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That wasn't even that hard. lol. I probably would have clarified what she meant by testosterone, then asked if she liked when guys were dominant with her. Then talked about dominant things that turn her on and I like to do.
/r/seduction30/08/15 04:03 PM
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nice username
/r/seduction30/08/15 04:01 PM
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Start out with these mindfulness exercises: observation ... walking ... breathing ... doing things like this and becoming more mindful will help to gain more control of your mind. Help you to prevent it from producing insecure thoughts, and help to deal with them when they do arise. It will also help to get out of your own head, therefor less likely to sit there saying nothing and feeling awkward about it. Make a video of yourself speaking on a topic you like, ad lib it. practice just talking ab…
/r/seduction30/08/15 02:07 PM
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Meet more girls, screen them out faster. Express that they're attractive asap. Touch them asap. Ask them if they have a boyfriend in the first few minutes. Have some intent, have some implied sexuality.
/r/seduction30/08/15 01:36 PM
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... What? Maybe you should drop the value concept. Explain it further to me.
/r/seduction29/08/15 04:17 PM
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Consider yourself. Is your face always inviting? No, no ones is all the time. From stress at your work day, or school or familly, or whatever, everyone has abit of stress and sometimes worse. So naturally, your face is gonna grimace, or look "dirty" sometimes. When you do this grimacing in the presence of other people, does that necessarily mean it's because of them?? Of course not!! Pretty much 100% of the time, the people around you will have had nothing to do with it, it's you're own life fuc…
/r/seduction29/08/15 04:09 PM
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Eye fuck her Get closer Calm your voice use pauses give specific, physical compliments check her out, look her up and down Throw in moments of positivity and self amusement and laughter, so that all the above isn't too overwhelming. I do all those things.
/r/seduction29/08/15 02:03 AM
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Just look for a lack of negativity or indifference. Don't look for a green light, just make sure there isn't a stop sign
/r/seduction28/08/15 06:49 PM
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Your hobbies are cool enough. Consider how you interact instead of what you interact about. Are you in the moment, or thinking about other life shit when with people? Are you spontaneous, or do you feel like a script? When you talk to a woman, is it the same as a convo with a guy, or is there some line-crossing and sexuality to it?
/r/seduction28/08/15 02:19 PM
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If I was you... I would structure my days so that I'm around as much socialization and people as possible. Join a club. Grab a drink from starbucks or something and spend time where you can people watch. Invite an acquaintance to join you and just chill with him. Just go for a walk for the hell of it sometimes. Be around people as much as you can, spend as little time in your room as possible. That would be the basis to set things in motion. Just getting comfortable in social situations. Not bei…
/r/seduction27/08/15 08:36 PM
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Assume they're all legit and approach off of all of them. Then you start to get a calibration for what is and isn't.
/r/seduction27/08/15 08:28 PM
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Well its a description of what a good time in a nightclub is, not a description of game.
/r/seduction27/08/15 07:19 PM
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To me getting women (or a woman) is one of many important parts of life.
/r/seduction27/08/15 07:17 PM
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Bring up two subjects relatively close to each other. The spark you two have "you feel it too don't you?" The fact that you strongly value emotional connection. "So that's what I like to look for and find you know..." ... So, on an initial interaction and first date, still build up sexual tension, still flirt, still have her hot and bothered.. but don't actually fuck her the first date. Steal what's normally a girls thunder, and hold back. That coupled with the conversation subjects should lead …
/r/seduction26/08/15 04:40 PM
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By looking at her, taking her in. Admiring her beauty and sexiness in a pure way. Getting turned on by her in the moment. Letting that underlying horniness make you feel masculine and dominant and sexual. Then allowing that color your behavior, and inspire words and actions. So a few basic effects of this very primal and in the moment feeling for her: Eye contact. Even eye fucking. Look her in the eyes like you mean it and imagine fucking her. (Don't be a maniac though, don't stare forever, and …
/r/seduction26/08/15 04:32 PM
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Approach girls as much as possible, in as many different environments as possible. Flirt with them all the time. (practice makes perfect) Make sure your body language is on point throughout the day. (stand powerfully, you feel more powerful)
/r/seduction26/08/15 02:03 PM
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Start doing other things then (?) lol And you don't have to get too deep into your life anyways. Normal small talk, coupled with flirting (a combination of self amusement and sexual tension) is enough to be a nice interaction.
/r/seduction26/08/15 02:01 PM
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nah. I'll explain better later I have to work out but, blank your mind and trust it to come up with something, it will come up with something better than any tactic or routine if it isn't buzzing around.
/r/seduction26/08/15 01:47 PM
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nah. Just keep your voice relatively quiet but clear.
/r/seduction26/08/15 01:45 PM
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The right time to do anything, is when her, in the moment, inspires you to do it. You can't think too linear or logically with this stuff. You don't need to think about or use push/pull, cold reading, negs, etc After opening...Talk about what she's doing "So you're just out shopping?" .. let that flow from there.
/r/seduction26/08/15 01:24 AM
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I mostly agree with this. While a couple subtle body language corrections in the moment are good, I wouldn't go beyond that with "fake it until you make it". For the most part I think you should work on positive attributes long term behind the scenes. Not force them, or even think about them in the moment with a woman.
/r/seduction26/08/15 01:10 AM
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It's not just being funny. It's a general sense of entitlement with women. I promise that's the key difference between you two.
/r/seduction25/08/15 08:20 PM
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Your first very positive experience. The gloves are off now.
/r/seduction25/08/15 02:28 PM
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I don't think you get it. It's just an in to the conversation. No one is gonna do work.. or talk about any fancy topics.
/r/seduction25/08/15 12:01 PM
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One time I was like: "hey.. so I have a dilemma... I should definitely stop procrastinating, but I see you here, and you're really cute, with that dress and that hair..." So that was going direct, not always the smoothest option, but always an option. Could have been simpler. But that was naturally what came out of my mouth in that moment. I've also gone "indirect" at a girl in the library. "Hey are you quick with writing MLA things?..... ... Actually it's ok I got it. I'll just be honest I don'…
/r/seduction25/08/15 04:34 AM
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I probably would have asked a bit amused if she thought I said "You're very beautiful." as well. Then I would have confirmed (still amused) nah I was talking about the mountains. Then I would have said "I mean you do look nice though, you look cute in those shorts (or whatever she's wearing)" It would feel more right to me than gorgeous. It's more real. Has more sexual undertone. Specificity is key with compliments on looks.
/r/seduction25/08/15 04:19 AM
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Sometimes a mini meditation. Deep breath. Think about nothing. and walk over with a blank mind (overthinking is the enemy) Sometimes pure lust. Look at her how I want. Ass, tits, face, legs, whatever I like. Imagine her how I want. Imagine her naked, on her back with her legs open or bent over with her ass on display. Get turned on. Then say the phrase to myself "I have to talk to this girl".
/r/seduction25/08/15 04:13 AM
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Just don't be buried in your phone like 80% of people around. If you have to keep it on for work purposes or something important, keep it on obviously.
/r/seduction24/08/15 07:45 PM
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meditate Do things a bit slower, especially walking and breathing try spending a day or night out and about without your phone off. When driving, make comments out loud about what's around you. ex: "holy shit it's hot", "... is that a Bond Aston Martin??" Your idea of a people watching game. Could be what you said, could be saying a famous lookalike, could be humorously making up what other conversations are about, lot of possibilities.
/r/seduction24/08/15 12:40 PM
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nice, whats another trait your trying to develop, whats the next trait I shoukd write about?
/r/seduction24/08/15 11:41 AM
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8th grade????
/r/seduction24/08/15 02:24 AM
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It is not inherently creepy. Nor inherently a beautiful thing. It all depends on how it's done.
/r/seduction24/08/15 02:20 AM
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Your /s doesn't make any sense...We're both 100% right.
/r/seduction23/08/15 09:18 PM
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"I just liked you. You're real and you know what you want but you're respectful.. it's happened with a couple other guys but they were just weird." Last girl i fucked off of cold daygame approach on men approaching her.
/r/seduction23/08/15 07:48 PM
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It makes your default standing position more upright, encourages shoulders and other parts be less tense.
/r/seduction23/08/15 07:46 PM
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Well I guess even more guys are doing it wrong than you think. Probably really rehearsed, socially retarted, rudely agressive, etc. it's a shame
/r/seduction23/08/15 07:32 PM
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Your body language. Try adding a bit of yoga to your exercise regimen. Study the body language of cooler guys, and just do a search on here.
/r/seduction23/08/15 07:14 PM
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Roosh V is a bitch though.
/r/seduction23/08/15 06:47 PM
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What I get out of your paragraph is... that the vast majority of men are pussies. Anyways, you might want to actually mind having a bitch face. Consider your stress levels in life, do what you need to do to ease them up. Consider your emotional state, do what you need to do to stabilize that and bring it some more positivity. Throughout your day, be conscious of tension in your body, including and especially your face. Take a deep breath and relax that tension. Don't be afraid to give a guy a li…
/r/seduction23/08/15 02:01 PM
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Now that I think about it.... just the good ( strong, but not at all tense tense) body language you'd adopt when talking to any attractive woman.
/r/seduction23/08/15 12:57 PM
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Have you ever left a client in the middle of working with him, and why?
/r/seduction22/08/15 04:57 PM
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pointers so I don't just totally fail today: ... Realize that it would be completely normal if you totally failed today. You have no practice. What your trying to do isn't yet congruent with who you are. So with those two factors...You're going to get rejected. You're going to have flakes. Try your best but, don't expect outright success... just tell yourself your going to enjoy chatting and flirting with some attractive women. It's going to be uncomfortable.. but realize that you're getting bet…
/r/seduction22/08/15 04:47 PM
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true edit: .. but wait... that still doesn't mean you have to internalize that it's in rules, and stages. All that means is you have to say "attraction early in the interaction is necessary and requires proactivity from you." That's it. I just like that better than telling a guy, the first phase is "attraction".
/r/seduction22/08/15 04:27 PM
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I disagree completely based on experience.
/r/seduction22/08/15 01:42 PM
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It is appropriate, just do it appropriately. Go indirect. Come on to her via eye contact, body language, etc. Self amuse and get things quickly from a customer service plane to a flirting plane. If she's feeling it, reciprocating it... figure out what time she gets off.
/r/seduction22/08/15 01:41 PM
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In reality things aren't that linear to me. Be careful of letting that thinking hold you back.
/r/seduction22/08/15 01:37 PM
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You need to put some intent and desire out there fairly quickly. You don't wanna waste your time.
/r/seduction21/08/15 03:30 PM
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The word revenge was sarcastic right?
/r/seduction21/08/15 03:25 PM
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I don't mean every random woman lol. I mean don't deny any loving feelings you have when they arise. Don't deny yourself feeling them, and don't avoid being inspired by them.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 03:24 PM
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what is AWANLT?
/r/askTRP20/08/15 02:21 PM
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Meditate on this. Calm your mind, then ask it why it's scared of showing intent with a woman. Why it's scared of situations consisting of sexual tension with women you don't know. Everyone with AA will come to a different conclusion doing this but common ones will be: rejection sounds like an awful thing to them they have an unrealistically high bar on how good they need to be They're underestimating how good they really are they think girls will be creeped out by them All these are false and de…
/r/seduction20/08/15 12:04 PM
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yeah I'd recommend setting up online dating profiles and sending women messages a couple days beforehand.
/r/seduction20/08/15 11:55 AM
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The things the woman doesn't think about, or doesn't admit to . A sense of entitlement probably being chief amongst those. Also, the right kind of dominance.
/r/seduction19/08/15 10:05 PM
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Not quite complete, missing some key things but yeah.
/r/seduction19/08/15 08:37 PM
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Yes. A lot of rejections are not a permanent thing. TO know wether or not it is takes some experience... so experiment with a little persistence. This is especially true in clubs.
/r/seduction19/08/15 01:41 PM
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By making yourself more well rounded. Primarily in terms of character and personality traits women want.
/r/seduction19/08/15 01:38 PM
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Women are attracted to height, you will have more opportunities when you're taller. But you won't lose anywhere near ALL the opportunities. There, that's it. Now make the most out of what you've got. That starts with not staying on this issue for too long.
/r/seduction19/08/15 01:36 PM
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omfg no
/r/seduction14/08/15 11:43 AM
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Are you approaching white women or black women? White women don't really date outside of their race. Unless the guy is a NBA star and can provide them a great lifestyle. (Laughs for 10 uninterrupted minutes... looks at my phone filled with white girls saying they want my big black cock.). I mean seriously, white girls love us.
/r/seduction14/08/15 12:50 AM
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lol... I keep telling him that I'm the same height and race as him.. and that the most common response to my height when online is the emoji with the hearts in the eyes.
/r/seduction14/08/15 12:48 AM
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Oh ok nice man. To get a girlfriend in highschool. I'd get a date. Get to know each other a little bit, but focus of talking about fun/lighthearted stuff, amusing myself. Build sexual tension on the date... but not go any further than a little bit of kissing. Leave her ready for more, but hold back. Then on a second date. Get to know each other even more. Build sexual tension again, then actually get physical.
/r/seduction14/08/15 12:45 AM
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That's cute, and funny but...Just to warn some people...trying to do this instead of saying let's go out sometimes will not increase anyones results. It worked because of the few hours before it. It worked because of the mannerisms and behaviors of your friend, that spring from his attractive qualities. The line didn't work because of the content of the line.
/r/seduction14/08/15 12:35 AM
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Never try to kiss a girl at the end of a date.... I think you mean never try to make the first kiss at the end of the date (?). Your idea of paying and lower value isn't really on point. I mean if it makes sense to pay, I pay. If she offers to split, I split. It depends but i the end I don't really care. All you have to do is make sure she's not taking advantage of you, and that you never think buying her anything will get you anywhere. But otherwise you can pay if you wish, and to say it's unat…
/r/seduction14/08/15 12:30 AM
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I mean there's a clear difference.. you amusing yourself.
/r/seduction14/08/15 12:15 AM
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Never pass up an opportunity.
/r/seduction14/08/15 12:09 AM
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I do the exact same thing... lol. You just really like blondes, that's all this is. No your background won't be an obstacle. All backgrounds are neutral in objective reality. Anything else is in peoples heads. edit: one thing I like to do, in very charged up night game. Call out a sexual thing they do or enjoy, and call them a typical (hair color). Example (Pulls her hair during extremely sexual face to face dancing) "did you just moan. of course you love this.. typical redhead/blonde girl"
/r/seduction14/08/15 12:00 AM
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And the thing is... you can say almost anything in the first few messages, if the initial interaction went well enough (you had enough of an impact).
/r/seduction13/08/15 11:57 PM
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Hit the gym. Learn about nutrition, and eat right. Keep your fashion together. Throw out any terrible fitting stuff and buy some new clothes If you have acne or anything, go to a doctor to take care of it. Look good every time you leave the house. Never be completely bummed out. Try out a club/activity Try out a club outside of your comfort zone, something people don't really think is "you" Do HW in the library instead of at home. and yeah cold approaching is not for high school. Talk to girls i…
/r/seduction13/08/15 01:06 PM
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Let's see screenshots from you... then tell you little tweaks that would make it better.
/r/seduction13/08/15 12:48 PM
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Keep teasing it. Every few nights or so sext her. Tell her how sexy she looks, how she'd looks good in your bed, how she should be in your bed tied down blindfolded and with a vibrator in her...whatever comes to mind. Just tease it for a few messages then withdraw. Don't make every time you message her straight out direct sexting, have a time or two where you just have a fun chat back and forth.
/r/seduction13/08/15 12:41 PM
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While I love doing it, sexual innuendo is just one way of creating sexual tension.You've also got eye contact, proximity, touching her, straight up complimenting her, smirking, going "mhm" in a deep voice to everything she says, using pauses, etc. So with all that, you don't NEED sexual innuendo.
/r/seduction11/08/15 10:32 AM
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A very pure, simple and direct way to make it into a man to woman convo, is to compliment something you like about her. Something you're attracted to. Specific is nice. The timing is whenever it occurs to you how much you like it, because thats the time when it will be the most genuine and thus the most powerful. It's not about having deeper conversations. Don't get caught into a trap of trying to force "interesting subjects" or stories or anything out. What you say barely matters. Rather than w…
/r/seduction11/08/15 10:29 AM
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Yeah some guys feel lonely then talk about casual sex with hot girls being "normal". I'm like, nah. These guys are actually a high percentile. Not just normal. Not everyone is fucking rampantly and, worrying about the people who are will get you nowhere.
/r/seduction11/08/15 10:17 AM
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I mean... it sounds like you know what your looking for already lol. Like you get the concept. Unfortunately I don't have the article idk it.
/r/seduction10/08/15 10:56 PM
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"you know what... I just noticed how cute you are, you've got really nice eyes... Im Velcade6... Nice to meet you ____. .... So what you up to just taking (dog's name here) for a walk... cool you mind if I walk with you for a bit?" (start walking next to her)
/r/seduction10/08/15 10:55 PM
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no redeeming qualities, I doubt that
/r/seduction10/08/15 09:03 PM
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http://stronglifts.com/5x5/ http://www.livestrong.com/myplate/ http://www.fashionbeans.com/category/mens-fashion-basics/ https://www.reddit.com/r/skincareaddiction
/r/seduction10/08/15 09:01 PM
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That sounds optimal haha. I mean you should always be authentic... and any amount of vulnerability is fine. Just don't completely neglect having fun and the more sexual side of things. You can trust her with all of your vulnerabilities, but if you don't make her wet at some point, no much is gonna happen haha.
/r/seduction09/08/15 01:10 PM
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I think crying, or things that are outright weird... is where you should hold back.
/r/seduction09/08/15 01:00 PM
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Frequency: 2-3 times a week. To specifically find girls. I'm ready if one crosses my path everyday of course. Improvement: Working out, working on body language, keeping life busy, avoiding negative things and people. Style : Hard to pick a favorite. I do day and night. Direct or indirect is about the situation to me. I guess the dance floor is my favorite place.
/r/seduction06/08/15 07:15 PM
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Yeah to get really deep into it, like the latter paragraphs, never necessary, but always fun if you can and want to. Most girls I wanna just go out with, it stops with the simple compliment part.
/r/seduction06/08/15 07:11 PM
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I honestly have nothing beyond telling yourself she's there because she likes you. That and simple experience.
/r/seduction06/08/15 07:10 PM
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Tell yourself fuck it. It's about letting go and not giving a fuck. Telling yourself "fuck this boring shit... this is what's really on my mind." . It's giving yourself permission to say whats really on your mind. Now, this has to be coupled with the common sense you already have. Like if she's the shyest girl you've ever known and you haven't so much as kissed her cheek, you're not gonna show her your dick or anything. But as long as you have basic respect for women, fuck it. First: Try complim…
/r/seduction06/08/15 06:46 PM
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long wavy hair would look dope on you. Its trendy now to have the sides really short when doing this, bit for you Id keep the sides a bit long too. also a little stuble beard with that hair.
/r/seduction06/08/15 01:01 AM
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this isn't a test in any way.
/r/seduction05/08/15 11:05 PM
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Mall, really casual restaurant (like stake n shake).
/r/seduction05/08/15 11:04 PM
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By focussing on the idea of efficiency in the gym. Don't do a bit more than you have to do at 90%... do only what you need to do at 100%. Save time. I daygame with a backpack on. inside that, along with my laptop, is a lunchbox with some food.
/r/seduction04/08/15 04:30 PM
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It's not about just disagreeing with her...
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 01:19 PM
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"confidence is key" ... Nothing is more true. Nothing is less practical. What things do you recommend to fix confidence? I'll throw in some of mine: Gaining new experiences. Working on looks (primarily the gym) Doing more of what I'm good at. Adopting better body language.
/r/seduction04/08/15 05:18 AM
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Girls love Aqua Di Gio on me. Occasionally I also use Vera Wang. Idk about pheromone... I mean I just smell nice lol.
/r/seduction04/08/15 05:13 AM
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Yes, sort of. because when you're doing things you like, and have goals, it improves your overall life state. So you just have a more positive vibe.
/r/seduction03/08/15 11:37 PM
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Well some shittests are a result of showing one good trait, but lacking authenticity. So tenderness, and dominance can both be great.. but some girls will test you if it doesn't seem real, if you seem inauthentic. ...But the real answer to your question: Because women like to be lead, and because they don't want to be seen as nor feel easy/slutty. Think about the classic term "swept off her feet". Actually imagine it. He's doing all the work. It's not even "ask a guy to sweep me off my feet then…
/r/seduction03/08/15 11:34 PM
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describe a typical interaction with a girl. The context, what you say and do. also describe "flirting". what youre doing that youre calling flirting here.
/r/seduction03/08/15 09:29 PM
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You're saying that because it's intimidating and scary to you. Which is natural for almost all guys. If you're confident, dare I say cocky about it, it's never uncomfortable for her. Worst case scenario you're not her type, when that happens she doesn't feel anything negative, she just feels indifferent.
/r/seduction03/08/15 04:50 PM
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hm... you mean like a girl who's a classmate walking about? you know her but your not friends by any means. Yeah I'd apply it in a case like that too.
/r/seduction03/08/15 04:46 PM
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It means when you see a hot women, don't hesitate. Start walking toward her within 3 seconds. Chose fight over flight sort of thing. Once you get comfortable initiating chats with girls... you don't always take this as gospel. But when beginning to approach random women, it's a good technique to deal with the anxiety that comes with it.
/r/seduction03/08/15 04:31 PM
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Here's how I see it: Let's look at how attractive a woman you meet finds you, as a sort of "grade". To me about 30% of your grade is determined by your game on the spot. 70% is decided before you walk up to her. Of that 70%, there's another 70-30 ratio. 70% of that is personality and character qualities (high self esteem is cheif among these but there are several). 30% is looks. So with that math, to me looks are about 20% of what matters. 20% of a grade is a pretty good amount, so looks need to…
/r/seduction03/08/15 04:28 PM
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You need to be at least average in all aspects of your look. Body, grooming, fashion, etc. It is best to maximize your potential. Put the effort into looking your best (gym, eating, style, etc).... Then just move on with your life.
/r/seduction03/08/15 03:54 PM
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Explain more?
/r/seduction03/08/15 03:51 PM
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Keep being friends, flirt, keep some tension, but don't pull triggers. I don't know this whole situation but I also think you need to drop your emotional investment in this girl. If you wanna keep her there as an option for the future, why not. But I see myself shrugging my shoulders over it.
/r/seduction03/08/15 03:48 PM
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lol, true. I guess when you feel like that particular moment creates a desire to. idk haha it works in my head.
/r/seduction02/08/15 10:31 PM
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true point. but its not the optimal thing to do in the situation.
/r/seduction02/08/15 10:28 PM
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I said "if you feel like it" ecause it is a bit subjective. Depends on how you do things up to that point. My style and personality, and what im looking for, it just makes sense. Even if I was to want something more committed and serious, id still do it at some point on the first date lol. but like I said its probably a thing where because of your style and personality and goals, you know the right answer for yourself.
/r/seduction02/08/15 10:24 PM
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dont do that. persistence is good. why? its dominant. but theres a lot of forms of persistance, that particular one sucks up ALL the dominance out of it.
/r/seduction02/08/15 10:10 PM
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I always think act like shes already your girlfriend. greet her like shes your gf, hug and tell her she looks nice (kiss her if you want too). dont try hard to impress her, as she's already yours. When you have a gf, in public, you escalate whenever you wish, but never too far at all, you save that for later.
/r/seduction02/08/15 10:00 PM
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I mean... "where" is the easiest part. I mean, bar, club, the mall, the street, anywhere, online, anywhere (?) Do you more accurately mean "how"? I honestly think you need to strip back to basics in a way. Stop reading, go out, chat with women, ask for numbers and dates.
/r/seduction02/08/15 05:22 PM
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I mean... this doesn't say you're lacking as a man... it just says you could be better at first dates. What usually happens during your dates?
/r/seduction02/08/15 05:16 PM
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To find the right balance and timing for escalation, act like she's already your girlfriend. You'd greet your girlfriend by smiling, giving her a little hug and kiss. During the date a your girlfriend...you'd touch her, escalate. But not all of the time. You're not pre occupied with doing "enough" of it. Just doing it when the moment inspires you to. You're simply enjoying each other, and part of that means some touching/escalating.
/r/seduction02/08/15 03:10 PM
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I confirm before I leave the house. ... To me it's about having enough sexual tension, but not too much. To flirt and tease and turn her on a bit, but then retract from there. For example the date I went on tonight, I cold approached her in a mall earlier in the week, then have been texting a little bit since. I at one point texted her in reference to that she had a nice ass, how I thought she would look cute/sexy in some short jean shorts, and I told her to wear some when we meet up. Then that …
/r/seduction02/08/15 05:36 AM
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just act genuine. you want a girl liking you for you. keep life simple: dont center your life around her. be there when she needs you. fuck her well. ... just keep life simple.
/r/seduction01/08/15 08:41 PM
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forget tables. unless theyre just fun to you. for the purpose of game, forget them. make social proof by walking around, saying hi, giving nonverbal things, opening sets, dancing with girls etc. i take pride in spending the least and having the most attention from females in the club.
/r/seduction01/08/15 08:32 PM
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i think simply using her real name is enough tbh, no need for the. whole "not (escort name)" part. but ive never dealt wih an escort.
/r/seduction01/08/15 08:29 PM
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confidence, charm, sexuality, dominance, tenderness , and manry more yeah, any positive quality. The path to better women, is to make to imorove those qualities in yourself.
/r/seduction01/08/15 06:09 PM
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average in terms of looks? it would be harder to open doors but, yeah absolutely possible. average as far as the average guy's character and personality traits, nah. youve got to have high value in terms of that, to get high quality women.
/r/seduction01/08/15 04:18 PM
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just fucking kiss her whenever you want to. your plan is corny. dont overthink it. give her a little hug, and a kiss on the lips.
/r/seduction01/08/15 01:31 PM
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most of the logic here is...no. get her number. to avoid the flakiness, and make the number "mean something", build more sexual tension. if your numbers arent solid, this wont solve that problem
/r/seduction01/08/15 01:25 PM
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Alright look at it as just two labels then: We are two people who fuck. We are two people who don't fuck. lol
/r/seduction31/07/15 04:55 PM
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THat simple direct thing works. sometimes I'll go opinion at night: "...Do you guys think my muscles look too big in this shirt? like should I wear a size bigger next time?" Has worked well a few times for me. It is said with an obvious deal of irony so it's funny. It's like a satire of cocky/funny, not taking myself too seriously.
/r/seduction31/07/15 04:54 PM
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Exactly, she'll fall into your frame. Relationships are "categorized" (a one night stand, lovers, a possible serious relationship , friends,etc.) on first dates. The ball is in your court for this to start always. The way you chose the category is by your actions. It's like before a date every woman tells every man "we're doing nothing.. unless you say (via your actions) otherwise right now". Now that might contradict with what I said about her wanting to fuck... it does! it might seem like a st…
/r/seduction31/07/15 04:45 PM
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With a certain type of woman that you don't want ... yes. With the kind of woman you want, no. Now some rich guys might have certain qualities about them that helped them get money, which are also attractive qualities to women. Ambition, assertiveness, a proactive and positive attitude, etc. It's these attitudes though that keeps their girlfriend or wife around. It's not the money itself. While money doesn't make it easier to get laid, a lack of money can make it harder to get laid. I see life a…
/r/seduction31/07/15 04:37 PM
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lol. That's too easy. Unless you've been sexting STRONG, or something... that's not gonna happen. No one wants to be a "slut". Since the going straight into a room won't happen on most first dates, you're gonna have down time. You need to touch her and escalate a tiny bit asap. It helps turn her on sure... but perhaps even more important than that, it sets the tone. It allows for there to be consistency. Girls can get thrown off if the dynamic switches in a fashion that's sudden. Like if there's…
/r/seduction31/07/15 04:27 PM
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"It's like your Tarzan in that one scene" ..."haha, yeah" "actually I find that offensive, I'm a gorilla in this situation, a female one at that" Yeah it's fine, do it if you want. also...Don't be afraid to not front around the reason for wanting to touch her. Attraction. It doesn't always have to be so strategic. Sometimes your natural wanting to touch her is a good enough excuse to touch her. If you like her legs, you can compliment her legs, touch her thigh, throw them over yours, whatever. D…
/r/seduction31/07/15 04:02 PM
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relax and think about this: If you could do whatever you want with her... what would you do? Start from the make out, be graphic and detailed. Whatever you want, whatever makes you hard thinking about it. Do that.
/r/seduction31/07/15 03:21 AM
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You're being too apologetic/fake nice. Have some fun, and get to the point.
/r/seduction31/07/15 02:59 AM
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I look at her, take in how sexy she is, get turned on by her, and thus I adopt: certain mannerisms, habits of touch, and words in the moment. Mannerisms such as: Eye fucking. Getting really close to her. A calm tonality, with pauses at natural points. It also becomes a thing of touch. When I take her in shamelessly and let that little bit of lust flow through me, I act on the impulse to touch her. I might touch her thigh or put my arm around her, or pull her in closer, or put her legs over mine,…
/r/seduction31/07/15 02:50 AM
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Approach her. Try to clear your mind and take a deep breath so your a bit less nervous. Respectfully greet her and tell her you thought she looked nice/cute/whatever and you wanted to chat with her.
/r/seduction31/07/15 02:33 AM
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You need to go in armed with a healthy view of what rejection is. Rejection never really says anything deep about you as a man. It can be about your approach (usually body language and tonality making you not seem masculine enough), your looks (shocking if you come in with the wrong mindset: not every woman on earth is attracted to you), or about outside factors (her general bad mood, period, who knows). So see, it's either about her taste in men, not about you at all, or about how you presented…
/r/seduction30/07/15 01:27 PM
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Relationships Pets Working out Music (especially concerts) Books Movies Do you not do or like any of those?
/r/seduction30/07/15 12:52 AM
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Well alpha means many things these days . I think you mean you're more extroverted in some situations than your friends. No, you don't have to be extremely extroverted to do this. You don't even have to lead a group of guys, be the top dog or anything, you just have to hold your own among them. There's not just leaders, and followers, like some guys seem to think. In reality there's leaders, followers., AND there's guys like me..who don't buy into that frame , are just comfortable doing whatever…
/r/seduction30/07/15 12:43 AM
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2 times asked out with no commitment... drop your emotional investment. Focus on meeting new women. If you feel like it... hit her up in about a week. If you don't feel like it, delete the number... if she doesn't reply to that thing i a week, delete the number
/r/seduction29/07/15 11:22 PM
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One thing I'd suggest is really focusing passionately on her. If you're sucking on tits, worshipping a girls ass, sucking and lapping at her pussy, etc.... you're own body won't be anywhere near the first thing on your mind.
/r/seduction29/07/15 11:19 PM
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I mean...Most places have malls. Some have beaches. The bigger cities have streets dedicated to shopping, like oxford street, Madison ave, Michigan ave (although for teenagers you might want shopping districts cheaper than those, I can't tell you though cause idk where your from)
/r/seduction29/07/15 11:14 PM
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Yeah that would work. You talk about something about her.. and that becomes a natural excuse to touch that thing about her. "you work out don't you.... ... ... yeah I could tell your about to be as buff as me soon (sarcastic humor)." (touches her arm, tells her to flex.) A much more "amped up" version of that would be telling her you could tell cause she's got nice legs and touching her thigh.
/r/seduction29/07/15 11:11 PM
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First off, to me there's no hard rules to phone and text game. There are some guidelines for what's optimal. But these are soft guidelines, simple recommendations. You can break them and be ok. So take suggestions on this, but don't fall into the trap of taking them as gospel. ... For the situation of she spent the night. I would text her whenever I feel like doing so, with the window starting at about... 6pm. Again though, not a hard rule, don't get paranoid over doing it wrong.
/r/seduction29/07/15 11:07 PM
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The fail responses to shit tests are like, if a kitten was clawing at a castle wall... and the king deploys the entire army to deal with it.
/r/seduction29/07/15 06:32 PM
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As many as you can without interfering with other life things. 3-10 a day usually makes sense. But as my first sentence alluded to, it's subjective to your life's other goals and hobbies. BTW, you could do 1000000 "approaches" like the ones you described. And I promise you'll still be nervous as hell when you actually hit on a girl out of the blue.
/r/seduction29/07/15 06:20 PM
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walking around school being ridiculed and labeled as the guy that can't talk to girls. ...or labeled as one of the few guys that even has the balls to try hitting on girls. High school isn't necessarily the place be spam cold approaching. It's more so a place to be social, get involved in things, and thus meet new people. And while doing that, you come across those you're attracted to, so you express attraction for them and flirt with them then.
/r/seduction29/07/15 06:08 PM
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