Hey there guys, so last week I slept over a girls house, we didn’t have sex cause I was too drunk but i did go down on her for a bit. We made plans to meet up again and go on a date, but instead she ended up just coming over to my place to chill. I was fully expecting to get laid, I was wrong. Things were a little awkward at first but then we got into our comfort zone and we were listening to music and talking about a lot of things. I’d get close to her, put my arm around her, play with her hands, lay super close to her, scratch her back, etc. but every time we would start making out she would stop and either laugh, blow air out her mouth, or literally stop in the middle and just say nope and turn around and laugh. I was like WTF... we hung out for 4 hours and nothing happened. My theory is that she wants to keep me interested so she didn’t want to put out, I’m actually out of town visiting my hometown for the next week so I’m guessing she doesn’t wanna have sex so I’m still interested when I come back. Either way though, I don’t think I did a very good job of seducing her or escalating things in the right way. What are the ways and techniques you guys use to escalate things smoothly? I have another date Friday with a different girl and I want to do things right this time. Also are there any good books on escalation/making the right moves on a first date? I’ve already read Models and would love to start reading something with more info by Friday.