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Plot twist: it was his mom
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 06:08 PM
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There's also so much red pill in the first sentence you skipped over Anyone else feel like they would rather not get into the specifics of their partner's past sex life? Men and women feel very differently about number count and we know this is biological. Women could not care less about how many sluts you've been with and they've imposed these standards onto themselves. As you showed, however, hers matters and ours doesn't. She doesn't want to know about her partner's past because she doesn't c…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 01:47 AM
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Yes, but what you're saying only really applies after you've broken the SMV threshold. See, if you are hooking up with girls who say "no hookups" it's because you have the SMV to do so (ie. you are Brad Pitt) but you need to realize that for every 1 of you there are 1000 guys who would be laughed at for even trying to hook up with her. So once you reach that SMV, I'm sure no hookups can mean something else.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 05:36 PM
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When she tells you that "She's not looking for anything at the moment" is bullshit. She doesn't want YOU plain and simple. "Not looking for hookups" on Tinder Not with you. "I don't fuck on the first date" Not with you "I don't do anal" Not with you List goes on... But you better believe she'd be doing all of it for Brad Pitt. tl;dr be Brad Pitt
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 04:30 PM
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That is what you took away from my post man? Really? Sure, the rule doesn't exist on the sidebar but even "ECs and GLO" will tell you it's not wise to go around talking about TRP. "because rules" meant "implicit rules that we pretty much agree on." People don't like it and they'll turn against you when you could use them to your own advantage instead. The guys you are referring to are doing it because they have the status to defend our community and I'm fine with that. But that doesn't mean I'm …
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 06:13 PM
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No, nor would I date an ex KKK member or ISIL fighter. That kind of seething hatred is a dealbreaker for me. Classic.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 09:43 PM
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Also: You Already Know "Why" She felt like it in that moment.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 06:46 PM
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If that is femininity then it is equally important to stress that masculinity is the opposite: Men MUST be capable of change. -Be open to change for the better. -Don't throw tantrums (GLO will smite you from the heavens) -Stop making excuses. If women are not agents of their own destiny they will either wander around aimlessly forever (as many do) or they will seek a man who knows how to control the chaos who will do it for her. These men are like gods who impose their will on the world, a feat …
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 06:26 PM
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Call the police and get her baker acted for a few days. And then leave her and let someone else find out if she pulls that shit again.
/r/askTRP04/02/16 12:41 AM
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Remember, while you don’t want to build your circle with losers, never ever step on them. This is more general than just college. We've all experienced in our RP journey, becoming better than our friends and family and noticing their negative reactions towards this. I saw this as I grew apart from my friends who didn't agree with my ideology until one day I had a brilliant thought. "Don't turn against BP friends. Use them." We understand the games being played enough to manipulate them in our fa…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/16 05:05 PM
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The issue I see with what you said is the whole "when did you stop beating your wife?" deal. The class said "Trump is a misogynist" you said "yes, but it wouldn't matter anyway." Your statement implied their assertion, while I would think you'd be trying to argue the opposite. Your point still stands, though. You cannot speak your mind. Had you said "black people can be racist" you could be lynched by a mob (the irony). It's infuriating to me that it's happening, and personally I'm still stuck b…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 11:44 PM
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In blue pill terms, you're the "one that got away". Red pill, you alpha widowed her. Point is, she'll always be willing to come back to you, seek your approval and let you have your way. Whether in a relationship or not. Here's my story.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 06:52 PM
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He spent the next hour describing all his travels, the places he was planning to go, the girl he just dumped because she wasn’t good enough for him. All the while Gorilla just sits there silently, but giving Crème very intense eye contact. He was seducing her without even saying a word. Basically a tl;dr of TRP. Punchy had to try to prove himself, he had to claim he was cool (traveled), he had dreams (planned to travel), got women (ex girlfriend). All Gorilla needed to do was be. Attraction is s…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 02:30 PM
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Hate to be devil's advocate, but the people who didn't read the last post or missed its point entirely will probably do the same here. We can't save anyone other than ourselves, even if they've already found TRP... Or learned to read.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 08:31 PM
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With the wonders of technology, its easy then ever to meet someone new. Don't forget there are two sides to this coin. The other being that with the wonders of technology, it's easier than ever for women to get validation online. Make sure you're on the right side.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 05:04 PM
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Wait... Little girl said boys only are losing recess because they couldn't listen to the class? The very thing that would help them pay attention?
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 02:02 AM
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TEDWomen? Isn't that sexi.... Nevermind.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 01:38 AM
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just because some selfish, inmature and stupid girl randomly accused him of rape. She is all of those things, but don't think she's different for it. AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 08:28 PM
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2016 BREAKING NEWS Feminists ban keylogging because "insertcrazyhere"
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 01:23 PM
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I can see how it would read that way, but it's not at all what I meant. I was saying that OP is actually benefiting from ignoring the blonde because she sounds like a cunt and not worth the trouble no matter how hot she is. It was about guys still valueing her based on looks despite all the RP training to avoid it.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 10:07 PM
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Sure this would work, but when did this become about banging the blonde? /u/constructiveasshole mentions she's an annoying cunt, he got the cute brunette friend, shattered the blonde's ego but somehow the top comment is still how to fuck (read: validate) the bitch that would make his life hell? Really guys?
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 05:15 PM
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Grow some balls and never speak to her again.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 09:05 PM
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The feedback loop that OP is talking about is present in face to face interaction as well. Sure, he didn't mention it (bad OP) but the point still stands. If you assume you're higher SMV and treat women accordingly, you will always receive feedback from which you can adjust. In person the equivalent of saying "fuck" online may be walking up to her and putting your arm around her, etc. Point is: Be bold. Are they receptive? Yes --- Continue. No --- Improve SMV until they are.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 03:01 PM
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Law 28: Enter action with boldness Boldness gives you presence and makes you seem larger than life. The timid fade into the wallpaper, the bold draw attention, and what draws attention draws power. We cannot keep our eyes off the audacious - we cannot wait to see their next bold move. Being bold and obnoxious (basically assuming you're better than her) will definitely provide a good reflection of your own SMV. But I think another key point is that you are also creating the perception that you ar…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 02:51 PM
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Track your macros.
/r/askTRP03/01/16 06:28 PM
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This is not weird, you're in an LTR. You basically gave her permission to think like that. Let her think all she wants, just don't start doing it yourself.
/r/askTRP03/01/16 06:17 PM
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Good idea. Don't forget the armour.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 07:26 PM
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You didn't let it bake before initiating!
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 06:26 PM
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LPT: Start lifting immediately after a leap year so it takes less time to get swole
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 08:52 PM
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Fuck how she feels about what happened I didn't do it for her, I did it for myself, to avoid the repercussions of her regretting her decision. I know I'd always be the one to get fucked over with a rape accusation or shit from her bf. But I agree it isn't worth it in general.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 11:14 PM
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if a guy is winning a girl over, it has very little to do with what he says, and more to do with who he is. This is a very subtle concept, but probably one of the most powerful things we pick up from TRP. I didn't actually grasp it until one night I went out with some old HS buddies and a guy brought along a girl he was "talking to". She kept telling everyone she hated me and then slipped me her address and I banged her that night. In the BP world, this guy was doing it right. He was winning her…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 06:03 PM
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As a general rule, I assume I can never increase my perceived SMV through text or online. I can however, decrease it. The best way to avoid that is to do what you call baking, keeping texts to a bare minimum and mostly only logistics. If things don't work out or a girl flakes, it's not because I didn't try hard enough but because my SMV didn't begin high enough in the first place. Therefore, I just move on and don't waste my time.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 05:44 PM
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My advice to BP friends: Do something My advice to sort-of-RP friends: Lift, you fucking faggot
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 03:39 PM
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RPS, this is important for everyone to know. We don't need to pretend that anger is an issue, only the way it is channelled. When I joined and read about this "anger phase" I assumed I'd stop being angry at some point. I never did. But I love my anger, I don't ever want it to go away. I did, however, stop arguing with people about the injustices as much, I stopped caring about whether women came out on top, started turning a cheek when I heard something that would have made me rage before. It al…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 03:19 PM
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She actually called me after being out with her bf all night to meet her at her place that same night. I passed, but I'm still amazed at the absolute coldness and lack of guilt from her toward her boyfriend. /u/darkstar505, I'm afraid he's just not gonna find out.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 02:44 PM
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Trying to buy sex by giving away validation is the beta strategy, but it doesn't work because they're giving away their currency before receiving anything in return in hopes that the seller is just. We know they're not. You need to receive the product before paying, thus not giving your currency away for nothing, thus increasing its value. This really solidified for me today.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 04:59 AM
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You're right, I missed that. Definitely not worth making a pt. 3 EDIT: Ever
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 04:19 AM
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I was safe, but would you elaborate on why you say that? I'm sure there are things going on that I'm not seeing.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 03:54 AM
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The very important point that is missing from this FR is that after we broke up, she moved hundreds of miles away. I didn't see this girl for almost a year. In that time I started school, continued lifting, found TRP, had a few plates and ONS. I grew mentally to the point where when I did see her again, she still had the man she liked, but I was solid on the inside. It took a lot of work to get to the point where I don't care. So my advice would be to remove yourself from her completely and move…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 02:42 AM
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I love when girls say "I hate you", to me it means "you're such an asshole, why am I getting all tingly, I can't believe you have this power over me" waved goodbye with my pizza I wish I could have seen this. Anyway, Solid first FR. I'd go silent until the date. Texting for logistics only.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 02:37 AM
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Correct. /u/themooseconnection is not wrong, and saying "don't see your ex again" is fantastic advice for new guys who've not had very RP relationships. But it'd be crazy to say nobody can ever fuck their ex again no matter how they left, which is why I thought OmLaLa's post was so good at explaining the difference.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 01:14 AM
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This is exactly what happened to me 3 years ago. I was getting my shit together, planning on moving out of my mom's, met a girl and basically told her that "I'm doing this, come with me or don't" She said she wanted to, we moved to another city, but she wasn't ready for what came next. She wasn't ready to sacrifice like I was. Nexting her was the greatest decision I ever made. Then I found TRP and the rest is history..
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 03:29 PM
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When you get to the alpha level you unlock the secret password that lets you buy a GLO shirt.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 05:52 PM
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She might as well set up a merch stand selling GLO shirts to kids on their way out.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 02:57 PM
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Beat me to this bro, here's the video
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 02:47 PM
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As in you now being associated with the "angry scum of the earth misogynistic 40 year old virgins" that inhabit this corner of the internet while also being in the media spotlight. Maybe none at all, either way we appreciate you being here.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 09:51 PM
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Milo, what do you think are the best and worst possible consequences for yourself and TRP for having done this AMA?
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 09:21 PM
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My first thought is: what are your male relationships like? I think you may just be looking for friendships that you won't really find in women I.e. you're expecting too much, something you could get from men. Also, I wouldn't think it's a good idea to try to induce onitis.. That's the whole reason you're here. And as far as the guilt, don't feel like you need to give anyone anything. If a girl is giving you sex it's her problem to figure out. You don't owe anyone your commitment unless they mee…
/r/askTRP17/12/15 05:24 PM
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That is my point exactly.. I'm addressing the blue pill mindset that a lot of new guys who've heard about PUA will have. I'm not criticising the PUA instruction that is delivered from a red pill mind down, but the attitude a blue pill guy would have looking up. We're saying the same shit here. Remember that new here is basically: "mostly still blue"
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 04:57 PM
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I agree with everything you said, but I think that's exactly the problem. The video is motivating and it's very well executed. But motivation comes and goes, we know this here. That's why I say it's feel good nonsense. Someone who genuinely needs it may hear the advice, be extremely motivated, maybe do something about it, but as long as they're in the blue pill they're not seeing the fundamental underlying reason for their behavior. I think that's the only way to truly address the problem and be…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 04:28 PM
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I second the RSD. Mostly Tyler (Owen). The thing about PUA is that you'll find it's somewhere in the purple area. There's a lot of red ideas but you'll find a lot of theory and things missing that you find here. You can even find some of it on here, search rsd on TRP. I actually wrote a post about one of their videos.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 04:13 PM
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My arm was not on her. I was simply sitting very relaxed, with one arm on the bench, running behind her. It's how I would sit on the bench if nobody was there, so I did it anyway. It was open body language, but no contact until the hand shake. You could also just sit and put your arm around her, but be ready to be hella aggressive the rest of the convo to match that.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 03:40 PM
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Dude, we all love us some OmLaLa but god damn.. At least make the format different than his post.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 04:33 AM
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The advice at the end is not bad advice per se. It's just tinted so blue, I feel like no matter what you say, it's just a bunch of feel good nonsense. I enjoyed Simple Pickup when they just made funny videos.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 04:26 AM
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free on Friday Sunday at 9? He's busy with his main ho Friday.
/r/askTRP17/12/15 01:14 AM
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This girl was never supposed to become my gf. I met her at University and just wanted to fuck her. Sounds like you've got bigger problems than having lied to her. For starters.... Being in a relationship you didn't want. There's also feeling lower value than her to the point that you felt the need to lie to her in the first place. My advice? Leave her, gain some self confidence, get to that "9 fucked" for real and try again.
/r/askTRP17/12/15 12:38 AM
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I'm 25 and in college doing my undergrad. It's obvious to girls that I'm older so I get this all the time. I never tell them right away. I usually go with "80. You?" or something ridiculous (AA) or I'll have them guess and still not tell them. Handle it as a shit test, but don't actually tell them until later as a reward. They like that you're older. And by not giving a shit you're just showing them you act older too.
/r/askTRP17/12/15 12:31 AM
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What I'd say to my 17 year old self in general is remember that "Rome wasn't built in a day". Don't burn yourself out trying something and quit. Add little things to your schedule that you will grow in in the long term and be consistent over long periods of time. I'm still young (25) so I implement this now, but 8 years is a an amazing head start. Make sure you read everything on the sidebar. Check out NMMNG, Models, 48 Laws of Power, The Way of Men, top 1000 posts. LIFT if you're not already. Y…
/r/askTRP17/12/15 12:27 AM
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I agree with you. Game is a big part of TRP, nobody should deny that or say "it's just self-improvement". What I really meant by that is the difference in mindset. I remember when I found PUA (before TRP) and I'd do approaches with a mentality of needing something from them. I meant to point out that now I was providing value instead, and it starts with your mindset.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 09:50 PM
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My sister graduated with a major in Economics from one of the biggest uni's in the US and only needed Calculus I, which she didn't even take because she had a HS credit. She obviously didn't take more than she needed. Now she works at one of the biggest banks in the US. I wouldn't consider Calc 1 "a lot" of maths.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 07:47 PM
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Not all girls on tinder are sluts you know They are for the right guy. Are you new?
/r/askTRP15/12/15 11:41 AM
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I know it feels good to address her comment, but next time just ignore it. Asking her "I'm yours am I?" may be better than saying "I'm yours" but you're still letting her decide. Why? Ignore it.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 11:37 AM
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Are you 12?
/r/askTRP14/12/15 12:14 AM
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Have some self respect and never speak to that bitch again.
/r/askTRP13/12/15 08:44 PM
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If this happened to me, I'd just let it go and go find other women and take their number next time. You did mess up, it's not the end of the world. She may or may not contact you, point is you can't just sit around waiting. If you take their number, you can avoid this situation in the future.
/r/askTRP12/12/15 07:54 PM
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Agree and amplify is good, but I think your problem is everything else you're putting out there. Answers like that play into cocky funny types, so if you're forcing out AA only for shit tests and otherwise not being the type of person that would naturally answer that way, it's off putting. In other words, I think maybe you're being dull and serious but then when she tests you you have these crazy answers. It's not congruent. Try adding other ways to handle shit tests, particularly ignoring them.
/r/askTRP12/12/15 07:50 PM
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I wanted to maintain a youthful appearance. This is overrated for men. I'm also 25 and in college (undergrad). One of the first things I get asked when interacting with a girl is "how old are you?" It's refreshing to them to find an older guy who is more mature than your average 18 year old beggar. Obviously, handle as a shit test and say "75, you?" I also have a receding hairline, and I decided to just buzz it all off, and grow facial hair. Together with lifting, DGAF, etc, college girls eat it…
/r/askTRP12/12/15 07:45 PM
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This is the idea, /u/innax I don't like the little sister metaphor because I actually have a sister (maybe you do too) so it's not something you constantly remind yourself of because it's just weird. It's the attitude towards her. Treat her like a joke. A child. Be condescending in the way a big brother would because you know you're better than her. High five her for doing something right. Ignore her when she tests you. Tease her for messing up (or not messing up). Be an asshole sometimes. All s…
/r/askTRP12/12/15 06:01 PM
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Sounds to me like you're genuinely being a dick. She called me crying and talked non stop for literally 20-30 mins I just kept saying "it's cute when you're upset" Those are all comfort tests, you don't pass them by laughing in her face and running more dread. You're trying too hard to be DGAF stoic but you're pushing it straight into douchebag territory. My theory is I've been running hardcore dread Why? Sounds like she already can't get enough of you. Do not apologize for anything, however, co…
/r/askTRP12/12/15 05:52 PM
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Less is more, I think. "a friend and some other people." Why did you feel the need to separate that girl from other people? You're trying too hard. Just say "going out" don't bother saying there are women, let her figure that out. Or say something ridiculous "going to a jewish mosque to feed homeless martian kids" point is.. you're busy. That's all she needs to know.
/r/askTRP12/12/15 02:12 AM
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If you can't accept that much from an SEC's FR, then why bother commenting on it? -/u/OmLaLa Not only would you not comment on it, but why would you even bother to be on TRP? See, I read these stories, and I think to myself "Holy shit. That is awesome. How do I get there? What does he understand and present that I don't?" not "That's bullshit!" If you don't believe people out there are doing this, then you obviously don't think you can ever do it, and therefor you won't ever do it. On the off ch…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 08:01 PM
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Dude, you need to make some "previously on The Machiavellian approach" reels because shit's getting out of hand. Truth be told, I really enjoy these Machiavellian insights, but for this one I get the feeling that she should be the one writing the FR. Reminds me of the Man Eater.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 06:15 PM
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Exactly. We understand this here. But for my HS buddies, it was just absurd. They were like "why do you keep talking to him if you hate him?!" One of them had actually been "talking" to this girl. i.e. trying to get her to like him If only he knew that later that night she was asking me to choke her while she said she hated me.. His brain would explode.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 05:06 PM
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A few weeks ago I was in another town visiting my family and friends. Some HS bros invite me out, there was only one girl (first time meeting). I do my usual shit and she eats it up. She spends the entire night telling me "I hate you" and going around telling the other dudes she hates me while we're playing some pool. I knew I was in the first time she said it. While nobody was looking she grabbed my phone and saved her number, texted me her address. Banged that night and she hit me up again bef…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 04:55 PM
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From what you describe, you kept your cool and were nonreactive, which is good and I assume better than you would have been before. However, the entire meetup with your ex was pretty pointless. You sat in a car for two hours and talked about her feelings. You validated her and you didn't get anything in return. Plate her or next her for good. Same thing happened to me with my last LTR, actually. It was a couple years ago before I took the pill and after we broke up I met up with her and talked t…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 04:39 PM
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Then you high five them both as positive reinforcement for good behavior. Two birds with one stone kind of deal.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 11:49 PM
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Kicked her to the curb with all of her shit. You're not a beta bitch dude. You recognized your worth and took control of your life. You will however be a beta bitch if you ever go back with her. This shit hurts, it's normal. Hang with your bros, LIFT, keep reading TRP, explore hobbies, meet women, LIFT some more. It will continue to hurt but it only gets better with time, and quicker if you get off your ass.
/r/askTRP05/12/15 10:12 PM
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Of course this post will never be mentioned by all of the TRP haters.. You're right, though, I feel that progression as well. I'm still very much angry (googling TRP was not fun) but it's not at women at all, it's mostly at the system in place and men for allowing all of this.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/15 09:53 PM
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It's weird as hell to read this stuff as a girl. Like, this is really how some men think our minds work? ... there's a huge value in seeing people of the opposite sex as actual people - like, have these guys never had a female friend, or been close enough to a woman to understand she's not some walking manipulation machine? I love comments like this. The MACH runs deep.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/15 06:54 PM
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They're not very creative...
/r/askTRP05/12/15 03:33 PM
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Nerf Super Soaker.
/r/askTRP05/12/15 04:58 AM
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You did great for your first time, dude. Wayyyyy better than my first. You also seem to have analyzed the situation well and you know exactly what to change. Yes, she wanted you to kiss her. Yes, she went to your place to fuck you. Next time just push a little further. Just because you read on TRP doesn't mean you're now Chad. It takes practice and this is a good start. Okay, enough gooey shit. Next this bitch, find another tinder date, and don't be a faggot and actually kiss her. EDIT: Kiss her…
/r/askTRP05/12/15 04:49 AM
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Was she a fatty?! (refer to username) Good work, though. "I have to go to the bathroom and need someone to gossip with" Pure gold.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 08:05 PM
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I see way too many guys trying to build rapport through texting. STOP ... Texting is for logistics only... After that, do not text her anything else. Wait... Do not text her after that... Do not text her after that... This shit is so important. I can't emphasize enough how much this has changed the game for me. Noobs need to read that 100 times. If she doesn't suggest another night, then what do you do? Been in this situation a couple times, I usually just assume they're not interested and NEXT.…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 07:10 PM
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I'd say she was trying to reevaluate your status or her willingness to fuck you, or she was seeking the validation from you that she didn't get from this guy. He saw her naked and told her to get to the gym, you validated her.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 06:44 PM
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For you to have another perspective, I'd like you to consider that nothing with this girl has changed. All of her compliments were nothing but this: "I'll give you a kiss on the cheek and make you feel special" I can imagine this whole conversation having taken place because she wanted to tell you she fucked a firefighter. She asked about your working out because she wanted to talk about herself, like she always did with you in the past. she thinks I'm still that beta faggot from high school You…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 04:06 PM
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Most of these are really great. Especially 3 and 10. Question 11: ”I’m looking for someone who’s not afraid to wait.” You should be looking for someone who's not afraid to make a move. I may be wrong, but to me it sounds like you're qualifying yourself.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 06:48 PM
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Not until four. This is hilarious, even without the reference. Question 1: ”Are you a player?” Not until 4. Question 5: ”Are you seeing anyone else?” Not until 4. Question 6: ”Are you gay?” Not until 4. Question 15: ”What kind of girl do you think I am?! I’m not some whore!” Not until 4!
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 06:35 PM
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Basic Question 1: ”Are you a player?” What gave me away? Question 2: ”Yeah, I bet you say that to all the girls..” Only the cute ones. Question 3: ”What’s the matter? You look so sad.” Ignore. (Never gotten this, but ignoring is usually my go to) Question 4: How many girls have you slept with?” Thousands! or if they know someone I've slept with (or I've slept with them) I might say I'm a virgin. Question 5: ”Are you seeing anyone else?” Yes. Intermediate Question 6: ”Are you gay?” Am I that pret…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 06:08 PM
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Law 7: Let others do the work for you, but always take the credit. The Machiavellian at his finest.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/15 09:10 PM
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Why my Oneitis didn't like me The answer is right there in the title.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/15 05:44 PM
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Not to be confused with Nicholas Sparks..
/r/TheRedPill22/11/15 05:42 PM
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Why not spend that time raising your SMV so you don't need to worry about low hanging fruit?
/r/askTRP21/11/15 01:58 AM
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New guys who've never actually read Plate Theory or the sidebar ------> and see it in posts seem to assume it means anything from an LTR to that girl that smiled at them on the bus one time.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 04:16 AM
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Inb4 tinder university rape accusations
/r/TheRedPill14/11/15 01:28 PM
4

Is it at all the fact that she was associated with a high value man that changed her? Being that women define themselves by the men they can get. Obviously if those other chumps were being dominated by her they were beta in her book. It took her being desired by OmLaLa himself for her to understand her place with a man and her own value. My only question would then be... Why didn't she try to keep him?
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 10:38 PM
3

"He's not yours, it's just your turn"
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 07:46 PM
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As someone who will be 40 in 2030, is getting his shit together, is lifting, worshipping none but the iron gods, and loves the ease of ordering pizza.. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 04:26 AM
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Checked out your blog from the stickied post a bit ago, but I didn't make it to the cancer section. Ironic, really.. I do remember thinking you have a badass eye patch. I'd definitely like to PM you some questions when I can put them together, if you don't mind. Thanks for sharing with me man.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 03:45 PM
1

My go to is usually trying to be a stone around everyone, have a hard time letting people in that way. Obviously it doesn't really work well. I'll keep this in mind, I appreciate the advice.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 03:22 PM
2

You're right about the American thing, I got that vibe in the hospital and from a couple doctors. I'll do my best to make it otherwise. Thanks for the advice.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 03:20 PM
1

Thanks, man.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 03:18 PM
1

Sorry to hear about your mom, that must not have been easy.. I really appreciate your advice, that seems like the way to go for me. Just to make her time her positive and worthwhile.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 03:18 PM
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Thanks, man. Great advice that I take to heart. The one thing that has me thinking about school is the fact that for too long has my mom watched me fuck up my life. When I lived with her I would skip class, mope around, feel sorry myself. I wasn't living. Now she is dying and I don't want her to go without seeing me succeed at anything.. I'm graduating community college this semester and headed to a good university and I know that will bring her joy to know I'm on my way, but it's exactly as you…
/r/askTRP06/11/15 03:14 PM
1

I really appreciate the advice, even that last part which is kind of hard to think about right now. I started meditations a while back but never finished it, may have to pick it up again.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 02:57 PM
2

I started the nonothingnovember challenge before I found out about all this, and when I did I knew that staying on top of it would do nothing but good. Been meditating, lifting, avoiding junk food and porn. Trying to keep a clear mind. Thanks for the support dude, I plan on going on strong.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 02:55 PM
1

Thanks for the recommendation, seems like a good book, I'll check it out.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 02:52 PM
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This was one of the first things that came to mind, and I know my friends will be there when I need them, but they're all young like me and none have been through something like this, which is why I thought maybe someone here might share some insight..
/r/askTRP05/11/15 11:14 PM
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Dude.. you are that guy. I can't believe you're buying anything this chick tells you. Listen to what they do not what they say. What is she doing? Having loooong boring conversations with you, being validated, having you believe you're better than some other dude so you continue to do whatever she wants. Most importantly, she is not fucking you she is fucking russian chads while you beat your dick at your screen. [0:17:15] disleep: but would you rather have sex with him or me? Uhh.. Neither, obv…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/15 03:54 AM
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Who cares if you're being a hypocrite. What's important is whether or not you value this friendship more than one pussy. If you're asking for my opinion, I wouldn't do that to my close friends, in fact I'd let them know their girl is a ho if they're serious, maybe even get them proof. If they're not in my close circle IDGAF.
/r/askTRP31/10/15 10:30 AM
2

No. Don't lie to yourself, any contact you make is because you still want her. Saying "and hey we are still not friends" is you showing her you're still invested. Zero contact isn't a game to get her back, it's about genuinely being able to let go and be free of anyone who disrespects you or doesn't benefit you. So work on that by never speaking to this woman again. Delete her from everything.
/r/askTRP31/10/15 10:21 AM
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I see everyone saying go for HJ or BJ, I honestly would have gone the way you did fuck that. I thought leaving the wallet was a strategic move but probably would have been better if they had separate rooms. (Are they really that bad at planning this shit? I'm sure they imagined they could have gotten laid..) I guess it's about reputation like you said. (prearranged agreement that we're cool with) Also wondering what kind of rules you guys work with. That one seems particularly interesting, I dig…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 09:16 AM
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Okay guys, who's fucking the fatties?!
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 12:36 AM
2

I see. I guess that's enjoying the decline as they say.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 08:35 PM
2

Why do you need FORMATTING I wanted to make a post like this, as I've been on the fence for some time about trying test. Have you noticed effects aside from obvious mass or recovery like social symptoms, DGAF, libido, confidence, etc? You mind saying what you're on?
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 05:45 PM
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I've suffered from this problem personally, although I didn't go as far as to manifest it on the sub. My guess is it stems from the BP tendency to feel superior by making everyone else inferior in your eyes. i.e. "I just discovered this truth, let me tell everyone so they see how enlightened I am and I can feel better about myself" With time, you learn there are other ways. As for friendships, as you said, I now have people who serve a purpose in my life. They are carefully selected to fulfill c…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 05:38 PM
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I can see why as /u/RedPillJax said, a RP man wouldn't bother, but I can also see your point here, it's just convenient. But I'm sure you see how validating women below your SMV or even those who might've considered you unattainable would contribute to the problem. How do you reconcile these, if at all?
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 04:15 PM
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What Apexk9 said is pretty much the answer but I know it's not that simple having been in your position. Realize that we all have really high sex drives, it's called being male, but you're satisfying something else by masturbating 6+ hours. Loneliness, worthlessness, numbing yourself.. It's not about sex. You wouldn't masturbate 6+ hours if you were out creating something, had goals, were lifting, etc. Don't blame your balls, blame yourself for not taking control. Out of curiosity, did you have …
/r/askTRP27/10/15 06:18 PM
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This.. Make it playful and DGAF. Every boring guy answers their questions directly, you're different. Don't take them seriously, act like they're a 5 year old asking stupid questions.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 05:46 PM
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Glad you found your way over here, man. The most important thing you can do is read the sidebar and top posts, but given your current situation I'd recommend making a post on askTRP and state that you are the guy from this post and need some advice.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 04:35 PM
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11 at 18 and drinker is not LTR material in my book. But the real reason I'd say you shouldn't do it is your age. Why do you want an LTR at 22, dude?
/r/askTRP27/10/15 05:36 AM
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Take that bitch to chicken fil a and get a chicken sandwich with some waffle fries.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 05:18 AM
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Sounds like you're already really invested in this girl, which makes me think you have yet to internalize anything from this sub, dude.. I'd forget about her. Me (11:00): Wish it was you Please never say this again in your life..
/r/askTRP27/10/15 04:38 AM
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there are people who are ego invested in being a fat cynical victim. Sounds like women to me. Totally shines a new light on MRA. Good post to get an emotional response from these people and still keep TRP healthy and making gains, dude. Checking out that interview now.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 04:34 PM
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No one cared who GLO was until he put on the mass..
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 04:24 PM
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It reads like this girl thought she had found herself a nice Beta Bux. Half of the first post is her talking about how impressive his money is, BUT SHE'S NOT A GOLD DIGGER GUYS. The problem seems to stem from him not wanting to play the role for her, ergo the post "how dare my BB not want to behave!"
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 04:19 AM
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I think it's important to remember that there are people on TRP in all different stages and they all want to feel relevant, share their thoughts, and continue to grow. Take what you can from each, upvote/downvote accordingly and move on.. I try to find the lessons in each post, and having been here only a few months, my contributions have been a couple FR's and BP examples because they help me process theory and see it in the real world. If you don't see the relevance then just ignore it and sti…
/r/askTRP26/10/15 03:56 AM
2

I really wanted you to fuck little sister. Probably not worth the drama, though.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 02:05 AM
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I just assume they're all sluts, and act accordingly until proven otherwise.. Helps me remember AWALT, have them qualify themselves, avoid oneitis, etc. Not surprisingly, none have yet proved me wrong.. Also I'm in college.
/r/askTRP25/10/15 09:28 PM
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This goes on askTRP, dude. She dumped me It's over. Check out the sidebar. I THOUGHT I had another chance with her. Check out the sidebar. she seemed to hate the fact that I had deleted her from my phone GASP She hates the fact that you're weak and apologetic about it and don't own up to it. HOLDS ON TO ME Sidebar. If she wants me Dude....
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 09:18 PM
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asktrp disguised as a field report, flared as theory..
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 09:10 PM
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This post belongs on askTRP, dude. Listen to TrenAcetate. If you think TRP is about learning to game that one girl, you should check that sidebar and top 1000 posts.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 07:10 AM
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True. Thanks for pointing it out.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/15 07:12 PM
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He should be able to leave with a clear conscience, but we know often the BP runs deep..
/r/TheRedPill24/10/15 04:33 PM
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I wouldn't have a clue what to do in your situation, being 24 without any kids or family. I know there are others here who'd be qualified to give advice if you'd need it, but focusing on your mission and lifting is always a must.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 10:31 PM
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I assume you're commenting in between your curl sets, then?
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 09:57 PM
4

I really enjoyed your text example. In the past I've seen that as "hey look how well this line worked" or something silly like that, but the in depth analysis of that chick's feelings as relates to the post was great. I'd like to see more like this, especially from you guys at the top.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 11:29 PM
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What I do that's like this is call girls by a nickname like "blondie" or anything about them that seemingly objectifies them. They act all mad and pouty but they just end up qualifying themselves and showing lots of IOIs.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 05:33 PM
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It's now praised by women and BP faggots to plan a future (raise attempt to raise a family) with a prostitute. We're supposed to forget her past, because obviously it has nothing to do with the future and her ability to be a caring wife and mother to your children. That's not how we play at TRP.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 06:55 PM
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One of the women, known as Complainant 3, studied astronomy as a graduate student. She spoke on the condition of anonymity because she did not want her involvement in the matter to affect her current job. This is what gets me the most about these cases. It's insanity. Poor wommins wouldn't want to lose her job or ruin her reputation over this. Fucking cunt. P.S. Still in anger phase.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 02:42 AM
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she'll never get an answer from me and that'll drive her crazy. I've been in this situation recently and I'm still coming to terms with the fact that this is not a win. Clearly it's the right move, and yeah she'll wonder why you don't validate her, but then 10 seconds later she'll have another date set up with You2.0 and never look back. It's not an easy thing to get my head around because I don't live in these chicks' world of extreme abundance, but I suppose you get used to taking what you got…
/r/askTRP13/10/15 04:37 PM
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This was great. Even better if what the friends said was a lie orchestrated by them to see her reaction. Either way this guy doesn't give a fuck. Also thought it was interesting that she thinks that was a bad break-up, and other clingy fuckers made for a good break-up. Obviously to her a good break-up is still getting validated by a dude after she's left him for other dick.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 04:20 PM
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Day 17: 1:27am to 9:35am. 65% deep sleep.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 09:05 PM
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Day 16: 10:56pm to 6:35am. 47% deep sleep.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 09:23 PM
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Day 14: 12:56am to 8:36am. 72% deep sleep. Day 15: 1:19am to 8:45am. 70% deep sleep.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 12:07 AM
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Day 12: 12:01am to 9:00am. 73% deep sleep. Day 13: 12:21am to 8:36am. 55% deep sleep.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 10:03 PM
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Day 11: 12:33am to 9:42am. 65% deep sleep.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 02:58 AM
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Day 10: 11:09pm to 7:59am. 70% deep sleep.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 07:45 PM
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Day 9: 10:20pm to 7:30am. 67% deep sleep.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 07:23 PM
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Day 8: 10:20pm to 6:20am. 46% deep sleep.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 12:52 AM
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Day 7: 10:53pm to 7:52am. 59% deep sleep.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 02:14 AM
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Day 6: 11:40pm to 8:31am. 44% deep sleep.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 03:56 PM
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like this?
/r/askTRP06/08/15 03:49 PM
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Day 5: 12:09am to 8:33am. 35% deep sleep.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 03:14 AM
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To keep it short, yes that is the situation currently in the US and many other places around the world. Why is something you'll need to read more on here. Check out the sidebar and top 1000 posts. Stick around, you'll start putting the pieces together.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 01:59 PM
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New "research" based on a sample size of 16 women I couldn't make it any further..
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 11:34 PM
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Of course it's about the result. But I assume you don't go rock climbing in a kid's playground, and you don't spar with your baby sister. We choose the harder path, the strong opponent, the large mountain to climb, not because it's fucking hard, but because it yields growth. That is the result.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 06:21 PM
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Day 3: Terrible fucking sleep tonight. Went to sleep at 10:46 pm, alarm woke me up at 6:36am. Didn't get up until 8:30. Sleep tracker shows 3 cycles, only ~50% deep sleep. Currently sleeping on a shit mattress on the floor. Will be upgrading soon.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 05:01 PM
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Day 2: 11:34pm to 7:53am. 5 sleep cycles.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 03:09 PM
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Day 1: Went to sleep at 12:18am, woke up at 8:00am. Sleep app says I went through 5 cycles.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 07:41 PM
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I'm in.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 04:59 PM
3

Or just don't go into social sciences.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 02:04 AM
1

I'd say it's whatever amount of sex you want to have or have time for. Any less, not enough; any more, too much. Point is you fucking decide.
/r/askTRP27/07/15 02:25 AM
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I'm currently on the edge of this cliff, deciding whether or not to jump. You're obviously a huge advocate. Is there that much to benefit from it outside of gains? (I'm 24) Also, yes I'm reading Llewellyn's Anabolics.
/r/askTRP27/07/15 01:32 AM
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How do I stop being such a wuss Nothing TRP says is going to make dumping her any easier. Do it no matter how terrifying it is. You'll stop being a wuss only after you take action and take control of your life. Dumping my one serious LTR was one of the hardest yet most rewarding decisions I've made. But I didn't realize it until after the fact.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 07:42 PM
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There's one thing I haven't accepted -- maybe I'm afraid to accept -- and that's that these people are holding me back from my goals I think what you're too afraid to accept is responsibility for yourself, man. Why didn't you just get up and leave when you wanted to? Why didn't you just get a table and eat? Sure, these people sound like shitty friends but in the end it's up to you to do whatever the fuck you want. What you did was passively mention what you wanted several times and when it didn'…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 04:26 PM
1

Thanks. I'll definitely try it this way next time a similar situation comes up. Trial and error, I guess!
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 02:57 AM
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I agree with you now, but the funny thing is that I was the guy buying her dinner when we started. Things change. It's wonderful. She almost bought me lunch when she was here..
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 02:51 AM
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One of my proudest moments on this RP journey.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 02:47 AM
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I agree with that being ultimate power. It's really the only way women have power over us, and denying it gives us immense power. I was actually the one that told her to "bring friends with muscle" to help me move even though she asked if she could come by herself. I wasn't planning on doing her, I was just gonna fuck with her head and send her off. But in that moment, when she opened the door, I wanted to take what I wanted, which is a power I've never felt before.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 11:48 PM
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Her friends left in their own car. The truck was at my place, which she was going to drive out of town. She had left some things at her friend's place but didn't want to drive the truck to their place because it was hard for her to maneuver it in the city.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 11:34 PM
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forcibly twist your head so you see the tree and stop staring at my pointing finger. I do that to my dog. Don't be a fucking dog.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 04:45 PM
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she told me that he was probably the kindest, most genuine, and most compassionate person she ever knew Or he just fucked her better than OP.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 04:34 PM
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This reads like a logical argument written to women to convince them to have sex with you. If you've been here more than a day, you'll know that's a fruitless endeavor. Nobody owes us anything. That's the beauty of being a man, as I've come to realize. You owe it to yourself to take what you want, meet your own needs, and become whomever you wish to be.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 01:50 PM
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I'm learning that the key is balance. You need to show interest, you need to be sexual. But you need to be controlled, as you say. Push/pull, whatever. Recently I've been showing too much interest, but it sure as hell beats being ashamed of even trying.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 04:56 PM
1

Thanks, man. This is great advice.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 05:37 AM
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Agreed. However, would it really be that different with a ring?
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 11:24 PM
2

Looking back on it, I needed to agree and amplify the shit out of that statement. I didn't disagree, I simply ignored it, but that may not have been enough. Definitely something to keep in mind.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 11:22 PM
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That's exactly how I feel. I knew my mindset was changing, I was seeing women differently, and interacting differently. But this to me is the first clear evidence that I'm actually becoming something else. And I can't wait to have more.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 02:51 PM
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You're right, this was an even worse mistake than whatever brought on LMR in the first place. I've been cold since then, maybe there's a chance of recovery. Either way, good learning experience.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 02:30 PM
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I definitely agree with your warning. After she mentioned her bf, all those college rape allegations came to mind immediately (thanks RP), and I actually asked her if she was really sober, which now I realize may have flipped the responsibility of what she was doing back on to her which led to my dick staying dry.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 12:21 PM
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You know, I can see a time in my life where I act this way. But now is not that time for me. Just having swallowed the pill, I'd say I'm rebelling against the blue I was, and this is something I actually want to experience. I can imagine that most people who agree with you do so because they did it, and learned from it, and then decided against it. So that's where I think I'm at.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 12:16 PM
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After the fact I've been able to put some pieces together. She's currently in college, and her friends mentioned that she was moving to another city when she graduated. I didn't think anything of it until she mentioned that's where her bf lives. I didn't bother asking for details, so you're right, the exact reason why is up in the air. I think the point is that she has a million possible reasons to do it, and clearly she will.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 12:13 PM
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This is a good explanation and it really resonates with things she said like "I didn't expect to meet anyone", "most fun I've had in a really, really long time" , "caught by surprise". That night they were talking about all of the guys that were hitting on this chick the night before and how she gave them wrong numbers and ignored them. This also happened throughout our night together. Clearly, something was different about me. And it's exactly what you've described. I noticed that I was quite a…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 12:08 PM
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I'm definitely thinking this way. I really just don't care, which wouldn't have happened before TRP. I did let the hamster spin too long, I can see that looking back. There was a way to avoid it, but in a way I'm glad I failed.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 11:59 AM
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I agree. I didn't post the entire text, but she apologized for freaking out and said she was "a big chicken" which at first I thought was genuine, but then TRP kicked in and I can see as a branch swing. Obviously, I still need to fix this imbalance.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 11:53 AM
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I agree. A few years ago I would have been so happy about "what happened to me" and I know I would have already had onitis for this girl. I'm glad you mention this because I hadn't realized how little I cared. I was even more interested in sharing my first RP experience and how much it blew my mind to finally see this than to even consider pursuing a girl in a LTR. We're all gonna make it, bro.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 11:48 AM
1

Definitely heard that before, and as RPmatrix said, it totally got me.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 11:44 AM
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Thanks, this is exactly what I need. I'd never been in the situation before, only read about it. Once I decided to quit, I simply said it, got up, got dressed, but you're right, I did continue to invest after that. In her text she was apologetic about her "little freakout" and she is a "big chicken". All together I was glad she initiated that way, but it does wreak of branch swing.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 11:40 AM
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