level of How many angels can dance on the head of a pin? | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/11/22 07:18 AM |
| 1 | I'm a woman and I hate anything related to modern day feminismI don’t understand what was the point of being this sexist and gender essentialist. upholding the gender binary this way and treating people differently based on their genital shape is harmful. You can chose to be a human that stays at home and nurtures whatever but this shouldn’t be tied to genital shape or gender identity. That is the point. You can chose to be a tradcon woman by choice and not based on genital shape and predetermining factors. The problem with one type of person building soci… | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/11/22 07:00 PM |
| -2 | Anti-feminist is not anti-women.You need to read about what feminism is from a more in depth sociological perspective. Your anti-feminism stance may slide on twitter and reddit among uneducated people who learn from sound bites but will get scoffed at by people who are educated in the intricacies of history, anthropology, sociology | /r/MensRights | 13/11/22 07:55 AM |
| 0 | Why is it constantly asserted that all women have to be constantly in “fear for their lives” of being assaulted, raped or killed by men despite most men being harmless?Mostly because misogyny like this still happens: https://twitter.com/ask_aubry/status/1589740607030763520 This man thought he is 100% in the right. Men aren’t disproportionately harmless lol. overwhelmingly the majority of crimes are done by men in all race categories. Pleasing women is a sexism thing. No sexism is good even benevolent sexism so that statement doesn’t paint a man in a positive light. You can read the book Men that Hate Women. Free on libgen.is and Eliot Rodger’s menifesto to see… | /r/MensRights | 13/11/22 07:47 AM |
| -4 | Debating equality of the sexes with a female friend, looking for advice.well it’s odd when men assume they will be penetrating women but not the other way around. Intercourses is useless for majority of people with a vagina, most can’t orgasm from t. There is just a long history of obsessing over intercourse being deemed true sex. if you don’t assume that then this is just a matter of consent. though there is a genuine issue with consent not being respected for women from men as you know women get disproportionately impacted by sexual assault. Even something as smal… | /r/MensRights | 12/11/22 09:39 AM |
| -2 | Question about the incel conceptIncel mindset comes in part from virgin shaming of men. But women get slut shamed instead so it’s a double standard. A woman being virgin is not an attack at femininity how a man being virgin is an attack at masculinity. (This is within White western culture. Not all cultures see people this way. It is an aftermath from colonialism since the point of the colonized countries was to make human puppy mills to exploit. They are an extension of the working class so ruling class benefits from ensuring… | /r/MensRights | 11/11/22 11:05 PM |
| 0 | It’s absurd to me not even gay men are safe from false allegationsThe problem is that no it is not more possible. A woman raped a gay man is not because of her being straight or whatever you are implying here. Think of sexual assault as physical assault. It’s the same power and control concept. Exerting force (no matter how small) on a human without their consent with a deliberate purpose of hurting (physically or psychologically). We know they violating bodily autonomy hurts human. So stuff like groping is harmful since non-consensual. | /r/MensRights | 09/11/22 06:42 AM |
| 0 | ‘Men Are 100% Responsible for Unwanted Pregnancies. Feminism new salvo in the spirit of equality. Fellas, “Ejaculate Responsibly”people masturbante to solve problems related to not masturbating. But for all the people who are not asexual (allosexual) they also wish to express sexuality with partnered activity sometimes. Partnered sexual activity is nothing special. It’s like having a conversation, it’s another bonding thing. | /r/MensRights | 09/11/22 06:38 AM |
| -7 | ‘Men Are 100% Responsible for Unwanted Pregnancies. Feminism new salvo in the spirit of equality. Fellas, “Ejaculate Responsibly”it’s not more sympathy it’s requiring consideration. Like read about how endometriosis is under diagnosed. In 2022 how is it not normalized already to opt out of periods when there are so many options. Hysterectomy and birth control non stop should be readily available by now. That already shows to you a problem. | /r/MensRights | 09/11/22 06:37 AM |
| 0 | ‘Men Are 100% Responsible for Unwanted Pregnancies. Feminism new salvo in the spirit of equality. Fellas, “Ejaculate Responsibly”lmao a lot are cracking down on it. You seem to think everyone is rich and has support or something. Some people can not afford to travel to a different state. Why should they though. Why ban abortions in the first place. | /r/MensRights | 09/11/22 06:35 AM |
| -3 | ‘Men Are 100% Responsible for Unwanted Pregnancies. Feminism new salvo in the spirit of equality. Fellas, “Ejaculate Responsibly”The egg does it’s own thing. If never fertilized it dies off. yes fertilization is a 2 person concept but for so long it wasn’t seen that way. It was the pregnant women being shamed for having sex outside marriage than the man who impregnated her since often people didn’t even know who it was. | /r/MensRights | 09/11/22 06:35 AM |
| 1 | ‘Men Are 100% Responsible for Unwanted Pregnancies. Feminism new salvo in the spirit of equality. Fellas, “Ejaculate Responsibly”How so? | /r/MensRights | 09/11/22 06:34 AM |
| 2 | ‘Men Are 100% Responsible for Unwanted Pregnancies. Feminism new salvo in the spirit of equality. Fellas, “Ejaculate Responsibly”Not at all. I’m not understanding how you conclude that. Everyone can masturbate. The problem with restricting expression of sexuality is like restricting a human from communicating. Or an autistic person from simmering. Human values freedom. When restricted it hurts human psychologically. When something is not harming anyone especially it is problematic to restrict it and I can’t understand why do that at that point | /r/MensRights | 09/11/22 06:33 AM |
| -2 | ‘Men Are 100% Responsible for Unwanted Pregnancies. Feminism new salvo in the spirit of equality. Fellas, “Ejaculate Responsibly”Responsibility over what happens with their body. Taking a responsible choice to decide what keeps them safe in their body. Like physical and sexual assault is harmful for psychological reasons primarily. human hurts in the mind when denied bodily autonomy. bruises heal, trauma can be life long. | /r/MensRights | 09/11/22 06:32 AM |
| -1 | ‘Men Are 100% Responsible for Unwanted Pregnancies. Feminism new salvo in the spirit of equality. Fellas, “Ejaculate Responsibly”Are you aware that right now a lot of states in US have banned abortion? In the whole world there are like only 3 counties and Canada is one of them that has no legal restrictions on abortion. Paper abortions follow when regular abortions are easily accessible. You can’t begin arguing paper abortions if regular abortions aren’t available. | /r/MensRights | 09/11/22 06:30 AM |
| -5 | ‘Men Are 100% Responsible for Unwanted Pregnancies. Feminism new salvo in the spirit of equality. Fellas, “Ejaculate Responsibly”Doesn’t work like that bud lol. In the military people attempt to restrict themselves in many ways and it come back in aggression. People can have physical and psychological symptoms from if they are unable to masturbate for example. It’s another bodily process. | /r/MensRights | 09/11/22 06:28 AM |
| 1 | ‘Men Are 100% Responsible for Unwanted Pregnancies. Feminism new salvo in the spirit of equality. Fellas, “Ejaculate Responsibly”Yes hence abortion, birth control, sterilization needs to be readily available for everyone. | /r/MensRights | 09/11/22 06:27 AM |
| -1 | ‘Men Are 100% Responsible for Unwanted Pregnancies. Feminism new salvo in the spirit of equality. Fellas, “Ejaculate Responsibly”I don’t understand your question. | /r/MensRights | 09/11/22 06:26 AM |
| -9 | ‘Men Are 100% Responsible for Unwanted Pregnancies. Feminism new salvo in the spirit of equality. Fellas, “Ejaculate Responsibly”That’s a US problem lol. Make sure abortion is easily available like in Canada and paper abortions will follow. | /r/MensRights | 09/11/22 06:26 AM |
| -5 | ‘Men Are 100% Responsible for Unwanted Pregnancies. Feminism new salvo in the spirit of equality. Fellas, “Ejaculate Responsibly”Birth control is not always easily accessible. Also education about birth control is not always easily accessible. There are places that teach abstinence based sex ed which is like telling a suicidal person “just for kill yourself” and not doing anything else. Then being confused when they do kill themselves. Abortion is still no readily available. Like look what is happening in US. | /r/MensRights | 09/11/22 06:25 AM |
| -2 | ‘Men Are 100% Responsible for Unwanted Pregnancies. Feminism new salvo in the spirit of equality. Fellas, “Ejaculate Responsibly”you can’t be forced to incubate that’s right because that would be abusing someone’s body. hence abortion is a necessary procedure. Canada is great with not forcing people to pay for it after. Canada also has easily accessible abortions. You need to first win making sure abortion is easily accessible in US or what country you are in. Then you can preach about paper abortions. Otherwise the argument doesn’t make sense. | /r/MensRights | 09/11/22 06:23 AM |
| -6 | ‘Men Are 100% Responsible for Unwanted Pregnancies. Feminism new salvo in the spirit of equality. Fellas, “Ejaculate Responsibly”the person who did not decide to grow a human in their uterus | /r/MensRights | 09/11/22 01:00 AM |
| -12 | ‘Men Are 100% Responsible for Unwanted Pregnancies. Feminism new salvo in the spirit of equality. Fellas, “Ejaculate Responsibly”they want the power dynamics to shift. For so long women were shamed and pushed for unwanted pregnancies when like its the other person’s sperm causing it. they really need to make abortion available in US to remove this issue. | /r/MensRights | 09/11/22 01:00 AM |
| -21 | ‘Men Are 100% Responsible for Unwanted Pregnancies. Feminism new salvo in the spirit of equality. Fellas, “Ejaculate Responsibly”that restricts expression of sexuality which is known to be harmful psychologically. also conception happening is a risk process. So you can only create asymptotically favourable or unfavourable conditions. people can be doing everything to prevent it and it still happens or everything to have it happen and it doesn’t. | /r/MensRights | 09/11/22 12:59 AM |
| -38 | ‘Men Are 100% Responsible for Unwanted Pregnancies. Feminism new salvo in the spirit of equality. Fellas, “Ejaculate Responsibly”US is not exactly allowing people to have responsibility if they are denying abortions. | /r/MensRights | 09/11/22 12:57 AM |
| -18 | ‘Men Are 100% Responsible for Unwanted Pregnancies. Feminism new salvo in the spirit of equality. Fellas, “Ejaculate Responsibly”no because the decision is not regarding what happens to the pregnancy but whether a person’s body is allowed to be used as an incubator for another human. It would be going against bodily autonomy and traumatic for a human with a uterus to be forced to go through pregnancy, childbirth, postpartum against their will. hence someone else cannot be the one deciding. It already can be a traumatic process when they want to but it’s a next level of assault when denied an abortion. also, it’s not peopl… | /r/MensRights | 09/11/22 12:56 AM |
| -10 | ‘Men Are 100% Responsible for Unwanted Pregnancies. Feminism new salvo in the spirit of equality. Fellas, “Ejaculate Responsibly”Menstruation needs to be better accounted for in society. Like it is still a novelty to people that humans can have 3 bodily functions. For example bathrooms provide toilet paper but not menstrual products. It’s weird. | /r/MensRights | 09/11/22 12:52 AM |
| 1 | It’s absurd to me not even gay men are safe from false allegationsit isn’t about sexual orientation who sexually assault. People do not sexually assault because of attraction. Sexual assault like any assault, so violation of a human’s bodily autonomy, is a power and control thing. Like persists sexually abusing boys are not because they are gay, it’s an acting out power concept. | /r/MensRights | 08/11/22 04:48 PM |
| -4 | Is The Male Gaze and Gynocentrism two sides of the same coin?These are different tropes. One is sexualizing women’s bodies the other one is seeing them as damsels in distress. Both are sexist. It’s just not the same comparison and a bit harmful to extend it that way. You could have simply made a post about the damsel in distress trope without bringing in the very real widespread issue of women’s bodies being portrayed as sex objects. This still has harmful impacts like not everywhere it is legal to be topless for women. And of course the problem in Middle… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/11/22 04:30 AM |
| 1 | aftermath of the colonial human puppy mill mindsetnotice the puppy mill mindset in stuff like this. It is a colonial aftermath. This is so ingrained it’s the centrepiece of western society. It is nearly what makes White culture. The goal of enforcing a cisheteropatriarchy is to ensure humans breed. I found porn that plays on this though I think mainstream porn plays on it in general https://ilikecomix.com/adult-series/the-society-2-purgatory-dofantasy/ | /r/AntiFeminists | 04/11/22 11:23 AM |
| 1 | aftermath of the colonial human puppy mill mindsetnotice the puppy mill mindset in stuff like this. It is a colonial aftermath. This is so ingrained it’s the centrepiece of western society. It is nearly what makes White culture. The goal of enforcing a cisheteropatriarchy is to ensure humans breed. I found porn that plays on this though I think mainstream porn plays on it in general https://ilikecomix.com/adult-series/the-society-2-purgatory-dofantasy/ | /r/MensRights | 04/11/22 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Equality is...In eSports no. some physical games (all sports are elaborate games) are designed in a way to specifically give a cis man an advantage. It is on the same level as how doing a push-up can be physically more challenging for a human with breasts. We could have made up absolutely anything but because cis men had most power they designed the rules of the game to benefit them. So several physical games that value burst power output or contact are abilities in which being a larger human with most upper … | /r/MensRights | 03/11/22 09:06 AM |
| 1 | Equality is...You don’t believe there are sports where men and women compete together???? Search it up bro. Easy google. Also eSports everyone competes in together. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/22 08:32 AM |
| -4 | Equality is...No bro women don’t expect men to pay on dates. What country you in? Split like adults and stop being sexist. This is not gender inclusive. Do you think lesbians just don’t pay and gay men both pay or what is going on with your mindset. Women can very much do equal work. There are enough tools to that pure brute force needed for a job is in such minority of jobs it’s like saying that people in a wheelchair are unable to work when they can contribute to society in many ways. There exist men weaker… | /r/MensRights | 02/11/22 08:25 PM |
| 1 | equality 🟰❤️not in Canada at least, your country is fucked if this is happening. People get charged for assault it’s a crime. | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/11/22 07:28 AM |
| 2 | What is the new mgtow forum?Lol seems they just weren’t there to witness it. You have to be really dense to not see how that became a cringe misogynistic circle jerk. Every post was about how women suck. If they could stick to their message and talk about anything but women then it would make sense. | /r/MensRights | 02/11/22 07:12 AM |
| -7 | What is the new mgtow forum?FYI the original subreddit was very much not the original premise of MGTOW. It became a hate group | /r/MensRights | 02/11/22 12:06 AM |
| -5 | equality 🟰❤️Learn what. Call police. It’s on camera. Assault is a crime. | /r/AntiFeminists | 01/11/22 07:31 AM |
| -14 | equality 🟰❤️yo we shouldn’t be hitting anyone in the first place. she assaulted him. Bad, call police. Don’t assault in response. If someone rapes someone the solution is not to rape them back. | /r/AntiFeminists | 01/11/22 06:50 AM |
| 0 | Yeah, I should care about how 'my presence' makes a woman feel.well okay there needs to be dialogue to acknowledge unconscious bias though. So it’s not racist for example acknowledge the angry black woman stereotype because it is plausible people who claim to be non-racist do have this ingrained in them. There is a movement from being non-racist to anti-racist which is a more deliberate a effort watching for biases. Those biases need to be acknowledged though | /r/MensRights | 01/11/22 04:23 AM |
| 0 | Yeah, I should care about how 'my presence' makes a woman feel.That intersectionality. Black men have a different set of issues | /r/MensRights | 01/11/22 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Misandry is becoming so casual and accepted amongst womentake note that is mostly a White (English colonial settler) culture thing. other cultures see gender relations differently. Also you can already see there is a Eurocentric bias of using the gender binary when talking about the things they claim. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/22 05:27 PM |
| 1 | She is really offended because the crash test dummies dont resemble women. 🤦🏼♀️No bro she is offended because the proportions for the dummy are based on an average man which cuts short making sure women are safe | /r/AntiFeminists | 31/10/22 12:14 AM |
| 1 | i wonder why American men are still getting married with the legal system heavily leaning against them.Same. I am confused why anyone would sign that contract. It has nothing to do with human bonding anyways. There are other ways to get the same thing like Will, Power of Attorney, custody etc. What do you even mean by “believe in marriage”? Believe in committed monogamous relationships? That is amatonormatvity. There are various sociosexualities in terms of what kind of relationships people prefer. | /r/MensRights | 30/10/22 08:25 PM |
| -4 | The Hands-Men tale. How throwing men in jail for support payments and cancelling MGTOW proves its men who are living in a dystopian nightmare due to breeding. Not women.lol that is the point of classism and capitalism. Read about cultural hegemony. There is still a patriarchal structure because among the elite class it is the men who rule. | /r/MensRights | 30/10/22 08:23 PM |
| -1 | The Hands-Men tale. How throwing men in jail for support payments and cancelling MGTOW proves its men who are living in a dystopian nightmare due to breeding. Not women.How exactly I don’t understand? | /r/MensRights | 30/10/22 08:22 PM |
| 0 | The Hands-Men tale. How throwing men in jail for support payments and cancelling MGTOW proves its men who are living in a dystopian nightmare due to breeding. Not women.Yes vasectomies for everyone. Take that republicans. They just wanted to force people to breed based on the great replacement theory shit | /r/MensRights | 30/10/22 08:22 PM |
| -15 | The Hands-Men tale. How throwing men in jail for support payments and cancelling MGTOW proves its men who are living in a dystopian nightmare due to breeding. Not women.read about what happened with MGTOW. It is no longer what it literally meant. It became a hate group. You can look at the archived subreddit posts. It was garbage misogyny. The posts were primarily about women and how much they hate them. Ironic for a sub that preaches a lifestyle where one doesn’t care about women. I followed them for years before they got banned, I saw it become a hate group. | /r/MensRights | 30/10/22 08:21 PM |
| -2 | The Hands-Men tale. How throwing men in jail for support payments and cancelling MGTOW proves its men who are living in a dystopian nightmare due to breeding. Not women.I don’t understand what you are saying. For starters read about what happened with MGTOW. It is no longer what it literally meant. It became a hate group. You can look at the archived subreddit posts. It was garbage misogyny. The posts were primarily about women and how much they hate them. Ironic for a sub that preaches a lifestyle where one doesn’t care about women. I followed them for years before they got banned, I saw it become a hate group. The nightmare for women is using a human who happ… | /r/MensRights | 30/10/22 08:20 PM |
| 2 | this is getting ridiculousThat’s mostly a White culture problem with the gender inequities. I kinda hate this too. Some women have trauma from masculine presenting people hurting them. So they don’t want “men” around them | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/10/22 04:54 AM |
| -2 | How do we dismantle the feminist movement?To start would be good if you understand feminism in depth. The different movements and branches. https://www.thecanadianencyclopedia.ca/en/article/feminism Learn sociology and politics concepts. feminism is not a prescriptive set of beliefs, feminism is a lens of viewing social problems. somebody could be a feminist and hold some factually false beliefs and vice versa. the two aren't necessarily related. Like what you wrote in your title doesn’t make sense. It shows you don’t understand the con… | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/10/22 04:41 AM |
| 1 | According to these feminists on this post, we are not allowed to go overseas and seek out women and open our options. they want us to be stuck to their ways . smhwtf the general point of view is it is mainstream knowledge that women get trafficked like simple google tells that but I also know google is not the best source yet there is a lot of scholarly media too if you get educated about how the world works: https://www.forbes.com/sites/ewelinaochab/2019/07/01/trafficking-of-north-korean-women-in-china/?sh=7fff6c417af0 Women have less rights in North Korea. You can read about the way of life there and gather information from interviews of people who ran… | /r/MensRights | 29/10/22 06:54 AM |
| 0 | Is There A ‘Right To Sex’? | Krystal Kyle & Friends PodcastI am answer the question of the post. Whether there is a right to sex or not. The answer is no | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/10/22 06:47 AM |
| -14 | Is There A ‘Right To Sex’? | Krystal Kyle & Friends PodcastWhoever has the sentiment that there is a right to sex. Like incels and Jordan Peterson that supports enforced monogamy. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/10/22 05:01 AM |
| 5 | Is There A ‘Right To Sex’? | Krystal Kyle & Friends PodcastYes and on Maslow’s hierarchy of needs it’s in the 3rd rung. So it’s on the same level as needing a friend. People can’t demand to have a friend or make it a human right for someone to be their friend the way they can claim it is a human right to have food and water. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/10/22 04:59 AM |
| -8 | Is There A ‘Right To Sex’? | Krystal Kyle & Friends PodcastIt’s isn’t a human need though. You don’t die without it like food and water and sleep is a human need. One could argue that masturbation is a need since people can have physical and mental symptoms from not having a release but doing a fun partnered activity that happens to be what this society labels sexual isn’t a need. It’s on the level of wanting ice cream. Like what is it the orgasm, or is it that seeing someone else orgasm, or what is it the “touching someone else’s body”. It’s not logica… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/10/22 04:51 AM |
| 1 | When talking about consent— Why doesn’t the discussion extend to consent to have my child.In Canada yes but in US it is really difficult to have it approved because doctors gatekeep it claiming the husband has to decide and a person can’t have it if didn’t create humans yet. | /r/MensRights | 29/10/22 04:45 AM |
| 1 | According to these feminists on this post, we are not allowed to go overseas and seek out women and open our options. they want us to be stuck to their ways . smhHolly fuck there is so much evidence. Go to the library and get an account for a university database and there are so many articles and studies on this. You can do the layman approach and read on google and YouTube about North Korean defectors. women have a significantly worse quality of life. Like they don’t have abortion and birth control legal at all. They get raped to the point of thinking this is normal male behaviour and get sold as sex slaved. I read and analyze things bud that’s how I kn… | /r/MensRights | 29/10/22 04:44 AM |
| 1 | According to these feminists on this post, we are not allowed to go overseas and seek out women and open our options. they want us to be stuck to their ways . smhWho is a sociology cultist and what is that? lol of course China sends them straight back. It’s just their only way to escape to South Korea. So they take that risk. | /r/MensRights | 29/10/22 04:39 AM |
| 1 | According to these feminists on this post, we are not allowed to go overseas and seek out women and open our options. they want us to be stuck to their ways . smhPolitics is interconnected in understanding sociology. Sociology looks into structures of societies whiles politics is power dynamics. | /r/MensRights | 29/10/22 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Hi everyone. We’re about to have a discussion about patriarchy in my college class, and I’d like to know what my best arguments against patriarchy would be, and which arguments would show there are instances which there is bias against men. Thanks!Trump is not a good influence in terms of what stops human suffering. | /r/MensRights | 29/10/22 04:36 AM |
| 3 | Men, Feminist Women Are Unworthy To Protect & Die ForWell no shit lol asking someone to do something because of their sex or gender is sexist lmao. Just asking someone to do a task is different though. People of any gender can be partners and split tasks. No women expect me to protect them. That is some archaic 1950s shit. You shouldn’t be hitting anyone in the first place bud. Physical assault is a crime like sexual assault. You should read some scholarly media to learn what feminism is. feminism is not a prescriptive set of beliefs, feminism is … | /r/AntiFeminists | 29/10/22 02:58 AM |
| 0 | Hi everyone. We’re about to have a discussion about patriarchy in my college class, and I’d like to know what my best arguments against patriarchy would be, and which arguments would show there are instances which there is bias against men. Thanks!Would be good if you genuinely understood what it means. From a scholarly in-depth perspective. It is the power dynamic in the western world (so White culture) of the cis man-cis woman relationship on the intersectionality wheel. You should look into the history of colonization, focus on analyzing what is the intent of colonization so what fallout could come from that in terms of human societies, and how humans made up religions like Christianity to enforce social structures like patriarchy. Rea… | /r/MensRights | 28/10/22 02:56 AM |
| 0 | According to these feminists on this post, we are not allowed to go overseas and seek out women and open our options. they want us to be stuck to their ways . smhwait a second, doing partnered sexual acts with people is different than trying to make relationship arrangements which seems to be closer to marriage-like arrangements | /r/MensRights | 27/10/22 05:11 AM |
| -14 | According to these feminists on this post, we are not allowed to go overseas and seek out women and open our options. they want us to be stuck to their ways . smhno it is not innate for men to protect and provide lol. that’s gender essentialism. It was ingrained from colonization of North America so that the conservative social structures like the cisheteropatriarchy is enforced. Christianity helped achieve that. That structure is useful for ensuring the ruling class of the colonizing country has a steady flow of workers, as per capitalism. Europeans basically created a human puppy mill out of North America through tricks like the American Dream and soci… | /r/MensRights | 27/10/22 05:08 AM |
| -1 | When talking about consent— Why doesn’t the discussion extend to consent to have my child.misogyny is in the way to creating artificial wombs. Like the 14 day rule that treats a female body like a Walmart appliance. Once we have artificial wombs you don’t need another human to act as an incubator for your child. | /r/MensRights | 27/10/22 03:40 AM |
| -4 | When talking about consent— Why doesn’t the discussion extend to consent to have my child.You can get a vasectomy. | /r/MensRights | 27/10/22 03:39 AM |
| 1 | "If every woman decided to not have kids, the government would probably step in to ensure that the human race survives, so the perception of free will in regard to having kids only exists for women so long as other women are willingly having kids."Well men don’t gestate the human. There is nothing to force. What you gonna force people to rawdog lol | /r/MensRights | 25/10/22 03:26 AM |
| 0 | How could you find out if a woman is feminist and what her actual beliefs are?What do you mean by feminist? You have a poor understanding of that term. feminism is not a prescriptive set of beliefs, feminism is a lens of viewing social problems. somebody could be a feminist and hold some factually false beliefs and vice versa. the two aren't necessarily related. | /r/MensRights | 23/10/22 03:54 AM |
| -6 | Cancelling the MGTOW movement is the same as grooming men. No one is entitled to a marriageIt became way different from its initial intent. That’s why it got cancelled. It became a misogynistic hate group part of the manosphere. You can find the archived reddit. Or r/MGTOWban has screenshots from there. I was present on it for like 3 years before it got banned. Marriage is a pointless contract. No one needs to get married in the first place. These men initially were pushing back against the same cisheteropatriarchal amatonormativity rules of the western world that feminist women fight… | /r/MensRights | 22/10/22 01:33 AM |
| 1 | In a war, do you would fight for a woke country, a country that don't value you?What does this question even mean? What do you mean by woke. What do you mean by doesn’t value you. No shit US doesn’t value you. You are a wageslave in their capitalist machine for the ruling class to profit. | /r/MensRights | 21/10/22 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Feminist myths and the facts that disprove them.Myth : In a society with equality of opportunity between men and women, we should expect to see men and women pursuing different types of jobs and careers at similar rates. that is a Jordan Peterson talking point. the world has not seen true equality for men and women. Even if the hard power of patriarchy has been removed in SOME places, the soft power still remains. Just like even is slavery of blacks was abolished doesn't mean anti-black racism disappeared. for example antisemitism is still hu… | /r/MensRights | 19/10/22 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Feminist myths and the facts that disprove them.Myth : Gender diversity on corporate boards significantly improves performance and productivity of businesses. this is cringe. there doesn't need to be justification for why employment should account for diversity. humans are diverse, they do not chose this. so employers need to account for that to account for the whole human population. how is the place where you are from still stuck on proving why diversity and equity is important, that is common sense by now in Canada. | /r/MensRights | 19/10/22 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Feminist myths and the facts that disprove them.that sounds more of an Andrew Tate, Ben Shapiro, and Jordan Peterson thing | /r/MensRights | 19/10/22 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Feminist myths and the facts that disprove them.there has been a lot of effort to push women into trades and the military in Canada. you can search up about it. seems what you are describing is a US problem since they are like 50 years behind Canada. eventually if people keep advocating it will get to it as well. patriarchy hurts everyone remember. | /r/MensRights | 19/10/22 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Feminist myths and the facts that disprove them.you seem to be unaware of what wage gap is referring to, it is a complex concept in sociology. It helps explain why care-related professions (early childhood educator, nurse, PSW, social worker) are undervalued and underpaid for example. here read this to get educated: http://equalpaycoalition.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/07/Equality-in-Employment-A-Royal-Commission-Report-Abella-Complete-Report.pdf it is way more complex than just paying individual people differently for the same work. Also read… | /r/MensRights | 19/10/22 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Feminist myths and the facts that disprove them.there is a reason STEM is cherry picked lol. there was a stereotype in US that girls are bad at math and too emotional to do engineering. In Canada too. if you watch the documentary about barbara findley, she explains how she worked for a professor in university who was writing journals about why women cannot be engineers. you link is about UK. the world is not UK. there are countries like in US and Canada where there are still way less women in STEM. in India doctors are dominated by women and … | /r/MensRights | 19/10/22 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Feminist myths and the facts that disprove them.you should read scholarly media on sociology. patriarchy is a term to describe the cis man - cis woman power dynamic as per the intersectionality wheel ONLY (does not even include transgender people). there was in fact oppression of women due to the patriarchy. it is a term in sociology. read scholarly media. look into Abrahamic religions and how they are all patriarchal. even if the hard power of patriarchy has been resolved, soft power of patriarchy remains even in US. look at what happened wi… | /r/MensRights | 19/10/22 02:38 PM |
| 0 | Feminist myths and the facts that disprove them.that is not what male privilege means. I suggest reading scholarly articles on sociology. what you listed is valid, these are examples of how patriarchy hurts men too. this is just like white supremacy hurts white people too. thought half the stuff you listed is not gendered, these are general society problems. the solution is not to get equal representation but to remove the problem. like these ones -die at work places => why are people dying in the first place. no human should be dying -partic… | /r/MensRights | 19/10/22 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Feminist myths and the facts that disprove them.I suggest reading scholarly sociology media. there are many terms of feminism waves and branches. Canada is in 4th wave and tends to intersectional feminism. that is different than what seems to be happening in US | /r/MensRights | 19/10/22 02:28 PM |
| 2 | Feminist myths and the facts that disprove them.correct | /r/MensRights | 19/10/22 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Feminist myths and the facts that disprove them.its a scholarly term. you should read sociology scholarly textbooks | /r/MensRights | 19/10/22 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Feminist myths and the facts that disprove them.patriarchy is a term to describe the cis man - cis woman power dynamic as per the intersectionality wheel ONLY (does not even include transgender people). there was in fact oppression of women due to the patriarchy. it is a term in sociology. read scholarly media. look into Abrahamic religions and how they are all patriarchal. even if the hard power of patriarchy has been resolved, soft power of patriarchy remains even in US. look at what happened with Roe V Wade taking away women's rights, that… | /r/MensRights | 19/10/22 02:15 PM |
| 1 | mothers more likely to commit infanticide, withdraw investment in children, redirect effort elsewhereNo we don’t to the point of full ectogenesis. Netherlands is trying to have them in 10 years | /r/MensRights | 19/10/22 03:53 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible to marry without the potential to lose half of everything in divorce? If so, how?Why would you marry though. It’s a pointless contract. It has nothing to do with human bonding. You could get similar legal benefits separately with power of attorney, will, custody etc. Lol of course you would want that scenario. It’s the American Dream. It’s a ploy to keep North America churning so the ruling class profits. you just randomly assumed your wife will be stay at home wtf. Seems you are more into a dominance play here | /r/MensRights | 18/10/22 02:31 PM |
| -1 | It's always misogyny and toxic masculinityWhy the fuck are you sending me information about Australian Indigenous people lol | /r/MensRights | 15/10/22 05:26 AM |
| 0 | It's always misogyny and toxic masculinityYou need to download the PDF and use docdroid.com to send me the link. I can’t open your link. Which tribes is that you are referring to? Like give me the name of it. | /r/MensRights | 15/10/22 05:23 AM |
| -7 | It's always misogyny and toxic masculinityI did say both sexes were oppressed; I also said by whom: by their families, the State and biology. The State is just a more formal way of saying society. The State signifies laws, taxes, unspoked but enforced social attitudes; these exist throughout every society and are needed to make a society, in the first place. That's control. This isn’t how society works. Family isn’t oppressing people unless someone prior to that set in motion the cycle how the colonizers did. Your whole view of family a… | /r/MensRights | 15/10/22 03:26 AM |
| -4 | It's always misogyny and toxic masculinityYou say both sexes were oppressed but by who. You are missing an important puzzle. This didn’t just randomly generate like a sandbox game. Indigenous people in North America were not nearly as oppressive to each other as what happened when colonizers came. All the stuff with white supremacy, patriarchy, cisnormativity, heteronormativity, amatonormativity, Christianity was applied artificially. People were living one with the land instead of owning land and exploiting it. It is actually a very im… | /r/MensRights | 15/10/22 02:14 AM |
| -2 | Why do so many men continue to blindly endorse the notion that feminism is about equality, despite overwhelming objective evidence to the contrary?That was like in 1990-2000. What this sub laments about with preferring women and minorities over white men. These days like gender identity and expression has been added to human rights. They are working off a gender identity spectrum so all that man vs woman doesn’t matter | /r/MensRights | 15/10/22 12:44 AM |
| -2 | I just came from r/MensRightsNothing. This sub is fine. I was contrasting r/mensrights to r/menslib. where menslib is better for what you are trying to achieve | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/10/22 12:42 AM |
| -12 | It's always misogyny and toxic masculinityYes because those are the terms for these concepts. What is your dissatisfaction with it? In the context of the western culture. Misogyny was applied onto women by men with the use of patriarchal structures. It wasn’t women who wrote the bible and wrote Catechism of the Catholic Church that forces them to be walking wombs, denied reproductive rights. Toxic masculinity men apply on each other. But considering this already involves the gender binary it’s harmful. It’s just men had more power. It’s… | /r/MensRights | 15/10/22 12:22 AM |
| -11 | I just came from r/MensRightsr/askfeminists are not as kind for explaining things. r/feminisms I like better for that. While r/feminism is useless they ban at any disapproval r/menslib requires discussion style posts. this sub is like in between r/mensrights and r/menslib r/mensrights is closer to a venting sub for thought draft ideas so they come off crude | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/10/22 10:44 PM |
| -27 | I just came from r/MensRightsSame cycle as with r/MGTOW. They keep coming. Fuelled by people like Jordan Peterson, Ben Shapiro, Andrew Tate. Read the book “men who hate women”. It’s the same damn mindset just in various embodiments Got to r/menslib | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/10/22 09:48 PM |
| -1 | Why do so many men continue to blindly endorse the notion that feminism is about equality, despite overwhelming objective evidence to the contrary?Feminism is different in various countries don’t forget that. US is not the centre of the universe. In Canada feminism looks different. There are so many branches of it and various waves too. We are on 4th which is different for example from 2nd where TERFs come in. And TERFs are a radical feminist mindset which is also different from say intersectional feminism | /r/MensRights | 14/10/22 09:43 PM |
| 2 | Circumcusion should only be performed on men of legal age. Change My Mindyou are correct. surgery should be performed with consent. especially for non-life threatening reasons | /r/MensRights | 14/10/22 01:06 AM |
| -5 | Open letter to Andrew Tatelol your comment is the definition of toxic masculinity. It’s a useful label to describe gender relation in the west. Saying “Man up bro” is part of that toxic culture we don’t want for a society with less hate. you assume everyone is straight or something. Assume what women want when they are just as diverse people as men. No one needs a mate. This isn’t animals breeding. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/22 01:48 AM |
| 0 | Open letter to Andrew TateYes exactly. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/22 01:46 AM |
| 0 | What is an Incelcelibacy is abstaining from all forms of partnered activity that human labeled sexual. not just intercourse. you have a bias in that statement assuming this only applies to heterosexual men who specifically do intercourse of all the many sexual acts out there. also, in the past not masturbating (solo sexual activity) was considered celibacy. | /r/MensRights | 11/10/22 10:30 PM |
| 1 | What is an Incelthis is also a good resource to understand the social dynamics between groups: https://docdro.id/DsLTgbb | /r/MensRights | 11/10/22 10:29 PM |
| 2 | What is an IncelGood overview here: https://knowledge.uchicago.edu/record/4217 Also read Elliot Rodger’s manifesto. Google to find it. Also good for understanding. But when you read it do it like reading a book for class. Analyze, use critical thinking. Know that it is not absolute truth and you need to analyze the full picture, Elliot like a character, instead of fall for what he is saying. Similar to how when reading a bible acknowledge religion is a bunch of made up stories for controlling people. Don’t actu… | /r/MensRights | 11/10/22 07:23 AM |
| 0 | Greta Aurora: Sexual Dimorphism Vs. Monomorphism in HumansWhat does this have to do with men’s rights | /r/MensRights | 11/10/22 07:04 AM |
| 1 | Why is it that anytime a man voices frustration with anything in regard to Men’s Rights it is suggested he “hates” women?Can you give a specific example? Sometimes the way it’s phrased is the issue. Comparing men’s rights to women’s rights doesn’t work in contexts when its understood women are the oppressed class. it’s like talking about racism towards white people but trying to compare it to racism to black people. It doesn’t work because the analogy is too shallow, there isn’t that history of violence towards whites that blacks faced. On its own talking about issues that impact men should be acceptable since fem… | /r/MensRights | 09/10/22 06:17 AM |
| 0 | What’s wrong with MGTOW?The subreddit got banned for becoming the typical misogynistic manosphere thing. Just like incels come off as nothing more than involuntarily celibate but even that concept is a harmful worldview along with the iceberg of misogyny that movement represents. I been on the subreddit before it got banned. It was it’s constantly shitting on women. You would think that a group for men going their own way so not worrying about women would have anything but topics on women but it became about just shitt… | /r/MensRights | 09/10/22 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Just a reminder guys...Why do you even think of relationships as exchanges. Human bonding wasn’t supposed to be possessive. That is a colonization thing where colonizers wanted to create perfect family units to keep people procreating | /r/AntiFeminists | 06/10/22 07:40 PM |
| -3 | Help this feminist understand.this sub misuses the term feminist. better to ask this question on r/MensLib the thing is neither can understanding feminism be done in 1 Reddit comment. people take several university courses to understand it. there are several branches and waves of feminism. all having their contributions and downfalls. start by reading the sidebar on r/AskFeminists the sub itself is not very good for asking questions and neither is r/Feminism but the side bar of r/AskFeminists will give you the very basics. t… | /r/MensRights | 06/10/22 05:57 AM |
| -2 | were can i find links disproving the gender wage gap for a upcoming debateNo this isn’t what wage gap is about actually. Stereotypically women’s jobs get systemically underpaid | /r/AntiFeminists | 05/10/22 06:41 AM |
| 3 | Some men low in emotional intelligence give women the 'ick'. Are there any things some women do that give men the 'ick'?it’s kinda like social skills but being able to decipher human behaviour. like being aware of psychology maybe. hard to explain. It’s what makes good leaders. It comes off as manipulative a bit but it comes from understanding how to interact with humans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 06:40 AM |
| -2 | The observable differences between males and females are biological -- now what?lol how so end of civilization. That is not what this means that “everything is untrue”. It is just important to understand where the “knowledge” is coming from | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 06:38 AM |
| 0 | The observable differences between males and females are biological -- now what?It is acknowledging that there are implicit biases in even the way biology is understood. So that people take critical thinking to it. Knowledge is negotiated in society and reflects power interests rather than being objective and universal. Like he baby fever and motherly instincts thing was debunked. Homosexuality being a mental illness was debunked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 06:29 AM |
| 1 | CMV: If legal, age doesn’t matterIf there was sufficient sex ed to ensure people of any age are only having consensual sex then you ideas would be valid but there is horrible sex ed around the world. People still do not understand consent and sexual and reproductive health | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 04:34 AM |
| 42 | Some men low in emotional intelligence give women the 'ick'. Are there any things some women do that give men the 'ick'?Having low emotional intelligence is annoying for everyone regardless of gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 04:33 AM |
| 2 | The observable differences between males and females are biological -- now what?So this is some gender essentialist sexist bullshit. Please read current scholarly human sexuality textbooks and encyclopedias. You can contact sex therapists and people who work in this field as well so you get accurate information. You can join some Sex Geekdoms (search it up) to have educated conversations. Like start with International Encyclopedia of Human Sexuality by Patricia. Free on libgen.is Not mayo clinic lol. That is not a reputable source. For example there is not just XX and XY. P… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 04:28 AM |
| -6 | were can i find links disproving the gender wage gap for a upcoming debateMaybe instead get educated on what the wage gap is referring to http://equalpaycoalition.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/07/Equality-in-Employment-A-Royal-Commission-Report-Abella-Complete-Report.pdf ps. It’s a thing. Lots of people don’t understand what it is referring to but if you use some critical thinking you could see where it comes into play Also read about equal pay for equal work. There is an act in Ontario, Canada of it | /r/AntiFeminists | 05/10/22 04:21 AM |
| -3 | were can i find links disproving the gender wage gap for a upcoming debateRead about equal pay for equal work. In Canada at least nurses are underpaid. This can be deduced from that model | /r/AntiFeminists | 05/10/22 04:21 AM |
| 1 | what are some stereotypical ways men are represented in movies/books that you hate?Oh yeah for sure. Like they also need to depict men more as nurses and early childhood educators. Along with in general working with kids and parenting. That will help remove those stigmas like “oh are you babysitting” said to fathers | /r/MensRights | 05/10/22 04:04 AM |
| 2 | what are some stereotypical ways men are represented in movies/books that you hate?It makes sense that father figures would be lacking. Women were pushed into those figures. Their whole purpose was proposed to be a mother hence keep depicting them that way. | /r/MensRights | 04/10/22 10:17 PM |
| 3 | what are some stereotypical ways men are represented in movies/books that you hate?There is a cartoon called Alpha and Omega. The Netflix reel that plays when you click on it is like a duck telling the male and female wolf that they can be the last of their kind so need to repopulate. And the male wolf is shown like happy panting. While the female wolf is confused. Yeah that. It’s ingrained in my brain from how uncomfortable that depiction is. It’s a children’s cartoon too. | /r/MensRights | 04/10/22 09:52 PM |
| 1 | what are some stereotypical ways men are represented in movies/books that you hate?I don’t like the women-fainting-at-hot-man trope | /r/MensRights | 04/10/22 09:43 PM |
| 3 | what are some stereotypical ways men are represented in movies/books that you hate?I found an article about Filipino books having more boys than girls. It also analyzed language used like girls had more passive roles and descriptors and adjectives than boys. | /r/MensRights | 04/10/22 03:33 AM |
| 2 | what are some stereotypical ways men are represented in movies/books that you hate?Any statistics on this? | /r/MensRights | 04/10/22 01:55 AM |
| 12 | what are some stereotypical ways men are represented in movies/books that you hate?Oh yeah I hate that one too. Makes men come off sex obsessed. | /r/MensRights | 04/10/22 01:36 AM |
| 6 | what are some stereotypical ways men are represented in movies/books that you hate?Oh yeah I hate that one. Not only does it show impressionable boys this is the way to behave it also restated harmful stereotypes | /r/MensRights | 04/10/22 01:35 AM |
| 3 | what are some stereotypical ways men are represented in movies/books that you hate?Can you give an example in media? | /r/MensRights | 04/10/22 12:48 AM |
| 5 | what are some stereotypical ways men are represented in movies/books that you hate?Like the Homer Simpson trope yeah | /r/MensRights | 03/10/22 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Why does each conversation end the same with feministsometimes a person’s belief system is so whack there is no discussion. if you want to have constructive conversations do get educated. Read scholarly media. | /r/AntiFeminists | 03/10/22 11:05 PM |
| 2 | What exactly is toxic masculinity?I did computer science and math (double major) in university. I have a bachelors of science so a person can get a bachelors of science in math. Math classifies under STEM which is usually what gets grouped under natural science. Computer science is applied math or we could call it a branch of math. physics is also applied math. Biology is a hard science yet it was riddled with sexism and racism. Chemistry too when we get to hormones it starts getting sexist (as in gendered bias and not just labe… | /r/MensRights | 30/09/22 07:57 AM |
| 3 | What exactly is toxic masculinity?The terms soft and hard science are just words for the same distinctions as social vs natural science. like something being soft isn’t descriptive to mean how that science differs beyond trying to distinguish something being a social vs natural science. Idk where the term “soft” science came from, it seems misleading. I suspect it comes from bashing social science majors tbh. Since soft has a negative connotation and natural sciences are deemed harder in university. That is its own issue though … | /r/MensRights | 30/09/22 06:18 AM |
| 1 | What exactly is toxic masculinity?Anthropology is a science. Psychology is a science. Sociology is like taking psychology and anthropology. Or taking a social psychology lens. sociology has various branches too. Like linguistics and theology and political science fall under it because it’s only within human societies these things exist. There are so many scholarly articles in sociology lol. Do you not bother learning about the various fields of science. Like here is one https://www.researchgate.net/publication/342989737_Defendin… | /r/MensRights | 30/09/22 03:48 AM |
| -1 | What exactly is toxic masculinity?lol it is science and proven fact. What do you think science even is. It’s theories and building information upon what is observed to try to make sense of it. Human does this thing where it story-tells to give meaning to things. When really meaning is only within the human realm. There never was any meaning. Things just exist. But humans wants things to have some explanation. First you had religion doing this job. Things were explained away with it. Then you started getting science where people … | /r/MensRights | 30/09/22 01:45 AM |
| -1 | What exactly is toxic masculinity?Read this: https://www.reddit.com/r/TooAfraidToAsk/comments/xbk44k/im_aware_of_toxic_masculinity_is_there_such_a/io0090f/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3 This sub doesn’t have many knowledgeable people. You can see this by the way things just get downvoted and people don’t wish to engage in discussion for critical thinking using scholarly views on concepts. They just attack the person or discredit the idea. I suggest r/menslib or reading sociology textbooks. The fem… | /r/MensRights | 29/09/22 07:48 PM |
| 1 | GF is pregnant after lying about contraceptives — a warning to all my college males out there like meYou should look into getting a vasectomy. Anyways you can still procreate since sperm can be taken out of the testicles for IVF or IUI | /r/MensRights | 29/09/22 07:55 AM |
| 2 | F vs M bodycount argument in a nutshell: A key that can open any lock is invaluable, whereas a lock that can be opened by any key is worthless.not all trans woman have a vagina. I am taking about just the organ. | /r/AntiFeminists | 29/09/22 06:37 AM |
| 0 | "Tim Cook: 'No good excuse' for lack of women in tech". How about, for example, more females than males being more interested in other subject areas (and fields of employment). These sorts of statements can lead to males being put at a disadvantage/being discriminated against/more help for females.Yes correct. They are not getting enough people period. To get more men in that group of people they need to increase pay. Same issue with privates getting paid near minimum wage in Canada. They will have a hard time recruiting people in general not just women. | /r/MensRights | 28/09/22 05:16 AM |
| 4 | F vs M bodycount argument in a nutshell: A key that can open any lock is invaluable, whereas a lock that can be opened by any key is worthless.what a weird sexist take. this is like r/ purplepilldebate level cringe. Sexual activity is not just intercourse. It is also not some lock thing where it’s give in take. It’s supposed to be a fun activity people do exchanging pleasure. Majority of people with a vagina can’t even orgasm form intercourse. | /r/AntiFeminists | 28/09/22 05:15 AM |
| 1 | "Tim Cook: 'No good excuse' for lack of women in tech". How about, for example, more females than males being more interested in other subject areas (and fields of employment). These sorts of statements can lead to males being put at a disadvantage/being discriminated against/more help for females.Well no the pay is what is driving people away. In Canada this is a problem. I suspect in US it’s a similar trend. | /r/MensRights | 28/09/22 05:11 AM |
| 2 | Am I wrong for wanting a wife who values motherhood over a career?any person can be a stay at home parent. The issue in the way you phrase I could be interpreted as sexist if you assume this based on the old woman’s gender role. That is like if a woman were to say she wants a man that is in the military and is jacked. yeah sure people can be done and fixated over things that to others come off strange. You may see how that can be interpreted as sexist because the man becomes more of a symbol rather than a person. Like she is actively scouting manly men accordi… | /r/MensRights | 28/09/22 04:57 AM |
| -1 | Arguments against "Not all men" that makes absolutely zero senseI think the clash that is happening here is the distinction between an individual or group of humans who happen to have the gender identity of man compared to the sociological class “man”. For an analogy I’ll give the example of using the term “Russians”. We talk about how Russians are the bad guys. We talk about how Ukrainians hate Russians. Russians are raping citizens. Russians are evil. Russians are dumb and getting brainwashed. But this isn’t indicative of my friend who happens to be from R… | /r/MensRights | 28/09/22 04:53 AM |
| 2 | "Tim Cook: 'No good excuse' for lack of women in tech". How about, for example, more females than males being more interested in other subject areas (and fields of employment). These sorts of statements can lead to males being put at a disadvantage/being discriminated against/more help for females.To fix the issue of men not going into care professions as much like nursing, teaching, early childhood education, PSW, social work they need to raise the pay as well. Those professions are historically underpaid. read about equal pay for equal work in Canada. That needs to be done. | /r/MensRights | 28/09/22 04:46 AM |
| 0 | Search "Body Positivity" on Google Images and see the results for yourselves. It's not "body" positivity it's "female" positivity.its from a historic reaction to body shaming impacting women disproportionally. like anorexia was originally only something diagnosed in women (one of the requirements to get this diagnosis was cessation of menses). women were seen as the prettier sex as part of their gender role of being property men pick out based on fertility. having to abide to beauty standards (that were perpetuated by media like if you heard of the term "male gaze" which is that way women in media are sexualized to be port… | /r/MensRights | 27/09/22 07:35 PM |
| 1 | your discontent around false accusations comes from second wave trans-exclusionary white feminismIf you disagree with a point. Any of the things I quoted or what article is saying, you can have a discussion about that knowledge. This is what academia does all the time. Yes there was lots of wrong things in science but to just claim all of this is wrong without an attempt to rebuttal won’t get anywhere | /r/MensRights | 27/09/22 05:12 PM |
| 1 | your discontent around false accusations comes from second wave trans-exclusionary white feminismWhere is the bigotry? | /r/MensRights | 27/09/22 05:11 PM |
| 1 | I was banned from the Feminist Sub reddit for just asking how come the pay gap exists yet its against the law to pay women less than men.Women get often forced or pressured to keep unwanted pregnancies. It is literally happening in US but in Canada there are still social pressures. Women marrying men who will provide for them is like 1980 stuff. World has gone passed that. In Canada marriage is declining since it’s a pointless contract that doesn’t give anything you can’t get by other contracts like will, power of attorney, custody. You even lose money when filing taxes for having the married or common law civil status. Women don… | /r/AntiFeminists | 27/09/22 04:49 AM |
| 0 | your discontent around false accusations comes from second wave trans-exclusionary white feminismWho said that men have to be the protector and provider lol? That’s some gender essentialism sexism. Maybe from religion influence you are getting that tint. Did you know that prior to the agricultural evolution human was egalitarian. They just worked together and it didn’t matter what genital shape a person had. People of all genital shapes hunted and raised little humans. With the agricultural revolution came the whole controlling women (seen as a vessel for reproduction) part since it mattere… | /r/MensRights | 27/09/22 04:41 AM |
| 1 | your discontent around false accusations comes from second wave trans-exclusionary white feminismHow so is it sexist and racist? Do you actually use the term feminism as an insult lol? The article even explains the harmful parts of feminism since you guys love jerking off to that in this sub. You don’t even bother reading or trying to learn. Where is the need for cognition hmm | /r/MensRights | 27/09/22 04:32 AM |
| 1 | your discontent around false accusations comes from second wave trans-exclusionary white feminismBased on what you make this assumption that feminism was about superiority? I already explained there are different branches of it like TERFs is superiority over trans but intersectional feminism accounts more. First wave had a different goal than second wave. The article explains where white supremacy comes in with superiority in terms of white feminism. US needed feminism to get women from being housewives to participating in society. It’s not superiority if a person wants to not have barriers… | /r/MensRights | 27/09/22 04:29 AM |
| 1 | your discontent around false accusations comes from second wave trans-exclusionary white feminismThose labels don’t mean much when people identify with them. I use the scholarly definitions of feminism. So when someone is a feminist or something is feminist it relates to a certain set of philosophy. | /r/MensRights | 27/09/22 02:46 AM |
| 1 | I was banned from the Feminist Sub reddit for just asking how come the pay gap exists yet its against the law to pay women less than men.Canada is close to US which is where a lot of these terms come from. Canada is US but more ahead so I rather talk about it since it had what US had but more now. Early childhood educators is it’s own career. They go to university for 4 years and have a standardized credential after. They work with younger children, it’s not same as school. Do you understand now after reading the article where the idea of gender wage gap comes from. Like what phenomenon it is describing. | /r/AntiFeminists | 27/09/22 02:45 AM |
| 1 | I was banned from the Feminist Sub reddit for just asking how come the pay gap exists yet its against the law to pay women less than men.Because you read a term and though you know what it means when you don’t. | /r/AntiFeminists | 27/09/22 02:43 AM |
| 0 | your discontent around false accusations comes from second wave trans-exclusionary white feminismWhat makes you think I am trying to mate with women lol? What a stupid video lol. Look it even uses the term “red pill”. You sound like the kind of person to follow “alpha male” youtubers That video assumes all women want to be in committed partnerships with men where the men provide money as if the woman is a pet or something. Just randomly assumes what women want when that isn’t so. Women want to go to work to be independent. There is not reason why human with vulva can’t go to work and earn t… | /r/MensRights | 27/09/22 02:23 AM |
| 1 | I was banned from the Feminist Sub reddit for just asking how come the pay gap exists yet its against the law to pay women less than men.lol did you just assume all women marry men that provide for them lmao. Assumed everyone has a family wtf. When analyzing why women don’t go for higher paying jobs there are many factors. Some are sexism (example told women bad at math discourages them from going into STEM), socialization (told women are naturally emotional and caring so pushed into care professions which tend to pay less). The other issue is that women who are forced to go through childbirth and keep the child now cannot take j… | /r/AntiFeminists | 27/09/22 02:17 AM |
| 1 | your discontent around false accusations comes from second wave trans-exclusionary white feminismbud a person writing a research paper focuses on one thing. Do you see how this is exclusive to US btw too. So doesn’t even cover Canada that has a different dynamic with race related to indigenous people. this isn’t going to go all over the world and analyze India. Scholarly media go precise to analyze In depth concepts. You can find what you mentioned in other articles. | /r/MensRights | 27/09/22 02:14 AM |
| 1 | your discontent around false accusations comes from second wave trans-exclusionary white feminismHow so when everything is quoted from research. There is a big ass bibliography | /r/MensRights | 27/09/22 02:12 AM |
| 1 | your discontent around false accusations comes from second wave trans-exclusionary white feminismTo analyze radicalized dynamics you kinda need to mention race lol. Racism is like when you have a bigoted view linked to race. Pointing out the way that being a white woman can be used against people of colour isn’t racist when there are power structures that make it clear and building on it helps resolve those same inequalities | /r/MensRights | 27/09/22 02:11 AM |
| 1 | your discontent around false accusations comes from second wave trans-exclusionary white feminismHow so. Prove it then if you think I’m ignorent. What’s the magical piece that is missing. We can have a voice chat in discord too if you wish to dismantle all my dumb dumb ignorance | /r/MensRights | 27/09/22 02:10 AM |
| 1 | your discontent around false accusations comes from second wave trans-exclusionary white feminismBecause one case is not what analyzes power dynamics. Sociology studies trends and takes general groupings of people. Like that’s why just one female CEO doesn’t right away disprove patriarchal structures. | /r/MensRights | 27/09/22 02:06 AM |
| 1 | your discontent around false accusations comes from second wave trans-exclusionary white feminismI don’t see how it’s an enemy. It is a useful tool to expand looking at social power dynamics beyond gender which was initially what feminism did. The term patriarchy is describing the specially cis man - cis woman dynamic on the intersectionality wheel | /r/MensRights | 27/09/22 02:04 AM |
| -1 | I was banned from the Feminist Sub reddit for just asking how come the pay gap exists yet its against the law to pay women less than men.lmao there is a huge shortage of nurses in Canada and a big part of that is the pay. Same issue with shortage of early childhood educators. Read the article I sent you then you can ask questions. | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/09/22 01:20 AM |
| 2 | your discontent around false accusations comes from second wave trans-exclusionary white feminismWhat exactly would you like me to see. I sense we are debating why this article is racist. Interesting take but what argument you have that it’s racist | /r/MensRights | 26/09/22 01:19 AM |
| -13 | I was banned from the Feminist Sub reddit for just asking how come the pay gap exists yet its against the law to pay women less than men.your opinion comes from a lack of education that is what I am pointing out. Fine it’s like asking “how come the sun exists yet some crocodiles have teeth” | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/09/22 01:18 AM |
| 2 | your discontent around false accusations comes from second wave trans-exclusionary white feminismHow so? Why do you call me a feminist exactly, what does that mean to you? Is that an insult. Usually feminist means related to a certain philosophy like Judith Butler being a feminist philosopher is one that writes in the domain of feminism. And not that feminist philosopher is like a blank term for “idiot” philosopher or “man-hating” philosopher. What would you like me to listen to? We can go talk in discord if you wish to discuss the article but you should probably read it or else there is no… | /r/MensRights | 26/09/22 01:16 AM |
| -3 | I was banned from the Feminist Sub reddit for just asking how come the pay gap exists yet its against the law to pay women less than men.It’s a way bigger problem than that. Read about “equal pay for equal work”. It isn’t just about the ask job paying different. Is about professions being undervalued due to being associated with women. Like the amount of work a nurse does can be equated to say car mechanic (based on hours, credentials, skills etc) but they end up paying nurses less. Read about the crisis happening with early childhood educators in Canada. This is another problem linked with the idea of gender pay gap | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/09/22 01:13 AM |
| -11 | I was banned from the Feminist Sub reddit for just asking how come the pay gap exists yet its against the law to pay women less than men.How not a good example? It gives a general explanation of how the equity groups came to be with research findings from before. | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/09/22 01:11 AM |
| 2 | your discontent around false accusations comes from second wave trans-exclusionary white feminismNo lol I never said that. Where did you even conclude this from lmao. Like what strings of words that I ever wrote in this post or from all of my reddit history makes you conclude that statement is applicable to me. Do you think “white feminism” means literally white skinned people lol. That’s not what it means. Read the article. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/22 01:11 AM |
| 3 | your discontent around false accusations comes from second wave trans-exclusionary white feminismHow so lol. you the intersectionality wheel. You know that white supremacy issues in US | /r/MensRights | 26/09/22 01:09 AM |
| 1 | your discontent around false accusations comes from second wave trans-exclusionary white feminismWhich is what tenants lol. Go ahead summarize all the feminism in one sentence. Did what themselves? I literally have quotes from the article in my post that explain the HARMS feminism caused. Yet you want to claim the article is arguing otherwise. Like am I taking to a wall or something. I have read Senneca Falls. People read it as part of studying sociology. Since we as exchanging reading recommendations you should read The History of Sexuality by Foucault | /r/MensRights | 26/09/22 01:08 AM |
| 1 | your discontent around false accusations comes from second wave trans-exclusionary white feminismThis isn’t about white vs black false accusers. Wow like it’s as if this sub doesn’t want to learn and just wants to be right. Read the article. It’s explaining the power dynamics that come from white supremacy and how that plays a role in how sexual assault of white women vs and by people of colour is interpreted. This isn’t a productive debate. This is like debating anarchism when you think it just means chaos like you saw on TV | /r/MensRights | 26/09/22 01:03 AM |
| -14 | I was banned from the Feminist Sub reddit for just asking how come the pay gap exists yet its against the law to pay women less than men.Because you have a very poor understanding of what the pay gap is referring to. That question you posed shows your lack of awareness and people are tired of explaining the same thing all the time. Here you can learn about it here: http://equalpaycoalition.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/07/Equality-in-Employment-A-Royal-Commission-Report-Abella-Complete-Report.pdf Your question has a bias. It’s like asking “if black people are dumber than white people how come Obama was president”. You don’t know wh… | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/09/22 01:00 AM |
| 0 | your discontent around false accusations comes from second wave trans-exclusionary white feminismThere are so many branches of feminism. It doesn’t mean anything to paint them with one brush. Read the article it explains the distinctions and why this one is problematic. It’s as if people on this sub are not interested in learning and just want to be right. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/22 12:55 AM |
| 1 | your discontent around false accusations comes from second wave trans-exclusionary white feminismThere are several branches of feminism. What you are saying shows to me you are not aware of them. Like intersectional feminism is different from radicals feminism and way different from trans-exclusionary radical feminism. Then you have different waves. First wave may have not accounted for the whole intersectionality but it’s premise was to liberate women from being men’s property to be allowed to participate in society equally. How is that hate. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/22 12:54 AM |
| 0 | your discontent around false accusations comes from second wave trans-exclusionary white feminismThe article analyzes why the false accusations happen based on a power dynamics level | /r/MensRights | 26/09/22 12:52 AM |
| -2 | your discontent around false accusations comes from second wave trans-exclusionary white feminismlmao “unnecessarily wordy” maybe for someone who hasn’t finished a university degree. It just uses formal English and accurate terms. The assumptions is what sociology involves. There are genetic attributes associated with groups based on majority findings. Like blacks experiencing racism due to skin colour or transgender having barriers in the workplace due to various factors. Those assumptions help see patterns that could contribute to how individual people of that group live even if it doesn’… | /r/MensRights | 26/09/22 12:51 AM |
| -1 | your discontent around false accusations comes from second wave trans-exclusionary white feminismCool you brought up one way to fix it. The article just outlines the power dynamics. Seems you didn’t read the article. No the issue is not he false accusations. It goes deeper than that and comes up in more than false accusations. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/22 12:47 AM |
| -3 | your discontent around false accusations comes from second wave trans-exclusionary white feminismHow so racist though. Do you understand the intersectionality wheel? Sociologists need to group people to analyze power dynamics because people were already grouped like that and it caused issues. You may not think of black people as inferior but racism still exists through Eurocentric white supremacy. People still hold prejudicial views subtly which impacts power dynamics. Like I was playing csgo with a black character and someone said “why are you black, fix yourself”. That is racist. It’s bee… | /r/MensRights | 26/09/22 12:46 AM |
| 2 | your discontent around false accusations comes from second wave trans-exclusionary white feminismHow so though. Okay you make the claim its all racist. It certainly talks about race and explains racial biases. But something talking about race is not racist. Racist would be hold prejudicial views related to race | /r/MensRights | 26/09/22 12:44 AM |
| 1 | your discontent around false accusations comes from second wave trans-exclusionary white feminismWhich part is better about TERFs lol they are the worst in terms of feminism. Since they end up harming women. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/22 12:43 AM |
| -6 | your discontent around false accusations comes from second wave trans-exclusionary white feminismHow so exactly? Which part is racist. Quote it. | /r/MensRights | 25/09/22 11:33 PM |
| -1 | your discontent around false accusations comes from second wave trans-exclusionary white feminismIt’s not “all”. You can read a 2 inch thick book on all the different feminist philosophies. You seem to be missing using the term feminist. People working on philosophy and social reform for gender equity can’t support rape culture especially if women disproportionately get impacted by it and feminine started as a woman’s liberation movement. Usually it’s called sexual assault these days instead of rape btw, to encompass the full spectrum of actions. Seems you didn’t even bother reading the art… | /r/MensRights | 25/09/22 11:28 PM |
| -13 | your discontent around false accusations comes from second wave trans-exclusionary white feminismYou should read the article. It explains why the false accusations are related to the position of white upper class women in society | /r/MensRights | 25/09/22 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Consensus on "financial" abortion right for malesit makes sense to talk about this if real abortion is readily available without stigma. otherwise there is forced parenthood on the mother and people working on social reform would not allow men to go scot free leaving the burden on the mother. like look at how Canada does it. look into their rules about revoking being a parent. | /r/MensRights | 25/09/22 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Company blatantly discriminating against men, especially white men, through diversity equity & inclusion goalsYou would need to first go to socialism before communism. I think there is a way more complex explanation of communism than that. Read Lenin’s work. Marx doesn’t explain communism though gives a good critique of capitalism. | /r/MensRights | 24/09/22 08:30 PM |
| 4 | It really saddens me the abysmal state of men’s rights in Russia today.Russia pushes gender roles quite hard to ensure there is a steady flow of workers for the ruling class to exploit. Women are broodmares and men are cannonfodder. This has been happening since Stalin times even. | /r/MensRights | 23/09/22 07:32 PM |
| 1 | mothers more likely to commit infanticide, withdraw investment in children, redirect effort elsewhereThis isn’t ether or. Go invent artificial wombs so fetuses can be transferred there. A human that already exists doesn’t want to get PTSD as much as you don’t want to get PTSD right now. If people were to force what pregnancy and childbirth is on prison inmates it would count as cruel and unusual punishment yet you wish to just whatever make people with a uterus go through that. People with a uterus are not some incubator vessel just because they are born with an organ capable of it. Time to dro… | /r/MensRights | 23/09/22 06:20 PM |
| -1 | Sooo this is what they come up with???How is this related to men’s rights | /r/MensRights | 22/09/22 05:28 PM |
| 1 | mothers more likely to commit infanticide, withdraw investment in children, redirect effort elsewherelol induce labour early can be traumatic. C section is a painful event. I don’t think you understand that people can get PTSD from childbirth. It’s violent. You are sick for thinking another human that already exists but happens to have a uterus has to be forced to go through pregnancy and childbirth | /r/MensRights | 22/09/22 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Company blatantly discriminating against men, especially white men, through diversity equity & inclusion goalssigh. the misuse of the term communism.... oh well I know for the west that’s like a bad word | /r/MensRights | 22/09/22 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Company blatantly discriminating against men, especially white men, through diversity equity & inclusion goalsIs this a US thing? Canada has this happening 1990-2000 but these days its prohibited through human rights protected groups including gender identity and expression that was added in 2017 | /r/MensRights | 22/09/22 07:21 AM |
| 2 | Man losing 50% of his assets from a divorce?Yeah that’s kinda the point of marriage lol. You are supposed to split 50-50 the wealth acquired during marriage upon divorce. Marriage is a dumb institution. Read it’s history. | /r/MensRights | 22/09/22 03:56 AM |
| 1 | essay analyzing incelsNo I did not say incels are Nazis. I am giving you a comparison of where a problem is claimed to come from an identity (like being black) vs a world view (like being an incel). Being black is an unchangeable attribute of a human. Being an incel is not. I don’t even understand where you are getting from that I tell them to man up, or insult them or mock them. Point to me where exactly are the words I wrote that make you conclude this is what is happening. It is like we are talking different langu… | /r/MensRights | 20/09/22 05:23 AM |
| 0 | essay analyzing incelsNot that we don’t like them. They just have a history of being problematic in terms of what “knowledge” they contribute like racist and sexist and homophobic and transphobic like read this stupidity https://labs.la.utexas.edu/buss/files/2015/10/Buss-2002-human-mating-strategies.pdf | /r/MensRights | 19/09/22 10:38 PM |
| 1 | essay analyzing incelsThat is in fact the way the term is used. It is important to give a definition. Like reddit seems to not know what pedophile means for example. They think it’s a person that committed sexual assault. Words have definitions so I am clarifying the way the term incel is used in academia like this paper. Being an ethnic minority is an unchanging aspect of a person. They can’t chose to be ethnic minority or not. But people can chose to be incels or not and it is based on ideology so beliefs. If we ar… | /r/MensRights | 19/09/22 10:36 PM |
| 1 | essay analyzing incelslol if western world is the only thing allowed to use the term “incel” we won’t go far I understanding dynamic considering incel ideology is prevalent in other cultures despite not having the same word. Just like the gender identity spectrum exists in various cultures even if say non-binary is not exactly the same as two-spirit. I’m afraid that is a generalization of incels. Take note that with the form it is explained that there are the inner and outer community. maybe inner gave up. But that w… | /r/MensRights | 19/09/22 10:31 PM |
| 1 | essay analyzing incelsWhere do I say this? This isn’t my essay btw. There is violence attributed to incel ideology. That is well known. | /r/MensRights | 19/09/22 10:26 PM |
| 0 | essay analyzing incelsyes and this is exactly what I am saying with what they need is emotional support which is something a social worker can provide. this is in the domain of mental health. | /r/MensRights | 19/09/22 10:14 PM |
| 1 | essay analyzing incelsread the case study and write down what the male cadet voices and demonstrates he wants then break apart those ideas into categories of human needs as explained here: https://docdro.id/06gEBZs this will give you an idea of what the male cadet actually needs which may not be apparent from wants. it isn't like what he wants is the first human on earth. his wants are rooted in pretty basic needs. except that in order to fulfil them we need to better understand where they are coming from. | /r/MensRights | 19/09/22 10:12 PM |
| 0 | essay analyzing incelsthe joking and normalizing acts as encouragement. The essay explains how to is often to see stuff like “someone should do this”. And then eventually people do. They want something that doesn’t exist that is the problem. Which can be best translated into analyzing what they actually need which would in turn cover their want. Analyze this case study from the male’s perspective https://www.mpcc-cppm.gc.ca/documents/public-interest-investigations-and-hearings-enquetes-et-audiences-dinteret-public/re… | /r/MensRights | 19/09/22 09:47 PM |
| 0 | essay analyzing incelsMaybe contact the author directly to have a debate. I could give you their Reddit account. But maybe formally is better search their name or maybe on the website through the university they can put you in contact. Probably better for you to arrange your ideas into some document so that it is a productive discussion instead of how it’s been going here with “this isn’t useful” “all bad” um evolutionary psychology is not a reputable field. It is closer to is-so stories. They tend to have heteronorm… | /r/MensRights | 19/09/22 09:30 PM |
| 0 | essay analyzing incelsYou should get access to the forum and analyze it. But also in the essay it is mentioned that they normalize violence. People encourage or think its a joke when hateful, aggressive, violent messages are prompted. lol if you study human sexuality it will become clear that simply allowing these men to slide their dick in pussy is not the solution to removing misogynistic views. they need emotional support which they could argue is under intimacy but a partner is not a therapist and proper emotiona… | /r/MensRights | 19/09/22 08:49 PM |
| 1 | essay analyzing incelsThere are several notable people not just Eliot, dozen is a fair number, but those are just those that got caught and committed crimes. People who read this garbage get a warped view on women that can contribute to micro agressions Take note that the incel forum is primarily a US thing but the incel mindsets exist in other cultures. There is a huge issue in India with men throwing acid on women’s faces who reject them. That is an example of violence from an incel mindset. Way more than dozens. t… | /r/MensRights | 19/09/22 08:42 PM |
| 1 | essay analyzing incelsThen do it. Contribute to it. I would love to read your essay on it. | /r/MensRights | 19/09/22 08:40 PM |
| 1 | essay analyzing incelsSolving the problem is not even what this masters student was doing. They just explained incels.is . Which is one part of working towards a solution. Solving would require you to go get a PhD probably in sociology of psychology building on top of this. I am giving rebuttals to the points you wrote based on my understanding of the paper and experience from trying to understand this domain myself. Do rebuttal me too. I analyzed Eliot Rodgers manifesto and have for several years been inside these c… | /r/MensRights | 19/09/22 07:03 AM |
| 0 | essay analyzing incelsnotice the terms incels use like “foids” which is a term meant to be derogatory to women. Also the whole incel view is skewed from the start. This isn’t shy guys who don’t know how to start dating and initiate sex with a specific woman they like after getting to know her casually, this is people who make it their identity that they have been denied access to women’s bodies they feel entitled to. Sexual activity is another bonding thing humans do for fun like talking. It isn’t this big deal that … | /r/MensRights | 19/09/22 05:41 AM |
| 0 | essay analyzing incelsWould take issue with this as an inaccurate stereotype. There are some who display this attitude, but I don't think it's reasonable - within the very first page, even - to start shaping the reader's takeaway from reading the article by suggesting that these people are innately hateful. It simply reinforces the idea that they're evil criminals bent on being enemies of women, which I don't think is accurate. The incel.is forum bans women automatically. It’s in their rules and that is explained. Th… | /r/MensRights | 19/09/22 05:13 AM |
| 0 | In case anyone was wondering what they teach in our schools today. Taught that men don’t experience sexism today.Where does it say this? I think you are misinterpreting what is being explained. can perpetuate. it is something that is easier to do due to being in the dominant culture. Also this is specific to US. Like Christians can get shit on in Middle East. But in US the chance that a Christian view will take precedence over a Buddhist is likely. Transgender men can also experience sexism. Heck intersex people can experience sexism. Notice what “targeted groups” means. There was a time when black people … | /r/MensRights | 18/09/22 03:46 AM |
| 0 | I want to tell my Mom that I’m and MRA, but I don’t know how. I feel like I’ll be shunned.call it human rights. MRA have become a term for male supremacists. It's kinda like how MTGOW and incel means different things than what it meant initially due to a few vocal ones misusing the name, and is associated with alt-right views. | /r/MensRights | 18/09/22 01:33 AM |
| 0 | "Historical oppression" of womenI’m just explaining some history to you. This helps answer your question. If you want citations or more in-depth for any of this lmk | /r/MensRights | 18/09/22 12:10 AM |
| 2 | A lot (if not all) of these arguments seem applicable to proving circumcision is wrongI am thinking maybe right now in Canada it is best to use all efforts to push to get intersex cosmetic surgery without consent banned. After that circumcision will fall under quite well | /r/MensRights | 17/09/22 11:35 PM |
| 0 | "Historical oppression" of womenWell you do point out the problem accurately. Patriarchy and white supremacy was an aftermath of colonialism and imperialism. And then capitalism profits off hierarchies like that too. because notice how having women stuck doing unpaid labour in the house and having black slaves doing work for free means even better profit. Capitalism involves always paying the worker, the working class, less than what they are worth. Otherwise capitalism wouldn’t work for the ruling class. It’s correct that pri… | /r/MensRights | 17/09/22 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Article claiming that "female suffering not taken as seriously as male suffering"No I didn’t say a foetus is a rapist. Rape is a pretty specific event. Though these days it is grouped under the umbrella term of sexual assault. There is a similar concept between sexual assault and coercive reproduction in the sense that bodily autonomy is violated. A human has something happening to their body they did not want which can be traumatizing psychologically and physically (though psychologically is the bigger harm usually hence just groping is already sexual assault, even if physi… | /r/MensRights | 17/09/22 10:47 PM |
| 3 | Stupid question but I am a teenage girl and wondering if its acceptable for me to be a MRA?Gender is irrelevant for supporting human rights | /r/MensRights | 17/09/22 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Article claiming that "female suffering not taken as seriously as male suffering"well then we need even more research and awareness into endometriosis so people are diagnosed properly. you should read the history of feminism. I am tired of explaining the same thing to people on this sub but basically a lot of people here clearly don’t know what feminism is referring too. That’s right, a uterus is an organ that belongs to the person in who’s body it is. Another human can’t use it without their consent. Just like any other organ | /r/MensRights | 17/09/22 07:08 PM |
| 0 | "Historical oppression" of womenThat’s the first entry. What’s wrong with it? It’s just pointing out to you that indigenous people were not as patriarchal as the colonizer made people in Canada. Read the whole article. Maybe you will learn a thing or two for once. You post demonstrates you don’t know history | /r/MensRights | 17/09/22 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Article claiming that "female suffering not taken as seriously as male suffering"People can still get pregnant with endometriosis. Here you can read about why it still needs advocacy https://endoact.ca What makes you think I never was pregnant or had a child lol? There is a large knowledge base of what happens to a body during pregnancy and childbirth is violent. it isn’t about one or two anecdotes. There is also stigma around admitting that someone didn’t like pregnancy and childbirth. Just like stigma admitting someone doesn’t like being a parent. So you get a skew of peop… | /r/MensRights | 16/09/22 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Article claiming that "female suffering not taken as seriously as male suffering"Why? | /r/MensRights | 16/09/22 04:22 AM |
| 1 | ‘Lived Experience’This is relavant because this helps paint the picture of how humans are. So there will be some knowledge base of what researchers think is happening but that can be outdated or missing parts. When people explain their lived experiences it’s like adding to that knowledge base. Like say the knowledge base has a certain perception of sexual assault. It’s this thing men do to women and women get traumatized. Well a man can come in and share their lived experiences of being sexually assaulted by a wo… | /r/MensRights | 15/09/22 06:17 AM |
| 1 | What about the feminists that actually care about equality between the sexes? Would they be considered "real feminists"?eh currently the 4th wave feminism is closer to intersectional feminism that does better gender equity from all sides (since they consider transgender too). What this sub refers to in terms of the “bad feminists” is either female supremacists. Or the 2nd wave feminists. Like JK Rowling is kinda in that bunch, they tend to be TERFs and radical feminists with an emphasis on men vs women being two competing teams. Rather than working together. In Canada 1990-2000 there was a time when white men wer… | /r/MensRights | 15/09/22 06:03 AM |
| 2 | Male Privilege. There was a stabbing 2 blocks from my house. One make attacked 2 women and a man. The man defended the women. He is now dead. Male PrivilegeHold on what does him choosing to defend the woman have to do with male privilege. you should understand better what male privilege is referring to. It’s not this. | /r/MensRights | 15/09/22 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Do you think "boys vs. real men" comparisons are misandrist?Oh yeah the “boys vs real men” is a blunt example of toxic masculinity. It’s taking the assumption of what a man must be and shames a man if he doesn’t hold up to those “real men” characteristics. Girl has some negative connotations like “throw like a girl”, “girl pushups” (the ones do with knees down). “you are such a pussy” is negative and coming from equating to women while “has balls” is positive and equating to men. | /r/MensRights | 15/09/22 05:58 AM |
| 2 | how can i cope with crippling loneliness?Post this on r/malementalhealth | /r/MensRights | 15/09/22 05:56 AM |
| 2 | "Historical oppression" of womenhttps://psac-ncr.com/canadian-womens-history/ Here is a timeline of how women were oppressed in Canada. Here is an analysis of where oppression of women plays a role in US: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=d_SYW1ElDb8&list=LL&index=3&t=2268s | /r/MensRights | 15/09/22 05:53 AM |
| 2 | Wouldn’t viewing a random man on the street as a threat be sexist / misandrist?Yes it’s gender profiling and sexist. Not a good way to treat people. | /r/MensRights | 15/09/22 05:50 AM |
| -4 | Article claiming that "female suffering not taken as seriously as male suffering"There were studies done about pain perception from doctors in US. They would consistently underplay women’s pain. This is coming from the “women are emotional” belief of the past. like “she is just overreacting”. some obvious examples: 1.) what happened with endometriosis. historically under diagnosed and women told to suck it up and dismissed as “regular period cramps”. 2.) the whole field of obstetrics, people are not aware that pregnancy and childbirth is unpleasant at best and suffering at w… | /r/MensRights | 15/09/22 05:45 AM |
| 7 | Mobile game adsOh yeah I hate that “men are pigs and brutes who only care about sex” trope | /r/MensRights | 15/09/22 05:38 AM |
| 4 | Is victim-blaming something that female victims of sexual assault actually face?Yes it still happens. You can read this report to see an in-depth real life recent example and the dire fallout of it https://www.mpcc-cppm.gc.ca/documents/public-interest-investigations-and-hearings-enquetes-et-audiences-dinteret-public/registrar-investigation-enquete-de-la-greffiere/pii-eip-2020-013-final-report-rapport-final-eng.pdf?fbclid=IwAR088DiMnRYDbZKCVGFFOsUOvjtnOBgTJiAoQOk31g6LJoHwFAVjUxd2DBI#page129 | /r/MensRights | 15/09/22 02:52 AM |
| 1 | support programs for developing healthy holistic masculinityNot a lot of people actually know what toxic masculinity is. People in here are just listing toxic traits they associate with each gender, but that’s not really what the term means in feminist theory. Toxic masculinity is a term describing the societal pressure on men to conform to toxic standards for masculinity. This includes things like the expectations to be strong, stoic, tall and dominant. Both men and women can enforce toxic masculinity. Toxic femininity would be the same, except the gend… | /r/MensRights | 12/09/22 01:24 AM |
| -7 | support programs for developing healthy holistic masculinityI don’t know what ideological bias you claim this website had. I share a website that helps with men’s issues and people here attack it for what the words it uses? The words describe a concept. Be curious to try to understand what the website is about. Talking about the way men and boys are portrayed in psychology does involve acknowledging masculinity. gender roles and stereotypes and assumptions surrounding masculinity. Patriarchy is a concept in sociology. It isn’t whatever people on this sub… | /r/MensRights | 11/09/22 06:34 AM |
| -5 | support programs for developing healthy holistic masculinityhow so lol? Check out the podcast and the website. It explains quite well the work they do for issues impacting men Toxic masculinity is a term in sociology that clusters the traits part of the western man’s gender role that are prone to cause harm. | /r/MensRights | 11/09/22 01:20 AM |
| 0 | support programs for developing healthy holistic masculinityPodcast episode about it: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1537303/10884011 | /r/MensRights | 10/09/22 11:20 PM |
| 6 | Isn't Circumcision Already Illegal?I got the following explanation from r/intactivism “It’s technically already illegal, but not specified: 1.) “To wound, maim, disfigure, or endanger the life of” is to commit Aggrevated assault (Section 268) -The exceptions to this are: A.) There is a current medical problem that needs correction B.) The patient is 16 or older and wishes to have an Asthetic surgery, by their own consent C.) An act of self defense NOTE: A parent cannot consent to harm of their child, that would be negligence The … | /r/MensRights | 10/09/22 10:26 AM |
| 1 | Reasons why patriarchy theory is irrelevant to modern Western culture.lol there are very much ligaments holding up the structure “Cooper's ligaments are found under the skin of the breast, through and around the breast tissue. They connect to the tissue surrounding the chest muscles. These ligaments maintain the shape and structure of your breasts and help to prevent sagging.” It doesn’t matter what one human experienced. People can have varied experiences. People can also gather information and know about topics without having personally experienced it like there… | /r/MensRights | 06/09/22 07:04 PM |
| 2 | Reasons why patriarchy theory is irrelevant to modern Western culture.Yes it’s the cluster of traits that were historically marketed as masculine meaning part of the expected man’s gender role, in the west. that can end up causing harm to oneself and others. things like competitiveness, sexual prowess, dominance, focus on physical strength, stoicism/lack of emotional expression, expressing violence to resolve conflicts. Think of things like “boys don’t cry” which lead to men suppressing the expression of emotions, expecting men to be physically strong, expecting m… | /r/MensRights | 06/09/22 06:43 PM |
| 0 | Have you noticed Reddit is aggressively anti-men?It matters how you approach it. For example whataboutism is cringe so gets downvoted or removed. It is best to be educated in this domain too if you want productive discussions. Study sociology and political philosophy. It isn’t so much the topic it’s how it’s approached. If people bash you then it’s like anywhere they are just uneducated to provide something constructive. What happened was the term “women’s rights” refers to the feminism movement to abolish patriarchy just like black lives matt… | /r/MensRights | 06/09/22 06:36 AM |
| 1 | How would you respond to "America is a patriarchy because we haven't had a female president"?That’s a misunderstanding of the term patriarchy. America not having a female president is due to patriarchy yes. It’s an example of patriarchy. But it’s a bit odd to read “America IS a patriarchy”. That sounds grammatically incorrect. maybe “has patriarchal structures” “was developed with patriarchal standards”. Patriarchy is solely that cis man- cis woman relation on the intersectionality wheel. | /r/MensRights | 06/09/22 06:11 AM |
| 1 | Reasons why patriarchy theory is irrelevant to modern Western culture.What happens is if people are socialized early to wear bras, which seems to be happening in US since training bras is a thing (even if its fucking stupid and pointless). Then the ligaments of the breasts become weaker from depending on the bra for support. So naturally they can hold up and people can run fine, like a fat man with manboobs can run. For day to day especially useless. For sports think of bras like how some people wear jockstraps and compression shorts. Yeah technically if you want … | /r/MensRights | 04/09/22 06:26 AM |
| 1 | Reasons why patriarchy theory is irrelevant to modern Western culture.I base that on anthropology scholarly articles where they describe how skeletons from the Viking period were grouped by gender based on tools that were around it in graves and places of death. Scientists kept classifying anyone with weapons and belongings signifying status as male but later on when machinery was developed that could check chromosomal makeup on the bones, it turned out a lot of them were female. No that breast story is false. Yes Ancient Greeks were patriarchal. You can read abou… | /r/MensRights | 04/09/22 06:21 AM |
| -1 | Reasons why patriarchy theory is irrelevant to modern Western culture.lol okay thanks for reading the Wikipedia. “Proto-Indo-European (PIE) is the reconstructed common ancestor of the Indo-European language family”. It’s a term describing a group of languages for eas of classification. this term gets used in linguistics though maybe some is more accurate today. It’s the one step before Indo-European. The ones that do have binary gendering of words in the langage (so English doesn’t count while languages like Russian and German is more complicated due to the neuter… | /r/MensRights | 03/09/22 11:01 PM |
| 0 | Reasons why patriarchy theory is irrelevant to modern Western culture.lol you are explaining patriarchy either way. Your first paragraph about the Chinese is an example of patriarchal structure. a human with a penis expected to play the man gender role is preferred, for whatever reason, over the human with a vulva expected to play the woman gender role. there is more value places on one type of human over another hence they prefer the one with a penis and the one with a vulva gets murdered. In Soviet culture I know the father’s name gets passed on in marriage and … | /r/MensRights | 03/09/22 10:52 PM |
| 1 | What should a man’s role be in deciding whether to have an abortion?The problem is that no fetus has the right to live in the womb. no human has the right to live inside someone else. no human has the right to use someone else’s organ which is what the fetus is doing. Someone can chose to remove their whole womb with the fetus because everyone has the thing to decide what to do with their body, it doesn’t actually change anything the fetus still dies. It is sexist that one human due to being born with an organ is forced to be leeched off. Man doesn’t have that b… | /r/MensRights | 03/09/22 06:19 PM |
| -2 | Reasons why patriarchy theory is irrelevant to modern Western culture.What woke theories? Sociology and anthropology are scientific fields. It’s the point of words to describe concepts. Understand what they mean and you understand more complex concepts. Like if someone asks why do old movies keep making women just the love interest, why do all books I read in high school have a man as the lead character, why do women have to cover up breasts, why women cannot be religious leaders in Catholicism, why women could not vote or have a job after marriage or work certain… | /r/MensRights | 03/09/22 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Reasons why patriarchy theory is irrelevant to modern Western culture.Patriarchy existed yes. Like we have relics of this in terms of last names being passed on from the father and in some languages a patronymic surname exists. gender isn’t even seen as binary anymore so the old style model of patriarchy isn’t applicable To the current western world. patriarchy in sociology is what I described. It is still an important concept. just how toxic masculinity is a term in sociology. this sub coming up with random definitions for it isn’t useful for discourse. Words des… | /r/MensRights | 03/09/22 05:48 PM |
| 1 | What should a man’s role be in deciding whether to have an abortion?It is not a freedom to live inside someone else and use their organs against their consent though. The fetus doesn’t have more rights than other humans, you can count it as an equal human sure. that fetus is not allowed to claim property of someone else’s uterus even if it could communicate to claim it. That is the same as I claiming property of your eye against your will and choosing to use it myself or do whatever with it. since that is not the rule in our societies, it would be chaos to allow… | /r/MensRights | 03/09/22 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Reasons why patriarchy theory is irrelevant to modern Western culture.The term “patriarchy” is describing just that cis man - cis woman relation part on the intersectionality wheel. (Note, not even the transgender part that is a step further from cis woman) Just like how the term “white supremacy” is describing the white-black relation, not really even the indigenous one. Take note that there is a difference between hard power patriarchy and soft power patriarchy. Search the term “symbolic violence”. Also you should be cognizant that you existing today is not some… | /r/MensRights | 03/09/22 05:28 AM |
| 3 | canadian men avoiding the draftYeah no human likes fighting in war. The forcing of men to think they should like it is a gender roles technique. Similar to how forcing women to think they should be okay going through pregnancy and childbirth even though it’s violent. And forced to think they should naturally enjoy being mothers. Notice the parallel. Has testosterone => has to go fight in war. Has uterus => has to procreate. The brainwashing technique works when it’s claimed that something innate to the human means they have t… | /r/MensRights | 03/09/22 02:51 AM |
| 1 | What should a man’s role be in deciding whether to have an abortion?The purpose of the uterus to the one owning it is so that that fetus doesn’t kill the host. It is an organ that protects the human that owns it. Since a zygote will implant itself into any tissue, endometrium is the hardest for it to implant itself in since it acts as a testing ground too. It isn’t a welcoming environment. Endometrium is also the only tissue where embryo implantation is time restricted. So anywhere else the zygote would implant and keep sucking off the host until it dies. It is … | /r/MensRights | 02/09/22 05:29 PM |
| 1 | What should a man’s role be in deciding whether to have an abortion?no lol the uterus exists if there is a fetus or not. A human is born with a uterus which is another organ like brain, intestine, bladder etc that belongs to the body of the human who has the sentience to posses the body. So their consciousness recognizes their body like “this is the arm of my body” “this is the uterus of my body” it doesn’t matter what the “role” is. humans have lots of body parts that don’t have a role like appendix, wisdom teeth, coccyx. It remains that there needs to be respe… | /r/MensRights | 02/09/22 03:55 AM |
| 1 | What should a man’s role be in deciding whether to have an abortion?They can’t until humans get grown in artificial wombs so that there isn’t the issue of another human’s body being impacted. The issue is that the fetus grows in the uterus that belongs to someone else so no one but the person to who the uterus belongs to can decide what happens to it. Otherwise it’s a violation of bodily autonomy for that person and can be as damaging as assault. It’s on the same level of why circumcision and cosmetic intersex surgery without consent is damaging | /r/MensRights | 01/09/22 10:12 PM |
| 2 | Why is OF not frowned upon? Sending naked pictures use to be embarrassingwho defines what prude is though. In Muslim societies if the woman is not covered head to toe then it is being slutty. Is it the nakedness or the sexuality that is the problem, ask yourself. Like the partner being on a naked beach or naked at a doctor. Vs expressing sexuality with someone else WHILE BEING CLOTHED even. I think what you feel is the sexuality piece which more psychological than naked bodies. This means someone can be doing OF as a career while expressing genuine sexuality with a p… | /r/MensRights | 01/09/22 04:09 AM |
| 0 | Why is OF not frowned upon? Sending naked pictures use to be embarrassingNakedness isn’t something unordinary though. Take an encyclopedia and see how a woman’s body looks like. Nakedness isn’t inherently sexual. Why should there be value on nakedness though. Why should bodies existing be taboo | /r/MensRights | 01/09/22 02:58 AM |
| 0 | Why is OF not frowned upon? Sending naked pictures use to be embarrassingI doubt you had proper sex ed in school. I am around your age in Canada and I had shit sex ed. Only in 2019 it was updated from something of 1995. Without proper sex ed people cannot develop proper awareness of sexual and reproductive health. Read Action Canada report on sex ed or watch Every Body Curious episodes to understand what is coming close to okay sex ed. like that is bare minimum. yet I doubt schools teach that today fully even. Human sexuality as a field is very new. Lots of unknowns … | /r/MensRights | 01/09/22 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Why is OF not frowned upon? Sending naked pictures use to be embarrassingIt’s people expressing sexuality. You are probably from a generation when nakedness and sexuality was seen as taboo and shameful. times are changing for everyone to be more open about sexual health. | /r/MensRights | 01/09/22 02:38 AM |
| -1 | "Most politicians are men"What proof do you have that men are second-class citizens? The whole society in US at least is build by men for men. Women were treated as property how blacks were treated as property. Women were not allowed to work after marriage (marriage bar), couldn’t vote, were barred from many professions, couldn’t wear pants. all on the basis of gender. A gender marker of genital shape. Sentencing gap is a concept like the wage gap, no one is choosing this from politicians. Effort is made towards the gend… | /r/MensRights | 29/08/22 01:16 AM |
| -1 | "Most politicians are men"This argument is relevant when you acknowledge that politics is a messy business. It isn’t people just doing their 9-5 job like how an engineer does a job description. While it is not accurate to blame gender (since people of any gender can be knowledgeable on gender inclusivity vs be sexist), it is important to be cognizant of who is making rules. For example if all politicians are catholic that can transfer to them having a bias in terms of ruling the country from catholic perspectives. It is … | /r/MensRights | 28/08/22 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Do we live in an actual patriarchy?Ive heard so much talk about it I don’t know what to thinkmaybe the hard power is gone but soft power can remain which is what social workers and activists are trying to comb out. Since human doesn’t go from being sexist and oppressive to not overnight. Also be mindful of where you are talking about. There is hard power patriarchy in Middle East for example. There can be structures within society causing inequality. An example in US would be the banning abortion issue. Very obvious example of how people with a uterus (historically women) are seen as in… | /r/MensRights | 28/08/22 09:56 PM |
| 1 | should men demand the right to have their own companies?could you cite where this is happening? Does the country this is happening in have human rights protected groups how Canada has if you search them up? | /r/MensRights | 28/08/22 08:19 AM |
| 2 | should men demand the right to have their own companies?No. sexism in any direction is wrong. Also gender is not binary. So you would be shunning out anyone who isn’t a cisgender or transgender man. This wouldn’t work since it goes against human rights on the grounds of gender. | /r/MensRights | 28/08/22 06:14 AM |
| 1 | Competence isn’t the same as misogyny/mansplaininglol no it happened. what claim you have that it’s made up? Hold on it’s not Rebecca. That one is a writer. This story is from a NASA scientists or researcher, something like that. | /r/MensRights | 28/08/22 12:15 AM |
| 2 | Competence isn’t the same as misogyny/mansplainingah true guess it doesn’t come up anymore. it was coined from an event where a woman scientist at a convention had a man correcting her/explaining something to her a scientific field (I think it was space science) by referring to a book that (unknowingly to him) was written by her. so the funny part of this is he thought she doesn’t know this field and needs it explained when she actually was at the forefront of this field considering she does research to publish scholarly media and the man’s kno… | /r/MensRights | 27/08/22 06:49 PM |
| -4 | Competence isn’t the same as misogyny/mansplainingMansplaining has a history for when it was coined. You can search it up. It was relevant for that specific event. But yes the majority of the time when people are explaining something it isn’t due to gender. If you as a man are not going on an explaining spree because the person you are talking to presents feminine so you assume they don’t know much, then it’s not mansplaining. | /r/MensRights | 27/08/22 05:38 AM |
| 2 | Overview of the rise of woke cinemaI don’t understand what the problem is. There is a history of media depicting mostly white men as characters and everything being hetero (like think of all Disney movies). All that is happening is other variations of humans are being depicted. Like Knockaround Guys has little diversity of humans. Women, people of colour, other sexual orientations and gender identities, other cultures which is how you see people with hijabs and Russians not just the villain all the time. These people have always … | /r/MensRights | 23/08/22 02:54 PM |
| 0 | Would you chose to take on raising a child alone if you could create one yourself?no lol the gender roles are made up. That’s a west colonization thing. Other countries and cultures can see gender differently including not having the rigid gender roles. some cultures allow for more gender fluidity. look at USSR even where everyone was a worker first. They had better gender equity than US today. it wasn’t like all women are good for is sitting at home caring for kids. There is nothing about a man that makes them more “rational” whatever that means. It’s a skill a human with an… | /r/MensRights | 18/08/22 06:32 PM |
| 0 | Would you chose to take on raising a child alone if you could create one yourself?lol no women are not “biologically” more nurturing. That is gender essentialism. There is nothing about genital shape, hormone level, or gender identity that gives someone the skills of being nurturing. It is another skill like leadership is. | /r/MensRights | 18/08/22 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Would you chose to take on raising a child alone if you could create one yourself?what do you think of same sex couples? | /r/MensRights | 18/08/22 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Would you chose to take on raising a child alone if you could create one yourself?You don’t have to do this whole thing or mixing up genetics and “contributing” to the species. | /r/MensRights | 18/08/22 01:55 PM |
| 2 | Would you chose to take on raising a child alone if you could create one yourself?yeah I guess that’s why representation of the LGBT+ spectrum is important | /r/MensRights | 18/08/22 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Would you chose to take on raising a child alone if you could create one yourself?Why? | /r/MensRights | 18/08/22 01:49 PM |
| 4 | Would you chose to take on raising a child alone if you could create one yourself?What do you think of same sex couples raising a child? | /r/MensRights | 18/08/22 04:44 AM |
| 5 | Would you chose to take on raising a child alone if you could create one yourself?dude don’t have kids just because someone is pestering you to do it. It’s just a social script. No one needs to procreate. It is a hard job to be a parent. | /r/MensRights | 18/08/22 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Would you chose to take on raising a child alone if you could create one yourself?It doesn’t negatively effect anyone to scrap the idea of virginity if people know how to have safe sex (physically and psychologically). This isn’t gendered. This whole concept of virginity made sense when people died from STI and there was no birth control so random babies around. These days with the knowledge and inventions those risks can be well resolved. | /r/MensRights | 18/08/22 04:34 AM |
| 8 | Would you chose to take on raising a child alone if you could create one yourself?You don’t think same sex couples can be good parents? | /r/MensRights | 18/08/22 02:44 AM |
| 3 | Would you chose to take on raising a child alone if you could create one yourself?wtf this is dumb lol. Obsessing over virginity is stupid. Who cares about sexual activity | /r/MensRights | 18/08/22 02:44 AM |
| 1 | PatriarchyLook at who sat on the panel that did the ruling for removing abortions. majority men. They made the decision and voting. | /r/MensRights | 17/08/22 10:17 PM |
| -1 | 'I just don't want children': Some American men are turning to vasectomies after the Supreme Court's decision to overturn RoeYou can adopt and raise a child yourself. There are a lot that need to be adopted in Canada for free. The system in Canada is not as exploitive as in US | /r/MensRights | 17/08/22 07:04 AM |
| 1 | PatriarchyGender based violence is regarding targeting someone based on gender. Not violence in general. like transgender people getting targeted due to being transgender is gender based violence but not someone who happens to be transgender experiencing violence. This is gender based violence: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/École_Polytechnique_massacre So not what you are explaining. Sexual assault for example is enacting power and control over someone. that involves seeing them as inferior. why is it t… | /r/MensRights | 11/08/22 11:31 PM |
| 1 | PatriarchyHuman created society. Society involves working whether that be tending crops or producing shoes or doing physiotherapy. People go to school/learn and then contribute with a skill to society so that they can in turn get what they need from others like food and shelter. If girls were not allowed to go to school or end up missing school due to having to sit in menstrual huts then they are unable to work. Thus they cannot get the food and shelter they need. They get stuck depending on a man. what t… | /r/MensRights | 11/08/22 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Patriarchylmao working is participating in society. participating in society is not domestic work stuck raising children. rich men do you see how that is gender based. A rich man is of higher status socially than a rich woman. like a king rules the country while the queen is subservient. man makes the wealth. if he beats the wife she can’t do shit. If he uses money to himself and nothing on children and wife, she can’t do shit since did not have control over finances. Men being the primary contributors to… | /r/MensRights | 11/08/22 08:45 PM |
| 1 | PatriarchyI don’t think you understand what oppression means. Cooking, cleaning, raising children is difficult tasks still and unpaid labor. You seem to undervalue how difficult this is. your mindset leads to stereotypically woman’s work like early childhood educator and nurse to be underpaid these days. You need to see it in gender roles. Men were doing everything in society and so participating in it. They were the politicians and professors and philosophers along with the soldiers and oil field workers… | /r/MensRights | 11/08/22 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Patriarchy“Marriage bar” did you search up? It was an explicit law forbidding women from working. Being university professors and politicians doesn’t require physical strength. so why couldn’t women work there. https://images.app.goo.gl/gMuXCq5mdPvsdLA1A This doesn’t require physical labour bud. Women were not allowed to drive at the same time as men even if luckily your great grandmother was allowed to. You have to look even further back into history. From this there exists a lot of sexism to women and d… | /r/MensRights | 11/08/22 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Patriarchyby who lol. you know if you go to museums and read older books this is all in there. You believe some conspiracy theory that museum artifacts and old books were faked to come off having this information? Do you believe climate change is not real and the earth is flat? | /r/MensRights | 11/08/22 05:34 PM |
| 1 | PatriarchySearch up marriage bar. A woman could not work if married but even outside of marriage people would rather hire men due to sexists stereotypes like women were either explicitly not allowed in certain professions (you can search up which ones) or overall deemed inferior so not hired (like that letter circulating from Disney refusing a woman). women were not allowed to drive, how do you go to work if can’t drive but why bar a woman from driving one may ask. Fairly recently it was lifted in Middle … | /r/MensRights | 11/08/22 04:58 PM |
| 0 | PatriarchyMake up what bud? That website you want to claim is made up? Like all those years and facts are randomly generated or what. Read history and anthropology. Talk to people who work in these fields. | /r/MensRights | 11/08/22 04:48 PM |
| 0 | Patriarchylmao what makes you claim hard power of patriarchy never existed when it exists right now in the Middle East and if you look at US and Canada history women were treated as subservient to men. Read this https://psac-ncr.com/canadian-womens-history/ What you want to claim that is all made up like someone just wrote bullshit out of their ass. lmao what you describe as dominated by men is what patriarchy describes. you need to read academic literature to understand what this term means. you admittin… | /r/MensRights | 11/08/22 03:55 PM |
| 1 | yOu’rE a pIck mE gIrLNo that is not what I said. I am pointing out how the more you expand your vocabulary and consideration of what it means to support rights the more valid that ends up being. If you claim to support men’s rights but not transgender men’s rights it makes you a hypocrite and at that point the pick me label can have more validity. since then the person is doing what you described is messed up. | /r/MensRights | 11/08/22 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Patriarchylmao that was the intent of marriage. woman ends up being subservient to man under that contract. read into the history of it. Can’t work, can’t own land, can’t get a credit card, has to be sexually available. relationships are not supposed to be possessive. Why does marriage exists then. What does a contract between two people and the state have to do with feelings of bonding. Unless that was not the point. And it for a long time wasn’t, marriage for love is fairly new. It’s everywhere bud. The… | /r/MensRights | 11/08/22 03:45 PM |
| 2 | PatriarchyWhat do you mean never has lol. It exists in the Middle East right now. And it existed in US with women being property to men. | /r/MensRights | 11/08/22 07:36 AM |
| 0 | Patriarchywhile one could claim that the hard power of patriarchy has been abolished in US (though it kinda hasn’t if women are not allowed abortions), there can still remain soft power and this one is harder to root out because status quo comes off as the right option but it can be a discriminatory status quo because status quo was set during a time of hard power patriarchy. Like just because slavery was abolished, doesn’t mean white supremacy is gone. maybe hard power of white supremacy is gone. but sof… | /r/MensRights | 11/08/22 07:34 AM |
| 0 | how to get men in power to help men more ?They were sent to war because only men really participated in society. When you have one gender participating they do the prestigious and shit jobs, they do all jobs. Women were supposed to be property for making babies and staying at home raising them. Like back in that time if a 25 year old woman or 16 year old boy applied to work on a farm, the 16 year old boy would be preferred for being a boy. Farm work is gruelling still but the patriarchy and sexism still exists in this scenario. remember… | /r/MensRights | 11/08/22 07:20 AM |
| -3 | yOu’rE a pIck mE gIrLWell seems you are using the term feminist wrong so at least among people who study sociology you don’t come off as someone who could keep a conversation on the topic. I get that the term feminist has been thrown around to mean different things like men’s rights activists, incel, MGTOW means different things from what they originally meant. But if you are not aware of that I would question where your ideas on the topic come from and why you support these ideas without understanding them. This is… | /r/MensRights | 11/08/22 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?If a woman is following a long in an already patriarchal society that doesn’t mean she agrees with it lol. women didn’t like being treated as inferior. It was also unnecessary like not all cultures do that. Patriarchy is labeling a phenomenon. The prevalence of passing on assets through the father is an example of patriarchy. What country are you in? What you are describing is some 1980s society with gender roles. In 2022 people don’t follow gender roles and social scripts like that with men car… | /r/MensRights | 10/08/22 07:34 AM |
| -6 | I'm so tired of being blamed for everything because of my gender.Human has been doing this thing of assuming stuff about a whole group for centuries. This has been happening with blacks and women to a huge detriment to their health and well-being, human wont turn around 180 to spare men. It wasn’t right before it wasn’t right now but it is a trend that keeps happing with people who lack emotional intelligence and education. This is the whole idea behind racism and sexism. grouping people to assume one thing. Like women are bad drivers or girls bad at math is … | /r/MensRights | 08/08/22 07:21 PM |
| 1 | How to encourage men in the military to seek mental health support?You can be denied a posting to a more remote place. Also denied being a pilot since there is universality of service but also more strict requirements for air crew | /r/MensRights | 08/08/22 07:13 PM |
| -3 | I'm so tired of being blamed for everything because of my gender.Read this and then tell me if it exists or not http://equalpaycoalition.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/07/Equality-in-Employment-A-Royal-Commission-Report-Abella-Complete-Report.pdf It explain in detail how that term came about and what it is referring to. | /r/MensRights | 08/08/22 07:11 PM |
| -2 | I'm so tired of being blamed for everything because of my gender.Isn’t that people’s problem for not bothering to be educated on the more complex topics? Libgen.is has lots of free books on this and library is free. Social media is full of garbage. Like the social media representation of sexual health and sexuality comparing to human sexuality textbooks and sex therapists is drastic. Reddit is horrible for relationship advise yet so many circlejerk here. It’s relevant because things like this came from it: https://www.ontario.ca/document/your-guide-employment… | /r/MensRights | 08/08/22 07:09 PM |
| -12 | I'm so tired of being blamed for everything because of my gender.Gender wage gap is referring to something explained in here http://equalpaycoalition.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/07/Equality-in-Employment-A-Royal-Commission-Report-Abella-Complete-Report.pdf It is a complex sociological concept. It has just been misused or people don’t bother to understand it on social media. | /r/MensRights | 08/08/22 08:59 AM |
| -12 | I'm so tired of being blamed for everything because of my gender.I think the clash that is happening here is the distinction between an individual or group of humans who happen to have the gender identity of man compared to the sociological class “man”. For an analogy I’ll give the example of using the term “Russians”. We talk about how Russians are the bad guys. We talk about how Ukrainians hate Russians. Russians are raping citizens. Russians are evil. Russians are dumb and getting brainwashed. But this isn’t indicative of my friend who happens to be from R… | /r/MensRights | 08/08/22 08:57 AM |
| 1 | Can men be oppressed?Oh right okay let’s get to that, say the current belief about man superior/default to woman goes away. so the patriarchal structure disappears, say that happens. it has not in US, it is worse in some other parts of the word so the intersectionality wheel is useful for understanding trends, but it is not as bad in Canada. What now follows is gender inclusivity. This is now taking all genders, the whole gender identity spectrum, to be equal and trying to see how to help all of them gain more freed… | /r/MensRights | 07/08/22 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Can men be oppressed?Thats because there was a time in history and still in some places of the world when women were seen as inferior to men. Like Middle East during this time. But if you read US history it will become obvious. I know it sucks because to us today that may be jarring. Knowing that blacks and women and gays and trans were treated as inferior because maybe me and you don’t see them that way. But we don’t see them that way due to a lot of effort and lives lost from people before us working on getting so… | /r/MensRights | 07/08/22 01:13 AM |
| -6 | Losing hopeI suggest going into social work. It is a heavily woman dominate field so you will be one pioneer there but you can do the social work degree and then the masters degree with an advocacy focus. From there you could be the one leading change to get more boys into nursing, social work, therapists. | /r/MensRights | 06/08/22 11:03 PM |
| 2 | Do you think feminism is hurting women in the long run?That’s a capitalism problem rather than anything to do with gender. Like a gay couple would also be just two human that need to both work to survive. I heard social anarchism being a better societal structure than capitalism apparently. Capitalism depends a lot on power and control which is kinda becoming a problem because human values freedom. | /r/MensRights | 06/08/22 10:22 PM |
| -9 | Wage GapGender wage gap is referring to something else. It’s a complex concept in sociology. But it has been kinda misused in popular media | /r/MensRights | 06/08/22 09:18 PM |
| 2 | Trans inclusivity of men’s rights vs Trans exclusion from woman’s rightsYou are on the right track. I suggest reading into the Nixon v Rape Relief case. If you google it and open a bunch of the links related to it there is interesting material. If you want I can link some too. It’s an interesting case because you could see through the TERF rhetoric and Nixon (transgender woman) actually lost. Though this happened in 2007 while in 2019 Rape Relief was getting budget cuts for being transphobic. Since in 2017 in Canada gender identity and expression was added to human … | /r/MensRights | 06/08/22 09:14 PM |
| 7 | Do you think feminism is hurting women in the long run?“being a stay at home mom is easier for them” is a wrong assumption. You conclude this based on the bias that exists where stereotypically women’s work is undervalued and this translates directly to it being underpaid in the current market which is why initiatives like Equal Pay for Equal Work exist to resolve this issue. Like early childhood educators and nurses in Canada are severely underpaid and this is leading to a shortage since people don’t want to go into it and leave. Hence the governme… | /r/MensRights | 06/08/22 07:43 PM |
| 1 | "Men should not be making laws about women's bodies" is full of fallaciesI think the clash that is happening here is the distinction between an individual or group of humans who happen to have the gender identity of man compared to the sociological class “man”. For an analogy I’ll give the example of using the term “Russians”. We talk about how Russians are the bad guys. We talk about how Ukrainians hate Russians. Russians are raping citizens. Russians are evil. Russians are dumb and getting brainwashed. But this isn’t indicative of my friend who happens to be from R… | /r/MensRights | 06/08/22 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Can men be oppressed?Straight vs gay would also be the same class war as neurotypical vs neurodiverse. You can look at it as a class war if you want to compare things. this subreddit is a bit cringe because the term women’s rights was in reference to getting the same rights as the default human who built societies which was men (again, in gender binary model. Transgender and intersex rights is very much still not accounted for and they wish to have the same rights as default human which is cis man). But I can see th… | /r/MensRights | 05/08/22 04:21 PM |
| 0 | Can men be oppressed?do you not see how I am pointing out instances of where women have it worse BECAUSE woman. Not because human lives in shitty place so overall a human who happens to be a woman has it worse, but because there is an imbalance of what a woman human vs man human can experience when all else equal due to that woman vs man part. Let’s start with the statement that today you existing in your country may observe the world to see that men and women are equal. which is great. I hope you do. In such a case… | /r/MensRights | 05/08/22 10:55 AM |
| 0 | Can men be oppressed?hmm you would like more proof regarding patriarchy then? Patriarchy is the specific distinction on intersectionality wheel between man privileged to woman oppressed. Does not account transgender btw, that one is more in queer theory analyzed. The whole patriarchy distinction has to be seen through the gender binary lens. My personal opinion is I kinda hate that because it removes complexity around seeing human through the gender identity spectrum, like in order to talk about patriarchy I have to… | /r/MensRights | 05/08/22 09:06 AM |
| 0 | Can men be oppressed?I don’t understand what you don’t understand about intersectionality. do you want more examples of how various pieces of identity play into a person’s experience? Okay so let’s take the fact that in Canada some provinces have government funded Catholic schools along with public schools. No other religious denomination has government funded schools. Catholic in Canada has privilege over a Jew in Canada because a Jew would need to pay to go to a private school that teaches their faith yet a Cathol… | /r/MensRights | 05/08/22 08:02 AM |
| 1 | Can men be oppressed?the classification comes from historical examples. It is kinda hard to argue that women were not seen as inferior to men when you have evidence like religion, marriage, history like this https://psac-ncr.com/canadian-womens-history/ There can be bias sure. But with this much evidence the pattern can be labeled quite well. Labels get added to the intersectionality wheel. Like even within the queer community could we say that gay is oppressive to bisexual which is then oppressive to asexual. maybe… | /r/MensRights | 05/08/22 07:18 AM |
| 0 | Can men be oppressed?Because the people who build societies don’t discriminate against their own type. Patriarchal structures can be seen throughout history like religion is a pretty significant one since a lot of laws and rules and customs came from that. Religion was the next best thing to politics a while back. The most popular world religions Judaism, Christianity, Islam are all patriarchal. But religion is just a human invention. It was made up by human. Notice how if it was made up by men, they would be less p… | /r/MensRights | 05/08/22 06:11 AM |
| -2 | Can men be oppressed?No because oppression doesn’t mean being targeted with brutal, unjust, cruel treatment. It is better understood in reference to who is closer to default human like built societies by and for who. The oppressed class has usually a history of being oppressed for that specific class trait and not accounted for in societies human built properly. Blacks: slavery so less rights within white supremacy (racism) Women: treated as property and inferior so less rights within patriarchy (sexism) Homosexuals… | /r/MensRights | 05/08/22 05:07 AM |
| -3 | Can men be oppressed?The terms power vs oppression and privilege vs marginalization mean specific concepts in sociology. Out of context they come off random and so get misused on social media. A lot in the world is about power dynamics. Human desires to have control over its environment and itself (why bodily autonomy is important to human). it creates tools for this. Everything around you is a tool. Objects, ideas, skills, social structures. Human built the society you see around you. Human attempts to enact contro… | /r/MensRights | 04/08/22 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think more men than women join the military?Who is wrong? Have you actually talked to anyone at all who researches this? In the Canadian military everyone does the same test and a lot of women pass. The test is based on bona fide occupational requirements so what is needed for the job of a soldier. I’m in the Canadian military and talked to PSP (what we call personal trainers), doctors, researchers in kinesiology and no it is not true that all men are stronger than all women such that the weakest man is stronger than weakest woman. There … | /r/MensRights | 03/08/22 08:50 AM |
| 1 | Why do you think more men than women join the military?I suggest you reach out to kinesiologists in a university who study this stuff. the weakest male is not stronger than the strongest female lol. there is a spectrum of body types and performance and muscle mass. really human bodies are quite diverse. read some recent kinesiology textbooks. there are free ones on libgen.is search up the "male testosterone range". there is a huge spectrum. but also testosterone is an effort multiplier. if you just sit there doing nothing it won't make you much stro… | /r/MensRights | 03/08/22 08:39 AM |
| 1 | Why do you think more men than women join the military?Yes they can. There are women capable of that lol. There can be men weaker than women in the infantry. not all men in the military are huge mountains of a man. Men come in different shapes and sizes. Also combat arms is a minority of trades. People don’t need to be dragging out people or material for the majority of trades, that’s just for the on ground infantry or whatever US has for combat arms. Canada has combat engineer, artillery, infantry. why again do you assume she is heterosexual. wtf i… | /r/MensRights | 03/08/22 06:48 AM |
| 1 | Why do you think more men than women join the military?Why not as capable and what issues it causes? | /r/MensRights | 03/08/22 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Why do you think more men than women join the military?well as we know human does have various emotions. This is the basis of mental health if you know this field which is fairly packed with scientific research to study patterns of how a human works. it’s not that old facts are false, it is adding on to what we know more. Like in the past people though homosexuality was a mental illness because assumed everyone is supposed to reproduce. Then Kinsey recognized that humans are more on a spectrum with the Kinsey Scale. Today we know there is a spectrum… | /r/MensRights | 03/08/22 01:01 AM |
| 0 | Why do you think more men than women join the military?who is handicap lol? Gender identity was never binary and neither is the concept of sex if you understand the complex models of what sex means. If the world stops forcing the gender binary on people, transgender people would have better rates of mental health. This has been studied on cultures that allow for more gender fluidity without rigid roles. Read human sexuality textbooks and encyclopedias. okay... so you mean the fact that they had a vulva made them compatible to be prostitutes for othe… | /r/MensRights | 02/08/22 11:18 PM |
| -3 | Why do you think more men than women join the military?lol no need to be transphobic. women and men is gender identities. people have different bodies of course with difference chromosomal sex, gonadal sex, phenotypic sex. https://www.canada.ca/en/department-justice/news/2016/05/gender-identity-and-gender-expression.html You mentioned lesbian and I don’t understand what this has to do with anything here. | /r/MensRights | 02/08/22 10:30 PM |
| -2 | Why do you think more men than women join the military?There are more combination than XY and XX. Also the SRY gene can be sometimes on the X too we now know. You should read some human sexuality textbooks and encyclopedias. wtf does someone’s sexual orientation have to do with this? | /r/MensRights | 02/08/22 10:06 PM |
| 4 | Why do you think more men than women join the military?lol no they are capable. You don’t need special forces level ability for most trades while combat arms is a minority. My question is directed at men. Not why women don’t join. I am interested about individual men choosing this. | /r/MensRights | 02/08/22 10:01 PM |
| 2 | Why do you think more men than women join the military?what you wrote is pretty dumb. you are assuming women are this unanimous blob and all cisgender and heterosexual who want a committed monogamous relationship. Your assumption that women in the military are useless seems to be a bias since there can be a lot of useless men but there is less women in general so the bad women stand out. | /r/MensRights | 02/08/22 02:04 PM |
| 3 | Why do you think more men than women join the military?Source? | /r/MensRights | 02/08/22 01:57 PM |
| 1 | There is No Gender Wage GapWhat country you in? In Canada everyone retires at the same age. Everyone pays the same tax not based on gender marker. Social services are accessible to everyone equally even the “for women” ones these days anyone can use since in 2017 added gender identity to human rights Them working less is a problem if they are then earning less, that is contributing to the wage gap. Canada needs nurses yet doesn’t pay them what their work is worth. So there is a shortage. People of any gender are not going… | /r/MensRights | 02/08/22 07:30 AM |
| 4 | Why do you think more men than women join the military?Unfortunately they are true. You can read about the Canadian military class action lawsuit or the recent Arbour report. That’s just about the Canadian military. My lose understanding of this phenomenon is rape was and still is a tool in war to demoralize enemy so it was often used like to the point of people being ordered to do it. Russians are using it on Ukrainians too now. Also military is an occupation that involves violence, it is armed forces after all it is controlled use of violence but … | /r/MensRights | 02/08/22 04:12 AM |
| 2 | Writing a prenupWhy are you thinking of marriage in the first place? You could be in a committed relationship without that. Marriage is just a contract between two people and the state. See it for what it is. | /r/MensRights | 01/08/22 11:15 AM |
| 1 | article on why marriage is pointless and harmful to everyoneWhich part of feminist reasoning you disagree about? | /r/MensRights | 01/08/22 02:17 AM |
| 1 | There is No Gender Wage GapI mean accessing reception services at the local community centre is also free. It’s the same tax money going towards it though. | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 11:58 AM |
| 2 | There is No Gender Wage Gapsure, still a good portion of it is free to keep you alive. there are also some social support programs to pay for other stuff if you are low income. | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 11:35 AM |
| 2 | There is No Gender Wage GapA person doesn’t pay for it out of pocket as much as going to the library or using a park. Yes upkeep of all of those takes tax money but the premise is they everyone can access it equally and not like in US where you have to be rich if want to get sick. | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 11:30 AM |
| -9 | There is No Gender Wage GapWell lol the problem is that they get paid less. That is the underlying problem. As much as Indigenous people in Canada being disproportionately in poverty. Something is cause an imbalance that needs fixing. lmao no right after birth and recovering from that there is no reason why the man cannot do all the taking care of infants and babies. there is formula to feed them if you are concerned about that. Everything else a human of any gender can do and learn to do. lmao no that gender essentialism… | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 11:22 AM |
| 0 | There is No Gender Wage GapOne is a gender role analysis, the other is just humans existing in a higher tax bracket analysis. Which could be maybe part of classism arguments but not sexism. Analyze carefully where the discrepancy is that causes pay gap from what I listed. The things I listed are directly related to human with a uterus or human that identifies as a woman. Maternity leave as in because this is the human that went through pregnancy. Discouraged because a girl is purely a gender role thing like video games no… | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 11:18 AM |
| -6 | There is No Gender Wage Gaplol no they don’t. No one is paying more due to gender haha wtf. Income tax brackets based on pay apply to everyone the same. A woman earning the same as a man pays the same tax | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 08:53 AM |
| 4 | If a woman wanted an abortion, and an artificial womb was available at no cost to them, how many would choose to transplant the fetus to an artificial womb and make child support payments for 18 years to somebody else to raise the child?If a child is given up for adoption no one needs to pay | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 08:36 AM |
| -12 | There is No Gender Wage GapIt is a complicated topic that I feel summarizing gets people again into the “wage gap not real!!!!!11111” I guess the short blip of it is that when clustering humans into a binary gender model with a heteronormative and cisnormative lens using gender stereotypes then woman as a class make less than men as a class. This is partially due to the occupations they aggregate in which are paid less (even if are worth the same amount of work as a stereotypically male-dominated counterpart which lead to… | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 08:34 AM |
| -1 | Feminists are under a distorted perception of reality which makes them regard actual equality, as discrimination, and hence to act in practice to replace what is in fact a balance, with what is actually discrimination in favor of women.A man can adopt a child or have a surrogate give one if they wish to take on the project of raising a human. I don’t understand where the problem is. Yes society historically put pressure on women to think it is their role to raise humans. It isn’t deepest desires, it is a combination of social conditioning and I guess some people have a selfish need for self fulfillment through another human they create for this. Creating a human is selfish and all the reasons to do it are fairly dumb if you ac… | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 07:50 AM |
| 0 | Feminists are under a distorted perception of reality which makes them regard actual equality, as discrimination, and hence to act in practice to replace what is in fact a balance, with what is actually discrimination in favor of women.I don’t understand what you are saying. Not all women want children. Sex is it’s own thing, it feels good. So men having sex with women is its own thing. If you don’t want to get her pregnant you can get a vasectomy which is pretty effective. Then if you do want to raise a human you could adopt or before getting a vasectomy freeze sperm or after vasectomy can always have sperm retracted from testicles. Then you can be free in your desires all you want. | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 07:28 AM |
| -17 | There is No Gender Wage Gapwhile the term "wage gap" is misused in popular media, it does refer to a concept in sociology. as can be understood from reading this report: https://docdro.id/DzHEMWC | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 07:22 AM |
| 0 | Feminists are under a distorted perception of reality which makes them regard actual equality, as discrimination, and hence to act in practice to replace what is in fact a balance, with what is actually discrimination in favor of women.Someone having different chromosomes, producing different gametes, having different genital shape, having different hormone levels is not a determination for how the perform the job of a solider. It is a strange concept that someone’s gender, sex, skin colour would create a divide where only a certain type of person keeps succeeding in the military. the divide is due to social structures like the society we built with gender roles and sexism. Military during this time is a shitty workplace but w… | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Feminists are under a distorted perception of reality which makes them regard actual equality, as discrimination, and hence to act in practice to replace what is in fact a balance, with what is actually discrimination in favor of women.there can be a risk but it can be also resolved with a simple abortion. Like in Canada you get free abortion pills and it easy. Some people enjoy seeking sex. If you catch a disease you would expect that going to a doctor would help you treat it. That is one of the jobs a doctor does. With sex if people catch an STI or get unwanted pregnancy then they go to a doctor to fix that. | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Feminists are under a distorted perception of reality which makes them regard actual equality, as discrimination, and hence to act in practice to replace what is in fact a balance, with what is actually discrimination in favor of women.Yes they can daily. Not everyone can use hormonal btw. But yes even with hormonal and confirms and spermicide there is some risk. | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Feminists are under a distorted perception of reality which makes them regard actual equality, as discrimination, and hence to act in practice to replace what is in fact a balance, with what is actually discrimination in favor of women.People can use birth control and still it fails. Yes we do in fact need better sex ed and better access to barrier methods and contraception. Sure there are many ways to do sexual activity but it doesn’t just happen from intercourses. Ejaculating in a way such that ejaculate gets on the vulva can have sperm travel up the vaginal canal. | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 05:11 AM |
| -2 | Feminists are under a distorted perception of reality which makes them regard actual equality, as discrimination, and hence to act in practice to replace what is in fact a balance, with what is actually discrimination in favor of women.It doesn’t matter what happened to lead up to someone needing an abortion. Abortion is a procedure to terminate zygote/embryo/fetus developing with an emphasis on not having to go through pregnancy and childbirth. This isn’t the same as choosing to be a parent or not. You are being sexist by restricting someone’s sexuality based on their body and what organs they have. Not everyone is asexual. Some humans value sexual activity and it need it for optimal physical and mental health. | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 05:04 AM |
| -3 | Feminists are under a distorted perception of reality which makes them regard actual equality, as discrimination, and hence to act in practice to replace what is in fact a balance, with what is actually discrimination in favor of women.A fetus can be a person but that doesn’t mean it can demand to use someone else’s uterus or reside in the Fallopian tube that will kill the host eventually even if it had the right to ask. The person with a uterus doesn’t consent to going through this bodily process hence has the right to bodily autonomy which involves removing the fetus. If you invent some artificial wombs and a way to remove that fetus to place it elsewhere then that could help the case. but it is sexist and hateful to expect … | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 04:58 AM |
| -3 | Feminists are under a distorted perception of reality which makes them regard actual equality, as discrimination, and hence to act in practice to replace what is in fact a balance, with what is actually discrimination in favor of women.It doesn’t matter if life begins at conception. America has a hard time seeing people with a uterus as equal to people without. Even if life begins at conception, uterus is not a public commodity. It belongs to the one who has the uterus. If they don’t want to go through pregnancy and childbirth, which is violent, it doesn’t matter what anyone thinks. It is not a right to use someone else’s body to survive or to live inside someone else for any human. Murder is going out of your way to kill some… | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Is it wrong to not want to include wokeness in men's rights?Gender identity and sexual orientation are both spectrum and they are a concept in the mind. | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Is it wrong to not want to include wokeness in men's rights?I studied some topics in human sexuality. It makes more sense for human to have a spectrum than not. You lived all your life in a binary society. But this society is created by human. We could have built a society where gender didn’t matter as much as eye colour but we made it matter. At this point to undo that new concepts needs to come about. First it was transgender people being seen in binary, then non-binary is acknowledged. These days there are more identities. It is like if the world was … | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Is it wrong to not want to include wokeness in men's rights?One doesn’t need science to account for a gender identity. Like before the term gay even existed people were still gay. | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Is it wrong to not want to include wokeness in men's rights?No it’s because you are using inaccurate terms. It is like you talking about the atom using the Dalton’s plum pudding model while the more current model is the orbital theory. While I understand what you are trying to say kinda it shows to me you lack understanding of the complexity for how things work. That pelvis shape happens due to estrogen at puberty. If you give same dose of estrogen that is considered “female range” to an AMAB you could get a similar shape. | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Is it wrong to not want to include wokeness in men's rights?Well it exists idk what to tell you. It always existed. It is in indigenous cultures like two-spirit in Canada. There are accounts of it from medieval times even. humans were never binary so it is creating problems to force it on people. Just like the sexual orientations spectrum always existed. | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 03:13 AM |
| 2 | Is it wrong to not want to include wokeness in men's rights?Woman is a gender identity. There is a spectrum of them. Like man, woman, non-binary, agender, bigender, pangender, gender fluid, gender queer is also a term. | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Is it wrong to not want to include wokeness in men's rights?I don’t understand you. There are different pelvic shapes. Some AMAB can have larger pelvises than some AFAB. In the binary model in science they can talk about male vs female pelvises because they are probably taking about reproduction which is a simple model anyways. Human doesn’t do anything remotely to a mating strategy anymore. Well Canada is working to remove gender markers on IDs anyways since they are useless. No need to say if you are a man or woman. For now one can pick M or F or X tho… | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Is it wrong to not want to include wokeness in men's rights?lol no brain function is not tied to sex. Sex is describing those things that can have variations when a fetus develops. Like ovaries vs testicles is sex related but not brain or arm. Sex differences even hormone levels do not have a significant enough effect to change a human in the mind. Neurotransmitters have more impact than hormones anyways. And what hormones a human has is on a large spectrum. Like search up “testosterone male range”, see it’s huge. What mental illness? Transphobia isn’t g… | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 03:02 AM |
| 3 | Is it wrong to not want to include wokeness in men's rights?Woman is a gender identity https://www.canada.ca/en/department-justice/news/2016/05/gender-identity-and-gender-expression.html | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 02:58 AM |
| 3 | Is it wrong to not want to include wokeness in men's rights?lol no actual science/fact/reality has changed a lot. Science is still human perceiving things about the world and there can be bias so it would be in line with other people’s beliefs. Like there was a term hysteria (hysto means uterus) that was given to women just because they are women. This is sexism because it is treating a human with a uterus differently than one without and using a bias to assume things about women like “too emotional for a woman” when the expectation of women back then wa… | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Is it wrong to not want to include wokeness in men's rights?lol your sentence doesn’t make sense. I already explained that the term if AFAB not biological woman. AFAB is a human that is assigned the F gender marker at birth due to their phenotypic sex closely resembling a vulva rather than penis. The binary sex model is just a model. It uses averages. Sure you can label something a “female” pelvis. Specifically talking about the type of pelvis. But to go around claiming a transgender woman is not a woman due to not having a female pelvis is transphobic. … | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 02:43 AM |
| -1 | Is it wrong to not want to include wokeness in men's rights?It’s kinda rooted in common knowledge so the harm may be implicit. Just pointing it out. | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Do women have it better than men these daysI suggest reading about symbolic violence. It is possible there is still it present as a relic from the past when women were seen as inferior to men. | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 02:35 AM |
| 1 | How do you percieve Women's modern problems?Read about symbolic violence. That may still be impacting women as a relic of the past when women were seen inferior to men. | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 02:34 AM |
| -4 | Is it wrong to not want to include wokeness in men's rights?No they can exist as a concept. But for example saying “you are not a woman because of your pelvic bone shape” is transphobic. | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 02:24 AM |
| -4 | Is it wrong to not want to include wokeness in men's rights?No it matters how it’s used. historically though it has been used against certain groups. Like deeming intersex a disorder rather than another human variation. Feeling neurodivergencies a disorder in need of fixing that they would do with horrific techniques even if it’s another human variation. | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 02:23 AM |
| -6 | Feminists are under a distorted perception of reality which makes them regard actual equality, as discrimination, and hence to act in practice to replace what is in fact a balance, with what is actually discrimination in favor of women.Could you quote something specific where you believe women are asking for more than equality? Take note that while US has still genuine issues with women oppression like Roe V Wade being overturned. The more developed countries like Canada are working against the soft power of patriarchy now because yes on paper equality looks like have been achieved. Read these: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Symbolic_violence https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Symbolic_power It is kind of the difference between … | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 02:21 AM |
| -7 | Is it wrong to not want to include wokeness in men's rights?Historically “science” has been used against trans people just like black people. For a small glimpse of how science was used against black people read about Darwin proving black people are a different species so inferior and dreptomania. It has also been used against gay people with homosexuality being deemed a mental illness. Science is not a absolute truth, there is still bias and politics in it. | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 02:13 AM |
| -4 | Is it wrong to not want to include wokeness in men's rights?Even sex is not as binary as we used to think. I do encourage you to read human sexuality textbooks to become better aware. There is chromosomal, gonadal, phenotypic sex. You can have various variations there like there are more than two combinations of chromosomes and the SRY gene can be in the X sometimes, gonadal is what you are referring to with reproductive organs specifically gamete creation apparatus, phenotypic sex is interesting because you can have various shapes and sizes of genitals.… | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 02:11 AM |
| -1 | Is it wrong to not want to include wokeness in men's rights?To explain gender to you: it is correct that no one can change their gender. Except gender identity is a spectrum and is in the brain while society forces a gender binary based on genital shape (phenotypic sex). When a human is forced to be a gender they are not, they get gender dysphoria which can be debilitating mental distress. So a transgender man was always a man, that is where they are located on the gender identity spectrum, genital shape is not related to gender identity such that there … | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 02:03 AM |
| 4 | Why is it selfish to want sex?Human of any gender can have various levels of sex drive so want sex. If this relationship is not working you have the right to leave at any time. Relationships are not meant to be possessive. | /r/MensRights | 30/07/22 06:48 PM |
| -2 | The destruction of MCU phase 1 Avengers is almost done.All politics is identity politics. If not black skin then white skin. If not woman then man. So good story would ideally just randomize these. Here we have a woman hulk. Could have been another stronger man hulk who cares. | /r/MensRights | 30/07/22 06:27 AM |
| 1 | How is it that we live in a patriarchy when stats are starting to show otherwise?Somewhat could be stemming from the idea of original sin. But considering religion is made up by humans it is interesting that they would make up that man is superior. Patriarchy is simply labeling a hierarchy. That’s why I hate when people on this sub claim it is putting blame. It isn’t blaming. It is just acknowledging. The point of sociology is to study societies which involves seeing why they occurred. no lol feminism did not push women to be homemakers. Feminism is in the domain of pushing … | /r/MensRights | 26/07/22 01:11 AM |
| 1 | How is it that we live in a patriarchy when stats are starting to show otherwise?Societies were structured by religion. It was the next best thing to politics at the time. Like the ideas of “sin” is just modern world’s “crime”. Social systems were built from religious dogma. Like the concept of marriage comes from religious beliefs. For example consummation of marriage by having intercourse is a religious belief. But it became in law when people could divorce due to being unable to intercourse. Islam has prohibitions for women revealing skin and this ends up being written in… | /r/MensRights | 26/07/22 12:40 AM |
| 1 | How is it that we live in a patriarchy when stats are starting to show otherwise?they are social constructs but they are not a social system. the thing is it doesn't matter if the fetus is a person or not. no person has the right to use another person's organs to survive. lmao the reason feminism started with rights for women is that they had less rights, in a gender binary system. these days feminism evolved, we are in 4th wave now. it includes the concept of gender inclusivity so accounting for the whole gender identity spectrum, so that transgender people and gender diver… | /r/MensRights | 26/07/22 12:23 AM |
| 0 | How is it that we live in a patriarchy when stats are starting to show otherwise?Well no alphabet is not a social structure. Society is patriarchal. If people just read the Adam and Eve story and gloss over it then it wouldn’t mean much but it is used like by the Catholic pope to dictate women cannot be religious leaders. That is patriarchy. Abortion is a right that anyone who supports women being equal would agree with. Because if you don’t then you automatically think people with a uterus, typically women, as someone who doesn’t get to chose what happens to their own body.… | /r/MensRights | 26/07/22 12:04 AM |
| 1 | This is the reason that feminists hate men and manhood so muchThat is not a transgender man though. That is detransitioner | /r/MensRights | 25/07/22 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Women who say they want absolutely nothing to do with men are heralded as stunning and brave. Men who say they want absolutely nothing to do with women are deemed toxic and misogynist. Got it.Well no that isn’t what feminism is https://www.thecanadianencyclopedia.ca/en/article/feminism | /r/MensRights | 25/07/22 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Women who say they want absolutely nothing to do with men are heralded as stunning and brave. Men who say they want absolutely nothing to do with women are deemed toxic and misogynist. Got it.There happens to be women that are the equivalent of children who want nothing to do with their parents it seems. If parents were abusive that is to be expected. It’s possible these women had men be abusive to them so they want nothing to do with them. Sucks that ends up being like gender profiling and assuming all men are that bad. | /r/MensRights | 25/07/22 11:47 PM |
| 0 | Women who say they want absolutely nothing to do with men are heralded as stunning and brave. Men who say they want absolutely nothing to do with women are deemed toxic and misogynist. Got it.Well yes there was slavery. Black peoples didn’t have the same rights as the white. | /r/MensRights | 25/07/22 11:46 PM |
| -1 | How is it that we live in a patriarchy when stats are starting to show otherwise?Yes patriarchy can still exist even if women are in charge or choosing majority of electoral decisions. Like USSR had better gender equity than US today but it still had patriarchy which looked different of course. For example in Christian teaching Adam being made first and Eve made from his rib as a companion to him is an example of a patriarchal belief. The more you have of that the more evidence you have for patriarchy. Take note the difference between soft and hard power. Maybe laws come off… | /r/MensRights | 25/07/22 11:35 PM |
| 1 | How is it that we live in a patriarchy when stats are starting to show otherwise?I don’t know what is your definition of feminist. This sub can’t come up with one coherent one so that last sentence doesn’t mean much to me. People who study sociology, social work, anthropology, history get to understand what patriarchy is. | /r/MensRights | 25/07/22 11:34 PM |
| -2 | TikTok Just Took Down My Video Exposing r/AgainstMensRightsThe term men’s rights activists is a code word for male supremacists in certain social media circles. Just like on this sub feminists is a code word for female supremacists. | /r/MensRights | 25/07/22 11:32 PM |
| -18 | TikTok Just Took Down My Video Exposing r/AgainstMensRightsJust like people who call themselves feminists end up having some female supremacists. People who call themselves men’s rights activists end up having some male supremacists. This is the same situation as how this sub misused the word feminism | /r/MensRights | 25/07/22 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Men in the US, if you have, or want to have children with a woman, consider moving to Kentucky.Can men adopt and then raise it themselves? paying for nannies and child care when at work. | /r/MensRights | 25/07/22 08:30 PM |
| 4 | Should we make erections normal?Oh totally I think there should be a movement to stop erection shaming. Like there is a movement to stop period shaming | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/07/22 06:07 AM |
| -49 | Women who say they want absolutely nothing to do with men are heralded as stunning and brave. Men who say they want absolutely nothing to do with women are deemed toxic and misogynist. Got it.I think that is a backlash from a time in history when women were depended on men for everything. It’s like if black people said they want nothing to do with white people because of the history when black peoples depended on white people for everything. Or like a child growing up and not wanting to depend on their parents from in the past depending on them for everything. | /r/MensRights | 25/07/22 06:01 AM |
| 2 | This is the reason that feminists hate men and manhood so muchYou mean assigned female at birth (AFAB). They were never women. They are men with vulvas that society assumes have to be women. But that is not their gender identity | /r/MensRights | 25/07/22 03:21 AM |
| -16 | How is it that we live in a patriarchy when stats are starting to show otherwise?I don't think you understand what patriarchy means. I suggest reading some sociology textbooks and reaching out to professors in this field. | /r/MensRights | 25/07/22 01:29 AM |
| 2 | This is the reason that feminists hate men and manhood so muchNo transgender men are not women. They are men. | /r/MensRights | 25/07/22 12:38 AM |
| 3 | This is the reason that feminists hate men and manhood so muchYes there can be transgender men and what can be called trans maculine people (like non-binary) who want masculine features. | /r/MensRights | 25/07/22 12:06 AM |
| 0 | This is the reason that feminists hate men and manhood so muchWhat are you even saying in this comment. What does the person’s sex have to do with this. | /r/MensRights | 24/07/22 07:45 PM |
| 2 | This is the reason that feminists hate men and manhood so muchYou come off like the guy who coined dreptomania. “I wonder why human wants freedom and equal rights huh must be mental illness”. | /r/MensRights | 24/07/22 06:41 PM |
| -3 | This is the reason that feminists hate men and manhood so muchWtf is this sexist “since in women, jealousy is nearly identical emotionally to hate” lol. That’s not true. Try again with your theory. | /r/MensRights | 24/07/22 06:35 PM |
| -7 | This is the reason that feminists hate men and manhood so muchYour post is very heteronormative and cisnormative. Hence you have the wrong premise and your conclusion will be wrong. Human has a spectrum of sexual orientations and gender identities that are not related to genital shape. Your model won’t work if you are purposefully ignoring human variations. You are like trying to explain the atom using Dalton’s plum pudding model when orbital model is more complex and closer to accurate. Your post is attempting to use some outdated evolutionary psychology … | /r/MensRights | 24/07/22 06:23 PM |
| -5 | Why is there so much hate for this sub?I also am trying to expand the way sexual assault is talked about in the military to be gender inclusive instead of focusing on women. It isn’t feminists who are opposing it. It would be female supremacists like TERFs no doubt if they want to force the gender binary which is already against gender equity. Your knowledge for definitions on patriarchy, toxic masculinity, wage gap is some surface level social media crap. These are genuine terms in sociology that explain complicated concepts. I coul… | /r/MensRights | 24/07/22 10:44 AM |
| -17 | Why is there so much hate for this sub?This sub uses the term “feminism” to mean female supremacy. Anything anti-feminist would be labeled a hate sub because feminism has whole scholarly section and progression to mean things that this sub refuses to acknowledge. Feminism is a gender equity movement so being against it puts you into being labeled dumb or hateful. If they were to just replace feminism with female supremacy then we could have more civil conversations. The other thing though this sub acts as a venting place so it’s not … | /r/MensRights | 24/07/22 07:29 AM |
| 0 | If men and women are equal in society, how come men still have to do all the work when it comes to dating?Nice attempt at a r/deepthoughts but the thing is that men do not HAVE TO do all the work. Don’t do it. No one is making you. There is no rule in society that you have to. Dating involves being proactive but if a person is not interested then no amount of flirting/dates/initiating/proposing will fix that regardless of gender. Try to see this transaction without gender. Same sex couples figure it out it’s not like they are playing different roles, so can different sex couples. | /r/MensRights | 24/07/22 03:49 AM |
| 3 | Canadian advocacy group for banning male genital mutilation (circumcision)Consider donating to their cause! And check out the upcoming Foreskin Pride events for those in Canada http://www.can-fap.net/events.shtml | /r/MensRights | 23/07/22 02:30 AM |
| 1 | A movement to force a minimum of 40 % female employment in the most dirtiest and dangerous jobs.Well yes, if men has to do everything they end up being disposable. It’s like they are the only ones participating in the society so have to run and protect it (do dirty jobs and fight wars) The circumcision issue is a bodily autonomy problem. Intersex infant’s bodily autonomy is also not respected. It isn’t really gender as much as medicine thinking it knows what is supposed to be helpful but ends up being harmful. | /r/MensRights | 22/07/22 09:53 PM |
| 2 | Mainstream media admits pay gap discrimination is just made uphttp://equalpaycoalition.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/07/Equality-in-Employment-A-Royal-Commission-Report-Abella-Complete-Report.pdf | /r/MensRights | 22/07/22 01:18 AM |
| -10 | Do feminists even realize how narcissistic they sound?Well people who say that are using man and woman as these binary gender role models. It isn’t really the gender identity or people with a penis. | /r/MensRights | 21/07/22 04:54 AM |
| -14 | Mainstream media admits pay gap discrimination is just made upThis again. Pay gap refers to a more complex phenomenon than just paying men and women differently based on gender. There was a whole human rights research on it done in Canada I can link. It jumpstarted several laws to resolve inequalities. | /r/MensRights | 21/07/22 04:52 AM |
| 2 | Fathers have no rights, women can lie, cheat, steal, do drugs, sleep around, and the father has no rights unless he proves the mother unfit. The child goes without a Father, and if the Father doesn't meet the quota he goes to jail. How does a man get help fighting for his rights as a father?lol it is not erasing women if people with a uterus is it’s own designation of humans. There are non binary and transgender men that have uteruses. Woman and person with a uterus is not synonyms. There are women without uterus and people with a uterus that are not women. | /r/MensRights | 20/07/22 09:16 PM |
| 2 | Fathers have no rights, women can lie, cheat, steal, do drugs, sleep around, and the father has no rights unless he proves the mother unfit. The child goes without a Father, and if the Father doesn't meet the quota he goes to jail. How does a man get help fighting for his rights as a father?So what power exactly is this? People with a uterus are taking a hard hit right now in US with Roe V Wade overturn, doesn’t seem like a having power thing. | /r/MensRights | 20/07/22 08:57 PM |
| 2 | Fathers have no rights, women can lie, cheat, steal, do drugs, sleep around, and the father has no rights unless he proves the mother unfit. The child goes without a Father, and if the Father doesn't meet the quota he goes to jail. How does a man get help fighting for his rights as a father?explain what you disagree with. Pregnancy and childbirth is not a pleasant bodily phenomenon. You can read about what it entails. | /r/MensRights | 20/07/22 08:11 PM |
| 2 | Fathers have no rights, women can lie, cheat, steal, do drugs, sleep around, and the father has no rights unless he proves the mother unfit. The child goes without a Father, and if the Father doesn't meet the quota he goes to jail. How does a man get help fighting for his rights as a father?power in what way? Human doesn’t enjoy childbirth. It isn’t enjoyable to get prolapses and have vulva ripped from clitoris to anus. And even C section is a pain to heal from. | /r/MensRights | 20/07/22 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Fathers have no rights, women can lie, cheat, steal, do drugs, sleep around, and the father has no rights unless he proves the mother unfit. The child goes without a Father, and if the Father doesn't meet the quota he goes to jail. How does a man get help fighting for his rights as a father?lol we already are developing them. What makes you believe we will never have them? https://www.bbc.com/news/av/health-50056405 The point is gender equity. If a woman can make life, so should a man. Human doesn’t like going through pregnancy and childbirth anyways. It is a fairly violent experience if you read about actually what it entails. | /r/MensRights | 20/07/22 05:46 PM |
| 1 | A simple explanation of why the pay gap isn't existingThe point is that childcare is a needed profession. It lifts the burden off people having to do it themselves so they end up going to the workforce. Otherwise you would be stuck at home taking care of a child, and poorly too if you didn’t go to school for knowing how to. After child grows up you won’t even have employable skills to go back to workforce. Instead it is better to send a child to childcare and pay for that while doing your own job. There is demand. Supply is an issue due to the low … | /r/MensRights | 20/07/22 04:24 PM |
| -2 | A simple explanation of why the pay gap isn't existingWhy do you claim that? It does have basis in reality. Read about it. There is pretty clear evidence that this is going on. I can link reports but just searching it and seeing scholarly articles too explains it. Which part do you disagree with? | /r/MensRights | 20/07/22 03:12 PM |
| 2 | Fathers have no rights, women can lie, cheat, steal, do drugs, sleep around, and the father has no rights unless he proves the mother unfit. The child goes without a Father, and if the Father doesn't meet the quota he goes to jail. How does a man get help fighting for his rights as a father?Maybe do adoption or surrogacy and put the child under your name. Hopefully we eventually make artificial wombs so that men could procreate without depending on a person with a uterus. Get a degree and help with this initiative. It will be the pinnacle of gender equity. | /r/MensRights | 20/07/22 02:11 PM |
| -2 | A simple explanation of why the pay gap isn't existinglol they are not actually worth less. When people account for the credentials needed and work done it ends up being underpaid. That is what equal pay for equal work initiatives do. They analyze and equalize pay according to worth and effort. There is a history of people thinking stereotypically woman work is easy and worth less but the actual amount of effort to do them is comparable to high paid jobs. Like read about Early Childhood Educators. Google it and there are a lot of explanations of wh… | /r/MensRights | 20/07/22 02:08 PM |
| -5 | A simple explanation of why the pay gap isn't existingThe real term pay gap is explaining something else. Read this: https://www.ontario.ca/document/your-guide-employment-standards-act-0/equal-pay-equal-work I can then link you a more in depth article about where this idea came from 70 cents to a dollar is a bit misleading. It is like taking a binary model of gender roles to claim that. Since it is true that stereotypically women’s work is undervalued and underpaid like read about the early childhood educators issue. | /r/MensRights | 20/07/22 03:33 AM |
| -4 | A movement to force a minimum of 40 % female employment in the most dirtiest and dangerous jobs.That is what patriarchy implies, look up the intersectionality wheel and see how male comes before female and then on the end you have transgender. Just because the hard power of patriarchal structures may be gone, doesn’t mean soft power is gone. Like marriage and Abrahamic religions are inherently patriarchal and they hold a lot of grip on society. When you have a society that was built by men for men, things can end up excluding women even if it may seem that is just the way it is. Just like … | /r/MensRights | 20/07/22 02:06 AM |
| -4 | Women Transitions Into A Man And Doesn't Like Being A Manlets not be transphobic. he was always a man. you can say "presented as a woman" when you want to describe him before transition into passing as a man. | /r/MensRights | 20/07/22 01:30 AM |
| -3 | A movement to force a minimum of 40 % female employment in the most dirtiest and dangerous jobs.Canada has a lot of initiatives helping women get into trades. US can too. https://switcanada.caf-fca.org/ https://www.ontariocolleges.ca/en/apply/skilled-trades/women you have in fact pointed out the downside of patriarchy. If men is seen as superior and default human, he has to do the dirty jobs too. | /r/MensRights | 20/07/22 01:17 AM |
| 3 | Dangers of complimenting women?General rule is to not comment on human’s bodies. It is a low level thing to point out in the first place. It is easy to make people uncomfortable since it draws attention to you noticing their body and pointing something out about it. | /r/MensRights | 18/07/22 08:05 PM |
| 2 | What’s your guy’s thoughts on misandrists, blaming everything on a “patriarchy”or “toxic masculinity”?blaming is not useful but labeling it is so that people can understand what is going on. context matters of what is being analyzed, you can post it here and then we could discuss more specific examples. feminine is a socially constructed idea. but sure people are pushing for all humans to embrace feminine and masculine qualities. emotional intelligence is an important skill too so for that emotions would need to be used and understood. with any kind of change it takes time and courage to go agai… | /r/MensRights | 18/07/22 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Men in Canada: advocate to remove gender markers on drivers license to stop the practice of paying higher car insurance for being maleDo you understand that testosterone exists in all humans in various levels. There is a huge spectrum of what humans can have. This science is claiming some is-so argument that is sexist. Pumping someone with more testosterone doesn’t suddenly make them more risk averse come on. Risk aversion is a personality trait. A human taking steroids or going through puberty or transitioning FtM doesn’t wake up one day more risk averse for whatever that means. AMAB (assigned male at birth) people who produc… | /r/MensRights | 17/07/22 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Men in Canada: advocate to remove gender markers on drivers license to stop the practice of paying higher car insurance for being maleStatistics can exist for general populations but they do not apply to an individual. Plus you need to analyze what exactly is causing the corruption. An individual man is not going to be more risky than individual woman. Hence it is unfair to penalize them for being a man. lol no that is outdated sexist science that men are better at geometric figures. Search up neurosexism. There can be socialization differences like men playing more sports and video games that can help with special ability. Bu… | /r/MensRights | 17/07/22 05:46 PM |
| -1 | Saying toxic masculinity exists in front of young boys is child abuse.They need it explained to them what toxic masculinity is. It would be a good lesson from sociology and history and how to be a kind human. It can help the boy express themselves better without thinking they need to be stereotypically masculine to be a boy. | /r/MensRights | 17/07/22 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Men in Canada: advocate to remove gender markers on drivers license to stop the practice of paying higher car insurance for being maleHave an edge how so? Gender identity or genital shape or hormone levels does not impact anything in terms of driving. Driving is just another skill. Think about it. How does having a penis have anything to do with it. How does testosterone do estrogen variation on the spectrum have anything to do with it. These risk measures are sexist. There used to be a time when people were charged differently based on race too but that was racist. There was a time when ID had ethnicity written on them but th… | /r/MensRights | 17/07/22 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Men in Canada: advocate to remove gender markers on drivers license to stop the practice of paying higher car insurance for being maleThat’s irrelevant to whether men need to pay more. It could be that men drive more. That used to be the case in the past that skewed statistics | /r/MensRights | 17/07/22 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?dude patrilineal is part of patriarchy. the father takes precedence in last names. someone had to have decided that this one is more important than mother’s last name. They could have seen it that mother gave birth therefore her last name makes sense to be put on the child. That didn’t happen. It is showing a bias for which gender is deemed default and rules are based on. No women cannot be leaders. Pope explicitly banned it but also it’s in the bible. dude most of the things in porn are not ple… | /r/MensRights | 16/07/22 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Men in Canada: advocate to remove gender markers on drivers license to stop the practice of paying higher car insurance for being maleThis will help if gender markers get removed. Then no one could claim something based on gender. Like I have been contemplating to go to human rights to remove gender markers from passports. Imagine, after that no argument based on gender can work. | /r/MensRights | 16/07/22 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Men in Canada: advocate to remove gender markers on drivers license to stop the practice of paying higher car insurance for being maleRemoving gender markers is a great way to communicate this push. They are not needed so if removed provide gender equity. There used to be a time ethnicity was on IDs. | /r/MensRights | 15/07/22 11:15 PM |
| 3 | Men in Canada: advocate to remove gender markers on drivers license to stop the practice of paying higher car insurance for being maleWoman is not a unanimous blob. They are not copies of each other so this is useless to group them like that and penalize some individual man due to what some other men did. | /r/MensRights | 15/07/22 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Men in Canada: advocate to remove gender markers on drivers license to stop the practice of paying higher car insurance for being maleNo one should be grouped into gender assumptions | /r/MensRights | 15/07/22 09:44 PM |
| 2 | Men in Canada: advocate to remove gender markers on drivers license to stop the practice of paying higher car insurance for being maleit is not a benefit to men to pay more. Sexism is not a good thing. Human hurts to be discriminated against | /r/MensRights | 15/07/22 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Men in Canada: advocate to remove gender markers on drivers license to stop the practice of paying higher car insurance for being maleThey used to be sex markers but these days it’s gender markers too since transgender people change them to the gender they identity as. In Canada “X” is available for all IDs too. | /r/MensRights | 15/07/22 09:03 PM |
| 5 | Men in Canada: advocate to remove gender markers on drivers license to stop the practice of paying higher car insurance for being maleIt doesn’t make sense to punish all people of that gender for actions of some. That’s like gender profiling | /r/MensRights | 15/07/22 08:57 PM |
| 4 | Men in Canada: advocate to remove gender markers on drivers license to stop the practice of paying higher car insurance for being maleMaybe you could consider starting a coalition like that. How do human rights complaints work there? | /r/MensRights | 15/07/22 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Men in Canada: advocate to remove gender markers on drivers license to stop the practice of paying higher car insurance for being maleIt is based on gender marker on drives license. Yes you can change it. But the website shows how to advocate for removing them in the first place. | /r/MensRights | 15/07/22 05:36 PM |
| 7 | Men in Canada: advocate to remove gender markers on drivers license to stop the practice of paying higher car insurance for being maleGender identity and expression was added to Canadian human rights in 2017. Since then what is outlined in the website is good to go. If you read it it involves submitting a human rights compliant if they don’t comply with removing gender markers. I am hoping men here from every province can play their part to have gender markers abolished since ever since gender was added to human rights, charging someone more and just displaying their gender is discrimination. | /r/MensRights | 15/07/22 05:19 PM |
| 24 | Men in Canada: advocate to remove gender markers on drivers license to stop the practice of paying higher car insurance for being maleThat is false and sexist. It doesn’t work like that. Read some human sexuality textbooks and encyclopedias | /r/MensRights | 15/07/22 05:04 PM |
| 4 | Men in Canada: advocate to remove gender markers on drivers license to stop the practice of paying higher car insurance for being maleNew data is coming out that shows that gender has no bearing on driving skills. Yes it probably the skew in the past was happening due to what you explained. There was a time women weren’t even allowed to drive. Of course men would get into more accidents. | /r/MensRights | 15/07/22 05:03 PM |
| 7 | Men in Canada: advocate to remove gender markers on drivers license to stop the practice of paying higher car insurance for being maleI Canada it is free to change gender marker and you don’t need extensive proof. You can search up how to do it in your province. You can just have it changed on the drivers licence. I recommend though instead following the steps in the website to argue on removing the gender markers all together | /r/MensRights | 15/07/22 04:52 PM |
| 2 | Men in Canada: advocate to remove gender markers on drivers license to stop the practice of paying higher car insurance for being maleGender has nothing to do with driving ability. And it is not fair to penalize other people just because of being the same gender. | /r/MensRights | 15/07/22 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Men in Canada: advocate to remove gender markers on drivers license to stop the practice of paying higher car insurance for being maleYes exactly! Especially since new data coming out that gender doesn’t matter towards accidents. The old data could have been skewed from men just driving more, considering even back into the past women were not allowed to drive in the first place (some parts of the world this still applies) | /r/MensRights | 15/07/22 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?That isn’t what patriarchy is describing in terms of female rulers. For example last names being passed by the man is patriarchy. women not allowed to be leaders in Christianity is patriarchy. I don’t understand why you are stuck on politics and democracy. There is so much more to society where men are seen as superior to women and the default. Like mainstream porn is patriarchal. It is phalocentric. So focuses on the pleasure of the man rather than woman. Feminism started because everything was… | /r/MensRights | 15/07/22 04:02 PM |
| 10 | Men in Canada: advocate to remove gender markers on drivers license to stop the practice of paying higher car insurance for being maleThey used to charge by race. Luckily in Canada auto insurance is the only one regulated by each province so they can set the standard that if provincial drivers license don’t have gender, companies cannot charge based on information that isn’t even given. (they can ask but you can refuse to answer and they can’t fill anything in themselves or force you to answer) | /r/MensRights | 15/07/22 08:00 AM |
| 27 | Men in Canada: advocate to remove gender markers on drivers license to stop the practice of paying higher car insurance for being malelol no an individual should not be responsible for a statistic. statistics do not apply to individuals. They are used to study trends. But it is a flawed and dangerous assumption to claim anything about an individual based of a statistic. Like that assumption that because more men are sexual assault perpetrators then there is a higher chance an individual man is a sexual assault perpetrator. That is not accurate, it is a cognitive bias. | /r/MensRights | 15/07/22 07:32 AM |
| -4 | Equality feels like oppression?This is targeted at the people who oppose liberation of women. Like people claiming breasts need to continue to be sexualized, intercourse is superior to other sexual acts, everyone must procreate (which puts the burden on women to go through pregnancy and childbirth), against having the country provide menstrual products in all bathrooms like toilet paper, prevent women from accessing abortion and birth control and sterilization. generally anything sexist with women getting the short end of the… | /r/MensRights | 14/07/22 10:16 PM |
| 1 | are there any initiatives to get more men into childcare professions? (female dominated field)They are different variations of humans, okay. Didn’t excuse sexism or forcing them into binary gender roles. | /r/MensRights | 14/07/22 03:55 AM |
| 1 | are there any initiatives to get more men into childcare professions? (female dominated field)Why would they be necessary and true? Gender roles are created by society. We could just stop forcing people into these binary labels and expectations. | /r/MensRights | 14/07/22 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?No this is not what patriarchy is describing. Please read a sociology textbook. This isn’t math with one counterexample. Sociologists study general trends in society. There being an issue with marital rape of women remains a concept even if there exists one woman who wasn’t raped. Patriarchy is pretty much if you look at the intersectionality wheel you will see the privilege being man first, then woman, then transgender. Patriarchy is describing that man over woman privilege concept. Privilege i… | /r/MensRights | 14/07/22 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?It doesn’t mature what human features they have. Human doesn’t need to have highlighted if they had a penis or vulva. We can call all humans parent. Gender is not binary while mother and father is binary for the man and woman gender identity. what would a non-binary person be called then? Parent works for everyone and removes gender mattering. | /r/MensRights | 14/07/22 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?Patriarchy is not just politics bud. Women voting more than men doesn’t prove anything in terms of gender hierarchy. religion and marriage being patriarchal institutions for example shape the society to be patriarchal. There can be people with various strengths we just don’t need to make this related to gender. No lol sex not mattering doesn’t mean people need be the same. When I say eye colour doesn’t matter it means to doesn’t change anything in terms of a human’s opportunity in life. Unlike s… | /r/MensRights | 14/07/22 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?Lol why you think it won’t change? | /r/MensRights | 13/07/22 06:37 AM |
| 1 | Have the Equal pay feminist crowd ever provided a valid reason they only advocate for cushy high end paying jobs?lol hazard pay and incentive bonus is part of compensating for labour. This is involved in what equal pay means. Pay is compensation for labour | /r/MensRights | 13/07/22 06:37 AM |
| 1 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?those are outdated terms. Yes mother and father are also gender based terms but the gender-inclusive term is parent. | /r/MensRights | 13/07/22 06:36 AM |
| 1 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?No I am telling you your first sentence is false. I dot think you actually studied sociology if you claim this. Labeling a patriarchy doesn’t need an explanation. It is labeling a phenomenon that exists. you claim it is all about physical ability. Okay that can be one tiny part of it. There are other things that play into the gender imbalance than who is physically stronger. I don’t think you understand what equal opportunity means. It is like if a white or black person were to want to do the sa… | /r/MensRights | 13/07/22 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?Women voting right now is not where patriarchy ends. Even if the hard power of patriarchal structures are getting abolished the soft power can remain. Like marriage and religion is historically patriarchal. As long as those systems remain society can be prone to the soft power of patriarchy. Physical differences can be resolved by building a society where those physical differences don’t matter. Like have technology to such a degree that it is irrelevant how much stronger the person is. Very few… | /r/MensRights | 13/07/22 06:27 AM |
| -7 | Girlfriend tells me she hates men; it hurts me, but what am I supposed to do?what she is saying is sexist. A way to try to understand what she could mean by her expressing this though is think of it as hating on the gender stereotype of what a man is. in sociology and politics labels like man and woman are more like aggregates of ideas, not related to individuals of that gender identity. hating men could be a way to say "hating the western concept of what masculinity entails". you need to understand the difference between sex, gender identity, gender expression, gender r… | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Have the Equal pay feminist crowd ever provided a valid reason they only advocate for cushy high end paying jobs?This isn’t what is being described. Forestry being a dangerous jobs would be compensated accordingly. So for example jobs in military what they do is they have like an added on bonus accounted in pay for putting up with the military shit sort to speak (the added danger is one) on top of what a person of similar skill of their actual trade would be getting. Equal pay for equal work implies equal work. Forestry and and childcare is not equal work hence it is justifiable for forestry to be paid mor… | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 05:57 AM |
| -1 | are there any initiatives to get more men into childcare professions? (female dominated field)I know science. I study human sexuality which goes in depth into hormones and gender relations. Sociologists try to understand why the world works the way it does and what can be done about it. Even if they have freedom, is there something else that is driving people away. Like less women go into combat arm in the military than clerk work. Is it possible that just no human wants to go to combat arms but men end up being socialized to go while women end up playing a smarter card. Or is it that wo… | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 04:55 AM |
| -1 | are there any initiatives to get more men into childcare professions? (female dominated field)lmao I know that those things are outdated science. testosterone doesn’t make someone aggressive or ambitious or willing to work longer. Socialization and environmental factors like why whether they need to work longer can cause that. And since men being seen as the primate breadwinner used to get that burden that could explain it. Ambition, aggression, will to work is not hormonal, that is a human trait anyone can have. I’m not sure men pick their career by brute strength. Maybe some idk like c… | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Have the Equal pay feminist crowd ever provided a valid reason they only advocate for cushy high end paying jobs?https://2ogewo36a26v4fawr73g9ah2-wpengine.netdna-ssl.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/03/childcare-hrstudy-report-chldcrewrkfrce-OCR.pdf on page 144 it starts explaining how the various levels of government need to interconnect along with other organizations to help with the initiative | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 04:27 AM |
| 0 | Have the Equal pay feminist crowd ever provided a valid reason they only advocate for cushy high end paying jobs?In Canada some provinces unionized ECE but some aren’t. I don’t think there is a federally regulated one which is a problem since one of the way to get a profession better recognized which then leads to better pay is to have it be standardized with set credentials and policy. I think they need help in communicating the value of this profession and service since it kinda comes off non-existent for some people who think they can pay some immigrant woman on Kijiji to watch the child for $5/hour. It… | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 04:14 AM |
| -1 | Have the Equal pay feminist crowd ever provided a valid reason they only advocate for cushy high end paying jobs?Yes that’s what’s being worked on. The government is making sure that this type of services are created and thus offered for the public to use. There are some initiatives Canadian government was doing towards it. Not sure how they are going but there is a goal to bring that profession up to what it deserves. | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?But why is this gendered. Why couldn’t women bring in the money and have the same responsibility. (Answer is patriarchy). Ah ha you assume that the child is irresponsible. That can be also said about elderly or someone with a mental illness or women (which did happen in the past). It isn’t automatic that a child is irresponsible. lol a child can make good decision for their developmental level. Children aren’t dumb humans. They need support though to grow up because it takes a few years first of… | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 03:50 AM |
| -10 | Have the Equal pay feminist crowd ever provided a valid reason they only advocate for cushy high end paying jobs?Yet childcare work if very much in demand. A lot of people have children and need someone to take care of them when they go back to the workforce. They also need to understand that it requires proper skills to teach a child. Not some half-ass underage babysitter that lets a kid watch TV all day. A human brain is complex and needs help developing properly. That is what early childhood educators do. | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 03:45 AM |
| 0 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?How so a detriment? You are not describing it at all. I could get a university degree in early childhood education or child and youth services. Get a college diploma in child development. Know more about raising a human than a lot of people who think simply having reproductive organs is good enough. Seems like you are not considering the complexity of the question. You haven’t proven what is the relation between marriage and wellbeing of child beyond some “statistics say so”. But what do they sa… | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 02:50 AM |
| -21 | Have the Equal pay feminist crowd ever provided a valid reason they only advocate for cushy high end paying jobs?Equal pay is about making sure that stereotypically woman work gets paid similarly to stereotypically man work considering in the past care related work has been heavily undervalued and underpaid. Like people think child care is an easy profession which causes early childhood educators to be underpaid even if it is a difficult job working with a vulnerable population. It’s the “equal pay for equal work” idea. https://www.canada.ca/en/services/jobs/workplace/human-rights/overview-pay-equity-act.h… | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 02:43 AM |
| 0 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?I am not planning on taking on the task of raising a human. dude which part is the destain to the child lol. If I do want to raise a human with another person I can take on that task. I can also get the common law civil status. I can get the married civil status. I can remain with the single civil status. How does that impact anything in day to day tasking of raising a human? What changes in their wellbeing? | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?There are passages in the bible that forbid women from teaching men and being religious rulers. nuns are not the head of the church. Anyone can be a nun or monk, those positions are not gender based. Pope on the other hand cannot be a woman. That is patriarchal. | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?Your first sentence is not true. This is not what patriarchy is describing in sociology. A human wishes to have same opportunity and treated the same regardless of their skin colour or sex or any other feature. there can be differences. But we need to build a world where those differences don’t actually restrict the person in any way. Like to eradicate sexism we would need to build a world where sex is as irrelevant as eye colour. | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 02:33 AM |
| 0 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?they are linked due to people falling for this social script trap. It’s tradition to marry so people sign the pointless contract. But what they do doesn’t change before or after. They would be raising the child the same regardless if they have the common law or married or single civil status. I am telling you that the contract doesn’t help the child in any way. Or if it does then show me which clause of it is actually relavant. | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?dude I am not asking for an explanation. That’s for sociologist to figure out if it is people telling women or why they don’t run for president. Patriarchy is labeling a phenomenon. Which exists. The fact that women don’t run at the same rate to be president is already patriarchal. what is causing this phenomenon is for more analysis later. whether is it because they are discouraged, if so why. that a problem that based on gender someone would be discouraged. or some other barriers exist. Like g… | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 02:28 AM |
| 0 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?A stable living condition does but that is not synonymous with marriage. You seem to assume what marriage is. I would prefer people to see it objectively for the legally binding contract that it is. | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?US didn’t even have a single woman president didn’t it? Isn’t that odd. This is an example of a patriarchal structure. All it is is labeling a phenomenon. | /r/MensRights | 11/07/22 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?it is a social thing not based on one person on top. if gender didn’t matter and people were equal based on gender then it would be closer to 50-50. Not 99-1. The 99-1 makes it patriarchal. | /r/MensRights | 11/07/22 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?Overwhelming majority of political leaders were men, that shows a patriarchal pattern. Okay so Iroquois back then may not have had a patriarchy, okay. US did during the time period when women were treated as property to men. oh no lol Catholicism is deeply patriarchal. The Christian faith is patriarchal like women are not allowed to be religious leaders in certain denominations. | /r/MensRights | 11/07/22 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?Good point! Some people read that statistic as if it’s correlated to that civil status and contract. They need to think more about it and see what exactly it is which is the 2 people taking care of a child, which can be done regardless of married or common law of single civils status. | /r/MensRights | 11/07/22 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?I think getting married makes it more complicated. I don’t see what is the benefit of the legally binding contract. You can have a partner and raise kids without it the same. | /r/MensRights | 11/07/22 10:23 PM |
| 0 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?you don’t answer anything. Stability and consistence has nothing to do with a legally binding contract or civil status. Stability and consistence is something human created within the relationship. They need to work on it all the time. They would be working on it the same regardless of their civils status. It isn’t true that being polygamous or a single parent makes for a worse parent. You can claim metrics but I ask you to think beyond some numbers. Do you really think a legal contract plays a … | /r/MensRights | 11/07/22 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?oh no. why stay in a marriage one is unhappy in? Relationships are supposed to be consensual. Not some kind of possession thing. (In the last marriage was a possession thing though) | /r/MensRights | 11/07/22 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?wtf no one is obligated to raise a human. Not by creating one or adopting one. People can pair bond and choose to live with someone or can live on their own. There is a spectrum of human bonding experiences. I agree that without marriage fatherhood would be difficult. In nature, raising offspring is commonly a solo thing female does. These days though men can raise a child on their own. They can adopt or surrogate if they wish to take in this task. In the past they depended on someone else creat… | /r/MensRights | 11/07/22 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?It has also been proven that same sex couples are in no way worse parents than different sex. no lol there is nothing “naturally more caring” about women. That is a sexist stereotype. Job of nurse being mostly female is a gender role thing. There was a time men were not allowed to be nurses. It’s IUD not UTI, UTI is urinary tract infection. | /r/MensRights | 11/07/22 09:57 PM |
| 1 | are there any initiatives to get more men into childcare professions? (female dominated field)Women are pushed into trades too. I have seen initiales of dismantling stereotypes and stuff. | /r/MensRights | 11/07/22 09:50 PM |
| -1 | are there any initiatives to get more men into childcare professions? (female dominated field)Who cares about average man or woman. Those are 1 location on the spectrum of how a human can be. Average is a thing in statistics. You have mean, median, mode. It is a way to group data. wtf what does hormone have to do with career choice lol. What is proven? Please do cite. A lot of the past research was sexist and outdated. There is nothing inherently “womanly” about childcare work. People get education like a university degree to be an early childhood educator, so anyone of any gender can do… | /r/MensRights | 11/07/22 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?to your first sentence: sure that can be so but then why can’t it be the woman who gets that responsibility. It shows you an example of patriarchy and sexism that man was seen as above woman. lmao what your described in your second sentence is only responsibility of parenting. Those are not privileges. Of course parents need to provide since they created the human and it’s now their task for 18 years to make sure the human can survive. Only if parents are good though they do those things. Here y… | /r/MensRights | 11/07/22 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?The observation we can make today is that things like in US marriage, politics, religion was patriarchal. This made it so it extended further into society considering those things played a big role in society. You can see this through analyzing what rights women had to fight for as in on grounds of gender or sex were not treated same as men: https://psac-ncr.com/canadian-womens-history/ Patriarchy can be seen in two ways. You can see it as who is on top. Which is men in marriage and religion. Yo… | /r/MensRights | 11/07/22 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?You can have a partner and live with someone without signing the legally binding contract. I don’t understand why women or people of any gender still like marriage | /r/MensRights | 11/07/22 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?You can have love without the legally binding contract. Relationship are supposed to be consensual not possessive which is how marriage originated. | /r/MensRights | 11/07/22 09:12 PM |
| 3 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?Then enlighten me with your high IQ | /r/MensRights | 11/07/22 09:11 PM |
| 1 | are there any initiatives to get more men into childcare professions? (female dominated field)Can you link the study? I know there is a lot of sexism towards women in the military which is male dominated. Also gaming/tech, as can be seen with lawsuits against the gaming companies. | /r/MensRights | 11/07/22 09:10 PM |
| -7 | I'm so sick of feminists calling everything rape and pretending to get some extreme trauma from literally nothingI’m not sure you understand what sexual assault is. Let’s start with this: What is your understanding of what assault is? What is your understanding for why assault is harmful? What is your understanding of what sexual assault is? What is your understanding for why sexual assault is harmful? | /r/MensRights | 11/07/22 05:28 AM |
| 0 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?How is the status of the relationship relavant to raising child? People can raise a child in a polygamist relationship. They can raise one alone. They can raise it as a couple and it doesn’t matter whether their civil status is married or common law or single. What data are you talking about? | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 11:16 PM |
| 0 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?I listed several things to you. What is missing according to you for why people can value exclusivity? Some people can be in open relationships, those are in no way inferior. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 11:08 PM |
| 0 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?That is something between the couple they decide. Exclusivity is useful for sex so that people are more confident in terms of STI spreading if they do it without protection now. You would rather be exclusive for sexual activity. It can mean the couple agrees to not be looking for other people to date. Unlike prior to the exclusivity either partner could still go on dates with other people. Being exclusive can mean they decide to take on the project of raising a human together. deciding which res… | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?That’s seems like someone with attachement issues. Like an anxious attachment style. Signing the paper doesn’t actually make you more or less bound. Relationships aren’t meant to be possessive | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 11:02 PM |
| 0 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?Those gender roles are outdated and harmful having reproductive organs is no longer the prerequisite for knowing how to raise a human properly. A woman is in no way better at parenting than a man. They should be hiring child care workers to raise the child properly. Men can get a vasectomy, they one is pretty good at lowering chance to cause pregnancy. And if you ever still want a biological child you can always reattach sperm from the testicles, no reversal necessary | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?Read about the history of marriage. It was a formality for owning people, passing land, getting a heir. Marriage for love is a fairly recent concept even. Back in the day it was more like everyone thought they are supposed to create humans to raise so this partnership made sense. These days couples are free to act on their bonding experience and are not obligated to raise humans. Marriage is outdated, I don’t see why people still believe it means anything. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 10:54 PM |
| 0 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?Do you not see how these statistics are not claiming any causation. You have to ask yourself which part is the actual benefit. Statistics can show trends but what is the actual story behind them. Like the famous “Women seek mental health support more than men” Is it that being a woman leads to more mental health problems or men do not speak up as much as women when they have mental health problems. Think logically about what you are claiming, how does signing a legally binding contract help with… | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?I’d be sad of course. The brain bonded to another person so it will hurt, like how grief works. I’m just saying that a legally binding contract has nothing to do with human emotional bonding. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 10:45 PM |
| 0 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?lol yes you recognized how sexist our world is, congratulations. It is also really racist as people still perceive humans of different skin colours and ethnicities differently. No most women do not prefer to be housewives. There is nothing about the woman gender identity or organs that makes a person prefer this. There can be socialization pressures but that is a different issue and yes socialization is horribly sexist. Treating people differently and denying same opportunities based on gender a… | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 10:44 PM |
| 0 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?How is it better? What objectively changes before and after signing this legally binding contract? | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?how is this red flags when not everyone is religious to believe getting this legally binding contract proves anything in terms of bonding feelings. This is an illusion, like a storytelling technique. Relationships aren’t meant to be possessive, that takes away their bodily autonomy and consent. A person is free to leave at any time regardes of this civil status. Why get legally bound together though? People who are serious in a relationship can be just as serious before and after signing a paper… | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?Commitment can be done without a legally binding contract. It isn’t a possession thing to be in a relationship. It still needs to be consensual and anyone can leave at any time regardless of a piece of paper. It just ends up being a legal hassle after leaving. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 10:38 PM |
| 2 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?yes, the point is those gender roles will be sexist because it treated people differently based on sex. Regardless of what storytelling you give it. Benevolent sexism is still sexism. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?lol. what does that even mean. One doesn’t need a legally binding contract for love. It has nothing to do with human bonding. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?Can’t you just tell them that it is none of their business what civil status you have? That does seem like blunt discrimination, is it not covered under human rights? How in some places in Canada https://www.ohrc.on.ca/en/human-rights-and-family-ontario/family-status-and-human-rights-canada | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 10:30 PM |
| 1 | are there any initiatives to get more men into childcare professions? (female dominated field)This isn’t an innate thing for “men to work with things” it’s socialization sexism so it can change. The gender imbalance professions tend to be the ones based in gender roles. Hence resolving biases helps people see those gender roles are no longer necessary or true. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?I read many human sexuality textbooks and encyclopedias and talked to researchers. Not all humans choose to procreate. It is a choice. Majority of the time when people do sexual activity it is for pleasure. Like majority of people with a vagina can’t even orgasm from intercourse so it’s a useless act. A lot use birth control to avoid procreation. There isn’t any necessity for a human to must create and offspring. If you claim there is, what does it feel like? People aren’t scheming how they will… | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?You can do the celebration. I just don’t understand why the legally binding contract. Having faith in someone doesn’t based on civil status. The “harder to separate” if you mean legally is a bizarre concept. As if marriage is possessive. Anyone can leave still at any time. Relationships must be consciously. Some paper isn’t an excuse to be in a relationship that is detrimental to the person. The consequences seem forced like adding extra hassle or what not. which is a weird controlling attempt, … | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 09:01 PM |
| 0 | are there any initiatives to get more men into childcare professions? (female dominated field)No men and women are not different. This is a socialization problem of women thinking they have to do care related jobs and men maybe thinking they are emasculating so don’t do them. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?You can still have a partner, just no point of this legally binding agreement | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?The way the relationship functions before and after the civil status change is the same. So in terms of the relationship, human bonding realm, it is irrelevant. someone can walk away and cheat just the same before and after marriage. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 08:57 PM |
| 0 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?lol you think of human as capital. No one owns anyone to reproduce for some “collectivistic good”. It is a personal choice if anyone wants to raise a human for 18 years which is a huge task like its own career that costs a lot of money too. Tbh not sure why anyone still subscribed to this rationally. That seems cruel to force people with a uterus to go through childbirth. Pregnancy is painful and can damage body permanently, it isn’t enjoyable. Marriage isn’t relavant to child birth. It is a leg… | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?No patriarchy is men on top of women, that is all. It is describing that specific phenomenon which did exist. Doesn’t matter where the state is. The fact is between the 2 genders men were on top of women which is patriarchy | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 08:48 PM |
| 0 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?It’s seems like a weird fairytale thing to think that signing a contract means “together forever” in terms of feelings. This isn’t how human bonding works. You can also be together forever without the legally binding contract and civil status change. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 08:47 PM |
| 0 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?A legally binding contract has nothing to do with being dedicated and committed. Those are things in the human bonding realm which a piece of paper and civil status doesn’t do anything in terms. Relationships must still be consensual. a person can in fact leave any time just the same it just becomes a hassle with paperwork of divorce, marriage isn’t some possessive thing. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?One could do the exactly same things as parents without the legally binding contract. One could also adopt, no need for complicated surrogacy. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 08:40 PM |
| 2 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?Yes exactly! Marriage should have been abolished for everyone, not added to same sex. Though I guess in the past it was an important step in reclaiming equality. Yet today I don’t see why it is needed for humans or different or same sex | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?What are the reasons for women? | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?Gender isn’t binary, there is a spectrum of gender orientation and sexual orientation. And neither is it that based on a human’s genital shape their preferences become different. You are referencing some outdated evolutionary psychology with is known for having a lot of pseudoscience Failing birth rates is a problem for people running societies. Like Elon Musk wants more wage slaves so claims we need more humans when we actually don’t. and US state needs more wage slaves so removed abortion righ… | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?People can build families and communities without marriage. Why does the woman have “natural parental rights” but not the man? | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 08:24 PM |
| 2 | are there any initiatives to get more men into childcare professions? (female dominated field)The question is why is there not a 50-50 like society has men-woman and other fields are. There must be something off about this particular field. And I wonder why. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 08:19 PM |
| 2 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?You can bring up a child in a two-parent home without signing a legally binding contract. It doesn’t change anything. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?lmao women weren’t supposed to be some caretaker, they are equal human beings just with a different gender identity and possibly body parts. Any gender can be faithful and unfaithful. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?You don’t need a legally binding contract for a commitment. It isn’t actually stopping anyone from leaving. Relationships still must be consensual. It adds the extra burden of going through divorce if leave but that civil status or legal contract doesn’t change human bonding emotions. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 08:13 PM |
| 0 | are there any initiatives to get more men into childcare professions? (female dominated field)I suspect in a profession it would be different because these people have the same credentials and there to do the same job. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 08:10 PM |
| 2 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?It isn’t a right to go into debt. That is people being irresponsible. Individual human should be their own entity regardless of gender, capable of participating in society so go into debt and be responsible for it. The fact that this is gendered is already problematic, it’s like treating women as children which isn’t any privilege. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 08:09 PM |
| 0 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?It is not true that all men are stronger than all women and “protecting” means just having brute strength lol. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 08:07 PM |
| -1 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?Cool, for all the dudes here who claim patriarchy isn’t really that restates it that there was a patriarchy. Today there may not be as much hard power in terms of patriarchy but the soft power of systemic relics can still prevail. It is sexism to treat people differently based on gender. Benevolent sexism is still sexism, don’t fool yourself. I don’t understand your logic. Falling birth rates, falling marriage rates, high divorce rates shows not everyone even wants to be married or give birth. S… | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 08:00 PM |
| 4 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?How is this related? You can do this without marriage | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?Mariage doesn’t guarantee stability in any way... The restriction on sexuality mattered in the past when STI treatment and birth control was not a thing. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 02:16 PM |
| 2 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?lmao what. people cheat not because of a formal commitment or not, they cheat due to their own morals. if they don’t love the other person and choose to cheat, no amount of signatures in a power will change that. Marriage isn’t some possession thing with removing freedom. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 02:03 PM |
| 3 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?Why is it ridiculous? Like which part? You are two humans that have a certain level of bonding as you progress in life. What you call yourself or what legally binding contract you have doesn’t actually change the bonding. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 02:01 PM |
| -10 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?I don’t understand why this could not have been something women could do. Why could they not protect the husband and have the husband take loans in her name. Why not take the woman’s name in that case to track property ownership? Like why is it this lopsided with gender. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 01:59 PM |
| 2 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?That is some Amatonormativity. Human bonding is a spectrum of so much possibilities. It isn’t necessary to be bond with one person even. A person doesn’t cheat due to their own morals, not because there is a contract and they told everyone they won’t cheat. There are ways to show how much you care about a person that doesn’t involve referencing a civil status. A person cares from within, not due to a ring on a finger or a signature in paper. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 01:53 PM |
| 3 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?What about common law? Commitment is something you decide between each other, it isn’t a possession thing. A person can walk away even with the married civil status, they aren’t bound to tolerate what they don’t want to. You can still do the celebration to let others know without the legally binding contract. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 01:49 PM |
| 2 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?I don’t see the point of the legally binding contract in the first place, like what does this have to do with human bonding. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 01:37 PM |
| 3 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?Why does the commitment need to be confirmed with a legally binding agreement though? The feelings don’t change before or after changing one’s civil status. It doesn’t matter what others are assuming, relationships aren’t something I show off to others. I don’t see how it strengthens it either. The relationship should still be equally consensual and a person can leave the same as if they were not married because it is based on what is going on and feelings around it, not a civil status label. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 01:35 PM |
| -11 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?Well yes you see how the woman loses rights upon marriage and becomes subservient to the man. Just based on gender. There is things like that the father hands her off to the groom when getting married. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?I guess if you are religious you can believe that. Yeah religious people have marriage mean something extra I believe. You can do vows to God without getting the legal bind considering I don’t see the point. Just gather friends and family and announce to them the person you have feelings for and want to live with or whatever it means. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 01:02 PM |
| 4 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?a legally binding agreement doesn’t mean much in terms of human bonding. It used to be a thing created to control people in some sense, with the man owning the woman. marriage for love is fairly recent in human history. But even then I don’t understand why get the legally binding contract and change civil status. One can profess love and be in love without involving the state to “prove” it. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 12:52 PM |
| 0 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?Not sure why people sign up for it still then. Are there any legal benefits out of it? Like a couple can do everything exactly the same, it doesn’t mean much in terms of human bonding. So it’s benefit remains in what does the contract actually give you. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 12:37 PM |
| 9 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?Better stability in what way? | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 12:36 PM |
| -1 | Are there any rational reasons for getting married these days or it is an outdated legally binding agreement?Which aspects of it benefit women? | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 12:33 PM |
| 2 | The False Notion of "Prenups". Will they protect you?Marriage is a social construct and it’s pretty pointless. Just don’t fall for that trick in the first place. Don’t change your civil status to married or common law. You can be with partners and do sexual activity and have bonding feelings, without the need to pay someone to sign a legally binding contract to change civil status. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 04:26 AM |
| 0 | What do you like the most about being male?The side effects are not that bad anymore. Hysterectomy is always a permanent one that works well. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/22 09:32 PM |
| -1 | What do you like the most about being male?Which are a minority of fields. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/22 09:30 PM |
| 0 | What do you like the most about being male?hysterectomy and endometrial ablation. The birth control methods are not that bad anymore. The success rate and the lower of risks and symptoms is better | /r/MensRights | 09/07/22 08:32 AM |
| -5 | What do you like the most about being male?People can opt out of periods with various inventions. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/22 08:23 AM |
| -8 | What do you like the most about being male?People can opt out of periods with various inventions. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/22 08:23 AM |
| 0 | What do you like the most about being male?People can opt out of periods with various inventions. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/22 08:23 AM |
| 1 | What do you like the most about being male?Mental strength isn’t gender related lol | /r/MensRights | 09/07/22 08:23 AM |
| -3 | What do you like the most about being male?People can opt out of periods with various inventions. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/22 08:22 AM |
| 0 | What do you like the most about being male?Can mentally focus better, easier time thinking rationally, my validation comes from myself Aren’t gender related things lol. Not sure what you mean by the attractiveness comment. Don’t forget not everyone is interested in being attractive to a different gender (also, it’s “different” sex. Not “opposite”. Sexes are not opposite, there are just different sexes) | /r/MensRights | 09/07/22 08:21 AM |
| -23 | What do you like the most about being male?It’s true for men that gender doesn’t correlate to being weighed down since man is seen as the default human in the west at least. For women there are fields where the sole gender is what weighs them down. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/22 07:35 AM |
| 2 | What do you like the most about being male?People can opt out of periods, there are many inventions. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/22 07:33 AM |
| 0 | Ohio bill would allow pregnant people to sue men for unintended pregnanciesGood reason to get a vasectomy I guess. Can always retreat sperm from testicles anyways for IVF method is want bio kids. This abortion ban really fucked it up for all of us. Who were these idiots that wanted abortion to be made illegal even. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/22 12:07 AM |
| 6 | There should be an equivalent to “mansplaining” for womenNo. Mansplaining should be removed. | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 05:20 AM |
| 1 | So are feminists actually advocating that they can have affairs with married men, with no accountability?I would believe the same thing regardes of gender. The issue is on the man for being married, not the woman existing and being in a relationship with her that he kept up. Did you know that the ring on the finger for marriage and whole vow of marriage is there for the person doing it and not for other people to be deterred from interacting with them. Marriage is not some possession thing. People don’t put a ring on the finger to claim ownership and why others must stay away. This is on the person… | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 02:17 AM |
| 0 | Name single right men have that women don't?Sure that be nice. If you want to see a more egalitarian society look into USSR. They were leaps and bounds ahead of why US is today in terms of gender equity (usually judged by women’s rights) | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 02:07 AM |
| -14 | Name single right men have that women don't?A person can’t choose whether conception occurs. They can create an asymptotically favourable or unfavourable environment. But the actual conception is outside of free will. I don’t understand what “responsible” has to do with this. Responsible is a concept humans created to have obligations in tasking. Things outside of human control don’t have responsibility. Like there is no responsibility in getting physically assaulted or getting covid or puking or getting bit by a mosquito. likewise concep… | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 02:04 AM |
| -2 | Democrats Are Freaking Out Because A "Woman's Right To Choose" Is In Jeopardy...Paying child support is not related to bodily autonomy. Circumcision is sad. Also intersex cosmetic surgery and denying gender affirming care is in the same category of sad. I recommend joining/starting an advocacy group that works on having circumcision be banned. | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 01:52 AM |
| 0 | Name single right men have that women don't?The Abrahamic ones are patriarchal and they are dominant especially in US with Christianity and especially Catholicism being the main narrative | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 01:51 AM |
| 1 | So are feminists actually advocating that they can have affairs with married men, with no accountability?From her side there is no issue. The issue is only on his side. Like without the marriage there would be no issue. But the marriage is on the man’s side. | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 01:49 AM |
| -1 | “Women want rights so bad, so where’s my foreskin?”The issue with circumcision not getting banned is also why cosmetic surgery on intersex infants is not banned and why gender affirming care is not supported as well. Same reason also why abortion rights were overturned. Society not understanding bodily autonomy. It’s impacting everyone. I suggest starting/joining advocacy groups that work on making circumcision illegal. | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 01:30 AM |
| -3 | Name single right men have that women don't?You can still see how that faith is inherently sexist, it’s patriarchal. Women have less rights in that culture. | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 01:26 AM |
| -9 | Name single right men have that women don't?It is a right to not have to go through pregnancy. Men don’t have to go through this experience that is painful, can damage body permanently, can kill you. So to bring women up to equal footing they would also have to have this be available. You need to see where the taxes get allocated to see where rights get breeched. For example in Canada there is government funding Catholic schools. This is breaching rights because no other religion gets government funding. But also you can see how the unfai… | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 01:25 AM |
| 1 | So are feminists actually advocating that they can have affairs with married men, with no accountability?What is her responsibility when the man was trying to be with her? She wasn’t making him be with her, it takes two for the relationship. | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 01:23 AM |
| 1 | So are feminists actually advocating that they can have affairs with married men, with no accountability?She doesn’t necessarily need to believe in marriage. It’s a social construct that means different things to people. Some people believe in it and some don’t. For some it’s like common law where the legal benefit is of most use, the relationship can itself be open or not even exist. Friends can get common law. Same with marriage. Friends can get marriage and then date whoever. For some it is a thing to use for moving to another country more easily. For others it’s a commitment thing. (Even though… | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 12:28 AM |
| -13 | Name single right men have that women don't?Which country? Middle East has a lot of examples. Someone on the grounds of being a woman is not allowed to do the same as a man. In US you have the issue with toplessness being illegal in some states based on if someone is a women. Right now the right to not go through pregnancy was taken away from women in some states. Pretty scary. When you consider equal rights for men and women, take a stance of human rights. Then you can start with sex based differences of human and see how a human gets le… | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Women want to push this #sexstrike thing, but what if men turned the tables and organized an online campaign to unsubscribe from sex worker sites like OF and such?I don’t think you understand the difference between physical sex and porn if you are claiming this. The sex strike makes sense if people do not want to get pregnant and risk their life with it. Considering this is what the roe vs wade overturn kinda created. People who subscribe to OF so watch this porn do so for their entertainment. This isn’t a charity. Believe it or not people enjoy it as much as people pay for video games on Steam. It wouldn’t really be a strike especially since I’m not sure… | /r/MensRights | 03/07/22 08:29 AM |
| 1 | Just because I produce testosterone, doesn’t mean I must be physically strongAnd other men too. Just protect humans why not. | /r/MensRights | 03/07/22 12:35 AM |
| 0 | Would you like to see more female construction workers?Yeah. I read something about in USSR they preferred women construction workers. Anyways it’s not like every man is stronger than every woman. Plus a lot is done by operating machines, it’s not all about brawn. | /r/MensRights | 02/07/22 09:31 AM |
| 1 | PSA: Vasectomies aren’t always reversible.You can still extract sperm from the testicle and do IVF. So it doesn’t really make you infertile. Plus people can always adopt if they want to try the raising a human project, there are so so many kids that need a home. | /r/MensRights | 01/07/22 07:28 PM |
| 2 | So are feminists actually advocating that they can have affairs with married men, with no accountability?Seems like a double standard. But the right answer is the person who is married is in the wrong since that is where the “wrong” can even be. The problem would be that one of the partners has the married civil status, which I suppose to some people still means some fantasy idea that it creates stronger bonding (though it doesn’t) | /r/MensRights | 30/06/22 07:32 PM |
| 1 | So are feminists actually advocating that they can have affairs with married men, with no accountability?If the dudes didn’t assert to her that the relationship is a problem due to their married civil status, I don’t see how this is her fault. | /r/MensRights | 30/06/22 07:29 PM |
| 3 | So are feminists actually advocating that they can have affairs with married men, with no accountability?What makes you think all people must have a romantic or sexual partner? That isn’t a bad thing that people are choosing to remain single. If you are referring to civil status then that is even weirder you would claim this because unless for legal benefits changing civil status from single to married or common law doesn’t mean much. Friends could sign the contract/get the status change too if they see legal benefit to it. | /r/MensRights | 30/06/22 07:27 PM |
| 2 | So are feminists actually advocating that they can have affairs with married men, with no accountability?The “NO” would be on the married person though. Because the issue of the relationship is there. The person who isn’t married has nothing to do with the legally binding contract that the other person signed. | /r/MensRights | 30/06/22 07:25 PM |
| -14 | Circumcised men after hearing women lost bodily autonomy last weektwo wrongs don’t make a right. intersex cosmetic surgery also keeps being performed. I suggest starting some advocacy groups to ban circumcision if this is a topic dear to you. | /r/MensRights | 29/06/22 02:58 AM |
| -7 | Woman going "WE ON A SEX STRIKE!" Well guess what? We (A Majoirty of men) Haven't had sex. So great, we will give you that same energy, when you want to have sex.wtf is this mindset. Sex isn’t equivalent to reproducing. What is “normal” woman according to you? | /r/MensRights | 28/06/22 07:11 PM |
| 1 | "Help, I'm going to be a parent, but I don't want to be!": The worst case scenario for each genderHey man, this isn’t cool. I don’t understand how this isn’t clear already. The issue with denying abortion is related to the issue of PREGNANCY. Not parenthood. Not money. Not adoption. But the aspect of a body going through pregnancy which if you read in-depth about you will see can be painful, traumatic, permanently disfiguring, can kill you. it is not some innate thing for people with a uterus to be okay going through pregnancy. by default a human may not want this happening to their body. it… | /r/MensRights | 28/06/22 05:37 AM |
| -1 | The Myth That Abortion Laws Are Men Legislating Women's Bodieswomen are the ones that need abortions. This is a women’s issue. When you have a bunch of men being pro life and women being pro life too this is infringing on still a woman’s issue. We know that women value the right to abortions. Meanwhile men (cis men) have nothing to do with this even. As it stands, women (because there exists women with his belief) value abortions. This is a known thing in history when banning abortions just leads to them being done illegally. So considering women value abo… | /r/MensRights | 28/06/22 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Difference between r/MensLib and r/MensRightsThe issue with neurosexism is it was basically looking for patterns in gendered stereotype assumptions. The socialization they impacts a child from a young age is enough to create differences in interests. Interests aren’t based in shape of genitals or hormone levels (which there isn’t much difference in babies). Even the aspect of giving a certain type of toy to children is already creating bias. All humans like stuffed animals and all humans like cars. There isn’t anything gendered because gen… | /r/MensRights | 28/06/22 03:29 AM |
| 0 | The Myth That Abortion Laws Are Men Legislating Women's BodiesIt doesn’t matter if some women choose not to have abortions for themselves. Another human’s opinion over someone else’s body is not what determines their access to a medical procedure or not. Someone else cannot decide what another person consents to. Like it isn’t up to a random woman in the street to decide what happens to another woman’s body. Women are not a unanimous blob. There exists women that wish to have the choice for abortion. Doesn’t mean they even will take the choice. They just s… | /r/MensRights | 28/06/22 01:01 AM |
| 1 | The Myth That Abortion Laws Are Men Legislating Women's BodiesIt doesn’t matter what lead to conception to occur and the human not wanting to go through pregnancy. Every human has equal rights. They shouldn’t have to prove how much something was a sexual assault or not. All that matters is whether they wish to terminate the pregnancy. It is odd that promiscuity in men is fine and praised even but there is a double standard for women. Also, condoms can break and birth control can fail. Someone who really didn’t want to have conception to occur can still hav… | /r/MensRights | 28/06/22 12:57 AM |
| 1 | The Myth That Abortion Laws Are Men Legislating Women's BodiesHuman rights is about removing sex inequality like that. Because ultimately a human should not have less opportunities based on the protected human rights categories which sex is one. Human rights is about fixing anything that may be deemed unfair by nature as well. Like it is a human right in Canada for people in a wheelchair to be able to access buildings. One could claim “nature is unfair, too bad piece of shit go suffer” but this isn’t the right path towards respecting human dignity. This is… | /r/MensRights | 27/06/22 07:44 AM |
| 0 | The Myth That Abortion Laws Are Men Legislating Women's BodiesIt doesn’t respect human rights. It ends up being sexist and not gender inclusive because a human without a uterus doesn’t have the burden of keeping legs crossed the way that a human with a uterus you claim must. Sexual health is an important aspect for humans. it is discrimination if on the basis of sex that is denied to them. It is weaponizing their body against them. Especially in a country where asking for tube ties or removal of uterus is gatekept. lmao when the child is born the parents d… | /r/MensRights | 27/06/22 07:29 AM |
| -2 | The Myth That Abortion Laws Are Men Legislating Women's Bodieslmao a human doesn’t decide for conception to occur. that is outside of a human’s free will. If it was in free will there would be 0 unwanted pregnancies and no need for infertility treatment. You should read some human sexuality textbooks and encyclopedias. The issue is that the unborn child doesn’t have more rights than other humans. No human during this time has rights to use someone else’s organ to survive. It would be chaos if people who advocate for fetus rights bring that into term becaus… | /r/MensRights | 27/06/22 06:42 AM |
| -2 | The Myth That Abortion Laws Are Men Legislating Women's BodiesIt’s what ends up happening unfortunately. It is impossible for a human to think that one human is of less value than another human simply based on what organs they have. All humans have organs that belong to them. For some humans to claim that their organ or another human’s organ does not belong to them is rooted in people not understanding bodily autonomy. For that this human would need to be seen as inferior. But it is very easy to fall into this trap from socialization. Like my mother create… | /r/MensRights | 27/06/22 06:37 AM |
| 0 | The Myth That Abortion Laws Are Men Legislating Women's Bodieshold on, this isn’t what is going on. We have humans that posses various organs, that is the body that makes up the human. Human values their bodily autonomy to be respected, that is a basic right. When it is violated there is suffering for example with sexual assault. A grab of a thigh without consent is sexual assault and criminal because a human’s bodily autonomy is violated. Which creates mental trauma. A human then feels unsafe in their “meat casing” sort to speak. When a transgender person… | /r/MensRights | 27/06/22 05:16 AM |
| 1 | The Myth That Abortion Laws Are Men Legislating Women's Bodiesbut there exists women that wish for that choice. The choice is what is important. I think people still do not understand this concept. people who themselves do not want abortions can still be pro choice. They just themselves choose. But people who themselves value abortions will go get them. People with a uterus value abortions. They seek them illegally if not allowed. And here we have protests of people wishing to have this choice. Hence people with a uterus value the choice to have an abortio… | /r/MensRights | 27/06/22 04:19 AM |
| -5 | The Myth That Abortion Laws Are Men Legislating Women's BodiesIf you ask people with a uterus you can see their opinion on this. Aka the huge protests right now because people with a uterus very much value abortion. | /r/MensRights | 27/06/22 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Just because I produce testosterone, doesn’t mean I must be physically strongWhat is sexual orientation do you know? There is no way to prove what sexual orientation someone is because the concepts exist but the words are approximations of where the person feels they are on the spectrum. Like being lesbian vs bisexual is someone identifying with that label. There is no proof for who is lesbian vs bisexual vs asexual vs demisexual vs heterosexual etc. beyond a definition that someone closely resembles with. Kind of how labeling emotions is close approximations. Every huma… | /r/MensRights | 27/06/22 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Just because I produce testosterone, doesn’t mean I must be physically strongThe reality is forced binary gendering is harmful and isn’t accurate in terms of how a human works, gender cannot be forced on a human. just like sexual orientation is not binary but is a spectrum and can’t be forced. This sub could have not existed and we would just be working on human rights together for all humans equality. Yet gender imbalances are coming from stupidity of people thinking gender is binary. And then restating it with clothing, names, pronouns, toys, bathrooms, trying to find … | /r/MensRights | 27/06/22 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Difference between r/MensLib and r/MensRightsSearch up intersectionality wheel. Those studies about babies behaving differently have been debunked. It was neurosexism. Also search up the way that people change their behaviour around babies when they think they are a certain gender. The socialization starts very young and people’s perceptions of the children already change just from the shape of its genitals. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=nWu44AqF0iI | /r/MensRights | 27/06/22 02:47 AM |
| -3 | The Myth That Abortion Laws Are Men Legislating Women's BodiesPatriarchy is not related to social class. Social class hierarchy is separate and yes exists but its own thing. Search up intersectionality wheel. Patriarchy comes in because among the top top class, the man was still higher than the woman. | /r/MensRights | 27/06/22 02:38 AM |
| -11 | The Myth That Abortion Laws Are Men Legislating Women's BodiesThis issue is not WHAT GENDER is doing the voting/advocacy. It is who is the default baseline is from, which is men (due to historical patriarchal structures). The baseline is that men who built religions and societies decided that women bodies, their uterus, is just expected to be used for creating humans. It was propagated in society that everyone with a uterus is supposed to be okay going through pregnancy and be a mother. Which isn’t true. Some women may wish this for themselves but the ulti… | /r/MensRights | 27/06/22 12:48 AM |
| 1 | "If every time med had sex, they risked death, physical disability, social shunning, a life altering interruption of their education or career, and the sudden life-long responsibility for another human being, I think they'd expect a choice in the matter."Well yes that is true too. But I thought OP wasn’t even thinking past that because neither gender identity nor phenotypic sex has to do with risking death, physical disability, social shunning. This does however impact people with a uterus specifically. | /r/MensRights | 26/06/22 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Just because I produce testosterone, doesn’t mean I must be physically strongWhich part is none sense and not based on reality when the essence of gender is reality for people. Like gender dysphoria is mental pain. It is their reality. People cannot function from that mental pain. Gender being binary is what is not reality. Gendered bathrooms, clothing, names, pronouns, hair styles, claiming that women cannot have facial hair, claiming that men cannot have high pitch voices, claiming that women must be curvy. These are all the things not based in reality. Society literal… | /r/MensRights | 26/06/22 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Just because I produce testosterone, doesn’t mean I must be physically strongGender is in the brain. There is a spectrum of where a person can be. Sex can be separated into chromosomal, gonadal, phenotypic. But people with various combinations of those can also have various gender identities. Human has gender. We don’t know what animals perceive. For them it could be binary. But a human brain has more complexity so it’s not. Some transgender people only change social things like hair, name, pronouns. If hair, name, pronouns were not gendered in the first place it wouldn’… | /r/MensRights | 26/06/22 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Just because I produce testosterone, doesn’t mean I must be physically strongNot all transgender people get hormones and surgery though. Hormones and surgery can help with gender dysphoria which is when a person is forced to be a gender they are not which causes mental pain. Due to how binary gender is forced on people from phenotypic sex. But gender cannot be changed and is not related to phenotypic sex (which is what “gender” a person is assigned at birth) Studies were done on cultures that allow for more gender fluidity and there transgender people have better rates o… | /r/MensRights | 26/06/22 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Just because I produce testosterone, doesn’t mean I must be physically strongsex and gender is not the same thing. Uterus is referencing only gonadal sex btw. There is also phenotypic and chromosomal sex. Which can be different. So which sex do you claim I am denying? Humans are not as binary as we believed for so long. Not all women have a uterus. Some have it removed, some are born without it. This is not religion. If you read current human sexuality textbooks and encyclopedias it explains the complexity around human bodies. | /r/MensRights | 26/06/22 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Just because I produce testosterone, doesn’t mean I must be physically strongNo we are talking specifically about people with a uterus. That is all there is to this. Women, men, non-binary, agender, bigender can all have a uterus. We are talking specifically about something related to an organ. It is like talking about a person having pancreatic cancer. There is obviously way more to the person than the pancreatic cancer but in context we are referring to just that hence that is what is referenced. There can be a problem with assumptions to labels if complexity is remove… | /r/MensRights | 26/06/22 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Just because I produce testosterone, doesn’t mean I must be physically strongIt’s not dehumanizing, it is being accurate in terms of what I’m referring to. If I am talking about menstrual health I will be referring to people who menstruate. Because that is what it actually is. Being able to show what exactly is going on removes ambiguity. To explain to a person that gay people are persecuted on the grounds that simply they are doing sexual activity with people who have the same genital shape as them, can make a person think about why even persecute them then. Like I can … | /r/MensRights | 26/06/22 01:07 AM |
| 1 | "If every time med had sex, they risked death, physical disability, social shunning, a life altering interruption of their education or career, and the sudden life-long responsibility for another human being, I think they'd expect a choice in the matter."I’m not sure how a person with a penis having sex leads them to risking death, physical disability, social shunning. Could you clarify? | /r/MensRights | 26/06/22 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Just because I produce testosterone, doesn’t mean I must be physically strongYes they are all humans. It’s kind of how colour is also just different locations of wave lengths. We can call them all wavelengths. But humans like to classify and order things. So in our human society we label different locations on the colour spectrum with different names. I was saying people with a uterus right, that is accurate. Sexual orientation also doesn’t have meaning. It should just be humans can have sex and love whoever. if you looked up Kinsey Scale that one is a spectrum and there… | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Just because I produce testosterone, doesn’t mean I must be physically strongthey are labels of gender identities. It is the same as gender fluid, agender, bigender, pangender, non-binary. Those are all gender identities. there isn’t a rigid definition because gender identity is a spectrum. In a perfect world all gender identities could exist freely without labels like sexual orientations. But due to society making a deal about it then we have these labels and classifications. | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Just because I produce testosterone, doesn’t mean I must be physically stronghttps://www.canada.ca/en/department-justice/news/2016/05/gender-identity-and-gender-expression.html Man and woman are gender identities on the gender spectrum | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 10:05 PM |
| 1 | What about men's reproductive rights?Okay but we are not in second wave feminism. We are in 4th wave. Back then there was less complexity to the topic. There are many reasons why people choose not to go through a pregnancy. Not wanting to be a mother is one of them but not the sole reason. | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Just because I produce testosterone, doesn’t mean I must be physically strongI am adding complexity to the topic so you can see what I am talking about. Not all women have a uterus and not all people who have a uterus are women. Likewise there can be men with a uterus. I am removing the gendering of the topic to account for proper diversity of how a human can be. | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 09:45 PM |
| 0 | I am a trans man and I am going to spit out some truth as someone who lived both realities. (long post but worth it)The problem is what is feminine vs masculine is arbitrary. There isn’t any reason why masculine must be related to testosterone and feminine to estrogen/progesterone levels. What is considered masculine vs feminine behaviour is socially defined and changes throughout history and society. What is “risk taking”. How does one test the level of testosterone to the risk taking aspect. It isn’t true that men with higher levels of testosterone are taking more risks. There can be women who take more ris… | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Difference between r/MensLib and r/MensRightsThere is way more impact from socialization than any biological effect that creates humans of different genders to make different choices. I am not sure what you mean about the money part. | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Difference between r/MensLib and r/MensRightsDue to racism they have a disadvantage. In US this was and in some parts still is a huge issue. | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 09:25 PM |
| -1 | What about men's reproductive rights?The reproductive right in abortion is not the parenthood piece. It is the deciding what happens with one’s uterus since not everyone wants to go through pregnancy (it is an unpleasant event. Hurts, can kill you, can permanently damage body). So the question is not so much on whether someone wants to be a parent (if it was that easy people would give up children for adoption when they don’t want them). The reproduction piece hinges on the pregnancy aspect, which a man does not have the equivalent… | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 03:32 PM |
| -10 | All women that said "no uterus, no opinion" and are now begging for mens support on abortion can go shove it.that phrase was made to outline that people in power, who are mostly those without a uterus, shouldn’t be making legislation for those with a uterus. | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 03:18 PM |
| 1 | I am a trans man and I am going to spit out some truth as someone who lived both realities. (long post but worth it)This is correct. A lot of the older science is filed with neurosexism. Basically people saw what wanted to see based on gender roles. | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 06:59 AM |
| -1 | I am a trans man and I am going to spit out some truth as someone who lived both realities. (long post but worth it)How would you know this is from testosterone and not socialization into the man gender role. | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 06:58 AM |
| 2 | I am a trans man and I am going to spit out some truth as someone who lived both realities. (long post but worth it)I think that high competition thing was debunked. There is way more effects in terms of socialization. For example, learning emotional intelligence can help a person be competitive in a non-destructive way. The trait of being competitive is a learned behaviour. Some people value it and some don’t. But it isn’t like injecting someone with more testosterone will change their value system to be more competitive. | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 06:56 AM |
| 1 | I am a trans man and I am going to spit out some truth as someone who lived both realities. (long post but worth it)I think there are cases when periods can be a source of distress though. Did you get your uterus removed already? I am wondering if you could comment more about the testosterone effects. What do you mean by having a hard time crying? What do you mean by more impulsive? If you could bring up some examples from your life before and after testosterone. I am wondering how much that is hormone impacts vs you playing into the man gender role do to feeling more like yourself. As I understand neurotrans… | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 06:51 AM |
| 3 | VasectomyThey can freeze sperm to use later. Also they can retrieve sperm from the testicles even after the vasectomy. Because body still produces them, it just isn’t in the ejaculate. You aren’t really losing fertility. There are also options to adopt or use sperm from the sperm bank if someone wants to take on the project of raising a human. Not sure what is this weird obsession with “must create human with my DNA for the project of raising a human” Not everyone wants to raise a human anyways. We got t… | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Difference between r/MensLib and r/MensRightsThe other problem is what does sport entail. It is possible to design sports where women have an advantage over men. This didn’t happen because sports kept being seen as a man thing for so long. There are so many different sports though and some sports men and women compete together even. Also, special Olympics is a thing. So “seeing who is best” is still arbitrary. What does “best” even mean. | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 05:43 AM |
| 0 | Difference between r/MensLib and r/MensRightsWhat do you mean it’s made up when it’s a whole field of study. Look up the intersectionality wheel. it’s giving a label to observed phenomena in terms of how societies work. There are dominant narratives and other narratives. The dominant narrative ends up being privileged. It’s like being the default and seen as superior. Straight is default. Gay ends up being further away from expected narrative which creates inequality. Even if this is not true that straight is superior to gay. The world is … | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 05:39 AM |
| 1 | Difference between r/MensLib and r/MensRights“gender doesn’t matter” means people can be anywhere on the spectrum and it won’t hinder their life in any way. I keep going back to eye colour, eye colour doesn’t matter. Yet skin colour does. Even though it’s the same thing, just amount of melanin. Yet a person with darker skin gets a disadvantage in society comparing to a person with white skin. In a perfect world there wouldn’t be everyone the same. It is just that the different variations won’t impact their life in any significant way how t… | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Difference between r/MensLib and r/MensRightsSo we can adjust for all of these things. You do realize that men’s acceptable testosterone range is huge. sometimes women overlap into that range as well because all humans have estrogen and testosterone in various amounts. Fair completion in sports is kinda an oxymoron if all human bodies are unique. What we can do though is create more diversity within categories. Like in high school there was boy’s rugby and midget boys rugby. If we think even more we could create more categories based on a … | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 04:15 AM |
| 2 | Just because I produce testosterone, doesn’t mean I must be physically strongthere isn’t one magic surgery that turns “women” into “men”. A transgender man is always a man. He may choose not to do any hormones and surgery and still be a man. Because gender identity is in the brain. A transgender man is assigned female at birth (AFAB), that is maybe what you meant “a woman”. Transgender men can choose many variations of hormones and surgery. like some remove uterus, some keep it. Some get phaloplasty or metoidiopasty in different forms (you can search up the different typ… | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Just because I produce testosterone, doesn’t mean I must be physically strongTell women to use their strength to protect anyone who needs it. Men, women, children, elderly. Just like you would tell a man. No need of making double standards. | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Just because I produce testosterone, doesn’t mean I must be physically strongI’m not interested in the project of raising a human. We need birth rates to drop if we want to stop overpopulation bud. We need there to be less humans by a few billions. | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 04:07 AM |
| 0 | Difference between r/MensLib and r/MensRightsWe can build a society where gender and sex doesn’t matter. For example wth sports we can create systems of different categories like weight, height, testosterone level, lactic acid level, performance etc. It is possible to create systems where everyone fits without making a person’s genital shape define them. | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 03:46 AM |
| 2 | Difference between r/MensLib and r/MensRightsWhy can’t gender not matter though? Eye colours doesn’t matter but skin colour does matter, which is dumb. Why does a person’s genital shape or body or gender identity has to make their life different? We can build a world where every human has equal opportunity regardless of these factors. | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 03:45 AM |
| -1 | Difference between r/MensLib and r/MensRightsThat seems like you didn’t really go in-depth into understanding feminism. There are different waves and branches of feminism. For example intersectional feminism looks at other forms of oppression and not just gender dynamics which includes oppression of men. Like black men oppressed by white men. Or transgender men oppressed by cisgender men and women https://www.thecanadianencyclopedia.ca/en/article/feminism | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 03:44 AM |
| -7 | Difference between r/MensLib and r/MensRightsSome things for you to reflect on: In general subreddits tend to have black and white thinking. Subreddits are mini echo chambers. You can tell the essence of a subreddit through some of its posts and then eventually a pattern comes up of people going there to make such posts and restating the things they see to create a path of typical narratives. To your last point. In terms of the west, “patriarchy existing” today is referring to the systemic issue leftover from when there was a more obvious … | /r/MensRights | 24/06/22 07:10 AM |
| 2 | Just because I produce testosterone, doesn’t mean I must be physically strongThere is a difference between being fit in a body and being expected to do physically intensive work just because expected to be strong. Someone who is fit in their body doesn’t mean has to be physically strong btw. | /r/MensRights | 24/06/22 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Just because I produce testosterone, doesn’t mean I must be physically strongA transgender man can get pregnant and give birth, yes. Some people still think pregnancy is like just a part of womanhood. Like as if you aren’t a real woman if didn’t make a human. I hope soon artificial wombs get made so we can finish off with these issues. That way any gender can create a human for themselves. In the meantime there are a lot of kids to adopt still. The gendered toys are targeted to making girls do domestic things. Its getting better though these days with different represent… | /r/MensRights | 24/06/22 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Just because I produce testosterone, doesn’t mean I must be physically strongWell I mean earth is not just US right. Overpopulation involves resources not being shared properly for every human to have a proper quality of life. there is still overpopulation of humans on earth. And there are so many children that need to be adopted. | /r/MensRights | 24/06/22 02:26 AM |
| 2 | Just because I produce testosterone, doesn’t mean I must be physically strongBeing physically weaker doesn’t mean a person isn’t looking after themselves. I have a problem with society’s expectation that men are supposed to be all physically strong | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 09:14 PM |
| 0 | Just because I produce testosterone, doesn’t mean I must be physically strongMatter how this fact gets used. It’s a fact that people with a uterus can give birth. But doesn’t mean they all have to or have that fact define them in any way different than someone without a uterus. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Just because I produce testosterone, doesn’t mean I must be physically strongYes. Women still get pushed to believe they are supposed to be okay with going through pregnancy as if it’s just an inherently woman thing. As seen with the forced-pregnancy people (“prolife). They miss the point that abortion at its root a health care option that ensures a human doesn’t have to go through pregnancy if they don’t want to (an unpleasant experience). they keep claiming that they can birth the child and give it up for adoption as if everyone with a uterus is automatically obligated… | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 04:53 PM |
| 7 | Just because I produce testosterone, doesn’t mean I must be physically strongNo not thinking I’m strong. Expecting me to be strong just by virtue of gender (or what body parts they assume I have and how it’s supposed to work more specifically) | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 12:24 AM |
| 0 | Men have the right to have boundaries in a relationship without being labeled as “controlling”I would wonder why someone cares about how their partner dresses? Like what does clothing or makeup have to do with this. Unless you believe in sexist stereotypes. Like that seems to be also the kind of person to claim women cannot be topless like men, which would be denying equal rights. | /r/MensRights | 22/06/22 11:41 PM |
| 16 | Just because I produce testosterone, doesn’t mean I must be physically stronghaha how so? You don’t buy into that alpha beta shit. It wasn’t even real about wolves. | /r/MensRights | 22/06/22 11:29 PM |
| 3 | I don’t understand why sexual assault cannot be gender-inclusive these days, why is it still seen as a women’s problem?Though gender-based violence is a thing as well. It has to come into the picture somewhere. | /r/MensRights | 19/06/22 02:13 AM |
| -42 | To the feminist at work. And in all other parts of my life.If you are in US I think the point of sharing about reproduction stuff is because SCOTUS is threatening their rights to it. | /r/MensRights | 19/06/22 01:41 AM |
| -4 | I’m noticing more and more how gynocentric and misandrist our society is and it’s really begun to bother meOkay that is an accurate statement in some sense. What’s your point? | /r/MensRights | 18/06/22 09:36 PM |
| -7 | I’m noticing more and more how gynocentric and misandrist our society is and it’s really begun to bother meWhat you are picking up on is gender inequity where men are pushed into the traditional men’s role. This is why working towards gender inclusivity is important. The goal is for a person’s gender to not define them, unlike right now it really much does. While I don’t have a quick solution for you today, being able to learn sociology concepts to know how to juggle them will help you see where roots of the issue could be. | /r/MensRights | 18/06/22 07:11 PM |
| 1 | In your opinion, what feminist propagated myths/propaganda create the biggest obstacles in achieving equal rights for men?You can think about a woman as you wish. The problem is when it causes you to harm others due to this view. Like the way sexual assault happens. If a woman was not just a sex object to the person committing sexual assault, then sexual assault would not happen because it is impossible to sexually assault someone if they are seen as a full human. Gender wage gap is referring to an overall trend based on a binary model of gender. It is not individual humans looking feminine vs masculine at a specif… | /r/MensRights | 18/06/22 06:03 PM |
| 1 | In your opinion, what feminist propagated myths/propaganda create the biggest obstacles in achieving equal rights for men?US can really use some sociologists and gender studies is one branch of it. US has some really big problem with treating people equally based on gender. I don’t know what they do but sociology is it’s whole study. To get a PhD you need to have contributed a new discovery. And prior to that you would have done a masters which is 2 years worth of pure research. Sociology is not real life experience. One person’s real life experience is not what sociology analyzes. It is a field of study into many … | /r/MensRights | 17/06/22 11:23 PM |
| -3 | I asked why I need Men's Rights, well this is why.I just read what it is, that seems like such a tiny achievement comparing to adding gender identity and expression to human rights. Doing something like that would include the rules of title 9. I just suggest advocating for something like that. It will sweep everything to place men and women, and just all humans regardless of gender, to be equal for once. Though I’m not sure wtf is going on in US if SCOTUS is allowed to happen. Being treated equally based on gender is a far stretch if that is al… | /r/MensRights | 17/06/22 11:18 PM |
| 0 | In your opinion, what feminist propagated myths/propaganda create the biggest obstacles in achieving equal rights for men?no not carpenter job. I was bringing up PhD in gender studies for political jobs. Because unlike every other job politics involves accounting for various identities. That is why in police the whole “at least one woman” is important. It makes sure that power imbalances don’t go out of hand considering this is a big part of politics. If you have a country run by only white men that is prone to corruption because it will keep favouring white men. BUT I believe it shouldn’t be identity based either … | /r/MensRights | 17/06/22 08:26 PM |
| 0 | In your opinion, what feminist propagated myths/propaganda create the biggest obstacles in achieving equal rights for men?In 1985. This isn’t happening anymore. But also notice that the 50 is a GOAL. It is not taking random women off the street to look pretty. It means it needs to work toward eliminating barriers so women are able to be in politics the same as men. Also btw politics is it’s own thing. It is different than a regular job and representation matters to avoid bias unlike pretty much every other career. If you have only white men in power then they are more prone to voting for things that favour white me… | /r/MensRights | 17/06/22 07:27 PM |
| 0 | In your opinion, what feminist propagated myths/propaganda create the biggest obstacles in achieving equal rights for men?No the performance threshold for men and women and people of any other gender identity is the same in the Canadian military’s. lol if urinals are a human necessity so is menstrual products in all bathrooms like toilet paper. Sure you can have the necessity that majority of men use. But also let’s account for the necessity that majority of women use. I think you are trying to be inclusive to transgender women here to say that women can use urinals. Yes they can. But if we just had toilets it woul… | /r/MensRights | 17/06/22 07:02 PM |
| 0 | In your opinion, what feminist propagated myths/propaganda create the biggest obstacles in achieving equal rights for men?lmao it doesn’t cost more because the workforce was designed by men and for men. Like we could remove urinals if men don’t need to be in the workforce. Yet a whole industry exists for this. There are small things everywhere like that. But we can’t continue like this because humans are diverse and all can contribute to the workforce. The military is facing huge shortage of people. To attract more people it needs to be able to draw from the whole pool of humans in the country and not just white me… | /r/MensRights | 17/06/22 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Roll call: Anyone here completely sworn off women?you MGTOW? Better to phrase it as sworn off dating/building a family/having sex (depending which one it is actually) “Women” makes it come off like just all people of that gender. Even if you can still be friends with women even if decided not to date/have sex/create a family with one | /r/MensRights | 17/06/22 06:02 PM |
| 0 | In your opinion, what feminist propagated myths/propaganda create the biggest obstacles in achieving equal rights for men?There can be a goal. But doesn’t mean they just hire random people based on gender or skin colour. That would be dumb because they systematic barriers were not removed yet so those people will just struggle. Like the Canadian military has a 25% women goal. They aren’t reaching it well, still stuck at 16%. They treat all candidates the same because it is an anonymous competition system where everyone goes through equally. there are other issues that make this goal difficult to achieve for example… | /r/MensRights | 17/06/22 05:50 PM |
| -8 | I asked why I need Men's Rights, well this is why.I suggest you focus on this being a human rights issue of gender inclusivity. So piggy back off the transgender rights. The US won’t win if it keeps teeter totter between men and women. Considering gender isn’t even binary https://www.canada.ca/en/department-justice/news/2016/05/gender-identity-and-gender-expression.html What Canada did is in 2017 gender identity and expression was added to human rights. This nullifies and different treatment based on gender. If there is a discrepancy it can be … | /r/MensRights | 17/06/22 05:32 PM |
| 0 | In your opinion, what feminist propagated myths/propaganda create the biggest obstacles in achieving equal rights for men?How did you conclude that tracking is the same as privileging huh? It is a voluntary survey that gets filled out AFTER the person is hired. They don’t know who the person is who filled it out. It is just a statistic. Like one of the new categories is LGBT+. Some people may not be publicly out. But they can fill out that survey so the company sees percentages of how many fall into that group. | /r/MensRights | 17/06/22 05:29 PM |
| 0 | In your opinion, what feminist propagated myths/propaganda create the biggest obstacles in achieving equal rights for men?There is no quotas in the sense of hiring people for being minority. There are quotas as in goals but those are part of Employment Equity Act you can read about. It also only applies to federally regulated workplaces. Which has 2 goals: track statistics of how many minority group people the company has. Report on what progress was made to remove systemic barriers that impact the minority groups. | /r/MensRights | 17/06/22 05:07 PM |
| 0 | In your opinion, what feminist propagated myths/propaganda create the biggest obstacles in achieving equal rights for men?What is “reservations”? Maybe English is not your first language so maybe I’m not understanding what you are talking about. | /r/MensRights | 17/06/22 04:21 AM |
| 0 | In your opinion, what feminist propagated myths/propaganda create the biggest obstacles in achieving equal rights for men?Canada | /r/MensRights | 17/06/22 02:24 AM |
| -2 | It is time for men to have their own version of "feminism".I suggest piggy backing off the transgender inclusivity movement because transgender people are the backbone to breaking the gender binary. Things like gender nonconformity and stopping the judgment of people based on the shape of their genitals, help expand people’s worldview in terms of why gender equity is important. You effort should be into gender inclusivity Like in Canada in 2017 gender identity and expression was added to human rights. This makes it so that nothing can discriminate based… | /r/MensRights | 16/06/22 09:17 PM |
| 0 | In your opinion, what feminist propagated myths/propaganda create the biggest obstacles in achieving equal rights for men?What is “reservation”? I am not sure what you are referring to. In the past this was useful to encourage women. Okay so they are leftover from that time. These are very recent in human history comparing to the ages of patriarchal structures. The systemic biases can still be within the structure of society that cause to inequality that can’t be fixed by just saying “okay from today we are equal”. Because sexism is rooted from the past and in people’s perceptions today. If you are talking about ge… | /r/MensRights | 16/06/22 09:08 PM |
| 0 | In your opinion, what feminist propagated myths/propaganda create the biggest obstacles in achieving equal rights for men?Equality is giving everyone the same thing. Equity is giving everyone that which puts them at the same level. Search up on google equity vs equality, there is a picture with people stacked on boxes. That is what I’m referencing from. You want everyone to be able to have the same outcome. In context of jobs it would mean that race and gender would not be a barrier so it’s an even playing field. | /r/MensRights | 16/06/22 07:08 PM |
| 0 | In your opinion, what feminist propagated myths/propaganda create the biggest obstacles in achieving equal rights for men?Equity would be creating a world where there is enough support for everyone to be at the same starting line. We need to get to that world, yes. So right now if being a woman means starting behind the same line as men, the world needs to work towards eliminating what it is that is causing them to be behind. | /r/MensRights | 16/06/22 07:03 PM |
| 0 | In your opinion, what feminist propagated myths/propaganda create the biggest obstacles in achieving equal rights for men?Dude, organizations being shit has nothing to do with gender. We can have shitty institutions without sexism and racism. I don’t see eye colour or hair colour being a problem even in a shitty job. So neither should skin colour. Likewise, neither should gender sex, gender identity, or gender expression play a role. It can be equally shitty for everyone. We can fail at most basic jobs without resorting to sexism and racism. | /r/MensRights | 16/06/22 06:35 PM |
| 1 | In your opinion, what feminist propagated myths/propaganda create the biggest obstacles in achieving equal rights for men?Things can’t change right away. Not only is new discovery still done in sociology, the actual time and energy to shift is huge. In the Canadian military it has been so far 20 years of constant reminders of the sexual assault issues. It still has not changed. The present still has systemic racism and sexism. With various degrees depending on country and location and institution. Like in 2022 there is still racism and sexism in the Canadian military. | /r/MensRights | 16/06/22 06:29 PM |
| 0 | In your opinion, what feminist propagated myths/propaganda create the biggest obstacles in achieving equal rights for men?Where did you get this definition for equity from? That isn’t how equity works. Gender is not binary, there is a spectrum. The whole spectrum would need to be accounted for, not 50-50. Equity would ensure that pretty much gender doesn’t matter as much as eye colour. Unlike right now when there are imbalances whether from socialization or biological https://www.canada.ca/en/department-justice/news/2016/05/gender-identity-and-gender-expression.html | /r/MensRights | 16/06/22 05:56 PM |
| 0 | In your opinion, what feminist propagated myths/propaganda create the biggest obstacles in achieving equal rights for men?I don’t get what you are saying. Equity is the more advanced term to equality. Have you seen that graphic with the stacked boxes and fence removed in the end too? | /r/MensRights | 16/06/22 05:07 AM |
| 0 | In your opinion, what feminist propagated myths/propaganda create the biggest obstacles in achieving equal rights for men?These things exist because of the dis balance of the past. Because the patriarchy very much existed in the west. While still existing in other countries. So people had to work on it to resolve it. Doesn’t mean they are doing it perfectly, it is an ongoing process. But these feminist efforts are to resolve the issues that were even worse in the past. It’s like this: me seeing LGBT+ only spaces feels strange because I today think well shouldn’t the whole sexual orientation and gender identity spec… | /r/MensRights | 16/06/22 04:29 AM |
| 0 | In your opinion, what feminist propagated myths/propaganda create the biggest obstacles in achieving equal rights for men?To achieve gender equity it is a very difficult and long-term solution. I don’t think it will happen in our life time. And that is with sociologists working on it. I’m in the Canadian military and there are now initiatives to resolve the toxic culture. That culture change is hella hard. The military wants to come up with easy solutions but there just isn’t any. What you see around you today with words like patriarchy and toxic masculinity and wage gap coming into spotlight is the first steps of … | /r/MensRights | 16/06/22 02:43 AM |
| 0 | In your opinion, what feminist propagated myths/propaganda create the biggest obstacles in achieving equal rights for men?Firstly, women being able to work is not fully resolved yet today. I think that once it will be easy to opt out of menstruation, artificial wombs are created so women don’t need to go through pregnancy, birth control and abortion easily available so women have full bodily autonomy. then it will be actually equal, considering during this time these are still a barriers to women in the workplace in general (so all workplace). From there we can analyze work dynamics. In the military (can be viewed … | /r/MensRights | 16/06/22 02:18 AM |
| 0 | In your opinion, what feminist propagated myths/propaganda create the biggest obstacles in achieving equal rights for men?In a world where man is default and superior to be doing anything, it was only men that were working anywhere in the first place. Women’s labour was birth and child rearing which is by no means easy. It is unpaid labour though unlike for men, in a capitalist structure. | /r/MensRights | 16/06/22 01:47 AM |
| 0 | In your opinion, what feminist propagated myths/propaganda create the biggest obstacles in achieving equal rights for men?men were the only ones working in the west before women came into the workforce. Today when all genders can work equally there still remains a disproportionate amount of men at the top. This shows a remain from a patriarchal structure | /r/MensRights | 16/06/22 01:16 AM |
| 0 | In your opinion, what feminist propagated myths/propaganda create the biggest obstacles in achieving equal rights for men?Cooperation to what degree. If all people are truly equal and work together then gender wouldn’t matter as much as eye colour. But it somehow does. I don’t know what would have happened if human developed a matriarchal society. Would have been cool if it was egalitarian. This gender relations shit is annoying. People’s genitals dictate their whole life, it’s so weird. | /r/MensRights | 15/06/22 09:38 PM |
| 0 | In your opinion, what feminist propagated myths/propaganda create the biggest obstacles in achieving equal rights for men?No it isn’t all genetics lol. Which part of genetics you want to claim causes this if in hunter gatherer societies there was no patriarchy? Is there some patriarchy gene lol. It isn’t genetic to think of men as superior and default. That is an influence from socialization that would be tied to what is deemed more valuable. In a survival of the fittest there would be patriarchy if the male of the species is larger. In a society that prospers in cooperation there may not be any need to develop a p… | /r/MensRights | 15/06/22 09:33 PM |
| 0 | In your opinion, what feminist propagated myths/propaganda create the biggest obstacles in achieving equal rights for men?Wait a second, who is at the top though? Notice how the gender exploiting men at the bottom is still disproportionately men at the top. Ah yes good point. See USSR was in some ways more gender inclusive than the west today. Because there everyone was a worker first. Men still held power at the top disproportionately which shows a patriarchal structure. But things like women in STEM was not a problem, women being breadwinners, even menstrual leave was a thing, first country to legalize abortion, … | /r/MensRights | 15/06/22 09:31 PM |
| 2 | In your opinion, what feminist propagated myths/propaganda create the biggest obstacles in achieving equal rights for men?yes that is more accurate. But there is a caveat that for some lines of work even if it is not actually less valuable, it was deemed less valuable for being a “woman’s work” so paid less or not at all. (What this tries to resolve: https://www.ontario.ca/document/your-guide-employment-standards-act-0/equal-pay-equal-work) A very prominent example is child rearing. It should be it’s own job due to how complex this is. It is more complex than being an engineer and very crucial to society to have mo… | /r/MensRights | 15/06/22 09:14 PM |
| 1 | In your opinion, what feminist propagated myths/propaganda create the biggest obstacles in achieving equal rights for men?http://equalpaycoalition.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/07/Equality-in-Employment-A-Royal-Commission-Report-Abella-Complete-Report.pdf | /r/MensRights | 15/06/22 09:08 PM |
| 1 | In your opinion, what feminist propagated myths/propaganda create the biggest obstacles in achieving equal rights for men?Not necessarily. There are professional armies that are a prestigious and sought after career like in Norway. Conscription is usually shit. And historically yes military as a profession creates issues. | /r/MensRights | 15/06/22 09:08 PM |
| 0 | In your opinion, what feminist propagated myths/propaganda create the biggest obstacles in achieving equal rights for men?Bonobos have a great society I don’t think there is a proof for which one is better or worse. For survival maybe chimpanzees. They also live in a more hostile habitat, having to share it with other apes and fight for food. While bonobos live in a habitat for themselves and have more food. If we take a human that has a complex brain with emotions and thoughts, a bonobo model seems like a better society to live in. Peace and fun. Less infant deaths and female rapes would be a better structure for … | /r/MensRights | 15/06/22 09:02 PM |
| 1 | In your opinion, what feminist propagated myths/propaganda create the biggest obstacles in achieving equal rights for men?I compare to monkeys because they are closer to humans than bees. Come on man that’s an insect. Sure we can analyze all the animal kingdom dynamics. I can’t tell if any structure is better. There may be research in that. For a human that lives in today’s society gender shouldn’t matter anymore. We shouldn’t have a patriarchy or matriarchy. Cool, that can be one part to the patriarchy. Another thing you should look into is how Abrahamic religions work (all patriarchal. They were made up and led b… | /r/MensRights | 15/06/22 06:34 AM |
| -1 | In your opinion, what feminist propagated myths/propaganda create the biggest obstacles in achieving equal rights for men?Your country is working towards a closer to egalitarian system. It’s called “gender-inclusive” in Canada. Gender identity and expression was added to human rights in 2017 so now no different treatment can be made on gender in Canada. Your country may get there eventually too. Hold on, a few women being a general or going into politics does not disprove the historical and systemic structure of patriarchy. It’s the systemic issues that can remain within the structure of systems. Like in Canadian m… | /r/MensRights | 15/06/22 06:26 AM |
| 1 | In your opinion, what feminist propagated myths/propaganda create the biggest obstacles in achieving equal rights for men?“Patriarchy survived because it is easier to exploit men than women” ==> by who? Who is these humans who are exploiting? That is also a class thing if you want to go into it. Gender hierarchy is different from class hierarchy. Look up the intersectionality wheel. No one schemed to oppress women. It became a phenomenon with how society progressed. Like no one sat there scheming which of the skin colours will be considered worse than others to draw out of a hat that black people will be slaves to … | /r/MensRights | 15/06/22 06:00 AM |
| 2 | In your opinion, what feminist propagated myths/propaganda create the biggest obstacles in achieving equal rights for men?I am not blaming patriarchy. I think what people in this sub need to understand is that yes there will be the dumb people who just point fingers at random things to claim patriarchy. But when a scholar does it it is pointing to a phenomenon. Like me saying “due to patriarchy, the wife takes the husband’s last name” or “in the Catholic Church women are not allowed to be religious leaders, due to patriarchy” It isn’t blame. It is cause and effect. It is only putting a word to an observed phenomeno… | /r/MensRights | 15/06/22 05:51 AM |
| -4 | In your opinion, what feminist propagated myths/propaganda create the biggest obstacles in achieving equal rights for men?It is a product of patriarchy with seeing men as the protectors and “natural leaders” and the ones competent and fit to fight wars. It is men playing out the masculine gender role. Within the military there is a patriarchal structure because man is seen as default and superior to a woman. Again, patriarchy hurts men too. it is not about comparing disadvantage. There are cases where this “seen as default and superior” ends up hurting the man. In the end we want a egalitarian society right. Where … | /r/MensRights | 15/06/22 05:41 AM |
| 1 | In your opinion, what feminist propagated myths/propaganda create the biggest obstacles in achieving equal rights for men?Good question. Search up the intersectionality wheel. And the human rights protected groups (you can search the Canadian one since it’s more advanced than US I think) Equal opportunity based on those identity pieces to start. Race and gender and sexual orientation are the big ones for you to start thinking about. A lot of inequality were for no good reason. Just due to racism and sexism and transphobia and homophobia/biphobia. So imagine we want to build a world where a person’s skin colour and … | /r/MensRights | 15/06/22 05:29 AM |
| 2 | In your opinion, what feminist propagated myths/propaganda create the biggest obstacles in achieving equal rights for men?I haven’t analyzed all the news about men vs women in Ukraine. Maybe someone should. I have seen a fair bit of the soldiers being praised. I think the whole Salava Ukraini is primarily to support the troops. The “Russian warship go fuck yourself” also popular. Idk I dont have the data for this | /r/MensRights | 15/06/22 04:48 AM |
| 0 | In your opinion, what feminist propagated myths/propaganda create the biggest obstacles in achieving equal rights for men?That’s a favouring of a man still phenomenon. Doesn’t mean it’s easier for the man. It is man is default for leader and man preferred as leader. The military being dominated by men is also patriarchy. The man is preferred and thus placed superior to the woman in this instance. It’s harming men though you see too. Men don’t want this burden no matter how much past messaging wants them to believe that is what men do to be “real men”. lol not all men are stronger than all women. It should be merit … | /r/MensRights | 15/06/22 04:47 AM |
| 2 | In your opinion, what feminist propagated myths/propaganda create the biggest obstacles in achieving equal rights for men?To notice how gender imbalances effect society it takes a level of introspection. For example women bodies being sexualized. Such that breasts are even seen as sex objects. There is no reason for this to exist but it does. this gender imbalance is an unfair systemic issue. Women orgasm not being prioritized as much a men’s. A lot of sexuality in societies has been phallocentric. This is unfair. All humans deserve to have the same value placed in their orgasm. Men having to go fight in wars. This… | /r/MensRights | 15/06/22 04:42 AM |
| -7 | In your opinion, what feminist propagated myths/propaganda create the biggest obstacles in achieving equal rights for men?What is happening here. Have you studied sociology? This is all over the place. Which part of feminism is defining patriarchy. Which branch, wave, theory. You know there are many types of feminisms as a philosophy. there is a big ass book about its history and progression and implications. Which part of patriarchy doesn’t exist? Patriarchy is labeling a phenomenon. It very well existed. Abrahamic religions are patriarchal. “Heir to the throne” is patriarchal like with King Henry killing his wive… | /r/MensRights | 15/06/22 04:27 AM |
| -3 | In your opinion, what feminist propagated myths/propaganda create the biggest obstacles in achieving equal rights for men?Ahh lol that’s not all there is to it. Read about this: https://www.ontario.ca/document/your-guide-employment-standards-act-0/equal-pay-equal-work What also happened is historically women dominated jobs were underpaid even if the same amount of work was done in the job than another that was man dominated. Sometimes it would even happen that as more women went into a field it became lesser paid. There is a psychological bias at play for some of them too that undervalues the effort put into it. Li… | /r/MensRights | 15/06/22 03:59 AM |
| 1 | In your opinion, what feminist propagated myths/propaganda create the biggest obstacles in achieving equal rights for men?No I never said they are the source of all evil. They are not evil. They are remains of a structure that maybe worked for its time but caused unfair power imbalance so is outdated. | /r/MensRights | 15/06/22 03:56 AM |
| 2 | In your opinion, what feminist propagated myths/propaganda create the biggest obstacles in achieving equal rights for men?Well yes that’s the point. I’m theorizing why media doesn’t promote men as the victim. Since it would go counter to that mentality Since the orignal comment was about how it’s strange that women are seen as most impacted by the war when men are the ones dying. | /r/MensRights | 15/06/22 03:55 AM |
| -12 | In your opinion, what feminist propagated myths/propaganda create the biggest obstacles in achieving equal rights for men?No patriarchal structures do disadvantage woman. It is the structure that favours men over women and sets them as default. For a society with true gender inclusivity there wouldn’t be any gender preferred and set as default. Patriarchal structures hurt men as well. It just doesn’t help anyone to have gender be a defining factor in anything. Everyone deserves to be free from those old gendered chains. I am not understanding what is your definition of feminists and what that has to do with women b… | /r/MensRights | 15/06/22 03:05 AM |
| 2 | Men's clubCould you join organizations to do advocacy work so that you help with the issues at hand? Like which issues would you like to work on that need resolved? | /r/MensRights | 15/06/22 01:58 AM |
| -2 | In your opinion, what feminist propagated myths/propaganda create the biggest obstacles in achieving equal rights for men?Wage gap is misunderstood in pop culture but it is referring to a real phenomenon. It isn’t “an individual man will be paid more than a woman for being a man” It is more related to division of labour based off gender roles. I can link the report from where it originated. | /r/MensRights | 14/06/22 11:57 PM |
| -24 | In your opinion, what feminist propagated myths/propaganda create the biggest obstacles in achieving equal rights for men?I think it’s partially related to the macho mentality that men don’t want to be seen as victims here. Even though yes they are literally dying. | /r/MensRights | 14/06/22 11:55 PM |
| -17 | In your opinion, what feminist propagated myths/propaganda create the biggest obstacles in achieving equal rights for men?There was a patriarchy structure. There is in some place today too (like Middle East). Maybe in more advanced counties there are just remains of it. Systemic issues are the hardest ones to battles btw. They are hard to notice. Like military being mostly men is a leftover of patriarchy. It didn’t get fixed by just allowing women to join. Since patriarchy implies a social dynamic that is observed. | /r/MensRights | 14/06/22 11:54 PM |
| -9 | In your opinion, what feminist propagated myths/propaganda create the biggest obstacles in achieving equal rights for men?Well I mean there was. I suspect some remains of it exist today as systemic issues potentially. Those are the hardest to notice. | /r/MensRights | 14/06/22 11:52 PM |
| -12 | In your opinion, what feminist propagated myths/propaganda create the biggest obstacles in achieving equal rights for men?I think it’s referring to the fact that it was historically and still in some domains disproportionate to men being more in higher power, especially politics. Meanwhile population being around 50-50 men to women | /r/MensRights | 14/06/22 11:51 PM |
| -5 | In your opinion, what feminist propagated myths/propaganda create the biggest obstacles in achieving equal rights for men?Wage gap is misunderstood in pop culture but it is an actual phenomenon referring to something different than just “individual man will be paid more than individual woman on basis presenting as a man” I can link you a human rights report that was made before 2000s that explained how this came about. | /r/MensRights | 14/06/22 11:48 PM |
| 1 | how to get our message out there like feminism did?What would you like to get out there? Maybe it’s possible to do advocacy work for your cause with organizations directly. | /r/MensRights | 14/06/22 01:15 AM |
| -8 | Once again India win one of the worst place live as married men.Cost of living is different in areas and if the child has special needs and what age they are. What is it based on then? | /r/MensRights | 12/06/22 12:57 PM |
| 2 | Once again India win one of the worst place live as married men.that’s unfortunate I guess due to religion being pushed to do which is clearly harmful | /r/MensRights | 12/06/22 12:04 PM |
| -22 | Once again India win one of the worst place live as married men.Doesn’t that “passive income” get used to care for the child still. It’s not like having a child costs nothing. The expenditures get covered by that cost from the father it seems. | /r/MensRights | 12/06/22 10:38 AM |
| 3 | Once again India win one of the worst place live as married men.Why did you get married? Marriage is just a legally binding contract. if there is no benefit to that bind, I seriously don’t see why people still do it. Maybe 2000 years ago it had some religious meaning, but not today. You can see it for what it is And some paper doesn’t strengthen love or anything. | /r/MensRights | 12/06/22 10:36 AM |
| 3 | Men, how do you feel about the argument “men created society so men can’t complain about society”?Anyone can complain. This isn’t a gender thing. But the person complaining should be well educated in things like anthropology, history, politics, philosophy so that they know what to complain about and with reason | /r/MensRights | 12/06/22 10:06 AM |
| 1 | Yes, feminism is misandry.Which things your mother and daughter do that you claim makes them staunch feminists? If people are fighting for gender equity that is in everyone’s favour. I’m curious to know what is it they are doing that is not in line with fighting for gender equity and makes them staunch | /r/MensRights | 11/06/22 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Yes, feminism is misandry.When feminism started it was about women’s rights because back then gender was seen in binary and women were seen as inferior with less rights than men. From there it grew but the name stuck. Today it’s more like gender inclusivity movement. Like abolitionism changed meaning throughout. Started with abolishing slavery but it evolved. | /r/MensRights | 11/06/22 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Yes, feminism is misandry.What word? Are you just assuming that the term “fem” in feminism is all there is to the meaning? Read about what it is. Like take the time to read a lot of scholarly sources about it and talk to professors. | /r/MensRights | 11/06/22 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Yes, feminism is misandry.Because I read a lot about different feminisms and history around how society progressed. It isn’t about hating men. It has nothing to do with hating on people with a penis or on people who identify as men. 1st wave feminism is more like women advocacy because back then the gender divide was so large women didn’t have the same rights to men based on gender. Today feminism is a gender inclusivity movement. Since gender is a spectrum anyways, it doesn’t make sense to keep men’s rights vs women’s r… | /r/MensRights | 11/06/22 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Yes, feminism is misandry.Because feminism is huge concept in philosophy and anthropology. You seem to have a very narrow understanding of what feminism is from social media or what. Like with religion there is real dogma that is written and people study religion for 4 years and then get a master’s in divinity to even be knowledgeable enough to speak on this topic. If you think a certain religion is just what you see on TV about it, that doesn’t define it or is indicative or reality. Like anarchism is a whole political p… | /r/MensRights | 11/06/22 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Yes, feminism is misandry.https://www.thecanadianencyclopedia.ca/en/article/feminism Read that. Gender isn’t even binary so it’s not men vs women. Feminism is a movement for the philosophy of gender equity, as a human right. It isn’t lead by anyone. There exist female supremacists but those aren’t feminists. When we say Judith Butler is a feminist philosopher it doesn’t mean Judith Butler is a philosopher that hates men. | /r/MensRights | 11/06/22 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Yes, feminism is misandry.What makes you believe the first paragraph you wrote? Feminism is about gender equity so it needs to account for the whole gender spectrum anyways. It is not about hating men or doing women rights vs men rights, it’s about gender equity as a human right. lol I wouldn’t say r/feminism is a good indicator of feminist philosophy. they only allow posts about women rights. that is closer to like 1st wave feminism. We are in 4th wave for the most part. You should read fully about the feminist movement… | /r/MensRights | 11/06/22 07:28 PM |
| -1 | Is It Just Me Or Does Society Not Expect Anything At All From Women Anymore?That would be a female supremacist, not feminist. Feminist has to account for the gender spectrum anyways so there wouldn’t be better/worse off a binary model. It’s not about women vs men rights, it’s gender equity as a human right. | /r/MensRights | 11/06/22 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Yes, feminism is misandry.Where does this happen? What makes you believe they are feminists? I’d need to see what exactly is being said that is claimed to be misogynistic. Sometimes people don’t bother explaining why something is misogynistic, other times people take the time to educate. It kinda does matter if they are minority. These are people who do shitty things because there will be people doing shitty things everywhere but they are not representative of the actual philosophy they claim to be under. This happens wi… | /r/MensRights | 11/06/22 06:56 AM |
| 1 | This is the staff list for my friend's daughter's school - 95% women. (A school that is teaching their students about 'gender equality' and 'socially ingrained misogyny')Well no. You should speak to a gynaecologist or obstetrician for full details. Either way any procedure you wish to do you would need to bring up to a doctor. | /r/MensRights | 11/06/22 06:39 AM |
| 1 | A couple get drunk and have sex and wake up the next morning. If the woman regrets or does not remember, what happened the night before, it's called rape. When the roles are switched, it's called child support. WTF?tbh I been considering taking euthanasia when it becomes legal in my country. I don’t need to wait to stop working. It will become legal in a year. I got something I can claim my reason under. (They don’t give it that freely but it’s doable) | /r/MensRights | 11/06/22 06:37 AM |
| 1 | Yes, feminism is misandry.Hold on, radical feminism is not what you seem to think. Search it up like just google. Radical means “root”. So radical feminism focuses on going back to a binary sex model and seeing where sex differences between men and women cause disadvantage for women. so working from that root based model to bring gender equity. I don’t think it’s the job of other Muslims to stop terrorist who claim to be doing it in name of Islam. It could be good if they help. It isn’t really their fault though if someo… | /r/MensRights | 11/06/22 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Yes, feminism is misandry.lol in 2017 gender identity and expression was added to human rights. Canada is legally not allowed to discriminate based on gender so this covid law is more like a name thing how bathrooms are still labeled women and men when they are all gender neutral. There exists women sexual assault lines but they can be used for people of any gender identity too. People of various countries are so different. Feminism in middle east would be probably like pushing the curfew for when a woman can be outside … | /r/MensRights | 11/06/22 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Yes, feminism is misandry.Your first paragraph is on the right track except it’s not about normal vs not normal being feelings. how we refer to things creates meaning for them. and normal vs not normal ends up being relative too. what is weird or not normal is usually in reference to majority but majority is not inherently better than minority. the other trap is with labeling something as not normal makes people believe it needs to be "fixed" to become "normal" which is also not always the case in terms of what majority … | /r/MensRights | 11/06/22 03:02 AM |
| -5 | Is It Just Me Or Does Society Not Expect Anything At All From Women Anymore?I’m not sure how you concluded the last portion of what you wrote from the thing you explained at the top. At the top you explained that one human was rude to another human. toss away gender. There are rude humans of all genders. okay. now how does this relate to what you wrote later? | /r/MensRights | 11/06/22 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Yes, feminism is misandry.“Female first in all things” isn’t what feminism is. Like intersectional feminism looks at the gender spectrum. gender isn’t binary anyways so why pick one identity over others. Feminism at its core is a philosophy around gender equity. So for all genders. Like here is a quick explanation: https://www.thecanadianencyclopedia.ca/en/article/feminism | /r/MensRights | 11/06/22 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Yes, feminism is misandry.You understand that even theories about atoms are made up and how much “proven” is depending on what we have to work with and build on. One time dalton’s plum pudding model was valid. Today we use the orbital theories model. What is a fact bud? there were facts like Darwin “proved” that black people are a different species and dumber so thus can be enslaved like cattle. “there is a patriarchy” is an observation. it’s like labeling a certain wavelength as the colour red. It is putting a label to … | /r/MensRights | 11/06/22 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Yes, feminism is misandry.lmao it’s not made up. It’s not people just coming up with random things. It’s a science like other sciences that focuses on social dynamics than physical phenomena but this doesn’t make it any less valid. Like mental health and psychology would be a “soft science” according to you. but it nonetheless has imperial data and impacts on inventions. Science is about learning the world around us. Whether it be things that are physical and we observe from the outside or more in the social realm such t… | /r/MensRights | 11/06/22 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Yes, feminism is misandry.Female supremacists just want to be seen superior to other genders. Like white supremacists want to be seen as superior to any race. Feminism is more of a philosophical concept. Like when we say Judith Butler is a feminist philosopher it doesn’t mean a philosopher that hates men. It is like saying fundamentalist philosopher, deterministic philosopher. There is a big as book just called Feminisms that explains the history and progression and different types. Like radical feminist, liberal feminis… | /r/MensRights | 10/06/22 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Yes, feminism is misandry.There is a big ass book called Feminisms that talk about a lot of the philosophy and history and types of feminism as it evolved. There are courses on this as part of a political philosophy degree. It isn’t just a movement and whatever we want it to be. When someone says that Judith Butler is a feminist philosopher it doesn’t mean a philosopher that hates men or what this sub seems to believe. It is like fundamentalist philosopher, deterministic philosopher. | /r/MensRights | 10/06/22 11:54 PM |
| 0 | Yes, feminism is misandry.I don’t think you know what radical feminism is. Please get educated in these topics because it seems you are throwing around terms as if this make sense when what you said is all over the place. Feminists is not a hive mind. It is not all one thing. So if you take a look at Canada’s feminism progress it is better than say India with its gendered rape laws. In Canada gender identity and expression was added to human rights in 2017. The whole country is not allowed to treat people differently bas… | /r/MensRights | 10/06/22 07:23 PM |
| -1 | Yes, feminism is misandry.lol it’s important to understand the bigger scope you can. Articles are a pretty small snapshot of what is going on. You would need to know a lot more of the academic background to see where they play a role. Like I have seen so many articles about the military saying the same shit. But it doesn’t ever replace actually being in the military or reading scholarly works of lots of theory and research to understand how those concepts work. | /r/MensRights | 10/06/22 07:18 PM |
| 0 | Yes, feminism is misandry.lmao you don’t believe a man can be feminist? I don’t think you know what actually feminism is. It’s a term in sociology and philosophy and politics. It’s an anthropology concept really. It isn’t related to the gender of the person studying it or identifying as feminist. Patriarchy is not root of all problems. But there are problems that come from a patriarchal society structure. | /r/MensRights | 10/06/22 07:12 PM |
| -4 | Yes, feminism is misandry.Not at all. That isn’t what feminism means. You should read some history and sociology and philosophy scholarly literature. There is a long history behind that term and there are various forms of feminism like 1st, 2nd, 3rd wave. Radical feminism, liberal feminism, intersectional feminism. wtf is even “feminine” in your definition | /r/MensRights | 10/06/22 05:33 AM |
| 1 | This is the staff list for my friend's daughter's school - 95% women. (A school that is teaching their students about 'gender equality' and 'socially ingrained misogyny')it’s pretty prevalent in lots of places. Lots of other social media. It’s in textbooks and books about pregnancy. If you consider how things work you will see why this isn’t a pleasant thing on the body. It isn’t some innate thing to enjoy pregnancy for a human that happens to have a uterus. It’s more of a conditioning response to have people accept they have to because that’s just the way it is. The crux of the pro choice argument is bodily autonomy which is people not wanting to go through pre… | /r/MensRights | 10/06/22 04:01 AM |
| 1 | A couple get drunk and have sex and wake up the next morning. If the woman regrets or does not remember, what happened the night before, it's called rape. When the roles are switched, it's called child support. WTF?I’m not talking about just the west. Objectively overall in the world humans are unable to properly share the resources for everyone to have a good quality of life and other creatures to be allowed to exist in harmony with us. lol I don’t wish to create or raise a human. I frankly don’t know why anyone would choose to do this. but the options do exist. | /r/MensRights | 10/06/22 03:58 AM |
| -1 | Being a man in this world is so mentally exhaustinglol okay. I suggest reading human sexuality textbooks and encyclopedias and talking to people who work in this field. current science advanced to recognize this phenomenon. Humans were never binary not in sex and not in gender. | /r/MensRights | 10/06/22 12:39 AM |
| 7 | Yes, feminism is misandry.Yes that happens. I have seen the term MRA get used to mean male supremacists. Doesn’t help this sub’s case if people keep misusing feminism here and claiming to be anti-feminist while the feminist subs see this so misuse MRA. Perpetual loop of hate. Some posts here a bit on the radical side. But I understand this sub to be like a venting place. Here the ideas are more raw. While r/menslib is the cleaner version of this sub. I lurk around to try to explain to some people how things work so this … | /r/MensRights | 09/06/22 11:36 PM |
| -7 | Being a man in this world is so mentally exhaustingalright so first off gender is a spectrum and not related to genital shape. https://www.canada.ca/en/department-justice/news/2016/05/gender-identity-and-gender-expression.html There isn’t much intrinsically different from AFAB (assigned female at birth) or AMAB (assigned male at birth) beyond some bodily differences along with people of various identities on the gender spectrum. Socialization plays more a role but a lot goes into it and varies. You can read about gender essentialism to learn abo… | /r/MensRights | 09/06/22 10:41 PM |
| -6 | Yes, feminism is misandry.One wouldn’t call them feminists though. Like seriously just because 911 was claimed to be done in the name of Muslim faith, it isn’t right to claim all muslims are terrorists. Feminist isn’t a job title or intrinsic trait. It’s a label one can claim to identify with but it isn’t representative of the ideology what one person does. There are various waves of feminism. Various subgroups in feminism. Feminism is too broad. I think you are referring to female supremacists, not feminists. Like being… | /r/MensRights | 09/06/22 10:31 PM |
| 1 | This is the staff list for my friend's daughter's school - 95% women. (A school that is teaching their students about 'gender equality' and 'socially ingrained misogyny')A lot more people are using these methods to opt out of menstruation. It is gaining popularity as the old horror stories around birth control drop off. There is still a gap in understanding female reproductive health in medicine. Like the history of endometriosis being ignored because it was thought just too bad woman suffer. It is strange that people would tell each other that suffering with menstruation and cramps is just too bad and a woman life thing when it doesn’t have to be. Child birth h… | /r/MensRights | 09/06/22 12:49 PM |
| 1 | This is the staff list for my friend's daughter's school - 95% women. (A school that is teaching their students about 'gender equality' and 'socially ingrained misogyny')No the actual pregnancy process is painful too with a lot of complications. Go on r/pregnant and see how much people complain about complications. The problem with human is it evolved to have narrow hips and big head. You can read about the obstetrical dilemma hypothesis. During this time a human is not designed for giving birth. Unlike other animals. It was maybe a little easier at the starting stages of human species. But it was pretty much the same issues throughout history. For example, chai… | /r/MensRights | 09/06/22 12:45 PM |
| 1 | A couple get drunk and have sex and wake up the next morning. If the woman regrets or does not remember, what happened the night before, it's called rape. When the roles are switched, it's called child support. WTF?It doesn’t matter if 1 random person on the internet tried it. My personal experience is irrelevant to this. Ideally there would be no children in adoption centres. It is not a happy time to be abandoned by a parent. You can also freeze your sperm to make human later, you can take sperm from the sperm bank, even use a surrogate and take sperm and egg from someone else and have the surrogate grow the baby. One day artificial wombs will be made, they are already in development. So then could also … | /r/MensRights | 09/06/22 12:40 PM |
| 1 | What feminists mean by 'patriarchy' is in fact: human society. Feminist's supremacism sees men as the cause of everything bad, thus the very imperfection of life is 'the Patriarchy'. Blaming the other for everything is typical of abusers; feminism acts as an abuser with all men.no bodily autonomy doesn’t trump financial autonomy. I don’t see why bodily autonomy can not be respected equally for everyone though. Right now in areas that don’t have easily accable abortion, people with a uterus have less bodily autonomy than people with a uterus. Which is a problem in terms of human rights. I think people regardless of gender should be able to walk away from a child and not pay for it. I don’t believe Canada has a problem with forcing to pay for parenting. It is either for … | /r/MensRights | 09/06/22 12:24 AM |
| 1 | A couple get drunk and have sex and wake up the next morning. If the woman regrets or does not remember, what happened the night before, it's called rape. When the roles are switched, it's called child support. WTF?I don’t understand what is the problem with if more men followed my advice there would be less kids to be adopted. People don’t like being in the foster homes and child services, it is a shitty system. Ideally every child would be created to be cared for in a loving family. What is a designer kid even, we are talking about just another human to raise. That is what a person decides to do when they choose to become a parent. Adoption is not that complicated in my country. It’s free. Need to do a c… | /r/MensRights | 09/06/22 12:07 AM |
| 1 | This is the staff list for my friend's daughter's school - 95% women. (A school that is teaching their students about 'gender equality' and 'socially ingrained misogyny')lmao pregnancy is not a pleasant experience. A human isn’t even designed for childbirth anymore and needs to rely heavily on medical help to make it work (unlike see animals have it easy) Pregnancy is painful, can kill you, can cause permanent bodily changes. Here are some common stories: https://www.buzzfeed.com/alexalisitza/how-pregnancy-changed-bodies?d_id=3608681&ref=bffbbuzzfeednifty&utm_source=dynamic&utm_campaign=bffbbuzzfeednifty If artificial wombs become a thing and easily accessible I… | /r/MensRights | 09/06/22 12:03 AM |
| 1 | This is the staff list for my friend's daughter's school - 95% women. (A school that is teaching their students about 'gender equality' and 'socially ingrained misogyny')you can go on birth control non-stop and it makes menstruation stop so all of this can disappear. Periods are no longer necessary, anyone can chose to opt out of them. You can go to a gynaecologist and ask for birth control to stop periods. the better ones are Depo Provera, a shot done every 3 months. or Mirena IUD put in every 5 years, do not take copper IUD as that does not stop periods. Take the higher dose ones. There are other options like pills, Evra patches, Nuva Ring, Naxplenon, Lupron t… | /r/MensRights | 08/06/22 11:57 PM |
| 0 | A couple get drunk and have sex and wake up the next morning. If the woman regrets or does not remember, what happened the night before, it's called rape. When the roles are switched, it's called child support. WTF?Why can’t you freeze the sperm then to be used for later. Or adopt a child if it comes to it? | /r/MensRights | 08/06/22 07:58 PM |
| 1 | What feminists mean by 'patriarchy' is in fact: human society. Feminist's supremacism sees men as the cause of everything bad, thus the very imperfection of life is 'the Patriarchy'. Blaming the other for everything is typical of abusers; feminism acts as an abuser with all men.lmao biological abortion is about bodily autonomy. A human deciding what happens with their body. Financial abortion is a parenthood problem. It isn’t related to bodily autonomy. Those are different things. Gender dysphoria is treated with transitioning. The reason gender dysphoria occurs is from people being forced to be a gender they are not. So really in a world where gender is not forced on people due to their genital shape (remember, gender is in the brain and has nothing to do with genital… | /r/MensRights | 08/06/22 07:54 PM |
| 1 | A couple get drunk and have sex and wake up the next morning. If the woman regrets or does not remember, what happened the night before, it's called rape. When the roles are switched, it's called child support. WTF?It’s being worked on though. Have you seen the news that one was created already? Maybe you could reach out to those people to ask to work for them to help. | /r/MensRights | 08/06/22 01:27 AM |
| 1 | A couple get drunk and have sex and wake up the next morning. If the woman regrets or does not remember, what happened the night before, it's called rape. When the roles are switched, it's called child support. WTF?Maybe you can get a degree and go into male birth control development to speed things up. | /r/MensRights | 08/06/22 12:29 AM |
| 1 | A couple get drunk and have sex and wake up the next morning. If the woman regrets or does not remember, what happened the night before, it's called rape. When the roles are switched, it's called child support. WTF?Roe v Wade is not equivalent to say on pregnancy termination or financial liability. Abortion is a bodily autonomy issue not parenting issue. It is people with a uterus deserving the right to decide what happens to it and if they do not wish to go through a pregnancy, that is their right. It is on the same level as why infant circumcision should be banned, cosmetic surgery on intersex infants should be banned, gender affirming care must be available. Any parent should have the ability to opt out… | /r/MensRights | 07/06/22 11:23 PM |
| 1 | A couple get drunk and have sex and wake up the next morning. If the woman regrets or does not remember, what happened the night before, it's called rape. When the roles are switched, it's called child support. WTF?what country are you in? This isn’t the case in Canada. Like in Canada people with a uterus can ask to remove it to not have to menstruate. Yeah it makes them infertile but they can make that conscious choice. Long gone are the times when people were seen as their value being to procreate. I don’t understand what is the problem with freezing sperm and getting a vasectomy. Other than price. But then the price seems worth it since you are then not brining another human into the world and having to… | /r/MensRights | 07/06/22 10:46 PM |
| 1 | A couple get drunk and have sex and wake up the next morning. If the woman regrets or does not remember, what happened the night before, it's called rape. When the roles are switched, it's called child support. WTF?The process of informed consent means a person consents to it and the doctor is not responsible for any changing mind. Like with gender affirming care in Canada it is based in informed consent. You decide which surgery want, get asked some feelings questions. And good to go. Decide how important fertility even is to you. You can always freeze some sperm and get a vasectomy and then use that sperm if you are so stuck in making sure it’s a human with pieces of your DNA. Instead of adopting a human… | /r/MensRights | 07/06/22 10:34 PM |
| 1 | A couple get drunk and have sex and wake up the next morning. If the woman regrets or does not remember, what happened the night before, it's called rape. When the roles are switched, it's called child support. WTF?Luckily in Canada there isn’t this stupid gatekeeping that seems to be a US thing. I know also women being not allowed to get hysterectomies even if they have debilitating symptoms in US. needing to get permission from husband or be a certain age or have had kids and dumb stuff like that. Just because doctors prioritize the idea of procreation over the person’s wellbeing. You can always adopt a human if you wish to raise a human. It is not in any way inferior to adopt over having a biological ch… | /r/MensRights | 07/06/22 09:02 PM |
| 1 | It’s time to sue universities.I don’t understand your definition of “feminists”. I am using the scholarly definition but seems social media made up their own. In Canada there is no draft for either gender. That is work of feminists. In Norway there is draft for all genders. That is work of feminists. I don’t understand your second paragraph. Infant circumcision is religious practice, okay true. Religion is founded in patriarchy is not true. What is that even supposed to mean. I explained to you that patriarchy is a pattern t… | /r/MensRights | 07/06/22 05:59 PM |
| 1 | This is the staff list for my friend's daughter's school - 95% women. (A school that is teaching their students about 'gender equality' and 'socially ingrained misogyny')I don’t see why women wouldn’t want artificial wombs. Pregnancy is painful, can kill you, can damage body permanently. People don’t enjoy going through the process of pregnancy in itself. Maybe there will be people who still choose to do it the “natural way”. sure. Like some people deny to use medecine and use herbs and prayers instead. Just like menstruation is not something anyone likes and there are many safe ways to opt out of it. Yet some people choose to menstruate. Or maybe they just don’… | /r/MensRights | 07/06/22 05:44 PM |
| -1 | A couple get drunk and have sex and wake up the next morning. If the woman regrets or does not remember, what happened the night before, it's called rape. When the roles are switched, it's called child support. WTF?no. how is that what you claim I’m saying? There exists vasectomies that are reversible. Those are the ones I am talking about. Not all. Not most. Not “normal”. I am referring to the vasectomies that are resistible because that is its own procedure you can request. | /r/MensRights | 07/06/22 05:41 PM |
| -1 | A couple get drunk and have sex and wake up the next morning. If the woman regrets or does not remember, what happened the night before, it's called rape. When the roles are switched, it's called child support. WTF?There exists reversible vasectomies, search it up or talk to a doctor. It’s not about “normally”. It is that there exists those that are reversible thus that is the one I am talking about. Sterilization vs contraception is somewhere on the same spectrum. Contraception could be seen as non-permanent sterilization (with various risks of failure). Sterilization is a permanent form of birth control. What is the problem with what I said? | /r/MensRights | 07/06/22 05:40 PM |
| 1 | The "protector" role and gender equalityAlso Norway. A very progressive country. | /r/MensRights | 07/06/22 08:02 AM |
| 0 | The "protector" role and gender equalityNo it’s not hardwired. There can be hetro women who like more feminine and submissive men. | /r/MensRights | 07/06/22 08:02 AM |
| 1 | The "protector" role and gender equalityLook into how Canada does things. It may be better because in 2017 gender identity and expression was added to human rights. Now that gender is a spectrum it’s hard for things to be binary gender and exclusionary tbh. | /r/MensRights | 07/06/22 08:01 AM |
| -54 | A couple get drunk and have sex and wake up the next morning. If the woman regrets or does not remember, what happened the night before, it's called rape. When the roles are switched, it's called child support. WTF?that’s a tad bit of a rape myth there that a person changing their mind about sex is when they claim sexual assault. Don’t make this gendered. This can happen to people of any gender and genital shape. The life support comment I’m not sure are you assuming getting raped by a woman will result in a baby? I suppose that can happen. I suggest getting a vasectomy tbh. They are reversible too or maybe you like the childfree life, we have too many humans on earth anyways already lol (better to adopt i… | /r/MensRights | 07/06/22 07:53 AM |
| 1 | It’s time to sue universities.ehh you are right in some but not others. Okay so male-only draft. That can be rephrased as protector gender role. Think deeper than how it’s manifested but where the role comes from. Patriarchy harms everyone remember, so this protector gender role is in fact harmful to men since it’s restricting anyways as any gender role and as you can see forces them into danger. The circumcision is not gender role. This isn’t related to this discussion. Face danger. Is same as protector gender role. Men bei… | /r/MensRights | 07/06/22 07:41 AM |
| -1 | Society has a weird obsession with emasculating menhmm it seems like it is emasculating to you but the jokes come from poking fun at people like you who deem these things as emasculating as if that’s a bad thing. You are holding on to the rigid gender norms of what it means to be a man and masculine. It doesn’t make anyone less of a man to be gay, or like getting pegged, or wear a skirt. I think maybe part of the reason why those jokes get used is to even poke fun at people who care. | /r/MensRights | 06/06/22 10:07 PM |
| 0 | What feminists mean by 'patriarchy' is in fact: human society. Feminist's supremacism sees men as the cause of everything bad, thus the very imperfection of life is 'the Patriarchy'. Blaming the other for everything is typical of abusers; feminism acts as an abuser with all men.Let’s unpack your second paragraph. There is something odd going on here. When people wanted a male hier this was not the time when people understood chromosome tracing or checked chromosomes. It doesn’t matter what gender wanted the boys, this pattern existed and this its patriarchy because in the binary gender model the boy was preferred so deemed superior to the girl who was not preferred. This is all patriarchy is explaining, it isn’t a way to put down men. It is a term to label a pattern. T… | /r/MensRights | 06/06/22 09:56 PM |
| 1 | What feminists mean by 'patriarchy' is in fact: human society. Feminist's supremacism sees men as the cause of everything bad, thus the very imperfection of life is 'the Patriarchy'. Blaming the other for everything is typical of abusers; feminism acts as an abuser with all men.The difffernce is in that man gets Mr all the time but woman changes based in marriage. Isn’t that odd. Why is it gendered and why is it different that the woman gendered person gets this bizarre relational thing to a man? Systemic issue is just that. The times changed but the systems have not. Like yes segregating blacks was abolished but racism today persists. Due to those old systems that existed. There is still fallout today. Like there was a problem with military hair regulations not accoun… | /r/MensRights | 06/06/22 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Vent: Why aren’t women responsible for their sex lives?Why do you use female and man? Like how does that make sense in your mind I’m curious. It’s usually male/female. Man/woman. | /r/MensRights | 06/06/22 07:14 PM |
| 1 | It’s time to sue universities.masculinity is not related to the man gender technically. It is related to historic men’s gender role. But today since gender is a spectrum and not binary, what is feminine vs masculine is arbitrary. https://www.canada.ca/en/department-justice/news/2016/05/gender-identity-and-gender-expression.html What do you propose calling it? We need to group the set of toxic behaviours that were historically imposed/seen in men. We need a label for this because it is valuable in picking up patterns. I mysel… | /r/MensRights | 06/06/22 07:11 PM |
| 0 | What feminists mean by 'patriarchy' is in fact: human society. Feminist's supremacism sees men as the cause of everything bad, thus the very imperfection of life is 'the Patriarchy'. Blaming the other for everything is typical of abusers; feminism acts as an abuser with all men.The problem is the imbalance. There were some societies with women in power by chance but those are disproportionately few comparing to 50% of the world population being women. But overwhelming majority of people in power being men. The royal lineage has been passed on through the son historically. Like recall the whole issue with getting a male heir. Like King Henry VIII killed his wives for not giving him a boy. Imagine, over a child’s genitals one human is deemed of more value. That is an exa… | /r/MensRights | 06/06/22 07:01 PM |
| 0 | It’s time to sue universities.Wmaybe you are interacting with toxic women. Toxic masculinity is a term used in sociology. It is valuable for work when used properly. I like the term toxic feminism, that works. I would prefer to see that around this sub than just “them feminists”. Since that is also misusing the term. | /r/MensRights | 06/06/22 01:35 AM |
| -3 | What feminists mean by 'patriarchy' is in fact: human society. Feminist's supremacism sees men as the cause of everything bad, thus the very imperfection of life is 'the Patriarchy'. Blaming the other for everything is typical of abusers; feminism acts as an abuser with all men.lmao it is a problem that “human society” was dominated by men. even if all human’s are equal somehow this equality didn’t propagate and a divide happened where men were considered superior to women. based on gender, that is the problem. that is all patriarchy explains, based on a binary gender model man was considered superior. Like look into Christian teachings with man being head of family. Man was created first and woman was as if a companion to him. that’s an example of patriarchy. That wom… | /r/MensRights | 06/06/22 12:16 AM |
| -4 | It’s time to sue universities.The day you realize toxic masculinity is not related to a human having the gender of being a men, life will become easier. Toxic masculinity is a term in sociology to describe a cluster of traits that are harmful. They happen to be aggregated in what were labeled as masculine traits and expected to be something men have. But this is only within binary gender roles and traditionalist outlooks. A woman, a non-binary, an agender etc. person can exhibit toxic masculinity | /r/MensRights | 05/06/22 08:07 PM |
| 0 | Thoughts on MGTOW?The essence of the idea was a good way for men to see other options to life. The actual term now is tinted by the horrible behaviour on the r/MGTOW sub since it became toxic and got banned. | /r/MensRights | 05/06/22 07:36 PM |
| -1 | If women hate the patriarchy so much, why won't women vote to elect a political party with a woman leader?Abortion is not only about raising a kid. It is about a body being forced to go through pregnancy. this is where the bodily autonomy argument stands. It is about a human not wanting their organ to be used by another human and have to go through pregnancy, which is painful and can be deadly with permanent bodily changes, against their will. What do you mean pronouns nazi? This is a very clear example where the man has just Mr but the woman has Mrs and Ms and Miss which is in relation to being mar… | /r/MensRights | 05/06/22 10:25 AM |
| 0 | New York Post: Where are the men of courage? They’re gone thanks to ‘toxic masculinity’.how so? What do I have to do with this if I am explaining to you how things work? | /r/MensRights | 05/06/22 10:21 AM |
| 0 | Vent: Why aren’t women responsible for their sex lives?lol are you gay? This is clearly a man who wrote this. Why is it “female” and “man”. What you are describing is consenting to a non-consent format. you would still initially need to decide this is how you wish to be treated and not that any random man will start making out with you without asking. | /r/MensRights | 05/06/22 08:54 AM |
| 1 | If women hate the patriarchy so much, why won't women vote to elect a political party with a woman leader?What do you mean “humanity is the exception” lol? Averages aren’t really relevant when we talk about human dignity. averages is a measure the field of statistics that is a subfield of mathematics. It can be useful to study trends but not to determine how much respect a human deserves. You first paragraph is some odd heteronormative traditionalist lens. you are a assuming hell of a lot about genders here. Why men have to choose partners that care more about stability than sex? Why can’t the woman… | /r/MensRights | 05/06/22 08:51 AM |
| 1 | If women hate the patriarchy so much, why won't women vote to elect a political party with a woman leader?what rule? Who makes these rules? Non-binary people are just as valid as men and women. They are not an exception, they are another variation of humans that exists. Not in any way worse or better than other variations. Slut shaming is related because even the origin of that word is women focused even if any gender can be a slut (having lots of sexual partners). Women get societal pressure to not be too eager in relationships while men are pushed to be pursuer. Which skews gender dynamics due to … | /r/MensRights | 05/06/22 08:04 AM |
| 1 | If women hate the patriarchy so much, why won't women vote to elect a political party with a woman leader?lol idk where you live but in a sex positive and gender inclusive society where the sexual orientation spectrum is accepted as well, those things are not rare. it’s just humans of different gender identities. No reason why a man can’t do house work the same as a woman. it’s not some innate womanly thing to do house work. Any human can be good or bad at it, it’s a skill like any other. Women initiate relationships when everyone is taught proper sex ed and there is no slut shaming and it is a sex … | /r/MensRights | 05/06/22 06:35 AM |
| 1 | If women hate the patriarchy so much, why won't women vote to elect a political party with a woman leader?Who puts them there? There was a time when women had to be stuck at home raising kids as well so couldn’t even do politics. But this shows the patriarchy dynamic. Why not have the man be stuck at home and be the homemaker after the woman gave birth. | /r/MensRights | 05/06/22 06:16 AM |
| 0 | New York Post: Where are the men of courage? They’re gone thanks to ‘toxic masculinity’.the labels are self chosen. People identify with whatever label works though some choose not to have labels at all. It doesn’t matter if 99% if population is cis. 2% of the world is green eyes. 1% is asexual. they still all deserve to be included the same. No it is not a mismatch. It is society forcing a gender on them they never were. It only comes off as a mismatch in a world that forces gender based on genital shape when that was never related. Gender is not related to sex. Gender is a spectr… | /r/MensRights | 05/06/22 06:15 AM |
| 0 | New York Post: Where are the men of courage? They’re gone thanks to ‘toxic masculinity’.Which part is unclear? Maybe read some human sexuality textbooks and encyclopedias. Get a degree in human sexuality. Talk to professors and researchers in this field. Instead of putting me down for no reason. | /r/MensRights | 05/06/22 06:07 AM |
| 1 | Vent: Why aren’t women responsible for their sex lives?If you don’t like it you can tell the person. But the baseline is one where it’s better to ask than not ask. Maybe you like being kissed out of nowhere but other people may not. So it’s better to ask if someone wishes to be kissed to account for that. It is kind of how in professional environments there are set greetings in an email. You start with that all the time. Someone may tell you they rather be on more causal terms. So then you change. But the baseline of the higher respect remains becau… | /r/MensRights | 05/06/22 06:06 AM |
| 0 | If women hate the patriarchy so much, why won't women vote to elect a political party with a woman leader?no class problems are a separate thing. Class effects women too. A black woman of higher class can be better off than a white woman of lower class right. The male high positions are produced by patriarchy because somehow even if 50% of world population is women you only kept seeing men in the power positions. Even if those men and women could have been of same class. | /r/MensRights | 05/06/22 06:03 AM |
| 0 | If women hate the patriarchy so much, why won't women vote to elect a political party with a woman leader?What is “modern society”? There are relics of it even in US. Like abortion being under fire is one. Men have full bodily autonomy over their organs but a woman for some reason can’t choose what happens to her uterus. Yes there is less and less of it. It isn’t as prominent as before. But the problem is systemic issues and status quo. Like the Mr and Mrs/Ms/Miss designation is a relic from patriarchy. | /r/MensRights | 05/06/22 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Vent: Why aren’t women responsible for their sex lives?lmao the safe thing to do is ask. You can’t read a person’s mind and body language is not guarantee. Sometimes a person may try to play along because they don’t know any other way to get out of it. The way to tell if someone wishes to have sex with you is by asking. That way everything is very clear. Humans have many ways to communicate and language is the most certain one during this time because it means a person can clearly express intent and desire. Even the kind of sex varies. A person with… | /r/MensRights | 05/06/22 05:59 AM |
| 0 | New York Post: Where are the men of courage? They’re gone thanks to ‘toxic masculinity’.no lol it is in current science of biology as well. Read the studies. everything about hormones being a spectrum and chromosomes not defining traits comes up. Like the SRY gene can be on the X chromosome sometimes too. So it’s not like XY = AMAB and XX = AFAB all the time. The field of intersex research actually helps disprove a lot of the binary thinking people were stuck in. Your problem is claiming these averages. average is just another way to organize data. You have mean, media, mode. You h… | /r/MensRights | 04/06/22 08:27 PM |
| 1 | New York Post: Where are the men of courage? They’re gone thanks to ‘toxic masculinity’.yes being non-binary is possible. it is a location on the spectrum that is neither man or woman. There are also labels like agender, bigender, gender fluid, pangender. idk these things only make sense if we keep grouping people into gender boxes. it would be great if society could just stop but it still does. Like this sub is men’s rights. Even if it can be phrased just like human’s rights. It doesn’t need to be AMAB (assigned male at birth) vs AFAB (assigned female at birth) things. We could bu… | /r/MensRights | 04/06/22 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Where are the men of courage? They’re gone thanks to ‘toxic masculinity’. Is this not what feminism demanded from men?Why is this gendered? Men are not responsible for being courageous as much as women. Courage is a trait that people of any gender identity can have or not have. We need people of courage, though that is relative to what courage means. Being a bystander and intervening is more like a morale obligation, but only if you know how to intervene in a helpful manner. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/22 07:53 PM |
| 1 | If women hate the patriarchy so much, why won't women vote to elect a political party with a woman leader?every country is different tbh. Like patriarchy in the Middle East is hella obvious. In US different. In Canada different. But there is still a pattern of this concept where women were seen as inferior to men. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/22 06:56 PM |
| 0 | Vent: Why aren’t women responsible for their sex lives?they would at least have to ask if they can put it in. you actually wouldn’t ask about the 10 seconds because say they put it in but the person doesn’t like it. They won’t be like “but you agreed to 10 seconds so now keep it in”. There would need to be informed consent like “hey I have a buttplug, would you like me to put it in?” This is what is meant by ongoing consent. I can’t know who uses sex toys or not. I know the many many ways sex can be done and so I account for all of it. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/22 06:55 PM |
| 0 | Vent: Why aren’t women responsible for their sex lives?no need to make it exaggerated like that. informed consent means they are aware at all times what is going on and have the chance to stop it at any time. some acts can get informed consent with less asking than others and also depends how many time they have done it before to know what is going on. Like for intercourse the first time there should be more asking to make sure it feels good and doesn’t hurt. the 50th time if doing the same act it may be just asking once. Because the person is alrea… | /r/MensRights | 04/06/22 06:52 PM |
| 0 | If women hate the patriarchy so much, why won't women vote to elect a political party with a woman leader?Gendering the term patriarchy? It is pretty clear that men were out to be above women for a part in history. A lot of it is in religion like if you read the bible the man is supposed to be in charge of the woman. That is an example of patriarchy. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/22 06:48 PM |
| 0 | New York Post: Where are the men of courage? They’re gone thanks to ‘toxic masculinity’.lol no gender is a spectrum. it doesn’t matter what percentage there is at which location. Gender is in the brain, it has nothing to do with genital shape. No sex doesn’t influence behaviour. You can read up about gender essentialism or also called dimorphic sexual essentialism. people believed there are these drastic differences in behaviour due to sex but this has been disproven. Read about neurosexism. considering that you need to separate sex into chromosomal sex, gonadal sex, phenotypic sex… | /r/MensRights | 04/06/22 06:45 PM |
| 0 | Vent: Why aren’t women responsible for their sex lives?the point here is you agreed to sexual intercourse before that right? That is where consent is. Sure you could consent more broadly or more specifically. Just consenting to sex is way to broad to be respectful because who knows what that even means. For example doing intercourse, past all the foreplay lead up, you would ask if it’s okay to put the penis inside now. Then do your thing. Verify that she is enjoying it by watching her face or it’s fine to ask like “does this feel good” or have her v… | /r/MensRights | 04/06/22 06:35 PM |
| 1 | If women hate the patriarchy so much, why won't women vote to elect a political party with a woman leader?class hierarchies are different from gender hierarchies. read about intersectionality. everything you are talking about in terms of capitalism is not what patriarchy talks about. patriarchy is just the man-woman relation. (from a simplified gender binary model) | /r/MensRights | 04/06/22 06:30 PM |
| 1 | If women hate the patriarchy so much, why won't women vote to elect a political party with a woman leader?Why is that? In 1928 Supreme Court of Canada ruled that women are not persons. There was a time women were treated like property. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/22 05:36 AM |
| 1 | If women hate the patriarchy so much, why won't women vote to elect a political party with a woman leader?You didn’t know this that women were not considered persons at a time in history? | /r/MensRights | 04/06/22 05:31 AM |
| 1 | If women hate the patriarchy so much, why won't women vote to elect a political party with a woman leader?no that is where more research needs to be done. This would be related to gender norms and so will be different throughout countries. I thought you were just referring to men like assigned male at birth people. so you wanted to claim there is something inherently about being male that causes shorter life. You are rights that it’s more so the social things like what you mentioned. More research would need to be done to level out that gap. it could be social or maybe anatomical, it isn’t too clear… | /r/MensRights | 04/06/22 04:19 AM |
| 1 | Regret is Rape (Satire)you can ask people to make sure you get a clear answer for whether they want to have sex or not. There is also lots of moments to stop it at any point. Like saying yes to sex is not a one thing. There needs to be verification that they like that is going on since you are interacting with another person’s body so can’t know for sure. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/22 04:16 AM |
| 0 | If women hate the patriarchy so much, why won't women vote to elect a political party with a woman leader?Which part is unclear to you? | /r/MensRights | 04/06/22 04:14 AM |
| 1 | If women hate the patriarchy so much, why won't women vote to elect a political party with a woman leader?That is averages based on a binary understanding of humans. “Man” is not a unified one thing. There is correlations with things like the Y chromosome being more fragile so susceptible to disease but there can be men without a Y chromosome too and women with a Y chromosome. More research should be done to see why the trend exists. That’s a good idea. But this isn’t related to social structures of patriarchy | /r/MensRights | 04/06/22 04:14 AM |
| 1 | This is the staff list for my friend's daughter's school - 95% women. (A school that is teaching their students about 'gender equality' and 'socially ingrained misogyny')activist is a valid profession. I mean there are people who advocate for all sorts of social amelioration. Gender studies academics is more like sociology academics with a focus on gender studies domains. though yes that is it’s own degree as well. It is a useful degree for those who want to go into transgender care for example. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/22 03:49 AM |
| 1 | This is the staff list for my friend's daughter's school - 95% women. (A school that is teaching their students about 'gender equality' and 'socially ingrained misogyny')So seems like the problem will be fixed if male birth control becomes mainstream. It is being developed and does exist in some capacity. Also we need artificial wombs so that the prolife people can have the unwanted fetus put in there. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/22 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Regret is Rape (Satire)if they are not sure then the answer is no actually. This is the attempt with “enthusiastic consent” phrasing. It has to be full consent, if they are in the not sure stage it can come off like coercion. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/22 03:40 AM |
| -1 | Vent: Why aren’t women responsible for their sex lives?that’s a problem if you do not communicate consent. I don’t believe you want people just starting random acts on you without you knowing what they will do. Like shoving a buttplug if you did not know this is going to happen. This is consent. You consent to a certain act but even within it there should be verification that it’s enjoyable. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/22 03:23 AM |
| -1 | Vent: Why aren’t women responsible for their sex lives?Gosh I’m not going to explain a dirty talk format of an example in a reddit comment. Do you not see the point of what I am explaining. I am explaining that when interacting with another person’s body you need to ask what they wish to be done to them and have ongoing communication to make sure they are enjoying it. Sometimes the other person is vocal about it but sometimes the other ones needs to lead. You don’t know what they feel. Every body is unique. Some people don’t want to be touched in wa… | /r/MensRights | 04/06/22 03:21 AM |
| 1 | If women hate the patriarchy so much, why won't women vote to elect a political party with a woman leader?what are you referring to? | /r/MensRights | 04/06/22 03:19 AM |
| -1 | New York Post: Where are the men of courage? They’re gone thanks to ‘toxic masculinity’.I’m not sure you know the scholarly definition of it. Probably just heard randomly it being used in social media. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/22 03:18 AM |
| -1 | New York Post: Where are the men of courage? They’re gone thanks to ‘toxic masculinity’.lmao no. gender is a spectrum. the gender identity of a woman is one among the many on the spectrum. It isn’t binary. So no everyone who identifies as a woman will not automatically assume any man will have to sacrifice for her anymore than any woman or non-binary. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/22 03:17 AM |
| -1 | New York Post: Where are the men of courage? They’re gone thanks to ‘toxic masculinity’.maybe not today. A little more than 100 years ago women weren’t even considered persons in US. Some social structures are still left over from those times. Like think of patriarchy today as more of a “man is default” issue. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/22 03:16 AM |
| 1 | If women hate the patriarchy so much, why won't women vote to elect a political party with a woman leader?I don’t think you know the scholarly definition of patriarchy. There are clear examples in history where men were seen as superior to women in US. Women were not considered persons a little more than 100 years ago. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/22 03:14 AM |
| -1 | Vent: Why aren’t women responsible for their sex lives?better asking than having people randomly touch a thing. Which does happen and that is sexual assault. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/22 03:12 AM |
| -2 | Vent: Why aren’t women responsible for their sex lives?what is wrong with asking what the person likes? What if they do not want a finger in their vagina. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/22 03:12 AM |
| -1 | Vent: Why aren’t women responsible for their sex lives?I have had sex before though. I make sure to be respectful with my partners. I wouldn’t want to be just touching them where they won’t want it. Some are more vocal to tell me what they would like but some need me to lead. This is how I approach it. Removes any doubts and keeps things safe. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/22 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Vent: Why aren’t women responsible for their sex lives?The problem is that body language is not universal. Voicing through clear communication is a safer bet then assuming. Considering there was a time when men believed women wearing revealing clothing is consent. Or that rape case that was dropped because the woman was wearing red underwear so they claimed this proves consent. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/22 03:10 AM |
| 0 | Vent: Why aren’t women responsible for their sex lives?Because you already established those relationships to have implied communication cues. I was talking more in context of casual sex yes. Seems like in your relationship you already know the script for “you want to do stuff”. Maybe your sex is pretty vanilla and the same every time idk. But for people to be feeling safe they need to be in control of their body hence the questions are useful. Like a doctor would ask to touch a body part or ask if they can do a procedure and explain that. In sex yo… | /r/MensRights | 04/06/22 03:08 AM |
| 0 | Vent: Why aren’t women responsible for their sex lives?What makes you believe that? | /r/MensRights | 04/06/22 03:03 AM |
| 0 | If women hate the patriarchy so much, why won't women vote to elect a political party with a woman leader?What makes you believe that? A little over 100 years ago women weren’t even considered persons in US. Today it’s better but a bunch is leftover from that time. Like today I was filling out forms and for men it has Mr but for women it has Miss/Ms/Mrs. ever wonder why this gender imbalance occurred. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/22 03:02 AM |
| 0 | If women hate the patriarchy so much, why won't women vote to elect a political party with a woman leader?Not the individuals gender right. Did you read my comment. In overall sociological analysis it is taking the power dynamics in a binary gender view of men and women (so doesn’t account for the gender spectrum). And shows that men have been placed to be superior to women. That is the premise of patriarchy. But people perpetrating it is not based on gender. Hence just putting a bunch of women in power won’t fix the systemic issues around it. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/22 03:01 AM |
| 1 | The abortion issueI hope one day artificial wombs are made. Then all this prolife debate goes away. | /r/MensRights | 03/06/22 06:40 AM |
| 1 | The abortion issueThe problem is that people with a uterus are not listened to on the decisions around abortion. It is clear that abortion should be easily accessible to everyone because anyone with a uterus who doesn’t want their uterus supporting another human, has the right to decide what happens to their uterus. If that is what men are fighting for, that’s good. But if someone without a uterus is claiming that those with a uterus must allow another human to use it, the problem is hypocrisy. | /r/MensRights | 03/06/22 06:39 AM |
| 1 | The abortion issueI’m not sure it is medically possible to have an abortion before birth. There is a point at which the body will be unable to tolerate and abortion. | /r/MensRights | 03/06/22 06:37 AM |
| -6 | New York Post: Where are the men of courage? They’re gone thanks to ‘toxic masculinity’.idk why this is gendered. Where are people of courage is better. The gendered language here restates patriarchal views like as if it’s the man’s job to be courageous. Meanwhile courage is not gendered. We can have courageous women and not courageous men. | /r/MensRights | 03/06/22 06:33 AM |
| -56 | Vent: Why aren’t women responsible for their sex lives?“how can consent ever be confirmed if it can be retracted at any given moment” this is because consent in sex needs to be informed consent that is ongoing. but consent doesn’t get reattached like 3 days after an act, that’s not what this means. I am a bit confused how you claim you ask to have sex and the answer is yes and it ends there. Maybe you haven’t had sex properly idk that seems like an odd way to phrase it. Because sex involves ongoing interactions with another person’s body. So “yes” i… | /r/MensRights | 03/06/22 06:31 AM |
| -22 | If women hate the patriarchy so much, why won't women vote to elect a political party with a woman leader?Patriarchy is not so much about the person’s gender anymore. There can be men who are well versed in feminism so that they too help break down patriarchy. A person’s gender is simply not enough. There can be women who perpetrate patriarchal views. In US I believe Hillary had majority vote but due to the different states having different weights she didn’t win. So people are trying, it would have been cool to see a woman president after a black president. Alas it didn’t happen. | /r/MensRights | 03/06/22 06:23 AM |
| 0 | Why do some people yell at men that women don’t owe them a relationship, when these men are depressed and just want to vent about their inability of finding a partner?In general not everyone is a good person to vent to. You have people who are quick to find solutions so they overlook that you would just like emotional support. Since there is no quick fix or even a way to get you on the right track while you are venting, people jump to the “victim blaming” approach like the problem is with you existing because they can’t come up with a solution for your misery. Like if someone is venting about not having a job, maybe they could suggest going to a job matching … | /r/MensRights | 03/06/22 05:33 AM |
| -10 | Regret is Rape (Satire)guys please this isn’t funny. Not only does rape have no gender. sexual assault is a complex topic, it isn’t about regret. This is perpetuating rape myths. Sexual assault comes down to someone not respecting another person’s bodily autonomy when doing a sexual act. If the other person genuinely wants it, which is the only time a sexual act should be done to/with them, then there will be no reason for them to claim sexual assault. | /r/MensRights | 01/06/22 12:29 AM |
| 1 | This is the staff list for my friend's daughter's school - 95% women. (A school that is teaching their students about 'gender equality' and 'socially ingrained misogyny')oh but yes it is. see because a woman has a uterus now all of a sudden they are seen as having less rights to bodily autonomy than a man. with the current SCOTUS issue. Government is debating what to do with other people’s uteruses but not other people’s testicles or vasa deferentia. Part of systemic oppression of women is tied to anatomy. Like part of the gender pay gap is that women would miss work due to pregnancy which set them behind if they were a man in the same position. Having artificia… | /r/MensRights | 30/05/22 02:29 AM |
| 1 | This is the staff list for my friend's daughter's school - 95% women. (A school that is teaching their students about 'gender equality' and 'socially ingrained misogyny')Who is “them”? Like who is these feminists you taking about. Is it a profession or who is it. You seem to think there is like some organization or what if people doing things. So which organization is it that is doing or not doing things. You can be the advocate for this issues as much as “them feminists” idk who you are referring to. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/22 02:23 AM |
| 1 | This is the staff list for my friend's daughter's school - 95% women. (A school that is teaching their students about 'gender equality' and 'socially ingrained misogyny')One thing that can help fix the pay gap is if artificial wombs become readily available. That removes the gap in women having to take time off work for gestating issues thus putting them behind a man in the same situation. Your familial roles question: yes. This shouldn’t be gendered. It should be on the same level just two humans deciding who will stay at home. defaulting it to women happened before due to gender roles which are also tied to familial roles. But this is the problem here. for tru… | /r/MensRights | 30/05/22 02:20 AM |
| 1 | This is the staff list for my friend's daughter's school - 95% women. (A school that is teaching their students about 'gender equality' and 'socially ingrained misogyny')but the oppression is tied to them being mostly homemakers. It is already not equal treatment of genders. For example USSR had better gender equality than US today. It wasn’t unusual for women to be breadwinner and in the workforce because everyone was worker first. So this isn’t some innate womanly thing to be homemaker, it is possible to have freedom for people to not be treated differently based on gender. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/22 01:32 AM |
| 1 | This is the staff list for my friend's daughter's school - 95% women. (A school that is teaching their students about 'gender equality' and 'socially ingrained misogyny')What is the problem with the anatomical difference? Let all human bodies equal rights. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/22 01:30 AM |
| -4 | Apparently "toxic masculinity" is misogyny while "toxic feminity" is not misandricWhere does it say that women can’t be toxic and only men can do so? a toxic feminist can be a man. feminism has no gender. if a person identifies as a feminist and is toxic I suppose their label is toxic feminist. Except that the term feminist gets thrown around loosely I don’t know what is implied here. The original meaning of feminism is a movement for gender equity. If someone thinks this is toxic it could be seen as misogynistic because it would be arguing that people should not have equal r… | /r/MensRights | 30/05/22 12:14 AM |
| -7 | Dear Feminists- what do you do to help men? Signed, a Men's Rights ActivistI am wondering what YOU have done for men’s rights? You are part of the people who need to bring about the change you wish to see. | /r/MensRights | 29/05/22 08:55 AM |
| -29 | Apparently "toxic masculinity" is misogyny while "toxic feminity" is not misandricWhere does it say what you are claiming in the title? | /r/MensRights | 29/05/22 08:53 AM |
| 0 | My sister thinks I'm a useless piece of crap just because I'm a male.yeah doesn’t seem fair. Things shouldn’t be gendered this way. Sometimes it is hard for people to wrap their head around what someone else without an experience feels but that is an emotional intelligence problem not identity. Like I am sure you could figure out why abortion access is a necessary right but maybe it’s hard to put yourself in those shoes if you yourself don’t have a uterus that is being put under question today. | /r/MensRights | 29/05/22 06:26 AM |
| 0 | Radical feminists are mentally illone women right that is under fire right now is right to bodily autonomy due to the SCOTUS. For men there is no such thing as claiming another human gets to use their organ to survive. While for someone with a uterus (historically been seen as women) this is for some reason allowed. Another one is not in all states women can be topless like men. In the end yeah it’s about giving all humans the same rights so they can have the same outcome regardless of gender. Sometimes that requires changing sy… | /r/MensRights | 29/05/22 06:17 AM |
| 6 | What's up with people being extra helpful towards women?Well the women and children rhetoric is even used right now to encourage Ukrainian soldiers to fight. | /r/MensRights | 27/05/22 11:18 PM |
| -1 | This is the staff list for my friend's daughter's school - 95% women. (A school that is teaching their students about 'gender equality' and 'socially ingrained misogyny')wtf did you even write about making men’s organs internal. what does this have to do with anything and proves what exactly. Where did I talk about hitting women for you to equate hitting men... | /r/MensRights | 27/05/22 09:33 PM |
| -1 | This is the staff list for my friend's daughter's school - 95% women. (A school that is teaching their students about 'gender equality' and 'socially ingrained misogyny')Pushed out how exactly? It is a low paid job that is stereotypically women’s role (take care of kids). Who is pushing them out? I guess patriarchy overall maybe and gender inclusivity problems. If men could see it objectively as just another job and not associated with gendered perceptions (that women are naturally good with kids) maybe they would be more inclined to join. But the pay problem is also another issue that needs to be address. Which part of gynaecology is not taken seriously for men… | /r/MensRights | 27/05/22 09:20 PM |
| -6 | This is the staff list for my friend's daughter's school - 95% women. (A school that is teaching their students about 'gender equality' and 'socially ingrained misogyny')lmao not all women want to be stay at home moms. Your take is also very heteronormativity. Yet the pay gap applies even to same sex relationships right. No one needs to play these gender roles, humans are just existing with various gender identities and genital shapes. Yet the sexist dichotomy prevails. There are lots of factors that play into why women go into low paying jobs. Summarized by aspects around patriarchy. Considering patriarchy is harmful to everyone, rightfully so any argument I br… | /r/MensRights | 27/05/22 09:18 PM |
| 1 | This is the staff list for my friend's daughter's school - 95% women. (A school that is teaching their students about 'gender equality' and 'socially ingrained misogyny')What country has less voting rights for men than women? | /r/MensRights | 27/05/22 09:13 PM |
| 0 | This is the staff list for my friend's daughter's school - 95% women. (A school that is teaching their students about 'gender equality' and 'socially ingrained misogyny')Considering it isn’t legal for women to be bare chested in certain states but men are allowed it does show a problem. It is important to learn about the past. The fact that there was a time that by the sole shape of someone’s genitals they were denied a say in politics. This is important to know like a lot of other aspects of history like slavery, even if it isn’t the case today. lmao “just a reflection of how things were” is showing oppression of women. what do you think oppression is? Gay peop… | /r/MensRights | 27/05/22 09:11 PM |
| -2 | This is the staff list for my friend's daughter's school - 95% women. (A school that is teaching their students about 'gender equality' and 'socially ingrained misogyny')I am literally saying that people need to work on this. Your argument is the same argument about women in STEM. You can start advocating for more men to work with children. Start campaigns that teaches men that they can be just as good with kids, there isn’t some innate “womanly” thing about being nurturing, advocate for men to see taking care of children as not something weak, advocate for better pay for teachers so it becomes a more sought after career for men who wish to be breadwinners, deve… | /r/MensRights | 27/05/22 09:04 PM |
| -14 | This is the staff list for my friend's daughter's school - 95% women. (A school that is teaching their students about 'gender equality' and 'socially ingrained misogyny')Hold on, you didn’t know that women did not have the right to vote a little over 100 years ago? There were times when a woman couldn’t have her own bank account, only her husband could. Women being pushed to be teachers and that being a low paying job is part of the gender wage gap situation (read more into it. It’s not just randomly paying someone who presents as a man more than who presents as a woman or checking people’s genitals to see who to pay more). Society needs to work on communicating… | /r/MensRights | 27/05/22 05:12 PM |
| 1 | "I would like to speak to America's men for one minute," the New York Democrat said in a press conference. "Imagine you do not have authority over your own body for 10 months. She asked men to imagine not being able to have that autonomy even if it meant they could die." (OP: called the draft)Yes they don’t have responsibility for cells meeting. They can only create favourable or unfavourable environments. The child doesn’t come on free will. There is no free will when sex cells just interact with their own programmed function. Like we do not have fee will if cancer develops. My god if we did the world be different. We cannot control another cell’s function. People should be consciously and with careful consideration deciding to have a child. Not just “oh it happened oh well”. The or… | /r/MensRights | 27/05/22 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Everywhere is empowerment for womenI don’t understand what you are saying. Men and women issues are separate things. I think it shouldn’t even be gendered at this point if we want to build a gender inclusive world, it should just be human rights. If there is work done in one it doesn’t take away from work being done in another. | /r/MensRights | 27/05/22 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Everywhere is empowerment for womenThere is also empowerment for black and indigenous people. some for disabilities too. mental health. | /r/MensRights | 24/05/22 02:25 AM |
| 11 | Man Selling His Body (NSFW)I guess all work is selling your body in some sense. It can be through your brain or body. Shows that sex work is work just the same. | /r/MensRights | 24/05/22 12:16 AM |
| -3 | Some women, even on this sub, play mental games with us.How do you know they identify as a woman? | /r/MensRights | 23/05/22 06:22 PM |
| -1 | just hit me that a rando girl could accuse me of rape and my life would be destroyed....I don’t understand. I did not say the people who run it are professors without education. People who work there are qualified in the domain of sexual misconduct. You can reach out to universities in Canada to ask what the qualification of those people are. Probably social workers with an educational or training background in sexuality. And probably people educated in law and human rights. Ask them, you are making such bizarre assumptions. | /r/MensRights | 23/05/22 02:19 AM |
| 1 | "I would like to speak to America's men for one minute," the New York Democrat said in a press conference. "Imagine you do not have authority over your own body for 10 months. She asked men to imagine not being able to have that autonomy even if it meant they could die." (OP: called the draft)Disagree where? Which part you disagree on. | /r/MensRights | 23/05/22 01:27 AM |
| -10 | Why is it okay to teach a man “how to treat a woman”, but not to teach a woman “how to treat a man”?It doesn’t matter how much are not cis and not straight. Everyone deserves to be included in this world. I am pointing out that the problem is like asking the wrong question. It is going off wrong assumptions (that people are binary, going off gender norms, going off women = feminine and men = masculine). Which is just overall outdated concepts. Hence the statement loses meaning but not because it can be disproven but because it is asking the wrong question. It’s like trying to disprove the “wom… | /r/MensRights | 23/05/22 12:53 AM |
| -12 | Why is it okay to teach a man “how to treat a woman”, but not to teach a woman “how to treat a man”?I’d say that saying is a heteronormativity and gender inclusivity problem. it assumes heterosexual relationship roles where a man is supposed to offer himself up to the woman like chase her to get with her or whatever. it’s also a binary world view that is not equal to the various genders. so it’s sexist (but the more current way to say something is sexist is “not gender inclusive”) | /r/MensRights | 22/05/22 10:18 PM |
| 1 | "I would like to speak to America's men for one minute," the New York Democrat said in a press conference. "Imagine you do not have authority over your own body for 10 months. She asked men to imagine not being able to have that autonomy even if it meant they could die." (OP: called the draft)lmao people using perfectly healthy reproductive organs is about all control someone has. The actual conception is not controlled. Like you can control to breath but it also happens on its own. You can’t control your heart beat. You can control pushing out a poop though. The actual conception is beyond any human’s control. Through intercourse a human can try everything to have there be favourable outcomes for conception to happen but they can’t make it happen or make it not happen. The only cont… | /r/MensRights | 21/05/22 11:47 PM |
| 1 | "I would like to speak to America's men for one minute," the New York Democrat said in a press conference. "Imagine you do not have authority over your own body for 10 months. She asked men to imagine not being able to have that autonomy even if it meant they could die." (OP: called the draft)No buddy, no one makes a decision to make a child. It happens on its own. You can make a decision to TRY making a child but even couples who decide to try to have a child don’t always succeed. Pregnancy is not something a person can choose to happen. You can choose to lift a rock with your hand, that doesn’t happen on its own. But you can’t choose to get pregnant as much as can’t choose to menstruate. It does appear spontaneously because a human doesn’t control whether an egg or a sperm will mee… | /r/MensRights | 21/05/22 10:29 PM |
| 1 | "I would like to speak to America's men for one minute," the New York Democrat said in a press conference. "Imagine you do not have authority over your own body for 10 months. She asked men to imagine not being able to have that autonomy even if it meant they could die." (OP: called the draft)It’s called being AFAB not biological women, that is outdated terminology that will get you labeled as transphobic even if you do not mean it. It doesn’t matter if the baby has rights or not. It is not a right to use another person’s organ to survive. the uterus belongs to the person possessing it and only they get to decide what happens with it. There can be a 5 year old child that needs a kidney or else they die, they can have rights and everything but that doesn’t mean they get to have anothe… | /r/MensRights | 21/05/22 10:02 PM |
| 0 | just hit me that a rando girl could accuse me of rape and my life would be destroyed....I don’t understand. In Canada every post secondary institution has a sexual misconduct response centre so people can go there to ask for help and information. How is that a bad thing? | /r/MensRights | 21/05/22 09:45 PM |
| 1 | “Believe all women.” Uh, how about not.right now this is a problem that there is not much good ways to prove sexual assault. it is not always that physical evidence can be present to prove an assault. And not always can there be a witness if sex is done privately. Hard to make the accused admit to the crime if they know they can get away with it. Coercion into sex can happen and make it look like there was consent but a hurt is a hurt and it can impact people even if to the court there is no objective proof. It’s like how the only pr… | /r/MensRights | 21/05/22 09:42 PM |
| 1 | "I won't let them castrate my son" - Jeff Youngermaybe gonadal sex is binary if you want to see just the sex cells aspect but not chromosomal sex, phenotypic sex, gender identity. Those are not binary. | /r/MensRights | 21/05/22 09:28 PM |
| -5 | What are your thoughts around this? ‘Jordan Peterson sparks outrage after declaring plus-size model 'not beautiful'’I mean if you google it there are a bunch of newer year articles that explain that. If you have a university scholarly articles access you can search it there too. I have talked to doctors and kinesiologists that confirmed it too. They explained the flaws behind things like BMI and other older standardized tests that lead to the whole morale panic around obesity and how it became harmful. Talked about the different factors that play into body morphology and performance and what is considered phy… | /r/MensRights | 20/05/22 05:58 AM |
| 0 | "I won't let them castrate my son" - Jeff YoungerIt is not about gender expression. It is about gender identity and sometimes that involves having internal dissonance with certain body parts. Just like growing boobs on a man can be distressing, that is what a transgender man feels. For transgender women who choose to get bottom surgery (not all do btw) they experience discomfort with having a penis like it is wrong. Considering humans were never binary in sex and in gender, this phenomenon is to be expected. | /r/MensRights | 20/05/22 05:30 AM |
| 1 | "I won't let them castrate my son" - Jeff YoungerThe problem is that a transgender child will then be forced to go through puberty that is distressing for them. Most surgery you need to be 18. But puberty blockers can be taken earlier, when puberty starts (tenner stage 2 I believe) and hrt can be taken around age of puberty. In the end the child can exhibit informed consent over their body. It is only the person themselves that gets to decide what to do with their body, not their parent. It would be an appeal to nature logical fallacy to state… | /r/MensRights | 20/05/22 05:27 AM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts around this? ‘Jordan Peterson sparks outrage after declaring plus-size model 'not beautiful'’If that specific man is not attracted to them BBW that’s his preference. I think the reason it sparked outrage is he was saying it like an absolute truth concept when he is just one random dude with his own opinion. | /r/MensRights | 20/05/22 05:23 AM |
| -13 | What are your thoughts around this? ‘Jordan Peterson sparks outrage after declaring plus-size model 'not beautiful'’Obese is not always equal to unhealthy. There is new science coming out to debunk a lot of that stuff. someone can be thin and unhealthy or obsess and healthy. There are different body types that exist. | /r/MensRights | 20/05/22 05:22 AM |
| 1 | "I would like to speak to America's men for one minute," the New York Democrat said in a press conference. "Imagine you do not have authority over your own body for 10 months. She asked men to imagine not being able to have that autonomy even if it meant they could die." (OP: called the draft)lmao there is no need to define a “biological woman”. Abortion is for people with a uterus. No matter what is their gender identity. There are transgender men and non-binary people who have a uterus so may need abortions. As long as abortions are easily accessible and available (unlike in Texas the shitshow going on) then all is good, no one complaining. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/22 07:57 PM |
| 1 | "Men invented more than women because women didn't have the same education rights"Could cite what this is referring to? Which culture was female centred? | /r/MensRights | 19/05/22 07:51 PM |
| 1 | “Believe all women.” Uh, how about not.This is applicable for when a person explains what happened to them. In the past the automatic response was to dismiss people. Which was causing trauma to victims. Not in court of law. Allegations involves investigating. In the past investigations weren’t even done because people were dismissed right away and not believed to even attempt to investigate. Also a lot of victim blaming was going on, so this victim-focused model makes for a better outcome. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/22 07:48 PM |
| 0 | “Believe all women.” Uh, how about not.This is applicable for when a person explains what happened to them. In the past the automatic response was to dismiss people. Which was causing trauma to victims. Not in court of law. Allegations involves investigating. In the past investigations weren’t even done because people were dismissed right away and not believed to even attempt to investigate. Also a lot of victim blaming was going on, so this victim-focused model makes for a better outcome. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/22 07:48 PM |
| 1 | "Men invented more than women because women didn't have the same education rights"That’s false. It has been debunked. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/22 07:44 PM |
| 1 | mothers more likely to commit infanticide, withdraw investment in children, redirect effort elsewhereIt doesn’t matter what is it’s own entity or not. If a child is outside the womb it can survive on its own or have a device be used to survive. It is no longer dependent on the uterus of another human. The human with a uterus has full control over their uterus because it is their body. If a person with a uterus does not wish to have that uterus go through pregnancy then they have the right to decide this because it is their uterus. We have medical inventions that ensure a person is not forced to… | /r/MensRights | 19/05/22 07:43 PM |
| 0 | "Men invented more than women because women didn't have the same education rights"Watch Pad Man the movie. Also could read about him overall. there is also a documentary called Period end of sentence that explains this stuff. It’s on Netflix. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/22 07:37 PM |
| -5 | just hit me that a rando girl could accuse me of rape and my life would be destroyed....University sexual assault consultants are needed to resolve issues with sexual assault on university campuses. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/22 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Can someone please explain what "Toxic Masculinity" is?The comments here are cringe. I’m sorry people don’t bother reading scholarly sources to understand this stuff. there are certain traits historically labeled masculine and feminine. they are associated with binary gender roles of the past when men were expected to be masculine and women expected to be feminine. In reality masculine vs feminine is arbitrary. It is not related to sex or gender identity. take this dichotomy of traits, remove the concept of gender from it. What you have left is some… | /r/MensRights | 19/05/22 03:32 AM |
| 1 | I don't understand the circumcision debateIt infringes on the right to bodily autonomy. An infant is unable to provide informed consent to this cosmetic, elective procedure. Therefore it should not be carried out. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/22 03:20 AM |
| 2 | 10 out of 11 Scholarships are EXCLUSIVELY for Women.hey man, you can still apply to them. they can’t prove what’s a woman. | /r/MensRights | 18/05/22 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Why isn't anyone talking about this? 'Reproductive Rights' belong exclusively to women.The problem is that the right to abortion is related to bodily autonomy. Like specifically what happens to one’s physical body. (A person must have the right to decide if they wish for their body to not go through pregnancy). So reproductive rights of women hold a bigger emphasis because if they don’t have control over their reproduction their whole body can transform into pain. Versus for a man the reproduction part doesn’t have impact on the body undergoing anything. Once that is settled, once… | /r/MensRights | 18/05/22 06:04 PM |
| 1 | On the sexist connotations of incelself proclaimed incels are problematic when they commit crimes on behalf of being part of this incel tribe. on is own being voluntarily celibate or involuntarily celibate is not a problem. Like this dude: https://rabble.ca/feminism/toronto-van-attack-toxic-masculinity-and-canadian-forces/ incel is not a literal definition anymore how MGTOW is not. And MRA is getting a different definition. due to the few vocal people with extremists views/actions that self proclaim to be part of such a designati… | /r/MensRights | 17/05/22 06:31 AM |
| -11 | “Believe all women.” Uh, how about not.It should be “believe all sexual assault victims” so it stops being gendered. yeah people lie. The point of this was to try to turn around the narrative so that people believe sexual assault victims at least because before it used to be way more dismissed. and it’s already a hard topic to talk about. for people of all genders. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/22 12:33 AM |
| -7 | "Men invented more than women because women didn't have the same education rights"Well it hasn’t been long enough for women to have the same chances. give it some more years and we will see how much more inventions get done by women. the education system problem still happens for example in some parts of India where girls have to skip school and drop out of school due to periods (they have to sit in a hut during their period so have less days of going to school than male counterparts). This part not being accounted for properly creates inequality. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/22 10:16 PM |
| 1 | "I would like to speak to America's men for one minute," the New York Democrat said in a press conference. "Imagine you do not have authority over your own body for 10 months. She asked men to imagine not being able to have that autonomy even if it meant they could die." (OP: called the draft)I don’t need to define a woman. A human with a uterus is not always a woman and not all women have a uterus. Abortion is a right necessary for people who have a uterus. People can be using all those methods and still need an abortion. there is no point of denying a healthcare option. Risk of pregnancy is resolved with abortion options like there is a pill option (free in Canada) or surgical options. lmao adoption is irrelevant. a person doesn’t want to go through pregnancy and give birth. that i… | /r/MensRights | 15/05/22 09:35 PM |
| 1 | People are losing their minds over the fact that some women may be forced into parenthood against their will - something men already deal withI don’t know who is saying this. In Canada abortion is available easy so women have their right. Parenting court decisions seem to be equal idk considering gender identity and expression is protected under human rights and has been a spectrum since 2016. and same sex couples are allowed. I can’t see them having different rules for men and women. I don’t know what you are tying to say by your comment. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/22 05:07 PM |
| 1 | "I would like to speak to America's men for one minute," the New York Democrat said in a press conference. "Imagine you do not have authority over your own body for 10 months. She asked men to imagine not being able to have that autonomy even if it meant they could die." (OP: called the draft)Because the other side’s arguments become irrelevant. This is the same issue as with circumcision. The solution is really simple: stop cutting off another human’s foreskin without their consent (if it’s not life threatening) because every human has the right to bodily autonomy. Yet you get the “but what about the other side”. And people trying to justify it. When this isn’t up to debate anymore. Putting it up to debate is asking the wrong question. Like asking what colour shackle to have on a sl… | /r/MensRights | 15/05/22 04:51 PM |
| 1 | "I would like to speak to America's men for one minute," the New York Democrat said in a press conference. "Imagine you do not have authority over your own body for 10 months. She asked men to imagine not being able to have that autonomy even if it meant they could die." (OP: called the draft)It isn’t up to you to decide why a person wishes to have an abortion. The main thing is it should be available even for that small chance the barrier methods fail. There is also a lack of proper sex ed in some places that prevents people from understanding how to have safe sex In Canada abortion is free but birth control is not. People are losing their minds not about parenthood how you relate to men, but about being forced to have body go through pain and transform against their will. It isn’t … | /r/MensRights | 15/05/22 04:02 PM |
| 1 | People are losing their minds over the fact that some women may be forced into parenthood against their will - something men already deal withOne is a socially imposed concept (having to pay money for a child). Another is your literal body transforming into pain. Having abortion denied so be forced into pregnancy can be just as traumatic as for transgender people being denied gender affirming care so having their body transform into that which hurts them. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/22 03:57 PM |
| 0 | People are losing their minds over the fact that some women may be forced into parenthood against their will - something men already deal withlmao consenting to sex is not consenting to pregnancy. Sex for pleasure and procreation are two separate things. We have enough inventions to allow for this to be so. Men don’t have the fear of sex causing body to transform into pain so neither should women. Abortion is a form of health care that allows for a woman to avoid this pain if she did not consent to pregnancy. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/22 03:55 PM |
| -3 | *SPOILERS* Top Gun sequel climaxes with a WOMAN proving she's better than all the men. Wooh. Yet another movie bends to being a feminist appeaser.I’m confused what you are saying. How does the gender of the fan base matter for who the top pilot is. I don’t see how picking a different gender is thrashing on originals. if gender doesn’t matter, this is irrelevant. You are giving way too much meaning to this and making it gendered. The movie chose to pick a human who happens to be a woman to be the top pilot. It could have been the dude next to her or her. Who cares. It’s like if you were freaking out that an asian pilot was top instead of b… | /r/MensRights | 12/05/22 11:20 PM |
| -4 | Women will be offered three days 'menstrual leave' every month in Spain under plans set to be approved next weekThis was a thing in USSR and people accepted it fine | /r/MensRights | 12/05/22 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Girl called me “misogynist” and “homophobic” for defending men.Could you describe what you mean about promoting the idea that men should be weak and men who wear feminine clothes or have feminine traits in general are more desirable? (You can send a link to original content). It is important for there to be awareness that feminine men can exist. So having people post about that it’s okay for men to be feminine is different than making men do anything. No one is actually making you do anything. I am wondering what you were debating about with the other perso… | /r/MensRights | 11/05/22 12:20 AM |
| -6 | People are losing their minds over the fact that some women may be forced into parenthood against their will - something men already deal withThere are two issues. It is parenthood (if they don’t give up for adoption) but the bigger issue is loss of bodily autonomy when a pregnancy occurs that is making the body go through a process that a person did not consent to in cases where they seek abortion. Right to abortion is closer to right to not be circumcised than forced parenthood. | /r/MensRights | 10/05/22 02:25 AM |
| 1 | "I would like to speak to America's men for one minute," the New York Democrat said in a press conference. "Imagine you do not have authority over your own body for 10 months. She asked men to imagine not being able to have that autonomy even if it meant they could die." (OP: called the draft)The question isn’t related to whether it is a clump of cells or a human. The reason abortion is necessary is because every human has the right to bodily autonomy. So the person with a uterus must be allowed to choose what happens with their body. If they don’t want a pregnancy they shouldn’t be forced to since we have the inventions to fix this. The fetus can’t survive on own, but it isn’t a right to live inside someone else who didn’t consent to this. You can go invent an artificial womb for un… | /r/MensRights | 10/05/22 01:58 AM |
| 1 | "I would like to speak to America's men for one minute," the New York Democrat said in a press conference. "Imagine you do not have authority over your own body for 10 months. She asked men to imagine not being able to have that autonomy even if it meant they could die." (OP: called the draft)I don’t get what you mean. Maybe elaborate. | /r/MensRights | 10/05/22 01:10 AM |
| 1 | when a man takes on the woman's last namelmao so what is the reason women give up their last name? What is their “good reason” and how is their “good reason” more good than for a human who happens to be born with a penis or identifies as a man | /r/MensRights | 10/05/22 01:09 AM |
| 1 | when a man takes on the woman's last namelol no it doesn’t matter what your gender is. You can choose equally the same. It is not in any way more special based on gender. You pointing it out is making it weird. | /r/MensRights | 10/05/22 01:07 AM |
| 0 | when a man takes on the woman's last nameI don’t think you said that in your post | /r/MensRights | 10/05/22 01:06 AM |
| 1 | when a man takes on the woman's last namelol no. this isn’t a unanimous desire. this is something that was forced for a long time. | /r/MensRights | 10/05/22 01:05 AM |
| 1 | "I would like to speak to America's men for one minute," the New York Democrat said in a press conference. "Imagine you do not have authority over your own body for 10 months. She asked men to imagine not being able to have that autonomy even if it meant they could die." (OP: called the draft)lmao birth control can still fail and in those cases a person needs an abortion. Also some people don’t get the proper sex ed to be aware of this or the money to access birth control. | /r/MensRights | 10/05/22 01:05 AM |
| 1 | "I would like to speak to America's men for one minute," the New York Democrat said in a press conference. "Imagine you do not have authority over your own body for 10 months. She asked men to imagine not being able to have that autonomy even if it meant they could die." (OP: called the draft)There was a mandatory draft in US? She may have used the draft analogy. Sure. She may have used the circumcision analogy sure. Those are still different things. There happens to not be a direct parallel between a female and male body in the regard of how pregnancy works (unlike drafts can be for both men and women and genital mutilation for men and women). The problem is that whoever is overturning roe v wade and banning abortion in places seems to not grasp the bodily autonomy argument. Because… | /r/MensRights | 10/05/22 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Why is that sex addiction or porn addiction or masturbation addiction not recognized as addictions by medical bodies in the USA?There are so much wrong assumptions in this post idk where to start. Several wrong premises and misconceptions. I’m open to having a conversation on discord if you would like to discuss further though. I don’t think I can explain it in a comment. DM me your discord if interested. | /r/MensRights | 08/05/22 04:42 AM |
| -11 | Misandry is so common these days it blows my mind.What was said to you? | /r/MensRights | 06/05/22 09:15 PM |
| 0 | when a man takes on the woman's last namewomen don’t have an innate desire to take on a husband’s last name either. this is not gender or sex dependent. people are different based on their preference. | /r/MensRights | 06/05/22 09:14 PM |
| 2 | when a man takes on the woman's last nameWhy is it virtue signalling for a man to take their partners’s last name but not for a woman to take their partner’s last name? | /r/MensRights | 06/05/22 09:13 PM |
| 1 | when a man takes on the woman's last nameWhy do you lose respect for him? Would you lose respect towards a woman that took on their partner’s last name the same way you lose respect towards a man that took on their partner’s last name. If so, this is very clear sexism. It is not gender inclusive. People should not be treated differently based on the shape of their genitals, gender identity, or gender expression. Calling someone partner is also a gender inclusive term. It remove the gendered version of “wife”. so less awkward and kinder… | /r/MensRights | 06/05/22 09:11 PM |
| -2 | "I would like to speak to America's men for one minute," the New York Democrat said in a press conference. "Imagine you do not have authority over your own body for 10 months. She asked men to imagine not being able to have that autonomy even if it meant they could die." (OP: called the draft)Why is this about comparing and not taking it as it’s just various branches of human rights? | /r/MensRights | 06/05/22 09:08 PM |
| 3 | "I would like to speak to America's men for one minute," the New York Democrat said in a press conference. "Imagine you do not have authority over your own body for 10 months. She asked men to imagine not being able to have that autonomy even if it meant they could die." (OP: called the draft)Yes it’s not | /r/MensRights | 06/05/22 09:08 PM |
| -1 | "I would like to speak to America's men for one minute," the New York Democrat said in a press conference. "Imagine you do not have authority over your own body for 10 months. She asked men to imagine not being able to have that autonomy even if it meant they could die." (OP: called the draft)This isn’t a binary problem. Neither thing is right. people with a uterus getting rights over their body isn’t stopping people from advocating to not be forced into child support. It’s not one or the other. like you may not be intersex but it’s still the right thing to do to make sure intersex rights are respected. | /r/MensRights | 06/05/22 09:07 PM |
| -3 | "I would like to speak to America's men for one minute," the New York Democrat said in a press conference. "Imagine you do not have authority over your own body for 10 months. She asked men to imagine not being able to have that autonomy even if it meant they could die." (OP: called the draft)I’m not understanding why these things are being compared. Neither are right. This isn’t oppression olympics. Draft ain’t right for human. Abortion being denied means loss of bodily autonomy so also ain’t right for human. I get this is a venting sub, cool you identified a discrepancy, but it comes off eerie to have things debated this way. It’s not one or the other. | /r/MensRights | 06/05/22 09:04 PM |
| 7 | "I would like to speak to America's men for one minute," the New York Democrat said in a press conference. "Imagine you do not have authority over your own body for 10 months. She asked men to imagine not being able to have that autonomy even if it meant they could die." (OP: called the draft)what? getting pregnant is not a choice in all instances. that’s kinda why abortion exists, not all pregnancies are planned. | /r/MensRights | 06/05/22 09:02 PM |
| 0 | Risk-taking as a gendered behaviour.I’m actually trying to challenge this during this time. (I’m also in Canada) If you wanna chat about how we could go about dismantling it, I’m down. It’s better to take action than just complain anyways. I know which case you referring to, it’s that Supreme Court case. It’s a little more complicated than that conclusion but sure that’s a fine baseline. It was a case before 2000 though so I think times have changed now. Insurance companies still have a clause that allows them to do this under hum… | /r/MensRights | 06/05/22 02:01 AM |
| 2 | Why don't baby boys have "my foreskin, my choice"?Cool you have identified a problem. This has been discussed a bunch. Yes you are right. Infant circumcision, cosmetic surgery on intersex infants, denying abortion, denying transgender health care, denying euthanasia all fall into the same category of right to bodily autonomy that is being infringed on when it is not respected. I suggest channeling your anger to start an advocacy movement to ban circumcision. This whole sub is already on board. | /r/MensRights | 04/05/22 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Should men be worrying about sex discrimination?There were no ways to report it and people thought it was just something you have to accept. My father was raped in USSR army (when USSR was a thing). There was nowhere to report it and he didn’t think there is any point of reporting it or that this is something to report even. Just accepted it (though no doubt that is a traumatic experience. It’s not really accepting it, it’s repressing it). You gotta wonder how many of such men existed and still exist. | /r/MensRights | 04/05/22 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Roe v Wade likely overturnedsilencing is a thing that happens all the time in politics and advocacy work. You don’t get to walk in, blurt out a problem and then it gets fixed. Just like women were silenced when fighting for the right to vote. Blacks were silenced when fighting to abolish slavery. Any person ever will have to fight through thorns to reach the goal when going against status quo. This is the whole point of advocacy. | /r/MensRights | 04/05/22 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Men getting painful height surgery is because of patriarchy & toxic masculinity.the scholarly one. Not the social media one uneducated people use and label random shit with. | /r/MensRights | 04/05/22 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Men getting painful height surgery is because of patriarchy & toxic masculinity.when taken to a harmful extreme and people’s value is based on it, then it’s toxic. Not just best version of you. Like judging a more muscular man to be more manly and more useful than a less muscular man. That would be toxic. Or like a physically larger person picking on a smaller person and using their strength to hurt the person and belittle them for being physically smaller/shorter/weaker. The reason it falls into toxic masculinity is because physical strength has been labelled a masculine t… | /r/MensRights | 04/05/22 04:11 PM |
| 1 | an article on why men shouldn't be able to financially abort : spoiler it would make it hard on women!!If she wants to raise it and father doesn’t then burden is on her, yes. But, it’s very important that she needs to have the right to not birth it in the first place if doesn’t want to. If she doesn’t want to birth it but due to abortion being banned she now has to birth and raise it, it is fair for the father to carry the burden of raising the child as well just like her. | /r/MensRights | 04/05/22 03:58 PM |
| 1 | an article on why men shouldn't be able to financially abort : spoiler it would make it hard on women!!lol I don’t think that’s how giving up a child for adoption works. quite a sad way to treat a human tbh. But yes, parents can give up a child for adoption. | /r/MensRights | 04/05/22 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Feminists and other women are losing their minds today over their loss of "rights". What "rights" are exclusive to men that we even have the opportunity to lose? It must be kind of nice to even have rights to lose.if we take what human values as base line, which is bodily autonomy as in decides what happens to body. you can see how abortion is an important right, it is healthcare, because without it a human will be forced to have their body change and hurt and in the end have another human to deal with. If this isn’t something they consented to then their right to bodily autonomy is taken away. humans who don’t have the threat to experience this already have that right. hence abortion is giving back right… | /r/MensRights | 04/05/22 01:29 PM |
| 1 | an article on why men shouldn't be able to financially abort : spoiler it would make it hard on women!!it’s important for abortion to be easily accessible to women for men to be able to have financial abortion. Otherwise you can get the case where neither of the couple wanted a child but it happens by accident and now they can’t abort. neither the woman nor the man. In cases where the mother 100% chose to have the baby but father did not, then yes it would be fair for the father to have the right to not pay child support. But if the mother did not choose to have the baby, father choosing to abort… | /r/MensRights | 03/05/22 09:49 PM |
| 0 | Roe v Wade likely overturnedIdk how this is good. With women having reproductive rights you at least had the foot in the door. now you would need to start from scratch. this is a step backwards. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/22 03:46 AM |
| -3 | Roe v Wade likely overturnedlol the contraception is still not foolproof. otherwise people wouldn’t ever need to access abortions but it is still a service that people seek. individual states can just outlaw abortion so no more rights there, if it gets overturned. pretty scary to have bodily autonomy taken away. idk how people with a uterus handle this. I wish I could help. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/22 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Men getting painful height surgery is because of patriarchy & toxic masculinity.What in that comment gets you to perceive that someone is claiming it is men’s fault? I am thinking you are understanding the words differently than what they mean. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/22 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Men getting painful height surgery is because of patriarchy & toxic masculinity.I’m not too sure how patriarchy comes into this. I can see toxic masculinity with the whole “men socialized to think they are of more value if they are bigger, faster, stronger” (physical ability focus) when taken to a harmful extreme. Kinda like the “dick measuring contest” idea. The porn adds about getting larger dick size is an example of toxic masculinity because it’s taking a masculine concept (having a penis) and perpetrating a harmful view that size matters to prove one is “manly enough” … | /r/MensRights | 03/05/22 02:10 AM |
| 2 | “YeS aLl MeN”What are they claiming about this gender identity specifically? | /r/MensRights | 03/05/22 02:01 AM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter