Take a look at his family and friends. I can’t stress this enough. My sister is therapist and used to consult many couples and kids who’ve been abused. She says it’s close to 100% that LVMs can be distinguishable by taking a close look at his close friends and his family.

So if I meet men on OLD or in another setting, I always ask about his friends and try to meet them when I can.

I had a guy whom I thought was very good looking and had rare down to earth personality. When I met his friends, they were typical left over white guys who couldn’t get someone of their own race so go for Asian girls- type and they were nerds as in playing games and didn’t have actual hobby. My bf was the only good looking one and all his friends were all typical nerds. As I used to get to know my bf I realized he was same like his friends except that he was just blessed with his looks. I dumped him fast as I can. His friends were typical redpill type guys also.