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| 1 | I feel confident but I can’t approach womenI’ve explained exactly how to approach a woman if she’s with a group of girls in my comment - read it carefully, apply it, and don’t ask anymore questions or look for answers until you’ve experimented with it in the field. Field experience is King. | /r/seduction | 28/08/25 03:17 PM |
| 1 | I feel confident but I can’t approach womenThis is a great post, but some of the advice here seems like the blind leading the blind. Don’t immediately go to groups and ask, “Are you guys together?” Then say, “I’m jealous of how great you look together..” That’s just going to make you look creepy in their eyes because they don’t know you. It might be a method to practice getting over your social anxiety with groups, but that’s all it is. An exercise in approach anxiety. If you’re looking for actual, solid Game advice, like how to set up t… | /r/seduction | 27/08/25 03:08 AM |
| 3 | Simply checking boxes isn't what makes a man.Lifting weights, having an aesthetic body, and being with a ton of chicks is a valid metric that measures mental discipline, stress management, and so on. No need to bash on the guys who are building up from ground zero. They need to lift, approach tons of women, and try out all sorts of stuff before finding their groove. I get that you’re trying to convey that there are higher values than “get shredded, fuck bitches”, and I have to admit, your delivery and choice of words is astounding - that I… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/21 04:13 PM |
| 2 | How can you actually go from a scarcity reality to an abundance mentality?That's how it works. "1 girl only" is typically never allowed for anyone who is under 50 lays. From there on, you can focus more on quality. OP, if you are going to take any advice from this, then there it is: Talk to as many girls that you like as you can. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/20 11:33 PM |
| 2 | The True Secret to Seduction is LoveThis is something akin to Enlightenment. Absolute detachment, whilst tussling with the world. | /r/seduction | 11/06/20 10:02 PM |
| 3 | The True Secret to Seduction is LoveKing | /r/seduction | 11/06/20 10:01 PM |
| 3 | How do I join the top 15% in my 20’s?3afwan | /r/askTRP | 05/06/20 07:21 PM |
| 2 | I don't feel like a manI wholeheartedly agree with the notions found in the comments that you, and the respected sir above you posted. It's not that we are uncivilized, brash animals incapable of intelligent conversation. This faulty depiction, found in other comments here as well as in real life, taints the true meaning of being a man capable of violence. OP, I advise you to go to a martial arts class of your liking, preferably BJJ, Boxing, Wrestling, or any combination of those, and get your ass kicked everyday, unt… | /r/askTRP | 29/04/20 07:37 PM |
| 14 | Lost my virginity. Thank you TheRedPillWhere did you and her meet? | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/20 09:02 AM |
| 1 | RSD deleted all their good content, they block comments, they use bot comments; And now this; how much more embarrasing can this company get?What? | /r/seduction | 29/03/20 04:43 PM |
| 6 | LTR of 8 years 'Accidentally' kissed another dudeAgreed, straight up Game. Adjust and Move forward. This is the Way. | /r/askTRP | 29/02/20 04:30 PM |
| 2 | Have you quit smoking and how did you do it?Why is that not manly? | /r/askTRP | 18/02/20 02:02 PM |
| 3 | 30 days, 100 approaches.I understand that. I look at this primarily from a Game, and inter-sexual dynamics perspective. Your second example was just poor Game on that guy's part, catcalling isn't Game, opening properly is. The first guy opened you properly, and that's what it's all about. Without you seeing much of their middle or end-game, you decided the guy who opens half-properly will win. And that's almost always the case. And so, whether it be for social decorum, or proper Game skills, when I open I never intend … | /r/seduction | 25/11/19 01:57 PM |
| 1 | 30 days, 100 approaches.I appreciate your support brother, it seems to me that you too are of the same mindset and are in it for the long run. You get how success in this area is found, and in other areas as well, it's apparent in your speech. I hope we both find the success we both know we deserve and will inevitably get to. Much respect, man. | /r/seduction | 25/11/19 01:45 PM |
| 3 | 30 days, 100 approaches.Thank you, I plan on sharing my field reports daily. | /r/seduction | 25/11/19 10:15 AM |
| 1 | 30 days, 100 approaches.Will do, thanks! | /r/seduction | 25/11/19 10:13 AM |
| 2 | 30 days, 100 approaches.Alright, will do. You have a head start on me, but I will try to beat you to the one hundred club still. | /r/seduction | 25/11/19 10:09 AM |
| 1 | When girls flake it's usually not your fault and as a newbie you will get a lot of flakes because you have still not learned the art of making her chase you real hard. Don't get demotivated and keep on taking massive action.Would you so kindly provide us with the name of the book where this was mentioned? Thank you in advance. | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 10:01 PM |
| 1 | I was initially attracted to this community because it taught “I’m not good enough” was just a limiting belief that kept you from a good dating life. But after approaching hundreds of girls & getting rejected countless times, I feel like maybe that belief was right all along. Anyone else feel this?Whenever I relax into it and pause for silence, almost every time as if on cue, the girl goes “alright well I’ve gotta (fill in x activity here), it was nice to meet you” and then walks off. That shit stings. Well, yes, that is because you are approaching girls on campus who are trying to go somewhere, not because relaxing into silence is bad; just try to find other places where people go for leisure activities like the ones I mentioned and always go for the girls that seem to be wandering aroun… | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 09:58 PM |
| 2 | I was initially attracted to this community because it taught “I’m not good enough” was just a limiting belief that kept you from a good dating life. But after approaching hundreds of girls & getting rejected countless times, I feel like maybe that belief was right all along. Anyone else feel this?Yeah, many times I ask for the number solely bc I ran out of shit to say, and I feel like getting the number gives me justification to eject from the set. Exactly, the underlying problem is the fear of "running out of things to say". Try this, next time you run out of things to say, relax into it instead. Don't say anything, just breathe and wait for something else to pop up into your mind. No pressure. This is often the best way to do it. 10 minutes isn’t enough? I feel like that’s an eternity … | /r/seduction | 08/10/19 03:48 AM |
| 1 | I was initially attracted to this community because it taught “I’m not good enough” was just a limiting belief that kept you from a good dating life. But after approaching hundreds of girls & getting rejected countless times, I feel like maybe that belief was right all along. Anyone else feel this?See, this is good- investigating more into the types of approaches you do leads us to the critical pieces that will improve your Game, this type of dialogue is what's needed to uncover the Game issues you have. You initial issue was: I can open and get numbers, but they all flake. For her to respond back, your interactions must be solid, and 10 minute interaction just isn't solid enough for her to respond back. To have a solid 10 minute interaction, you have to have great Game, which is built th… | /r/seduction | 08/10/19 01:46 AM |
| 1 | I was initially attracted to this community because it taught “I’m not good enough” was just a limiting belief that kept you from a good dating life. But after approaching hundreds of girls & getting rejected countless times, I feel like maybe that belief was right all along. Anyone else feel this?Style with poor Game won't bring results, but Game with poor style will bring results. Thus, essentially in matters of seduction Game is more important. Of course, dress good because it gets your foot in the door, but never seek to attribute game deficiencies to height, muscles, or style. | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 06:52 PM |
| 2 | I was initially attracted to this community because it taught “I’m not good enough” was just a limiting belief that kept you from a good dating life. But after approaching hundreds of girls & getting rejected countless times, I feel like maybe that belief was right all along. Anyone else feel this?Alright. Please don't pay attention to guys asking about height and Squat Max Reps or whatever. Game isn't about being jacked, Julien couldn't bench press 10 pounds but he was fucking lethal, so don't listen to them. Okay man, let's look at the technical game first. First, don't go for the number. Always, always go for the pull. Only when the pull is impossible due to logistics do you take the number. Which means, you need to keep doing what you're doing at the beginning, and then add escalation… | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 05:38 PM |
| 3 | I was initially attracted to this community because it taught “I’m not good enough” was just a limiting belief that kept you from a good dating life. But after approaching hundreds of girls & getting rejected countless times, I feel like maybe that belief was right all along. Anyone else feel this?We need to look more deeply into this to be able to provide you with Game advice that's going to help. First off, congrats for taking action, this alone will seperate you from 99% of guys out there. So, in a way, you've improved, you have effectively conquered your fear of talking to women. Second off, how do you usually approach? What is your opener? What's your follow up? How do you usually transition? Describe a typical approach. Answering these questions will ultimately lead to your Game ans… | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Accountability - A tight knit group that will be honest and true to their progressYep, way easier and better. Count me in. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/19 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Let's get YOU a wingman!Cairo, Egypt. 🇪🇬 | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 06:04 AM |
| 3 | So RSD Julien is married.He's human. I just want him to cover this from a PUA angle. | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 03:20 AM |
| 2 | A girl is like a protein shakeThat sounds like a Michael Scott quote. | /r/seduction | 08/09/19 06:39 AM |
| 7 | Bad at sex holding me backHave you tried focusing more on the sex, rather than the negative thoughts? Sex itself ultimately feels positive, and with it comes a river of positive, sexy, dominant thoughts. Accept the negative thoughts as they come and let them pass, and tap again into the sexy channel of thoughts coming from Desire. Move with it, verbalize it, go deeper into it each time. Maybe that will help? | /r/askTRP | 31/08/19 10:37 PM |
| 1 | 19F, no idea how to flirt whatsoever. Where do I begin?Okay here's a quick primer that you need to take to heart if you want to get this part of your life handled: 1) "Good looks get you in the door, beauty needs a witnesss." Maximize your looks. Simple and clear. You know that ideal look, the one you've always tried to achieve? It will never happen, unless you work for it now. I'm talking skin care, nails, hair, teeth, and clothes. Self care must be a must. Search online for styles and outfits and pick ones you like, there are tons of guides online… | /r/seduction | 11/07/19 12:36 AM |
| 1 | How to Prevent Nice Guy/Low Energy VibesIf you want to be excited in conversation, be excited in life. If you don't work around discovering your passion, you won't sound passionate and excited in conversations; thus people will correctly perceive you as 'boring', 'timid' or 'shy'. Go after what you want in life. Fight for what you love. Be willing to die for it. This is ultimately what girls are attracted to, and guys admire and respect. | /r/seduction | 11/07/19 12:10 AM |
| 6 | First date gone right, but girl annoince me she is in an impossible fantasy toward another guy.Keep frame. Tell her he seems like a really cool guy and she should invite him out next time. Proceed with Game as usual. Fuck 10 other girls to avoid oneitis. | /r/seduction | 09/07/19 12:20 PM |
| 8 | Can’t f*cking approach (rant)This is all too real. Here's where people get this wrong: Person has social anxiety, fears are eradicated by facing them, therefore this person must face the biggest fear possible to yield the best results. In theory, it sounds great. But in reality, it never works. Because the basic principle isn't in carrying the biggest load, it's in carrying a load and then adding weight when you get used to it. And so, as Jordan Peterson would say: "Make the damn load smaller!" Start with newbie missions: -… | /r/seduction | 09/07/19 01:09 AM |
| 20 | The Complete Guide To Day Game (Megapost)That depends entirely on where you are- if it's a huge metropolitan city you live in with more than 1 million people, nobody will run into you twice nor remember you unless you frequent the same place a lot. If you're outside your city or country, fuck the whole reputation thing, it's a free-for-all game now, you can approach whoever the fuck you want, it's a community you will likely never see again. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 02/07/19 08:48 AM |
| 1 | Why am I so different in chats than in person?Go to the mall, park, or any nightclub and you'll find them. | /r/seduction | 27/06/19 07:09 AM |
| 3 | Why am I so different in chats than in person?You're articulate, verbal and fluid in your chats but not in real life. Try public speaking, improvisational standup comedy classes, yoga, dancing classes (a couples dancing type where you dance with girls is even better), martial arts and do at least 120 approaches in the next month. I guarantee you, this stud vibe that is already within will be unlocked if you do that. | /r/seduction | 26/06/19 04:50 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Opened a chick, don't know what to say next..Alright, I pick something she said and ask about it or offer a statement. Great. I will try the same approach adding what you mentioned. | /r/seduction | 27/05/19 09:10 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Opened a chick, don't know what to say next..I already open direct, albeit less frequently. I will open direct more frequently, and try going direct explicitly after my indirect opener and see how it works. | /r/seduction | 27/05/19 09:06 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Opened a chick, don't know what to say next..Here's the thing, the friend story isn't real, just a way to ask about good stores to buy clothes from. | /r/seduction | 19/05/19 07:43 PM |
| 1 | How to learn Game?Self-expression. | /r/seduction | 10/04/19 03:29 PM |
| 2 | How to learn Game?First point you had is entirely valid, and it's the difference between DOING vs BEING. The step-by-step process offers exact things to say, phases, and routines vs the confidence, empathy which are essentially EMOTIONAL and depends on the person himself, because it's inside the body. You can't really fake confidence because it comes through in sub communications. So you have to relax and let those two arise and 'flow'. So I definitely agree. Without confidence, the routines mean nothing. Second … | /r/seduction | 09/04/19 03:58 PM |
| 1 | What does Patrice O'Neal mean when he says "women aren't selling what we are buying"?Yes, that's what I mean. And you shouldn't fixate on looks, because women like to believe they are liked for their character as well, but if you just met her, you can't tell her she is smart right off the open, so you actually say what you think: "She is pretty" which still gives her a bit of validation that she will most gladly take, and then you can follow up with: "So does your personality match your looks?" for more character-based game. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/19 01:51 PM |
| 1 | What does Patrice O'Neal mean when he says "women aren't selling what we are buying"?Do you actually internalize any lessons after your approach or do you do the same thing over and over and over expecting different results? You should be writing field reports everyday writing what went good, and what you learned. Different types of openers, different types of situations, different types of girls. You should be analyzing every interaction to get that piece of information that will take you to the next level. Experiment, analyze, extract lesson and fucking course correct for the … | /r/askTRP | 28/03/19 12:22 AM |
| 1 | What does Patrice O'Neal mean when he says "women aren't selling what we are buying"?Throw away Tinder, one approach in real life will teach you more than 1000 unresponsive tinder messages. That this will take time, and effort but will be worth it everyday. It gets easier, but you have to do it everyday. This is overall perspective. Specific situations might also need perspectives, like rejection: "This won't matter in a week." Check out sidebar "what is frame?". | /r/askTRP | 26/03/19 05:48 PM |
| 2 | What does Patrice O'Neal mean when he says "women aren't selling what we are buying"?By getting the ball rolling. Approach a girl, learn how to Game her, go on a date with a new girl every week, fuck one every month or two, eventually it builds up and you have way more girls per month, you're now abundant with women. Spinning a plate is like building muscles: 1) Do reps: Approach girls. 2) Each rep you get better: Your game improves with more approaches. 3) Eventually you accumulate muscle gains: Your improvement in Game attracts more girls to you. 4) The amount of weights you c… | /r/askTRP | 25/03/19 02:58 PM |
| 3 | How do I turn a conversation sexual if I've never had sex?You're fearful, and it's killing your interactions with girls. When girls touch you, touch back. When the tension is high, go for the kiss. It will be almost automatic from there. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 09:45 PM |
| 3 | No guides/books/lectures in 2019!This is kind of something I'm stuck on, I would be very pleased if you can answer my question. I'm someone who struggles with self love, how did you cultivate this self love for yourself? What should I do? Thanks. | /r/seduction | 31/12/18 11:29 AM |
| 25 | [ADVICE] As long as you approach her, it's a successWas it a failure? Still a success. | /r/seduction | 06/12/18 04:52 PM |
| 1 | What are the commonalities between RSD and ISIS?It's a joke. I love RSD. | /r/seduction | 13/08/18 07:35 PM |
| 1 | What are the commonalities between RSD and ISIS?I know bro, it's just a joke. I love RSD, if it wasn't for Owen, Julien, Max, and Jeffy, I honestly wouldn't have climbed out of anxiety. I appreciate all the work they're done and really believe that their work is massively underappreciated. I just wanted to make a joke, that's all. I'm not discrediting RSD or any of the instructors by any means. I understand that a lot of people hate on them because of ignorance, the people that hate RSD just haven't had the time to dive deep into it and disco… | /r/seduction | 13/08/18 07:35 PM |
| 3 | [FR] A girl asked for my numberPeople can't take a joke sometimes. | /r/seduction | 12/08/18 07:52 AM |
| 1 | I'm curious, what do you guys think about the people who call seduction manipulative?He doesn't understand the seduction community fully yet. He thinks it's just a bunch of men going out there and using tricks and gimmicks to trick girls into sleeping with them. In reality, the seduction community switched from fake exterior game techniques to real inner growth decades ago. | /r/seduction | 07/08/18 08:00 PM |
| 2 | How to be attractive as fuckCan you explain that? What do you mean by "integrity", and why hasn't it gotten people laid? | /r/seduction | 07/08/18 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Severe problem with low energy and low sexualityResults may differ depending on the person, some people on the carnivore diet report that their depression is almost completely gone, so he might want to try that out. | /r/seduction | 03/08/18 02:24 AM |
| 2 | Can't bring myself to say anything to any woman.I know you're in a weird place right now, but you could go and absolutely bomb at every approach and it still won't matter when you remember it when you're 80. You could go to the bar, make every girl laugh at you, text their friends about how much of a loser you are, post on twitter for their hundreds of followers about you, make everyone at the bar ridicule you, and it still won't matter, you'll still be alive after it. When you view it from that perspective, it gets way easier to approach. No… | /r/seduction | 29/07/18 12:25 AM |
| 3 | Severe problem with low energy and low sexualityYeah, that's the pills that's doing that. Don't take those pills, and actually do something about your depression. Make sure you get those basic thing dialed up immediately: 1) Proper Nutrition (No junk food, no sugars, no processed bullshit, eat more greens, add spices, eat fruits, add macademia nuts, add omega-3s, get vitamin D, eat protein, drink lots of water and most importantly cut out the carbs). 2) Set up a sleep schedule and stick to it. Most importantly, make it so that your circadian … | /r/seduction | 29/07/18 12:19 AM |
| 6 | pay attention less to what girls say and more how they actAbundance mentality contains two things: 1) You have plenty of girls you're talking to, so you don't need to fixate on one girl. 2) There's enough to go around for everyone, so there's no need for competition. | /r/seduction | 07/07/18 11:31 AM |
| 3 | I finally get it"A-whoopa-doddly-dooda." | /r/seduction | 06/07/18 08:36 AM |
| 1 | Gonna you guys make this decision for meYou should make that decision on your own because it depends on your own morals. Do you adhere to the golden rule: One should treat others as one would like others to treat oneself? But first, realize that she might not actually have a boyfriend and just said that to see if you'll flinch or give up easy. | /r/seduction | 25/06/18 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Just 3 months of meditation has improved my life so much. If you don't meditate, then you are missing out on a ton, trust me.Yeah, that totally sold me on meditation. Lol. | /r/seduction | 24/06/18 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Nothing brings results?Your problem is not attraction, your problem is PRESENCE. You need to live from your purpose, and re-approach women and the world from that place. That's what creates the masculine presence that women really want. Read the way of the superior man. | /r/seduction | 24/06/18 09:35 PM |
| 3 | How To Boost Your Self Esteem And Confidence: 7 Quick WaysSo true. | /r/seduction | 18/06/18 09:35 PM |
| 3 | To all the"Funny" guys. There is no need to perform or make other people laugh ALL THE TIME. Just have a normal conversation with a joke here or there and you'll be okay."Jokes are broadcast at a frequency for only those tuned in." Excellent. | /r/seduction | 18/06/18 09:25 PM |
| 9 | To all the"Funny" guys. There is no need to perform or make other people laugh ALL THE TIME. Just have a normal conversation with a joke here or there and you'll be okay.That's so true. I think the difference comes from self amusement vs validation seeking. If you're genuinely self amusing that means you are actually having fun with it, and that's when it tends to come out natural and actually be funny. The other one is just trying to make people give you validation, you know it because you would feel shut down or bad if other people didn't laugh with you when you say the joke. That's when It's not genuine. You're looking for a reaction. People can tell the diff… | /r/seduction | 18/06/18 09:23 PM |
| 3 | Sub-communication is soooo much more important than anything else in gameJust presence, an easy going conversation, and strong sub-communication. What sources would you recommend for anyone to learn this? | /r/seduction | 16/06/18 01:22 AM |
| 5 | Have you/would you ever give someone a book on seduction as a present?Mad props. You've done well my friend. | /r/seduction | 10/06/18 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Does RSD(Real Social Dynamics) really work?Check out brain begin fearless man. | /r/seduction | 10/06/18 06:30 PM |
| 4 | Does RSD(Real Social Dynamics) really work?Yeah, RSD is legit. Rsd is like the hive-mind of pickup. Super smart guys that learned it from the best, went out everyday for nearly 18 years, analysed their interactions, learned from their experiences and added their wisdom on it. Of course it is. It's groundbreaking, to say the least. Anyone who says they're fake is a loser who doesn't have a clue about real Game. Just make sure you apply the principles and actually learn. | /r/seduction | 08/06/18 01:13 AM |
| 1 | What are some of your favorite books, and why?Yes, I find her work very inspiring. Here's one of my most favorite quotes of hers: "Life is a good teacher and a good friend. Things are always in transition, if we could only realize it. Nothing ever sums itself up in the way that we like to dream about. The off-center, in-between state is an ideal situation, a situation in which we don’t get caught and we can open our hearts and minds beyond limit. It’s a very tender, nonaggressive, open-ended state of affairs. To stay with that shakiness — t… | /r/MGTOW | 07/06/18 11:39 PM |
| 1 | How to do pick up. The real answer.That's so true, people want the "perfect unfolding of their game". That's now how it works. You have to set small goals and acheive them. Talk to two women. Then the next day two more. Two more the day after. Then do it again and add some kino. Practice burning it to the ground. You know how in the gym you take the set to failure, you give up just right before your breaking down point? It's the same with game. Add a little bit every day. That's how the game works. | /r/seduction | 05/06/18 07:30 PM |
| 1 | You can be with/meet beautiful women today! Practicing is not a boss mindset.I understand what you're saying but it doesn't hurt to take advice from the pros so you know what exactly you're doing wrong. A good rule is: 4 hours practice for every 1 hour of content. Good luck, bro. | /r/seduction | 04/06/18 05:09 PM |
| 1 | You can be with/meet beautiful women today! Practicing is not a boss mindset.Bullshit. You do what you're recommending when your interests aren't clubbing and pets and tell me how successful you are. Bullshit? That's science. It's called mirror neurons, look it up. How do I know something you wont' teach me? My advice won't work for you, probably. There are tons of pickup forums, go there for advice. | /r/seduction | 03/06/18 08:51 PM |
| 1 | You can be with/meet beautiful women today! Practicing is not a boss mindset.Because of your wall of text, I cannot fucking contextualise the rest of my hate. Read this post to the other guy who's just as helpful as you are. Man, you don't need to contextualize it, hate is chaotic and useless, just like you are. Yeah, that's why women love to fawn over the dudes that listen to technical death metal, have hobbies consisting of mechanical gameplay like chess, and love being approached by strangers in gyms. They do. You just think they don't so they don't with you, it's a s… | /r/seduction | 03/06/18 03:01 PM |
| 3 | You can be with/meet beautiful women today! Practicing is not a boss mindset.I never looked at it that way, that was so good I had to save it in my list of favorite quotes. | /r/seduction | 03/06/18 02:40 PM |
| 1 | You can be with/meet beautiful women today! Practicing is not a boss mindset.Haha sorry bro, didn't know it would turn out like that. You're welcome man. Essentially, you need to identify what's happening and ask why is this happening? So is it self-judgment? Persona-fatigue? AA? What's throwing you off? You need to look at what's getting in the way & manuever your way around it. If you shut down you probably need to watch Tyler's latest energy video. Also, work on approaching many people one night in a row, don't focus that much on outcome, focus first on putting yourse… | /r/seduction | 03/06/18 02:36 PM |
| 3 | 4 Lessons I've Learned From Approaching Thousands Of WomenVery real, valuable advice. Thanks for the post. | /r/seduction | 02/06/18 09:42 PM |
| 5 | You can be with/meet beautiful women today! Practicing is not a boss mindset.Wow, man. Why are you so fucking mad I said something that you might disagree with? Just that tells me you're probably not good at game. I proposed that "not knowing what to say next" or "what to do" are false issues fueled by the wrong mindset. They're very real, but they're not why you're not doing something. You're not doing something because you feel you aren't good enough, and so you suppress your natural desire to fuck, your natural instinct to mate with that hot chick, because you believe… | /r/seduction | 02/06/18 09:15 PM |
| 3 | You can be with/meet beautiful women today! Practicing is not a boss mindset.It's funny you mentioned koan, because what he's saying here is actually very "zen" if you think about. What he's saying is you should trust yourself enough to say the right words at the right time and not worry about what's coming next. Stay present. When you're stuck in your head analyzing what's going to happen next, you're not being present to the moment, so you miss all the opportunities in front of you because you're too stuck in your head. It's very paradoxical. Essentialy, this is the go… | /r/seduction | 02/06/18 07:56 PM |
| 1 | The Definitive Guide To Authentic Confidence.You're welcome. :) | /r/seduction | 01/06/18 06:18 PM |
| 2 | The Definitive Guide To Authentic Confidence.You're welcome. :) | /r/seduction | 01/06/18 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Seduction is 70% planned 30% improvGreat. :) | /r/seduction | 01/06/18 12:00 PM |
| 3 | Seduction is 70% planned 30% improvGuys, honestly I think this is just about different types of pickup advice, and different advice suits different types of people. Guys with empathy, people-skills, are naturally tuned into their emotions and the "vibes" they're projecting as well as the "vibes" that differenet people are in, these guys are what we call "Naturals" and these giys could use more of the pickup structure to know how to properly navigate the interaction, push beyond resistance, and sharpen their skills overall with th… | /r/seduction | 01/06/18 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Still a chode after 9 months in the gameThere, you found your problem, now go and fix it. | /r/seduction | 22/05/18 11:57 PM |
| 2 | [FR] - Solo gamin and problem with a bouncerFirst off, congrats on going out. Second, fuck that bouncer, the best fucking revenge is going there with two hot chicks that you picked up or being on a promoter's list (they will let you in if they see you bringing in hot girls) if you can manage that. Always get better, not bitter. Thirdly, you need to find wingmen in your area if you are serious about game, have a few 'game' guys that you go out with and some natural guys in your social circle and learn from both, it will skyrocket your resu… | /r/seduction | 01/05/18 01:47 PM |
| 2 | Who are some Best PUA coaches?Why the hate on RSD though? | /r/seduction | 29/04/18 06:40 PM |
| 114 | ☠️7 Deadly Sins Of Picking Up Women☠️"When one has nothing to lose, one becomes courageous. We are timid only when there is something we can still cling to." -Carlos Castaneda Whenever you face a situation where you feel timid, think about whatever you are still clinging to, whatever your attached to, the opinions of others, fear of rejection, whatever it is that comes up to you, and work on letting go of that. | /r/seduction | 29/04/18 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Is it wrong to be "self aware?"First off, you need to view yourself as a TEN. Would a 10 do that? Also, let's look deeper into that, shall we? You rejecting other girls because there is "better options there" is actually insecurity. It's fear hiding behind a mask. If you don't hate yourself, then you by definition, love yourself. It's the only way. You're always in the process of becoming and these two determine where you are going with your life. Now, someone who loves himself, would always think his authentic self is enough… | /r/seduction | 27/04/18 12:38 AM |
| 5 | For the beginners, introverts, nerds, bad looking guys.Responsibility is "respond-ability". You respond to life circumstances to your ability. The more you grow and learn, the better you respond. "Between stimulus and response there is a space, that space is where our growth and freedom lies" -Victor Frankl | /r/seduction | 27/04/18 12:15 AM |
| 5 | For the beginners, introverts, nerds, bad looking guys.Remember, you don't take responsibility for that which you don't accept. | /r/seduction | 27/04/18 12:12 AM |
| 12 | For the beginners, introverts, nerds, bad looking guys.This post summed in five sentences: Life happens for you, not to you. View everything as a learning experience. Accept every aspect of you, and work to continuously improve them. You are already enough. What do you feel inspired to do? | /r/seduction | 27/04/18 12:11 AM |
| 1 | I approached a girl for the first time today"Its more courageous to be scared and admit it than to be scared and pretend you weren't." Yes!! | /r/seduction | 24/04/18 11:17 PM |
| 2 | What is the best seduction book that you known of?The way of the superior man. It's less of a seduction book, and more about living from your masculine core, which is the basic element of attraction. This is a how-to manual for life that containts brillint advice for every man on the fundamentals of masculinity. You'll understand more about masculine and feminine energy than any other book ever found. | /r/seduction | 23/04/18 02:13 PM |
| 6 | What is the best seduction book that you known of?The Model: What women want and how to give it to them. The book of pook. No more mr nice guy. The way of the superior man. 5 Love languages. The natural by richard la ruina. Real world seduction by swingcat. Make women want you and 77 ways to make her want to fuck you by Jason Capital. The blueprint decoded (inner game). Double your dating. Mystery method. I think that's enough for a lifetime. | /r/seduction | 22/04/18 10:50 PM |
| 3 | Push-pull :3Pressure on pressure off. You're cute- but wait, you have dimples. You're pretty..average looking. I love you, I hate you. Watch this: https://m.youtube.com/watch?t=6s&v=SR9rtZ-CUyw | /r/seduction | 22/04/18 10:46 PM |
| 0 | Finally embraced the uncomfortableThat's awesome, brother. Keep rising☀️ | /r/seduction | 22/04/18 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Interesting question about Anthony Robbins..I'm sure you too have some good traits that you can put to good use and use those to fuel you forward. I don't know you, so I can't tell you what those are but I'm 100% sure you have a talent inside of you. An edge of practice. Something unique. Otherwise, you wouldn't be here on Earth. Audit yourself. What are you good at, and interested in? Push that edge, fail, do it again, learn something, do it again, succeed, take the next step, so on.. It's a process of continuously going to failure so yo… | /r/seduction | 22/04/18 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Is Mark Manson's approach to seduction is the best?Game is subjective experience. It's your personal "Game" that matters. The things that are unique, special to you that work. Universal principles/Game concepts like: Purpose, self-amusement, validation, compliance, shit tests, detachment from outcome, self-love, are universal truths that work unique to everyone. That's why you can't teach someone gambits, or lines to attract women because it works depending on who's using it. It has to be fueled by your own unique experience with those things an… | /r/seduction | 21/04/18 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Interesting question about Anthony Robbins..Maybe you're not meant to lift, dude just take walks. It's not detrimental that you lift, it's more important to discover your purpose, that's why you're here. Read the way of the superior man. | /r/seduction | 16/04/18 08:19 AM |
| 2 | Interesting question about Anthony Robbins..RSDTyler is a meek scrawny dude with autism that owns the largest dating company in the world. And you're telling me you want to give up? Dude, you have so much fucking time to work things out. Just don't waste those years complaining. You know there are a few things that you can tweak, and then you'll be a little bit better, and that will give you the push to make more improvements, and nobody knows what the limit to that is. Look, you can sit there, cry and whine about how unfair life is, or y… | /r/seduction | 16/04/18 08:16 AM |
| 1 | Interesting question about Anthony Robbins..You could chase all these things, get them, and then realize they're empty and superficial and you're still not happy or satisfied, women will feel this and most of your relationships will not have the depth, growth, and love that you desire. I hope you understand that it's not about whether or not these things are "good" or "bad" it's all about something called purpose. As a man, this is where your masculinity comes from, this is the core of your life and desire and passion and it plays a huge … | /r/seduction | 15/04/18 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Interesting question about Anthony Robbins..Expansion. Accepting the difficult things in life and continuously facing them so you can be a better man. Learning new things. Travelling. Seeking out new experiences. These all play a huge factor in growth. Doesn't have to be for women but it sure as hell strengthens your masculine polarity and that makes you attractive. | /r/seduction | 15/04/18 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Interesting question about Anthony Robbins..No. | /r/seduction | 15/04/18 12:37 AM |
| 1 | I'm meeting girls tomorrow, any tips?Well, it didn't go well. I wasn't genuinely having fun, so she wasn't too. She was laughing at my jokes, but I wasn't having genuine fun, I was just in my head, so it kept killing the vibe. I kept pushing it forward though, she resists, I pull back, joke a little bit and do it again but she resists again. After a while I got bored and gave up so I don't become creepy, and it ended at that. But at least I did something, I didn't make excuses and kept pushing it forward and that's what matters. Wo… | /r/seduction | 14/04/18 01:25 AM |
| 1 | I study alot of PUA/self improvement. No result. Tell me why. Need expert view on this.But why? Approaching girls you don't find attractive isn't natural, but girls who you're attracted to? | /r/seduction | 14/04/18 01:18 AM |
| 2 | How do start value yourself truly in depth.Give that 12 year old kid some love, show him you're there for him and will always be. Listen to what he has to say while offering him your full presence and love. Learn to love every aspect of yourself, and when you love yourself fully, you will allow yourself to be entirely who you are. The more you heal, the more you return back to wholeness, or abundance, or whatever you want to call it, which is our natural state of being. Read the gifts of imperfection by Dr. Brene Brown. | /r/seduction | 10/04/18 12:04 AM |
| 1 | I used to have low test and it really messed up my overall drive and confidence when talking to women. I worked on it over the past few years and it's made a huge difference. Here is a science based guide to increase yours.Replace almonds with macadamia nuts or Brazil nuts though, they've been proven to lower T levels. | /r/seduction | 01/02/18 03:05 AM |
| 10 | Cute girl at Starbucks: "How may I take your order?";p | /r/seduction | 13/01/18 03:34 AM |
| 1 | I was dumped this morning after three dates because the girl didn’t feel a connection, this keeps happening. How do you create a connection?Pickups and cakes go hand in hand, apparently. | /r/seduction | 08/01/18 05:57 PM |
| 1 | I was dumped this morning after three dates because the girl didn’t feel a connection, this keeps happening. How do you create a connection?I've always been curious what does that mean? | /r/seduction | 07/01/18 08:09 PM |
| 3 | I've finally became confident in myself.stronger frame How do you have it? If you have a weak frame you will be blown which makes your frame more weaker and it's just a toxic cycle. | /r/seduction | 03/12/17 01:39 PM |
| 6 | How can have game as a woman? I've heard that the Bible for men are the Neil Strauss books and for woman it's Sherry Argov's, Why Men Love Bitches. What can I do to score and risk getting played? How can I be a player as a woman?Well, considering that you guys have very little knowledge on what to do, you can do what Tyler (Owen Cook) did with Game back in the days when the pick up community was a very niche male-dominated subculture starting out (it still is). Have a basic understanding of male-female dynamics by analyzing interactions, read more books about male psychology and what causes attraction for men, develop theories and ideas, field test them, and post them online to discuss with other women who are probably … | /r/seduction | 28/11/17 03:12 PM |
| 2 | At my wits endI think most people posting on this thread have done a lot of good work when it comes to 'externalities' like good looks, confidence, being outgoing, talking to women, but are missing an element on the inside. Find what your purpose is, women love a masculine man who's doing what he loves, it's super attractive and is probably one of the core tenants of attraction. | /r/seduction | 18/11/17 01:56 AM |
| 9 | I’m a 21 year old guy who’s still just as afraid of hot girls as I was when I was 15.Lol that's a great analogy of how this shit works | /r/seduction | 14/11/17 01:17 PM |
| 1 | How do I feel an emotional connection?Also watch "I have no feelings :/" by Elliot Hulse. | /r/seduction | 11/11/17 02:07 AM |
| 2 | My night out with a "nice guy"What were the habit/mindset changes you made that turned you from "nice guy" into more experienced? | /r/seduction | 23/10/17 12:14 PM |
| 2 | On the Virtue of Fortitude and how embodying this can improve your gameCan you share the rest with us? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/17 12:31 PM |
| 1 | How do I learn to befriend people I don't like, especially if they have something I want?Learn how to build rapport with people. Talk to multiple people and maybe even introduce them to some of your friends. Invite them out. Have more fun. You're part of the group now. | /r/seduction | 23/08/17 12:14 AM |
| 1 | The Rational Male – State ControlI'm not sure if she's shit testing you. I think she wants to connect with you on a deeper level here. Men are known for being resilient, but it's not all macho to the point were you deny you have feelings, never speak of them. No. Because we all do, there's tremendous strength in vulnerability, it shows you're not afraid of being hurt. Vulnerability, like many other things, has it's place and time in a relationship. Tender aggressiveness is what true alpha is. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/17 03:22 AM |
| 1 | The Rational Male – State ControlThis is the best analogy for a 'shit test' I've ever seen. Accurately describes it. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/17 03:11 AM |
| 1 | How to stop overthinking?Read the power of now by eckhart tolle. After a while you'll feel normal. | /r/seduction | 25/04/17 10:13 PM |
| 2 | Who do you think is the number 1 pickup instructor?Where's your e-book please so I can purchase it? | /r/seduction | 25/04/17 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Who do you think is the number 1 pickup instructor?Yes. | /r/seduction | 25/04/17 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Tai Chi and youWhat are the best techniques to start out with in order to get full results? | /r/seduction | 07/04/17 05:29 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I'm faking everything when approaching.I will tell you the way I overcame this and it's up to you whether or not you believe it. This podcast is going to instruct you on exactly what to do in order to have the confidence necessary to get out of your shell. http://socialconfidencemastery.com/how-to-overcome-social-anxiety-with-justin-stenstrom/ | /r/seduction | 07/04/17 05:26 PM |
| 3 | Zen and the Art of PickupThis ultimately steers away the pick-up community from filthy, misogynistic losers into empowered individuals who overcame their insecurities. The way of self-improvement is that of inner-discovery, the more you put light on what's causing your pain, the closer you are to overcoming it. For many of us, having the confidence and level of attractiveness necessary to connect with women was one of those issues that we struggle with. By improving our self-esteem, our confidence and our ability to int… | /r/seduction | 07/04/17 05:23 PM |
| 2 | My Theory on ‘Logical’ and ‘Emotional’ ValidationGreat read. | /r/seduction | 21/03/17 03:07 AM |
| 2 | My Theory on ‘Logical’ and ‘Emotional’ ValidationCan you explain this more. I like the key concept behind it. I just don't get the part where he says it's a reflection of your relationship with your self. Can you elaborate more that? | /r/seduction | 21/03/17 03:06 AM |
| 2 | I literally cannot approach a girlThis is very good advice. Follow this OP. | /r/seduction | 10/03/17 10:09 PM |
| 2 | Always assume attraction, and have high self-worthYeah but it's actually a transformation rather than an immediate change. You might not get it from the first time but improvement is actually self-discovery. It's a journey that choose to make and you work towards that. like OP said, meditation, maybe it's something you might want look into. If you don't want to try new things you could read more books like "The power of now" by Eckhart tolle, Tony Robbins, David Angelo (pickup guru), the self-help scene is full of guys like these that made grou… | /r/seduction | 10/03/17 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Free Pua Novel For Seddit. Ten Years in The GameYou said it's for free for two days but on Amazon there's a 13.99$ price on it? | /r/seduction | 08/02/17 12:36 AM |
| 5 | To all the wannabe struggling PUAsI'd like to see this answered too. | /r/seduction | 24/12/16 11:41 AM |
| 3 | What's your general rules when it comes to adding girls on social media?If it's someone I know, I must have had a reasonable amount of interactions with them in real life before I add them. If we don't know each other I add them and immedietly start chatting them up so they know I'm not a hesitant stalker. | /r/seduction | 13/03/16 05:46 PM |
| 28 | (FR)I actually cannot believe it.I'm glad you overcame approach anxiety. And even if you didn't get her number, you succesully got halfway through. Cheers! | /r/seduction | 19/02/16 12:41 AM |
| 2 | [FR's] Learning Game Has Completely Changed My Social Life In 3 Weeks.That was really inspirational, thanks for sharing it with us. I've read one or two books on seduction but never had a chance to actually pull any of it off. Keep it up! | /r/seduction | 02/02/16 02:03 PM |
| 3 | 27 yo kissless virgin into PUA since 2007. Ask me AnythingImpossible. You haven't progressed right, you're probably stuck in step 1 and can't get past it. Here's what you need to do, focus on your approach till you get positive reactions, say you went to a club, your main focus is to approach 5 different girls without coming off as a loser or a creep, next day do it again, and don't expect it to go anywhere, you're just there to have a friendly chat! once you get past approach anxiety, and start getting positive reactions from just stepping up to a wom… | /r/seduction | 05/12/15 10:07 AM |
| 2 | 27 yo kissless virgin into PUA since 2007. Ask me AnythingWhy didn't you use PUA methods to score with women? | /r/seduction | 05/12/15 09:45 AM |
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