I made my mom cry.

babydocnorman · 2015-08-02T22:15:56+00:00

Don't use red pill logic when explaining stuff to ANY woman. It makes their heads explode. Did you read the sidebar?

GayLubeOil · 2015-08-02T22:46:13+00:00

Your mom decided to put herself in a negative emotional state. Then she tried to provoke you into attacking her, with some sexual shaming tactics so she could play the victim. Sounds like you didn't take the bait. Good job. All of this was done to create a distraction from the fact that she is out of shape.

Whisper · 2015-08-03T00:11:40+00:00

No. Your mother made herself cry.

If she cannot be disagreed with without bursting into tears, then what are you to do? Never disagree with her?

People who cry lightly must expect to have their tears lightly regarded.

mikeshinobi · 2015-08-02T23:46:54+00:00

My mom started crying and mumbling about my own father being too good for her because she is out of shape.

So instead of acknowledging that you're correct, she changes the topic and starts crying. Female argument tactics in a nutshell.

Don't argue with women.

dr_warlock · 2015-08-02T22:43:10+00:00

You do not argue with women. You do not explain intergender dynamics to them. It is an effort of futility, a complete waste of time. They will not 'see the light' they will not suddenly become aware of their ways and attempt to change them, no matter how ridiculous. It's all about the feelz. You most certainly dont do that with your mom.

Read the below immediately.

http://illimitablemen.com/2015/08/01/solipsism-emotion-arguments/

http://illimitablemen.com/2015/06/30/the-nature-of-women/

http://illimitablemen.com/2014/03/09/how-women-argue/comment-page-1/

WarmApfelPi · 2015-08-03T00:22:22+00:00

Is that the first time she's personally attacked you? Don't block it out either cause I'm guessing the answer is no. I've made my mother cry quite a few times in recent years by flipping her bullshit back on her. I don't feel bad either. Like any woman, she'll dish out disrespect to anyone that'll take it, and I put a stop to her doing it to me.

Primemale · 2015-08-02T22:36:06+00:00

Women side with other women, unless there is a conflict of interest. often It's not WHAT you say, It's HOW you say it (for the most part) that will determine how the woman will react. although in this situation, You could have explained that she is a lot older than him and that she should be working to stay in shape and be attractive to him etc. It sounds like your mum was worried about her own situation with your father after what is going on with the female friend, women are very insecure, which is why they (often) need constant external validation (narcissists)

MattyAnon · 2015-08-02T23:42:09+00:00

The deranged solipsism is universal in females. It's all about her and her (female) friend. Anything rational or reasonable is taken as a personal attack.

When you understand solipsism, the examples you find are striking and genuinely frightening.

How in heaven's name did women persuade us that they could be anything even approaching our equal.

AWALT.

MistaFANG · 2015-08-03T03:03:29+00:00

Women cry when they're backed into a corner of their own logic. It's wired into their brain that people will immediately stop and feel sorry when the waterworks start flowing. What you're feeling.is exactly what you've been raised to feel. You called your mom on a double standard and she threw in a hail mary to get herself off the hook.

Men don't have that. You call a dude on his double standard and he'll either fight you or realize that you're fucking right and humble up. Or just respectfully disagree.

Darkuso · 2015-08-03T01:59:57+00:00

My mom started crying and mumbling about my own father being too good for her because she is out of shape. I felt really horrible for making my mom cry, I didn't say anything to try and hurt her but I did regardless.

I hope you don't take this wrong, but in my opinion she was trying to manipulate you and make you feel bad. And looks like she succeed.

mordanus · 2015-08-03T00:17:39+00:00

awalt for sure. For every time some of you mention how a mother can love her children unconditionally I want you to remember this shit. He dares stand up to her so she shames him as a man. Really classy thing for a mother who loves her child unconditionally to do right?

He can't get a woman and he hates women and women don't like him blah blah blah. Match that shit up with

I didn't say anything to try and hurt her

and you will get the real picture here. He was just being honest and she went out of her way to be a vindictive awful cunt to her own child.

Here's another thing to look at

My mom started crying and mumbling about my own father being too good for her because she is out of shape

WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH IM THE VICTIM WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH PITY ME WAAAAAAAAAAAAAH

It worked didn't it? She manipulated you with her tears when she saw her shit argument, shaming, insults and cuntyness wasn't working. She pulled out the tears and forced you to stop because you might hurt the feelings of the woman who just shamed you and told you that you weren't man enough for women to like.

Don't use red pill logic when explaining stuff to your mums, they can't handle it

She can handle it. No one forces her too though so she will cycle through the typical women's arsenal to make you toe the line.

At least she knows her son isn't a bitch.

Kind of. You still backed down when she brought out the water works. You should have chuckled and said "maybe you should get in shape instead of crying about it then"

TX_Man_ · 2015-08-02T23:56:38+00:00

My mom took this as me attacking her friend and started personally attacking me "Oh you hate women, you are in perfect shape but you cant even get a woman (not true), woman don't like you!"

Even mothers resort to this pathetic shaming language. AWALT

SexistFlyingPig · 2015-08-02T23:36:05+00:00

You tripped the hamster and she had nowhere to go.

evileddy · 2015-08-03T15:24:11+00:00

"Oh you hate women, you are in perfect shape but you cant even get a woman (not true), woman don't like you!"

This must be an automatic attack that women use for most arguments. "uh oh.. I am losing the argument... time to attack him at his core!! HA YOU CAN'T GET LAID!!"

I have a great reply to this..

"You just told me that you think women are good for nothing but sex? That's very misogynist of you"

nutnics · 2015-08-03T00:15:48+00:00

I talk to my mom all the time about RedPill shit and she hates it but understands where I am coming from. She has a pretty good perspective on things (she was born in 1948 so she is a baby-boom woman) and she realises that many women these days are all out of control but for good reasons.

It's a pendulum swing. Back in her day and before she was born women were super motivated and jazzed to be helping out in the war effort supporting their husbands overseas by making weapons of war and feeling good about it. Being a home maker wasn't looked down upon and everybody pulled their own weight yada-yada the good old days etc. What's interesting is the way women have changed and WHY that's most telling. After the war women and men enjoyed peace and prosperity unlike anything they've ever known. So women were no longer left to clean and sew and nurse their young but were now able and willing to pursue the same interests their husbands did. So they did with aplomb, and have been doing so ever since. With this return to the work force came competition, and males thrive in competition whereas women now feel 'threatened' by it. It is not in their nature to claw and scratch and bleed to get ahead and the work force is a brutal place where they were not prepared to be flanked on all sides like men have been.

Eventually feelings get hurt and women exploit that to their advantage. They have their own pre-conceived notions of "mistreatment" from the start and many aspects of work culture offend their sensibilities. So now we see women in the workforce demanding that the culture change to benefit the individual but it should be the individual that benefits the culture. The pendulum will swing the other way when it reaches critical mass and they start hating each other more than the men.

DarkSayed · 2015-08-03T00:36:36+00:00

There is little point in debating these things with your mother, your only aim should be to make her happy and let her know you love her.

VirgoRooster · 2015-08-04T03:08:38+00:00

Somehow I got into such a conversation with my mother. I can't remember how. I think I was talking about it with my dad and she overheard.

She got really mad and said it was distancing me from "nice girls" or something. I told her if she ever wanted to entertain the possibility of grandkids, she'd better let me do my thing. She stopped after that.

Don't bother arguing about RP stuff with women. Their perspective is entirely different than ours. For all the talk from feminists about how men need to see things from the perspective of a woman, women seem strangely uninterested in seeing things from the perspective of a man.

...Or at least, their notion of how a man lives is that all men lives like Grey from 50 Shades. They cannot believe that a man would have to work to earn his keep and prove his worth to society, and the reason is because they've never experienced that. Not really.

R_E_D_1 · 2015-08-03T01:41:35+00:00

You spoke to your mother like she is a man and preferred reason. She's a woman. Talk to her from an emotional perspective. It'll save you a lot of time dealing with women and their random shit.

Also, you need to develop an immunity to female tears. Mother or not, they're a tactic. They don't come from a genuine place. The waterworks are merely a waterwork, a test to con you into caving emotionally. Build that immunity. STAT.

R3v4mp3d · 2015-08-03T07:27:12+00:00

Man if you wanna drop TRP truths then do so fully or not at all.

Since you started telling it to her, when she started crying about being left for being out of shape you should've said: "And who's fault is that? Mine? His? Oh wait...it's yours! You reap what you sow."

As I said above: go all the way or not at all.

nemaxofredpill · 2015-08-04T17:06:28+00:00

Had a "come to Jesus" with my mom last month as well.

She is the typical AWALT. Granted, she is my mom and I love her but facts are facts. I am one of three kids by two different men. Both of whom she hooked up with when she was in her 20s, married, and divorced because she "don't need a man". But yeah we were on foodstamps, child support, and any other "you go, single mom" type of government funding there was. My dad was a typical redneck, druggy, alpha that loved to get drunk and fight. (And she still can't believe that my biological dad hit her when she was married to him....eh hamster)

But yeah, back to the story.....

She had a stroke of luck and found an older man who is pretty beta but has alpha tendencies. Has a good head on his shoulders and loves doing side businesses like hauling rock, buy and sell used cars, etc. Has a steady income and pension. Well, he has fallen ill a few times because he is diabetic. When I went back to my hometown and visited her, I could tell just by how she looked at him that she was disgusted that he couldn't do as much as he normally does because...well....he is old and had a long life. (68 years old. She is 54). I noticed how she was treating him. Belittling him at times and talking shit about him to me. They didn't even sleep in the same bed any more. He slept on the couch in the sitting room and she slept on the couch in the living room.

One night, my mom, her husband, and I were sitting at the table and eating and she said something about him. Pretty much a backhand insult and it was the last straw.

Me: Mother...that is enough of that.

Her: What...well he is.

Me: He is your husband and you will respect him. I am tired of you emasculating him and belittling him in front of me. Yes...I understand that he has health problems and this bothers you because you feel you deserve better. But to be frank, he is the best you are going to get. You are 54 and at times a pain in the ass. But guess who cares about you enough to put up with your ass. Yup...him. He gives you anything you want and does so with a smile on his face but yet you feel the need to talk down to him all the while asking him if his pension will roll over to you when he dies. Disgusting. Top it off that you don't like sleeping in the same bed as him because his medication makes him twitch in his sleep? This is your husband. If his legs are restless at night...you will massage them so he gets a peaceful night of rest so he can get up and work to make sure you keep this life that he help build.

I stood up and walked out after that. That night, she was in bed with him and he told me that he really appreciated what I did. Last I heard, things were going great between them.

Rollo-Tomassi · 2015-08-03T16:52:35+00:00

Basically you just casually instilled dread in your mother. Your Dad should thank you.

Never appeal to reason with a woman: http://therationalmale.com/2013/08/07/appeals-to-reason/

Never explain Red Pill truths to women: http://therationalmale.com/2013/12/30/secret-of-the-red-pill/

Modern__Day__Pricus · 2015-08-02T22:29:39+00:00

Surprised Mom dukes would go that far and say that to her own son. Jesus.

Its your family so, its not my business but, in general I have noticed as the years go in that women's mouths are getting worse and worse.

Again, no shots towards your mother I am just speaking in general terms.

Its amazing how easy these chicks fly off the handle and say whatever the fuck comes to their heads. They know in the back of their mind we can't hit, yell, or try and defend ourselves or else we would get looked at as weak. I use to be mad at this until I simply realized to not engage in the fuckery with women.

They live in a subjective bubble that is never going to change as long as men keep bowing out and being afraid to be firm in their stance and belief without having to yell or get mad.

Point is, its best to just nod, smile, and drop some bread crumbs of knowledge when you try your best to speak to women about issues as these if you want to waste your time on it. Treat them accordingly if you want to move on pass fucking them and start a relationship with them. If so, do so because you want to and not because they emotinally bully you into one because your dick game was on point.

Internalize the tools of the red pill and avoid the pitfalls the blue world tries to sucker you in which, in the long run will leave and lead you towards nowhere but sucked dry of your resources.

http://associationofchronos.com/2015/08/02/the-theory-of-internalizing-the-shadow/

Good post. Might need to fix it though to meet the post requirements before it gets taken down.

Mjazz3 · 2015-08-03T01:22:13+00:00

Your mother needs to get used to you disagreeing with you. I've been arguing all my life with my mother, and its just the ebb and flow of normal life. Likewise with my sisters, wife and daughter. If you disagree with them, just say what you think. If they cry, just shake your head sadly and walk away. That said I can't remember any female in my family start crying because they were losing an argument.

r1chten · 2015-08-03T05:27:58+00:00

Don't use red pill logic when explaining stuff to your mums, they can't handle it!

amen brother, i am discovering that line myself with my mom. she is hounding me for some grandkids and as you can imagine they cant take the redpill or more specifically what i have become with this new insights.

musclebound92 · 2015-08-03T05:30:07+00:00

Your mom cried because she swallowed the truth and saw logic, and was shocked by it. Since women are very emotional creatures, logic is not a weapon commonly used in their daily arsenal.

cascadecombo · 2015-08-03T07:13:05+00:00

So what's the point of this?

You made your mom cry, big deal.

MrRexels · 2015-08-03T07:53:49+00:00

You have to fight your dad to re-establish your dominance over her mate!

But yeah, joking aside, the saying here is AWALT, not AWBMMALT (All women but my mom are like that).

TheKorken · 2015-08-03T08:54:29+00:00

Somewere in the sidebar i read that single moms raise their children a way that the children feels obligated to be there for her emotional needs.

Stop it. When your mom tells you a story just say:"Interessting." or "Nice story mom." (in a honest way).

She will feel good and stop bothering you. Maybe even thinking you connected right there.

Revorob · 2015-08-03T09:22:05+00:00

The biggest problems moms have is that they are women - enough said.

flatox · 2015-08-03T09:33:27+00:00

She's crying over a problem she has just realized, instead of terminating the problem?

Silly female behavior.

You gave her a reality check. We all need those sometimes. Some just take time to accept them, if they ever will.

alritealritealrite · 2015-08-03T09:38:09+00:00

Heh. My aunt just terminated her fourth marriage. She's 50 and married a 30 year old. Same story, he wanted to do bro stuff and drink beer and she didn't like all that. Also, I think one of them cheated but who knows.

DoesNotMatterAnymore · 2015-08-03T10:13:28+00:00

My mom started crying and mumbling about my own father being too good for her because she is out of shape.

So on the next day, Mom when to the gym to change that.

/s

VictorEremitaK · 2015-08-03T10:13:59+00:00

Women cry all the time, you can't really take it so serious.

BetterRedThanRed · 2015-08-03T10:30:11+00:00

The correct thing to reply would be: "Yeah, maybe they should break up. He would probably be happier without her, too."

ScottRikkard · 2015-08-03T12:40:46+00:00

Wow I like the ad hominem attacks from the person who brought you on this world. Been there.

With women, it's never about ''her friend'', it's always about her. They use ''friends'' as excuses. And she should cry. They cry for every shit under the sun. As a man, dont give so much of attention to that shit. When a MAN cries, then you know smth is up. Cause we dont cry for every possible reason, or without reason.

Honestly I dont think you did anything wrong. She is to be blamed for neglecting her body. It takes so little work for a woman to stay in shape. So little.

Dont allow that emotional manipulation from no one.

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RXRob · 2015-08-03T13:13:01+00:00

"Oh you hate women, you are in perfect shape but you cant even get a woman (not true), woman don't like you!“

My mother was wondering aloud when I'll get married like my brother. I told her that the first step is getting a girlfriend (I've been single for over 15 months).

"But all you do is workout, wrestle and hike. Why don't you go and meet a girl?"

"Because I love doing those things. I dumped my last girlfriend because she asked me to stop wrestling."

"Well you'll never have children like that."

Then she started crying. I don't know why. I don't really care to find out why, it's my penis and I'll decide where to stick it.

stonepimpletilists · 2015-08-03T13:16:30+00:00

Women talk. When people say 'don't listen to what they say, watch what they do' that goes for your 'advice' as well.

They are on the female social matrix ATM. she's building a consensus, and most likely won't leave, especially if he's building a higher SMV. you're being a douche in this by walking in to a powertalk conversation with direct-talk.

The only thing you should have said there was shen she was crying about him being better and probably leaving her...

"then mom, whats stopping you from being a better woman?" or something to that effect, instead you just came at your own mother with AWALT and Next! Think it through next time.

DogInTheBath · 2015-08-03T13:39:01+00:00

You should read the recent post about Solipsism.

nyyankees1237 · 2015-08-03T14:30:49+00:00

I've made my mom feel pretty shitty while talking up some RP theory when she was bitching at me one day.

Yeah it sucks to make her feel bad but at least I'm being up front with her. At this point, I've realized (the hard way) that it's virtually impossible to reason with any woman, mother or not.

truchisoft · 2015-08-03T14:41:28+00:00

I find women tears envigorating, I usually just laugh while they cry...

It really is like a kid, my nephew will start crying while throwing a tantrum and when I mock him he will start laughing and continue his lfe like the crying never happened... And many many girls did the same to me since taking the Red Pill... so just have fun!

Redasshole · 2015-08-03T15:08:17+00:00

It's her fault, not yours.

If she blinds herself so much that she can't see the reality without crying, she is a delusional person and there is nothing you can do about it.

You can't hold up to her "standards" which are = NEVER TELL ME THE TRUTH AND MAKE ME CONFRONT REALITY WHEN IT DOESN'T SUIT ME!

She has self control. She chose to cry. She knew it would hurt you. She chose to hurt you. In her head, you hurt her by telling the truth so she wanted to hurt you back.

CuntyMcFagNuts69 · 2015-08-03T15:10:29+00:00

AWALT, even your mom. That was tough for me to accept but it is clear as day. My mom plays victim and it was always the men in her life that "messed her up"

RPthrowaway123 · 2015-08-03T15:19:30+00:00

Don't go red pill on your mom like that. There's nothing to be gained, and she is still your mother. You only get one of those.

BluepillProfessor · 2015-08-03T17:47:11+00:00

I think I have synesthesia because I could literally see the solipsistic spinning hamster in your description. Attacking friend = attacking me = mememememememememeememe = Iamwomanhearmeroar.

So...take your mom by the hand and ever so gently tell her to get her pathetic fat ass to the gym and get in shape instead of whining and bitching about it. Let us know how that works.

pheluhnee · 2015-08-03T19:10:15+00:00

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What is this?

TheWaterTemple · 2015-08-03T20:44:14+00:00

I tried to explain something to my mom and she said she wouldn't date me.

littleboyredpill · 2015-08-03T22:08:10+00:00

I actually talked to my mom about post wall women hopping off the cock carousel looking for some schmuck to take care of her. She was highly amused. And then apologized for telling me to be a nice guy when I was younger and the I was completely right in my statement.

Bevinisyourdad · 2015-08-03T23:45:59+00:00

She attacked you more than you attacked her verbally, by saying women don't like you.

herewehoagain · 2015-08-04T02:12:09+00:00

You can't talk to s female about any topic without them inserting themselves into the scenario.

AnonymousAndLovinIt · 2015-08-05T08:45:31+00:00

I love much of TRP philosophy, but it's sometimes used in ways I would not approve of.

Really, before reading the comments on this thread, I never thought to what depth of immorality some RPers would sink to. The notion of being so self-centered to the point where you should not care the least about dealing emotional damage to the post-wall woman who did so much for you in your childhood is disgusting.

Yes, my friend, AWALT. But that doesn't mean you have an obligation to go Alpha male on everyone. And never disguise immorality as amorality. That's just TRP's hamster.

Jaykaykaykay · 2015-08-05T12:50:23+00:00

She's making you feel bad for a reason. Don't let that shit work.

doremix · 2015-08-08T10:06:56+00:00

Don't beat yourself up. You didn't make her cry. Her insecurity did, you just unknowingly triggered it. Don't blame yourself for her emotions.

anitapk · 2015-08-03T10:16:27+00:00

When men are out doing things they like that put their woman's position at risk they are facing a "mid life crisis", just like when they go to the gym, buy sports car, do anything that doesn't revolve around the woman.

And women (and feminised men) take everything personally, that is why fat is becoming the new normal - saying otherwise implies they are fatasses too.

DanAffid · 2015-08-03T15:24:41+00:00

Your mom wasn't crying for her friend. Be gentle with your parents, getting old is hell.

PoFolk · 2015-08-03T16:04:27+00:00

Your mom cried because you affirmed her fears, and how it relates to her scenario. She's testing the waters with as many people as possible without outright saying whatever it is she's feeling.

JeanValjean197o · 2015-08-03T03:15:06+00:00

Sounds like she deserved it.

I bath in mothers' tears.

sealteamaus · 2015-08-03T11:02:21+00:00

dude she is crying to make you feel bad not because you made her feel bad dont validate her shit or she will believe it to (see the paradox?)

Veritas_potissimum · 2015-08-03T07:48:29+00:00

LOL this was a funny read. My mom already knows I'm a misogynist because I don't hide it so she just laughs it off. I don't tell her about RP obviously, I simply demonstrate the truths we already know.

Meloman0001 · 2015-08-03T04:02:56+00:00

No reason to share this information with your mom. She's obviously insecure about her body. Take her out, make her laugh, and treat her like a queen. If she tries to run your life, tell her to mind her own business.

Title	I made my mom cry.
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Date	August 2, 2015 10:12 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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