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[–]SuitableFisherman 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Bro I wish I could help you but I have such little knowledge about game in India. I did go there, once, and it seemed to me like dating wasn't really a thing and there were religious and familial implications to sexuality that simply are not there in the West. Im sorry. God Speed.
[–]ozzy1439 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's all just show... It's the 2nd most populated country in the world. Something is definitely happening...
[–]r3dtail 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You need to get thoughts of 'womanizer' or 'shame' out of your head.
Those are societal constructs you have adopted in your self thoughts.
Admonishments of shame and guilt are what keeps men from acting as a 'womanizer', which is really deep down what a woman wants.
You have to remember women want social calibration. You need to be able to maneuver in any social situation, whether it be socializing with men, talking with attractive or unnatractive older or younger women.
Making incremental progress will help you. So become a leader of your group of men. Find a hobby, and lead a group of people in that activity. Maybe find fitness in walking certain areas. If you like music be the person that organizes the activities.
Whatever you do, be the guy that anyone can talk to by shutting up about yourself in order to listen to them.
Anyone popular has a good listening ear, and knows how to lead by example. Adopt those two traits and start talking to more people just for the practice. When it comes time to talk to a group of people with one woman you like in particular, then ask everyone there about how they know each other, their backgrounds except the attractive woman.
When she finally wants to be the one to speak, take a chance and separate her from the group if you can, then ask for her phone number.
Thank you for the advice, my man.... I do play guitar so that helps alot in activity section.
[–]iot- 7 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Think about your the most funny experiences you have had, anything that makes you laugh right before you approach. These funny emotions will help overshadow your nervous emotions and help a little. See if that works for you. What I’ve found is that this helps to start opening a conversation in a funny way instead of nervous. The only way for that nervous feeling to go away is really to go out there and be ok knowing that each failure is leading to improvement. Each approach combined with failure should become immune to you eventually. Think of approaching like playing the lottery but easier obviously if you only play a few numbers, chances are it’s going to take you a long time to win something so you have approach many times to waste less time to get something.
I am not gonna do cold approaches in india. Only a fool would do it in india... However if it's a social gathering like party or college, i will definitely try what have you said. Thanks for the advice mate!
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