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Wait a second... I literally just realized that’s what inner game is... when you are comfortable and having fun approaching girls. If you are taking it seriously, she can tell this is hard for you and assume there is something wrong. Inner game is getting to the point where approaching is fun... when you don’t take it as a serious journey to find love but an opportunity to have a fun social interaction.
/r/seduction07/10/19 10:37 PM
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I am actually a recovering nice guy. That is not easy at all bro and its no joke. I think you are talking about the steps that come before the seduction stage. Fixing up your life, job, losing/gaining weight, self esteem... these things are not games nor game (seduction)... these things are self improvements that you oughtta be doing for yourself so you feel good about yourself. I see some people sell this as inner game but its just self improvement. Inner game is having the right mentality, not…
/r/seduction07/10/19 10:11 PM
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I don't get it either
/r/seduction15/06/19 08:11 AM
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For those of you coders. When I used to teach python none believers. They were afraid of making and causing a bug so they did nothing. I thought them to have fun with it because the bugs thought then what they did wrong. If you change your attitude about bugs in yout approaches, you will learn how to fix your bugs. Don't be afraid to cause bugs, it's the only way to learn.
/r/seduction29/05/19 05:44 AM
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Bro she knows her status she is not going to come to me given the context
/r/seduction21/04/19 05:15 AM
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Should mention I'm at the bar now. This hot girl keeps rejecting guys and eyeing me. But fuck me if I have the balls to go for it. I'm standing here paralyzed. It's crazy
/r/seduction21/04/19 04:37 AM
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I think the problem is in the definition of honesty. I replied to your other response explaining.
/r/seduction17/04/19 03:47 PM
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I see, so your idea of honesty is to make a good product and let people find out. Game is not dishonesty, it's a social skill. It's dishonesty (manipulation) when one uses game to deceive women into thinking the guys is something more than he is.
/r/seduction17/04/19 03:38 PM
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Bro that's not the type of honesty he is talking about. It's about being a valuable man before gaming. It literally doesn't matter what you say to girls. It's your behavior that counts. Dishonesty is attractive behavior when you are not valuable (PUA).
/r/seduction17/04/19 03:31 PM
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Let me refine and simplify my last comment... Imagine you are a sells man. The first part of the book shows you have to be a good product. The second shows you how to sell that good product. In contrast, dishonesty is being a bad product (insecure, fake alpha, nice guy etc..) but having good sells skills (game).
/r/seduction17/04/19 03:11 PM
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I was confused by this as well. Without going into too much detail.... The point of the first part is to show you why you have problems. So it pushes you to fix yourself and have confidence. (Inner game) The second part shows you game. (Outer game) Since you fixed yourself from the first part, you are not deceiving women into sleeping you. If you read the first part and stopped, you would be a catch but no one would know about it because you have no game. If read the second part only and stopped…
/r/seduction17/04/19 03:04 PM
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In this order: 1) "Models" by Mark Manson 2) "Book of Pook" 3) Stop waisting time and approach! The classics: "The Game" by Neil Strauss "Mystery Method"
/r/seduction15/04/19 03:40 AM
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I think you are a point of realization. Dating apps are nothing but tools to boost girl's egos and to frustrate guys into approaching. You are not special in your suffering and that is a good thing. The question is how you handle this: a) hate everyone including your parents b) develop real self esteem and self love until you don't care about rejection. You don't let others define your worth, especially girls on dating apps! Girls find (b) very attractive by the way. You matter and you are proba…
/r/seduction14/04/19 06:59 PM
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Exactly! Keep up the good work man
/r/seduction13/04/19 08:13 PM
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Here is what I figured... 1) Confidence itself isn't what's attractive, it's what it affords. It makes you resistant to rejection. When you are not afraid of rejection because her opinion doesn't matter... You approach. When you approach, not only do you improve your odds, you look brave. Bravado is what they find attractive at the core but from their end they call it confidence. 2) think about a salesman. If he is not confident about what he is selling, he must be hiding something about his pro…
/r/seduction13/04/19 07:52 PM
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It's like you are so sure of yourself and identity that you don't allow what happens to you to change that certainty and self love. Here is another example Identity: "I am a hot guy" Then rejection happens :( Insecure: "I must not be hot. I am ugly" Arrogance: "How dare she, let me show her how hot I am" (validation trap, why negging works on girls) Confidence: "I'm hot, I will find another girl"
/r/seduction13/04/19 07:42 PM
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Damn, this hits the nail
/r/seduction13/04/19 06:32 PM
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Confidence is certainty in one's value, identity and frame that withstands hardships (shit tests, rejection etc...) Arrogance is an inflated sense of value, identity and frame usually to compensate for an insecurity (fake alpha, nice guy etc...) How do you get confident? Learn to love yourself to the point where you don't have to prove yourself.
/r/seduction13/04/19 06:21 PM
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Thanks man. I need to hear this.
/r/seduction12/04/19 11:07 AM
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Yes. If they are not a full adult you will scar them
/r/seduction12/04/19 07:00 AM
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