| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 144 | Finally gave it up | Inner Game | hh7139 | /r/seduction | 10/05/21 05:33 PM |
| 120 | Don’t be so hard on yourself guys. | Lifestyle | hh7139 | /r/seduction | 04/08/21 12:21 AM |
| 10 | Tinder bios? | Outer Game | hh7139 | /r/seduction | 26/07/24 04:54 AM |
| 3 | Opinion on coffee dates for first dates? | hh7139 | /r/seduction | 20/12/19 06:59 PM | |
| 1 | A subreddit you all should check out: FemaleDatingStrategy | Resources | hh7139 | /r/seduction | 23/11/21 11:14 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | Tinder bios?Finally an answer. Thank you. | /r/seduction | 26/07/24 02:15 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]First of all, that’s a horrible pick up line. A simple “hey how’s your day going” should be enough to get attention on online dating. Extra points for mentioning something in common with them that they mentioned in their bio/photos. Ex: “love your Star Wars shirt, have you seen the mandalorian?” You haven’t even met this chick and it’s your first convo with her, I don’t think it’s a shit test lol, all she said was hi. Honestly just throw that whole shit test stuff out the window, i still don’t k… | /r/seduction | 29/11/21 04:54 PM |
| 5 | How do you not feel a lack of self-worth when it comes to women?Yes, I use to have the same problem. What you are struggling with is lack of experience with the opposite sex and in turn you have put “pussy in a pedestal” as they say. These girls you see around are just as interested in you Im sure, but they are most likely turned off when they sense your in experience. Sounds like you have a lot going for you in the looks department so that’s half the battle, here is a game plan for you: Get a hinge dating profile, get a girl to take good photos of you (coul… | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 05:29 PM |
| 3 | Observation from an (relatively) elder: Young guys today aren't the sameIm in my late 20’s and I think you are right. Pretty much all my guy friends struggle with women and their confidence, and none of them want to address it. Most of them have foregone dating and hooking up, and have just gotten in a long term relationship with girls that show the most interest. | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 05:21 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]OP giving off rape vibes | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Is there any actually useful advice here- or anywhere?Go read models by Mark Manson then comeback. Yes, you are going to have to reinvent yourself a little bit and put yourself out there and accept risk, that’s life man…. But it will all be for the better. | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 03:39 PM |
| 2 | It’s not a numbers game, it’s a game of probabilityExactly. If you think seduction is going to be able to allow you to get any girl you want, you are sorely mistaken. What it will teach you is to capitalize on every moment and how to non verbally communicate, which are key to turning a girl on. | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Help with this pleaseYou literally commented in another thread that your bf messages other girls on Reddit… not even I do that yo. Lady, get a grip. This guy is a fucking loser and emotionally cheating on you with anonymous people on Reddit, you deserve way better. | /r/seduction | 08/09/21 05:06 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Whatever you feel like. Missed the part where you said y’all hVe hooked up but If she’s sending you nudes and y’all are hooking up, your pretty much in the clear to text her whenever. She’s waiting for you to make a move! Sounds like you’ve already got this girl really attracted to you. Honestly thought you were just starting to talk to this girl, but if you’ve already been hooking up for a bit, your pretty much in the clear to do/say whatever you want lol | /r/seduction | 08/09/21 12:29 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Ignore it and don’t mention it. We all say stupid things sometime. An easy date with veggie chicks is say, “hey do you know of any good vegetarian places? I’ve never really eaten vegetarian cause i was raised eating meat but I would be down to try some if you knew of any. I always like trying new food.” This has worked for me 90% of the time. From her reply to you being in downtown, it sounds like she is very interested in you, but you are fucking it up by #1 saying the vegetarian thing and #2 n… | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 11:55 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]From someone who’s been with vegetarians before, let me tell you they mention it is the lamest tease. And literally every guy uses it. Stand out and don’t be like the rest. I always pull vegans/vegetarians cause everyone’s always teasing them. Guess what? While all of you are out there “negging” and “teasing,” dudes like me who have shown an interest in these chicks lifestyle are banging their brains out lol | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Do I mention date when going to an Arcade with her?WHATEVER YOU DO DO NOT DO THIS! When I was first learning, I thought the same as you, that I should mention it’s a date. Part of seduction is the mystery, and part of creating that mystery is being a little vague about things. Immediately calling a date shows her you have intentions from the beginning, you want her to feel like everything is flowing organically, if that makes sense. From what your telling me, it sounds like she’s very into you. So the ball is in your court now and it’s gonna be … | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Help with this pleaseMy advice is to pull back a little bit. Your probably giving them a lot of attention and they are starting to feel it. Give them some space for a few weeks and focus on yourself, especially if you two are still in the dating phase. Also, a little superficial, but learning how to give an amazing blowjob will turn any guy on. | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 11:26 PM |
| 10 | [deleted by user]Whats the sarcasm there? That you don’t want to eat vegetarian? Like ok, very original dude, Im sure she gets the same shit from literally everyone ever lol, is that suppose to be funny? You can say it’s sarcasm but the fact of the matter is that you literally replied with that and didn’t get a text back. We are telling you how it is. The whole teasing her on being vegetarian isnt gonna get you anywhere, sarcastic or not. But hey keep making the same mistakes, doesn’t bother me lol | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 11:19 PM |
| 21 | [deleted by user]Telling a vegetarian “only if you agree too eat non vegetarian food” is probably a huge turn off dude. Think about it, most people who become vegetarian do so cause of very personal reasons, and you are basically shutting her down by saying that. She wants someone who’s interested in her lifestyle, not someone who will bash it. Just my 2 cents. | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 09:58 PM |
| 56 | "Ask me tomorrow" textI’ll do you one better. Don’t reply, and do t see her tomorrow, reply on Thursday and say you ended up getting busy and apologize. It’ll drive her crazy. The reason Im saying to so this is because that reply seems like she thinks she’s got you figured out, and sounds like she’s not really interested. This way, you show your not eager to get into things and that you value your own time, and you create some mystery for her | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 09:12 PM |
| 2 | I can’t stress enough how important this is!Was at a friends party 2 weeks ago and started chatting up one of her friends. We actually had a lot in common and all I did was just keep talking and making eye contact. What’s great about eye contact is you Can convey “I really want you” without ever saying it, the whole time she’s talking to me im thinking this, saying it in my head as I look into here eyes. She’s super hot and you can tell most guys get nervous around her, but I just held eye contact. Now, I’m going on a date with her this w… | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Don’t be so hard on yourself guys.It’s a process. It won’t come overnight. But you are at least starting to think of bettering yourself. People will always let you down, that’s something I’ve learned. | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 08:04 AM |
| 0 | Don’t be so hard on yourself guys.Of course I didn’t show boat in front of him, just talked about someone I’m seeing that is giving me too much attention. But yea, keep pretending to have context for a conversation you weren’t in. I’m sure my friend really appreciates it 👍🏻 | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 08:00 AM |
| 0 | Don’t be so hard on yourself guys.My 2 cents to you: insecurity is the most unattractive trait. | /r/seduction | 04/08/21 05:32 PM |
| 4 | Don’t be so hard on yourself guys.Not true. I managed to get out of the friend zone for a little bit. Enough to make out with my dream girl, who I had known for 6 years before. Granted, it happened after we stopped talking for a long time and reconnected organically, and then I messed it up, she picked up on my insecurity, I went for it too early, perhaps if it was now, I wouldn’t have fucked it up. You just gotta really make sure your ready when you get out of that friend zone. | /r/seduction | 04/08/21 07:26 AM |
| 2 | Spicy SenioritaSo many girls I’ve dated have told me they fantasize of sleeping with an older guy at least once. Good play my man, I’ll be doing the same when Im your age hahahah | /r/seduction | 03/05/21 10:33 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]I would say maybe bring it up on the third date if it’s going well. If you don’t bring it up, the guy definitely won’t either, unless he’s super into you and actually wants something serious. | /r/seduction | 14/04/21 07:15 AM |
| 5 | Models by Mark Manson is honestly a game-changerWelcome to the club man. This is a journey and you are at the start of it, it’s a long process but it’s worth it in the end. | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Life is great until a woman enters itIf you are acting “edgier” because it gets you extra attention, then you are not doing it for the right reasons. You are putting on this act for girls, of course you are gonna attract a certain type of girl. I would say act more like yourself, and find a balance. I don’t think woman are the problem, seems like you have very strong opinions and are resistant to feedback, which makes for bad relationships. | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Which one has a better effect on women who leave your text messages on ‘read’? Calling them out on it? Or assuming attraction and continuing to add value like nothing happened?“Chinks in their armor?” Wtf are you talking about man. You sound like someone pretending to know about women lol | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Started noticing a trend from girls who show interest😂 | /r/seduction | 06/04/21 04:57 PM |
| 10 | What do you think is missing/lacking in this community?Honestly, nothing. With all the “field report” and insecure posts in this sub, the last thing we need is another way for people to be coddled. Read a book and a few posts if you have to, then get the fuck out there and start making moves. | /r/seduction | 06/04/21 04:45 PM |
| 2 | Still hung up on this girlIt’s a learning lesson bud. I can assure you that the pain over getting over a woman who rejected you is much easier than the pain of getting over a woman who you were too afraid to ask out (these stay with you for your entire life). Other than that, make sure you aren’t seeing her social media constantly, so do what you have to do so that’s not the case. | /r/seduction | 01/04/21 04:28 PM |
| 2 | What would you do in this situation?Dispensary girls are known for being flirty because they want your tips lol. Only way to find out is to ask her out when you are there next time. Say something like, “Hey are you free at all this week? Would you be interested in grabbing a coffee or a drink?” Whatever her answer is, you play it fucking cool, no emotions. | /r/seduction | 01/04/21 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Attracting Women is a Process. And every process has vulnerability. If it's possible to exploit the vulnerabilities of other process/system. Why can't this system be hacked?Because humans are random. You can predict there every move, and they can still change their mind at any second and have different outcomes. | /r/seduction | 29/03/21 10:23 PM |
| 2 | Get comfortable with people disliking you if you want to be successful at anythingOnce you start having success and start talking about game with friends (both guys and girls) you will notice how people will react negatively to your transformation. This is normal, and I realize that having success in this aspect of your life makes some people feel uncomfortable about themselves and their own confidence, so don’t take it personally. | /r/seduction | 29/03/21 05:52 PM |
| 2 | How to unfuck myself?Hey man, nothing wrong with not being able to get it up, it happens to everyone. Has happened to me with multiple girls. Two tips for you: Try to stop watching all porn. Porn dulls your libido and gives you unrealistic expectations. Sex is a dance you play with the other person, porn makes it seem one sided. Try getting some ED medication. There are a lot of discreet websites like forHims and BlueChew that will prescribe you ED medication for relatively cheap. The first time I had ED with a chic… | /r/seduction | 29/03/21 03:48 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Check out r/niceguys and you can see for yourself if these are “nice” guys. | /r/seduction | 24/03/21 09:45 PM |
| 1 | No one is going to feel sorry for youBest thing I did for myself a year and a half ago was to adopt this mindset: You are ALONE! No one is going to help you. Trust that you now what is best for yourself. And if you trust in yourself, the universe will show you the way. It is not always necessarily true, but if you adopt this mindset, nothing can let you down and you will always be prepared for anything, because you have your self worth. Now I’m happier than I’ve ever been on my own, and I crave being by myself instead of being arou… | /r/seduction | 24/03/21 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Matched with a girl on Tinder. She wants a LTR but I just wanna work on my game. I have been dodging most of her questions about my intentions.It’s not a tactic, it’s just that, honesty. Im not trying to manipulate anyone into doing anything. | /r/seduction | 18/03/21 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Matched with a girl on Tinder. She wants a LTR but I just wanna work on my game. I have been dodging most of her questions about my intentions.It might hurt her, but she will appreciate the honesty more. I have done this with girls and told them my true intentions, and more often than not it goes well and girls understand and appreciate the honesty. There was one time that I girl started straight up crying and balling in front if me when I told her, it was awkward, but I consoled her, and she said she would be ok, she just needed ro re-adjust her mindset because she said she thought things were going a different way. I felt so bad, but… | /r/seduction | 18/03/21 04:28 PM |
| 1 | What do i need to doStop caring about what others think, start making people mad. | /r/seduction | 18/03/21 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Is this a red flag?Sounds like you are insecure that she has more sexual experience than you. In my eyes, the more promiscuous the girl, the better the sex so I could careless if she has had a lot of sex. My advice to you is to let go of that feeling about caring about someone else’s sexual history and past partners, you can stress about it all day and it will bring you nothing but pain, so let go. | /r/seduction | 18/03/21 04:21 PM |
| 3 | Matched with a girl on Tinder. She wants a LTR but I just wanna work on my game. I have been dodging most of her questions about my intentions.Yes dude, you have to be straight up with her. Tell her your intentions ASAP, it’s not fair to string a girl along like that. Tell her “listen, I wanna talk about intentions since it came up last night, and I want to be real honest with you because you deserve that...” | /r/seduction | 18/03/21 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Sex Guide to Los Angeles - One of The Best Hook Up Cities in the USATLDR: Cities are good for hooking up with women, trash article. | /r/seduction | 18/03/21 04:00 PM |
| 11 | [deleted by user]Dude, the reason they don’t reply is irrelevant. people are busy, if they have not replied you always have to give them the benefit of the doubt. My advice to you is stop caring about getting texted back. The sooner you stop caring, the more success you will have. Also, don’t start off with a little joke, that’s lame. It’s very simple, just be real “hey you were cute so I messaged you, how’s your day going?” And then cut to the chase and ask her out. | /r/seduction | 17/03/21 11:32 PM |
| 2 | Girl showed interest now ignoring....Unlike most men, women have options, in fact, they have thousands of options. You didn’t give her what she wanted and now she’s moved on. | /r/seduction | 17/03/21 11:28 PM |
| 0 | I've broke up with my gfSounds like y’all are gonna get back together lol | /r/seduction | 13/03/21 06:06 PM |
| 10 | First cold-approach threesome field reportNo offense but if you’re not killing it, there is no reason to give advice. | /r/seduction | 21/01/21 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Sometimes, it’s just not worth pursuingThis is great hahaha, thanks for this. | /r/seduction | 30/11/20 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Have a first date tonight, any tips for initiating kino? Or any tips in general.These are great tips, thanks! | /r/seduction | 11/11/19 01:20 AM |
| 2 | How to recover from looking needy? Help ASAPSounds like you got ghosted. Your best bet is to leave her alone for at least a week or two. But sounds like it’s a lost cause already | /r/seduction | 10/11/19 09:58 PM |
| 2 | Did I just get friend zoned? (Girl changes our plans and invites her sister)Considering this, pretty sure this is gonna scare her off but I don’t wanna waste my time either. | /r/seduction | 21/10/19 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Did I just get friend zoned? (Girl changes our plans and invites her sister)That’s actually a pretty good idea, I game better in groups anyway, the dates are what I have to get better at. | /r/seduction | 21/10/19 06:13 PM |
| 4 | Do girls notice if you stop viewing their snap stories and liking their insta posts if you used to?They dgaf dude, they have 100’s of people viewing that shit daily. If a girl wants you to notice it they will let you know. They’ll message your story, or mention something you guys have talked about in their own story.... a chick will let you know if they are interested in stuff like that. | /r/seduction | 24/07/19 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Any tips and good reads for getting better at escalation?Lmfao yup, learned this the hard way | /r/seduction | 21/06/19 05:12 PM |
| 2 | Where can I download the book "Models" by Mark Manson?It’s $10 on the apple book store, you can read it on your phone if you have an iPhone | /r/seduction | 21/06/19 12:40 AM |
| 2 | Any tips and good reads for getting better at escalation?This is great, gonna try this. I’m sure she was picking up on a little bit of my nervousness at one point after I realized it wasn’t gonna be as easy as I thought. Definitely gonna try the more confident approach, not gonna expect anything except a good time. | /r/seduction | 20/06/19 08:30 AM |
| 1 | I dont feel sad or happy. I just dont feel anything. I have no personality. No one loves me or likes me. Im tired of pleasing ppl just to be my friend. How to stop these?Read Models by Mark Manson, I’ve already seen results in 2 weeks. | /r/seduction | 18/06/19 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Was ready to get laid, could not get it up...Yeah you are right, I was hammered. FUUUUCK, alright I gotta not drink next time I’m around her. | /r/seduction | 16/06/19 04:29 PM |
| 1 | How to make it clear that this is a dateVery true | /r/seduction | 15/06/19 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Newly single guy struggling with game, here is my story. This is a lot harder than I thought it would be...This is great man, thank you. I have been feeling a bit better and I have been trying to think about it this way. | /r/seduction | 15/06/19 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Newly single guy struggling with game, here is my story. This is a lot harder than I thought it would be...Definitely just sex for now, I want to date more woman. Holding off on a relationship till I am much older | /r/seduction | 11/06/19 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Newly single guy struggling with game, here is my story. This is a lot harder than I thought it would be...Thank you, that means a lot. | /r/seduction | 11/06/19 02:08 AM |
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