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highhopes01/r/seduction16/08/14 06:24 PM
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highhopes01/r/seduction24/06/14 05:10 PM
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HAHAHAHA. He would get the number out of pity, not from sexual tension.
/r/seduction29/01/15 03:21 AM
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Be natural. Be yourself. Like @_puaaccount said, smile and be confident. A warming smile does a lot and isn't viewed as odd or anything, just friendly and open. You can communicate that you are attracted to her through your eyes. With that being said, don't be weird. I am all for being weird when meeting randoms, but here is the problem. These girls are girls you are going to see again. This isn't just some situation where you will never see the girl again. Rejection is no big deal but you don't…
/r/seduction28/01/15 03:38 PM
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Sexual vibe? Dude she forgot something in class, lol. "Here is my favorite ball point pen baby. It writes super smooth. Lucky for you, I got two. ;)"
/r/seduction28/01/15 03:31 PM
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First you need to identify what makes you laugh, then use what makes you laugh to make her laugh. Your amusement behind what makes you laugh will be conveyed through your humor to her.
/r/seduction28/01/15 03:29 PM
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Use texting to measure how much a girl is invested in you. Long messages, or fast replies is usually a good sign. Texting can sort of be used to create a mental "cliff notes" of the girl. When interacting, you have things to bring up to lead conversation and build a connection. You can't build a connection through texting, it doesn't create the same dynamics as human interaction for connection. Don't reveal too much about yourself through texting or she won't have a reason to want to meet up wit…
/r/seduction28/01/15 03:26 PM
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I feel the same. I never find out they're in a relationship till its too late though and boy has it got me into some situations. One involves a fiance, a whore, myself, a pregnancy and a DNA test! We have all been in that poor guy's shoes before. Stick to your standards and values, or you will end up settling for anything doing things out of your character. It is good to have some morals. That girl communicated her intentions early. "I have a boyfriend is either expressing honesty or just a poli…
/r/seduction25/01/15 06:07 AM
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"I got pregnant when I was 16, I dropped out of high school. My baby's daddy left me, and now I am working at this bar trying to support my child".
/r/seduction25/01/15 05:19 AM
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High school game. Classic. I substitute teach a bit so I see a few blowouts. The best thing to do is to try and befriend her. I see a lot of guys like you who plan these conversations in advanced and have expectations from that first interaction. I feel so bad for a lot of the kids because those expectations usually makes them come off as weird and those years are a really critical time for self development. So you have a network of about 15 people. There has to be at least one person in your gr…
/r/seduction25/01/15 05:16 AM
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$2,000 Gym membership, nice clothes, books, money for outtings. Have you seen the new tour with Julien they announced? I think it was like a $47 thing. They appear to be changing their marketing. They were selling the event as basically a chance to meet like minded guys in your city along with some videos, the chance to talk to Julien and some other things. Not really that bad for $47, beats two grand. Maybe that will come to your area and give you another chance to learn.
/r/seduction25/01/15 04:57 AM
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Respect her for not wasting your time. I wouldn't even try and be witty about her having a boyfriend. She said she appreciated it. You know you made her fucking day. No need to be arrogant about the situation and use some line that was said in 'The Game'. Remember, this is day game at a car wash, not a night club or bar. Just something smooth like "It doesn't shock me a girl like you has a boyfriend. So how long have you been working here? " By turning it into small talk that allowed her to open…
/r/seduction25/01/15 04:46 AM
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Show zero sexual interest in her. She thinks all guys want in her pants. Oh yeah? Well you're an unobtainable mother fucker. She will go nuts because you are not what she is used to. Its about changing that frame. She will be making advances on you if you do this correctly because women want what they cannot have. Sometimes girls just say this kind of shit to make guys think that they're good girls. When a girl announces this to you, it is always complete bullshit. She is trying to raise her own…
/r/seduction22/01/15 08:15 PM
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You're never going to see them again unless you chose to. Bring the ruckus. Generally you want to make them feel connected to you instead of them thinking of you as that guy trying to fuck their friend.
/r/seduction22/01/15 08:05 PM
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Watch Zoolander.
/r/seduction22/01/15 03:33 AM
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Business related, make any situation more fun than what it really is. Motivate those around you. Provide direction. In terms of somebody in a positive of power, out dress them. In business, appearance matters. Seriously. I had a job and I was an entry level worker. Because I out dressed my boss, customers were coming up to me in front of him and asking if I was the store manager.
/r/seduction21/01/15 08:28 PM
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There is more to being alpha than being a tough guy. It is your thoughts. You have the best intentions of others in your head with your own actions. It is just having pure logic. Three guys come up to me and accuse me of pushing a guy, naturally you are going to react. The girl knew you didn't push the guy. She knew they were just a couple of punks. There was no shame in cooperating to make things work. It takes a bigger man to know when to walk away. Was simple as: "Hey man, I am sorry. We are …
/r/seduction21/01/15 08:25 PM
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I said it was a waste of time in another thread and got downvoted. I think it is more area oriented than anything. It is more of an ego boost for the girl. I've messaged fatties before just to test the waters and got no reply back. Some hambeasts legitimately think that they're hot shit on this app, when most guys are just mashing that check mark. You're best off using the time you would spend on these apps bettering yourself or being out trying to meet women. Also men perceive the wrong attitud…
/r/seduction21/01/15 07:55 PM
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Pick her up. Each place you safely take her, you build trust with her. Driving with a girl in the car is also an excellent chance at building rapport, so that when you arrive at your destination, you can focus on fun instead of getting to know her and those boring survey like questions.
/r/seduction21/01/15 07:41 PM
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Just relax. Be natural. Keep her talking about herself which will make her feel open with you and give you some rapport. Have fun most importantly. This is your first date ever. This is a learning experience for you. This is the first of many. There is no failure, just learning and growth. Embrace that mindset and you will be fine.
/r/seduction13/01/15 11:25 PM
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Tinder is a waste of time. Invest your time into something else more productive and beneficial to you that will help you succeed. Then again, it may just depend on your area.
/r/seduction13/01/15 11:16 PM
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She is either busy or just not interested. You have to make her invest more in you. Seems like since it was your party as you mentioned, she could of just been polite since the social gathering was because of your efforts. Don't worry about the texting or lack of texting. If you can draw a response from her, just use your texts wisely. Since she likes to party, ask her what her favorite drinks are and tell her you're having another party. When you mention partying or drinking, she should respond…
/r/seduction13/01/15 08:47 PM
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I agree. "Hey, let's hangout blah blah blah" Should of straight out named a day and outing. OP, go by your old job one day. If it is anything like my old jobs when a former coworker comes in everyone tends to gather around him that isn't busy to catch up. This will boost your value significantly since everyone will be gathered around you and spur up those old feelings in her.
/r/seduction13/01/15 08:37 PM
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Bring up pets. You're welcome.
/r/seduction13/01/15 03:38 AM
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You already have her on a pedestal. You're on the internet seeking input on how to game her. Right away you need to remove any sort of value you see in her. Treat her like you would any other girl. Shes used to guys placing her high on the totem pole from the sounds of it. And by not responding quickly, do you mean texting or in person communication?
/r/seduction13/01/15 03:36 AM
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Give up. The reason she threw the date out there at you like that was because you seemed unobtainable to her. You were this cool guy she hung out with at work, not this little girl that twirled his hair waiting on her next text. Texting back and forth may have seemed like things were cool but she more than likely was oversaturated. Think about eating your favorite food in large amounts in one day. She got her feel. She may have felt there was nothing left to learn about you, maybe you were an av…
/r/seduction13/01/15 03:33 AM
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Brah can those moist panties going to flood the Earth. I'm wearing a similar hair style myself.
/r/seduction23/11/14 05:36 AM
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Find hobbies you like that don't involve being on a computer. Nothing wrong with a bit of gaming but do not make gaming the only thing you do. Gaming really doesn't benefit you as a person. It passes the time but its time that is wasted. Maybe reduce that time and put it into something else. If you don't have a job/classes/responsibilities, invest your time into yourself while you have that chance.
/r/seduction22/11/14 05:36 PM
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Hello, God here. Have zero expectations going in. You'll be fine. Don't put all your effort on one girl or constantly respond to her after you grab her interest. You are this cool, interesting guy doing all this cool shit so shes got to try and capture your time. The more you over-saturate yourself with any sort of interaction the quicker it is to go stale. Leave her wanting more. Nobody has asked you but what are your hobbies? Those are important in gaining interest too. Often you can even meet…
/r/seduction22/11/14 05:13 PM
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I am sorry about your hearing loss. Truly. I've not experienced anything to your capacity but I feel for you. With that being said, just some things I can point out that could help you. Don't limit yourself. You can't get a girlfriend? Yes you can. It is all in your head. Work on just being friends with girls right now. Think about this. You mentioned not being able to develop connections. Befriend girls and develop that skill set of connection building. When you befriend girls too, you're also …
/r/seduction22/11/14 04:40 PM
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Es-ca-late.
/r/seduction28/08/14 02:04 AM
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Nice little thing to work in is snapchat right before bed. Boom, image of you right in her mind.
/r/seduction26/08/14 06:11 PM
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I think Tinder can be good and bad. It allows guys to meet women and learn more about interacting and escalating. Tinder to me seems to be more of a way for girls to build up their ego. I see a lot of guys complaining about girls on Tinder that don't message back. Tinder allows girls to have a lot of false empowerment. They're getting approved by all of these guys for their looks, and they're able to reject even the ones they approve of by not even responding to them. For some of us guys, we hav…
/r/seduction26/08/14 02:18 PM
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And most attractive girls, are always talking to other guys. Have to stand out and offer the most from your conversation.
/r/seduction26/08/14 02:04 PM
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Facebook = Smalltown gaming. Interest wise, I think if you are posting a lot you risk any potentials getting burnt out on you. You can go from being a witty and clever guy to that guy who tries too hard. If you are always online for chat, you don't create a limited time frame. Meaning girls can easily put off attempting to contact you, or assume you're not interested since you haven't contacted them. If a girl adds you, just simply accept at the end of the day. Most people have their social netw…
/r/seduction20/08/14 05:51 PM
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What are you trying to do? See her? Take her on a date? Hang at her place? Basically, you are still just a pup. You are 15. She is 16, and chances are if shes begging for it, she will find a big dog that can deliver. Just my experience with being a teenager. One of the easiest things to do at this age is have a friend that drives and suggest that you two and her and one of her friends go out.
/r/seduction20/08/14 05:32 PM
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Still showing it for me. Sucks it was removed. I hope everyone gets good use out of it.
/r/seduction17/08/14 07:20 AM
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You can review my post history. I'm a fairly active sedditor in the community. I am not affiliated with this app. Just a huge fan. And I didn't have to share knowledge of this app. This may throw the male - female ratio off even more. I wanted to simply share something I use to better myself socially with a community of similar interests that I am active in. This app could completely change somebody's social skills and improve their life. Now if the makers of Parlor seen this and wanted to offer…
/r/seduction17/08/14 03:40 AM
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Well if you read the original post..
/r/seduction17/08/14 12:48 AM
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You're an introvert who doesn't want to 'waist' his energy talking to randoms, but yet you felt the need to post on a comment on a board full of randoms who are focused on bettering themselves and learning more about interactions. Why are you even here?
/r/seduction17/08/14 12:26 AM
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From my experience you select a category, that goofy song plays and you're connected with a stranger. Sometimes you'll have to close the app a few times for it to work properly. I would say this app is still pretty young.
/r/seduction16/08/14 10:20 PM
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It helps pass the time and allows people who want to develop socially to do so.
/r/seduction16/08/14 08:53 PM
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It's free. It's all over the world. The people in the Middle East are super hostile though. I get a good laugh out of them.
/r/seduction16/08/14 08:51 PM
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There is an android app.
/r/seduction16/08/14 08:50 PM
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Sometimes I'll cut ties just to see if they are interested in me. Typically the ones who do see value in me from our interactions do hit me up. Sometimes I'll just talk to other girls so when I do text a girl it is kind of a big deal. This may sound kind of manipulative but I try different things with different girls. You can't do the same thing over and over and expect results. I see talking to girls as more of a social experiment and each interaction is going to help me in future interactions.…
/r/seduction16/08/14 06:12 PM
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Pretty awesome! Most people in a position of power like that have a huge sense of situational confidence and it really goes to their head. You had to have stuck out to her since you corrected her. I don't know many guys that wouldn't be frightened by a woman of power.
/r/seduction13/08/14 05:09 PM
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Study groups. Even if you don't need to study. This will allow you to socialize, make new friends and get in the habit of leading conversations. The conversation will even be completely laid out for you.
/r/seduction12/08/14 05:09 PM
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That is the problem with us younger men. Some of us often view that relationship as more significant than our own pursuits. I've recently realized that my own personal goals are much more important than a relationship at this point. I can be stressed out and have somebody bringing me down, or I can be on my own, doing awesome and making stuff happen for myself. OP sounds like he is in a similar situation. You're in college and working. You're 20. Do you really want somebody who is unstable and c…
/r/seduction10/08/14 09:42 PM
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What attracts a former partner from a recent relationship is you doing better without her. As an old quote goes, "The best form of revenge is success" Thing is, you don't want to live your life with bitterness or a chip on your shoulder. That negativity will weigh you down. Go get a nice haircut, some new clothes, go out with the boys. Set some goals and work towards them. Keep yourself busy. You can beat yourself up and be a little bitch, or you can be living in the moment trying to have fun. W…
/r/seduction10/08/14 09:34 PM
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I got the second date and had an interesting conversation. Never read the book, never will. Pretty sure every girl has read that book. Just ask what it is about. What she has read will go through her head and it is all because you were the trigger of those thoughts.
/r/seduction09/08/14 10:31 PM
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If you are OCD, are you ever going to feel the need to stop improving and go interact with women?
/r/seduction09/08/14 10:08 PM
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Would you view musicians as competition in Nashville? I'd say 70% of the people there are musicians. Can't play the musician card when meeting a girl when musicians are just as common as the homeless people there. Nice place though and it is a party town. Plenty of bars to go in and meet girls. Most people are there to party.
/r/seduction09/08/14 10:07 PM
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Instant sexual conversation? Bring up Fifty Shades of Grey.. I am serious.
/r/seduction09/08/14 09:59 PM
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I'm not going to be the guy here that tells you that you can or can't do something. Job related interactions are learning experiences. Part of learning all of this is being more sociable. If you can't learn to be more sociable on the job, you're sure not going to have any luck with the girls you're trying to pick up. Plain and simple though, you work in produce, you are harmless and will be viewed as harmless to majority of women. You would have to take the conversation out of being job related …
/r/seduction09/08/14 09:57 PM
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I write my goals down at the start of every semester. This allows me to see my progression and if what I am doing in life works for me. Continue growing social circle Accounts = $4,000 Get job related to degree Grow new business more Run two miles straight Continue happiness Succeed in school
/r/seduction09/08/14 08:20 PM
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As somebody who recently just got out a LTR, I feel your pain, really. It is going to hurt. It will for some time. There is nothing we can say or do that will take the pain away, all we can do is help lead you in the right path to getting over this speed bump in your life. Breakups aren't all bad. They do suck, but in any sort of lengthy relationship you seem to forget who you are. You forget what makes you happy, you forget what you do for fun, you lose your social circle. I basically had no fr…
/r/seduction09/08/14 08:16 PM
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Or your friends can give you shit about being a twenty year old virgin while other girls around can hear them giving you shit about it, further lowering your social value. People only know what you tell them.
/r/seduction08/08/14 05:52 AM
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Here is some advice my Dad gave me when I was growing up, "A piece you turn down is a piece that you don't get". I think you are really too worried about what other people think. Dude, who cares what people think when you are getting laid? You're worried about showing higher quality girls a lack of self respect. A lack of self respect in my opinion is not getting laid when you do have the chance. This doesn't mean stick it in everything, but right now you seem to be looking for experiences. Unti…
/r/seduction08/08/14 05:49 AM
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Don't open with it. I think it is acceptable to buy a girl a drink if she conversates with you for a set amount of time and displays interest. Drinks also loosen the situation up. Drinks can take a really good interaction and make it a better interaction.
/r/seduction03/08/14 05:13 AM
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Listen man.. You are going to be around a lot of attractive girls. I do think your openers are too boring. Use the environment to help you open. Stand out. Open with something more fun, most of these girls will be looking for fun guys. College is an open minded, fun, wild, experimental, educational experience. I would advise you to quickly figure out who the freshman girls are. Why? Most of these girls are used to being sheltered. Most do not know what to do with their newly found freedom away f…
/r/seduction29/07/14 04:07 AM
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The social animal is a good start. Thinking fast and slow is another. There is one book called switch. It deals with change and adaptation. It's really good. I'm really into human behavior, business psychology, body language and a ton of others. I also recommend reading about dream meanings. Easy to strike up in conversation and easy to lay the knowledge and impress. Honestly I am just fascinated by people. I could rant forever about these subjects.
/r/seduction27/07/14 07:53 AM
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Ever think it is a sign she's just not that interested? You also may just be asking her way too early. I've found more success just dropping the plan on them last minute. Typically most people will settle for last minute plans, because some plans beats no plans, right? Asking a week ahead of time makes you look kind of lame. Girls are going to always give the replies you mentioned. It's easier to cancel on somebody when you're asked ahead of time. If I asked you what you were doing the following…
/r/seduction27/07/14 07:42 AM
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Running Guitar Weights Cooking (was raised by a single mom, we did this together) Business (making money is fun) Reading psychology books You will laugh at the last one, but when a girl tells you her fears and you're able to tell her why she's afraid of what she is, that indicates very high value. You were able to tell her something about herself that she didn't know. All of my activities are also sociable and benefit me in multiple ways. I'm the happiest I've ever been in my life right now.
/r/seduction27/07/14 07:25 AM
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I actually went out tonight with a girl I was afraid to speak to in high school. She was shocked tonignt because she always thought I was a shy, quiet, boring guy. I explained everything and said I was afraid of rejection back then. She basically told me I had nothing to worry about back then. Kicking myself a bit. Probably could have had an awesome time in high school but I prevented myself from it. Anyways, we're going out again. Pretty cool. If you are uncomfortable with who you are, work on …
/r/seduction25/07/14 08:02 AM
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I really liked what Todd Valentine (RSD) said about clothing. To paraphrase for you: Wear clothes that show off your physical features. Take the style of somebody who gets laid a lot and add your own elements to it. Basically man, show off what you got. Your clothing should be nothing more than a visual expression.
/r/seduction25/07/14 06:44 AM
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It is college. This girl probably isn't going to know what to do with her new found freedom. Chances are her boyfriend will cheat on her, and she is going to go on some big wild spell and almost fail out of school. Going in to college is not the time to fall in love. The best thing about college is that you can reinvent yourself. You can meet a ton of new people. Do it.
/r/seduction21/07/14 05:22 AM
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Spontaneous is both good and bad. Most girls will require time to get ready and etc. Most of my dates claim to enjoy being spontaneous, but still, gotta give them a heads up. In my opinion, spontaneous makes it easier for the girl to come up with an excuse. I think when you're on the date, the date should be spontaneous. Plan something of course, then just pop an adventure on her.
/r/seduction21/07/14 05:16 AM
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This girl sounds like a FWB's. She is single, you do not control her. If she wants to text other guys, she can. If she wants to see other guys when shes not in your bed, she can. She is not committed to you. You are also not committed to her. You say you don't want to start a serious relationship with this girl, yet you're getting on to her for texting other dudes.
/r/seduction21/07/14 05:12 AM
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Ask yourself these questions when you see a girl you would be interested in: Do I know her? Will I ever see her again if she says no? If the answer is no, then you have nothing to lose. If you never see her again, think of it as a disposable approach. The only thing you can do here is gain experience, or even a girl.
/r/seduction20/07/14 09:39 PM
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Well.. He didn't commit suicide...
/r/seduction20/07/14 01:13 PM
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I advise you to check out a site like omegle. You'll be able to conversate with plenty of strangers and develop that skill of developing the conversation.
/r/seduction19/07/14 10:23 PM
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Snapchat is a great conversation piece, but I wouldn't exactly make it my go to for contact with a girl. I'm 23, snapchat for me is just fucking awkward. When I come in contact with a girl in the 18-21 range, they always ask me about snapchat. I tell them I am the worst at it, they tease and tell me they will help me get better. Feel free to use that one. Now, I do think snapchat is actually better than texts for building attraction and showing who you are to the girl. Instead of just a bland me…
/r/seduction19/07/14 07:03 PM
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Five hours is a pretty short time to allocate for a response. If you delete a girl's contact information in five hours for no reply, you are just needy dude. A lot of girls I know are working 7-10 hour shifts and their jobs really don't allow texting due to policies. Before I launched my own business, I had a job like this. She could be at a family event or anything. For all you know, her grandma died. Give her at least a day or two. If you got her number when she was pretty drunk, chances are s…
/r/seduction19/07/14 06:55 PM
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Watch stand up comedy. Incorporate things that they do into your story telling. The start, the delivery, the wrap up. I also feel that it is a value thing. Do you want to hear a story from somebody of high value, or somebody of low value?
/r/seduction18/07/14 11:34 PM
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Come on man, the Mr. Bean one I posted in the other thread about flaking was classic! The answer to flaking is always abundance and not reacting like a little bitch to it. Girls are always going to flake. Only thing you can do is cast out again.
/r/seduction18/07/14 11:32 PM
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In my opinion, it is relatively important. You meet a girl on day one. You get her number. You know damn well before you get that day two, she is going to look you up. This is essentially her opening the book to find out more about you. You just met somebody of interest who is still a bit of a stranger, you're naturally going to try and find out more information to know them better. Use social networking to make yourself look selective when it comes to women. Typically it has to be witty and som…
/r/seduction18/07/14 10:02 PM
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Went to your site: "I was shy, I used to get bullied in school and achieved poorly, I used to be fat and ginger (my beard still is). But I transformed myself, read hundreds of books, and spent every day for several years working on myself, my hobbies, my talents and my goals. Slowly the confidence came, then I took that to the world, and met women in every opportunity I could get. The rest is history." Seems like you almost completely ripped off a top guy in the games story...
/r/seduction18/07/14 07:22 AM
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Why don't you ask Gretchen Wilson... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=82dDnv9zeLs
/r/seduction18/07/14 07:06 AM
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I really like the new branch that RSD is pursuing with their motivational videos. I think they're capitalizing on all the right things. If a man struggles with picking up a woman, chances are he is going to need some pushing and advice in other areas of his life. Really just a brilliant business route for them. I think they could really expand by offering a few additional things, but I'm just a business student with no solid contacts. I think one section would basically bring them some really ea…
/r/seduction18/07/14 07:01 AM
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Alfa as fuck, you say?
/r/seduction18/07/14 06:39 AM
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He's seems to be trying to capture the European market. I watched a few of his videos from 2014, same charismatic guy and the same material as before. Same man, new band.
/r/seduction18/07/14 06:36 AM
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Wouldn't approaching a girl on a laptop be similar to approaching a girl running with headphones in?
/r/seduction17/07/14 10:46 PM
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The first thing I look for in a girl is intelligence. If she doesn't have that, then shes mine.
/r/seduction17/07/14 10:30 PM
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This isn't game.. You're using online dating sites. I could get plenty of numbers if I had a database correlating every single girl I had something in common with. This would be like going to speed dating and bragging about all the girls you met from your game.. Complimenting a girl online is nothing. Most of those girls have probably receive multiple compliments daily and think nothing of it. When you approach in real life you are able to stand out from other guys. You're likely to meet up with…
/r/seduction17/07/14 08:28 AM
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Let actions speak louder than words.
/r/seduction17/07/14 05:18 AM
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Oh man, this is going to make some great social proofing for me. Hear that Seddit?! I AM LIKED. But really.. I'm here to learn, and help anyone that I can based on my personal experiences and knowledge. I may come off as an ass sometimes but I mean well.
/r/seduction17/07/14 03:48 AM
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The part about how showing a girl vulnerability is more confident than anything you can do. If you get anything out of the book I hope it is that.
/r/seduction16/07/14 10:36 PM
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HAHA, never do that shit. That is like trying to guilt the girl into going out with you. "WAHHHH you wouldn't go out with me so I don't want to be a part of your life". Chances are if that girl didn't want to go out with you to begin she couldn't give two shits and will probably be happy this clingy guy isn't blowing up her phone anymore. Don't even acknowledge it. A confident man can handle rejection. Turn the rejection into a mind game. Make her wonder what happened to you and why she no longe…
/r/seduction16/07/14 07:12 PM
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Stop yourself. You recognize the behavior or else you would not be telling us about it. When you catch yourself about to do this, say "This is fucking weird and pathetic" and stop yourself. Call yourself out on it. Seems like rsdtyler might even have a video on a similar topic. Punish yourself, when you catch yourself go and do some pushups or situps. Do them till you are in pain. Your brain over time will start to associate your thought process with the outcome of thinking about her with the pa…
/r/seduction15/07/14 10:42 PM
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They always come back. So... Just live your life, ayeeeeeeeeeee ayeee ayeee ayeeee But really.. Go enjoy yourself and everything will fix itself.
/r/seduction15/07/14 10:33 PM
3

So you are getting yourself into a false state by fueling precum and your imagination?
/r/seduction14/07/14 09:25 PM
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This is such good advice. I got one doing the hot and cold thing to me right now. Here is a summary: Meet girl through mutual friend. Things seemed to be really compatible. Got a lot of IOI's. Probably the best first impression I have ever made on a girl. Girl was down about boyfriend breaking up with her. I didn't go for the number because I didn't want to listen to a girl whine about another guy. Come home, get a friend request from girl on facebook. Girl gets back together with boyfriend. Bum…
/r/seduction14/07/14 08:53 PM
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I remember when girls have odd names the best. You will typically hear a story about how their name has been mispronounced several different times over their life. Sometimes I'll just go through that big list of mispronouncuations she has told me or just call her one of the mispronounced names jokingly.
/r/seduction14/07/14 07:29 PM
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Kind of a neg if you forget their name, and lowers their value. I also think it makes a girl think of herself as just another face in the crowd to you or she hasnt grabbed your interest enough. Most of the time girls will try and gain your attention from this. Then again you have high value girls who would consider this insulting since you showed that you really were not listening to her. Use with caution.
/r/seduction14/07/14 07:26 PM
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Stay away. Same apartment complex. Piss the ex boyfriend off and he is walking distance from you and your property. Simply not worth it.
/r/seduction14/07/14 02:34 AM
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Probably somebody who doesn't like to text.
/r/seduction14/07/14 02:29 AM
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Thanks for sending it to me! Enjoy an upvote and my respect for taking the time out of your day to share it with me.
/r/seduction13/07/14 10:46 PM
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Dude... Smile.
/r/seduction13/07/14 07:11 AM
2

If somebody could message me that link I would be incredibly grateful for that.
/r/seduction13/07/14 05:27 AM
1

Not really into shy girls. Nothing worse than really having to scrape and scrape to try and get to know a girl or get her to open up to you. Shy girls are the kind of girls that act totally different when shes out with you compared to how she acts when shes alone with you.
/r/seduction13/07/14 05:25 AM
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A girl has interest in me and won't stop texting me! I hate texting, wahhhhh! Dude your situation could be so much worse. There are so many guys out there that would be incredibly grateful to be in your situation. Why not take advantage of what you have? A girl who is interested in you. If you don't want to text, just simply don't text back. You could even tell her your on a limited texting plan in your phone contract. Could even say your screen doesn't work very well. Plan and simple, make plan…
/r/seduction13/07/14 05:20 AM
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Since he is friends with them, they have heard about you at least once before. He could have heard one of the girls say "I wish I could find a good guy", and he could of said "My friend academyawardwinner is an awesome guy, I'll invite him out some time!". There is going to be no awkwardness. The only awkwardness from meeting them will be the awkwardness that you create. Girls are always meeting new people. The only way you are going to come off as awkward is if you just sit around quiet.
/r/seduction13/07/14 05:13 AM
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Your situation is kind of like a bicycle for two. She is up front with all of her energy pedaling away guiding where you two are heading. You are on the back with your energy just coasting through because you really don't want to be on that bicycle. Until you shift the momentum, she will always be the first thing people see with her energy. You will always be on the back. She is on the front steering and guiding you. You even mentioned she talked about where you two will go on the next date. And…
/r/seduction13/07/14 12:58 AM
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Maybe she just does not meet your own personal standards. What she is doing, she most likely isn't even realizing that she is doing it. You seem to be letting her energy lead you which actually makes you seem kind of beta or weak minded.
/r/seduction12/07/14 11:17 PM
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"Ohhhh, so you must not be allowed to have friends then" This could trigger an emotional response from her. Typically most girls have had an experience with a boyfriend not allowing them to have friends. Could open her up to the point she is trying to show you she's allowed friends. Honestly though, not worth the effort or drama that results from coming between two people. Been there before.
/r/seduction12/07/14 08:09 AM
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"One of my many goals in life is to be the best version of myself I can possibly be. I am constantly pushing myself whether it be in the gym, my diet, or even what kind of people I allow into my life" This shows a lot of high value. It shows you have control over yourself. It also shows that you as a man are very selective about the people that you do interact with. It shows you have standards. I wouldn't even mention the words self improvement. Instead of that saying you are into self improveme…
/r/seduction12/07/14 06:56 AM
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Do you think approaching somebody in professional attire with intentions of picking them up while wearing casual attire would work?
/r/seduction11/07/14 11:19 PM
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Don't text back instantly. Make it seem like she is having to "compete" for your attention. You text her too much and you come off as needy and it also makes it harder to conversate because you really run out of things to talk about. Texting girls is really something to build comfort with them into asking them to hang out with you. It is used to make two people familiar with one another. It is kind of on a personal basis, while it is kind of not. People today are glued to their phones and the bi…
/r/seduction11/07/14 11:18 PM
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Just go out with them. Let them be your wingmen without them even knowing. AMOG the shit out of them and boost your own status. From my experience.. Once your friends see you talk to girls and see the interest you are able to get from girls, they're going to be willing to listen to you. But really.. Don't even bring it up with your friends unless they express interest in hearing what you have to say.
/r/seduction11/07/14 11:05 PM
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Maybe you should try less routine shit. You are naming all these techniques and you seem to somewhat gain some sort of paranoia about failing to use one or recognize certain things. You should focus less on worrying about these things when talking to girls. I think you just have too much running through your head at once which distracts you from your objective. You want a clear mind that is firing. Your mind when conversation seems to be like a car running that is missing gears. Look at your int…
/r/seduction11/07/14 07:33 AM
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What is it you are saying to the girls? We may be able to pick through that. Do you have any bad habits that you do during conversation? I feel like I'm looking at the cover of a book right now, but it has no pages.
/r/seduction10/07/14 10:29 PM
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They're all most likely going to say "Why?". I mean, what else would you say to that? You are going to want to know why that person thinks you are single. That opener is one that sets you up right away for a potential 50% rejection of her having a partner alone. Depending on your game and the girl's situation that rejection statistic is going to increase. You need a new opener that opens up another stage in the conversation regardless of response. I really think your opener expresses too much in…
/r/seduction10/07/14 10:16 PM
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I think that is why a lot of guys suggest improvisation classes. I think watching stand up comedy will do the same though. Being observant and witty is the way to be. You can always make conversation from simply being observant. I really think that opener though is kind of limiting yourself. What do you do if she says she has a boyfriend? Chances are you back off and lose value since you inquired about her availability. Other girls around the place could see you get shut down which would hurt yo…
/r/seduction10/07/14 10:10 PM
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"Most guys are too scared to approach cute girls" Chances are, if she is actually cute shes probably been approached 1-3 times throughout the night already. That statement kind of gives her the chance to roll her eyes and lump you into the category with the same guys shes probably turned away throughout the night. What I feel you should do is turn the response to why into something more interesting to make you seem more interesting instead of lumping yourself in with other guys. Tell her you hav…
/r/seduction10/07/14 05:19 PM
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Ahhh man, wrong song! I got excited and thought it was Kendrick Lamar. Hide your feelings, hide your feelings now what you better do I'll take your girlfriend and put that pussy on a pedestal Bitch don't kill my vibe, bitch don't kill my vibe Walk out the door and they scream it's alive
/r/seduction10/07/14 05:12 PM
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Next time you speak to her, see if she has snapchat. I think snapchat is an awesome app at maintaining attraction or even interest since basically you can convey yourself or your life through an image. Since you cook, you may be able to get her at your place well before the date you arranged. Send a picture of some good looking meal you made and she will basically invite herself over.
/r/seduction09/07/14 04:26 AM
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You have to eat to grow. I got a friend around that size and he forces himself to eat all of these high protein meals around five times a day to build mass.
/r/seduction09/07/14 04:14 AM
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The game has changed since then. This book came out in 2005. It is almost ten years old now. There are a lot of good things to make note of in that book though. Today's game seems to be more about having a strong innerself. There are all different kinds of game though is the thing to remember. I like Neil Strauss, but I honestly don't see how he picked up a girl if he laughed around them..
/r/seduction08/07/14 06:27 AM
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I worked on myself for some time since my breakup. It was a hard one. My partner was one of those "I will never hurt you" kind of girls. I was with her for about three years. She helped me get through some very hard times in my life. In that relationship, I let myself spiral due to me being in a comfort zone of having a partner for life. Since then I have dropped around twenty pounds, gone down four belt holes and I have added some muscle. I haven't had any sexual outings, but I have turned a fe…
/r/seduction07/07/14 09:56 PM
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Not sure what kind of condition you are in or anything, but I'd advise working on myself before paying for any sort of program. New clothes, gym membership, diet, etc. That way you know, if you do decide to opt out you will have something to show for your money. Things will come much more natural when you are confident in yourself. I do like RSD though. Tyler has a lot of great things to say and you can learn a lot from his videos. I am also big on the motivational direction RSD is going in. Tyl…
/r/seduction07/07/14 09:41 PM
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Change your attitude. The rest will come to you. You're in the right city to do things. Also girls don't expect guys that are 5'6 and 120 pounds to have giant penises. Most girls actually expect guys to have chodes down there. You are the average penis size. Stop beating yourself up over things that do not matter. You got an average sized dick and you just had sex? So what, you just got laid. You can be miserable with your average sized dick and not getting laid, or you can still have an average…
/r/seduction25/06/14 05:45 PM
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Then you have already made a first impression on her, kind of. Well, unless she was too drunk to really remember. Chances are if she was drunk she won't remember you, or she will be like "Oh my god, its you!". When girls are drunk they tend to get super excited to see you, whether or not you have a background. If they know of you, they'll pretty much run up to you and greet you. I've been to a few parties and knew of a few people there. Girls that normally did not talk to me, would scream my nam…
/r/seduction25/06/14 05:29 PM
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Most guys will tell you you're too young here. Most of these younger threads also seem to get deleted. I'll offer you some reasonable tips for your age. The big thing is, this takes practice. You can't just expect to read a couple of things on here and expect to go to this party and have some magical night with your crush. We can't tell you what to say, what to talk about. These things are in you. You need to practice. Any chance you get to practice, take it. You sound like you need to learn to …
/r/seduction25/06/14 09:13 AM
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Tyler is a motivator. I would love to have a conversation with the guy. He generally seems to have the best interest of his community his mind. Seriously besides approaching girls, he is actually telling you to eat better diets, take interest in their health, hit the gym, and teaches you how to appreciate yourself. I also enjoy how passionate he is about the subjects he speaks on. I will watch his videos or listen to one of his podcasts when I just need to get amped. His positivity really radiat…
/r/seduction25/06/14 09:02 AM
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To enjoy socialization and interactions more, change your attitude. Be more positive. Do not fear rejection. Being turned away should not be view as rejection, but more so as a learning experience for you to develop yourself. From the information you've given us, the problem lies in you. You said you felt better after the interaction is over since you can't fuck it up anymore. Your attitude is based on limiting yourself. When your taking a test that you've studied your ass off for, how do you fe…
/r/seduction25/06/14 08:54 AM
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"Stranger danger. LOL, how are you doing? Its been a while"
/r/seduction25/06/14 08:49 AM
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I think most girls would view your car as cute. I wouldn't mention the registration plate until she did. Let her feel clever, play along with it if shes a bit shit, or use it to neg her. "You don't know how many times I've heard that".
/r/seduction25/06/14 08:46 AM
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Thanks for the input! I did come off as negative reading it again. I wanted to fit the conversation though, because the band that was playing was the reason that they were outside. They were having a bad time and I should have turned it around to make them more excited for what was to come later. I should have came off as more positive though. The whole pretending to not know anyone part was kind of a joke, I knew I was going to see my friends any second. That joke did make me seem like I though…
/r/seduction25/06/14 12:56 AM
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Facebook isn't all bad, it is simply knowing how to gauge interest and not come off as a creep. Also, don't go adding random girls. Add ones in your area. I've added girls before and they've talked to me first without me even having to plot how I'm going to start a conversation. That really means nothing. They've been good looking girls, and I've been able to make things happen. I've added girls and waited till the timing was right to message them. My newsfeed is kind of my reading I do while I …
/r/seduction21/06/14 05:16 PM
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Don't sweat it. The biggest part of self improvement is not giving a shit what others think of you. You are doing this for you. I told my two close friends I read 'The Game' out of curiosity. I recommended the book to them just for the exposure to another world and the development of one man. I told my friends I was interested and was going to learn more about pickup. Some of it was out there and it makes a lot of sense. My friend who works as a trainer gave me some shit about it, he also gets t…
/r/seduction21/06/14 09:39 AM
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How many people get drunk and have sex? How would it make your relationship with her weird? Two people have some drinks and decide to hook up. Basically just gotta do the drunk conversation "I can't do this it will affect our work". The more you pull away, the more she pulls you in. Make her be the one that persuaded you into sex. Make her seduce you.
/r/seduction27/05/14 05:48 AM
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We don't know your area, so we really cannot suggest many things for you to go out and meet people. I would suggest creating a social circle with the guys at work and using their social circles to meet new people. I wouldn't worry about meeting any girls right now. I would be more concerned with getting in the best shape of my life for when I turned 18, or for when school started after the summer. When you turn 18, a whole new game will open up for you. Use the time that you're not around any gi…
/r/seduction27/05/14 05:43 AM
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Easy. Claim that you don't know very much about the X-Men, and you've seen none of the movies or you haven't seen First Class. Ask her if she will help you get caught up at your place. You now have her in your territory and are making her jump through your hoop. You reward her with the cinema date for coming over. And if you go out for coffee with her, do not do it before the movie. If you are anything like me you'll be pissing the entire movie or have to make a bowel movement. Coffee stimulates…
/r/seduction26/05/14 03:10 AM
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Share the results with us!
/r/seduction25/05/14 10:42 PM
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I think he said he was wearing the costume to the dance, not totally sure.
/r/seduction23/05/14 02:11 AM
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If you want to see the kid get put down, see ultimate999x's comment. That is putting him down. I did not see you white knight his comment. He asked for routine and an approach. I provided him with one. I responded to his comment to let him know that I meant no harm. You are here contributing nothing other than a distraction. I don't want to put anyone on this community down. We're all here for insight and to boost each other into things we may not ordinarily do. I hope JustRuss79 goes to that co…
/r/seduction22/05/14 10:54 PM
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Me and my friends throw the term neckbeard around loosely. No offense was meant on my behalf. You will have to build an immunity up to that though especially around amogs and girls. Have something witty ready in retaliation, you couldn't get that bent up like you did in front of a girl. If we were around a girl and you did what you did in the comment, you would likely stomp off furiously, right? You'll also maybe have the group leader deal going. Not sure how into the mystery stuff you are, but …
/r/seduction22/05/14 11:47 AM
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Eh, the girls you're going to be hitting on are going to be so used to you neckbeards trying to hit on her that she'll have an immunity built up. Seriously, those girls will have all kinds of you creeps touching her and hitting on her. I would be willing to say a really beautiful one will get hit on at least 50 times. I think some of those girls even get paid just to show up in costume. If I was you when approaching, I wouldn't even act impressed by who they are supposed to be. They're going to …
/r/seduction22/05/14 02:35 AM
1

Do you even have to ask how to improve yourself if all you're doing is smoking weed and playing video games all day?
/r/seduction16/05/14 02:13 AM
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Haha, you are a chode. From just that little bit of video you're commenting on, Tyler negged her, complimented her, established kino, displayed that he was the amog, broke the outer bitch shell. He did this in just a matter of seconds and made the girl take a complete 360. Also, check this video out. Technically all of this applies to you. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uDy08-RphI8
/r/seduction15/05/14 04:18 AM
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No, that just means they've lost the starring contest. Just because a person breaks eye contact doesn't mean that they're passive. Some people scout shit out. Holding eye contact too long can be viewed as hostile behavior. You can't go around constantly in the social dominance mode. Not everyone is out trying to be the alpha male and meet girls. Most people honestly don't give a shit. Most people quickly glance away when making eye contact with a person. It isn't because they're passive, but bec…
/r/seduction13/05/14 07:06 PM
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Dude, you are brave enough to get out on a dance floor and dance, but you can't get over a small speed bump? You do what very little men are willing to do and that is dance. The girls are approaching you. Girls who are interested in guys move in closer to them. Your reactions aren't doing you any favors. Change them and benefit. Once you hit it off with a girl that approaches you, you will cross the bridge that you need to cross. Also, you either made her feel like shit, or convince her you were…
/r/seduction11/05/14 07:33 PM
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Unsure, really don't even care. Just a throwaway account like everyone else here. Girls are attracted to confidence. Your body language, the way you approach them, being able to hold eye contact. Pretty obvious things that are easier said than done. Girls mentally are able to read you and your signs. Guys are too stubborn to properly read a woman's signs, unless they learn about it. I think in your case, the girl may be already attracted to you but you are afraid of closing. Try and close. Start…
/r/seduction11/05/14 07:25 PM
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You build attraction through the confidence that you display. If the girl is going to stand around and talk to you, she is attracted to you or you done a great job at grabbing her interest.
/r/seduction11/05/14 05:38 AM
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