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Yes 🙌 he should pay you. I wish more women were like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 06:47 AM
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I usually tell them I’m a student. Most guys on OLD don’t care about your occupation if you’re really pretty and attractive. I’ve did tinder experiment and most guys didn’t care about occupation. Just be VERY VAGUE about your career and life. I just tell them I work in desk job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 12:02 AM
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He looked really embarrassed. But that’s what he deserved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 08:50 PM
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People don’t change and don’t give any advice to him. He won’t change and you’re not his mom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 12:57 PM
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The purpose of this is you won’t take shit from him. If you just stay silent to his bodyshamed, he will likely escalate it further. That’s why on first attempt, you snap back and humiliate him on his insecurities and leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 09:25 AM
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This is hilarious...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 08:29 AM
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When my ex bodyshamed me, I grabbed his manboob infront of his friends ( on purpose) and told him he could be new VS model. VS men model wearing probably 42B bra. I usually mirror the guy and say it in public loud and clear what I think about his body and shame it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 08:28 AM
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Yes I wrote comment on this before. His friends and family says A LOT about him. If you want to judge someone accurately, just take a look at his friends group.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 07:57 AM
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All my super attractive friends who dated or married unattractive men- either the guy is from rich family or financially provides for the girl. Date ugly men only if you are getting sure benefits such as financial investment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 06:27 AM
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Yes, opposite of LOVE and INTEREST isn’t hate or anger, it is apathy. Let him drown on his cheating behavior, his porn addiction or whatever issues he has. He will self destruct on his own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 01:05 AM
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I’m sorry to hear. But I think it’s similar in dating in Korea. I heard that Korean guys date foreigners and drop them as soon as they decided to get married. I think as a woman, we need to vet and vet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 07:44 PM
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Tall, skinny with good bone structure in body so mostly has to do with genetics. Has to have wide shoulder, golden? Olive skin. And I only like natural guys so I’m not into guys that are into fashion. Among the countries I visited, German guys were the hottest and also, they’re very quiet in general unlike American guys which I hate since they’re loud and talk a lot.
/r/askFDS28/12/20 11:23 AM
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I think it made me nope immediately for guys in open relationship, or anything out of ordinary. I’m very clear cut person, so if I see something is off, I just breakup with the guy. I travelled a lot due to my studies and my work and was able to see the American men are POS. They aren’t good looking and there are very few who are cultured and well educated. Also as East Asian, due to my culture, I can see through guys way more easily than women here. Lot of the guys are just immediately disquali…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 07:51 AM
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Well, they aren’t in New York for sure. I’ve met good looking guys in Sweden and in Germany.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 06:16 AM
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Same here. Open relationship? How could you call that a relationship? I would say yes to it if my partner asks for it and slowly fade. When a guy asks you for casual relationship treat him as the very last option. Cancel the date last minute, reply very late and sporadically and I wouldn’t even dress up when meeting him. It should always be at your convenience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 04:48 AM
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Also, you should remember that it’s Asian that seek white males usually. I read a post on FDS in regards to this women calling out Asian men, her logic didn’t make sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 04:05 PM
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In East Asian countries at least, we have lot of stereotypes so if someone doesn’t for into these categories, it’s hard to date. Usually in long term dating, my Asian friends including me expect way more and have delayed sex unlike my white and western friends who have sex right off the bat. We also don’t have term called casual dating and fwb. When my friends date, they vet for looks and education along with family background so there’s way more criteria. So when I moved to the Us, I was surpri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 03:57 PM
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The thing is, Asian women from Asian the Rich ones always date within their own circles. The attractive ones also. The rest? They go for white and Asian guys but in order to date Asian guys, she usually should be equal match. One thing I noticed was, among my attractive Asian friends literally none of them dated white guys. Attractive and have high paying career job. Why? Cultural influences and also they KNOW almost immediately of the yellow fever. Also you can’t blame the white guys solely for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 03:50 PM
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I heard that lot of white guys- esp American ones- try fooling around with brown and Asian girls and drop them as soon as they decides to marry white girl. Even in nyc I heard it’s common. Is it true?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 06:05 AM
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I had to read again but this whole thing makes sense if the woman was an Asian.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 06:01 AM
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I never second guess regarding my intuition. If the guy is a right choice, I don’t have uncomfortable feeling in my guy and I don’t have to question myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 05:37 AM
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I would tell a guy I don’t like who asked my number- I have AIDS and he runs away. A guy who says he likes raw sex- tell them the same thing. If usually tell the guys the very extreme thing, so he never tries again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 10:23 PM
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I only dated expats and didn’t have bad time dating. But few times I met American guys... other than their career, they really were below my league such as being really ugly... and think theyre chads just because they’re white and work in consulting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 08:39 PM
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Not New York. Women outnumber men here and ugly guys think they’re hot if they have career in finance and white.
/r/askFDS26/12/20 06:49 PM
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That’s why you don’t chase a men and drop him as soon as he shows red flag. Also, date multiple guys. They want to afford Ferrari but they go for Honda Civic. But you don’t know if your guy settled down, so that’s why you make sure he invests in you.
/r/askFDS26/12/20 06:14 PM
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I saw your post history, and I think you need to overseeing al the red flags because he seems hot and in the circle. Tbh, guys who are good looking prefer someone way hotter than that.
/r/askFDS26/12/20 06:12 PM
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You’re not unreasonable and if he starts objectifying women’s body, I do the same thing. One time, a guy was talking how ugly the waitress was looking, so I called the waitress and asked him to say infront of the waitress. Ask him, if he could say the same things infront of that person. Also, I would do the same thing to him. Guys should be bodyshamed more. Let’s just be real. North American guys are fat in general, even the average ones.
/r/askFDS26/12/20 05:58 PM
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In Korean, there’s a saying which says ex is literally free prostitute meaning that’s why guys keep their ex as friends. You can be friends, and I’d agree to being friends in which I’d give him zero benefits. And let’s see if he wants to stay as friends...
/r/askFDS26/12/20 09:49 AM
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There’s an article which says sociopath tends to keep their ex as friends. Why ? For their benefits.
/r/askFDS26/12/20 09:43 AM
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Did we date the same middle eastern guy? Don’t bring it up but see how his behavior escalates. If I were you, I’d be physically distancing affection from him and start looking for other guys.my ex said he just liked his female friends photo for no reason. So I did the same thing and went on a date. He went crazy. This is too much drama to deal it on end of the year. Drop him.
/r/askFDS26/12/20 09:10 AM
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Yeah ask him if you could borrow some $$ from him. Don’t provide him anything esp sex.
/r/askFDS26/12/20 09:09 AM
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Even if I’m seeing only one guy i PRETEND I’m seeing multiple one.
/r/askFDS26/12/20 09:08 AM
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I met one like that in my work place. I pretended as if he was invisible. Narcs hate being ignored.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 05:33 AM
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Ask him for money
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 11:25 PM
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I think in korea is rare but usually single moms and single dads date each other. Also if woman dates single dad when she herself doesn’t have a kid of her own, it means usually the guy is RICH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 07:03 PM
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As Korean where skinny is considered beautiful I agree. I’m not plus sized but when I was size 4, I was considered chubby all the time. When I went down by 40lbs, which I was looking like a teen, this all disappeared. I also noticed mostly white men and East Asian men are really big on being with skinny girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 07:44 AM
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I’m full Asian and I always wondered why some East Asian girls would go after guys that most white girls would never date. Aka, the left over white guys. You deserve so much better. And if he continues to live like that which seems like he is no control over his desires whether sexual or desire to eat, he’ll probably die early.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 06:58 AM
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Just agree and ghost. No need to argue so he could offer you better dates. If a guy asks me to come over or offer low effort dates, I suggest somewhere very far from his place and don’t show up. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 04:16 AM
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Don’t date poor guys period. Lot of wealthy men I met love gift giving. Also it’s simple. If a guy doesn’t give you gifts, do the same. Always reciprocate that energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 09:35 PM
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I think if you have to do excessive thinking in regards to your SO, it’s already over. Relationship should be easy and relaxing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 06:51 PM
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I always say I’m looking for something casual. Meaning I can cancel date on last minute, dress casually and be casual with him as friends minus the sex and my financial and emotional investment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 09:20 AM
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There is strategy you can do to spot them. Don’t have sex Don’t pay Make him initiate conversations and plan dates
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 03:22 AM
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Funnily, they only go for ethnic girls. These white guys aren’t naive and think all Asian girls are easy. They know that regarding ethnic girls, they easily have more power regarding racial perceived ness and economically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 09:37 PM
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Honestly I want to have kids only if the guy is rich and can provide financial matters such as nanny and after care after I give birth. I really don’t understand why people have kids when they’re financially struggling already. Also I avoid men who have been from abusive household like a plague.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 09:18 PM
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I don’t get the fuck of why American (I suppose?) American girls are very naive when it comes to female friend. If this same narrativr happened in Korea, gf would have left the bf after having huge argument with his female friend. I almost punched my bf’s female friends face while I stole my bf’s passport which had student visa in it when he started cheating on me. Emotional cheating is cheating also.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 06:53 PM
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Once you read and master books regarding marc and relationships, you can spot them easily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 05:18 PM
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Yes I read men in my country writing that they prefer someone in early to mid 20s since they’re not that picky. When I put my tinder age as early 20s even guys in 40s swiped right on me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 06:22 AM
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What you do is, on the day of the x whether it’s a trip or date, you plan other things. And when he asks, tell him you didn’t know better since he didn’t confirm. Then ghost and block him. I read your previous posts and I think you should work on yourself. If you had high self esteem, you know than better to leave LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 05:10 PM
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Tbh among men I dated, American men had the highest percentage of LVMs. I’m just surprised that playing video game is brought up in this sub . Because if you’re in 20s and working towards your goal, unless your work involves streaming and content creator, most guys at that age do not have time to play games. Lot of my guys friends in social groups work in finance, law or engineering and they do not play video games in their free time. Also American men have extremely black and white view of wome…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 07:13 AM
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When you text a men in vetting stage, sure, ok and no will do. Oh and also confirming for logistics. This is literally what it saids on redpill sub. Don’t use emojis and don’t send paragraphs of text.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 06:03 AM
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Did you zoom in and see his face? I’d never swipe someone like him on tinder. Guys like him should not be on tinder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 05:58 AM
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You need to set your goals differently when you date guys that’s not your type. I usually require them to take me to expensive places so they can prove to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 05:55 AM
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He can’t blame others if he gets kidnapped or killed by serial killer. Sane person just don’t go to strangers house whom they met once. 🥴 I usually act very enthusiastic if he keeps coming back or liking me on OLD and give the guy fake address so he can fuck himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 05:46 AM
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What I noticed was that this is predominant among western men. When I was dating East Asian men, they really do put effort in dating since relationships are taken way more seriously. In the west, it’s more prevalent that men lead the girl for years. I’m not surprised that there is such high rate in divorce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 03:02 AM
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Also lot of hot guys know that they’re good looking with advent of apps like tinder. And so many pickmes to cater to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 06:19 PM
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The thing is, in countries like Thailand and Philippines, rich ones are mega rich. I have few friends from Thailand who are all Thai Chinese, one of them being billionaire, and they only hang out within their social groups, going to fine dining and going to exclusive clubs in U.K. One of my white guy friend asked me about my female friend in this group, and lot of other guys did. But they know that she’s out of their league and high maintenance. Guys-LVM- only go for ethnic girls whom they can t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 05:21 PM
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So true. My friends who were all born with good looks married rich guys with good personality. What I noticed was in dating market, women with less attractive looks pursue guys with good looks hard. But those guys are just settle for her since I heard lot of stories like this when I was in early to mid 20s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 05:18 PM
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He should pay you to do that.
/r/askFDS18/12/20 01:53 PM
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Honestly unless the guy is really outstanding quality, I don’t date guys in creative industry since they are emotionally sensitive. And I think guys should always be the breadwinner in relationship, so that’s one of the reason why I don’t date them.
/r/askFDS18/12/20 01:48 PM
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Yeah let him have unprotected sex with girls with sex disease lol. Also huge age gap is redflag
/r/askFDS18/12/20 06:32 AM
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I used to be in same situation due to me looking young for my age and dressing in plain modest way. Nowadays I dress in fancy styles with heels and dresses. Guys like that hate high maintenance girls who seem way out of their league. I had very good looking shy, anti social ex. He was like that due to his ugly looks in puberty and was bullied. I feel sorry but I don’t want to date guys like that. Those are the guys that turn into redpill asking for help.
/r/askFDS18/12/20 06:28 AM
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I think most people know intuitively if the other person is delaying response on purpose. If that’s the case, I just unmatch.
/r/askFDS18/12/20 06:26 AM
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I feel you, my ex did everything that narc could do. Like hiding his phone or suddenly stepping out at midnight to meet his female friend and accused me by calling me a psycho. After awhile, I told him loud and clear that he’s free to do whatever he wants without hiding his phone since I won’t be asking any questions but I withdraw all physical attention from him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 06:04 AM
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I did the exact same thing. I realized after explaining why and what he did wrong, I stopped giving fuck about him. And he’s still doing the same shit after years we broke up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 02:36 AM
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Yeah she isn’t gold digger and also her divorce signifies that men could cheat on any age and time no matter how busy he is. I’m surprised that Jeff bezos had time to cheat with his busy schedule.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 07:05 PM
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When I first came across some commenters in relationship advice sub, it made me question how the process their dating lives. Probably uneducated minimum wage scribes writing out of their fantasy. You can’t explain A,B and C when they even don’t know alphabet is in the first place. So explaining yourself to those people are just waste of your time. Whenever I come across a guy and he pressures me to explain things, I just ghost on him. You don’t need to explain yourself to guys over 20+. He will …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 06:01 PM
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I recurved this also and reported him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 01:26 PM
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I honestly wonder how French women stand them. I’d be surprised if French men don’t cheat on them. My friends bf literally was trying to flirt on me while she was 10 ft away making a phone call. She was right behind him and he didn’t hesitate to flirt with her girlfriends friend on the spot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 01:20 PM
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Tell him you have AIDS. He will run for the hills. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 03:42 AM
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That’s why I don’t date guys who were abused in the past, especially if done by their parents. If a guy tells me his trauma related to his family, I run for the hills.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 03:01 AM
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You do this by staying firm with your boundaries with actions. I usually don’t reply in person or even in texts if I dont want to answer their questions. I don’t do these 3 things when dating a men; sex, paying for dates and emotional investment. So I let them plan dates, carry on conversations and ask questions. If I don’t want to answer to their sexual questions, I pretend like I’m deaf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 02:50 AM
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He’s French. French men were worst of them all and trust me, French men are really sly. Just like snakes. I worked with lot of French male co workers and they always acted like they know best of everything in which I pretend I didn’t hear them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 02:44 AM
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Well I think the same for the men who are poor financially and have audacity to think they could get girls....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 02:29 AM
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Also not only being the bob the builder but I don’t give out free advice anymore to guys. If they need emotional support, they should pay me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 10:29 PM
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Yes, I’m pretty sure once they feel like they “made it” they’d go after models and dream girls. There’s plenty of guys like that in nyc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 10:27 PM
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File a lawsuit if she could. If my ex suddenly contacted me asking for advice, I’d tell him that I’m going to file lawsuit against him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 05:58 PM
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I should use that line more. If a guy asks for my Snapchat, I just stop talking to him since I find him weird. It’s odd that a man in 20s have Snapchat and actively use it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 03:12 PM
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Same here. It is weird when late 20s guy is active on social media such as IG and Snapchat. Doesn’t he have better things to do? It’s immediate turn off for me. Also almost all LVM I met was active on social media. So for me, it’s one of the indication that a men is LVM. But i also use it to find what kind of people that he follow. One time, a men I met on OLD requested to follow and I found out that he only follows Asian girls so I immediately unmatched him. You can dig a lot of info about him …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 03:00 PM
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Yeah I wouldn’t think there’s any credibility in words when those came out of someone like him..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 02:23 AM
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Yeah and take a look at the writer’s profile photo. Need I say more ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 10:13 PM
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I would break up with him. No guy is worth dating for 5 years, it’s just too long.
/r/askFDS14/12/20 08:19 AM
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I always tell my friends to see the guy you’re dating as complete third person. Judge him and vet him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 08:10 AM
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That’s what one of the commenter said
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 05:56 AM
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It also proves that men is at the bottom of social hierarchy if he is poor and can’t pay for dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 01:15 PM
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I think if you were to marry someone, you should marry someone rich. Like how Jeff bezos’s ex got half of his money. There should be something you should reap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 07:58 PM
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I didn’t. He hugged me and kissed me though. I don’t like giving orals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 04:19 AM
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I think most people do and more so if they’re young and inexperienced in relationships.
/r/askFDS11/12/20 02:53 AM
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Lot of guys either want to come to my house or vice versus if you meet guys online but also this guy on the post wasn’t white or westernized. I think at home dating? Is more common in the US and EU. I’m Asian and there’s less of casual dating and guys who approach me are more formal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 09:26 PM
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I set it as 10k but it depends on the man you meet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 08:57 PM
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Yes and I told him I have to go home for my work or just make up legit reasons. To add, give him reasons that he don’t have a choice to. Such as work, or tell him you don’t feel well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 05:52 PM
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I didn’t see him too often and we met 1-2 hr for a date. Meet during the daytime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 05:34 PM
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I don’t understand either. Don’t do anything with a guy if he isn’t rich or doesn’t have potential. When I moved to the states I was surprised at how so many couples live together. You’re being his fuck buddy and housemaid for FREE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 01:17 PM
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Let him live in his delusions and btw, he’ll be dead soon. 300 lbs ? Not only diabetes but he surely has many diseases that come with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 01:04 PM
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As East Asian-korean, I sometimes am very surprised at how American culture encourages women to get married early then shame women who are single moms. Personally, I think couples shouldn’t marry if they are not financially well off. You really have to think if getting married enhances your quality of life. What I noticed is in reality, if a women is smart and have good career that makes lot of money, they could marry their equal, and if women have good looks they definitely can marry someone ri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 12:55 PM
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The type of women that redpill guys hate the most is the women who are successful than them. As for your case, I would never date a guy who earns less than me. Guys find their worth in their ambition with career. It’s just how it is in revolutionary sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 12:48 PM
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Yes if I date a guy who isn’t East Asian, I prefer someone who didn’t date my nationality. I noticed guys who exclusively dated Korean/Japanese/Chinese thinks they know it all since they dated a girl from those countries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 01:02 AM
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Same here. Honestly, I would never marry or date a guy if he is poor or has potential to become rich. I really love finer things in life and grew up wealthy, so I expect the guy to support that lifestyle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 08:59 PM
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agree. Most guys could find a girl out of their league if they put in effort along with financial investment. The thing is most good looking guys in OLD wouldn’t spend that amount of money on first dates. Even more so if he is Caucasian male since he knows he’s the most sought after one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 08:54 PM
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I’m full Korean and if a guy has lived in Korea or has any East Asian Ex- when he himself isn’t East Asian- it’s nope for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 03:49 PM
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Even 1100$ is cheap for an engagement ring. There needs to be extra 0s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 12:23 PM
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As woman who never married before, I always wondered why non married woman would date divorced or married man unless he provides financially. That’s just straight up degrading. If I don’t have any records of divorce in my books, I expect the guy to be same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 01:50 PM
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No he didn’t mention anything but his profile on OLd stated he went to Harvard. Nonetheless, he was still successful entrepreneur.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 08:22 AM
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Yes it’s a red flag. I once found out that guy lied his university. He didn’t go to Harvard but instead to nyu. I wouldn’t have minded but why would he lie?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 02:50 AM
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I usually tell him I’m virgin when I’m not or mostly, I just go silent when he asks about sex and take out my phone or pretend I got a text it something. If I really want to repel a men who wants to have sex with me, I tell guys I have aids. Most western men probably 99percent wouldn’t even make it to 3 months mark. The thing is even if a guy is HV, unless he is really good looking, I don’t want to have sex so I just act uninterested when topic of sex comes up and it’s very natural for me. don’t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 02:45 AM
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Yes, couldn’t agree more. Personally, I would suggest just to focus on yourself and career while you’re here and don’t take dating seriously. Lot of assholes here think them being Vice President of some bank means women flock to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 10:56 PM
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I’m in nyc and I avoid American men like plague. There are some very good looking American men but I noticed all of them are from west coast. You can date pretty easily if you’re attractive, slim and well educated and noticed nyc men have higher standards . For example, my friends who fit these standards do well in nyc. What I like about nyc is there are expats here and lot of highly educated guys. Also keep noted that retarded guys think they’re the king here just because they work in banking a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 09:30 PM
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I would do the same if I were you....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 08:52 PM
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Use passivity for your own sake. Being passive is good in a way that guy could never label you as emotional or crazy. Just let them go crazy on their own and act innocent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 08:46 PM
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He asked me why I went back, yada yada but afterall I decided to go my own way when he acts like LVM. It works wonders...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 05:07 PM
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She’s doing her more harm by doing this. What I do is I usually appear very agreeable via online and texts and don’t show up. do vet the guy till very last minute and I even cancel or more, I just don’t show up on dates Just stay silent and be more of a listener while you decide in your head if he’s LVM or not. You never show what you think of the guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 01:59 PM
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What I did was I stopped and went on my way back home. He texted me asking where I am...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 01:54 PM
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To make you think that he has the upper hand and you’re in his frame. To make you anxious,,, it doesn’t matter whether why they do it but just cut these guys off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 05:52 AM
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Not setting the time of until the day of- common redpill tactic I read on asktrp. Cancelling a date last minute is nothing. I usually agree and don’t even show up on date or go on another date. If a guy is LVM, don’t give any explanation and just cut contact without giving any reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 04:30 AM
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That’s why you don’t text back with an explanation. Just block and delete
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 03:31 AM
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I always wondered if the bumble founder, Whitney herself used the same approach; making the first move. I highly doubt it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 02:55 AM
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I pretend that they are invisible. It really hurts their ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 12:57 AM
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I had a guy who took everything as shit test when I was just asking simple questions. If I wanted to be really mean to a man I was dating, I usually just go silent or act aloof and oblivious to what was happening. Shit test doesn’t really decipher if the men is beta or not but instead, there’s many other way to test a men. I think the real shit tests are the ones that is pretty obvious. If you want to see if a man has his shit together, just have open communication and take a look into his envir…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 10:23 AM
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Yes I think so. I’m more conservative than my peers- American white female- and I’m glad I was brought up this way. My family isn’t Christian but as East Asian, my primary focus was always on studies and I actually didn’t see the point of having relationship during my teens as I went to all girls private school which I basically lived in since it’s not like in the states where after 5, you go home. I don’t judge others who grew up more liberally but I always stick to my standards. It worked well…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 10:16 AM
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No. I’m just surprised anyone would think this way. Athletes are no way comparable to Instagram models and only fans models.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 09:59 AM
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True. Environment really matters and I can’t stress this enough. If you want quality partner, either goto good school or work in high level corporate. Being hot doesn’t really matter if your other qualities are lacking.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 09:55 AM
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I didnt meet anyone on the league but I had few friends on the league which was linked to my previous fb account but since I deleted one, it’s harder to get in if I make a new one. I only met one guy on the league- through FaceTime- but I prefer to meet variety of guys from different background and culture so the league isn’t for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 06:34 AM
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Yes we need a man who can provide financially and at least moderately clean with good looks. If I was loaded, I wouldn’t have considered marriage as I’d hire professional caretaker when I’m old and ill. I started making 6 figures earlier than my peers and I realized that I didn’t worry about marriage that much. If the marriage doesn’t bring upgrading your lifestyle, it’s not worth it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 04:27 AM
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My bf was German... if he was Korean, I wouldn’t have dated him as I’d known about him as whole person and taken other things into consideration such as his degree and family background. I’m 5,3 around 92lbs to be exact and very pale. But I do regret dating that German guy since he wasn’t that smart and didn’t have quality lifestyle like I had. And I admit I only dated him for looks since he asked my number first in my friends party. And as Korean- Korean women being over 5,6 is considered good …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 01:28 AM
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Of course generally, people prefer someone of his own race. Just like he wasn’t my first choice of guys as me being Korean, I’m sure he was too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 08:04 PM
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I’m saying factual things. It’s up to you to take it as offensive or not. I’m East Asian also.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 03:27 PM
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Yes because we have this term that white girls are easy just as there’s a term that Asian girls are easy. I read many Reddit comments that how they lived or worked in Korea and Korean guys would use them. The thing is, if a guy is outside of your race, in general, it’s harder for any women to know if he is hvm or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 12:57 PM
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Also as Korean, it’s true that it’s very rare for Korean men to go for European girls in serious ways. If they do, they prefer doll like features such as pale skin, skinny and young so I think they really like Eastern Europeans. So lot of girls have this fantasy that Korean guys would go for white girls which is true but typically they prefer someone of their own culture or Japanese women. Standards of dating varies but in most high ses, it’s same; good education, good family background with goo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 12:24 PM
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That’s not racist as it’s sad truth. There were few things I didnt write on the post as it’ll be too detailed and too long, but he told me he doesn’t get along and doesn’t have desire to date women from his own culture. Same with his friends as how they were into anime and stuffs like that. As East Asian, it’s considered sub par when a guy is into gaming and anime. And mostly... you just know if a guy is in demand or not... they were webs... pale and skinny with no sense of basic style. I didn’t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 12:17 PM
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Yes yes... I forgot to add this. If a guy has female best friend run for the hills as fast as you can as she’s not just a platonic friend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 06:28 AM
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I’m Asian and I would never think certain race is below others but take a look at redpill. Lot of guys would say girls in my xx country are hoes and are feminist while Asian girls do all the house chores.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 04:15 AM
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He seemed mad and stopped doing what he used to do. So after this, I mirror the guys actions whenever I can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 12:17 AM
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Like you said, he devalued women from his own culture/country.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 12:17 AM
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I did the same thing. When my ex and I went out, I’d make compliments on random guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 08:30 PM
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I’m not 30s yet but I’d say run away as soon as you see red flags
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 08:14 PM
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Only date rich guys with good career Don’t tell you have dual citizenship I have triple citizenship and I don’t tell anyone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 05:48 PM
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If I were her, I’d do the same thing. Mirror everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 05:44 PM
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He’s American right ? It’s always the American guys. Anyways, if I were her, I’d write that somewhere public like Facebook so their common friends could see ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 05:32 PM
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Yes whatever type of household they had during childhood, If a guy was abused I ran far away as fast as I can. All the LVM I dated has this as common.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 04:46 AM
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I think you got tricked by 29yr old redpiller. First it’s odd that he never had prior relationships and he earns way less than you. 2 LVMs I have dated 100% have below issues. abusive upbringing whether being bullied by schoolmates or in his own household dirty and can’t maintain basic hygiene at home doesn’t have his career goal straight Also i come from quiet well off family like you and I never would consider meeting a guy who has lower quality lifestyle than me. A guy who can’t find his own …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 04:20 AM
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Second this. Time heals almost everything. And get rid of everything that’s related to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 04:09 AM
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It’s not his fault but world is unfair and it’s just better to avoid these guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 01:08 AM
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He talks useless things. When a guy sends me these kind of texts or asks me in person, I just pretended I didn’t hear him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 12:24 AM
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Key to deciphering people is taking a look into their family environment and their close friend groups. You can hardly go wrong on this. Whenever I’m trying to get to know a guy and still want full good picture on his true self, I just meet his friends and family. I had my ex and he seemed so called alpha but when I met his friends I was disappointed. And he was just like his friends. Lot of fdser say it’s not his fault that he grew up in abusive household. My sister is psychiatrist and she told…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 12:15 AM
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It’s just personal preference. As East Asian female, I strongly prefer a guy who is metrosexual and takes care of his body hair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 10:39 PM
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Agreed. I met this guy who made whole another story of his ex. I happened to meet his ex as her and I work in same industry, and her side of story was completely different.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 07:54 PM
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Any sane woman wouldn’t agree in open relationship. Open relationship isn’t a relationship it’s just cheating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 07:53 PM
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I’m opposite body type from you, 5,3 skinny thick and pale but my ex would look at tall skinny girls. If I were you I would just ghost him and break up with him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 06:28 AM
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