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thank you mods for creating this amazing space. i wouldnt be who i am without this sub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 12:22 AM
2

its obvious what i said is a joke. clearly yall cant understand that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 11:01 PM
15

hes literally being misogynistic in his text and hes a disgusting human being. mom shouldve used the "swallow" card or abort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 10:59 PM
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i stopped explaining myself long ago
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 10:40 PM
9

this made me laugh pretty hard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 07:49 PM
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yep. Not surprised though, it was relationship advice. that sub is filled to the brim with misogynist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 06:36 PM
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i even had a mgtow pm me asking if i actually went to huffingtonpost university smfh. and another one saying i posted this to a man bashing sub because i was fragile and bitter at all the men of the world. if this sub is man bashing im 100% ok with that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 05:05 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/e6m94w/pro_tip_if_he_has_been_texting_you_for_more_than/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share its literally in the handbook
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 03:25 PM
52

tradwifes are disgusting but the men who want them are even moreso
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 03:22 PM
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this confused me. his actions scream loud and clear she should run. but the whole point of this sub is "if he doesnt commit after two days move on" the first quote you mentioned and your response doesnt make any sense if you read the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 03:18 PM
73

Trad marriages are like slavery. a tradwife is a literal slave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 03:12 PM
1

ive had scrotes going on all my comments and posts calling me the hard r, a b****, a nazi, all for saying that women have the right to say no. but yeah. anal is gross as fuck and hurts. it never feels good
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 03:03 PM
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my ex called my labia roast beef and then laughed when i said it was a douchey thing to say. he would call me it whenever we got in a fight, (like when i pronouced the g in lasagna and it made him mad) and even had our (then) mutual friend to whisper it in my ear and tell him how i reacted so he could laugh. he regularly would do things to piss me off and then would laugh when i did get mad. he would mock my actions when i got mad (basically just saying "ohhh ho ho" to stop myself from getting t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 02:59 PM
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i tried to cut my own labia off when i was 10 years old. still have the scar. i also tried to cut into my lower stomach to remove my uterus because my ex told me periods are repulsive. i was 11 that time, though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 02:57 PM
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"am a female. have vagina. am very moody. thats how you know im FEmAlE"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 02:56 PM
2

that, and assault isnt ok no matter what genitals you have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 02:55 PM
2

because there are more men on reddit. and, in society men are allowed to be abusive, toxic, and behave immature well into adulthood. even their entire lives. women arent allowed to behave this way as young as 5 years old.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 02:53 PM
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or, they say theyre listening, but they're on their phone, watching youtube, playing video games, or doing literally anything else but actually listening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 02:50 PM
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both my exes to a t. kept in contact with one of them and recently got a new dress that was honestly beautiful as fuck and makes me feel like an actual queen, i told him and goes "happy for u bb. but im playing arkham asylum so thats fun." he did this the entire six months we were together. id have an accomplishment and hed just say "nice" and change the subject to whatever he was doing instead. when i was thrown in the mental hospital he said he was happy that i was, even after i called him eve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 02:49 PM
22

yep. the bro code
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 02:38 PM
1

fun fact; dealerships will actually lower or raise the price depending on how experiemced, confident, and young a person is. my teacher used to be a dealer and told a story of how he managed to sell a car to a single mother who was 18 years old and had two kids for thousands more than the actual price. they dont care about you. they just want money. thats it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 12:11 PM
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i love the whole "train men like dogs" thing but even dogs dont need this much work and wont fuck up anywhere near as badly as a single man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 12:07 PM
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im so proud youve found liberation and new confidence in this sub. this is truly an amazing place for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 12:04 PM
1

my ex, on our valentines date, said he wanted his dad to take him to a strip club. when i looked at him horrified he was like "ive just always wanted to go to one! i wouldnt cheat on you or anything!" he was cheating on me. at that time it has been going on for three months. he did the same thing by buying a fleshlight. he was flirting with my friend, and one day randomly said he was going to buy a fleshlight. when i left him on read he said he was kidding. he told my friend that it was a secret…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 12:02 PM
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"date a child because they dont have the experience or knowledge to know how gross and abusive you are"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 11:53 AM
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yeah when we call out a rape joke or sexist joke they say "bet youre fun at parties" yes Jon. i am. i dont make all the women there feel scared.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 11:52 AM
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thats because sex is just a tool for them to release their anger and stress. they can lie and say its how they give love, but bitch nah. women have sex to feel connected and loved, and to feel good. most of the time that doesnt even happen, at least if shes straight and with a man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 11:48 AM
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funny how when men hate women they want to rape, abuse, traffick, kidnap, torture, and murder them. they usually hate them because they said no, dont do that, or leave me alone when women hate men they avoid men at all costs. they do this because men rape, abuse, traffick, and try to kill them. men are sick. i will never feel safe around them and if i had a choice I'd live in a female only society
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 11:47 AM
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this is why you never let men in your life..even family members can do this, and do. its best to just have a female only friend group. but god. this sick fuck deserves the chair
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 11:42 AM
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exactly. better to avoid the scrotes and REALLY go your own way. dating them isnt even worth it, date a woman and youll receive some perks; -a real emotional connection -no hot and cold -no begging for sex -actual respect -no dealing with LVM or NVM -youll be happier, healthier -wont have to be a mans mommy/therapist/emotional trashcan/playtoy +more!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 11:41 AM
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my dx makes so much more sense now. he acted like an ass in the beginning but after 3 months he took me for granted and started cheating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 12:40 AM
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aside from how weird this guy is, this is the truth. i lost just 40 lbs and suddenly all the people who bullied me came crawling back and flirted with me constantly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 11:42 PM
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r/askmen r/aita r/offmychest r/trueoffmychest r/trashy all have misogyny at one point or another. especially r/askmen i unsubbed from askmen because one question came up saying "men, if you were offered $10,000 in exchange for making your wife sleep with a man, would you do it?" when i commented how disgusting it was i qas downvoted into oblivion. made me sick to my stomach and i still dont trust men or think there are any good men out there. 98% of the comments were saying theyd do it no questi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 11:39 PM
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r/whoooooosh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 11:01 PM
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scrotes mad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 10:21 PM
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wow we got a genius over here. its called sarcasm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 10:09 PM
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Added info; he called me a karen after this comment. something about his comments make me think he never gets near a uterus whether he wants to or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 09:24 PM
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god people like this shouldnt be allowed to breed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 09:21 PM
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i tell everyone not to have kids anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 09:15 PM
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one of my male friends was talking about how he wanted a "TradWife" so she could stay home, do all the cooking, cleaning, child bearing, etc. i just gaged and told him straight to his face "thats how women get trapped in abusive and toxic relationships and cant leave." and he had the audacity to say that only happens when both parties arent happy. he wants a pickme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 08:36 PM
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the best dating advice you'll ever get; dont do relationships. as a woman we have absolutely nothing to gain from long term relationships. we can get money from many short term flings, and when you settle down, 30 years down the line he WILL cheat or betray you and turn into a manchild, if he isnt already. better to not waste all those years of your life. get a plant or two, and have some furbabies. Better yourself, be in a relationship with yourself, your happiness, nd your employment. men are …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 08:28 PM
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SO glad theres no "NTA, ESH, OR NAH" everyone sees how much of a lowlife op is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 08:20 PM
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very big red flag. its actually a white flag, if your partner does this throw up the white flag and leave. if someone youre interested in(shouldnt have crushes anyway. read the handbook) /is interested in you does this throw in said white flag and run away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 08:08 PM
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this is why i will never date anyone again. especially scrotes. pussy power, all the way. the next person im dating will be a woman, non negotiable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 08:03 PM
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If they play hot and cold and cant decide how they feel, or try to make you apologize for being upset (and make you comfort them) they aint it sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 08:02 PM
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you do not know he wont pump and dump. normal people dont just stare like a creep. and, softboys exist. tget3act like they have an emotional connection but just want sex, like a fuckboy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 03:33 AM
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i did. and i still stand by what i said. you are not cute for accepting creepy stares and other sexual harassment. its clear you didnt read anything in the handbook. and if you did you need to read it again and again until you actually understand it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 03:15 AM
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this is the LVM version of that LVW tweet posted here a while ago about a man saving a dollar, and shed add another, doubling his amount because she loved him soooooo much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 03:12 AM
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this is some pickme shit ngl and a whole lot of religious word vomit. lots of words to say "youre the problem"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 03:09 AM
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this poster. not his husband, his wife was the one who was sexually harassed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 08:48 PM
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my ex was like that. first week of dating he told ne he thinks abortion is murder and would go on for literally four hours or more about how fat and gross feminists are, but then claimed he WAS one. just not one that supported x, y,z shouldve dumped him real fast
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 08:47 PM
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all you get out of reporting rape or sexual harassment is more pain. commonly death threats, victim blaming, lost job, no friends, losing all their family members, being hated by everyone, etc etc. very rarely do they get convicted, and even rarer do they get longsr than a few months probation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 08:45 PM
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everytime she gets an unsolicited dick pic he calls her a cheater
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 08:43 PM
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op deleted the post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 08:42 PM
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he said in the comments that the fact she took two years to tell him made him assume she was cheating. the person responded perfectly. "she literally told you she was in fear of losing her job, and probably knew youd accuse her of cheating. sooo"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 06:58 PM
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i can even imagine how upset she feels. first her boss sexually harassed her and she feared losing her job, and financial freedom, then her LVM pos plays the victim and gets upset, not because shes struggling and by his actions, but because he feels betrayed and cheated on. what a fucking JOKE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 06:32 PM
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sadly pickmes learn about this sub and call us ths and w*es for having standards and for demanding basic fucking respect. ok karen. go be a slave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 03:17 PM
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all the pickme bullshit too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 01:42 PM
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this made me chuckle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 12:12 PM
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then sh acts like we need to use our valuable time to write a list about what we like about those specific men so we dont attract the idiots
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 11:02 AM
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thank you queen, same for you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 12:45 AM
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i have no doubts ill develop feelings again, but i wont act on them. if anything ill use men for my own benefit and have no emotional attachment at all. the sperm swims to the egg. not the other way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 12:32 AM
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yeah. me too. im never getting into any other relationship after him the thought makes me seriously want to die and causes me to breakdown sobbing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 12:28 AM
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and now im never going near a man again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 12:24 AM
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with my last ex my anxiety would shoot through the roof when i saw a text from him or saw him in person. turns out he was cheating and didnt care about me at all so i was right to feel that way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 12:20 AM
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•freedom •less bullshit •can actually have an orgasm and my vagina is wet almost constantly. in a relationship even masturbation doesn't get me off and im dryer than a desert •no confusion or worrying •no offensive comments •high self esteem and confidence
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 12:18 AM
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pickmeishas are depressing and sickening at the same time. sometimes their behaviors are even more diaturbing than the worst lvm out there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 11:26 PM
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jesus christ did she actually say that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 11:02 PM
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at least not any more. all the pickmeishas who say they dont need feminism would be the same women hundred and fifty years ago believing women were mens slaves and that they deserve to be raped, abused, and sexually harassed. hell, most of them dtill think women deserve that. so fucking disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 10:49 PM
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this even if i feel like at the most theres ten hvm in the entire species. pickmeishas and fuckboys want women yo lower their standards because theyre insecure and know they arent even close to being a normal functioning person and dont actually deserve high quality. even in my pick me days, i never thought women were the problem, or that they chose to be surrounded by hundreds of trash human beings. its insane to me how misogynistic a big chunk of women are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 10:46 PM
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the entire article is her bringing up the same exact point over and over again. that if you think men suck you're the problem and you're the one choosing to be around shitty men. then at the end of the article she just brings up the rock as if thats a valid point at all? reading this whole thing to make sure it was actually fds worthy was depressing as fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 10:43 PM
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yikes. the name "alex James " made me think it was a man. its even more gross now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 10:37 PM
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it doesnt cancel it out. we dont know the true story, but he was sexually abusing kesha. katy perry could be in denial and doesnt want her story out in the public eye, or he couldve just taken advantage of kesha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 09:54 PM
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about the kesha thing, she was actually forced to preform and sing a lot of those songs by her producer who was sexually assaulting her. an example is die young, which came out shortly after the sandy hook shooting. Kesha didnt want to drop that song after such a tragic event, but her producer did it anyway and laughed as people hated kesha for his actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 04:01 PM
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sadly i doubt op will tell anyone after she saw how mamy people were disgusted by her LVM dickwad. she knows what he did is wrong and she doesnt care. shes a pick me. she has cockhold syndrome and will stay with op even when hes abusing her and literally making the poor child treat him like her master. he already is starting to, making her clean up her juice. if he was a normal person, thatd be fine. a kid should pick up after themselves. but his racist behavior shows this isnt innocent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 10:52 AM
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i think thats the only time staying in cpntact with an ex is ok. if the friendship is strictly platonic now and they grew up together. other than that, hun no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 10:49 AM
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i know, i myself am light skinned despite being north african and hispanic. but yes. her inaction and excuses are repulsive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 10:58 PM
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pickmeishas gonna excuse everything. even him calling HER child the n word and treating her like a slave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 10:36 PM
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THIS. my ex wanted to do anal and would stop sex every two minutes to tap my asshole and say "booty" even after i told him to stop multiple times. id get off and go to put my finger on his asshole and suddenly he'd get all sorry and would let me near him. dont want it done to you, dont do it to me, asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 10:17 PM
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exactly what i hate about advice subreddits. they think someone going through their partners phone is worse than their partner cheating, having kiddie porn, being a murderer, racist, homophobic, or transphobic. its disgusting as hell. you should be able to go through your partners phone if they have nothing to hide.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 10:05 PM
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exactly. of course a white woman wouldnt realize how disgusting her racist husband is and the effect he'll have on her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 10:01 PM
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i commented and told her to file for a divorce and take pictures of any other evidence showing how racist he is so she can get full custody. people in the comments said i was extreme, it was a joke, and even this pick me said that that was too far and she didnt think a divorce was necessary 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 09:50 PM
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had someone a few minutes ago tell me PROUDLY theyre still close friends with their ex and so is their partner. just shook my head. pickmeishas everywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 07:53 PM
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studies have found around 30% of men wash their hands after going to the bathroom and 60% of women do. i already had no intention of ever getting with another person, woman or man, but knowing that statistic makes me carry hand sanitizer on me all the time and use it even if i touch something a male does
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 07:51 PM
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someone get the nuke
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 07:49 PM
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dont be a lvw going after a lvm. know your worth and level up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 07:48 PM
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"when i tell you to do something, you do it. understand?" he deserved to be swallowed by the very gender he hates and thinks he can dictate over. she shouldve used her right to abortion as soon as she found out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 04:15 PM
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ive always felt watching porn is gross. but in a relationship? that is cheating. no if ands or buts. You dont willingly go to a site of women being abused, drugged, trafficked, and coerced to get hard, have favorite porn stars, and know the top actresses (because they are just that. Actresses. they dont enjoy any of it) names by heart while comitted to someone. you dont look at someone else and wank it. my ex would watch porn and come to me and tell me how hard he fucked himself to a bunch of mi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 04:09 PM
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this. i didnt reply just downvoted and thought the ladies would like a nice laugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 03:17 PM
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use HIM for sex and then DEMAND what HE brings to the table
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 02:23 PM
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i refuse to give birth or be pregnant period. fuck that shit. adoption is ethical
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 02:20 PM
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a HVM and a HVW sadly we got stuck with a LV pumpkin and immigrant right after
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 02:18 PM
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this whole "i dont need feminism" bullshit is only done by pickmes and trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 02:07 PM
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exactly he is the exact LVM this sub educates women about
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 01:40 PM
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facts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 01:39 PM
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shes a LVW.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 01:35 PM
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this shit is gross***
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 01:33 PM
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open relationships always make me gag or laugh hysterically. i laugh very hard when they OBVIOUSLY go up in flames or one or both parties get insecure and start to resent their CHEATING partner. just break up if you want to sleep around. open relationships are NOT and will not be relationships. (ive been debating leaving r/relationship_advice for that reason. so many people talking about their fake relationships and whining abou how upset their decision has made them)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 08:50 PM
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even more research showing mens egos are even bigger than their audacity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 08:46 PM
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i stopped romanticizing mens true nature early in my teen years. 13 years old was when i realized even the "good" guys are also trash. i saw a quote a few years ago and it still remains true. "yes, all men are trash. Some are recyclable trash, some are biodegradable, while others are single use plastics" basically means all men truly are trash, some just less damaging than the rest
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 08:42 PM
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"look at that i sucked on your labia for 5 seconds, did you cum? im such a feminist ally. now suck my dick until your jaw and neck hurts. you owe me it." basically my ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 12:00 AM
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And theyre making it closer to the actual story of mulan. she wasnt a woman who fell in love with whatever his name was, she was a fierce warrior who fought for her country even when they said a woman couldnt. shes a great role model to young girls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 11:47 PM
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i saved this to my phone to remind myself of it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 09:41 PM
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this is exactly what my ex said about the girl he cheated on me with... she even knew he was in a relationship. he showed her pictures of us and asked her if id like his "dick growth" he said theyve been friends since childhood and that she didnt let anything happen. but she never told him to stop, and went along with his punishment fetish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 09:37 PM
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in my pickme days with my most abusive ex i was convinced we were twin flames. not even a year later i was cringing at myself for even entertaining the idea
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 09:33 PM
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i honestl would prefer a more intimate night out. not some extravagant thing like that, but im not going to be getting with any men dor the foreseeable decade or two, and even if i did the most i expect on vday is just "happy vday"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 09:30 PM
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pickme #1; "my husband is cheating on me" pickme #2: "sounds like a great relationship!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 09:26 PM
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if that isnt the truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 09:17 PM
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taking you for granted. and a lot of guys have an avoidant personality type. they loooove you when they cant have you or arent interested, but as soon as you show you care they shut up and chase a bunch of people on twitter who are dtf and dont give a shit about him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 09:04 PM
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you do not get that drunk. my ex told me after i found the cheating messages he was scared hed get drunk or high and would do it again. you dont cheat on your partner under the influence unless youd do it sober.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 09:01 PM
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even if i were to have kids, which will never happen. literally ever. I'd never show them the old disney movies where women are crying and pawning after men as if theyre diamonds. theyd watch disney movies where women are strong, independent, and dont have any interest in a relationship. Such as Moana, Brave, Frozen (elsa is a fds queen, while anna is a pick me (still has a good role model though)) and others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 08:59 PM
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ive just given up on their entire species. there are no good men. there are men who are slightly less trash than the rest, but they are all trash regardless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 08:56 PM
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had an ex who knew about my body dysmorphia that got extremely awful during my period. i even tried to cut out my uterus one time. Three days into my period he goes "does anyone have a period fetish?" i replied "yeah obviously" and he gags and goes "EW THATS DISGUSTING EVEN THINKING OF THAT MAKES ME WANT TO PUKE" i started crying and punched my stomach until it bruised (we were ldr) and i refused to do anything sexual with him afterwards because i thought i was disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 03:22 PM
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bdsm is not a kink. its abuse. and its disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 02:48 AM
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i know. ive seen the movie and the ending explanation. she selected him to die while she was on hallucinogens and after she caught him cheating on her. she feels welcomes by the community after being shown feeling isolated and alone not only in her normal life, but in her relationship. it is about a breakup, yes, but its more about finding a community where you feel loved and accepted for who you are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 03:59 PM
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at first i was going to say, you shouldnt use it as a punishment. but then i caught myself. someone who isnt a hvm doesnt deserve sex. even if its a rough patch. it isnt bad for the relationship, but 90% of americans (and the whole human population really) think that sex is a NECESSITY for a relationship to work
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 03:08 PM
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she can see the comments and still decided to marry him? pickmeisha if ive ever seen one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 03:07 PM
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oor michael.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 03:05 PM
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they like pressing their micropeen against an ass and knowing they can wrap their arms around a woman and prevent her escape. even men in relationships will cuddle for sex. theyll cuddle for two seconds, get a stiffy, press it into you and give you the smirk eyeroll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 03:04 PM
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they arent feminists if they scream "sex work is real work" or "poRn iS NatUraL i waTCh It TOo MeN HaVe NEeDs You Know. YOure JusT BeInG inSecUre So YOuRe tHe ProbLeM"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 02:59 PM
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funny he calls women the sk**k when hes going around fucking everything with a hole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 02:57 PM
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and ones who blame their abusive actions on their kink. theyre porn sick and want to hurt you. end of story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 02:56 PM
21

oh no the scrotes are going to boycott science now just like they did eith gilette
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 02:55 PM
60

its more about finding a community and a family that loves you for you, not really about getting rid of her boyfriend. he was one of the driving forces that made her feel so unloved, making it possible for her to join the community
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 02:53 PM
5

ohhh that explains it. ive always dated ugly guys cause thats the only people who are interested in me im a snack wrapper. only the weirdos will eat me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 12:47 PM
4

welp guess im not a snack
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 01:12 AM
2

Gratitude journalling, daily mood checks, making goals every morning, learning two new languages, exercises at least 4 times a day, yoga daily, eating healthy, and a new skin care routine that is doing wonders for me. started after i found out he was cheating on me and we agreed to go our seperate ways to better ourselves. so far he has done nothing but make a shrine of me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 09:15 PM
1

THIS. my last ex kept all his exes nudes to blackmail them if they said anything bad about him and SHOWED THEM TO ME. he even kept his own nudes and sent them to me after i stupidly sent him some, that he had sent to his exes and fwb. being abused as a kid really makes you think that LVM are the best youll ever get. not anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 09:12 PM
1

ok pickmeisha, thanks for letting us know you have no standards or self respect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 09:01 PM
2

and all of those explain my ex to a t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 08:58 PM
2

its even worse when they say theyre feminists. porn is abuse and sexual trafficking and they try to justify it. they arent feminists
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 08:29 PM
1

my ex would say that most porn isnt like that and i stopped having sexual attraction towards him. he was a digsusting cheater, but him being a rape apologist and defending the sexual trafficking in porn was just too much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 08:27 PM
2

both my exes were cheating on me with egirls, porn, and people on discord. my last one was in a nudes server and sexually roleplayed with at least three people, asking one to punish him. yeah. broke up as soon as i saw the texts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 08:26 PM
3

the fact he so casually admits he cheated on her BIRTHDAY, lost his shit at her, and was a major pos is like. fucking beyond me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 08:20 PM
2

one of my exes was into bdsm and humiliation (on my end. he wanted me to call myself vile names and say i needed his dick) i basically lost all interest in sex after the first few times and still dont really like it. it doesnt feel good and it really makes me feel like im being used.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 08:19 PM
21

so. he raped her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 08:17 PM
6

it isnt really my choice, but comparing it to FGM is just gross. female genital mutilation is only done to cause pain and shame in women. it is done in a few methods, removing the clit, sewing the labia together, cutting off the clit and labia minora, or cutting off the clit and all labia. there is no purpose, it is done by mothers, grandmothers, or male doctors with a rusty razor blade qnd as i said, is done to cause shame, pain, and to make sex incredibly painful. Male circumcision does have a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 08:15 PM
23

this has never happened to me. im guessing they were flirting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 08:09 PM
1

my friend begged me to talk to her crush on instagram because he blocked her and wont talk to her. i asked "is he really worth it" and she goes "yes he really is im just so worried and wany to know why he blcoked me i didnt do anything tell him i love him and ask to text me back please" i just shook my head and sent the text low value men and women need to grow on their own. they wont listen to a hvm or hvw
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 11:09 AM
2

Yep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 08:53 PM
2

yep. but at least ive learned to love myself and to not take any bs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 05:01 PM
2

i can only imagine what mine was saying to all the side hoes. i asked our (mutual friends) friend group if he said anything bad about me and they all said no, he knew if he did he'd get decked in the face by all of them. since they found out he's lost every single friend, except for one. And that one friend supports pedophilia and necrophilia so i mean, it isnt that surprising
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 04:25 PM
17

you can always learn who they are as a person by their friend group.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 04:12 PM
52

this. he tried to tell me his ex was insane and abusive and kept nudes of him for blackmail, then showed me her nudes and said the only reason he had them was to blackmail her if she tried it with him. he said she cheated on him with 30 guys, when it was the other way around. he cheated on her with 20+ other people. he said she manipulated him and was toxic. He was the one who would gaslight and abuse her. he would barely spend half an hour with her for an entire week and then blamed it on her f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:59 PM
1

"why you wearing that then" because its her fucking body? shes a queen and wants to look and feel fabulous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 01:22 PM
3

which makes no sense. young men, even THIRTY YEAR OLDS act like children. men dont grow up. the only reason anyone would ever go after a young immature guy is for his dick and complexion
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 01:20 PM
3

ive had to learn this month. found out my partner cheated last thursday, was initially going to give him another chance because he seemed sorry. life lesson; men lie constantly to get what they want, which is usually just sex. saw his actions and him telling me hes been laughing and having a great time, not trying to fix what he did or improve himself like i started to the moment i found out. told him yesterday he can stop wasting my time and actually make me see his worth or he can not let the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 01:13 PM
1

my ex used to say "dont cheat" more than he said i love you, and he said it every 15 minutes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 11:54 AM
1

even so this bullshit should never happen in any relationship unless she wants to do it for her own reasons. a. cooking for him b. cooking for him naked. an easy way to get burnt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 11:50 AM
1

a bunch of adults in my teen years told me not to share my jealousy or insecurities in a relationship because its "toxic and abusive. if i found out my partner was insecure the divorce papers would be signed a day later" it still reallys fucks with me and makes it hard to bring up my rational fears. its why i stayed quiet when i knew my partner was cheating. i thought i was the one in the wrong for being upset, all because a few adults told me this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 11:07 PM
2

thank god i found this subreddit and have a enough self confidence, otherwise I'd start crying after reading this. i used to cry at shit like this years ago and its embarrassing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 11:04 PM
2

and the same men saying this are the ones gaslighting their female partners for wanting to be able to orgasm too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 11:01 PM
2

same with polygamous relationships
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 11:00 PM
1

or, when it means they can punch a woman. they always say "equal rights equal fights" if someone of any gender or sex attacks you first, go ahead and defend yourself. but most men, especially on reddit, think equality (what we're really striving for is equity though)means they can physically assault, abuse, and be toxic to women with no problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 10:59 PM
1

or theyre focusing on some other woman online that couldnt give a shit about then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 10:57 PM
2

so happy i cheated on you, you deserve nothing but hey wanna meet up? i
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 10:55 PM
11

no its ok. non monogamy just hits a chord deep in me lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 01:19 AM
28

they think; moan=orgasm news flash hun, it doesnt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 11:38 PM
11

wish i hadnt read the second part. there goes my appetite for my soup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 10:02 PM
96

and only licks it once. then they expect a treat for doing one thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 02:51 PM
27

oh shit. so my ex was cheating and playing this shit? great
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 02:48 PM
10

most likely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 04:42 PM
26

and this is why i dont take selfies or post any pictures of myself online. i barely go outside because i know men like this exist and will jerk off to just seeing you walking down the street
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 04:28 PM
5

why do men think women actually like being abused, insulted, and physically hurt the only people who like it are the sadistic sick fucks causing the pain
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 02:39 AM
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