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| – | 0 Luck with Online dating. What should I do now?Did you pay for the apps? I read that you get matches if you pay. | /r/seduction | 07/01/19 09:32 PM |
| 3 | Here's what I learned last night: JUST DO IT, even if you don't have what it takes.Stop slow stepping is at the top of my list because I’ve noticed a lot of opportunities but fail to take them in time. I say you got little lucky there because she stayed there till close. Good job on the U turn though. | /r/seduction | 07/01/19 01:08 AM |
| – | Dealing with a girl who has a boyfriend but is willing to break up/cheat?Dude, if you really want her, let her cheat. People think here that one must leave a person before being with someone else. I bet you most of the time when your girl doesn’t want to be with you anymore it’s because she’s already cheating on you, you just don’t know it. She lost interest in you a long time ago.I’ve seen this happen couple of times. Same goes for guys. It’s like getting a new job, you don’t quit your job until you got the offer from the new job. Make sure she leave the guy if you … | /r/seduction | 19/12/18 07:22 PM |
| – | I will never forgive my parents for putting me into a world where hot women are not attracted to meTry slightly above average. Hot women have plenty of options and typically can get the most attractive man in the room. Your parents are not at fault here. | /r/seduction | 18/12/18 02:33 AM |
| – | Time to ask for major help....Think about your the most funny experiences you have had, anything that makes you laugh right before you approach. These funny emotions will help overshadow your nervous emotions and help a little. See if that works for you. What I’ve found is that this helps to start opening a conversation in a funny way instead of nervous. The only way for that nervous feeling to go away is really to go out there and be ok knowing that each failure is leading to improvement. Each approach combined with failure… | /r/seduction | 10/12/18 11:45 PM |
| 1 | I don't like dancing and I throw away a lot of chances this wayDon’t go to clubs, go to social bar where there’s music but no dance floor. | /r/seduction | 10/12/18 12:52 AM |
| – | Stop TalkingI’m not a talker, but I’m really good at body language. I can get physical really smoothly in such a way that woman like it. I have gotten laid without saying much also. I have kissed many girl without saying anything but just simply dancing with them. That’s something I have that I’m comfortable saying I’m a natural at it. However, I wish I could talk more because I cannot use body language in all situations. It’s easier to use body language at loud places like clubs because talking becomes exh… | /r/seduction | 09/12/18 07:34 AM |
| – | Texting the b*tchyup, lets change the language there, this is a public place even the ladies can read if they so choose. | /r/seduction | 03/12/18 02:01 AM |
| – | Girl rejects me, wants to remain friends but still flirts with me. Should I stay friends in this scenario?Always keep friends because you can meet someone through her. I regret cutting off every girl friend that did not workout. Now I have no female friends to network with. You just need to have self control and play her game and be friends. Now if you cannot control your feelings and ignore her game, then cut her off for your good health but be advised not to cut off female friends too many times because you’re cutting your social circle as well. | /r/seduction | 02/12/18 10:27 PM |
| 2 | Why girls give number even if they don't want to talk?Dude, I seen a girl give out her real number, the guy called it right away she quickly renamed the phone number with a name like “loser “ or “don’t answer” and that’s it. Poor guy was left wondering just like you are now. I was part of her group so I got to see this happening live. Point is that even if you get a real number, it doesn’t mean anything until she responds. Also, they don’t want to hurt our “feelings” and prefer to confuse us to answer your question. Furthermore, some guys cannot ha… | /r/seduction | 02/12/18 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Why don't I get the women I want in life?I say be more flirty, you might be too much in your head and overthinking if she’s going to like your flirty actions, just do or say what’s in your head when you have her right in front of you. I am very similar to a person, same looks, same hight, same career success and the only thing it’s different is that he is way more flirty and touchy than me and gets more girls than I do. I am more of the responsible serious guy which is what’s messing me up, I’m trying to loosen up and be more like him … | /r/seduction | 01/12/18 03:23 PM |
| – | I finally did it...Good job! | /r/seduction | 29/11/18 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Need help making a moveYou need to get close to him, if nothing is happening like a conversation then simply playfully bump him with your shoulder and smile that will ease the tension. When you’re both alone side by side walking somewhere, take his arm and wrap it behind your neck. If you think all is going well, just lean against the wall and see what he does if nothing happens, put your face on his chest and tell him he smells good and slightly look up in his eye and see if he goes for it or maybe you will. A very l… | /r/seduction | 29/11/18 04:29 AM |
| 13 | My first REAL approach today, it could have gone a lot better but I’m just glad I did something.Good job, I did my cold approach yesterday. She had a “boyfriend”. I just kept it cool and kept doing whatever I was doing like nothing happened. | /r/seduction | 28/11/18 08:47 PM |
| – | Today I succeeded beyond my expectations!Well done, thanks for sharing your success story. What made you think you had a chance? Did you feel any magical interest coming from her end? | /r/seduction | 28/11/18 12:53 AM |
| 1 | rejected and proudI got rejected yesterday, I got a little red but quickly moved along asking her other question surrounding us and moved along. My mentality is I’m playing a numbers games. One will say yes as I become smoother at asking and reading their interest. | /r/seduction | 28/11/18 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Why is one of my friends getting so much attention immediately at the party...You need to hangout with someone that gets it. You can hang out with your natural friend a day you don’t care too much about the outcome. I spoke to one of my friends and I explain to him we need to take turns because we are both going for the same girl and he doesn’t let me open a conversation. You guys have give each other a fair chance if he doesn’t get that then swap out your wingman. I’m hoping my wingman man gets it, according to him he understands and will do as I say when he needs to bac… | /r/seduction | 26/11/18 08:34 PM |
| – | Why is one of my friends getting so much attention immediately at the party...You can open up to your friend and about your situation and tell him to help you in some situations but tell him he needs to back off sometimes and that you acknowledge they tend to like him more. It’s all about having an open communication with your wingman and build chemistry. See if he’s cool with that, he must be understanding and good wingman. | /r/seduction | 26/11/18 06:37 PM |
| 1 | 10s while working retail—HOW CAN I GET A DATE?I know a person that worked in retail and had store business cards with his name & number written on them and one time there was a lot of attraction between the two and he gave her the business card. She txt him and they dated. With that little time you have, go make some business cards at a place that makes them for you.“Name of store” “Your name” “Your phone number”. Make sure you make it obvious you find her attractive so she doesn’t think you’re giving this card for future sales. You basical… | /r/seduction | 21/11/18 03:31 AM |
| – | When you're alone with a girl at your place, should you keep trying till you get her mad?Yup, you should of escalated. You’ll know when she actually means no, tone of voice and body language. It’s also like thinking “I shouldn’t approach because she’s might say no” we all know she might say no but we still approach and get our answer. The times that I never heard from a girl is when I had the opportunity to escalate but I did not. Now I take the opportunity and for sure see them again. | /r/seduction | 19/11/18 03:26 PM |
| 3 | The struggle of not being alphaYou mentioned you’re 18? If I read that right, you have a lot of time ahead of you. Anyways, sounds like you don’t know how to escalate. I have had sex without saying much after a few club night just because I know how to escalate by touching woman right when I’m dancing close to her. You just have stop talking and suddenly tell her, you smell good and kiss her neck once. Start getting physical and when you two are alone, lay on your bed or couch and go in for the full blown make out kiss and st… | /r/seduction | 19/11/18 07:30 AM |
| 1 | Where to meet women without alcohol?You can just hold a beer the whole night and drink a little every 30 minutes if it bothers you so much not being with a drink. | /r/seduction | 18/11/18 08:37 PM |
| – | Another night out solo, lost state when i got insultedNot sure what you mean by set a homebase Honestly, I was out if dating for a while and just got back in it so you can say I’m starting over again, I don’t pull a girl every night because I’m selective. My bests experiences has been from work, I used to work at an entertainment place so I got to fool around there a lot. Anyways, right now I’m trying bars & clubs I choose bars that have music inside and also has an outside area with no music where girls can actually hear you speaking. A full blown… | /r/seduction | 18/11/18 07:23 PM |
| – | Another night out solo, lost state when i got insultedGood job at pushing your self to the edge. I go out solo as well by choice. You just have to get used to it and learn from mistakes. | /r/seduction | 17/11/18 08:35 PM |
| – | Another night out solo, lost state when i got insultedI think you took this to the heart when it could of been just a random comment. Why did it bother him? Maybe he doesn’t like being nearby when you’re lightly being rejected, even if they’re rejecting you not him. You should just leave those types of groups rather than trying to figure out why someone got upset. People react different to the same actions you make. | /r/seduction | 17/11/18 06:38 PM |
| 1 | dating your co-worker?If you both are from different departments and don’t do the same job I think it can work. You have to think your exit strategy if you both must see each other for 8 hours and it doesn’t workout or just don’t do it. You can also look for better job and keep in contact, if it doesn’t workout, you got a better job. Many people date at work by the way. Few have bad experiences. | /r/seduction | 17/11/18 04:49 PM |
| 3 | How to open setsFrom my observation, it’s easier to open the girl that is slightly isolated from the group then engage the other ones. Approach shoulder to shoulder not your whole body facing her. You can stick around and wait for multiple eye contact but you can waste your whole night waiting for this to happen though hehe. | /r/seduction | 17/11/18 04:28 PM |
| 2 | Two dates in a row blocked my number after the dates?Have a relatively check your breath. Talk normal to them how you would with a woman then ask if your breath is ok. You have no idea how many people I come across and they don’t even know they have bad breath. If that’s a problem after brushing & mouthwash, a visit to a dentist will solve the issue. | /r/seduction | 15/11/18 03:36 PM |
| – | Getting the girl backYou can try to talk to her that you guys don’t have to be enemies... be friends. The idea is to keep the connection going and see if she tries to come back then take it much much slower this time around. Don’t wait around for her forever either. She might not come back but definitely will run away if you’re an easy catch. Either way, try to keep her as a friend. Girls have girlfriends later down the road that’s something I didn’t think when I was younger. Basically she has to miss you and just g… | /r/seduction | 14/11/18 12:17 AM |
| – | How should I approach someone on the move?Try to wait for her in school not outside the parking lot, try to post your self so she can at least see you routinely, then drop in the Hi, I see you walk here often I just wanted to say Hi, what's your name? my is blah with a smile at the end. I think this is very basic and non pick up, it's simply how people meet and that's what you are trying to do. Nothing wrong with introducing yourself, after that just act normal like you would with your everyday friends, don't act weird, get out of your … | /r/seduction | 23/10/18 02:10 AM |
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