I heard through the grapevine that my former """FWB""" (he was never a friend and was fully using and manipulating me) is newly engaged to a woman who's known him for less than a year. Sis has not done her vetting. Before discovering FDS, when I was in the self destructive throes of the Cool Girl mindset, I tolerated 2 months of absolute bullshit from him. He's 10 years older than me, revealed that he had a fetish for both Asian women and teenage girls (but TOTALLY "only the legal ones", of course, which in our state is 17+ 🤢), asked me questions like whether I want kids and if I've ever been pregnant, stealthed me when he didn't know his status (while casually sleeping with other women) and knowing that I wasn't on birth control, and played mind games trying to get me to catch feelings.

His fiancée is supposedly a lawyer, if he's to be believed, and apparently they're actively trying to get pregnant. They met on Tinder, where he was misrepresenting his job to insinuate he holds a much higher position than he does. He keeps his life highly compartmentalized and doesn't have any social media. I want to at least try to warn this poor woman before she ruins her life but I have no way of tracking her down. Imagine having children with a sick scrote like this.

This is why you must ruthlessly vet, ladies. And honestly, consider it a huge red flag if he has zero social media presence and there's no way for anyone who knows him to identify and contact you.