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Most often you hear guys crying they got duped. Frankly i think women for the most part are very honest. This is an excellent example. Her actions and words are very clear. She is being very honest with you about the future. Don't be crying about this in 2025.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 03:06 AM
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AWALT = hypergamy. This is not an example of AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 03:00 AM
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Could i give examples of people say one thing and doing the opposite? ......You mean like the pastor raging against the sin of homosexuality on Sunday morning and banging dudes on Friday nights? Or do you want a girl example where she says to her beta obitor that "he's so special to her and he needs to give her time, she's just not that kind of girl" Meanwhile she's busy with 3 other guys. If you haven't read it i strongly recommend you read "No More Mr. Nice Guy" it will give you the tools to s…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 02:15 AM
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Short answer: What motivates a person to be in a relationship is fluid and changes. Maybe she was lonely and found a fun person with friends and that's a great thing for her. There are no stealth or covert ways to determine motivations. Just note what people say and watch how they behave. Don't worry about her using you and stop being afraid and worried. That fear can stink and is noticeable.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 06:35 PM
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Pets are like accessories to women. Dogs and cats can provide validation but not much more. Your scenario provides a good example of how women like excitement. You were not providing excitement and this new dog gave her a level of entertainment. My guess is that you were competing with the dog for her attention and affection and this lowered your value in her eyes. Continue to study TRP and figure out how to inject excitement into your relationships.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 10:00 PM
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" my last LTR she withheld sex for three weeks. She kept saying she just didn't feel ready yet" Talk about training the doggy. Thankfully your dick had the good sense to rebel and re-balance the situation. My dick is currently rebelling against starfish sex.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 09:33 PM
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This: "She's pissed but I don't really care. Tells me not to message her that night." Simple: You failed her shit test, ignored her because you didn't care and she moved to step 2. Proper response: Baby i miss you too while I'm at work. Grab your stuff and spend the weekend with me! What you should be doing now is requiring full open access to all her communication devices and she has to drop this type of contact with other guys. You also need to make sure she has interesting things happening wh…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 05:41 PM
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Nice questions since his situation isn't shitty enough. Most guys have a gut feeling when that is happening and start to investigate.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 04:14 PM
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Surprisingly i think 1x per week in a LTR (marriage more then 5 yrs) is considered normal. According to any studies i could find. For many its less. What is your wife like sexually? Is she a starfish? Does she O? What happens if you poke a finger in her ass? Will she give you oral?
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 04:12 PM
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This proves my point in a previous comment. Shes had begging men and the wrong kind of alpha men. She has a serious problem here. You should be proud of your cousin's ability not to throw herself at any idiot. I only see a perfectly normal women based on your description she has pride and standards. Now that you know what type of alpha she likes maybe you can make an introduction for her. In return she can help filter out women for you.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 03:44 PM
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Hypergamy is about females upgrading from their current station. Often cheating will occur or she will turn a current lover into an obitor. For a female tingles its all about attraction, alpha traits like charm, giving her emotions, muscles, power, dominance. This statement clearly explains what is lacking "All the men come grovelling at her feet". Later we see a wealthy barber enter the scene and she is not attracted to him either. So this clearly proves she is not motivated by hypergamy at the…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 03:29 PM
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"She does not realise any of this conciously. She, for the life of her, cannot fathom why she does not like any of these logically good matches." Or perhaps she does not want to share her reasons. I do not understand your contradiction with this statement: "All the men come grovelling at her feet (The last one started texting her every day at 6 am) and she needs to find one good enough to marry." Why should she marry one of these grovelling at her feet guys? They make her sick and rightly so! So…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 09:15 PM
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"she started showing some interest again " No its called hovering, she wants to see if you're still attracted to her. Kinda like a cat toying with a silly mouse. "got her to pick a labcoat of hers which she didn't retrieve back then, and she agreed." Awww isn't that sweet you saved it for her! You proved beta obitor status with this move. FYI: Women leave stuff behind like a dog pisses on a tree. Its called marking her territory. Once she new you saved the coat she came over to have you make a f…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 08:06 PM
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This is actually normal female mating behavior, without modern birth control, young women have to be very strategic about partner selection and sex. Its in her best interest to find a guy with great potential. If he is earning great money and she is a SaHMome her choice of a 5 is now an 8. She married up.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 07:05 PM
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I'm an excellent talker and i have to agree. However for the most part i think this is bad advice for younger guys. The young men i know who are good communicators are leakers. They say WAY too much and reveal too much about their weaknesses and insecurities. If you're not teasing her or joking around STFU.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 06:59 PM
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"I rage when I lose in a video game." I banned myself from playing a game that caused me anger, i gave it 6 months and tried again. As soon as i feel any bad feelings from playing i stop. Anger can bleed from one activity to the next. So remove the activities that you can control. Regarding the kids - Plan to spend time with them where they are your sole focus. It may help.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 08:53 PM
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What i find amusing is thinking Tinder is "normal" because its an "popular app". 30 years ago if you were a women and you posted an ad in the newspaper personals you'd be considered some sort of freak or sex worker. Today girls expect to be Tinderella and are surprised that when they advertise themselves for sex they get sex.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 08:25 PM
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My guess is that many guys are too nervous to have sex on the first date. It's never good if a women is more sexually bold than the male....nope she must be a ho. NEXT!
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 10:35 PM
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The problem with drawing conclusions like this is, even with one person: 1 - Sex is different each time. 2 - We have many different reasons WHY we want sex. Sex can be very emotional one time and a different time it could be technical, or boring, or covert, or sensual, or playful. This is a classic example of males trying to find that magic key to unlock the hidden secret to female sexuality. The secret is this: Be creative, fun, dominant, intense, emotional etc. Change locations, positions, tim…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 10:18 PM
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If you're properly RP minded, shit tests are fun and always welcome. Don't allow shit tests to become dread game against you. Once you master the art of shit tests, they tend to go away. Leadership is key. @science_isthenewcool speaks LTR wisdom.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 10:19 PM
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Being a leader is very RP. Good example.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 10:13 PM
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The template you offer is not realistic or workable for many people. Here is why: - Many are married already. - Some guys just don't have the energy, desire or time to spin plates. - Others actually want to have kids in a two parent family. - Many men are willing to bore the cost and risks too. Cold reality - LTRs exist and guys in that situation need powerful advice to be successful. Your last sentence hits the nail on the head but there is lots of stuff in the middle. BP LTR can be turned RP. …
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 10:06 PM
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At the next job try to be a tad better dresses then everyone else too. Its my experience that most people in the work place play to win. Guess who gets the pick of your shifts now? And guess who isn't easy to fire?
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 09:54 PM
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Often times the female is very clear they don't want to be "the girlfriend" but the beta figures as long as he has her attention he can win her over. Its easy to be angry and blame females for a male fantasy. In his defense, why wouldn't he think its a good strategy? It works in the movies.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 09:48 PM
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...and your parents are still alive? Nice try.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 01:21 AM
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If my parents divorced, im disowning the petitioner. How old are you? You seem young.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 10:39 PM
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Very true. We lived in poverty in the early days and no fear of going back. Partner selection is key and she is a team player. She watched me go from zero to six figures. She'd not risk becoming an Alpha widow and knows that she'd be quickly replaced.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 10:37 PM
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Agree 100% with your comments. Additionally... People start lying at an early age to the people who know them best. Forget about looking for facial ticks etc, learn how to ask questions the can tease out the truth because most lies are not very detailed.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 08:12 PM
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Maybe as a birthday prank but that is not really teasing.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 06:04 PM
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Regarding holding the door open....'' My line is "You girls really haven't figured out why guys hold doors open and always say ladies first!" She may pretend to be a little confused but her walk wiggle will be a bit more pronounced.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 05:59 PM
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Sister already knew the answer.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 05:43 PM
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"She almost seemed proud of herself through most of it." Yes because all attention was on her and she felt "empowered" by the show. Women often us the word empowered, I think this is a good example of how seductive power can be to a women. She was in such an empowered state she slut shamed herself on national TV. Like you said..."with a smile on her face"
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 05:42 PM
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If he is going to jail for life and cannot escape a false accusation it would be time to escape this country.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 10:38 PM
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"Men who get divorce raped were convinced they married a loyal woman. Men who get cheated on were convinced they married a loyal woman." Me thinks too many men believe in "True Love". Just because a guy completed a 40hr work week does not entitle him to loyalty. You command it with an Alpha Frame.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 08:46 PM
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For crips sakes! She's 23 yrs old and wanted to improve her life. This is exactly what we preach on TRP site. Did you read her post? "His favorite days will consist of doing absolutely nothing… with you. Sitting on the couch, ordering take-out, binge watching How I Met Your Mother or if you insist on it, Law & Order, and just holding eachother all day. I was a restless soul, so I was constantly trying to get us out and about " The guys was a lazy couch potato. She got sick of it and moved on. Th…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 07:58 PM
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too true and great post! BTW young guys, for the record, 4-6 months is not an LTR. Its 5+ yrs. One exception to the post: "let women decide the color of the drapes; you decide which car to buy". No, I'm the leader. I could give two fucks about drapes but i pay attention and make sure the costs stay in check. I'm not willing to live in a pink palace either. I can walk into a house and based on how its decorated will know if the guy is beta or alpha. It's your house and she lives with you! Besides…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 06:02 PM
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Naw, I think there is much more to the story. No. 1 - this husband has been trading on his BB for years and this is the final straw. I can guarantee that this women would say to herself or friends...well at least he has a good job. And now that one thing he had is gone too. If one cannot maintain a proper alpha frame this is the result. She will leave (and do you blame her?) My wife would live in a cardboard box with me. There are way way too many posts on TRP with the theme of "see how fckd up …
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 05:48 PM
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Last i checked, strippers are dancing hookers. Why waste time trying to seduce a sex worker? Go find a real girl.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 06:10 PM
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You can have all the testosterone in the world but if your private fantasy is for a women to dominate you or give you permission to be sexual nothing will change. It all starts in our thoughts, get your head right and you body will naturally follow.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 05:56 PM
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It amazes me what people have repeated back to my wife. Sometimes intentionally and sometimes not. Even when I've said to a buddy, "this is between you and me" I later hear his wife say something. ....now I'm a fucking vault.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 05:27 PM
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I'll stand up for my father and my mother. I won't stand between them. The OP said they have been married 30+ yrs, do you really think she's just being silly?
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 05:14 PM
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"Humans can transcend their programming. Most men do it and so do some women." I strongly agree with this statement too. However, a man and wife who have been married 30+ years? I don't think mom is simply being a cunt, there is a very long history here and i doubt this is only about him losing his job.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 05:11 PM
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Choosing sides implies you're punishing one of the parents and the choice would be based on your limited knowledge of their marriage. I've been married 20+ yrs. My kids don't know the ins and out of my marriage. In this scenario mention by the OP... 1) If you don't choose sides you remain impartial and keep your relationship with both parents. smart move. 2) If you side with the mother, you're needlessly punishing your BB father for losing his job and rewarding her disgust with him. (her disgust…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 10:08 PM
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Agree - A man always needs a plan.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 07:40 PM
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I bet your Dad has a good amount of Alpha too. She wasn't there for the BB only. I think the women here has been unhappy for a long time. This job loss is icing on the cake.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 07:37 PM
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Or better yet, keep out of your parent marriage and don't choose sides. This isn't a soap opera. Choosing the side of the father that is clearly BB only seems like a wrong move too.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 07:35 PM
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Women are loyal when their is a good mix of Alpha/beta. This issue is your Dad is BB. He's risked his entire marriage on being BB only. If he had a good mix of Alpha/Beta it would have been easier to weather this storm. Several years ago my wife tossed out the D word a couple of time. I told her that divorce was not something she could choose. I would be the one telling her if/when she could divorce or not. That seemed to satisfy her and she has never mentioned it again. Right now your mother ne…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 07:28 PM
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This isn't so much a story about post wall. It's the normal life of an alcoholic. These people are emotionally stunted at the age they start drinking. Their lives are a train wreak until they sober up or die. Men included. The cautionary tale here is: You can fix crazy. No amount of RP game can help with a women like this. Be prepared for your family to be used and disappointed. I hope she can recover. Good luck.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 06:50 PM
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My wife complains that the dog wants nothing to do with her and will only lay next to her if I'm in the room. My reply was: "Dogs respond to the people that feed, walk and play with them".
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 09:45 PM
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A lot of the guys here who are angry or never wanting to be married or have kids are afraid. Perhaps for good reason and past bad experiences. Decisions should not be based on fear. Fear should inform your decisions and help you make better decisions. So start with partner selection. Find a women who wants the same things as you and prides herself on being loyal. You be a strong RP leader of the family and all should go well. If it doesn't, you'll deal with whatever shit that happens and make th…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 10:15 PM
1

Passive income is a great concept. Leveraged real estate is not for everyone and at some point you'll be spending all you weekends fixing broken toilets. You'd be better off reading the Wealthy Barber.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 10:05 PM
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I'd be teasing her after you bang her next. "I expect an excellent review in your next thank you note."
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 06:00 PM
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If married people are having so much sex why is the Married Man Sex life blog so popular? What's truly important is how much sex you're having.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 07:48 PM
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Marriage and kids has been the best part of my life but i started that part too early (25). I didn't have my career settled so my frame was not good. We had some hard years but life is not always perfect. If you find a girl you want to lock in don't waste your chance but it shouldn't be your goal.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 11:05 PM
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Me too. I think its normal and most guys have no where else to be angry. I'm not against marriage or kids either. Its been a huge part of my life and i have no regrets.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 11:01 PM
2

Good for you! And how is the ex-wife doing now?
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 10:59 PM
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^ this here is what has always bothered me about the "wall" being considered such a negative. Yes the pretty has started to fad but many females mature into interesting people with life experience.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 10:54 PM
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I've been married 20+ years. Kids have been the best part of my life. TRP should not be based on fear. If i was divorced tomorrow i would have to pay alimony until I'm dead. So what, my life has been rich and i have no regrets. I would not want to see my wife living in poverty either. She is the mother of my kids and for that reason (and many others) has my respect.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 10:41 PM
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Just tell her when to be ready and pick her up. No need for her to be consulted unless she has some food allergies. Women do not intentionally fitness test a man, they do it if he appears weak or indecisive. However, I agree with your decision. Since this was a early date when everyone should be on their best behavior she failed basic politeness.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 10:35 PM
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Us men have been trained to self select on their behalf. How dare any BP chump buck the rules.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 10:18 PM
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Crap like this will work against her. The cops and the courts don't take kindly to foolishness.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 10:15 PM
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From my experience women are the true power seekers. Feminist lingo is littered with terms relating to power e.g. "Glass ceiling", "empowering", "old boys network" etc. Women are keenly aware of strength and weakness much more than i think we know. So when she said " terrible, unloving, uncaring, angry, and miserable person" in therapy she honestly felt that because you lost your power due to the situation and depression. It didn't matter how loving or loyal you were to her. In her eyes you bein…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 06:32 PM
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"Was is feminism telling me to "just be myself"" Nope, just you being lazy or fear of change. Motivation wise its better to blame yourself.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 08:54 PM
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As a long married guy i can empathize with this husband. He works his ass off being a great dad, husband, employee etc and even the simplest interactions with his wife turn into a huge protracted battle. Many here will say he's a beta chump and probably he is...but i get what he is doing. Let the stink of her rotten attitude fill the room. how long will it take her to clue in and be a decent human? Heck, he even models how to behave when someone makes a mistake. I can easily tell my wife to beha…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 07:41 PM
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Sorry to hear you grew up in this mess. Shit like that leaves scars. What are you doing now to make this story a happy ending?
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 09:13 PM
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Yes if you constantly do all these things it will fail. That's not what its about.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 05:58 PM
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Being introverted is not a beta trait. Be careful not to hate on yourself for a normal trait. I found this book helpful: http://www.amazon.com/Networking-People-Who-Hate-Underconnected-ebook/dp/B00F9FKZLU/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1421351210&sr=8-2&keywords=networking+for+introverts
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 07:48 PM
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She's doing it with you, so relax. Most women can have multiple orgasms too. Just enjoy.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 07:55 PM
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buddy has a cheating wife and back stabbing friend. Which one is worse?
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 05:56 PM
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I email a lot for work. During edits i remove the soft starts: "I think..." I believe..." It really punches up the impact of what you're attempting to communicate.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 09:17 PM
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Great post. This is exactly how its done! Too many here are angry and not wanting to get married or have kids. Getting married and having kids was not my mistake. I made mistakes as i went along but as a man, you gotta own and fix your shit.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 05:18 PM
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Same advice i give guys: You don't meet quality people at a bar. You meet people who like to get party and get drunk. Most people who are getting drunk on the weekends are escaping their shit work-a-day life.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 08:19 PM
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Guys are better doing than talking so my advice is to STFU and live your values. However women can be surprisingly RP aware at times, especially when its related to how men behave and how it impacts their attraction to men. Beyond that, you best be careful since if the argument goes bad you'll use logic and she will use emotions. You'll lose that argument and lower your value.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 08:02 PM
2

Next time yell "Awesome i love toilet sluts! $10 for a quick suck?"
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 07:56 PM
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Partner selection is critical. Take this list and write it down. Beauty can fade so you'd still have a winner without it. Depends if you want kids or not.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 07:05 PM
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Words of a leader here ^ Shit happens but it hasn't made this guy bitter or angry.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 07:01 PM
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I wanted to raise a kid and that has been a very rich part of my life, no regrets. Not having a kid would be denying a big part of being a provider and man. Have a career that will reward you $$ and make you satisfied with your life. Partner selection - find a smart, funny hard working women if you want a LTR or mother of your child. Always be a leader and do not let anyone deny you that position in your own life.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 06:48 PM
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"Oh, and why did she lie to me ? She feels I'm drifting away from her and that I'll eventually drop her." Maybe, but more likely for one or both of these reasons: 1) Not to be seen as a slut. 2) To protect your ego.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 06:09 PM
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...not to mention breathing in this fine powder while you have elevated breathing levels is fucking nuts. Glad you're speaking up. A good book for you would be "No More Mr. Nice Guy". One technique i find especially useful is blurting out my thoughts before i start to censor them. So my reaction to this same conversation would have been: "that color powder is stupid and I'm not willing to breath it into my lungs, what's fucking wrong with people?"
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 05:55 PM
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Allowing the police to be an authority in your life is BP. The police are not there to answer your questions. They are not problem solvers, the courts solve problem. If someone accused you of doing something that is false, gather evidence and sue them for slander in a court of law.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 09:39 PM
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I don't want to dispute what the poster is writing about here, some good stuff that i agree with BUT it seems we need a definition of a LTR. Posters on this forum refer to girl friends of many month as LTR. At 1.5 yrs, she is still in the honeymoon phase of the relationship. Its playing house phase and everything is mostly nice. Many BP married guys wanting to fix their shit set this phase of relationship as the golden standard set point. This is what they are trying to get back. My personal def…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 05:38 PM
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Some of us will never be a RP master but his RP training paid off. "Dying inside" is not wrong, its a feeling and a call to action. His actions were measured and controlled. Kudos to him. He may not be a master but he's now a Legend!
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 09:39 PM
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Interesting story about your family. thanks. Often the female dynamic is quite different, mothers and daughters tend to battle and not really get along until the adult years. I think much of this is based on how controlling the mother can be. My wife's mother was an obsessed narcissist. Her only concern was her son.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 09:24 PM
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Do you really think this is a betabux with oneitis? She spent a long time qualifying herself for this select spot: "To be crowned the lucky lady, Gallagher impressed with a questionnaire about herself and a Skype meeting with Axani that ended in the pair chatting “for hours.” "After weeks of Skyping, the pair will meet up in New York on Dec. 21 to depart on their “around-the-world voyage, making stops in Milan, Prague, Vienna, Paris, Bangkok, Thailand, New Delhi and Agra before returning to Toro…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 05:10 PM
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A wife will not be submissive to a weak man and rightly so. this is a chicken and egg thing. Why blame her for not wanting to have sex with a BP chump that begs her for sex? Bible quotes, marriage contracts, logic...those are all things constructed by men. Women respond to their primal law of attraction and how they feel. If you stop being attractive to her she won't want to have sex with you. Sure she may "submit" to duty sex out of marriage obligation. Is that the goal?
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 10:34 PM
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Women have sex when they feel attraction and sex is fun. If your wife stops having sex with you it might be a good idea to look in the mirror, learn some RP game and rekindle her interest. Just walking around feeling hurt about your wife not wanting to have sex with you makes you unattractive to her. Women want men at their best.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 10:28 PM
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Is your wife cool with you spinning plates? Is she loyal to you or does she play around too? Did you guys work this out first or did you just start fucking other women?
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 10:09 PM
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I hear a success story here. Glad you found TRP. Being in a LTR while injured or sick is very risky for a man.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 06:11 PM
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This: "But women, women are utter slaves to their sexual impulse. At least men think with their dick, women merely obey." This statement is just not true. Its a fantasy, if it was true all the guys here trying to figure out how to get laid would have their problem solved. Anyone reading this knows women can be very selective when it comes to having sex. The more i read this forum, the more i see the fear of women's sexuality.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 09:13 PM
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ah no, nothing puts honor killing into perspective. Females quickly reveal who they are, just avoid the sluts. simple.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 09:03 PM
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The OP got lucky. Go read here if you want stories: http://www.shrink4men.com/ LTR with these women basically mean its very difficult to get out. the example above details how she reacted to a simple comment. Imagine trying to leave someone like this after 10 yrs! False police reports, job distroyed, scorched earth.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 08:30 PM
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This was a tactic that many IT geeks used for years, not sharing knowledge. It is a weak man's attempt at holding power. Management and software companies have worked hard to eliminate these people. I replaced someone who wielded this power. I'm seen as a high value person because i share all knowledge and do not use this manipulation to hold my employer hostage. They are dependent on me because I'm a technical leader and a knowledge source. If you cling to any one system, eventually you'll beco…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 08:20 PM
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Its perfectly reasonable to ask a stranger: "can you take our photo?" OR "Would you mind taking our photo?' Next, you in a paternal way attempt to correct her. Humor or not, she sensed your attempted manipulation and chose not to play along. Asking someone to take your picture is not entitlement, its a simple request. this is not an example of poor manners or entitlement.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 05:49 PM
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It could be where she is in here cycle (low desire) but she is also showing you exactly what life will be like in the future with her. ...her actions say "We have been having too much sex, now we are going to have less sex." ...her words say "Its your fault."
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 07:59 PM
1

A couple of guys over at the Married Man Sex Life forums have turned their marriages around after their wife's affair. I think its rare and rarer to have a good marriage afterwards. If you look back at the cause and see that you were an idiot and drove her to cheat, than maybe it can be salvaged.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 10:16 PM
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Women only care about HOW you break up with them, not why. She already knows why = you're an asshole. If she questions you on WHY that means she's looking for a reason to make you into an asshole.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 09:32 PM
1

As a man, it doesn't matter how sound and logical your reason is for breaking up with her. she will only focus on HOW you broke up with her...not why.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 09:29 PM
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Living a good life is the best revenge. Demeaning someone isn't a happy ending.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 01:07 AM
1

Just say "is there anything i need to know about Cindy?"
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 09:56 PM
1

Giving a women your attention is a gift, removing that attention without discussion is much more powerful tool than discussing what is happening. Discussing that you're an obitor is setting the FZ frame. Not having the discussion makes you look like a boss going about his business. Congrats on not wasting your time with this women!
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 10:23 PM
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no, she said that soft crap porn you put on is gross :-)
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 07:53 PM
1

Threats of divorce over trivial arguments is a loyalty test, which you failed. She is insecure and wants re-assurance. I had the same experience with my wife and failed several times too. I finally shut it down with this: "I'll decide if and when we are to divorce. I have no thoughts or plans for divorce. If you want a you'll first need to seek my permission which i will not grant to you. I don't want to hear that word from you again."
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 10:19 PM
1

Nice work, its never too late to develop boundaries and respect!
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 10:10 PM
2

Bullies want to control the bullied person's eyes. It's bullying 101.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 10:47 PM
0

I disagree with this point "Overgenerous Maternity Benefit Should Be Slashed to Six Weeks Unpaid Leave" I didn't want my kids raised by strangers and only nursed for six weeks. How can we have feminine women and not let them mother their children?
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 03:34 PM
1

Ditto me too ...work out, be fit. I'm in my late 40s and look much younger than guys my age. My uncle is pushing 70 and looks about 50. Tell chicks you're from the past and you're 250 years old. You age slowly. Everyone wants that.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 05:59 PM
1

Swinging is an excuse for your women to have sex with a man who is more alpha then you.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 05:41 PM
19

You're peeking into a seedy world. Women seeking men is mostly prostitution. Don't be fooled, any "women seeking men" on Craigslist requires some form of payment. Of course they are entitled because men cater to their entitlement. If you go into "men seeking men", you'll see that a huge number of guys have given up on women and simply blow each other.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 09:57 PM
0

Visit an old age home and you'll hear all about the things that are "destroying" the world. My advice: If you go to bars you'll meet bar girls. If you go online you'll meet online girls. If you go out into the real world and talk to people you'll meet people. There is no "dating scene", go meet a real person and connect with her.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 06:02 PM
3

Yeah not impressed with the lying about the period.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 05:56 PM
3

lots of sex will boost levels too!
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 01:57 AM
1

You'll make a great father some day, from what i read you care about the kid not the mother. She knows this, she knows you're onto her tricks and she is leveraging her daughter to get at you. She can buy a pet for her child. Its the mother hurting her kid not you.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 07:14 PM
2

Yeah those damn feelings get in the way of having fun.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 04:07 PM
5

^ This is exactly why women in LTR will take your stuff. They want to inflict a greater pain on you so you'll learn how deeply they've been hurt. For LTR, partner selection is key, find out how she handles rejection and conflict. If she is a revenge seeker best not to invest in an LTR.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 03:45 PM
2

Translation "Ovulating" = horny and needing a fuck. "I'm not some stud who she would normally cry over" = I'm not going to beg you for sex, but i want you!
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 05:09 PM
3

LOL funny as hell. The OP had to drop offline to go vomit in shame.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 09:41 PM
5

Haha i like that...or: "I find that rude!" "What are your measurements?"
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 09:31 PM
10

I think Sean is dribbling pre-cum.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 09:17 PM
2

Read: No More Mr. Nice Guy. It's about claiming yourself and not working to please people. A natural smile or cracking jokes is simply having fun ...as long as your not performing. Or filling awkward silences. Its about being comfortable in your own skin.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 08:40 PM
6

Look at the sour bitch look on her face. That should be reason enough to ignore her.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 08:24 PM
1

Typically you cannot RP her out of medical issues. ...but we do know it only takes a 5 min DR visit to get prescribed all sorts of crap.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 05:22 PM
1

"Women worry that they can't live up to the expectations of a fitter man" Because if roles were reversed, she being the fitter one, her attraction to him would dive off a cliff. However, if he is just as sloppy as her, it can taper off more slowly but she'll still have no attraction to him.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 04:33 PM
3

We all wake up a different rates. I've been married a long time too. There was no internet, no books for men, no warnings from other men when you got married. After i had been married for some time i was really pissed at other men for not warning me. The reality was, most men knew they were fucked but didn't know why. We were taught to ignore our feelings, trust that women were the relationship experts etc. Anytime i hear an old man give the advice "Just nod your head and agree with her" i almos…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 03:48 PM
1

Yes, every creature that walks this planet deserves a modicum of respect. I'm not in the business of shaming or worrying about what people eat or how they behave and live their lives. No we as American men are not to blame for "allowing" women to be fat or how they behave. They ate themselves fat and behave accordingly. As men, we should allow them to deselect themselves from the gene pool. However, we do owe it to our brothers to educate them in the way of TRP and not breed with low status wome…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 05:24 PM
2

Great post, I've always thought TRP is about pulling your head out of your ass. The biggest turning point for me was when i got out of my idealizations and stuck with facts, reality and the observation of other peoples responses/actions.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/14 11:36 PM
2

No off-shore workers will take your job either.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 08:06 PM
0

Haha i thought my wife was logical. She can have a logical conversation but its hard when the hamster is around. she does respect logic.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 07:38 PM
3

Women want access to a man's resources, this is simply a biological imperative. To have babies requires resources. As a married or non-married man you must maintain access control to these resources. Women do not want to be in control of their man, this is the basic foundation of TRP. Do women blame men and exact revenge by attacking their resources? yes! This is why partner selection is so critical.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 07:33 PM
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why? Technology is a tool. You're comment is like saying he should learn about hammers. Based on the OP, this guy seems to have figured out life long before tech came along. Seems this man has the world fit into his frame.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 05:44 PM
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"marriages are simply tools used by women to leverage control over their men" For some perhaps, but remember women really do not want to be in control. Most women see their husband as a measure of their social standing and success. There are many women who just want to be mothers and have a family. Ya have to weed out the dingbats, gold diggers and crazies (includes narcissists, they are the ones that will clean you out and destroy children in the process). Find a girl that's giving and has a se…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 01:52 AM
2

agree here ^ If he took the glasses and put them on himself, that's cocky and goofy. Tease her like she's your little sister, but you have to be mature about it too. She probably experienced it as mild bullying, killed her attraction.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 09:39 PM
8

This stuff is not going away. All the men at church will be watching it. she has to marry quick before his new STDs flair up...oh wait. He's so sweet they haven't had sex yet. ...but he likes her boys!
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 09:12 PM
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People "fall in love" (females and beta boys) in their heads. So if she is initiating and doing a favor. You can bet while she is doing this task, attraction is building in her head, because the entire time she is thinking about you.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 07:50 PM
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Nothing will replace women. This is just a masturbatory thought exercise.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 12:28 AM
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I don't see anything changing. the bottom 1% of women are having no problems attracting men. We've had prostitution around forever, that has done nothing to diminish demand.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 12:24 AM
1

Women are covert. (use this to your advantage.) Men are overt. Edit: Overt requires taking responsibility. Typically women don't want to take that risk.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 10:29 PM
1

Women SAY they want their man to be "sensitive". ...yes, and you should not be taking notes when they SAY something.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/14 10:01 PM
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^ this is why two guys should never fight over a women. All you're doing is fighting for position on the ladder at this point.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/14 09:53 PM
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I think he played with her like a cat plays with a mouse. It gave him plenty of info on how to rank her on his plate list. You're example is excellent too. I do admire the info he quickly gathered.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 10:10 PM
2

It seems that the "male" attributes that a female says she hates or have caused her hurt in the past. These often are the exact attributes that are part of HER personality. Well played!
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 10:08 PM
0

Yes this is common and has happened to me. These girls want to flex their sexual power muscle. ..."can i pull this happily married guy?" = validate me! OMG he's so taken with me he will cheat on his wife!
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 08:50 PM
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Her implied assumption is he is an idiot and cannot figure out how to change his own life. Must have been some crazy book. If she can just get hold of the book, only then will she be able to defuse this bomb.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 07:13 PM
2

Agree, I just read that most women drop out of tech because of the crazy hours and once they have kids they realize child care options are crap and they would rather raise a family. So i see this as an attempt to keep them around longer.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 07:01 PM
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agree, 100%. Enjoy it while it lasts. At some point Daddy will want someone else to maintain her lifestyle.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 09:31 PM
2

She must address the medical stuff first. You can have all the alpha swagger, frame control you can muster but it won't fix medical issues.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 01:12 AM
4

Yes but as you read she has mentally hit the wall early. Regular guys with normal incomes do not interest her. She's decided on all the things she will no longer do like BJs. She misses the clothes, pedicures and manicure. Sure she's smart and got what she wants by hooking but that's just selling her pretty. Once those savings dry up, what's next?
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 03:58 AM
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If you're having a conversation and you act evasive it appears you have some weird chip on your shoulder. Asking someone what they do or if they have kids is just a normal conversation and does not imply that they even care. I work in IT and i say "i work in computers". If you drive a bus say you work in transportation. Now you can be funny "Are you from the IRS, FBI or DEA?"
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 04:51 PM
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Cause if you are friends it means she's forgiven and she doesn't have a relationship she destroyed on her record. A man withholding his attention from a women is the most powerful tool he has. Good for you! Training her to behave properly for the next guy. That's all we can do.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 04:41 PM
1

your wife is clever. I'm sure some of those women would have happily provided covert BJs.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 04:37 PM
2

Trust but verify Pay close attention to what they do. The issue isn't women being deceptive. The issue is our romantic googles that blind us to truth. Often times women will be very honest and tell you that they are crazy or cheaters or golddiggers ....and we fail to listen or pay attention to their actions.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 04:22 PM
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If you slut shame a women that you are involved with, chances are she will work to prove you wrong. Sex can get boring very fast. Don't slut shame your girl is a good rule of them.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 07:56 PM
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By the time most women hit 50, life has warn them down somewhat (men too). Riding the CC is no longer her biological imperative. Sure a hot narcissistic 50 yr old will date like crazy but that is far beyond normal. Most 50 yr old women have very slim pickings.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 07:48 PM
3

My wife gets soooo pissed when other women ask me favors. Having a male's attention and resources is a valuable commodity. Of course they want it for free. If we thought shaming women into giving us sex would work we would do it in a heartbeat.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 06:49 PM
1

"only of herself and of her own immediate needs. And how to get someone else to provide them." Wisdom here! I hired a female to stay in my house to watch pets while i vacationed. Everything went well as far as i know (my dog won't say). However when i was out walking the dog, my neighbor asked about my vacation. Told me the "guy" did a good job of walking our dog everyday. I double checked and yes it was a guy. Not a big deal but guess who got paid by me?
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 06:40 PM
1

There are girls that actually have interests beyond clubbing and being pretty. I'm 20+ years married and my wife is always busy with hobbies and her (shitty paying) work efforts. She had a couple long term boyfriends before me. She likes having interests and doesn't like chatting about men and sex. Don't get me wrong she does like her social status. Is monogamy worth it? yes and no. If you want to have kids then yes.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 09:48 PM
2

Hell yes it feels good! Women have one biological imperative, ...get the alpha seed into her womb. Even if she says she does not want a baby and goes on the pill, often they will "forget" to take the pill because their lower brain has only a single goal. This request should cause fear deep within you.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 05:09 PM
1

I would not give this women 2 seconds of your time. If you do it will just add to her resolve. Whichever position you take will strengthen her position. Read about this guy, no wonder no guys want to be teachers: http://news.nationalpost.com/2014/09/28/b-c-teacher-had-to-fight-to-restore-shattered-reputation-after-student-falsely-accused-him-of-sadistic-crimes/
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 09:32 PM
2

North America is getting much much Fatter. Women and Men. I think we need to be more specific on who should carry the blame. Blue pillers? Fuck no, like you say they are only sheeple! its the alpha captains of industry and government who are to blame! We allow our corporations to dictate what we eat and feed our kids. Our food system is only about profit not health. Very few large corporations (Monsanto) run our food system with genetically modified seeds. The state of our factory farms are a li…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 09:08 PM
2

I look for reasons to tell women they are rude. I have yet to find a women that is not very pleased when she is called out on her behavior or lack of manners. They love being made to qualify themselves. Why do you think they spend so much time shaming each other?
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 07:05 PM
3

You're rejection of the cake drew attention away from the event. Sometimes us RP guys have to behave like undercover agents. Just be cool and blend into the crowd.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 07:47 PM
2

She see's you as an Obiter and is trying to get you into White Knight mode and drawing you into her drama frame.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 07:36 PM
5

"People say that the redpill makes men cold and calculating." True, but women are naturally like this so there is some serious catching up that must happen. Men like to conduct their battles in the business world, sports or war. Women's battle ground is the relationship. They continually calculate position, frame and power.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 09:13 PM
3

Years ago i had an older neighbor who was an accountant. This smart fellow rented a modest apartment and only allowed his girlfriend of many years to stay over 1-3 nights per week. He was old school but i just knew he had crunched the numbers and knew something that most people don't understand.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 04:03 PM
1

First you must understand that there is good beta and bad beta. You need to start figuring that out. Alpha behavior creates a dopamine response in women. We all love a good hit of dopamine. However, oxytocin is also an import chemical response. Its about comfort and safety. Any long term relationship needs some good beta behavior too. Athol Kay talks about the three important chemical responses here in this podcast: http://theartofcharmpodcast.com/2014/03/13/athol-kay-married-man-sex-life-episod…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 02:24 AM
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Great post, this reminds me of the book "No More Mr. Nice Guy" which i found very useful. My crippling behavior was the "covert contract". If I do xyz then she will reciprocate. The book really helped me identify thoughts and behaviors that limited my happiness.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 05:58 PM
2

"Went to sleep with her on my chest. This morning you could tell the hamster was going. Haven't heard much from her today." Not sure why you're rewarding her with sleeping on your chest? You haven't heard from her because she now has nothing to fear. When i've been rejected i don't sulk or anything like that but i sure don't feel all cuddly and connected to her. I'd start rolling around or tell her she is making you hot. She owned you with the cuddling.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 06:58 PM
7

Not as bad as commercials where the husband/father is a blathering idiot who can't tie his shoes. The family dog gets more respect.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 07:26 PM
2

Feminism has shamed/programmed women to hate the role of wife/motherhood. If you want kids plan on 65/35 split in parenting. 65% is you filling the role. This is my experience. I only know two women as you have described. Both ended up with husbands who are mostly crap fathers.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 02:35 AM
1

Because he lost frame and hit a women, things spiraled out of control. "Ray Rice got exactly what he deserved" Maybe, public figures enjoy massive rewards and can get away with a lot. The public has lost patience with women hitters, puppy kickers and child beaters.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 02:22 AM
1

2 good resources, you've probably read them..... No More Mr. Nice guy and Married Man sex life primer. I'm a long time married guy and think a 180 is not such a bad thing. At some point you'll have to inform your wife of the new rules and boundaries. The Married Man Sex Life suggests that a strong marriage needs a mix of alpha AND beta.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 02:54 AM
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All i saw was a sweaty fat guy stealing and bragging. His clothes looked clean but he hosed himself down with that spray so i expect he stinks too. Living hard shows quickly, give this guy 2 yrs and women won't stop to chat with him. His cocky will quickly turn to scary. Women can skate through life on looks. Us guys have to prove ourselves with skills, wealth accumulation and character development. This is exactly why men out number women on the streets, many of us fail. Its also the reason why…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 12:36 AM
1

"Her: "Sometimes, I just think I want to be a hairdresser or something"" This is just a shit test. She's looking for encouragement and a compliment. My response would have been: "Hairdresser? nope, I think you'd be better at massage, come here and rub my feet." I do enjoy the fact that she owns no personal responsibility for her education and career choices.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 07:29 PM
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"my ex girlfriend is coming back at me strong after I've been growing my balls back since she dumped me 3 months ago" => Keeping you on the hook to feed her ego. Its called Hoovering. "But i too have my moments of weakness when i feel like i compliment her too much during our calls, sometimes i feel like i shouldnt tell her i love her." => This demonstrates her hoovering has been successful and you're firmly back on the hook and in love. "How can i keep her crazy for me." => You lowered her attr…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 03:29 PM
1

Ok good point, I assumed a man and women living together was for relationship reasons. I make large coin so my women lives in my house with me, has a job but doesn't need to work AND she doesn't have to be on the hustle to make 2k. Your game seems weak to me. I have strong alpha game, top shelf morals of my choosing. I bring the alpha and necessary beta skills so my women doesn't need to seek beta elsewhere. If some dude started talking about his cock my women she would walk out. She does like h…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 01:45 AM
1

"That woman is mine. Was before he ever entered the picture" Ok sorry bro, didn't know it was you being cuckolded. I guess there is no shame in being a cuckold if you like it. Enjoy!
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 09:37 PM
1

When you team up with a women to cuckold a man, you're not just as bad as her, you're actually worse. Whatever truth you think you're displaying is only in your hamster mind. Its no different then stealing money off his credit card and arguing he should have known. You even state that he comes from an abusive family and he is naive. You simply continued the abuse of this person, he really doesn't know anything different. Bragging here about it is fucked up.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 06:22 PM
1

"...she knew the hosts, and fucked a dude in their bathroom just because she was drunk & horny. "It just happened". Normally she'd have never done that, but because I didn't know about boundaries and lay down the law, she did something inappropriate." You have a man hamster here. "My advice is to sit her down and clearly articulate what your boundaries are" Are you recommending a girl talk? I've never found a lot of talking effective for a guy. Guy "do" girls "talk". Cheaters cheat because that …
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 06:10 PM
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Sheldon it seems like you want to control the women with your awesome RP rational theory judo skillz. Women are people and they like to have fun, experience emotions and do interesting things. Are you up for that? Maybe you need to find a quiet shy introverted type of girl who won't act on her "cutthroat sexuality" (wow really?) with other men.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 05:12 PM
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Quote "She called and told me her work schedule changed this week so she would be putting in long hours at the bar/restaurant and probably not free to chat Tuesday, Wednesday, or Thursday. [red flag]. She would call me Friday when work and school calmed down." Translation = Can you switch me to plate status? Alpha response = "Sure ok, Chat later. bye" click. Quote "In an LDR, I think frequent communication is important. I said exactly that." Translation = I'm insecure and needy. Communication is…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 09:13 PM
0

Yup welcome to the world. I've been telling my son his entire life that "life is not fair". These same arguments apply for rich vs. poor. If you go back to you list, and seriously think about it. Most of the things you have listed are criminal offences or moral crimes. These are things that people with no values or moral do. They also have to live with the fact that they are idiots.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 07:53 PM
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I'm an introvert but i make an effort to talk with people. Yes conversations can get boring and its your job to learn something interesting or connect with the person. Talk to anyone, its a good skill to have. Start with talking to guys, old women etc. Ask a lot of questions, last week i was surprised to learn that the women working the checkout at Walmart loved her job. Most checkout people are dull as shit but i don't stop chatting them up. What a pleasure to meet some enjoying themselves...th…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 01:44 AM
0

Go over to the Married Man Sex life website. Go to the forums and ask for help. For the moment i would just monitor this on the stealth and collect evidence. Once you see where this is going you'll blow it up...but you'll need proof first otherwise she will deny everything. They will step you through this and how to manage it.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 01:37 AM
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What you have demonstrated is that you have no boundaries or standards. 1) you'll run your wife down behind her back by calling her a bitch. 2) when she's not around you'll cheat. 3) you're happy to cuckold another man. What type of man would you like to be? This post is an excellent example of why TRP has a bad image.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 01:28 AM
1

"she told me that she just came out of something and wasnt really ready, which sounded very sincere. Fast forward 3 hours" No fast forward, this was a frame test. Hamster translation of her comment = "I don't know about you...will you qualify yourself to me?"
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 03:40 AM
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Good example of a mature women who doesn't abandon her RP values to chase a weak beta provider. Parenting is not easy. Good on her for finding you a male role model.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 06:25 PM
1

A good example of how female friends and relatives can impact a marriage too.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 06:55 PM
1

The book is called No More Mr. Nice Guy. Its all about asking for what you want. seems this guy either read the book or is not a nice guy.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 05:18 PM
1

I was a beta for years, and also I have standards to not be with a whore. In addition to my above comment this is a very low standard. Try: "my standard is to be with a women who is funny, giving...blah, blah.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 07:29 PM
1

"Essentially really nice and cool girl, so met through my dad spoke a bit, but not allowed it to escalate at all. Gone in for asking her out, to which shes not confirmed and is now playing games" She was being polite/nice due to her knowing your Dad. Awkward! You need to work on your interpersonal skills too so you can detect the difference between someone being friendly and nice vs. chemistry.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 07:24 PM
2

Too much talking. Just have fun with her, take care of your own shit and call her on her shit. I've been married 20+ years and no "relationship" talk has ever gone well. We don't talk about it and never will. Most women are more RP then guys...they spout blue pill but they live RP.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 01:14 AM
1

The hamster can work in your favor too. Give it something to worry about.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 08:15 PM
2

Over at the Married Man Sex Life website Athol defines Alpha and Beta traits and both are necessary for LTR success. Alpha = traits that generate excitement in the women. Beta = traits that generate comfort. Here at r/theredpill the assumption is everyone is an over beta moron and they need to kill the beta and go alpha only. I'm friends with a couple (w kids) (both non-north american born) where the guy is very alpha and little to no beta skills. She is very submissive and likes the strong alph…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 08:04 PM
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"Being out of control is Beta" Not really. Being beta means: - Being emotionally available - Financially caring for your family - Doing nice things for other. There is nothing wrong with beta qualities however if the Alpha qualities are absent then you have a problem. Maybe you have an issue with controlling your emotions/anger. You've removed your old bad ways of dealing with issues but need new ones to replace the old way. You were not happy with how this turned out. Try reading No More Mr Nic…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 05:40 PM
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Turn the tables here....say this was a some nasty girl approaching you on the job? Once you give a co-worked the tools to determine your fate at work don't be surprised when that decision is made. Bravo to her! Well played, she got rid of her problem in one shot.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 04:53 PM
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Great post, many older generation men follow rules like: Just nod and say yes dear. Talk about shitty marriage advice....and they really have no good advice for their sons. As a father i know how painful it is not to properly education our sons. I've spent a lot of time researching stuff that was not available to our fathers. As men we need to educate boys and not teach them to hate women. Dancing is a great idea, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 08:53 PM
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